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Cope harder single ladies, the numbers are in. Married women are happier | Red Pill Dating · Honey Badger Radio

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  Hello everyone, and welcome to Honey Badger Radio. My name is Brian Hew
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  with Allison, and this is our special dating show on Valentine's Day. Happy
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  Valentine's Oh, well like you? Happy Valentine's to you too? Yes?
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  Are you planning anything? Well? I got, I got yeah, maybe,
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  I mean we're we We've been fasting all day so for one and I
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  think we're gonna eat. Lindsay is soaking in the bath right now, and
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  we might if there's time, we may do some stream some tomb Raider because
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  the new tomb Raider, essentially it's the first three tomb Raider games were remastered
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  and those were Lindsay's favorite games from childhood, so she wants to play them
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  and it just so happens. There's a lot of controversy around them because of
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  because it's features a woman that they don't like in the way that they don't
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  like her. I guess, so we can. We're gonna probably stream that
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  on the Arcade Channel if if if Lindsay's feeling up to it and it's not
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  too late or is it is it a boom Well, there's part that's part
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  of it. Yes, lower Craft is obviously the old the old lawer Croft
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  is obviously like problematic and too sexualized, even though polygons were limited back then.
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  The triangular boob thing really bothers people. There's also apparently a lot of
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  other issues because she's like going to like exotic places and healing art facts and
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  you know, all that is very colonialist. So we'll we'll, I don't
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  know if we're gonna get We're gonna try to get to that. Though.
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  It feels synonymous with not wanting to have fun. Yeah, that's basically what
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  it is. Yes, it's about not having fun and not allowing anyone well,
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  more than not having fun. It's like that Marge Simpson me, like,
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  you know, I don't like this, so I don't think you should
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  be able to enjoy it either. No, but yeah, so personal taste
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  as moral imperative. Yeah. Yeah. People are saying I thought they loved
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  Lara Croft. No, they they hate Laura Croft, but they like their
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  new kind of skin suited modern audience character that they happen to name Lara Croft.
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  That doesn't really it's not really her, it's like somebody else. Just
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  think in the game, the new game that came out that they well in
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  particular is the new game is the new game? Uh you know because of
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  the current era type character. Well, yeah, so they rebooted. They
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  rebooted tomb Raider like in the I think it was like twenty fourteen round.
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  The same time they rebooted God of War and they changed the character. They
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  they they felt that she was too sexualized. They felt that because you know,
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  she had large breasts, but I mean, I don't know where because
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  if you like it was again it was the polygons were very limited, like
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  you had to be you had to be able to show that this is a
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  woman, and you were working with very limited tools, which means people had
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  to be pretty creative. You know. You know one of the best costplays
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  I've seen is a woman who literally costplayed as like, oh yeah, I
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  don't know, sixty four bit. Oh yeah, I know what you're talking
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  about. The the the the thirty two bit Lara Croft with the triangle,
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  Yeah yeah, with the triangle boobs. Yeah yeah, that's that's good.
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  That that that is very clever. Yeah. But this so so they come,
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  I mean, we're spending too much time on this, but I'll just
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  make you a quick explanation. So adyos the people who created the original Turm
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  Rader trilogy, the first three Tom Rader games, that when after Lara Croft
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  got rebooted, they tried to like reimagine her and make her more I don't
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  know, less problematic, I guess, less of a less of a sexual
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  objectified character, less of the less attracting the male gaze. But they couldn't
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  change the character drastically, so instead they just made the game different. And
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  I mean, those games are okay, but they don't feel like tomb Raider.
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  Like tomb Raider was more about exploration and taking risks and all this,
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  and it just happened to have a female protagonist. But they couldn't they couldn't
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  square that circle. So this group of fans, very very big fans that
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  knew how to code, they remastered the original three games so that they played
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  similar in the same kind of gaming gameplay style, whereas the newer Law Across
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  were a bit more They played more like another game series called Uncharted that featured
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  a male protagonist. But I digress, and they wanted to get back to
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  Formula and eighty os. Apparently we haven't booted up yet, but the first
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  time you turned this game on, they there is a warning that a warning
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  that some of the imagery you know, is like I don't know, like
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  offensive, you might find it offensive or whatever, and and we're just like,
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  okay, we're playing it. And of course Lindsay loves she loved those
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  games. They're like her childhood, the old tomb Raider games. So I
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  got it for her for Valentine's We're gonna hopefully we'll get to stream of today
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  like after this show or maybe if not, maybe tomorrow. There you go,
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  there's the applicability. Yeah, well yeah, we're absolutely gonna take advantage
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  of this to have some Valentine fun with with Brian and Lindsay and tomb rab
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  tomb Raider. Like all we really did today is Jonathan maybe the o G
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  tom Raider. I got waffles. Waffles, Hey, waffles are nice.
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  We had we had a little bit of sushi, but yeah, still hungry.
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  So anyway, okay, so today's Today's I'm done with that. Uh
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  And I hope you guys are having a good Valentine's or February fourteenth or the
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  stream is making your Valentine's better, Yeah, tuning in and listening to us,
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  So did you? Uh? Okay, So what I thought. I
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  didn't. I didn't set up what we're doing today. I just said,
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  hello, I'll set it up. I'll set up. So what I thought,
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  because I was more like behind the the the I guess we both were.
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  I think it's a joint effort. But okay, So what I thought
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  I would to do today is we would cover at the end as like kind
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  of a palate cleanser, shall we shall you say, a study that and
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  this is actually an ongoing study. I'm pretty sure it's like from the life
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  surveys that the US government does and that and their findings in regards to happiness
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  and women and marriage versus single dum versus being divorced. So I thought that
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  that would be nice as a chaser, because I know today there will either
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  be a whole bunch of stuff that will make people feel alone, in particular
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  men, or there will be a whole bunch of triumphalists crowing about how women
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  don't need no men, and uh, I feel you know, let's let's
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  let's counter that a bit. Let's uh actually say, I mean little preview.
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  Uh, there is one thing that a woman can invest in that is
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  probably going to improve her happiness more than anything. And it isn't a vibrator
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  and a wine cellar. I'm just just laying that out there. It's it's
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  something else. It's not those two things. Nor is it stocks and like
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  kitty litter. Nope, it's something else. And we'll we'll we'll go through
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  it at the end. But the other thing that we're doing, and you'll
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  have to clue us in with this because it was actually your selection because I
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  had a different selection, but then we decided we didn't want to go with
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  total and utter rage bait. So there is this guy called Destiny and things
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  have happened to him recently and uh and and he has had a he's had
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  a conversation with Laurence, and we thought we would look at some of the
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  things that were said and yeah, if you want to tell the audience more
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  about the epic of Destiny, then there you go. Take it away,
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  Brian, Well, let me, yeah, let me set this up because
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  I'm the one who picked this video and I thought it was interesting. So
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  it just so happened that Lauren Chen uploaded or live streamed a discussion. I
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  won't say it's a debate, although there was some back and forth with Destiny
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  and the topic. The name of her video is called Love in twenty twenty
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  four only fans red Pill, polyamory and more with Destiny. Now, I
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  only got about right under half an hour into this discussion. But Destiny,
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  well, this is the thing, Okay. I don't know if Allison's gonna
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  like. I think that it is important only because Destiny, for some fucking
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  reason, is considered an an authority that people should be listening to when it
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  comes to dating and relationships. He's got he's like the guy like for some
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  reason. And Lauren Chen, I think she like, they're kind of on
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  opposite sides on a lot of issues, and maybe she wanted to bring on
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  somebody who would be, you know, a bit of a counter. So
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  I'm not blaming her for this. I think Lauren Chen is usually okay.
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  I've had her on the show. It was a long time ago when she
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  was still called Rome Millennial. But but I have spoken to her. But
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  what I okay, first, a little bit of backstory. So Destiny is
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  a kind of He wouldn't consider himself to be a bread tuber or a lefty
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  YouTuber. He would consider himself to be a common sense, moderate but he's
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  totally a bread tuber just he's like bread tuber light, he's not He's not
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  as crazy as Vosh, but pretty close. And the reason why we know
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  is because of the way that he frames things before he discusses them. First
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  of all, he hates the red pill. He lumps them in, and
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  when he says the red pill, he's not just talking about the PUA's.
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  He's not just talking about you know, like the fresh and Fits and the
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  Andrew Tates. He's talking about us. So before you guys say, you
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  know, well, you're not that No, we're as far as they're concerned,
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  we are in that box and are and also we're in the same box
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  as people like the guys of the Daily Wire, So all of us get
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  lumped in together. And then he refutes all of us, and he defends
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  the status quo, which is basically the mainstream feminist like arrangement of reality as
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  it exists. While pretending to be like absolutely moderate right, he is the
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  definition of both sides, and it's super annoying because he's obviously not like a
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  moderate right. And in this discussion you will see because when Lauren Chen says
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  she's gonna talk they talk about the state of the dating market and the problems
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  that men are having. And I think that there are some things that Lauren
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  chen should could learn from this. But Destiny is so far removed from reality
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  it boggles the mind that he doesn't. He has no sympathy for the situation
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  that men find themselves. So and despite that, and here's a little bit
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  of the story of Destiny. Okay, we're getting I'm getting to like.
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  Yeah. So the thing that is really ironic about this is that he was
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  in He's a streamer that does streams video games and occasionally talks about politics,
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  and for some reason he became like the guy to like ask like all kinds
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  of social, cultural and political questions of because because I don't know, because
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  he can google really fast. And so he was in a relationship with a
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  woman I don't remember. Her name doesn't really matter. He was in Sweden,
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  she lived in Sweden, and they got married, and they got married
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  without a prenup. I'm just trying to cut to the chase here. And
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  they were in an open marriage. So he married a woman open marriage with
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  a woman did not get a prenup, and she was sleeping with whoever,
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  and sometimes there it would be while there were men in the house, like
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  there would be men in the house with him. And his whole thing was
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  that he's so tolerant and so open and so like progressive that he could just
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  like like, oh yeah, like I'm not insecure, I do fine,
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  Like I'm a I'm also out here doing stuff right. We never really see
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  it. I'm not saying it doesn't happen, but this was his whole message
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  is if you if you're mature, you can do an open marriage. Now,
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  Frankly, I don't think that whether you can do it or not is
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  a measure of maturity. But the reality is is that most men and women
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  are gonna want to be a monogamous relationship. That's the reality. But when
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  you push this stuff on people you know, or you at least pretend like
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  everything is great, the problem is is that you kind of potentially invite like
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  drama into people's lives because you tricked him into thinking something is good when it
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  isn't. And he was living proof of that because the woman that he was
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  in an open marriage with ended up leaving him for another man because the other
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  man created an ultimatum he said, look, I want to be with you,
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  but it has to be just us. So a monogamous a guy looking
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  for monogamy one out against a guy that was supposedly okay with polyamory or whatever
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  you call it, right, And not only that, but now she's trying
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  to get a bunch of money from him, and because she he didn't get
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  a prenup like you know. So I'm sorry, but not exactly a guru,
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  not exactly a guru of relationships. Also, you'd think that he'd have
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  some more sympathy having experienced you would think, right, I mean, he
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  still basically just believes that men. I mean, they just shouldn't have anything
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  to complain about, Like, well, we can get into it, but
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  they're gonna talk about. What I saw was they're talking about dating, they
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  talk about social media, they talked about feminism a little bit and OnlyFans and
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  things like this. So all right, well let's let's uh, let's let's
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  get into this. I don't I'm gonna have to do bananas. I don't
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  have any time codes. I'm sorry. This just came out and I thought
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  it was interesting. It was either this or we go through like Hassan Piker's
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  old poa videos before he like found communism, So there's also that, which
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  is also hilarious. By the way, if you've ever seen the old Hassan
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  Piker video, there they are. They are kind of hilarious. Men's right
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  activists are machines, dude. Okay, let's let's of pseudo intellectual live today.
