Latest / INSIGHT FOR LIVING: Biblical Wisdom For Everyday Living / What Does It Mean to “Really Live” │ Msg 512 - Pastor Chuck Swindoll Insight for Living
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- 0:00Speaker 1: What does it mean to really live? Well, some people
- 0:04Speaker 1: say it takes money to really live, because money can
- 0:08Speaker 1: buy the good life. But since when is the good
- 0:11Speaker 1: life the same as the real life? Others would say,
- 0:16Speaker 1: real living belongs to the vibrant young. So smoothing out
- 0:21Speaker 1: our wrinkles and tucking in our tummies and combing our
- 0:25Speaker 1: hair over our ball spot, we do what we can
- 0:28Speaker 1: to stay young and not fall behind in the fast
- 0:31Speaker 1: lane of youth. Right, But since when is the fast
- 0:35Speaker 1: life the same as the real life? I can hear
- 0:41Speaker 1: a few say, listen, a life of comfort and ease,
- 0:44Speaker 1: swinging in the old hammock out back and sipping a cool,
- 0:49Speaker 1: tall glass of lemonade under a shade tree, Now that
- 0:54Speaker 1: is living. Yet do we really think a sleepy, pampered
- 0:59Speaker 1: life and a hammock is the real life? How about
- 1:05Speaker 1: the educated life? Is that the real life? Or the
- 1:08Speaker 1: productive or the organized life? Do any of those pursuits
- 1:14Speaker 1: define what it means to really live? If we ask
- 1:20Speaker 1: God that question, I'm honest here, I think it'd probably
- 1:24Speaker 1: shake his head. No, none of that constitutes real living. Unfortunately,
- 1:31Speaker 1: humanity rarely turns to him for his thoughts on the matter.
- 1:36Speaker 1: Even though he is our maker. But turning to our
- 1:41Speaker 1: Maker's word is what I want us to do today.
- 1:44Speaker 1: So please, if you have a Bible handy, locate First
- 1:48Speaker 1: Thessalonians chapter three. I want you to listen as I
- 1:53Speaker 1: read for you the last six verses of First Thessalonians three,
- 1:58Speaker 1: beginning at verse eight. For now we really live if
- 2:03Speaker 1: you stand firm in the Lord. For what things can
- 2:08Speaker 1: we render to God for you in return for all
- 2:11Speaker 1: the joy with which we rejoice before our God on
- 2:14Speaker 1: your account? As we night and day, keep praying most
- 2:19Speaker 1: earnestly that we may see your face and may complete
- 2:24Speaker 1: what is lacking in your faith. Now, may our God
- 2:29Speaker 1: and Father himself and Jesus our Lord, direct our way
- 2:33Speaker 1: to you. And may the Lord cause you to increase
- 2:37Speaker 1: and abound in love for one another and for all people,
- 2:42Speaker 1: just as we also do for you, so that He
- 2:46Speaker 1: may establish your hearts without blame in holiness before our
- 2:51Speaker 1: God and Father at the coming of our Lord Jesus
- 2:54Speaker 1: with all his saints. What does it mean to really live?
- 3:00Speaker 1: I mean, what does it take? Well, many would say
- 3:04Speaker 1: it takes money. If you want to have the good life,
- 3:10Speaker 1: you need a lot of money. At age sixty nine,
- 3:16Speaker 1: Sophie Tucker said, from birth to eighteen, a girl needs
- 3:20Speaker 1: good parents. From eighteen to thirty five, she needs good looks.
- 3:24Speaker 1: From thirty five to fifty five, she needs a good personality.
- 3:28Speaker 1: From fifty five on, she needs cash. If you want
- 3:34Speaker 1: to enjoy the good life, you got to have cash.
- 3:37Speaker 1: You got to have the bucks. But since when is
- 3:40Speaker 1: the good life the real life? Since when is having
- 3:48Speaker 1: a lot of money really living? Just as many would
- 3:54Speaker 1: say when asked the question, what does it take to
- 3:56Speaker 1: really live? Just as many who would say money, he
- 4:00Speaker 1: would probably say youth. It takes youth. If you plan
- 4:04Speaker 1: to keep up in this day and age of speed
- 4:07Speaker 1: and change and innovation, you have to stay young. You
- 4:11Speaker 1: have to look young, You have to be young. The
- 4:14Speaker 1: world is leaving behind those that are getting older. Far
- 4:18Speaker 1: too many could have written on their tombstone, died at
- 4:22Speaker 1: thirty one, buried at seventy three. Far too many people
- 4:26Speaker 1: die before they're buried. You've got to stay alert, you've
- 4:30Speaker 1: got to stay alive. You've got to be young. But
- 4:35Speaker 1: who's to say that the fast life is the real life.
- 4:43Speaker 1: Who's to say that being young provides real living? I
- 4:49Speaker 1: know a seventeen year old youngster who wouldn't say that.
- 4:52Speaker 1: A junior in high school wrote Anne Landers this letter.
- 4:57Speaker 1: I don't care what you do with this letter, don't.
- 4:59Speaker 1: You don't even have to read it if you don't
- 5:01Speaker 1: want to, but I have to write it. A lot
- 5:05Speaker 1: of people wonder why anyone my age would want to
- 5:07Speaker 1: commit suicide. Most of us have a decent life, and
- 5:11Speaker 1: it seemed like a crazy thing to do. But it
- 5:15Speaker 1: doesn't seem so crazy to me. I'm a guy who
- 5:18Speaker 1: wishes he didn't have to get up every morning and
- 5:21Speaker 1: face the day. I'm empty, useless, and tired of struggling.
- 5:27Speaker 1: I feel like I'm in everybody's way, and I don't
- 5:29Speaker 1: think anybody would give up. I'll say rip if I
- 5:33Speaker 1: disappeared from the face of the earth. I have no
- 5:36Speaker 1: idea why I was born, and I don't fit in
- 5:40Speaker 1: any place. I know you can't do anything about all this,
- 5:43Speaker 1: but I wanted to explain it to somebody. I wanted
- 5:47Speaker 1: to explain what goes through a person's mind before he
- 5:49Speaker 1: pulls the trigger or swallows one too many pills. Signed
- 5:53Speaker 1: a non person. No, it's not the answer. The answer
- 6:00Speaker 1: isn't to be young. If you want the real life,
- 6:05Speaker 1: just as many who would say money or youth would
- 6:08Speaker 1: say comfort. I want it easy. That's the real life.
