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Stop Waiting for Someone to Choose You · Intuitive Coaching with Amy Radio

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  Speaker 1: Hi, It's Amy with Intuitive Coaching with Amy Radio, and
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  Speaker 1: this is your sacred space for spiritual alignment, energetic growth
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  Speaker 1: and miracle level living. I said that out of order,
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  Speaker 1: but who cares. It's my show today. We're going to
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  Speaker 1: talk about something that I've seen a lot. It's been
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  Speaker 1: coming up a lot in session, and it's an energy
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  Speaker 1: and it's waiting for someone.
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  Speaker 2: To choose you.
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  Speaker 1: I could be a partner, it could be a boss,
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  Speaker 1: it could be a client, it could even be parents, right,
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  Speaker 1: waiting on somebody to choose you. And it's subtle, it's sneaky,
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  Speaker 1: and it's common. So many of us are waiting for
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  Speaker 1: someone to choose us and waiting for that validation, waiting
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  Speaker 1: for that recognition, waiting for that promotion, the client, the partner,
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  Speaker 1: the praise, the I love you right. But what we
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  Speaker 1: don't realize, and I'll put myself in this boat too,
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  Speaker 1: that when we approach our life from that way, when
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  Speaker 1: we approach our goals from that way, when we approach
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  Speaker 1: our career from that way, hoping that someday someone will
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  Speaker 1: pick us, that someone will choose us and it'll prove
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  Speaker 1: that we're worthy, we never get there because the truth
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  Speaker 1: is you have to choose you. You have to believe
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  Speaker 1: that you are worthy. You have to believe that you
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  Speaker 1: are deserving, and you have to believe that you're more
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  Speaker 1: than enough. And it's non negotiable. It's not based on
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  Speaker 1: anything outside of you. You can't prove it to yourself.
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  Speaker 1: You just have to lock in the belief. When you're
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  Speaker 1: waiting for someone else to choose you, you're saying, my value,
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  Speaker 1: who I am, my success is all dependent on humans,
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  Speaker 1: and that energy creates disappointment, frustration. Resentment can derail your relationships.
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  Speaker 1: It can cause you to choose the wrong projects to
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  Speaker 1: work on. It can cause you to focus on creative
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  Speaker 1: pursuits that don't serve you well. So how do we
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  Speaker 1: transcend this? The first step is awareness, really acknowledging that
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  Speaker 1: you've been giving your power away like this, and it's subtle.
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  Speaker 1: So my hope is that as you're hearing my voice,
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  Speaker 1: if you are a person that's been waiting for someone
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  Speaker 1: to choose you, that you will recognize it and not
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  Speaker 1: to feel any guilt or shame or embarrassment. Just recognize, oh,
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  Speaker 1: I've been doing that. I've been waiting for, approve what
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  Speaker 1: I've been waiting for recognition. I've been leaning on external
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  Speaker 1: validation because once you have that awareness, you can start
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  Speaker 1: to reclaim your energy. The next step is choice. You
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  Speaker 1: got to choose yourself in every situation. You got to
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  Speaker 1: lock it in. You got to decide. I choose me,
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  Speaker 1: no matter where I'm at or what I'm up to,
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  Speaker 1: I choose me. I know I'm.
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  Speaker 2: Worthy, I know I'm deserving.
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  Speaker 1: I know that I'm more than enough. I know that
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  Speaker 1: I'm talented enough, capable enough, attractive enough. And I step
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  Speaker 1: fully into my life choosing myself. And from that place, friends,
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  Speaker 1: you know, you draw to you energies that support you
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  Speaker 1: in that way. Maya Angelaus said it beautifully, be on
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  Speaker 1: your own side.
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  Speaker 2: I love this quote. Be on your own side, and.
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  Speaker 1: It's a reminder that your self empowerment is the foundation
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  Speaker 1: for everything you do in this lifetime. When you support
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  Speaker 1: yourself first, the universe responds and you get real allies,
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  Speaker 1: real good quality opportunities, promotions that arrive naturally, and you'll
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  Speaker 1: see things that look good and on the other side,
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  Speaker 1: it's still good. Right if you entered into something where
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  Speaker 1: you thought, oh, this is good, this looks good. I
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  Speaker 1: think this is gonna work and I'm excited about this,
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  Speaker 1: and then you get to the other side and it
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  Speaker 1: was just a mess, and it was hard, it was challenging.