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  We have a very special guest. You know him. I'm sure as
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  Destiny as Steven. He is one of the largest streamers right now, so
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  really happy that he's taken the time to come chat with us. Destiny,
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  how you do win? Hey, what's up? I'm doing great, doing
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  good here. Actually I'm lying, I'm being Canadian and just being friendly.
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  I'm sick, So if my nose gets more red throughout this stream, it's
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  because I have a box of tissues next to me. But do you prefer
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  Steven or Destiny? Are you good with either? Definitely Steven Steve. I'm
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  just pausing there because I don't know how he's gonna get I did get a
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  super chom and to read it really quick, got to superlo But I just
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  wanted to say I'm not so sure that Lauren Chan is going to be really
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  a stickler with the banana but yeah, I mean I don't think so either.
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  I Lauren Chan, please don't like strike US. I just think I
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  thought we can. I feel like we can relax the standard a bit,
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  at least for the more UTV commentators. But I mean it's it's a good
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  idea to to do the things before we continue, before we get too far
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  into it and start to experience. Yeah, let's do what Yeah, they're
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  they're doing introduct Yeah, and probably you know what, we could probably skip
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  the introductions because we know who they are and we've given a long introduction to
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  destiny. But be that is it. Man, Let's get into the things,
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  I got a super chow from Richard Bierre. He gives us five dollars and
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  I wanted to experience and to make things even spicier, I wanted my husband
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  to be pegged by the bull. Now they are dating each other. I
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  don't know. It sounds like a Valentine's happy ending to me. Well for
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  some people, yes, and then the one good man, right, yeah,
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  the one good man send us fifteen dollars and five dollars, so I
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  and so years ago, one hundred and such a few years ago that women
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  were still viewed as chattel as we all know, this is true, and
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  he says the one as the one good man, I know, I should
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  believe all women and minorities at all times and without question. I suggest having
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  women are and help to avoid wrong thinkers. Thank you to the one good
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  Man, which in which I mean and you are the one good man.
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  You have just demonstrated how good and one you are all right, So now
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  we can get into the video. I don't know how long the introductions go.
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  I'm gonnap a little bit ahead. I don't want to miss it.
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  Oh damn, I was muted. I was gonna say extra extra woohoo to
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  the one good man who demonstrated his goodness by starting a fifteen dollar subscription.
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  Oh, you have joined us, You have joined us. One good man
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  come, oh, one good man is now a badger. We should create
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  I think we should create memberships in the YouTube again, like I don't know,
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  I know, I don't understand. Okay, I can probably apply my
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  I'll need to swaddle myself in like a comforter and have like a hot
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  coco and just well we can give them exclusive little like emotion from self care.
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  No, no, I totally, I totally. You think that's a
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  good thing. It's just that every time I interact with the YouTube interface,
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  it's almost as bad as word press. So I always have to have that,
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  you know, that little extra self care, you know what I mean,
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  just just so that I don't want to kill myself. But it never
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  works. I still want to kill myself. But I could do it.
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  I could put it together. I could. I could figure that out at
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  some point. But anyway, I want to thank you. Get one good
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  man, great job. Thanks, thank you for the I appreciate it,
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  really appreciate it, especially because of the subscription. All right, all right,
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  let's play some of the video. I skipped ahead a little bit.
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  Sure, I can't gonna be honest, I as well got like fifteen minutes
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  go out a late night last night? Yea holiday. She asked him a
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  question. She asked him a question. I want to hear her question.
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  I want to open up with a question. I think it could be interesting.
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  Do you think it's easier or more difficult to find love today than it
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  was, say, twenty five years ago? Why are you all right?
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  Before he answers that maybe we should try to answer it first, the answer
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  is, yes, is more difficult. And the reason why is because our
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  society is well, it's now in its third generation of embracing this notion that
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  men oppressed women, which incidentally wasn't always a widespread belief, which is,
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  you know, that's really funny because if you go back back in time when
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  the oppression was worse, it was less, it was considered less of a
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  thing. Of course, they would say that's consciousness rating raising. But I
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  have my doubts and so but that particular attitude at which I'm guessing that neither
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  of these two individuals would really genuinely question. We are now in generation three
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  under that the the what's the right word for it, under the yoke of
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  that idea, and once again I would just like to point out that it
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  has never been proven. I mean, let's put it this way. Feminists
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  essential conjecture about the relationship between the sexes because they have a conjecture about the
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  relationship between the sexes, they at one percent do, But they have never
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  absolutely and clearly explained what their conjecture about the relationship between the sexes is because
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  they don't want to have to take responsibility for it. Because if they had
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  to take responsibility, if they had to actually articulate what they believe, what
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  their conjecture is in regards to the relationship between the sexes, then we could
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  actually look at it as a scientific hypothesis that can be tested. So they
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  want to play the silly buggers game of well, that's not my feminism,
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  and then you ask them if they believe it, and they basically hem and
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  haw and say yes. But you know, they don't want to They don't
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  actually want to be pig pen or pinned down pen pig pig pinned, pinned,
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  pinned down like I'm pinning this word down there. Don't want to be
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  pinned down to anything because then it might be negated and then they have to
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  take responsibility for it. So this is supposedly a scientific look at how one
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  of the most important aspects of human nature, which is the relate one of
• 24:22
  them, the most important aspect of humans, most important. Yeah, the
• 24:26
  relationship between the sexes and their conjecture, they've never even really clearly stated it.
• 24:32
  They just want to dance around it, but still imply it. And
• 24:36
  uh and and honestly, it's never been subject to any kind of scientific grigor
• 24:41
  like, they have never said, well, how do you falsify it?
• 24:42
  Now? I can make a I can make a guess at what the feminist
• 24:45
  conjecture about the relationship between the sexes is men oppressed women, Men oppress women,
• 24:52
  men's authority over women oppresses women. And uh, well, how do
• 24:56
  you falsify that? And I've asked feminist. I'm like, okay, do
• 25:00
  you agree with that? And eventually I'll get them to say yes, and
• 25:03
  I say well, how do you falsify it? And then they usually say,
• 25:04
  well, it cannot be falsified. I'm like, yes, it can.
• 25:10
  It can one hundred percent be falsified. And this is how you falsify
• 25:14
  it. Your can you are, you are your causal conjecture. So you're
• 25:19
  saying X, then y, if male authority then female oppression, there is
• 25:26
  you absolutely one can falsify that. This is how you look at the situation
• 25:33
  for men and women under male authority, and if the situation is better for
• 25:37
  women then men, or even possibly just equal, And that's not the it's
• 25:45
  not it's not the exercise of male authority. So you can't put anything on
• 25:48
  the scale related to having rights without recognizing the equivalent responsibilities or any of that,
• 25:56
  because that's that's the X. Men authority is the X. You can't
• 26:00
  put X on scale to measure why that's you don't do that. You can't
• 26:03
  no, slap no, So you can you can see that, you can
• 26:08
  you can actually negate that by simply seeing observing if the situation is worse for
• 26:15
  men than women, and it is throughout all of human history. The situation
• 26:21
  is worse for men. Men are more likely to die violently, and they're
• 26:23
  less likely to reproduce, which are the two basic privileges of a sexually reproducing
• 26:30
  or like a mammal or an animal, is survival and reproduction, and it's
• 26:36
  always gone preferably towards women. So no, it's not a situation in which
• 26:41
  women are oppressed, because this situation is better for women, so like and
• 26:48
  and but the but ultimately, you don't even need to falsify it. You
• 26:52
  just have to ask is this falsifiable? And if they say no, then
• 26:56
  it's not science, Like, can you falsify this if it's false? Is
• 27:03
  irrelevant? Can you falsify feminist conjecture? Well, first of all, they've
• 27:08
  never really stated what their conjecture is, which means it's not science. Second
• 27:12
  of all, they won't acknowledge that it's falsifiable or even contend with thinking about
• 27:19
  making it falsifiable, which means it's not science, which means it's not an
• 27:23
  observation observation of reality. It's a fiction. And nobody is or a belief,
• 27:30
  and nobody is obligated to believe it, and therefore I don't men do
• 27:34
  not Men in authority do not oppress women. Full stop. Okay that was
• 27:41
  a long aside. Yeah, a little bit, but that's okay, all
• 27:44
  right, let's get into this more. But okay, yeah, my answer
• 27:47
  also, yes, I'm not going to go into it any further. I
• 27:51
  think that's enough. And what do you guys think? You think? Like,
• 27:53
  I'm not dating right now, but I can see that a lot of
• 27:57
  men are struggling. And the actually I've been talking to some people. There
• 28:03
  was that guy that you sent me the info on Twitter. He's like the
• 28:10
  evil psych dating psyche guy or whatever. Not Alex State Psyche, but another
• 28:12
  guy. And there was another guy who clearly what I'm saying is clearly this
• 28:21
  is becoming a more a bigger issue because more and more people are talking about
• 28:26
  So you know what we've been bringing the alarm on has is finally starting to
• 28:32
  reach the normies. All right, but let's let's let's get into it.
• 28:36
  So yes, so what do you guys think? Is it harder or not?
• 28:38
  Let me know in the live chat. I'll be looking at the chat.
• 28:41
  So hmmm, I like fifteen minutes guy the late night last night you're
• 28:49
  asking the hard hitting questions, is it is it? Though? It isn't
• 28:56
  it? Like I when she said it, I was like, yes,
• 28:57
  like, I mean, like, this isn't our question. You can wake
• 29:02
  me up in the middle of the night and ask me and with like fucking
• 29:04
  like ear boogers, I mean boogers in my eyes and everything from like you
• 29:08
  know how you get like the crust on your eye list, I'd be like,
• 29:12
  yes, now, fuck off right exactly, okay. But Destiny is
• 29:18
  like you know, you know that he doesn't really know how to answer a
• 29:22
  question when he says, well, that's a really complicated question. That's how
• 29:25
  you know he doesn't. This guy's the Socrates of the Internet right now.
• 29:30
  Some fucking reason, really well I exaggerate, but he is for some reason
• 29:36
  a credible like, well, you know what everybody is going to do.
• 29:41
  They're just gonna do what they do until it doesn't work anymore. I actually
• 29:44
  think that if you I think that if you are a defender of the status
• 29:51
  quo and you can sell that you're being like rational and moderate, you will
• 30:00
  be more successful than people like us that are actually saying you know what,
• 30:03
  this is a very hard thing to look at but you have to look at
• 30:06
  it. Oh god, yes, anybody's selling, like okay, anybody's at
• 30:10
  the end of the world selling selling the idea that the world isn't ending,
• 30:15
  that that guy is going to make out like bank, Like, just imagine
• 30:19
  we're at the end of the world. You see the timey whimy crack in
• 30:23
  the sky and the demon Lord's tentacles going down, and this dude's destiny.
• 30:29
  He's like, Oh, that's not really happening, you know. That's I
• 30:33
  don't know why you guys are exaggerating so much. Everything's fine, friends are
• 30:37
  fine. What's wrong with you? That's like people who think that there's a
• 30:40
  giant crack in the sky with monster tentacles coming down. They just hate women,
• 30:45
  you know. And that that dude saying that will have billions of followers
• 30:52
  and trillions of dollars shoveled at him. Okay, and why because he's telling
• 30:57
  people what they want to hear. Yes, exactly, all right, let's
• 31:03
  play some more of this. Let's hear his actual answer. I would say
• 31:06
  that in some I'm gonna get the dumbest the most way. It's like,
• 31:08
  in some ways it's a lot easier than someone harder. I think it's it's
• 31:12
  easier and that you're connected to more people today than anybody could have ever been
• 31:18
  connected to in the past, which is amazing. Right if you were like
• 31:22
  an introverted stable boy in the past, social media act and you know,
• 31:26
  talk to however many girls, you're what you're able to match. With that
• 31:30
  being said, I think the standards and what people expect in relationships has dramatically
• 31:34
  grown. So it in one way it's like easier to meet people, but
• 31:38
  in other ways it's a lot harder. It's like something that I talk about
• 31:41
  for men, is that? What was that? I'm just thinking, I'm
• 31:45
  just curious what he means about standards. Okay, yeah, I mean he's
• 31:48
  saying standards for people, and I'm like, well, we'll talking about and
• 31:53
  he's about to go into men, right, Okay, all right, let's
• 31:56
  let's find out. All right, let's find out yet that probably, like
• 32:00
  fifty sixty, seventy years ago, as long as you could work a stable
• 32:04
  job and you weren't a total lunatic, you'd probably get a wife. Because
• 32:07
  women need to go and find men, marry them, and have a family.
