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The Breakfast Club BEST OF - Dr. Cheyenne Interview, Plus Caller Topic (Can Men be Golddiggers) · The Breakfast Club

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  Speaker 1: Wake up, wake up, ask this if you're time to
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  Speaker 1: get it off your chest, your matter bleas. We want
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  Speaker 1: to hear from you on the breakfast Blossom. Hello, who's this?
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  Speaker 3: Good morning? All Bridge?
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  Speaker 4: This is Bridget Hey Bridge, Bridget Oh you today?
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  Speaker 1: Why you sound like that?
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  Speaker 5: Bridgie?
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  Speaker 1: You sound like giant?
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  Speaker 6: Yeah?
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  Speaker 2: Bridge.
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  Speaker 7: The only reason, the only reason I sound like this
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  Speaker 7: is because I had to stop and get donuts from
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  Speaker 7: my employees. So I came through the door carrying a
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  Speaker 7: lot of stuff.
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  Speaker 2: Oh okay, okay, you have a lot of employees of
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  Speaker 2: size Oh no.
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  Speaker 7: Just forty one. I'm the safety.
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  Speaker 8: Manager, so I like to bring donuts.
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  Speaker 7: And you know, we celebrate eight years safe. Oh congrass,
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  Speaker 7: I work, thank you. I worked for a company that
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  Speaker 7: manufactor the catalysts for all the gasoline vehicles, so we
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  Speaker 7: do some good work over here in Taylor, Michigan, which
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  Speaker 7: is really Detroit.
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  Speaker 9: What though?
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  Speaker 7: All right, Bridget So my reason for Colin is I
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  Speaker 7: love y'all show. I called in last week and when
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  Speaker 7: I say you, Jail King is amazing for her relationship
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  Speaker 7: with her ex and all that good stuff. I love that,
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  Speaker 7: but companies, right, I've been working for about forty six
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  Speaker 7: years now, and I've been a grunt worker. I got
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  Speaker 7: a master's degree in HR. I worked at Ford Chrysler
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  Speaker 7: supervisor safety doing all that stuff. And I say grunt
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  Speaker 7: worker because we keep on the bottom keep the people
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  Speaker 7: up top.
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  Speaker 10: Rich.
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  Speaker 7: So having this conversation over the last six months, rich
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  Speaker 7: people are getting richer US grunt workers. Thirty seven, forty
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  Speaker 7: two years ago, my first job out of college, they
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  Speaker 7: started me off at fifty five thousand, forty two years ago.
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  Speaker 7: Today they are still starting people off at fifty and
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  Speaker 7: sixty thousand. Where the economy has increased, increased, increased in
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  Speaker 7: order to make a decent living out here, okay, one
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  Speaker 7: hundred thousand dollars. They may not start everybody off in
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  Speaker 7: college coming out of college at one hundred thousand, but
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  Speaker 7: at least a decent living but wage. And then another
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  Speaker 7: thing that goes along with that, right, is the wage increases.
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  Speaker 7: And I don't know, you know, in you guys's career
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  Speaker 7: where you've been, but you know a lot of times
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  Speaker 7: I'll come in, oh, well, Bridget, you got to get
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  Speaker 7: one percent this time even though.
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  Speaker 8: You were a star worker.
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  Speaker 7: But we had to bring the person on the bottom up,
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  Speaker 7: so they had to get.
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  Speaker 8: To three percent.
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  Speaker 7: So this template of giving people raises, it's fifty years old,
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  Speaker 7: so the template needs to be increased from one to
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  Speaker 7: four percent, from one to ten percent. So just say,
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  Speaker 7: for instance, I'll make one hundred thousand dollars and my
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  Speaker 7: employee says, bridget, you did a great job this year.
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  Speaker 8: We're giving you a one percent raise.
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  Speaker 7: What's one percent of one hundred thousand dollars. That's nothing, right,
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  Speaker 7: that's one thousand dollars I can not going to get.
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  Speaker 7: I'm not going to get a washing dryer. But if
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  Speaker 7: you tell me I did such a great job and
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  Speaker 7: you getting ten percent, I can do more with ten
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  Speaker 7: thousand dollars a year than I can one thousand dollars
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  Speaker 7: a year. So one of these rich, ultra rich companies
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  Speaker 7: are going to change the template for us grunt workers
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  Speaker 7: so we can try to at least have a decent lessons.
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  Speaker 5: Incentive is more incentive, is what you say, exactly.
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  Speaker 7: So nobody's talked about that. And I have a meeting
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  Speaker 7: this Friday with our big boss here, and that's some
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  Speaker 7: of the things I'm gonna talk about because even though
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  Speaker 7: our country is from the UK, we we do so
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  Speaker 7: much stuff that people don't even know that we do.
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  Speaker 7: And they don't pay us like they pay the Big
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  Speaker 7: three in this area. So because our company is UK,
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  Speaker 7: they say, oh, well, we're gonna pay y'all like this.
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  Speaker 7: But y'all stockholders and y'all board of directors, they stay
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  Speaker 7: getting rich beyond rich, and we in here on Saturdays
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  Speaker 7: and Sundays keeping people safe for eight years doing that.
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  Speaker 7: They don't get it, dying about us. So the middle
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  Speaker 7: class and never come back up. And you know, like
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  Speaker 7: somebody said, Bridge, you should get a podcast.
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  Speaker 8: I am now because you.
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  Speaker 1: Can talk, Moore, you can talk, Bridget, I mean you
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  Speaker 1: can talk.
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  Speaker 6: You can talk.
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  Speaker 2: You might need to do that. That might help you
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  Speaker 2: get some extra income because you can talk.
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  Speaker 1: He me four minutes. We don't say yeah, you're right,
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  Speaker 1: you're right three times and you still going. But Bridget, Bridge,
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  Speaker 1: we got to go in the second.
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  Speaker 2: I will say that, Bridget, if you going there with
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  Speaker 2: your boss and you have this and you lay it
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  Speaker 2: down quite clear and plane, you probably just gonna wear
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  Speaker 2: him down and he might just go ahead and give
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  Speaker 2: you the yeah he might.
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  Speaker 1: That's if he has the power to do it. But
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  Speaker 1: you're alright. I was reading I was reading this story
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  Speaker 1: the other day.
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  Speaker 2: You know, I'm from South Carolina, and I was reading
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  Speaker 2: this story and one of the local papers down there,
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  Speaker 2: called the Posting Corea, and it was saying how sixty
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  Speaker 2: thousand dollars is officially classified as low income depending on
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  Speaker 2: your household size. And Charleston and like Berkeley County and
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  Speaker 2: you know the areas around there, and.
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  Speaker 1: I was like, damn, six thousand dollars that was there.
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  Speaker 5: Used to be a lot of money.
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  Speaker 7: I know, sixty dollars used to be a of money.
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  Speaker 7: And like I said, I make over one hundred. I
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  Speaker 7: drive good, you know, I take care of my.
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  Speaker 8: Granddaughters and stuff good and things of that nature.
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  Speaker 7: But I'm also in the stores, you know, in the
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  Speaker 7: dollar stores and then progers and stuff like that. And
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  Speaker 7: you see you see seniors counting pennies and stuff like that.
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  Speaker 7: So what do I do. I pay for their stuff,
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  Speaker 7: and then they want to give me their pennies, and
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  Speaker 7: I tell them, I said, nope, you guys keep it.
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  Speaker 10: You know.
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  Speaker 1: When all these things we love.
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  Speaker 7: Companies, well, I love you guys too. And you know
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  Speaker 7: they want us to donate, right like uh these uh
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  Speaker 7: these charities and stuff on the charity. My charity is
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  Speaker 7: I take care of people in person. My money is going.
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  Speaker 1: I'm talking, but y'ad.
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  Speaker 7: The reason why I called y'all because solicit to y'all,
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  Speaker 7: I work in a facility where everybody is trumpers. But
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  Speaker 7: why don't you you they listening to your radio, so
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  Speaker 7: best conversation needs to be had, yell. Need to somehow
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  Speaker 7: work it into y'all show and ask the question.
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  Speaker 2: I don't think that's a that's a conversation that needs
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  Speaker 2: to be worked in that people need more money in
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  Speaker 2: these corporations need to be paying a Liverpool wage. I
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  Speaker 2: think that's a pretty common conversation nowadays. Bridget, But thank
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  Speaker 2: you that you appreciate your Bridget.
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  Speaker 7: Okay, love you guys, and love you y'all.
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  Speaker 8: Have a great safe day.
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  Speaker 1: Okay.
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  Speaker 5: Wow.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: How come people that talk for a long time when
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  Speaker 2: they finally finished, then they want to try to rush.
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  Speaker 6: I thought she was when I thought she was done,
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  Speaker 6: she was like.
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  Speaker 1: Now the reason why I call Jesus Podcast Network, Get
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  Speaker 1: it off your chest eight hundred five eighty five one
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  Speaker 1: up now. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, your time
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  Speaker 1: to get it off your chest for the man or
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  Speaker 1: black something, to get up and get something. Call up
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  Speaker 1: now eight hundred five eight five one oh five one.
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  Speaker 1: We want to hear from you on the Breakfast Clovello.
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  Speaker 11: Who's this?
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  Speaker 3: What's going on? I'm just Lamar from New.
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  Speaker 2: York's Law York, Lamar, We'll part of New York.
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  Speaker 5: You're be from Buffalo or something.
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  Speaker 2: Because you said New York, you ain't say You ain't
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  Speaker 2: say Brooklyn from Buffalo.
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  Speaker 3: I'm from New York City.
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  Speaker 4: I'm I'm from I'm from Harlem.
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  Speaker 3: I'm from Harlem.
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  Speaker 1: Okay.
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  Speaker 3: I just wanted to get off my chest.
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  Speaker 1: Man.
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  Speaker 10: I have a YouTube channel called Boiler Heroes, and because
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  Speaker 10: I've been doing well, I basically go around New York
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  Speaker 10: City giving people heat and hot water all over and
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  Speaker 10: I've been doing it for like two and a half years.
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  Speaker 10: You know, I got an Instagram Boiler Heroes, follow me
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  Speaker 10: if you can. But because of it, I've been offered
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  Speaker 10: one of the most prestigious jobs in the country with
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  Speaker 10: the biggest boiler company in the country.
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  Speaker 1: Amazing.
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  Speaker 10: I appreciate that man, I've just been trying to inspire
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  Speaker 10: the youth that you know, the traders are where to go,
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  Speaker 10: especially being.
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  Speaker 3: A boiler man.
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  Speaker 10: I just gave the company I worked for my two
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  Speaker 10: weeks and they've been very supportive on this new adventure
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  Speaker 10: that I'm about to embark on.
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  Speaker 2: Let me ask that question, sir. Tell me exactly what
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  Speaker 2: it is that you do, because it sounds very interesting.
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  Speaker 1: What do you do?
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  Speaker 5: How do you give people heat? Exactly?
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  Speaker 10: So, first of all, I'm a real life superhero because
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  Speaker 10: I'm in New York City helping all the supers out here.
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  Speaker 3: I'm the hero to all the supers. So I'm a
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  Speaker 3: real life superhero. That's one.
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  Speaker 10: And what I do is every building has a boiler
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  Speaker 10: and they get heat from and heat and hot water
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  Speaker 10: from the boiler.
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  Speaker 3: So if the boiler goes.
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  Speaker 10: Down where the buildings don't have heat or how water
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  Speaker 10: no more, they call us and I fly over.
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  Speaker 3: There and I get that boiler running. For example, if something.
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  Speaker 10: Happens where the frame goes out because of a part
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  Speaker 10: or whatever, I got to figure it out.
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  Speaker 3: I got a troubleshoot it. I got to go through
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  Speaker 3: the wires. I gotta go through all the chemistry. I'm
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  Speaker 3: a flame chemist out here. I do real frame chemistry.
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  Speaker 10: I balance the OIU or the gas with the air
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  Speaker 10: mixture and all this other stuff.
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  Speaker 3: And to be a boiler man, you got to be
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  Speaker 3: all the trades in one.
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  Speaker 10: You gotta have electrical experience, you got to have plumbing experience,
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  Speaker 10: you got to have carpet carpentry experience. All the trades
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  Speaker 10: are one. That's why being a boiler man is special.
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  Speaker 10: It's very special. And I just want to inspire the
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  Speaker 10: youth that if you want to get into the trades,
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  Speaker 10: being a boiler man.
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  Speaker 3: Is word of that because you got to have all
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  Speaker 3: the trades under your belt. I actually applied.