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  Speaker 1: And I'm not saying that things won't be.
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  Speaker 2: Work.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not saying things are going to be perfect. I'm
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  Speaker 1: not saying that you're not going to be met with opposition.
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  Speaker 1: That's just life, right, that's the human experience. But I'm
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  Speaker 1: talking you know, I'm talking about when you go into
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  Speaker 1: something expecting that it's going to be the thing that
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  Speaker 1: validates you, and then it doesn't. It feels awful. I've
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  Speaker 1: talked to so many people who are in the midst
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  Speaker 1: of like a dark night of the soul because they
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  Speaker 1: went into a situation thinking this is the validation I've
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  Speaker 1: been seeking and then they don't get it. I've been
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  Speaker 1: there myself many times. So it doesn't matter what your
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  Speaker 1: personality is. It doesn't matter what your style is. If
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  Speaker 1: you're quiet, if you're boisterous, if you're unconventional, if you
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  Speaker 1: toe the line, it doesn't matter even if you're unsure
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  Speaker 1: or hesitant. You can step into each situation as your
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  Speaker 1: own ally. You can speak from your truth, you can
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  Speaker 1: set your boundaries, you can take actions that honor who
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  Speaker 1: you are and what you believe. Because here's what happens.
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  Speaker 1: When you choose yourself. You stop saying in relationships that
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  Speaker 1: disappoint you. You stop bending yourself in all different directions
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  Speaker 1: trying to force yourself to get the validation that you
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  Speaker 1: need or you think you need. You stop waiting for
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  Speaker 1: external praise so that you feel good about yourself. And
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  Speaker 1: then people opportunities show up. They show up and they
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  Speaker 1: match the vibration of a person who's chosen themselves. They work,
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  Speaker 1: they support you. It's overflow. You get everything that you want, right, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: it's pretty miraculous. You got to choose you, and until
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  Speaker 1: you do, you're going to keep just cycling more of
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  Speaker 1: the same. That's what I've been seeing in sessions is
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  Speaker 1: people are on the cusp of opportunities, right I. I've
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  Speaker 1: been saying that on the program. Many people are experiencing
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  Speaker 1: the energy of doorways of opportunity and they're calling, you know,
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  Speaker 1: to gain some insight is to they already see it.
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  Speaker 1: They all tell me like, I think this is really
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  Speaker 1: great opportunity. And then Spirit has been showing me that
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  Speaker 1: they're using that opportunity as a way to validate themselves,
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  Speaker 1: and so it won't be even if it looks good,
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  Speaker 1: even if all the pieces seem like they're in place,
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  Speaker 1: it won't ultimately wind.
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  Speaker 2: Up being a good opportunity.
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  Speaker 1: But if you can shift your energy and choose yourself,
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  Speaker 1: oh everything you touch turns to gold. So here's a
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  Speaker 1: process to help you ground into this choosing your self energy.
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  Speaker 1: You've got to acknowledge that you've been waiting for someone
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  Speaker 1: to choose you, whether it be in a romantic relationship,
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  Speaker 1: your business, your career, even homes. And you got to say,
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  Speaker 1: I've been giving my power away to this energy of
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  Speaker 1: waiting for someone to choose me. And then you got
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  Speaker 1: to say to yourself, I choose myself now. I am
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  Speaker 1: my own ally, I am on my own side. And
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  Speaker 1: then you got to start taking action as a person
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  Speaker 1: who chooses themselves. And this is going to take a
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  Speaker 1: little practice, but get moving as you start to take
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  Speaker 1: action as a person who chooses themselves. If you're looking
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  Speaker 1: for a job right now, and every day you sit
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  Speaker 1: down and you send out some resumes or you make
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  Speaker 1: some calls before you get on, before you start, say
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  Speaker 1: to yourself, I choose me. I choose me, And from
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  Speaker 1: that place you're going to start to see different opportunities.
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  Speaker 1: You're going to start to see things come together. It's
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  Speaker 1: pretty miraculous the way it works. All right, let's talk
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  Speaker 1: All right, thank you, thank you for listening to this point.
