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(#18) Feminine Manifestation Codes for More Pleasure, Wealth & Love · Alignment With Jenn

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  Hello, hello, welcome to this episode of Receive.
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  I am your host Jen Dizzy, and today we are going to be talking
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  all about the feminine manifestation codes.
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  So this is something that over the last few years I've really
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  been diving deeper into the understanding of feminine energy
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  and the understanding of how it operates in our lives and really
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  how as feminine energy beings, we manifest meaning we create
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  within our lives differently than masculine energy beings.
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  And the truth is that the longer that I've learned about this
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  stuff, the more I realize how deeply these differences
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  actually run in such an exciting and life giving way.
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  And so today I really want to talk about some of the key
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  concepts that will help you understand how you can use this
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  innate feminine energy that you already have that you already
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  possessed to call in more love, more wealth, more pleasure, more
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  joy, more fulfillment into your life.
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  And really use these in order to help you more easily and
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  joyfully reach that next level within your life, wherever that
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  might be. So over the past few years, I
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  think the first time I really started learning about the
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  difference between masculine and feminine energy was when I went
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  to Tony Robbins date with destiny and he talks about it
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  and it honestly learning that he has one day that's all dedicated
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  to relationship. It really blew my mind and it
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  was something that I had never really explored before.
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  And then as I started learning about it, I sort of diving
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  deeper and deeper into it and seeing how it really interplays
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  with what we want to call into our lives and how when we
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  actually start to learn to connect in and use our feminine
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  energy, it is wildly powerful. I've heard different spiritual
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  teachers say that they believe that the feminine actually holds
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  more power than the masculine, which is pretty incredible.
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  And I personally, I agree. You can decide if you agree or
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  not. But what really is kind of
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  inspiring this shift, and this is really going to be a shift in
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  the way that I'm actually sharing information and coaching
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  with my clients as well. And I've already been moving
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  toward this over the last, I would say nine months or so
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  since the beginning of this year is at the end of last year, my
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  business sort of hit this place where it was like kind of
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  stagnant, meaning it was like a couple of months in a row, it
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  was the same. And before that it had been
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  really steadily nicely growing. And I started sort of reflecting
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  like what is what's going on here?
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  And I did a lot of subconscious rewiring work around this and
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  that really helped. But I noticed that I'd kind of
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  go through this cycle of being really motivated and excited
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  about my business and then kind of getting burned out.
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  Let me know if you've ever had that experience before.
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  And what I realized is that the burnout would come when I was in
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  very masculine energy, when I was like, yes, I'm going to
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  accomplish this. I'm going to do it.
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  I can handle this. Like I'm going to wake up early,
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  I'm going to crush it, You know what I mean?
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  I was got into that very hustle goal oriented pushing energy and
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  it didn't feel good for me. I have a lot of feminine energy
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  and I also am a projector. And if you know anything about
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  human design, all of my centers on the lower half of my body are
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  all completely open, meaning that I'm not producing much
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  energy on my own. I'm getting it from the
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  environment and things like that.
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  So I don't have consistent waves of energy or elevated energy
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  like a generator, a manifesting generator might have or even a
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  projector if they have some energy centers that are
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  producing energy for them. So as a result, I am very, very
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  tuned into what is happening with my energy because I want to
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  make sure that I'm using it very, very judiciously and
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  wisely. And what I noticed is the more
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  that I got into this masculine goal oriented reason, logic,
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  hustle, push, make things happen energy that I had learned a lot
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  from from being very active in the Tony Robbins community, the
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  more burned out that I started to feel and the more that my
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  business actually contracted and it didn't do as well.
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  So in February of this year, I did this experiment where I was
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  like, OK, I'm just going to like only do what feels really,
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  really good and feels really pleasurable and fun for me to do
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  within my life and my business. So I cut significantly down on
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  all of the work that I was doing.
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  I started making way less content.
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  I started doing basically what I needed to do to get out of this
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  burn out, but also only doing the things that brought me
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  really a lot of joy. And what I noticed is that my
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  business did significantly better.
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  I showed up differently for my clients.
