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Almost Famous OG: Bachelor Yearbook · The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast

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  Speaker 1: This is the almost famous podcast with I R Radio. Hi, Everybody, Hi, Bob,
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  Speaker 1: Trisa Sutter, Nay Wren say that when they say name,
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  Speaker 1: no it's I don't know where did Nay come from?
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  Speaker 1: I mean it's I don't know that it's me with
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  Speaker 1: a little an accent, like like when I was studying French.
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  Speaker 1: One of the only things I remember about studying in
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  Speaker 1: French was I love to say. The only French I
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  Speaker 1: know that is you and I shall never part. That's
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  Speaker 1: what that with the love notes to, although I'm not
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  Speaker 1: sure because I said that my father in law actually
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  Speaker 1: speaks fluent French and I said that to him one time.
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  Speaker 1: He's like, that's not what you're saying. I'm like, no,
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  Speaker 1: it is held out everybody. You may know me better
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  Speaker 1: than I. Yes, Hi, everybody, Welcome to the almost famous
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  Speaker 1: O G podcast Hi, starring Tristas Sutter featuring Flash Hands
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  Speaker 1: JA I mean jazz hands, flash hands. I just yeah,
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  Speaker 1: there you go, jazz hands. Speaking of which, you had
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  Speaker 1: some big I saw some posts of on your Instagram
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  Speaker 1: this past week with Max Big week for the boy.
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  Speaker 1: I know he uh graduated eighth grade. It's so funny.
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  Speaker 1: I saw a meme Um, that someone put up and
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  Speaker 1: they're like, your kid moved from second to third grade,
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  Speaker 1: enough with the graduation parties. I get it, you know,
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  Speaker 1: I was that guy. I would have probably said that
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  Speaker 1: five years ago. Now I'm like, what do you mean? Like,
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  Speaker 1: I literally I have to tell you this. This is
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  Speaker 1: this is a terrible thing to admit. And hopefully the
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  Speaker 1: person who set this up doesn't watch this episode of
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  Speaker 1: our podcast before I have a chance to get past it.
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  Speaker 1: I was invited to go to the Trade Grand Prix
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  Speaker 1: this weekend by a friend of mine who's a driver,
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  Speaker 1: and uh, I was like, oh my god, that'd be amazing.
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  Speaker 1: My son absolutely loves race cars, right, so he says, um,
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  Speaker 1: and I I knew I had I had to fly
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  Speaker 1: out on Sunday to do an event, but I was
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  Speaker 1: also going to a four year old's birthday party, which
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  Speaker 1: is my son's best friend's birthday party. And so the
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  Speaker 1: guys like, I got it set up so you can
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  Speaker 1: drive basically drive in the pace car, but I'm gonna
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  Speaker 1: be driving race car. I'm like what, And I'm like
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  Speaker 1: that's amazing. Yeah, it's on Sunday. You'd have to do
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  Speaker 1: it from like, like you know, I'm like, what would
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  Speaker 1: be the time commitment there? And he's like, but you
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  Speaker 1: probably like one thirty, the probably two thirty, and I'm
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  Speaker 1: like doing the math in my head. I'm like, I
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  Speaker 1: gotta do this drive by because I cannot let myself
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  Speaker 1: and I want my son to go to the Grand
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  Speaker 1: Prix so because he loves it, I can't. He wouldn't
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  Speaker 1: be able to ride in the car with me though,
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  Speaker 1: I'd be in the car by myself. So then I
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  Speaker 1: started weighing it out and I'm like, man, five years
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  Speaker 1: ago me would be like, hell, yeah, let's do it.
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  Speaker 1: I'll move my flight and uh you know, I'll swing
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  Speaker 1: by the the the birthday party if I can. Now
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  Speaker 1: with my son and knowing how much it means to him,
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, I can't do it. You just can't do everything,
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  Speaker 1: good Dad, I gotta do it right by my boy.
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  Speaker 1: You know, he wants to be at this birthday party
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  Speaker 1: so bad and I wanted to be there, and I
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  Speaker 1: was just like, I'm so sorry. I hope I didn't
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  Speaker 1: convence you, but no, I can't do it. So well,
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  Speaker 1: you know what, It's okay, another opportunity will come up, hopefully,
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  Speaker 1: you know. I always do. They always do. It never
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  Speaker 1: ceases to amazing. Put it out in the universe. Put
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  Speaker 1: it out there. Let's make something crazy happen. Something will happen. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I'm sure of it. Anyway, Yeah, it was. It was
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  Speaker 1: a big week. Last week. He had his last lacrosse
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  Speaker 1: tournament and um, it's a really short season lacrosse, which
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  Speaker 1: is kind of funny. But we were playing. He was playing.
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  Speaker 1: I say we all the time, which I shouldn't because
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  Speaker 1: he's in this place. Um, he was playing in a
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  Speaker 1: hill storm. Hail storm. It was hailing on us. Hail No,
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  Speaker 1: it was awful. It was crazy. I mean not big chunks.
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  Speaker 1: But and then one of the dads was talking about
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  Speaker 1: how the biggest hail storm in history. I'm sure if
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  Speaker 1: we googled it, we'd figure it out. But I think
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  Speaker 1: like seven people died because they were like softball size.
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  Speaker 1: Hal I mean it was they were tiny, tiny little
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  Speaker 1: hail balls, but still hail like the end of May.
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  Speaker 1: You know. It's well, you know, I was going to
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  Speaker 1: tell you so some of the crew that works on
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  Speaker 1: My My Deal or No Deal show are from Denver,
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  Speaker 1: and so we were together. It would have been last
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  Speaker 1: Saturday when you guys got so much snow. Yeah, crazy.
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  Speaker 1: It was like what He's like, Yeah, it was ninety
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  Speaker 1: degrees when I got on the plane to leave, and
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  Speaker 1: then I lay and and it's snowing. He's like, we
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  Speaker 1: got like four ft of snow and Denver. I'm like, yes,
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  Speaker 1: you have to literally bring all kinds of like layers
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  Speaker 1: are number one for anyone who lives in Colorado, and
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  Speaker 1: then multiple kinds of shoes because I'll wear like boots
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  Speaker 1: to the airport and then need flip flops when I
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  Speaker 1: get back, you know, or vice versa. So yeah, I
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  Speaker 1: mean Colorado is amazing. I do truly love it. Although
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  Speaker 1: I was called out. Someone brought up, um, I'm going
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  Speaker 1: to start a new kind of job very soon supporting
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  Speaker 1: a friend in real estate, and yeah, I'm really excited
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  Speaker 1: about it. But she was telling someone about about me
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  Speaker 1: that I would be working for, and she's like, oh,
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  Speaker 1: that Trista, the one who hated to live in the
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  Speaker 1: cold weather from the show. She remembered me talking to
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  Speaker 1: Ryan about how it would be really hard for me
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  Speaker 1: to to live in, you know, an environment that has
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  Speaker 1: lots of snow. But I will say it's grown on
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  Speaker 1: me and it takes a little time, but there you go.
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  Speaker 1: It does. But it's really mild like in the Midwest,
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  Speaker 1: as you know, it's not fun in the winter, like
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  Speaker 1: it is horrible. It's bitter cold, like to your bone cold.
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  Speaker 1: And in Colorado is not like that. It's very mild
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  Speaker 1: and pretty. And yeah, it's well, you moved there from
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  Speaker 1: Miami to which is like, you know, you've been living
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  Speaker 1: in Miami at the time, so it's from from actually
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  Speaker 1: l A, well Miami, then l A then then okay,
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  Speaker 1: but yeah, yeah, I was used to the warm weather
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  Speaker 1: and a little bit of humidity would be nice. My
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  Speaker 1: hand hands are just so dry. Well, I always think
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  Speaker 1: about it from the standpoint of now. My wife is
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  Speaker 1: going through it because I relocated her from southern California
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  Speaker 1: to Seattle then to Detroit, and she's not always super
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  Speaker 1: happy about that move, but she likes the people. You know,
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  Speaker 1: it's about the people. It's not the people. Just keep
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  Speaker 1: saying that, just keep saying that. So I'm excited about
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  Speaker 1: our guest today. I haven't talked to her in a while.
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  Speaker 1: She's one of our beautiful O G s um and
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  Speaker 1: on the our our thread, our bachelorette thread, you know,
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  Speaker 1: text thread has been going crazy lately because we have
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  Speaker 1: had not only an engagement, which was the end result
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  Speaker 1: of the woman proposing to the man. I mean I
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  Speaker 1: saw a little news clip and um uh someone who
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  Speaker 1: had said it, I can't remember Nick Nick had said,
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  Speaker 1: you are my favorite redemption story. So Becca kou Friend
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  Speaker 1: and Thomas Jacobs got engaged. But do you remember back
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  Speaker 1: on Aris season like they seemed like they were so
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  Speaker 1: in love and then are decided to to end it
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  Speaker 1: with Becca after they had gotten engaged and go back
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  Speaker 1: with Lauren kind of a mesnic kind of thing, and
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  Speaker 1: she was heartbroken and then became the bachelorette and and
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  Speaker 1: then things fell apart with her chosen one and now
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  Speaker 1: she's happy and was the like the proposer, which is
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  Speaker 1: so cool. So what did she say anything? Like what
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  Speaker 1: made her decide to get down on a knee instead
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  Speaker 1: of waiting for him to do it? Was it? Just
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  Speaker 1: like you know what? I actually in the text thread,
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  Speaker 1: they started like when something happens, you start getting the
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  Speaker 1: ding ding dings, And I can't remember who said congratulations Becca,
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  Speaker 1: and then keep people kept saying stuff and I said, uh,
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  Speaker 1: I need a story, like I want to hear what
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  Speaker 1: the story is. I'm sure she's talking about it on
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  Speaker 1: Bachelor Happy Hour because that's her podcast. I would assume
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  Speaker 1: she'll share or even in the media somehow, but I
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  Speaker 1: don't know personally. You know, it's a big text thread.
