Latest / She’s Smart / Min Santandrea - Founder of Sant M shoes
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- 0:00Okay, I'm so excited you're here. I have to settle down because I'm so happy to see you.
- 0:04I just want to jump in. Okay. Like, let's just start. Let's do it.
- 0:08So you were born in Korea.
- 0:10Yes, I was. And how old were you when you came over to the States?
- 0:14I was 10 years old. So you remember growing up there? Yes, very clearly.
- 0:19Tell me about it. Tell me about growing up in Korea until you were 10. And I'm glad I did.
- 0:23Korea was very different when I was growing up there. Obviously,
- 0:26they haven't been industrialized yet.
- 0:28They were just starting. I remember one Christmas, my mom got me a pair of shoes.
- 0:35And in Korea, you get one gift.
- 0:37Not like here. It's one gift. And they leave it above your head, right?
- 0:41It's not on a Christmas tree, underneath a Christmas tree.
- 0:45Wait, why do they leave it above your head? Because Koreans don't really have a Christmas tree.
- 0:49Well, back then, Christmas tree wasn't a thing. Was there a meaning for it?
- 0:54No, it was just modernizing.
- 0:58So westernizing, I should say.
- 0:59And we weren't religious. So my mom changes her religion every decade.
- 1:04I love her. She's growing and learning all the time.
- 1:07I think she might have been Buddhist back then.
- 1:11But anyway, and I got these awesome, not retro, new Nikes.
- 1:17Red one with the white swish. Because Korea was just manufacturing Nikes.
- 1:22And I was like, what is this? This is the ugliest type of shoes I have seen.
- 1:28And then my mom's like yeah i mean people are just saying it's it's
- 1:31like the thing and so i was like i wore it and
- 1:34when i came to america it was like the biggest thing ever
- 1:37it was so yeah it was that what's you know the forest gum one the very simple
- 1:42nakey retro yeah everyone's wearing so it was i mean it was great because i
- 1:46got to sort of experience that and i still remember it clearly I remember tasting
- 1:51this thing called pizza in Korea when I was about nine.
- 1:55And it was only made on the U.S. Army restaurant base.
- 2:02Yeah, Army-based restaurant. So you had to go to the Army base to get a piece of pizza.
- 2:06But you had to have clearance. So you have to be invited.
- 2:10So we'll beg my mom, ask uncle or a friend who could go there and get pizza.
- 2:16Because there wasn't American fast food in Korea. So I remember tasting my first
- 2:22burger on the base, French fries. And what did your parents do?
- 2:26My dad was an architect, and my mom was a stay-at-home mom. Okay, an architect.
- 2:31Did he do that when you moved to the States, too? He did a little bit.
- 2:35It was very, very difficult for him because of the language barrier and also licensing.
- 2:41So we did a lot of renovation, more in the Korean community, things like that.
- 2:46I want to hear these stories all the time of people who are from other countries,
- 2:52and they have these degrees. They're doctors.
- 2:54They're architects. They're doctors. They're engineers, and it doesn't translate
- 2:58when they move to the United States.
- 3:00So they're starting over entirely or having to pivot into something similar
- 3:05to what they do, like recertify and all of that when you move here. Yeah.
- 3:09Especially then. I don't know when you moved. What was that?
- 3:12In like the early 80s? Yeah, 80s. Yeah.
- 3:15So probably not easy at all back then. Yeah.
- 3:18Probably easier now. Or at least the, do you feel like if you were to move now
- 3:22and had this kind of job, there would be an easier path to do it?
- 3:27Or do you think it'd still be difficult?
- 3:29I think it'll be easier path. Also, even though they teach English in Korea
- 3:33starting high school, it's more, it's everywhere, right? It's omnipresent.
- 3:39There's the internet, there's movies, there's pop songs. Whereas when my parents
- 3:43grew up in Korea, it was actually during the separation, like North and South Korea.
- 3:49And so all those things weren't available for them.
- 3:52So learning a new language when you're in your 40s is very difficult, even for me.
- 3:58But also because Korean is so different than English.
- 4:02So until this day, my mom's English is very, very poor. But,
- 4:06you know, she gets around.
- 4:07Yeah. I'm so curious what religious she is now, if she's even practicing. Yes, she's Catholic.
- 4:13Love it. From Buddhist to Catholic. Well, she was atheist in between and a Protestant.
- 4:20I want to have her come on and chat with me about everything she's learned about religion.
- 4:25She's probably the most well-rounded human being when it comes to that.
- 4:28Because she's open-minded.
- 4:30Tried everything. She's not against it all.
- 4:33She has a purpose and a belief, the system that works for them.
- 4:37She has karaoke jam with her priest and fellow churchgoers.
- 4:42I love her so much. I want to join the karaoke jam, please.
- 4:46Okay. So you moved to the United States when you're 10. Do you speak any English at that point?
- 4:50No, I didn't. So you're just being Korean. Oh, wait. Okay.
- 4:53And hold on. Wait. I want to go back to when your parents, the separation of North and South Korea.
- 4:59How did they end up in the area they were? Like what took them?
- 5:04North or South? Like, how did that, well, how was that deterrent?
- 5:07They're originally from South, but it was, I mean, from what I hear and what
- 5:11I read from history books, it was literally on a random day,
- 5:16not a random, but they didn't really announce it. It was like, this is it.
- 5:20So people were stuck. If you fled to North, thinking that North was safer,
- 5:25like, so there's so many families that have been separated, parents,
- 5:29siblings, till this day.
