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2072 - Welcome to Plathville (s8e11) "Stir the Pot" with Kimberly · Pink Shade: Reality TV with Mary Payne

• 0:10
  Speaker 1: Hey, everybody, Welcome to Pink Shade. It's Wednesday. It's Welcome
• 0:15
  Speaker 1: to Platfel Wednesday. It's whitey Wednesday, It's waspy Wednesday, It's
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  Speaker 1: wacky Wednesday. It's all the things, It's all the things.
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  Speaker 1: How are you doing, Kimberly.
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  Speaker 2: We're gonna come up with something next week on our
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  Speaker 2: very well be better.
• 0:32
  Speaker 1: If you guys don't know, I have been doing a
• 0:34
  Speaker 1: Welcome to platfeild rewatch over on Pink Shade Prime with Keisha,
• 0:38
  Speaker 1: who's never seen any of it before. So that's been
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  Speaker 1: quite a journey to go through it with fresh eyes.
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  Speaker 1: But normally I record both Platfells on the same day,
• 0:49
  Speaker 1: and it's really got me not coming and going. Yeah,
• 0:54
  Speaker 1: today I already recorded with Keisha, and today I'm recording
• 0:57
  Speaker 1: it on a separate day, so I'm very fresh with
• 0:59
  Speaker 1: my plath Hatred for the current season instead of four
• 1:03
  Speaker 1: seasons back.
• 1:04
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and we finally got to hear you tell Keisha
• 1:08
  Speaker 2: who Lydia was dating. Who I had forgotten. I mean,
• 1:12
  Speaker 2: I kind of assumed it was one of Olivia's siblings,
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  Speaker 2: but I wish we could have seen more. I can't
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  Speaker 2: believe they never addressed that.
• 1:20
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's never addressed. And he's only around this one season, Nathan,
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  Speaker 1: Olivia's brother, and then he becomes real problematic. I'm one
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  Speaker 1: hundred percent sure he gets a dui and his Instagram
• 1:37
  Speaker 1: turns into like no homo, like real, my god, his
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  Speaker 1: instagram turns real hateful. He goes right back to ye. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: he did his roum spring and he went right back.
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  Speaker 2: That seems to be what it happens because hate and
• 1:54
  Speaker 2: control is still a type of security for the people.
• 1:59
  Speaker 2: And that's what someone was talking about on Reddit how
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  Speaker 2: it was like the first few seasons were so fun
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  Speaker 2: because it was like the kids in Florida like living
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  Speaker 2: their best, like exploring try and coke allegedly the drink
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  Speaker 2: the drink. I meant, yeah, yeah, and but like now
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  Speaker 2: it's to see them all go back into the fold.
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  Speaker 2: It's just not and then blame everything on Olivia. Like
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  Speaker 2: that's just so frustrating.
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  Speaker 1: I did like this episode where Teagan said, well, that'll
• 2:32
  Speaker 1: be a good closure for you and for her, Like
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  Speaker 1: Tagan is like because now I'm starting to see what
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  Speaker 1: she went through.
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  Speaker 3: Mm hmm.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, And other people on redditt are finally seeing it.
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  Speaker 2: They're like, huh, I guess I was wrong and Olivia
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  Speaker 2: wasn't the problem because the common denominator here is ethan. Oh,
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  Speaker 2: there were always some Olivia haters on Reddit.
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  Speaker 1: There's a lot of Olivia haters. I I think I
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  Speaker 1: was telling you when we recorded for ninety Day Fiance,
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  Speaker 1: a person they created this Sorry our feet is glitching.
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  Speaker 1: So hopefully it's not glitching when people are hearing or
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  Speaker 1: watching it, but every so often my face just freezes
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  Speaker 1: and it's just not cute. Uh On what was I saying, Okay,
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  Speaker 1: that there's a there's a content creator that's putting out
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  Speaker 1: stuff and it's taking a lot of my interview stuff
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  Speaker 1: from Olivia.
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  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah yeah.
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  Speaker 1: And they weren't giving me any credit. So now I've
• 3:29
  Speaker 1: gone through and looked and all the clips that are mine,
• 3:31
  Speaker 1: which are most of them are they gave me credit
• 3:35
  Speaker 1: so great that maybe they'll take people to my YouTube whatever.
• 3:38
  Speaker 1: But there are a lot of people in those comments
• 3:40
  Speaker 1: like why won't this girl just go away? And yeah,
• 3:43
  Speaker 1: let it go. She doesn't.
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  Speaker 2: She doesn't have to. It's her experience. Also, there's a
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  Speaker 2: lot of people who are like, she hates the family,
• 3:53
  Speaker 2: which she's using their last name, and that that even
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  Speaker 2: though she's explained that this is her professional name. Now
• 4:00
  Speaker 2: that's how people know her, and it's difficult to change
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  Speaker 2: your last name. Yeah, people will just love to hate
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  Speaker 2: the woman. I say that as someone who hates Kim Plath,
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  Speaker 2: So I am one of those people who loves to
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  Speaker 2: hate the woman if it's Kim Plath.
• 4:17
  Speaker 1: Speaking of hating women, I've been listening to the podcast
• 4:23
  Speaker 1: loves Trapped.
• 4:25
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and it's.
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  Speaker 1: That the guy Clayton who is the Bachelor, and this
• 4:29
  Speaker 1: woman who like claimed he got her pregnant and then
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  Speaker 1: turns out there's like four other guys she did this too,
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  Speaker 1: and it is really a it's very interesting. As I'm
• 4:40
  Speaker 1: getting to the end, the podcast host, who is a woman, says,
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  Speaker 1: you know, we've been very careful not to use the
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  Speaker 1: word and then you have a lot of clips people
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  Speaker 1: going this bitch is crazy, she's crazy. Well, this lady
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  Speaker 1: is crazy, she said, because in general, you believe women.
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  Speaker 1: And even one of her victims said, like his own
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  Speaker 1: mother one percent did not believe him. His own mother
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  Speaker 1: was like, I know, you must have abused this girl
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  Speaker 1: and gotten her pregnant, and why would she say that?
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  Speaker 1: And that He's like, my own mother doesn't believe me, you.
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  Speaker 2: Know, which says a lot about you actually, Like if
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  Speaker 2: your mom doesn't believe you.
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  Speaker 1: It's it's because this girl did like a ted X
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  Speaker 1: talk about him and it was all one hundred percent fabricated,
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  Speaker 1: like they you know.
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  Speaker 2: It's wild.
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  Speaker 1: A lot of this stuff is just so many documents
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  Speaker 1: that she mocked up and fabricated, and their internet salute
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  Speaker 1: Schoen like this is not her sonogram and they're going
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  Speaker 1: to find out like she was using her sister's sonogram,
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  Speaker 1: like it's it's I was thinking, like, oh, I already
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  Speaker 1: know this story. How are they gonna make it? It's
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  Speaker 1: like twelve episodes and there's probably like eight bonus episodes.
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  Speaker 1: It's so much content, and I was like, how are
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  Speaker 1: they going to make this this long? Like I already
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  Speaker 1: know the story. I only knew a third of the story,
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  Speaker 1: Like it's really good.
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  Speaker 2: What was her end goal?
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  Speaker 1: Well, well, it was another thing that's interesting they're saying
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  Speaker 1: here towards the end is like of all the times
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  Speaker 1: this woman worked on this podcast nine months or whatever,
• 6:08
  Speaker 1: she says, you know, we tried so hard. And Dave Neil,
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  Speaker 1: who's the other podcaster, who was helping break the case.
• 6:15
  Speaker 1: And all that, we kept trying to find people that
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  Speaker 1: would come forward for this girl, her name was Laura
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  Speaker 1: Owen's come forward for her side to say I knew
• 6:21
  Speaker 1: we're in high school, she was my best friend. Like I,
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  Speaker 1: this is just not who she is, or somebody to
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  Speaker 1: come with some sort of character witness for her. It's like, literally,
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  Speaker 1: not one person, we can't find one person. But then
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  Speaker 1: this one person did come forward and said we were
• 6:36
  Speaker 1: friends in high school, and all I could tell you
• 6:39
  Speaker 1: she always wanted to be famous, and her parents were
• 6:42
  Speaker 1: local celebrities, and she always wanted to be famous. And
• 6:46
  Speaker 1: when I saw this thing about the Bachelor because it
• 6:48
  Speaker 1: was in our town, I was like, Wow, that's crazy.
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  Speaker 1: And then she posted about it and I was like, ah,
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  Speaker 1: that's how she's going to get famous, right, But she'd
• 6:58
  Speaker 1: done this the exact same thing to three other people
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  Speaker 1: before him that weren't famous people. This one just happened
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  Speaker 1: to be famous.
