Latest / Johnjay & Rich On Demand / 2nd DATE UPDATE: Jonah & Grace
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- 0:00Speaker 1: The next segment we're going to do is called second
- 0:02Speaker 1: Date Update.
- 0:03Speaker 2: Because that's what we're going to try and get and
- 0:05Speaker 2: that's what the bit is called.
- 0:07Speaker 3: Second Date Update starts right now on John Jay and Ridge.
- 0:11Speaker 2: One to four to seven Kiss FM, John Jay and
- 0:13Speaker 2: Rich It's time for Second Dight Update. You meet somebody,
- 0:15Speaker 2: you go on a date, you have a great time.
- 0:17Speaker 2: You expect there to be a second date and there
- 0:19Speaker 2: isn't one. You don't know why. You talk to your friends,
- 0:21Speaker 2: you talk to your family, they're not giving the answers
- 0:23Speaker 2: you need. So you come to us. You tell us
- 0:25Speaker 2: a story that we're gonna call the person went out with.
- 0:27Speaker 2: We're gonna find out what went wrong. Jonah, good morning. Yeah, Hey, hey,
- 0:32Speaker 2: second Date Update.
- 0:32Speaker 4: You're on there. What's your story?
- 0:34Speaker 5: Like? I've been out of the dating world for like
- 0:36Speaker 5: three years now, so you know, I don't even remember
- 0:39Speaker 5: what this is like, and so I hope y'all can
- 0:42Speaker 5: help me. Yeah, the first date, you know, first day
- 0:47Speaker 5: for me for a long time, and it felt really good.
- 0:50Speaker 5: I felt like this might go somewhere. And she kind
- 0:53Speaker 5: of felt like the full package. She's she's really active,
- 0:56Speaker 5: she's clean. You know, we can go out and have fun,
- 1:00Speaker 5: and you know, I just I thought, maybe, you know,
- 1:02Speaker 5: found someone like at least pursue, you know, the possibility, like,
- 1:05Speaker 5: you know, she could be the one. And I thought
- 1:07Speaker 5: the date went great. You know, she was laughing, we
- 1:09Speaker 5: were laughing, you know, the vibes were good, and you know,
- 1:13Speaker 5: we even talked about you know, you know, you know,
- 1:16Speaker 5: we're doing it again, like what we did on a date.
- 1:18Speaker 5: And anyway, it just nothing now and I'm not going anything.
- 1:22Speaker 5: She's not responding. She I barely even say that. She's
- 1:25Speaker 5: like opened up my messages and read them. So I
- 1:28Speaker 5: don't know.
- 1:30Speaker 2: Okay, well that's interesting. Was there any kind of nudity
- 1:34Speaker 2: at the end of this date on the first date?
- 1:37Speaker 5: No, no, no, there wasn't. So yeah. I mean, I
- 1:41Speaker 5: you know, she didn't see anything that that she wouldn't like,
- 1:44Speaker 5: I guess.
- 1:45Speaker 2: Was there any nudity after the date when you were alone?
- 1:50Speaker 3: Personal?
- 1:53Speaker 4: Jonah? Jokes, jonah, just jokes, just jokes.
- 1:58Speaker 3: There's not a lot to rhyme.
- 2:03Speaker 4: Just bleeped on it anyway. All right, So what do
- 2:07Speaker 4: we do? We call her? What's her name?
- 2:09Speaker 5: Her name is Grace.
- 2:10Speaker 2: Okay, we're gonna call it Grace We're gonna find out
- 2:13Speaker 2: why she's blown you off.
- 2:14Speaker 4: All right, is there anything else? How long ago was
- 2:16Speaker 4: this date?
- 2:18Speaker 5: It was a couple of weeks ago.
- 2:19Speaker 4: A couple of weeks ago. Okay.
- 2:20Speaker 2: I can hear it in your voice that you're a
- 2:22Speaker 2: little out of the dating world, and that's okay, so
- 2:24Speaker 2: we'll try to be gentle.
- 2:25Speaker 5: Yeah. I just feel like an idiot because I got
- 2:27Speaker 5: my hopes up, you know, and I just want to
- 2:29Speaker 5: know what happened, so I don't repeat this, I guess.
- 2:31Speaker 2: Okay, Well, Hank tight, we're gonna get her on the phone.
- 2:33Speaker 2: We're gonna find out why she's blowing you off. Second
- 2:35Speaker 2: eight update.
- 2:36Speaker 4: Continues next with John Jay and Rich. John Jay and Rich,
- 2:39Speaker 4: we are like a whole vibe, John jaye Rich.