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  Speaker 1: So when every a group text chain, I don't know,
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  Speaker 1: it can be kind of annoying for people, especially the
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  Speaker 1: people who aren't into text messages. I mute those things.
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  Speaker 1: I don't mind them, Like I like catching up on
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  Speaker 1: the funny stuff here and there. But man, when somebody
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  Speaker 1: doesn't have like so for example, on those things, if
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  Speaker 1: everyone has an iPhone, they're actually great. If one person
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  Speaker 1: doesn't have an iPhone and they say ha ha to
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  Speaker 1: somebody's thing, then it says just to laugh at you know,
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  Speaker 1: blah blah blah blah. Then someone says ha ha to that,
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  Speaker 1: just to laugh at duddy laughing at als be crazy.
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  Speaker 1: So there's a there's a point in time where I'm like,
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  Speaker 1: is that when that happens? Actually, you're putting a light
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  Speaker 1: bulb above my head? Is it? When the people don't
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  Speaker 1: have an iPhone, that's why it says they replied to
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  Speaker 1: this one, it throws the whole got it? Oh, my gosh,
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  Speaker 1: that makes so much more sense. Thank you. You also
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  Speaker 1: can't send you can't send a text like on the
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  Speaker 1: on the on the tech threads with someone who doesn't
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  Speaker 1: have one like it doesn't have an iPhone. You also
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  Speaker 1: cannot send a video because then it makes it super small.
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  Speaker 1: And really that's why, Oh my gosh, Bob, you're teaching
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  Speaker 1: me so much today. I discovered these things. I discovered
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  Speaker 1: them over years. It being on tech threads I didn't
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  Speaker 1: want to be on That's how I found these out. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: keep it coming. I love the tips. These are little factoids,
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  Speaker 1: little factoids. Um, but yeah, I'm really excited to touch her. Anyway.
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  Speaker 1: It was that and then what other? Oh and then
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  Speaker 1: Jojo got married. Jojo Enjoya got married. So big things
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  Speaker 1: are happening in Bachelor Nation. I feel like recently they
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  Speaker 1: waited for so long they had to cancel their wedding
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  Speaker 1: during COVID, I believe, and and finally they're happily married.
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  Speaker 1: I think. I just I just love love. I love love.
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  Speaker 1: That's why I've loved the show for so long. It's
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  Speaker 1: just to me, you know, I know that, you know,
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  Speaker 1: we like the drama and we like the Bachelor in Paradise,
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  Speaker 1: and but I do. I think that's the bottom line
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  Speaker 1: of it all, is I just I love love. Well,
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  Speaker 1: it's nice. It's nice when it works out, you know,
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  Speaker 1: especially I think with Joe Joe and Jordan especially, I
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  Speaker 1: think that's pretty awesome because you know, we all watched
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  Speaker 1: that season, we were all invested in it to a
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  Speaker 1: certain degree, and you know, for me, I was I
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  Speaker 1: was a big fan of Joe Joe. So you know,
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  Speaker 1: when when she came off of ben season and they
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  Speaker 1: made her the bath Round, I'm like, oh, it's gonna
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  Speaker 1: be awesome. And then I remember Jordan's season was a
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  Speaker 1: little you know, our Joe Joe's season rather with Jordan's
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  Speaker 1: was a little interesting too because of course, you know
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  Speaker 1: his family lineage and things like that, so you know,
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  Speaker 1: a lot to look at when those things happen. Yeah. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I think it's a great time to take a break.
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  Speaker 1: So we'll be we'll be right, boat people. We're back
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  Speaker 1: almost famous to O G s with the lovely in
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  Speaker 1: Talented Desert sick for It high does I yes, yes,
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  Speaker 1: We've been talking about Nay Nay, like why do you
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  Speaker 1: have it at nay? What does that even mean, and
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  Speaker 1: why do they have it when they put it in print? Nay, random?
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  Speaker 1: How are you plan? It's great, it's doing good. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I'm having Did you just move? Um? So, we were
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  Speaker 1: in Seattle about two years ago, three years ago, and
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  Speaker 1: then we went to We moved to Portland after having Sander,
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  Speaker 1: just to be closer to family. Awesome. Yeah, would you
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  Speaker 1: ever come back to I moved your so so does
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  Speaker 1: and my wife have been friends for a very long time.
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  Speaker 1: And I actually I met dees Um totally not through
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  Speaker 1: the show like three things, and then we were fortunate
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  Speaker 1: enough to be at their wedding, which was great, and
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  Speaker 1: then we hung out with them in Seattle. There we
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  Speaker 1: were first people we went out to dinner with when
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  Speaker 1: we moved to Seattle. Yeah, and then I just moved.
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  Speaker 1: I loved Jessica when you move to Portland. I moved
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  Speaker 1: Jessica to Detroit and she's really happy. Yeah, I know happy.
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  Speaker 1: I was going to ask how are the boys. They're
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  Speaker 1: doing great? I mean it's awesome, you know, three and
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  Speaker 1: a half and at almost four uh and then uh
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  Speaker 1: and then ten months right now, so July one will
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  Speaker 1: be actually eleven months, eleven months as of yesterday, so yeah,
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  Speaker 1: so Blake will be one in July and then Grace
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  Speaker 1: will be four in December. So they're doing great. They're
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  Speaker 1: doing really good. That's a busy time with two two boys. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: it definitely asked how about you? How how is Chris?
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  Speaker 1: How are the kids? Tell us everything, how's the good,
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  Speaker 1: how's the design, the bridal design, how's everything going? I
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  Speaker 1: mean where do I begin? Um, all is doing really well.
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  Speaker 1: I mean we're just having fun. My boys are now
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  Speaker 1: three and five, so it's just a really fun age
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  Speaker 1: now to be watching them grow. And like we we
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  Speaker 1: started baseball this past like all t ball or baseball,
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  Speaker 1: t ball, t ball. Oh so cute. Um, and then
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  Speaker 1: Chris is coaching and it's just really really cute. I
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  Speaker 1: feel like you fall in love all over again because
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  Speaker 1: it's like just a different um all everything. So yeah,
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  Speaker 1: well he really is such a high level too. Didn't
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  Speaker 1: he play like miners or was he in the pros?
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  Speaker 1: He played minor? Yeah, I mean that's still that's like
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  Speaker 1: that's big deal. So I mean for him to be
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  Speaker 1: out there coaching your kids has got to be pretty incredible. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: it's fun. It so, but my little one is like
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  Speaker 1: you know, he like doesn't stop like if he misses something, like,
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  Speaker 1: he keeps going, keeps going, keeps going. Um, but ashure
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  Speaker 1: he's a little more emotional when he like you know,
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  Speaker 1: misses or like he just gets bored and wants to
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  Speaker 1: go home. He's like the one that's naturally talented at
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  Speaker 1: baseball but just doesn't maybe have the heart for it.
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  Speaker 1: But we'll see. He's literally five, so exactly right. Fun
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  Speaker 1: for sure, totally. Yeah, yeah, it's so funny. But no,
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  Speaker 1: it's been good. We've been good, just just growing up,
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  Speaker 1: you know, just building our little family here in Martland
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  Speaker 1: and being close to family has been really great. So
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  Speaker 1: I get it. While you who's to Detroit to I
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  Speaker 1: mean it's yeah, yeah, it was. It was nice because
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  Speaker 1: her parents, my wife's parents, travel a lot, and so
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  Speaker 1: they come and stay with us for you know, six
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  Speaker 1: weeks at a time type of thing, and then they'll
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  Speaker 1: go back to l A for a couple of months.
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  Speaker 1: And so it's been nice to have, you know, to
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  Speaker 1: be close to my family, especially with my parents being
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  Speaker 1: so much older and stuff. But so that's been really pleasant.
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  Speaker 1: And I love the Pacific Northwest. I I can't get
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  Speaker 1: back to Seattle enough. Right now. I know, I know,
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  Speaker 1: so pretty. I love it. It's very pretty. I mean
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  Speaker 1: it's not like you know, Veil is asking, but just
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  Speaker 1: are you in Veil? Yeah, I mean Bail is stunning too.
