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Smash Or Pass · We Talk Back

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  Speaker 1: Welcome to We Talk Back Podcast, the production of iHeartRadio
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  Speaker 1: and the Black Effect Network.
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  Speaker 2: We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion who talks.
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  Speaker 3: What's up, y'all? Boy, it's your girl a j holiday.
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  Speaker 4: Em y'all, it's me tam Vama. I love y'all.
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  Speaker 2: First of all, the Charlestonians have been crazy, going crazy
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  Speaker 2: this week because of Kevi on stage with the he
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  Speaker 2: was pretending to be from Charleston and he said BO
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  Speaker 2: and Chris Kaylen, that is not you, sir.
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  Speaker 4: Bow is a Columbia thing. It's a met.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's not a Charlestonian thing. And that just turned
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  Speaker 2: into it had a life of its own because now.
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  Speaker 1: It's a whole hashtag that says say no to BO.
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  Speaker 1: I know for a fact, Columbia says bow, Orange bergs
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  Speaker 1: as bold. Some people in most corner say BO. But
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  Speaker 1: all of that shit is outside of Charleston. It's still
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  Speaker 1: a low country. Well Columbia ain't the low country. But yeah,
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  Speaker 1: some people down Savannah High, like down ninety five, they
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  Speaker 1: might say bold, but Charleston people don't say BO.
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  Speaker 2: I just feel like it's device so we should be
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  Speaker 2: one state and not be trying to divide by regions.
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  Speaker 2: When I get that, like just embracing a South Carolina thing, No,
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  Speaker 2: all right, when I get.
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  Speaker 3: When I get in my content creator bag and I
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  Speaker 3: feel like it.
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  Speaker 1: I was sucking dick this weekend, so I didn't, okay,
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  Speaker 1: I want to talk about Charleston heritage because I I'm.
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  Speaker 3: Like, real, like, what what you.
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  Speaker 4: Were sucking dick this weekend?
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  Speaker 1: That's good, your y'all feels okay, No, it doesn't, okay,
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  Speaker 1: And just you know, while I was sucking dick, I'm sorry, y'all.
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  Speaker 3: In the beginning of the fucking episode.
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  Speaker 1: While I was sucking dick, I was just thinking, like,
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  Speaker 1: and I think I sucked dick pretty good, right, but
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  Speaker 1: I'm thinking about how my jaw is in pain and
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  Speaker 1: how I could never suck his dick as long as
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  Speaker 1: he eat my pussy, Like.
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  Speaker 3: I can't do it.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like I'd be cheating a little bit,
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  Speaker 1: be cheating him a little bit.
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  Speaker 5: But that's kind of sad.
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  Speaker 4: But at least you committed to doing it a.
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  Speaker 1: Little bit a little t T, which is another Charleston
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  Speaker 1: thing to say.
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  Speaker 3: It's a little bit a little t T. Yeah, that's
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  Speaker 3: what you were doing.
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  Speaker 5: This weekend.
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  Speaker 3: I cooked a lot faed the nigga.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah that's good, niggas like tea.
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  Speaker 3: Made a lot of boba, you know tea.
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  Speaker 4: Or reallyst at home making your own boba.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, I do not buy that ship from nobody no more.
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  Speaker 1: When I tell y'all, I'm working on coming out with
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  Speaker 1: my let me not even say that anyway.
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  Speaker 3: Yep, counting them eggs before it has.
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  Speaker 1: But yeah, I cooked the lot, so I guess that's
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  Speaker 1: like a substitute for head.
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  Speaker 3: Guys, let us know, would you you want head or
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  Speaker 3: a meal or you don't want.
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  Speaker 5: To have to choose or both. I think it's gonna
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  Speaker 5: be like sit one after the other.
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  Speaker 3: The fuck?
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  Speaker 5: What did I do this weekend?
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  Speaker 3: It's my weekend? Okay? I thought it was no pretty much.
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  Speaker 4: Gave head and cook got it all right?
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  Speaker 5: What I do?
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  Speaker 4: I went to Ryan with the Sauce. I don't know
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  Speaker 4: if y'all are familiar with him.
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  Speaker 2: He's a streamer YouTuber and he got a million subscribers.
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  Speaker 2: He reached a million subscribers and had a big celebration
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  Speaker 2: this weekend in Charlotte. I went to that and I
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  Speaker 2: stayed all of ten twenty minutes because I was there.
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  Speaker 2: I definitely felt like the auntie then was kids in there.
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  Speaker 4: I was like, oh, my.
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  Speaker 1: Husband, how old is Ryan with the sauce and what sauce?
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  Speaker 1: Once he had exactly.
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  Speaker 2: Twenty year old sauce somewhere in there they were younger,
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  Speaker 2: so it's probably runny.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, loose.
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  Speaker 3: Nigga has some corn starch.
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  Speaker 2: But yeah, congratulations to him on a million streams. I
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  Speaker 2: went to that and then I did a little moving around.
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  Speaker 2: I went on a date. No nice, it was nice.
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  Speaker 2: You know what, I think I'm gonna save that for
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  Speaker 2: our patreon. Guys, we are officially launching our patreon. Ah,
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  Speaker 2: here we go, yeah professional, Yeah, so y'all can come
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  Speaker 2: on over to our patreon and y'all can get into
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  Speaker 2: the details of my of my day.
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  Speaker 5: I think this one might be the one.
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  Speaker 2: I know, I said that six years in a row
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  Speaker 2: about six different niggas, but I think this.
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  Speaker 3: Is the time every six months.
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  Speaker 4: So yeah, let's get this in.
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  Speaker 1: Uh, we got going on this week. You know, I
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  Speaker 1: caught this this morning on the Breakfast Club. I didn't
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  Speaker 1: actually go look up the full detail. In regards to
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  Speaker 1: Young Thug, he was recently speaking to a group of students,
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  Speaker 1: and he told them that fame is the most important thing.
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  Speaker 1: Right when I heard it, I'm like, maybe he meant
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  Speaker 1: like your reputation is important.
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  Speaker 3: He just didn't have the words.
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  Speaker 2: Possibly, But my concern I have a concern with that,
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  Speaker 2: out of all the people that you can invite to
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  Speaker 2: the school to talk to the children, young thug, Well,
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  Speaker 2: I just don't seem like a good, you know, candidate
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  Speaker 2: to go speak to the children.
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  Speaker 1: Well, you know, the thing about it is that I
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  Speaker 1: watched the Ysel trials and I watched when he got
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  Speaker 1: his sentencing, which was parole right or probation, And this
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  Speaker 1: is a part of his probation, like he has to
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  Speaker 1: go do like community work. So a mom called into
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  Speaker 1: the breakfast and I was like, what the fuck is
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  Speaker 1: he even speaking to the kids anyway? Okay, So then
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, this is actually like like some core ordered
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  Speaker 1: a part of the stipulations of his probation, Like he
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  Speaker 1: can't rap for real, but he still does.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know how he can't live in Atlanta.
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  Speaker 1: That was another part of his stipulation, the stipulations of
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  Speaker 1: his release and probation.
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  Speaker 3: And then he has to do.
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  Speaker 1: Like x amount, you know, community outreach like helping kids
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  Speaker 1: not become a YSL gang member per se.
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  Speaker 3: So yeah, like it is, it was core ordered, So
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  Speaker 3: he just doing I you need.
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  Speaker 2: To like clean up the hogway because I don't know
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  Speaker 2: if you need to be talking to the kids.
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  Speaker 3: Not the nigga need to just be on work release.
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  Speaker 2: So I God, damn, because I just don't like that
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  Speaker 2: message for the kids.
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  Speaker 1: Just then he had the wrong words I think he meant.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, I don't want to put words in his mouth.
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  Speaker 1: But fame can still not necessarily fame, But it's just
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  Speaker 1: like notoriety, right, people knowing you. That's your reputation, and
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  Speaker 1: that is the most important thing, right what yeah before.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, but fame is the most important things. Cool.
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  Speaker 2: Listen, how many there's a very small percentage of people
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  Speaker 2: who are going to be famous, and right, most of
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  Speaker 2: yours are not gonna be famous, And they might leave
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  Speaker 2: that thinking like damn, if I'm not famous, I'm not
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  Speaker 2: making it and that's just not true, you know, So
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  Speaker 2: I don't want them that to be the message and
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  Speaker 2: kids to leave school with ye if I'm not famous.
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  Speaker 3: That's most people on social media, adults and children alike. Right,
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  Speaker 3: the comparison thing where they're looking at other people. So
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  Speaker 3: you feel like you.
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  Speaker 1: Haven't arrived because you're comparing your life to somebody else's.
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  Speaker 1: So yeah, yeah, not the right words with your mother.
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  Speaker 3: Fucking crazy ass?
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  Speaker 5: What is you talking about?
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  Speaker 3: Boy?
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  Speaker 1: They should have core ordered him to do some public
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  Speaker 1: speaking classes first. Yeah, you're finding you can have no message?
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  Speaker 5: Right, but it can? I love, I have mercy. Try
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  Speaker 5: that baby trying? Okay, So can I play this?
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  Speaker 3: I'm gonna play it?
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  Speaker 4: Was that crazy.