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  I felt more at peace. It was like people were just
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  magnetized to me. I had so many people in my inbox
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  being like, hey, I saw this reel from like a year ago and I want
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  to work with you. And it was like this effortless
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  receiving was happening. And I was like, that's really
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  interesting. And then of course, as life
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  would happen, I kind of went back into the hustle and then I
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  kept, but I kept coming back to this.
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  And what I realize is that the more that I am in this feminine,
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  the more that I am in this receiving energy, the more
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  insanely magnetic I become. And as a result, I started
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  diving even deeper into all of the knowledge and wisdom around
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  this. And I've already read so many
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  books. I've taken courses on feminine
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  energy. I know Allison Armstrong talks a
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  lot about this mom and Gina talks a lot about this.
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  I'm actually rereading one of her books right now.
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  And really the truth is that as a feminine energy being in
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  society, we have been raised to believe that success comes from
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  really following the masculine qualities, right?
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  Being goal oriented, being focused, having a lot of reason,
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  having a lot of consistency, being very logical.
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  And those are all great qualities.
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  And we want those qualities, but not at the detriment of our own
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  innate unique feminine energy gifts.
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  Because the truth is that both masculine and feminine energy
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  include incredibly valuable gifts and we want them both.
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  But what is happening in our society is that the masculine
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  gifts are being overvalued, and it's causing us to lose sight of
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  these feminine gifts and lose sight of the fact that there's
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  so much power in the feminine. And it's creating this imbalance
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  in society, right? It's creating a loss of polarity
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  in relationships, meaning a lot of people are friends with their
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  partners, but they don't want to, like, have really delicious
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  sex with their partners. There are a lot of people who
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  are women who are feeling very burned out, feeling very much
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  like they are not in alignment with their true purpose because
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  they're living by this societal model.
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  And what I want to offer you today, you can take it or leave
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  it, but I really encourage you to experiment with it is this
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  feminine way of being. Because as feminine beings in a
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  masculine dominated society, what happens is when we operate
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  primarily from masculine energy, I'm not saying you never want to
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  use these masculine qualities, You do and they're important,
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  but it's when that becomes your primary operating mode that you
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  become burned out. You can become anxious, just
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  stressed, feeling like you're never enough because you're
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  operating in a program that is not designed for how your unique
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  and special energy works. So as a woman who is connected
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  to her divine feminine energy, what will happen for you is that
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  you will become radiant. You will become effortlessly
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  magnetic. People will be drawn to you in
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  relationship, in dating, in career, in business.
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  People are drawn to it because right now what's happening is
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  like our society is starved for feminine energy.
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  It really is starved for it because we've been taught that
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  those qualities, the flowiness, the emotionality, the
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  intuitiveness are not as valuable as the logic, the
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  reason, the goal, orientedness, all of those sorts of things.
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  And so you become effortlessly magnetic, a woman who's truly
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  connected to her divine feminine energy.
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  And I'm not talking immature feminine that is reactive and
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  overly emotional and unkind. I'm talking a woman who allows
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  herself to be with her emotions and connect with her emotions
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  and doesn't fear them, to connect to her intuition, to be
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  part of that. She draws things to her.
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  The visual I always get is like a queen who's sitting on her
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  throne and there's a line of suitors who are all coming and
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  delivering gifts and sustenance and resources to her because
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  they want to be around this energy.
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  So the goal of this episode really is to help you see and
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  connect to those gifts that you already possess to create more
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  ease, joy, pleasure, harmony, love, abundance, and happiness
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  within your life by living more in alignment with your true
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  essence because your true essence is wildly magnetic and
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  it's wildly powerful. So as we dive in, I just want to
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  be very clear about the differences of what masculine
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  energy is and what feminine energy is.
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  And truthfully, this definition for me has evolved over time as
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  I've gone through my own journey and as I've experienced
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  different things within my life. And so I think of the masculine
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  as its logic, its drive. It's this giving energy, right?
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  The masculine is the protector, is the provider and is also
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  seeking this deep sense of purpose, this deep sense of
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  stillness, this deep sense of releasing and being free.
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  Freedom is hugely important for the masculine energy.
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  And really the masculine is in this pursuit of freedom and this
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  pursuit of emptying, of releasing, right?
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  You think of like an ejaculation.
