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Tammy Young · Postcards to the Universe

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  Speaker 1: Welcome to Postcards to the Universe with Melissa Capria. Do
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  Speaker 1: you believe in magic? What if you were told that
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  Speaker 1: all you had to do was get a little creative
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  Speaker 1: and work a magic spell to bring anything you can
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  Speaker 1: imagine into your life. Here on Postcards to the Universe,
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  Speaker 1: we will share manifesting tips, postcards, creativity, abundance, and prosperity.
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  Speaker 1: Here is your host, Melissa Caprill.
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  Speaker 2: Hey guys, and welcome to Postcards to the Universe with
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  Speaker 2: Melissa creating Life You Crave. How are you guys doing.
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  Speaker 2: I hope everybody's doing well. Boy, has it been a
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  Speaker 2: week for me. I gotta tell you. I have a
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  Speaker 2: really cool guest today, Tammy Young, and she is a
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  Speaker 2: psychic medium and a ranking master and she's going to
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  Speaker 2: join me in just a few minutes. So this last week,
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  Speaker 2: let's see, last week, I did my show in bed,
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  Speaker 2: literally sick as a dog, and I'm still recovering. I
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  Speaker 2: have I got the flu. Apparently I had like a
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  Speaker 2: one hundred and three fever for like five days. It
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  Speaker 2: was pretty bad, but I'm feeling better. It's still a
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  Speaker 2: little congested, but holy cow, I haven't had the flu
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  Speaker 2: and I don't even know how long. I haven't been
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  Speaker 2: this sick in over a decade, so I know it's
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  Speaker 2: going around. A lot of people are sick right now,
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  Speaker 2: so please take care of yourself. Lots of fluids, lots
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  Speaker 2: of rest. It just seems like you gotta let it
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  Speaker 2: go through your body. It hasn't been fun. I came
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  Speaker 2: back from New Orleans last Monday, and I felt myself
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  Speaker 2: getting sick on the plane. I was wearing a mask,
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  Speaker 2: but I felt myself getting sick, and I said, oh no,
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  Speaker 2: and sure as heck.
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  Speaker 3: It knocked me for a loop.
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  Speaker 2: But thankfully I left on Monday and not Tuesday, because
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  Speaker 2: we would have gotten snowed in. I mean, it would
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  Speaker 2: have been beautiful to see, but it would have been
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  Speaker 2: useless for me. I would have been sick and we
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  Speaker 2: would have been stuck. So just want everybody out there,
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  Speaker 2: there's like four viruses going around, take care of yourselves.
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  Speaker 4: You know.
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  Speaker 2: Self care is so important to my regulars. I want
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  Speaker 2: to give you a big shout out. Thank you so
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  Speaker 2: much for listening to me each week. I so appreciate you.
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  Speaker 2: You have no idea I get emails, I get your postcards.
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  Speaker 2: I'm just thrilled, so thank you, so much. If you're
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  Speaker 2: joining me for the first time, I want to say welcome.
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  Speaker 3: So what we do is we record the show live.
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  Speaker 2: So if you're listening right now, it is January twenty ninth,
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  Speaker 2: two thousand and five, at four h five or.
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  Speaker 3: Four h six pm Eastern time.
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  Speaker 2: But what we do is we take each show and
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  Speaker 2: we put it on the archives on Home Times Radio
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  Speaker 2: and the archives. I take each show and I put
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  Speaker 2: it on Postcards to the Universe dot Com.
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  Speaker 3: There, of course, is a description on every show.
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  Speaker 2: So if you like the show and you want to
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  Speaker 2: listen to some other guests that I've talked to, please
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  Speaker 2: you can find them there, and of course you can
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  Speaker 2: always find them on your favorite podcasting platform, whatever it is.
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  Speaker 2: You use a little bit about me if you are
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  Speaker 2: listening for the first time. I'm a photographer, I'm an artist.
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  Speaker 2: I'm an author. I have a book titled Postcards to
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  Speaker 2: the Universe, Harness the Universe's power and manifest your dreams.
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  Speaker 2: And what I do is I have people create a
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  Speaker 2: manifesting postcard kind of like a vision board, but sort
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  Speaker 2: of a small one.
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  Speaker 3: They send it to me or I'll do it.
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  Speaker 2: In a workshop and I photographed their postcard, and when
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  Speaker 2: their manifestation that was on the postcards shows up in
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  Speaker 2: their reality, I share their stories. And the book has
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  Speaker 2: thirty of those postcards and stories in it, and it
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  Speaker 2: was so great, it was so fun creating it.
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  Speaker 3: It's already been out five years.
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  Speaker 2: I cannot even believe how fast fast the last five
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  Speaker 2: years have gone by constantly to making postcards. So if
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  Speaker 2: you want to create a manifesting postcard, there's so much.
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  Speaker 3: Fun to make. Please do You can send it to me.
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  Speaker 2: If you go to postcards to the universe dot com,
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  Speaker 2: you'll see how to create a postcard and the address
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  Speaker 2: to send it.
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  Speaker 3: So I really really hope you do.
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  Speaker 2: We are having I live in an artist community and
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  Speaker 2: we have a three story gallery in the middle of
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  Speaker 2: our community, and I am the curator this month.
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  Speaker 3: So even while sick, thankfully I've had help.
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  Speaker 2: We have hung a show of twenty seven artists on
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  Speaker 2: the three stories and I have my postcards on the wall,
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  Speaker 2: and I'm so excited. We're having a big event February
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  Speaker 2: twenty first, and it's going to.
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  Speaker 3: Be a wonderful show.
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  Speaker 2: It's like I haven't done a show since before COVID,
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  Speaker 2: so I'm really, really excited. I guess better to be
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  Speaker 2: sick now than on the twenty first, which is the
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  Speaker 2: big event. So if you're local and in South Florida
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  Speaker 2: and you want to come, let me know and I'll
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  Speaker 2: give you all the information. Okay, So let me get
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  Speaker 2: to my guests today. Tammy Young. Tammy Young is a
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  Speaker 2: dedicated psychic medium and a Reiki master. She serves as
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  Speaker 2: a spiritual advisor who helps connect the bereaved with their
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  Speaker 2: departed loved ones. With expertise in guiding clients through health,
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  Speaker 2: relationships and career challenges, Tammy brings a holistic approach to
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  Speaker 2: her practice. Her unique journey began as an electrical engineer
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  Speaker 2: at Motorola, where she worked for a decade before a
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  Speaker 2: personal tragedy shifted her path. The still birth of Tammy's
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  Speaker 2: child profoundly altered her life, prompting a quest for answers
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  Speaker 2: that led her to explore new philosophies and spiritual practices.
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  Speaker 2: This transformative experience opened her to the world of spirit
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  Speaker 2: and deepened her relationship with God. Embracing her spiritual side,
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  Speaker 2: Tammy's abilities as a medium flourished, and she can continues
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  Speaker 2: to seek and share spiritual insights today her book After
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  Speaker 2: Life Bonds How Spirit Communication turned My grief into a
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  Speaker 2: journey of joy. Tammy invites readers to navigate the challenging
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  Speaker 2: path of grief and discover profound connections with loved ones
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  Speaker 2: beyond the physical realm, explore the afterlife to heal from loss,
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  Speaker 2: and embrace spiritual connections to communicate with loved ones on
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  Speaker 2: the other side. If you want to find out more
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  Speaker 2: about Tammy, you can go to her website. It's Tammy
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  Speaker 2: youngmedium dot com.
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  Speaker 3: Welcome Tammy. Thank you so much for joining me today.
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  Speaker 4: Thank you for having me. I'm so glad you're feeling better. Wow.