- 6:14Speaker 1: I remember, and I smile when I say that. I
- 6:16Speaker 1: remember our oldest daughter when we would go camping, when
- 6:19Speaker 1: she was very, very small. She could hardly wait for
- 6:23Speaker 1: us to get the tent up and everything in place
- 6:25Speaker 1: so that I could hang the hammock and I would
- 6:28Speaker 1: wrap her in a big, warm blanket, and then I
- 6:31Speaker 1: would place her in this hammock and she'd snuggle up
- 6:35Speaker 1: and put her index finger in her mouth. I know
- 6:39Speaker 1: she'll be thrilled to have me announce to the world
- 6:41Speaker 1: that she sucked her index finger, never her thumb. And
- 6:46Speaker 1: then she would mouth out the side of her mouth
- 6:48Speaker 1: to me, Daddy, this is living. I'd push her in
- 6:54Speaker 1: the hammock and she'd be wrapped up in the blanket
- 6:58Speaker 1: with her little finger in her mouth. But who's to
- 7:02Speaker 1: say the comforting life or the comfortable life is the
- 7:06Speaker 1: real life. I mean, you could name a half dozen
- 7:12Speaker 1: other things. Some would say education, the educated life, Now
- 7:16Speaker 1: that's real living. You and I know a lot of
- 7:18Speaker 1: educated people who aren't really living. Some would say it
- 7:24Speaker 1: takes a job, a job that satisfies and a job
- 7:28Speaker 1: that makes you productive. Who's to say the productive life
- 7:31Speaker 1: is the real life. I know a lot of productive
- 7:33Speaker 1: people who are burning the candle on both ends, and
- 7:36Speaker 1: they're not very fulfilled. There are some who would say,
- 7:42Speaker 1: what it takes as goals and objectives? You get those
- 7:44Speaker 1: in place, like ducks in a row, you can make tracks.
- 7:47Speaker 1: Who's to say the organized life is the real life?
- 7:53Speaker 1: What does it take to really live? Now? I find
- 7:55Speaker 1: it nothing short of remarkable that so few people ask
- 7:59Speaker 1: God that question, Honest to goodness, the one who holds
- 8:03Speaker 1: the patent on our bodies, the one who made us
- 8:06Speaker 1: with our personality, the one who put life together as
- 8:09Speaker 1: we know it today, he's seldom counseled on that. And
- 8:13Speaker 1: you know the result. We substitute left to ourselves. We
- 8:19Speaker 1: don't ask for help. We substitute the artificial for the authentic. Now,
- 8:25Speaker 1: that's not my idea. Solomon was the first to write
- 8:28Speaker 1: about it over in the journal that he kept named Ecclesiastes.
- 8:33Speaker 1: Will you turn to chapter seven and the last verse
- 8:36Speaker 1: of Ecclesiastes seven if you're not familiar with your Bible,
- 8:40Speaker 1: it's just beyond Psalms and the book of proverbs. Tucked
- 8:45Speaker 1: in there is the Journal of Solomon, and in it
- 8:49Speaker 1: he makes a comment about how we tend to substitute.
- 8:53Speaker 1: And then in a moment, I want to give you
- 8:54Speaker 1: a couple or three substitutions we invariably make in life.
- 8:58Speaker 1: They are called here devices devices. Look at eccles Astes
- 9:04Speaker 1: seven nine. Behold. When you read that in scripture, it's
- 9:07Speaker 1: another way of saying, listen up or attention everybody. Behold.
- 9:13Speaker 1: I have found only this, that God has made man upright,
- 9:21Speaker 1: nothing wrong with that. But those who who are made
- 9:28Speaker 1: upright have sought out many devices. The Living Bible says,
- 9:36Speaker 1: though God has made men upright, each has turned away
- 9:40Speaker 1: to follow his own downward road. The Good News Bible reads,
- 9:45Speaker 1: God made us plain and simple, but we have made
- 9:49Speaker 1: ourselves very complicated. The New International Version. If you carry that,
- 9:56Speaker 1: you read God made mankind upright, but men have gone
- 10:00Speaker 1: in search of many schemes. The reason those paraphrases and
- 10:05Speaker 1: versions read like that is because of the use of
- 10:07Speaker 1: the term kashav, which means to invent translated devices in
- 10:14Speaker 1: noun form inventions devices. It's used for example of creating
- 10:24Speaker 1: instruments of music. In scripture, it's used in the Old
- 10:29Speaker 1: Testament for creating works of art. It's used for making
- 10:36Speaker 1: implements of warfare. Usaijah was one king who devised implements
- 10:43Speaker 1: of warfare and implemented them during his reign, and they
- 10:48Speaker 1: were effective. He invented them. Nothing wrong with works of art,
- 10:55Speaker 1: instruments of music, or implements of warfare to defend the nation.
- 11:00Speaker 1: But the root term translated to invent is really the
- 11:04Speaker 1: term to think. To think, to think through a plan,
- 11:09Speaker 1: to arrange clever and imaginative ideas. God has made men upright,
- 11:16Speaker 1: but they have thought through a plan that's creative, clever,
- 11:24Speaker 1: and when you carry that plan to the ultimate end,
- 11:28Speaker 1: you wind up with substitutes. Let me give you three. Mentally,
- 11:33Speaker 1: we substitute knowledge for wisdom. You will not get wisdom
- 11:39Speaker 1: from the schools today. You will get knowledge. Schools cannot
- 11:46Speaker 1: teach wisdom. It's a gift from God. But we are
- 11:51Speaker 1: very impressed with knowledge. We are impressed with human scholarship,
- 11:56Speaker 1: much more so than with divine understanding. If you don't
- 12:01Speaker 1: think so, you try to get an interview with the
- 12:03Speaker 1: media and talk about divine wisdom and see if that
- 12:06Speaker 1: gets into print. We are far more impressed with men's
- 12:11Speaker 1: opinion rather than God's principles. We like people who are
- 12:15Speaker 1: clever and witty, people who can debate. Couldn't miss that moment.