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  Speaker 10: I actually applied for Streaming University as a professor because
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  Speaker 10: I want to because I do content, that's what I do,
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  Speaker 10: and I want to be able to, like I said,
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  Speaker 10: inspire the youth. And right now, I just I'm honored
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  Speaker 10: to have this opportunity, and I'm honored at the company
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  Speaker 10: I'm with, supportive of it, and I just wanted to
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  Speaker 10: give give this news to the world and all my
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  Speaker 10: audience because my audience listens to you guys.
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  Speaker 6: I appreciate you.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, that would be dope. If some of them screamers
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  Speaker 2: decided to learn the trade. But that's they want to
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  Speaker 2: be screamers because they don't want to exactly.
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  Speaker 1: But that's that's dope though.
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  Speaker 12: So if you need hot wood and you in New
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  Speaker 12: York City, called Boilerman.
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  Speaker 1: Men, men, men, men, get it off your chest eight
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  Speaker 1: hundred five eight five, one oh five one. If you
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  Speaker 1: If you're just joining us, we open up the phone
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  Speaker 1: lines eight hundred and five eighty five one five one.
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  Speaker 1: I guess the question we're asking, can men be gold diggers? Now,
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  Speaker 1: this conversation comes from me and who's doing front page
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  Speaker 1: news and saying that a new study is showing that
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  Speaker 1: more and more men are dating for money, I mean broke, yeah, yeah.
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  Speaker 2: And there's there's a huge difference between a gold digger
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  Speaker 2: and a person who wants somebody financially well off. I
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  Speaker 2: don't fault anyone for wanting someone who's financially well off.
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  Speaker 2: But I'm also a person who's still believes people are
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  Speaker 2: with folks because they actually loved them, you know what
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  Speaker 2: I mean. But there's a between a gold digger and
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  Speaker 2: just somebody who wants somebody who's financially well off.
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  Speaker 5: So the answer the question, can men be gold diggers?
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  Speaker 2: Yes, all of these men that's out here dating, you know,
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  Speaker 2: these fat white women or these old these old you know.
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  Speaker 5: Seventy year old, eighty year old white women. You know
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  Speaker 5: what I mean.
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  Speaker 1: They doing it for the check, They're doing it for
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  Speaker 1: room and board. Yeah, I think it's crazy. I think
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  Speaker 1: people have been doing it for a long time. More
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  Speaker 1: and more people are doing it now, probably because of
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  Speaker 1: the situation with the economy. But yeah, I think people can.
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  Speaker 1: I don't think it's right because what is that What
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  Speaker 1: is that relationship? Because it's built off of nothing. It's
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  Speaker 1: built off of finances. Right, if if I lose my
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  Speaker 1: job or I lose the finances, then.
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  Speaker 2: You out what's the transaction, and and that that old
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  Speaker 2: person of that fat woman will just pay for somebody else.
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  Speaker 1: You did something for some chicken wings one time.
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  Speaker 5: I ain't do nothing, no goddamn chicken wing.
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  Speaker 1: Chicken wings is crazy. So you said that the lady
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  Speaker 1: left chicken wings on your put the counter first of Allea.
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  Speaker 5: Okay, in much much, much, much younger years.
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  Speaker 2: When I was in my twenties, it was a forty something,
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  Speaker 2: damn near fifty something. And yes, she gave me three
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  Speaker 2: thousand dollars and some fried.
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  Speaker 1: Chicken wings in some twenties and a car and a
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  Speaker 1: concert service. Respect your respect, that little pp hey man, Hey.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I made it feel I made her feel young
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  Speaker 2: again when I was younger.
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  Speaker 1: Your ass. The chicken.
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  Speaker 2: I came up. I don't know about bath, you know
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  Speaker 2: what I'm saying. One day I might tell that story.
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  Speaker 5: Maybe not.
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  Speaker 1: But she went in the paper town when she gave
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  Speaker 1: it to you, unless.
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  Speaker 5: You put it in a bag.
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  Speaker 2: It was the ziplock bag, so the sandwich bag, so
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  Speaker 2: the twinkies and the prochecken and the sandwich bag and
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  Speaker 2: the three thousand dollars.
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  Speaker 1: And she was like, oh, and I got your car service.
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  Speaker 1: She was older, like, well, there's a lot of people
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  Speaker 1: on the line that want to discuss eight hundred five
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  Speaker 1: eight five one oh five one. You didn't feel away like,
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  Speaker 1: oh my gosh, thousand dollars between me some chicken wings.
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  Speaker 10: Man.
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  Speaker 1: She wanted him about the house. I don't know if
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  Speaker 1: you realize that.
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  Speaker 2: Damn now and what want to be grind on Instagram?
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  Speaker 1: Hello? Is this?
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  Speaker 3: This is Courtney Cony.
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  Speaker 1: You calling them from Courtney?
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  Speaker 8: Good morning.
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  Speaker 4: I'm calling from Georgetown.
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  Speaker 5: A A four three. What's happening in Georgetown?
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  Speaker 1: So we talk about can men be gold bigg as Mama?
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  Speaker 13: Yes they can.
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  Speaker 7: So.
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  Speaker 9: I am thirty two years old and I am single
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  Speaker 9: and dating. I've had several guys asked me for money.
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  Speaker 1: Did you give it to them?
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  Speaker 8: No, I am a single mother.
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  Speaker 4: I'm not giving them anything.
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  Speaker 9: And it was only within like several months of me
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  Speaker 9: knowing them.
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  Speaker 1: But did they supply the penis?
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  Speaker 9: No, we're not.
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  Speaker 8: We're not doing that.
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  Speaker 5: What do you do for a living man? How do
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  Speaker 5: you know you got money?
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  Speaker 4: I work at the doctor's office.
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  Speaker 9: I don't know why they assume that I would just
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  Speaker 9: randomly send them money with us just knowing in each other.
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  Speaker 9: That's weird, and I've heard it's very calming now for me.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, listen, times are hard out here. You know,
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  Speaker 2: men gotta do what they gotta do, and times are.
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  Speaker 4: Hard for us too.
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  Speaker 14: That is why would we just send them random money?
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  Speaker 5: That is very true.
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  Speaker 1: He picked the wrong one. He probably should have picked
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  Speaker 1: somebody who does make a little more that that would
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  Speaker 1: have no problem giving it to them. That's what he
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  Speaker 1: should have did that.
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  Speaker 9: Yeah, maybe, yeah, he needs to go pick the one
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  Speaker 9: that's making that type of salary.
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  Speaker 5: Respectfully, how how much do you respectful?
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  Speaker 1: Boy o?
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  Speaker 6: God?
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  Speaker 1: Oh boy?
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  Speaker 14: How much.
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  Speaker 9: Like one sixty five?
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  Speaker 1: I toll you?
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  Speaker 9: I am fine.
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  Speaker 5: I don't know what.
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  Speaker 1: Ye that's not bad? Thank you, mama. That's not that bad.
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  Speaker 3: Hello?
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  Speaker 1: Who is.
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  Speaker 15: Who? Name?
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  Speaker 3: Steph?
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  Speaker 1: Steph from talk to us? What's your thoughts? Brother?
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  Speaker 3: Hold hold up?
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  Speaker 8: Drop the bomber my first time getting through.
• 14:20
  Speaker 1: Let's not the bomb, that's not that's not clue bomb
• 14:22
  Speaker 1: warby sir. We don't even know.
• 14:23
  Speaker 2: We don't know what you're saying yet, Sir, drop these
• 14:27
  Speaker 2: for me because that's my first time through.
• 14:28
  Speaker 5: No, that's not cluth bomb warbing, sir.
• 14:30
  Speaker 13: You go digger sir, No, no, no. But I believe
• 14:35
  Speaker 13: makeup egs bigger, especially in this this this this era
• 14:40
  Speaker 13: that we're living in.
• 14:41
  Speaker 1: Yes.
• 14:42
  Speaker 13: Uh, I feel like that's another reason why I'm aware
• 14:46
  Speaker 13: of people that ever started line. You know, I'm not
• 14:49
  Speaker 13: saying he was, but you know how he got bad?
• 14:52
  Speaker 2: Absolutely or he was a dancer for Brittany. I think
• 14:55
  Speaker 2: they actually liked each other. I think that, you know,
• 14:57
  Speaker 2: a gold digger is a person who's literally strictly with
• 15:01
  Speaker 2: a person for financial gain and nothing else.
• 15:04
  Speaker 12: Kevin was big playing with Brittany though, start get what
• 15:06
  Speaker 12: you're saying. But even they got married, but like he
• 15:10
  Speaker 12: just I ain't think they was married. What about j
• 15:13
  Speaker 12: Lo's dancing because jay Loo's dancer. It feels like he
• 15:15
  Speaker 12: was never gonna be a husband. He was just always gonna.
• 15:18
  Speaker 6: Be Jaylo maryna dancer want her danswers no.
• 15:20
  Speaker 1: But she was with the dancer at one time. Her
• 15:23
  Speaker 1: name married.
• 15:24
  Speaker 5: Kevin and Brittany got married.
• 15:26
  Speaker 1: I don't know.
• 15:26
  Speaker 2: But first of all, if you got just talk about
• 15:30
  Speaker 2: jay Loo for second, if're getting with jay Loo, it
• 15:32
  Speaker 2: don't matter about no goddamn money.
• 15:33
  Speaker 1: That's jay Loo. That's she's beautiful, the money. Hello, who's this?
• 15:42
  Speaker 4: Hello?
• 15:42
  Speaker 2: Good morning all the rocking rock star and heard from.
• 15:46
  Speaker 1: You in a minute.
• 15:47
  Speaker 5: I mean, I see you on.
• 15:48
  Speaker 16: Instagram around how y'all doing, Good morning Charlotte.
• 15:51
  Speaker 1: Just what's up y'all? Talk to us? What's your thoughts?
• 15:55
  Speaker 2: You don't know nothing about no men being gold because
• 15:57
  Speaker 2: you're a whole stud hold on, but let me tell.
• 16:00
  Speaker 4: Y'all something real quick. Medy can absolutely be stud And
• 16:04
  Speaker 4: I'm gonna tell y'all why.
• 16:05
  Speaker 17: Men asked me all the time to.
• 16:08
  Speaker 4: Hook him up with women, specifically women that have money,
• 16:12
  Speaker 4: no one that they don't get it.
• 16:14
  Speaker 2: Got you got you said, I was confused.
• 16:21
  Speaker 4: That's a matter of stop, y'all. Let me tell y'all.
• 16:25
  Speaker 4: Unswer right, shut up to Aunt Justine. I saw just
• 16:28
  Speaker 4: and her husband, Me and my cousin were standing next
• 16:31
  Speaker 4: to you in the in the front row.
• 16:33
  Speaker 1: My cousin had on the all white Where where were
• 16:36
  Speaker 1: we Tyre's concert?
• 16:37
  Speaker 4: The R and B concert?
• 16:39
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yes, absolutely.
• 16:42
  Speaker 16: So during the intermission, I'm going to the bathroom, this
• 16:46
  Speaker 16: dude stops me.
• 16:47
  Speaker 7: He's like, yoa, this is hey.
• 16:48
  Speaker 13: I'm having a good time.
• 16:49
  Speaker 4: So I'm like, yeah, okay.
• 16:51
  Speaker 17: He's like, yeah, sure, he paid for everything.
• 16:54
  Speaker 4: I'm I'm only here because she she be paid for everything.
• 16:57
  Speaker 16: So I'm like, okay, that's that's what stopped ying.
• 17:00
  Speaker 4: Yah to mention absolutely the gold niggers, and I feel
• 17:03
  Speaker 4: like men be more gold niggas than the women.
• 17:06
  Speaker 1: What was you doing in the men's bathroom talking to him? Though?
• 17:10
  Speaker 4: No, no, she just I ain't say I was in
• 17:12
  Speaker 4: the men's bathroom.
• 17:12
  Speaker 1: She was on her way to the bathroom. You just
• 17:16
  Speaker 1: her she was in the bathroom.
• 17:19
  Speaker 6: Like that.
• 17:19
  Speaker 1: You'll stand up. You think you'd be walking around with
• 17:23
  Speaker 1: your scrabbling.
• 17:26
  Speaker 4: I'm not I'm not one of those.
• 17:28
  Speaker 13: I'm not one of those clown though.
• 17:30
  Speaker 12: He is a clown, all right, But that nigga was
• 17:33
  Speaker 12: a clown because he didn't even know her, and he
• 17:35
  Speaker 12: just straight up told her that out.
• 17:37
  Speaker 1: Of know it's two dudes talking like he felt.
• 17:40
  Speaker 5: Like, you know what, I wish you didn't hang up
• 17:44
  Speaker 5: on her.
