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Lunch with the Clydesdale - Why Does Our Mind Work That Way? · Clydesdale Media Podcast

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  what is going on everybody
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  welcome to a tuesday lunch
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  with cladsdale it is lunch
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  hour taking a little time
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  out of our busy work day to
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  come hang out chat see
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  what's going on can't wait
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  to talk to everybody today um
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  Definitely feeling some
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  effects of my three hundred
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  air squats yesterday.
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  Sitting down in this chair.
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  We're going to see how it
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  affected my shoulders as I
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  go ahead and throw the
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  start at that board over there.
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  Oh, that it hurt a little bit,
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  but not as bad as I thought
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  it was going to hurt.
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  And I came pretty darn close.
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  I'm getting really close now.
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  So if you remember yesterday,
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  we were just to the right.
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  Now,
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  I am just to the left of the bullseye.
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  I don't know if you can see it there.
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  Just about, gosh,
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  half an inch from the bullseye.
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  It's the left one.
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  The one on the right is my
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  dart from yesterday.
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  But we're zeroing in on that bullseye.
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  We're going to get it.
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  We're going to get it.
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  Dan Church promised me a
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  celebration when I hit it.
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  And so we're going to keep trying.
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  But, yeah.
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  So super stoked about my throat today.
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  Feeling good, feeling good.
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  Even though my legs are so damn sore.
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  Just getting out of bed this
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  morning took a little extra effort,
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  but all worth it.
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  Good time yesterday.
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  And we'll get after it today.
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  Ken Walters, Scott,
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  just got done watching yesterday's show.
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  Bums, you're not going to be in Knoxville.
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  And second,
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  how do you leave potato salad
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  and watermelon off the picnic list?
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  Well, it's my list.
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  My mom makes a great potato
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  salad and she makes a great
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  macaroni salad.
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  I prefer the macaroni to the
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  potato because it's lighter.
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  And when I'm out in the sun
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  and hanging out, I want light food.
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  I don't like a big, heavy thing.
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  Watermelon,
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  sometimes I'm really in the mood for it,
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  and I can really go to town
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  on some watermelon.
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  But it's not my favorite fruit.
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  I like some pineapple.
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  Some different things.
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  I like those kinds of fruits.
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  So, yeah.
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  Anyway...
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  That's why.
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  My mom's taste sounds really good.
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  You only get to pick five, man.
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  It gets tough.
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  It gets tough.
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  So, yeah.
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  Kat tried to join.
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  That would have been awesome.
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  Apparently,
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  her Mac no longer has a camera.
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  I don't think they just
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  disappear or go away.
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  Maybe it got disconnected.
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  Disconnected.
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  aaron frazier did murph on
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  saturday at the affiliate
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  pretty sore for two days
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  feeling okay today uh pr'd
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  by six minutes and uh
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  jaybert says howdy we
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  always like when jaybert
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  says howdy cat is trying to
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  reboot and jump in that'd be awesome um
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  But while she's doing that,
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  I wanted to put out a huge thank you.
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  If you saw any of my stories
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  on Instagram over the last
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  twenty four hours,
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  it was a year ago today
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  that a young gentleman
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  reached out to me and was
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  looking for a way to get
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  into the West Coast classic.
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  to do some photography and
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  video work um at the same
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  time I was not told I had
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  media credentials for west
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  coast until a week before
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  the event happened and for
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  me to get from columbus to
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  california with a week's
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  notice and the small budget
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  that I have to kind of
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  figure things out I wasn't
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  able to get to the west
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  coast classic last year and so um
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  ishmael garcia reached out
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  to me and said hey I'm
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  looking to get in do some
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  work can I work for you I'd
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  seen him around the space a
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  little bit and I said sure
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  let's give it a try let's
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  see what we can do um and
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  so he posted a story
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  yesterday and I reposted it
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  with a caption I'm going to
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  share that real quick uh
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  So he kind of says,
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  fast forward a year after, I'm sorry,
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  what it felt like leaving Pasadena semis,
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  seeing all the homies
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  capture and posting shots.
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  then he said fast forward a
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  year after that I reached
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  out to a couple of people
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  brands to shoot west coast
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  classic for them and
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  unfortunately got left
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  unread uh clydesdale media
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  was the only one who
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  replied and did not
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  hesitate to try and get me
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  a pass to shoot for him
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  this weekend marks a year
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  since shooting west coast
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  classic and working with
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  scott I appreciate you for
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  trusting me and believing
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  in my work can't thank you enough um
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  It has been awesome.
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  He has been incredible.
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  He has been my eyes in the
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  CrossFit space in a year
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  that I had to take care of my wife.
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  I had to get her through two
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  knee surgeries,
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  two total knee replacements,
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  and have not been able to
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  be out on the road
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  And Ishmael has done all of
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  the work for me to get all
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  the photos you see when I
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  post those from competition
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  weekends over the last year.
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  He was at West Coast Classic.
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  He was at Waterpalooza SoCal.
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  He was at Waterpalooza.
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  He's done all of that stuff.
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  And then a bunch of,
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  he was a WFP and the
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  semifinals this year.
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  And so I want to give a huge
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  thank you to him because
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  it's been an awesome year
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  hanging out with Ishmael.
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  And I hope that that
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  relationship continues
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  because he's an amazing photographer.
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  If you have not checked out his stuff,
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  go to, I think,
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  He has one that is Eastma
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  captures on Instagram.
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  And then the simple one is like ICG.
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  So yeah.
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  So with that,
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  I see someone in the green room.
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  And there she is.
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  Hi.
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  So you do have a camera.
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  Yeah.
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  I don't know what happened.
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  It just,
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  it said like camera not detected
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  and it's part of the computer.
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  So it's not like I removed it.
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  Yeah, computers are funny.
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  Up until this week, two weeks before this,
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  StreamYard has been acting so bizarre.
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  Yeah.
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  Like I've been having
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  trouble getting on every day.
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  I have to reboot my laptop
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  to recognize all the different things.
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  It's crazy.
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  So it didn't recognize the
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  Rodecaster for a week
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  unless I rebooted my
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  computer before every show.
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  Yeah.
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  No, good.
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  How are you?
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  I'm good.
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  Really good.
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  I had a whirlwind weekend.
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  I saw you were in the sun and fun.
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  I went to Florida with a boy.
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  I saw it got hacked by one
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  of those dating apps.
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  Probably.
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  Yeah.
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  Yeah.
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  I went to Florida was
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  supposed to go to Baltimore
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  for the weekend and realize
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  that the weather wasn't
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  going to be that cooperative.
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  So we decided to go to Florida.
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  So we left Friday morning,
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  came back yesterday morning
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  and then went out on his
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  boat all day yesterday.