- 5:31And obviously, they try to find each other. There are programs,
- 5:34but it's on and off because of the political instability with North and South Korea.
- 5:39Because you literally cannot cross over. No. You cannot leave.
- 5:43Nope. Wow.
- 5:46There's very little communication between them.
- 5:50Oh, I just got the chills. That's crazy. So they end up in South Korea.
- 5:54So they're able to move to the United States. My uncle was sponsored.
- 6:00So I guess in the 70s, there was a program in the United States where they invited
- 6:04a lot of scholars or people who are in higher education. So my uncle was invited
- 6:11to finish his PhD at University of Houston.
- 6:14So he had his family there. He settled and he invited us.
- 6:18So we actually moved to Houston for two years and then moved to New York when
- 6:23I was 12 because my parents, that was also during the recession,
- 6:28oil recession, and there was no prosperity.
- 6:32So we decided to move to New York at that point. And where did you land in New York?
- 6:37Forest Hills, baby. Home of USTA.
- 6:42Is it really? Yeah, because I play tennis and still first, the stadium,
- 6:46Forest Hill Stadium is where they hosted first USTA, US Open,
- 6:50it's grass courts, until they moved it to Flushing Meadow. Oh,
- 6:54and that's where Arthur Ashe Stadium is, right?
- 6:56Okay. All right. Okay. So you grew up outside of New York.
- 6:59Outside of New York. And then you-
- 7:01go to high school, and you go to Wesleyan for college. Yes.
- 7:05What made you choose Wesleyan? Because I know your daughter is looking at colleges
- 7:10now because we had this conversation.
- 7:12Yes. Min has two children, Pepina, who's a junior.
- 7:16Yes. And then Lorenzo, who is in seventh grade, and he happens to be besties,
- 7:22brothers from another mother with my Easton. Yes. And they're hysterical together.
- 7:27These seventh grade boys just love each other so very much. I know.
- 7:30I love them. And I know Pepina is looking at liberal arts colleges as well.
- 7:33So she's, you know, the apple hasn't fallen far from the tree on that one.
- 7:37I hope. I don't know. We'll see. We'll see. So tell me about Wesleyan.
- 7:41Okay. So it was an accident.
- 7:44Asian immigrant, science focused, science, science, science. I did Westinghouse.
- 7:50I actually science Olympiad, high school, you know, AP, AP, chem,
- 7:56physics, Cal. I did my internship out in UT Austin to get ready for my Westinghouse research paper.
- 8:04Back then, MIT had much less female population, so it was easier for women to get into MIT.
- 8:12I met all the stats, so I knew I was going to get into MIT.
- 8:17And so I only applied to MIT.
- 8:20I didn't look at any other schools. I knew I was going to get in there.
- 8:25I was so confident. And back then, I don't know if you remember,
- 8:28folder application, you had to either- You mailed it in.
- 8:31Yeah. Well, you had to call the school or when the school came to visit,
- 8:36you have to put your name down and they mail you the application. Yeah.
- 8:40And then you have to mail it back. You have to fill it out all by hand. Yes.
- 8:43There was nothing, hey, for our younger listeners, there's none of this internet
- 8:46going on in the late 90s, mid 90s.
- 8:53Early 90s. Early 90s. There was none of that. because I graduated high school in 93.
- 8:58You know, my parents weren't very involved. I'm the youngest of three.
- 9:01So, you know, they were kind of tired by the time they got to me.
- 9:05I didn't really pay attention. So I was like, I'm going to go to MIT.
- 9:09This is a school. Apply. I go down to our mail room.
- 9:12I get a piece of letter and it's very thin.
- 9:17And, you know, how you could tell back then is that if you got a big envelope,
- 9:22it means you got in. If you get just a little envelope, it means you got rejected.
- 9:27However, I was so delusional, I opened it up and got a rejection letter.
- 9:34And I was like, huh, they made a mistake. Because my name is Min Lee,
- 9:38which is a very common name, right?
- 9:40It's like Jane Smith in Korea, like in Asian culture.
- 9:44There are thousands of Minleys. Okay.
- 9:47Like, oh, they almost made a mistake. This is a different Min Lee from Forest Hills. Yes.
- 9:52I'm like, let me call them and let them know. So I actually called them long distance.
- 10:00Mind you, those young listeners, you had to pay a lot of money.
- 10:03Like you had to get permission from your parents to call long distance because it was super expensive.
- 10:08Remember, it was like a dollar a minute or something. I forget what the thing was.
- 10:13Called the admissions and it was like, hi, this is Min. I received this letter.
- 10:18I understand you made a mistake. Please re-look at it.
- 10:22And they're like, no, no, it's you. your sister's screen number and your birthday
- 10:26and everything matches.
- 10:27I'm like, are you sure about this? And they're like, yes.
- 10:31And I'm like, M-I-T-M-I-N. I belong there.
- 10:36I was like, it's born for this. We share almost the same name.
- 10:41Devastated. And I was like, I'm not going to college. It's over because by this
- 10:45time it was like December, January, everything was out.
- 10:49Did your parents know this was happening at this point? No, not really.
- 10:52I didn't tell them. And so I'm like, I am not going to college.
- 10:56I'm like, this is it. I'm dead. I'm like, my life is over. I was so like, caught off guard.
- 11:01And one of my best friends, she's amazing, from since we were best friends since
- 11:05sixth grade, got into Harvard.