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  Speaker 1: What a beautiful place to live. So pretty lucky. You
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  Speaker 1: guys are both lucky. And then my wife, poor wife
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  Speaker 1: in Detroit. I'm just kidding. Um, so are you on
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  Speaker 1: this text thread that Tris has been telling me about
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  Speaker 1: that just blows up with things all the time. Yes,
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  Speaker 1: it's so fun. I know we put that together. However
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  Speaker 1: it got started. I actually don't even no, I don't
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  Speaker 1: remember I know that when we so, Bob, I don't
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  Speaker 1: know if you saw this, but during COVID we put
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  Speaker 1: together and it came out kind of after the the
• 16:32
  Speaker 1: you know, the big part of the pandemic when everyone
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  Speaker 1: was required to stay at home. But we put together
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  Speaker 1: this video where we would we passed a rows from
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  Speaker 1: each Yeah, so it kind of started around there. I
• 16:47
  Speaker 1: feel like, because we have to, we've had to keep
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  Speaker 1: adding bachelorettes to the text after they after they have
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  Speaker 1: their show. So I assume that Gabby and Rachel will
• 16:59
  Speaker 1: be joining us soon. Um, it's just a way for
• 17:03
  Speaker 1: us to kind of stay connected. We've talked about doing,
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  Speaker 1: you know, a trip together for a while and because
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  Speaker 1: I just I just feel like it's such a rare population,
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  Speaker 1: you know, to be a part of this rare opportunity,
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  Speaker 1: and we're all connected. Even though if someone doesn't want
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  Speaker 1: to be connected, that's okay, that we respect that and
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  Speaker 1: they don't want to be involved, that's totally fine. Um,
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  Speaker 1: But I love it. I love being able to connect
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  Speaker 1: with um, you know, especially like the younger girls, because
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  Speaker 1: I wouldn't normally, like Dez and I have been two
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  Speaker 1: different things together, same with Dianna, and like Ashley and Jillian,
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  Speaker 1: I don't you know, the old g s really, but
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  Speaker 1: it's kind of cool to connect to those younger girls
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  Speaker 1: because I don't. We wouldn't normally in our life connect
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  Speaker 1: to them because we're in different you know, parts of
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  Speaker 1: our life. We're parents, ball games, you know, right quite
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  Speaker 1: like the big engagement news or the wedding news, but
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  Speaker 1: you know, all all the same, different journeys, different seasons
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  Speaker 1: of life. But it's so it's really fun to be
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  Speaker 1: on that thread just to kind of be support one another.
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  Speaker 1: Because Chris has said, it's such a rare and interesting
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  Speaker 1: experience that we all I've been through, um, and it's
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  Speaker 1: just fund to take part in life together. Um. And
• 18:31
  Speaker 1: you know, even like she said, if if someone doesn't
• 18:33
  Speaker 1: want to respond or doesn't want to be in part
• 18:35
  Speaker 1: of it, it's okay, yeah, gotten and supporting one another.
• 18:41
  Speaker 1: I actually I also think it's just such a great way.
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: Like the ones that are I say younger, but the
• 18:47
  Speaker 1: ones that are newer, um, yeah, I wish more of
• 18:51
  Speaker 1: them would reach out to the like once I've been
• 18:55
  Speaker 1: through it, um, I know that I would have loved
• 18:59
  Speaker 1: all of that. And you know what's what's interesting about
• 19:04
  Speaker 1: that because I feel like when you know kind of, um,
• 19:09
  Speaker 1: maybe your season was kind of a start of like
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: the middle of the franchise at least right now, and
• 19:16
  Speaker 1: they used to ask me to do stuff, and then
• 19:19
  Speaker 1: that kind of stopped happening. And I think that they
• 19:23
  Speaker 1: just the producers think, well, we need to have the
• 19:26
  Speaker 1: most recent bachelorettes because they're the ones that the you know,
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: the viewers are watching and interested in right now. But
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: I would love to be able to like actually have
• 19:37
  Speaker 1: conversations with these women who are going on the show,
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: because even though the women who are on it most
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: recently to them, probably can add more UM intel in
• 19:50
  Speaker 1: terms of the producers and production how that is for
• 19:53
  Speaker 1: them right now because that has changed a lot in
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: social media and all of that. But I feel like,
• 19:59
  Speaker 1: you know, Ryan and I are pretty successful and I
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: don't know, maybe I know a little something about marriage years.
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: They need more more us on how to like make
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: relationships last and less yeah on TV especially, you know,
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: especially coming back to the show. Like you know, that's
• 20:21
  Speaker 1: the thing. Both of you have had that success coming
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: off of the show with the person that you know
• 20:25
  Speaker 1: you chose and chose you, And I mean going back
• 20:28
  Speaker 1: to normal life can't be easy. I mean it was
• 20:31
  Speaker 1: hard enough when when you really doesn't work out on
• 20:33
  Speaker 1: the TV show to get back to a normal jam,
• 20:36
  Speaker 1: you know. So I mean I can imagine when you're
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: a couple and you're doing it together and everybody's got
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: an opinion, it's got to just be so nauseating and
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: exhausting after a while. So you guys should definitely be
• 20:46
  Speaker 1: consulting people on that stuff. I know, maybe we should
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: start a company does like cut the consultation UM. They
• 20:54
  Speaker 1: would come to us as consultation experts for reality TV
• 20:57
  Speaker 1: and how the navigating. Do you still do the bridle
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: gown design and everything? You're still actively? Yeah? I do.
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: I'm I was in a transition of like shifting production,
• 21:10
  Speaker 1: but yeah, I'm still doing it. Still love. I still
• 21:12
  Speaker 1: love weddings, and I still love brides, and I still
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: love designing. Um But I have realized in my season
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: of life with the young boys, like, uh, just how
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: to balance it, you know, and so so I I
• 21:29
  Speaker 1: will take time to just be with them if I
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: need to. Yeah, you know, I learned a lot with
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: opening a business and starting one, and like just how
• 21:38
  Speaker 1: easily you can get consumed by it and kind of
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: track of all the things that you know are actually
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: more really yeah, I can imagine too. I mean your
• 21:48
  Speaker 1: business is all you, right, it's your creativity, it's your design,
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: and then you have to actually I'm sure source the
• 21:55
  Speaker 1: fabrics and a million things I don't understand obviously, but
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: I can only imagine I had to be incredibly time consuming. Yeah,
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: it's time consuming. But I also think just in any job,
• 22:05
  Speaker 1: if you're working ahead in your brain so like constantly
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: work ahead, you feel like you don't have a moment
• 22:11
  Speaker 1: to stop. Um N. Once you've so it wasn't until
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: I actually got pregnant with Asher. I feel like I
• 22:17
  Speaker 1: was forced to slow down and forced to like be
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: like what am I doing? Like yeah, like what do
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: I want to accomplish? And and and I don't know,
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: just setting up the I don't know, just setting up
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: You're almost like you're what you want your family to
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: be and what you want your kids to remember. So
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: ye are important in that season of life, same as you, Bob,
• 22:44
  Speaker 1: and same as you Tristed. Just your kids are now older,
• 22:47
  Speaker 1: so I'll have to come to you for all the
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: parenting advice. I mean, yeah, it's crazy, Like we were
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: just talking about how because we'll look at houses because
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: Ryan's working in Denver now and he has to commute
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: from the mountains to Denver and we're always looking. But
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: I don't think we'll ever leave because he's like truly
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: a mountain man. He has to be in the mountains
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: or else he will not be happy. Um. Anyway, we
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: were saying, you know, maybe when the kids are gone,
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: because five freaking years from now, I am going to
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: be an empty nester. Five years, five years, Like what
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: I remember meeting Blakeslee, like when she was four years old,
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: So that's yes, guys, let's just let's just put something
• 23:34
  Speaker 1: in perspective. Right now, five years from now, I'm just
• 23:38
  Speaker 1: gonna be sitting at a tea ball game with a
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: six year old, right, that's right. Look we go and
• 23:45
  Speaker 1: I love it. Look we go from handing out roses
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: to tea ball games and handing out slices. Okay, so
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: I know we we probably should have led with this.
• 23:59
  Speaker 1: But does will you remind everyone which season of Bachelor
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: and Bachelorte you were? You know, it's been a while.
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: You're like, I don't know, you know, I know I
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: remember mine. I think I think it. So I was
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: on Sean's season and that was I think season seventeen
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: of the Bachelor, and then I would yeah, Bachelor at
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: season nine, Okay, got it? And which was your favorite?
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: Do you guys know that? What season are we on? Now? No?
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: I think it's I have no idea. All I can
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: tell you And I think I told does this when
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: I first met her. I was like, you know, I
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: was talking to her and I was like, um, I
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: just I'm so thankful that it didn't go off the
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: air when I was the Bachelor, Like I didn't take
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: the ship down. Sure I was going to be a
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: freight train to the bottom. No, No, Instead you were
• 24:57
  Speaker 1: the kissing band kiss Yes, I was. That's right. So
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: which is still are so? Which was your favorite bachelor
• 25:06
  Speaker 1: or bachelorette? I mean that's hard, so like being the lead.
