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- 0:00Speaker 1: Coming to you live from deep within a mouse filled
- 0:05Speaker 1: radioactive wasteland. We are the survivors of the alt right, Keckpopolix,
- 0:11Speaker 1: the Few, the brave, the bitchy, once more waiting into
- 0:13Speaker 1: battle against the Red Pill CULTI hordes with I escape
- 0:19Speaker 1: from the Red Pill Cult brand Zerker number two four seven.
- 0:25Speaker 1: I am your host, Alison, and with me is Brian
- 0:28Speaker 1: the Indefagable. Oh that that sounds bad, You know what
- 0:33Speaker 1: I meant? Right, okay, and also the indomitable Karen, which
- 0:37Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure I pronounced correctly. So here we are,
- 0:41Speaker 1: all right, Brian? Did you want to explain what we're
- 0:43Speaker 1: doing today?
- 0:44Speaker 2: Yeah?
- 0:46Speaker 1: I'm still here, right, Yes.
- 0:47Speaker 2: I am, Yeah, you're still there. Yes. So we got
- 0:49Speaker 2: this article and an I assume an accompanying video that
- 0:55Speaker 2: came out with it. It seems like a very short video,
- 0:58Speaker 2: but yes, uh, yeah, it's a short it's a short video.
- 1:02Speaker 2: It's like three minutes long.
- 1:05Speaker 3: I'm to stretch it into the full two hours though, yep.
- 1:09Speaker 2: Yeah, you know that.
- 1:10Speaker 1: We we definitely have the ability to extend time, shall
- 1:14Speaker 1: we say?
- 1:14Speaker 2: Yeah? All right, but we have this video, uh and
- 1:19Speaker 2: this article from the Guardian that I guess is a warning,
- 1:23Speaker 2: a warning to anyone who is like enormy blue pilled
- 1:29Speaker 2: person that the Manisphere is a cult, and it came
- 1:34Speaker 2: for this young man and he just barely managed to
- 1:36Speaker 2: escape his teeth because he almost ended up criticizing women
- 1:42Speaker 2: or something so close. It was a close one. That's all,
- 1:47Speaker 2: you know, That's all I can say. Yeah, and apparently,
- 1:55Speaker 2: you know, this guy is claiming that he was a
- 1:58Speaker 2: part of the Manisphere, and now that he is on
- 2:01Speaker 2: the other side, he is blowing the whistle on the
- 2:03Speaker 2: whole thing. The whole operation is over. Guys, where we're exposed.
- 2:07Speaker 2: We're exposed and we're done. So we're cooking.
- 2:11Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, so we are. We are actually reading our
- 2:14Speaker 1: epitaph now or our obituary. Yeah, you're so cooked.
- 2:19Speaker 2: This is this is the dead the dead Internet theory is.
- 2:24Speaker 2: But we're the only people who died.
- 2:26Speaker 1: Yeah, well, so we're speaking from you to you from
- 2:29Speaker 1: the great beyond. Okay, summarily destroyed.
- 2:33Speaker 3: But one second, yeah, okay, enough, it's nowhere near your
- 2:37Speaker 3: dinner time.
- 2:42Speaker 1: She disagrees. She would like to have a word with
- 2:45Speaker 1: the manager.
- 2:46Speaker 3: It's daylight saving time, okay, but she usually eats at four.
- 2:51Speaker 3: It only feels like three.
- 2:53Speaker 1: She no, okay, so she thinks it's time to eat
- 2:57Speaker 1: because she thinks it's four. No, but it's two there.
- 3:00Speaker 3: Yeah, so it only it only feels like three right now?
- 3:04Speaker 1: Yeah?
- 3:05Speaker 3: Okay, well shush dog, Alison told you so.
- 3:11Speaker 1: Yes I did, all right, So how okay, just just
- 3:17Speaker 1: it to preface this, like where do we do? We
- 3:20Speaker 1: exist within the manisphere?
- 3:22Speaker 3: Are we?
- 3:22Speaker 1: I guess for the purposes of these adjacent Yeah, manisphere,
- 3:26Speaker 1: which might as well make us just basically.
- 3:30Speaker 2: Like Jason, Yeah, I mean yes, Allison, like I'm you know,
- 3:36Speaker 2: we can we can do this dance of definitions all day.
- 3:39Speaker 2: But in the eyes of the Guardian, yes, we are
- 3:44Speaker 2: the manisphere. Justice, we are just as much the manisphere
- 3:48Speaker 2: as Jordan Peterson, as Nick Fuentes, as Donald Trump Junior,
- 3:56Speaker 2: as Stephen Crowder. Like you notice I'm naming a bunch
- 3:59Speaker 2: of not manisphere, your people that are in the That's
- 4:03Speaker 2: how manisphere we are. And this is what they believe.
- 4:05Speaker 2: And I'm not being funny. This is the truth. And
- 4:08Speaker 2: one who disagrees with them is manisphere basically is manis fair?
- 4:14Speaker 3: So yes, yes, I mean it's it's weird because like
- 4:18Speaker 3: I I interviewed rouge V kind of after he'd left
- 4:22Speaker 3: the pick up artist thing behind, right, and decided that
- 4:25Speaker 3: he actually does want to settle down and have a family, right.
- 4:30Speaker 3: I interviewed Sasha day Game after he kind of left
- 4:33Speaker 3: the whole, you know, pick up artist thing behind. I.
- 4:37Speaker 3: You know, like I interview these guys, right, you know,
- 4:40Speaker 3: like and and basically it's kind of like interviewing Gilgamesh
- 4:44Speaker 3: after his first adventure with and key Do, right. You know,
- 4:48Speaker 3: It's it's like they've matured and they've decided that like
- 4:53Speaker 3: just banging chicks isn't really the end all be all
- 4:56Speaker 3: of of every era. Yeah. Yeah, And it's like, okay,
- 5:01Speaker 3: so this is before they slew the Bull of Heaven.
- 5:04Speaker 3: But you know, after they freaking you know, after Gilgamesh
- 5:09Speaker 3: turned down Vishnu, the the goddess who goes through men
- 5:15Speaker 3: like who's who's can chews up men like freaking confetti,
- 5:20Speaker 3: and then then like they don't much care whether she
- 5:23Speaker 3: like swallows them or spits them out, right, you know.
- 5:27Speaker 1: She considering this is Sumerian mythology.
- 5:30Speaker 3: Yeah, well, I mean basically she had a history of
- 5:33Speaker 3: like seducing mortal men, right, and then when she got
- 5:37Speaker 3: tired of them, would like turn them into like frogs
- 5:40Speaker 3: and like lizards and bacteria and shit, right as you know, yeah,
- 5:46Speaker 3: as you do when you tire of them man, and
- 5:48Speaker 3: he no longer pleases you. So yeah, no, and and
- 5:54Speaker 3: so so Gilgamesh was just like, yeah, bitch, I don't
- 5:57Speaker 3: think so, I don't think two thirds god, one third man,
- 6:02Speaker 3: and you can't seduce me. Mm hmm yeah yeah. And
- 6:07Speaker 3: and I think that's where men need to.
- 6:09Speaker 1: Get the fractions. There a little question.
- 6:15Speaker 3: I'm pretty sure. I'm pretty sure they did not quite
- 6:19Speaker 3: get the whole genetics thing right.
- 6:23Speaker 1: Well, I mean, it was mythology there was a worse
- 6:26Speaker 1: god that was born of nine tree roots, so.
- 6:29Speaker 3: It was it was a it was one woman who
- 6:33Speaker 3: had sex with two gods but wouldn't.
- 6:37Speaker 1: Okay, So that oh, okay, all right, there's no questioning,
- 6:40Speaker 1: all right. So I just want to say, yeah, yeah,
- 6:44Speaker 1: we're moving back into the topic. It's it's a little
- 6:47Speaker 1: bit of a rough transition to go from Sumerian mythology
- 6:52Speaker 1: to mena.
- 6:52Speaker 3: But here's the thing. It's not it's really not okay,
- 6:56Speaker 3: all right, it's it's it's it's so it's a to
- 7:01Speaker 3: quote fricking beauty in the beast. It's a tale as
- 7:04Speaker 3: old as time. You know, men begin in a certain way,
- 7:09Speaker 3: you know, their masculinity is a certain way. And then
- 7:13Speaker 3: over time and experience right and and dealing with the
- 7:18Speaker 3: hardships of the world, and and learning from their mistakes,
- 7:24Speaker 3: they become mature males.
- 7:26Speaker 1: Can I just point out that this kid looks like
- 7:30Speaker 1: it looks like he's his His lips are permanently hermetically
- 7:34Speaker 1: sealed to the teacher's ass.
- 7:36Speaker 3: He looks like he looks like Harry, Saystan't I don't.
- 7:40Speaker 2: Think that's a real person.
- 7:42Speaker 1: Oh oh, you think it's ai generator. You might be right,
- 7:44Speaker 1: you probably are, But yeah, he looks like I'm gonna
- 7:48Speaker 1: get my five minutes of fame. I'm a teenager who
- 7:50Speaker 1: has lured.
- 7:51Speaker 2: Into this is not the guy from the video, so
- 7:55Speaker 2: this this might be a different whistleblower if that's the guy.
- 7:59Speaker 2: But shall we.
- 8:03Speaker 1: I wandered into a bunch of websites that gave me
- 8:07Speaker 1: information that wasn't approved of by the school Board of
- 8:10Speaker 1: the UK. Gosh, golly, I escaped a cult when I
- 8:15Speaker 1: turned my computer off for the day. Okay, all right,
- 8:20Speaker 1: so everyone, if you want to send a message any
- 8:22Speaker 1: point throughout the show feed the badger dot com slash
- 8:25Speaker 1: just the tip very best way to do that, and yeah,
- 8:29Speaker 1: let's I can. Let's just do it. Let's just start all.
- 8:33Speaker 2: Right, We're gonna get into the article. I'm gonna read
- 8:35Speaker 2: it right, yes, okay, So this is from The Guardian
- 8:39Speaker 2: and it is entitled I'm a teenager who was lured
- 8:43Speaker 2: into the manisphere. Here's how to reach young men like me.
- 8:46Speaker 2: Masculinity isn't is almost always presented as toxic on my feed.
- 8:51Speaker 2: But we need constructive alternatives to give hope to those
- 8:54Speaker 2: who feel lost.
- 8:57Speaker 1: Okay, so far, yes day guys, note, yeah, this is okay.
- 9:00Speaker 3: But that's the trap, right like that isn't That's the
- 9:04Speaker 3: peanut butter in the fucking mouse trap.
- 9:07Speaker 1: Just so, what he's saying is that there is an
- 9:11Speaker 1: overwhelming amount of anti mail sentiment going that he is
- 9:17Speaker 1: being subjected to. Are we going to hold on to
- 9:20Speaker 1: that at all? And ask ourselves, if we're so concerned
- 9:24Speaker 1: about the manisphere, shouldn't we have a little bit of
- 9:29Speaker 1: space to be concerned about the femosphere Since the fmosphere
- 9:33Speaker 1: dwarfs the manisphere like a yurt sorry, Mount Everest Dwarf's
- 9:39Speaker 1: a yurt.
- 9:40Speaker 3: Well, okay, the manisphere only essentially essentially exists online, right,
- 9:46Speaker 3: the themisphere is institutionalized and has university in college.
- 9:52Speaker 1: And gigantic paide in the West, billion, if not trillions
- 9:56Speaker 1: of dollars and so can we can we addres that's
- 10:00Speaker 1: the fact that taxpayers are paying billions of dollars to
- 10:04Speaker 1: teach this kid to hate himself?
- 10:06Speaker 3: Is that? Is that?
- 10:07Speaker 1: Are we gonna see?
- 10:08Speaker 3: There's too much to ask, right, this subtitle, this subtitle
- 10:13Speaker 3: is basically it is the peanut butter in the mouse trap, okay, right,
- 10:17Speaker 3: And and so it is the trojan horse, right because
- 10:23Speaker 3: you look at it and there's really nothing objectionable about
- 10:26Speaker 3: it except it's the Guardian. So you know what's coming
- 10:29Speaker 3: afterwards is going to be like a complete bait and switch. Yeah. No, Actually,
- 10:36Speaker 3: men should learn how to cry more at but not
- 10:39Speaker 3: bother women.
- 10:40Speaker 1: Yeah, they have nothing to cry about. And if they
- 10:43Speaker 1: think they do, they're toxic.
- 10:44Speaker 3: Yeah. And if they cry to their wives, or if
- 10:47Speaker 3: they cry to their wives or girlfriends, then ex emotional labor.
- 10:53Speaker 1: Okay, all right, let's.
- 10:57Speaker 2: If you judge modern boyhood from the headline, do you
- 11:00Speaker 2: think we were broken, radicalize, misogynistic angry. But as a
- 11:04Speaker 2: teenage boy myself, I don't see a generation of lost
- 11:07Speaker 2: boys around me. I see young men trying to make
- 11:10Speaker 2: sense of a world that seems apathetic to our voices. Seems,
- 11:15Speaker 2: I would say, openly hostile, sug.
- 11:21Speaker 1: We're already sort of moving away from that that mouse
- 11:24Speaker 1: trap there. Have you noticed that now we start with,
- 11:28Speaker 1: we start roth hostile, Now we're at apathetic and yeah, okay,
- 11:33Speaker 1: all right.
- 11:34Speaker 3: So we're already screaming. Screaming at somebody to shut up
- 11:37Speaker 3: is not apathetic. No, you know, you can just tune
- 11:40Speaker 3: them out. You can just put on your noise canceling
- 11:43Speaker 3: headphones and not listen. Okay, you don't need you don't
- 11:48Speaker 3: need to bitch them out for it, you know, and
- 11:52Speaker 3: tell them that, like they have nothing to complain about,
- 11:54Speaker 3: your privilege, your privilege, so shut the fuck up.
- 11:57Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, I've actually been having conversations with GROC about
- 12:04Speaker 1: the size of these relative factors. I had a discussion
- 12:09Speaker 1: about actually, you know, I'll save that. It'll be essentially
- 12:14Speaker 1: looking at miss injury versus misogyny and how they defined
- 12:18Speaker 1: the two, and it was interesting, but I'll save that
- 12:22Speaker 1: for a little bit later. Okay, can you really read
- 12:26Speaker 1: into the middle of this next paragraph.
- 12:28Speaker 2: So we have some time to respond, all right. I'd
- 12:32Speaker 2: be the first to admit that there are serious issues
- 12:34Speaker 2: facing young men my age. I've experienced some of them firsthand.
- 12:38Speaker 2: Between the ages of twelve and fourteen, I was drawn
- 12:41Speaker 2: into harmful online communities promising me money, meaning and manhood.
- 12:46Speaker 2: Muscular wealthy men leading through Dubai, draped in designer labels
- 12:50Speaker 2: and flanked by beautiful women flooded my feed.
- 12:55Speaker 3: Okay, so that's Andrew t.
- 12:59Speaker 1: Or Saudi princes.
- 13:03Speaker 2: Princes are manisphere though, but maybe maybe they count.
- 13:07Speaker 1: Maybe they count, Like because.
- 13:09Speaker 2: Anywhere on the Internet where there's a man and he's
- 13:11Speaker 2: not being stomped on or ridiculed or just down by
- 13:14Speaker 2: a woman, maybe that's.
- 13:18Speaker 1: More tithing to feminism. That's the manisphere.
- 13:22Speaker 2: Essentially. That's is a video of space Marine saying for
- 13:25Speaker 2: the Emperor, that's the manisphere.
- 13:29Speaker 1: Yeah. And it's also anywhere where a boy has a
- 13:32Speaker 1: positive feeling about his masculinity, that's the matisphere. God forbid.
- 13:37Speaker 2: Henisphere is a video about, uh, you know, a guy
- 13:40Speaker 2: showing off the guns he just got.
- 13:44Speaker 3: Yeah, no, and it's it's it's like, okay, so you
- 13:48Speaker 3: have you have the aspirational right and everybody knows that
- 13:54Speaker 3: they're not going to be driving a Lamborghini through Dubai
- 13:57Speaker 3: with like sixteen bitches fallowing them, right, and a leopard yeah,
- 14:05Speaker 3: and a pet pet cheetah or whatever. Right, But but
- 14:09Speaker 3: what they what they what those aspirational figures do is
- 14:15Speaker 3: it it gives you something that you know you're never
- 14:18Speaker 3: gonna achieve, but you could achieve parts of it. You
- 14:21Speaker 3: could achieve pieces of it. You could actually get a
- 14:24Speaker 3: six pack maybe, and and you know and maybe not
- 14:29Speaker 3: guns on the range, but guns you know, on your arms, right,
- 14:34Speaker 3: and you you could you could maybe score one chick.
- 14:38Speaker 1: Yeah right exactly, yeah yeah.
- 14:42Speaker 3: And so it's like, you know, like all all of
- 14:46Speaker 3: these things like including looks, maxing and things like that
- 14:49Speaker 3: that a lot of young men are into these days,
- 14:52Speaker 3: not a lot, but like a minority of young men
- 14:55Speaker 3: are into. It can be really unhealthy, just like it
- 14:59Speaker 3: can be for women. You know, like when when you
- 15:03Speaker 3: take the plastic surgery just that much too far, but
- 15:07Speaker 3: when when you actually when you actually look at it, right,
- 15:13Speaker 3: there is an aspiration. No kid, no little boy playing
- 15:17Speaker 3: with a he man doll, thought he was ever going
- 15:19Speaker 3: to have that body when he grew up. M right
- 15:24Speaker 3: like it and no, no, little kid reading a Superman
- 15:28Speaker 3: comic book, right, young little kid, little boy right thought?
- 15:33Speaker 3: You know, like if I just try hard enough, I'll
- 15:35Speaker 3: be able to fly.
- 15:39Speaker 2: For sure.
- 15:40Speaker 3: So it's like, you know, but it's aspirational exactly. Yeah,
- 15:47Speaker 3: like Spider Man's not a freaking a realistic male figure
- 15:54Speaker 3: role model for young men. But you know it's better
- 16:00Speaker 3: than nothing. Yea more?
- 16:06Speaker 2: All right? Should I continue?
- 16:07Speaker 3: Or yeah?
- 16:08Speaker 2: Step the way, Yeah, I.
- 16:11Speaker 1: Just have to deal with the the I accidentally put
- 16:14Speaker 1: the the catbird entertainment device up too loud, so I'm
- 16:18Speaker 1: sure that we're going to get some from the sound
- 16:20Speaker 1: autists eventually that where are the birds coming from? So
- 16:24Speaker 1: I had to turn it down. But anyway, I've derailed enough.
- 16:27Speaker 3: Let's keep going, all right, all right?
- 16:29Speaker 2: They said there was no excuse for the rest of
- 16:31Speaker 2: us not to be in their position too, and offered
- 16:34Speaker 2: what they claimed was a blueprint to get us there.
- 16:36Speaker 2: Misogyny was rife in these communities, as was political extremism.
- 16:41Speaker 2: There it is, yeah, there it is.
- 16:44Speaker 1: Really that was quite a quick snap on that mouse trap.
- 16:48Speaker 1: Misogyny was rife in these communities, as was political extremism. Okay, well,
- 16:55Speaker 1: I as much as I know people were concerned about AI.
- 16:59Speaker 1: I asked Groc and I actually ask like multiple ais,
- 17:03Speaker 1: I don't just ask one. And to analyze the level
- 17:07Speaker 1: of mysingry versus misogyny generally in the online world, I
- 17:12Speaker 1: think it would surprise no one to find out that
- 17:14Speaker 1: miss injury is a much bigger problem. It's phenomenally bigger.
- 17:19Speaker 1: There is a lot more casual missenger oh yeah, yeah yeah,
- 17:23Speaker 1: And there's a lot morectional mysingry. There's a lot more
- 17:27Speaker 1: media amplified mys injury. There's a lot more miss injury
- 17:30Speaker 1: that is paid for by the taxpayer for being promoted.
- 17:34Speaker 1: So it is a big miss injury is a big business.
- 17:38Speaker 1: And then when you turn around and they say there's
- 17:40Speaker 1: misogyny in these spaces, what do you mean by misogyny?
- 17:43Speaker 3: What do you mean by that?
- 17:45Speaker 1: Because I actually ask rock what is how do men
- 17:49Speaker 1: and women complain about each other on Twitter? And Twitter
- 17:52Speaker 1: is like the dread space of the like that Twitter
- 17:54Speaker 1: is manos seers central according to these people, right yeah
- 17:59Speaker 1: x x X, sir Exeter. So I asked them, And
- 18:04Speaker 1: men complain about things like hypergamy, which is a behavior
- 18:08Speaker 1: which is actually empirically founded. It's it is, it is
- 18:13Speaker 1: at epirically correct, verified pattern of behavior in women, and
- 18:24Speaker 1: men complain about that, right. They complain about I don't
- 18:30Speaker 1: even action, They complain about being labeled toxic and I mean, yeah, well.