- 2:41Speaker 2: We are in the middle of second eight update between
- 2:44Speaker 2: Jonah and Grace, and Grace is in calling Jonah back.
- 2:47Speaker 4: That's right.
- 2:48Speaker 3: Jonah said that he likes a girl that eats clean
- 2:51Speaker 3: and takes care of herself, but Grace went on the
- 2:54Speaker 3: date left him on red and now apparently Jonah is
- 2:57Speaker 3: taking care of himself by himself.
- 2:59Speaker 2: If you will, you know what's funny When you said
- 3:01Speaker 2: eats clean, I thought this, and I thought. Actually, one
- 3:04Speaker 2: of the reasons I was I was pretty quick in
- 3:06Speaker 2: part one because I thought he said something. I thought
- 3:08Speaker 2: he said something different. I thought he said she looks clean.
- 3:12Speaker 3: Well, I thought he said she eats clean, eats clean.
- 3:15Speaker 4: I don't know this, Jonah. What did you say. Did
- 3:17Speaker 4: you say eats cleaner, looks clean?
- 3:18Speaker 5: No, No, she's active and eats clean.
- 3:21Speaker 2: Oh see, I thought that's what I thought. For sure,
- 3:23Speaker 2: You're gonna be one of those germophobes. That's why I
- 3:25Speaker 2: was like kind of quick, and let's just get the
- 3:26Speaker 2: second project, because you were like, she looks clean, and
- 3:29Speaker 2: I thought she's gonna be like he was like smelling
- 3:31Speaker 2: behind my ears and stuff. All right, Well, then I
- 3:33Speaker 2: have no idea what's gonna happen. So we're gonna call
- 3:35Speaker 2: Grace and find out why she's blown you off. She's
- 3:37Speaker 2: leaving you on red, she's not texting you back. Here
- 3:40Speaker 2: we go, hain't tied Jonah stack on.
- 3:57Speaker 1: Hello. Hi is this Grace?
- 3:59Speaker 3: Yeah, Hi, my name is Peyton.
- 4:01Speaker 1: I'm with John Jane Rich. We just wanted to talk
- 4:03Speaker 1: to you on the radio really quickly. If you're up
- 4:05Speaker 1: for it this morning.
- 4:07Speaker 2: Sure, Grace, we got a call from a guy who
- 4:10Speaker 2: told us he went on a date with someone, had
- 4:12Speaker 2: a great time. He had been in the dating world
- 4:15Speaker 2: for a while, so he might have made some mistakes.
- 4:18Speaker 4: And now the girl's blowing him off.
- 4:20Speaker 2: And so as he was telling us the story, we
- 4:22Speaker 2: kind of went around the room trying to come up
- 4:24Speaker 2: with theories.
- 4:24Speaker 4: And let's just call a girl. So the deal is,
- 4:27Speaker 4: you're the girl, Grace.
- 4:29Speaker 6: Oh, I mean, I definitely got I haven't gotten back
- 4:37Speaker 6: to him.
- 4:38Speaker 1: We went on a date.
- 4:39Speaker 4: So you know who I'm talking about.
- 4:40Speaker 6: You know what I'm talking about, right, Yeah, I know
- 4:43Speaker 6: what you're talking about.
- 4:44Speaker 2: Okay, go ahead, Let's see what's the person. What's the
- 4:46Speaker 2: person's name? You said, I'm gonna count the three. You
- 4:48Speaker 2: say their name, and I'm gonna say their name at
- 4:50Speaker 2: the same time, and let's so make sure it's the
- 4:52Speaker 2: same person. Okay, So I'm gonna go one, two, three,
- 4:54Speaker 2: You say their name and I'll say their name.
- 4:55Speaker 4: Ready, one, two three, Joe Larry there, I'm just kidding. Okay,
- 5:02Speaker 4: it's Jonah. You're right, Jonah, go ahead. Then it's Jonah.
- 5:07Speaker 4: Go ahead.
- 5:08Speaker 6: Well, I I definitely haven't gotten like around to it.
- 5:14Speaker 6: It's just that We went on a date and it
- 5:17Speaker 6: seemed great, but let me tell you what actually happened.
- 5:20Speaker 6: We decided to go hiking, which I was genuinely excited about,
- 5:25Speaker 6: but he chose camelback, not the chill side so for
- 5:29Speaker 6: rock climbing, so I could you not. I thought I
- 5:34Speaker 6: was going to end up in one of those rescue
- 5:36Speaker 6: stories on the news hiking by myself, like, but I
- 5:41Speaker 6: wasn't alone. He just left me, what like because I
- 5:46Speaker 6: was moving too slow, so he literally took he took
- 5:49Speaker 6: off and he kind of like disappeared in between the rocks.