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  Speaker 2: I'm gonna started over getting at it. Auntie don't know
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  Speaker 2: how to work with computer?
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  Speaker 5: All right?
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  Speaker 3: Hello, So let's y'all lay that to the nigga who
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  Speaker 3: commented and calling us aunties. I don't really like aunties.
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  Speaker 3: I'm gonna be honest.
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  Speaker 4: I don't like I got it, but don't call me that.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, I am my nieces and nephew aunt If you
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  Speaker 1: are not related to me, I am not your goddamn auntie.
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  Speaker 1: And if you already got kids, man or woman, y'are
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  Speaker 1: older than us, okay on a molecular, uh metabolical level. Right,
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  Speaker 1: we have an athritis and fucking uh what a ship
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  Speaker 1: with your hand?
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  Speaker 3: Start curling up? Oh arthurritis?
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  Speaker 1: Right, that's arthor right, they just have y'all cripple already
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  Speaker 1: and like you forty like, cut it out.
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  Speaker 3: We are not aunties.
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  Speaker 2: I am a tuma, not a period right, not there
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  Speaker 2: yet anyway, So all right, if y'all didn't hear this,
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  Speaker 2: bend down, I don't know if y'all are familiar with him.
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  Speaker 2: Comedian guy it's funny, very funny, claps back at critics
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  Speaker 2: clowning him.
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  Speaker 5: For being thirty four with no kids.
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  Speaker 2: So they was giving him a hard time of be
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  Speaker 2: about being thirty four without children, Like so I wanted
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  Speaker 2: to play what he said.
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  Speaker 6: Past thirty It happens that age with no kids is
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  Speaker 6: crazy work. How is that crazy? I don't fucking want
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  Speaker 6: kids right now. I'm getting rich as fuck. Y'all niggas
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  Speaker 6: be poor as fuck having kids do? Making go fun
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  Speaker 6: eas and shit? We good over here. Worry about your
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  Speaker 6: fucking self, little niggas. Yeah, act like I want I
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  Speaker 6: don't even want a puppy right now, y'all talking about
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  Speaker 6: a kid? The hell? I'll just say anything.
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  Speaker 2: Hell do I feel like thirty four is like too
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  Speaker 2: old to not be a parent at some point? Because
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  Speaker 2: I know, like thirty forty, No, maybe like fifty years ago,
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  Speaker 2: sixty years ago, you and I would have been spinsters.
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  Speaker 3: I do be spending niggas, ain't gonna lie sh that shit.
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  Speaker 3: I ain't overrid.
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  Speaker 2: So speak went out on them, and I just feel
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  Speaker 2: like thirty four is about the age where.
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  Speaker 5: I mean it's a good time to start.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, you know, I think so too.
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  Speaker 3: I don't. I mean it's for men in particular.
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  Speaker 1: I think men aren't really ready for children or marriage
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  Speaker 1: until like thirty five. So he's actually a very smart
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  Speaker 1: man as far as I'm concerned.
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  Speaker 3: Right, You know a lot of men they.
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  Speaker 1: Would like to have their bag up and all that
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  Speaker 1: shit before they start a family.
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  Speaker 3: Sometimes it don't always work out that way.
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  Speaker 1: But if he is, you know, consciously out here life
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  Speaker 1: planning and then add the woman and the kids to
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  Speaker 1: it later, there's no negative that can come out of that.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know what people really be wanting you to
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  Speaker 1: struggle because they struggling peop. Don't want me to have
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  Speaker 1: a baby. For what it's like be a baby mama,
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  Speaker 1: like you'd be arguing with a nigga like you, always
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  Speaker 1: asking me where my kids at?
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  Speaker 3: Why? Why Sechad be like you?
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  Speaker 1: But they are, they're mad at our freedom.
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  Speaker 5: I get it. I'd be jealous too.
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  Speaker 3: Take care of the motherfucker.
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  Speaker 1: I'll pick you kid, I'll pick up anybody's kids as
• 11:41
  Speaker 1: long as I can bring the motherfucker's back.
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  Speaker 2: But then they're on the flip side. Sometimes i'd be
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  Speaker 2: with my own baby. I'll be wanting to look at
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  Speaker 2: someone who looked like me and raise them and have
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  Speaker 2: life be on my own. So it's just like a
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  Speaker 2: and then sometimes I'd be like, oh, fuck them kids.
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  Speaker 4: So it just depends.
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  Speaker 1: Saw this post and damn did I save it? It
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  Speaker 1: was said something like, oh, I forgot who the person
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  Speaker 1: this is, somebody like maybe a spencer she said. Back
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  Speaker 1: in the day, she said, uh, marry young, because you
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  Speaker 1: gain wisdom with age, and wise women don't get married,
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  Speaker 1: so you better marry before you know better.
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  Speaker 3: Damn that ship a bar, big bars.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, because just when they was doing like the white
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  Speaker 1: women whatever you know, uh feminists.
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  Speaker 3: I'm pretty sure she was a feminist.
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  Speaker 1: But it's just true, like the more you the more
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  Speaker 1: we age, right with no family, no just and even
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  Speaker 1: just listening to other women who have families and who
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  Speaker 1: have kids, they will be like, I love my kids
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  Speaker 1: so much.
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  Speaker 3: Don't have any like for real, that's what it'd be like.
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  Speaker 4: M M, yeah, what else.
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  Speaker 3: We got going on?
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  Speaker 1: So Saragan mom flees the Texas to give birth to
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  Speaker 1: her baby boy with her conditions after refusing abortion.
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  Speaker 3: Y'all heard it.
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  Speaker 1: I said, she's a surrogate mom, meaning she's carrying someone else,
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  Speaker 1: another couple's child. And in the stipulations in the paperwork,
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  Speaker 1: you know, when she signed up to be a surrogate
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  Speaker 1: for this couple, if the baby had any defects and
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  Speaker 1: things like that, they would terminate the pregnancy. She decides
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  Speaker 1: not to terminate the pregnancy because you know, now, I
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  Speaker 1: guess she's going back to my body, my choice type thing.
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  Speaker 1: But I'm pretty sure these people paid money for you
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  Speaker 1: to carry their child and it's technically their child sperm
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  Speaker 1: and egg, right, you are just an incubator. But she
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  Speaker 1: took off and went to textas not the state of
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  Speaker 1: Texes is actually like protecting the child. And this child
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  Speaker 1: won't live a regular life. He's had a couple of
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  Speaker 1: surgeries already. The infant has been born, he has had
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  Speaker 1: a couple surgeries already. But he does have like some
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  Speaker 1: you know, quality of life illnesses. What do you think
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  Speaker 1: about that?
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  Speaker 2: You know what, it's just such a I can see
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  Speaker 2: both perspectives, you know, like they wanted a healthy baby,
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  Speaker 2: they couldn't have a healthy other baby of their own,
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  Speaker 2: and that's why they, you know, chose a surrogacy, and.
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  Speaker 5: So I get it.
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  Speaker 2: But then on the other stand, on the other side,
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  Speaker 2: I get why she may not have wanted to terminate
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  Speaker 2: this growing life inside her body, because it's not like,
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  Speaker 2: I mean, essentially you pay your body was a paid
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  Speaker 2: for a vessel, right, but it's still your body. So
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  Speaker 2: it's just kind of it's such a slippery slope when
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  Speaker 2: it comes to that.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, and did I sign up to have an abortion?
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  Speaker 5: What's my kinda kinda?
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  Speaker 1: I mean, I guess if it's in there to terminate
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  Speaker 1: the pregnancy, then yes, she would have to go through
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  Speaker 1: some type of abortion procedure DNC or whatever. It's just weird,
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  Speaker 1: and it's almost like, this is why you shouldn't be
• 15:17
  Speaker 1: utilizing science in this way, one of those examples, because.
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  Speaker 3: I understand people not being able to have their own children.
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  Speaker 3: And guess what, maybe, just maybe in this lifetime, you're
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  Speaker 3: not supposed to. So now you're forcing the hand of God, right,
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  Speaker 3: and this is what you get and now you just
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  Speaker 3: want to do away with it because it didn't come
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  Speaker 3: out they wanted. I just I don't like that.
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  Speaker 1: I just don't like it, you know what I'm saying,
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  Speaker 1: because I can't say that. If I were pregnant and
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  Speaker 1: I found that my kid had like some type of
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  Speaker 1: mutation or something like that, I don't know what I
• 15:52
  Speaker 1: would do in that time.
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  Speaker 3: I feel like some of I saw a little girl
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  Speaker 3: she had.
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  Speaker 1: Down syndrome on Instagram the other day, smart as a whip, beautiful,
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  Speaker 1: cute kid, you know what I'm saying, Like, I just
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  Speaker 1: I don't know if I could just end that pregnancy.
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  Speaker 1: If I've now went this long without a kid and
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  Speaker 1: now I'm pregnant, I'm like, I don't want this one.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, no, kind of selfish.
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  Speaker 2: When I was pregnant, they told me that my baby
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  Speaker 2: head markers for cerebral palsy, and Reggie was like, let's terminate,
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  Speaker 2: and I was like, fuck no, I'm not. I mean,
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  Speaker 2: ultimately I ended up my body ended up terminating pregnancy
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  Speaker 2: on its own.