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  So I've got a fried forehead.
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  Yeah, it looks pretty red.
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  Probably drank a little too
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  much all weekend and I'm recovering now.
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  So this is, um,
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  you said you met somebody a
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  couple of weeks ago,
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  but you didn't want to get
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  into it because you know, it's still,
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  are we still in the don't
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  want to jinx its face?
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  Yeah, no, I don't think so.
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  I mean, we've had,
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  I feel like when you go away with someone,
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  it's kind of,
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  we were calling it like the
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  shit out shit or get off the pot weekend.
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  You know,
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  you're either going to like
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  somebody more or you're going to be like,
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  Oh my gosh,
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  like I can't deal with this person.
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  So, uh,
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  We got to the airport Friday morning.
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  We got into the elevator to
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  go up a floor to the ticketing booth.
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  And there was literally a
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  pile of human feces in the elevator.
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  Yeah, welcome to Philly.
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  And so that was the
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  beginning of the adventure
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  for the weekend.
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  I thought it was appropriate
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  because of how- Bad sign or bad moment?
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  What's that?
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  Bad sign or bad moment?
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  No, it was neither.
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  It was, it was just, it was fitting.
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  Right.
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  Okay.
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  So yeah.
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  Yeah.
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  We know we had a great time.
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  We had a good time.
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  He's a really good guy.
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  Like I met him in real life.
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  Didn't meet him on the app,
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  which I'm super happy about.
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  You know, he, he lives close by.
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  He's got a child.
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  It's not a child, not really a child and,
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  you know,
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  almost up and out and all that
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  kind of stuff.
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  So yeah.
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  Yeah, we're giving it a go.
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  When you got to go, you got to go.
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  I want to know the details
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  of that whole scenario.
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  Was it a homeless person?
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  Was it somebody who was
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  trying to get to their
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  flight and just couldn't wait?
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  Did they report it to anyone
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  to get cleaned up?
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  On our way back,
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  I really wanted to go back
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  to the same elevator to see
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  if it was still there.
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  Do you hit the emergency
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  stop button so you have
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  some time without the doors opening?
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  I mean, yeah, I don't know what you do.
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  All I know is I did not
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  breathe when I was in there.
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  And that's the other thing.
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  There was an elevator right
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  across the hall.
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  Like we didn't, there was no like, Oh,
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  let's just get off and go
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  take the other one.
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  It was like, here we are.
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  This is what we're doing now.
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  Yeah.
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  Or Hey, the stairs work.
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  Right.
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  Yeah.
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  We could have done that too.
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  We ended up taking the
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  stairs up on the way back.
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  So yeah, that's good.
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  So you ended up in Fort
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  Lauderdale of all places in Florida.
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  Why Fort Lauderdale?
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  I don't know.
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  That's, that's where he chose to go.
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  He said that he usually goes
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  to Miami a lot,
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  but we just kind of wanted
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  something a little more low key.
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  So Fort Lauderdale is kind
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  of like a step down in
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  terms of action and
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  nightlife and all that.
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  And yeah, it was good.
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  A lot of pool time,
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  a lot of little bit of ocean time.
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  We found this cool bar
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  called the elbow room, which was like,
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  just like a live music dance place.
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  Yeah.
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  We had a, had a lot of fun.
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  Yeah.
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  It sounds fun.
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  It was good.
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  Um,
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  How are other things?
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  Everything else?
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  Good.
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  Work is good.
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  Working out is good.
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  When I, when I get to the gym, um,
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  I've been a little,
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  I've been missing my morning workouts,
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  but, uh, I'll be going tomorrow.
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  I usually go like Tuesday, Wednesday,
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  or Wednesday, Thursday, Friday,
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  Saturday are usually my
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  four days that I get in for sure.
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  Um,
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  And I really like the gym
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  that I'm going to for anyone CrossFit.
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  It's it's cool.
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  Like mostly people my age, not super,
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  super competitive,
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  but there are some girls
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  that I try to chase, which is always fun.
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  And, you know,
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  I'm I don't have any limitations.
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  Now.
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  I saw my surgeon last week
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  and I'm ready to go.
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  I don't know if I could do
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  four days in a row,
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  doing all the things anymore.
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  I mean, maybe three, three to four.
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  But I'm trying to keep up with them.
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  I've really kind of embraced
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  the listen to my body phase
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  of my life finally.
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  And I just do what I can do
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  when I can do it.
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  And yeah, it seems to be working.
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  Yeah.
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  And I was on an airplane yesterday,
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  so I didn't get a chance to do Murph,
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  unfortunately, but I haven't done her.
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  I mean,
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  I haven't done it fully in probably
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  three or four, maybe five or six years.
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  Anyway,
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  I would always do half Murph at my gym.
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  Yeah.
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  For all those years we traveled,
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  like Carolina and I were
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  talking about it.
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  She was either prepping for
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  a semifinal or at a
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  semifinal on Memorial Day weekend.
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  Yeah.
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  She hadn't done Murph in like five years.
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  Until last year,
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  I would say the same
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  because we were always at an event.
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  Yeah.
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  This was the first Memorial
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  Day in a while that there
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  wasn't a semifinal or
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  sanctional or whatever you
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  want to call it.
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  I know all we had was grid.
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  Right.
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  Grid.
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  Because John Young was doing
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  grid and a couple of my
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  friends have moved over to
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  the grid league.
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  We've met over the years.
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  Yeah.
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  I ended up watching a couple
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  matches on Saturday.
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  Yeah,
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  I don't think I could watch a bunch
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  of it.
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  every week but it seems like
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  they do like one big match
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  day and then they take a
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  month off and then they do
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  another match day yeah I
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  could probably handle that
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  pace were there were there
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  two teams competing or
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  there was like a multiple
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  teams it was all eight
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  teams competing okay so and
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  they just went back to back
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  to back in the same arena
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  nice are they still doing
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  are they still doing the
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  total bar chest of our combo gymnastics
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  I can actually do those,
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  believe it or not.
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  I hate to do toes to bar and
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  I can't do chest to bar very well.
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  But when I put the two of them together,
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  I actually do them pretty well.
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  It's kind of like a glide
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  tip for the chest to bar almost.
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  Maybe that's why I can do it.
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  the first race was it
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  started with ground to
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  overhead with kettlebells
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  and it was such a train
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  wreck of standardized of
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  standard movement.
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  Yeah.
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  I was like, I,
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  and I know that they're not CrossFit.
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  They don't pretend to be CrossFit.
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  They're their own thing.
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  They have their own
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  standards and you have to respect that.
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  It was so damn ugly.
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  Did it,
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  did you get to see Kelsey Kiel in
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  any of the matches?
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  She was later in the day.
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  Okay.