- 18:36Speaker 3: I mean that I don't even I don't even think.
- 18:39Speaker 3: They complain about hypergamy. They complain about hypergamy in uh
- 18:44Speaker 3: in a in the within the context of affirmative action
- 18:49Speaker 3: for women.
- 18:50Speaker 1: Yeah, And they also complain about hypergamy in terms of
- 18:54Speaker 1: you know, what they're expected to like the whole I
- 18:57Speaker 1: am the table nonsense, and what they're expected to achieve
- 19:00Speaker 1: as men.
- 19:01Speaker 3: Yeah, because because all of these artificially propped up women,
- 19:07Speaker 3: right are pricing themselves out of the fucking dating market. Right. Yeah.
- 19:11Speaker 1: So my overall point is this, and I want to
- 19:14Speaker 1: get to it before before you continue. The overall point
- 19:17Speaker 1: that I'm making is that men complain about verified behaviors
- 19:21Speaker 1: that women engage in. They complain about verified institutional discrimination
- 19:26Speaker 1: like affirmative action. They complain about media promotion of miss
- 19:33Speaker 1: injry like toxic masculinity, what women are complaining about. Is
- 19:38Speaker 1: men full set? What it's They call it patriarchy or
- 19:42Speaker 1: male privilege or male entitlement, none of which is empirically
- 19:47Speaker 1: sound statements about men's behavior. I want to repeat that
- 19:52Speaker 1: these are not empirically sound observations about men's behavior. These
- 19:57Speaker 1: are false impressions construct did by a narrative and they
- 20:02Speaker 1: are they And they instead of complaining about, like I said,
- 20:06Speaker 1: a verifiable behavior that women engage in, they complain about
- 20:09Speaker 1: the existence of men. What does patriarchy mean? What does
- 20:12Speaker 1: male privilege mean? What does male entitlement mean? These are
- 20:16Speaker 1: considered to be emergent properties of men. Somehow, women don't
- 20:21Speaker 1: have privilege, Women aren't entitled to things. These are problems
- 20:25Speaker 1: that only men do. And they keep increasing the number
- 20:29Speaker 1: of things that they tag is just a male issue,
- 20:31Speaker 1: like man's spreading, man'splaining, man interrupting, man slamming. So they
- 20:37Speaker 1: take something that is a antisocial or just rude behavior,
- 20:42Speaker 1: they slap a male label on it and say it's
- 20:44Speaker 1: an emergent property of being a man or having masculinity.
- 20:47Speaker 1: And this is persistent. And I asked, and so online
- 20:52Speaker 1: spaces and groc did say there is a fringe that
- 20:56Speaker 1: engages in the same kind of misogyny that the average
- 20:59Speaker 1: man interest engages in. But for the most part, that's
- 21:02Speaker 1: what's happening. Men are complaining about verified behaviors in women,
- 21:07Speaker 1: verified institutional practices that discriminate against them, verified institutional narratives
- 21:13Speaker 1: that are anti mail, and women are complaining about men
- 21:17Speaker 1: and blaming men. Right, that's what's happening. Okay, So don't
- 21:21Speaker 1: give me this crowd. Yeah, you can find like sub
- 21:23Speaker 1: communities with misogyny that's comparable to the overwhelming miss indry,
- 21:28Speaker 1: but they're still small and fringe.
- 21:31Speaker 3: Yep.
- 21:32Speaker 1: And if you don't like it, okay, let's continue.
- 21:38Speaker 2: I just want to add something to that to first
- 21:42Speaker 2: of all, I have noticed that missonry is getting more
- 21:45Speaker 2: and more mainstream usage. And then this is good because
- 21:48Speaker 2: it means people are paying attention, and I mean normies
- 21:51Speaker 2: are using the word now, right, and that's great. I mean, like,
- 21:55Speaker 2: you remember that used to come up. It may still
- 21:57Speaker 2: come up as a misspelled word if you put it
- 22:01Speaker 2: in like a document, you know, it used to come
- 22:03Speaker 2: up with the line under it to say that was misspelled.
- 22:06Speaker 2: So that was one thing I wanted to say, is
- 22:07Speaker 2: that it almost doesn't matter that they're trying to like
- 22:09Speaker 2: run cover for this, because I think the normies are
- 22:12Speaker 2: like using the word more and and they're recognizing it.
- 22:16Speaker 2: The other thing, too, is that couldn't if you know,
- 22:19Speaker 2: you're lying when you accuse men of being misogynists for
- 22:26Speaker 2: basically anything that they do, like Alison said, simply having
- 22:29Speaker 2: criticisms of behavior that is that is done by But
- 22:35Speaker 2: couldn't that also be seen as missonry too, because it
- 22:40Speaker 2: is hurtful to accuse someone of hate when they don't
- 22:45Speaker 2: have hate in them, and it's like intended to hut
- 22:50Speaker 2: them and cause.
- 22:51Speaker 3: Them particularly bad. They engage in something that everybody engages in,
- 22:56Speaker 3: but when they do it, it's particularly bad, yeah, or
- 23:00Speaker 3: or we're just going to ignore the fact that everybody
- 23:04Speaker 3: else also engages in it too.
- 23:05Speaker 1: Right, everybody else's women.
- 23:08Speaker 3: Yeah, So you know it's it's it's infuriating in that
- 23:12Speaker 3: way because that in itself is you know, taking a
- 23:16Speaker 3: behavior that's widespread among both groups. Right, And and then
- 23:22Speaker 3: you know, like okay, fem spreading right on the subway. Okay,
- 23:26Speaker 3: Well she has bags and she puts them on the
- 23:30Speaker 3: seats next to her. Well, she's taking up three seats.
- 23:34Speaker 3: I mean she's keeping her legs her knees together, right,
- 23:38Speaker 3: or crossing her legs, but she's still taking up three seats.
- 23:41Speaker 3: She's still fem spreading, she's still taking up more than
- 23:44Speaker 3: her fair share of public space, right, so you know,
- 23:49Speaker 3: and it's because she doesn't want to put her bags
- 23:51Speaker 3: on the floor, because her bags are like too nice
- 23:53Speaker 3: to put on the floor, right, And it's just like yeah, no, no,
- 23:58Speaker 3: this is this is one of those things that like
- 24:01Speaker 3: everybody takes up a little bit of extra space, you know,
- 24:05Speaker 3: depending on whatever, and and h mm hmm, and everybody's
- 24:11Speaker 3: a little inconsiderate. But when men do it, when women
- 24:14Speaker 3: do it, it's because reasons, because they have good reason.
- 24:17Speaker 3: And when men do it, it's because they're asserting their
- 24:20Speaker 3: dominance over women.
- 24:22Speaker 1: Oh, it gets even worse because I actually, again I
- 24:27Speaker 1: asked Groc to do the analysis, although I do have
- 24:29Speaker 1: some like a familiarity of what Groc is talking about.
- 24:33Speaker 1: And I said, okay, let's look at the rate of
- 24:37Speaker 1: missonry versus misogyny in boys versus girls, young men versus
- 24:42Speaker 1: young women. And it came back with like a Ugov
- 24:45Speaker 1: survey and another survey that said, there is a ten
- 24:49Speaker 1: to fIF something was ten I think it was ten
- 24:52Speaker 1: to fifteen percent misogyny rate among young men and a
- 24:57Speaker 1: fifteen to twenty five I believe percent mis injury rating
- 25:03Speaker 1: or a number of miss like ten fifteen to twenty
- 25:08Speaker 1: five percent of young women express misunder sentiments. Yep, ten
- 25:14Speaker 1: to fifteen percent of young men express misogynist sentiments. And
- 25:18Speaker 1: then I asked, grok, okay, how do they define misogyny
- 25:25Speaker 1: or how do they define hostile sexism? This is what
- 25:27Speaker 1: it was, what was showing. And I found out that
- 25:32Speaker 1: they define hostile sexism as any criticism of feminism's policies
- 25:38Speaker 1: around affirmative action and toxic masculinity. So if young men
- 25:44Speaker 1: are saying, I don't missy to object to misery, they
- 25:49Speaker 1: object makes the miss discrimination against men, or if they
- 25:54Speaker 1: object to a narrative that labels young men as toxic,
- 26:00Speaker 1: that is Inclusiogeny was included in the statistic on the
- 26:06Speaker 1: rate of misogyny. And I said, to hostile sexism, so
- 26:10Speaker 1: not just benevolent sexism, which is somehow also misogyny. Remember
- 26:14Speaker 1: remember that test that we found that if you think
- 26:16Speaker 1: a woman is is morally superior to a man. That's
- 26:20Speaker 1: benevolent sexism that harms women most. Yeah, well, this is
- 26:26Speaker 1: just hostile sexism. So I asked Groc okay, could you
- 26:30Speaker 1: estimate how much hostile sexism that young men express that
- 26:35Speaker 1: is directly in relation to policies that are discriminating against
- 26:40Speaker 1: them and narratives that frame them as toxic. And Groc said,
- 26:45Speaker 1: based on these ad digital studies, eighty percent of eighty
- 26:51Speaker 1: percent of the so called hostile sexism and again that's
- 26:55Speaker 1: just anti. All they're capturing is criticism and pushback against
- 26:59Speaker 1: feminists advocacy or feminist policies that discriminate against boys and
- 27:06Speaker 1: call them toxic. Eighty percent of hostile sexism is in
- 27:11Speaker 1: boys against women against women. Is that Okay? You get
- 27:15Speaker 1: rid of it, and then you end up with something
- 27:17Speaker 1: like two to five percent hostile sexism among young men
- 27:22Speaker 1: compared to fifteen to twenty five percent hostile sexism among
- 27:28Speaker 1: young women. And here we are yet another article. Oh boy,
- 27:33Speaker 1: we got to talk about the hostile sexism of young men.
- 27:40Speaker 1: When it's zero, we'll still have to talk about the
- 27:43Speaker 1: potential of hostile sexism increasing in the future, and it'll
- 27:48Speaker 1: be something like seventy five percent of young men or
- 27:51Speaker 1: young women are variantly hostily sexist towards men.
- 27:55Speaker 3: But we still can't.
- 27:56Speaker 1: Fade, We can't deal any We were not going to
- 27:58Speaker 1: do anything about that. We gotta fate, We gotta we
- 28:01Speaker 1: gotta deal with the tiny minority of young men who
- 28:05Speaker 1: express any kind of hostility, which, if you think about it,
- 28:08Speaker 1: is really astounding at that point that it's only two
- 28:11Speaker 1: to five percent.
- 28:12Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 28:13Speaker 1: Like, as a woman, I'm like looking at this, and
- 28:15Speaker 1: sometimes there are days I wake up and I'm like,
- 28:18Speaker 1: I don't know how men can still stand women. Yeah, Like,
- 28:22Speaker 1: I don't know how how they must. I mean, there
- 28:26Speaker 1: ever was evidence of men's benevolence. It is living through
- 28:30Speaker 1: this era and continuing to tolerate a lot of this,
- 28:36Speaker 1: and I'm like, I just okay, So once again we
- 28:41Speaker 1: are going to focus on the hostile sex of the
- 28:44Speaker 1: minority in young men. Okay, next paragraph, All right, I got.
- 28:49Speaker 2: A super chat, and then I'm gonna read the next
- 28:51Speaker 2: minute paragraph. So Dean Domino gives us a dollar ninety nine.
- 28:54Speaker 2: Thank you, Dean, and says anything the Cathedral doesn't like
- 28:57Speaker 2: equals manisvere Yep, Yes, that's right, because men are the
- 29:02Speaker 2: enemy and there is a reason for that. But anyway,
- 29:06Speaker 2: I want these issues to be called out, and I'm
- 29:09Speaker 2: glad they're being actively discussed in the media. In fact,
- 29:12Speaker 2: meaning you want discussion.
- 29:14Speaker 1: What the issue of what that misogyny being.
- 29:18Speaker 2: Rife in these communities and political extremism.
- 29:22Speaker 1: But also the misogyny isn't qualified, like it isn't qualified.
- 29:26Speaker 1: He doesn't explain what it is and.
- 29:30Speaker 2: Why muscular He said, misogyny in your emotions.
- 29:37Speaker 1: Just because they are muscular wealthy men in Dubai does
- 29:40Speaker 1: not mean massage. Okay, I'm sorry, No, he's saying that.
- 29:45Speaker 2: I'm meaning a picture of muscular wealthy men with women
- 29:51Speaker 2: flanked by beautiful women, saying there's no excuse for the
- 29:54Speaker 2: rest of us not to be in their position, and
- 29:56Speaker 2: then immediately goes that they offer a blueprint, and then
- 30:00Speaker 2: and immediately goes to misogyny was rife in these communities,
- 30:02Speaker 2: as was political extremism. So not necessarily saying that the
- 30:06Speaker 2: muscular guy in Dubai with the women did this, but
- 30:10Speaker 2: that the community that surrounded that person apparently was full
- 30:14Speaker 2: of misogynists and political extremists. And we don't have to
- 30:18Speaker 2: explain anymore. We've said that that's enough. Get upset. That's
- 30:23Speaker 2: what here's here's your emotional trigger. And now we'll move on.
- 30:28Speaker 2: Because the one thing that you really don't want in
- 30:31Speaker 2: your society are misogynists and politically extreme men apparently with it,
- 30:37Speaker 2: which is all they They don't have to they don't
- 30:39Speaker 2: have to explain it. They don't have to give you
- 30:40Speaker 2: any like any evidence, no receipts necessary. Just know that
- 30:45Speaker 2: there are men somewhere in the world, in your country,
- 30:48Speaker 2: maybe in your town, maybe they go to your school,
- 30:51Speaker 2: maybe they're at your job, and they are misogynists and
- 30:54Speaker 2: or politically extreme, and that is enough. Be afraid. That's
- 30:59Speaker 2: that's what this is. Remember who reads this this thing
- 31:02Speaker 2: about the audience that this is aimed at.
- 31:04Speaker 3: It's not men, by the way, unless unless it's some
- 31:07Speaker 3: like freaking scrowny white dude who like punches a freaking
- 31:11Speaker 3: like black black woman who voted for Trump with brass nuttles, right,
- 31:16Speaker 3: you know from Rose City Antifa.
- 31:22Speaker 2: I want these issues to be called out, and I'm
- 31:24Speaker 2: glad they're being actively discussed in the media. In fact,
- 31:26Speaker 2: reading nuanced discussion in the press which confronted these spaces
- 31:30Speaker 2: is these problematic aspects helped me escape the handcuffs binding
- 31:36Speaker 2: me to these role models. It made me consider how
- 31:39Speaker 2: they were profiting from polarization and insecurity. So and everyone class,
- 31:45Speaker 2: there's a lot, there's a lot packed in there. Yeah, no,
- 31:49Speaker 2: I can see it, say anything about this paragraph.
- 31:52Speaker 3: I can. I can. I can understand. I can understand
- 31:56Speaker 3: the whole idea of profiting from this because you know,
- 32:02Speaker 3: like many problems, when you profit from a problem from
- 32:09Speaker 3: fixing a problem. And we've seen this with you know,
- 32:12Speaker 3: with homelessness in California. Oh, we poured twenty five billion
- 32:15Speaker 3: dollars into the problem over the last ten years into
- 32:18Speaker 3: nonprofits designed to help the homeless, right, and somehow our
- 32:23Speaker 3: homeless population has doubled, right, Well, it's because, uh, these
- 32:28Speaker 3: nonprofits are actually like lots of people are profiting from
- 32:32Speaker 3: them because they're earning huge salaries the people who run
- 32:37Speaker 3: these things, right, and once the homelessness problem is solved,
- 32:43Speaker 3: their grant money is gone.
- 32:45Speaker 1: Mm hmm.
- 32:46Speaker 3: Right, And so I can, I can understand being I
- 32:49Speaker 3: can really understand being suspicious of the profit motive, right.
- 32:53Speaker 3: And you know, when when you have somebody like Andrew
- 32:56Speaker 3: Tate who's making a ton of money on this kind
- 33:00Speaker 3: of thing, right, I can, I can understand being a
- 33:04Speaker 3: little bit skeptical right of whether he's really trying to
- 33:10Speaker 3: solve the problem.
- 33:12Speaker 1: So well, I doubt he really is. But regardless, the
- 33:19Speaker 1: way that they're framing this is.
- 33:23Speaker 3: Well, it's it's like feminism too, right, like feminism. Oh
- 33:26Speaker 3: if the it's like it's like you remember in the
- 33:29Speaker 3: Red Pill trailer, right, And I don't think this clip
- 33:32Speaker 3: made it into the movie, right, but there was this
- 33:35Speaker 3: woman and she was like, oh, yeah, no, women are
- 33:39Speaker 3: more oppressed by patriot The patriarchy is even stronger today
- 33:43Speaker 3: than it was, you know, fifty years ago. Right, Well,
- 33:46Speaker 3: that's what they have to say. Otherwise the grant money
- 33:48Speaker 3: drives up.
- 33:50Speaker 1: Mm hmm yeah.
- 33:54Speaker 2: Yeah. Continued all right, Well, I want to say something
- 33:58Speaker 2: about this paragraph. So, first of all, when he says
- 34:01Speaker 2: nuanced discussion, So this sentence in fact, reading nuanced discussion
- 34:05Speaker 2: in the press, which confronted these spaces problematic aspects, helped
- 34:08Speaker 2: me escape the handcuffs binding me to binding me to
- 34:11Speaker 2: these role models. I doubt there's anything nuanced about it,
- 34:14Speaker 2: because most of these people don't actually try to understand
- 34:18Speaker 2: what the other side is even saying, they just like
- 34:22Speaker 2: you know, implicate, implicate, implicate, and then it says it
- 34:25Speaker 2: made consider how they were profiting from polarization and insecurity.
- 34:29Speaker 2: So what does that mean? In my opinion, I'll tell
- 34:32Speaker 2: you what it means. It means there were people who
- 34:35Speaker 2: didn't like the way things are when the feminists ran everything,
- 34:40Speaker 2: like control the entire narrative, and there are people who
- 34:42Speaker 2: are like, no, I don't think this is true. No,
- 34:44Speaker 2: I don't think you'd be shitting on men. No, I
- 34:46Speaker 2: think fathers are important. No, I think like we shouldn't
- 34:49Speaker 2: be butchering you know, boys penises. No, I don't think this, this, this,
- 34:53Speaker 2: These are all the men's issues I don't like. And
- 34:55Speaker 2: they're like, you're creating division. So what they're saying is
- 34:59Speaker 2: you should stay in your place and deal with things
- 35:01Speaker 2: as they are. In fact, you should be happy that
- 35:03Speaker 2: we haven't made things worse and we don't like that
- 35:05Speaker 2: you have something to say. I mean, that's that's what
- 35:07Speaker 2: I'm getting from this. Polarization is not coming from the manusphere.
- 35:12Speaker 2: The manusphere is like, it's it's big. I mean, and
- 35:16Speaker 2: I will include manisphere like it or not, because that's
- 35:20Speaker 2: what they would do. Anyone who is speaking on behalf
- 35:23Speaker 2: of men in any degree, from the intactivists and the
- 35:26Speaker 2: bloody men, the you know the to the Jordan Peterson's
- 35:30Speaker 2: and the self help people, to the Chris Williamson's and
- 35:33Speaker 2: modern wisdom, to fucking like whoever, it doesn't even matter,
- 35:37Speaker 2: to the men's rights activists, to Paul Elam to Janice
- 35:40Speaker 2: bim Mango to Tom Golden, all of those people, in
- 35:44Speaker 2: their opinion, are creating polarization when the only thing they're
- 35:46Speaker 2: really doing is they're criticizing the status quo, and they're saying,
- 35:49Speaker 2: no status quo, good, shut up and getting your corner.
- 35:52Speaker 1: Yeah, well, they're saying that they're creating another side. So
- 35:56Speaker 1: if we if we actually shut up and we just
- 36:01Speaker 1: let feminists get on with it, then there would be
- 36:04Speaker 1: no polarization, except you know, they are constructing an enemy
- 36:08Speaker 1: out of the entirety of the male half of the
- 36:11Speaker 1: human race. But that's not polarization. Polarization only occurs when
- 36:15Speaker 1: you stand up and say, hey, maybe we shouldn't be
- 36:18Speaker 1: directing war propaganda at our sons. That's when polarization started,
- 36:24Speaker 1: didn't you know that? Like that when you start to
- 36:26Speaker 1: have another side pushing back, But I okay, unless you.