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  Speaker 3: Wow.
• 7:05
  Speaker 1: I mean, it's crazy the stuff that, like I thought
• 7:07
  Speaker 1: I knew because I thought I knew the whole story,
• 7:09
  Speaker 1: but I don't know. It's every episode is really really good.
• 7:12
  Speaker 1: Even the bonus stuff is good it's a lot of
• 7:14
  Speaker 1: like bodycam footage from the cops which you can just
• 7:17
  Speaker 1: hear it going to like and her mom is like,
• 7:20
  Speaker 1: you know, this is part of the conspiracy, just like
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  Speaker 1: the Gilg Beach murders or puff Daddy what huh what
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  Speaker 1: how are those things connected to this woman faking pregnancies
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  Speaker 1: with four different men? Huh? Okay, mom trying to get
• 7:39
  Speaker 1: not to use that word. But anyway, it's fascinating. So
• 7:45
  Speaker 1: I ten out of ten recommend it. And again it
• 7:47
  Speaker 1: looks like a lot, and it is a lot, but
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  Speaker 1: like I just can't like wait to the get to
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  Speaker 1: the next episode. Yeah, yeah, I love it, okay, And
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  Speaker 1: it is very kind of up to date current, like yeah,
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  Speaker 1: to Platform, season eight, episode eleven. Stir the pot.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, And the screener it said stir the post, and
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  Speaker 2: I was like, that's not an expression.
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  Speaker 1: Did you say that? Yeah? Well then my brain corrected
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  Speaker 1: it because I yeah, stirred the pot because I saw
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  Speaker 1: the screener.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, stir the post.
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  Speaker 1: This to me is a very interesting episode because if
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  Speaker 1: we harken back to episode one. In eight, episode one,
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  Speaker 1: we are just like, yes, Lydia and Zach, Yes, go
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  Speaker 1: in there. You tell these people what's what you don't
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  Speaker 1: And now I'm like, you guys need to sell your role,
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  Speaker 1: like yeah, take it out or not. Lydia and Zach Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: And I've been pretty die hard like writing for them,
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  Speaker 2: and I might need to step back a tiny bit.
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  Speaker 1: I yeah, yeah, it's.
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  Speaker 2: But again, this Zach, I don't know his family is
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  Speaker 2: like Lydia, being like this is how she was raised
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  Speaker 2: and Kim ingrained this in her. Zach has a whole
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  Speaker 2: other issues.
• 12:39
  Speaker 1: He's from a very Christian family, but I don't think
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  Speaker 1: they're like fundamentalists like this. And he has like two
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  Speaker 1: sisters and that's it.
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  Speaker 2: Okay.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, but they have moved to Colorado, so I think
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  Speaker 1: after this they were like, we're getting the fuck out
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  Speaker 1: of here.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I don't blame them.
• 12:53
  Speaker 1: Season eight, episode eleven started the pot or start of
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  Speaker 1: the post depending. They start with Kim the therapy with
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  Speaker 1: doctor Tom and she's, you know, saying where we left
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  Speaker 1: her with talking about Joshua and of course the responsibility
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  Speaker 1: and the burden and all that, and doctor ty says,
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  Speaker 1: you are taking on a lot of responsibility for this.
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  Speaker 1: You had a loss, but everyone else also had a loss.
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  Speaker 1: It's a different loss for each person. And she says,
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  Speaker 1: I'm just so hurt about the pain that I've caused
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  Speaker 1: everybody else. And doctor Tye says, are you upset about
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  Speaker 1: lydia because she went public with it? Yes, And Kim says, well,
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  Speaker 1: that's a separate issue. That's a separate The whole thing
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  Speaker 1: with Joshua and the family is a separate issue of
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  Speaker 1: Lydia going public. I'm like, I disagree and are talking
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  Speaker 1: to Kim says, it broke my heart to hear Lydia
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  Speaker 1: say she can't talk to me about it because I
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  Speaker 1: try to give my older kids space, but I'm there
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  Speaker 1: for them. And at the same time, I have to
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  Speaker 1: set boundaries with Lydia now for what she can and
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  Speaker 1: cannot talk publicly about. Well, she's twenty one years old.
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  Speaker 1: She could talk publicly about whatever the bucks.
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  Speaker 2: She wants, totally. It was her experience also that happened
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  Speaker 2: after so like you are saying, I feel bad that
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  Speaker 2: she couldn't talk to me, but now I need to
• 14:14
  Speaker 2: set boundaries with her. Those are two separate issues. Like
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  Speaker 2: she did like she couldn't come to you, and that's
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  Speaker 2: why she spoke publicly about it. She had to publicly
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  Speaker 2: call you out to get you to talk about this,
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  Speaker 2: and yeah, true therapy and get you into therapy after
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  Speaker 2: all these years because you were so stubborn and wouldn't
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  Speaker 2: do it.
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  Speaker 1: You know, It's interesting, she says about the giving the
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  Speaker 1: older kids space, and that just sort of reminds me
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  Speaker 1: a few episodes back when Barry said, Amber, she's just
• 14:45
  Speaker 1: an adult. Now we just deal with her. She's sixty friend,
• 14:48
  Speaker 1: she's my buddy, buddy, Ty.
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  Speaker 2: They are really swinging from one side of the pendulum
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  Speaker 2: to the other. The parents, it's just they are crazy.
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  Speaker 2: There's no middle ground of healthy, normal parenting.
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  Speaker 1: That's such a great point. That is such a great point.
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  Speaker 1: There is no middle ground. It is big swings, big swings.
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  Speaker 2: I'm either teaching them to have a prayer closet and
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  Speaker 2: their sinners and they are my maid, or I'm buying
• 15:17
  Speaker 2: them booze underage allegedly.
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  Speaker 1: So Ty says, right now, they need their mother because
• 15:25
  Speaker 1: they lost a sibling, but they lost you also at
• 15:29
  Speaker 1: that time, maybe you were present but not available, which
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  Speaker 1: of course she has said that, And it would be important,
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  Speaker 1: I think, for you to allow them some space to
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  Speaker 1: say whatever they need to say. And it may be
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  Speaker 1: tough for you, and even if they give you a
• 15:46
  Speaker 1: play by play, you have to sit through it and
• 15:49
  Speaker 1: don't get up and walk out and leave. They need,
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  Speaker 1: they need you to hear it.
• 15:56
  Speaker 2: I feel like she already knows Kim so well, and
• 15:58
  Speaker 2: this is their first there session is she calling in
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  Speaker 2: some of what Micah said about Kim.
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  Speaker 1: She could be, but she could just be a watcher
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  Speaker 1: of the show.
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  Speaker 2: That's true. She's good. I love her. I hope her
• 16:14
  Speaker 2: business just goes straight up, that.
• 16:16
  Speaker 1: She would go see her Zoom calls because yeah, and
• 16:20
  Speaker 1: she says, grief, this is interesting. I've never heard this phrase.
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  Speaker 1: Grief is internal, but mourning is external.
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  Speaker 3: M so.
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  Speaker 1: And Kim says, but how does saying things out loud?
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  Speaker 1: How does that help? And Ty says, because it releases it,
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  Speaker 1: It gets it out from inside. And you know, without
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  Speaker 1: a shadow of doubt, you're going to have to do this.
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  Speaker 1: You're going to have to sit and talk it, say it.
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  Speaker 2: And what you've been doing for the past ten plus
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  Speaker 2: years is not working.
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  Speaker 1: Right right, So Ty says, maybe you could tell it
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  Speaker 1: as a story to Joshua. Joshua, this is what happened
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  Speaker 1: that day. You have to tell him the story of
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  Speaker 1: this is what was meant to happen, this is what
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  Speaker 1: I remember, and how much you miss him and thank
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  Speaker 1: him for the time you had with him. You have
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  Speaker 1: to do that. She burst into tears and she says,
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  Speaker 1: the worst part is the graphic what I saw and
• 17:19
  Speaker 1: Ty says, well, you don't have to say that part,
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  Speaker 1: but you can say seeing you in that way made
• 17:25
  Speaker 1: me feel x y Z. I don't want to remember
• 17:27
  Speaker 1: you in that way, and you can imagine that, you know,
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  Speaker 1: sort of talking about it overall is what happened versus
• 17:35
  Speaker 1: in her mind, what she saw, what the kids saw.
• 17:39
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's the other thing. Is like she's talking about
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  Speaker 2: how it was so graphic what she had to see,
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  Speaker 2: which had to have been horrible, Yeah, no doubt. But
• 17:48
  Speaker 2: the kids also saw that right as children, and.