- 12:21Speaker 1: We like people who can outthink one another. On the
- 12:24Speaker 1: horizontal plane because we like knowledge, but wisdom it's kind
- 12:29Speaker 1: of boring, little spooky, a little hard to get a
- 12:35Speaker 1: handle on. So we substitute knowledge for wisdom. Emotionally, we
- 12:40Speaker 1: substitute feelings for facts. You question that, stop and think.
- 12:47Speaker 1: We will opt for pleasure today in spite of the
- 12:49Speaker 1: pain it'll bring tomorrow. I just had a young man
- 12:56Speaker 1: say to me, just not too long ago, in fact,
- 12:58Speaker 1: a few moments ago. Every day I smoke pot. Every
- 13:03Speaker 1: day I smoke marijuana. I know it's bad, it's doing
- 13:10Speaker 1: bad things to me. Why does he do it? It
- 13:13Speaker 1: feels good. It feels good. We choose comfort regardless of
- 13:20Speaker 1: the consequences. If it feels good, then it's more important
- 13:25Speaker 1: to me than if it's best for me. If it
- 13:27Speaker 1: makes me happy, I care about doing it rather than
- 13:30Speaker 1: glorifying God. If that won't make me happy, I want feelings.
- 13:34Speaker 1: I don't want facts. It's a substitute. Third, Spiritually, the
- 13:40Speaker 1: worst of the three we substitute temporal for the eternal.
- 13:45Speaker 1: That's what I mean by worse. What a dead end
- 13:49Speaker 1: street that is. We tend to emphasize cost over value.
- 13:56Speaker 1: One wag has said, Americans are the people who know
- 13:59Speaker 1: the cost of everything and the value of nothing. We
- 14:04Speaker 1: will go for the urgent every time rather than the important.
- 14:08Speaker 1: Unless God's in control, we shoot for the horizontal, forgetting
- 14:12Speaker 1: the vertical. We're impressed with the natural, not the supernatural.
- 14:16Speaker 1: We're skeptical of that. We like quantity rather than quality.
- 14:21Speaker 1: All of that is temporal goods as opposed to eternal stuff.
- 14:28Speaker 1: As I said, we like the artificial rather than the authentic.
- 14:31Speaker 1: Like the nine year old boy in San Francisco who
- 14:34Speaker 1: was quoted as to say, I'd a lot rather watch
- 14:37Speaker 1: TV than play outside because it's boring outside. They always
- 14:41Speaker 1: have the same rides, like swings and things. Give me
- 14:45Speaker 1: TV every time. One man put it this way. Man
- 14:51Speaker 1: occasionally stumbles over the truth, but most of the time
- 14:54Speaker 1: he'll pick himself up and continue on. One of the
- 15:01Speaker 1: things that keeps drawing me back to the Bible week
- 15:06Speaker 1: after week after week of my life is perspective. I
- 15:13Speaker 1: get perspective from God's word. I don't like interruptions. When
- 15:19Speaker 1: I am interrupted and I have God's perspective, they don't
- 15:22Speaker 1: bother me. I don't like to wait. When I have
- 15:27Speaker 1: perspective from God's word about waiting and I'm forced to wait,
- 15:30Speaker 1: it doesn't bother me. I don't like to suffer. When
- 15:34Speaker 1: I am in pain and I have perspective from God's
- 15:37Speaker 1: word on the benefits of pain and suffering, it doesn't
- 15:41Speaker 1: bother me nearly as much. The perspective his word gives
- 15:47Speaker 1: is phenomenal. It's called divine wisdom. It's called reality. Reality
- 15:56Speaker 1: is not the way I wish things were. Reality is
- 15:59Speaker 1: not the way things appear to be. Reality is the
- 16:02Speaker 1: way things are. And that's what God tells us in
- 16:06Speaker 1: his book, Now from Solomon's Counsel turned to a love letter.
- 16:10Speaker 1: Paul wrote to the Thessalonians chapter three. We're gonna look
- 16:15Speaker 1: at the latter half of this third chapter, and I'm
- 16:19Speaker 1: so glad we're doing this. The man who wrote this
- 16:22Speaker 1: letter was in anything but an ideal situation. Are you ready?
- 16:28Speaker 1: He lacked the creature comforts. He was away from the
- 16:31Speaker 1: people he knew and loved, many of them. He was
- 16:34Speaker 1: hundreds of miles from home, he was in poor health,
- 16:38Speaker 1: he had very little money, his future was uncertain, and
- 16:42Speaker 1: his life was threatened. But he really lived. Does that
- 16:52Speaker 1: seem a little bit unusual to anybody else? How many
- 16:56Speaker 1: people do you know, given those same circumstances, if you
- 16:59Speaker 1: call them up on the phone, would say to you
- 17:01Speaker 1: in return, man, this is living. Only a person with
- 17:09Speaker 1: biblical perspective could say that, and out of this context
- 17:16Speaker 1: of difficulty could say in verse eight, we really live.
- 17:25Speaker 1: And it's directly connected with his friends if you stand
- 17:28Speaker 1: firm in the Lord. But he doesn't stop there. In fact,
- 17:32Speaker 1: I find in verses nine to thirteen four factors that
- 17:35Speaker 1: emerge that relate to real living. They're all right here
- 17:39Speaker 1: in the passage. You don't even have to make them up.
- 17:41Speaker 1: You don't have to make them rhyme or start with
- 17:44Speaker 1: the same letter. They're all right there in the passage.
- 17:47Speaker 1: The first one is what I will call joyful ingratitude.