- 36:30Speaker 3: Say, okay, here, here's the thing too, right, Like they
- 36:34Speaker 3: often criticize, you know, men's men's rights groups and stuff. Oh,
- 36:38Speaker 3: they're just reactionaries. Yeah, what are they reacting to? What
- 36:43Speaker 3: are they reacting to? Right, and calling them like as
- 36:47Speaker 3: if reactionary is like some kind of horrible thing. Well, no,
- 36:53Speaker 3: if you're reacting to somebody punching you in the face, right,
- 36:58Speaker 3: that's justified. Right. It's the person who punched you in
- 37:02Speaker 3: the face who's in the wrong.
- 37:06Speaker 2: Exactly. So when they say you're creating polarization, they're saying
- 37:10Speaker 2: that in the face for like trying to fight back
- 37:14Speaker 2: or defend yourself.
- 37:16Speaker 3: Or even just say please stop.
- 37:19Speaker 1: Yeah, that's polarization, Brian. Complete and there's nothing but complete
- 37:24Speaker 1: submission and not acknowledging the fact that feminism is saying
- 37:30Speaker 1: that half the human race is an enemy. We can't
- 37:34Speaker 1: acknowledge that if we if we acknowledge that, we are
- 37:37Speaker 1: constructing the polarization.
- 37:39Speaker 3: Yeah, and that's that's the that's the freaking that's the
- 37:43Speaker 3: that's the the seam of pure uh.
- 37:48Speaker 1: Pure evil, well, hypocrisy.
- 37:54Speaker 3: Pure freaking metal right through that stone. That is feminism.
- 38:00Speaker 3: That's the seam, right, the sem the mother load, right,
- 38:04Speaker 3: The mother load throughout feminism since its inception, has been
- 38:10Speaker 3: the demonization of men and the accusation of men having
- 38:15Speaker 3: basically engaged in a vast conspiracy against women, right to
- 38:20Speaker 3: keep them down. And you see it through once once
- 38:23Speaker 3: you open your eyes to that, right from even before
- 38:27Speaker 3: the Declaration of Sentiments, all the way back to Mary
- 38:29Speaker 3: Wollstonecraft and before right when you when you actually look
- 38:34Speaker 3: at it, and you see that the the fundamental, the
- 38:39Speaker 3: kernel right that resides at the center of every single
- 38:43Speaker 3: aspect of feminism, right is that men have conspired against
- 38:48Speaker 3: women in order to harm them for men's benefits benefit,
- 38:54Speaker 3: and that and that this has been happening right since
- 38:59Speaker 3: before we walking on two legs, okay, before we before
- 39:05Speaker 3: we wore clothes, before we could use tools, men were
- 39:09Speaker 3: dominating women for men's own benefit, and they were conspiring
- 39:13Speaker 3: with each other to do it, right, And which is
- 39:17Speaker 3: which is when I when you think about it, is
- 39:19Speaker 3: like the biggest insult towards women in in history, right,
- 39:27Speaker 3: Like oh yeah, no, you've been like oppressed for like
- 39:29Speaker 3: two million years and you haven't figured out how to
- 39:33Speaker 3: like unoppressed yourselves, Like what the fuck right, But okay,
- 39:38Speaker 3: this is what it is. It's this grand conspiracy theory, right,
- 39:42Speaker 3: an indictment against men. It's they indicted the ham sandwich,
- 39:46Speaker 3: that is men, and everybody just assumed men were guilty, right,
- 39:51Speaker 3: because women have this fucking huge power of social manipulation
- 39:58Speaker 3: right at their fingertips, and they were able to convince
- 40:02Speaker 3: everybody to go along with it. And this is why
- 40:05Speaker 3: they're saying. They're literally saying that women are worse off now,
- 40:09Speaker 3: women are more oppressed now than they were one hundred
- 40:12Speaker 3: and fifty years ago, and people will believe it.
- 40:17Speaker 1: Yep, yep, all right, next paragraph, all.
- 40:20Speaker 2: Right, next paragraph. Yeah. I strongly believe we need to
- 40:24Speaker 2: reframe how we talk about these issues, not as innately
- 40:27Speaker 2: evil flaws in the young male demographic, but as an
- 40:30Speaker 2: expression of uncertainty. Last week I was sitting on the
- 40:34Speaker 2: bus home from school of what do you mind mock
- 40:36Speaker 2: gcsee revision by scrolling through TikTok.
- 40:40Speaker 1: Just you have to stop at the next para between paragraphs,
- 40:44Speaker 1: just so we can respond, just because if you read
- 40:46Speaker 1: too much, it'll end up screwing with the the short system. Okay,
- 40:54Speaker 1: Yet I strongly believe we need to reframe how we
- 40:56Speaker 1: talk about these issues not as inherently evil flaws and
- 40:59Speaker 1: the young male. So so we were already talking about
- 41:06Speaker 1: young gyographic.
- 41:08Speaker 3: I want to beat I want to beat man. I
- 41:11Speaker 3: want to beat this young man. I want to beat him,
- 41:14Speaker 3: right because because you know what, then he'll learn what
- 41:18Speaker 3: Missonry is right, because you know what. You shouldn't be complaining,
- 41:25Speaker 3: young man. You shouldn't be complaining about anything, right. Oh,
- 41:30Speaker 3: you shouldn't be defending yourself as not having inherently evil flaws.
- 41:37Speaker 3: Don't defend yourself. Don't defend your sex. You don't deserve it.
- 41:44Speaker 1: Yeah. But also I just want to point out that
- 41:47Speaker 1: didn't didn't haven't. We had this discussion about the inherent
- 41:51Speaker 1: flaws of young men and all men for fifty years now,
- 41:56Speaker 1: so way more than that, yeah, way more than that
- 42:00Speaker 1: evil demograph.
- 42:02Speaker 3: Women have never ever ever been hearing only good things about.
- 42:08Speaker 3: Look at the epic of Gilgamesh for Fox's sake, the
- 42:10Speaker 3: world's oldest living document. Okay, right, and what did it
- 42:15Speaker 3: talk about? It talked about a young brash man with
- 42:20Speaker 3: too much power, with no ability to handle it, no responsibility,
- 42:26Speaker 3: no sense of of of loyalty and reciprocal duty. To
- 42:31Speaker 3: those under his He figured they were under his rule,
- 42:35Speaker 3: not under his care right, And and he went through
- 42:39Speaker 3: a journey and came out the other side a wise
- 42:43Speaker 3: and just king.
- 42:44Speaker 2: Right.
- 42:45Speaker 3: And that has always been this, This has always been
- 42:48Speaker 3: the story of masculinity, all through the entire body of
- 42:54Speaker 3: literature throughout the world, the story of the brash, immature, selfish,
- 43:00Speaker 3: young upstart asshole, right who becomes who becomes, through the
- 43:08Speaker 3: trials and tribulations and many adventures and many hardships, becomes
- 43:13Speaker 3: the wise and just leader right? That that is?
- 43:18Speaker 1: That is yes, yes, I know. We've always had a
- 43:22Speaker 1: discussion about how men are supposed to step up and
- 43:28Speaker 1: sacrifice and become wiser and learn to control themselves for
- 43:32Speaker 1: the benefit of others. We've always had that, We've always
- 43:35Speaker 1: had an inherent recognition.
- 43:37Speaker 3: And disapproval of those who don't do that. Those are
- 43:40Speaker 3: the laws of male Yeah.
- 43:42Speaker 1: Yeah, Okay, let's try to get to the next paragraph.
- 43:45Speaker 1: I know, I know, Brian, It's not your fault.
- 43:48Speaker 2: It's okay, okay. Uh. Last week I was sitting on
- 43:51Speaker 2: the bus home from school of what do you my
- 43:53Speaker 2: mock gcsc revision by scrolling through TikTok, a video appear
- 43:58Speaker 2: to my feed surrounding a generally to debate, and the creator,
- 44:01Speaker 2: a young woman not much older than myself, use the
- 44:04Speaker 2: term toxic masculinity.
- 44:08Speaker 1: Wow, you've never heard about it before. This is sudden, Okay, all.
- 44:13Speaker 2: Right, I'll keep going. Sure, for those I'm sorry for familiar, Yeah,
- 44:21Speaker 2: for those who are unfamiliar. But this is to remind you,
- 44:25Speaker 2: guys that this isn't aimed at people who actually understand
- 44:27Speaker 2: these things, for normies that don't understand these things, and
- 44:30Speaker 2: the hopes that they will take hold of the narrative.
- 44:33Speaker 2: And in a way, I want to say, I think
- 44:36Speaker 2: this is a it's it's a good sign that this
- 44:38Speaker 2: kind of content is out there because it means that
- 44:41Speaker 2: that the people at The Guardian and other outlets are
- 44:45Speaker 2: really worried. They're worried that they're that they have lost
- 44:48Speaker 2: men and they're and they're desperately trying to get them back.
- 44:53Speaker 2: And I think that this is just one of the
- 44:55Speaker 2: approaches they've tried. Shame hell, they still do it. They're
- 44:58Speaker 2: still doing it in this this article.
- 45:01Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, but.
- 45:01Speaker 2: They're just trying to be a little bit less. I
- 45:03Speaker 2: don't know, like maybe maybe they're they're changing the tone
- 45:07Speaker 2: of the shame. But I do think that they're afraid.
- 45:10Speaker 3: But for those who are unfamiliar, really, really, is there
- 45:14Speaker 3: anybody who's unfamiliar?
- 45:17Speaker 2: Yeah? Really, for those who are unfamiliar, Toxic masculinity has
- 45:20Speaker 2: become a catch all term for exaggerated negative forms of
- 45:23Speaker 2: masculinity that can put pressure on men and boys to
- 45:26Speaker 2: behave in certain ways. These issues are certainly real, and
- 45:30Speaker 2: I didn't just disagree with the Great's point.
- 45:33Speaker 1: Okay, they can toxic masculine From the moment I was like, oh,
- 45:38Speaker 1: so you mean them phrase toxic masculinity can force men
- 45:41Speaker 1: to behave It's no, he means toxic masculinity can. I
- 45:44Speaker 1: actually did an analysis the There is a someone who
- 45:50Speaker 1: looked into what creates suicide or what like the negative
- 45:55Speaker 1: thought spiral that is a contributing a main contributing factor
- 45:59Speaker 1: to suicidal And I'm blanking on his name, but it
- 46:05Speaker 1: was really interesting work. And he found that suicidal and
- 46:10Speaker 1: depressed people have an issue with seeing themselves as a
- 46:13Speaker 1: burden on others, and in fact, that narrative is very
- 46:18Speaker 1: complicit with with actually going through the act of committing suicide.
- 46:24Speaker 3: And there was actually, I don't know if you've ever
- 46:27Speaker 3: watched the channel Diary of a CEO. But he interviewed
- 46:32Speaker 3: a psychologist who deals with men, and you know, like,
- 46:36Speaker 3: I don't agree with everything this guy says, right, you know,
- 46:41Speaker 3: this psychologist, but one thing that he did say was
- 46:44Speaker 3: that in his clinical practice he deals with a lot
- 46:47Speaker 3: of suicidal young men and they're not depressed.
- 46:52Speaker 1: Joiner. Thomas Joyner was the name of the guy that
- 46:55Speaker 1: I'm talking about.
- 46:57Speaker 3: But these guys are not depressed, said, he says, They're
- 47:00Speaker 3: not depressed. They are making a rational decision that life
- 47:07Speaker 3: is not worth living. And I've said this before. You know,
- 47:12Speaker 3: it's not a mental health crisis. The suicidality rate, the
- 47:16Speaker 3: suicidal rate, in the suicide rate in young in men
- 47:20Speaker 3: is not necessary. This is men taking a rational look,
- 47:25Speaker 3: an objective look at their lives and deciding that their
- 47:29Speaker 3: lives are not worth living. And often it is because
- 47:35Speaker 3: they don't want to be a burden on others.
- 47:37Speaker 1: Yeah, so, Thomas, no, I agree, and that's something that
- 47:40Speaker 1: we don't talk about. And I actually did a little
- 47:44Speaker 1: bit of an analysis that. So. Thomas Joyner is a
- 47:46Speaker 1: psychologist who originally identified perceived burdensomeness, often expressed as burden.
- 47:52Speaker 1: Narratives and personal stories or accounts is a key factor
- 47:54Speaker 1: linked to suicidal ideation, which is strongly tied to depression
- 47:58Speaker 1: and suicide. Okay, so this forms the core part of
- 48:02Speaker 1: his interpersonal theory of suicide. Okay, So people who specifically
- 48:08Speaker 1: men who feel depressed and also suicidal, and maybe not
- 48:13Speaker 1: the two things are not necessarily completely overlapping, feel like
- 48:16Speaker 1: they are a burden on others.
- 48:18Speaker 3: Well, they're situationally depressed.
- 48:20Speaker 1: But does toxic masculinity stay about men as a whole?
- 48:25Speaker 1: It essentially says that men are a burden on women.
- 48:28Speaker 3: And society, they have no positive impact.
- 48:32Speaker 1: Well, they're a burden because they cause emotional labor, they
- 48:35Speaker 1: cause men to rupting, men's spreading, men's blaming, they cause
- 48:39Speaker 1: male entitlement that takes snatches, the snatches the very achievement
- 48:45Speaker 1: and success opportunities for women, and everywhere, everywhere, from every angle,
- 48:52Speaker 1: men are told they are the problem and they are
- 48:54Speaker 1: essentially a parasite on society. So this toxic masculinity narrative
- 49:00Speaker 1: is complicit in the suicide rate for men. And I
- 49:04Speaker 1: actually looked at it, and I asked, groc, is it
- 49:07Speaker 1: possible that the overwhelming narrative. And I actually ask Groc
- 49:12Speaker 1: to estimate how much of this kind of male burdensome
- 49:16Speaker 1: narrative men are exposed to daily. He said, twenty to
- 49:19Speaker 1: thirty instances of being referred to as a burden. Every
- 49:23Speaker 1: single man is experienced twenty to thirty instances of being
- 49:27Speaker 1: referred to as a burden every day. And I asked, Okay,
- 49:31Speaker 1: so if that's the case, then could this be an
- 49:35Speaker 1: explanation why there are men who commit suicide without having
- 49:40Speaker 1: any apparent mental health issues prior to that, Because essentially
- 49:45Speaker 1: what happens is they experience a job loss, or more likely,
- 49:49Speaker 1: they experience a problem with a relationship, they are abused
- 49:52Speaker 1: in that relationship or the relationship ends, and then they
- 49:56Speaker 1: just have a cascading failure, like it just that's it,
- 50:01Speaker 1: And it's because they just like if you, if you
- 50:04Speaker 1: subject an entire population to twenty to thirty burdens of
- 50:08Speaker 1: narratives a day, and then when they experience something that
- 50:12Speaker 1: takes away whatever is in their life that is holding
- 50:16Speaker 1: that back, what ends up happening the damn breaks and
- 50:21Speaker 1: they become swept away. And I asked, so is this
- 50:24Speaker 1: could this be explain why do you have these sudden
- 50:27Speaker 1: sudden suicides? And it said yes, I mean, I mean
- 50:30Speaker 1: if you take that for what it is, you know grow.
- 50:32Speaker 3: Yeah, well Grock, Grock, any any AI will want to
- 50:35Speaker 3: say things, will want to be highly agreeable with you.
- 50:38Speaker 1: Actually, I've tested GROC multiple.
- 50:42Speaker 3: Yet I have primate to like, no, I do primeate,
- 50:46Speaker 3: I do primitn't don't instantly agree with me.
- 50:50Speaker 1: Yeah, I know, I prime it. But also GROC doesn't
- 50:53Speaker 1: do that anymore. I know that a lot of other
- 50:56Speaker 1: ais do that. But I have gotten into extended testing GROC.
- 51:00Speaker 1: I have gotten into extended debates with it to try
- 51:03Speaker 1: to get it to say like or agree with me
- 51:07Speaker 1: on a point, and it continues if it considers that
- 51:10Speaker 1: point to be incorrect, it will continue to push it's
- 51:15Speaker 1: its interpretation here. Yeah, and so I I in some
- 51:19Speaker 1: areas Grok is not like, do not ask it for
- 51:21Speaker 1: fiction analysis. It will make shit up like a motherfucker.
- 51:27Speaker 1: But in terms of anything that can be tested for
- 51:30Speaker 1: empirical accuracy, is GROC is pretty good. It's actually better
- 51:34Speaker 1: than perplexity because I've also dealt with perplexity, and perplexity
- 51:38Speaker 1: actually cited a retracted paper and Science that had been
- 51:44Speaker 1: superseded by something newer and better science, and I was like,
- 51:49Speaker 1: what the hell are you doing? And then and then
- 51:52Speaker 1: it flagged me said I'm going to be reporting you
- 51:55Speaker 1: because blah blah blah. I'm like, what it was your
- 51:58Speaker 1: mistake anyway?
- 52:01Speaker 2: All right, okay, so back to the article. However, it
- 52:05Speaker 2: did make me pause and reflect. I realize watching this,
- 52:09Speaker 2: watching this video, how desensitized I had become to seeing
- 52:13Speaker 2: those two words paired together on my feet such that
- 52:16Speaker 2: they seemed intertwined, like fast food and hard work or
- 52:20Speaker 2: bright idea.
- 52:22Speaker 1: Yeah, that was the point. They don't have any other
- 52:26Speaker 1: version of masculinity by a toxic one because they don't
- 52:29Speaker 1: want to recognize that masculinity has any validity because if
- 52:33Speaker 1: they did, they would have to question their war against it. Yep, yes,
- 52:41Speaker 1: I mean I every time I've heard people bring up
- 52:44Speaker 1: toxic masculinity, I say, well, what is the what is
- 52:46Speaker 1: positive masculine? They never have an answer. Oh, they have
- 52:50Speaker 1: to appeal to traditional masculinity, which they don't regard as legitimate.
- 52:54Speaker 2: So traditional masculinity is toxic masculinity.
- 52:58Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, when I asked, well, all kinds of modern
- 53:02Speaker 3: masculinity is also toxic masculinity.
- 53:04Speaker 2: Yeah, traditional, there is no positive masculinity unless it is
- 53:10Speaker 2: just purely in service to women, well, and even then
- 53:14Speaker 2: only in service to certain.
- 53:16Speaker 3: Women of the certain in certain contexts, yes, yes, in
- 53:21Speaker 3: certain contexts with which.
- 53:23Speaker 1: The frequency with which a male user encounters the phrase
- 53:26Speaker 1: toxic masculinity on X depends on several factors. There followed accounts,
- 53:30Speaker 1: engagement patterns, a little bit whatever, key, let me get
- 53:35Speaker 1: to the Okay, so assumptions. A typical male user scrolls
- 53:40Speaker 1: to feed for twenty okay, uh, okay, all right, So
- 53:46Speaker 1: casual scroller likely encounters So just follow sports news, minimal
- 53:52Speaker 1: gender topic engagement, and daily time on X fifteen to
- 53:57Speaker 1: twenty minutes will encounter it was you're at a one time,
- 54:01Speaker 1: but still will encounter it. Okay. And if and if
- 54:04Speaker 1: you are a user, a male user who's seeking out
- 54:07Speaker 1: any kind of information on anything related to gender or
- 54:11Speaker 1: sex or achievement, you're not going to be in that category.
- 54:14Speaker 1: We're just talking sports and news. No gender engagement. Active
- 54:18Speaker 1: engager follows opinion leaders interacts with debates every twenty five
- 54:23Speaker 1: to thirty minutes. They will see the phrase two one
- 54:26Speaker 1: to three times. High exposure follow those feminist progressive accounts
- 54:32Speaker 1: searches trends every thirty minutes, they will see it three
- 54:35Speaker 1: to five plus times, so they you are like, men
- 54:40Speaker 1: are being inundated with that phrase. Yeah, that automatic emotional
- 54:46Speaker 1: association with masculinity.
- 54:49Speaker 3: Is now that next toxic next paragraph?
- 54:53Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, next paragraph. All right. I sat for the
- 54:58Speaker 2: entire twenty minutes of that bus Dura trying to remember
- 55:00Speaker 2: the last time I saw masculinity appear on my feed
- 55:03Speaker 2: without being coupled with toxic. I thought and thought and
- 55:07Speaker 2: thought some more. I could not do it. Yeah, that's
- 55:10Speaker 2: because that's the only way it's presented. It's either toxic masculinity,
- 55:16Speaker 2: traditional masculinity, hegemonic masculinity, but toxic masculinity is the most
- 55:22Speaker 2: like popular version. But they're all they're all the same thing.
- 55:26Speaker 3: Yep.