• 17:54
  Speaker 1: Their whole thing is like, oh, well, Lydia is only four.
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  Speaker 1: Well let me tell you what I can remember shit
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  Speaker 1: from when I was four. Absolutely, yeah, yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Especially if it's traumatic and like changes your life and
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  Speaker 2: it's things that you should never see at that age, yeah, right.
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  Speaker 1: Or any age.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, at any age.
• 18:13
  Speaker 1: So Ty says, for all of you to hear each other,
• 18:17
  Speaker 1: you have to sit and you need to hear their
• 18:20
  Speaker 1: truth and they need to hear your truth. So you're
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: talking to Kim says, it doesn't feel cathartic yet, it
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: just feels overwhelming. So Kim calls Lydia and says, I
• 18:33
  Speaker 1: just wanted to tell you that I feel ready to
• 18:35
  Speaker 1: talk about Joshua. Do you want to come on Saturday
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: to the farm. And obviously it's already planned because she
• 18:40
  Speaker 1: doesn't give her a time and that is one of
• 18:42
  Speaker 1: the biggest things to drive me completely crazy on reality shows,
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: like just come over on Saturday, like you just gonna
• 18:48
  Speaker 1: show up at like nine am or five pm.
• 18:52
  Speaker 2: Okay.
• 18:53
  Speaker 1: So she says, all right, I'll talk to you later
• 18:54
  Speaker 1: now over in Wisconsin. Oh, I said over and Wisconsin.
• 18:57
  Speaker 1: But it wasn't. I thought it was. But Teaking and
• 19:00
  Speaker 1: Ethan are in kro Yeah. Again, no idea why Teagan
• 19:05
  Speaker 1: is there other than contractually.
• 19:07
  Speaker 2: It has to be confectually. Although she seems to be
• 19:10
  Speaker 2: like kind of warming up to him. Yeah, she's been
• 19:12
  Speaker 2: a lot nicer and her she's quite monotone of a girl.
• 19:16
  Speaker 2: But it's it's like a tad. There's almost like a
• 19:22
  Speaker 2: a range of personality, right, not I wouldn't even go
• 19:26
  Speaker 2: that far. There's it's like a range of octaves that
• 19:31
  Speaker 2: she reaches right like what one? Yeah? Exactly yeah, instead.
• 19:35
  Speaker 1: Of what U. So they're in one of his stupid
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: cars and he's telling her Mariah is in town and
• 19:42
  Speaker 1: Micah as usual, said he was gonna come, but he
• 19:46
  Speaker 1: didn't come. He said he had other stuff going on.
• 19:49
  Speaker 2: I forgot what he looks like.
• 19:51
  Speaker 1: Of tragedy. Where is Micah?
• 19:55
  Speaker 2: Is he dating someone michaeh.
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: We know you need the money, come on.
• 20:01
  Speaker 2: So, I mean, but before I would want to stay
• 20:03
  Speaker 2: away from this family. I mean, I don't blame him.
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: I'm going to look right now at his most recent
• 20:08
  Speaker 1: Instagram and see what is his most recent Instagram because
• 20:12
  Speaker 1: maybe he's just been so traumatized. He has four hundred
• 20:15
  Speaker 1: and forty seven thousand followers. Okay, the last post is
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: May eighth, twenty twenty four. Wow, when he was on
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: Watch What Happens Live and there's no story. I'm going
• 20:31
  Speaker 1: to check to see if he's still on Cameo because
• 20:34
  Speaker 1: he does have a link to cameo, so he's not modeling.
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: He's not on Cameo right now. And it says two
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: hundred and eighty nine fans want Micah Plath back on
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: Cameo because, yeah, well, I'm going to follow. I'd like
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: to join the wait list. I'd like to know when
• 20:51
  Speaker 1: he comes back on Cameo. Yeah, so he is very
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: very very very very off the grid. Look at threads
• 21:02
  Speaker 1: zero posts, zero followers, zero everything. Oh, Michael, Michael art
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: you Veronica, Veronica, we know the answer, Okay.
• 21:11
  Speaker 2: And his own brother Isaac.
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: Well, that was a physically violence. So she says to Tiga,
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: she says to him, thanks so much for inviting me,
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: and he says, well, thank you for coming, and again,
• 21:25
  Speaker 1: why are they there? So Teagan says she's there for
• 21:29
  Speaker 1: the one year anniversary celebration of Lydia and Zach's wedding,
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: and Ethan told her the whole family is going to
• 21:36
  Speaker 1: sit down and discuss some internal family drama. And she says,
• 21:40
  Speaker 1: I'm staying at a hotel. Normally I would stay at
• 21:43
  Speaker 1: the house, but we're not together, and we are making
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: improvements on our friendship. We're making gradual progress. She seems
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: like a completely different person from last time we saw her,
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: so she seems way nicer.
• 21:54
  Speaker 2: She does again, they're just so dull together. It's they've
• 22:00
  Speaker 2: kind of fit perfectly together, because it's like, thank you
• 22:02
  Speaker 2: for inviting me, thank you for coming.
• 22:05
  Speaker 1: Thank you for touching my leg. I'm going to kiss
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: you now.
• 22:09
  Speaker 2: But again, if they're just friends, there's no way you
• 22:13
  Speaker 2: would fly across the country to go to an anniversary
• 22:19
  Speaker 2: party of the sister of your friend X.
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: Of your sister of your friend, right right, right, unless
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: that that sister was like your best friend also right right.
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: So he says, well, I have some exciting news about
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: my divorce and she goes, oh, and he says, my
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: ex got back to the attorneys and sent the information.
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: It's all been sent to the courts and signed. And
• 22:42
  Speaker 1: she says, and so now it just has to you know,
• 22:44
  Speaker 1: go through the system. And she says, well, that's good.
• 22:47
  Speaker 1: That's good. It'll be a fresh start for both of you.
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: That's good for both of you. It's which I liked.
• 22:52
  Speaker 2: Yeah. I love how they cannot say Olivia's name. This
• 22:56
  Speaker 2: isn't like contractually just have to say ex.
• 23:00
  Speaker 1: Yeah, she shall not be named.
• 23:02
  Speaker 2: Yeah, Baltimore.
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: So talking, Eddie says, it's a weight off my shoulders.
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: You know that it's finally done, even though I was
• 23:09
  Speaker 1: the one that slow rolled.
• 23:10
  Speaker 2: Is h and I think we have forgotten.
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: And he said, I know Tigan is happy because that
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: was like, you know, one of the things. So in
• 23:18
  Speaker 1: the car, Ethan says, uh yeah about this family meeting,
• 23:23
  Speaker 1: you know, Ethan, uh no. Ethan says, Zach had some
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: things to say about you, and she goes me and
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: he goes, yeah, three things. Actually, Number one, you're using
• 23:34
  Speaker 1: me for money. Number two, he referred to your daughter
• 23:37
  Speaker 1: as baggage. And number three, your sexuality is something I
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: should not be okay with. And uh, I just told him,
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: if I want input input from you, I'm gonna ask.
• 23:49
  Speaker 2: No, you didn't say that. You kind of just grunted.
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: We also have never heard Zach say the daughter was baggage,
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: and we never we never heard Ethan say if I
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: want input from you, I'm gonna ask. These things must
• 24:03
  Speaker 1: have happened off camera or they cut it.
• 24:05
  Speaker 2: I cannot imagine Zach saying her daughter is baggage. I
• 24:10
  Speaker 2: feel like zachly is a believer that all children are
• 24:14
  Speaker 2: a blessing and wouldn't do that. I have doubts.
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: I don't I think he and he may not have
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: said it to Ethan. He may have said it to Kim,
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: who then repeated it. He may have said it to Isaac. Yeah,
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: he may have said, like, I don't know what Ethan's doing,
• 24:31
  Speaker 1: Like why does he care so much about this girl?
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: Like she's got this baggage and she doesn't like it?
• 24:34
  Speaker 3: You know?
• 24:35
  Speaker 1: He could have, you know, since he's just out there
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: spouting opinions on everybody, right, And I wish we would
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: have seen Ethan say to Zach, if I want your input,
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: I'll ask for it.
• 24:45
  Speaker 2: I don't know if he ever said that.
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: I can't said that either.
• 24:49
  Speaker 2: In the two scenes that we saw, he just kind
• 24:52
  Speaker 2: of grunted and was just like gritting his teeth and
• 24:56
  Speaker 2: like gonna go do a hate crime to somebody else
• 24:59
  Speaker 2: is trying to be to Zach this season, and.