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  Speaker 2: Oh me too. This thing knocked me on my ass.
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  Speaker 2: Oh my god. Yesterday we were hanging and finishing up hanging.
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  Speaker 2: I have three other curators, so I'm not the only curator,
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  Speaker 2: thank god, because I would have.
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  Speaker 3: Been like, I can't hang this show.
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  Speaker 2: I'm never gonna make it. It's been a lot, but
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  Speaker 2: it's good. It's good. I'm feeling better, so that's the
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  Speaker 2: most important thing. So, Tammy, your your background is super interesting.
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  Speaker 2: How did going yeah right, How did going from being
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  Speaker 2: an electrical engineer at Motorola to all of a sudden
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  Speaker 2: your mediumship opened, it was the death of your child.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, I can't even imagine the grief that that
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  Speaker 2: must have been. But you want to share a little
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  Speaker 2: bit your story with us.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean I think that's a great question because
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  Speaker 4: I know when you look at my bio, you're thinking,
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  Speaker 4: what the heck is going on here? You know, And
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  Speaker 4: the interesting connection between all of that really is energy,
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  Speaker 4: our own personal energy. And I think that my education
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  Speaker 4: as an engineer, going to school and practicing that, I
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  Speaker 4: just really learned a lot about electricity and how things
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  Speaker 4: will happen around you that you can't even see. So
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  Speaker 4: there is this really strange connection there, believe it they
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  Speaker 4: or not between that electrical engineering and then the mediumship.
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  Speaker 4: But you're right, it really was the death of a child.
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  Speaker 4: For me, it was twenty weeks pregnant, and that really
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  Speaker 4: just it really changed my life. It really brought me
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  Speaker 4: to a different place that I was like, didn't know
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  Speaker 4: where to go, didn't know what to do, didn't know
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  Speaker 4: what was next. That took me to that place of questioning,
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  Speaker 4: and it was really I think it was probably you know,
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  Speaker 4: at this point, it's probably been twenty years since that
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  Speaker 4: happened more like twenty six. But yeah, it's been a
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  Speaker 4: journey and it felt sort of gradual and okay to
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  Speaker 4: lead this very profound profession of engineering and moving into
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  Speaker 4: something that maybe I couldn't see or understand, but I
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  Speaker 4: sure knew it was here and exceled it. So it
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  Speaker 4: was I don't know, kind of kind of something I
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  Speaker 4: just followed my intuition, believe it or not.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, well that's usually what happens.
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  Speaker 2: Usually, a tragedy will happen and it brings us to
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  Speaker 2: our knees and we start questioning, right, And we go
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  Speaker 2: within and we're grieving, and we're dealing with a shock
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  Speaker 2: to our nervous system from what happened, and we start
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  Speaker 2: questioning and maybe becoming more open to hearing answers coming
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  Speaker 2: to us from spirit.
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  Speaker 3: Right.
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  Speaker 2: And it makes sense that you know, like we know
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  Speaker 2: electricity works, right, I mean we turn on our light, we.
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  Speaker 3: See it, but we don't see how it travels.
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  Speaker 2: Right. We know sound travels, we know light travels, So
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  Speaker 2: why isn't it that consciousness also travels and some of
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  Speaker 2: us are tuned into it or more tuned into it
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  Speaker 2: than others.
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  Speaker 3: It makes perfect sense.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, honestly, I've had that question so much.
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  Speaker 4: I'd asked myself what the heck is going on? And
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  Speaker 4: I do believe that there's just like there's some other
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  Speaker 4: ability that all of us have to tune into this
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  Speaker 4: consciousness level, wavelengths, whatever you want to call that.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I mean it's yeah and I and I'm
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  Speaker 2: not surprised that it took a situation for you to
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  Speaker 2: become tuned in. So so the spirit of the child
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  Speaker 2: that you've lost, you can connect and speak with that
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  Speaker 2: spirit on the other side, like any time you want to.
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  Speaker 2: Is that how it is, that how it works for you, or.
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  Speaker 4: So just tell me this is it's a very interesting
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  Speaker 4: thing that nobody's asked me this before, but I have
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  Speaker 4: this feeling. You know, Sylvia Brown wrote a bunch of books.
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  Speaker 2: I used to read Sylvia. I used to read Sylvia. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I know Sylvia, right.
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  Speaker 4: So that was one of the first types of books
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  Speaker 4: I was reading after the loss of my baby Zoe,
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  Speaker 4: and I you know, for me, I really picked up
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  Speaker 4: on the idea that spirit is really just there waiting
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  Speaker 4: for the body to be formed and everything, and then
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  Speaker 4: you know, spirit and body come together and the baby's born.
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  Speaker 4: So one of the things that Sylvia talked about was
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  Speaker 4: when the body doesn't work out, that spirit is first
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  Speaker 4: step for the next body the next time you get pregnant.
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  Speaker 4: And I did get pregnant surprisingly very quickly after the
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  Speaker 4: loss of Zoe, and so my feeling is, I'm and
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  Speaker 4: I had a son in place of a girl. So
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  Speaker 4: I know this is really falling.
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  Speaker 3: I believe you, I believe you. I know I believe you.
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  Speaker 4: That same spirit has come through as a boy instead
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  Speaker 4: of a girl. So there's not this feeling about the
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  Speaker 4: loss of that spirit, right, but it really it really
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  Speaker 4: for me, you know. Years later was another sort of
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  Speaker 4: primary situation that came up that really made me work
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  Speaker 4: in this area of psychic mediumship even more than I was,
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  Speaker 4: because at that time I began to move forward and
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  Speaker 4: take classes and try to figure out, you know, because
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  Speaker 4: I was having intuitive hits, I was there were psychic
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  Speaker 4: things going on, so I was taking classes and things
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  Speaker 4: like that to understand it. And then eventually I began
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  Speaker 4: to take on clime.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I totally can see that, and I believe in that.
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  Speaker 2: I lost my sister two and a half years ago.
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  Speaker 2: She was special needs, and I talked to her every
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  Speaker 2: day and It started with meditation, maybe over six months ago,
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  Speaker 2: and she comes every day in my meditation. We have
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  Speaker 2: conversations all the time, so I feel it feels real
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  Speaker 2: to me. You know, I go to my place, my
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  Speaker 2: little forest area, she shows up, we have a she's there.
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  Speaker 2: I can feel her. It's it's a beautiful connection. And
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  Speaker 2: I tell my mom to try to do this because
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  Speaker 2: of course as a mother, you know, my mom has
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  Speaker 2: the hardest time with the loss of her daughter, and
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  Speaker 2: so you know she.
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  Speaker 3: Loves hearing about that.
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  Speaker 2: But I got dowsing rods and I let my mom
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  Speaker 2: ask my sister Tony questions and the dousing rods would
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  Speaker 2: move to the answer yes or no, and which I
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  Speaker 2: thought was really kind of cool. So I think that, yes,
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  Speaker 2: I think we can all connect. We just have to
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  Speaker 2: practice and be open and be open through it. So
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  Speaker 2: and I'm not surprised that your daughter originally was going
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  Speaker 2: to be the daughter came through to your son, because
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  Speaker 2: I always feel like my niece would have been born
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  Speaker 2: through me, but I made the decision.
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  Speaker 3: Not to have children.