- 11:09She was a little more prepared than me got into harvard and she had she's like
- 11:15i went to the school i visited i think you will like it here's the application
- 11:21why don't you fill it out and then she gave me her other applications that she
- 11:25had so scramble scramble scramble,
- 11:29And then handwritten, handwritten, write the essay, handwritten,
- 11:33or typed it up, rushed it, applied to all these different schools last minute.
- 11:38I did pretty okay based on that.
- 11:41Oh, I also applied early to MIT to increase my chance.
- 11:46Never visited Wesleyan, never heard of it because they're not science,
- 11:50right? So I'm like, I didn't look at it. I looked at Carnegie Mellon.
- 11:54I was like, I'll go to Carnegie Mellon, Cornell, like all the science schools.
- 11:57And so I actually got a pretty good scholarship there. That's awesome.
- 12:01And so I was like, okay, I'll get it. I mean, it was like the best out of all the cards.
- 12:07I'm like, oh, I guess I'll go there. I could transfer.
- 12:10So I went, chemistry major. And I took an AP art history class in high school and loved it.
- 12:17But didn't realize that there was a career.
- 12:21It was sort of like, it's fun, but I don't know what to do with it.
- 12:25But then I took... American Art History at West's first semester and fell in love with it.
- 12:33And so literally after two weeks of school, I'm like, I'm declaring myself art history major.
- 12:39And also I couldn't see myself wearing white coat being in a lab.
- 12:44It was really what you had to wear. Yeah, I was just like, come on.
- 12:48White coat every day. So boring. Yeah. My time is not pretty.
- 12:52I tend to put all my eggs in one basket too.
- 12:57Again, I never learned from my own lesson. So when I did art history,
- 13:00I took almost every single art history class that was available that I could
- 13:04fit into my schedule because a Wesleyan doesn't really require,
- 13:08doesn't have prerequisite.
- 13:10Oh, it doesn't. Yeah, it's one of those, you know, schools where you could take.
- 13:14You just get all the credits or the amount of the number of classes in. Exactly.
- 13:19Okay. So I got internship at the Whitney, at the Guggenheim.
- 13:23I was full on art history. I worked at the Guggenheim Museum and the Whitney
- 13:29Museum after I graduated.
- 13:30What did you do there? At the Guggenheim, I did development membership.
- 13:34So working with high-end members, creating events, programs for them.
- 13:40So going to Artist Studio.
- 13:43We were just opening Bilbao then. So creating Bilbao trips for the trustees, things like that.
- 13:50So did you get to travel quite a bit too? No, I was too junior.
- 13:56I was the bottom of the totem pole, so I didn't get to travel,
- 13:59but got exposed to a lot of things and how sort of museum worked behind the
- 14:03scenes. So cool. So it was great.
- 14:06One of the best things to work at a museum is actually roaming around the museum when it's closed.
- 14:11Oh, and then you get to experience all the art without anyone there, no crowds.
- 14:16Just like your own collection. Yeah, pretty much. Gosh, that'd be very cool.
- 14:20It's the best thing. I used to do that when I lived in Italy.
- 14:23I used to go to the Uffizi in France every, almost every day.
- 14:27Because you're a student, so you had like pass or whatever. You could go every single day.
- 14:32And after school, after classes, I would go straight there and just sit in that
- 14:37museum. It was my favorite place.
- 14:40It's beautiful. Oh, I missed it. I can't wait to go back at some point.
- 14:43But I never did a lot of museum touring when we lived in New York,
- 14:48though, which is unfortunate.
- 14:49I did some of it. One of my best friends did a lot at the Guggenheim,
- 14:54like the junior board kind of thing. And then we had First Fridays.
- 14:58Yeah, that was at the Guggenheim too, right? Young Collectors Club.
- 15:01That's right. I was part of creating that.
- 15:05How fun. We would do the First Fridays and I talk about it now.
- 15:10And unless you lived in New York, no one really understands what First Fridays are.
- 15:13But at the Guggenheim, the first Fridays of each month, they would have like
- 15:17this young collector's club.
- 15:18And it was a young people who lived in the city working and could go on Fridays
- 15:23and enjoy the museum and meet people.
- 15:26It was like Tinder for art before the internet.
- 15:30It was Tinder? Yes, it was Tinder for art.
- 15:34Because it was, I think the cutoff age was 45. It was all young people.
- 15:41Which when you're 21, you're like 45. It seems, oh my God, you can't call them young.
- 15:47I went on a date with a 40, I was 25.
- 15:51And I went on a date with a 40-year-old man.
- 15:55And I was like, this feels strange. Oh my God. He was so nice.
- 16:00God, he's one of the nicest, like the nicest guys.
- 16:03But I've not thought about that in 20 years. But I think about that now,
- 16:08the age difference. I don't think it matters. It matters.
- 16:12My parents are 14 years apart. I guess it didn't matter then.
- 16:15But I think about that now and I was like, I was very young and also like needed to grow up a lot.
- 16:21Yeah. I think after 30, I think your maturity level, it doesn't matter.
- 16:25But under 30, you still haven't experienced and don't know who you are. Not at all.
- 16:31So I think that's the big difference. I think I finally figured out who I was at 40.
- 16:36Yeah. I think it took that long. I'm still figuring it out. I might just start
- 16:40changing religions, too, like your mom testing the waters.
- 16:43I'm really going to go back to that all the time because I'm obsessed with that thought.