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: The talking heead Ethan says, Zach has given everyone.
• 25:06
  Speaker 2: Wait, I'm so sorry. Can we go back though, Yeah?
• 25:08
  Speaker 2: Thing about her sexuality.
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: Yeah, we're getting there, Okay. The talking head Ethan says,
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: Zach has given everyone his opinions on everyone and on
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: me too, So I just thought I should warn Teagan.
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: And Zach also doesn't think she's as religious as she
• 25:26
  Speaker 1: should be, but that's son of his business. No, so,
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: the talking head Teagan tells us, I've been nothing but
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: honest with Ethan in our relationship. I was very upfront
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: and clear on my feelings on sexuality and how I
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: view my own sexuality, and he's, you know, he's fine
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: with it. And I wouldn't have dated him if he wasn't.
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: So Number one, we know he's not okay, no homo,
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: But exactly maybe it's okay if it's like chick on
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: chick action.
• 25:57
  Speaker 2: That is what ding ding ding. That's exactly what I
• 26:01
  Speaker 2: was thinking. He's fine with it because it's not man
• 26:05
  Speaker 2: on man. Thou shall not lie with a man blah
• 26:08
  Speaker 2: blah blah. That's gross also because he's maybe suppressing some
• 26:13
  Speaker 2: of his own feelings.
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: But that's that's Kimberly's opinion.
• 26:16
  Speaker 2: That's my opinion. Those pants are awfully tight, So I
• 26:22
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• 26:26
  Speaker 2: not off sinding with another lady.
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• 28:24
  Speaker 1: And she says, and as for me being a mom,
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: you shouldn't talk about anyone's kids or anyone's parenting styles, like,
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: but she has also done with Kim and Barry and
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: their youngest kids and what shows they can and can't watch,
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: or games they should and shouldn't play. And this has
• 28:40
  Speaker 1: been going on since before they got married. He has
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: a lot of opinions on kids in general. So it's
• 28:48
  Speaker 1: been going on since before they got married. And they
• 28:50
  Speaker 1: were only dating like four months before they got married.
• 28:53
  Speaker 2: Well again, I wish they would have said that last
• 28:55
  Speaker 2: season instead of just being like, I don't like him
• 28:58
  Speaker 2: because it's too fast.
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: And he's queer gay and he's gay.
• 29:01
  Speaker 2: Yeah, like say, there are other reasons. He's very judgmental
• 29:06
  Speaker 2: and pious and looks down on our family and you know,
• 29:09
  Speaker 2: came super hot like yeah without knowing us. There's those
• 29:14
  Speaker 2: are all valid reasons to have issues with them. Getting married.
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: Yeah, other reasons besides just that he kind of acts
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: gay or whatever. So Tigan says to Ethan, she says,
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: who is he to speculate or judge my sexuality? Like,
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: especially what he went through with you and half the
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: internet speculating on him and they still do. It's like
• 29:38
  Speaker 1: I never judged them for waiting till marriage to kiss.
• 29:41
  Speaker 1: That was their business. You know. Jesus sat with sinners
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: and saints, so that's interesting. And if he's so godly,
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: who is he to judge? So I was like, all right,
• 29:51
  Speaker 1: we're getting little get a little fire out of Teagan. Yeah, yeah,
• 29:54
  Speaker 1: I love that, but.
• 29:56
  Speaker 2: I love that she points out you kind of started
• 29:58
  Speaker 2: the yes Zach is gay.
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: Brigade, Yeah, especially when he went through with you. Yeah,
• 30:04
  Speaker 1: and half the internet.
• 30:06
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: Ethan says, well, my mom wants to talk to all
• 30:11
  Speaker 1: of us about some things about my brother Joshua. Like
• 30:15
  Speaker 1: earlier or a couple of months ago, we all sat
• 30:18
  Speaker 1: down and talked, and Zach and Lydia said they won't
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: tolerate people talking behind their backs, and so he can goes,
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: oh really, but he does it. That's ironic, And Ethan says,
• 30:29
  Speaker 1: I hope today is open and constructive and positive, and
• 30:33
  Speaker 1: I hope I keep myself composed.
• 30:35
  Speaker 2: Oh god, oh gone.
• 30:36
  Speaker 1: And the talking head teak and says Ethan is a
• 30:39
  Speaker 1: wild card and he might confront Zach. He's very protective
• 30:42
  Speaker 1: of me, even though just friends. Just fairly, fairly.
• 30:47
  Speaker 2: Still don't understand this party. This is like when someone's
• 30:52
  Speaker 2: birthday is around Christmas and they are combining their birthday
• 30:55
  Speaker 2: with Christmas, and someone's a Jew, so they're throwing in
• 30:59
  Speaker 2: Hanukkah too, and then like may oh, we'll making a
• 31:01
  Speaker 2: New Year's party also because it's just right around that time.
• 31:05
  Speaker 2: It's like happy anniversary, you guys suck and our brother
• 31:10
  Speaker 2: died party. So what kind of banner do you get
• 31:15
  Speaker 2: from party city to encapsulate all of those events.
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: It really is crazy that this is a we're having
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: a surprise party for their anniversary, but beforehand, we're gonna
• 31:26
  Speaker 1: evicerate them exactly, and then we're gonna throw it, and
• 31:30
  Speaker 1: then we're.
• 31:30
  Speaker 2: Gonna celebrate and then talk about our dead brother.
• 31:33
  Speaker 1: Right, and we're gonna dedicate a bench to the brother.
• 31:37
  Speaker 2: The bench dedication as well.
• 31:39
  Speaker 1: It's a bench dedication as well. It's a former party.
• 31:42
  Speaker 2: A party is just one of these things. Now it's
• 31:45
  Speaker 2: not all of these things for the season penultimate episode, like.
• 31:50
  Speaker 1: Talk about the dead brother. Yeah, dedicated bench.
• 31:53
  Speaker 2: Also, there's gonna be baking and this.
• 31:56
  Speaker 1: Rate zak Olidia and then celebrate their anniversary. Yeah yeah,
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: I've met Dak and Lydia Lee. Before the anniversary party
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: even happens, they'll be like, fuck you guys. So over
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: at the farm, everybody's sort of walking around getting things
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: ready for the big showdown. And the weather looks really nice,
• 32:13
  Speaker 1: and oh.
• 32:15
  Speaker 2: God, you're like, Kim, well the weather now.
• 32:17
  Speaker 1: It did look it looks like, oh it's a little breezy.
• 32:19
  Speaker 1: I love it. And the talking head Kim says, Lydia
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: is Okay. I wrote this down verbatim because I now
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: I'm interested now that Kim is recognizing that she is
• 32:33
  Speaker 1: the one who created Lydia.
• 32:36
  Speaker 2: Yes, okay, I was thrilled. I wrote it down too.
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: It's alive. It's a live It's like Kim says, Lydia's
• 32:44
  Speaker 1: lifestyle now has the foundation of the values that Barry
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: and I taught. Her. Parents have to decide what is
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: good and not good to teach their children. I mean,
• 32:54
  Speaker 1: all parents do that, regardless of what their exact values are.
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: So is it the hypocritical for us to say Zach
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: and Lydia are being judgmental for telling other people what
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: to do. Yes, the difference because you know Kim's always
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: got an answer.
• 33:10
  Speaker 2: Uh huh.
• 33:10
  Speaker 1: The difference is teaching your children versus sitting down other
• 33:14
  Speaker 1: adults and telling them how they should.
• 33:16
  Speaker 2: Live their life.
• 33:17
  Speaker 1: Well, well, some would say.
• 33:19
  Speaker 2: Talk about Colgate demon.
• 33:22
  Speaker 1: Let's talk about Phileas which Olivia and Ethan were married adults,
• 33:28
  Speaker 1: and you sat them down and told them how to live.
• 33:31
  Speaker 2: They shouldn't drink in front of the other children, much
• 33:34
  Speaker 2: like Zach later said to Mariah.
• 33:37
  Speaker 1: Not allowed to see the children. Actually, yeah, because of
• 33:41
  Speaker 1: their sugarist lifestyle. So she says, I think Lydia and
• 33:48
  Speaker 1: Zach went to honor God by living a very pure lifestyle,
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: and I think that's a wonderful thing. The rub is
• 33:56
  Speaker 1: simply they're trying to tell us how to live. Girl, what,
• 34:04
  Speaker 1: That's exactly what you did to Ethan and Olivia.
• 34:08
  Speaker 2: I can't if she would just acknowledge and make that connection.
• 34:13
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, and that maybe I didn't.