- 17:51Speaker 1: Not joyful ingratitude, but joyful in gratitude. Let's understand what
- 17:56Speaker 1: we're saying verse nine, What thanks can we render to
- 18:00Speaker 1: God for you? What thanks can we render to God
- 18:07Speaker 1: for you? In return for all the joy with which
- 18:11Speaker 1: we rejoice before our God on your account. I think
- 18:16Speaker 1: Paul smiled when he wrote that. Forgive that little imagination
- 18:20Speaker 1: if you need to. But I think Paul's on occasion
- 18:23Speaker 1: when he thought about his friend smile. I do, and
- 18:26Speaker 1: I think you do. Sometime when I'm writing a letter
- 18:29Speaker 1: to someone I really love, I smile as I say
- 18:32Speaker 1: how much I love you, how encouraged I am by
- 18:35Speaker 1: your life. What a thrill the memory of our friendship
- 18:40Speaker 1: is to me, and I smile. I think Paul is
- 18:43Speaker 1: smiling when he expresses his gratitude You love Psalm one
- 18:47Speaker 1: O three as much as I do. Bless the Lord,
- 18:49Speaker 1: oh my soul, and all that is within me. Bless
- 18:52Speaker 1: his holy name. Bless the Lord, oh my soul, and
- 18:55Speaker 1: forget not all his benefits. And he counts his blessings.
- 19:05Speaker 1: He surrounds us with loving kindness, He protects us, he
- 19:11Speaker 1: heals me, He meets my needs morning, noon and night.
- 19:18Speaker 1: And I am full of gratitude, and I am full
- 19:21Speaker 1: of joy. One of the reasons I love to be
- 19:27Speaker 1: around children is because they make me laugh. It's impossible
- 19:34Speaker 1: to be with children at play and not feel better
- 19:37Speaker 1: after the fact, unless, of course, you've got a house
- 19:40Speaker 1: full of fifteen or twenty of them, and you're trying
- 19:42Speaker 1: to survive. But you know what I mean, some of
- 19:45Speaker 1: us getty pretty grim in life. And I guess that's
- 19:48Speaker 1: why I like certain people that interview children. Danny Kay
- 19:52Speaker 1: is one of the best. But the best is no
- 19:54Speaker 1: doubt art link letter and art link Letter can get
- 19:58Speaker 1: children to say, well, as he puts it, the darnedest things.
- 20:02Speaker 1: He remembers a three year old girl with big brown eyes,
- 20:05Speaker 1: whom he asked, what do you do to help your mother?
- 20:10Speaker 1: I help my mom cook breakfasts. She replied, Well, what
- 20:15Speaker 1: do you do to help your mom with breakfasts? Art asked,
- 20:19Speaker 1: She didn't hesitate. I put the toast in the toaster,
- 20:22Speaker 1: but she won't let me flush it. That's a great line.
- 20:31Speaker 1: She won't let me flesh it. Art asked one grammar
- 20:36Speaker 1: school youth what his father did for a living. The
- 20:39Speaker 1: boy took the microphone as if it were an ice
- 20:41Speaker 1: cream cone. My dad's a cop. He catches crooks and
- 20:46Speaker 1: burglars and spread eagles them and puts cuffs on them
- 20:49Speaker 1: and takes them down the station and puts them in
- 20:50Speaker 1: the slammer. Wow. Art replied, I bet your mother gets
- 20:56Speaker 1: worried about his work, doesn't she Heck no, the youth
- 20:59Speaker 1: is sure at art. He brings her lots of watches
- 21:02Speaker 1: and rings and jewelry. Oh that's great stuff. I really
- 21:15Speaker 1: like the one where I interviewed the kid and he said, now,
- 21:17Speaker 1: let me give you a situation. You're the pilot of
- 21:20Speaker 1: a commercial airliner and you got two hundred and fifty passengers,
- 21:23Speaker 1: and you're flying to Hawaii, and you're over the ocean,
- 21:26Speaker 1: and all four engines go out. What would you do?
- 21:31Speaker 1: Little kids stood there and thought, and he said, I
- 21:35Speaker 1: would press the fastened seat belt button and parachute. You
- 21:44Speaker 1: know what, men and women, life is too grim for
- 21:47Speaker 1: most of us. It has gotten that way since we've
- 21:52Speaker 1: grown up. It used to not be like that. Let
- 21:59Speaker 1: me tell you, let me tell you the most magnetic
- 22:04Speaker 1: witness for Jesus Christ today. That's the person with contagious joy.
- 22:10Speaker 1: You cannot stay away from them, cannot. There's a winsomeness
- 22:18Speaker 1: about them, There's a believability about their faith. There's a
- 22:22Speaker 1: pauline kind of freshness that says, in the midst of
- 22:27Speaker 1: Satanic opposition, when he couldn't get to them and personal distress,
- 22:32Speaker 1: that he mentions in verse seven of chapter three. In
- 22:35Speaker 1: spite of the distress and the oppression from Satan, Paul says,
- 22:39Speaker 1: you are my joy, You are my glory. I smile
- 22:44Speaker 1: when I think of you people joyful in a life
- 22:51Speaker 1: of gratitude. We need to keep the child alive within us.
- 23:00Speaker 1: You might think he's kind of quirky. But I have
- 23:02Speaker 1: a friend who carries around little toy cars in his pocket.
- 23:09Speaker 1: I thought I had one. I've got my keys in mine.
- 23:11Speaker 1: I thought somebody stuck one in my pocket here, And he,
- 23:13Speaker 1: every once in a while will take out this little
- 23:15Speaker 1: toy and look at it and stick it right back
- 23:17Speaker 1: in his pocket, just to keep him reminded he's not
- 23:19Speaker 1: that far removed from the child. We rejoice before our
- 23:28Speaker 1: God on your account. I don't mean that every day
- 23:30Speaker 1: is full of grins and silly giggles. You know better
- 23:33Speaker 1: than that. That's not joy. That's a superficial cop out,
- 23:39Speaker 1: but a deep sense of happiness with life. God is
- 23:44Speaker 1: in me. God's on the throne. God's moving me in
- 23:48Speaker 1: his direction. God's gonna take me there. And when I'm there,
- 23:52Speaker 1: he's gonna smile and say I've been waiting for you. Your
- 23:55Speaker 1: mind let's go. There's no better way to live. That's
- 24:00Speaker 1: really living. It's not just the joyful gratitude. However, there's
- 24:06Speaker 1: an earnestness in prayer see verse ten. As we night
- 24:10Speaker 1: and day keep praying most earnestly. Do you notice the order?