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  Speaker 2: Interesting, yeah, that's how I feel, because we're so tight connected
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  Speaker 2: spiritually and on like soul to soul level. I really
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  Speaker 2: do I think she said, well, you're not going to
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  Speaker 2: do it, so I'm just going to go through my
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  Speaker 2: other sister.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, but I totally agree with that. I think spirit
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  Speaker 4: is just so much stronger. We don't always give them
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  Speaker 4: the benefit of sort of understanding, you know, because we
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  Speaker 4: don't understand all of that. But you know, what a
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  Speaker 4: beautiful thing to know that there's a spirit that wants
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  Speaker 4: to be there with you.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I think we travel in soul groups, right,
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  Speaker 2: So your soul groups. So when you are communicating for
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  Speaker 2: somebody who is going through a loss, what does it
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  Speaker 2: look like?
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  Speaker 3: How does that work with you? How do you do it?
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  Speaker 3: Because I know every medium is different.
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  Speaker 4: Yes, I agree, and I you know, when I first
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  Speaker 4: started taking classes and getting into circles with other mediums,
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  Speaker 4: we were reading each other. I didn't know that. I
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  Speaker 4: thought everybody was reading the same way I was. But
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  Speaker 4: for me, my clairvoyance is the strongest. The Usually spirit
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  Speaker 4: will show up and I can see them and just
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  Speaker 4: through like what their clothes are, maybe what their face
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  Speaker 4: looks like. Sometimes they'll show me the background, and sometimes
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  Speaker 4: they expand into like this is what I'm doing today,
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  Speaker 4: this is my house. You know, it just really starts
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  Speaker 4: from for me seeing them and then there's that initial connection.
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  Speaker 4: Then that moves into a lot of like feeling and
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  Speaker 4: me trying to kind of ask them. I asked them
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  Speaker 4: a few questions evidentally so that we can connect with
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  Speaker 4: the person who's come for reading. And once we know yep,
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  Speaker 4: that's you know, Uncle George, then we move forward into
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  Speaker 4: for me, I move into George, what would you like
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  Speaker 4: to say? What? You know? What brought you here today?
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  Speaker 4: You know, that kind of situation and allows spirit to
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  Speaker 4: really expand on you know, it can it can be messages, gifts,
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  Speaker 4: it can be a feelings that they want to share
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  Speaker 4: something left behind, all kinds of just beautiful information. But
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  Speaker 4: for me, it's using all those claires as clairvoyants and
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  Speaker 4: things like that.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, using the claires.
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  Speaker 2: And I'm sure somebody listening who is right now, you
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  Speaker 2: know and really really wants because what we really want
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  Speaker 2: is we want to know that our connection with them
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  Speaker 2: lasts forever and that they haven't really you know, they're
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  Speaker 2: not gone from our life, right. So having kind of
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  Speaker 2: a confirmation from somebody who's practiced connecting with spirit has
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  Speaker 2: to be so healing for your clients.
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  Speaker 4: Yes, and I have to tell you it is so
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  Speaker 4: healing for me as a medium. The idea that I
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  Speaker 4: can act as a go between spirit and you know
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  Speaker 4: someone that has come to me for reading is every
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  Speaker 4: time I do a reading, it's just amazing to me.
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  Speaker 4: The feeling is good and just the awareness what our
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  Speaker 4: world truly is, even though we don't see that. But yeah,
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  Speaker 4: there's almost always there's a reason that someone has come
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  Speaker 4: for a sitting wanting to know, you know, all kinds
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  Speaker 4: of things, but I always want to make sure that
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  Speaker 4: there the messages that are coming through are really positive
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  Speaker 4: and really really healing for the sitter because that's the
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  Speaker 4: reason they came, right. They just want to know if
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  Speaker 4: everything's okay and the beauty is it is okay?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what we all want to know. That's what
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  Speaker 2: we all want to know, Like is my loved one happy?
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  Speaker 2: Are they okay? Especially if there was a tragedy, you know,
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  Speaker 2: they died tragically or they dealt.
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  Speaker 3: With a long illness, you know, are they okay?
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  Speaker 4: You know?
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  Speaker 3: Where are they? You know, like you want to see them?
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  Speaker 2: Do you have some of your clients when you're talking
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  Speaker 2: to them, tell you they have had their own experiences
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  Speaker 2: and maybe didn't you know, weren't.
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  Speaker 3: Sure what it was like.
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  Speaker 2: I've heard stories where people say, my dad used to
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  Speaker 2: smoke a pipe and every once in a while I'll
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  Speaker 2: smell it, you know, and it's like it makes me
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  Speaker 2: feel like he's here.
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  Speaker 3: Do you have do you have a lot of clients
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  Speaker 3: that come to you that have had their own experiences you.
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  Speaker 4: Know, always, always, and if they don't bring that up,
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  Speaker 4: now that I've written this book, i will ask them,
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  Speaker 4: do you feel like you have had experiences with your
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  Speaker 4: loved one? And they will always always be like, well,
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  Speaker 4: maybe it doesn't mean anything, but you know, whether it's
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  Speaker 4: the birds or coins, or or that smell of a
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  Speaker 4: pipe or something moving that they was something they knew
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  Speaker 4: that their mother enjoyed, you know, things in the kitchen
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  Speaker 4: or on the on the mantle. It's just really interesting
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  Speaker 4: how much we doubt ourselves. Yeah, and in reality, no,
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  Speaker 4: you are. What you're feeling is real, and you find
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  Speaker 4: out that the more that you lean into that you
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  Speaker 4: knows as you've done and just you know, whether you
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  Speaker 4: want to work on your abilities by sitting in meditation
• 20:00
  Speaker 4: or you just start talking to spirit that you believe
• 20:02
  Speaker 4: is there, it's all valuable.
• 20:06
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I think so too. Do you do you get
• 20:10
  Speaker 2: spirits bothering you all the time now? Like I always
• 20:14
  Speaker 2: ask mediums that, like, I feel like once they know
• 20:18
  Speaker 2: that there's a human on earth that can tap into them,
• 20:21
  Speaker 2: like you're like a beacon over there, you know, or
• 20:24
  Speaker 2: they're like, oh, she could go and they don't leave
• 20:28
  Speaker 2: you alone.
• 20:29
  Speaker 3: Is that true or no?
• 20:33
  Speaker 4: For me personally, I don't have them bothering me a lot,
• 20:38
  Speaker 4: except right when I'm going to sleep, right as you
• 20:43
  Speaker 4: drift off. As I drift off, I will have people
• 20:48
  Speaker 4: like say my name, yell my name, ask me a question,
• 20:53
  Speaker 4: just you know, all kinds of stuff. And I do
• 20:55
  Speaker 4: think that that's funny and so, I mean, I think
• 20:58
  Speaker 4: it's funny. Other people might be bothered.
• 21:01
  Speaker 2: By it, but I use some people might be terrified
• 21:04
  Speaker 2: if they're trying to go to sleep and it's dark
• 21:06
  Speaker 2: and you're hearing somebody scream at your neighbor and be like,
• 21:08
  Speaker 2: what is that?
• 21:11
  Speaker 4: Well, what was so funny is when this very first started,
• 21:15
  Speaker 4: I realized that like there was something coming back at me.
• 21:21
  Speaker 4: I I this is so funny. I would go to
• 21:25
  Speaker 4: bed at night and my little dog would be at
• 21:26
  Speaker 4: the very end of the bed and I would wake
• 21:29
  Speaker 4: up out of a very sound sleep because someone rang
• 21:35
  Speaker 4: my doorbell, and I thought, oh, my gosh. And this
• 21:39
  Speaker 4: happened night after night, and I find and I would
• 21:42
  Speaker 4: like be up and standing walking towards the front door.