• 34:18
  Speaker 2: I was raised with that sort of model. We are
• 34:23
  Speaker 2: allowed to judge other people that come into our home
• 34:26
  Speaker 2: and by marrying into our family, and so now we're
• 34:30
  Speaker 2: allowed to judge Zach.
• 34:32
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's all to judge us crazy. Yeah. The rub
• 34:37
  Speaker 1: is simply they are trying to tell us how to live.
• 34:40
  Speaker 1: So I want to resolve that. I want some kind
• 34:42
  Speaker 1: of family cohesion here. I want us all in a
• 34:45
  Speaker 1: good place. It's important for me to mend this relationship
• 34:48
  Speaker 1: with Lydia. If a hard conversation needs to happen. I'm
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: all in the last few days, I've been thinking about Joshua,
• 34:55
  Speaker 1: and we're going to talk about him and remember him,
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: and it's all going to be okay, mm hmm okay.
• 35:01
  Speaker 2: Except first I'm going to make Lydia cry.
• 35:04
  Speaker 1: Oh immediately. So now we see Ken brading Mercy's hair,
• 35:09
  Speaker 1: which I didn't like.
• 35:10
  Speaker 2: I got the ick, but I mean, I'm glad he
• 35:14
  Speaker 2: gets along with the kids, but I did not need
• 35:16
  Speaker 2: to see that his tobacco chew fingers all through her hair.
• 35:21
  Speaker 1: Oh. She laughs and says, I'm gonna go see if
• 35:24
  Speaker 1: Amber is free. Everybody comes to the farm. Now, Kim
• 35:29
  Speaker 1: calls Tigan into her room, and the talking head Teagan
• 35:32
  Speaker 1: is like, I don't know, we get along, but it
• 35:34
  Speaker 1: feels like I'm being called at the principal's office and
• 35:37
  Speaker 1: the talking head. Kim says, I want to be sure
• 35:39
  Speaker 1: Tigan knows some of this could be about her, right, Like, girl,
• 35:44
  Speaker 1: you're gonna have to own up to your only fans.
• 35:47
  Speaker 1: So Kim says, I just want to check in with
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: you and see how you're doing. And I just wanted
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: to let you know, like Zach and Lydia having my daughter,
• 35:57
  Speaker 1: my daughter and her husband have been saying a lot
• 35:59
  Speaker 1: of things that have hurt a lot of people, and
• 36:02
  Speaker 1: they tell people that their lives aren't honoring to God
• 36:06
  Speaker 1: and to me. All of that with you falls into.
• 36:10
  Speaker 3: That category of what we're doing here, and they're just
• 36:15
  Speaker 3: being a little judgmental, and teake and goes, yeah, it
• 36:17
  Speaker 3: feels like a lot of judgment Yeah, Kim, me and
• 36:20
  Speaker 3: you girl, I'll fuck you up.
• 36:23
  Speaker 1: Tigan is like, Kim, don't come at me, girl.
• 36:28
  Speaker 2: Kim is trying so hard to be nice to kiss
• 36:32
  Speaker 2: up to tea Ian, like, in no way she was
• 36:34
  Speaker 2: never nice to Olivia, even though she set up Olivia
• 36:37
  Speaker 2: with her son, which is actually the meanest thing she
• 36:40
  Speaker 2: could have done. But she was not nice too. She's
• 36:46
  Speaker 2: trying so hard to be nice to Olivia, but we
• 36:48
  Speaker 2: see right through it. She is a classic textbook narcissist.
• 36:52
  Speaker 2: She is gathering up her flying monkeys to do her
• 36:56
  Speaker 2: dirty work for her. She's hoping Teakan will chime in
• 36:59
  Speaker 2: at the meat and talk about those issues. She's going
• 37:03
  Speaker 2: to gather her people on her team.
• 37:05
  Speaker 1: Yes one percent, So to talking head Zach and Lydia, Wow,
• 37:12
  Speaker 1: we're so glad we're here. What a great day this
• 37:15
  Speaker 1: is gonna be where you're gonna finally get to talk
• 37:17
  Speaker 1: about Joshua blind sighted.
• 37:20
  Speaker 2: They have no clue they're about to get punched in
• 37:24
  Speaker 2: the face.
• 37:24
  Speaker 1: They were happily eating donuts and donuts. You think Ethan
• 37:31
  Speaker 1: sent They're going, I never got a fucking donut in
• 37:32
  Speaker 1: my life. Around here right now I realize getting donuts.
• 37:35
  Speaker 2: I know the only person eating donuts was Cam in
• 37:39
  Speaker 2: the shower.
• 37:42
  Speaker 1: And then Zach says, today marks the year of Lydia's
• 37:49
  Speaker 1: brothers talking to her about their disagreements with our marriage,
• 37:53
  Speaker 1: and that was the date of that well, because it
• 37:57
  Speaker 1: is the one.
• 37:59
  Speaker 2: They're in the day after their wedding, the day before.
• 38:02
  Speaker 1: Day before the rehearsal dinner, rehearsal dinner. Okay, yeah, that
• 38:09
  Speaker 1: was very heavy for us and our emotions are wild
• 38:12
  Speaker 1: coming into this. But here we are. Here, we are.
• 38:15
  Speaker 1: It's about to get worse. So everybody's there. We got Ken, Barry, Mercy,
• 38:20
  Speaker 1: Cassia Mercy and Cassia not allowed to be in the
• 38:22
  Speaker 1: first one. But now Kim is gathering her truth, so
• 38:25
  Speaker 1: she needs them there.
• 38:26
  Speaker 2: Yep.
• 38:27
  Speaker 1: Micah not there, Hosannah ri Ip never there. Mariah and
• 38:33
  Speaker 1: Amber stay in the kitchen because they're cooking, which Mariah
• 38:36
  Speaker 1: has never cooked one thing in her whole life, but
• 38:38
  Speaker 1: today's the.
• 38:39
  Speaker 2: Day, which maybe she's protecting her mental health.
• 38:43
  Speaker 1: Yess like her therapist told her to stay in the kitchen.
• 38:46
  Speaker 2: I'm sure, yeah, even though half of this is about
• 38:48
  Speaker 2: her right the trip to Montana.
• 38:50
  Speaker 1: Yeah, so I also does Kaylin's not there? Oh yeah,
• 38:55
  Speaker 1: it is Saturday. She's a nurse. Maybe she had to
• 38:57
  Speaker 1: work at the ar. I'm talking to him. Mariah says,
• 39:02
  Speaker 1: I've told everybody I don't want to be involved in this.
• 39:04
  Speaker 1: So I tell my mother, I tell my mother, I
• 39:07
  Speaker 1: tell everybody out there, I don't want to be involved
• 39:08
  Speaker 1: in this. So Amber is going to like bake a
• 39:11
  Speaker 1: cake for the party tonight. So I'm going to help
• 39:13
  Speaker 1: Amber bake a cake. Lately, I'm trying to get into cooking,
• 39:15
  Speaker 1: and then she tells a stupid story about that, and she's,
• 39:19
  Speaker 1: I know, people want to talk to Zach. I invited
• 39:22
  Speaker 1: Lydia and Zach to Montana to see my life, and
• 39:27
  Speaker 1: they just sat down with me and told me things
• 39:29
  Speaker 1: they didn't like. After the fact, it's not always pleasant
• 39:34
  Speaker 1: and comfortable when you're giving a list of things somebody
• 39:36
  Speaker 1: doesn't approve of, Like, okay, thank you, what do I
• 39:40
  Speaker 1: do with this? So Mariah is like, I don't fuck
• 39:44
  Speaker 1: with that guy, and I'm not sitting out there with him,
• 39:46
  Speaker 1: you know. So talking head Amber coming in hot, Amber says, yeah.
• 39:53
  Speaker 1: When we went to Montana, Zach and Lydia were not
• 39:56
  Speaker 1: happy that Mariah was drinking around me and you know
• 40:00
  Speaker 1: her other life choices, like having a liquor in her home,
• 40:03
  Speaker 1: and they sat her down and talked to her. And
• 40:08
  Speaker 1: after they sat down and talked to Mariah, Mariah told
• 40:11
  Speaker 1: me what was said. So in the car on the
• 40:14
  Speaker 1: way to the airport, I talked with them Zach and
• 40:17
  Speaker 1: Lydia about it, and Lydia cried and Zach then told
• 40:22
  Speaker 1: us everything we did wrong on the trip. So I
• 40:26
  Speaker 1: told him it wasn't his place, and her I love,
• 40:29
  Speaker 1: I amber take some shit. Yeah, I told him it
• 40:33
  Speaker 1: wasn't his place, and if it came from Lydia that
• 40:36
  Speaker 1: would be different. But it didn't. It came from Zach.