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  So, but like our friend, Jesse,
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  she's competing.
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  Yeah, I saw her.
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  I saw her on stuff.
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  Lauren Olson,
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  one of our first listeners
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  ever is now competing in
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  the grid league as a
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  strength expert on John Young's team.
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  And she's awesome.
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  Lauren was killing it.
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  I think the videos I've saw of Kelsey,
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  she was killing it as well.
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  Yeah, I'm sure.
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  But
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  Uh, toe to our chest of our bar muscle up.
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  Hmm.
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  Maybe I should try that.
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  Maybe that's how I'll get my
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  bar muscle up more consistent.
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  Uh, the jumping pistols were wild.
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  Yeah.
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  Uh,
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  they had John young do the jumping
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  pistols, which I was shocked.
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  Uh,
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  but maybe just because of his height
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  compared to some of the other athletes,
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  uh, to get up over that.
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  Cause it's just what a PVC
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  pipe stuck out there.
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  Um,
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  Yeah.
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  Anyway,
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  it filled a little bit of my Saturday.
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  I'm really excited for this
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  weekend to see all the things.
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  All the things.
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  All the things.
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  Eight tickets up for grabs.
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  I mean, how do you choose?
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  The men and eight tickets for the women.
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  No.
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  Two of those only get one.
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  So we have six tickets up for grabs,
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  men and women.
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  Okay.
• 16:38
  We tried to preview Far East
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  on Sunday night.
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  I don't know anybody over
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  there other than Shahir Kaya.
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  Yeah.
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  I knew none of the men
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  because half of the field
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  last year tested positive.
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  So there's like nobody left
• 16:54
  in the men's division.
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  When it comes to Africa,
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  it's Sarah and a bunch of
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  people that I don't really know.
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  And this is her last best shot.
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  Yeah.
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  I do like the fact that with
• 17:08
  all of these different time zones,
• 17:09
  I feel like we could just
• 17:10
  continually watch
• 17:12
  throughout the entire weekend something.
• 17:14
  There's always going to be something on,
• 17:16
  assuming everybody's streaming.
• 17:20
  Yeah,
• 17:20
  I don't know anything about the
• 17:21
  streaming.
• 17:25
  I know Torian will always stream.
• 17:27
  Yeah.
• 17:29
  And I know Syndicate, the Savant podcast,
• 17:31
  is streaming it.
• 17:33
  I don't know anything about
• 17:36
  far east or renegade rebel
• 17:38
  renegade no clue so yeah um
• 17:45
  syndicate's gonna be pretty
• 17:47
  good it's I thought it was
• 17:48
  a pretty reduced field
• 17:49
  because of everybody who
• 17:50
  qualified but it actually
• 17:52
  is a pretty good field um
• 17:56
  On the women's side,
• 17:56
  I think Carolyn Stanley is
• 17:58
  the one to beat.
• 18:00
  And then it's just up for
• 18:01
  grabs for that last spot with Shelby Neal,
• 18:06
  the Wells sisters, and gosh,
• 18:12
  trying to do it all from memory.
• 18:15
  She made it last year, Lexi Neely.
• 18:18
  Are we in an era where
• 18:21
  Brooke Wells isn't going to
• 18:22
  make the games?
• 18:25
  I don't think she is.
• 18:26
  Yeah, that's wild.
• 18:29
  I mean, you think about it,
• 18:30
  she's going on this,
• 18:31
  she's like in her ninth season.
• 18:35
  Do we think she should be at the games?
• 18:37
  Like,
• 18:38
  do we think that this new system is
• 18:39
  not picking is not getting
• 18:41
  the right people there
• 18:42
  because of the way it's
• 18:44
  sort of segmented who can
• 18:46
  go to which semifinal?
• 18:48
  Cause I, I kind of feel,
• 18:50
  and this doesn't have
• 18:50
  anything to do with Brooke,
• 18:51
  maybe not making it, but just in general.
• 18:54
  Well, I think that I, one,
• 18:56
  I don't think we have the
• 18:57
  right thirty going to the games.
• 18:59
  Right.
• 19:00
  OK.
• 19:01
  I don't know where Brooke is
• 19:02
  because she withdrew from
• 19:05
  everything other than the online.
• 19:07
  And then her penalties were
• 19:09
  so bad in the online that
• 19:11
  do we really even know what
• 19:12
  her capacity is anymore?
• 19:14
  Right.
• 19:15
  And I use a capacity in a funny sense.
• 19:21
  I don't know where she's at
• 19:22
  anymore at this point in her career.
• 19:24
  It's funny because Ben Smith
• 19:26
  was on Savan this morning
• 19:28
  and Savan asked this
• 19:29
  awesome question where
• 19:31
  after he won the games,
• 19:33
  did you think in your head
• 19:36
  as everybody was pulling
• 19:37
  away from you that they
• 19:39
  were all on drugs?
• 19:43
  And Ben said, I did think that really,
• 19:46
  he said,
• 19:46
  I have no knowledge to any of that.
• 19:48
  I have no,
• 19:50
  But it was either my fitness
• 19:53
  was getting that much worse
• 19:54
  or it was a trend that was
• 19:59
  unlike anything I'd seen in
• 20:01
  the history of CrossFit.
• 20:02
  Everybody kind of came in,
• 20:04
  slowly built to a capacity
• 20:06
  where they could compete,
• 20:08
  and that's where it was.
• 20:09
  Then there was this pack that came,
• 20:10
  and they pulled away super fast.
• 20:15
  And so in my head, I was like,
• 20:17
  they must all be using drugs.
• 20:19
  Wow.
• 20:20
  Then I was surprised he said it.
• 20:22
  I'm not surprised.
• 20:23
  Ben is one of those people
• 20:24
  that you don't know what
• 20:25
  Ben you're getting in that conversation.
• 20:27
  And some days he'll,
• 20:29
  he'll spit out everything.
• 20:30
  And some days he's very tight lipped.
• 20:34
  But today he just like for a
• 20:37
  legend and a CrossFit games
• 20:38
  champion to say,
• 20:40
  my thought process was they
• 20:41
  were all using is something
• 20:44
  we've never heard.
• 20:44
  I hate that.
• 20:46
  I hate that.
• 20:48
  We don't know.
• 20:52
  Yeah.
• 20:52
  I mean, and then they got into like,
• 20:54
  would he ever do it?
• 20:55
  And he said, no,
• 20:57
  it's not his character to
• 20:59
  cheat in any way, shape or form.
• 21:02
  And we've had that
• 21:03
  discussion on here before.
• 21:04
  Would you ever use.
• 21:07
  And gosh,
• 21:08
  there's part of me that if there
• 21:10
  were no side effects and I
• 21:11
  wouldn't even need it for competing,
• 21:13
  I don't need to do it to go compete.