• 21:46
  Speaker 4: And there was so many times I opened the door
• 21:48
  Speaker 4: or I looked out the glass there was nothing there,
• 21:50
  Speaker 4: and I thought. What I thought was, oh, these must
• 21:53
  Speaker 4: be neighborhood kids that are just doing the ding dong
• 21:56
  Speaker 4: dits thing, you know. Yeah, I mean, this went on
• 22:00
  Speaker 4: for a while, and finally I realized, wait a minute,
• 22:04
  Speaker 4: my dog never wakes up. My dog doesn't jump up
• 22:08
  Speaker 4: and run to the door.
• 22:10
  Speaker 3: Bark, which normally he would, of course, yeah, yeah, ah
• 22:14
  Speaker 3: the way.
• 22:15
  Speaker 4: So I realized, you know, that this was going on.
• 22:18
  Speaker 4: So basically I asked my guide to please stop doing that,
• 22:23
  Speaker 4: and if they had something to say, please come through
• 22:26
  Speaker 4: in meditation rather than you know, this sort of scary
• 22:29
  Speaker 4: scenario that was going on. And sure enough it changed
• 22:33
  Speaker 4: and during morning meditation, you know, I was prepared for
• 22:39
  Speaker 4: that routinely had people show up, which is fine, but
• 22:42
  Speaker 4: you know, it's funny. At that point, I kind of
• 22:44
  Speaker 4: didn't know what to do about that. Other than kind
• 22:46
  Speaker 4: of like, hey, how's it going.
• 22:49
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I've heard that.
• 22:50
  Speaker 2: I've heard that many mediums, once that gift really opens,
• 22:54
  Speaker 2: they have to set like strong boundaries with the other side,
• 22:59
  Speaker 2: you know, like no, you can't come and bother me
• 23:01
  Speaker 2: when I'm sleeping, No you can't come in the bathroom
• 23:04
  Speaker 2: with me, you know, like like, h just you wait
• 23:08
  Speaker 2: until I'm in my space and then I invite you,
• 23:11
  Speaker 2: in which I've It's just so funny to me that
• 23:15
  Speaker 2: that happens to some people like that, because I don't
• 23:21
  Speaker 2: feel like I'm necessarily a medium in the sense that
• 23:24
  Speaker 2: other spirits come to me. But I do know that
• 23:27
  Speaker 2: I've invited my sister and she comes to me. So
• 23:32
  Speaker 2: that's just where I'm at now, you know.
• 23:35
  Speaker 4: Right now.
• 23:35
  Speaker 3: I don't know if I'm.
• 23:37
  Speaker 2: Meant to explore that more, but I'm comfortable where I
• 23:40
  Speaker 2: am right now, you know. But it's I think we
• 23:43
  Speaker 2: all have that ability and if we're just open to it,
• 23:46
  Speaker 2: don't you think?
• 23:48
  Speaker 4: I You know, I completely believe that, And that's why
• 23:52
  Speaker 4: in my book, as I go through this scenario that
• 23:54
  Speaker 4: occurs later in my life, I pretty much put in
• 23:58
  Speaker 4: there all these different steps because if you're in grief
• 24:02
  Speaker 4: and you pick up a book, maybe my book. I
• 24:04
  Speaker 4: don't want to take you through a really sad story
• 24:07
  Speaker 4: without some kind of you know, give back, Like if
• 24:10
  Speaker 4: you're going through this, let's do some meditation, Hey, let's
• 24:14
  Speaker 4: let's let's do some journaling, and hey, here's some other
• 24:17
  Speaker 4: ways to try to connect. So I do believe that.
• 24:20
  Speaker 4: I think that we all have that sensing system. It's
• 24:23
  Speaker 4: just how much we want to work on it or
• 24:26
  Speaker 4: use it.
• 24:27
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and you call it an after death communication in ADC, right,
• 24:35
  Speaker 2: did you coin that?
• 24:36
  Speaker 3: Because this is the first time I've ever heard that.
• 24:39
  Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I see that term came out of someone
• 24:46
  Speaker 4: who did their PhD thesis in Denton, Texas. And this
• 24:54
  Speaker 4: person used that term, but they had gathered together information
• 25:00
  Speaker 4: over like one hundred and fifty years of people seeing them.
• 25:05
  Speaker 4: Did you know after death communication occurred in what way
• 25:09
  Speaker 4: for you? And then kind of just sound all these benefits.
• 25:13
  Speaker 4: And I just love that term, like we do communicate
• 25:17
  Speaker 4: even after we die. And I just thought that was
• 25:19
  Speaker 4: a great way to, you know, make it a little
• 25:21
  Speaker 4: less spooky.
• 25:22
  Speaker 2: I think, yeah, well, it makes sense because let's say
• 25:26
  Speaker 2: you're thinking of a loved one and then you find
• 25:28
  Speaker 2: a feather, that would be a communication, right as you
• 25:32
  Speaker 2: know that it came like a feather that was or
• 25:35
  Speaker 2: you saw a certain butterfly that reminded you of your
• 25:38
  Speaker 2: mom or something you know like that is a communication.
• 25:42
  Speaker 2: It might not be talking to the person, but that's
• 25:45
  Speaker 2: a form of communication. So it makes a lot of
• 25:49
  Speaker 2: sense to me that that that's what they would term it.
• 25:52
  Speaker 2: Although I just never I never, and I've had other
• 25:55
  Speaker 2: mediums on I've talked to read a lot of books
• 25:57
  Speaker 2: about it. I've never heard that term before. But I
• 25:59
  Speaker 2: like that too, and I don't think it's only accessible
• 26:03
  Speaker 2: to mediums. I think we've all experienced that.
• 26:08
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I totally agree. Yeah, So have you.
• 26:12
  Speaker 2: Had anybody who's told you something like a really interesting
• 26:20
  Speaker 2: story of an experience they've had from a client.
• 26:26
  Speaker 4: IM trying to think, you know, I haven't had so
• 26:31
  Speaker 4: much like their experience as my own experience between the
• 26:39
  Speaker 4: time that someone will sign up for a reading and
• 26:42
  Speaker 4: then the morning of the reading, because yeah.
• 26:48
  Speaker 2: That's they know you're coming, they're coming to you now,
• 26:51
  Speaker 2: so then you have been made On the other.
• 26:54
  Speaker 3: Side, I would say that right, right, Oh, I want
• 26:58
  Speaker 3: to hear about that.
• 26:58
  Speaker 2: Okay, I just looked at the time, though, and I
• 27:00
  Speaker 2: see that we're ready for our break. So let's take
• 27:02
  Speaker 2: our commercial break now, and then I want to hear
• 27:04
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• 27:05
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  Speaker 2: were talking about some interesting things that happen, and you
• 30:02
  Speaker 2: said one a client makes an appointment with you and
• 30:07
  Speaker 2: certain things start to happen.