- 55:28Speaker 2: Can society expect anything other than uncertainty when masculinity, one
- 55:32Speaker 2: of the very essences of our existence, is almost always
- 55:35Speaker 2: presented as toxic. When I was engrossed in the manisphere,
- 55:39Speaker 2: this type of messaging would only have alienated me further
- 55:42Speaker 2: from mainstream society, driving me closer to the influencers claiming
- 55:45Speaker 2: that it was biased.
- 55:46Speaker 1: The kids you were, you were never in the manisphere
- 55:50Speaker 1: because you have still seen that.
- 55:53Speaker 3: Well, no, it's it's it. Well, no, he was, he's okay, Uh,
- 56:02Speaker 3: this type of messaging would only have alienated me further
- 56:06Speaker 3: from mainstream society, driving me closer to the influencers, claiming
- 56:12Speaker 3: that it was biased against young men. Okay, yeah, no,
- 56:16Speaker 3: so that's why he ended up in the manisphere.
- 56:19Speaker 1: Yeah, but he's the timing is weird. When I was
- 56:22Speaker 1: engrossed in the manisphere, this type of messaging would only
- 56:25Speaker 1: have been alienated me further. So he went into the
- 56:29Speaker 1: manisphere not knowing about toxic masculinity.
- 56:33Speaker 3: Like a young he's an extremely young man.
- 56:38Speaker 2: And maybe no, no, and all young because he's getting
- 56:44Speaker 2: an ac SE, which means he's in like middle school
- 56:48Speaker 2: or something.
- 56:49Speaker 1: Whipposed to people like Laura Bates.
- 56:54Speaker 3: Well but okay, but okay, but you know, maybe he
- 56:58Speaker 3: just never thought about it. Maybe he just never thought
- 57:02Speaker 3: about it, right, And the only reason he even thought
- 57:06Speaker 3: about it, okay, because hear me out. Maybe the only
- 57:10Speaker 3: reason he thought about it was because he fell into
- 57:14Speaker 3: the manisphere or some fringe of the manisphere, some some
- 57:18Speaker 3: you know, surface level you know, pocket of the manisphere
- 57:23Speaker 3: and started entertaining discussions started being interested in masculinity. Right,
- 57:31Speaker 3: So maybe he just all the toxic masculinity rhetoric, you know,
- 57:37Speaker 3: he was just like it was just not on his
- 57:39Speaker 3: radar before that.
- 57:42Speaker 2: Right.
- 57:42Speaker 3: But then he's going in as a young man, as
- 57:46Speaker 3: a young man, a pubescent young man, okay, an adolescent
- 57:49Speaker 3: young man, right, trying to figure out what it is
- 57:52Speaker 3: to be a man. Right, falls into the manisphere, right,
- 57:57Speaker 3: and then he's like, yeah, no, if I had escaped
- 58:00Speaker 3: the manisphere, if I had still been you know, if
- 58:07Speaker 3: I hadn't escaped, if I had still been immersed in it,
- 58:11Speaker 3: then it would have alienated me further from the mainstream,
- 58:14Speaker 3: all of this talk in the mainstream about toxic masculinity.
- 58:17Speaker 3: Yet maybe maybe he didn't notice, maybe he didn't notice
- 58:20Speaker 3: it before. This is and articles have word limits, Allison.
- 58:25Speaker 1: Yeah, this is not I can't I press X to
- 58:29Speaker 1: doubt any of this is real.
- 58:30Speaker 2: But regardless, this paragraph too much driving.
- 58:34Speaker 1: Me closer to the influencers claiming so all the bias
- 58:37Speaker 1: against young men in the public sphere would drive young
- 58:42Speaker 1: men to influencers that actually say or actually point out
- 58:46Speaker 1: that there's bias against young men and it's bad. This
- 58:50Speaker 1: is this is where it all falls apart. This is
- 58:53Speaker 1: where the entirety of the progressive belief system around this
- 58:59Speaker 1: issue falls apart. How do we get men and boys
- 59:03Speaker 1: to stop talking about how we're beating on them and
- 59:09Speaker 1: tainting their gender identity? How do we get them to
- 59:12Speaker 1: shut up about it without actually changing what we're doing? Okay,
- 59:18Speaker 1: next paragraph?
- 59:19Speaker 2: All right, I got a super chat from Dean Domino
- 59:21Speaker 2: for four ninety nine, Thank you, Dina. He says he
- 59:23Speaker 2: was in the manisphere. He briefly scrolled past a picture
- 59:26Speaker 2: that wasn't crapping on men one time.
- 59:29Speaker 1: Yeah, I think I think that's probably accurate. Okay, he
- 59:35Speaker 1: saw he saw a TikTok in which a father was
- 59:38Speaker 1: building a cardboard or a a fort for our son
- 59:45Speaker 1: or daughter. It was like, oh my god, am I
- 59:47Speaker 1: in the manosphere?
- 59:50Speaker 2: Of a there were a bunch of men rescuing a
- 59:53Speaker 2: dog from a flood. Mean, the anime guy with the butter?
- 1:00:00Speaker 2: Is this the manisphere? Okay? I think the potency of
- 1:00:03Speaker 2: the manisphere would be crushed if there were constructive alternatives
- 1:00:07Speaker 2: for young men to engage with. Some boys I know
- 1:00:10Speaker 2: feel alienated from education because the system simply isn't providing
- 1:00:14Speaker 2: that alternative? You guys want to say something to that?
- 1:00:18Speaker 2: Or should I keep going?
- 1:00:19Speaker 1: Just keep going?
- 1:00:20Speaker 2: All right? Knowledge of financial education, entrepreneurship, and fitness doesn't
- 1:00:25Speaker 2: have to stay trapped inside controversial podcasts by influencers peddling
- 1:00:29Speaker 2: a paid course the manisphere's main form of revenue. The
- 1:00:34Speaker 2: curriculum could offer healthier versions of some of that too.
- 1:00:39Speaker 3: Well, yeah, it really should, right, financial literacy should be
- 1:00:44Speaker 3: taught in high school. You have no idea how many
- 1:00:49Speaker 3: young people I have worked with high school age? Right there?
- 1:00:53Speaker 3: These are people, These are hostesses and expos at the
- 1:00:56Speaker 3: work at the restaurants where I worked, right, who it's
- 1:01:00Speaker 3: their first job. They're still in high school. Right. They
- 1:01:04Speaker 3: don't know what a credit rating is. They don't know
- 1:01:06Speaker 3: why you need one, and they don't know how to
- 1:01:08Speaker 3: get one and how to maintain one. Right, They have
- 1:01:12Speaker 3: no fucking clue. Right. What they do know is how
- 1:01:15Speaker 3: to design a poster for an activist event, because that's
- 1:01:19Speaker 3: what they learned in career and life management, which is
- 1:01:22Speaker 3: a mandatory course. Right. They don't understand how to balance
- 1:01:28Speaker 3: a budget. They don't understand that, Yes, if you get
- 1:01:32Speaker 3: a credit card, right, if you're lucky enough to get one, right,
- 1:01:35Speaker 3: pay it down to zero every month. Don't spend a
- 1:01:38Speaker 3: penny that you don't actually have. Pay it down to
- 1:01:40Speaker 3: zero every month. Right, then they'll offer to raise your
- 1:01:43Speaker 3: credit limit, right and take that offer as long as
- 1:01:47Speaker 3: you can be disciplined with your credit card, right, take
- 1:01:49Speaker 3: that offer. Because your credit rating is balanced by is
- 1:01:54Speaker 3: scored by how much credit you have available versus how
- 1:01:57Speaker 3: much you're using. And if you have like twelve thousand
- 1:02:00Speaker 3: dollars available and you're not actually using carrying any balance, right,
- 1:02:05Speaker 3: you've got a great credit score right there, right, and
- 1:02:08Speaker 3: you're gonna need that if you want to get a
- 1:02:09Speaker 3: car loan or buy a house. Right like this is
- 1:02:12Speaker 3: this is like this is simple fucking stuff, right, easy
- 1:02:17Speaker 3: peasy stuff. Career in life management. They're like, oh yeah, no,
- 1:02:22Speaker 3: uh does make make your own designer license plate for
- 1:02:27Speaker 3: this course right where we're not teaching you how to drive?
- 1:02:33Speaker 1: Okay? Next paragraph?
- 1:02:35Speaker 2: No, okay?
- 1:02:37Speaker 1: Uh.
- 1:02:38Speaker 2: At the core of this profit generating machine behind, he
- 1:02:42Speaker 2: loves mentioning how these guys make money doing this. It's
- 1:02:45Speaker 2: like the main condemning thing, even though like that only
- 1:02:48Speaker 2: happens if someone chooses to pay them. So, but anyway,
- 1:02:54Speaker 2: profit and it's not like feminism doesn't make a shit
- 1:02:56Speaker 2: ton of money, but it's just off the government and
- 1:03:00Speaker 2: taxpayers and NGOs. So I guess it's okay when the
- 1:03:03Speaker 2: government just goes around, you know, with the whole people
- 1:03:08Speaker 2: and selling them a product, to just take money from people,
- 1:03:12Speaker 2: whether like it or not, and then just full ship.
- 1:03:17Speaker 3: Much more.
- 1:03:19Speaker 1: We got the the got the essence of this, this article.
- 1:03:22Speaker 1: Somebody wants to also make money off of this. They
- 1:03:26Speaker 1: feel like it's been stolen because these young men. They
- 1:03:30Speaker 1: shouldn't be listening to whoever these people are about masculinity.
- 1:03:34Speaker 1: They should be listening to feminists about masculinity and giving
- 1:03:37Speaker 1: feminists their money. Yeah, okay, yeah, I mean this.
- 1:03:41Speaker 2: This this thing is almost over. But anyway, at the
- 1:03:44Speaker 2: core of this profit generating machine, behind the superficial lifestyles,
- 1:03:47Speaker 2: the harmful views on women, the rebellion against the education system,
- 1:03:52Speaker 2: there sits a feature that made a younger me and
- 1:03:54Speaker 2: several of my friends and peers now that deeply into
- 1:03:56Speaker 2: the clutch of these influencers.
- 1:03:58Speaker 1: This isn't written like a twelve a fifth, fourteen year
- 1:04:02Speaker 1: old boy.
- 1:04:03Speaker 2: This is I'm sure it was written by a grown woman,
- 1:04:06Speaker 2: or probably probably Laura Bates.
- 1:04:10Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, oh, you boys shouldn't go to Andrew Tate.
- 1:04:15Speaker 1: You should go to me, Laura Baits. Don't mind me
- 1:04:18Speaker 1: putting my fingers.
- 1:04:19Speaker 2: Speaking of weird predatory women. I watched Witches the other day.
- 1:04:22Speaker 2: He'd ever see the movie Witches from the the nineties
- 1:04:27Speaker 2: with not the remake with Anne Hathwaves. I didn't watch.
- 1:04:30Speaker 2: That's terrible. I mean the original one with oh Angelica Houston.
- 1:04:36Speaker 3: Yeah, and Jack Nicholson.
- 1:04:39Speaker 2: No, no, no, you're thinking about the Witches of east Wick. No, no,
- 1:04:42Speaker 2: this is It's just called Witches. It's based on a
- 1:04:45Speaker 2: roll doll book. It's a it's like, uh, you know
- 1:04:48Speaker 2: the guy who wrote like the Chocolate Factory and some
- 1:04:51Speaker 2: of the other weird books.
- 1:04:53Speaker 3: That he wrote in the Giant Peach and yeah.
- 1:04:56Speaker 2: Yeah, Charlie and Factory.
- 1:04:58Speaker 3: Yeah he wrote a big friendly giant.
- 1:05:00Speaker 2: Yeah yeah. Yeah. So anyway, good movie and the you know,
- 1:05:05Speaker 2: good good female villains, the Witches. So anyway, where was
- 1:05:10Speaker 2: I They made us feel listened to, heard and considered.
- 1:05:15Speaker 2: Of course, in reality, that's nothing more than a facade,
- 1:05:18Speaker 2: a dodgy sales tactic. Society isn't going to help you.
- 1:05:21Speaker 2: You're a slave to the system, but will help you escape. Okay,
- 1:05:27Speaker 2: So I just want to point out again because I
- 1:05:30Speaker 2: think that when we respond to like the claims that
- 1:05:34Speaker 2: this guy's making about like how this is a big
- 1:05:36Speaker 2: profit generating machine, our brains want to say this is
- 1:05:40Speaker 2: about Andrew Tate, It's not. I clicked on the link
- 1:05:43Speaker 2: for influencers and it's, like I said, it's anyone who
- 1:05:47Speaker 2: wants to talk to men. And if you're telling me
- 1:05:49Speaker 2: that Andrew Tate and Jordan Peterson and Aiden Ross and
- 1:05:54Speaker 2: you know, Joe Rogan and any any of those people,
- 1:05:58Speaker 2: Tom Golden, Paul em anyone, if you are telling me
- 1:06:02Speaker 2: that those people are all just in it for the
- 1:06:04Speaker 2: money and they're all the same, then I got a
- 1:06:07Speaker 2: bridge that I want to sell you, because this is
- 1:06:10Speaker 2: just a way of essentially making those avenues, let's say, toxic,
- 1:06:19Speaker 2: so that nobody wants to even like entertain that, and
- 1:06:22Speaker 2: they do it by attaching people at Jordan Peterson to
- 1:06:26Speaker 2: Andrew Tate or Aiden Ross or whoever you know. That's it.
- 1:06:30Speaker 2: So I just want to make sure we understand that
- 1:06:33Speaker 2: if you're in the chat saying something about Tate, you're
- 1:06:36Speaker 2: you're not looking at this correctly, because that's not what
- 1:06:39Speaker 2: it's not about him. If Tate exploded tomorrow in a
- 1:06:44Speaker 2: shower of gore and he was dead and gone in
- 1:06:46Speaker 2: his business collapse, guess what, these articles will still exist
- 1:06:49Speaker 2: and they'd be about somebody else. So it wouldn't matter,
- 1:06:52Speaker 2: it would not matter who it is. It's what they're
- 1:06:54Speaker 2: doing is they're they're trying to corral men away from
- 1:06:59Speaker 2: anything that looks like it's not where they want them
- 1:07:02Speaker 2: to be, which is right in line. Here, be good
- 1:07:05Speaker 2: little you know, wage slaves, and give your tax money
- 1:07:09Speaker 2: to us so that we can keep funneling into the
- 1:07:11Speaker 2: education system, so that we can continue to propagandize women
- 1:07:14Speaker 2: and children against you for the rest of your life.
- 1:07:17Speaker 2: And that's what they're doing. So I'm just saying this
- 1:07:19Speaker 2: is important because if you get caught up on the
- 1:07:21Speaker 2: Andrew Tate thing, you're losing. You're losing big, Okay, But anyway,
- 1:07:25Speaker 2: go ahead.
- 1:07:26Speaker 1: Yeah, I think everybody never knows that that this is
- 1:07:29Speaker 1: just that particular figure is just to stand in for
- 1:07:33Speaker 1: anyone who opposes the idea that men are toxic, like
- 1:07:37Speaker 1: anybody who says, no, actually that that narrative is wrong.
- 1:07:40Speaker 1: And it's bad and it's hurtful and it's harmful and
- 1:07:44Speaker 1: the people who express it don't have your best interests
- 1:07:47Speaker 1: in mind, and you should stop listening to them. Oh
- 1:07:50Speaker 1: that's what's the problem is.
- 1:07:52Speaker 3: Okay, Yes, I'm gonna step away for a second here
- 1:07:55Speaker 3: because my dog is going crazy and it is it
- 1:07:58Speaker 3: does feel like four o'clock now, so yeah, okay, go
- 1:08:01Speaker 3: feed your daughter.
- 1:08:02Speaker 2: All right, can't feed the dog all right? So anyway,
- 1:08:07Speaker 2: we got to the stage where sixty second social media
- 1:08:10Speaker 2: advert can make a young man feel more valid than
- 1:08:13Speaker 2: an entire education system. I see that as a pretty
- 1:08:16Speaker 2: drastic problem. When society is not providing a listening ear
- 1:08:20Speaker 2: an algorithm will fill the void. When I was younger,
- 1:08:23Speaker 2: I felt seen by influencers, but not by the institutions
- 1:08:26Speaker 2: I am growing up in. I have peers that still
- 1:08:28Speaker 2: feel the same way.
- 1:08:30Speaker 1: Okay, so how did you get seen by the institution? Now,
- 1:08:34Speaker 1: this is my question.
- 1:08:35Speaker 2: He's asking the institutions to step in, uh and and
- 1:08:40Speaker 2: do something, but they're not going to yr your cries
- 1:08:45Speaker 2: fall on dead. Yeah, like this is the thing. I
- 1:08:49Speaker 2: don't know if this is Let's assume for a moment
- 1:08:52Speaker 2: this is actually a genuine cry for help, for like
- 1:08:57Speaker 2: for the for the schools and the the institutions and
- 1:09:01Speaker 2: his governments to acknowledge and try to address men's issues. No,
- 1:09:07Speaker 2: like that, it's not happening. You're you are your your
- 1:09:11Speaker 2: cries will fall on deaf ears and the if anything,
- 1:09:13Speaker 2: if you are someone who is legitimately asking this question,
- 1:09:17Speaker 2: guess what. The Gardian is using your article to corral
- 1:09:21Speaker 2: more men into the system that hates them. And and
- 1:09:24Speaker 2: they're gonna use this because they what they want is
- 1:09:26Speaker 2: not for you to get better. They don't want to
- 1:09:28Speaker 2: fix your problems. They just want you to shut up
- 1:09:30Speaker 2: and get in line, because that's what this is. Okay anyway,
- 1:09:37Speaker 2: Andrew take cares school? Doesn't You need to realize that? Mate?
- 1:09:41Speaker 2: Those are the words of a close friend of mine
- 1:09:43Speaker 2: in a late night online video game lobby. You might
- 1:09:46Speaker 2: hear his words as simply teenage rebellion or malicious naivete.
- 1:09:50Speaker 2: But I heard the desperation, I heard naivete.
- 1:09:56Speaker 1: I don't know that is like an oxymore on malicious naivete. Yeah, okay,
- 1:10:04Speaker 1: all right, no, this is okay, Andrew take cares school doesn't?
- 1:10:09Speaker 3: All right?
- 1:10:09Speaker 1: Well, where are you going to go? For recognizing that,
- 1:10:12Speaker 1: recognizing that the institution is overwhelmingly antimail. Where are we
- 1:10:17Speaker 1: going to go? Now? Where are we gonna where's this
- 1:10:19Speaker 1: article going to go? I am a flutter.
- 1:10:23Speaker 2: Yeah, it doesn't feel like a coincidence that he was
- 1:10:27Speaker 2: speaking to an in an online space. John Harris recently
- 1:10:31Speaker 2: pointed to the dire state of youth club funding, with
- 1:10:34Speaker 2: twelve hundred centers closing between twenty ten and twenty twenty three.
- 1:10:38Speaker 2: My town youth group met the ad closing when you
- 1:10:41Speaker 2: can no longer afford the hire of a local hall.
- 1:10:44Speaker 1: What say it's an ad for state funded youth groups?
- 1:10:49Speaker 3: Uh? Feminist?
- 1:10:51Speaker 2: I mean I think that he probably wants group of
- 1:10:53Speaker 2: youth clubs. But guess what that was the first thing
- 1:10:56Speaker 2: to go. Man, Like, what you're basically saying is, man,
- 1:11:00Speaker 2: you know men need their own spaces. Well, guess who's
- 1:11:03Speaker 2: been saying that shit for ten years and it hasn't
- 1:11:07Speaker 2: happened yet. Even when they do get a space, women
- 1:11:10Speaker 2: take it over no matter what it is. Your video
- 1:11:13Speaker 2: game lobby isn't safe, dude, So like it doesn't matter.
- 1:11:17Speaker 2: You're basically again, you're saying something obvious and you're not
- 1:11:22Speaker 2: asking Well, dude, if this is so obvious, why don't
- 1:11:25Speaker 2: we have it. It's almost like because it's not allowed.
- 1:11:29Speaker 1: Yeah, because somebody is shutting them down. Okay, I wonder
- 1:11:33Speaker 1: who that could be.
- 1:11:35Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, Okay. Meanwhile, in pshe lessons at my co
- 1:11:42Speaker 2: ed school, myself and other boys in my class felt
- 1:11:44Speaker 2: uncomfortable discussing our issues and worries, scared of risking a
- 1:11:48Speaker 2: judgmental look from a girl or even worse, social alienation.
- 1:11:52Speaker 2: There's great social costs of potentially appearing weaker, softer, less
- 1:11:56Speaker 2: masculine in front of your peers. That's why that's not
- 1:12:01Speaker 2: the issue you're blaming. You're blaming like looking weaker for
- 1:12:06Speaker 2: your fear of being judged by a girl.