• 21:14
  Right.
• 21:16
  I just want to look better.
• 21:19
  But.
• 21:21
  Yep.
• 21:24
  So you can feel better
• 21:27
  because feeling better is
• 21:28
  probably the bigger piece
• 21:29
  of it for me at least.
• 21:31
  Yeah.
• 21:31
  Yeah.
• 21:32
  I hate that my body is breaking down.
• 21:35
  I'm fifty five.
• 21:36
  Right.
• 21:36
  I can't do what I used to do.
• 21:39
  And if I try to do it,
• 21:40
  my body just says no.
• 21:42
  Yeah.
• 21:45
  So.
• 21:45
  We don't, I've talked about this on my,
• 21:47
  on my podcast, catching feelings too.
• 21:49
  I just feel like we were not
• 21:51
  meant to live as long as we
• 21:53
  do these days.
• 21:54
  If you think about, you know,
• 21:56
  lifespan and how it's
• 21:57
  increased over the
• 22:01
  thousands of years that
• 22:02
  we've been a species.
• 22:03
  And I just think that our
• 22:04
  biology hasn't caught up
• 22:05
  with us and that we
• 22:08
  You know, when you stop being fertile,
• 22:10
  like for women,
• 22:11
  that's you were probably
• 22:12
  supposed to die soon thereafter.
• 22:14
  You know what I mean?
• 22:14
  You probably weren't
• 22:15
  supposed to live another thirty, forty,
• 22:17
  fifty years.
• 22:19
  Not having access to all
• 22:21
  those natural hormones in
• 22:22
  your body and all the
• 22:23
  processes that go along with it.
• 22:26
  And I think because of modern medicine,
• 22:28
  you know,
• 22:28
  we're kept alive longer than we should.
• 22:30
  And our bodies just haven't
• 22:32
  our natural like biology
• 22:34
  hasn't caught up yet.
• 22:35
  that's,
• 22:36
  and so that's where the hormone
• 22:38
  replacement stuff comes into play.
• 22:39
  And it says like, okay,
• 22:40
  well we're just going to
• 22:41
  pretend like we're still fertile and,
• 22:43
  you know,
• 22:44
  enjoy life for a little bit longer.
• 22:47
  Meredith Jones says,
• 22:48
  I want things to stop hurting.
• 22:49
  That's the only reason I'd try it.
• 22:54
  It's funny cause I,
• 22:55
  I've been talking to my mom
• 22:56
  who just had a stroke like two months ago,
• 22:58
  right?
• 22:59
  She's eight years old and
• 23:01
  she's always been that person that,
• 23:03
  And I've told her story on here a ton.
• 23:06
  She's lost one hundred and fifty pounds.
• 23:08
  She started doing five K's
• 23:10
  at like sixty five.
• 23:12
  She's now eighty.
• 23:13
  She's that person just goes, goes, goes,
• 23:15
  goes,
• 23:15
  goes and has a ball of energy stroke.
• 23:18
  She just doesn't have that.
• 23:20
  And it's.
• 23:22
  I think it's leading to
• 23:24
  depression because all of a sudden,
• 23:27
  like she just can't go like she could.
• 23:30
  Right.
• 23:30
  And she.
• 23:33
  and one,
• 23:33
  I think she's too stubborn to let
• 23:35
  her body heal from the stroke.
• 23:37
  And like,
• 23:38
  so that she can go back at it again,
• 23:41
  she's trying to go at it
• 23:42
  before she's ready.
• 23:46
  Yeah.
• 23:46
  So that's, I, I,
• 23:47
  I can see it happening to her at eight.
• 23:51
  Like we weren't supposed to
• 23:52
  be running five Ks at eight.
• 23:54
  Yeah.
• 23:57
  Uh, David Johnson,
• 23:58
  if I'm not hurting
• 23:58
  somewhere from training,
• 23:59
  I feel out of shape.
• 24:03
  I start to get sore,
• 24:05
  like my back and core get
• 24:07
  sore when I stop working out.
• 24:08
  If I go for a period of time
• 24:09
  and not work out, five, six days,
• 24:11
  I start to get sore, which is weird.
• 24:14
  Yeah.
• 24:15
  What I had to learn in my
• 24:17
  mid-fifties is what's the point?
• 24:20
  Where do I go to to not hurt?
• 24:24
  Yeah.
• 24:27
  Yeah, from inactivity or from overuse.
• 24:29
  Sense enough to hurt enough
• 24:30
  where I'm supposed to hurt
• 24:33
  and not go to the point
• 24:34
  where I'm beyond that and
• 24:35
  actually injuring myself.
• 24:36
  Yes, true.
• 24:39
  That's the tough thing for me at this age.
• 24:42
  Yeah.
• 24:44
  No, it's true.
• 24:45
  And I've been drinking so much lately,
• 24:48
  like literally way more than I'm used to.
• 24:51
  And I was like afraid to get rhabdo.
• 24:55
  Cause you know how like
• 24:55
  alcohol is one of the
• 24:56
  biggest sort of factors and you know,
• 24:58
  I'm doing a hundred hang
• 25:00
  cleans or whatever else.
• 25:02
  Um, I forgot to mention,
• 25:03
  I dropped in at CrossFit
• 25:04
  Fort Lauderdale on Saturday morning.
• 25:08
  Um, great gym dogs loved it.
• 25:12
  Dogs running around like crazy.
• 25:14
  Um, in the middle of the workout,
• 25:16
  it was a partner workout.
• 25:17
  It was at calories on the
• 25:18
  echo bike while your partner.
• 25:21
  held a handstand hold.
• 25:22
  So you were, you know, like,
• 25:24
  ten calories on the bike, handstand hold,
• 25:25
  and you kind of switch
• 25:26
  until you get eighty calories.
• 25:28
  And then it was fifty power
• 25:34
  cleans at eighty-five,
• 25:37
  and then it was another
• 25:38
  eighty calories on the bike,
• 25:41
  and while you were doing that,
• 25:42
  you had to hold the barbell
• 25:43
  in a front rack.
• 25:45
  So basically, you were choking yourself,
• 25:47
  right,
• 25:47
  while the other person was doing
• 25:48
  the bike.
• 25:50
  there was an odd number.
• 25:51
  So I just kind of like
• 25:52
  shadowed these two girls, but I told them,
• 25:54
  I was like, don't pay attention to me.
• 25:55
  Just kind of do your own thing.
• 25:56
  I'm going to be over here
• 25:57
  going back and forth with my stuff.
• 25:59
  And in the middle of the workout,
• 26:00
  this woman from the back of the gym,
• 26:01
  she's on an echo bike.