• 30:10
  Speaker 3: Can you share a little bit. Yeah, I love to
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  Speaker 3: hear it.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah. Well, the thing is like, people make an appointment
• 30:16
  Speaker 4: and one of the things I might ask is, you know,
• 30:18
  Speaker 4: just give me generally an idea like who you're asking
• 30:21
  Speaker 4: to connect with or whatever. It might say, oh, you
• 30:24
  Speaker 4: know a loved one, or it might be like mom
• 30:26
  Speaker 4: or whatever. Right, So I don't really know anything past that,
• 30:31
  Speaker 4: And so usually the morning of the reading they show up,
• 30:39
  Speaker 4: and honestly, I'm okay with that. But when they show up,
• 30:42
  Speaker 4: I'm like, well, if you're going to give me information,
• 30:46
  Speaker 4: you know, you can give me one or two pieces
• 30:48
  Speaker 4: of information, but we need to wait until that person
• 30:51
  Speaker 4: either comes in the front door or they actually show
• 30:54
  Speaker 4: up on zoom, Like, okay, I know that you're here,
• 30:58
  Speaker 4: but you know, we really want to talk with the
• 31:01
  Speaker 4: person when they get here. But during that during that
• 31:05
  Speaker 4: little time period, I've had them like one lady had
• 31:10
  Speaker 4: me like I felt like you needed to play the piano,
• 31:13
  Speaker 4: like my fingers were doing the thing on the counter,
• 31:16
  Speaker 4: and I thought, that's so weird. And so when when
• 31:19
  Speaker 4: the person came and they were we were doing the reading,
• 31:22
  Speaker 4: she said, I said, now, do you have anybody who
• 31:25
  Speaker 4: plays the piano or did this particular person we are
• 31:28
  Speaker 4: talking about play the piano? Oh? Yes, she was the
• 31:31
  Speaker 4: music She was a piano feature. Oh okay, right, So
• 31:35
  Speaker 4: they they will show me things. It's not always clairvoyantly.
• 31:40
  Speaker 4: It could be like how you how I feel another person.
• 31:45
  Speaker 4: I really wanted to connect with dad. And during the reading,
• 31:49
  Speaker 4: I had my middle finger on my left hand was
• 31:52
  Speaker 4: so itchy, and I was just scratching and scratching and scratching,
• 31:56
  Speaker 4: and finally I just stopped and I said to her,
• 31:58
  Speaker 4: I just don't know why my finger is so itchy.
• 32:01
  Speaker 4: And the whole time she had her hand over the
• 32:04
  Speaker 4: other hand of her and she pulled her hand back
• 32:08
  Speaker 4: and she showed me that she had a ring on
• 32:11
  Speaker 4: that finger that belonged to her dad this right of
• 32:19
  Speaker 4: calling out, you know, say something so that she will acknowledge.
• 32:23
  Speaker 4: And she said, well, you know, I kind of wanted
• 32:25
  Speaker 4: to test you a little bit, and so this is
• 32:27
  Speaker 4: how I did it. And I'm like, okay, I don't
• 32:29
  Speaker 4: really care for the testing, but I'm glad this heard right.
• 32:34
  Speaker 4: That makes sense?
• 32:35
  Speaker 2: Yeah, because people want to so believe it so when
• 32:39
  Speaker 2: they get something that nobody could have known and as
• 32:42
  Speaker 2: a confirmation, it makes them feel like, Okay, yeah, I'm
• 32:46
  Speaker 2: really talking.
• 32:47
  Speaker 3: You know, I'm connecting with my my dad or mom
• 32:50
  Speaker 3: or yeah.
• 32:52
  Speaker 4: Yeah, and you know it's really funny. But what I've
• 32:54
  Speaker 4: also learned, and my book is about the passing of
• 32:58
  Speaker 4: a of a brother of one of my brother and
• 33:03
  Speaker 4: I one thing that I always thought before he passed.
• 33:07
  Speaker 4: I said, okay, you know, if you're going to pass
• 33:09
  Speaker 4: the other side, like like, let's come up with a symbol.
• 33:13
  Speaker 4: And he had a turtle, this massive tortoise. I said,
• 33:17
  Speaker 4: so if I get a reading from you know, one
• 33:19
  Speaker 4: of these other mediums that are in my group and
• 33:21
  Speaker 4: they say anything about a turtle, I'm going to know
• 33:24
  Speaker 4: it's you, right, So I thought, I kept saying that
• 33:28
  Speaker 4: to him. Well to this day right, it's now been
• 33:31
  Speaker 4: four years. He comes through all the time. He's actually
• 33:34
  Speaker 4: one of my guides. But there are no turtles to
• 33:38
  Speaker 4: be found. Like that is not what he cares to
• 33:41
  Speaker 4: have himself symbolized with self. No turtles, no turtles. He
• 33:48
  Speaker 4: has one phrase that he always comes through with that
• 33:55
  Speaker 4: it's a man. This man has passed of something unexpected.
• 34:00
  Speaker 4: It's always praised that way. Okay, so yeah, what mean
• 34:05
  Speaker 4: by that?
• 34:06
  Speaker 3: Does that mean that I'm here? It's him saying I'm here.
• 34:10
  Speaker 2: Is that his way of announcing that he's here or
• 34:13
  Speaker 2: is he talking about somebody else that's his way of
• 34:16
  Speaker 2: announcing he's there.
• 34:18
  Speaker 4: Yeah, that's the way the true Well, I will say
• 34:21
  Speaker 4: with the people that I work with, traditionally we will
• 34:23
  Speaker 4: come through with you know, uh, maybe it's five to
• 34:27
  Speaker 4: ten pieces of evidence. So when people are starting with
• 34:32
  Speaker 4: me and that you're bringing through evidence, that would be
• 34:36
  Speaker 4: one of the pieces. And what's interesting is that piece
• 34:39
  Speaker 4: of information is almost always the first piece. It's not like,
• 34:45
  Speaker 4: oh he looks like this, or you know, he did
• 34:48
  Speaker 4: this for a job, or he felt like this. It's
• 34:50
  Speaker 4: always I have a man here and he passed something unexpected.
• 34:57
  Speaker 3: Okay, I understand interesting.
• 35:00
  Speaker 2: So I was going to ask you what inspired you
• 35:03
  Speaker 2: to write the book After Life Bonds. So it was
• 35:06
  Speaker 2: your brother's passing that inspired you?
• 35:10
  Speaker 4: Yes, I And it's a really wild story. It is
• 35:15
  Speaker 4: a wild story, but fundamentally, or in summary, I had
• 35:20
  Speaker 4: a brother that I didn't know I had, And in
• 35:24
  Speaker 4: twenty nineteen a lady gave me a reading while I
• 35:28
  Speaker 4: was in a class and she said, hey, there's someone
• 35:32
  Speaker 4: out there, and I said, oh, I don't think so.
• 35:36
  Speaker 4: And then my brother shows up in twenty twenty, right,
• 35:41
  Speaker 4: so it's you know, six months later he shows up
• 35:43
  Speaker 4: and I'm like, oh, so, yeah, so he was only
• 35:49
  Speaker 4: in my life for six months before he passed of
• 35:52
  Speaker 4: something affected. Yeah, so's it was really amazing to me.
• 36:00
  Speaker 4: I you know, it was a pandemic, and you know,
• 36:03
  Speaker 4: here's this situation and the only thing that I knew
• 36:07
  Speaker 4: is that I needed to go and be with him
• 36:11
  Speaker 4: before he passed so that his energetic signature and mine
• 36:16
  Speaker 4: would recognize each other. And I did, and I'm so
• 36:21
  Speaker 4: grateful to have you know, that day, those hours with him,
• 36:26
  Speaker 4: and then immediately immediately he shows up. So he even
• 36:32
  Speaker 4: like did some out of body things prior to his passing.
• 36:37
  Speaker 4: So you know, there's just a lot of amazing things
• 36:40
  Speaker 4: that happened once he you know, I guess once I
• 36:43
  Speaker 4: had that reading from a psychic, I all of a
• 36:46
  Speaker 4: sudden started having dreams which I've never had before. So
• 36:50
  Speaker 4: a lot of things go on in this book that
• 36:52
  Speaker 4: were first for me.
• 36:55
  Speaker 3: And yeah, that's that's so lovely. That's a lot you
• 37:01
  Speaker 3: were meant to connect.