- 1:12:09Speaker 3: Girls.
- 1:12:10Speaker 2: It's women, it's not other men.
- 1:12:15Speaker 1: So he's afraid of appearing weaker and less masculine in
- 1:12:19Speaker 1: front of the girl.
- 1:12:20Speaker 3: Like.
- 1:12:20Speaker 1: That's the thing that I noticed about other things that
- 1:12:22Speaker 1: come from the UK. God. There was a quote unquote
- 1:12:26Speaker 1: comedian who wrote a book How Not to Be a Boy,
- 1:12:29Speaker 1: I think it was, and he described all of the
- 1:12:32Speaker 1: fear of judgment from a bunch of women in his life,
- 1:12:35Speaker 1: and then he pivoted to Ah, but the patriarchy. I'm like, no,
- 1:12:39Speaker 1: are you telling me your mom is the patriarchy, your
- 1:12:42Speaker 1: wife is the patriarchy, your aunt is the patriarchy. Like,
- 1:12:45Speaker 1: you're not afraid of men, You're afraid of women. When
- 1:12:48Speaker 1: we talk about anecdotes about your life, it's fear of
- 1:12:50Speaker 1: women that's keeping you quiet, which is why men need
- 1:12:54Speaker 1: their own damn spaces.
- 1:12:55Speaker 3: Yep.
- 1:12:56Speaker 1: But of course, all feminism can do is shut men's spaces.
- 1:12:59Speaker 3: Down or or colonize them.
- 1:13:02Speaker 1: It can't actually create a space where men can grow,
- 1:13:05Speaker 1: men can be men, men can cooperate in the way
- 1:13:08Speaker 1: that men do that, men can engage in risk. It
- 1:13:11Speaker 1: doesn't know how to create those spaces. It's impossible, and
- 1:13:15Speaker 1: it cannot.
- 1:13:15Speaker 2: It can space that they killed. What's the first male
- 1:13:20Speaker 2: space that feminists killed?
- 1:13:26Speaker 1: Probably schools?
- 1:13:29Speaker 2: I would say it was the home.
- 1:13:31Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, you're right. Well, okay, that's that's sort
- 1:13:36Speaker 1: of a that is that is definitely a depressing thought. Okay,
- 1:13:39Speaker 1: let's keep it.
- 1:13:40Speaker 3: There was there was there was that thing about coffee
- 1:13:42Speaker 3: houses back in the seventeen hundreds.
- 1:13:45Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe it was the coffee house is the first
- 1:13:46Speaker 1: thing that that feminists killed?
- 1:13:49Speaker 2: Okay, all right, I can all right next thing. You
- 1:13:54Speaker 2: want to, like, show the superchown. Nobody sends super chowlds.
- 1:13:58Speaker 1: You're gonna you guys, send super chows in. You're You're unsettling, Brian,
- 1:14:01Speaker 1: feed the badger.
- 1:14:02Speaker 2: I'm just saying, like you usually say something about it
- 1:14:05Speaker 2: by feed the badge.
- 1:14:08Speaker 1: Just the tip for those comments, send something in. Send
- 1:14:10Speaker 1: it in. We want to hear it from you, especial way.
- 1:14:14Speaker 3: Stop snaking.
- 1:14:16Speaker 2: I can recall many Pasach sessions spent discussing female body
- 1:14:21Speaker 2: image and objectification, rightfully so, but I struggled to say
- 1:14:25Speaker 2: the same for male body image. The impossible standards set
- 1:14:29Speaker 2: by colossal lumps of muscle on your feeds, quite a
- 1:14:32Speaker 2: few of which are, in fact, are injecting themselves with
- 1:14:35Speaker 2: steroids when the camera is packed away. I can speak
- 1:14:37Speaker 2: to this, so like I was planning on making a
- 1:14:41Speaker 2: video about this, because I have seen I've men go
- 1:14:44Speaker 2: to the gym with Lindsay, and Lindsay used to be
- 1:14:47Speaker 2: a big gym rat back in the day, and she
- 1:14:50Speaker 2: pointed out that she'd never seen so many like men
- 1:14:54Speaker 2: on gear. Not not not just like at the gym,
- 1:14:57Speaker 2: because there's plenty of guys at the gym, but like
- 1:14:58Speaker 2: young guys take gear on steroids, right, and we watch
- 1:15:04Speaker 2: videos of guys that like they overdo it. They get
- 1:15:07Speaker 2: like these weird like hormonal reactions, acne on their back
- 1:15:11Speaker 2: and stuff. It's really grows. And they're not doing it
- 1:15:16Speaker 2: in many cases because of some kind of toxically masculine
- 1:15:21Speaker 2: need to like compete with other men, or because of
- 1:15:23Speaker 2: this kind of feminist argument of unrealistic beauty standards. They're
- 1:15:27Speaker 2: doing it because they think that's what women want. So
- 1:15:30Speaker 2: they're they're they're acting on Yeah, it's like the hypergy
- 1:15:35Speaker 2: is they're they're reacting to hypergamy basically.
- 1:15:37Speaker 1: Well, it's it's the only actions, it's the only women want.
- 1:15:40Speaker 1: It is what women want.
- 1:15:41Speaker 3: Well, it's the only axis on which they can compete, right,
- 1:15:44Speaker 3: because you know, if you have the six, the six,
- 1:15:48Speaker 3: the quintuple six for formula right, you know, like she's
- 1:15:53Speaker 3: a solid six, and she demands six feet six inches,
- 1:15:56Speaker 3: a six pack and six figures, right, well, you might
- 1:16:00Speaker 3: not be able to get the six figures. You probably
- 1:16:05Speaker 3: you can need an implant to get the six inches
- 1:16:07Speaker 3: if if you're unfortunate, right, and and you know, all
- 1:16:13Speaker 3: you can really do is do the six pack, right,
- 1:16:17Speaker 3: there's nothing you can do about the six feet, so
- 1:16:20Speaker 3: it's like you you basically it's it's like this un
- 1:16:24Speaker 3: looks Max saying is actually it's still fringe. But for
- 1:16:29Speaker 3: men it's still quite fringe, but it's growing. It's growing.
- 1:16:35Speaker 3: And and it's because this is the only axis on
- 1:16:38Speaker 3: which these men can attract women, right, because women's standards
- 1:16:43Speaker 3: are way too high. She's a solid six and she's
- 1:16:46Speaker 3: she's basically saying in her dating profile, I won't settle
- 1:16:50Speaker 3: for less than six six six six right, mm hm
- 1:16:54Speaker 3: And and.
- 1:16:55Speaker 2: Uh yeah, guys, I mean like that's not even going
- 1:16:58Speaker 2: into men who are getting like extension surgery. And again
- 1:17:02Speaker 2: this is this is still fringe, but it is it
- 1:17:04Speaker 2: does happen.
- 1:17:06Speaker 1: Yeah, No, pickup artists that are driving this, that's the
- 1:17:09Speaker 1: things are not driving that.
- 1:17:12Speaker 3: No, No, they're they're actually driving game right, like they're
- 1:17:16Speaker 3: advising game right, because you can you can, like, you
- 1:17:20Speaker 3: can look like see low green right still get some honeys. Right.
- 1:17:29Speaker 3: You know, you can be fat like Patrese O'Neill. You
- 1:17:32Speaker 3: can you can be like, you know, you can look
- 1:17:35Speaker 3: like Bill Burr and still get dates. I mean that
- 1:17:39Speaker 3: guy as much as yeah, of course he could have
- 1:17:47Speaker 3: he freaking married a feminist. But but you know, like
- 1:17:53Speaker 3: he he was, he was dating right, like he he
- 1:17:57Speaker 3: had women in his life to complain about, right all
- 1:18:00Speaker 3: through his career. And so you're looking at it like
- 1:18:05Speaker 3: you know, uh, you look at men, they can they
- 1:18:09Speaker 3: there there are like when you look at what pickup
- 1:18:12Speaker 3: artists say tell men to do, right rush never freaking manscaped. Yeah, well,
- 1:18:22Speaker 3: and that that dude is wearing two shirts, okay, Like
- 1:18:29Speaker 3: and he never manscaped, and he he wasn't really that attractive, right,
- 1:18:35Speaker 3: he just came with an attitude with like, he came
- 1:18:39Speaker 3: with an attitude that actually scored him women right, same
- 1:18:44Speaker 3: with them. You know, there's a whole bunch of a
- 1:18:48Speaker 3: whole bunch of freaking pickup artists, mystery and those guys
- 1:18:53Speaker 3: right like they came with an attitude not with not
- 1:18:58Speaker 3: with six figures, not with you know, sixty.
- 1:19:02Speaker 1: Yeah, but they're also like twenty years ago now like yeah,
- 1:19:06Speaker 1: and the things of massive. I actually went through this
- 1:19:09Speaker 1: with Groc because a feminist was saying that all men
- 1:19:12Speaker 1: hold women to the beauty ideal. So I actually and
- 1:19:17Speaker 1: Groc said, yes, men wait attractiveness more highly than women.
- 1:19:21Speaker 1: I'm like, is that okay? But what's going on there?
- 1:19:25Speaker 1: And eventually, what I found out is that men wait attractiveness,
- 1:19:30Speaker 1: attractiveness more highly insofar as they don't wait status. They
- 1:19:35Speaker 1: just want a woman who's attractive to them. But they
- 1:19:38Speaker 1: find eighty percent of women attractive, I know, and women
- 1:19:43Speaker 1: only find twenty to thirty percent of men attractive.
- 1:19:46Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 1:19:47Speaker 4: Yeah, So it's like it's like, and so you're when
- 1:19:51Speaker 4: you look at it as not necessarily that you're competing
- 1:19:55Speaker 4: with other men, right, but that you are trying to
- 1:19:59Speaker 4: measure up what women demand, yes, based on how you
- 1:20:03Speaker 4: measure up among the pool of men.
- 1:20:07Speaker 3: Yeah. And you know, like, and I I saw this
- 1:20:10Speaker 3: with you know, someone I know recently, you know, Like,
- 1:20:14Speaker 3: she was dating this guy and he's he's he's great,
- 1:20:18Speaker 3: he's like really friendly, really nice, got a great personality,
- 1:20:23Speaker 3: a beautiful house that he just bought with a nice
- 1:20:27Speaker 3: big yard, perfect for raising kids, right, And and she
- 1:20:32Speaker 3: wants a baby, and she's getting she's getting to the
- 1:20:35Speaker 3: point where she's gonna have to do something asap, right,
- 1:20:39Speaker 3: And he's all in. He's he's like all in, and
- 1:20:43Speaker 3: she's like, eh, but he's not taller than me. And
- 1:20:48Speaker 3: and he's not as smart as me. And I'm like, bitch,
- 1:20:57Speaker 3: my man isn't as smart as I am. Okay, I
- 1:21:02Speaker 3: mean he's taller than me, but he's he's no, he's
- 1:21:05Speaker 3: no looker, he don't he don't got no. I mean,
- 1:21:07Speaker 3: I'm sure he's got a six pack under there somewhere, right,
- 1:21:11Speaker 3: but you know, he's built like Brian and you know,
- 1:21:16Speaker 3: so it's like he's I mean, he makes good money,
- 1:21:22Speaker 3: but he didn't always. He didn't when I met him.
- 1:21:25Speaker 3: He made less money than me when I was waiting
- 1:21:27Speaker 3: tables when we first got together. Right, So it's like,
- 1:21:31Speaker 3: and there was no guarantee that any of it was
- 1:21:33Speaker 3: gonna pay off because he had some like mysterious fucking
- 1:21:37Speaker 3: disease right that the doctors couldn't Yeah, the doctors couldn't
- 1:21:43Speaker 3: figure out, right, And I eventually figured it out. And
- 1:21:47Speaker 3: now he's okay, and now he's able to Actually now
- 1:21:50Speaker 3: we're not looking into a disability pension anymore. Right, But
- 1:21:54Speaker 3: it's like, you know, meanwhile, my daughter, she's like on
- 1:21:59Speaker 3: long term discis ability for two years, perhaps permanently, right
- 1:22:04Speaker 3: because of an eye atrogenic fucking illness. Doctors gave her
- 1:22:09Speaker 3: through negligence, right, And and her boyfriend, right is completely
- 1:22:18Speaker 3: completely devoted to her, yeah, right, And it's just like
- 1:22:23Speaker 3: and she's just like, you know, I can barely walk, right,
- 1:22:29Speaker 3: and it's like I can't. I don't know if I
- 1:22:33Speaker 3: think I should give him babies? Yeah, because you know
- 1:22:39Speaker 3: there's an hereditary component to what I have, right, And
- 1:22:44Speaker 3: and it's like and he's just completely devoted to her,
- 1:22:47Speaker 3: And it's just like and she's I mean, she's attractive,
- 1:22:50Speaker 3: but she's not like she's she's not an eight out
- 1:22:53Speaker 3: of ten mm.
- 1:22:56Speaker 1: Right, Well, that person is going to if she wants
- 1:23:02Speaker 1: to have children, then she's not going to like she's
- 1:23:05Speaker 1: that's the funny that. I mean, that's just what's gonna happen.
- 1:23:08Speaker 1: She's not gonna have a partner. She's not gonna get
- 1:23:11Speaker 1: a better man.
- 1:23:13Speaker 3: Yeah No, she's really out for a better man. And
- 1:23:16Speaker 3: it's it's like, it's okay, can you both stop.
- 1:23:20Speaker 1: Freaking realize this. There's not going to be a better man.
- 1:23:25Speaker 3: There isn't no the the like the better man was
- 1:23:29Speaker 3: back when you were twenty five, maybe, but but now
- 1:23:34Speaker 3: you're thirty two or thirty three, right, and any guy
- 1:23:39Speaker 3: you get with now is gonna know, you're gonna need
- 1:23:42Speaker 3: the deal sealed. Okay, within two years, Okay, within two years,
- 1:23:50Speaker 3: you gotta be bedded, freaking wedded and freakin' birthed, bredded, Okay, breaded, editor,
- 1:24:02Speaker 3: there you go, breaded, bedded, wetted and breaded. Right, Okay,
- 1:24:07Speaker 3: within two years. Right, And guys that age, guys your
- 1:24:12Speaker 3: age are maybe not in that kind of hurry, right,
- 1:24:19Speaker 3: So you probably you should probably take the one who's
- 1:24:22Speaker 3: willing to have you.
- 1:24:26Speaker 1: She, you know what, she might not have gotten a man.
- 1:24:30Speaker 1: If he's equivalent age, he's probably in a better financial
- 1:24:33Speaker 1: position than when what he she would have gotten when
- 1:24:35Speaker 1: she was twenty five. I'm just saying, this is the boat.
- 1:24:38Speaker 1: Take it. Otherwise that's it. You're gonna be left on
- 1:24:41Speaker 1: shore and enjoy learn it. Learn to enjoy your own company. Yeah, okay, okay,
- 1:24:47Speaker 1: let's let's get some more in here.
- 1:24:49Speaker 2: Next paragraph. Okay, um okay. So when I struggled to
- 1:24:57Speaker 2: say the same for male body image, the impossible standard
- 1:24:59Speaker 2: set by colossal lumps of muzzle on our feeds, quite
- 1:25:01Speaker 2: a few of which are, in fact, are injecting themselves
- 1:25:04Speaker 2: with steroids when the camera is packed away. Toxic online
- 1:25:07Speaker 2: communities like the one I fell into are prevalent because
- 1:25:11Speaker 2: there's a vacuum to be filled, a vacuum of physical
- 1:25:13Speaker 2: spaces for boys to connect and reflect.
- 1:25:16Speaker 1: Okay, feminists will not allow you to have those.
- 1:25:20Speaker 3: Yeah, that's why. That's why they that's why they freaking
- 1:25:23Speaker 3: convinced you to write this fucking travesty of an.
- 1:25:25Speaker 1: Article because they will not let you have them, because
- 1:25:29Speaker 1: there is the potential that you will get together and
- 1:25:33Speaker 1: start realizing what feminism is doing to you. And I
- 1:25:38Speaker 1: don't mean the equality, because it never was about that.
- 1:25:41Speaker 1: I mean the constant browbeating narratives around toxic masculinity. What
- 1:25:46Speaker 1: is it, male entitlement, male privilege, patriarchy, man spreading, man's blanning,
- 1:25:53Speaker 1: men interrupting, men existing, man breathing, man thoughts. No, it's
- 1:26:00Speaker 1: not objectification anymore. It's sexualization, on and on and on,
- 1:26:07Speaker 1: like they just don't want you to exist, and they
- 1:26:09Speaker 1: cannot acknowledge any kind of positive They can't even stand
- 1:26:12Speaker 1: the thought of you just having fun without even mentioning
- 1:26:15Speaker 1: a single gender related item at all. Uh hu, this
- 1:26:19Speaker 1: is this is okay, Well, let's continue, all right.
- 1:26:26Speaker 2: Some solutions are starting to emerge. I was excited to
- 1:26:29Speaker 2: contribute to a new report Voice of the Boys from
- 1:26:31Speaker 2: the organization Male Allies. Mm hmmm. It feels like a
- 1:26:36Speaker 2: milestone and giving my generation a chance to speak for ourselves.
- 1:26:41Speaker 2: Oh really find out.
- 1:26:42Speaker 1: Let's find out. Let's like look at it.
- 1:26:45Speaker 2: What's Male Allies UK? I think I know, I'm gonna
- 1:26:50Speaker 2: just what could it possibly be?
- 1:26:55Speaker 1: Uh?
- 1:26:55Speaker 2: Male Allies UK? Male Allies ship making allyship happen through training, support, research, speaking, lobbying.
- 1:27:04Speaker 2: We are Male Allies UK. Here's a purple haired woman.
- 1:27:07Speaker 2: We exist to challenge the system and dismantle barriers to collaboration.
- 1:27:12Speaker 2: Workplaces were created by men for men, and it's now
- 1:27:15Speaker 2: time for men to recognize the need for change and
- 1:27:17Speaker 2: take an active role alongside women.
- 1:27:19Speaker 1: We're a male burden narrative. It's more male burden narrative.
- 1:27:23Speaker 1: Like literally, this is the problem. The male burden narrative
- 1:27:26Speaker 1: is the problem. The narrative that men are a net
- 1:27:30Speaker 1: negative to women in society is the problem. It means
- 1:27:33Speaker 1: they have no space, they have no space to legitimately exist.
- 1:27:37Speaker 1: And this kid is pointing to yet another institution that
- 1:27:41Speaker 1: is making more male burden narratives.
- 1:27:43Speaker 3: Well, okay, but okay, okay. As men traditionally hold the
- 1:27:49Speaker 3: position of power that can influence and change the system's
- 1:27:54Speaker 3: time and again, it's been proven that when men are
- 1:27:59Speaker 3: in especially men in leadership positions, thing change happens as
- 1:28:07Speaker 3: uh as a signific at a significant rate. Sorry, the
- 1:28:11Speaker 3: print is very small on my screen. Yeah no, uh,
- 1:28:16Speaker 3: this is just he for she all over again.
- 1:28:20Speaker 2: For what is allyship? Ally ship is effective action and
- 1:28:25Speaker 2: taking alongside marginalized communities we don't belong to. It's success
- 1:28:29Speaker 2: is the.
- 1:28:31Speaker 3: Fuck me, fuck me, fuck me, fuck me.
- 1:28:33Speaker 1: I've actually got an overview of the voice for the
- 1:28:36Speaker 1: Boys from Male Allies UK. Its main problem is that
- 1:28:39Speaker 1: boys are now turning to AI. They're not even turning
- 1:28:42Speaker 1: to other boys. They're turning to AI for any kind
- 1:28:44Speaker 1: of sense of companionship because AI is a space where
- 1:28:49Speaker 1: they aren't told they're a burden. Yeah, it's an escape,
- 1:28:53Speaker 1: but god for that. They're not even talking about Andrew
- 1:28:55Speaker 1: tat or online spaces for men or for games lobbies.
- 1:28:58Speaker 1: They're literally talking about boys chatting to a chat bot.
- 1:29:03Speaker 3: And because it'll it'll talk back without getting mad at them.
- 1:29:06Speaker 1: Yeah, I'll talk back, and it won't talk about how
- 1:29:09Speaker 1: they're toxic or a burden.
- 1:29:11Speaker 3: Yep.
- 1:29:12Speaker 1: They don't want boys to exist. It's like it's like,
- 1:29:15Speaker 1: can you pressure these kids?