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  That's a releasing. And the masculine is also this
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  penetrative directive force. It's laser focused, right?
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  One of I met this woman in Cafe yesterday and she was like, we
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  were chatting for a little bit and she's like, yeah, she's
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  like, I leave the house. That way my husband can just
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  focus on his work. She's like, cuz I'll be
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  distracting to him. And I was like, oh really?
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  She's like, yeah. She's like, what he can do is
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  just sit down for 12 hours and just focus and work on his
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  computer. And I'm like, holy cow.
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  I could never do that in my entire life.
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  And I honestly don't ever want to.
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  But that's like such masculine energy, right?
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  That's so focused. The masculine is the pursuer.
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  The masculine is designed to lead and is designed to really
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  go get the goal, go get the thing that he wants.
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  Now, this is a spectrum, right? There's going to be people who
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  fall on every aspect of this spectrum from very masculine to
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  very feminine. And we all have different
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  proportions of these energies and that's beautiful, right?
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  But it's to understand these different elements of it.
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  When we over prioritize, if we are a feminine energy being and
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  we over prioritize the qualities of the masculine, right, which
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  can happen a lot to women in business.
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  It can happen to a lot to women who are focused on a goal.
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  Or when women get into lack. That's what I often see is that
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  when women get into lack, they really get into this very
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  masculine energy because they they want to go get they want to
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  go chase, right? It's when you text a guy 70
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  million times that's chasing energy, that's masculine energy.
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  No wonder that he's not like, he's like, oh God, no, no thank
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  you. Because that's not, that's not
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  what a masculine being is seeking in relationship.
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  He wants to be the pursuer. And what happens is a loss of
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  polarity. So polarity is basically like
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  the difference between 2 energetic charges and that would
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  be the feminine and the masculine.
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  And when they're very, very extreme, that polarity, like a
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  very feminine woman and a very masculine man, it's going to be
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  hot. It's going to be be very, very
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  polarizing or polarized and they're going to have a very
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  radiant love life. They're going to feel very
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  connected. But what happens over time,
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  especially having kids, having life responsibilities, is both
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  parties will kind of take on more of the roles of the other
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  party and their neutrality will be created and they'll kind of
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  meet in the middle and that creates dysfunction in the
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  relationship. This also happens and is
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  happening kind of at large in our society because of the
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  masculine over prioritization of us all being taught that, like
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  that's the way to do it, right? Even our school system is set up
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  very, very masculine where you sit in chairs, you listen to a
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  teacher hour after hour after hour after hour, right?
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  That's very masculine oriented. So what is the feminine so
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  delicious and lovable? So the feminine is more feelings
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  based, right? The feminine is tuning in and
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  feeling your energy, right? That's why you can walk into a
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  bathroom and you can see a woman that you've never met looking in
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  the mirror and you can be like, oh girl, are you OK?
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  Even if she's not crying because we TuneIn, right?
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  We innately do that. I have a niece and a nephew and
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  they're twins and they're both three years old.
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  And it's so incredible to me because they already show these
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  different energies. She is so tuned in to everything
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  that is happening around her. She's tuned into like the social
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  dynamics, she's tuned into everything.
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  And he he's not. He's focused on his play and his
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  goals and just a very, very different operating system.
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  And it's the cutest thing I've ever seen, honestly.
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  It's so cute. So the feminine is also
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  receptive. And I'll talk a little bit more
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  about this later, but the feminine is the receiver, right?
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  She's the one on the throne receiving the gifts.
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  And she the more open she is, the more gifts she's going to
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  receive. And the issue is that when we
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  get into our masculine, we get less open, we get less
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  receptive. And so we receive less and
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  things feel harder. They feel more like a struggle.
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  They feel more like we have to push to get what we want.
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  The feminine is more attuned, tuned to the quantum, to things
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  that we cannot see. Kabbalah talks about how the
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  feminine is actually spiritually more advanced than the
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  masculine. Now, that's not true for every
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  single person ever, right? Who's ever existed.
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  But that's the generality. She's more in tuned into the
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  magic, the limitlessness, right? The fluid sense of being that
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  she doesn't need as much rigidity or structure.