• 26:03
  Um,
• 26:03
  there was like a big section behind
• 26:05
  where people were doing
• 26:05
  open gym and just kind of
• 26:07
  hanging out from the last class.
• 26:08
  She comes over to me and
• 26:09
  starts talking to me in the
• 26:10
  middle of the workout.
• 26:11
  She's a,
• 26:12
  she's a judge from like the games in
• 26:20
  she recognized me and we
• 26:21
  started chatting like in
• 26:23
  the middle of the workout.
• 26:23
  It was fine.
• 26:24
  Like I was in the middle of
• 26:24
  doing my echo bike and she
• 26:25
  just comes over and chats
• 26:26
  and we're talking about
• 26:27
  whatever the head coach had
• 26:29
  a granite games,
• 26:31
  twenty twenty two judges shirt.
• 26:33
  And I said, oh, did the coach judge, too?
• 26:35
  She goes, no, that's my shirt.
• 26:37
  She said,
• 26:38
  I kept all my originals and gave
• 26:39
  all my extra ones away to
• 26:41
  people at the gym.
• 26:43
  She's like, I know it says judge,
• 26:44
  but that's fine.
• 26:45
  She lives there.
• 26:46
  She lives in Fort Lauderdale.
• 26:47
  It was just so random, like
• 26:49
  how we make connections with
• 26:50
  people in this sport and in
• 26:51
  this space and that she
• 26:53
  recognized me and said,
• 26:54
  I recognize her too,
• 26:55
  but I couldn't really
• 26:56
  figure out maybe where I knew her from.
• 26:59
  Yeah, Andrew, I think it was Olga.
• 27:01
  Blonde, blonde hair, short, super cute,
• 27:05
  red lips, like the whole bit.
• 27:07
  Yeah, she's adorable.
• 27:08
  I mean, she's probably late fifties,
• 27:11
  early sixties.
• 27:14
  Ken says,
• 27:15
  where does it say we weren't
• 27:16
  supposed to be running five
• 27:17
  Ks in the eighties?
• 27:19
  I did Murph with a vest Friday,
• 27:20
  half Murph partner without
• 27:22
  a vest yesterday.
• 27:23
  I don't,
• 27:23
  I'm not saying we were not supposed to.
• 27:26
  I think we're just, we're beating age.
• 27:31
  I think what Kat is saying
• 27:32
  is we're beating age beyond
• 27:34
  what we have in the past
• 27:35
  and how to handle that at a
• 27:37
  later years is, is harder to understand.
• 27:45
  Yeah.
• 27:46
  It's a big flex, Ken.
• 27:46
  Two marks on a weekend.
• 27:51
  Yeah.
• 27:52
  Trying to make us all look bad.
• 27:58
  The other thing Ben Smith
• 28:00
  said today was that Gabby
• 28:01
  Magawa is working out at Krypton.
• 28:04
  Oh.
• 28:05
  Still.
• 28:06
  Nice.
• 28:06
  I like that.
• 28:08
  Well,
• 28:08
  she was doing that with Laura way
• 28:10
  back when, right?
• 28:11
  Right.
• 28:11
  But he also said he hasn't
• 28:12
  talked to Laura since the
• 28:14
  games and not that he, like he's,
• 28:17
  he wanted it clear.
• 28:18
  Like he's not mad at her or
• 28:19
  there's no issue between the two of them.
• 28:21
  Right.
• 28:22
  But he's team Gabby with grief.
• 28:25
  Everybody deals with grief
• 28:26
  in different ways.
• 28:27
  And so whatever, but, um, uh,
• 28:33
  Jay Birch says, uh,
• 28:34
  Ken can do that because he,
• 28:35
  all the scallops and onions he eats.
• 28:41
  Can't eat a ribeye every day, I thought,
• 28:42
  for lunch.
• 28:47
  My son was home for a week.
• 28:50
  And of course,
• 28:51
  the weekend that I decided to go away,
• 28:52
  he's home.
• 28:53
  And you guys know how much I
• 28:54
  want to spend time with him.
• 28:55
  But he actually stayed at my
• 28:56
  apartment while I was here.
• 28:57
  And he drove my car around
• 28:59
  because his truck is not that reliable.
• 29:02
  And so the reasons how you
• 29:04
  know that your twenty two
• 29:06
  year old son stayed at your
• 29:07
  apartment and drove your car all weekend.
• 29:09
  without actually knowing
• 29:10
  that that's what he did.
• 29:11
  I came home to the apartment.
• 29:13
  The thermostat was at sixty
• 29:14
  five degrees because he had
• 29:17
  jacked that down.
• 29:19
  The steaks and the chicken
• 29:21
  thighs were all gone from the fridge.
• 29:23
  There was a there were two clean pots,
• 29:26
  mind you,
• 29:26
  a skillet and a frying pan on
• 29:30
  the on the thing.
• 29:32
  The Diet Dr. Pepper from the
• 29:34
  pantry was gone.
• 29:35
  was a random razor hanging
• 29:37
  out like in the bathroom
• 29:39
  the towels were not where
• 29:39
  they were supposed to be um
• 29:42
  what else did I find oh in
• 29:44
  the car there was a there
• 29:46
  were two three empty ghost
• 29:48
  drink bottles you know from
• 29:50
  his pre-workouts whatever
• 29:53
  um and I couldn't find my
• 29:54
  phone charger so that's
• 29:56
  signs that your
• 29:57
  twenty-two-year-old stayed
• 29:58
  with you yeah anytime my
• 30:00
  daughter comes we lose five
• 30:02
  or six chargers yeah
• 30:05
  I mean, I did tell him to help himself,
• 30:06
  obviously.
• 30:06
  I mean, I thought the meat form,
• 30:07
  I knew he would,
• 30:08
  I know he would eat all
• 30:09
  that and everything else,
• 30:10
  but he did a pretty good job.
• 30:11
  He like straightened up a little bit.
• 30:13
  He didn't quite make the bed, but, uh,
• 30:16
  he's getting, he's getting,
• 30:18
  starting to get a lot of
• 30:19
  followers on TikTok too.
• 30:20
  He's looking fierce.
• 30:23
  Um,
• 30:23
  I keep asking him if he's going to like
• 30:25
  think about competing, um,
• 30:27
  in bodybuilding.
• 30:27
  And I really hope that he
• 30:29
  does because he looks really,
• 30:30
  really cool.
• 30:32
  Kind of trying to see, I'll put his, uh,
• 30:36
  I'll put his TikTok account on there.
• 30:38
  If anybody's on TikTok,
• 30:39
  they should go follow him.
• 30:42
  Let me see what it is.
• 30:45
  I think it's Braden something.
• 30:47
  Mine would be all the beer
• 30:48
  and food is gone.