• 17:44
  Speaker 2: I guarantee you she looked at them and they probably
• 17:47
  Speaker 2: looked like a couple that don't need to be together.
• 17:49
  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.
• 17:50
  Speaker 2: It's always you can always tell you always it's usually
• 17:55
  Speaker 2: a fat white girl, okay with a with a pretty
• 17:58
  Speaker 2: decent looking black guy.
• 18:00
  Speaker 5: What's going on that?
• 18:01
  Speaker 2: A little white woman, like really older, like seventy something, yo,
• 18:04
  Speaker 2: you know what, you know, with a younger black.
• 18:06
  Speaker 1: Man and you're like, what the hell is going on him?
• 18:08
  Speaker 12: It was definitely a little bit of everybody in that
• 18:11
  Speaker 12: show too, like the bus running everywhere, you know what,
• 18:14
  Speaker 12: because you tell at the comedy show sitting in front row.
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: There was a younger brother. He looked like he was
• 18:18
  Speaker 1: like twenty four to twenty five, and he had like
• 18:20
  Speaker 1: a seventy sixty five year old white woman and it
• 18:23
  Speaker 1: just didn't look right to the toy that we put
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: him on the screen and was like, what's something he said?
• 18:27
  Speaker 1: He was like, Yo, this is my sugar mom. He
• 18:29
  Speaker 1: was like, she takes care of me and I take
• 18:30
  Speaker 1: care of her.
• 18:31
  Speaker 5: You see what I'm saying.
• 18:32
  Speaker 1: And he said that clearly, but she was right.
• 18:34
  Speaker 12: There's a lot of them little couples in the front
• 18:38
  Speaker 12: on VIPC, like right there at the front of the stage, and.
• 18:41
  Speaker 5: You're gonna see a lot more of that. Man, Grand
• 18:42
  Speaker 5: Theft Auto is coming out this year.
• 18:46
  Speaker 2: There's a lot of these concert tickets like these young
• 18:48
  Speaker 2: boys got young boys trying to come up.
• 18:50
  Speaker 1: Man, if you're just joining us, we're talking about can
• 18:53
  Speaker 1: guys be gold diggers?
• 18:55
  Speaker 11: Right?
• 18:55
  Speaker 1: That means guys dating for money, not for love for money,
• 18:58
  Speaker 1: because it's so effed up out there.
• 18:59
  Speaker 2: Have you ever a look up the definition of what
• 19:01
  Speaker 2: a gold digger is or do we just know what
• 19:03
  Speaker 2: it is? Because I looked it up this morning and
• 19:05
  Speaker 2: I just thought it was interesting a person typically described
• 19:09
  Speaker 2: as in popular culture as a woman who forms romantic
• 19:12
  Speaker 2: relationships with a wealthy person, usually a man, solely for money.
• 19:16
  Speaker 2: Gifts are financial gain rather than affection. Men can absolutely
• 19:21
  Speaker 2: be gold diggers. And as I've been saying all morning,
• 19:24
  Speaker 2: you see them all the time, especially those fat white
• 19:26
  Speaker 2: women that be with them young you know, black brothers sometimes,
• 19:31
  Speaker 2: you know, even grown black brothers. Are the older white
• 19:34
  Speaker 2: women with the younger black brothers.
• 19:37
  Speaker 1: It's get these guys. This is getting bad out there.
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: People need to pay their bills, they need to pay
• 19:42
  Speaker 1: their mortgage, they need to pay there to eat all
• 19:45
  Speaker 1: those six coming out this fall. Bro talk about the guys.
• 19:48
  Speaker 12: It's a whole bunch of guys that liked the handicapped
• 19:51
  Speaker 12: girls too.
• 19:53
  Speaker 1: I have never seen that. I ain't never seen they
• 19:56
  Speaker 1: get a check for.
• 19:56
  Speaker 2: Real that you did that? You did you dated a
• 20:01
  Speaker 2: handicap guy. I don't try to put that on though, but.
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: You know they do.
• 20:05
  Speaker 6: Yo.
• 20:06
  Speaker 1: But do you think it'll ever get bad with people?
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: Be like, you know what, I'm just gonna be gay
• 20:08
  Speaker 1: for money, like you know what I mean? Like you
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: did that in the nineties and not now because everybody
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: know now I didn't do that. I didn't do that.
• 20:17
  Speaker 5: You know what you talking?
• 20:19
  Speaker 15: Hello?
• 20:20
  Speaker 1: Who's this?
• 20:22
  Speaker 9: Oh?
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: Man? Made he feel so good?
• 20:27
  Speaker 5: Remembered this.
• 20:28
  Speaker 1: Hello, who's this? Chuck?
• 20:29
  Speaker 8: Helt me man, It's Chuck from Detroit.
• 20:31
  Speaker 1: Man, Chuck. Now behind the sugar mamas. You a gold digger, Chuck?
• 20:35
  Speaker 11: I was down a gold digging man. I just like
• 20:37
  Speaker 11: sugar mamas. Man, Since they changed the rate of paying
• 20:40
  Speaker 11: and it's equal for a woman, why not. I've been
• 20:42
  Speaker 11: pumping in money for years, the woman, taking the.
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: Woman on the trips for what?
• 20:46
  Speaker 3: But it's just to change up and get something else.
• 20:48
  Speaker 8: So sugar, I got a sugar.
• 20:50
  Speaker 11: Mama, not gold digging. I don't think I say gold digging.
• 20:54
  Speaker 11: I think gold digging is somebody just looking for money?
• 20:56
  Speaker 5: Are you?
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: That's what? That's what you do? You like your sugar mama?
• 21:00
  Speaker 5: Do you actually like her? Do you have feelings for her?
• 21:02
  Speaker 8: I actually do?
• 21:03
  Speaker 6: Okay?
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: Okay?
• 21:03
  Speaker 5: How old is she?
• 21:04
  Speaker 8: I'm thirty, I'm sorry, I'm forty one.
• 21:06
  Speaker 5: How old is she?
• 21:08
  Speaker 7: Fifty seven?
• 21:09
  Speaker 5: Fifty seven? Okay?
• 21:10
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, you out here, you're out here.
• 21:11
  Speaker 5: With the older woman for sure.
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: What's the what's the what's the time?
• 21:14
  Speaker 12: Man?
• 21:14
  Speaker 1: Man? Does she but does she look good though?
• 21:17
  Speaker 8: No, she together.
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: What's the biggest thing she brought you?
• 21:23
  Speaker 11: By she's about to put money in herself to get
• 21:25
  Speaker 11: her body done.
• 21:26
  Speaker 3: I ain't you know all that?
• 21:27
  Speaker 2: No, tell tell tell her keep that old school Chevy
• 21:31
  Speaker 2: the way it is. Man, What's what's the biggest thing
• 21:33
  Speaker 2: she bought you?
• 21:33
  Speaker 10: Brother?
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: What's the biggest thing she brought you? Chuck?
• 21:35
  Speaker 11: Uh hey, vacations Jamaica, Bahamas and uh pairents bro.
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: You seeing in the Caribbean, you see it all the time,
• 21:43
  Speaker 1: you do.
• 21:44
  Speaker 2: That's what That's what the young boys trying to go
• 21:45
  Speaker 2: duck off with the older sugar mama is Is she white?
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: Oh?
• 21:50
  Speaker 5: You a legend?
• 21:52
  Speaker 2: No, because when you fifty seven year old black woman
• 21:55
  Speaker 2: is that's that's amazing.
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: That's what I know. She still looks good. Back gonna
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: curt baby, See, yeah.
• 22:02
  Speaker 5: This is different. I'm not mad at you because you
• 22:03
  Speaker 5: said you like her too, so I can't say that.
• 22:05
  Speaker 6: You gotta own it though.
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: He is a gold digging. He's a gold digging. Yeah
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: they do.
• 22:11
  Speaker 13: If you like her about the gall.
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: No, but look this is how you know.
• 22:15
  Speaker 12: Look, look if all that went away, right, she lost whatever,
• 22:17
  Speaker 12: all the money said she wasn't.
• 22:18
  Speaker 5: Able to do for you anymore?
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: Would you still like her? Would you be with him?
• 22:21
  Speaker 11: Just like the same thing with a man, things will
• 22:23
  Speaker 11: change you feel me all his money and could provise
• 22:27
  Speaker 11: the same way.
• 22:31
  Speaker 1: Hello, who's this? Get the body done for him? And
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: all that?
• 22:35
  Speaker 4: This morning to all of you. I am the Selle. Hello,
• 22:38
  Speaker 4: beautiful people.
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: Miche Michelle. We talked about gold.
• 22:43
  Speaker 4: Diggings, opportunities or gold diggers, right correct?
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: Man?
• 22:46
  Speaker 4: As women in this day and age, and y'all I'm five,
• 22:50
  Speaker 4: you have to really pay attention to the spine and
• 22:54
  Speaker 4: they're there. So I saved The men were all my
• 22:58
  Speaker 4: cars in the shop. You never how to cast I
• 23:01
  Speaker 4: vatd the men that came over. I don't have any
• 23:04
  Speaker 4: money for this. Can you give me money for that?
• 23:07
  Speaker 4: And I'm not gonna say I never paid for anything,
• 23:09
  Speaker 4: because I absolutely did. You know, I'm one of those
• 23:12
  Speaker 4: independent women. You pay one day, I pay the next.
• 23:16
  Speaker 4: But when it gets to the point where that all
• 23:19
  Speaker 4: you're doing is paying, I'm over the potential.
• 23:22
  Speaker 11: Men.
• 23:23
  Speaker 4: Either we're going to be equally yoked and where you
• 23:25
  Speaker 4: need to be in life, or just keep walking. There's
• 23:28
  Speaker 4: no reason for us to even have anything to talk about.
• 23:32
  Speaker 4: I do have a twenty three year old daughter that
• 23:34
  Speaker 4: I'm trying to get to understand the same thing. She
• 23:38
  Speaker 4: is an amazing job, but the negro that she's with
• 23:41
  Speaker 4: is just, oh my god, like I don't know where
• 23:44
  Speaker 4: she founds them. I think she wants to the swamp
• 23:46
  Speaker 4: for something. You just have to be careful about what
• 23:51
  Speaker 4: you're doing. And I'm not going to bash the men
• 23:54
  Speaker 4: and be like all men is out looking for something.
• 23:57
  Speaker 4: But at my age, men are looking for koger and
• 24:00
  Speaker 4: at my daughter's age, men are looking for somebody to
• 24:03
  Speaker 4: take care of them. And it's just unfortunate. But this
• 24:06
  Speaker 4: is the day and age that we live in. Yeah,
• 24:09
  Speaker 4: so I've been there, done that, and I'm not going
• 24:12
  Speaker 4: back again. So he's men, but get you got two hands,
• 24:17
  Speaker 4: you got two feet, get your butt up and go
• 24:19
  Speaker 4: get a job and work for it. On that note,
• 24:22
  Speaker 4: and I did my amazing son and shout out real quick.
• 24:26
  Speaker 4: He's about to be a senior next year. His name
• 24:28
  Speaker 4: is Christopher Beckett. He goes to Kip High School in
• 24:32
  Speaker 4: Saint Louis, Missouri, And y'all, when I tell you, this
• 24:35
  Speaker 4: young man is just nothing short of amazing. My son
• 24:39
  Speaker 4: is just amazing, four point two gpa, amazing, come out
• 24:45
  Speaker 4: on top of that job. He is a timpting. So
• 24:49
  Speaker 4: if you're hearing me, do not let nobody tell you
• 24:52
  Speaker 4: what your baby can't do. Because my son since elementary
• 24:57
  Speaker 4: all he's ever had his age, he's super smart. He
• 25:00
  Speaker 4: knows what he wants and writs, and y'all, I'm just
• 25:02
  Speaker 4: a proud right now.
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: Congratulations you raising legend.
• 25:08
  Speaker 4: Congratulations mama, thank you, and I appreciate all of you.
• 25:12
  Speaker 4: Then you're doing what you're doing. We need you and
• 25:14
  Speaker 4: we need your boy.
• 25:15
  Speaker 5: Thank you so much. What's the moral of the story, guys,
• 25:17
  Speaker 5: or the moral of the story?
• 25:19
  Speaker 2: This, this whole conversation reminds me of this quote that
• 25:21
  Speaker 2: that I always hear, and it's like we were made
• 25:23
  Speaker 2: to love people and use things. What the reason the
• 25:26
  Speaker 2: world is in chaos is because things are being loved
• 25:29
  Speaker 2: and people are being used. So you remember that this
• 25:32
  Speaker 2: morning when you tonguekissing your fat white woman, dam all,
• 25:35
  Speaker 2: your seventy year old white sugar mama, Young black men.