- 16:48I love that. I love that so much about her. I don't even know her,
- 16:51but I want to. I feel like I know she's a hoot. I want to meet her.
- 16:55And then what took you from the Guggenheim to Columbia for your master's degree?
- 17:01So after Guggenheim, I went to the Whitney as a curatorial assistant because
- 17:07as an art history major, everyone wants to be a curator, right?
- 17:10That's the path. The goal, right? I loved it.
- 17:13I did the Altria Whitney space, which it was an emerging artist space where
- 17:19they could do installation.
- 17:20So I got to work really close with every single artist because I was helping
- 17:24them make their exhibition, the installation. So one was Byron Kim.
- 17:30He is a contemporary minimalist painter who was also Korean parents, doctors.
- 17:37He went to Yale and he decided he wanted to be an artist. His parents were like, ha ha, funny.
- 17:44But obviously, he's a very successful artist. He's in all the top collections.
- 17:49You might know him. He does these portraits. And some of them are very small, like four by three.
- 17:56The portraits are basically your skin color. Oh, wow.
- 17:59So when he does family portraits, he'll do the skin color of each family member.
- 18:05So he did an exhibition at the Altria, which was in the ex-Philomoris building.
- 18:10And he wanted to paint the room with all the dirt from the building.
- 18:18So I had to call the custodian department of Phila Morris and say,
- 18:22hey, can I have your vacuum cleaner?
- 18:25Because our artist wants to play. So they were very suspicious because Phila
- 18:31Morris during that time with all the lobbying and against smoking, they were like, what?
- 18:36I don't get it. So we had to get all this clearance, security clearance,
- 18:39to get the vacuum, the dirt back from the vacuum.
- 18:42Like thinking someone was just going to test all their dirt to see what they
- 18:44were doing wrong and it was bad for the environment and stuff.
- 18:46When really he just wanted to paint the walls. Exactly.
- 18:49So he mixed that with water and he painted the room with that.
- 18:53And it was beautiful when he finished because it was just shades of gray.
- 19:01And texture everywhere. But stinky for sure.
- 19:06So he and I, and I would have to stay with him. So I was sort of like the key keeper.
- 19:11And one night we were there very late because obviously he was thinking and
- 19:15painting and got into this talk.
- 19:18And he told me, if curatorial is the only thing you want to do in your entire life, stick with it.
- 19:25Because my boss, she was in her 40s.
- 19:28She had published many books.
- 19:30She had her PhD from Yale in art history. She's a Robert Smithson expert,
- 19:36and she was still an associate curator of
- 19:39at the Whitney getting paid $40,000 a year.
- 19:44So I was like, Oh, my God. So I'm like, I think I'm interested in fashion,
- 19:49thinking that you make a lot more money in fashion. So glamorous. So glamorous. No.
- 19:53And he's like, do it. And I was like, Okay, I'll do it.
- 19:57So I actually start looking for a job in fashion world. And no one would hire me.
- 20:03Because they're like, you didn't go to a typical merchandising or fashion school, FIT Parsons.
- 20:08We know girls like you, you'll come, we hire you and you're going to leave in six months.
- 20:13And I was like, no, I won't. So they won't hire me. I was like, I'll be a receptionist.
- 20:17They're like, no. And then Byron was like, oh, I heard these people,
- 20:21they go to this business school to like switch careers.
- 20:25And I was like, what? I was like, what is a business school?
- 20:29So I started doing my research. I wanted to stay in New York because I was actually
- 20:33married by then. I didn't want to move the farm.
- 20:35We didn't have kids, but I still thought, and also I'm like, I want to be in fashion.
- 20:39So that's why I decided to go to Columbia, got in.
- 20:43And when I was at Columbia, I tried to learn as much as possible about business,
- 20:47balance sheet, accounting, and oh my God, corporate finance,
- 20:51which is actually an art.
- 20:53Yes, it is. It is an art. Watch Ben do it. Yeah.
- 20:56Every single day when he looks at companies i'm like i'm like
- 20:59spinning it's based on assumptions yes
- 21:02billions of dollars all statistics i'm like
- 21:05wait so it is i'm going to an art school it's
- 21:09a performance art very funny so i did that and another crazy story is and i
- 21:14tell this story to a lot of young people who are looking for a career you never
- 21:19know what's gonna happen and don't take no for an answer so second year at business
- 21:23school, everyone's getting these glam jobs.
- 21:26McKinsey, Goldman, crazy salary bonus.
- 21:30And they actually recruit many, many months in advance.
- 21:34So after their internship, they get an offer. So they know like second year,
- 21:38they're set, right? All these people have offers.
- 21:42Me, I was in retail, so they only hire when you're needed. Yep. Yep.
- 21:49And so I was kind of like, oh, my God, I'm going to have student debt.
- 21:54I'm going to have no job. My friends are making like crazy six figures.
- 22:00What am I going to do? One of my friends who actually got a job at LV.
- 22:05She was at Saks before. For those who don't know, LV is Louis Vuitton. So she came from retail.
- 22:12She went to business school and she has stayed in retail.
- 22:14And so she got a job at the LV internship. It's a one-year internship.
- 22:19And she actually was like, hey, this recruiter called me.
- 22:23This company is looking for a merchant.
- 22:26I'm going to recommend you. I was like, oh, my God, thank you. Wow.
- 22:30So I contact the woman and she says, you don't fit the profile. Oh, okay.
- 22:39I'm not going to recommend you. I'm not going for a CEO position of this company.
- 22:44It's entry level merchant job. I have two years of business school.
