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Focus on Yourself, Not Others: Achieve True Success and Happiness · Motivation Mindset Podcast

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  Speaker 1: We are all, in various ways, self seeking, lacking in wisdom,
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  Speaker 1: lacking in courage, afraid of death, afraid of pain, and
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  Speaker 1: we all think that's too bad. It's me that's wrong,
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  Speaker 1: and if only I could be the right person.
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  Speaker 2: Is this man going to tell me something that will
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  Speaker 2: help me to change myself so that I will be
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  Speaker 2: a more creative and cooperative member of.
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  Speaker 1: The human race.
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  Speaker 3: Everybody wants to be a beast. Everybody wants to be
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  Speaker 3: number one. Everybody wants to be the best. Everybody wants
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  Speaker 3: to succeed. Everybody wants to have to be and do
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  Speaker 3: what they feel they've been called to do.
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  Speaker 4: It.
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  Speaker 3: Challenge becomes that most of us, when it's.
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  Speaker 5: Time to do what beasts do.
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  Speaker 4: We don't do it.
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  Speaker 6: See the way in which we operate, ladies and gentlemen,
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  Speaker 6: there's a manifestation of what we believe, what's possible for us.
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  Speaker 6: Whatever you have done up to this point, all.
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  Speaker 4: That it really is. It's a duplication.
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  Speaker 6: It's a reproduction of what you believe subconsciously that you
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  Speaker 6: deserve and what's possible for your life. Most people operate
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  Speaker 6: out of their personal history, out of their memory, things
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  Speaker 6: have done, things have experienced, things have seen things that
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  Speaker 6: they have observed. What I'm suggesting that you operate out
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  Speaker 6: of a larger.
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  Speaker 4: Vision of yourself.
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  Speaker 6: I want you to see yourself doing what you want
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  Speaker 6: to do, experiencing what you want, experiencing having what you
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  Speaker 6: want to have, doing what it is that gives your
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  Speaker 6: life the meaning of value. Operate out of your imagination,
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  Speaker 6: not your memory.
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  Speaker 7: There's nothing you can do about the past, but you
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  Speaker 7: can do a great deal about your future. You don't
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  Speaker 7: have to be the same person you were yesterday. You
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  Speaker 7: can make changes in your life, absolutely startling change in
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  Speaker 7: a fairly short period of time. You can make changes
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  Speaker 7: you can't even conceive of now. If you give yourself
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  Speaker 7: a chance, your abilities will grow. You have untapped talents
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  Speaker 7: and potential that you haven't even reached for yet, And
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  Speaker 7: as time goes on, you'll be able to reach deeper
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  Speaker 7: and deeper. The first thing you'll know, you'll be able
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  Speaker 7: to do things you never thought you could do. You'll
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  Speaker 7: be able to handle things you never thought you could handle.
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  Speaker 7: You'll have ideas that you've never had before.
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  Speaker 5: Because let me tell you something right now, and burn
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  Speaker 5: this into the core of your soul. There's always room
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  Speaker 5: for the best.
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  Speaker 8: There's always room for the best, And if you're prepared
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  Speaker 8: to become the best, you can become unstoppable. You can
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  Speaker 8: build something other people think is impossible. You can build
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  Speaker 8: something out from under a mountain of doubt.
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  Speaker 9: The more you can create success rituals, processes and systems,
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  Speaker 9: daily success rituals to activate your motivational centers, your emotional
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  Speaker 9: centers and behaviors. The more you can create daily rituals
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  Speaker 9: of how you start a day, how you deal with
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  Speaker 9: stress during the day, how you plan your day, how
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  Speaker 9: you evaluate your day, how you follow through to the
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  Speaker 9: end of the day, in a process that puts you
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  Speaker 9: in a cycle of success. The easier it becomes to
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  Speaker 9: achieve success and to make that the default mode of
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  Speaker 9: the brain.
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  Speaker 6: So if you want to do something, if you thought
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  Speaker 6: about something you want to do, take it head on.
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  Speaker 6: Decide that you're going to face it on every shortcomings
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  Speaker 6: you have, that you're gonna strengthen yourself there, that you're
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  Speaker 6: gonna get started right now, do what you can, where
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  Speaker 6: you are and what you have.
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  Speaker 4: And never be satisfied.
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  Speaker 6: Always strive to be more than that what you are. Yeah,
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  Speaker 6: don't get satisfied with yourself. Always know that wherever you are,
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  Speaker 6: you can enjoy more that you deserve more.
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  Speaker 5: You have not cause you asked.
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  Speaker 10: Now, listen to me. A lot of the problems I
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  Speaker 10: was having is because what I was asking God for
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  Speaker 10: was the wrong stuff. I kept going to him. Too small.
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  Speaker 10: God don't give you what you want. He give you
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  Speaker 10: what you believe. See you've be implored. If you up
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  Speaker 10: your ass, he ups his gear. Lord, help me fix
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  Speaker 10: my car so I can make it to work. Why
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  Speaker 10: don't you ask God for a car that don't need fixed? Oh,
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  Speaker 10: you think that's too big for him. So you don't
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  Speaker 10: ask great God for big stuff because you don't see
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  Speaker 10: how you can get it. See the how to is
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  Speaker 10: none of your business. Show me the scripture where he
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  Speaker 10: tells you to figure out how to do anything. He
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  Speaker 10: don't ask you the how to nothing. If I was you,
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  Speaker 10: i'd try to. If you keep doing what you've been doing,
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  Speaker 10: you gonna keep getting what you've been getting.