- 5:53Speaker 6: I was just climbing up rocks by myself and low
- 5:55Speaker 6: Ki panicking and when I finally made it like down,
- 5:59Speaker 6: he's sitting in the car irritated because he'd been waiting
- 6:02Speaker 6: for me for forty five minutes, Like he didn't even
- 6:06Speaker 6: ask me, are you okay?
- 6:07Speaker 3: And he doesn't know why there was no second day.
- 6:10Speaker 1: Oh my goodness. Also, like I'm glad he was waiting
- 6:15Speaker 1: for you, because when you said he left you, I
- 6:17Speaker 1: was like, did he Alpine divorce you? Like I got
- 6:19Speaker 1: scared for a second, Well what now? Pine divorce? Alpine
- 6:23Speaker 1: Divorce was like a book that was made, but Basically,
- 6:26Speaker 1: it's like a tactic that men do. They leave women
- 6:29Speaker 1: up on a hike or like in a stranded area
- 6:31Speaker 1: to like quote unquote test their limits. But there's been
- 6:33Speaker 1: a whole bunch of stuff where people feel like there's
- 6:35Speaker 1: been murders, Like a husband takes their wife out on
- 6:38Speaker 1: a hike and it's incredibly difficult and they leave them there,
- 6:42Speaker 1: and it makes it look like it's an accident, like
- 6:44Speaker 1: they died on the hiking.
- 6:45Speaker 4: I've heard, I heard, I've heard of those stories happening.
- 6:49Speaker 4: I don't know how to name to it.
- 6:50Speaker 1: Yeah, based the name is based off of a book.
- 6:53Speaker 2: Oh now you're in a book club. Now you're like
- 6:55Speaker 2: your Now you got to.
- 6:59Speaker 3: The year. So yeah, actually that's pretty impressive.
- 7:02Speaker 2: But yeah, I mean it can be really dangerous out
- 7:05Speaker 2: there on hikes.
- 7:06Speaker 6: So I kind of feel like I would have ghosted
- 7:08Speaker 6: him too on a date.
- 7:09Speaker 3: Why why would you not wait? Just hang out lesh up?
- 7:15Speaker 6: Yeah, or at least helped me up since you're so
- 7:18Speaker 6: fast like I was. I was really going for it
- 7:21Speaker 6: and trying my best, and like when I came to
- 7:24Speaker 6: the down, like to the bottom of the mountains, he'd
- 7:27Speaker 6: been waiting there for forty five minutes. He didn't even
- 7:30Speaker 6: ask me if I was okay, if it was tough.
- 7:32Speaker 6: It's just like just annoyed. It completely turned me off,
- 7:36Speaker 6: And now I have a nature for it, because I
- 7:38Speaker 6: really did feel like in those forty five minutes something
- 7:40Speaker 6: was going to happen, that was going to die.
- 7:42Speaker 5: So wait, wait, wait wait wait I'm sorry, I wait, great,
- 7:45Speaker 5: great great You thought I abandoned you on the mountain
- 7:47Speaker 5: because you were too slow?
- 7:49Speaker 3: No, I already hate you it did no wait oh no.
- 7:53Speaker 5: No, no, no, no, that's not what happened. This is
- 7:55Speaker 5: not what happened. This is this is not what happened.
- 7:57Speaker 2: Happened.
- 7:58Speaker 4: What happened really, because here.
- 8:01Speaker 6: My point of view, I'm there climb mount like just
- 8:05Speaker 6: doing this whole thing by myself, and I turned around,
- 8:08Speaker 6: You're like gone. Forty five minutes felt like an eternity
- 8:12Speaker 6: for me, no warning, I'll be right back. You just
- 8:16Speaker 6: left me.
- 8:17Speaker 5: I know, I know, I listen. I paddicked, okay, I
- 8:19Speaker 5: had I had to go number two. I had to
- 8:21Speaker 5: go number two really bad, like emergency situation bad. And
- 8:26Speaker 5: there was just there was no time for me to
- 8:27Speaker 5: have a group discussion about it.
- 8:30Speaker 6: Still, had you left me? On the side of camelback?
- 8:34Speaker 6: Did I mentioned this was camelback?
- 8:36Speaker 4: Like?
- 8:37Speaker 6: This is like a walk in the park.
- 8:39Speaker 1: I heard the hiking.
- 8:41Speaker 2: Echo canyons really hard. But but but where did you wait? Wait,
- 8:46Speaker 2: I didn't know where he pooped on?
- 8:47Speaker 4: Echo? Did you poop on the like? Where?