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: All right, Well, the breakfast Club, good morning, j MV
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: jes hilarious, Charlamagne the God. We are the Breakfast Club.
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: Law on the roastes here as well. We got special
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: guests in the building. Her new book is out right
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: now Live your promise. Ladies and gentlemen, Doctor Cheyenne Briant,
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: welcome back.
• 25:56
  Speaker 6: Listens back to stuff, fam. I love I love being here.
• 25:59
  Speaker 6: I'd see seeing you out at the Diddy Trial, seeing
• 26:03
  Speaker 6: you out at the Boosy gz up. Let me tell
• 26:06
  Speaker 6: you there was music playing and then there was music playing.
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: Can you tell to people he really be DJing?
• 26:12
  Speaker 6: No?
• 26:12
  Speaker 18: No, I go out when he go plaices. I go
• 26:14
  Speaker 18: because I always have a good time. But they be
• 26:16
  Speaker 18: trying to play with him up here, like he don't
• 26:17
  Speaker 18: be doing what he's doing.
• 26:18
  Speaker 6: Ivy did I not come behind that stage to say, listen,
• 26:22
  Speaker 6: the entire party concert was jumping because he was on
• 26:26
  Speaker 6: fire at the DJO. I looked like, who is that?
• 26:30
  Speaker 6: And I was like, ah, DJ.
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: I think you need a new name, right you doctor
• 26:34
  Speaker 1: Shy and Brian here, but you need like a shy shot.
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: But she was shot shot that weekend. No, no, you
• 26:39
  Speaker 1: don't understand every Boosy verse and record she knew from head.
• 26:44
  Speaker 6: Talking too much.
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: Every Jesus every you have to stay. Don't just start
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: off there right, So you know I'm the realistic, Like
• 26:53
  Speaker 1: I'm the real doctor in here, You're already.
• 27:00
  Speaker 6: That's why you got to have everybody sign of ndia.
• 27:05
  Speaker 6: You know, it's kind of hybrid. I gotta be able
• 27:07
  Speaker 6: to have a good time. I gotta be able to
• 27:10
  Speaker 6: be relatable to people.
• 27:11
  Speaker 18: Why don't people be mad when you are out having
• 27:13
  Speaker 18: a good time? Because that made me think of when
• 27:14
  Speaker 18: you went to Jz's concert and it was a whole
• 27:17
  Speaker 18: discourse about your outfit at the concert.
• 27:19
  Speaker 6: So, Jez, they weren't mad because the doc was having
• 27:21
  Speaker 6: a good time. They were mad because of what I wore.
• 27:25
  Speaker 6: It was black tied to me, it wasn't black tied
• 27:28
  Speaker 6: to some other people. And you know, this is the thing.
• 27:31
  Speaker 6: I have agency over a couple of things. One of
• 27:34
  Speaker 6: those happened to be me and what I wear. And
• 27:36
  Speaker 6: so I'm gonna always wear what I want to wear.
• 27:39
  Speaker 6: And again, you know, my client, my doc squad, my
• 27:43
  Speaker 6: fan base, those are my people, Those are my village.
• 27:47
  Speaker 6: My goal is not to sit up here and try
• 27:49
  Speaker 6: to convince folks who have already made up their mind
• 27:51
  Speaker 6: to either misunderstand me or dislike me, to like me.
• 27:54
  Speaker 6: I will spend my entire life having to continuously convince
• 27:58
  Speaker 6: them to like understand. And that's just a responsibility that
• 28:02
  Speaker 6: I'm not going to take on. I don't think anybody
• 28:04
  Speaker 6: should do that. We all have our village and our
• 28:07
  Speaker 6: job is to cater, to, love and nurture our village.
• 28:10
  Speaker 6: Once you start going outside of that, then you have
• 28:13
  Speaker 6: to spend your whole life trying to make sure these
• 28:14
  Speaker 6: people continuously like you, and then you live in dogma,
• 28:18
  Speaker 6: and dogma would eat your ass up alive. And it's
• 28:20
  Speaker 6: just not worth it. It's just it's a bill that
• 28:23
  Speaker 6: you don't want to ever have to pay.
• 28:25
  Speaker 1: Does it bother you at all? Which part the way
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: do people attack you? Because you get attacked.
• 28:31
  Speaker 6: A lot, It doesn't bother me. It comes with the territory.
• 28:35
  Speaker 6: And I think that any of us who are either
• 28:37
  Speaker 6: in the industry and media, a celebrity who has a
• 28:41
  Speaker 6: certain level of fame, or even just came from the
• 28:44
  Speaker 6: inner city right and knows what it is to be
• 28:47
  Speaker 6: an attractive woman in the hood. In the inner city,
• 28:50
  Speaker 6: you get a lot of rhetoric, and you understand that
• 28:52
  Speaker 6: the outside chatter is a part of being successful. And
• 28:55
  Speaker 6: then I said this with humility, but to truth, and
• 28:58
  Speaker 6: you add on beauty, you add on being ourticulated or educated,
• 29:01
  Speaker 6: and you know, beating a lot of the statistics and
• 29:03
  Speaker 6: the odds that come from being an inner city. You know,
• 29:06
  Speaker 6: little girl boy, it comes with the territory. So I
• 29:10
  Speaker 6: always say that, you know, Jesus served the church, died
• 29:15
  Speaker 6: for the church, and the church Judas his disciple, set
• 29:19
  Speaker 6: him up, the people he loved and he serves set
• 29:21
  Speaker 6: him up to be crucified. So why do we personalize
• 29:26
  Speaker 6: when people I eat our disciples, our folks who are
• 29:29
  Speaker 6: never our disciples, and our people have an issue with us,
• 29:32
  Speaker 6: try to take us down or set us up for failure.
• 29:34
  Speaker 6: That is a part of being great. That is a
• 29:37
  Speaker 6: part of people witnessing you be in your lane and
• 29:42
  Speaker 6: do what you do and them saying I either don't
• 29:45
  Speaker 6: have the capacity to do so I would love to
• 29:48
  Speaker 6: do it. And what I've learned, y'all is that people
• 29:51
  Speaker 6: don't always want to occupy your space. They want your territory.
• 29:56
  Speaker 6: And if you understand that, then you occupy the territory
• 29:58
  Speaker 6: that God has given you. Because no one can take
• 30:00
  Speaker 6: what God has given. You can't miss what's yours. And
• 30:03
  Speaker 6: if your faith, which is an action where stands on that?
• 30:06
  Speaker 6: Then what are you personalizing when people have an issue
• 30:09
  Speaker 6: with you? One number two, people literally pay for the
• 30:13
  Speaker 6: kind of Internet attention that I get. They create storylines
• 30:17
  Speaker 6: for the headlines, and the blog attention and the virility
• 30:22
  Speaker 6: that I get. I don't pay for any of it.
• 30:25
  Speaker 6: I just show up and be me and so no,
• 30:28
  Speaker 6: it doesn't bother me. What I will say is there's
• 30:30
  Speaker 6: times where doctor Brian has to check Chyanne on some
• 30:34
  Speaker 6: of my clapbacks, cause some of my clapbacks be like
• 30:37
  Speaker 6: you know, well your mama and I said, you can't
• 30:39
  Speaker 6: say that, But then I'm like, you can't, but I'm like, don't.
• 30:42
  Speaker 6: So it has stretched my bandwidth. It has really shown
• 30:47
  Speaker 6: me how emotionally intelligent I am. And it also has
• 30:50
  Speaker 6: shown me where I have some growth in the emotional
• 30:55
  Speaker 6: maturity space. When I'm thinking of clapping back or or
• 30:59
  Speaker 6: or saying something that could really gut people.
• 31:02
  Speaker 1: A lot of the backlash come from people in your field,
• 31:04
  Speaker 1: right among other doctors, therapists, life coaches. And what I
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: say is they say, the reason that you don't get
• 31:10
  Speaker 1: questioned or tested as much is because of your quote
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: unquote looks.
• 31:15
  Speaker 6: You know what Ivy. I said this last time I
• 31:18
  Speaker 6: was on you might be my alter ego, brother, because
• 31:20
  Speaker 6: some of the stuff you say is just right up
• 31:22
  Speaker 6: the alley of what needs to be addressed. So there's
• 31:24
  Speaker 6: pretty privilege, and I've learned that there's pretty punishment. And
• 31:29
  Speaker 6: I didn't really understand that term until I got into
• 31:33
  Speaker 6: my field. And I want to say this, I didn't
• 31:35
  Speaker 6: get it. I've been in my field for eighteen years.
• 31:37
  Speaker 6: I didn't get into this field to become famous, to
• 31:39
  Speaker 6: become a celebrity. I got in this field because I
• 31:42
  Speaker 6: was a little girl from the inner city who was
• 31:43
  Speaker 6: tenations determined to make it out. And I had a
• 31:45
  Speaker 6: lot of broken pieces in abandonment. And when God provided
• 31:48
  Speaker 6: me tools that helped me take my broken pieces and
• 31:51
  Speaker 6: make peace from it, go from my wilderness into my
• 31:54
  Speaker 6: promised land, which I talk about in my book, Live
• 31:56
  Speaker 6: Your Promise, I thought, wait a minute, I got to
• 31:59
  Speaker 6: make sure I give everybody to come in contact with
• 32:01
  Speaker 6: these principles because everyone deserves that freedom and that healing
• 32:04
  Speaker 6: that I'm experiencing what I call God's peace, all right,
• 32:08
  Speaker 6: And so with that, people got a whiff of it,
• 32:12
  Speaker 6: and you know, the fam base, the folks made me famous,
• 32:17
  Speaker 6: made me a celebrity. I did not grow up and say, hey,
• 32:20
  Speaker 6: I want to just listen. I'm a good looking woman.
• 32:23
  Speaker 6: I've had access to the industry for my entire life.
• 32:27
  Speaker 6: If I wanted to be famous, I would have went
• 32:30
  Speaker 6: maybe the actress route or the modeling route. Easy call
• 32:33
  Speaker 6: for me. It would have been so easy. I've never
• 32:34
  Speaker 6: had an agent, I've never had a manager. So what
• 32:37
  Speaker 6: I'm saying is this came to me and I had
• 32:40
  Speaker 6: to continuously remind people. I'm in a field where I
• 32:44
  Speaker 6: am taking on people's luggage, I am unpacking it, and
• 32:48
  Speaker 6: I am helping them process through their stuff so they
• 32:50
  Speaker 6: can have a better quality of life, they can have
• 32:52
  Speaker 6: mental health, and they can actually have tool to sustain
• 32:57
  Speaker 6: their well being. So none of that. No, no one
• 33:00
  Speaker 6: goes to college and gets multiple degrees to say I
• 33:03
  Speaker 6: want to be famous. Now do I love it here?
• 33:06
  Speaker 15: Yeah?
• 33:06
  Speaker 6: I love it. I'm grateful for it. I appreciate it.
• 33:08
  Speaker 6: And the other thing is, you know, I created my
• 33:11
  Speaker 6: own lane as a psychology X for life coach. So
• 33:14
  Speaker 6: when people see that, they went into a group that
• 33:20
  Speaker 6: wasn't a lane. They just fell into being a part
• 33:23
  Speaker 6: of a group and they're looking at this other woman
• 33:25
  Speaker 6: who they're like, wait a minute, you know she created
• 33:27
  Speaker 6: her own lane and she's totally killing it. It's like, Yo,
• 33:31
  Speaker 6: there's only room for me in the lane that I created.
• 33:35
  Speaker 6: And I would like if y'all put your blinker on
• 33:36
  Speaker 6: when you're trying to get over, because a lot of
• 33:38
  Speaker 6: times they're trying to just get over in my lane.
• 33:40
  Speaker 6: It's like, what doesn't work? Like that? If folks would
• 33:43
  Speaker 6: concentrate on either asking, buying books, looking at my videos,
• 33:48
  Speaker 6: booking a session to say, doc, how did you do it?
• 33:51
  Speaker 6: I'm not a gatekeeper. I love putting people on the
• 33:54
  Speaker 6: quickest way to walk this through serving people. I'm in
• 33:57
  Speaker 6: a service position as a psychologist for life coach. I
• 34:00
  Speaker 6: am serving people all day long. As president of NAACP,
• 34:05
  Speaker 6: the biggest civil rights organization in Los Angeles for fourteen years.
• 34:08
  Speaker 6: That is a service position. We don't get paid to
• 34:12
  Speaker 6: run a civil rights organization. That is volunteer work I've
• 34:16
  Speaker 6: done for fourteen years. And so if folks would focus on, doc,
• 34:21
  Speaker 6: how did you create your own lane? I would give
• 34:25
  Speaker 6: them the tools like I'm doing in my book, live
• 34:27
  Speaker 6: your promise about how I did it, how I went
• 34:30
  Speaker 6: from the hood to the hills. Was it hard? Yeah?