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  Speaker 1: But and see, I feel like we women have the
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  Speaker 1: power to do that, like me, we can we can
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  Speaker 1: start a pregnancy or end it.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, I feel like and that's what happened.
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  Speaker 2: But I wasn't just going to terminate because don't look
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  Speaker 2: exactly the way I wanted it to. All right, So,
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  Speaker 2: but if you're going as far as to pay somebody
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  Speaker 2: to be an incubator for a baby, it's kind of like.
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  Speaker 4: Very transactional at that point.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, so even them people was supposed to be having
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  Speaker 1: a kid anyway, because even using somebody else's womb, your
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  Speaker 1: kid is not a healthy child she uses they're using
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  Speaker 1: somebody else's womb and still not having a healthy child.
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  Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, yeah, I thought you were saying all serrogency.
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  Speaker 2: We were talking about that, wanting no this one in particular.
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  Speaker 2: All Right, we're gonna get into it right after this break.
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  Speaker 2: Thank you trying to get We're trying to get in there,
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  Speaker 2: and we're gonna kill more.
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  Speaker 5: Y'all gonna see much more of us.
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  Speaker 3: Saying that for six years.
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  Speaker 4: Stop.
• 17:53
  Speaker 3: We've been saying that for six years.
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  Speaker 5: We're gonna do it this year.
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  Speaker 3: This are you? This is my last fat year, I
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  Speaker 3: swear to God.
• 18:03
  Speaker 2: Just like so, I wanted to do something lighthearted today.
• 18:06
  Speaker 2: I just wanted to play a game of.
• 18:08
  Speaker 5: Smash or passim. So but not with people.
• 18:14
  Speaker 3: Oh not biohazard.
• 18:15
  Speaker 5: No, not that.
• 18:17
  Speaker 2: We're like situations, real life ship. Okay, so you're gonna
• 18:21
  Speaker 2: like choose would you do it?
• 18:23
  Speaker 5: Basically? Would you do it? Would you not?
• 18:25
  Speaker 3: Would you? Would you? Would you rather smash your past?
• 18:28
  Speaker 5: Yes?
• 18:28
  Speaker 3: All right?
• 18:28
  Speaker 5: Were calling this Smash the lifestyle edition.
• 18:31
  Speaker 2: Okay, so this is gonna be fine, and it's gonna
• 18:36
  Speaker 2: let our audience get to know.
• 18:37
  Speaker 5: It's a little bit better.
• 18:39
  Speaker 3: What's the voice into it? What's the voice? What's the hair?
• 18:44
  Speaker 4: Do it again?
• 18:45
  Speaker 3: That's what you do to attract niggas in the club.
• 18:47
  Speaker 1: It's like a mating call'st me.
• 18:50
  Speaker 2: My homegirl, be like when you get the flip of
• 18:52
  Speaker 2: that hair, I just be ready to go and she'd be.
• 18:55
  Speaker 3: Out holding it along, like did you learn that or YouTube?
• 19:00
  Speaker 3: Its just something natural.
• 19:01
  Speaker 4: I don't know.
• 19:01
  Speaker 5: I just do that. I don't know, it just happens,
• 19:04
  Speaker 5: all right.
• 19:04
  Speaker 2: So first topic or relationships, This is the relationship round Okay, okay,
• 19:09
  Speaker 2: first one dating with someone with kids, smash your past.
• 19:13
  Speaker 1: At this big age, big age, I mean, you really
• 19:17
  Speaker 1: can't get around people with kids. My man don't have any,
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: thank God. Hopefully my first bat would be his first.
• 19:23
  Speaker 1: But if I were dating somebody else and they had kids,
• 19:27
  Speaker 1: there's no problem. Now, Yes, definitely, I mean I'm smashing
• 19:31
  Speaker 1: the baby daddy's You know what I'm saying.
• 19:33
  Speaker 3: We love a baby, we love a baby daddy. We
• 19:35
  Speaker 3: know that, we know he can produce.
• 19:38
  Speaker 5: Right, So that's definitely smashing me.
• 19:42
  Speaker 1: Now, smashing a baby daddy with a crazy ass baby mama,
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: that's a past.
• 19:45
  Speaker 5: That's definitely a past. Being the first woman after the
• 19:49
  Speaker 5: baby mama. Like, I want to be like the second.
• 19:54
  Speaker 1: The second relationship, but she might like the first and
• 19:58
  Speaker 1: don't like your ass.
• 19:59
  Speaker 2: Now, they always the first one after her, They always
• 20:02
  Speaker 2: hate the first one.
• 20:03
  Speaker 3: She might have got over and now he got a
• 20:04
  Speaker 3: new bitch. My child got to get used to. I
• 20:06
  Speaker 3: hate all these toes.
• 20:09
  Speaker 5: All right, you're gonna do the next one.
• 20:11
  Speaker 1: Dating someone fifteen years older, fifteen years past.
• 20:16
  Speaker 5: It's a hard past.
• 20:17
  Speaker 3: Look, look, ten, fifteen is pushing it. Ten like.
• 20:25
  Speaker 1: Fifteen is pushing it I don't know now some of
• 20:28
  Speaker 1: us as long as they're like active, the black women
• 20:31
  Speaker 1: who be aging well on social media, like I need
• 20:34
  Speaker 1: to see the male counterparts to them, because these bitches
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: is fine. It's a couple of zaddies out there.
• 20:41
  Speaker 5: My sister said she met this old last man the
• 20:44
  Speaker 5: other day. That was fine. She's like, girl, he was
• 20:47
  Speaker 5: fine as fuck.
• 20:48
  Speaker 2: She's like he was well into his six sixties, but
• 20:51
  Speaker 2: he was like in shape, and he looked good, Like
• 20:54
  Speaker 2: he just looked really really good.
• 20:56
  Speaker 5: She's like, I knew his name was he had an
• 20:59
  Speaker 5: old last name, right, Sylvester.
• 21:01
  Speaker 3: His name was set.
• 21:03
  Speaker 5: He's like, I knew he was old because he gonna
• 21:05
  Speaker 5: cut past me his phone. U.
• 21:09
  Speaker 3: Look, I appreciate it. Old school. Yeah, I like that.
• 21:14
  Speaker 1: Let me see your hand right, and see how you
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: write them checks. Say, let me see how you sign
• 21:17
  Speaker 1: them checks. Baby, somebody granddaddy about to get still.
• 21:20
  Speaker 5: Got a check book, a right, man.
• 21:22
  Speaker 3: My home girl got an old nigga right now.
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: She contemplated if she's gonna get him that pussy and
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: now she's like, girl, I think I'm gonna get these worms, girl,
• 21:28
  Speaker 1: because she wanted.
• 21:29
  Speaker 3: She was like, like, she's sexually attracted to him.
• 21:32
  Speaker 1: I'm mad he probably had enough young bitches like, he's
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: probably very vibrant, he doesn't suck all these young holes
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: and g and he ready he got Viagara all the
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: things for me, I know, hate his niggas all right?
• 21:47
  Speaker 5: Living together before.
• 21:48
  Speaker 1: Marriage, uh smash absolutely, Yeah.
• 21:53
  Speaker 5: I don't think you should just even though like this.
• 21:56
  Speaker 3: Is not the fifteen hundreds whatever.
• 21:58
  Speaker 5: Check up, right, But I think you should because you
• 22:00
  Speaker 5: don't know who you're getting in it. You know, you
• 22:02
  Speaker 5: don't know who you're married.
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: I need to know who my housemaid is, who's supposedly
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: somebody's supposed to be with like for the rest of
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: my life. I need to know how you live in
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: exactly what that what's your level of cleanliness? Because everybody
• 22:12
  Speaker 1: shit different with that bathroom looking like like with around
• 22:14
  Speaker 1: that toilet at the bottom look like.
• 22:16
  Speaker 2: But I mean you can see that in dating, like
• 22:18
  Speaker 2: because you're gonna go to each other's house. Yeah, but
• 22:20
  Speaker 2: it's just like that day in and day out cohabitation
• 22:23
  Speaker 2: that you just need to know if y'all can race.
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: Yeah, my homegirl, she's a psychologist, And I'm always like,
• 22:31
  Speaker 1: you know, OCD is fine until you impose on somebody else.
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: So if I like all my statues on my table
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: lined up six inches apart, I can't make you then
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: do that. I'll just be behind you doing it. But
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: I think if it comes like mental when you making
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: somebody feed your OCD.
• 22:48
  Speaker 3: Yeah, like no, now you're crazy.
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: Long distance past. I mean, I'll say, smash, it's tough.
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell y'all. I am in a long distance
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: relationship now and I've been in I've been in long
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: distance relationships before.
• 23:03
  Speaker 3: My concern is a nigga always getting a bitch pregnant.
• 23:05
  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, because I ain't there like
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: I understand your needs or whatever. I think women have
• 23:09
  Speaker 1: a little bit more self control than men. I think
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: my boyfriend probably got more self control than me, because
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: bitch I be getting, like when I get horny, I
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: probably get like a little I remember one time he
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: was like, hey, man, don't be starting no ship with me.