• 32:09
  That was kind of like the path of everybody, but now the people
• 32:12
  have so many more pounds available to them in life. He's saying, sixty
• 32:15
  or seventy years ago, if you were a man who just needed to have
• 32:20
  a stable job and like not be a lunatic, so essentially, be like
• 32:24
  a normal person with a stable job, and you will find a wife and
• 32:31
  because women needed men. So where he's going with this, and we'll let
• 32:37
  him say it before we respond, is that in the past. He's not
• 32:40
  going to say this because it was too true in the past. And the
• 32:45
  reality is is that in the past, men and women were for most of
• 32:51
  our history, they were set up with each other. So like the whole
• 32:55
  idea of like a free and open dating market is very very very recent.
• 33:00
  This isn't the case like in the eighteen hundreds. You just like knew the
• 33:05
  people in your town, or you knew the people in the farm next door,
• 33:08
  and if they had a daughter, and of course if they had like
• 33:10
  a shit ton of kids, odds were you know, you were you were
• 33:14
  going to meet someone that is like a match for you and your and if
• 33:19
  your the families were friends and they got along, well, then you probably
• 33:22
  like you know, it was like something that was like in it was all
• 33:25
  about like your it was more embedded in the culture. Like, yeah,
• 33:30
  it was embedded in the culture, but it was just like if you in
• 33:31
  your community, you would probably meet somebody in your community. Like even even
• 33:35
  when I was a kid, you know, the girls that I knew that
• 33:38
  I dated in school, they lived in my neighborhood, so it was like
• 33:43
  it was that and that's still pretty recent. But even before that, like
• 33:47
  you know, if a man and a woman were fond of each other,
• 33:53
  one of the things that was expected was, you know, you would meet
• 33:55
  their parents and and they would and you're you know, the girl or boy
• 34:00
  you were interested in would meet your parents and then the parents would suss them
• 34:04
  out because they were involved in their life and all of that. But like
• 34:07
  that doesn't happen anymore. And I don't think it's just the internet that's to
• 34:14
  blame. A lot of people want to blame the internet, They want to
• 34:15
  blame social media. I think it is the damage to the family that's that
• 34:22
  is actually to blame. I think that because there are still families today where
• 34:28
  there's a father in the home and in a father and a mother and they're
• 34:32
  both there and they're both raising the children together. And the father especially is
• 34:37
  gonna want to know who his daughter is dating, and he's going to be,
• 34:42
  like, you know whatever, sussing them out, and the mom will
• 34:45
  too, and the mom will be sussing out the girls that a boy is
• 34:50
  dating. And because but because they're also there, like the mother and father,
• 34:54
  if they're good parents, they will be the model by which their children
• 35:00
  will you know, relationship. Yeah, yeah, yeah, So you take
• 35:04
  all that out and you do that damage. Like somebody's saying, sixty percent
• 35:08
  don't have fathers. That's yes, that's the point. When you have single
• 35:13
  moms, then you basically invite or you've broken families, but most of them
• 35:17
  will be single mother homes. You are basically inviting. That gap is going
• 35:23
  to be filled, right, no pun intended, and they will find and
• 35:28
  it will and the schools promote it. They're okay with it, the media
• 35:31
  is okay with it. It's everywhere, it's all around us. We normalized
• 35:35
  it, and so the harm is being done and now destiny won't. And
• 35:39
  the standards though, like so we take all that out where people were just
• 35:44
  kind of like set up with each other, which was basically like for thousands
• 35:46
  and thousands of years that was the case, right, Maybe in the last
• 35:52
  one hundred years, No, probably less than that, maybe in the last
• 35:54
  seventy or eighty years, or was there a thing called dating without you know,
• 36:00
  necessarily with without oversight or at least that wasn't a normal thing where the
• 36:05
  parents were like, well, let me meet this person you're you're seeing or
• 36:08
  yours like the lonely hearts call them the newspapers right now for then you know
• 36:15
  that they meet they met through context. Yeah, there were ways to do
• 36:19
  it, yeah, Or you would go to things you go to like a
• 36:22
  community event, you know, a dance or or something like that, you
• 36:27
  know, or you meet them in church, like there were just a million
• 36:29
  ways. And now all that's gone, most of it is anyway, and
• 36:32
  people are mostly you know, dating online, and they're dating a lot earlier,
• 36:37
  and they're sexually active sooner, and they're treating relationships as more utilitarian or
• 36:44
  more almost I mean, if they are transactional, but maybe like in a
• 36:49
  kind of older way, you know, And I think this is yeah,
• 36:54
  go ahead, I think yeah, this is so it's not necessarily just the
• 36:58
  Internet, it's the general and I would admit that, No, he won't.
• 37:02
  That's what I'm saying. He's going to blame the internet. He's not
• 37:05
  gonna Actually, what he's going to do is he's going to justify the rop
• 37:07
  by saying that women didn't have a choice before and now they do. Well,
• 37:13
  let's hear so yo, So let's let's let's go into it. But
• 37:15
  with men, he was saying, the I guess the value add for a
• 37:19
  relationship is it's competing with a lot of other things. And so you say
• 37:23
  that, like women had to get married and stuff, what do you mean
• 37:27
  by that. I mean before women were as educated and before women had as
• 37:30
  much a place in the workforce. You're like, if you're a woman,
• 37:34
  you're like thirty, you're not married with a kid, Like, what are
• 37:36
  you doing with your life? Because you're not really like they're they're just like
• 37:39
  the the pursuit of career and the pursuit of education wasn't as common of a
• 37:44
  thing. So it seems like that was kind of like the expected path for
• 37:46
  women to go down. And if you're expected path is to be like a
• 37:49
  housewife and a caretaker, we'll obviously here for the para for the man to
• 37:51
  do that, because he's going to be the one that's working. So I
• 37:52
  feel like that was like a more standard path, like a more accepted kind
• 37:57
  of people were kind of pushed in that direction in the past. So or
• 38:00
  women want that? This is the big thing, like that the attitude is
• 38:07
  that, oh, women were pushed in that direction. And yet from what
• 38:10
  I've seen of women from that time period and their own statements, that was
• 38:15
  what they wanted. Right. You even have what was a Bouvier, say,
• 38:21
  Simon de Bouvier saying that you cannot allow women to have that because too
• 38:24
  many women will choose that, And you can't you can't give women the option
• 38:30
  to be a housewife and mother because too many women would choose to do Yeah,
• 38:36
  So that like right there, he's completely removing the agency of the women
• 38:40
  in the past. Maybe most of them did that because that's what they wanted.
• 38:45
  Well, and we're going to get into that later, right, Because
• 38:47
  that's why I think this is related to this article aired with me, all
• 38:52
  right, let's keep going. Then, all right, let's keep going.
• 38:55
  Opinion. Then, with the push for marriage that we saw in the past,
• 38:58
  was that mainly driven by women? That it's like a it's like asking
• 39:07
  like which wheel of the car is the most important. Why are you ask
• 39:09
  I was probably driven by women to some extent, but it was also driven
• 39:13
  by women because it's also like what men wanted. But it was also driven
• 39:15
  probably by men because it's what society needed. And then the families pushed you
• 39:19
  towards it, and then like that was the social expectation's society say, there
• 39:22
  was one force there that was pushing in a direction society. I can tell
• 39:28
  you something. Bachelor men were actively discriminated against her jobs. They had things
• 39:35
  like heart bomb laws that if a man, if a woman felt like a
• 39:39
  man had given some kind of promise, he owed her financially or could end
• 39:45
  up in jail, especially if he did anything sexual with her. So yes,
• 39:47
  there was actual legal pressure on men to marry. I don't recall any
• 39:52
  kind of legal pressure on women to marry. So if I like, yeah,
• 40:00
  a single like a bachelor man working a job or you know that's looking
• 40:05
  for work, is less reliable in the eyes of employers than a married man
• 40:09
  because a married man, especially, he's gonna he's gonna bust ass so that
• 40:15
  he's more likely to get the job. And at the same time that what's
• 40:19
  funny a married woman, especially a woman that might have children or plans to
• 40:22
  have children, is more of a financialentive for an employer than a single woman.
• 40:30
  Yes, and right now, single women out earned men, regardless of
• 40:32
  single men. But regardless of that, the real reason is because they didn't
• 40:38
  They didn't feel like giving a job to a man who wasn't supporting a woman.
• 40:43
  Right there, the social role of the time was that men work to
• 40:47
  support women. Yes, and wasn't that men were just out here making money.
• 40:53
  If you weren't a man supporting women a woman, you were openly and
• 41:00
  actively discriminated against in the workplace. And guys, there's older guys who will
• 41:05
  say one of the only things that feminism did for men was to take away
• 41:09
  that huge, pervasive, legally binding like like legally not just not just social
• 41:20
  stigma, but legal stigma, like legal condemnation, legal condemnation, employment condemnation
• 41:29
  of being a bachelor. Right there was you talk about pressure on women.
• 41:35
  Well, okay, yeah, you we can talk about it, but there
• 41:38
  weren't no, there weren't laws. There wasn't a policy of discriminating against single
• 41:45
  women for jobs like there was for men. Yeah, you know, like
• 41:50
  the pressure on men was tremendous to marry, and it was in law.
• 41:54
  Okay, so screw off with this, all right, let's okay, all
• 41:59
  right, let's listens more. Yeah. Uh, I'm trying not to go.
• 42:02
  I'm trying to be two before one o'clock. But if you're looking at
• 42:06
  it from like a patriarchal point of view, whatever, like social factors are
• 42:09
  pushing everybody in certain directions. In some ways, it's nice. In some
• 42:13
  ways it's not nice. I guess in one sense, it's nice that people
• 42:16
  kind of had simpler paths and therefore you don't have as much decision paralysis or
• 42:22
  you know, like choice fatigue, or it's like, fuck, did I
• 42:23
  make the right choice? Blah blah blah, because these are things we're just
• 42:25
  kind of expected for you. I think that women probably enjoyed parts of it
• 42:30
  and didn't like parts of it. I think men probably enjoyed a lot of
• 42:31
  parts of it, didn't like parts of it. Yeah. Oh, I
• 42:35
  like how he says men enjoyed a lot of it, like they like they
• 42:38
  somehow just benefited more. And also I don't think it was like, okay,
• 42:44
  so back then, most people most men found women, men found those
• 42:52
  men and fell in love, got married, and they had kids. And
• 42:55
  then the man would work at you know, at a job or he owned
• 43:00
  a business, or he ran a farm or his land or whatever it was,
• 43:07
  and his wife worked at home. She worked still, but she worked
• 43:10
  at home. Maybe she had a little side thing. I know that was
• 43:14
  very common, you know, and they were both raising their children together.
• 43:19
  This is an ideal situation, but this is what people usually aim for,
• 43:22
  so it's what they're going for. And then he is saying that what if
• 43:29
  you had more choices, then you would just become the end of your line,
• 43:36
  Like you wouldn't have children and you would just die and that'd be the
• 43:38
  end of your legacy, like men won Yeah, go ahead, Okay.