• 34:33
  Speaker 6: Is it possible? Absolutely? Am I the only one that
• 34:35
  Speaker 6: can do it?
• 34:36
  Speaker 1: Hell?
• 34:36
  Speaker 11: No?
• 34:37
  Speaker 6: The tools I use, if you apply it, you would
• 34:40
  Speaker 6: get the same result, just like baking a cake.
• 34:42
  Speaker 1: Thing I see online is she doesn't do this under
• 34:46
  Speaker 1: her license. She's not a quote unquote real doctor. She
• 34:50
  Speaker 1: has an honorary degree. She didn't earn it. So let's
• 34:52
  Speaker 1: talk about what you do as far as being a
• 34:55
  Speaker 1: life coach and a doctor. Do you have a license
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: a for what you do?
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  Speaker 12: So?
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: What is a license needed?
• 35:01
  Speaker 6: I love that what I do a license is not required.
• 35:04
  Speaker 6: Number two. When I was in my undergrad which is
• 35:08
  Speaker 6: a degree in psychology, My master's is a degree in marriage,
• 35:11
  Speaker 6: Family and Child therapy. My doctorate is in counseling psychology.
• 35:16
  Speaker 6: Those are all academic. I have four academic degrees. The
• 35:19
  Speaker 6: other one is in Pan African studies. There's two honorary doctorates.
• 35:22
  Speaker 6: One is in behavioral science.
• 35:23
  Speaker 1: So you have an earned doctorate.
• 35:24
  Speaker 6: Yes, and the other ones is in humanitaris. Honorary doctorates
• 35:29
  Speaker 6: are to praise you and give you your flowers for
• 35:33
  Speaker 6: your body of work. Okay, they're not academic, but it
• 35:36
  Speaker 6: shows your body of work is effective enough for them
• 35:38
  Speaker 6: to honor you with an honorary doctorate. Now, going back
• 35:42
  Speaker 6: when I said I worked under a license, see all
• 35:44
  Speaker 6: of this is terminology. The people would open up their
• 35:46
  Speaker 6: ears and do what school teaches therapists to do. I'm
• 35:52
  Speaker 6: not a therapist, but the group of licensed professionals who
• 35:55
  Speaker 6: have an issue with this, they teach you all something
• 35:58
  Speaker 6: called active listening. None of y'all seem to be actively listening.
• 36:02
  Speaker 6: Working under a license means I'm working under a supervisor's license.
• 36:08
  Speaker 6: If anyone went to school for therapy, psychiatrists, psychologists, you
• 36:13
  Speaker 6: have to accumulate practicum. You have to accumulate hours before
• 36:18
  Speaker 6: you can graduate. It's not an option. So I accumulated
• 36:23
  Speaker 6: thousands of hours underneath the supervisor's license working as a marriage,
• 36:29
  Speaker 6: family and child therapists. So an MFT is what I
• 36:34
  Speaker 6: was not, an l MFT. LMFT is licensed marriage and
• 36:38
  Speaker 6: Family Therapists. MFT is marriage and family therapists. As I
• 36:41
  Speaker 6: worked under that license, I did diagnose, I did treatment plans,
• 36:45
  Speaker 6: and I seen clients regularly. My goal was never ever
• 36:50
  Speaker 6: to obtain licensing. Ever, I did not go to college
• 36:54
  Speaker 6: and say I want to become a licensed therapist. Let
• 36:57
  Speaker 6: me put disclaimer out there. A licensed therapist, there's nothing
• 37:00
  Speaker 6: wrong with that. There are absolutely effective, amazing therapists, counselor psychiatrists, psychologists,
• 37:09
  Speaker 6: and life coaches, absolutely amazing. It's all subjective. What works
• 37:13
  Speaker 6: for where you are in your life, what works best
• 37:16
  Speaker 6: for the season you're in, What is it that you need,
• 37:19
  Speaker 6: and what clinician or coach is best fit for what
• 37:23
  Speaker 6: you have going on the season you're in, and whose
• 37:26
  Speaker 6: tools and principles will most be effective for where you're
• 37:28
  Speaker 6: trying to be and for your healing. That's what it
• 37:30
  Speaker 6: boils down to. Neither is better. One's license and one's not.
• 37:35
  Speaker 6: For me, I have all of the training, and I
• 37:38
  Speaker 6: have the academia, and I have the education. I'm gonna
• 37:41
  Speaker 6: say it one last time, i had zero desire to
• 37:45
  Speaker 6: ever become licensed. As a young girl. I've always created
• 37:49
  Speaker 6: my own lane. I'm a destructor, y'all can't see that
• 37:52
  Speaker 6: by now. I've always been the woman that said, Hey,
• 37:54
  Speaker 6: if everyone's doing left, then I want to go create right.
• 37:58
  Speaker 6: If everyone's doing black, I want to go create white.
• 38:01
  Speaker 6: I'm doing it now. It worked for me, so my
• 38:04
  Speaker 6: goal was to be able to create a huge platform
• 38:08
  Speaker 6: and be able to heal people, bless people at a
• 38:12
  Speaker 6: large level. Not to be licensed or bill insurance, diagnosed,
• 38:17
  Speaker 6: or treat or have patients. I don't do or have
• 38:19
  Speaker 6: any of those. I provide effective tools, principles, and I
• 38:23
  Speaker 6: have clients and I have sessions, and that is exactly
• 38:26
  Speaker 6: what I do.
• 38:27
  Speaker 18: Why did you start off not wanting to be licensed
• 38:29
  Speaker 18: where most people would be licensed in it. I have
• 38:31
  Speaker 18: friends who've gotten license, have experienced some things with what
• 38:34
  Speaker 18: you have to do want your license, and have said
• 38:36
  Speaker 18: I'm okay with not renewing, you're not going forward or whatever.
• 38:38
  Speaker 6: Right, but wait, say that again, I'll run that back.
• 38:40
  Speaker 18: So I have friends who've been licensed that have said,
• 38:43
  Speaker 18: you know what, I'd rather do it the other way
• 38:44
  Speaker 18: because their battle with insurances and how they're paid is
• 38:47
  Speaker 18: a conversation. But most people start off wanting to be licensed.
• 38:51
  Speaker 18: Why did you start off not wanting to be licensed?
• 38:53
  Speaker 6: Because I knew that it would create barriers for me
• 38:58
  Speaker 6: in the way that I want to be able to
• 39:01
  Speaker 6: approach my clients. I knew that. For example, when I
• 39:05
  Speaker 6: was working under a license, a supervision license as an MFT,
• 39:11
  Speaker 6: not an LMFT, I had a client that came in
• 39:15
  Speaker 6: a young woman who experienced sexual abuse, and because I'm
• 39:21
  Speaker 6: working under a license, I had to make sure that
• 39:23
  Speaker 6: I followed those licenser ethics and laws in the sense
• 39:27
  Speaker 6: of not confidentiality. I do that now as a life
• 39:30
  Speaker 6: coach and not as boundaries. But there were moments where
• 39:35
  Speaker 6: she needed a hug because she was having a lot
• 39:40
  Speaker 6: of triggers and she was experiencing a lot of her
• 39:44
  Speaker 6: sexual abuse in a way that she needed to be supported.
• 39:49
  Speaker 6: And of course I asked, you know, is it okay
• 39:51
  Speaker 6: if I hug you in this moment? Is that okay?
• 39:53
  Speaker 6: I would ask my clients now, and she said, I'm
• 39:56
  Speaker 6: not ready for that hug. No problem. A few months
• 39:59
  Speaker 6: when I and I asked her again, Hey, you know,
• 40:01
  Speaker 6: is it okay if I hug you? Was our last
• 40:04
  Speaker 6: session we were actually ending our term together, and she
• 40:08
  Speaker 6: was like, yeah, like I'm actually ready for that hug. Now,
• 40:13
  Speaker 6: as a licensed clinician, you are taught in school ethically
• 40:18
  Speaker 6: that you do not hug embrace your clients at all.
• 40:21
  Speaker 6: If y'all have ever experienced therapy I have, that's something
• 40:24
  Speaker 6: that's a no no. It's just something you don't do
• 40:27
  Speaker 6: unless she of course, acts, but it's a very very
• 40:29
  Speaker 6: thin line. My approach as a life coach. I'm very loving,
• 40:33
  Speaker 6: I'm very nurturing. I hug, I say I love you,
• 40:37
  Speaker 6: have a good day at the end of our sessions.
• 40:38
  Speaker 6: And those small things that I'm able to do as
• 40:42
  Speaker 6: a life coach have been life changing for my clients.
• 40:45
  Speaker 6: I've had clients after giving them a hug, stay in
• 40:48
  Speaker 6: my office for twenty more minutes just crying and bond
• 40:50
  Speaker 6: their eyes out, saying, you have no idea how much
• 40:53
  Speaker 6: I needed that hug. Doc. I've had clients that I've
• 40:56
  Speaker 6: said I love you, I'm proud of you, website. My mother,
• 40:58
  Speaker 6: my father has never said those words to me, and
• 41:01
  Speaker 6: that has been the catalyst to their healing. Some folks
• 41:04
  Speaker 6: don't need to just come and just talk. Some people do.
• 41:07
  Speaker 6: Some people that talk therapy is their breakthrough, and I
• 41:11
  Speaker 6: completely advocate for that if that's what you need. For
• 41:14
  Speaker 6: some people, they do just need to be nurtured and
• 41:17
  Speaker 6: love through their pain. Some folks trauma has completely broken
• 41:21
  Speaker 6: them and has callous them to where only love is
• 41:24
  Speaker 6: what can break down those barriers of callous of their
• 41:28
  Speaker 6: heart being hardened because they've never experienced that type of
• 41:31
  Speaker 6: nurturing and love, and so again, everybody has different things
• 41:35
  Speaker 6: that they need. It's about us not focusing on who
• 41:38
  Speaker 6: is better or worse, or titled or not titled. It's
• 41:43
  Speaker 6: how can we serve the people that we all are
• 41:46
  Speaker 6: collectively trying to make sure it gets tools, gets healing,
• 41:49
  Speaker 6: gets therapy. If you're a therapist, gets coaching, if you're
• 41:52
  Speaker 6: a coach, how can we make sure those people get
• 41:55
  Speaker 6: what they need? And let's take the focus away from
• 41:59
  Speaker 6: the practitioners. Are the coaches? Are you effective? Are you
• 42:02
  Speaker 6: changing and healing lives? If so, run those plays. If not,
• 42:06
  Speaker 6: get more training, get more practice, or get up under
• 42:09
  Speaker 6: somebody who can teach you how to do it effectively.
• 42:11
  Speaker 6: Because really, at the end of the day, that's all
• 42:13
  Speaker 6: that we all are trying to do. And I want
• 42:15
  Speaker 6: people to know. I want them to choose what works
• 42:18
  Speaker 6: best for you, not just only as the patient or
• 42:21
  Speaker 6: the client, but as the clinician or the coach, which
• 42:25
  Speaker 6: lane works best for you. I don't want my hands
• 42:27
  Speaker 6: tied behind my back. I'll land on this. As a
• 42:29
  Speaker 6: little girl, I didn't need to just talk, y'all. I
• 42:32
  Speaker 6: needed love. I needed someone to see me. I needed
• 42:35
  Speaker 6: someone to hold my hand. I needed someone to pat
• 42:37
  Speaker 6: me on the back. I wanted someone to sit with me,
• 42:39
  Speaker 6: grab my little cheeks and say, listen, I love you
• 42:42
  Speaker 6: with your hurt self, with your pain self, which you
• 42:44
  Speaker 6: trauma self, with your abandoned self. I got you so
• 42:48
  Speaker 6: I can provide those same principles that work for me.
• 42:53
  Speaker 6: I'm able to do in my lane that I've created
• 42:55
  Speaker 6: and in my capacity, and I've been doing it eighteen
• 42:58
  Speaker 6: years effective and it has made me the most sout
• 43:03
  Speaker 6: out psychology expert life coach in the world today.
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: What do you say to those people like you told
• 43:07
  Speaker 1: us what you studied and what you did in the
• 43:09
  Speaker 1: schooling that you got and the classes that you take.
• 43:12
  Speaker 1: But you know, when I said, I did a deep dive,
• 43:15
  Speaker 1: so people were like, well, how can she tell me
• 43:16
  Speaker 1: about my marriage when she hasn't been married, or how
• 43:19
  Speaker 1: can she tell me about my family or my kids
• 43:21
  Speaker 1: when she hasn't been through that even though you studied
• 43:24
  Speaker 1: it and you got your degree in it. So what
• 43:25
  Speaker 1: do you say to those people?