- 22:49I worked at Prada, Chanel, Vera Wang, coach at this point.
- 22:54Like I had a pretty experience. I have experience. But then I knew the job description
- 22:59and I knew the company because, you know, I had the description of the job. I was like, Uniqlo.
- 23:05I was like, never heard of this company. But you know what?
- 23:08If she says she's not going to submit my resume, I'll submit my own.
- 23:12Did a little research, got their fax number, got the job.
- 23:16While I was negotiating my salary because I knew they were going through a search
- 23:21firm and they had a budget for a search firm, I was able to negotiate a higher
- 23:25salary because I told them that they're not paying.
- 23:29They didn't have to pay the search firm now. And you should put part of that budget into my salary.
- 23:37Wow. And I gave a finger to the woman who said no to me.
- 23:41Yeah. For not fitting the quote unquote profile. Yeah. Wow.
- 23:46Okay. So you're at Uniqlo. Yes. And it's fascinating. And I was going to Japan every month.
- 23:51And had you had Pepina yet or were you? No, I didn't. So it was great.
- 23:55So I was in Japan almost every month for a week. We would leave.
- 23:59With Alejandro, Alejandro Isman's husband. Yes. Would he, hi Alejandro.
- 24:03He came, he came. He'd go with you. Yeah, sometimes, not all the time because
- 24:06you know, once a month is a little too much. Yeah. So yeah, we would leave Sunday.
- 24:11We get there Monday night, Tuesday morning we're in the office.
- 24:14We finish Friday. We leave Saturday morning and we land Saturday morning in
- 24:19US. And then you're back in the U.S. office on Monday. Yeah.
- 24:22How was your health at that point? Oh, I mean, I was so young.
- 24:25You were so young. We bounced back so fast. I'm young. Damn it.
- 24:29And then I had Pepina, and when she was about six months old,
- 24:33that's when I started thinking about getting a new job because it was just too hard.
- 24:37Yeah, it's hard when a baby's that little. Yeah.
- 24:40So when did you get the idea for Santam?
- 24:46Santam. So after Uniqlo, I worked at Walmart doing women's soft accessories.
- 24:54So I was pregnant with Lorenzo.
- 24:56And I'm short.
- 24:58We share that in common, our shortness. And I always love to wear heels.
- 25:06And living in Upper East Side, commuting via lovely NYC subway.
- 25:13When you have kids, your life changes.
- 25:16You carry so much more stuff because you have their stuff.
- 25:21And your life, you just need to simplify your life.
- 25:24And my bag would weigh, kid you not, like 30, 40 pounds. Because back then you had your BlackBerry.
- 25:32You had your regular phone. And laptops were a lot more heavier.
- 25:36They were like 18 pounds back then. And then you have all the chargers because
- 25:39the batteries only lasted like an hour.
- 25:42Yes. And then as a retail buyer, you always have your binder of your sales information.
- 25:50So every night I'd be like, I'm going to go through my bag. I'm like, do I need this pencil?
- 25:55No. I mean, I literally be like, do I need this lipstick tomorrow?
- 25:59No. And I would like just take out everything.
- 26:04And I'm like, why am I carrying a pair of shoes? Shoes are supposed to be a
- 26:08functional part of your wardrobe.
- 26:10Someone make me comfortable heels. So like every six months,
- 26:13I would be like Googling comfortable heels, and it would be the most geriatric
- 26:19collection of ugliest shoes in the entire world.
- 26:23And I'd be like, okay, maybe $500 I could get a pair of shoes.
- 26:28And I'd be like, okay, $700.
- 26:30Like every season, I'd be like, $1,000. $1,000, everyone, anyone,
- 26:35make me a shoe so I could walk on that I don't have to feel like I'm crippling my feet.
- 26:39Like it's a Chinese foot binding, right? You're putting your foot into an unnatural
- 26:45box, and you're forced to walk.
- 26:48Yeah, yeah. It's a modern-day, very expensive Chinese foot binding.
- 26:51And I was like, oh, my God.
- 26:53Couldn't find it. And we were on vacation in Mexico, Alejandro and I.
- 26:57And I think I was shopping for shoes or something.
- 27:01And I was like, oh, and I was getting so frustrated. And he was like,
- 27:04just make your own shoes. I'm like.
- 27:07He's like, you always wanted to start your own business. You have the background.
- 27:11Start your own company. And I was like, oh yeah, I forgot about that part of my life.
- 27:17It's like, yeah, I'll do it. That's when I started.
- 27:19And what was the first shoe that you made?
- 27:23Oh, it was a collection. When I thought about the collection,
- 27:26it's the merchant mine, right? So I'm like, who is she?
- 27:30What's her lifestyle? And what does she need? This is all before COVID, guys.
- 27:35So I'm like okay I want
- 27:39to dress the professional women who are women
- 27:42who have to be on their feet female executives
- 27:45consultants lawyers bankers I'm thinking of my friends from business school
- 27:51I'm thinking of my circle of my lady friends who still need to look sharp because
- 27:55there was they're either presenting
- 27:57to c-suite board or on a podium I'm like okay what does she need
- 28:03And I did a survey with my friends, a survey monkey.
- 28:08I was like, how do you shop for your shoes? They're like, work shoes.
- 28:12Not the like, I'm going to a gala. Evening out shoes.
- 28:16Yeah, yeah, yeah. Or I'm running on weekends. I was like, how do you work shoes?