• 43:44
  He's saying that having more choices can lead to regretting the choices because you think,
• 43:49
  oh I could have chosen. Yeah, we're having choice fatigue. So
• 43:52
  slimming down the choices can lead to greater happiness. Yes, that's true,
• 43:55
  but like, what what are the choice is that people did not have that
• 44:02
  were better than what choices they Because he's saying that now we have all these
• 44:07
  choices, so there's a downside because it's not as easy to you know,
• 44:10
  like walk down that life path of like well no, yeah, I mean
• 44:15
  get married, have kids, our family. We're saying people, but what
• 44:17
  we mean as women because men still have the same single choice, which is
• 44:22
  to earn more than your wife. That's it, yes, like everybody,
• 44:24
  look, oh my god, women are liberated. But the thing is that
• 44:28
  women still want to marry a man who earns more. They literally still want
• 44:31
  to marry a man who that they can then rely on like they did in
• 44:36
  the nineteen fifties period. Like that nothing has changed and nothing has changed about
• 44:40
  the expectations for men, except now the amount men have to earn has increased.
• 44:50
  So this whole idea that anything has changed since the nineteen fifties is absolutely
• 44:54
  absurd. A woman then still wanted a man who made more. It was
• 44:59
  just just easier to find one. Now a woman still wants a man who
• 45:04
  makes more. It's just a lot harder to find one. That's the difference.
• 45:08
  Like she's making it out like there's this huge massive change that there hasn't
• 45:13
  been. We haven't changed what they want. No, we still want to
• 45:17
  rely on a man who makes more the end. Yeah, Okay, it's
• 45:23
  just that they've gone from a from a position of plenty where every woman could
• 45:30
  find a man who was about her attractiveness level who made more, to a
• 45:36
  system of scarcity where it's very difficult to find a man who makes more because
• 45:40
  you are now making as much or more than most men. So okay,
• 45:49
  well that's that's essentially the dating situation in a nutshell the end, Like yeah,
• 45:55
  and that's the hilarious thing. They're like, oh, we've liberated women.
• 45:59
  No you haven't. You've liberated women. Really well, they still have
• 46:04
  the same expectations that they've always had. You certainly haven't liberated them from that.
• 46:08
  I mean if tomorrow, if tomorrow every man magically became Christian Gray,
• 46:14
  I don't know how that hell that would work. Every woman would quit her
• 46:17
  job and become his wife, like think about it, or every woman and
• 46:25
  so nothing has changed. And that's what Well that yeah, that's what I
• 46:29
  was saying, Like we like he thinks we've given people choices, but like
• 46:34
  they're just making the same choices, saying yeah, they're making the same choices.
• 46:38
  Yeah, and they're making those things same choices, Like but that there's
• 46:42
  a lot of other factors now that make things worse for everybody. Involved.
• 46:45
  Well, yeah, just like I mean, women can just divorce. They
• 46:50
  can get married and then divorce the guy so they can take his money,
• 46:52
  take his kids, because the state will step in and take care of her.
• 46:57
  Does that. So we've basically like created We didn't add any choices because
• 47:02
  men and women generally still want the same things. We've just given like I
• 47:07
  don't know, like we've basically just like interceded into that process. Like where
• 47:13
  men are now working, Like whether you're married or not, whether you go
• 47:16
  full on migtile monk, you're paying taxes, which means that you are giving
• 47:21
  a woman your money. So this is this is the big thing that women
• 47:27
  now can choose. They can now choose to be celebrated middle management seven eleven,
• 47:32
  like being middle management at seven eleven, or being a manager of a
• 47:36
  seven eleven. You know, like the average woman can now celebrate if she's
• 47:42
  lucky being a middle manager or something else, you know, like yay woo,
• 47:51
  Like you're not making a family, But what are you really getting at
• 47:54
  the end of the day. And here's the great joke. Men didn't do
• 47:59
  their jobs because they really really really enjoyed the fifty year like pocket watch or
• 48:05
  the placard. They did their jobs because that's what paid for their families.
• 48:10
  Yeah, they did their job, the wife and their job because they wanted
• 48:16
  to support their family. That's why they did it. Well. Yeah,
• 48:21
  and that's that's the thing that women are out there supporting themselves and they don't
• 48:27
  even get the reward that men did. They don't even get that reward because
• 48:32
  they don't even have families at the end of the day. And that's really
• 48:37
  actually, really sort of funny, is it. Is it really freedom to
• 48:44
  have to have a be a wage slave? Is that really freedom? You
• 48:49
  know? Is that really the pinnacle of success? Oh? Yes, I
• 48:52
  became a manager, a middle manager at seven to eleven. Whoo you go,
• 48:55
  girl, Like, Okay, that that that's that's the big thing that
• 49:00
  you got out of life. And that was so much better than being a
• 49:06
  wife and a mother and building a home. That was so much better?
• 49:08
  Was it? Okay? Well, too bad, you're so much better.
• 49:13
  Will not care about you when you get buried, like you know, like
• 49:19
  this, I don't know, it just seems like you're out, You're right?
• 49:22
  Did the did the options really get that much better? Did anything really
• 49:27
  change that much? No? I mean, I mean he thinks that women
• 49:31
  are less oppressed but still oppressed. Oh yeah, okay, if you want
• 49:38
  to go in a deeper on anything, we can. But my answer gonna
• 49:40
  be right macro level right now. Sorry, No, that's that's good.
• 49:43
  Okay, So that it's not necessarily easier, harder answer today, would you,
• 49:47
  Stephen, do you prefer being answered? Okay, okay, I'm really
• 49:52
  tired about this. Okay? Is this is it just me? Or is
• 49:57
  this man incredibly disrespectful? Well? Yeah, he's super sarcastic. He thinks
• 50:02
  he's smarter than everybody's. No, he's like he's a definition of a midwit.
• 50:07
  He is a definition of a midwit, a guy who's who's dunning Krueger.
• 50:13
  That's all I'll say. Let me conclude, he's the way he's moving,
• 50:19
  the attitude he's presenting. He feels very disrespectful to her. Yeah,
• 50:25
  it's I don't know if if anybody else is picking up on that, but
• 50:28
  that's a strong Well yeah, I mean yeah, I can see the body
• 50:31
  language. But that's like I've watched him in a lot of debates like where
• 50:36
  and discussions, and he is he basically presumes that because people blow up,
• 50:40
  so blow so so much smoke up of his ass. He thinks that he's
• 50:44
  the smartest guy in the world, and so he just yeah, comes on
• 50:46
  and he's like, well, clearly you don't. And and of course his
• 50:49
  takes are just so like milk toast, but you get used to its question.
• 50:55
  No, he's not gonna, well he did. He just said it
• 50:57
  kind of is and it kind of isn't. And that's the end. Like,
• 51:00
  I know, I just gave the most nuanced take ever. And Lauren
• 51:05
  Chen is like, well, I guess. I mean, Lauren Chen is
• 51:07
  clearly smarter than him, but she's just got to like realize it. Look,
• 51:10
  I only got like an hour and a half. I'm not gonna I've
• 51:15
  been there, Lauren. I get it, all right, Let's okay,
• 51:17
  let's keep going ago or fifty years ago or hundred years wait wait, wait,
• 51:22
  oh my god, you just for us. For a second, I
• 51:23
  thought you were thinking of the deepest question ever. Hold on, Oh no,
• 51:27
  yeah, I repeat that last thing. Sorry to think so. Would
• 51:30
  okay, assuming you're Steven, you're looking for love. Now, are you
• 51:32
  happy to be in twenty twenty four or would you have preferred to be in
• 51:36
  the past twenty five years ago, or maybe even a hundred years ago.
• 51:38
  I mean I like this era now one percent. But also if I was
• 51:40
  born, you know, fifty years ago, maybe well yeah, because he
• 51:44
  gets to play video games. Let's let's play some more. We'll see what
• 51:49
  he says. Probably would have no different, Yeah of course. Yeah,
• 51:52
  but hey I am maybe the forties I would have been a not so you
• 51:53
  know, who knows i'd have. I definitely preferred this era now, but
• 51:59
  yeah, I mean we're probably of our time, so who knows. Who's
• 52:00
  to say I would have about fifty one hundred years ago. Yeah, that's
• 52:04
  interesting because I can't like what I'm hearing from. For a second, Brian,
• 52:07
  at any point in the amount that you watch, does does he have
• 52:09
  a thought that's actually worth considering? No? Okay, what the why?
• 52:15
  Why are we even listening to this man? Because I think that we know
• 52:20
  because I because he is a popular voice and we should hear what people are
• 52:23
  saying. Okay, I got a super He has not made a point or
• 52:30
  offered an observation that is worth considering in any aspect, And I'm starting to
• 52:37
  get really aggravated. I'm not at you, Brian, I'm not at you,
• 52:42
  I am aggravated at this. Well we should we should hear him out
• 52:50
  some more because these look his the arguments he makes are very common. They're
• 52:55
  not going to be mind blowing. He's not gonna blow He's not gonna blow
• 52:59
  your mind because we are operating, I think, on the fringe here,
• 53:06
  so we're looking at it's basically like, oh, where's the Overton window at
• 53:09
  today? Oh? Here, and we're looking at that, So this is
• 53:14
  where it is. And I mean, Lauren Chen pushes back, like you
• 53:16
  know, or at least she has like her own side of it, and
• 53:20
  he's further along. But I think that this is good for that if you
• 53:23
  look, If you guys watching don't think this is content worth going through,
• 53:28
  then I'll just stop the video and we'll like go to the article or something.
• 53:32
  But I'm just saying that so far, we're like five minutes in and
• 53:36
  I have not heard a thought like you know I and I don't grade every
• 53:42
  thought on like a depth or a density that's really satisfying, like I don't.
• 53:45
  I'm not expecting him to be like I don't know, piercy and semiotics
• 53:50
  or anything like that, which actually is just more confusing than satisfying. But
• 53:53
  regardless, I'm not expecting that from this man. But yeah, I'm I'm
• 54:00
  I keep grading him down in his insight, and I'm I'm now at Hallmark
• 54:07
  card. This dude is a fucking Hallmark card. But you know, if
• 54:10
  if I wanted to do, if I wanted to listen to, I would
• 54:15
  just go to Walmart and read the Hallmark cards, all right, and I
• 54:21
  would probably feel more satisfied. In fact, I would be like, you
• 54:23
  know, this Hallmark card is really making me think so far, Okay,
• 54:30
  you are at dude, you are at Hallmark card level. Can we can
• 54:34
  I just want a little substance somewhere? Okay, Okay, Well he just
• 54:37
  woke up, so maybe he wakes up a little bit. Maybe he's reving
• 54:42
  his engines. You know. Yeah, I wake up from the weirdest ass
• 54:45
  dreams. Like sometimes I have these dreams and it's like, wow, I
• 54:49
  think I'm even more esoteric in a dream, And do you have those feelings
• 54:53
  like get you get these conclusions and you're like, I understand everything. Had
• 55:00
  a dream last night that Jojo Pete on my which is weird because he never
• 55:02
  does that. All Right, we're I think we're on different sides of the
• 55:07
  spectrum. Yeah, then I had to go. So anyway, I got
• 55:10
  a super child. For Richard Bierre gives us five bucks and he says,
• 55:14
  is building the bondage Dungeon a requirement or is that only optional? Don't you
• 55:19
  realize a liberation in being a modern day harem girl? All right, thank
• 55:24
  you for that, Richard. And for men at least, there are a
• 55:29
  lot of guys who are saying that they are very black built about what the
• 55:34
  current dating situation looks like. And I from what I understand, it's because
• 55:37
  I mean, I think nowadays the power has kind of shifted in terms of
• 55:43
  relationship dynamics. A lot of people think that women are basically holding the keys
• 55:47
  not just to sex, which traditionally they always have, but also two relationships
• 55:51
  in that if you can't even get in the door for that first inertial date,
• 55:53
  then as a man, your power to technically control relationship status, then
• 55:59
  does there even exist to begin with for a lot of men. Well,
• 56:02
  that's a fair statement I think that Lauren Chin is making right. Let's see
• 56:07
  how he turns that into. Well, let's see what he turns it.
• 56:10
  I'm on it turns it into into into like like kind of watery oatmeal.