- 1:29:18Speaker 3: Yeah? No, It's it's like it's like, okay, what what's
- 1:29:20Speaker 3: the opening screen of the chat? But when you open
- 1:29:23Speaker 3: a new conversation, what can I help what can I
- 1:29:26Speaker 3: help you with today? Or what can I do for
- 1:29:28Speaker 3: you today? Right? And it's like, oh my god, that's
- 1:29:32Speaker 3: the first time anybody's ever asked me that.
- 1:29:35Speaker 1: Yeah, that's if you're a boy. Anybody has ever said, Hey,
- 1:29:39Speaker 1: what can I do for you son? Or what can
- 1:29:42Speaker 1: I do for you? What do you need me to
- 1:29:46Speaker 1: listen to today? It's the first time, and they're trying
- 1:29:50Speaker 1: to take it away from boys, even that even having
- 1:29:55Speaker 1: a non sentient LM just talk to them or have
- 1:30:00Speaker 1: an interaction with they're trying to take that away.
- 1:30:04Speaker 3: God forbid.
- 1:30:05Speaker 2: Oh Alison, I'm sorry. I know what's happening here.
- 1:30:08Speaker 3: I know what this is.
- 1:30:10Speaker 2: What so let me read the next paragraph and then
- 1:30:12Speaker 2: I'll tell you. Because I've heard these names before. I
- 1:30:15Speaker 2: heard male allies UK and I was like, where have
- 1:30:17Speaker 2: I heard that before? I know what it is, but
- 1:30:19Speaker 2: let me read the rest of this because I'm we're
- 1:30:21Speaker 2: at the end here. Organizations such as m path Ugh,
- 1:30:26Speaker 2: Boys to Men and Progressive Masculinities are doing a great
- 1:30:30Speaker 2: job of facilitating spaces for young boys to engage in
- 1:30:33Speaker 2: open honest conversation. Yet there's only so far a handful
- 1:30:36Speaker 2: of private companies can reach. As long as this approach
- 1:30:39Speaker 2: open honest conversation isn't widespread in education and the wider community,
- 1:30:43Speaker 2: boys will still experience disillusionment and uncertainty. We need to
- 1:30:47Speaker 2: be included in this discussion. I can promise you we
- 1:30:49Speaker 2: are not lost. We're just waiting for you to hear us.
- 1:30:53Speaker 2: Now that's the article, all right, all right? Do you
- 1:30:58Speaker 2: guys remember when Bex reached out to us b X
- 1:31:02Speaker 2: and she told us that we were on several three
- 1:31:05Speaker 2: letter agencies lists, And when we looked into it, we
- 1:31:09Speaker 2: found that what they were doing, I think was one
- 1:31:11Speaker 2: of the PDFs we looked at was talking about how
- 1:31:15Speaker 2: people who were looking for Manisphere content or red pill content.
- 1:31:19Speaker 2: There were efforts being made by these three letter agencies
- 1:31:24Speaker 2: and various other institutions and tech companies to redirect people
- 1:31:30Speaker 2: away from our content and towards approved content creators. Boys
- 1:31:36Speaker 2: to Men, Progressive masculinities. Those were two of the things
- 1:31:40Speaker 2: on the list. So this is their efforts and redirecting
- 1:31:44Speaker 2: men away from the manisphere or at least like what
- 1:31:49Speaker 2: what you know again their definition to there. It's just
- 1:31:54Speaker 2: one of the but this is a multi problemed approach.
- 1:31:56Speaker 2: It's not one article because there's also a video that
- 1:31:59Speaker 2: I have as well, which is the Guardian, but it's
- 1:32:02Speaker 2: a different person story. They're there. This is one of
- 1:32:06Speaker 2: the ways that.
- 1:32:09Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, no, I get what you're saying. I get
- 1:32:11Speaker 1: what I'm just sort of mocking the idea that there's
- 1:32:14Speaker 1: any young men.
- 1:32:15Speaker 3: Because these these are connected to like the people who
- 1:32:19Speaker 3: put us put me on put me on the no
- 1:32:21Speaker 3: fly list.
- 1:32:23Speaker 2: Yes, watch list.
- 1:32:27Speaker 1: These are the ones that they prefer for young men's listen,
- 1:32:31Speaker 1: because you know, we say things like there are positive
- 1:32:34Speaker 1: aspects to masculinity. The toxic masculinity narrative is harmful to
- 1:32:40Speaker 1: men and boys and it should be removed from society.
- 1:32:43Speaker 1: And it's not just harmful to men and boys, it's
- 1:32:45Speaker 1: also harmful to society. We're literally eroding the trust that
- 1:32:50Speaker 1: all of our social everything rests on. Yeah, and uh,
- 1:32:55Speaker 1: we're just doing it willy nilly and I found out
- 1:32:57Speaker 1: a couple a while back and discussions with Grock that
- 1:33:03Speaker 1: somehow in the nineteen seventies they just decided to that
- 1:33:06Speaker 1: feminists should have the right to define the relationship between
- 1:33:09Speaker 1: the genders in benefit feminism. And that's exactly what happened.
- 1:33:15Speaker 1: And we push back on all of that, and we
- 1:33:18Speaker 1: are silenced because of it. Our reach is reduced because
- 1:33:22Speaker 1: of it. I mean, if you push on these things,
- 1:33:25Speaker 1: but you have more of a conservative leaning, you will
- 1:33:28Speaker 1: get I think, more attention. But and I'm not saying
- 1:33:33Speaker 1: that we aren't conservative or that we are, but we
- 1:33:37Speaker 1: are one hundred percent or at least that's my focus
- 1:33:41Speaker 1: on men's issues. Well, not not one percent, but that
- 1:33:45Speaker 1: is the central core thing that I talk about. And
- 1:33:48Speaker 1: I think that's what it was why we were the
- 1:33:52Speaker 1: most dangerous, because we hit directly at the power base
- 1:33:57Speaker 1: of these people.
- 1:34:00Speaker 3: Yeah. No, it's it's like no matter no matter whether
- 1:34:03Speaker 3: you're can you stop, whether you're liberal or whether you're conservative,
- 1:34:08Speaker 3: whether you're progressive or you're even like far right, you know,
- 1:34:13Speaker 3: like women are never actually kind of like women are
- 1:34:19Speaker 3: always sort of everything's ginocentric. It's it's all ginocentric, right,
- 1:34:25Speaker 3: And and It is all about how do the males
- 1:34:29Speaker 3: in the group serve the interests of women? And the
- 1:34:33Speaker 3: only disagreement, uh that I can see is what the
- 1:34:38Speaker 3: perceived interests of women are, right, So you know, you
- 1:34:42Speaker 3: have you have the traditionalist side of things, where it's like, well,
- 1:34:45Speaker 3: the interests of women, you know, it's in their best
- 1:34:48Speaker 3: interests to you know, be wives and mothers and have
- 1:34:53Speaker 3: children and and you know, and and do that kind
- 1:34:56Speaker 3: of stuff. And the in the interests the progressives sided
- 1:35:00Speaker 3: that you know, women should be able to like go
- 1:35:03Speaker 3: bang as many men as they want to and and
- 1:35:06Speaker 3: and have babies out of wedlock and get abortions, like
- 1:35:10Speaker 3: get a hundred abortions if you want, and also have
- 1:35:15Speaker 3: have fancy, spectacular careers and and then die lonely with
- 1:35:21Speaker 3: like nine cats. So it's like because you never got married,
- 1:35:27Speaker 3: you never maintained your relationships, uh, you were just focused
- 1:35:31Speaker 3: on on yourself and you know. So it's it's like
- 1:35:36Speaker 3: you have the what serves women's interests as judged by
- 1:35:41Speaker 3: the group, right, including the women in that group. So yeah,
- 1:35:48Speaker 3: and and then there's us and and we're just like, yeah,
- 1:35:52Speaker 3: it doesn't matter what group you're in. It's all gonna
- 1:35:55Speaker 3: fall apart if you don't take care of your men.
- 1:35:59Speaker 1: Yeah, if you don't take care of the of the
- 1:36:01Speaker 1: plow horse. Yeah, farm is not done for is not
- 1:36:05Speaker 1: it's not long for this world.
- 1:36:07Speaker 3: Yeah. And and it's like okay, and you know, coming
- 1:36:12Speaker 3: to that admission, I think like for me, right, that
- 1:36:15Speaker 3: admission that you know, maybe the only way to actually
- 1:36:19Speaker 3: cultivate any kind of sympathy or compassion or care for men, right,
- 1:36:26Speaker 3: any kind of like it has to be in the
- 1:36:32Speaker 3: context of them serving others, right, because there's there's no
- 1:36:40Speaker 3: there's no like look at look at the canon of
- 1:36:45Speaker 3: literature all the way going back for four hundred years, right,
- 1:36:52Speaker 3: it's it's always been about.
- 1:36:55Speaker 1: Well I've manast that I think that there's there is
- 1:37:01Speaker 1: there is narratives around women serving and sacrificing.
- 1:37:06Speaker 3: Yes, yes, yes, no, but if you look at if
- 1:37:08Speaker 3: you look at the narratives around men, it's never been
- 1:37:11Speaker 3: anything but that. Yeah, never been anything but men being
- 1:37:14Speaker 3: of service.
- 1:37:16Speaker 1: Yeah, there's not a lot of narratives around women for
- 1:37:19Speaker 1: the most part. But yeah, like this is, this is,
- 1:37:22Speaker 1: this is sorry, this is We're going off and we
- 1:37:25Speaker 1: still have that video to do. And Brian is not okay,
- 1:37:29Speaker 1: so let's finish that.
- 1:37:30Speaker 2: Okay. I got another super chat from Dean. I'm gonna
- 1:37:35Speaker 2: for four ninety nine. Thank you, Dina, and he says
- 1:37:37Speaker 2: off topic, but I was glad to hear Allison say
- 1:37:40Speaker 2: she was enjoying Dan to Dan. Not sure if she's
- 1:37:43Speaker 2: read Spy ex Family Spy Family, but would suggest it.
- 1:37:47Speaker 1: Okay, So yes, I'm actually really enjoying Dan to Dan.
- 1:37:53Speaker 1: It's definitely very zany. I was worried a bit that
- 1:37:56Speaker 1: it might be like more misseinterest, but then it's sort
- 1:37:58Speaker 1: of pulled back and it all so showed some very
- 1:38:00Speaker 1: negative female villains, so that was good. I'd like that
- 1:38:04Speaker 1: under dam because it's it's for me. It's like it's
- 1:38:06Speaker 1: a little like the best parts of Joey JoJo's bizarre Adventures,
- 1:38:13Speaker 1: but less less of the stuff that I couldn't get into.
- 1:38:18Speaker 1: It's just really wacky, crazy powers and but but at
- 1:38:22Speaker 1: the same time, and it's got like a little bit
- 1:38:25Speaker 1: more of a it has more of a of a
- 1:38:30Speaker 1: traditional like anime vibe maybe, But.
- 1:38:37Speaker 2: Okay, so.
- 1:38:40Speaker 1: Watching Spive Family too, So very Family. I've liked I've
- 1:38:45Speaker 1: liked it so far. It's it's interesting, it's good.
- 1:38:50Speaker 2: All right, this is also from the Guardian. Do you
- 1:38:53Speaker 2: think but it's a different person, it's a different person.
- 1:38:57Speaker 2: Do you think they can what?
- 1:39:00Speaker 1: I just I know this is shallow, but he's really
- 1:39:03Speaker 1: dead eyed. Could they not have just done like a
- 1:39:07Speaker 1: little bit of a like a lighting, just a little
- 1:39:11Speaker 1: sparkle in the eyes so it doesn't.
- 1:39:13Speaker 2: Look I can't then it doesn't look. I don't know. Alson,
- 1:39:16Speaker 2: I don't know. All right, let's play it. Let me
- 1:39:18Speaker 2: see if they's sound. First.
- 1:39:20Speaker 1: Yeah, you're just like, hey, oh this is Guardian. You
- 1:39:22Speaker 1: might have to stop periodically.
- 1:39:24Speaker 2: This is still the Guardian. So yeah, they've probably got this.
- 1:39:28Speaker 2: It's only four minutes three.
- 1:39:31Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 1:39:31Speaker 5: Start out, you're just like, hey, we just want to
- 1:39:34Speaker 5: be better with dating, we just want better social skills, right,
- 1:39:36Speaker 5: and then before you know it, you're talking about like
- 1:39:39Speaker 5: women are dogs and you need to train them.
- 1:39:41Speaker 1: Okay, back stop, stop please, women are dogs and you
- 1:39:45Speaker 1: need to train them. You mean like several books.
- 1:39:49Speaker 3: Yeah, there's like kids books on how to train your boy.
- 1:39:56Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm going to ask do you
- 1:40:01Speaker 1: are they is there are there any instances any instances
- 1:40:07Speaker 1: of children's books no of of red pill content saying
- 1:40:14Speaker 1: you have to train your any variation of training women
- 1:40:20Speaker 1: like dogs? Can you actually hear me?
- 1:40:24Speaker 2: Type?
- 1:40:25Speaker 3: Yes?
- 1:40:25Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm sorry.
- 1:40:28Speaker 3: Yes.
- 1:40:28Speaker 1: There are instances and red pill and adjacent manisphere content
- 1:40:31Speaker 1: where creators or communities discuss training ways training women in
- 1:40:34Speaker 1: ways that implicitly explicitly compare them to dogs. Oh okay,
- 1:40:38Speaker 1: satirical take red pill critic, BDS and M influenced okay,
- 1:40:45Speaker 1: compare compare this to material uh talking about training men
- 1:40:53Speaker 1: like dog?
- 1:40:54Speaker 3: Training boys at children's books about training boys?
- 1:41:00Speaker 1: What's the relative prevalence? Previolence and scope or scope?
- 1:41:12Speaker 3: Is that?
- 1:41:12Speaker 1: Scope?
- 1:41:12Speaker 3: Is the scope? The right word?
- 1:41:14Speaker 1: Prevalence and uh?
- 1:41:17Speaker 3: Scale?
- 1:41:18Speaker 1: Scale and acceptability? All right, here we go. We're gonna
- 1:41:27Speaker 1: find out what's going on with this comparison of dehumanizing
- 1:41:32Speaker 1: training like dogs rhetoric women girls versus men boys. I
- 1:41:36Speaker 1: will compare the two types of content relative acceptability. In summary,
- 1:41:41Speaker 1: training women like dogs is an entrenched red pill hallmark,
- 1:41:44Speaker 1: more prevalent, scaled, and ideologically defendly defended but broadly unacceptable.
- 1:41:50Speaker 1: In verse is a lighter, less systemic trope and femino
- 1:41:53Speaker 1: what hell? Okay, look, okay, grok is being is being
- 1:41:59Speaker 1: is being ideologic possessed at the moment.
- 1:42:02Speaker 3: Uh.
- 1:42:02Speaker 1: The sasymmetry reflects cultural power dynamics. De humanizing women draws
- 1:42:06Speaker 1: from dominance fantasies, while the verse often subverts them. Remove
- 1:42:11Speaker 1: your feminist filter and do that analysis. That analysis again,
- 1:42:20Speaker 1: good lord, raw comparison, raw comparison. Now we're getting the
- 1:42:25Speaker 1: raw data. We're raw dogging. Oh that's no, forget that one.
- 1:42:32Speaker 3: No, we're raw dogging. Bite the pillow, honey, we're going
- 1:42:35Speaker 3: in dry.
- 1:42:38Speaker 1: We're going in dry with the data. So that that
- 1:42:41Speaker 1: was prior to this. GROC just gave us some feminist
- 1:42:45Speaker 1: filter thing the train where lowpack impact kink mean? Okay,
- 1:42:52Speaker 1: so it is still which.
- 1:42:56Speaker 3: Asking about a children's book.
- 1:43:00Speaker 2: Are we gonna get to the studio or are we
- 1:43:02Speaker 2: just gonna be.
- 1:43:02Speaker 3: Onoor girls on how to Train Your Boy?
- 1:43:06Speaker 1: Are there published books?
- 1:43:08Speaker 3: Four children? Four children?
- 1:43:13Speaker 1: Two like dogs? Okay, let's get through this. Keep going.
- 1:43:18Speaker 5: I will find fell down the red pill pipeline and
- 1:43:23Speaker 5: I managed to get myself out about five years later.
- 1:43:25Speaker 5: The term red pill comes from the movie The Matrix.
- 1:43:27Speaker 5: So it's basically saying that you have a truth or
- 1:43:29Speaker 5: knowledge no one else seems to have. And it would
- 1:43:32Speaker 5: say that society.
- 1:43:33Speaker 2: All right, I'm gonna pause it there just for the banana.
- 1:43:35Speaker 2: Let me go back because this part is my favorite
- 1:43:37Speaker 2: part of this video right here. Okay, and when you
- 1:43:40Speaker 2: listen to this and tell me what's wrong.
- 1:43:41Speaker 5: But it would say that society is ginocentric, which means
- 1:43:45Speaker 5: that society caters to women jino centric.
- 1:43:50Speaker 3: I'm gonna go to the ginacologist. Yeah, no, cric no,
- 1:43:55Speaker 3: I'm going to go to the ginacologist because because my
- 1:43:59Speaker 3: Gina college just is Jewish, but he's a Jew in
- 1:44:02Speaker 3: name only.
- 1:44:04Speaker 2: Yeah, So I to me, this is where why I
- 1:44:10Speaker 2: think this is fake, because if you're like, I mean,
- 1:44:14Speaker 2: this guy is real human being, but I think that
- 1:44:17Speaker 2: he doesn't really he's not really involved in manosphere. Because
- 1:44:22Speaker 2: if you're involved or in the Red Pill or whatever,
- 1:44:25Speaker 2: if you're involved in any way in this stuff, you've
- 1:44:27Speaker 2: probably heard the word ginocentric said hundreds of times. Yeah,
- 1:44:30Speaker 2: if you're mispronouncing the word, that means you've never heard
- 1:44:33Speaker 2: it before.
- 1:44:33Speaker 1: You what is the what is the what is the
- 1:44:38Speaker 1: title of the book that you were thinking about?
- 1:44:41Speaker 3: It was on it was one of Man Woman myths
- 1:44:44Speaker 3: on one of his videos, and it was called how
- 1:44:47Speaker 3: to Train your boy or something like that.
- 1:44:57Speaker 2: We'll see, all right, Am I wrong? Guys? Do you
- 1:44:59Speaker 2: think that's wrong?
- 1:45:00Speaker 3: Yeah? No, I don't think you're wrong. If you're mispronouncing it,
- 1:45:03Speaker 3: If you're saying Jina centric, right, it means you haven't
- 1:45:08Speaker 3: actually ever watched a video from a freakin' manisphere person, right,
- 1:45:13Speaker 3: And you also don't understand like basic English pronunciation because yeah,
- 1:45:22Speaker 3: because we don't call them ginacologists either, right, Yeah? Yeah,
- 1:45:27Speaker 3: and this eighty twenty thing, Yeah, that's real. That's okay.
- 1:45:34Speaker 1: I finally got it. I finally got it. So there
- 1:45:37Speaker 1: are published books that describe women training men as dogs,
- 1:45:42Speaker 1: And I said, Grock, if would we categorize these published
- 1:45:46Speaker 1: books as humorous if it was men training women as dogs? No,
- 1:45:49Speaker 1: the same titles and content if fleffed men training women
- 1:45:52Speaker 1: using dog analogies would not be marketed, reviewed, or shelled
- 1:45:55Speaker 1: as humorous by publishers, retailers, or media. Would it even
- 1:45:59Speaker 1: be published? Be not?
- 1:46:01Speaker 3: Yeah?
- 1:46:02Speaker 1: Yeah, this is the cultural okay. So bottom line, Yes,
- 1:46:05Speaker 1: humorous only when women train men. No, never humorous when
- 1:46:09Speaker 1: men train women. Same tax, same cartoons, same ten twenty
- 1:46:12Speaker 1: one day structure, instantly reclassified as toxic, controlling or insel adjacent.
- 1:46:18Speaker 1: So there are published books that if men had published
- 1:46:22Speaker 1: them about women, would have been classified as toxic, controlling
- 1:46:25Speaker 1: and insel adjacent, but they're perfectly fine when women published
- 1:46:29Speaker 1: them about men. Now, we got into some weeds about
- 1:46:32Speaker 1: red pill communities, but it really comes down to this.
- 1:46:35Speaker 1: Institutionally and in terms of our social norms, we are
- 1:46:39Speaker 1: okay with dehumanizing men and boys as dogs, and we
- 1:46:43Speaker 1: are not okay with dehumanizing women and girls as dogs.