- 28:20Tell me about it. They're like, most of them are like, on Amtrak.
- 28:25I'm waiting for Metro North. I'm at a terminal. I look at down my feet.
- 28:29I realize I need a new pair of brown shoes. Pumps.
- 28:33Are black because now they're like scuffed and disgusting and unpresentable.
- 28:38I mean, you need to be polished for these jobs, right? Yes, yes.
- 28:41And I go on Zacks or Zappos or Neiman's, pick out five, six pairs. They get shipped to me.
- 28:50I try them on at home. One of them sort of works out, but I'm so desperate and
- 28:55I don't have time to go to a mall on weekends because now I have small children. I have to run around.
- 29:00Okay, so I'm going to design a shoe wardrobe for her. So we did a Monday shoe.
- 29:04It's a loafer that she's running it to her terminal with her teammates.
- 29:09Because back then wearing sneakers wasn't cool.
- 29:11It wasn't part of everyone's wardrobe. It was not what we did.
- 29:14And there weren't that many good-looking sneakers.
- 29:17And then Tuesday, we made a pump, a block heel, because she's at the client's
- 29:22working, and she needs to be comfortable.
- 29:24Wednesday, we did a boot just in case her client is in Seattle,
- 29:28and it happens to be raining, and she needs a boot.
- 29:31She needs a boot, yeah. Thursday, we did sort of a little bit more of a sexy
- 29:34heel, because Thursday night happy hour.
- 29:37And then Friday, we did another fun shoe for her to land and go to her weekend
- 29:41house, more of an espadrille.
- 29:44Okay. So that's how I did it. And we actually named it after all my favorite
- 29:48towns, actually neighborhoods in Italy, because it's where I picture myself wearing.
- 29:54So we have Sanfordiano, Chiaia, Monti, Brera, and Anacapri.
- 30:03That's how sort of I merchandised our shoes.
- 30:05Oh, I love that. And then you could have one for every day. Correct.
- 30:08You have them for different reasons.
- 30:10Yeah. I have the boots and I love them. And they're waterproof.
- 30:13Yes. and they're a low heel, but they're still a heel because I like my heels.
- 30:17I have a problem wearing flats.
- 30:1955 millimeter, which is a good slope.
- 30:22It's actually the perfect pitch for a lot of human beings because it gives you
- 30:27a natural arch because you're lifted and it releases back pain.
- 30:31Little plug for Freakonomics. I don't know if you guys listened to Freakonomics.
- 30:35There was an episode called These Shoes Hurt Me.
- 30:39It was with an anthropologist, podiatrist, and a
- 30:43curator from pata museum which is a shoe museum up
- 30:46in toronto and basically they were saying that humans were never meant to use
- 30:53our heel as a touch point for everyday walking we walked on our toes or lifted
- 31:01more of the forefront of your feet,
- 31:05Like when you're in bar, like when you're elevated in bar. Okay.
- 31:08So if you look at any kind of athlete, they spend very little time on theirs
- 31:13because it's actually, it's a very inefficient way of moving, right?
- 31:16The conversation started with, why do so many people have plantar fasciitis?
- 31:21And the whole thing was because the heel wasn't meant for a contact.
- 31:26It was meant for stability and, you know, sometimes balance,
- 31:30but it wasn't meant for every step. And we're not supposed to be hard on our
- 31:34heels. But there's this thing called shoes.
- 31:37Humans made it because they're smart and they want to be comfortable.
- 31:40And then all these shoe companies start putting more padding on your feet.
- 31:44And so people start using more of the heel because that became more of a natural
- 31:49gait when it's not supposed to.
- 31:50That's why it's called mismatch disease because it's something that we made, right?
- 31:55And so he was like, first of all, he's like, look at how babies start to walk. How do they walk?
- 32:01On their toes. He's like, that's the natural way. Last year,
- 32:05I met this woman who is a natural gynecologist, and she actually said she makes
- 32:11her patients do this exercise where they get on their tippy toes.
- 32:14To release their pelvis.
- 32:16And then you open up the hips. And then you ovulate more.
- 32:21For those of you wanting to get pregnant or not wanting to get pregnant,
- 32:24either go on your tippy toes or don't.
- 32:26And it sort of then all makes sense, right? It does. Because I'm like,
- 32:30if we were naturally supposed to walk on our heels with more open pelvic,
- 32:35which makes your ovulation flow much easier.
- 32:39I want to listen to this episode. I'm going to link it. Yeah.
- 32:42Because this sounds really good to listen to.
- 32:43It is. So you have your shoes. We work with a podiatrist who co-taught shoe designing at Parsons.
- 32:49He looks at our shoes and sort of corrects it and gives us all the pointers
- 32:55to make our shoes ergonomic.
- 32:56Our main designer is out of Milan. Yeah.
- 32:58And we make everything in Italy. How did you find your factory? I went on a factory tour.
- 33:03It's one of the most fascinating, fun part of creating your own brand.
- 33:07So you find, you locate factories that you'd want to work with.
- 33:10So Italian factories are very weird.
- 33:13They're like a little bit of a mafia. Okay. So they're not listed on directory.
- 33:18It's really hard to find them. I remember trying to research them when I was
- 33:21at the Fashion Institute in San Francisco because we had to do this whole big
- 33:25merchandising plan of something we were creating. And I was looking at Italy,
- 33:30I couldn't find names of anything.
- 33:33This is strange. I mean, you could find Asia, you could find Philippines, you could find Vietnam.