• 43:26
  Speaker 6: So you's gonna cook the whole the whole interview, just
• 43:28
  Speaker 6: gonna cook all your.
• 43:29
  Speaker 1: Questions because you know what, because.
• 43:32
  Speaker 6: The town that we talked about this pre.
• 43:36
  Speaker 1: But when I say with like you know, and I
• 43:37
  Speaker 1: looked at it wasn't like you know two years ago.
• 43:39
  Speaker 1: This is like a week ago to like Jesus Christ,
• 43:41
  Speaker 1: y'all trying to stomp out the shy shye Ryan like
• 43:43
  Speaker 1: my knicks did the Philly Sixers.
• 43:44
  Speaker 6: But God, yeah, and we know the Philadelphia and we
• 43:47
  Speaker 6: know that's not gonna happen. You know, that's just not
• 43:49
  Speaker 6: gonna have. You can't have what God has given me.
• 43:51
  Speaker 6: It don't work like that. And you can't be in
• 43:53
  Speaker 6: my lane. You couldn't ride in this lane if I
• 43:55
  Speaker 6: gave it the opportunity to. So whatever star you wishing on, baby,
• 43:58
  Speaker 6: wish a little bigger, because that's not going to happen.
• 44:02
  Speaker 6: But your question was what do I think about people
• 44:05
  Speaker 6: who say I'm not married? So how can I teach folks?
• 44:07
  Speaker 6: So this is the thing. I do not teach people
• 44:09
  Speaker 6: how to be married. Marriage is between you and your partner.
• 44:12
  Speaker 6: That's your agreement, that's your covenant, and however you to
• 44:16
  Speaker 6: decide to create and curate your marriage. I can't teach
• 44:20
  Speaker 6: you that. What I teach people is how to get
• 44:22
  Speaker 6: out of their own way. Because happy healed people make
• 44:25
  Speaker 6: happy healed marriages. Miserable. Unhappy people create miserable marriages. Trauma
• 44:31
  Speaker 6: out folks create trauma bonds. Healed people create healed bonds.
• 44:35
  Speaker 6: I teach you, Envy, how do you process through your
• 44:38
  Speaker 6: trauma so you don't bleed on your wife? I teach you, Lauren,
• 44:41
  Speaker 6: how do you get out of your daddy issues and
• 44:43
  Speaker 6: not saying you have them? Your daddy issues, cuential issues? Okay,
• 44:46
  Speaker 6: well your dob, I'm on point today, out of your
• 44:48
  Speaker 6: daddy issues, right, so that you don't point and project
• 44:51
  Speaker 6: your pain onto this man who is loving the hell
• 44:54
  Speaker 6: out of you and doesn't deserve that. If I could
• 44:57
  Speaker 6: teach you how to heal those and how to get
• 44:58
  Speaker 6: out of your way with that, then I have helped
• 45:01
  Speaker 6: you become a better woman for yourself, which in return
• 45:04
  Speaker 6: is going to do what benefit the collective of that marriage.
• 45:07
  Speaker 6: No one can teach people how to be married. We
• 45:11
  Speaker 6: teach you how to get out of your own way
• 45:12
  Speaker 6: so you and your partner can be healthy. That's it,
• 45:15
  Speaker 6: Because no matter how much we teach you the proper
• 45:18
  Speaker 6: tools of marriage, if you are traumaed out and your
• 45:21
  Speaker 6: abandonment as sabotaging this thing, those tools will not be
• 45:25
  Speaker 6: effective until I help you get out of your way.
• 45:28
  Speaker 18: There are another conversation in your community of work is
• 45:31
  Speaker 18: with people feel like you don't have the educational background
• 45:34
  Speaker 18: that they're like out here searching for or whatever. Right,
• 45:36
  Speaker 18: the biggest thing is is like, in a normal situation,
• 45:39
  Speaker 18: if because I've heard you say that you're dealing with
• 45:41
  Speaker 18: your own wounds of like being abandoned, and like, how
• 45:45
  Speaker 18: you will self sabotage in certain situations?
• 45:47
  Speaker 6: How I have I used to? Yeah?
• 45:50
  Speaker 18: Yeah, So a lot of people who are in your lane,
• 45:52
  Speaker 18: they're like, Okay, if I know that personally about myself,
• 45:54
  Speaker 18: I depend on my education to be able to put
• 45:57
  Speaker 18: that to the side and give you the tools. And
• 46:00
  Speaker 18: I know some people are upset because they're like, well,
• 46:02
  Speaker 18: they're trying to say you don't have the education, but
• 46:04
  Speaker 18: then you also have this your own issues in your
• 46:06
  Speaker 18: real life. So how are you separating the two of
• 46:08
  Speaker 18: one thing? Is their legend is not there?
• 46:11
  Speaker 6: Yeah? I got you, I hear the question. So the
• 46:13
  Speaker 6: work that I've done on my abandonment that has created
• 46:16
  Speaker 6: a healing in me and really allowed me to identify
• 46:20
  Speaker 6: my pain pockets right so to where I don't sabotage anymore.
• 46:24
  Speaker 6: I'm able to have emotional intelligence, high functionality and communicate
• 46:29
  Speaker 6: with you even as a friend, to say, look, you
• 46:31
  Speaker 6: know how you show up in this relationship, Lauren. It's
• 46:34
  Speaker 6: triggering me. And in the past I would have sabotage,
• 46:37
  Speaker 6: are just left or not even had a conversation. But
• 46:41
  Speaker 6: I want to talk about this because I honor and
• 46:42
  Speaker 6: I love our friendship. And so when you do X,
• 46:44
  Speaker 6: Y and Z, this is how it makes me feel
• 46:47
  Speaker 6: identifying my emotion and these are the things that I
• 46:50
  Speaker 6: need from you as my best friend. Can you commit
• 46:53
  Speaker 6: to those things? That's a healing person who's talking. That
• 46:57
  Speaker 6: is where I am now, Okay. Sabotaging was something I
• 47:00
  Speaker 6: did as a young girl because I didn't even understand
• 47:02
  Speaker 6: that I was sabotaging, because I was still trying to
• 47:04
  Speaker 6: get in contact with my pain. I was still trying
• 47:06
  Speaker 6: to figure out how abandon it was impacting me. So
• 47:09
  Speaker 6: the tools that I used to be able to get
• 47:11
  Speaker 6: myself from self sabotaging to communicating and being high functioning
• 47:16
  Speaker 6: and having emotional intelligence and mending this relationship and letting
• 47:20
  Speaker 6: you know what I need, because now I have awareness
• 47:23
  Speaker 6: of who I am as a woman. I'm aware of
• 47:25
  Speaker 6: my pain pod because I'm aware of my triggers. Those
• 47:28
  Speaker 6: are all the tools that I teach. Those are all
• 47:30
  Speaker 6: the tools that are in my book, Live Your Promise.
• 47:33
  Speaker 6: And so I'm teaching folks how to get out of
• 47:35
  Speaker 6: their own way because there was a time where I
• 47:37
  Speaker 6: was in my way. And what made it challenging for
• 47:40
  Speaker 6: me to hear y'all, was I was in relationships with
• 47:43
  Speaker 6: people who enabled it because they weren't leaving me. They
• 47:46
  Speaker 6: were still putting rings on my finger, they were still
• 47:48
  Speaker 6: wanting to marry me, they were still loving the hell
• 47:49
  Speaker 6: out of me. And that enabling mechanism doesn't give folks
• 47:54
  Speaker 6: an excuse to still show up trauma out, to still
• 47:57
  Speaker 6: show up in your dysfunction. You still have a responsibilit
• 48:00
  Speaker 6: to love yourself enough, respect yourself enough to say, let
• 48:03
  Speaker 6: me identify what is going on in me, even though
• 48:07
  Speaker 6: this person's allowing it that I know is not effective
• 48:10
  Speaker 6: for the collective of the relationship or myself.
• 48:13
  Speaker 18: You think that that was like them still coming back,
• 48:15
  Speaker 18: was that their ego of like, you know, men want
• 48:17
  Speaker 18: to be able to conquer it, to be able to
• 48:19
  Speaker 18: change and sit you down, and you know, all those
• 48:21
  Speaker 18: things that come with like when you're a strong or.
• 48:24
  Speaker 1: Could it because he was just trying to love you
• 48:25
  Speaker 1: through your problems?
• 48:26
  Speaker 18: I mean I was gonna say, or was it the opposite?
• 48:28
  Speaker 18: Like what did you discover more?
• 48:30
  Speaker 6: You know what? I think that God just really blessed
• 48:32
  Speaker 6: me with amazing people in my life. Like I've had
• 48:36
  Speaker 6: some amazing parents, I've had amazing partners who I've been
• 48:40
  Speaker 6: in relationship with. I've had friends that just love me down.
• 48:45
  Speaker 6: And I'd like to say that that's a reflection of
• 48:48
  Speaker 6: who I am and how I love. I love to eve,
• 48:49
  Speaker 6: I love hard. I will love you out of your
• 48:53
  Speaker 6: I will love you out of your I'm like that
• 48:55
  Speaker 6: with my clients. And so I just had men who
• 48:59
  Speaker 6: they just had the bandwidth to love me through my
• 49:04
  Speaker 6: And that taught me that you can have all the tools,
• 49:08
  Speaker 6: you can have the best therapist, the best coach, but
• 49:11
  Speaker 6: if you don't have love, healing is nearly impossible. I
• 49:15
  Speaker 6: don't care what anyone says. You would be a highly
• 49:20
  Speaker 6: functioning transactional person with like an encyclopedia with all the
• 49:24
  Speaker 6: tools and the effectiveness and this is how it works
• 49:26
  Speaker 6: and the principles, but but internally homeless as hell because
• 49:31
  Speaker 6: you won't have the ability to attach to love to
• 49:35
  Speaker 6: securely attached, not anxiously attached or avoidantly attached. You would
• 49:40
  Speaker 6: be imagine that's homeless. And so you know, people just
• 49:44
  Speaker 6: really loved me through my trauma and that was amazing.
• 49:51
  Speaker 6: What were you doing because the first time they weren't
• 49:53
  Speaker 6: setting boundaries? You know, folks, some people bless you. Some
• 49:57
  Speaker 6: people fall so deep in love and be that they
• 50:01
  Speaker 6: start loving the person more than themselves, which puts any
• 50:05
  Speaker 6: clips up from them realizing that there needs to be
• 50:08
  Speaker 6: a boundary st right now.
• 50:09
  Speaker 1: Don't most women want that? Don't most women want somebody
• 50:11
  Speaker 1: that's gonna love them damn more than themselves.
• 50:13
  Speaker 6: Absolutely I do. I do, so let me speak for myself.
• 50:16
  Speaker 6: I do. But as that man is loving me more
• 50:19
  Speaker 6: than he loves himself, I want there to be a
• 50:22
  Speaker 6: healthy balance of him loving himself enough to say, baby,
• 50:25
  Speaker 6: I'm not gonna leave you, but this is right here.
• 50:29
  Speaker 6: There's gonna be a boundary put up here, because see,
• 50:32
  Speaker 6: I do respect myself. Even though I love you, I
• 50:34
  Speaker 6: love myself too as a man. And you just can't
• 50:37
  Speaker 6: talk to me like that because that emasculates me and
• 50:41
  Speaker 6: I'm vertical and who I am, and the reason why
• 50:43
  Speaker 6: you love me so much and the reason why I
• 50:45
  Speaker 6: can carry you is because of the fact that I
• 50:48
  Speaker 6: respect myself and that I'm vertical, and so you cannot
• 50:53
  Speaker 6: emasculate me. We need shrink me and expect me to
• 50:56
  Speaker 6: be big enough to carry you. That is a man
• 50:59
  Speaker 6: who has boundaries. He's not sabotage and he's not abandoning you.
• 51:03
  Speaker 6: But it takes a heel to woman to say, you
• 51:06
  Speaker 6: know what you're right, Let me work on this. Show
• 51:10
  Speaker 6: me how to work on this, Teach me what that
• 51:13
  Speaker 6: looks like, because maybe I've never done that, maybe I've
• 51:16
  Speaker 6: never had a father. It takes a certain woman, women
• 51:19
  Speaker 6: who don't have the bandwidth, the awareness to healing, to respect.
• 51:23
  Speaker 6: That kind of man should have enough respect for themself
• 51:27
  Speaker 6: to leave, not sabotage, but leave that relationship because she
• 51:31
  Speaker 6: will emasculate him. But a man who was functioning at
• 51:34
  Speaker 6: that high level won't tolerate that, at least for not long.