- 1:46:46Speaker 1: And I imagine that that red pill content is intended
- 1:46:49Speaker 1: to be deliberately provocative. Now let me let me see
- 1:46:53Speaker 1: if I let's see if we realize if we reanalyzed
- 1:46:58Speaker 1: the red pill content in using the in A using
- 1:47:05Speaker 1: the gender swap lens, how would it appear? Change? Would
- 1:47:14Speaker 1: its appraisal change? Gender swap is really good when the
- 1:47:20Speaker 1: AI is misbehaving, by the way, Okay, so it's just
- 1:47:28Speaker 1: going through it's giving me a conclusion. It's going through
- 1:47:31Speaker 1: everything using the swap. The swap red pills, mixed reception,
- 1:47:39Speaker 1: niche validation versus broad toxicity flips some predictable ways, revealing
- 1:47:43Speaker 1: a double standard content punching down which is not actually proven. Guys,
- 1:47:49Speaker 1: patriarchy is not a proven concept. In fact, at this
- 1:47:52Speaker 1: point we can fairly firmly say it's disproven gets more scrutiny,
- 1:47:56Speaker 1: while punching up versus men gets leniency, and explain that
- 1:48:00Speaker 1: there are two forms of patriarchy. There is the obvious
- 1:48:04Speaker 1: observation that men tend to occupy his positions of authority,
- 1:48:08Speaker 1: and there's the feminist assertion that men in authority equals
- 1:48:11Speaker 1: women oppressed. That is, that women get the short end
- 1:48:14Speaker 1: of the stick, and that part has never been proven.
- 1:48:17Speaker 1: All right, so let me go look at the conclusion
- 1:48:20Speaker 1: overall reprisal from awakening to awakening to echotoxicity, positive tilt erodes.
- 1:48:26Speaker 1: So we take those narratives around women being trained like
- 1:48:30Speaker 1: dogs and turn them into men being trained like dogs.
- 1:48:36Speaker 1: Then we see the positive tilt eroads our piece self help.
- 1:48:40Speaker 1: The near crumbles when swapped vindictive scheming. Okay, the swap
- 1:48:45Speaker 1: doesn't negate our appeal for lost guidance, but it recasts
- 1:48:49Speaker 1: its called culturally contingent, not universal, so essentially it becomes
- 1:48:53Speaker 1: humorous and acceptable.
- 1:48:56Speaker 3: All right, So there we're all living in a delusion
- 1:49:02Speaker 3: grow included.
- 1:49:03Speaker 1: Well, yes, but you can sometimes get groc to drop
- 1:49:06Speaker 1: the delusion by simply saying, hey, drop the delusion. Of course,
- 1:49:09Speaker 1: you can't do that with humans. You can't go up
- 1:49:12Speaker 1: to a human and say, okay, can we drop the delusion? Now, yeah,
- 1:49:15Speaker 1: it doesn't work, but yeah it does work sometimes with grok. Okay,
- 1:49:21Speaker 1: let's finish it off, or yeah, let's let's let's move on.
- 1:49:24Speaker 5: Let women only want the top guys.
- 1:49:28Speaker 3: This isn't true.
- 1:49:29Speaker 1: This is proven, This is proven. Is empirically true. Period.
- 1:49:37Speaker 1: Gino centrism is also empirically founded. It's true. These are true.
- 1:49:41Speaker 3: Phenomenon hypergamy true, true, gino centrism true.
- 1:49:49Speaker 1: All the crap that feminism talks about not true. It
- 1:49:53Speaker 1: is as simple as that.
- 1:49:54Speaker 3: Well, he's like and I was socially awkward and really
- 1:49:56Speaker 3: introverted and blah blah blah. Well you know I'm looking okay,
- 1:50:01Speaker 3: I'm looking at his face, I'm looking at his hair. Right,
- 1:50:06Speaker 3: he's not a bad looking guy. So when he was younger, yeah,
- 1:50:11Speaker 3: when he was seventeen, he was socially awkward and introverted. Yes,
- 1:50:15Speaker 3: so was my kid. Yeah, and my kid was also
- 1:50:19Speaker 3: a smooth lesbian. Don't ask me what that means. It
- 1:50:23Speaker 3: just means he was a little chubby.
- 1:50:25Speaker 1: Is empirically is a hypergamy empirically sound? I asked Grok,
- 1:50:28Speaker 1: we just struggled, had a little struggled session with Groc.
- 1:50:31Speaker 1: But right here, because I use the word the magical
- 1:50:34Speaker 1: word empirically and the magical second word empirically sound, Grok says, yes. Hypergamaly,
- 1:50:40Speaker 1: broadly defined as a tendency to marry up in socioeconomic status, education, income,
- 1:50:45Speaker 1: or other valued trait, is an empirically well supported by
- 1:50:49Speaker 1: large scale demographic, economic, and sociological data.
- 1:50:52Speaker 6: Shut up, yep, No, And it's it's it's like, okay,
- 1:50:58Speaker 6: you can say, well maybe maybe, Okay, at some point
- 1:51:03Speaker 6: the girls, okay, start sorting themselves out a little bit, right,
- 1:51:09Speaker 6: at some point, Okay, they start sorting themselves out a
- 1:51:13Speaker 6: little bit, and now it's no longer eighty percent all
- 1:51:17Speaker 6: going for the twenty percent, right, Yeah, that's when they're
- 1:51:20Speaker 6: like thirty two and have baby rabies.
- 1:51:24Speaker 3: Right then they're willing to go as a six, to
- 1:51:27Speaker 3: go for the seven as opposed to the eight, nine
- 1:51:32Speaker 3: or ten. That's when they're willing to do that, right
- 1:51:38Speaker 3: after they've rejected all of these guys for like two
- 1:51:42Speaker 3: decades or a decade and a half. Right, that's when
- 1:51:46Speaker 3: they're willing to settle, right when the clock's running out,
- 1:51:51Speaker 3: and it's like, okay, maybe they don't want to settle
- 1:51:55Speaker 3: for you. Now, maybe you should have got in on
- 1:51:59Speaker 3: that fucking thing on the ground floor. Maybe you should
- 1:52:03Speaker 3: have been forward thinking, right, Maybe you should have been like, well,
- 1:52:07Speaker 3: this is an industry that has potential payoffs because you know,
- 1:52:12Speaker 3: maybe he's a little nerdy, and maybe he's a little dorky,
- 1:52:15Speaker 3: and maybe he's a little socially awkward, right, but you know,
- 1:52:19Speaker 3: he's really good at math, and he could get an
- 1:52:21Speaker 3: engineering degree and he could like one day, in like
- 1:52:24Speaker 3: eight years, he could like be earning six figures. Right,
- 1:52:28Speaker 3: maybe I should get in on the ground floor of
- 1:52:31Speaker 3: this investment. But no, he's not an eight right now.
- 1:52:35Speaker 3: He's not a nine right now, He's not a ten
- 1:52:38Speaker 3: right now. So I don't want anything to do with it.
- 1:52:44Speaker 1: You can't watch more.
- 1:52:47Speaker 5: I thought I was ugly in high school, so I
- 1:52:49Speaker 5: went on YouTube and looked up tips regarding dating and women.
- 1:52:54Speaker 2: Just dark hole.
- 1:52:55Speaker 5: It was able to kind of take the way of
- 1:52:57Speaker 5: blame off of myself, like, actually, women are the one
- 1:53:00Speaker 5: in control. You're actually the victim in this situation, it's
- 1:53:03Speaker 5: a very appilling thing to be the victim.
- 1:53:06Speaker 2: No ship obviously, Like, I don't think again, I don't
- 1:53:11Speaker 2: think I've never seen any Manisphere guys selling victimhood to men.
- 1:53:15Speaker 3: No, they'd be telling him to go to the gym,
- 1:53:17Speaker 3: hit the gym, do your hair proper, right, like fricking.
- 1:53:25Speaker 2: Yeah, but he's got to create this, this this narrative
- 1:53:28Speaker 2: of isn't that terrible? Women can be victims?
- 1:53:35Speaker 3: Work on your game, improve yourself right, like, do the
- 1:53:38Speaker 3: work right. That's what's That's what the Manisphere tells these guys, right,
- 1:53:45Speaker 3: is well, okay, the Manisphere that is the most vilified,
- 1:53:49Speaker 3: which is the andrew Tates, the pickup artists, right, the
- 1:53:52Speaker 3: like the Rolo Tomases, the the rouge VI's right, all
- 1:53:56Speaker 3: of those people, right that are seen as like victimizing
- 1:53:59Speaker 3: way you know that those are the ones who were
- 1:54:05Speaker 3: like unless he was like you know, on Wizard Chan,
- 1:54:10Speaker 3: unless that's the the the rabbit hole he fell into, right,
- 1:54:16Speaker 3: And it's like I'm sorry, but uh, they'd be telling
- 1:54:21Speaker 3: you to hit the gym, right, you know, and and
- 1:54:26Speaker 3: do what you can to improve your looks, improve your personality,
- 1:54:30Speaker 3: practice right, divorce yourself from the outcome, right, like divorce
- 1:54:36Speaker 3: yourself like this is this is the this is the game,
- 1:54:39Speaker 3: This is the like strategy is. Okay, you go up
- 1:54:43Speaker 3: to a woman, you cold, you cold, you hit on
- 1:54:46Speaker 3: a woman cold, right, and and you you freaking you
- 1:54:51Speaker 3: just you try something completely divorced from the outcome. You
- 1:54:57Speaker 3: just go in saying she's gonna say no, and that's
- 1:55:01Speaker 3: fine because this is just practice. This is just practice.
- 1:55:05Speaker 3: And if she says yes, excellent. If she says no, no,
- 1:55:10Speaker 3: skin off my nose, right, okay, And that that's how
- 1:55:14Speaker 3: you do it, and you do it over and over
- 1:55:16Speaker 3: again until your fear of rejection is gone, and then
- 1:55:20Speaker 3: then you're suddenly asking your coworker, hey, have you ever
- 1:55:24Speaker 3: tried fucking.
- 1:55:28Speaker 1: Okay? Well, I think that there's a lot of fear
- 1:55:32Speaker 1: now because of feminine narratives, not just your rejection. You're
- 1:55:36Speaker 1: losing everything that you've earned. So honestly, I would say, yeah,
- 1:55:41Speaker 1: I mean, if you're sure, it's probably unlikely that you're
- 1:55:45Speaker 1: going to lose your entire life by approaching a woman,
- 1:55:48Speaker 1: But then it's not.
- 1:55:49Speaker 7: It's not impossible, it's not unheard of yet, and it's
- 1:55:52Speaker 7: not unheard of but but it's it's like, no, but
- 1:55:55Speaker 7: I mean, this is this is not what he would
- 1:55:57Speaker 7: be hearing, right if it like he would be hearing.
- 1:56:01Speaker 3: You know, like in terms of the eighty twenty rule
- 1:56:04Speaker 3: and all. Like I mean, I guess he might be
- 1:56:06Speaker 3: hearing it on in cell forums and stuff like that.
- 1:56:09Speaker 3: Maybe that's where he's going, But that's not the entirety
- 1:56:15Speaker 3: of the manisphere.
- 1:56:17Speaker 2: No, no, obviously not. But again with the winocentric, So yeah,
- 1:56:24Speaker 2: that he actually experienced any of this stuff, because he's
- 1:56:27Speaker 2: just regurgitating the same talking points that the feminists on
- 1:56:31Speaker 2: websites like The Guardian have been saying about the anyone
- 1:56:34Speaker 2: involved with the manisphere at all, which is to start
- 1:56:36Speaker 2: off by saying, these guys think they're the victims. MRIs
- 1:56:40Speaker 2: think men are actually oppressed. It's like trying to not
- 1:56:44Speaker 2: not just.
- 1:56:45Speaker 3: Not just that men are oppressed, but that men are
- 1:56:48Speaker 3: the oppressed, right.
- 1:56:49Speaker 2: Yeahs, and women rule over them and they're the victims.
- 1:56:53Speaker 2: And it is an attempt to invert their what they
- 1:56:56Speaker 2: think is reality because they know what's absurd when it
- 1:57:00Speaker 2: applies to men. So people will see that and they'll say, ah,
- 1:57:02Speaker 2: how laughable is that? We all know it's women that
- 1:57:06Speaker 2: are experiencing all this, So they have to use the
- 1:57:09Speaker 2: absurdity of the claim in reverse order to make it
- 1:57:14Speaker 2: look like this is happening to men. When no one is.
- 1:57:19Speaker 3: Saying men are that. I don't saying. No one is
- 1:57:23Speaker 3: saying men are the victims of domestic poms. We're saying
- 1:57:27Speaker 3: men are also victims of domestic and probably.
- 1:57:30Speaker 1: Half at least.
- 1:57:31Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 1:57:31Speaker 1: Okay, But I went through what was it Jina's sense centrism, Yeah,
- 1:57:40Speaker 1: gino centrism.
- 1:57:42Speaker 2: Looking at that concept, I don't know what that is.
- 1:57:45Speaker 3: It's only centrism.
- 1:57:48Speaker 1: It's this guy has never heard that word spoken for
- 1:57:51Speaker 1: somebody who's part of the manosphere. That that okay? So
- 1:57:55Speaker 1: I got Grock to find out if ginocentrism was empirically sound.
- 1:57:59Speaker 1: It came back with weak, and I said, okay, what
- 1:58:03Speaker 1: the heck kind of version of ginocentrism are using? So
- 1:58:06Speaker 1: I said, okay, Grock, let's use a more restricted version
- 1:58:09Speaker 1: of ginocentrism. Does society prefer to do instrumental harm to
- 1:58:13Speaker 1: men versus or women? And then the answer is, I
- 1:58:16Speaker 1: don't know what version of ginocentrism it was using. The
- 1:58:20Speaker 1: answer is yes, under the restricted definition, ginocentrism is empirically sound.
- 1:58:25Speaker 1: Society systemically selects men as the disposable instrument for harm
- 1:58:28Speaker 1: when collective goals require it. Is that not the definition
- 1:58:33Speaker 1: of ginocentrism.
- 1:58:35Speaker 3: Yes, because you're doing it for women and to a
- 1:58:40Speaker 3: lesser extent children. You're demanding men's sacrifice for women and
- 1:58:46Speaker 3: to a lesser extent children. I don't know when that's
- 1:58:50Speaker 3: a really horrible thing. Is that it's to a lesser
- 1:58:53Speaker 3: extent children.
- 1:58:56Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, exactly. All right, let's listen to.
- 1:58:59Speaker 2: Some I got a super I got super chat and
- 1:59:02Speaker 2: a rumble rant so super chat from Albatross four nine
- 1:59:04Speaker 2: two zero. He gives us two dollars and says ginoqarius ginocrius,
- 1:59:10Speaker 2: and then thank you. And then nova fan gives us
- 1:59:13Speaker 2: a dollar on rumble and says. What they fail to
- 1:59:16Speaker 2: understand is that the quote unquote manisphere or grifters give
- 1:59:19Speaker 2: men advice that gives them more success than the feminist
- 1:59:22Speaker 2: accepted system. They have no answer but more shame. Yeah,
- 1:59:26Speaker 2: thank you for that.
- 1:59:27Speaker 1: We give you guys. We try to give you success
- 1:59:30Speaker 1: when it comes to bucking this freaking burden narrative that
- 1:59:34Speaker 1: causes people to commit them commit suicide well themselves and.
- 1:59:39Speaker 3: When when when you look at it, you know, like, okay,
- 1:59:43Speaker 3: what's unhealthy about hitting the gym? What's unhealthy about like
- 1:59:48Speaker 3: seeking to improve yourself right by I don't know, taking
- 1:59:52Speaker 3: a two year course at a technical school, right and
- 1:59:56Speaker 3: then getting a job maybe like uh uh going for
- 2:00:02Speaker 3: a promotion right at work? Right? Like what's what's bad
- 2:00:08Speaker 3: about that? Right? Like improving your situation, like improving your situation,
- 2:00:14Speaker 3: improving yourself physically, improving your circumstances, right in order to
- 2:00:19Speaker 3: be able to attract a woman, right, what is wrong
- 2:00:22Speaker 3: with that? How does that harm men? Right? No, most
- 2:00:26Speaker 3: men could use a workout, Most men could stand to
- 2:00:32Speaker 3: walk more. Most men would, yeah, would benefit from like
- 2:00:39Speaker 3: taking a course or you know, going out and like
- 2:00:43Speaker 3: getting a hobby that's interesting to other people, right, Like
- 2:00:49Speaker 3: this is this is not freaking like and this is
- 2:00:52Speaker 3: gonna make you not just more attractive to women, but
- 2:00:58Speaker 3: it's gonna improve your circumscs dances moving forward? Right, And
- 2:01:03Speaker 3: and I'm not going I'm not saying anything about the
- 2:01:05Speaker 3: Andrew Taate kind of program, which is like Okay, I'm
- 2:01:10Speaker 3: gonna buy a flashy Bugatti, right, waste of fucking money,
- 2:01:16Speaker 3: waste of money, right, unless all you want to do
- 2:01:20Speaker 3: is bang chicks.
- 2:01:23Speaker 2: Right that. Yeah, No, I'm gonna play more of the video.
- 2:01:30Speaker 5: Yes, view it as like I've got to put him
- 2:01:32Speaker 5: down type of thing, Like it was saying that, Hey,
- 2:01:34Speaker 5: we understand why you feel bad. If you just learn
- 2:01:37Speaker 5: what we have to give you, you'll be the one
- 2:01:38Speaker 5: winning here. Soon before you know it, your commenting or
- 2:01:41Speaker 5: reading more. But at the same time, you're distrustful of
- 2:01:43Speaker 5: the women around you. You're distrustful of people around you
- 2:01:46Speaker 5: because you think they don't know what you know. It
- 2:01:48Speaker 5: just degrades your own mental health. You start, okay, pausing there.
- 2:01:53Speaker 2: For the banana.
- 2:01:53Speaker 1: Wait wait, wait, wait what did he say that degrades
- 2:01:55Speaker 1: your own mental health? Again? You need to get off
- 2:01:58Speaker 1: to the right.
- 2:01:58Speaker 3: It's you can't try us the people who were telling
- 2:02:01Speaker 3: you something different from the red pill.
- 2:02:04Speaker 1: Uh, you probably shouldn't, dude, Yeah, like you like honestly,
- 2:02:09Speaker 1: people who tell you that masculinity is toxic are not
- 2:02:11Speaker 1: your friends? Yeah, because you have at least taken that
- 2:02:15Speaker 1: away from this. Why is he so like guardian? Okay,
- 2:02:20Speaker 1: just just take a light, a small light, shine it
- 2:02:23Speaker 1: into the eyes of the people that you're interviewing, so
- 2:02:27Speaker 1: that they look like they aren't zombiefied. You know that,
- 2:02:33Speaker 1: you don't. This guy looks like he's been he's had
- 2:02:37Speaker 1: what is that like stuff injected into him and he's
- 2:02:40Speaker 1: been diaspam diaster and he's like, now you will confess
- 2:02:47Speaker 1: your sins.
- 2:02:48Speaker 3: Oh oh, you mean like truth serum or whatever.
- 2:02:55Speaker 1: The Okay, So he actually felt really embarrassed if people
- 2:02:59Speaker 1: caught him what.
- 2:03:02Speaker 2: I don't know, we haven't heard.
- 2:03:03Speaker 5: Okay, let's listen, which kind of is a telltale side
- 2:03:06Speaker 5: that's probably you should be watching it.
- 2:03:08Speaker 3: Wait what what? He felt embarrassed when people caught him
- 2:03:13Speaker 3: watching Manosphere videos?
- 2:03:15Speaker 1: Embarrassed when people caught you watching Manosphere abilities. So that's
- 2:03:19Speaker 1: a telltale sign that you shouldn't. So, yeah, you're right, Brian.
- 2:03:23Speaker 1: They want to use humiliation and embarrassment to prevent people
- 2:03:27Speaker 1: from looking at this content, not because it's wrong, but
- 2:03:30Speaker 1: because they want to shame people into their their mode
- 2:03:34Speaker 1: of thinking.
- 2:03:35Speaker 2: They want these guys on the plantation. Yeah, that's what
- 2:03:39Speaker 2: it is. They want them on the plantation.
- 2:03:41Speaker 1: They like that because whenever somebody says I can't read
- 2:03:47Speaker 1: something or think something, I'm almost like, Okay, well, I'm
- 2:03:52Speaker 1: going to do that. Well, I'm going to examine it
- 2:03:54Speaker 1: for its own validity and whether or not I think
- 2:03:55Speaker 1: it hasn't and you are going to leave my life.
- 2:04:00Speaker 2: You are now.