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: Being the lead was obviously the most the hardest, especially
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: for me. I'm super introverted actually, and so like how
• 25:18
  Speaker 1: not being able to like have my alone time or
• 25:21
  Speaker 1: like just it was a lot. It was a lot
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: of um. So, it was just overwhelming emotionally, physically and
• 25:29
  Speaker 1: all the things. Um yeah, not to mention having to
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: deal with drama. So that part was terrible. But obviously
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: I met Chris and it all worked out the way
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: that it was supposed to work out, and it all
• 25:41
  Speaker 1: worked out for friend. So um. I obviously I loved
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: the bachelorret for that, but I had the most I had,
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: Like it was so much easier just being in the
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: house drinking margarita, right, true, Oh that is a fun
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: an easy part. Like I I always say that, I'm like,
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: you know, when I was on Triest this season, it
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: was a blast. I got to meet all these cool guys.
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: We hung out, you know, I was like the chef
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: of the house. I mean not really, but I'd be like,
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: you know, can we get some lasagna and Tito's And
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: next thing you know that Titoes is there in the lasagna,
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: never shows, but that makes you a chef. That's a chef.
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: And uh but then, yeah, you're right when you're the
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: when you're the Bachelor or the bachelor at and you're
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: both of your cases, it's there's a lot of pressure,
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: a lot of drama, a lot of you're so worried
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: about hurting at least I was always so worried about
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: hurting people's feelings. And yeah, so I want to know
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: because I know this this to be true from your season.
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: Chris never watched the show afterwards? Has he watched it since? Um?
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: He he would watch episodes here and there, so like
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: since but of your no, I'm talking about your season, Like,
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: has he ever watched Yeah? Yeah, so he was, Oh yeah,
• 26:51
  Speaker 1: so he watched it as it aired. Um, but both
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: of us had had never really watched the show prior,
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: so like, oh, I thought he didn't watch the show.
• 27:03
  Speaker 1: I was, do you know what I would so when
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: it was happening, and I don't think we had met
• 27:08
  Speaker 1: before you aired. Um you so it was down to
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: you and was it Brooks? Was that that? Was that
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: the name of the guy? Yeah? Who left? Yes? So
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: I remember the connection between you and Brooks like you
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: could feel it. It was palpable, and I feel like
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: all the people were like, she's gonna end up with Brooks.
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: And then Brooks left and everyone was like, well, how
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: is Chris gonna feel because basically she chose him when
• 27:35
  Speaker 1: Brooks left, And I'm like, well, he's not watching the show,
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: so he's not gonna see it. Am. The thing is
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: to like not that. Yeah, Chris and I always had that,
• 27:45
  Speaker 1: like an extremely strong connection, but there was no dramas right,
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: and they didn't show it right. They didn't show it
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: because there's no draw, there was no rumment to it.
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: And he was like kind of like my best friend,
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: like where you just had that conversation where you're like, wow,
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: that was really easy. Um so yeah, that part's hard
• 28:02
  Speaker 1: when people see something different than what was happened totally.
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: And that was the formula then. That was a formula
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: back then, if you remember, I mean it was very formula,
• 28:10
  Speaker 1: very structured, you know, like we couldn't deep here from
• 28:14
  Speaker 1: anything there was never someone coming back from a date,
• 28:16
  Speaker 1: and you know, once you send them home, coming back
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: and in two weeks later. So you know, back then,
• 28:21
  Speaker 1: it was always whoever was number two, they were going
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: to just make them look like they were number one,
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: you know, and then the whole world like, what, oh
• 28:29
  Speaker 1: my god, you know totally everyone thought that I was
• 28:32
  Speaker 1: going to get engaged to Charlie. Yeah, everyone like still
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: to this day, I get people they were like, I
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: actually thought you were going to pick Charlie, but I'm
• 28:39
  Speaker 1: so glad you picked Trying. Yeah, we'll have But actually
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: it makes it harder now with social media and even
• 28:47
  Speaker 1: with reality Steve, because people will go on and get
• 28:52
  Speaker 1: spoilers or start growsing Instagram, and then before they even art,
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: before they're even done with the show watching it, they
• 29:01
  Speaker 1: already have that perspective in their mind of who to
• 29:04
  Speaker 1: look for and what relationship to idolize. Kind of true,
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: and when it doesn't work out that way, they're like
• 29:12
  Speaker 1: what they already put themselves up for that, and so right,
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: and then there were you with social media, like did
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: you have social media when you were on the show? Okay,
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: so I was right in the middle. I was right
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: when Instagram was like taking off and it wasn't yet
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: like ready to allow people to be on social media,
• 29:32
  Speaker 1: and so I like only got a social media like
• 29:38
  Speaker 1: it was like right before I went on the show,
• 29:41
  Speaker 1: So I didn't Yeah, I didn't even know anything really,
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: and I'm like kind of more of a reserved private person,
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: so like social me, it was kind of crazy to me.
• 29:54
  Speaker 1: Um too, yeah, just post everything that you're doing. I
• 29:59
  Speaker 1: don't know, right, I'm so bad at it. It's horrible.
• 30:05
  Speaker 1: I know. No, I'm kind of the same way. I
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: post very randomly and not very frequently. And maybe that's
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: a good thing. Maybe that's a bad thing, but I'm like,
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: I just don't have time. It's a good thing, That's
• 30:16
  Speaker 1: what I say. I'm like, how do how do you
• 30:19
  Speaker 1: have time? But also I think I don't get it.
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: It's more important to be present and like with the
• 30:25
  Speaker 1: people you're around and not just like always, I know,
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: especially with kids, Like I don't know now that my
• 30:33
  Speaker 1: kids have their own Instagram accounts, which is crazy. Max
• 30:38
  Speaker 1: doesn't really use his, but now that they have it,
• 30:41
  Speaker 1: I'm really like I'll catch myself like thinking, oh, let
• 30:46
  Speaker 1: me put this on a story. Whatever is happening or
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: talk about it on the podcast, and I'm like, I
• 30:51
  Speaker 1: can't because that will totally blow up my kids world
• 30:54
  Speaker 1: if I share whatever just happened. You know, so once
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: they get older, like right now, you can say whatever
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: and your kids, you know, maybe they'll go back and
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: look at it later, because it is kind of like
• 31:05
  Speaker 1: an online photo album, but at least in my mind.
• 31:09
  Speaker 1: But I feel like I I'm very cautious about what
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: I say anymore. Yeah, yeah, I chose about like I
• 31:17
  Speaker 1: think I want to say. It was around the end.
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: I just I decided, I chose, like I'm not going
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: to show them anymore and so and I deleted it
• 31:27
  Speaker 1: was because I was you did yeah, yeah, because I
• 31:31
  Speaker 1: mean I I want to protect them and like, yeah,
• 31:35
  Speaker 1: I don't know. The world was hostile and still it is.
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: And I honestly my I think what stem too is
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: like my oldest is more on the sensitive side, and
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: like I was thinking about the day and I was like,
• 31:52
  Speaker 1: he would hate to have his life on like other
• 31:55
  Speaker 1: people doing it and he doesn't have a say, Like
• 31:58
  Speaker 1: these kids don't even have a say. Not they want
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: um their baby pictures online. Um. And so yeah, you're
• 32:05
  Speaker 1: right to each its own, Like it's it's harder having
• 32:08
  Speaker 1: a larger profile, Like if I was private and just
• 32:12
  Speaker 1: it that is so different. But when yeah, like I
• 32:16
  Speaker 1: don't even know, like viewing things like, don't you know
• 32:21
  Speaker 1: that's the biggest thing, right, commenting You're like no. So
• 32:25
  Speaker 1: Bob and I were just talking about how Max just
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: graduated from eighth grade. They call it eighth grade continuation,
• 32:30
  Speaker 1: and we had pictures, and I thought to myself, what
• 32:33
  Speaker 1: I like in my post in the caption, I actually said,
• 32:37
  Speaker 1: my kid hates when I take pictures of him, But
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: I am a proud mom, and so I'm gonna shout
• 32:43
  Speaker 1: it from the rooftops that I'm proud of him, you know.
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: So for me, it's kind of like I totally get that,
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: and I think it's amazing that you that you did
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: that in order to protect your kids, especially because Asher
• 32:54
  Speaker 1: is more sensitive. But like there are times when because
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: now they're they're not adults by any means, but since
• 33:01
  Speaker 1: they're teenagers, I feel like it's just a way for
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: me to show them in the way that they know
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: that I work kind of that I'm proud of them
• 33:13
  Speaker 1: and I love them, and then then they can go
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: back to it and look at them later and think,
• 33:18
  Speaker 1: you know, if I'm having a rough day or I
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: just wanna be reminiscent or sentimental, then they can look
• 33:24
  Speaker 1: back at it. At least I hope, so at least
• 33:26
  Speaker 1: I hope that I haven't done any damage. I mean,
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: I feel like social media's teenagers like world. So it's like,
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: you know, it's so different if I could show them
• 33:37
  Speaker 1: the photo and be like, hey, look, do you mind
• 33:38
  Speaker 1: if I post and they understand means what that actually means? Right, yea, yeah, right, yeah,
• 33:46
  Speaker 1: you know I don't. No matter what you do, you're
• 33:47
  Speaker 1: never gonna be right because I mean, have you ever
• 33:49
  Speaker 1: heard the saying if it isn't one thing, it's your mother,
• 34:00
  Speaker 1: where what are you gonna do? That's true, it's true,
• 34:03
  Speaker 1: and we can only try, as you know, we can
• 34:05
  Speaker 1: only do the best we can. And you know, one
• 34:08
  Speaker 1: way or another, they're going to find something, something humiliating
• 34:15
  Speaker 1: my kids until you know, but thankfully I'll be a
• 34:17
  Speaker 1: hundred and ten. At a t ball game, they're like, Oh,
• 34:21
  Speaker 1: your grandpa's so nice, he comes to every game. That's
• 34:24
  Speaker 1: that's my dad. That's my dad. I was, I'm like,
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: you too, Just look phenomenal. I'm like, oh, you're the best.