- 33:39You could find all those, but you could not find Italy. And now I understand
- 33:42why. There are a few things why.
- 33:44So I went on a factory tour with my Italian designer who knew pretty much almost
- 33:50every single factory in Italy.
- 33:52And that's why I needed to get an Italian designer. And one reason is things have changed.
- 33:59They're becoming more conglomerates, purchasing them, like the LVs of the world
- 34:04are buying up a lot of the factories or VC firms.
- 34:08How traditional is that these factories are very, still a lot of them are family owned.
- 34:12And their capacity is quite small when you think about it.
- 34:16They could average capacity of an Italian factory, shoe factory is about 2,000
- 34:20units per week. So, for example, a factory in the Philippines or in Asia,
- 34:28millions per week. Yeah.
- 34:30And many more people working there, bigger facilities.
- 34:34The attention to detail is probably a lot less because in the smaller factories
- 34:40with the smaller group of people, you're taking your time. You're watching what you're doing. Yep.
- 34:45My dad created things with his hands. He was a machine maker, basically.
- 34:51My nonu built things when he came over from Italy, and he and my dad eventually
- 34:56opened this business making machinery, and it was just the two of them.
- 35:01And it took them a really long time to make it.
- 35:04They didn't want anyone else involved. They had a system for how they did it.
- 35:08It took a long time, but they were the best machine on the market when they made these.
- 35:17It cost a little bit more, but people waited for them to do it because it was so perfectly done.
- 35:23And that's how Italians do things. Yes. It takes a long time.
- 35:27It's well done. And it lasts forever.
- 35:30Yes. And I feel like those are like three of the things that I grew up knowing
- 35:32about Italian items, right? A craftsman. Yes. They're artists.
- 35:37So I'll tell you what. I mean, again, when I worked at Walmart,
- 35:42one of the first questions we asked vendor is what is your weekly capacity?
- 35:46If you didn't have that threshold for that category, we say come back when you're there.
- 35:51We can't even start a conversation if you cannot make our quantity, right?
- 35:56That was like first red flag for us. So think of that in Asia,
- 36:01where the factories are like football fields, humongous.
- 36:05You got lines, lines, hundreds of people working.
- 36:08And these people know how to work a machine.
- 36:11So they might have been working at a book bag factory, but today they're making shoes.
- 36:16And then their next job might be making socks.
- 36:20So they know how to make a machine, but they know how to use a machine,
- 36:25but they don't know how to make things, if that makes sense.
- 36:28Italians, they make things. They've been working in the shoe industry.
- 36:33Their uncle has been there.
- 36:34Their father, they grew up in that. It's fourth, third. They don't have to be owners.
- 36:40All the workers, they've been in the industry all their lives.
- 36:44And then they got the best last maker down the street.
- 36:48They have the best tannery down the street. They have the best heel maker down
- 36:53the street. So it's this ecosystem of the best of the best living and working together.
- 36:58And they take their time. So they don't rush anything. They take their breaks.
- 37:03I mean, literally during lunchtime, the light goes off. I'm like, they all go out.
- 37:10And they have their lunch. It's amazing. I really enjoy it. A lot of them go
- 37:14home. Yes. And have lunch with their family. Their spouse.
- 37:18It's really siesta, like siesta time. So when their capacity is so low,
- 37:23they don't have to look for a new brand.
- 37:26If they get an, not even the whole collection, but if they get one shoe,
- 37:31let's say a black loafer from Prada to make for their global market.
- 37:36Which is going to be probably 10,000 units, their capacity is done for a month
- 37:42and a half or two months, whatever.
- 37:46And this is what they mean when they're booked for the month.
- 37:48They literally have a shoe they're already making for that month. Correct.
- 37:52They can't do yours. They go somewhere else. So they don't need to publicize.
- 37:57And we're looking for a new brand or new shoe to make. Because everyone knows
- 38:00each other and they're like, I know you make the best loafers.
- 38:03Make it for me. They literally open the door like this, and they say, Kiai!
- 38:08Yeah! And I'm like, which is, who are you?
- 38:11And then, of course, my designers were like, Leopoldo! And they're like,
- 38:15and they open the door, and they cap, you know, espresso come out, and it's amazing.
- 38:20So that's what we did. And we found a factory in Napoli, which we love.
- 38:25So that's who we work with. And then we have the Fulana line that we work with,
- 38:30a factory in Puglia and outside of Venice.
- 38:32And the Fuliana line is your loaf, the slip-ons, the velvet ones,
- 38:37which are so – and they've got the Mary Jane one and the slip-on ones,
- 38:41which are super comfortable. Yeah.
- 38:43People love walking around. Washable. How did you start actually selling the shoes?
- 38:47Knowing the wholesale market, because my factory in Napoli were making Prada, Fendi.
- 38:52They were the first ones to make the Chloe Scallop shoes. Mm-hmm.
- 38:56Max Mara. I mean, these hens are making these shoes.
- 38:59And so I was probably I was not probably I
- 39:02was paying more per pair than any of the brands because
- 39:05I didn't have the volume yeah which I respect what
- 39:08right so the other thing to learn about this if you don't know about
- 39:11this environment manufacturing the smaller amount you purchase the higher price
- 39:15you pay as you get larger quantities they charge you less yeah so I'm like I
- 39:20can't and I can't I can't compete with Jimmy choose of the world yeah and because
- 39:26I need me millions of dollars just for branding.