• 56:15
  Let's find out. Let's find out. Yeah, I mean, I I
• 56:21
  agree, the balance has swung really dramatically. My kind of like explanation for
• 56:25
  this, I'm gonna try the fuck out of your audience today. My explanation
• 56:30
  for all of this is, I view, there's like a basket of feminine
• 56:34
  traits, and there's a basket of masculine traits, and for a long time,
• 56:37
  religious people and red pillars and everybody's kind of coped that, like,
• 56:40
  oh, feminine traits are beautiful and masculine traits are good, and they compliment
• 56:44
  each other. But I think deep down we all know that's fucking bullshit.
• 56:46
  All the masculine traits are really fucking cool, having honor, having integrity,
• 56:52
  being a provider, being able to, you know, stand up for your
• 56:55
  enemies and for your family. But these are like really cool things that everybody
• 56:59
  wants to do. I think we kind of deluded ourselves into thinking like only
• 57:01
  men want that, Like women want to be feminine and elegant and caretakers and
• 57:07
  breastfeeders, and that's like the best thing ever. Not to say that thesease
• 57:09
  are bad, I'm just saying that, like in the box of masculine trades,
• 57:13
  there's like eighty percent of these traits are things that everybody wants. Nobody
• 57:15
  wants to be weak, nobody wants to have to be taken care of.
• 57:20
  I'm pausing it there just in case. I'm going I'm gonna let it play.
• 57:23
  Okay, let's play the rest. So I think his time has gone
• 57:27
  on as women have gotten access to birth control and have got access to education
• 57:30
  and then careers. I think that what we've seen is women have kind of
• 57:35
  like always had this feminine side. They've done a really good job at growing
• 57:39
  their masculine side as well, and men have had their masculine side, and
• 57:44
  that's it. And there hasn't really been a push for men to encompass like
• 57:45
  more intellectual feminine trades. And so you've got this era now where women have
• 57:52
  become these like voltrons of like all these different powerful forces. And now when
• 57:55
  you're a woman and it's twenty twenty four and you're looking into the dating field
• 57:59
  and you're like, Okay, well who should I date? Well, you
• 58:00
  don't need a guy for sex? Is you a birth control? You know
• 58:04
  you're not gonna get pregnant every time, and you don't need a guy for
• 58:06
  money. You can work your own job. So now the value add for
• 58:09
  a guy has to be really high, because before it was like, listen,
• 58:13
  do you want to be a fucking unwed, unpregnant loser at thirty or
• 58:15
  do you want to get with me because I've got a paycheck. And now
• 58:20
  if you're a guy at paycheck's not enough, you know. And yeah,
• 58:22
  I think women with like jobs in birth control are like kryptonite to guys who
• 58:27
  can only offer their wallet, which is the only thing guys have ever really
• 58:30
  been trained to do. Okay, is he done? Yeah? Well I
• 58:34
  think so want me to see. No, okay, let's see, let's
• 58:37
  see right, And I think it's hard for guys right now because socially they're
• 58:40
  just not trained and nobody wants to train them or learn that because why feminists
• 58:45
  of sucks. We think of feminist if you think of blue hair, you
• 58:47
  know, sissy, progressive, cry baby guys, it doesn't seem like a
• 58:51
  cool thing, you know. Yeah, right, No, even feminists themselves
• 58:52
  are not lining up. Okay. Yeah, this is a very trivializing attitude
• 59:04
  to the wars of the difference between men and women. First of all,
• 59:07
  men were not their jobs, they were their function that their jobs did.
• 59:15
  The function that their jobs did was to take care of their families, to
• 59:19
  protect and provide for their families. Women have not taken over that. If
• 59:23
  they had genuinely taken over that masculine urge. And I think it must be
• 59:30
  a masculine urge because women just don't have it. Like, do you see
• 59:35
  many women who are like, yo, I got a job. Now I'm
• 59:37
  going to find me a stay at home husband, and I'm going to take
• 59:40
  care of, protect and provide for him and the kids. Do you see
• 59:44
  a lot of that? No, No, you don't see it. No,
• 59:47
  they still expect men to do those things. They still expect men to
• 59:51
  do those things. So, honestly, that really seems to be a male
• 59:54
  thing. A man, when he gets the ability to take care of someone,
• 1:00:00
  he does it. When a woman gets the ability to take care of
• 1:00:04
  someone, she doesn't. So you're talking about oh oh, going and becoming
• 1:00:09
  the middle manager at seven eleven, that was a masculine thing. No,
• 1:00:14
  it wasn't. It's just a job. You know, women throughout all of
• 1:00:17
  human history have done the equivalent of being managers at seven to eleven was called
• 1:00:22
  running a household, running a farm, running a court. Right. Women
• 1:00:27
  have always done those things that didn't make the men. Okay. The big
• 1:00:32
  difference that I see is that when men have a job and the ability to
• 1:00:37
  take care of someone, they do, and when women have a job and
• 1:00:42
  the ability to take care of someone, they don't. Okay, that's the
• 1:00:47
  real difference between men and women. And nobody like guys are not complaining?
• 1:00:52
  Are okay? I'm sorry. I think she underestimates the minority of men who
• 1:00:59
  would actually be thrilled with a career woman who wants to stay at home husband.
• 1:01:05
  He's completed. I think so too. I don't think it. But
• 1:01:08
  the problem is is that there are very few women like that. I gut,
• 1:01:13
  yes, I guarantee that the supply of stay at home dads exceeds the
• 1:01:22
  uh what is it, I demand for stay at home dads. Okay,
• 1:01:28
  supply vastly exceeds the demand for stay at home dads. So he's saying,
• 1:01:34
  well, why is it that men, why isn't that man are not pursuing
• 1:01:37
  being more feminine? Well, let's let's just say, okay, well,
• 1:01:40
  let's let's take it out of the out of the realm of this stupid,
• 1:01:45
  superficial, childish Oh, this thing is blue, therefore it's a boy.
• 1:01:51
  This thing is pink, therefore it's a girl. And put it into the
• 1:01:52
  realm of actual behavior, masculine and feminine behavior, all right. Feminine behavior
• 1:01:59
  is I'm I'm going to take care of the home, or I'm gonna take
• 1:02:01
  care of the person taking care of me. Okay, And you know there
• 1:02:06
  are men who have that kind of equality. You could argue that farmers have
• 1:02:09
  that kind of quality. I'm gonna take care of something so it can take
• 1:02:13
  care of me. It's fine. You can even see that as sort of
• 1:02:15
  like a in and of itself, a softer masculine whatever. All right.
• 1:02:20
  There are men out there who want that, who want to do that.
• 1:02:22
  The supply of them vastly exceeds the demand among women for them, all right.
• 1:02:29
  The reason why men aren't embracing their softer side, you know, they're
• 1:02:34
  more farmerly side, shall we say, if we don't want to call it
• 1:02:37
  feminine, it's it's farmerly. It's like you nurture something so it will take
• 1:02:40
  care of you. You need to get what I'm saying yeah, no,
• 1:02:44
  sure, the men who are it's the Shire, it's the Shire, yeah,
• 1:02:49
  the Shire masculinity, shall we say, the hobbit masculinity. Okay,
• 1:02:53
  the men who are there wanting to be that don't find partners. Okay,
• 1:03:00
  So he's talking about, well, why why aren't men you know, because
• 1:03:02
  if only men were more like women, women would like them more. But
• 1:03:07
  that's just not happening, and women are not like necessary that. Women are
• 1:03:10
  not necessarily becoming more masculine. No, they are being told that masculine traits
• 1:03:16
  are like better than feminine traits, and so they are trying to adopt them
• 1:03:22
  by going out getting a job, you know, being told that the masculine
• 1:03:27
  traits are better. They're being told that masculine traits are criminality and being an
• 1:03:30
  asshole unless women are doing it and having no responsibilities, which is absolutely absurd.
• 1:03:37
  Unless women are doing it, yeah, then then they're reclaiming their masculinity
• 1:03:40
  or something. Well that's what I'm saying. Yeah, yeah, it's like
• 1:03:43
  but my overall point is that what he's identifying as masculine and feminine isn't.
• 1:03:50
  What I can see is genuine masculine and feminine is masculine go out in the
• 1:03:52
  world, provide and protect your for the person in the home, and feminine
• 1:03:58
  is more being the home nurture the person who's providing and protecting for you.
• 1:04:01
  You want to reverse that again far more men want to be the shire masculine
• 1:04:09
  if you want to call it that, you know, that kind of quality
• 1:04:12
  of nurturing. Then women want to take care of them and be that kind
• 1:04:16
  of really masculine, that responsible masculine. Right, So what is the situation?
• 1:04:23
  Okay, the situation is that women's desires and men have not shifted.
• 1:04:29
  It is not a situation. What did he say? He said that men
• 1:04:32
  have embraced their haven't embraced their femininity, but women haven't. Yeah, women
• 1:04:36
  have basically balanced themselves out because they have they found and maximized their masculine feminine
• 1:04:42
  side. And men, you know, we're in a box. We're in
• 1:04:45
  the man box. We can't we can't get out. We're too insecure,
• 1:04:47
  we're too afraid. I mean, he doesn't say that explicitly, but it's
• 1:04:50
  implied. Okay, when every single man, when every single man who wants
• 1:04:57
  to be a stay at home dad and a nurturer wants to be the guy
• 1:05:00
  who's like taking care like the farmer type, the shire type, who's taking
• 1:05:05
  care of the person who takes care of him. When every single man with
• 1:05:09
  that inclination is husbanded up by career women, then this man has a point.
• 1:05:15
  We are not there yet. Women don't want that. They want a
• 1:05:20
  man who makes more. They want a man who takes them by the hand
• 1:05:26
  and says, you'll never have to work again, baby, you won't even
• 1:05:30
  have to work at home. You won't have to worry about a thing.
• 1:05:33
  Boop. That's the kind of guy they want. They still want that.
• 1:05:38
  And what's really has happened is they think the money that they make gets them
• 1:05:44
  a higher status man. Like you see these career women. They're like,
• 1:05:46
  I make a two hundred and fifty dollars a year. That means I'm entitled
• 1:05:51
  to a man who makes a million. That's the way they think about it.
• 1:05:56
  Yep. There is another thing too that he says that I was you
• 1:06:00
  to bring up, which is that he explicitly says that that the what does
• 1:06:05
  he say, the red pill and the and the Conservatives or whatever, the
• 1:06:10
  Christians whatever he calls it. However, he's straw manning people. They say
• 1:06:14
  that the masculine the feminine are beautiful, and that they're that they both balance
• 1:06:18
  each other out and compliment each other, and that that's a lie because masculinity
• 1:06:23
  is just better and femininity is not. That's what he says, right,
• 1:06:27
  right, Masculinity is just better. Of course I don't. I mean Lauren
• 1:06:30
  Chen should push back. I don't think she does. But like with that,
• 1:06:34
  women want to raise children and breastfeed. He literally says, breastfeed and
• 1:06:41
  and raise children and essentially prepare the next generation to run the planet. Those
• 1:06:48
  things are inferior to masculine traits. Yes, could you actually think about it?
• 1:06:55
  This is something that I've noticed with dog training. Some of the most
• 1:06:59
  critical aspects of a dog's achievement. I know that sounds really strange. Is
• 1:07:03
  training impulse control and attention? Oh yeah, both of which is are what
• 1:07:10
  mothers do. Usually they will train impulse control and attention if they're good mothers.
• 1:07:17
  So they are laying the foundation of all achievement, all achievement in the
• 1:07:24
  human race. And this guy's like, oh, yeah, I'm masculine,
• 1:07:27
  only he's more important. No, it ain't. Yeah, he's just like,
• 1:07:30
  dude, masculinity is way cooler. And so like, essentially he's and
• 1:07:34
  this is the moderate guys, the moderate, the common sense guy does not
• 1:07:38
  acknowledge that feminine, that femininity has any benefits only because his enemies think that
• 1:07:45
  they do. Okay, So basically because the people he opposes will say,
• 1:07:48
  well, women like femininity has its own set of valuable traits, and they
• 1:07:53
  would probably also acknowledge that it's not black and white, and that men have
• 1:07:57
  some of those traits as well as women having some of the masculine ones.