• 34:33
  Speaker 1: How much do we owe you? Will send you a
• 34:35
  Speaker 1: ven mul later. So great to check in with you
• 34:43
  Speaker 1: and find out what you're doing. And I'm so excited
• 34:46
  Speaker 1: for everything you've been working on, but most mostly excited
• 34:48
  Speaker 1: just for you and Chris and the kids. I think
• 34:50
  Speaker 1: it's so awesome. You guys are such a great couple.
• 34:52
  Speaker 1: Thank you so much. This has been to catch up
• 34:57
  Speaker 1: and tell Jessica I said, Hi, I definitely will. She'll
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: love to hear that we talked. I love it. I'm
• 35:06
  Speaker 1: sure I'll talk to you. Nay, I'm sure I'll talk
• 35:10
  Speaker 1: to you on the text change. Yes, very subsolutely. Please
• 35:12
  Speaker 1: give Chris our best and give the will. Thanks guys,
• 35:16
  Speaker 1: I take care of days. Bye. That was awesome. I
• 35:30
  Speaker 1: love checking in with people. That's like, I had such
• 35:33
  Speaker 1: a unique thing with Does so I forgot to even
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: bring it up. So when Das did this show, I
• 35:38
  Speaker 1: was wondering I forgot to even say it. One of
• 35:40
  Speaker 1: the coolest little kind of fun factoids was when Das
• 35:44
  Speaker 1: did the show and they went back to um her
• 35:48
  Speaker 1: hometown date at her house that was actually my wife's house.
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: We still have that house in l A that is
• 35:57
  Speaker 1: hysterical and like her family's house. No, no, my wife,
• 36:02
  Speaker 1: My wife bought that house is like her first house,
• 36:04
  Speaker 1: and she and Does lived there together. They were they
• 36:07
  Speaker 1: were roommates and um, and it was awesome yea. And
• 36:11
  Speaker 1: so it was pretty neat to have that to be
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: part of the show all these years later. I forgot
• 36:16
  Speaker 1: to bring it up. I got it one of those
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: connections that people don't ever realize is like like an
• 36:23
  Speaker 1: actual connection that has nothing to do with the show
• 36:26
  Speaker 1: at all. And I wasn't even I don't think I
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: was even dating Canyon when it does was the bachelor.
• 36:33
  Speaker 1: I might have been. I might have been, but I
• 36:35
  Speaker 1: think it was. No, it was when Sean Lowe came
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: to her house to visit her family. That's what it was.
• 36:39
  Speaker 1: The hometown dates and and because that's like, I guess
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: that's where the brother. I remember the whole story, like
• 36:45
  Speaker 1: the brother was kind of weird to show, Oh my gosh,
• 36:47
  Speaker 1: she has the brother. Oh I do remember her brother? Done.
• 36:51
  Speaker 1: I would have loved to bring that up, because I mean,
• 36:53
  Speaker 1: it was one of my favorite things about when I
• 36:54
  Speaker 1: met Jess. When I met my wife, she was like,
• 36:57
  Speaker 1: you know, she didn't care that I was the bachelor,
• 36:59
  Speaker 1: never even talked about it, and then all of a sudden,
• 37:01
  Speaker 1: somehow that came up one day. I'm like, wait a minute,
• 37:03
  Speaker 1: what you guys filmed an episode of Bachelor here? What
• 37:05
  Speaker 1: are you talking about? It's so funny. That is so crazy?
• 37:11
  Speaker 1: Well to play our game? Are you ready to play
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: our game? I love a game, I am. I. Um,
• 37:18
  Speaker 1: so we'll give a little backstory. I mean, it's kind
• 37:20
  Speaker 1: of graduation season, as we've been talking about. And even
• 37:24
  Speaker 1: though I'm celebrating eighth grader, Um, one thing that goes
• 37:29
  Speaker 1: along with graduations or at least the end of the year,
• 37:32
  Speaker 1: is superlative. So we figured that why not do an
• 37:34
  Speaker 1: o G superlative? And I'm really bad at this stuff
• 37:39
  Speaker 1: I have to say. And also I'm thinking there's a
• 37:42
  Speaker 1: bunch of o G s that I don't even know
• 37:45
  Speaker 1: what has happened to them, So like, I can't. I
• 37:47
  Speaker 1: don't know how to give them an o G superlative
• 37:49
  Speaker 1: because I have no idea what's going on in their world. Um,
• 37:53
  Speaker 1: But but I do think it's really fun. You know,
• 37:56
  Speaker 1: why not We're going to give a bachelors bachelor batch
• 38:00
  Speaker 1: there at superlative. I was so excited for a few
• 38:03
  Speaker 1: of the O G So do you have do you
• 38:05
  Speaker 1: have one to start with? Well, I think, um, I
• 38:08
  Speaker 1: think one that would be uh a pretty good one
• 38:12
  Speaker 1: to start with, would be uh most difficult to track down,
• 38:16
  Speaker 1: and I believe that is Alex Michelle. I was just
• 38:19
  Speaker 1: gonna say that I asked to be alexell literally the dude.
• 38:25
  Speaker 1: I remember him being at UM at the premier party
• 38:28
  Speaker 1: for my season. You and Ryan and I are in
• 38:31
  Speaker 1: a picture together with Aaron burg Ee and Alex Michelle.
• 38:35
  Speaker 1: Oh my god, will you send me that picture? Someone
• 38:37
  Speaker 1: sent it to me. I gotta find it again. But
• 38:39
  Speaker 1: I remember thinking of myself, that is the last time
• 38:41
  Speaker 1: I've I've seen a picture of Alex Michelle. And then
• 38:43
  Speaker 1: I did run into him once. I think I told
• 38:45
  Speaker 1: you this on a plane when I was living in
• 38:47
  Speaker 1: l A a plane to um Cabo and he came
• 38:51
  Speaker 1: up and he's like, hey, this is crazy. You have
• 38:54
  Speaker 1: a couple badgers crazy. And I was embarrassed because it
• 38:57
  Speaker 1: was like a really small thing, and I was like,
• 38:59
  Speaker 1: I felt like everyone was looking at us and I
• 39:01
  Speaker 1: just felt stupid. But I remember he was he seemed
• 39:04
  Speaker 1: like a really nice guy and I was like, yeah,
• 39:05
  Speaker 1: good talking to you, man, and that was it. And
• 39:07
  Speaker 1: then they haven't been able to track him down for
• 39:09
  Speaker 1: any episodes since They've tried nothing, no, nothing. Um, this
• 39:16
  Speaker 1: is so true. That is a good one because in
• 39:18
  Speaker 1: looking at the list, I was like, I was on
• 39:20
  Speaker 1: Alix's season and I'm like, well, would I give out
• 39:24
  Speaker 1: the most most difficult to track down? I think that's
• 39:26
  Speaker 1: a nice one to vote most difficult to track down
• 39:29
  Speaker 1: for sure, most private, maybe most Okay, So I've got
• 39:32
  Speaker 1: one most likely to disappear and never talked to anybody
• 39:36
  Speaker 1: connected ever. Again he's done well. Um okay, So I
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: have one most likely to survive the Hunger Games, and
• 39:46
  Speaker 1: I'm going to say Andy Baldwin because he is not
• 39:50
  Speaker 1: only an naval officer, um, but he's also like we
• 39:54
  Speaker 1: Ryan used to do tryathlons, and you know, I would
• 39:58
  Speaker 1: say my husband because he probably would do pretty well
• 40:00
  Speaker 1: and Hugger Games too, But um, Andy and Ryan have
• 40:05
  Speaker 1: run a couple um, either marathons or done triathlons together.