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  She's able to flow. She's able to be in the moment
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  and allow life to flow through her versus having to control,
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  troll and make life happen in a certain way.
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  And that goes back to having a deep sense of trust and
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  wholeness, which I'll talk about in a moment.
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  The feminine is the creative force, right?
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  Not just baby making, but ideas, inspiration, right?
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  She's the muse. The feminine is more formless,
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  right? Analogy that mom and Gina gives
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  in her book is that the feminine or the masculine is a rock and
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  the feminine is the waves crashing against the rock.
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  And she is here to be. She is here to to feel.
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  She is here to connect. It is not the energy of doing,
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  it is the energy around the doing.
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  It is the energetic component of life, right?
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  She is the life giver. She is the creator.
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  And not only through birth, but also by infusing her radiance
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  into every single moment, into everything that she does, right?
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  It's like the man may buy the house, but the woman turns it
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  into a home by having delicious meals, by having friends over,
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  by making it beautiful, right? We have this innate desire to
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  beautify. That's the entire makeup
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  industry, that's the clothing industry.
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  We want to beautify things. We want to make them more than
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  they are, right? The feminine is very process
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  oriented, so she is focused on the actual journey, the process,
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  loving what is as it is in the void between receiving of
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  creations versus the masculine is more focused on that Orion,
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  that goal, right? The end result, the
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  directedness. The feminine is like, let's
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  enjoy this. Let's enjoy this beautiful car
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  ride and watch the ocean and the sunset versus the masculine is
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  like, OK, I'm on I'm on the road.
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  I got to exit on this La La La La La La, right?
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  She shows up for what she loves because she's in love with
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  loving it. That's really kind of what I
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  think of. It's like I I show up for the
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  things in my life that I love because I love the process of
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  actually just loving them. I love the doing.
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  I love the process and I love this concept rather than being
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  disciplined. I honestly, I hate the word
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  disciplined, right? It makes me think of Matilda and
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  like that closet with like the nails and they, you know, the
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  movie, you know, I'm talking about.
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  That's what it makes me think of is discipline is there's a
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  punitiveness to it. There's a pain, there's a
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  punishment in the word discipline that's innate.
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  But the feminine is devoted. She does things from a place of
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  love because she's in love with loving it.
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  The feminine is love. The feminine is that God I just
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  want to call my best friend because I freaking love her,
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  right? Not because I feel like I
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  should. The more shoulds you have, the
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  less that you will be in your feminine energy.
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  The feminine is about community and collaboration and coming
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  together. I think of like the hunter and
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  the gatherer, right? The hunter is out there.
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  He's not really chatting, right? Because that'll drive off the
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  prey. He's focused on that prey.
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  He's launching his very focused arrow to get that prey to bring
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  it home. It's very goal oriented versus
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  the feminine. They're in community, right?
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  They might be all out there gathering berries.
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  And what actually is very interesting is women talk a lot
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  more than men, right? We say on average significantly
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  more words a day than men. And what's interesting is that
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  when we were hunter and when we were gatherers, we talked in
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  order to keep prey and, or to keep ourselves from being prey
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  to ward off the wildlife. So we would talk.
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  So females are much more into that connection and that
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  collaboration. And the feminine, while the
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  masculine was out hunting, they would be in community, They
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  would be in connection, right? Taking care of the children all
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  together. It's very different.
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  We are designed for community. We are designed for connection.
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  Competitiveness is actually a masculine quality.
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  So there's this story that Tony Robbins tells.
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  He used to have the women go on stage and this was like, I
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  haven't ever seen him do this. This is years ago.
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  He would have women go on stage and basically dance.
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  And he said that there would be some women who would come to the
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  front and they would be like giving it.
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  Like they would be dancing their hearts out, like in kind of a
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  look at me sort of way. And then there'd be women in the
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  back who are just dancing with the other women and they're
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  connecting and they're having a really good time.
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  And the men, they would ask the men like, who did you find the
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  most alluring? And the, IT would never be the
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  women in the front that were being all competitive and like,
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  look at me, look at me proving energy.
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  It'd be the women in the back who were connecting and having a
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  good time because that's true feminine essence.
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  The competitiveness, the proving, the look at me, like
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  look at what I've accomplished. That is masculine energy.