• 40:39
  Speaker 1: It didn't feel I told him it didn't feel right
• 40:41
  Speaker 1: for him to marry into the family and right away
• 40:44
  Speaker 1: start telling everyone how to live their lives. And he said, no,
• 40:48
  Speaker 1: but I have to it's my place. And I told
• 40:50
  Speaker 1: him it was not his place, and he said it
• 40:52
  Speaker 1: was his place. And then we went back and forth
• 40:55
  Speaker 1: and no, we did not resolve it. We agreed to disagree.
• 40:59
  Speaker 1: And then I was like, shoot, now we have four
• 41:01
  Speaker 1: hours left. This is going to be uncomfortable.
• 41:03
  Speaker 2: Oh, that's horrible.
• 41:05
  Speaker 1: I imagine Isaac. Well, I don't know. I think Isaac
• 41:08
  Speaker 1: and Calen actually stayed a little longer. Yeah, So it
• 41:11
  Speaker 1: was just it was just the three of them. So
• 41:16
  Speaker 1: Kim starts talking off like, well, I thought it was
• 41:18
  Speaker 1: going to rain, but da da da, and Isaac goes,
• 41:20
  Speaker 1: so this is a weather meeting. Still loved love, and
• 41:25
  Speaker 1: Kim sayes, well, there are some things to talk about,
• 41:29
  Speaker 1: including Joshua, Isaac made a bench, and everyone's going to
• 41:33
  Speaker 1: sign it, like like a stamp, like a woodworking student whatever,
• 41:37
  Speaker 1: like a brand. I guess everyone's going to sign it.
• 41:41
  Speaker 1: And Isaac goes, Yeah, just the kids and mom.
• 41:43
  Speaker 2: And dad, people who were there then, not that horror Teagan,
• 41:48
  Speaker 2: not kak Ken, Yeah, nobody, not just Homo Zach.
• 41:54
  Speaker 1: Yeah, just the kids and mom and dad. And Kim goes,
• 41:59
  Speaker 1: and there's some other thinks me might want to talk
• 42:01
  Speaker 1: about first, And I wrote dramatic violin music, you know, Yeah,
• 42:07
  Speaker 1: And Kim says, let's clear the air. First of all, Lydia,
• 42:10
  Speaker 1: I was very hurt that you were talking about my deepest,
• 42:13
  Speaker 1: darkest feelings and you speculated publicly on why Barry and
• 42:17
  Speaker 1: I got divorced. Like, I'm glad you brought it up
• 42:20
  Speaker 1: about Joshua, but I do not like how it was
• 42:23
  Speaker 1: brought up.
• 42:25
  Speaker 2: I don't I feel like this should have been a
• 42:27
  Speaker 2: private conversation between the two of them. Why does everything
• 42:31
  Speaker 2: have to happen in front of the whole family so.
• 42:34
  Speaker 1: That Kim has flying monkeys everybody on her side. Yeah,
• 42:38
  Speaker 1: And Ethan says, to be honest, I did not like
• 42:43
  Speaker 1: what I saw. I think he means with the public thing.
• 42:48
  Speaker 1: One of the things that you guys made very clear
• 42:50
  Speaker 1: was that before anybody talks behind your back, they should
• 42:53
  Speaker 1: talk to you directly, and this definitely falls into that category.
• 42:59
  Speaker 1: Mom didn't care for it, especially after not talking to
• 43:02
  Speaker 1: her first. He's directing this so Lydia. My personal opinion is,
• 43:07
  Speaker 1: I don't like talking about Joshua publicly unless it's remembering
• 43:10
  Speaker 1: him for who he was when he was alive. Talking
• 43:13
  Speaker 1: about the death publicly, I don't like that. I don't
• 43:16
  Speaker 1: think it's respectful to him and the memory. And this
• 43:20
  Speaker 1: is what I would do. I would talk to mom
• 43:22
  Speaker 1: or dad or a therapist, you know. And this was interesting.
• 43:25
  Speaker 1: Ethan says, Mom's already gotten a lot of shit for
• 43:27
  Speaker 1: how she raised us. M hm, so you putting that
• 43:31
  Speaker 1: on the internet. I would not have done that. You
• 43:34
  Speaker 1: could do, obviously, whatever you want to do, but you
• 43:36
  Speaker 1: should talk to mom first.
• 43:38
  Speaker 2: He's team mom, yes, best friend.
• 43:42
  Speaker 1: Yeah, best friend last season, best friends yeah, so just
• 43:45
  Speaker 1: drinking buddies, best friends.
• 43:48
  Speaker 2: So he contributed to a lot of the her being
• 43:53
  Speaker 2: criticized for how she was raising them.
• 43:55
  Speaker 1: A lot of a lot of information came from him. Yeah, yeah, y'all.
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  Speaker 1: and tell them that we sent you. So I'm talking
• 46:07
  Speaker 1: head Barry goes Well. I didn't know this is gonna
• 46:11
  Speaker 1: be the conversation for her. Oh, it's a touchy subject.
• 46:15
  Speaker 1: They're different emotions.
• 46:17
  Speaker 2: Involved, Bigfoot, can you take me away?
• 46:21
  Speaker 1: There's there's hurdles to overcome, but the conversation does just
• 46:27
  Speaker 1: need to happen. Thank God, I'm not on the hot seat.
• 46:31
  Speaker 1: So Kim says, yeah, you know, if you're gonna go
• 46:34
  Speaker 1: on a podcast to talk about me, I'd like a
• 46:37
  Speaker 1: heads up first so I could clear up any misunderstandings.
• 46:42
  Speaker 1: So in the talking head, Lydia says, mom brings up
• 46:44
  Speaker 1: what I said publicly about Joshua, and I know her
• 46:48
  Speaker 1: and I mentioned it on that car ride, but I
• 46:50
  Speaker 1: guess it wasn't fully resolved. I mean, I've really done
• 46:55
  Speaker 1: I've really already done that with Zach. Zach has been
• 46:59
  Speaker 1: my safe place to talk about it and get everything
• 47:01
  Speaker 1: off my chest. She's really leaning into this. Just we're
• 47:06
  Speaker 1: a team against everybody else. Yeah, she has cleaveed, she
• 47:10
  Speaker 1: has cleaned, She's cloven.
• 47:11
  Speaker 2: Cloven. There the Cleven's.
• 47:16
  Speaker 1: Lydia cries because her mother's now made her cry, and
• 47:19
  Speaker 1: she says, well, I'm sorry. It wasn't meant to be
• 47:23
  Speaker 1: about you. It was meant to be about my experience,
• 47:28
  Speaker 1: and I don't blame you for anything at all, like
• 47:30
  Speaker 1: you were going through your own hell. And as far
• 47:33
  Speaker 1: as correlating that to the divorce, I have been left
• 47:35
  Speaker 1: to speculate because I don't really know. Now here's where
• 47:39
  Speaker 1: Barry hops in. Barry says, well, the issue is Joshua.
• 47:45
  Speaker 1: Joshua was death is not in the mix of that.
• 47:48
  Speaker 1: That's separate. It came goes yes, and that was between
• 47:52
  Speaker 1: the two of us, and so I liked it. Barry
• 47:55
  Speaker 1: kind of here was like, girl, like, don't speculate on
• 47:58
  Speaker 1: my divorce, you know because by the way, Lydia knows
• 48:01
  Speaker 1: way more about the divorce than anybody else, because Barry
• 48:04
  Speaker 1: was using her as this emotional support person.
• 48:06
  Speaker 2: Absolutely, but he is standing it up for Kim because
• 48:10
  Speaker 2: he wants her to get off his back about child support.
• 48:14
  Speaker 1: Sure, great point, and Lydia says, well, I'm sorry if
• 48:18
  Speaker 1: that caused any hurt. I didn't think it all the
• 48:21
  Speaker 1: way through, and I was just asked a question and za.
• 48:24
  Speaker 2: I don't think she knew they were going to bring
• 48:26
  Speaker 2: that up on the podcast.
• 48:28
  Speaker 1: And she's not media trained. I don't think I mean
• 48:31
  Speaker 1: she could have said, oh, you know, that really is
• 48:34
  Speaker 1: between my mom and dad, and I don't know the answer.