• 30:49
  Yeah.
• 30:51
  He doesn't drink and he's always on a cut.
• 30:53
  I took him out to dinner on
• 30:54
  Thursday night and he
• 30:56
  picked the most expensive
• 30:59
  restaurant in the area that
• 31:01
  I had never been to before.
• 31:03
  And again, he orders the
• 31:06
  The prime ribeye,
• 31:11
  it's like seventy two dollars.
• 31:13
  He gets it rare.
• 31:16
  I bought,
• 31:16
  here let me put this thing in here,
• 31:18
  lifting.
• 31:19
  This is his TikTok, lifting.
• 31:25
  I got like an artichoke
• 31:25
  appetizer and it had like
• 31:27
  oil and butter on it or something.
• 31:28
  He like wouldn't eat it, wouldn't eat it.
• 31:31
  It wasn't prime rib, it was a ribeye steak,
• 31:35
  rare.
• 31:37
  And then of course we have
• 31:37
  to get like the carpaccio
• 31:39
  because he's bougie like that.
• 31:43
  And then no dessert.
• 31:46
  But I'm pretty sure our
• 31:47
  dinner was more expensive
• 31:48
  than like the most
• 31:49
  expensive dinner we had in Florida.
• 31:51
  And Florida is pretty expensive.
• 32:01
  Okay, I'm done promoting him.
• 32:08
  Yeah.
• 32:14
  He is, he's pretty ripped.
• 32:17
  He works so hard.
• 32:18
  He really does.
• 32:19
  I mean, he's enhanced too.
• 32:20
  Let's face it.
• 32:20
  He's in the bodybuilding world.
• 32:22
  So he does some shit,
• 32:23
  but he's constantly working out.
• 32:28
  Now, if I could just get him to get a job,
• 32:30
  that would be amazing.
• 32:33
  Yeah.
• 32:33
  Yeah.
• 32:37
  Gosh,
• 32:37
  I don't know if I should say this on air,
• 32:39
  but I probably will because
• 32:40
  I'm just open.
• 32:42
  We've been talking with my
• 32:43
  daughter a lot because
• 32:44
  she's out in Montana doing
• 32:46
  the whole thing.
• 32:47
  Julie and I have picked up
• 32:49
  finally the final season of
• 32:51
  Yellowstone because it
• 32:52
  makes us feel closer to her.
• 32:55
  So we're finishing up that.
• 32:58
  But she's like the happiest
• 33:00
  I've ever seen her.
• 33:02
  since graduating high school.
• 33:05
  And she loves her job.
• 33:06
  She loves it in Montana.
• 33:07
  She's just loving everything.
• 33:09
  She gets a letter from the ex-boyfriend.
• 33:13
  And he wants to buy a ring
• 33:18
  and wants to buy a house in
• 33:20
  Montana with his military
• 33:22
  money and have her live in
• 33:27
  it until he gets out of the Navy.
• 33:30
  And I'm just like,
• 33:32
  she she'd kind of moved into
• 33:34
  like not needing a man and
• 33:39
  just doing her thing and,
• 33:42
  and as happy as she could ever be.
• 33:44
  Yeah.
• 33:45
  And now this letter comes and she's,
• 33:49
  and now she's like distraught.
• 33:51
  What do I do?
• 33:52
  It like,
• 33:53
  she's actually horrified that he got,
• 33:56
  that he sent this letter.
• 33:59
  Like, cause she's not ready for that.
• 34:00
  She goes, I'm twenty four years old.
• 34:02
  I'm not ready for that commitment.
• 34:04
  And so like, yeah,
• 34:07
  he fumbled and he's
• 34:08
  realizing it now that it
• 34:10
  happens all the time.
• 34:11
  That sucks because it's
• 34:12
  always happens just when
• 34:13
  you're like over the hump
• 34:15
  and you're feeling good.
• 34:17
  That sucks.
• 34:20
  How did, so what is she?
• 34:21
  So Meredith,
• 34:22
  he's in basic training right now.
• 34:23
  So he doesn't have access to
• 34:26
  social media or a phone.
• 34:28
  Uh,
• 34:28
  he only gets like a one phone call
• 34:31
  every two weeks.
• 34:34
  And it's because all of this separation,
• 34:37
  I think is why he feels this way now.
• 34:40
  Right.
• 34:42
  Cause he can't even talk to her.
• 34:45
  Um,
• 34:47
  I'm just,
• 34:48
  I want to be a parent to her and say,
• 34:52
  don't fall into this trap.
• 34:54
  But I know if I say it directly to her,
• 34:58
  like it's, she's not going to listen.
• 35:01
  She's going to go the opposite direction.
• 35:03
  Right.
• 35:03
  So how do I do, how do I do that?
• 35:06
  And Heidi is asking, is he a good guy?
• 35:09
  The reason they broke up is not,
• 35:11
  was not for good reasons.
• 35:14
  Right.
• 35:15
  You mean, no,
• 35:16
  you mean it was a good reason,
• 35:17
  but he was not being a good guy.
• 35:18
  Correct.
• 35:19
  Okay.
• 35:19
  Correct.
• 35:20
  So the answer to Heidi's
• 35:21
  question before Christmas.
• 35:24
  Yeah.
• 35:25
  Right.
• 35:25
  He broke up while they broke up together.
• 35:27
  It was a mutual kind of thing,
• 35:29
  but it was for,
• 35:30
  for things that he did that
• 35:31
  were not good.
• 35:34
  And I think she's finally
• 35:35
  realizing all of this stuff
• 35:37
  and that she didn't need him.
• 35:39
  And now he drops this bomb and,
• 35:43
  while everything's going
• 35:45
  awesome for her yeah she
• 35:47
  doesn't need that uh yeah
• 35:47
  he's missing anything that
• 35:53
  seems normal compared to
• 35:54
  being in boot camp yeah but
• 35:56
  what a hard thing for her
• 35:57
  to have to deal with now
• 35:58
  because well and and they
• 36:03
  were they did kind of get
• 36:04
  to like a friend state
• 36:06
  before he went into base to basic
• 36:10
  and and she promised to come
• 36:12
  to his graduation and
• 36:14
  that's when he wants to go
• 36:15
  ring shopping during that
• 36:17
  weekend which comes up next
• 36:19
  month it's in june sometime
• 36:23
  and I I'm just this just
• 36:25
  have I just found out about
• 36:26
  it before we went on the
• 36:27
  air like literally five
• 36:28
  minutes before we went on
• 36:29
  the air yeah um and I go
• 36:31
  out on a couple dates with somebody else
• 36:35
  Well,
• 36:35
  she's made like a ton of good friends.
• 36:39
  Like they hang out.
• 36:41
  They go on hikes.