• 23:21
  Speaker 3: If you won't go have fun, go do that.
• 23:23
  Speaker 1: Don't start no ship with me, because I was like,
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: like I was so I didn't fuck anybody else, but
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: I was real horny, and I'm like like, like, nigga, you.
• 23:34
  Speaker 3: Man to come drop some dick off.
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna go pick something up like what we're doing
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: like and you know we at that time we weren't
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: even like he was working a loss. We weren't even
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: speaking that much. And like with long distance relationships, communication
• 23:47
  Speaker 1: is really all you have, right, So if y'all not talking,
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: are we even in a relationship at this point? So
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: it could be real tough man. I don't suggest it
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: for people. You know, you gotta have a lot of discipline.
• 23:58
  Speaker 2: Yeah, for me, I'm not gonna do well, You're gonna fail.
• 24:02
  Speaker 3: I'm damn it.
• 24:03
  Speaker 1: Man.
• 24:04
  Speaker 5: I don't think I can do it anymore. I've done
• 24:07
  Speaker 5: it before. So my last real relationship, he was military,
• 24:12
  Speaker 5: and he would go deploy and I would be grateful
• 24:15
  Speaker 5: for that time of part.
• 24:16
  Speaker 2: I wouldn't cheat on him, though, but I could see
• 24:19
  Speaker 2: how if someone lived like I knew he was coming home.
• 24:23
  Speaker 5: This person is living far away from you, man, going
• 24:26
  Speaker 5: about your business. All right, go you go.
• 24:31
  Speaker 3: Separate.
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: Actually it wasn't, but I got it. Separate bedrooms after marriage.
• 24:37
  Speaker 3: I'm for that. I'm sorry ye too. I feel like
• 24:41
  Speaker 3: that's actually what helps relationships.
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: Last face, yes, man, you like I understand like it's
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: supposed to be one. We're married and we're just one,
• 24:49
  Speaker 1: no nigga. Like, first of all, I don't even like
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: how you clean the counters. You do that nasty shit
• 24:54
  Speaker 1: in your bathroom, and then my room is gonna be
• 24:57
  Speaker 1: like the cleaning room.
• 24:57
  Speaker 3: You can have your little play playroom.
• 24:59
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and then we can like I don't think we
• 25:01
  Speaker 2: could sleep in the same bed, yeah, yeah, but you
• 25:04
  Speaker 2: got your space and I got mine.
• 25:05
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 25:06
  Speaker 1: I think if you could afford to have separate spaces
• 25:08
  Speaker 1: like that, like I.
• 25:09
  Speaker 5: Would even I would even like a separate house.
• 25:12
  Speaker 3: Oh shit, long distance relationship like next door neighbors or
• 25:17
  Speaker 3: something like my stepdaddy used to be the neighbor.
• 25:20
  Speaker 2: Yeah, like or like if I could have it by way,
• 25:23
  Speaker 2: we would have two houses with like a bridge.
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: I've seen this couple online as as a white couple,
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: but her husband is a contractor and he literally they
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: have apartments in the house. Like she has a living
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: room a little small, like his room was way more
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: immaculate than hers. You didn't even have that much much clothes,
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: but he has this big ass, super nice closet.
• 25:46
  Speaker 3: I'm like, why you don't have.
• 25:47
  Speaker 5: That because he built it? He said.
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: There's other bitch about to be in there because what
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: but yeah, they had separate everything's bathroom, closet, living area, bedroom.
• 25:56
  Speaker 3: Because I just.
• 25:57
  Speaker 2: Feel like once you've been married, not right after marriage,
• 26:01
  Speaker 2: but you notice that like people, once they've been married
• 26:03
  Speaker 2: for a long time, they almost become like.
• 26:07
  Speaker 5: They start looking like they start looking like they look
• 26:09
  Speaker 5: like relatives more than a couple.
• 26:12
  Speaker 2: And then you like, y'all haven't fucked enough, like you
• 26:14
  Speaker 2: be like, all right, you know, I know what's gonna happen.
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: I'm cheating on you at fifty not even that, but
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: you know what to expect from sex at that point.
• 26:23
  Speaker 2: You know what it's gonna be, what position, how it's
• 26:26
  Speaker 2: gonna end, you know all the things.
• 26:27
  Speaker 5: It's like, do we even need to keep doing that
• 26:29
  Speaker 5: all the time?
• 26:30
  Speaker 2: Right when you like, you know, get to a certain
• 26:33
  Speaker 2: But maybe I'm wrong, Maybe hopefully I won't be all right.
• 26:37
  Speaker 3: Joint bank account that is too grown.
• 26:39
  Speaker 1: I feel like y'all should have y'all can have one
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: joint like for bills and shit like that. But women,
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: I used to work in banking customer service at that
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: and the way women were calling like, now, this is
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: your husband, but he has children with another woman and
• 26:53
  Speaker 1: child support. And now they're taking all your money out
• 26:55
  Speaker 1: the account that the joint account you have with this
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: man who owes bad child support.
• 27:00
  Speaker 3: Mm hmm.
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: And now you're calling the bank want to cuss me
• 27:03
  Speaker 1: out because the government or taxes things like that. You
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: got to consider the baggage people come with in relationships,
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: sometimes financial baggage in particular. So I would not suggest
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: bank accounts. That's a hard pass for me.
• 27:16
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I think, you know, like jay Z said, a little,
• 27:20
  Speaker 2: a little in the baggage, a little in the purse,
• 27:22
  Speaker 2: you know, So you gotta have.
• 27:25
  Speaker 3: Separate money.
• 27:29
  Speaker 5: The next one splitting the bill, the first date bill, No, you're.
• 27:35
  Speaker 3: Past wayfuck you boy, ain't even no first date. What
• 27:40
  Speaker 3: was this? I might flip the table over.
• 27:44
  Speaker 2: It's not a date if we're splitting the bill. We
• 27:47
  Speaker 2: just came here to be bad bitches together.
• 27:53
  Speaker 3: Too bad bitch, Jesus a black state, little boosy.
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: Next one marriage after six months, smash, I think so
• 28:07
  Speaker 1: too at this age, Like, let's.
• 28:08
  Speaker 3: Just try it and see if it works.
• 28:10
  Speaker 1: If it doesn't, I had a nigga tell me like,
• 28:12
  Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, we can just get in a relationship.
• 28:14
  Speaker 3: If it doesn't work, we can just break up. You
• 28:16
  Speaker 3: know he was all right?
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: Then, don't get mad when I started stalking your ass.
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: That's actually the deal breaker.
• 28:22
  Speaker 3: Threat is over with a bad time because I I
• 28:25
  Speaker 3: had a nigga. Damn that stalk me like that. That's scary,
• 28:28
  Speaker 3: that's not exciting to me.
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: So yeah, I would say yes. Sometimes people get married
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: six months and be together for a lifetime.
• 28:40
  Speaker 3: Know your personnel, right, that is pretty quick though, six months.
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: I do think at least by the six month mark,
• 28:46
  Speaker 1: you should know if this is your person I don't
• 28:48
  Speaker 1: think you need a year or two. If you need
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: a year or two, you really just lowaiting a round
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: for somebody else. That's what you're looking for, a better option.
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: You just hanging out here in the meanwhile. That's why
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: I don't suggest no woman to just hang out up
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: with a nigga. If you want to be married, why
• 29:02
  Speaker 1: are you in this relationship for two three years?
• 29:04
  Speaker 2: If you've been if you're listening to this and you've
• 29:07
  Speaker 2: been somebody's girlfriend for five fucking years.
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: He don't want to marry you, girl, Yeah, And he's yeah,
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: have a conversation. He's also he's actually also like growing
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: through you like better in himself while he's with you,
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: so he can actually marry the person he wants to
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: be with, because that's why men to go on and
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: marry somebody they just met in six months.
• 29:26
  Speaker 5: Six months.
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: Yeah, so listen, if marriage is what you want, kids
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: is what you want, don't just be wasting all your
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: expiration date on that nigga. Okay, this shit has expired, sir,
• 29:36
  Speaker 1: all right this one.
• 29:37
  Speaker 5: Now we're moving the money. M h A buying designer.
• 29:41
  Speaker 1: Bags all day long, you know, I mean I buy
• 29:46
  Speaker 1: shit off the real real all the time.
• 29:47
  Speaker 3: I don't know. I have never.
• 29:51
  Speaker 1: Bought my own full price bag and nothing the ones
• 29:56
  Speaker 1: I have been purchased by men, but I can. I
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: just thought something I want to spend my money on,
• 30:02
  Speaker 1: So I will do like the real real and I'll
• 30:04
  Speaker 1: resell shit also, you know, so yes, past smash, that's
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: what I meant. Smash, yeah, smash, smash smash. Financing luxury
• 30:17
  Speaker 1: purchases pass, I mean a car, luxury People finance them bags.
• 30:23
  Speaker 1: I'm not financing Ca Klarner all the things people be
• 30:26
  Speaker 1: using pay that's financing.
• 30:28
  Speaker 3: I guess, yeah, I guess.
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: I mean when you got an interest rate, but even
• 30:32
  Speaker 1: still if paying it every two weeks is the same
• 30:35
  Speaker 1: thing as just buying it today.