- 24:14Speaker 1: It hit me just last night when I was reviewing
- 24:17Speaker 1: these thoughts. Night is mentioned first, then day. I don't
- 24:22Speaker 1: know if your life is like mine, but when I travel,
- 24:24Speaker 1: my heart ist time is when the sun goes down.
- 24:28Speaker 1: I get most lonely when the sun dips down in
- 24:32Speaker 1: the horizon and leaves this surface, and it gets dark.
- 24:37Speaker 1: When it gets dark, weeping sometimes comes, doesn't it. Weeping
- 24:43Speaker 1: may endure for the night, but joy comes in the morning,
- 24:46Speaker 1: says the Psalmist. Now the apostle says in his nights
- 24:52Speaker 1: and during his days, there's a consistency in prayer, continually praying.
- 25:00Speaker 1: And it's not a frivolous kind of now I lay
- 25:04Speaker 1: me down to sleep, or Dear Lord, bless the missionaries.
- 25:10Speaker 1: Not that kind of thoughtless prayer, but prayer that says
- 25:14Speaker 1: most earnestly. It's requests. There's an there's a fervency in it.
- 25:23Speaker 1: In fact, it's specific that we may see your face.
- 25:27Speaker 1: That's one request. Why would he pray that? Why didn't
- 25:30Speaker 1: he catch a ride and get back to Thessalonika. He tried, friends,
- 25:33Speaker 1: he tried chapter two, verse eighteen, more than once, and
- 25:38Speaker 1: Satan thwarted him. So he says, if Satan's going to
- 25:41Speaker 1: get in my way, I'll just say, God, sicken. It's
- 25:45Speaker 1: kind of a swind all paraphrase, but that's the idea.
- 25:48Speaker 1: I'll say, Lord, I can't seem to get my way
- 25:51Speaker 1: back to thesal Andonikah, you do it for me. Satan
- 25:55Speaker 1: keeps cutting in on my stride. I ask you, Lord
- 25:59Speaker 1: to push him back in lane, and you open my
- 26:03Speaker 1: way up. So I pray specifically about that. And second,
- 26:08Speaker 1: I pray that I may complete what is lacking in
- 26:12Speaker 1: your faith? What a great prayer ever prayed that? You know?
- 26:17Speaker 1: I have to confess to you. When I read that,
- 26:19Speaker 1: I thought, I can't remember ever praying that. Lord, I
- 26:25Speaker 1: really want to minister so that I can complete what
- 26:28Speaker 1: is lacking in someone else's faith. That's a great thought.
- 26:32Speaker 1: Talk about putting a new dimension, a third dimension in
- 26:35Speaker 1: a teaching ministry or a helping ministry. Our ministry completes
- 26:44Speaker 1: the loop. It puts people back on their feet. It
- 26:50Speaker 1: gives what's needed for there to be a complete sense
- 26:54Speaker 1: of stability. Look at verse ten again, see the word complete.
- 26:59Speaker 1: That may and we may complete what is lacking in
- 27:01Speaker 1: your faith. It is a great Greek word. The term
- 27:05Speaker 1: means in other places, to restore a fellow Christian who
- 27:10Speaker 1: has wandered. Galatians six 's one restoring such a one
- 27:15Speaker 1: in a spirit of meekness. It's used, for example, for
- 27:20Speaker 1: putting a joint that has been out of place back
- 27:24Speaker 1: in place. It's used for mending a broken bone, used
- 27:28Speaker 1: for mending a torn fishing net. It's used for outfitting
- 27:33Speaker 1: a fleet of ships for battle. It's used for equipping
- 27:36Speaker 1: an army to do its work of invasion. It's always
- 27:43Speaker 1: completing something where without it it would be incomplete. Something
- 27:48Speaker 1: is missing. Paul's prayer is that he would be the
- 27:52Speaker 1: threads in the net. He would be the kannakay rations,
- 27:57Speaker 1: if you please. He prays that he would be the
- 28:00Speaker 1: one who would be the healing bomb in the brother
- 28:03Speaker 1: who has wandered from the faith. He prays, and in
- 28:09Speaker 1: doing so, he really lives. Could it be that we
- 28:15Speaker 1: don't really live because we carry the burdens that only
- 28:20Speaker 1: God was meant to handle. Could it be that part
- 28:25Speaker 1: of the reason life isn't as happy and delightful for
- 28:28Speaker 1: us as it used to be is because we have
- 28:30Speaker 1: taken responsibilities for things that were not ours to handle.
- 28:34Speaker 1: I think so, and that's why I mentioned an earnestness
- 28:38Speaker 1: in prayer. Let me encourage you, let me go further.
- 28:42Speaker 1: Let me challenge you to get serious about prayer. Start
- 28:48Speaker 1: your day with it, continue your day in it, Finish
- 28:52Speaker 1: your day with it. Doesn't have to be hours and hours.
- 28:57Speaker 1: It can be two, three, five, eight menes in which
- 29:02Speaker 1: you turn the day over to your God, or turn
- 29:05Speaker 1: that situation over to him, or ask him to unravel
- 29:09Speaker 1: the thing so that it goes back together in a
- 29:12Speaker 1: new way. I had lunch this past week with friends
- 29:17Speaker 1: who had ministered over in Eastern Europe this summer, and
- 29:22Speaker 1: they said one thing that stood out in their mind
- 29:24Speaker 1: was how people really made things last because they don't
- 29:31Speaker 1: have the privilege of going down to two Miller's outpost
- 29:35Speaker 1: and buying another half dozen pair of jeans. You know,
- 29:40Speaker 1: you got a pair of jeans. They last as long
- 29:44Speaker 1: as you can wear them, and then your brother gets them,
- 29:46Speaker 1: and then as long as he can wear them, he
- 29:48Speaker 1: wears them, and if they get a little short, then
- 29:50Speaker 1: his brother gets them, and they're passed right down the line.