• 37:02
  Speaker 2: That's why the psychic, you know, and then he came
• 37:05
  Speaker 2: into your life and you got to know him from
• 37:07
  Speaker 2: a little bit on the earthly plane. But yeah, I mean,
• 37:10
  Speaker 2: obviously it was meant to be one of your guides, right,
• 37:13
  Speaker 2: So it's it's it's awesome that you that you actually
• 37:17
  Speaker 2: know one of your guys, you knew them in the
• 37:19
  Speaker 2: physical form.
• 37:21
  Speaker 3: Can you share a little bit with us some of the.
• 37:26
  Speaker 2: You know, the the inspiring or touching stories and things
• 37:31
  Speaker 2: that you witness helping somebody connect with a loved one.
• 37:36
  Speaker 4: Yes, I have a favorite story of a friend of mine,
• 37:40
  Speaker 4: and I think within two years she lost her mother
• 37:44
  Speaker 4: and her father, and you know, a lot of it
• 37:50
  Speaker 4: all happened so quickly, and she's always so busy there,
• 37:53
  Speaker 4: you know. After her mother passed, we did a reading
• 37:56
  Speaker 4: together and you know, of course, her mother was so
• 37:59
  Speaker 4: grateful for everything she had done for her family, and
• 38:03
  Speaker 4: she knew that. And then once her dad's passed, there
• 38:06
  Speaker 4: was another reading. But then there was a period of time,
• 38:10
  Speaker 4: almost a year later, when the estate was finally settled,
• 38:14
  Speaker 4: and she had made some decisions about the family or
• 38:18
  Speaker 4: about the way the estate would be settled, and she
• 38:21
  Speaker 4: really wanted to know if her parents were okay with
• 38:24
  Speaker 4: some of the decisions she'd made. And it was the
• 38:28
  Speaker 4: most beautiful thing. They were in the room as I
• 38:33
  Speaker 4: was preparing for my friend to come, and I shared
• 38:36
  Speaker 4: all those little things. When my friend showed up, I said,
• 38:39
  Speaker 4: you know what, your mother. I realized there was going
• 38:43
  Speaker 4: to be more people here in the room than we
• 38:45
  Speaker 4: had chairs for. And I could hear your mother asking
• 38:48
  Speaker 4: me where am I going to sit? So I went
• 38:51
  Speaker 4: out and got an extra chare for And my friend says,
• 38:54
  Speaker 4: that's exactly what she would have said, and the whole
• 38:57
  Speaker 4: scenario about her father saying a few things, but Mom
• 39:02
  Speaker 4: stepping in and really telling her what her daughter needed
• 39:06
  Speaker 4: to know. And then when she was done, Mom says,
• 39:10
  Speaker 4: we're done, We're out, and I stowed my friend. I said,
• 39:14
  Speaker 4: she is like done, and she said, that's my mom. Yeah,
• 39:18
  Speaker 4: so I know that we you know, those really small
• 39:21
  Speaker 4: like personal things that people do that that sort of
• 39:25
  Speaker 4: energetic signature shose other people that you know that's really you.
• 39:32
  Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, that's a good way to describe it, an
• 39:35
  Speaker 2: energetic signature.
• 39:38
  Speaker 4: Yeah. Whether it's whether it's words you used or things
• 39:43
  Speaker 4: that you did, or the way that you would have
• 39:45
  Speaker 4: normally acted, those things come through in a reading. And
• 39:49
  Speaker 4: I think that for people that have readings, you should
• 39:52
  Speaker 4: be able to tell, you know, through the evidence and
• 39:56
  Speaker 4: what's going on in the reading, that your loved one
• 39:59
  Speaker 4: is there.
• 40:03
  Speaker 2: Just feel like you ever had an experience where somebody
• 40:08
  Speaker 2: lost somebody but they the person who died without they
• 40:12
  Speaker 2: didn't get to resolve let's say, a conflict or a hurt,
• 40:17
  Speaker 2: and they wanted to connect with somebody after that person
• 40:21
  Speaker 2: passed to see if there could be some you know,
• 40:24
  Speaker 2: healing there forgiveness. Have you ever had any of those
• 40:27
  Speaker 2: experiences with your clients?
• 40:28
  Speaker 4: I have, And for me many times when person maybe
• 40:36
  Speaker 4: has died unexpectedly, maybe sometimes accidentally or by their own hand,
• 40:42
  Speaker 4: when when those spirits step forward to speak, you know
• 40:46
  Speaker 4: they're going to talk with me first, or come to me,
• 40:49
  Speaker 4: so I will see them either head bowed or their hats.
• 40:56
  Speaker 4: I see the term in hand, the apology, see right.
• 41:01
  Speaker 4: And so when they come forward in the beginning with
• 41:05
  Speaker 4: that kind of a presence, I know right away that
• 41:08
  Speaker 4: there is a situation here that they're they're apologizing for
• 41:14
  Speaker 4: or wanting to resolve, because they've come right, they haven't
• 41:19
  Speaker 4: you know, back the way. They've come forward to have
• 41:22
  Speaker 4: those messages given, And many times it's just the apology
• 41:26
  Speaker 4: about you know, the fact that someone has passed. Sometimes
• 41:31
  Speaker 4: it's an accident and it's not even expected, you know.
• 41:34
  Speaker 4: But I think the biggest thing is for us in
• 41:37
  Speaker 4: this world to understand that spear it didn't just pass
• 41:41
  Speaker 4: and that's it. I mean, there's feelings around that, and
• 41:45
  Speaker 4: they want them resolved. Many times they'll come back and
• 41:48
  Speaker 4: let you know like they're okay, but they really want
• 41:51
  Speaker 4: you to be okay, And messages of love and apologies
• 41:56
  Speaker 4: about what happened is generally what I see that there.
• 42:01
  Speaker 3: Yeah, that's got to be very healing.
• 42:03
  Speaker 2: If you've lost somebody in a conflict wasn't resolved, you
• 42:07
  Speaker 2: know what I mean, and now you feel like you'll
• 42:10
  Speaker 2: never get the opportunity, So that's got to be very,
• 42:13
  Speaker 2: very healing through What kind of insights and messages do
• 42:18
  Speaker 2: you hope people will get from your book after life bonds,
• 42:24
  Speaker 2: Like what do you want your book to be able
• 42:28
  Speaker 2: to help those of us who are still living and
• 42:31
  Speaker 2: having a hard time dealing with the loss of a
• 42:34
  Speaker 2: loved one.
• 42:36
  Speaker 4: So I think there's multiple things. I would love for
• 42:40
  Speaker 4: you to read my journey to know how unexpected it
• 42:46
  Speaker 4: was for me. And I would say, like even as
• 42:48
  Speaker 4: a medium, I you know, kind of had an idea
• 42:52
  Speaker 4: what this field, what goes on, what the field of
• 42:55
  Speaker 4: this is. But some of the things that happened, just
• 42:58
  Speaker 4: like with anybody out there, like things could happen, that's
• 43:02
  Speaker 4: a little that's what you thought it was going to be,
• 43:05
  Speaker 4: or it could be a little different than you thought.
• 43:07
  Speaker 4: But I think grounding yourself and that is really important,
• 43:11
  Speaker 4: right ground yourself and just let that be part of
• 43:14
  Speaker 4: your story, but allow your story to unfold, like whichever
• 43:19
  Speaker 4: direction you need to go with that sadness, you know,
• 43:24
  Speaker 4: release that, release that and try to move forward. And
• 43:28
  Speaker 4: for my book, I want to I want to show
• 43:30
  Speaker 4: you a story, a remarkable story. I think from sort
• 43:34
  Speaker 4: of beginning to you know years past. In the back
• 43:38
  Speaker 4: of the book, I went to a medium in the
• 43:42
  Speaker 4: Netherlands and I asked him to do a reading for
• 43:46
  Speaker 4: me from my brother Matt, and we did it twice.