• 48:36
  Speaker 1: You'd have to ask them, you know. Zach says, well,
• 48:39
  Speaker 1: I think a part of it is that she hasn't
• 48:41
  Speaker 1: been able to talk about her experience, and if she's
• 48:45
  Speaker 1: tried to talk about it, it's like that can't be
• 48:47
  Speaker 1: talked about. She hasn't had the opportunity to confide in
• 48:51
  Speaker 1: you about Joshua, and Lydia says, well, I'm she cries,
• 48:55
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry if I said too much. The talking head
• 48:58
  Speaker 1: Kim says, I have talked to all of them about
• 49:01
  Speaker 1: it and have tried to talk to Lydia about it
• 49:03
  Speaker 1: further on the road trip, and when I brought it up,
• 49:06
  Speaker 1: she was quiet. And this stuff I don't want to
• 49:09
  Speaker 1: talk about is the graphic part of it.
• 49:12
  Speaker 2: No one is asking you to talk about that. I
• 49:15
  Speaker 2: don't need a play by play of all his injuries, right,
• 49:18
  Speaker 2: And you tried to talk to her about it after
• 49:21
  Speaker 2: the podcast came out and you were publicly shamed on it.
• 49:27
  Speaker 2: It's the point is that you never talked to her
• 49:29
  Speaker 2: about it before then, which could have avoided this situation.
• 49:34
  Speaker 1: And after the podcast stuff came out, she could have
• 49:36
  Speaker 1: just been like Lydia, let's go to lunch.
• 49:38
  Speaker 2: Yeah, instead of being accusatory and like.
• 49:41
  Speaker 1: Yeah, like lunch, let's like that. Yeah. So the talking
• 49:45
  Speaker 1: to head Barry says, you know, we've tried to talk
• 49:49
  Speaker 1: to the children at the age where they were at
• 49:52
  Speaker 1: an age appropriate level at the time, but now fast forward,
• 49:55
  Speaker 1: they're grown up and they have questions and that's fine.
• 49:59
  Speaker 1: So Kim's says, you're welcome to talk about Joshua, and
• 50:05
  Speaker 1: that's what we're gonna do later today at the talk
• 50:07
  Speaker 1: about Joshua's slash bench ceremony.
• 50:09
  Speaker 2: I think they're going to have like a whiteboard with
• 50:12
  Speaker 2: a checklist and it's going to be like accuse Zach
• 50:16
  Speaker 2: and Lydia of being horrible people, cake bench signing, talk
• 50:23
  Speaker 2: about Joshua. Ken gives the hair braiding tutorial.
• 50:28
  Speaker 1: No, that's not on the list. So Isaac says, well,
• 50:33
  Speaker 1: look here's what I think. If you're gonna talk about it,
• 50:35
  Speaker 1: talk to us before doing it publicly. So the talking
• 50:41
  Speaker 1: head Lydia says, I'm glad my mom brought it up.
• 50:43
  Speaker 1: And I get what Ethan was saying about sharing Joshua's
• 50:47
  Speaker 1: life and not the tragedy of his death. But at
• 50:50
  Speaker 1: the same time. His death has affected me in so
• 50:53
  Speaker 1: many ways, the way I handle stress or tragedy, the
• 50:56
  Speaker 1: way I handle hearing a siren.
• 50:59
  Speaker 2: Yeah, she has PTSD H.
• 51:02
  Speaker 1: So Kim says, well, it does hurt. And the goal
• 51:05
  Speaker 1: is not to pick on anybody, but to talk. And
• 51:08
  Speaker 1: Rina's closer together. So is there anybody else here that
• 51:12
  Speaker 1: wants to share any concerns or thoughts.
• 51:14
  Speaker 2: Because we're picking on Zach and Lydia. I mean, we're
• 51:17
  Speaker 2: not picking on anybody, but if we were to pick
• 51:20
  Speaker 2: on someone, does anyone else who's had anything to say? Yeah?
• 51:24
  Speaker 3: Who?
• 51:24
  Speaker 2: Let's line up?
• 51:25
  Speaker 1: Line up? Who's because I know Mariah's got a problem,
• 51:27
  Speaker 1: Isaac's got a problem, Ethan's got a problem, now, Teagan's
• 51:30
  Speaker 1: got a problem. Anybody else. I'm sure Ken's got several problems.
• 51:33
  Speaker 1: Line it up. I'm sure they got a lot of
• 51:35
  Speaker 1: pinions about Ken.
• 51:36
  Speaker 2: Yep.
• 51:37
  Speaker 1: So Ethan says, well, I don't know if anybody else
• 51:42
  Speaker 1: wants to say it, but I got my trusty and
• 51:47
  Speaker 1: slated cup and I'm feeling pretty bold. I want to
• 51:52
  Speaker 1: clear the air with you, Zach, and we're like, and Zach,
• 51:57
  Speaker 1: He says, you know, Zach, I don't know if it's
• 52:00
  Speaker 1: coming from a good place. But I thought all the
• 52:04
  Speaker 1: critiques that you give to the younger kids and Mariah,
• 52:07
  Speaker 1: like you know, and you talk to me about her Teagan,
• 52:12
  Speaker 1: I know you've interjected yourself many times about frivolous things
• 52:16
  Speaker 1: that my family is doing, like what TV shows they watch,
• 52:20
  Speaker 1: what games they're playing, whether you think it's right or wrong.
• 52:24
  Speaker 1: I feel like it's an overstep, and I don't find
• 52:27
  Speaker 1: it respectful. Okay, that's fair. That's fair, And he didn't
• 52:34
  Speaker 1: lose his mind and storm off, so.
• 52:36
  Speaker 2: You can try to light anything on fire. Not yet, the.
• 52:40
  Speaker 1: Talking head Zac says, I find this ironic that he's
• 52:45
  Speaker 1: bringing up all my conflicts he has with me, and
• 52:48
  Speaker 1: he's given me a lot of conflict, and I've never
• 52:51
  Speaker 1: brought it up to him, like throw me out of
• 52:55
  Speaker 1: the farmhouse, calling me gay. And the producer said, you've
• 53:01
  Speaker 1: never talked to him about any of this, and he goes, no,
• 53:04
  Speaker 1: I want to move forward past the hurt and just
• 53:06
  Speaker 1: be a brother to him. And when I do anything
• 53:09
  Speaker 1: that's remotely wrong, he's so detailed about it, and then
• 53:13
  Speaker 1: he decides to speak for the family, so I'm the
• 53:18
  Speaker 1: problem for the whole family. Cool, Cool, I'll just shut
• 53:21
  Speaker 1: up and never be around. So that is manipulation. Yes,
• 53:27
  Speaker 1: and we're not new here, Zach. You've been watching this
• 53:30
  Speaker 1: family for eight seasons.
• 53:32
  Speaker 2: That's starvo and that is reverse victim and offender. Yes,
• 53:40
  Speaker 2: He's like, oh, ok oh, okay, Oh I guess I'll
• 53:43
  Speaker 2: just never talk again. Yeah, right, because I'm the bad guy.
• 53:47
  Speaker 1: Yeah. It's like my husband gets mad. He'll say, Okay,
• 53:50
  Speaker 1: I guess I'm not allowed to ask a question of
• 53:51
  Speaker 1: my own house. Oh god, that's right. Get out of here,
• 53:56
  Speaker 1: so you yeah, you got that right, Get out next time.
• 54:00
  Speaker 1: I'm on. Ethan tells Zach he does want to build
• 54:04
  Speaker 1: a relationship with him, but he's finding it hard to
• 54:06
  Speaker 1: do that, and he would appreciate it if Zak would
• 54:09
  Speaker 1: just keep his opinions to himself and not just with him,
• 54:12
  Speaker 1: but with the whole family.
• 54:14
  Speaker 2: Because I'm the eldest boy, so I get to decide
• 54:17
  Speaker 2: what's best for the family.
• 54:20
  Speaker 1: Barry says to Zach, his best friend. You know you're
• 54:24
  Speaker 1: exporting your opinion into lands that don't want to import. Berry.
• 54:33
  Speaker 1: You keep winning, he says, It says everything in a
• 54:38
  Speaker 1: weird whisper weird.
• 54:40
  Speaker 3: I just love it.
• 54:41
  Speaker 2: Cracks me up.
• 54:42
  Speaker 1: Barry's like, Zach, I've been getting laid by a woman
• 54:45
  Speaker 1: named Joan.
• 54:48
  Speaker 2: She goes to the gym a lot.
• 54:51
  Speaker 1: Jim the talking to Mariah says, I mean somebody's judging me. Okay,
• 54:58
  Speaker 1: I'll judge you too, Hi Mariah, Wow, jump vin girl.