- 29:52Speaker 1: In fact, they will remake sweaters. They'll unravel them, and
- 30:01Speaker 1: they'll take all of that yarn and they'll reravel them
- 30:05Speaker 1: into another sweater, and they keep making other sweaters out
- 30:10Speaker 1: of the same yarn. That's what God does. He takes
- 30:16Speaker 1: the sweater that I give him and he looks at
- 30:19Speaker 1: the mess I've made it, and he unravels it, and
- 30:23Speaker 1: then he puts it back together and it looks different,
- 30:28Speaker 1: and it's now like a fresh garment. That happens when
- 30:32Speaker 1: I pray. I'm unraveling my sweater and I'm giving him
- 30:36Speaker 1: the ball of yarn, and he gives me back a
- 30:40Speaker 1: new garment. Earnestness and prayer. Oh but if we make
- 30:46Speaker 1: a list on what it means to really live, it
- 30:49Speaker 1: would not be having a lot of money or staying young.
- 30:52Speaker 1: It certainly would not be those things we've looked at earlier.
- 30:55Speaker 1: It would have to include things like joyful in a
- 30:59Speaker 1: life of gratuity, dude. It would have to include earnestness
- 31:02Speaker 1: in a life of prayer, and look at verses eleven
- 31:05Speaker 1: and twelve. We can't leave out abounding in love, can we? Now?
- 31:10Speaker 1: May our God and Father himself, Now this is a
- 31:14Speaker 1: personal operation, and Jesus our Lord direct our way to you.
- 31:23Speaker 1: And it's not over. And may the Lord cause you
- 31:30Speaker 1: to increase and abound in love. Watch it for one
- 31:34Speaker 1: another and for all men, just as we do for you.
- 31:43Speaker 1: Abounding in love sounds almost like a benediction, doesn't it. Now,
- 31:48Speaker 1: May our God and Father himself and Jesus our Lord,
- 31:52Speaker 1: maybe it's meant to be that. Maybe his great concern
- 31:56Speaker 1: for these Thessalonian believers was that they would realize there's
- 31:59Speaker 1: a connecting link between the living God and their love life.
- 32:04Speaker 1: May He himself personally, along with Jesus Christ, the Savior,
- 32:11Speaker 1: cause your love not just to be maintained, but to
- 32:16Speaker 1: abound and increase. I smile when I say that, because
- 32:22Speaker 1: I have seen our children have their love abound and
- 32:27Speaker 1: increase for one person, until it led to courtship, and
- 32:33Speaker 1: then it led to an engagement, and then it led
- 32:37Speaker 1: to marriage. It abounded and it increased. Now the same
- 32:44Speaker 1: progress is in mind. Here Allow me a little pedantic
- 32:47Speaker 1: moment see verse twelve. The word four abound in love
- 32:52Speaker 1: for one another, circle that for all men, just as
- 32:58Speaker 1: we do four or you. I have those words marked
- 33:02Speaker 1: in my Bible on purpose because there's a little preposition,
- 33:06Speaker 1: little pick and preposition in the Greek text. That is
- 33:09Speaker 1: what I call a preposition of penetration. Ice is the word,
- 33:14Speaker 1: and it means into. If I were to take an
- 33:17Speaker 1: ice pick and push it into a volleyball, it would
- 33:22Speaker 1: go ice the ball. To use the term, it's the
- 33:27Speaker 1: word for getting down deep into, and he's using it
- 33:30Speaker 1: three times here. May your love increase and abound deep
- 33:36Speaker 1: down into one another, children of God. But don't stop.
- 33:41Speaker 1: We're going to get downright liberal about this. May your
- 33:45Speaker 1: love increase into all men, just as I have a
- 33:52Speaker 1: love that is into you. Get the idea. I want
- 34:01Speaker 1: to give you a thought about love. Let's spell it,
- 34:07Speaker 1: l O vee kind of in a column. Okay. When
- 34:11Speaker 1: I think of l I think of in this love relationship,
- 34:15Speaker 1: if I really get into someone's life, I think of listening.
- 34:19Speaker 1: I think of respecting them enough and accepting them with
- 34:24Speaker 1: tolerance so that I am gracious to hear what they
- 34:28Speaker 1: have to say, just to listen. I demonstrate love to
- 34:34Speaker 1: someone when I take time to listen to that person.
- 34:39Speaker 1: Oh is overlook. When I listen to the individual, I
- 34:45Speaker 1: overlook the flaws so that I can affirm most of
- 34:51Speaker 1: us are all too well aware of our flaws when
- 34:56Speaker 1: we forget them. There are a number of people who
- 34:59Speaker 1: were willing to point the out, but nevertheless, when we
- 35:03Speaker 1: are deeply related to one another in love, the thing
- 35:07Speaker 1: that keeps us close is that other person overlooks the
- 35:11Speaker 1: part of me that I know oh so well. Is unattractive,
- 35:17Speaker 1: unpleasant overlook v, I would say, would represent value. I
- 35:23Speaker 1: value you, you value me. We have a mutual respect.
- 35:29Speaker 1: It isn't blind spot kind of respect. We're aware of
- 35:32Speaker 1: each other fully in our love relationship, but our value
- 35:36Speaker 1: of each other overshadows whatever we may say by way
- 35:39Speaker 1: of criticism, and E would have to be express. Love
- 35:45Speaker 1: is demonstrative. Love is something I do. Did you see
- 35:52Speaker 1: The Burning Bed? That awful television film in which a
- 35:59Speaker 1: battered wife tried to endure in a home with this
- 36:06Speaker 1: maddening husband who beat her to an inch of her life?
- 36:11Speaker 1: Tragic scenes. My wife and I set up until almost
- 36:15Speaker 1: twelve thirty talking about our feelings regarding it. I suppose
- 36:21Speaker 1: what disturbed me the most is that all the way
- 36:24Speaker 1: through the story, the man kept saying, I love you,
- 36:28Speaker 1: but I love you. You see, I had this love for you.
- 36:34Speaker 1: And one time I remember my wife put her hand
- 36:36Speaker 1: down firmly on the back of the sofa and says,
- 36:39Speaker 1: he does not, he does not. That is not love.