• 40:09
  Speaker 1: Iron Man, iron Man. I remember I remember something they
• 40:12
  Speaker 1: did together with iron Man yep um, and I think
• 40:15
  Speaker 1: he still does does all of that, so um, he's
• 40:19
  Speaker 1: going to be my most likely to survive the hunger
• 40:22
  Speaker 1: games like that. Who knows if he's even still doing
• 40:26
  Speaker 1: that even even if do you know anything? Well, I
• 40:29
  Speaker 1: mean I I have had communication with the Andy over
• 40:32
  Speaker 1: the years. A super nice guy. He came to my
• 40:33
  Speaker 1: house once when he was in l a, um, visiting
• 40:37
  Speaker 1: from San Diego and stuff like that. Really liked him. Um,
• 40:39
  Speaker 1: but you know, as far as what he's up to
• 40:41
  Speaker 1: right now, I'm so bad. I don't even know what
• 40:43
  Speaker 1: I'm up to right now. So I'm spinning. So it's like,
• 40:49
  Speaker 1: you know, I don't anybody yet. But but yeah, I mean,
• 40:53
  Speaker 1: I'm sure. I'm sure he's still doing them that dude.
• 40:56
  Speaker 1: It's it's in him. It's like with Ryan, you know,
• 40:57
  Speaker 1: that stuff is just in him. He's gonna do it
• 40:59
  Speaker 1: for of her. Oh yes, that is that's who he is.
• 41:07
  Speaker 1: Um Okay, I don't know how to say this one, UM,
• 41:12
  Speaker 1: so I'll just do it as like just a general thing.
• 41:17
  Speaker 1: The best sense of humor Emily Maynard. Have you ever
• 41:21
  Speaker 1: been with Emily Maynard where the girl is hystericle? She
• 41:26
  Speaker 1: is so witty and and it's not like you actually
• 41:31
  Speaker 1: kind of have to listen to her because it's not
• 41:35
  Speaker 1: like outright like when you tell a joke, we're like,
• 41:37
  Speaker 1: but right. But she has such like kind of like
• 41:42
  Speaker 1: um like hidden sense of humor that I just I
• 41:47
  Speaker 1: love her so much for her sense. You know. The
• 41:49
  Speaker 1: only time I ever met Emily, who I think is
• 41:51
  Speaker 1: adorable by the way, was that our US Weekly cover
• 41:54
  Speaker 1: shoot that we did. Yes, yes, yes, it was Andrew
• 41:58
  Speaker 1: and I, you Emi and Ali Fedatowski And it was
• 42:03
  Speaker 1: like up until that was again. I just remember it
• 42:06
  Speaker 1: was like, uh it's it was like I thought it
• 42:09
  Speaker 1: was like a favorite favorite of all time at that
• 42:12
  Speaker 1: time type of thing or something of that nature, and
• 42:16
  Speaker 1: it was some special one that came out. It was
• 42:18
  Speaker 1: pretty cool. Why I find that day so remarkable is
• 42:22
  Speaker 1: um I remember it vividly because I was in Dana Point, California.
• 42:27
  Speaker 1: Um And it was the first time that my wife,
• 42:31
  Speaker 1: Canyon came with me to an event and I hosted
• 42:34
  Speaker 1: this event, or was a co host at this event
• 42:37
  Speaker 1: in Dana Point, California. And the next day I had
• 42:40
  Speaker 1: to get up and leave at like five thirty am
• 42:43
  Speaker 1: to get to Pasadena where we filmed that or we
• 42:46
  Speaker 1: shot that, and um I got up and so she
• 42:49
  Speaker 1: called like one of her friends who came over and
• 42:51
  Speaker 1: they just hung out and had like room service and
• 42:53
  Speaker 1: got SPA treatments and stuff like that all day. But
• 42:56
  Speaker 1: I remember, I remember being done with it and it
• 42:58
  Speaker 1: was late in the afternoon and I had to fly
• 43:00
  Speaker 1: out that night to wherever I was going. And I
• 43:02
  Speaker 1: had a great time though. I had so much fun,
• 43:04
  Speaker 1: and I did think she was very funny. I I
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: would tell you that I think I think someone who
• 43:09
  Speaker 1: I think has an incredibly very similar sense of humors
• 43:12
  Speaker 1: Andrew Firestone. Like Andrew Firestone to me, is hysterical and
• 43:18
  Speaker 1: he just says things and he's not he he knows
• 43:21
  Speaker 1: he's witty and funny, but he's not trying to like
• 43:24
  Speaker 1: you know, but ump bump, like you said, he's like
• 43:26
  Speaker 1: he just says that. You're just like, wait what And
• 43:28
  Speaker 1: it's really funny if you would the second you get
• 43:30
  Speaker 1: a chance to think about it the second time. And
• 43:32
  Speaker 1: I just love that guy. Love his sense of humor.
• 43:34
  Speaker 1: I think he's really funny and definitely, I mean, he
• 43:37
  Speaker 1: says the bar when for me when it comes to
• 43:39
  Speaker 1: a sense of humor, So I like that too. Class clown.
• 43:53
  Speaker 1: I probably have to go with myself which is probably
• 43:55
  Speaker 1: terrible to say, Okay, but I also think that it's
• 44:00
  Speaker 1: like what a class clown would do, Like I need
• 44:04
  Speaker 1: to get it again. No, but you know who I
• 44:07
  Speaker 1: thought is Charlie O'Connell. He is very similar, right, very
• 44:13
  Speaker 1: like silly and um, I don't know, I just feel
• 44:17
  Speaker 1: like he's totally I liked his I liked his uh
• 44:21
  Speaker 1: the stuff I saw of him. I've never met him
• 44:23
  Speaker 1: personally actually, and I really liked the stuff where he
• 44:26
  Speaker 1: just didn't take himself too seriously. You know, it was
• 44:28
  Speaker 1: totally I'm sure with his brother being you know, a
• 44:31
  Speaker 1: big kind of a big star, it was probably one
• 44:33
  Speaker 1: of those things where it was like he almost had
• 44:35
  Speaker 1: to understand, you know, he was he was going to
• 44:37
  Speaker 1: have a different role and this was a big moment
• 44:39
  Speaker 1: for him, but it wasn't gonna be the same as
• 44:40
  Speaker 1: his brother. I don't know. I thought that was pretty good.
• 44:43
  Speaker 1: I like that. No true story, like actually there's We
• 44:46
  Speaker 1: had kind of a list of potential superlatives and one
• 44:49
  Speaker 1: of them was celebrity look alike and I was gonna
• 44:52
  Speaker 1: say j Charlie because Jerry O'Connell um, which actually I
• 44:56
  Speaker 1: was watching Big Brother um like an old episode. I'm
• 45:00
  Speaker 1: trying to catch up on my big Brother because I'm
• 45:02
  Speaker 1: a big Big Brother fan, and I was watching Celebrity
• 45:06
  Speaker 1: Big Brother from this past season and he was on
• 45:08
  Speaker 1: talking about it with um Julie Chen and saying, you know,
• 45:15
  Speaker 1: I guess I'm I'm famous, but I don't know if
• 45:18
  Speaker 1: i'd call myself a celebrity. And I'm like, are you
• 45:19
  Speaker 1: kidding me? Yes, you're a celebrity. I would say Jerry
• 45:23
  Speaker 1: O'Connell is a full of fun. Say, I would definitely
• 45:25
  Speaker 1: say so. And he and Rebecca Romaine are still still
• 45:29
  Speaker 1: together too, so that's pretty big. I actually was supposed
• 45:33
  Speaker 1: to go on a date with him really after Yes,
• 45:37
  Speaker 1: we met at Derby No kidding, yeah, crazy, crazy, I
• 45:46
  Speaker 1: know it was. It's funny. He's a really nice guy,
• 45:48
  Speaker 1: very good sense of humor. But Charlie got the like
• 45:51
  Speaker 1: the sense of humor in terms of the class. Oh yeah,
• 45:54
  Speaker 1: definitely think I want to think of what would be
• 45:57
  Speaker 1: your will switch gears here? What would be your superlative
• 46:02
  Speaker 1: for Andy Dorfman? Oh? I just love Andy. Um, I
• 46:10
  Speaker 1: think best wing woman. You know, like so you know
• 46:14
  Speaker 1: how it's like you know wingman, if you're going out
• 46:17
  Speaker 1: to like to a social function and you need to
• 46:21
  Speaker 1: have a wingman there or a wing woman to um,
• 46:25
  Speaker 1: you know, help make it a fun night and get
• 46:29
  Speaker 1: pull you away if you're single, pull you away from
• 46:31
  Speaker 1: any douche bags. And you know, like she's just a
• 46:34
  Speaker 1: good girls girl, but also I feel like has a
• 46:37
  Speaker 1: finger on the pulse with the guys too, and she's
• 46:40
  Speaker 1: just she's like a great, great friend. I remember we
• 46:43
  Speaker 1: went to it was it was essentially an anniversary show,
• 46:49
  Speaker 1: but it was also Jaden Tanner's wage was there. Yes,
• 46:54
  Speaker 1: we had the best time there. She wasn't with anyone.
• 46:58
  Speaker 1: I was with Ryan, but we just had the best
• 47:00
  Speaker 1: time getting ready and and I just I actually was
• 47:04
  Speaker 1: going to say much along the lines of your wing woman.
• 47:06
  Speaker 1: I was going to say class flirt, because because at
• 47:12
  Speaker 1: the Janner wedding, I mean she was just holding court man.