• 43:51
  Speaker 4: The first time Matt turned around and talked about his
• 43:53
  Speaker 4: life and it was really remarkable. He also and the
• 43:58
  Speaker 4: second time came through an talked about how he felt
• 44:01
  Speaker 4: about me. And there's so much more in this book
• 44:06
  Speaker 4: than we think, as far as spirit and the fact
• 44:11
  Speaker 4: that our life doesn't end. There's just so much more.
• 44:16
  Speaker 4: So I want people to understand that, like what we
• 44:19
  Speaker 4: see here is not all there is. But as you
• 44:23
  Speaker 4: work your way through the book, there are little things
• 44:26
  Speaker 4: to try, Like if you're not sure what maybe you're
• 44:31
  Speaker 4: you're intuitively led to try a couple of things, right.
• 44:35
  Speaker 4: I think starting with meditation and journaling is a great
• 44:40
  Speaker 4: way to get your sort of your your intuitive juice
• 44:44
  Speaker 4: is going. Then you begin to notice things. You begin
• 44:48
  Speaker 4: to be a little more open about those things going
• 44:51
  Speaker 4: on around you. And for me, as an engineer, I
• 44:56
  Speaker 4: don't want to minimize anything that's happened. So if it's
• 44:59
  Speaker 4: happened in meditation and suddenly I'm seeing that connection out here,
• 45:04
  Speaker 4: I'm going to say, in the real world, there's something
• 45:07
  Speaker 4: going on there, right, there's some kind of connection that
• 45:11
  Speaker 4: you're making. I don't want you to deny that. I
• 45:14
  Speaker 4: want you to have it on paper so that you
• 45:16
  Speaker 4: can go back and prove to yourself, I do have
• 45:20
  Speaker 4: this intuition, I have a connection of some kind, and
• 45:23
  Speaker 4: continuing to explore that, that's what I'm hoping for. No.
• 45:29
  Speaker 2: I love that so because you have actual practical for
• 45:32
  Speaker 2: you guys listening. She has practical exercises in her book
• 45:37
  Speaker 2: that help us learn how to develop our intuitive abilities,
• 45:43
  Speaker 2: because we're all intuitive, but many of us shut it
• 45:48
  Speaker 2: that down, right, We shut our intuition down. We don't
• 45:52
  Speaker 2: trust it. And I'm sure anybody listening, the people that
• 45:55
  Speaker 2: listen to my show most likely definitely listen to their intuition, right,
• 46:00
  Speaker 2: But you know many of us, You know, when you've
• 46:04
  Speaker 2: had an experience and your gut already told you that
• 46:08
  Speaker 2: it don't trust that person, don't trust that situation, and
• 46:12
  Speaker 2: we ignore it. That was our psychic intuition speaking to us,
• 46:17
  Speaker 2: our higher self, whatever your guides, and we don't listen.
• 46:21
  Speaker 2: So I love that you're helping us practice how to
• 46:28
  Speaker 2: trust our own intuition and tap into that, which is
• 46:32
  Speaker 2: great because it's like anything else, you know, we need
• 46:35
  Speaker 2: we need homework, we need homework to learn how to
• 46:37
  Speaker 2: do it.
• 46:39
  Speaker 4: Well. So I was motivated to do that because I
• 46:43
  Speaker 4: had a particular relative that was very close to my brother,
• 46:47
  Speaker 4: and I saw her struggle so much with this whole
• 46:52
  Speaker 4: process of death, and I just thought, you know, I
• 46:56
  Speaker 4: wish I could help more, you know, And I just
• 46:59
  Speaker 4: felt like, maybe if there was a book out there,
• 47:02
  Speaker 4: you know, for anyone that was going through this. And
• 47:06
  Speaker 4: I did have a client actually from the East Coast.
• 47:10
  Speaker 4: We did a reading and at the end of the reading,
• 47:12
  Speaker 4: she said to me, and she had lost someone through
• 47:15
  Speaker 4: an accident, and she said to me, I got your
• 47:19
  Speaker 4: book not very long after this incident had happened and
• 47:23
  Speaker 4: she had lost her loved one. And she said, you
• 47:25
  Speaker 4: know what the book allowed me to do. I got
• 47:28
  Speaker 4: to go through it slowly as I wanted to go
• 47:32
  Speaker 4: through it, and I could do the exercises as I
• 47:35
  Speaker 4: wanted to or didn't want to do them. And she
• 47:38
  Speaker 4: said it just brought me back around to a very
• 47:40
  Speaker 4: different place. And then she got a reading from me,
• 47:43
  Speaker 4: and I'm like, oh my gosh, I just I'm so
• 47:45
  Speaker 4: proud of her.
• 47:48
  Speaker 3: Yeah, no, it's it's difficult.
• 47:52
  Speaker 2: We're complicated humans, right, We're very complicated and we struggle
• 47:58
  Speaker 2: a lot because we get in our own way. So
• 48:02
  Speaker 2: what would you what advice would you give to like
• 48:05
  Speaker 2: a listener who maybe knows they have intuitive gifts and insights,
• 48:12
  Speaker 2: but they're struggling with it.
• 48:13
  Speaker 3: They're afraid of it.
• 48:15
  Speaker 2: They you know, maybe they have been told stories through
• 48:20
  Speaker 2: their own upbringing. You know that puts fear in it,
• 48:24
  Speaker 2: like it's something that's not of God. You know, we've
• 48:27
  Speaker 2: all heard that kind of stuff. So what would you
• 48:29
  Speaker 2: tell people who are struggling, like they know that they
• 48:32
  Speaker 2: could connect, but they're just struggling with it.
• 48:36
  Speaker 4: Yeah, you know, I think it for me, I think
• 48:41
  Speaker 4: when you meditating and writing in that journal, that really
• 48:48
  Speaker 4: is proving to yourself that this is a thing. Right.
• 48:51
  Speaker 4: I think that once you're in a position that you
• 48:54
  Speaker 4: can sort of reach out a little farther, taking some
• 48:57
  Speaker 4: kind of a beginning course on into wish or maybe
• 49:01
  Speaker 4: a psychic force, or just begin to reach a little
• 49:06
  Speaker 4: farther a little at a time. You know, there's a
• 49:09
  Speaker 4: period of time where I would take a course like
• 49:12
  Speaker 4: once a year. Then it became once every six months
• 49:15
  Speaker 4: and then you know, but that was over years, and
• 49:20
  Speaker 4: I would just say, try to expand when you feel
• 49:24
  Speaker 4: like you're ready for the next step.
• 49:27
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, because a lot of us we hold ourselves back, right,
• 49:31
  Speaker 2: We have all these stories, we tell ourselves, all these stories.
• 49:36
  Speaker 2: And if it's something that interests you and you already
• 49:41
  Speaker 2: feel like kind of naturally have that.
• 49:45
  Speaker 3: Like I know somebody who.
• 49:48
  Speaker 2: She's afraid of it, but she has prophetic dreams and
• 49:52
  Speaker 2: it scares her. You know, she doesn't like having it.
• 49:55
  Speaker 2: And I always tell her to trust it. There's a
• 49:57
  Speaker 2: reason you're having this experience ants, right, so maybe trust it.
• 50:02
  Speaker 2: But of course people have to come to that on
• 50:04
  Speaker 2: their own. So what does your family say about all
• 50:09
  Speaker 2: the work that you're doing in your book and you
• 50:11
  Speaker 2: know your experiences.