- 36:47Speaker 1: That kind of expression is not love. And all of
- 36:52Speaker 1: the saying of love will not convince a battered wife.
- 36:57Speaker 1: It is love when I love. I don't batter. I
- 37:07Speaker 1: don't batter men and women. I don't know of any
- 37:17Speaker 1: quality that will draw the loss to us like this one. Aristides,
- 37:27Speaker 1: while describing Christians to the Emperor Hadrian, said, oh, they
- 37:34Speaker 1: love one another. They never fail to help widows. They
- 37:39Speaker 1: save orphans from those who would hurt them. If they
- 37:42Speaker 1: have something, they give freely to the man who has nothing.
- 37:46Speaker 1: If they see a stranger, they take him home. And Hadrian,
- 37:51Speaker 1: they are so happy. It must be their love. Yeah,
- 38:04Speaker 1: what's the result of this. The result of joyful gratitude,
- 38:08Speaker 1: the result of an earnest prayer, the result of a
- 38:11Speaker 1: bounding love. These things that make up real living. Well,
- 38:14Speaker 1: there's got to be one other link in the chain.
- 38:18Speaker 1: The result. Verse thirteen sow that see the result in
- 38:21Speaker 1: those words, so that he whom God the Father himself
- 38:27Speaker 1: verse eleven. So that God the Father may establish your
- 38:31Speaker 1: heart's unblameable in holiness. What a finale. You want to
- 38:41Speaker 1: really live, abound and be established in holiness, holiness before men. No,
- 38:52Speaker 1: that's not Holy men and women have reduced the standard
- 38:57Speaker 1: of God so that anything goes if it feels good,
- 39:00Speaker 1: do it and get rid of your guilt, because this
- 39:03Speaker 1: is the me era. We are in, foggy, fuzzy times
- 39:09Speaker 1: when it comes to purity, aren't we. In fact, it
- 39:19Speaker 1: is so important this matter of holiness verse thirteen that
- 39:23Speaker 1: he spends the next eight verses the chapter four verses
- 39:27Speaker 1: one to eight, developing the thought of moral purity, and
- 39:30Speaker 1: he talks straight, wear your steel toad shoes. When we
- 39:35Speaker 1: get into that, it's going to be tough sledding. Hold
- 39:39Speaker 1: your place here and go to first Peter Chapter two.
- 39:41Speaker 1: Would you no, it's one Peter one. Yeah, one Peter one.
- 39:46Speaker 1: Verse thirteen. Therefore, gird your minds for action, keep sober
- 40:01Speaker 1: in spirit, fix your hope completely on the grace to
- 40:05Speaker 1: be brought to you at the revelation of Jesus Christ.
- 40:08Speaker 1: As obedient children do not be conformed to the former lusts,
- 40:13Speaker 1: which were yours. In your ignorance, you had a reason
- 40:16Speaker 1: to walk by lust. In your early years, you were
- 40:19Speaker 1: ignorant of God's ways. But you're not ignorant anymore verse fifteen.
- 40:24Speaker 1: In contrast to that lifestyle, like the one, like the
- 40:29Speaker 1: Holy One who called you be holy yourselves in all
- 40:33Speaker 1: your behavior, because it is written you shall be holy,
- 40:36Speaker 1: for I am holy. I'm so grateful that's in the
- 40:40Speaker 1: book that tells me my standard is to be as
- 40:44Speaker 1: holy as God is holy. That tells me my only
- 40:47Speaker 1: way of reaching that is through the person and victory
- 40:50Speaker 1: of Jesus Christ. I can't do it in my own strength.
- 40:55Speaker 1: I must have a savior, or I will lower that
- 40:59Speaker 1: standard to fit my ability to produce. But I am
- 41:05Speaker 1: to be holy even as He is holy. Now back
- 41:08Speaker 1: to First Thessalonians, Chapter three, verse thirteen, establishing our hearts
- 41:13Speaker 1: unblameable in holiness before our God and Father at the
- 41:16Speaker 1: coming of our Lord Jesus with all his saints. He's
- 41:19Speaker 1: looking ahead to the ultimate day when we're with him,
- 41:22Speaker 1: and he sees it as a finished, completed fact. But
- 41:24Speaker 1: it's not so right. Now, let me give you a
- 41:27Speaker 1: book to buy on the subject of holiness. It's called
- 41:31Speaker 1: The Pursuit of Holiness by Jerry Bridges. The Pursuit of
- 41:36Speaker 1: Holiness by Jerry Bridges, It's a grand book. In the book,
- 41:43Speaker 1: he likens the battle for holiness Get this to nations.
- 41:47Speaker 1: At war. One defeats the other, as at Calvary, our
- 41:53Speaker 1: Lord Jesus Christ defeated Satan. But the losing army, though vanquished,
- 42:00Speaker 1: then takes to the hills and fights on as a
- 42:04Speaker 1: gorilla movement. Fighting off sin, Bridges says, is like beating
- 42:10Speaker 1: back continuing gorilla attacks. Isn't that good? Isn't that true?
- 42:18Speaker 1: That's why we need corporate worship. We're coming in from
- 42:20Speaker 1: guerrilla warfare. That's why we need to be together. That's
- 42:25Speaker 1: why we need support groups. That's why we need the
- 42:27Speaker 1: fellowship of one another. Gorilla warfare is a lonely place
- 42:32Speaker 1: to be. I mean, they're shooting back, they're winning some battles.
- 42:43Speaker 1: More on that next time. Left to ourselves. We substitute mentally,
- 42:49Speaker 1: we substitute knowledge for wisdom, Emotionally, we substitute feelings for facts.