• 51:39
  Speaker 1: There you have it, new book is out right. Now
• 51:41
  Speaker 1: live your promise. We appreciate you for joining us a
• 51:44
  Speaker 1: being so open. Anytime you see up here or out
• 51:47
  Speaker 1: and about, we appreciate love definitely.
• 51:49
  Speaker 18: Do you know I'm gonna come here and bring the
• 51:51
  Speaker 18: truth and congratulations on the book.
• 51:52
  Speaker 6: It's good. I appreciate it.
• 51:53
  Speaker 1: Thank you, doctorne Bryant. She's coming back at this club.
• 52:00
  Speaker 1: Can your execution.
• 52:03
  Speaker 6: On the Donkey of the day is something to gold
• 52:05
  Speaker 6: to you? The reason he gave me donkey other day?
• 52:08
  Speaker 6: And I deserve that.
• 52:09
  Speaker 1: You need to know.
• 52:10
  Speaker 6: You need to tell them, I am, you have tell.
• 52:13
  Speaker 1: Them it's time for Donkey of the Day.
• 52:17
  Speaker 7: It's a read.
• 52:18
  Speaker 1: But you're so good at your charlamagne. He wants charlamage.
• 52:24
  Speaker 7: Damn solomame?
• 52:25
  Speaker 1: Who do you giving dusk the other day too? Now?
• 52:31
  Speaker 2: Don't get to day for Wednesday, March twenty fifth, goes
• 52:33
  Speaker 2: to a Manhattan real estate attorney named Brian McKinnon.
• 52:36
  Speaker 1: Now Brian is going to prison, ladies and gettlemen.
• 52:38
  Speaker 2: Okay, that's why the New York Posts referred to him
• 52:40
  Speaker 2: as disgraced real estate attorney Brian McKenna. He's sixty two
• 52:44
  Speaker 2: years old and he's going to prison for up to
• 52:46
  Speaker 2: six years.
• 52:47
  Speaker 1: Why what the man usually risk it all for that
• 52:50
  Speaker 1: boom boom?
• 52:51
  Speaker 2: Okay, that kitty, that undercarriage, that cookie, that penis fly trap.
• 52:56
  Speaker 1: Yes, Brian McKenna is being.
• 52:58
  Speaker 2: Accused of stealing four point four million dollars intended for
• 53:02
  Speaker 2: COVID protective gear, allegedly the funder romance with his then girlfriend.
• 53:06
  Speaker 2: Oh the power of the pus. I can't spell the rest. Now,
• 53:10
  Speaker 2: there's so many things that discussed me about this story.
• 53:13
  Speaker 2: Number one, you stole all this money from people who
• 53:15
  Speaker 2: needed it. Okay, Folks needed that COVID protective gear during
• 53:19
  Speaker 2: COVID and you just stole it.
• 53:20
  Speaker 1: Okay, you just stole the money for it, all right,
• 53:22
  Speaker 1: a man who didn't need it. Okay, you're a lawyer.
• 53:25
  Speaker 2: You sixty two years old, Brian, So you were in
• 53:27
  Speaker 2: your fifties when you came up with this game.
• 53:29
  Speaker 1: Because what COVID was, COVID was six years ago. Okay.
• 53:32
  Speaker 2: I don't understand people who literally have the world in
• 53:35
  Speaker 2: their hands. You have worked hard to become an attorney
• 53:38
  Speaker 2: in this country. Okay, You, more than a lot of people,
• 53:41
  Speaker 2: understand the process of life.
• 53:43
  Speaker 1: You understand life is a process. Okay.
• 53:45
  Speaker 2: Becoming a lawyer takes at least seven years of full
• 53:49
  Speaker 2: time higher education in this country, all right.
• 53:51
  Speaker 1: Four years for a bachelor's degree, three years of law school.
• 53:54
  Speaker 2: You have to pass the bar exam. They get. They
• 53:56
  Speaker 2: got a baby bar and the big bar. My point is,
• 53:59
  Speaker 2: it's not, and nothing in life worth having ever is.
• 54:02
  Speaker 2: But for some reason, you thought you could cut the line.
• 54:05
  Speaker 2: You thought you could take a four point four million
• 54:07
  Speaker 2: dollars short cut, all to impress a woman who already
• 54:12
  Speaker 2: has her own money. He was dating the then CEO
• 54:16
  Speaker 2: of Aston's group. Her name was Donye Zina. Okay, that's
• 54:20
  Speaker 2: according to the New York Post. I don't know how
• 54:22
  Speaker 2: much she was making, but if she was the CEO
• 54:23
  Speaker 2: of a company, she was touching some paper. So I
• 54:26
  Speaker 2: don't know why you went out of your way, Brian,
• 54:27
  Speaker 2: to impress her. And I don't even like that phrase.
• 54:32
  Speaker 2: Fund the romance. You don't fund the romance. Romance happens
• 54:37
  Speaker 2: because of physical attraction, emotional connection, situational factors.
• 54:42
  Speaker 1: Okay, y'all might just match energies, you like the.
• 54:44
  Speaker 2: Same things, share the same beliefs, and let's not forget
• 54:47
  Speaker 2: the most important part, reciprocal liking.
• 54:51
  Speaker 1: Okay, you like me, I like you. Romance can't be funded.
• 54:55
  Speaker 2: Now, you can go buy some pink taco with some money,
• 54:57
  Speaker 2: all right, go to the bottle pull up in certain case,
• 55:00
  Speaker 2: he's at a brothel and you can purchase as much as.
• 55:02
  Speaker 1: That Harry Potter as you want. But the funding a romance, No.
• 55:07
  Speaker 2: I don't even want no romance. That's funny, because there's
• 55:09
  Speaker 2: no such thing. You can't buy a love fool. Now,
• 55:11
  Speaker 2: Brian was in the courtroom crying his ass off. I
• 55:14
  Speaker 2: want you to hear this again. Man, just listen.
• 55:16
  Speaker 7: I understand, and.
• 55:25
  Speaker 12: I really appreciated.
• 55:28
  Speaker 15: But ultimately, sir, right, ultimately what, ultimately what he is
• 55:38
  Speaker 15: going to jail for six years.
• 55:39
  Speaker 2: I respect that he's holding himself accountable. Okay, he said
• 55:41
  Speaker 2: he did these crimes. He said he deserves to go
• 55:44
  Speaker 2: to jail.
• 55:44
  Speaker 3: Now.
• 55:45
  Speaker 2: His defense lawyer Eric Franz, claimed to the court that
• 55:48
  Speaker 2: Brian had run into financial struggles and that he was
• 55:50
  Speaker 2: just trying to help his family with the stolen funds.
• 55:52
  Speaker 2: With assistant da Jonathan Boroff alleged that Brian stole the
• 55:56
  Speaker 2: money to spend on himself and his galpal doing hes
• 55:59
  Speaker 2: in they listen, neither one of those valid reasons. So
• 56:02
  Speaker 2: many people are having financial struggles, and sadly they don't
• 56:04
  Speaker 2: have the luxury of resorting the crime to get it.
• 56:07
  Speaker 1: Okay, and you, Brian, were in.
• 56:09
  Speaker 2: A privileged position already, not just the privileged position to
• 56:12
  Speaker 2: get money because you were a lawyer, you know what
• 56:14
  Speaker 2: I'm saying, but also a Manhattan real estate attorney should
• 56:18
  Speaker 2: be able to get his hands on some happy clamp
• 56:21
  Speaker 2: but nope, Instead you gotta guard your balloon. Not for
• 56:24
  Speaker 2: the next six years in somebody's prison. Okay, probably get
• 56:28
  Speaker 2: ass warts and for what. The moral of the story is,
• 56:32
  Speaker 2: life is a matter of choices, and every choice you
• 56:35
  Speaker 2: make makes you please give a sweet sounds of the Hamiltons.
• 56:38
  Speaker 1: Oh no, you are the doggee, damn the dog gee.
• 56:49
  Speaker 1: Oh the day yee everybody, it's dj n V jess hilarious.
• 56:56
  Speaker 1: Charlamage the guy. We are the breakfast club nowphew, just
• 57:00
  Speaker 1: joining us. Charlemagne gave Donkey of the day the whole.
• 57:02
  Speaker 2: There's a landlord in Westland, Michigan who owned the house,
• 57:06
  Speaker 2: got called over to do some repair, but decided to
• 57:09
  Speaker 2: bring some cheeks over and was smashing this young woman.
• 57:12
  Speaker 2: I don't even know if she was young, but smashing
• 57:13
  Speaker 2: the girl on the floor, and uh, he got recorded
• 57:17
  Speaker 2: by the house's ring camera or whatever it was.
• 57:19
  Speaker 1: Right, So the question is eight hundred and five five one,
• 57:22
  Speaker 1: five to one. Is this against the law? That's what
• 57:24
  Speaker 1: you're asking, is this.
• 57:25
  Speaker 2: They're saying that they don't know if it is against
• 57:27
  Speaker 2: the law. They're saying they don't know if he committed
• 57:28
  Speaker 2: a crime, because they said it's possible it could be
• 57:31
  Speaker 2: trust bathing, but it's probably more likely a civil issue
• 57:35
  Speaker 2: for violating.
• 57:35
  Speaker 5: Portions of the lease a ringing.
• 57:37
  Speaker 1: It wasn't really trustpassing because they invited him in to
• 57:39
  Speaker 1: fix something. No, it's his house, he owns the property. Yeah,
• 57:42
  Speaker 1: but I'm still leasing it from You just can't walk
• 57:44
  Speaker 1: in my house.
• 57:45
  Speaker 5: I owned the property. Can you really trust bath on
• 57:47
  Speaker 5: something you own?
• 57:48
  Speaker 1: Property you own from.
• 57:52
  Speaker 12: Charlomagne?
• 57:54
  Speaker 1: Yes, can't walk in somebody's house if I'm renting it,
• 57:56
  Speaker 1: if I'm leasing it.
• 57:57
  Speaker 5: I don't know about that.
• 57:58
  Speaker 1: You can't just walk in somebody out about he didn't
• 58:01
  Speaker 1: just walk in. First of all, he didn't just walk invited.
• 58:03
  Speaker 2: He was invited to do repairs and he owns the property.
• 58:07
  Speaker 1: Right, it's not because he was invited in.
• 58:11
  Speaker 12: But what what about that girl that Yeah, like like
• 58:15
  Speaker 12: he just bought her in there and just started smashing.
• 58:18
  Speaker 1: Her for an hour. That's crazy.
• 58:21
  Speaker 6: And then it was probably all funky in there.
• 58:23
  Speaker 5: When he came down, he said, that's what.
• 58:24
  Speaker 2: That's what the jabon who owns the house said. He
• 58:26
  Speaker 2: you know, they had to do the for breeze and
• 58:28
  Speaker 2: all of that.
• 58:28
  Speaker 1: Yeah, read, hour was a long time on the floor.
• 58:32
  Speaker 1: Your needs be hurting. But anyway, let's go to the
• 58:33
  Speaker 1: phone lines eight hundred five eight five one O five one?
• 58:37
  Speaker 1: Who because it what's your name?
• 58:43
  Speaker 8: Ashley talked to us.
• 58:45
  Speaker 1: Do you know who his landlord was?
• 58:47
  Speaker 10: No?
• 58:47
  Speaker 7: I don't.
• 58:49
  Speaker 14: But the initial reaction that I had was that man
• 58:51
  Speaker 14: was cheating because why couldn't he just take the chick
• 58:54
  Speaker 14: to his house, his.
• 58:55
  Speaker 1: Own house, that's right.
• 58:57
  Speaker 14: So while he has to take her to somewhere else
• 59:00
  Speaker 14: as if all, babe, I'm working, I'm not to go
• 59:02
  Speaker 14: work on the resident house and you have a whole
• 59:04
  Speaker 14: lady in there and smashing her.
• 59:05
  Speaker 5: Well, I think he was cheating too, but technically that
• 59:08
  Speaker 5: is his house too, though.
• 59:09
  Speaker 7: Yeah right, I.
• 59:15
  Speaker 1: Hello, who's this?
• 59:16
  Speaker 10: What's up?
• 59:16
  Speaker 3: What's up? Good morning?
• 59:17
  Speaker 7: This?
• 59:17
  Speaker 3: Now? What's good?
• 59:20
  Speaker 1: Man?
• 59:20
  Speaker 17: That that on that shub, But that happens all the time.