• 30:37
  Speaker 3: Why you just don't buy it today.
• 30:38
  Speaker 5: Because they need two weeks.
• 30:41
  Speaker 3: Then you should not buy it.
• 30:42
  Speaker 4: That's what That's what I say.
• 30:43
  Speaker 3: Passed, Yeah, pass for me, because when.
• 30:47
  Speaker 5: Clara came out, I just was like I was Klarner
• 30:50
  Speaker 5: and ship that I could afford for no reason.
• 30:52
  Speaker 2: Yeah, like I own her four dollars and thirty this week,
• 30:58
  Speaker 2: Like why didn't you just pay for that?
• 30:59
  Speaker 3: Exactly?
• 31:00
  Speaker 2: The hell did you rather play four dollars a week
• 31:02
  Speaker 2: than get you twenty dollars right now?
• 31:03
  Speaker 5: It was such a missile illness. I was doing that
• 31:05
  Speaker 5: with all kinds of.
• 31:06
  Speaker 2: Shit, like three dollars and sixty seven a week. So great,
• 31:11
  Speaker 2: but it was crazy. I don't use it at all now,
• 31:13
  Speaker 2: But at one point that.
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: Clarin in particular, I don't know about after paid, but
• 31:16
  Speaker 1: after pay now is more like Klarna before. It wasn't
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: but it won't fuck it. You can fuck your credit up.
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: You don't pay that stuff now, you know. I think
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: Clarina actually does a soft poll.
• 31:26
  Speaker 5: If I can't purchase it outright, I'm just gonna stop
• 31:28
  Speaker 5: doing it.
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: Yeah, So that goes back to finance and luxury purchases.
• 31:32
  Speaker 3: No, uh, prenups even with this low, this low money
• 31:36
  Speaker 3: I got right now, I might do a prenup.
• 31:38
  Speaker 5: Oh yeah, yeah, I'm here for a prenup.
• 31:40
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't ever mind it. I'll never mind sign
• 31:43
  Speaker 3: on one.
• 31:44
  Speaker 1: I mean, I don't even if somebody has like accumulated
• 31:47
  Speaker 1: all his wealth prior to me marrying them. I'm not
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: trying to take half of what you got. Now we
• 31:52
  Speaker 1: accumulate some shit together, I expect I expect some of that.
• 31:55
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but I just want to be taken care of
• 31:57
  Speaker 2: in the event that this does not work. I don't
• 31:59
  Speaker 2: have to have half of everything. Especially I wasn't with
• 32:01
  Speaker 2: you shooting in the gym, right, But you ain't gonna
• 32:04
  Speaker 2: just send me back with the same shit I came with,
• 32:08
  Speaker 2: because I.
• 32:08
  Speaker 3: Don't make me send you back to the hood.
• 32:10
  Speaker 5: Having back to the street.
• 32:12
  Speaker 1: No right, you deserve something, I guess, especially if children
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: are involved. I guess that pre up would look a
• 32:17
  Speaker 1: little bit different.
• 32:19
  Speaker 3: But a lot of.
• 32:19
  Speaker 1: These guys, these basketball players, soccer players, they like putting
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: shit name, mama, name. Now, y'all bitches, ain't getting ship there.
• 32:25
  Speaker 1: You about to marry me for a year because you've
• 32:31
  Speaker 1: been in this relationship for a whole year. Now you're
• 32:33
  Speaker 1: divorcing him and trying to take half of his ship.
• 32:36
  Speaker 5: And everything in bridget name fun out.
• 32:38
  Speaker 1: Of here, lending money to family. It ain't no such thing.
• 32:42
  Speaker 1: You ain't getting it back. Smash yeah, I mean, just
• 32:46
  Speaker 1: know you ain't getting it back. I can't at stand
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: when somebody call me asking me to borrow anything. Girls,
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: stop lying to me. You know you're not giving it back.
• 32:52
  Speaker 1: I'm because if you say you want to borrow, I'm
• 32:55
  Speaker 1: gonna I'm.
• 32:55
  Speaker 5: Gonna expect it back. But I don't if I don't get.
• 32:58
  Speaker 2: It back, because you know, I just because I have to.
• 33:03
  Speaker 2: If it's family, you know I have to be prepared
• 33:05
  Speaker 2: to take the al and still love.
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: My thing is you borrow five hundred a day, give
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: me back to fire hundre tomorrow you need to borrow
• 33:10
  Speaker 1: it again. You never actually give me my money back.
• 33:13
  Speaker 1: Stop borrowing money that you can't ever reproduce. You see
• 33:17
  Speaker 1: what I'm saying. So that's why I never when somebody
• 33:19
  Speaker 1: say they want to borrow something, I just give it
• 33:21
  Speaker 1: to them. In my mind, even if they say borrow,
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: I know I'm not getting it back that way I'm
• 33:25
  Speaker 1: never giving anybody anything.
• 33:27
  Speaker 3: I can't stand getting it back. Huh to lose huh.
• 33:32
  Speaker 5: But do you ever get it back?
• 33:33
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but if I gotta give it to you again,
• 33:35
  Speaker 1: I never got it back. And that's what we ask is.
• 33:38
  Speaker 1: Now you got credit aligned with me. Now you got
• 33:42
  Speaker 1: a whole credit. It's revolving credit. Like I'm not the bank.
• 33:46
  Speaker 1: If you say you want to borrow, I'm adding that
• 33:48
  Speaker 1: to my total balance. I'm expecting it back. But now
• 33:51
  Speaker 1: I just I just write it off like your credit bad.
• 33:53
  Speaker 1: Now you can't come back.
• 33:54
  Speaker 5: You say, can I have five hundred dollars? They're gonna
• 33:57
  Speaker 5: say can I borrow?
• 33:58
  Speaker 1: I would prefer that don't call me lying can I have?
• 34:01
  Speaker 1: And don't text me to borrow money either. You need
• 34:02
  Speaker 1: to call me.
• 34:04
  Speaker 3: No, I didn't even think about it.
• 34:10
  Speaker 1: Strength like you need it, you need it, Okay, see
• 34:15
  Speaker 1: you gotta, I'll let you borrow five. Now there has
• 34:19
  Speaker 1: been time somebody would call and be like can I have?
• 34:22
  Speaker 1: And I'm like, I'll let you borrow it because I
• 34:23
  Speaker 1: need this money for such and such, and they still
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: didn't give it back. Like imagine you're telling somebody, hey,
• 34:28
  Speaker 1: if you won't give me this money back, that's gonna
• 34:29
  Speaker 1: suck me up. I'm gonna give it to you today,
• 34:31
  Speaker 1: but I need it back tomorrow type shit. And they
• 34:34
  Speaker 1: still just don't give you a ship back dating someone
• 34:43
  Speaker 1: who makes significantly less than you.
• 34:46
  Speaker 3: Mm hmmm, pas yaess so you're Brooke Gast. You know,
• 34:57
  Speaker 3: I'm a phone on that nigga doing anything, all right.
• 35:02
  Speaker 2: So it's a past contingent upon the fact that, let's
• 35:07
  Speaker 2: say he got a solid plan and he's trying to
• 35:11
  Speaker 2: build something, and I can see the potential for the growth,
• 35:13
  Speaker 2: and I see the work and I see that, then
• 35:15
  Speaker 2: I can date, right. But if you just someone just
• 35:17
  Speaker 2: comfortable with less and not trying to have more, it's
• 35:21
  Speaker 2: a hard.
• 35:21
  Speaker 1: Past, yeah for me. So it's a nuance in there. Yeah,
• 35:25
  Speaker 1: I agree one thousand percent. Yeah, but they said significantly past.
• 35:32
  Speaker 1: I said broke ass keeping separate finances after marriage. You
• 35:39
  Speaker 1: already kind of talked about that.
• 35:40
  Speaker 3: Absolutely.
• 35:41
  Speaker 1: I do think that you should have separate finances. I
• 35:45
  Speaker 1: think you should share your financial state before getting married
• 35:48
  Speaker 1: to somebody. Also, you know, your dad is my dad
• 35:51
  Speaker 1: and vice versa, so I need to know if you
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: got two hundred thousand dollars a student loan dead with
• 35:56
  Speaker 1: no degree?
• 35:57
  Speaker 3: Right the fuck, Mitch?
• 35:58
  Speaker 5: And what are we doing quitting without another job?
• 36:02
  Speaker 3: Passed?
• 36:04
  Speaker 5: I'm a secure something else first, me.
• 36:06
  Speaker 1: Too, But I mean if the plan is a job,
• 36:09
  Speaker 1: like maybe you can't even focus on the plan because
• 36:11
  Speaker 1: you're working sixteen hours a day somewhere, like, fuck that job.
• 36:15
  Speaker 3: If we think this, I mean sometimes you gotta take risks.
• 36:20
  Speaker 3: So I don't know. I'm in between on that.
• 36:22
  Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean I get.
• 36:22
  Speaker 2: I agree with you there, but I got to know
• 36:25
  Speaker 2: something shaking right, you know, let's get into the average
• 36:29
  Speaker 2: American got how much of money, say worth of the
• 36:32
  Speaker 2: bills three months?