- 42:55Speaker 1: Spiritually we substitute the temporal for the eternal. We really
- 42:59Speaker 1: want to live. There's joy and gratitude, there's an earnestness
- 43:05Speaker 1: in prayer, there's an abundance in love, and there's an
- 43:08Speaker 1: established stability and holiness. Now, as we begin to grow,
- 43:13Speaker 1: let's go back to where we started. Mentally, we become wiser, Emotionally,
- 43:21Speaker 1: we become stronger, and spiritually we become purer. That's what
- 43:27Speaker 1: happens when you grow. Mentally, we get wiser, Emotionally, we
- 43:33Speaker 1: get stronger, and spiritually we grow purer. You know what,
- 43:43Speaker 1: I want to confess something to you. I tend to
- 43:46Speaker 1: make assumptions in my preaching and teaching. I tend to
- 43:50Speaker 1: assume that people who hear me are already in the
- 43:54Speaker 1: family of God. It's easy for me to forget that
- 43:59Speaker 1: many have not yet come to the Savior. And you
- 44:05Speaker 1: know what happens when you try to carry out these
- 44:08Speaker 1: exciting principles in really living without Christ. It's like driving
- 44:13Speaker 1: your car with water. It's like filling up the tank
- 44:19Speaker 1: with H two O and then trying even to get
- 44:21Speaker 1: the thing to start. Frustrating it can in fact ruin
- 44:26Speaker 1: a good engine. It takes gasoline to operate. It takes
- 44:31Speaker 1: power to put that thing on the road. It takes
- 44:34Speaker 1: Christ to handle the mental, spiritual, and emotional assaults that
- 44:40Speaker 1: we face. With all of that in mind, listen to
- 44:45Speaker 1: Chuck Coulson's story coming from his book Loving God. As
- 44:50Speaker 1: I write this, it is exactly ten years since I
- 44:54Speaker 1: visited my dear friend Tom Phillips as the Watergate scandal
- 44:59Speaker 1: exploded across the nation's press. Though I felt an awful
- 45:03Speaker 1: deadness inside, I didn't think I was searching spiritually. But
- 45:10Speaker 1: while Tom's explanation that he had accepted Jesus Christ shocked
- 45:16Speaker 1: and baffled me, it also made me curious he was
- 45:21Speaker 1: at peace with himself, something I surely wasn't. Tom explained
- 45:25Speaker 1: it all to me that sultry August night. I couldn't
- 45:29Speaker 1: show too much interest. Of course, I was senior partner
- 45:32Speaker 1: of a powerful Washington law firm and a friend of
- 45:36Speaker 1: the President. But as I left Tom's house, I discovered
- 45:41Speaker 1: I could not get my keys into the car ignition,
- 45:46Speaker 1: I couldn't see them. The White House hatchet man, as
- 45:51Speaker 1: the newspapers called me, the ex Marine Infantry captain was
- 45:55Speaker 1: crying too hard. That night, I was confronted with my
- 46:00Speaker 1: own sin, not just water Gates dirty tricks, but the
- 46:04Speaker 1: sin deep within me, the hidden evil that lives in
- 46:08Speaker 1: every human heart. It was painful, and I could not escape.
- 46:12Speaker 1: I cried out to God and found myself driven irresistibly
- 46:16Speaker 1: into his waiting arms. That was the night I gave
- 46:18Speaker 1: my life to Jesus Christ and began the greatest adventure
- 46:24Speaker 1: of my life. A lot of skeptics thought I wouldn't last,
- 46:30Speaker 1: that it was just a ploy for sympathy, a foxhole conversion.
- 46:35Speaker 1: I don't blame them. If the tables were turned, I'd
- 46:37Speaker 1: have thought the same thing. But not once in these
- 46:40Speaker 1: ten years have I doubted that Jesus Christ lives. There
- 46:46Speaker 1: is nothing of which I am more certain, And not
- 46:48Speaker 1: once would I have turned the clock back my lowest
- 46:53Speaker 1: days as a Christian. And there were lomans. There were lowans,
- 46:57Speaker 1: seven months worth of them in prison. To be exact,
- 47:01Speaker 1: have been more fulfilling and rewarding than all the days
- 47:04Speaker 1: of glory in the White House. The years before conversion
- 47:09Speaker 1: were death. The years since have been life and the
- 47:14Speaker 1: adventure of loving God the purpose of that life. You
- 47:23Speaker 1: may have money, you may have a fine education, you
- 47:30Speaker 1: may have youth, you may have an adventure in front
- 47:34Speaker 1: of you on the horizon that is absolutely exhilarating. You
- 47:40Speaker 1: may have your life put together in an organized manner,
- 47:43Speaker 1: you may even be a friend of the president, but
- 47:47Speaker 1: you're dead without Christ. Dead. You may appear living to
- 47:56Speaker 1: everyone around you, but you're living on substitutes. You haven't life.
- 48:03Speaker 1: All you have is the ability to breathe. All you
- 48:07Speaker 1: have is a heart that continues to pump, But you
- 48:10Speaker 1: haven't life. Indeed, you are dead. And I point you
- 48:18Speaker 1: today to the only source of authentic, eternal life. Christ.
- 48:28Speaker 1: Believe in Him. Now let's bow together. I speak to
- 48:36Speaker 1: young and old alike. I speak to all today who
- 48:42Speaker 1: will give me the time to listen, And I say
- 48:47Speaker 1: in all the love I can muster without Christ. If
- 48:52Speaker 1: you die, you will go to Hell with Christ. When
- 48:59Speaker 1: you die, you will go to heaven. There is a hell,
- 49:06Speaker 1: there is a heaven, and there is a hurry. Decide now,
- 49:15Speaker 1: believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and you will be saved.
- 49:21Speaker 1: The substitutes will fade into insignificance. As you take Christ.
- 49:31Speaker 1: With him will come wisdom, purpose, stability, meaning forgiveness, hope
- 49:40Speaker 1: and security. Thank you Father for loving us, Thank you
- 49:48Speaker 1: for telling us the truth. Thank you for the joy
- 49:53Speaker 1: that accompanies life with God, for the privilege of earnest,
- 50:01Speaker 1: for the blessings that accompany the child of God in
- 50:06Speaker 1: every day living. May we be established in holiness. May
- 50:15Speaker 1: we be people who walk in dependence upon You, and
- 50:20Speaker 1: may you work faithfully to bring those who have not
- 50:24Speaker 1: yet trusted you unto yourself. I pray through Jesus Christ Amen.
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