• 1:08:00
  But whatever, that's way too nuanced, and he's just gonna say, no,
• 1:08:04
  women, what we considered feminine trades are just inferior. This is why
• 1:08:09
  women are becoming like men now, which they're not. And he has the
• 1:08:12
  most simplistic take on what masculine and feminine. Yeah, the most secular jobs
• 1:08:17
  masculine is No, it's not. Women have a job throughout history a mass
• 1:08:23
  like I got another super child. I'm gonna go ahead and put it on
• 1:08:28
  the screen. From Richard, the are he says, weren't bachelors heavily recruited
• 1:08:33
  for jobs that were at a higher risk of not always coming back home from
• 1:08:38
  I think that the pony express part of the Postal Service heavily recruited from orphanages
• 1:08:43
  because if a writer were lost, then there wouldn't be any unsupported family as
• 1:08:46
  a result. Yes, that's one true. And bachelors were sent like in
• 1:08:56
  in in a war context. They're sent in more dangerous positions too, because
• 1:09:00
  people didn't want to see families without a father. That's that's as simple as
• 1:09:05
  that. All right, Okay, So I just want to remind you everybody.
• 1:09:11
  Yeah, I we just want to remind everyone we are doing. I
• 1:09:13
  did start my month the monthly fundraiser early to try to cover the shortfall and
• 1:09:16
  the subscription short month. Yeah, February is a short month. So we
• 1:09:21
  just wanted to get the ball whirling indeed. Yeah, so we did.
• 1:09:31
  We but we did started a bit early. So feed the Badger dot com
• 1:09:33
  slash support, get get some shekels in the hat for that. It's always
• 1:09:39
  very helpful to get it in early because it takes a weight off our mind.
• 1:09:43
  And if you want to say anything, feed the Badger dot com slash
• 1:09:45
  just the tip. Don't let it just be Richard Pierre. Somebody else gets
• 1:09:48
  some words in edge wise. Yeah, right, we need we need additional
• 1:09:53
  additional perspectives, a plurality of perspectives, if you will, all right,
• 1:09:58
  let's go all right, let's keep going for the email of feminist ally like
• 1:10:01
  cuttlefish person who's now. But it's kind of interesting because I feel like there
• 1:10:05
  are a lot of red pill guys who, strangely enough, share the same
• 1:10:11
  opinion that, like, historically men were kind of there to be the breadwinners,
• 1:10:15
  but now that we no longer need men as women to be the breadwinners,
• 1:10:18
  it's kind of like torpedoed relationships. I feel like, oh, wait,
• 1:10:23
  wait, wait, here's a good counterexample. All right, if you
• 1:10:26
  didn't need men as bread winners in order to form relationships, why aren't relationships
• 1:10:30
  forming? Yeah, like that. The thing is that that hasn't changed.
• 1:10:36
  Everybody's like, oh, this has changed. It hasn't changed. A woman
• 1:10:40
  who makes a quarter of a million a year is making a quarter of a
• 1:10:44
  million a year because she thinks it gives her a claim on a man who
• 1:10:47
  makes a million, or at the very least she just thinks that that gives
• 1:10:53
  her a claim on a man who makes a million. And it's like,
• 1:10:56
  this hasn't changed. And again, if if if the situation was had changed,
• 1:11:04
  then families would be forming even if men aren't making more than women.
• 1:11:11
  But that's not what's happening, friends, And exact opposite is happening, and
• 1:11:17
  it's because women haven't changed their expectations. They haven't. And you can say
• 1:11:25
  what you want about men not embracing their feminine life. They're not embracing shy
• 1:11:29
  er masculinity because women don't want it. They want men to come in,
• 1:11:34
  you know, on the in there lake, I know, Porsche with their
• 1:11:39
  gigantic money bags being lifted with your gigantic biceps and sweep her off out of
• 1:11:45
  her cubicle, you know, and say you'll never have to work again,
• 1:11:48
  baby, not lift a fricking finger. That's what they want. They still
• 1:11:54
  want it. Why do you look at the freaking Forman's novels The Gray Yeah,
• 1:12:00
  okay, are we going to see fifty shades of Stay at Home Dad?
• 1:12:04
  No? Are we? Yeah? The problem is is that, like
• 1:12:10
  you know, there's an elephant in the room, and in some cases a
• 1:12:13
  literal elephant in the room, which is women's standards. Like I mean,
• 1:12:17
  no one wants to talk about it. They're so are they just terrified to
• 1:12:23
  even say you know, I think women, I think you guys are asking
• 1:12:27
  for the moon, and uh, you know, we just can't get that
• 1:12:30
  to you. Well, they're asking for something that men no longer are.
• 1:12:33
  Yeah, no, exactly, exactly. Well, and the fact that the
• 1:12:38
  shades of we both work, Yeah, how about that. I mean,
• 1:12:41
  like, if you want to a situation where that's not necessary, we we're
• 1:12:45
  gonna have to work on, like, you know, fixing the economy,
• 1:12:49
  which means you're gonna have to be more involved in that and stop asking for
• 1:12:53
  gibbs. Yeah, all of the artificial props that women have. Yeah,
• 1:12:59
  what do you the it's gonna happen when you ask for equal pay and they
• 1:13:01
  put in all this freakin stuff, like all of these this extra like this,
• 1:13:06
  this woman only escalator to the top. Well, more of you are
• 1:13:11
  going to end up on the top and less men, And that's why you
• 1:13:15
  can't find men you want to marry. And don't give me this shit about
• 1:13:17
  oh well they're just they're just not feminine. You don't want that. If
• 1:13:21
  you did, all of the men who are actually like that would already have
• 1:13:26
  partners. Gladly, because once again, the men with a shire masculinity,
• 1:13:33
  I don't know if we should go with that. You guys have got to
• 1:13:35
  give me some feedback on that one I got. I got some feedback,
• 1:13:41
  so I got a super child from ZARANX for five dollars. He says,
• 1:13:45
  Destiny's dismissal of men and women being completely complimentary, sorry, speaks to how
• 1:13:49
  much feminism has influence and undermined the culture. I remember Brian criticized Sargon for
• 1:13:55
  being annoyed with the idea that men ask women what they bring to the table.
• 1:13:58
  I think he's correct, us should ask women what they do that's equal
• 1:14:02
  to men. Home is where the heart is, he has been a saying.
• 1:14:06
  I thought about it and considered home is where the hearth is. The
• 1:14:10
  hearth before electricity, was a source of light and heat for the home.
• 1:14:14
  If no cannels were available, where the cooking is done, where water is
• 1:14:16
  boiled for bathing, and a source of heat the home on his own,
• 1:14:20
  a man would have to get the hearth going in order to cook and mind
• 1:14:25
  it as it was going. If he was out hunting for what, he'd
• 1:14:28
  have to skin and clean for cutting and cooking the result of the hunt.
• 1:14:31
  That's an all day job. The woman being at home could handle the issue
• 1:14:34
  of maintaining the hearth, using the workload, you know, being a help
• 1:14:39
  meet. Sorry for the length and the five dollars low on funds, no
• 1:14:44
  problem, Well I don't. I think that like to say that. My
• 1:14:50
  problem with it him saying that was because he was only putting it on men.
• 1:14:56
  And the truth is is that all lationships are transactional, but they don't.
• 1:15:01
  They're not only transactional, but more importantly, it's women that are the
• 1:15:06
  ones that are essentially you know, marketing this like men. I think there
• 1:15:14
  was a there was a video and maybe this isn't like the best I'm not
• 1:15:17
  going to call this data, but I think it's a microcosm. There was
• 1:15:20
  a video. It's one of those like interview on the street videos, and
• 1:15:25
  there was a the interviewer was talking to a guy and a girl, young
• 1:15:29
  man young woman. They were on a date, I assume, and he
• 1:15:32
  was asking that. He asked the man how much money he had in his
• 1:15:35
  bank account. The man said fifteen hundred dollars. Then he asked the girl
• 1:15:41
  how much she had in her bank account. We don't know the context.
• 1:15:43
  I don't know if they were just you know, looking to see like if
• 1:15:45
  people are young, people are saving up. They were zuomers and the girl
• 1:15:48
  said, oh, seventy k and the and the boyfriend looked at her in
• 1:15:54
  his eyes, he said, seventy thousand dollars. She was like, yeah,
• 1:15:58
  my dad gave it to me. And he was like, I just
• 1:16:00
  spent four hundred dollars on this date and you had seventy thousand dollars in the
• 1:16:05
  bank. Now. The reason why I bring this up is because the man
• 1:16:10
  knew that he had to shell out in order to woo this girl. The
• 1:16:16
  girl, even though she definitely had plenty of money, saw no reason and
• 1:16:21
  they ended up getting into a fight and everything because she was like, you're
• 1:16:26
  supposed to pay for my dates. She had seventy thousand dollars in her bank
• 1:16:30
  account, he had fifteen hundred, and he was still expected to spend money
• 1:16:35
  on her. So when I get annoyed because men are asking, hey,
• 1:16:42
  before I enter a relationship with you, I know that you, now modern
• 1:16:45
  woman are liberated and yet still dependent. Like you get you. You have
• 1:16:50
  all of the modern day conveniences of living in the world that was built for
• 1:16:57
  you, so that you can live in this world like women. People like
• 1:17:00
  Destiny For example, if it weren't for all of the hard working men that
• 1:17:05
  keep society running, streamer would not exist as a job. He would be
• 1:17:11
  plowing the fields, or he would be dead. It would be like,
• 1:17:15
  so there is the lack of grace for this is mind boggling. So this
• 1:17:20
  woman, she had seventy grand in the bank and saw no reason to say,
• 1:17:28
  you know what, I know you're struggling because if he's got fifteen hundred
• 1:17:31
  in his bank account, he probably and he was a young guy, maybe
• 1:17:34
  twenty years old, he probably was working up. You know, maybe he's
• 1:17:38
  in college, working a part time job. Maybe he's got just got a
• 1:17:41
  low paying job or whatever. I don't know. But she didn't even think,
• 1:17:45
  oh, well, I should probably you know, I'm a modern world
• 1:17:48
  woman living in the modern world. I should probably act like it and like,
• 1:17:53
  you know, maybe like but I don't know, put this out.
• 1:17:56
  But no, not only did she not do that, and not only did
• 1:18:00
  she even say, Okay, well maybe i've been dating that long and I
• 1:18:01
  don't know what his potential is, but you know, I'm not going to
• 1:18:06
  presume that I am entitled to his money. No, no, she didn't
• 1:18:11
  even do that. She said Basically, even though I have seventy K in
• 1:18:15
  the bank and you only have fifteen hundred, and you spent four hundred bucks
• 1:18:20
  on this date, I still expect you to do that because you are the
• 1:18:27
  man. So essentially, what it means is we live in the modern world,
• 1:18:31
  but men still have to follow a traditional role, which basically means nothing.
• 1:18:39
  Because it it's not even something that she would say, oh my god,
• 1:18:43
  I didn't know that you didn't have much. I'm so grateful. No,
• 1:18:45
  no, she was just like, no, this is what you're supposed
• 1:18:47
  to do and this is not abnormal. So I just wanted to say that
• 1:18:54
  modernity has changed women. Their expectation hasn't well, I mean like I mean
• 1:19:00
  like their conditions I guess like they have hasn't changed. Okay, this is
• 1:19:03
  the problem. Women have not changed, right. They are still have the
• 1:19:10
  same expectations on men than when men had advantages in order to fulfill those expectations.