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  And it's not going to be polarizing and attractive for a
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  masculine man. So a lot of successful women,
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  they have challenges meeting men, not because of their
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  careers. It's not that men are
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  intimidated by their careers, but it's oftentimes because
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  they're so used to being in this proving being competitive.
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  Look at me energy of look at these are my accomplishments.
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  Look what I've done in order to receive love, right, because
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  that's oftentimes how we're taught to receive love in
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  certain households that it actually repels that versus the
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  feminine is receptive. She's open, right?
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  She's connected, she's in her, she's in the present moment,
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  she's in her emotions, she's intuitive.
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  And so when we disconnect from our feminine energy and try to
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  operate as a masculine being, it actually limits our creative
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  power, our magnetism, and it causes us to not feel good
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  enough, right? It creates actually a lot of
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  shame for women because we overvalue qualities that are not
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  what we are innately good at. The feminine brain has a lot
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  more estrogen, and estrogen is not the same as testosterone.
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  As I'm sure you know, testosterone is actually a
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  really amazing hormone for focus, right?
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  This is why men can focus for hours and hours and you can say
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  something to them and they truly will not hear you because they
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  have more testosterone. Estrogen is better at like
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  multitasking and flowing and doing different things and
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  creating, right? And having the pot of water on
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  the stove and having the kids over here playing and typing up
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  something on her computer. That is diffuse awareness that
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  the feminine is better AT. And so when we overvalue these
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  masculine qualities that are not innate to us, it creates this
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  sense of like, Dang, why am I not better at that?
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  Why am I not as good at that? And so we try to develop them,
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  but then what happens is we end up harming our relationships
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  because so it's it's almost this lose, lose situation when we
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  lean into that energy. And the more that we lean into
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  that feminine energy, the more that we are actually able to
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  feel really, really good about ourselves and create the kinds
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  of relationships that we want. It's effortlessly magnetic.
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  And So what happens is when we overvalue these masculine
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  forces, we actually make it harder for ourselves as feminine
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  energy beings to manifest the things that we desire.
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  And as we begin to operate for more of a feminine flow versus a
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  masculine push, we see that the world begins to open up and we
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  are able to draw things to us much, much, much more easily and
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  much more joyfully. But the truth is that it
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  actually takes a lot of faith in order to be able to create this
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  transition because it goes against everything we've been
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  taught. It goes against everything we've
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  been taught about what successes and how to create success in
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  this modern society. And this, the feminine, is
• 20:52
  actually about creating success, love, relationship, joy,
• 20:57
  everything that we want in life, Fulfillment from a place of joy.
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  It's about the process and the energy around it and infusing
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  that with a powerful, powerful energy.
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  I have so many chills in my body right now.
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  This is a very important point. Versus the masculine is more
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  about the discipline, the force, the consistency, making it
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  happen, right? The pushing energy versus the
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  feminine. It's about enjoying the process.
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  And truthfully, these concepts I'm sharing with you, like as I
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  said, we're we're scratching the surface.
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  This could be a six month course and I actually am going to be
• 21:30
  releasing something fairly soon to go deeper into all of this,
• 21:35
  So stay tuned for that. And so I think this is going to
• 21:39
  have to be two parts because I still have so many more notes I
• 21:41
  want to share with you guys, but I want to give you a little bit
• 21:45
  more and then we'll wrap it up in a couple minutes.
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  But the first thing I just want you to recognize is that the
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  feminine is not the chaser, she is the receiver, OK?
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  This is in relationship as well as in manifesting anything that
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  you want in life. When we get too much into that
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  forcing, chasing energy, it doesn't feel good.
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  I know you know that in your body it does not feel good.
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  And that's because we are designed to receive.
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  Does that mean that we don't show up and we just sit on our
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  couch all day? No, it means that we show up in
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  a way that feels really good for us.
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  We find ways to create our life and align our life with what
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  feels really, really, really good.
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  And that means if something isn't working and it doesn't
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  feel good, then you change it. Because the feminine connects to
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  her divinity through her divine, to her divinity.
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  Yeah, through pleasure, through feeling really good in the
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  process. She's not about that forceful
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  pushing. She's about magnetizing and
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  drawing in. And so how does she do that?