• 36:33
  Speaker 3: Maybe probably not even that, not when rent is like
• 36:37
  Speaker 3: a lot. Yeah, you gotta have ten bands, so quit
• 36:41
  Speaker 3: without another ten bands?
• 36:43
  Speaker 2: Right? Yeah, it's kind of scary tripping, Okay, trends, Yeah,
• 36:51
  Speaker 2: zip bound or GLP want medications. I used to be
• 36:56
  Speaker 2: super passed on it, but I see people looking good.
• 37:00
  Speaker 2: Their health is getting better today.
• 37:02
  Speaker 3: We don't know what the girl, your.
• 37:04
  Speaker 5: Kucie bustles get loose?
• 37:06
  Speaker 3: What it?
• 37:07
  Speaker 2: Because it can make your muscles deteriorate. That doesn't say
• 37:11
  Speaker 2: your pussy is a muscle essentially, you know girl?
• 37:13
  Speaker 3: What? So yeah, like beginning low body, big pussy.
• 37:18
  Speaker 1: No, let me keep my low compact, low pocketbook.
• 37:25
  Speaker 3: I'm scared of them that like the chunky girls can't take.
• 37:28
  Speaker 5: The booty, would be like muscle on two fact, the
• 37:31
  Speaker 5: muscle in the fact. So I don't know.
• 37:33
  Speaker 1: Okay, So I've done a lot of research, right because
• 37:36
  Speaker 1: my sister, my older sister, she has lost hell a
• 37:38
  Speaker 1: weight to bituate less than me now.
• 37:40
  Speaker 3: But it's cheating, Okay.
• 37:42
  Speaker 1: I'm not gonna say pass on it.
• 37:45
  Speaker 3: I'm in the middle on it.
• 37:48
  Speaker 1: I don't think that anything is supposed to be a
• 37:49
  Speaker 1: permanent or long term right. At some point you have
• 37:53
  Speaker 1: to do the lifestyle changes. Right. So you've seen people
• 37:56
  Speaker 1: take the glp ones and they gained all the way back,
• 37:59
  Speaker 1: right because it didn't change their mindset. They didn't change
• 38:01
  Speaker 1: the lifestyle, didn't changed the diet for real, they just
• 38:03
  Speaker 1: really there's a magic shot now, right, So there's no
• 38:06
  Speaker 1: discipline behind it, none of that, and it's not lasting.
• 38:11
  Speaker 1: I think anything you want, anything worth having, you got
• 38:14
  Speaker 1: to work hard for it a lot of times, and
• 38:16
  Speaker 1: you appreciate it more. Also, I'm not against the golp ones,
• 38:21
  Speaker 1: especially for people who are clinically obese, like for real
• 38:24
  Speaker 1: like I mean, we might be clinically obese technically based
• 38:28
  Speaker 1: on the white people's skills. Am I going to take
• 38:31
  Speaker 1: a monthly shot like to lose weight rapidly? I used
• 38:34
  Speaker 1: to take at apex.
• 38:36
  Speaker 3: I'm ready, No, I'm doing it now. I am looking
• 38:39
  Speaker 3: at the peptides and stuff.
• 38:43
  Speaker 1: The amino acid, yeah, amin amino acid like peptize, not the.
• 38:50
  Speaker 3: Yeah, not the golp one. Just overall health yeah, yeah, yeah,
• 38:55
  Speaker 3: I mean three four months used maybe possibly.
• 38:57
  Speaker 1: I don't know the thing with all of these things,
• 38:59
  Speaker 1: we don't know the long term effects of these things.
• 39:02
  Speaker 1: So yes, they look good today, but you know five
• 39:05
  Speaker 1: six years from now, because a lot of.
• 39:06
  Speaker 5: People have long time. But it was my diabetes medicines.
• 39:12
  Speaker 3: And I was about to say my stepdad mom was
• 39:15
  Speaker 3: on old dempic.
• 39:18
  Speaker 1: I think I forgot the other name for it, same
• 39:20
  Speaker 1: thing though for many years, and she died of pancreatic
• 39:24
  Speaker 1: cancer basically, and that is one of the things that
• 39:27
  Speaker 1: it affects your pincreous So I think people need to
• 39:30
  Speaker 1: make sure they know the risk. Yeah, and it's on
• 39:33
  Speaker 1: the packaging oftentimes, you know what I'm saying. But people
• 39:38
  Speaker 1: just want the quick results. I agree, yes, yes, every
• 39:45
  Speaker 1: once in a while. Yes, don't last though for me
• 39:49
  Speaker 1: it's like it don't last, like I get I have
• 39:53
  Speaker 1: like a stiff face for a month.
• 39:55
  Speaker 5: Yeah, and then yeah, this is extremely expressive.
• 40:00
  Speaker 3: Do you think so it's just a little thing right here?
• 40:02
  Speaker 3: I start that one?
• 40:04
  Speaker 5: Stop doing that?
• 40:05
  Speaker 3: So how you just.
• 40:08
  Speaker 5: Stop stop doing that?
• 40:10
  Speaker 3: Robots? Hey, I don't want that, Like, I don't want to.
• 40:14
  Speaker 3: I don't want to extremely stuff face.
• 40:17
  Speaker 5: I don't. I don't either. Some people go too far
• 40:19
  Speaker 5: and it just looks very unnatural, but a little I
• 40:27
  Speaker 5: don't need to.
• 40:27
  Speaker 2: Like I hate when people be like there's you know,
• 40:29
  Speaker 2: like their lips look very unnatural.
• 40:31
  Speaker 5: I don't like that.
• 40:33
  Speaker 2: But I'm here for anything that makes you feel better
• 40:35
  Speaker 2: about you. I'm here for it, all right. Are we
• 40:39
  Speaker 2: gonna go through all of these? Let's get to pet Peeves?
• 40:44
  Speaker 3: Uh?
• 40:46
  Speaker 1: I just said this on another episode voice notes over
• 40:49
  Speaker 1: two minutes like are you are you a serial killer?
• 40:52
  Speaker 1: I had a homegirl who want to try to argue
• 40:54
  Speaker 1: with me via voice notes. I'm not listening to that.
• 40:56
  Speaker 1: I'm actually deleting it.
• 40:58
  Speaker 4: Bitch.
• 40:58
  Speaker 3: I'm gonna read a little bit this you what it
• 41:00
  Speaker 3: says you do not even gonna know?
• 41:01
  Speaker 1: I actually clicked on it, and I'm deleting it, bitch,
• 41:03
  Speaker 1: because we're talking.
• 41:04
  Speaker 5: A voice note is like they read it, they said
• 41:07
  Speaker 5: it and they wrote it out for you.
• 41:08
  Speaker 3: Yeah, you don't know it does Oh?
• 41:10
  Speaker 5: I thought it was like an audio.
• 41:11
  Speaker 3: No, they're sending the audio.
• 41:12
  Speaker 1: But you can see the you can see the yeah
• 41:15
  Speaker 1: of it on your phone. You can listen to it,
• 41:17
  Speaker 1: or you can see the written when you like, press
• 41:20
  Speaker 1: on it. No, I'm not sitting there listening to all
• 41:22
  Speaker 1: that ship two minutes.
• 41:24
  Speaker 3: Why you ain't just call?
• 41:25
  Speaker 1: You want to talk and then you don't want somebody
• 41:28
  Speaker 1: to respond? That's really what you're what you want?
• 41:31
  Speaker 2: Yeah, without interrupting? Yeah, no, yeah, I'm gonna pass on that.
• 41:35
  Speaker 5: Just call me.
• 41:35
  Speaker 3: You're right.
• 41:37
  Speaker 5: Calling without texting? Smash? Yeah, what we live in an
• 41:43
  Speaker 5: alternate UNI?
• 41:44
  Speaker 1: Hey can you talk? No, bitch, I'm just calling you
• 41:47
  Speaker 1: and you can't talk. You want answer?
• 41:49
  Speaker 3: Right?
• 41:51
  Speaker 5: Speak in public? Past?
• 41:54
  Speaker 1: Yeah, don't have me on speakerphone. And I don't like
• 41:57
  Speaker 1: to hear people's conversation.
• 41:58
  Speaker 5: Why do I have to listen to your my mom?
• 42:00
  Speaker 2: Well girl, everybody do not need to hear your whole
• 42:04
  Speaker 2: conversation with Barbara?
• 42:07
  Speaker 4: No?
• 42:07
  Speaker 5: Like, why is it always on.
• 42:09
  Speaker 3: Speaker girl, bonnets and public past.
• 42:13
  Speaker 1: I just seen this video yesterday where this lady was
• 42:17
  Speaker 1: basically reprimanding a woman in public.
• 42:19
  Speaker 3: She wasn't a young girl. That was a grown woman too.
• 42:22
  Speaker 3: Oh girl, Why you got that bonnet on?
• 42:24
  Speaker 4: Girl?
• 42:25
  Speaker 3: And you're recording it for social media? Bitch?
• 42:30
  Speaker 5: I don't think I saw what you're talking about.
• 42:32
  Speaker 3: It was in publics like they might have been in
• 42:33
  Speaker 3: Florida or something. I don't know.