• 59:24
  Speaker 17: I got a famous friends from Miami, you know, entertainer
• 59:27
  Speaker 17: and you know, after the show you know, Groopy is
• 59:30
  Speaker 17: four five in the morning and a part of his
• 59:33
  Speaker 17: management team, you know what I mean. He was there
• 59:36
  Speaker 17: and the group people was there, and make a long
• 59:38
  Speaker 17: story short, he all property on South people somewhere. So
• 59:42
  Speaker 17: after the club, you know, early in the morning, and
• 59:45
  Speaker 17: you know, okay, let's go over here. So we're going
• 59:47
  Speaker 17: over here. So I'm looking at this type to do
• 59:49
  Speaker 17: his statue and the place we're going there, I'm like, damn,
• 59:52
  Speaker 17: what you doing over here? He said, Oh, I break
• 59:54
  Speaker 17: this out. This is my property dependants out of town.
• 59:57
  Speaker 17: So everybody went in, went inside. They then he locked up,
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 17: cleaned up, and walked out like nothing happened. But that
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 17: was back then when there wasn't too many cameras around
• 1:00:05
  Speaker 17: and stuff like that.
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 10: Damn okay, yeah, I stood on the show.
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 17: Have a flash forwarder, man, So what did you just
• 1:00:12
  Speaker 17: say he said.
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 5: To gud Be taking people to other people's place.
• 1:00:14
  Speaker 1: Yeah, oh okay, yeah, that's what he said.
• 1:00:16
  Speaker 2: But that's that what happened here. This man owns this
• 1:00:19
  Speaker 2: house he's laying doesn't.
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 1: Matter you rented out. Just because you own it and
• 1:00:22
  Speaker 1: you rented out, you're not supposed to be back in
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 1: this house. It's like Airbnb. If I rent your Airbnb,
• 1:00:26
  Speaker 1: you just can't pull up on me on Saturday. This
• 1:00:29
  Speaker 1: is normal behavior for him.
• 1:00:30
  Speaker 12: He'd be smashing and cheating on his wife or girlfriend
• 1:00:34
  Speaker 12: and all of his properties.
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 1: I bet Charlemagne gave donkey to day to who.
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 2: There's a Michigan and uh, there's a land there's a
• 1:00:40
  Speaker 2: landlord in Westland, Michigan who was called over to a
• 1:00:43
  Speaker 2: house that he owns to do some repairs. He was
• 1:00:45
  Speaker 2: supposed to remove some dead birds, but he ended up
• 1:00:47
  Speaker 2: bringing the chick over and smashing, and the cameras in
• 1:00:50
  Speaker 2: the house, you know, got him on camera.
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 1: All right, So we're asking eight hundred and five eight
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 1: five one oh five one is this criminal? I think
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 1: it has to be some type of criminal. You just
• 1:00:59
  Speaker 1: can't do what you one in my house.
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 2: What they're saying is not because number one, he owns
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 2: the place. And then I shure if what he did
• 1:01:05
  Speaker 2: is illegal, because like I said, he owns the house,
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 2: and and uh, it's probably more of a civil issue
• 1:01:11
  Speaker 2: for violating portions of his least agreement.
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 5: They're saying they don't even they don't even don't even
• 1:01:14
  Speaker 5: know if.
• 1:01:14
  Speaker 1: It's trustpassing because it's his house.
• 1:01:17
  Speaker 2: But what about the girl he got called ver well
• 1:01:19
  Speaker 2: and she ain't got nothing to do with it.
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  Speaker 1: She trustpasses he brought in there.
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  Speaker 2: Don't nobody cared about who. You can watch the video.
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  Speaker 2: You see them legs up and they don't even care
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  Speaker 2: who that is. It's all about the lands he went for.
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  Speaker 1: An Now that's a long time he built, Is he right? Yeah? Definitely?
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  Speaker 6: What fink?
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  Speaker 1: I ain't see his cheeks? They had it blurred.
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  Speaker 5: You want see the video?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I ain't see the video. Hello, who's this fil
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  Speaker 1: what's up? Talk to us? What's your thoughts?
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  Speaker 8: Feel yo? Book buddy and the buddy in the road,
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  Speaker 8: they don't You're wrong. What what's crazy is they don't
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  Speaker 8: know what the crime is. I know what the crime is.
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  Speaker 8: Crime crime is solicitation, question mark.
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  Speaker 4: He track old girl down to find out how much
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  Speaker 4: he paid for that. He ain't having any like that.
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  Speaker 1: You think it was a prostitute. He just got wiggled in.
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  Speaker 2: How you figure he having his way? That man owned property.
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  Speaker 2: That man got some money in his.
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  Speaker 3: Pocket exactly, that's how he got it.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, but that don't mean it. He might be though,
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  Speaker 2: You might be right, that might be prostitutions.
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  Speaker 8: Right, he feel like a little beat.
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  Speaker 1: Oh you've seen the video? Yeah, hold look seeing right there?
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  Speaker 5: Just look thank you?
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  Speaker 1: Brother? Look hello, who's.
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  Speaker 8: This breakfast the morning? It's Tony Up.
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  Speaker 1: He talked to us. What's your thoughts on? Hey?
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  Speaker 8: Look, obviously dudes like crazy and that's the cool and
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  Speaker 8: and I'm not arguing that. All I need to know
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  Speaker 8: is dead broke. But his bare ask of my furniture
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  Speaker 8: because it still you got to replace that.
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  Speaker 1: Brother. Well, yeah, now he's in the furniture. He in
• 1:02:51
  Speaker 1: the furniture.
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  Speaker 2: But now now he was actually I don't know what
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  Speaker 2: on the couch.
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  Speaker 1: My couch got crashed.
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  Speaker 8: Talking about dude built like the mute creature from the commercials.
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  Speaker 1: He is built like the music man.
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  Speaker 8: Nasty and sweaty, all over my furniture. Completely.
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  Speaker 1: I don't think. I don't think there's no problect to either.
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  Speaker 5: Because she had a bondit, she had a bonnet on.
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  Speaker 1: Oh my god. Yeah that's different. Now it might have
• 1:03:13
  Speaker 1: been a process with the bonnet.
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  Speaker 8: He's doing something. He's going outside of his house to
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  Speaker 8: do it. Yeah, he might be hiding something.
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  Speaker 5: I'm gonna tell you what I.
• 1:03:22
  Speaker 1: Could be.
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  Speaker 2: The more I put together these little context clues. I'm
• 1:03:25
  Speaker 2: figuring this out. She had a bonnet on. She must
• 1:03:28
  Speaker 2: live in that neighborhood. Yes, she live in that neighborhood
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  Speaker 2: from before she know them.
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  Speaker 6: I'm telling you this is the first This think the
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  Speaker 6: first time they got together.
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  Speaker 1: So he probably married.
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  Speaker 8: Knock to my house and knockdown the old thing. I
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  Speaker 8: don't care if you want to get off my couch
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  Speaker 8: like that.
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  Speaker 2: I bet you he probably married, and she probably married.
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  Speaker 2: He hit her up real quickly, like I'm over here
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  Speaker 2: doing some repairs. She came out the house in.
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  Speaker 1: A bonnet real quickly.
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  Speaker 5: He tossed up.
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  Speaker 1: Hell, yo, that is so nasty. Damn all right, well,
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  Speaker 1: thank you, brother, Yeah, will take some more calls. Eight
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  Speaker 1: hundred and five five five When Charlamagne gave donkey of
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  Speaker 1: the day uh to this landlord and he's we're trying
• 1:04:05
  Speaker 1: to figure out is a criminal? I think it's criminal.
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  Speaker 1: You just can't be just doing whatever you want in
• 1:04:08
  Speaker 1: the house that I'm riding from you, especially if my
• 1:04:10
  Speaker 1: rent on time.
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 2: I tell her, this landlord walk like he's down with
• 1:04:13
  Speaker 2: O P P. Bro Yes, other people's property for real,
• 1:04:16
  Speaker 2: Because you know what I'm saying. You walk in the
• 1:04:18
  Speaker 2: room Backstreet, arms out to the side, swinging, act like
• 1:04:23
  Speaker 2: it was his crib.
• 1:04:24
  Speaker 1: He acts like it was Hello, who's this I need
• 1:04:33
  Speaker 1: I know where a back door needs to be installed.
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  Speaker 16: I'm thinking you're a little jealous of me and his relationships,
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  Speaker 16: even though we don't even have a related But no,
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  Speaker 16: technically that was crazy.
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  Speaker 1: Was crazy holding outside crazy. I'm jealous. I'm sorry we're
• 1:04:55
  Speaker 1: on the radio line, but we don't have relationship. Stay
• 1:05:00
  Speaker 1: ain't no.
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  Speaker 16: No, Charlemagne, no, just like yo, just like just saying
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  Speaker 16: Charlamagne has j here.
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  Speaker 2: I think Charlamagne was like, yeah, you'd be pressure washing
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  Speaker 2: Envy's deck.
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  Speaker 9: Guy.
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  Speaker 16: Very cool dude who just supports a black owned business.
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  Speaker 8: Stop doing that.
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  Speaker 1: He's working on your foundation. I ain't got nothing to
• 1:05:26
  Speaker 1: do with that, brother, Okay. Jealous, he's definitely jealous that
• 1:05:35
  Speaker 1: what you were saying.
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  Speaker 16: No, morally, I think it's very wrong, especially when you
• 1:05:40
  Speaker 16: built like that. You understand technically, I don't know if
• 1:05:44
  Speaker 16: I don't know if he can get in trouble, but
• 1:05:46
  Speaker 16: morally that is not right. You should not just be
• 1:05:49
  Speaker 16: slinging your meat wherever you want because you own own
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 16: the property.
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 1: It doesn't Yeah, right, Yeah, that's the crazy part about
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 1: this story, the fact that he's built the way that
• 1:06:01
  Speaker 1: he's building. He was hitting it for an hour. I
• 1:06:02
  Speaker 1: still need to you need to see this.
• 1:06:04
  Speaker 16: You should at least be a little second like I'm
• 1:06:07
  Speaker 16: on now what I mean.
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  Speaker 8: I guess morally you're wrong.
• 1:06:13
  Speaker 16: I don't know if he can get.
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  Speaker 8: In trouble though.
• 1:06:17
  Speaker 5: Everyone you'll have a good day. If he said come
• 1:06:20
  Speaker 5: over later, he want to want you to help him.
• 1:06:24
  Speaker 4: Wait a minute, let me just make a point real quick,
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  Speaker 4: and I'm making.
• 1:06:28
  Speaker 8: In trouble for it.
• 1:06:30
  Speaker 16: Stacey, you are trapped at each other's number, Me and him,
• 1:06:33
  Speaker 16: be just your straight business.
• 1:06:35
  Speaker 1: That's what I'm talking about. I'm talking about. That's what
• 1:06:38
  Speaker 1: I'm talking about.
• 1:06:40
  Speaker 5: It should just be business when you're a married man.
• 1:06:43
  Speaker 1: Envy, No, he said business said you are y'all more personal,
• 1:06:49
  Speaker 1: right and drive?
• 1:06:50
  Speaker 5: Actually for business.
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  Speaker 14: People be asking yo, people be asking to yo.
• 1:06:54
  Speaker 3: You give me a contact with Charlavage.
• 1:06:55
  Speaker 8: I'm like, you gotta call them radio. I don't got
• 1:06:57
  Speaker 8: their numbers.
• 1:06:58
  Speaker 2: You God damn right, Stacy, I see you at the
• 1:07:03
  Speaker 2: cart show, Stacey, know you will.
• 1:07:05
  Speaker 6: Sure will?
• 1:07:08
  Speaker 1: I hate this play.
• 1:07:12
  Speaker 2: Oh my goodness, it's damn the moiler story is landlords,
• 1:07:17
  Speaker 2: don't abuse your power.
• 1:07:18
  Speaker 5: Police.
• 1:07:19
  Speaker 1: That's all right. Well the breakfast clogan morning everybody is
• 1:07:23
  Speaker 1: DJ env just hilarious, Charlamagne, the gud we are the
• 1:07:27
  Speaker 1: breakfast club. Charlemagne. You got a positive note.
• 1:07:30
  Speaker 2: Uh, ask for what you want people, Okay, that's the
• 1:07:33
  Speaker 2: positive note. Find the courage to ask for what you want.
• 1:07:36
  Speaker 2: Others have the right to tell you yes and no,
• 1:07:38
  Speaker 2: but you always have the right to ask. Likewise, everybody
• 1:07:42
  Speaker 2: has the right to ask you for what they want,
• 1:07:44
  Speaker 2: and you have the right to say yes and no.
• 1:07:47
  Speaker 1: But just always find the courage to ask for what
• 1:07:49
  Speaker 1: you want. Have a breakfast club. You're finished for y'all done.