- 39:29Or do I want to be another Jimmy Choo? No, not really. So what I did was because
- 39:33it was, you know, I made these for my friends who are working with a professional
- 39:37woman, we start selling it to.
- 39:40We would start having trunk shows at the corporation. So American Express, BCG, McKinsey's.
- 39:47We went in, we did a trunk show. But what we did was we also did a networking and learning.
- 39:52It wasn't just to sell shoes, but it was about we brought a stylist so women
- 39:57knew how to dress for different occasions because business casual was the new thing.
- 40:03And they were like, well, is a black jeans business casual?
- 40:06Like what is business casual? How do I change my wardrobe here to,
- 40:09you know, fit this new environment?
- 40:11Yeah. Oh, we did Italian wine tasting, did foot yoga.
- 40:15So there was always a learning or networking component on top of selling shoes,
- 40:19which I think women appreciated.
- 40:21So we started doing that.
- 40:23And we actually, and these take a really long time to plan because you have
- 40:27to get on the right schedule of these corporations, these large corporations.
- 40:32You know, they plan out their calendar almost a year in advance.
- 40:36So we had about like six weeks of roadshow planned March 2020.
- 40:44As I was driving up to Toronto and was about 30 minutes outside of the border,
- 40:51I got a call from American Express saying,
- 40:54as of immediately, we're not allowed to have any outsiders come into our building.
- 41:00I'm so sorry. We need to cancel your trunk show. Also, had you gone over to
- 41:05the Canadian, over the Canadian border, would you have been able to come home? Yes. Okay.
- 41:11Because it was like shutting down. Yeah. I was like, you know what?
- 41:15I was like, you know, we didn't know how serious this thing was.
- 41:18I was like, whatever. I'm 30 minutes. I'm going to cross over.
- 41:21We had other trunk shows.
- 41:23Did it. It was actually quite successful because everyone was sort of like,
- 41:26this might be our last night out.
- 41:27This might be our last foray. Let's just do it. Let's go. and then
- 41:31Alejandro called me well I was talking to Alejandro he's like
- 41:33I think they're shutting the borders I wanna pack up
- 41:37and get out of there get out of back home there so that's
- 41:40what happened and we had to literally like we had this amazing plan that took
- 41:44me months to plan and it got completely wiped out but then you know Italy shut
- 41:50down so we weren't even making shoes it felt like did it feel like a pause or
- 41:54at that point were you I was like I might not even have a brand it might be done yeah.
- 41:59Because we looked at, I was like, okay, let's go to Spain. Let's go to Portugal.
- 42:02Let's go to Brazil. So we looked, we were like, how do we start manufacturing
- 42:06in other places? But then it was domino effect. So everyone's shutting down.
- 42:10The world. Wait, we're going to have to bring Min back because we have more
- 42:13to talk about. Oh my God. I have the three questions. Yes.
- 42:16That I want to get to. Okay. We have to do a double episode with you.
- 42:20Yes. It's too much. Okay.
- 42:22First, a question that everyone's going to get when they sit down on the couch with me.
- 42:25What's something you've changed your mind about recently? Everything's going
- 42:28to be okay. It'll always work out.
- 42:31There is a reason for everything. Yes. It all happens for a reason.
- 42:35For example, I didn't get into MIT. That's right.
- 42:40But then I met my husband at Wesleyan. And the four years of Wesleyan,
- 42:46I always say, I want, I decide,
- 42:50I don't push Wesleyan and my daughter because the four years at Wesleyan was so incredible.
- 42:55I want her to have her own experience like that. Her own incredible.
- 43:00And so I'm like, you know, again, I just got the chance. Yeah. I love that.
- 43:05Next question. What's the most random thing on your bucket list?
- 43:08Okay. I was thinking about this.
- 43:11And I always see this. When I lived in Upper East Side and I had to go to Upper
- 43:16West Side for work, I used to walk across the park every day.
- 43:20And there was this woman, probably in her 80s, she had purple hair, purple track suit.
- 43:29She would have her coffee in her mug, like porcelain mug, not even like thermal mug. Yeah.
- 43:35A cream cheese bagel and a radio, like a boombox radio with double D batteries.
- 43:43She would listen to her NPR every day on a bench, eating her bagel and drinking her coffee.
- 43:50You're miserable when you're going to work in the morning. You're like, oh, I'm so tired.
- 43:54My kids. And then I'm like, I look at it and I'll be like, I want to be you
- 43:58when I grow up. That's my bucket list.
- 44:01She didn't give a shit. She didn't have zero Fox given. Yeah.
- 44:04He was like, I'm going to listen to my NPR on a loud radio in the middle of Central.
- 44:09Hair and outfit. Central Park with my mug and.
- 44:13I will come visit you. I will come sit and listen and wear my heels every day.
- 44:18All right. If you could give your younger self one piece of advice,
- 44:22what would it be? Don't take no for an answer.
- 44:26It just means not now. That's right. That's right.
- 44:31And I know even our kids, oh, he's going to say no.
- 44:36So what? So that's the worst that can happen? Yeah. So they say no. Yeah. Move on.
- 44:41That's right. There are 350 million people in the United States.
- 44:44I'm sure one of them will say yes to whatever you need.
- 44:48I'm so sad you have to go already. I know. This was just a million things to
- 44:53talk about. I don't know, just rambling on about it.
- 44:56Oh, thank you for being here. It's nothing helpful, but if you want to know
- 45:01anything about retail, let me know.
- 45:02I know. Men's our go-to. Men's our go-to.