• 36:42
  They do pool days.
• 36:45
  Like she's just having a blast.
• 36:48
  And I think that that's why
• 36:49
  she's horrified.
• 36:50
  And hopefully it stays that
• 36:52
  way for the right reason.
• 36:57
  Clock,
• 36:58
  I made some weird phone calls from
• 36:59
  boot camp myself to former girlfriends.
• 37:04
  Yeah.
• 37:06
  we're seeing it firsthand
• 37:08
  and I just she's my only
• 37:11
  kid you know I just I you
• 37:16
  know I'm still protective
• 37:17
  dad even though she's a
• 37:19
  grown woman um I just hope
• 37:22
  she sees the truth in this
• 37:24
  whole thing but thank god
• 37:28
  she doesn't ever listen to
• 37:29
  my show because she would
• 37:31
  she would literally murder
• 37:32
  me for me talking about it on this show
• 37:35
  Yeah.
• 37:36
  My,
• 37:36
  my kids don't listen to my shows either.
• 37:39
  Unless we're talking about dating.
• 37:41
  She needs to keep reminding
• 37:43
  herself about why they
• 37:44
  broke up in the first place.
• 37:47
  Well, and again,
• 37:47
  like her initial reaction
• 37:48
  was she was horrified that
• 37:49
  he even brought up a ring
• 37:51
  and getting married at this
• 37:53
  point in their life.
• 37:55
  So hopefully we stay in that direction,
• 37:58
  but man.
• 37:59
  Yeah.
• 38:00
  She has to realize that
• 38:01
  that's like not an
• 38:02
  appropriate thing to be talking about.
• 38:05
  And you know when your kid
• 38:07
  is finally happy and like
• 38:09
  in the place they want to
• 38:10
  be and everything's going well,
• 38:12
  you're just so excited for
• 38:13
  them and you don't want
• 38:14
  anything to block that from continuing.
• 38:20
  But yeah.
• 38:25
  And on a bonus, she's doing so well,
• 38:27
  like she is taking herself
• 38:29
  off our car insurance.
• 38:30
  Oh, good.
• 38:32
  She's going to start paying
• 38:33
  for her phone bill.
• 38:34
  Part of our phone bill.
• 38:36
  Big girl stuff.
• 38:36
  That's awesome.
• 38:38
  That's awesome.
• 38:39
  My daughter texted me.
• 38:41
  She's been working at the rest.
• 38:43
  She works at a restaurant
• 38:43
  and she only gets like two
• 38:44
  shifts a week because she's in school.
• 38:46
  But now the school's over
• 38:47
  and all the other students
• 38:48
  that were working there
• 38:49
  have gone home for the summer.
• 38:50
  And she sort of still lives
• 38:52
  near campus anyway.
• 38:54
  She sent me a text,
• 38:55
  I think on Sunday night, maybe.
• 38:57
  And she said, mom,
• 38:58
  I made eighteen hundred
• 38:59
  dollars this week in tips.
• 39:01
  And I was like,
• 39:02
  Oh shit.
• 39:03
  Okay.
• 39:03
  You go.
• 39:05
  So she's going to have a
• 39:06
  really good summer.
• 39:07
  She keeps that up.
• 39:10
  Jay Birch.
• 39:10
  I have two thirty one year old girls.
• 39:12
  You will always have those
• 39:13
  same fatherly concerns.
• 39:18
  Thanks for letting me know that Jay Birch.
• 39:22
  Jay Birch has twin girls.
• 39:23
  That's cool.
• 39:27
  I want to know how Jay Birch is doing.
• 39:30
  They moved to be closer to
• 39:32
  one of his daughters and
• 39:34
  then his wife got called
• 39:35
  back into office and now
• 39:37
  they have to move back to
• 39:40
  where they lived before.
• 39:42
  Oh, that stinks.
• 39:43
  Yeah.
• 39:44
  And trust me, I'd live that life.
• 39:46
  I'm waiting for the call any
• 39:47
  day now to go back to the office.
• 39:51
  Yeah.
• 39:51
  I hate to rub it in,
• 39:52
  but I work for a company
• 39:53
  that will absolutely never
• 39:55
  have us back in.
• 39:56
  Yeah.
• 39:57
  which is amazing.
• 40:00
  I figure I got like eight or
• 40:01
  nine more years.
• 40:01
  I can do this for eight or
• 40:02
  nine more years and then just be done.
• 40:04
  But literally I think I could go anywhere.
• 40:09
  We're making it work.
• 40:13
  Crazy.
• 40:16
  That's not an unusual concept, right?
• 40:17
  To want to go where your kids are.
• 40:19
  to be closer to your kids
• 40:21
  right we've we've actually
• 40:23
  talked about like once we
• 40:25
  retired moving to my if
• 40:26
  she's going to stay in
• 40:27
  montana yeah like I have
• 40:29
  nothing holding me here in
• 40:30
  columbus right this is not
• 40:33
  where I grew up we might
• 40:35
  probably move out there with her yeah
• 40:46
  Yeah.
• 40:46
  I just, um, that concept, the, the,
• 40:49
  the concept of not agreeing
• 40:50
  with that doesn't make
• 40:51
  sense to me at all.
• 40:52
  I've been in,
• 40:52
  I've been with people before
• 40:54
  who thought I was
• 40:55
  absolutely crazy for wanting to, you know,
• 40:58
  see where my daughter landed,
• 40:59
  see where my son landed and
• 41:01
  go somewhere in between to
• 41:03
  be closer to them.
• 41:06
  Like, and to me,
• 41:06
  that seems completely reasonable.
• 41:08
  And to most of the people that I talked to,
• 41:10
  that seems completely reasonable.
• 41:11
  So I don't
• 41:19
  mean that's she's my family
• 41:21
  right we only have one kid
• 41:22
  yeah scott's having an
• 41:32
  asthma attack this
• 41:33
  cottonwood season has been
• 41:35
  so bad this year and it's
• 41:37
  supposed to rain and it'll
• 41:39
  knock it all down yeah and
• 41:41
  it's supposed to do that
• 41:41
  this afternoon I I'm
• 41:43
  looking forward to that
• 41:45
  Oh, I forgot to tell you.
• 41:46
  So I met this,
• 41:48
  we're at this place for
• 41:50
  dinner one night and this
• 41:52
  woman was sitting next to
• 41:53
  me and she got this
• 41:54
  beautiful lobster salad.
• 41:56
  Oh my God.
• 41:58
  It was like a lobster green goddess salad.
• 41:59
  It's a seafood place.
• 42:00
  We've got like stone crabs
• 42:01
  and a bunch of other seafood.
• 42:04
  Anyway, she was adorable,
• 42:05
  this cute little blonde.