• 42:34
  Speaker 1: It looks like a Publix to me, But this woman
• 42:36
  Speaker 1: looked like she just got from work, possibly not from publics,
• 42:39
  Speaker 1: but from some place. Because she's standing there with a
• 42:40
  Speaker 1: cart has a bonnet on.
• 42:42
  Speaker 3: You already know how they look at us.
• 42:44
  Speaker 1: Now, why would you have that bonnet on out here
• 42:47
  Speaker 1: like I wouldn't, And then you're doing that and recording it.
• 42:51
  Speaker 1: That's the biggest problem I have with it. Yeah, but
• 42:54
  Speaker 1: I mean, who are you to reprimand a grown ass woman.
• 42:56
  Speaker 1: We got some people in our community that wear bonnets outside.
• 42:59
  Speaker 3: Who says this? White people?
• 43:01
  Speaker 5: I don't like it.
• 43:02
  Speaker 3: I don't like it either.
• 43:04
  Speaker 1: But it's a it's an equivalent to sagging the pants,
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: Like I don't like that shit either, but.
• 43:10
  Speaker 3: Some people do it who are you?
• 43:11
  Speaker 1: And there's just there's some things that other groups of
• 43:13
  Speaker 1: people also do that we not. We don't be high
• 43:17
  Speaker 1: like judging them, Like look at the little rock star
• 43:19
  Speaker 1: dudes and piercings all in the face, all the things.
• 43:22
  Speaker 3: That other groups of people do.
• 43:23
  Speaker 5: But but it's just like night clothes though, like it's
• 43:25
  Speaker 5: stuff for.
• 43:26
  Speaker 3: It's slack, you know, like is it lazy? Because what's
• 43:31
  Speaker 3: the difference between a bonnet and a and a scarf?
• 43:35
  Speaker 5: A bonnet is to wear the fucking band.
• 43:39
  Speaker 3: Or I just want to protect my hair or.
• 43:42
  Speaker 2: Wrap your hair, it seemed your hair and a pretty
• 43:44
  Speaker 2: scarf and make it look nice. H But when you
• 43:47
  Speaker 2: are here in that bonnet, look like you just rolled
• 43:49
  Speaker 2: your funky ass out of the bed and came into public.
• 43:52
  Speaker 2: Like you don't have to do that. As many ways
• 43:54
  Speaker 2: to keep your hair covered and not look so trashy
• 43:57
  Speaker 2: and slack.
• 43:57
  Speaker 5: I hate that.
• 43:59
  Speaker 2: I'm never gonna run up and nobody tell them that
• 44:01
  Speaker 2: they I got bigger fish to fry in life.
• 44:03
  Speaker 5: So it's just like, if you want to be out
• 44:05
  Speaker 5: here with your bonnet on.
• 44:07
  Speaker 3: Just now, I'm looking at you with the Nike check mout,
• 44:10
  Speaker 3: take that off.
• 44:10
  Speaker 2: You you're a queen, are you?
• 44:17
  Speaker 5: You are?
• 44:18
  Speaker 3: You have a slack ass bonnet on a queen's head.
• 44:21
  Speaker 3: You're not a queen.
• 44:23
  Speaker 1: Everybody is not a queen behaving. Everybody isn't one.
• 44:27
  Speaker 3: That's the thing. Everybody like everybody isn't going to be
• 44:30
  Speaker 3: the thing. It's just and it's okay. Double texting, oh.
• 44:41
  Speaker 5: Smash, I will double text.
• 44:43
  Speaker 3: I don't like that ship if you can't send me
• 44:45
  Speaker 3: one clear, concise text message because I feel like you're
• 44:48
  Speaker 3: talking at me when you start sending over and over
• 44:50
  Speaker 3: like that's that's what it's mean. Yeah.
• 44:52
  Speaker 1: No, I need you to get all your thoughts together,
• 44:54
  Speaker 1: because I'm gonna send you one paragraph.
• 44:56
  Speaker 5: I will send you one word in each text because
• 45:00
  Speaker 5: quit fucking playing with me.
• 45:03
  Speaker 3: And I will block a mother fucker for doing that
• 45:06
  Speaker 3: type of shit for playing with me. I'm blocking you.
• 45:10
  Speaker 3: I'm not waiting for these form the thing thing thing.
• 45:13
  Speaker 3: That's why I can't stand when people put me in
• 45:14
  Speaker 3: group chats. Keep y'all. Anytime I hear my phone going.
• 45:18
  Speaker 1: Off back to back, back to back, I already know
• 45:20
  Speaker 1: it's my bad bitch group chat.
• 45:21
  Speaker 3: It's me and my own girls.
• 45:23
  Speaker 1: Already know it's some bitches in there somebody I don't know, fallus.
• 45:28
  Speaker 1: It's something in there that I don't like not rushing
• 45:30
  Speaker 1: to go see because I know them bitches on some
• 45:32
  Speaker 1: bullshit in that group chat.
• 45:36
  Speaker 2: I've never done that to a woman. No, it's just
• 45:37
  Speaker 2: a man. That's why aren't you responding?
• 45:41
  Speaker 3: All right?
• 45:42
  Speaker 5: Sharing Netflix passwords?
• 45:44
  Speaker 3: We can't no more.
• 45:45
  Speaker 1: But I mean it's a past because why the fuck
• 45:46
  Speaker 1: we got all these subscriptions amongst different households and we
• 45:50
  Speaker 1: all family, Like I'm using my MoMA Amazon, I'm using
• 45:53
  Speaker 1: her Netflix, and if she got a cable logging, I'm
• 45:55
  Speaker 1: using that too, because why we all paying for it?
• 45:58
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean smash.
• 46:01
  Speaker 5: Oh yeah, I would like to share, but they don't
• 46:03
  Speaker 5: let you anymore. Disgusting.
• 46:07
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, this is this is this is you put
• 46:09
  Speaker 1: together a big one, bitch.
• 46:10
  Speaker 3: This is too much.
• 46:12
  Speaker 5: There's too much.
• 46:12
  Speaker 2: That's why I said, skip around, skip around. We gonna
• 46:16
  Speaker 2: do three from the next topic, Black households, and then
• 46:20
  Speaker 2: three from the fine around.
• 46:24
  Speaker 3: All right, got it all right? Washing chicken smash absolutely
• 46:29
  Speaker 3: and not with don dishwashing detergent either.
• 46:31
  Speaker 2: So that lady was watching her lettuce for her husband
• 46:34
  Speaker 2: and had him eat the salad first, or she watched
• 46:36
  Speaker 2: it with bleach first and then dish detergent and then
• 46:40
  Speaker 2: she said she rinsted really well.
• 46:41
  Speaker 5: But he got sick in her lettuce.
• 46:43
  Speaker 3: Yeah, why didn't you say legs?
• 46:46
  Speaker 5: Lettuce?
• 46:46
  Speaker 3: Oh, lettuce?
• 46:48
  Speaker 5: And he ended up in the hospital really sick.
• 46:51
  Speaker 3: No, she was trying to kill him.
• 46:54
  Speaker 1: Taking the shoes off at the door, smash smash, don't
• 46:58
  Speaker 1: don't be and I don't even could you get naked
• 47:01
  Speaker 1: at the door when the maintenance come, I'd be on
• 47:03
  Speaker 1: they fucking ass because I got white rugs.
• 47:05
  Speaker 3: Why are you with your outside boots on my white rugs?
• 47:08
  Speaker 1: Right?
• 47:08
  Speaker 3: The fuck?
• 47:09
  Speaker 1: Take y'all shoes off or y'all should at least they
• 47:10
  Speaker 1: should have those little things that you put on the shoes.
• 47:13
  Speaker 5: So, like you know, I do those housing inspections.
• 47:15
  Speaker 2: We have to go in, like some people require us
• 47:17
  Speaker 2: to come in with the Some people like my shoes
• 47:20
  Speaker 2: is fucked up walking in here.
• 47:21
  Speaker 5: But some of them they require us to put that
• 47:24
  Speaker 5: on there.
• 47:24
  Speaker 1: Yeah, Like if I don't have them, I feel like
• 47:26
  Speaker 1: as a maintenance people, they should have those with them, right,
• 47:30
  Speaker 1: because why are y'all walking on this carpet?
• 47:33
  Speaker 3: Yeah?
• 47:34
  Speaker 7: Terrible mm family group chats smash.
• 47:44
  Speaker 5: My family we talking to group chat every morning.
• 47:47
  Speaker 3: I'd be trying to.
• 47:48
  Speaker 1: I'd be trying to with my sisters them, but they
• 47:50
  Speaker 1: just don't be engaging. My sisters told me the stuff
• 47:52
  Speaker 1: I'd be sending, like I send like videos and stuff
• 47:55
  Speaker 1: like that.
• 47:55
  Speaker 3: Things I want them to They say, it just be
• 47:57
  Speaker 3: too much to listen to.
• 47:59
  Speaker 5: Oh that's unfortunate.
• 48:01
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but y'alls didn't watch series of bullshit? You know
• 48:05
  Speaker 1: what I'm saying.