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  Speaker 1: And I'm going to say this to you, my friend.
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  Speaker 1: Stop waiting for someone to choose you. Stop hoping that
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  Speaker 1: someone chooses you stop leaning on external validation. Choose yourself.
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  Speaker 1: Right now as you hear my voice, choose yourself, because
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  Speaker 1: when you do, everything will start to align. The energy
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  Speaker 1: around you will shift, the thing you've been working on
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  Speaker 1: for months will start to come into form. It's pretty miraculous.
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  Speaker 1: But you have to do the work to choose you.
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  Speaker 1: And it's so simple, but so not simple. At the
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  Speaker 1: same time. You have to be willing to say I
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  Speaker 1: am approaching this situation from choosing myself. And you just
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  Speaker 1: got to notice when you're not, when you're going into
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  Speaker 1: something saying it's going to make me something I speak
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  Speaker 1: ID just flashed an example that is going to write
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  Speaker 1: a close. So some years back, I'd say, now at
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  Speaker 1: this point, it's been about ten years ago, I was
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  Speaker 1: still married and groupon it reached out to me to
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  Speaker 1: put my you know, to create a group on for
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  Speaker 1: my services. And I remember they had a lot of
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  Speaker 1: things I had to do. I did position the website
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  Speaker 1: in a certain way, and I was working on things,
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  Speaker 1: and I was concerned about some other my business license
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  Speaker 1: and stuff. So I was going to the city and
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  Speaker 1: getting my making sure all of that was in line,
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  Speaker 1: and I was so focused on this is going to
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  Speaker 1: validate my business, right, because at that time, Group I
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  Speaker 1: was huge in the Bay area, you know, And so
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  Speaker 1: I thought this and they approached me. So I was like, Oh,
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  Speaker 1: this is the thing. It's going to make me right.
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  Speaker 1: And I remember fighting with my ex husband during that
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  Speaker 1: time because I was so focused on getting this work done.
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  Speaker 1: And I, you know, I can have a kind of
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  Speaker 1: a you would.
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  Speaker 2: Call it my bully ram energy.
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  Speaker 1: I'm an aries and I and my spare guards are
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  Speaker 1: flashing it because I was expecting groupon to choose me.
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  Speaker 1: And so I did all this work and I did
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  Speaker 1: manifest a client one from that group on, but I
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  Speaker 1: mean even now I don't even have an email for
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  Speaker 1: that client anymore. So it wasn't what I thought. But
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  Speaker 1: the reason why it wasn't what I thought was because
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  Speaker 1: I was taking that this thing is going to validate
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  Speaker 1: my business and that's how.
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  Speaker 2: This works, we think.
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  Speaker 1: And again they approached me, so you would think like.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, this must mean something.
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  Speaker 1: And if you're an experience like that right now doesn't
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  Speaker 1: mean that it's not going to be good. It just
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  Speaker 1: means you need to shift your energy. And I wish
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  Speaker 1: I didn't know to when it came to business I
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  Speaker 1: lost all spiritual wisdom when I started a business on
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  Speaker 1: the business side, and so now I know if I
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  Speaker 1: could go back and tell myself, I'm like, we're all
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  Speaker 1: not just because I saw and unfolded. I do believe
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  Speaker 1: it could have unfolded a lot differently if I had
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  Speaker 1: been in a different energetic state. But yes, there are
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  Speaker 1: many times where I go where I've gone to the
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  Speaker 1: practitioners that I use, and I'm in that my ex
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  Speaker 1: husband again called my bully ram energy and needing this
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  Speaker 1: thing to.
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  Speaker 2: Choose me, and.
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  Speaker 1: Very few people told me directly like hey, Amy, the
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  Speaker 1: energy you're holding is not going to get you what
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  Speaker 1: you want, you know.
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  Speaker 2: But I'm the type of psychic that will.
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  Speaker 1: I've given that message out a lot lately. So that
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  Speaker 1: is why I'm doing this show. Choose yourself and everything
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  Speaker 1: will change. Choose yourself and everything will change. So thank you,
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  Speaker 1: thank you for listening, thank you for showing up for
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  Speaker 1: Intuitive Coaching with Amy Radio, and I look forward to
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  Speaker 1: connecting with you on the next show.
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  Speaker 2: Goodbye,