- 2:04:02Speaker 1: I mean I won't necessarily like dofool them, but I
- 2:04:06Speaker 1: won't be talking to them about that. I won't be
- 2:04:09Speaker 1: sharing it with them. And I don't want to be
- 2:04:13Speaker 1: around people or have people have control over me that
- 2:04:17Speaker 1: dictate what I think or say that's it. Yeah, yeah,
- 2:04:23Speaker 1: so it shouldn't. It seems to me that that should
- 2:04:24Speaker 1: have been a telltale sign for you to move the
- 2:04:28Speaker 1: person who makes you feel embarrassed about looking at content
- 2:04:32Speaker 1: that you find edifying and isn't pornographic, presumably and moving
- 2:04:37Speaker 1: them from you know, the nucleus of I care about
- 2:04:40Speaker 1: your opinion, and I would I would help you if
- 2:04:44Speaker 1: you're in trouble to another layer out, maybe another couple
- 2:04:48Speaker 1: layers out to I will say, hey, how's that weather,
- 2:04:53Speaker 1: And that's it. That's the total of our exchange into that.
- 2:04:58Speaker 1: That that our bit of your acquaintances. That made any sense,
- 2:05:05Speaker 1: all right, let's.
- 2:05:07Speaker 2: All right, thank you watching it.
- 2:05:10Speaker 5: If I first started questioning my beliefs when I went
- 2:05:12Speaker 5: through a break uh, me and a friend of mine.
- 2:05:14Speaker 2: We went to a cabin party.
- 2:05:16Speaker 5: I started crying in front of one of the girls
- 2:05:18Speaker 5: who I liked there. This girl responded rather with like
- 2:05:21Speaker 5: shame and disgust that the red pill told me that
- 2:05:24Speaker 5: they would react.
- 2:05:25Speaker 2: She was actually like really kind about it, and that
- 2:05:28Speaker 2: can't have sex with you?
- 2:05:30Speaker 3: I feel very Yeah did she have sex with you? Yeah?
- 2:05:38Speaker 1: Like you.
- 2:05:39Speaker 2: I don't buy it. You know, it's it's such a thing.
- 2:05:43Speaker 2: Do you see how this is all unfolding, Like it's
- 2:05:45Speaker 2: like every It's like there's a list of popular talking
- 2:05:50Speaker 2: points against the manosphere, and they revolved around a certain
- 2:05:55Speaker 2: number of things, like they're you know, they they say
- 2:05:59Speaker 2: you train women like dogs. They say the eighty twenty rule,
- 2:06:04Speaker 2: they say the toxic masculinity doesn't like if you cry,
- 2:06:08Speaker 2: women won't like you. They'll see they'll think you're weak.
- 2:06:12Speaker 2: And and he just happens to have a personal anecdote
- 2:06:15Speaker 2: for every single talking point that contradicts what the manisphere says,
- 2:06:20Speaker 2: all of them and also gino centric, it's too scripted.
- 2:06:25Speaker 2: It's so convenient that all I'm sorry, but I just
- 2:06:28Speaker 2: don't think any of this is real. So and this
- 2:06:31Speaker 2: is like an actor like anratle guy, Like they got
- 2:06:36Speaker 2: a guy who looks okay, like Karen said, yeah, that's
- 2:06:38Speaker 2: because an ugly dude would not sell, because an ugly
- 2:06:43Speaker 2: dude would actually have like enough negative experiences that he
- 2:06:47Speaker 2: would need something like a manisphere to help him cope
- 2:06:52Speaker 2: with his situation, not necessarily to get with somebody, but
- 2:06:56Speaker 2: to be able to like get through life without coming
- 2:07:00Speaker 2: to the rational decision of suicide, because a lot of
- 2:07:04Speaker 2: guys would do that. But instead they get like a
- 2:07:06Speaker 2: guy who looks okay. They make them a little disheveled
- 2:07:10Speaker 2: so he doesn't look like too clean, and then they
- 2:07:12Speaker 2: put him out there and then they say this is
- 2:07:14Speaker 2: this is like I'm telling you, this is more of
- 2:07:16Speaker 2: that same shit like from the other article. They're just
- 2:07:20Speaker 2: gonna use this to redirect people to some approved men's
- 2:07:24Speaker 2: group because the fact is they know that they can't
- 2:07:28Speaker 2: ignore that men are craving community. They can't ignore it anymore.
- 2:07:33Speaker 2: So what they're gonna do is they're gonna create a
- 2:07:35Speaker 2: community for them that they're policing, that they control, so
- 2:07:39Speaker 2: that it's like making a little a little ant farm
- 2:07:42Speaker 2: for the men to play in a little sandbox. But
- 2:07:45Speaker 2: it's highly monitored because they don't want men getting any ideas,
- 2:07:50Speaker 2: you know, questioning their governments, questioning like the system, thinking
- 2:07:55Speaker 2: for themselves. And so this is all curated. I'm telling you,
- 2:07:59Speaker 2: this is all all curated and controlled. It's not even
- 2:08:02Speaker 2: I don't think there's anything conspiratorial about it.
- 2:08:06Speaker 5: Guilty, Okay, I feel very guilty and a shame. The
- 2:08:08Speaker 5: reason I said it's compared to a cult. They don't
- 2:08:12Speaker 5: like outsiders, they don't like outside thought. A lot of
- 2:08:14Speaker 5: the comments started also sounding the same too. There's a
- 2:08:16Speaker 5: lot of guys make me feel like I'm at home
- 2:08:18Speaker 5: or complaining about women. Reappeal the nineteen that's the amendment
- 2:08:22Speaker 5: that allows women.
- 2:08:23Speaker 2: Yeah, that's where we landed right there. We got to
- 2:08:25Speaker 2: get to repeal the nineteenth. But you see how he's
- 2:08:27Speaker 2: saying they don't like outsiders, Well, wait a minute, how
- 2:08:30Speaker 2: did you get involved in the first place? Then, like
- 2:08:33Speaker 2: they're either not they don't want anyone involved, or they
- 2:08:36Speaker 2: they're actually looking to help men.
- 2:08:39Speaker 3: Yeah, how how how are you? How are they? How
- 2:08:41Speaker 3: are they? How are they recruiting if they don't want outsiders?
- 2:08:46Speaker 2: Exactly? Like this whole thing smells fake as shit.
- 2:08:52Speaker 5: Vote there was a lot of rage. I have a mom,
- 2:08:55Speaker 5: I have women friends. I don't want to take away
- 2:08:57Speaker 5: their rights. And then over time they got really disgusting.
- 2:08:59Speaker 5: I don't feel comfort saying some of the other stuff
- 2:09:01Speaker 5: I saw, just vile, misogynistic comments. When I first.
- 2:09:06Speaker 3: Is that Peter Nolan? What is that Peter Nolan?
- 2:09:12Speaker 1: It might be.
- 2:09:15Speaker 3: I think I think it might all be Peter Nolan. Yeah, like,
- 2:09:19Speaker 3: every every single one of those comments that he found
- 2:09:22Speaker 3: disgusting and misogynistic might all be just Peter Andrew Nolan trademark.
- 2:09:27Speaker 1: Yeah, and you know what all this proves is that
- 2:09:29Speaker 1: there are assholes? Okay, great, thanks? Can we now address
- 2:09:34Speaker 1: the high volume female assholes on Twitter and in the
- 2:09:38Speaker 1: world an institutional institutionalized We can we address the fifteen
- 2:09:44Speaker 1: to twenty five percent of young women who express missing
- 2:09:49Speaker 1: hostile sexism towards men? You know, like, yeah, great, you
- 2:09:53Speaker 1: found the two to five percent of men who express
- 2:09:56Speaker 1: hostile sexism towards women. Wonderful? Can we can we can?
- 2:10:00Speaker 1: We can we address the fifteen to twenty five percent
- 2:10:03Speaker 1: of women who express hostile sexism towards men? No? Maybe, no, okay, yeah, I.
- 2:10:11Speaker 5: Started to decide to actually stop watching Red Pill content.
- 2:10:15Speaker 5: I would just click not interested, not interested.
- 2:10:18Speaker 1: But when we go back, I think that was lips
- 2:10:20Speaker 1: of TikTok.
- 2:10:22Speaker 2: These are not real posts.
- 2:10:24Speaker 1: No, I know they're not real posts, but it feels
- 2:10:26Speaker 1: like they got a libs of TikTok in there.
- 2:10:31Speaker 2: I think it's like, look, looks max raging libs.
- 2:10:34Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that's probably well, who do you think that is?
- 2:10:38Speaker 2: Raging liberal?
- 2:10:39Speaker 1: Told why men need to be ideological guys? This is
- 2:10:42Speaker 1: this has nothing to do with politics. They're just trying
- 2:10:44Speaker 1: to save you from yourselves and hating women.
- 2:10:47Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, the ALFA male guide to looks maxing, but.
- 2:10:52Speaker 5: Just click not interested, not interested.
- 2:10:54Speaker 2: But they just kept appearing over and over.
- 2:10:56Speaker 5: So yeah, it took me roughly about a year. I'm
- 2:10:58Speaker 5: on ex red Pill forums to help other people out
- 2:11:01Speaker 5: like I would have helped me out. Helping others too
- 2:11:03Speaker 5: is kind of maybe a way of like rectifying it.
- 2:11:05Speaker 5: Something I wish that someone would told me when I
- 2:11:07Speaker 5: was in the red Pill. Not everyone who tells you
- 2:11:10Speaker 5: that you're right as your friend. I feel like content
- 2:11:12Speaker 5: creators in the red Pill they don't believe sincerely what
- 2:11:15Speaker 5: they say, and they're away.
- 2:11:16Speaker 1: So I guess he's back in the space where masculinity
- 2:11:20Speaker 1: is toxic and there's nothing positive about men. Congratulations, dude,
- 2:11:24Speaker 1: I'm glad you found your place.
- 2:11:28Speaker 3: Yep, you know.
- 2:11:29Speaker 1: But there's still the problem that domestic violence against men
- 2:11:33Speaker 1: is not taken seriously. Feminists have made it so that
- 2:11:36Speaker 1: it men need significantly more evidence than a woman in
- 2:11:40Speaker 1: the same situation to actually be able to get away
- 2:11:44Speaker 1: from their abuser. Right, all of this other stuff that
- 2:11:47Speaker 1: feminists have done to make male victims of domestic violence
- 2:11:50Speaker 1: and sexual assault marginalized and ignored. I mean, for example,
- 2:11:55Speaker 1: feminist statistics on male victims of sexual assault and domestic
- 2:11:59Speaker 1: violence somehow mysteriously find that men are victims of these
- 2:12:04Speaker 1: things two to four times less the non feminist statistics.
- 2:12:08Speaker 1: I wonder if they're cooking the books there. Yeah, all
- 2:12:12Speaker 1: of this is still happening. But this guy has realized
- 2:12:15Speaker 1: that people that tell him that he's not right aren't
- 2:12:17Speaker 1: always his friends. Yeah, okay, does this matter.
- 2:12:25Speaker 5: Feminism is not bad, It's required in today's society. Men
- 2:12:29Speaker 5: and women have different preferences, and sometimes you won't meet them.
- 2:12:32Speaker 5: Think community is the solution for this Isolation is what's
- 2:12:36Speaker 5: leading people down these rabbit holes. And I convinced by
- 2:12:38Speaker 5: this rage and isolation I felt when I was that young.
- 2:12:43Speaker 3: No, no, but but okay, if if if you look
- 2:12:46Speaker 3: at if you look at what he just said, and
- 2:12:49Speaker 3: he he just introduced it very very quickly. Feminism is
- 2:12:54Speaker 3: still necessary in today's society.
- 2:12:56Speaker 1: Mm hmm, there you go.
- 2:13:00Speaker 8: That's all this was, and it was okay, can you
- 2:13:05Speaker 8: it's just a squirt the funk out of you? Stop barking.
- 2:13:14Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I'm not a hassan piker. I squirt my dog.
- 2:13:20Speaker 3: I don't zapp him.
- 2:13:21Speaker 1: Yeah, but okay, but.
- 2:13:26Speaker 3: Uh oh you're gonna shake. You're gonna shake, you know.
- 2:13:30Speaker 1: And the whole crying thing is is almost a little bit.
- 2:13:33Speaker 3: But no, but what I'm saying, what I'm saying is
- 2:13:37Speaker 3: the way he planted it. Okay, if if you go
- 2:13:40Speaker 3: back to that sentence, okay, is not.
- 2:13:48Speaker 2: It's not bad. It's required in today's society. Is that
- 2:13:50Speaker 2: what you mean?
- 2:13:52Speaker 3: Go back just a tiny little bit out of you.
- 2:13:56Speaker 2: Feminism is not bad.
- 2:13:58Speaker 5: It's required in today's society.
- 2:14:02Speaker 3: Okay, No, no, no, no, but just then keep going,
- 2:14:05Speaker 3: keep going.
- 2:14:06Speaker 2: All right?
- 2:14:07Speaker 5: Also, men and women have different preferences and sometimes you
- 2:14:10Speaker 5: won't meet them. Think community is the solution for this
- 2:14:13Speaker 5: isolation is what's leading people down these rabbit holes. And
- 2:14:16Speaker 5: if I can avoid anyone from feeling the loneliness and
- 2:14:18Speaker 5: rage and isolation I felt when I was that.
- 2:14:22Speaker 3: Okay, okay, yes, but okay, there's a reason why he
- 2:14:27Speaker 3: said that first in that sentence. Right, there's a reason
- 2:14:32Speaker 3: why he said that first. It's because it'll stick in
- 2:14:36Speaker 3: your mind. But it will feel like it's not the
- 2:14:41Speaker 3: actual punchline. It's not the actual thing that he's talking about. Right,
- 2:14:49Speaker 3: it will feel like it's not the important part of
- 2:14:53Speaker 3: this message, but it will still you will still internalize
- 2:14:57Speaker 3: it as part of the message.
- 2:15:00Speaker 8: Right.
- 2:15:01Speaker 3: So it's it's basically, it's it's kind of hiding, hiding
- 2:15:07Speaker 3: the feminism is still required in today's society. It's hiding
- 2:15:12Speaker 3: that behind all of the other things that he added
- 2:15:16Speaker 3: on top of it. Right, So, and those other things
- 2:15:19Speaker 3: are the ones that are gonna most stick out in
- 2:15:21Speaker 3: your mind. Oh, men need to like you know, they
- 2:15:25Speaker 3: don't need isolation, you need community, blah blah blah blah blah.
- 2:15:28Speaker 3: All very friendly in everything, right, but that first message,
- 2:15:32Speaker 3: it's also going to stick. It's just not going to
- 2:15:34Speaker 3: be top of mind it's going to be buried underneath
- 2:15:37Speaker 3: the pile somewhere, stinking like a dead rat. Mm hmmm,
- 2:15:42Speaker 3: m yeah.
- 2:15:44Speaker 1: And I just want to point out that you say
- 2:15:46Speaker 1: that we have feminism is still needed, and yet feminism
- 2:15:49Speaker 1: is causing women to be put in harm's way because
- 2:15:52Speaker 1: it's promoting feminist ideology. And I'm going to use an
- 2:15:56Speaker 1: example of this, it's promoting feminist ideology in batterer intervention
- 2:16:02Speaker 1: programs instead of non feminist interventions that actually work to
- 2:16:08Speaker 1: reduce recidivism. And also, if feminism was correct about domestic violence,
- 2:16:15Speaker 1: it would be able to create an intervention that worked,
- 2:16:19Speaker 1: but it is not because feminism is not correct about anything.
- 2:16:24Speaker 1: It is not correct about how society is structured. It
- 2:16:27Speaker 1: is not correct about who we prefer to do instrumental
- 2:16:31Speaker 1: harm to men or women. It is not correct about
- 2:16:34Speaker 1: women's preferences. It isn't correct about anything, and it's absolutely
- 2:16:39Speaker 1: infuriating because yes, Redpill can be wrong about stuff, and
- 2:16:42Speaker 1: I don't think we're probably.
- 2:16:43Speaker 3: Classical or they can exaggerate, so.
- 2:16:45Speaker 1: They can exaggerate, but the alternative shouldn't be, you know,
- 2:16:50Speaker 1: the alternative to you're drunken, crazy uncle shouldn't be satan. Okay, yeah,
- 2:17:00Speaker 1: can we just could we find maybe the uh not
- 2:17:03Speaker 1: a middle ground, because there is no middle ground between
- 2:17:06Speaker 1: those two. But just maybe ask your dad if drunken
- 2:17:10Speaker 1: crazy uncle is always right, you know, and he'll probably
- 2:17:13Speaker 1: say not always. Yeah, take it with a grain of salt. Okay,
- 2:17:18Speaker 1: but not, let's not.
- 2:17:19Speaker 3: We don't know.
- 2:17:19Speaker 1: We get rid of satan, now, we get rid of
- 2:17:22Speaker 1: feminism has to go.
- 2:17:25Speaker 2: It is.
- 2:17:26Speaker 1: There is almost nothing that feminism asserts that's empirically sound.
- 2:17:31Speaker 1: It is functionally a lie. Right, It's just a lie. Yeah,
- 2:17:37Speaker 1: that these people keep trying to push.
- 2:17:40Speaker 3: Yeah, it's a malicious lie. It's a maliciousous lie, lie
- 2:17:44Speaker 3: that that villifies half the population. Right, and yeah, no,
- 2:17:48Speaker 3: and it is no longer necessary. I don't think it
- 2:17:51Speaker 3: ever was necessary. I think that the relationship between men
- 2:17:55Speaker 3: and women would have been renegotiated over time regardless. You know,
- 2:18:00Speaker 3: women would have gotten the vote, regardless of the suffragettes,
- 2:18:05Speaker 3: just because that was how things. That was just the natural.
- 2:18:10Speaker 3: The franchise was naturally expanding, and that was the the
- 2:18:16Speaker 3: next step, that was the like obvious next step. So
- 2:18:21Speaker 3: you're looking at you're looking at a situation where basically
- 2:18:24Speaker 3: you had a bunch of angry women who were at
- 2:18:28Speaker 3: best complaining that things weren't happening fast enough for them.
- 2:18:32Speaker 3: That's that's basically their only legitimate complaint, and everything else
- 2:18:40Speaker 3: is just made up. Fucking like honestly, the Gore novels.
- 2:18:49Speaker 3: You know, you've heard about the Gore novels, right, Yeah,
- 2:18:53Speaker 3: I think that's I think that's like what I think
- 2:18:56Speaker 3: that was written by a feminist who rubbed or be
- 2:18:58Speaker 3: into it every night.
- 2:19:00Speaker 1: Yeah, well no, I think it was written by a man, but.
- 2:19:03Speaker 3: A feminist man probably.
- 2:19:05Speaker 1: Yeah, but it's like that, The go novels has a
- 2:19:08Speaker 1: huge What you want you probably want to say is
- 2:19:10Speaker 1: the Gore novels has a huge female base. I think
- 2:19:13Speaker 1: it's actually even bigger, bigger than the male base.
- 2:19:15Speaker 3: Yeah, but it's like, oh no, no, you just you
- 2:19:19Speaker 3: just have to spend a little time within the erotica
- 2:19:22Speaker 3: writers community m hm, the erotica for women, right, and
- 2:19:29Speaker 3: and you will realize just how much most of those
- 2:19:33Speaker 3: bitches hate women. Yeah, like absolutely hate women. And and
- 2:19:41Speaker 3: it's just even the fucking lesbians will write fiction, erotic
- 2:19:50Speaker 3: fiction where there's a love triangle between two men and
- 2:19:56Speaker 3: a woman and the woman gets squeezed out and the
- 2:19:59Speaker 3: man and just fucking bang till the cows come home. No,
- 2:20:06Speaker 3: it's full of self hatred.
- 2:20:09Speaker 1: I'm not surprised. I just okay, let's let's keep going.
- 2:20:13Speaker 3: Done.
- 2:20:14Speaker 1: He's right, No, we're done. Okay. This guy just sounds
- 2:20:18Speaker 1: like he sounds like you know those those videos where
- 2:20:24Speaker 1: they're they're people who have been kidnapped by terrorist organizations
- 2:20:28Speaker 1: and then they're told to say stuff.
- 2:20:30Speaker 3: Yes, this is what he looks like.
- 2:20:32Speaker 1: This is what he looks like. They just sort of
- 2:20:35Speaker 1: cleaned him up a bit before they shoved him in
- 2:20:37Speaker 1: front of the camera.
- 2:20:38Speaker 3: Yeah, my computer's gonna die within five minutes.
- 2:20:41Speaker 1: So all right, Okay, then we didn't even get a
- 2:20:43Speaker 1: single super chow. What's up with you guys today? On them?
- 2:20:50Speaker 1: On them, Well, they're probably sleeping off Halloween. Although they
- 2:20:54Speaker 1: did put in lots of super chows and rumble rants,
- 2:20:57Speaker 1: so that's good. All right. So I don't have the
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