• 1:19:18
  This is the thing I'm trying to get across to people. Women have
• 1:19:23
  not changed. They have not become more masculine. Because what if, okay,
• 1:19:27
  if that guy was dating another man and that had happened, how likely
• 1:19:31
  would that guy have been like, oh shit, dude, well let me
• 1:19:33
  take the next one, or let me give you half. Like how likely
• 1:19:39
  would that man have turned and looked at it other men and said, WHOA,
• 1:19:42
  Okay, well I actually think that I should provide for you since I
• 1:19:45
  am the one who's flushed with money. Right, That is a masculine urge
• 1:19:49
  as far as I can tell, because now that women have money, they
• 1:19:53
  don't want to give it to men. But when men had money, they
• 1:19:56
  were perfectly happy giving it to women. See what I'm getting at. Yeah,
• 1:20:01
  my point was they don't happen my point. My point is is that
• 1:20:04
  women are no longer, even by his own arguments, dependent on men's resources,
• 1:20:13
  because women can acquire their own resources. So they're the generals for women
• 1:20:17
  and not not what their expectations are, but the ifications of them has changed,
• 1:20:24
  Like we don't expect anything from women, but men's general is the same
• 1:20:28
  because it's what women impose on them. Women. In fact, this is
• 1:20:32
  even harder for men because now they're competing against women. Yes, women have
• 1:20:38
  not changed their expectations of men. They still have the same expectations of men
• 1:20:42
  from a time when the system was structured such that men could fulfill those expectations.
• 1:20:48
  That's what's really happening. Every society is structured in such a way that
• 1:20:55
  a man can become attractive to the women of that society. Right, we
• 1:20:59
  have destroyed that. We have destroyed the ability for men to become attractive to
• 1:21:03
  women in our society based on the expectations that women have that have not changed.
• 1:21:10
  They have not changed. The expectations have not changed at all. That's
• 1:21:15
  the problem. The problem that has happened is that men no longer have the
• 1:21:20
  system of living up to those expectations that helps them live up to those expectations.
• 1:21:26
  That is gone, and in fact, the opposite is occurring. We
• 1:21:30
  have a system that actively sabotages men's ability to live up to women's expectations.
• 1:21:35
  But women's expectations have not changed, not in the slightest. Woman with a
• 1:21:40
  quarter million dollar income doesn't want to stay at home man, a stay at
• 1:21:45
  home husband. She wants a man who makes one million. She still wants
• 1:21:49
  a man who can say, Babe, you'll never have to work again and
• 1:21:55
  sweeps her away into a life of complete leisure. She still wants that.
• 1:22:00
  Now maybe she's in some way she might enjoy the attention or the recognition she
• 1:22:05
  gets in her job. But she doesn't see the job the way men did.
• 1:22:10
  Men see a job as a way to support their families. That's what
• 1:22:15
  they did when they were the ones who had the jobs and women didn't,
• 1:22:19
  or at least the outside jobs. That's how they saw it. Women have
• 1:22:24
  never taken over that role of I am the one who is responsible. Okay,
• 1:22:30
  I'm the one who's going to provide and protect. Women have never taken
• 1:22:33
  over that role. So that role must be a very masculine role, because
• 1:22:38
  even when women are given every single tool to build the masculine hope chest,
• 1:22:45
  they don't do it. They don't like within every single tool to become the
• 1:22:50
  provider. They don't. They just don't because it's not who they are.
• 1:22:58
  Women are not providers. They're not protectors. They're not the ones who take
• 1:23:02
  bullets. They're not the ones who bring home the and and pad make sure
• 1:23:08
  the bottom line is met. They're the ones who expect to have it done
• 1:23:12
  for them. That has not changed. All we've done is we've fucked ourselves
• 1:23:16
  as a society by making men incapable of fulfilling women's desires for them. And
• 1:23:23
  this man is dumb. Yeah, you know, that's one thing. Like
• 1:23:28
  I can handle a lot of things from a man, but stupidity is where
• 1:23:33
  I draw the line. Well, all right, trump card throughout the stream
• 1:23:41
  that kind of overlooked, like, yes, obviously there was the financial aspect
• 1:23:45
  to it, but I don't think that's enough. I don't think that completely
• 1:23:49
  explains why we're seeing like marriage rates decline because I think there's there's a lot
• 1:23:55
  of women out there who even if they were let's say, you know,
• 1:23:59
  a billionaire guy, you know, fifty shades of gray, super attractive,
• 1:24:02
  whatever, they still want someone who's actually like a good father and someone who's
• 1:24:08
  carrying an actual and actual partner. And I think when there are a lot
• 1:24:11
  of guys who complain like, oh, well, I women just aren't interested
• 1:24:15
  in dating nowadays, it's like, yes, yes we are. Women still
• 1:24:18
  very much are interested in partners. But I feel like men are kind of
• 1:24:23
  at a loss as to how to relate emotionally to women in that regard.
• 1:24:27
  What the hell is she saying he's blaming men, it's a different problem,
• 1:24:34
  Like yeah, she's like she's like, oh, women are looking for partners.
• 1:24:39
  Yeah, I don't know. If you've seen exactly how much hatred there
• 1:24:43
  is for men from women online. I think Lauren is looking at like the
• 1:24:46
  girls in her circle, and that's great for you, but that's not the
• 1:24:50
  reality. Okay, I'm gonna point this out. It gets a little tedious
• 1:24:57
  watching two people just blame why we need to blame men again, as if
• 1:25:02
  that's going to continue to work, Like and and I know, I know
• 1:25:06
  why people like this are popular. It's because there is a gigantic tear in
• 1:25:12
  the sky and they're telling people not to worry about it. Oh no,
• 1:25:15
  we'll just blame men. That'll make it work. They'll they'll make everything go
• 1:25:18
  away if we just blame men. It's like, you know, you know
• 1:25:24
  that logically that is going to stop working eventually, because if you blame men
• 1:25:30
  enough, you take away the tools for men to fix problems. It's like,
• 1:25:33
  blame the plumber. We're taking away his wrench, you know, Blame
• 1:25:38
  the plumber. We're going to take away the the PVC piper. Blame the
• 1:25:42
  plumber. We're going to take away that stuff that they use to fill in.
• 1:25:46
  Yeah. I shouldn't have used plumber because I don't know plumbing supplies.
• 1:25:49
  But you know, you get what I'm saying, blame this palm plumber.
• 1:25:53
  Take another tool that he needs to fix the problem away. You see,
• 1:25:56
  that's what we're doing to men. It's like blame men. Take their tools
• 1:25:59
  away. Oh they can't fix it. We'll blame them again. Take more
• 1:26:01
  tools. Oh they can't fix it. We'll blame them again. Me captain,
• 1:26:04
  for Fox's sake, blame them again. Beat the shit out of them,
• 1:26:08
  Blame them again, Shoot them in the head, blame him again.
• 1:26:11
  Cut off their head, blame him again, unbury their body and piss on
• 1:26:16
  it. Why is it this working? Every time you blame men, you
• 1:26:24
  make them less capable of solving problems every time, every time, because every
• 1:26:29
  time you blame men, you take something more away from them, and then
• 1:26:33
  you increase your expectations. So yet, good luck to you guys. Watch
• 1:26:40
  this not work for the billionth time. Have you ever considered not blaming men?
• 1:26:48
  Okay, let's continue. I think that we can die. We can
• 1:26:55
  also dive in on any of these things. On a differ level. I
• 1:26:57
  don't know I would agree with you. It's men women like a good father
• 1:27:00
  thing. Again. I think the expectations for parenthood were way, way,
• 1:27:03
  way different back then I'm borrowing heavily from my own household experience, which I
• 1:27:09
  hear echoed a lot. And then I'm borrowing heavily from like sitcoms at the
• 1:27:12
  time, but I feel like the vast majority of the parenting was left up
• 1:27:15
  to the woman. And I feel, yeah, right, I watched Sitcom,
• 1:27:19
  So let's use that as a standard for do you realize, like who
• 1:27:24
  runs who was writing the stories for sitcom? Anyway, let's let's just let's
• 1:27:30
  hear what he has to say. It's it's bad, bad, bad argumentation.
• 1:27:34
  Man. The meme was always like they go to work, they come
• 1:27:38
  home, you leave them alone an evening, and then hopefully they kind of
• 1:27:40
  like play with on the weekends. And I was like, okay, selection
• 1:27:43
  bias, yeah, smarting to my selection bias. Okay. But then but
• 1:27:47
  if you said, okay, the thing is too I don't think obviously it's
• 1:27:54
  not a good way to measure reality. But if I were to, he's
• 1:28:00
  going to bring up like, I don't know, like Boy Meets World.
• 1:28:03
  But if I had brought up like leave it to Beaver, he would tell
• 1:28:08
  me how that was bad because you know, the nineteen fifties, even though
• 1:28:13
  that wasn't the reality for people either, but because it's more regressive and it's
• 1:28:19
  less credible, so it's just like it's an it's this guy's not really all
• 1:28:27
  right. Well, really, what people should be saying is I'll stop you
• 1:28:30
  there. So you're basing this on nothing but your own accept and bias.
• 1:28:34
  Well, first of all, let's let's bring in some actual evidence, which
• 1:28:38
  itself isn't necessarily ironclad, but at least it's better than whatever destiny is working
• 1:28:44
  off of. Let's look at the Victorian father like they did a I believe
• 1:28:48
  a qualitative study of letters that children had written about their fathers, and they
• 1:28:57
  described them as involved, as loving, as doting, you know, they
• 1:29:00
  described them in very glowing terms. And that was in Victorian England. So
• 1:29:08
  if you can if you can take the uh and it's a bias sample,
• 1:29:13
  because these are children who are writing about their fathers, But if you can
• 1:29:15
  take that, it can't be that common for fathers to be completely uninvolved with
• 1:29:21
  their children. And the other thing is I want to point out that in
• 1:29:26
  the fifties and the forties, late forties and the fifties, you were dealing
• 1:29:29
  with a lot of men who had just gone through an incredible trauma, and
• 1:29:32
  one of the symptoms of a traumatic experience is post traumatic stress syndrome obviously,
• 1:29:39
  which includes problems connecting with people on an emotional level. So if we look
• 1:29:45
  at the situation in the fifties, you got to actually consider the effect of
• 1:29:47
  that. But here's the other thing. Let's look at it from an evo
• 1:29:51
  psych perspective. Humans evolved to have paternal investment. If men are not able
• 1:30:00
  to take care of their kids, that's not on them. If men are
• 1:30:05
  not taking care of their kids, it's probably because they are damaged, abused
• 1:30:11
  sexually or otherwise, or because they're not being allowed to because the courts are
• 1:30:15
  taking them from them. Right, Men have paternal instincts. Men want to
• 1:30:20
  take care of their kids. If men are not taking care of their kids,
• 1:30:25
  it is not something that is the fault of men. It is the
• 1:30:28
  fault of the circumstance that is thwarting that instinct. All right, there you
• 1:30:33
  go. Let us continue like there's just something about his behavior that's really obnoxious.
• 1:30:40
  Yeah, polite, Yeah, I get it. I don't think that
• 1:30:44
  heat knows about that. Okay, I got a super chow from Richard Pierre
• 1:30:49
  again. What you got two super chows? Oh? I got two?
• 1:30:54
  Wait? Did another one just come through? Yeah? I did? Okay?
• 1:30:57
  How many of these women are craving the recognition and actcol aides that men
• 1:31:00
  receive for achievement without doing the actual achieving, because the doing the achieving is
• 1:31:05
  the ick that women don't find glamorous enough to touch. Well, that that's
• 1:31:11
  the reason why they won't do the jobs that are actually allowing them to do
• 1:31:15
  the jobs that they want to do. That that's the thing that's that I
• 1:31:18
  think a lot of women and people like Destiny don't recognize is that what they
• 1:31:24
  do can only exist in a world where the jobs they don't want to do
• 1:31:30
  exist. So if you're if you're like thinking, well, I don't think
• 1:31:34
  people should have to have kids or start families. You know, we'll let
• 1:31:39
  the So what if the birth rates go to hell? So what? Right?
• 1:31:43
  Then what you're gonna find is in one generation they're gonna be like,
• 1:31:46
  yeah, the power kid is going to be down again because we don't have
• 1:31:49
  enough men to work on it, and it will be men doing that.