• 47:15
  Speaker 1: There was like, you know, four or five guys there
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: that were just they couldn't you know, get close enough
• 47:19
  Speaker 1: to her and um, and I thought she did a
• 47:21
  Speaker 1: really nice job of keeping them all at bad you
• 47:24
  Speaker 1: know what I mean, Like she had them all right
• 47:26
  Speaker 1: there and not in a rude way, you know, no, yeah,
• 47:31
  Speaker 1: of course, yeah, super classic, Yeah, yeah, that was great.
• 47:35
  Speaker 1: It was a great wedding. By the way, I loved that.
• 47:37
  Speaker 1: That was one of the first things I had done
• 47:39
  Speaker 1: in a while, um, just from a scheduling perspective with
• 47:42
  Speaker 1: the Bachelor franchise where I when I went to that,
• 47:44
  Speaker 1: and I loved it. I had so much fun at
• 47:46
  Speaker 1: that event, you know, hanging out with everybody, and felt
• 47:49
  Speaker 1: a little awkward at first, frankly because I didn't even
• 47:52
  Speaker 1: know Jade and Tanner, although Tanner and I yeah, and
• 47:56
  Speaker 1: I was like, I don't feel like, are you sure
• 47:58
  Speaker 1: they want me at their wedding? You know, I know.
• 48:01
  Speaker 1: I actually went up to Jade and said that. I
• 48:04
  Speaker 1: was like, Okay, I'm really happy for you and you
• 48:08
  Speaker 1: probably had no idea that we were even going to
• 48:11
  Speaker 1: be here, but thank you for allowing us to be
• 48:13
  Speaker 1: at your wedding. And I'm so sorry, Like you don't
• 48:16
  Speaker 1: even do you remember? So you asked me that last
• 48:20
  Speaker 1: year we talked about JJ and UM the guy. So
• 48:23
  Speaker 1: I don't know if you remember this, but JJ came
• 48:25
  Speaker 1: out and gave the best man speech and j j
• 48:29
  Speaker 1: um J yeah, right right, yeah. I were sitting at
• 48:33
  Speaker 1: the same table together and we had a table of
• 48:36
  Speaker 1: o gs basically and we're sitting there and he comes
• 48:39
  Speaker 1: out and he goes, you know, hi everyone. You know,
• 48:42
  Speaker 1: it's such a pleasure to be here. JJ Lane best man,
• 48:45
  Speaker 1: and uh, you know, I just want to say, it's
• 48:47
  Speaker 1: like so great to be here. See see so many
• 48:50
  Speaker 1: you know, blasts from the past. You know, Trista the Queen,
• 48:54
  Speaker 1: the godmother of the Bachelorette, Bob the godfather of the Bachelor,
• 49:00
  Speaker 1: as he called me, and he goes, I mean, Bob,
• 49:02
  Speaker 1: you you were my mom's favorite in high school, and uh,
• 49:06
  Speaker 1: you know, it was so perfect. Like I literally remember
• 49:12
  Speaker 1: thinking to myself, this dude is funny and I and
• 49:16
  Speaker 1: I love it. You're my mom's favorite in high school.
• 49:19
  Speaker 1: I just think that, you know, you might didn't even
• 49:22
  Speaker 1: really stop for long enough to like it was just
• 49:27
  Speaker 1: this guy is good man. But I remember that wedding.
• 49:30
  Speaker 1: I remember Seal. Remember he stood up basically right next
• 49:33
  Speaker 1: to us and started singing yes right next to us.
• 49:37
  Speaker 1: I remember he was given eyes to Jillian Um. She
• 49:41
  Speaker 1: was like, oh my god, Seals like totally giving me
• 49:43
  Speaker 1: eyes with Seal at the wedding with her with her boyfriend. Yeah. Yeah,
• 49:55
  Speaker 1: I mean I feel like, no, I guess not everyone
• 49:58
  Speaker 1: has to be a flirt if you're on the show.
• 50:00
  Speaker 1: But I was going to say, maybe we all are
• 50:02
  Speaker 1: flirts because we, you know, had multiple people that we
• 50:06
  Speaker 1: were dating at the same thing. Yeah, I don't know,
• 50:07
  Speaker 1: I would think, So maybe that doesn't translate. I said,
• 50:11
  Speaker 1: you mean, now you almost have to be willing to
• 50:13
  Speaker 1: have like multiple conversations, have some fun and giggle, you know.
• 50:16
  Speaker 1: It's like, yeah, even people like dies who are introverted,
• 50:20
  Speaker 1: you know, like she, you have to be able to
• 50:24
  Speaker 1: be social in in some way, and you gotta be
• 50:27
  Speaker 1: able to balance people. You be able to keep conversations
• 50:31
  Speaker 1: going with which you know, you were always amazing. And
• 50:34
  Speaker 1: you know what I think. I think we've we've probably
• 50:38
  Speaker 1: said about ten billion words on our shows every week.
• 50:40
  Speaker 1: So I mean we we both love to talk, and
• 50:42
  Speaker 1: that's you know, that's a good thing. You like to
• 50:43
  Speaker 1: have a good conversation and you'd like to be engaged
• 50:45
  Speaker 1: and get to know people, and yeah, that's part of
• 50:47
  Speaker 1: it too, you know. Yeah, let's see. So I see,
• 50:50
  Speaker 1: I just saw a fun one pop up, so most
• 50:52
  Speaker 1: likely to actually be a spy. So I had to
• 50:54
  Speaker 1: tell you that I honestly have said this before, like
• 50:59
  Speaker 1: every time I watch any James Bond movie, I walk
• 51:01
  Speaker 1: out and I'm like, you have said this, I'd be
• 51:02
  Speaker 1: a great spy. I'd be a great spot because no
• 51:06
  Speaker 1: one in the world would expect me to be a spy.
• 51:08
  Speaker 1: They would be like, here's the goofy dude over there,
• 51:11
  Speaker 1: Craig and jokes and drinking vodka. And I'd be like,
• 51:12
  Speaker 1: that's me, bro I'm a spy. I'd be like Melissa
• 51:17
  Speaker 1: McCarthy and spy like you know. Or maybe or maybe
• 51:21
  Speaker 1: it's Alex Michelle because he just disappeared, like maybe he's
• 51:24
  Speaker 1: listening to all of us all the time and we
• 51:28
  Speaker 1: don't know it. Well, I don't know if you've ever
• 51:30
  Speaker 1: noticed this, but I've never seen a picture. I've never
• 51:32
  Speaker 1: seen a picture of Alex Michelle uh and James Bond together.
• 51:35
  Speaker 1: I've never seen a picture of him together. So maybe
• 51:37
  Speaker 1: they are the same person who knows he's a spy.
• 51:43
  Speaker 1: I mean, have you ever seen a picture of him
• 51:44
  Speaker 1: with Daniel Craig. No, I have not. I haven't seen
• 51:49
  Speaker 1: one of me or you or Ryan or anyone really
• 51:52
  Speaker 1: that you know, So that there part it could be me.
• 51:54
  Speaker 1: I could be the spot. I'm out there. I'm telling you.
• 51:59
  Speaker 1: I want to find something for Jake Pavelica. I feel
• 52:02
  Speaker 1: like Jake pavelco. I was literally just looking at his name.
• 52:07
  Speaker 1: Do you know what's going on? What? Where is he?
• 52:09
  Speaker 1: You know what happened to him? I know he was
• 52:11
  Speaker 1: a pilot for Southwest Airlines. Um, I got to know
• 52:15
  Speaker 1: him a little I'm going to google him right now. Yeah,
• 52:17
  Speaker 1: I got to know him a little bit. They did
• 52:18
  Speaker 1: they did a photo shoot with Andrew myself and with
• 52:21
  Speaker 1: him where we got to wear these kind of old
• 52:24
  Speaker 1: vintagey suits and stuff. It was really cool, drinking like
• 52:27
  Speaker 1: you know, whiskey on the rocks and all this kind
• 52:29
  Speaker 1: of stuff and like a speakeasy environment. Really neat. Oh
• 52:32
  Speaker 1: I love that, And it was a very fun photo shoot.
• 52:35
  Speaker 1: I remember and and I talked to me, you know,
• 52:37
  Speaker 1: like the whole day. And then I lived there, and
• 52:38
  Speaker 1: so they he came back to my house, he had
• 52:41
  Speaker 1: couple drinks, hung out and talk for a bit. Super
• 52:43
  Speaker 1: nice guy, you know, but I remember not really liking
• 52:46
  Speaker 1: him from watching him on the show, but then afterwards
• 52:49
  Speaker 1: getting to know him that day, thinking oh, man, I
• 52:51
  Speaker 1: actually he's a he's a nice dude, you know, but
• 52:54
  Speaker 1: I mean, you know, it's hard because you know, people
• 52:57
  Speaker 1: are different with other guys than they might be with
• 53:00
  Speaker 1: potential dates and things of that nature, so you never
• 53:02
  Speaker 1: really know. I guess, you know, I can see him
• 53:05
  Speaker 1: being like a politician. He kind of had that air
• 53:09
  Speaker 1: about him, like, um, I don't know, although when he
• 53:15
  Speaker 1: chose Vienna, like that whole thing, that fight that they
• 53:17
  Speaker 1: had on air, that was horrible to watch, Oh my god, horrible,
• 53:26
  Speaker 1: like a train wreck. You could not I couldn't not
• 53:28
  Speaker 1: watch it. But it was also one of those things
• 53:29
  Speaker 1: where I felt so bad for everyone involved. Everyone involved,
• 53:33
  Speaker 1: like no one, no one came out of that looking good,
• 53:35
  Speaker 1: and I was just like, oh my god, these poor people,
• 53:37
  Speaker 1: you know, going through anything like that on TV would
• 53:40
  Speaker 1: be terrible. I know. Um. And then I there's one
• 53:45
  Speaker 1: I want to know what you think of this one?