• 42:06
  And then there was a seat in
• 42:08
  between her and then this
• 42:09
  young guy sitting next to
• 42:10
  her and he started chatting with her.
• 42:12
  He was very young, probably like,
• 42:16
  late twenties.
• 42:17
  And I pictured her to be
• 42:18
  probably like late thirties,
• 42:20
  early forties.
• 42:20
  And so they were chatting and he was,
• 42:22
  you know,
• 42:22
  you could just hear them sort of
• 42:24
  back and forth.
• 42:24
  I heard her say that she lived in Ohio,
• 42:26
  but that she's in Florida all the time.
• 42:28
  And he said that he was from California,
• 42:30
  but he had just moved to Florida.
• 42:31
  And so EJ and I are like listening,
• 42:34
  like part of the
• 42:35
  entertainment of us going
• 42:36
  out and like sitting at bars is to like
• 42:39
  watch other couples and try
• 42:40
  to figure out you know like
• 42:41
  what their dynamic is are
• 42:42
  they on a first date are
• 42:43
  they married do they hate
• 42:45
  each other do they like
• 42:46
  each other and all that
• 42:47
  kind of stuff so we love to
• 42:48
  people watch um and just
• 42:50
  observe and comment so
• 42:52
  we're listening to this
• 42:53
  woman talk to this guy and
• 42:54
  I'm next to the lady and
• 42:55
  I'm sort of looking over
• 42:56
  and thinking this guy's
• 42:58
  really cute and I'm like
• 42:59
  rooting for her I turned to
• 43:00
  ej and I was like you know
• 43:01
  what I'm like rooting for
• 43:02
  this to happen and uh
• 43:04
  So I think he got up,
• 43:06
  the guy she was talking to
• 43:07
  either got up or like
• 43:08
  stopped talking to her, got his food.
• 43:10
  And I turned to her and I was like, hey,
• 43:11
  I said, do you know that guy?
• 43:14
  You know, I said,
• 43:15
  are you here by yourself?
• 43:15
  And I just kind of struck up
• 43:16
  a conversation with her.
• 43:18
  Long story short, she's from Columbus.
• 43:21
  Right.
• 43:22
  She lives in some
• 43:23
  neighborhood that I had
• 43:23
  never heard of before
• 43:24
  because I'm like drop.
• 43:25
  I'm like, oh, do you live in Dublin?
• 43:27
  You know,
• 43:27
  like acting like I know all the
• 43:28
  suburbs of Ohio.
• 43:30
  But she's got two kids at Ohio State.
• 43:31
  She has another one that graduated.
• 43:33
  She was fifty two years old.
• 43:36
  And when I say I mean,
• 43:37
  I know you guys are so
• 43:38
  sweet and say that I don't
• 43:38
  look fifty two.
• 43:39
  She did not look fifty two whatsoever.
• 43:42
  She looked like a younger
• 43:46
  version of Kelsey Grammer's wife,
• 43:49
  Camille.
• 43:50
  kind of like the blonde,
• 43:52
  tiny little petite,
• 43:53
  but like cute little body.
• 43:55
  But she couldn't have looked
• 43:56
  a day over like thirty five.
• 43:58
  I swear to God,
• 43:59
  when I started talking to her,
• 44:00
  she was fifty two.
• 44:02
  And she was she was saying to me,
• 44:04
  she's like, he's too young.
• 44:05
  He's really cute and everything.
• 44:06
  But, you know, he's too young.
• 44:07
  He probably wants kids like
• 44:09
  it was the exact same thing
• 44:10
  that would be going through
• 44:10
  my mind when I if I was
• 44:12
  talking to someone like in
• 44:13
  their early forties.
• 44:15
  But this kid was like had
• 44:17
  couldn't have been thirty
• 44:17
  years old if he was a day old.
• 44:20
  I just thought it was cute.
• 44:26
  But yeah, floored me.
• 44:28
  Fifty-two.
• 44:28
  Crazy.
• 44:28
  It kind of goes back to what we said.
• 44:34
  Our bodies weren't geared to
• 44:37
  do all these things or
• 44:38
  doing it later in life.
• 44:40
  And everybody's looking
• 44:41
  younger because of it.
• 44:43
  Yeah.
• 44:43
  She looked amazing.
• 44:46
  Anyway, I wanted to stay.
• 44:47
  And then I remember we like
• 44:48
  left for the bathroom and I
• 44:49
  got a chance to say goodbye to her.
• 44:50
  And then EJ like whispered
• 44:51
  something in her ear when we left.
• 44:53
  He was like, good luck.
• 44:54
  We were,
• 44:55
  we so wanted them to get together.
• 44:56
  Now I can't, like,
• 44:57
  I don't know what's going to happen.
• 44:59
  I wish I knew.
• 45:00
  I wish I knew what suburb she was in.
• 45:02
  Right.
• 45:03
  If you name a couple, I would recognize it,
• 45:05
  but it was a name I'd never
• 45:05
  heard before that I
• 45:06
  probably couldn't spell.
• 45:11
  Hilliard.
• 45:12
  No, it wasn't Hilliard.
• 45:13
  Literally a word that I've never heard of.
• 45:15
  before.
• 45:16
  Well, what?
• 45:18
  Gahanna?
• 45:19
  Yes, it was that.
• 45:19
  Okay.
• 45:20
  Yeah.
• 45:21
  Yeah.
• 45:23
  Gahanna is right by Rogue.
• 45:27
  Oh, okay.
• 45:28
  See,
• 45:28
  if I'd known that I would have said
• 45:29
  something.
• 45:30
  She could have done CrossFit
• 45:30
  for all I know.
• 45:31
  I didn't get a chance to
• 45:32
  talk to her long enough.
• 45:32
  Rogue is just west in the city limits.
• 45:36
  And if you keep going out east,
• 45:38
  you'll run into Gahanna.
• 45:39
  Got it.
• 45:39
  Okay.
• 45:40
  Okay.
• 45:43
  I, sir, have to bail.
• 45:44
  I have a one o'clock meeting.
• 45:45
  It was a pleasure joining you.
• 45:46
  Thank you for your time.
• 45:48
  I have a meeting too.
• 45:50
  But just real quick,
• 45:50
  maybe our bodies were
• 45:52
  designed to live this long,
• 45:53
  but it took us this long to
• 45:54
  figure out how to do it.
• 45:56
  Perhaps.
• 45:57
  We're doing it.
• 45:58
  Yeah, there it is.
• 45:59
  We're doing it.
• 46:00
  Guys, this was fun.
• 46:01
  Thank you so much for all being here.
• 46:03
  And we'll see everybody
• 46:04
  tomorrow on Lunch with the Clydesdale.
• 46:06
  Bye, guys.