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  Speaker 4: I believe that the struggle is the part of the process.
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  Speaker 4: People who get things without struggle don't appreciate them. It
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  Speaker 4: is the diligence and the fight to be relevant that
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  Speaker 4: creates the backdrop that when you get there you appreciate
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  Speaker 4: what God has done. Light loses its relevance without darkness.
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  Speaker 4: Pain and struggling are a part of the process. The
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  Speaker 4: promise is not powerful if it is not painting on
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  Speaker 4: the backdrop of a problem.
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  Speaker 10: There's times I felt like giving up. Everybody has a
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  Speaker 10: cross road. If you haven't been at it, it's coming.
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  Speaker 10: You can either decide to continue or to quit. You're
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  Speaker 10: gonna always have that decision. See, I was so sick
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  Speaker 10: of being poor. My motivation was I was just exhausted
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  Speaker 10: for poverty. I was sick of living in my car.
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  Speaker 10: I was sick of not having money. And see, that's
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  Speaker 10: what people do. People quit when it's at their hardest moment.
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  Speaker 10: Somebody sent me a plaque one time to saying, if
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  Speaker 10: you're going through hell, why stop there? Move keep going?
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  Speaker 10: And I just could not see myself not being successful.
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  Speaker 10: Can I tell you something, if you really want to
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  Speaker 10: be successful, you have a lot of dog because life
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  Speaker 10: ain't fair. Life is hard, man, It is not fair,
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  Speaker 10: But life ain't fair to nobody. You just gotta fight through, man,
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  Speaker 10: You got to you gotta bite back. Sometime people's opinion
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  Speaker 10: of you is none of your business. I have lots
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  Speaker 10: of haters. But who are they though they don't even
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  Speaker 10: know me, so I don't I don't give them no energy.
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  Speaker 10: I just keep going through. But then I tell you
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  Speaker 10: something to haters motivate me because when they talking about me,
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  Speaker 10: that means I'm doing something. If you don't have any haters,
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  Speaker 10: you need to get some, because if you have no haters,
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  Speaker 10: you ain't doing nothing, man. So one last piece to that,
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  Speaker 10: if you give up, you know exactly what's gonna happen.
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  Speaker 4: Nothing. The reason God.
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  Speaker 10: Wakes you up in the morning is because He still
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  Speaker 10: has something for you. So as long as I wake up,
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  Speaker 10: I just look for it. I say, Okay, God, what
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  Speaker 10: is it today? It might be a challenge or it
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  Speaker 10: might be the win. But either way I will wake
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  Speaker 10: up tomorrow. And if I wake up tomorrow, that's a
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  Speaker 10: good sign.
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  Speaker 5: That he ain't through bood.
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  Speaker 8: Every struggle is making you stronger. Every difficulty is growing
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  Speaker 8: you up. Every painful time, even though you don't like it,
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  Speaker 8: it's developing something in you that can only be developed
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  Speaker 8: in the tough times. Don't complain about the pain. Without
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  Speaker 8: the pain, we couldn't reach the fullness of our destinies.
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  Speaker 8: The key is what we do in our times of pain.
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  Speaker 8: Pain will change us. Heartache, lost, disappointments, they don't leave
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  Speaker 8: us the same. When I lost my father, I didn't
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  Speaker 8: come out like I was before. I was changed.
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  Speaker 5: If you go through a divorce, a.
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  Speaker 8: Legal battle, a friend betrays you, Eventually that will pass.
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  Speaker 8: You'll get through it, but you will be different now.
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  Speaker 8: How the pain changes you is.
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  Speaker 4: Up to you.
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  Speaker 8: You can come out better, or you can come out better.
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  Speaker 8: You can come out with a chip on your shoulder
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  Speaker 8: blaming God, or you can come out stronger, with a
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  Speaker 8: greater competence in God. You can come out defeated, giving
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  Speaker 8: up on your dreams. Or you can come out with
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  Speaker 8: a new passion, a new fire, excited about the new
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  Speaker 8: opportunities in front of you. All of us experience pain.
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  Speaker 4: My challenge.
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  Speaker 8: Don't just go through it, grow through it. That difficulty
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  Speaker 8: is an opportunity to get stronger, to develop character, to
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  Speaker 8: gain new competence. Anybody can give up, anybody can let
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  Speaker 8: it overwhelm you, but you know what that's doing, wasting
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  Speaker 8: your pain. That pain is not there to stop you.
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  Speaker 8: It's there to prepare you, to increase you, to develop you.
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  Speaker 5: Once you understand that, the power center is right within you,
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  Speaker 5: and you learn how to just use the tools a
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  Speaker 5: little bit better. You've got the most powerful three pound
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  Speaker 5: tool in the world with no user's manual, and so
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  Speaker 5: we teach people. Here's the latest research. Here's how you
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  Speaker 5: can apply it to your life. Be healthier, happier, and
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  Speaker 5: make more money. Get a better job, get a raise,
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  Speaker 5: start your business, and do better by retraining your brain
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  Speaker 5: to be totally in aligned with your goals and dreams
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  Speaker 5: and learning how do I stay focused, how do I
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  Speaker 5: stay motivated? How do I stay on track? How do
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  Speaker 5: I develop the habits that will empower me? And how
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  Speaker 5: do I do the things that inspire me instead of
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  Speaker 5: the things that expire me