• 53:47
  Speaker 1: Who would you say is most likely to go viral
• 53:51
  Speaker 1: on TikTok? Like I that one came up and I'm like,
• 53:55
  Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't know who would go viral
• 53:58
  Speaker 1: like who? It would all depend on what they were,
• 54:02
  Speaker 1: what they were doing. But what do you think? Oh
• 54:03
  Speaker 1: my god, I don't know. You know, I can tell
• 54:06
  Speaker 1: you who's the least likely to go viral on TikTok. Okay,
• 54:09
  Speaker 1: there you go. That's a good I don't even have TikTok,
• 54:12
  Speaker 1: so I don't think I say I have it, but
• 54:15
  Speaker 1: I never go on it. I only have TikTok because,
• 54:19
  Speaker 1: um I don't know. It was Snapchat. I did Snapchat
• 54:21
  Speaker 1: for the filters, Like when the kids were little, I
• 54:24
  Speaker 1: would go on Snapchat and just you know, do those
• 54:26
  Speaker 1: silly filters with them, Yeah, the ones on there. My
• 54:30
  Speaker 1: wife does that a lot. She does that with the boys,
• 54:32
  Speaker 1: like little you know, Bambi eyes and you know, sparkles
• 54:35
  Speaker 1: and stuff like them. Yeah, that sounds pretty Yes, it's
• 54:38
  Speaker 1: so fun. I'm so bad at social media, and I
• 54:39
  Speaker 1: think it just really exposes me when I start talking
• 54:41
  Speaker 1: about other apps that I also don't use. Although you
• 54:46
  Speaker 1: had all those tips in the beginning, you're good at
• 54:48
  Speaker 1: like technology. Yeah, I understand technology. I just much like
• 54:52
  Speaker 1: Dez No, I'm not. I mean, I'm not an introvert
• 54:54
  Speaker 1: at all, but I mean I also though, don't really
• 54:56
  Speaker 1: like people knowing where I'm at all the time, you
• 54:59
  Speaker 1: know what I mean. Like I I would have situations
• 55:01
  Speaker 1: where I would post a picture it may have been
• 55:03
  Speaker 1: like three or four days previous when I was in
• 55:05
  Speaker 1: Seattle and some would be like, don't lie, I just
• 55:08
  Speaker 1: saw you in Detroit, You're not in Seattle, and like,
• 55:10
  Speaker 1: I'm not lying. I said, it was an awesome day
• 55:12
  Speaker 1: in Seattle. I know what are you talking about? So
• 55:14
  Speaker 1: I was just like, you know, I didn't realize I
• 55:16
  Speaker 1: had to be literally in the space every day. And
• 55:20
  Speaker 1: so I then then I got you know, I don't know.
• 55:23
  Speaker 1: Everything turns me off to doing things. So it's like, oh,
• 55:25
  Speaker 1: maybe I still I'm not gonna do that anymore, you know,
• 55:27
  Speaker 1: I won't post anything. And then I decided I want to,
• 55:30
  Speaker 1: you know, and I like to actually use it like
• 55:31
  Speaker 1: a photo album for my for my kids. I appreciate
• 55:34
  Speaker 1: where coming from. Yeah, I want to, like, but we
• 55:38
  Speaker 1: have a little private one for them, um that my
• 55:40
  Speaker 1: wife meant and so we just put a ton of
• 55:43
  Speaker 1: pictures in there. And I occasionally post something, but like
• 55:45
  Speaker 1: for me, if I'm posting, it's probably less about me
• 55:49
  Speaker 1: and more about what my kids are doing or you know,
• 55:51
  Speaker 1: before my dog passed away, what my dog was doing
• 55:53
  Speaker 1: on that day. So right, that's how it is for me.
• 55:57
  Speaker 1: I feel like if I'm posting anything for me, it's
• 56:00
  Speaker 1: very few and far between. It's usually about my kids. Yeah,
• 56:03
  Speaker 1: because that's just the season of life. As to said,
• 56:06
  Speaker 1: that's the season that we're in. It's a nice way
• 56:08
  Speaker 1: to say it. I like. I like saying it that way.
• 56:10
  Speaker 1: The season of life. I love that. I love it.
• 56:13
  Speaker 1: I love being in this season of life. And I
• 56:15
  Speaker 1: don't know what I'm gonna do when I'm an upt
• 56:17
  Speaker 1: nester in five freaking years. That in five years, you
• 56:21
  Speaker 1: guys did it, right though, you know what I mean.
• 56:23
  Speaker 1: I mean to be young like you both are, and
• 56:26
  Speaker 1: to have your kids like I. I think I'm young
• 56:28
  Speaker 1: right now, right and so but it's like, you know,
• 56:31
  Speaker 1: when I think about where I'm going to be, I mean,
• 56:33
  Speaker 1: hopefully my kids will keep me young, because man, I'm
• 56:36
  Speaker 1: wanna be old, really old, you know, in fourteen years,
• 56:40
  Speaker 1: I want to be uh you know, and then you know,
• 56:43
  Speaker 1: shoot seventeen years for Blake, so God when he's will
• 56:46
  Speaker 1: be a crazy I remember when I would think about
• 56:51
  Speaker 1: that in like setting up their five twenty nine or
• 56:53
  Speaker 1: whatever their college accounts, you know, thinking oh, we've got
• 56:55
  Speaker 1: so much time, and then I'm like, Max is going
• 56:57
  Speaker 1: to be in college it four years and Blake's we
• 57:00
  Speaker 1: will be in collegent. Oh god, we need up. Yeah,
• 57:03
  Speaker 1: we better. We're gonna be praying for scholarships over here.
• 57:06
  Speaker 1: We're gonna be like, oh, you know, but we do
• 57:08
  Speaker 1: the same these things too. I do that every paycheck,
• 57:11
  Speaker 1: you know, it always goes into there, and you're trying
• 57:12
  Speaker 1: to make sure that you keep that thing richer and
• 57:16
  Speaker 1: fuller than anything because who knows how much schools in
• 57:17
  Speaker 1: the cost to you. That's gonna be bananas. Oh my gosh,
• 57:20
  Speaker 1: I can't even start with that. Don't even start. Um. Okay, Well,
• 57:24
  Speaker 1: I think I think we're good. I think we did
• 57:26
  Speaker 1: some fun superlatives hope, I agree, the producers are happy.
• 57:30
  Speaker 1: I think that was a lot of fun. I think
• 57:32
  Speaker 1: it was great. And the listeners, Hey, if you guys,
• 57:36
  Speaker 1: I what I'd love to do is have viewers or
• 57:39
  Speaker 1: listeners go and comment and say who they like. Maybe
• 57:44
  Speaker 1: for me and you, what would be our superlatives to people?
• 57:48
  Speaker 1: I don't know if I'm gonna want to read those
• 57:50
  Speaker 1: screen them? Oh no, most likely to wish that you
• 57:55
  Speaker 1: would stop talking, Bob. Okay, Oh yeah, okay, maybe we
• 58:00
  Speaker 1: should have started that. Yes and delite. I've had a
• 58:06
  Speaker 1: lot of that lately. I went on and posted in
• 58:10
  Speaker 1: my stories kind of my thoughts on the school shootings,
• 58:14
  Speaker 1: and of course when you do that, you just open
• 58:16
  Speaker 1: up a huge can of worms. I try to not
• 58:18
  Speaker 1: post anything political, just because I don't want to have
• 58:21
  Speaker 1: to get in a big debate with people. And holy cow,
• 58:25
  Speaker 1: one lady she wrote me and said, stay in your lane.
• 58:30
  Speaker 1: I was like, what kind of lane do you mean?
• 58:33
  Speaker 1: Like a lane where I'm not an American and don't
• 58:36
  Speaker 1: have the ability to speak my mind on my own
• 58:40
  Speaker 1: personal Instagram account literally said I'm in my lane. This
• 58:47
  Speaker 1: is my lane. Well, I love talking to you every
• 58:50
  Speaker 1: week and I like being in your lane, So thanks
• 58:52
  Speaker 1: for sharing your lane with Thanks, come back together. This
• 58:59
  Speaker 1: is our We're gonna stay in Arlene. Yes, yes, that
• 59:05
  Speaker 1: was a lot of fun. Hopefully you guys enjoyed the show,
• 59:07
  Speaker 1: and uh, we'll see you next week.