• 50:13
  Speaker 4: What do they say, Well, my parents have passed, but
• 50:18
  Speaker 4: I have a brother who's also an engineer, and you know,
• 50:23
  Speaker 4: he's he's come around and he's probably one of my
• 50:25
  Speaker 4: biggest supporters. But I you know, we're a family of engineers.
• 50:30
  Speaker 4: So I have two sons who are both engineers, and yes,
• 50:36
  Speaker 4: you know, they love it, right, they have grown up
• 50:42
  Speaker 4: with this, right, So they've seen it in action. And
• 50:48
  Speaker 4: you know, one of my sons, we had gone to
• 50:51
  Speaker 4: a wedding and my son like really wanted to get
• 50:56
  Speaker 4: a summer job, and at that wedding there was a
• 51:00
  Speaker 4: connection made for him. So he ended up with a
• 51:03
  Speaker 4: summer job exactly where he needed to be, and he
• 51:07
  Speaker 4: was just so excited. He's like, oh, Mom, I know
• 51:10
  Speaker 4: the reason we went to that wedding. It was because
• 51:12
  Speaker 4: of this connection. And I thought, oh, my job is
• 51:16
  Speaker 4: done here because you are now looking at me telling
• 51:20
  Speaker 4: me what the connection is.
• 51:22
  Speaker 3: Yeah, that's great.
• 51:23
  Speaker 2: I love the fact because I imagine if you're very
• 51:28
  Speaker 2: science in your space and your thought process, it may
• 51:32
  Speaker 2: be a little harder to grasp things that you can't
• 51:36
  Speaker 2: necessarily explain, right, So I love.
• 51:40
  Speaker 3: The fact that the boys are open to that. That's
• 51:45
  Speaker 3: really cool.
• 51:45
  Speaker 4: Now.
• 51:45
  Speaker 2: I didn't even get a chance to talk about the
• 51:48
  Speaker 2: reiki part of what you do also, So let's just
• 51:52
  Speaker 2: share a little bit about that. How did you what
• 51:55
  Speaker 2: made you want to get into doing reiki and energy healing?
• 52:00
  Speaker 4: So I have to tell you one of my friends
• 52:02
  Speaker 4: who is a medium, who I had known for a
• 52:05
  Speaker 4: couple of years. I talked to him a few times
• 52:08
  Speaker 4: and he had noticed this in the beginning. When I
• 52:11
  Speaker 4: would do a reading, I would like have so much
• 52:15
  Speaker 4: energy that spirit would show up and I would burst
• 52:19
  Speaker 4: into tears because I didn't know what to do with
• 52:21
  Speaker 4: all that energy. I just didn't know. And he's like,
• 52:26
  Speaker 4: I keep getting this message. You're supposed to go take
• 52:28
  Speaker 4: a reiki class. You're supposed to go take it. So
• 52:31
  Speaker 4: I did, and so now I'm a reiki master. But
• 52:34
  Speaker 4: now I feel like there's I have a much better
• 52:37
  Speaker 4: understanding of how what that energy feels like when spirit
• 52:42
  Speaker 4: shows up. I'm not overwhelmed by it, and I know
• 52:47
  Speaker 4: when the tear right. So that was the point of
• 52:50
  Speaker 4: the reiki was really for me to learn what does
• 52:53
  Speaker 4: that feel like and how am I going to channel
• 52:55
  Speaker 4: that by calming down enough and not just ruining a reading,
• 53:00
  Speaker 4: but by crying all the way through it.
• 53:04
  Speaker 2: So really it was for you to be able to
• 53:07
  Speaker 2: harness your own energy that was overwhelming.
• 53:10
  Speaker 3: That's that's pretty cool. Yeah, that makes sense. I you know,
• 53:14
  Speaker 3: I can imagine it must.
• 53:16
  Speaker 2: Be a little overwhelming when you have someone sitting in
• 53:20
  Speaker 2: front of you and they may be in tears, and
• 53:22
  Speaker 2: then you have spirit coming from the other side to
• 53:26
  Speaker 2: connect with them and it's emotional, you know, because the
• 53:30
  Speaker 2: work that you do is very emotional. We're not talking
• 53:33
  Speaker 2: about you know, like really like happy, go lucky and
• 53:38
  Speaker 2: not that it's not happy, I don't mean that, but
• 53:40
  Speaker 2: you know, light and happy, go lucky and easy breezy.
• 53:43
  Speaker 3: This is deep work.
• 53:45
  Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I agree. I think that, you know, part
• 53:50
  Speaker 4: of all of that is learning to as a medium
• 53:53
  Speaker 4: sit in the middle, right and being able to give
• 53:57
  Speaker 4: those messages and not being as caught up up in
• 54:00
  Speaker 4: the emotion, which I completely was, because you know, that
• 54:04
  Speaker 4: was so weird, that was so different for me. It
• 54:06
  Speaker 4: was so strong and now it's very much a better
• 54:10
  Speaker 4: understanding about flow, allowing it to flow through you, but
• 54:15
  Speaker 4: not holding on to it or keeping it with you,
• 54:17
  Speaker 4: but allowing it to pass through you. And that was
• 54:22
  Speaker 4: pivotal for me. I had actually gone to a class
• 54:27
  Speaker 4: one time and I didn't expect to do this, but
• 54:30
  Speaker 4: had to stand up in front of fifty other mediums
• 54:33
  Speaker 4: and give a reading. And I did that, but I
• 54:37
  Speaker 4: started to cry. And the lady that was showing us said, hey,
• 54:41
  Speaker 4: if you do this, you're really going to destroy you
• 54:44
  Speaker 4: know what you're trying who's coming through? And I said, okay,
• 54:47
  Speaker 4: you know, and so I did that. I did that
• 54:50
  Speaker 4: little harness thing. But that's when I went to do
• 54:52
  Speaker 4: the reiki class. I said, you know, if I could
• 54:55
  Speaker 4: actually stand up in front of people, I didn't think
• 54:58
  Speaker 4: I could do that. But then to really that kind
• 55:00
  Speaker 4: of amazing message by crying through, that's not good. So yeah,
• 55:05
  Speaker 4: I guess there's there's a lot to be about reiki
• 55:08
  Speaker 4: good stuff.
• 55:09
  Speaker 2: Yeah, reiki is great stuff. So we only have a
• 55:13
  Speaker 2: minute left. Is there anything that you would like anybody
• 55:17
  Speaker 2: to know? And what about what should individuals be aware
• 55:21
  Speaker 2: of when there like, are there signs that we should
• 55:24
  Speaker 2: be aware of if we're trying to connect from a
• 55:26
  Speaker 2: loved one that seemed to be universal.
• 55:32
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't. I don't. I think the beauty of
• 55:35
  Speaker 4: a sign that your loved one is giving you is
• 55:38
  Speaker 4: because you understand it. I mean there are things like
• 55:42
  Speaker 4: whether it's birds or coins or those kinds of things.
• 55:46
  Speaker 4: I think noticing a coincidence and then there may be
• 55:50
  Speaker 4: a sign that is very directed between you and them.
• 55:54
  Speaker 2: I think that first, beautiful thank you, Tammy. It was
• 55:58
  Speaker 2: such a pleasure talking to you today. I really appreciate it.
• 56:01
  Speaker 2: And guys, I hope you know you'll reach out to
• 56:04
  Speaker 2: Tammy and check out her book Afterlife Bonds. All right, guys,
• 56:11
  Speaker 2: thank you so much for listening to Postcards to the
• 56:13
  Speaker 2: Universe with Melissa creating the life you crave and wishing
• 56:16
  Speaker 2: everyone a wonderful week.
• 56:18
  Speaker 3: You'll enjoy abundance and love. Peace come