• 48:06
  Speaker 2: Why don't you just like put y'all all in the
• 48:08
  Speaker 2: group and just like at least say good morning to
• 48:09
  Speaker 2: one another. My mama started onnning and it's been like
• 48:16
  Speaker 2: thriving for years. Like we say good morning every single morning.
• 48:19
  Speaker 3: And that's nice. Do we not like each other? We
• 48:25
  Speaker 3: don't have my mom in the group chat.
• 48:26
  Speaker 1: You act like she didn't get the message. Y'all know,
• 48:29
  Speaker 1: I don't mean that's what that phone like that. But
• 48:31
  Speaker 1: you managed to send a text message when you feel
• 48:33
  Speaker 1: like it. But oh, I look at my phone. I
• 48:35
  Speaker 1: look at your phone to see my message was red?
• 48:38
  Speaker 5: Right, you saw that shit?
• 48:44
  Speaker 2: Okay, one more from this one? Oh no, I'm not
• 48:52
  Speaker 2: gonna just pass automatically reusing grocery bags. Of course it's
• 48:58
  Speaker 2: a super.
• 49:01
  Speaker 1: Yes, it's for frying chicken purpose, it's for relaxer or depraditioning.
• 49:07
  Speaker 3: What is it for traveling lunch? Trash, trash bags?
• 49:15
  Speaker 1: It's all purpose for the bathroom trash, what else, ship everything.
• 49:23
  Speaker 1: I have been trying to get away from plastic for real,
• 49:26
  Speaker 1: just you know, because they have like those forever plastic
• 49:28
  Speaker 1: these chemicals and stuff. So even ziploc bags and she
• 49:30
  Speaker 1: like that, I'd be trying not to use no more's.
• 49:32
  Speaker 1: I got a bunch of glass tupperware, but I don't
• 49:35
  Speaker 1: even know if that stuff is real glass, like.
• 49:37
  Speaker 5: Right, who knows?
• 49:38
  Speaker 3: You just getting sucked up every which way. Man over everything, right,
• 49:41
  Speaker 3: So they're like in the black.
• 49:42
  Speaker 2: Househole like when you see motherfucking turtles and ship down
• 49:45
  Speaker 2: for plants of bags.
• 49:46
  Speaker 5: It's not black people. We keep people.
• 49:50
  Speaker 3: They all ball up and stove or something.
• 49:52
  Speaker 5: I didn't neath the stew underneath the thay. It's one
• 49:55
  Speaker 5: big ass bag and a bunch of bags.
• 49:57
  Speaker 3: I got a box of trash bags a homegirl gave
• 49:59
  Speaker 3: me thank you bags. I just put catshit in them.
• 50:03
  Speaker 1: That's the only even thing I really used for trash
• 50:05
  Speaker 1: bags for night when I'm scooping the litter.
• 50:10
  Speaker 5: And then lit's three from the rapid fire ones.
• 50:13
  Speaker 1: All right, so this is the final round. Uh, bald
• 50:17
  Speaker 1: men smash yeah all day, niggas.
• 50:21
  Speaker 3: Listen.
• 50:22
  Speaker 1: You know all y'all ain't gonna have the money to
• 50:24
  Speaker 1: go to Turkey. And uh just know that women like
• 50:28
  Speaker 1: bald heads. I have had to convince a few men
• 50:30
  Speaker 1: go ahead and cut it off. Maybe, and when they
• 50:32
  Speaker 1: finally cut it off for they bear, they be fine. Girl,
• 50:35
  Speaker 1: cut that fucking hair off. Women love ball heads.
• 50:38
  Speaker 4: I love it, shy.
• 50:40
  Speaker 3: Yeah, when I'm rubbing it while you're down there, Yes.
• 50:43
  Speaker 5: Like it. Airbnbs past, I'm sick of them.
• 50:47
  Speaker 3: What the fuck is cost more than a hotel nowadays?
• 50:50
  Speaker 5: I gotta clean up too. I gotta clean up. I
• 50:52
  Speaker 5: gotta take the linen off, plus gotta keep cleaning.
• 50:54
  Speaker 4: Fee.
• 50:55
  Speaker 5: Yeah, and you gotta clean and fee.
• 50:57
  Speaker 2: Get the fuck out of here with the Airbnb ship
• 50:59
  Speaker 2: is just as expensive, and no breakfast, get out of here.
• 51:03
  Speaker 3: Sleeping naked.
• 51:05
  Speaker 5: Smash all day.
• 51:06
  Speaker 3: I come from a naked family, bitch. I cannot stand
• 51:09
  Speaker 3: sleeping with clothes and I have bad dreams.
• 51:12
  Speaker 5: That's what I have, So I'll do both.
• 51:16
  Speaker 3: I can't sleep a clothes on.
• 51:19
  Speaker 5: Solo vacations.
• 51:20
  Speaker 3: I just had one.
• 51:22
  Speaker 1: It was great, definitely smash. I recommend at least one
• 51:25
  Speaker 1: solo vacation for.
• 51:26
  Speaker 3: A week or so for everybody.
• 51:29
  Speaker 5: Let's go one. Just make sure you're safe. Mashing outfits.
• 51:35
  Speaker 3: Go ahead, a little cheesy, ass. I don't want to
• 51:41
  Speaker 3: like we're the.
• 51:41
  Speaker 5: Same exact thing, but I want our outfite to compliment
• 51:44
  Speaker 5: one another.
• 51:45
  Speaker 3: You talk about your partner, yes, kind of No, that's
• 51:50
  Speaker 3: so cute, girl.
• 51:51
  Speaker 5: I love those videos where they like stepped to the
• 51:53
  Speaker 5: side and slept in there. I can't wait to do
• 51:56
  Speaker 5: that with somebody. Last week.
• 52:00
  Speaker 3: This is the last one. Living alone forever.
• 52:03
  Speaker 5: Past, past, hard past. I don't want to be alone.
• 52:08
  Speaker 1: I mean technically, if you have this separate house and
• 52:10
  Speaker 1: your husband love next door, were alone.
• 52:14
  Speaker 3: Together, it's like holding hands. I don't know, man.
• 52:19
  Speaker 1: Sometimes I be thinking it's tough cohabitating, like my cat
• 52:23
  Speaker 1: catch hell, okay, I catch out with the cat.
• 52:28
  Speaker 3: So I don't know, man.
• 52:29
  Speaker 1: Some days it's very like peaceful, you know what I'm saying,
• 52:34
  Speaker 1: Like not having to entertain nobody, not having to talk,
• 52:36
  Speaker 1: not having a cook.
• 52:37
  Speaker 3: If I don't feel like you're not having to eat.
• 52:39
  Speaker 3: I'll eat sea and go to sleep.
• 52:40
  Speaker 1: Then when you have a family, you have a man
• 52:42
  Speaker 1: like you have to cater to this other person and
• 52:45
  Speaker 1: you can get tough and it's not fun after a while.
• 52:48
  Speaker 1: I havn't to worry about somebody else's stomach every day.
• 52:50
  Speaker 5: Every day, but I don't want to for a long time.
• 52:55
  Speaker 5: I've been single for ten years. Oh roll for the
• 53:01
  Speaker 5: bride dogs grass over here, So I would like to
• 53:06
  Speaker 5: have my man already. But you know, I'm not a settler,
• 53:10
  Speaker 5: so I'm not Christ said, I'm.
• 53:13
  Speaker 3: Not settling, so I just wait.
• 53:17
  Speaker 5: Oh no, this is fun, ye all right, last last?
• 53:21
  Speaker 3: Y'all know we do these type of episodes. We just
• 53:23
  Speaker 3: can't come up with.
• 53:28
  Speaker 5: Coming up with something every week.
• 53:30
  Speaker 3: You know it is for fifty two weeks, for y'all
• 53:33
  Speaker 3: years exactly. Try that ship to happen, all right, y'all,
• 53:39
  Speaker 3: have you enjoyed the smash for past?
• 53:41
  Speaker 1: Y'all tune in every Thursday on the iHeart Radio app.
• 53:43
  Speaker 1: It's no last last for this ship? Okay, every Thursday
• 53:46
  Speaker 1: at the iHeart Radio app. Where the fuck you get
• 53:47
  Speaker 1: your podcasts at?
• 53:49
  Speaker 3: Y'all?
• 53:49
  Speaker 1: Uh, tune into we Talk Back TV on YouTube. Okay,
• 53:53
  Speaker 1: Facebook coming soon, I guess, and we're gonna try to
• 53:57
  Speaker 1: be a little bit more active on Instagram. We just
• 53:59
  Speaker 1: old you know what I'm saying.
• 54:00
  Speaker 3: Older y'all, Well listen.
• 54:03
  Speaker 5: Thank y'all for smashing on We Talked Back.
• 54:06
  Speaker 3: You appreciate that.
• 54:07
  Speaker 5: It's official.
• 54:08
  Speaker 2: Tear Obama on Instagram. Follow me there, Follow We talk
• 54:10
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• 54:15
  Speaker 3: And hold your smash no past.
• 54:20
  Speaker 5: Hold you your past always.
• 54:23
  Speaker 4: This is by y'all.
• 54:24
  Speaker 2: Bye.
• 54:26
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• 54:29
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• 54:33
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