• 55:03
  Speaker 2: I mean you should have earlier instead of doing that
• 55:06
  Speaker 2: an infantilized baby thing where she's like, I need to
• 55:09
  Speaker 2: I need to hide in the house because I don't
• 55:12
  Speaker 2: like confrontation. Even though this whole thing is about me.
• 55:15
  Speaker 2: I'm going to let my brother do the dirty work
• 55:17
  Speaker 2: for me.
• 55:18
  Speaker 1: And I think, I really think her therapist probably said,
• 55:21
  Speaker 1: if there's a way that you could go and support
• 55:23
  Speaker 1: your family but not be directly involved, try to find
• 55:27
  Speaker 1: a way to do that. So she's like, bingo, I'm
• 55:29
  Speaker 1: gonna make a cake and and a were done. Want
• 55:31
  Speaker 1: to be involved either, because she and Zach and Lydia
• 55:33
  Speaker 1: had to fight about it on the way home.
• 55:34
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, I think there's no good therapist that
• 55:39
  Speaker 2: would say you need to let everyone fight your battles
• 55:42
  Speaker 2: for you, and you are integral to what this conflict is,
• 55:47
  Speaker 2: so you should be involved and speak your mind. Get
• 55:50
  Speaker 2: I can't imagine a therapist, a good therapist being like
• 55:54
  Speaker 2: go hide in the house and bake a cake.
• 55:57
  Speaker 1: It could be like this is very triggering for you, right,
• 56:00
  Speaker 1: and so if that is the case, then you need
• 56:02
  Speaker 1: to go somewhere else and find out what happened later.
• 56:06
  Speaker 2: But again, you're not a wilting princess that you need
• 56:09
  Speaker 2: to let your brother save you and speak for you
• 56:13
  Speaker 2: in this conversation, like true true, Amber should be out
• 56:19
  Speaker 2: there because Amber seems like it's way tougher than I knew,
• 56:23
  Speaker 2: and yeah, yeah, she is. Go Amber.
• 56:26
  Speaker 1: So in Talking Head, Kim says, these are my kids,
• 56:30
  Speaker 1: these are Barry's kids. We are the ones that will
• 56:33
  Speaker 1: decide on things raising them, and if we want to
• 56:35
  Speaker 1: raise them one way and completely change our mind and
• 56:39
  Speaker 1: raise the next set another way, that's on us.
• 56:42
  Speaker 2: If they're going to be failed by someone, it is
• 56:44
  Speaker 2: going to be by our parenting, not by yours. Zach, Right,
• 56:49
  Speaker 2: we get to fuck them up.
• 56:51
  Speaker 1: Talking Head together Lydia Zach Lydia says, I just feel
• 56:55
  Speaker 1: time and time again Zach is misunderstood, and he cried
• 57:00
  Speaker 1: and says, what am I supposed to do? Like wrestle
• 57:02
  Speaker 1: them in the yard, Like I don't know what to do. Yeah,
• 57:07
  Speaker 1: that was pretty funny, but he is crying and they
• 57:10
  Speaker 1: do probably like the next day move to Colorado, like
• 57:13
  Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, yeah, So that's it, guys. That's the episode.
• 57:17
  Speaker 1: And I thought there was eleven, but there is twelve,
• 57:19
  Speaker 1: which is good because I don't like an uneven number.
• 57:21
  Speaker 1: And next week is the last episode. There are twelve episodes.
• 57:26
  Speaker 1: Have I heard back from Lydia? No, I have not, Olivia.
• 57:31
  Speaker 1: I keep trying, though, I keep trying. It's going to happen.
• 57:34
  Speaker 1: And when she does get back to me, she'll be like,
• 57:36
  Speaker 1: I'm so sorry. I was in Zimbabwe, I was in Nigeria,
• 57:40
  Speaker 1: I was somewhere. Yeah. She has posted a couple of
• 57:45
  Speaker 1: really interesting reels lately regarding Kim Plath trying to be
• 57:49
  Speaker 1: a cook now when she's never saw her cook one
• 57:51
  Speaker 1: thing except for waffles with raspberry jam that nobody else
• 57:55
  Speaker 1: was allowed.
• 57:55
  Speaker 2: To have green waffles because.
• 57:57
  Speaker 1: It's finished with the juicer. Don't forget, yes, the jure
• 58:03
  Speaker 1: and the control chair where she.
• 58:05
  Speaker 2: Sat control chair where she gets to sit and dictate
• 58:09
  Speaker 2: everyone else cooking in the kitchen. Interesting and slathered slathered
• 58:14
  Speaker 2: those waffles with jam, slathered she had to buy jars
• 58:18
  Speaker 2: of that raspberry jam that no one else was allowed to touch.
• 58:21
  Speaker 1: But her, and they knew it only she was allowed
• 58:25
  Speaker 1: to have it.
• 58:25
  Speaker 2: Yes, crazy, it's crazy. Oh well, mommy has different rules
• 58:28
  Speaker 2: for herself than for us.
• 58:31
  Speaker 1: And and we're saying when I'm older, I'm going to
• 58:33
  Speaker 1: have a control chair. You imagine everybody that is it.
• 58:40
  Speaker 1: Please make sure it's Wednesday, so that means also A
• 58:43
  Speaker 1: Date with Dayline is out. Yes, new episode of the
• 58:46
  Speaker 1: Date with Dayline is out. You need to go and
• 58:48
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• 58:51
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• 58:53
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• 58:58
  Speaker 1: You could see us there. Hopefully I'm not glitching and
• 59:00
  Speaker 1: freezing like I was. But we don't know what's happening
• 59:03
  Speaker 1: with Streamyard.
• 59:04
  Speaker 2: Streamyard been causing a lot of problems.
• 59:07
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I was telling Keisha that you had some issues
• 59:09
  Speaker 1: as well. Yeah, don't like a Streamyard.
• 59:13
  Speaker 2: Get your shit together, Get your shit together. You're the
• 59:16
  Speaker 2: ones who caused this pimple on my chin.
• 59:18
  Speaker 1: I think so, by the way, you can even yesterday
• 59:21
  Speaker 1: I could see it. Today I can't really see it.
• 59:23
  Speaker 1: I mean, let's just we're friends. I gotta tell you
• 59:25
  Speaker 1: the truth here everybody. On Friday will be our episode
• 59:30
  Speaker 1: of ninety day The Last Resort, which is a great season,
• 59:34
  Speaker 1: firing on all cylinders.
• 59:35
  Speaker 2: Yeah, boy, oh boy.
• 59:38
  Speaker 1: I did not get a chance to watch the Oh
• 59:41
  Speaker 1: I did watch the pillow talk for right now. I'm
• 59:42
  Speaker 1: remembering because they were using those wands like at the
• 59:45
  Speaker 1: airport because starf said he had metallics firm.
• 59:49
  Speaker 2: Okay, I did not know what they were talking about
• 59:52
  Speaker 2: because I only saw that preview where they're talking about
• 59:54
  Speaker 2: him setting off a metal detector in the airport with
• 59:57
  Speaker 2: his venus.
• 59:58
  Speaker 1: He says if he hasn't had X that it always
• 1:00:01
  Speaker 1: sets it off at the airport.
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 2: Is that real? Can we get a doctor to weigh
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 2: in on this?
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 1: I crazy?
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 2: Could that possibly be real?
• 1:00:12
  Speaker 3: No?
• 1:00:12
  Speaker 1: I don't think he has metallics firm, but there has
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 1: to be a reason it could be. He has literally
• 1:00:19
  Speaker 1: like gold Vasaci stripes in his underwear, you know what
• 1:00:22
  Speaker 1: I mean. It's something like that. But yeah, it's it's
• 1:00:26
  Speaker 1: really really good. It's really really good. And if you're
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 1: new here to the podcast, I got a lot of
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 1: new subscribers and followers and whatever last week because of
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 1: the last resort reel that I put about about us
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 1: talking about Kara and her cultural appropriation.
• 1:00:40
  Speaker 2: Did you see that?
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 1: Kara responded, I wrote back, we love you girl. Why
• 1:00:45
  Speaker 1: can't too hot people say together?
• 1:00:46
  Speaker 2: Exactly? It's all we need either.
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, And I went under and wrote on a
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 1: lot of comments as well, like we love Kara, actually
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 1: we think she's a hoot and a half.
• 1:00:56
  Speaker 2: Yeah, she just maybe could appropriate to tiny list. Just
• 1:01:02
  Speaker 2: that's all.
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 1: Just choose one, choose one, Johanna. Yes, you can't have
• 1:01:09
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• 1:01:11
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• 1:01:15
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• 1:01:19
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• 1:01:23
  Speaker 1: Now we're canceled. Okay, I see you. Extuity for my