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  It's through her energy. Have you ever seen a woman walk
• 22:49
  into a room and everyone just can't help but stare at her?
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  This happens at Tony Robbins events when his wife, Sage walks
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  into the room. There could be something really
• 23:00
  intense going on and she she doesn't even say anything.
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  And all the attention is drawn to her because there's this
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  magnetism that she has effortlessly from being such an
• 23:09
  embodied feminine human being. And every feminine being
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  possesses this ability. The thing is, it's not about
• 23:17
  looks. I find it really interesting
• 23:19
  because there's been this huge push in plastic surgery, right?
• 23:23
  And fillers and Botox. And like, I do not judge that I
• 23:25
  love all of that. Like, yes, give it to me, right?
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  I love it all. But what I find is that
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  oftentimes women are doing it because they are not feeling
• 23:35
  good about themselves innately. There's a difference in getting
• 23:38
  Botox or filler or whatever it might be from a place of loving
• 23:43
  yourself. And then there's a difference of
• 23:45
  I don't feel good enough, so I'm going to do this to compensate.
• 23:48
  And really it's because we have over prioritized looks and we've
• 23:51
  under prioritized energetics. And it's actually about the
• 23:55
  energetics. You can have a ravishingly
• 23:57
  beautiful woman and if her energetics are off, she's not
• 24:00
  going to, she's not going to get it right.
• 24:01
  You could have a very average looking woman and if her
• 24:05
  energetics are on point, she's going to draw every single
• 24:08
  person to her. And I know you've experienced
• 24:10
  this, right? We've seen really amazing using
• 24:12
  men with less attractive women and were like, what the heck is
• 24:15
  going on here? Well, it's because that woman
• 24:17
  freaking mastered the real art of energetics.
• 24:20
  So the first piece of this is really it's about the energy,
• 24:24
  the foundational energy of wholeness.
• 24:27
  So recognizing that a mature feminine energy operates from a
• 24:32
  place of wholeness and fullness rather than a place of I don't
• 24:37
  feel good enough and I need you to fix that, I need you to fix
• 24:40
  me. She's not trying to get
• 24:42
  something to feel enough. She recognizes that she is
• 24:46
  innately whole and worthy on her own.
• 24:49
  And a big part of this is reconnecting to your feminine
• 24:52
  energy. Because when we operate from the
• 24:54
  masculine, we're never going to feel enough, right?
• 24:57
  We're going to feel our best when we operate from this place
• 25:00
  of wholeness like a little baby. And I'm not going to dive more
• 25:04
  into this right now because I have two episodes.
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  Episode 1 and episode 2, I talk all about operating from a place
• 25:10
  of wholeness. Those are two of my favorite
• 25:13
  episodes I've ever recorded. So after this, go listen to
• 25:16
  those. Also, leave me some comments.
• 25:18
  I would love to hear from you and I would love to hear what
• 25:21
  your takeaways are and also what other questions you might have
• 25:25
  because I'm going to do more episodes in this vein because I
• 25:28
  think it's honestly so important.
• 25:30
  And I feel like my brain has been like downloading insane
• 25:33
  amounts of information about this lately.
• 25:35
  So, you know, I might, might leave it there.
• 25:37
  And what I want to get into next time is I want to talk about
• 25:41
  feminine power and what that means.
• 25:43
  I want to talk about the difference between desire and
• 25:46
  need and really owning your desires and tuning into your
• 25:49
  desires. And I want to give you some more
• 25:51
  of these principles around feminine energy and how to
• 25:55
  really utilize it within your life and how to cultivate it.
• 25:58
  So I'm going to give you some very specific tools.
• 25:59
  So go listen episodes one and two, leave me some comments and
• 26:03
  then come back next week. But Wednesday, I will drop
• 26:06
  another episode on this. I can't believe we already are
• 26:08
  at 28 minutes. I try to just do 20 minutes, but
• 26:11
  you know, we, we flow in here. So anyway, I adore you.
• 26:14
  I am so happy you're here. And I hope you have the most
• 26:17
  fabulous, amazing, wonderful, delicious day ever.
• 26:20
  OK, bye, bye now.