- 8:48Speaker 2: Where?
- 8:49Speaker 3: Did?
- 8:49Speaker 5: Where?
- 8:49Speaker 3: Did you go off the trail?
- 8:51Speaker 5: I didn't. I didn't want anybody to say. I didn't
- 8:53Speaker 5: want her to work like on date one. Now you
- 8:56Speaker 5: poop down the place.
- 8:58Speaker 6: Right there, used your shoe to climb up. I would
- 9:03Speaker 6: have never known.
- 9:05Speaker 2: Okay, so look, hold on, let's we don't need to
- 9:08Speaker 2: get into the degreeing because I guess let meit me
- 9:10Speaker 2: real quick here. Let's just say, Grace, what he says
- 9:13Speaker 2: is absolutely true. He pooped on the side and that's why.
- 9:16Speaker 2: And I could see that being a on a date
- 9:18Speaker 2: when I've been like that with my wife and it's
- 9:19Speaker 2: a it's miserable. You got to get out of there.
- 9:22Speaker 2: So would you forgive him and see him again? What
- 9:25Speaker 2: was the potential that way?
- 9:27Speaker 5: I mean, I wasn't. Can I just say I wasn't irritated?
- 9:33Speaker 5: It was it was a really it was really bad.
- 9:35Speaker 5: I know.
- 9:36Speaker 4: I'm trying to see if she wants to go with
- 9:38Speaker 4: you again.
- 9:39Speaker 1: You had to drive home because I was gonna say,
- 9:42Speaker 1: why didn't you just after you did your business go
- 9:44Speaker 1: back and meet her.
- 9:45Speaker 2: During the hike?
- 9:47Speaker 5: That I think I got that.
- 9:52Speaker 2: Okay, listen, do you guys want to see each other again?
- 9:57Speaker 2: I would Okay, what about you, Grace, now that you
- 10:00Speaker 2: know what he went through.
- 10:02Speaker 6: It's it's fine, but there's a lot of things to
- 10:06Speaker 6: make up. You have to be you have to be
- 10:08Speaker 6: totally honest with me.
- 10:10Speaker 4: I could see his point of view.
- 10:11Speaker 2: I could completely I can completely see his point of
- 10:16Speaker 2: view of why he did that.
- 10:17Speaker 3: Maybe they're trying to play it off like nothing happened
- 10:19Speaker 3: because you wouldn't want to necessarily share that.
- 10:21Speaker 2: It's terrible. It's I've been there before recently. It's terrible.
- 10:26Speaker 2: But anyway, I mean, you make decisions where you think,
- 10:27Speaker 2: am I going to get arrested? I need to go
- 10:29Speaker 2: to the bathroom right now. I need to go really bad.
- 10:32Speaker 2: But hey, on a side note, though, so you guys
- 10:34Speaker 2: do want to go out again, So I mean, we'll
- 10:36Speaker 2: pay for your lunch or whatever. We'll pay for your hike.
- 10:40Speaker 2: It's free. But Peyton, when I was thinking about the
- 10:44Speaker 2: alpine was called. Yeah, I don't see hiking candle back
- 10:48Speaker 2: at all an option for alpine course.
- 10:51Speaker 4: There's thousands of people on that hike alone. I'm gonna
- 10:56Speaker 4: guy out here. You like a protein bar of our,
- 11:00Speaker 4: I go down and get you one. Doesn't terrible, So
- 11:08Speaker 4: kick like when you you're supposed to.
- 11:12Speaker 2: I'm assuming if someone's going to kill someone on an
- 11:14Speaker 2: alpine divorce, they're gonna go somewhere like the Himalayans, or
- 11:17Speaker 2: somewhere where there's not another person around forever.
- 11:19Speaker 1: Listen, I've huffed and my way.
- 11:23Speaker 4: He's trying to kill me. Well here, let me give
- 11:25Speaker 4: me some of this water man while we go.
- 11:27Speaker 5: We'll go.
- 11:27Speaker 4: I'll go down and look for him. Kind of car
- 11:29Speaker 4: the whole trail right here. You just walk right down.
- 11:30Speaker 2: I mean, there's a there's a guy that goes up
- 11:35Speaker 2: there every day and plays the drums. He brings his
- 11:38Speaker 2: drum set up, so you can be like you want
- 11:40Speaker 2: the drum set guy there. You can play a song
- 11:41Speaker 2: while go down and get more food and then you'll
- 11:43Speaker 2: be okay. Way, Jonah and Grace, thanks for going on
- 11:46Speaker 2: there with us. Thank you, good luck at your second
- 11:50Speaker 2: dated Dane Rich