• 1:31:54
  Right. Oh well, it looks like you're all gonna have to you know,
• 1:31:58
  ration out like your gas and you're heating and your air conditioning and you
• 1:32:03
  know, and all these other things because we don't have enough men doing this
• 1:32:06
  work. And of course, all of a sudden, the streamers and podcasters
• 1:32:11
  and online intellectuals, they're not gonna have anything to do because like their jobs
• 1:32:17
  can only exist in a world as comfortable and as safe and as productive as
• 1:32:25
  this one, which is only possible if men are running everything. And all
• 1:32:30
  we have to do is acknowledge that reality, because it is a reality,
• 1:32:34
  it is the truth. And then maybe from there we can start going,
• 1:32:39
  you know what, we kind of need men. We need them to run
• 1:32:43
  everything because women are not going to do it, Richard, just like you
• 1:32:45
  said, they're not. They want to do the stuff that's gonna give them
• 1:32:49
  the you know, like the recognition and money, yeah, they want,
• 1:32:54
  they want and recognition, then attention, recognition and clout and maybe like you
• 1:32:59
  know, and you know, like those videos where it's like here's a day
• 1:33:02
  in of life at Google and they're playing and going to meetings all day.
• 1:33:06
  Meanwhile, Google just fired like a bunch of people, or at least a
• 1:33:11
  lot of these tech companies fired a bunch of people women because they weren't useful
• 1:33:16
  because at the end of the day, you're gonna need the men, whether
• 1:33:19
  that's the men that are like, you know, working like like breaking their
• 1:33:25
  backs doing labor and other work, or they are the spurgy intellectual guys with
• 1:33:31
  the thick glasses that are keeping all the programs running. You're gonna need those
• 1:33:35
  guys because they are the backbone. So like, I don't know, I
• 1:33:41
  mean, I don't I know. Destin doesn't understand that because he thinks that
• 1:33:45
  when he like plugs something in and it turns on, it's just magic.
• 1:33:50
  It's nothing's causing this, right, That's why he's okay with all this,
• 1:33:55
  Like this this is like a worldview that's only possible in the first world.
• 1:34:01
  Yeah, it is, honestly, or even not in the non rural parts
• 1:34:05
  of the first world, like in the big cities, because when you're in
• 1:34:10
  the town, you're a lot closer to who's doing the infrastructure exactly because you
• 1:34:18
  know the family names and they're know who they are. Okay, okay,
• 1:34:23
  And I got another super child from Richard, Another super chol from Richard.
• 1:34:27
  He says, for five bucks, how many sitcoms feature a father that,
• 1:34:30
  after getting married is so incompetent that he would expire if you weren't reminded to
• 1:34:33
  breathe too many all of the modern ones and basically not. When I say
• 1:34:39
  modern, I mean like in the last forty years. You know, I
• 1:34:44
  know you guys are not gonna like this. But I think it kind of
• 1:34:45
  started with Marrie with Children. As much as everybody likes that show, I
• 1:34:48
  think that was one of the first examples of that. Homer Simpson, Dad,
• 1:34:56
  okay, all right, and then like even Man even like Bloe Meet's
• 1:35:00
  World and stuff, although I think that Father was a little bit more motionally
• 1:35:03
  in tune with with Corey and Sean. But I feel like the the meme
• 1:35:08
  was always like go ask your mom, Go talk to your mom, Go
• 1:35:10
  talk to your mom. Mother. That's you know, I just got blah
• 1:35:12
  bla blah blah. And I feel that mom was considered to be the moral
• 1:35:15
  center and moral and emotional center of the family. Yeah, you're you're basically
• 1:35:19
  like giving you're telling us the truth right now about media very Larson strip,
• 1:35:26
  it's it's it's male mosquitoes that bite like you are a dumb ass, Like
• 1:35:30
  what the hell is this nonsense? Like according to my own personal bias.
• 1:35:36
  This is how I see the world. I watched TV when I was a
• 1:35:40
  kid. Let me tell you about for your opinion. Okay, you like
• 1:35:45
  so far Again, I guess there was a little bit more meat to what
• 1:35:48
  he was saying about men and women, although I've heard all of it before,
• 1:35:53
  like every single fucking bit of it before. You're a little low als,
• 1:35:58
  Okay, little bit, a little closer to your mic. No,
• 1:36:01
  no, little bit, it's not that. It's that for Okay, this
• 1:36:04
  this, yeah, yeah, I need to switch. Okay, I'm gonna
• 1:36:09
  do something here. Hopefully this will change that because I keep brushing the the
• 1:36:15
  this mic has these little this little touch pad, and I keep brushing it
• 1:36:19
  accidentally, which is reducing the volume. Okay, so I turned the touch
• 1:36:24
  pad so it's up away from my hands and yeah, that'll wait. Wait,
• 1:36:30
  why why did you just go down? Like I didn't even touch you
• 1:36:34
  when he went down? I think my mic is haunted. Mm hmm.
• 1:36:41
  This is actually really scary. I'm gonna turn the light on now. All
• 1:36:45
  right, I'm gonna play more of the video. How much longer do you
• 1:36:49
  want to do this? We're about ten minutes in, so we're not doing
• 1:36:53
  too bad. Oh yeah for us, No, okay, just ironically with
• 1:36:57
  the standard. I think for a lot of what let's keep up till the
• 1:37:00
  next like question that's at the time. And I think that the expectations for
• 1:37:04
  co parenting, the expectations for emotional voment of the father, I feel like
• 1:37:08
  those have all increased pretty dramatically over at time. I really do. That's
• 1:37:13
  bullshit, man, Men have always co parented. Stop it like to go
• 1:37:17
  ask your mom thing, that's that's not reality, dude. Like my you
• 1:37:21
  know, my father, he I learned not long ago that my father and
• 1:37:29
  my mother never got married, but they lived together, and as far as
• 1:37:32
  I could tell, they were married, they were basically together. They just
• 1:37:35
  she just didn't marry him for whatever reason. I think my mom she's got
• 1:37:41
  a little she's got a feminist side to her. She's got a little little
• 1:37:44
  Jezebel spirit going on. But my but my dad, you know that I
• 1:37:49
  was lucky, like they they were a good compliment for me. There were
• 1:37:54
  things that I wanted, you know, that I wanted to tell ask my
• 1:37:58
  father about, and he would ask me to talk to my mom. But
• 1:38:01
  the only reason was because he knew that he was going to demand the final
• 1:38:05
  say, and he was mostly indifferent, so it but it wasn't like,
• 1:38:11
  oh, I'm not involved with my kids. That's bullshit. Like my father
• 1:38:14
  would take us, you know, out and we play sports and he'd poast
• 1:38:18
  a little league team and I wouldn't even say he was like the ideal father,
• 1:38:24
  but he was involved and he loves us very much. And you know,
• 1:38:28
  I think that like when Destiny says, oh, yeah, I look
• 1:38:30
  at my home life, I think he's going to go into his own home
• 1:38:32
  life and he's going to claim his parents were great, but then he's going
• 1:38:34
  to criticize his dad. And I think this is really getting to the to
• 1:38:39
  the root of his problems because he doesn't. I think he does resent his
• 1:38:42
  father, but he pretends like his father was okay because he needs to justify
• 1:38:46
  his beliefs about men and women. So he has to be like, oh,
• 1:38:50
  yeah, you know, like men just need to be more like women
• 1:38:55
  and then it'll be okay. We are biparental species, which means men have
• 1:38:59
  every bit a month as much desire for the most part, to parent children
• 1:39:03
  as women. So if men are not doing it, what's stopping on Destiny
• 1:39:09
  what force is stopping men from being able to be what they were meant to
• 1:39:15
  be in terms of their evolution? Okay, let's hear what he has to
• 1:39:20
  say. All right. I feel like in the past, the big I
• 1:39:24
  feel like we over romanticize a lot of things, like like, oh God,
• 1:39:27
  I don't know how old you are now, but I'm thirty five now,
• 1:39:29
  and now I'm old enough to where I see lower generations talk about the
• 1:39:31
  older generations, and I see how fucking stupid it is. And I know
• 1:39:34
  I've done this when I was in my twenties. But the some girl on
• 1:39:40
  Twitter was tweeting out, She's what was she? I think she was a
• 1:39:45
  she was a gen zer. She tweets out, and she's like, this
• 1:39:47
  is bullshit. I work at Walmart forty hours a week. Did you see
• 1:39:49
  this video? Do what I'm talking about? Yeah, yeah, she's prying
• 1:39:51
  the car and she's like, twenty years ago, on minimum wage, you
• 1:39:55
  could afford blah blah blah blah blah. It's like, twenty years ago,
• 1:39:58
  I worked at McDonald's for five fifteen an hour, you can afford shit?
• 1:40:00
  What the fuck thro me? Yeah you weren't. I mean that's I was
• 1:40:03
  on like the federal minimum. When I was in college, for sure,
• 1:40:06
  I didn't have my own like one or two bedroom apartment in a way.
• 1:40:10
  So I just I feel like when people sometimes when they talk about the past,
• 1:40:12
  I feel like they romanticize the fuck out of a lot, where like,
• 1:40:15
  oh, the average man was like an emotionally stable guy that worked a
• 1:40:19
  hard job. White picket fence, good union, I'm sorry, three kids,
• 1:40:23
  dinner on the table. You're making that up, bro. Nobody thought
• 1:40:27
  it was ideal. Yeah, it was all It was all people doing the
• 1:40:30
  best they could. Okay, how's my sound? Yeah it's good? Okay,
• 1:40:36
  young men? Oh see it just dropped down for some reason. Do
• 1:40:42
  you see that? I hear it. Yes, it's just like randomly dropping
• 1:40:46
  down. I don't know why. Maybe it's because I'm blowing out the mic.
• 1:40:49
  Who knows. Anyway, it's got this like mentality where I'm constantly fighting
• 1:40:54
  it. Did it again? All right? My my mic has haunted everybody.
• 1:40:57
  But I don't even know, like is this is this like a fed
• 1:41:00
  like is it glowing like what? Like just I'm gonna you up a little
• 1:41:04
  bit and you just go ahead and talk, okay, all right? Because
• 1:41:08
  it always seems to want to go to there. You see, right,
• 1:41:12
  Yeah, I didn't touch anything. Maybe you have the ability to set like
• 1:41:15
  like uh pain limit or something you call it, yeah, or like it
• 1:41:20
  can't go over a certain a limitter. There might be a limitter on it.
• 1:41:25
  But just just make your point. Let's just move on, all right.
• 1:41:29
  Well I don't have to get really close. Okay, So my point
• 1:41:33
  is, yes, young men are more fucked up than I remember there.
• 1:41:41
  And the reason, in my opinion, the reason why is because we are
• 1:41:45
  now on generation three of deliberately harming men's mental health. Like you think it
• 1:41:53
  doesn't have an effect, it does, and I almost it almost sounds like
• 1:41:58
  you're about to blame women, Alison. We can't do that kind of like
• 1:42:00
  somebody. But it can't be women. All right, I'm not going to
• 1:42:03
  necessarily Okay, this is a dynamic, right, young men are, like
• 1:42:12
  I think they are seven times more likely to commit suicide. And this isn't
• 1:42:15
  on them, This is not on them. This is three generations now of
• 1:42:21
  this bullshit that is harming the that's actively harming their mental health. Like I
• 1:42:28
  talked about how the therapy industry not only doesn't help men, I'm with this
• 1:42:33
  new information that I'm getting, it sounds like it's actively harmful to men,
• 1:42:40
  Like it's it is men who commit suicide, most of them, something like
• 1:42:45
  ninety percent of them I've seen, have been in contact with the mental health
• 1:42:49
  industry or some aspect of frontline services. And I'm saying, instead of asking
• 1:42:56
  men why they don't get help, maybe the reason why they're committing the committing
• 1:43:00
  suicide is because they got in contact with help, and help actively made it
• 1:43:06
  worse, to the point like that maybe they were holding out a hope.
• 1:43:11
  Well, if I go to a therapist, no, and the therapist makes
• 1:43:14
  everything worse, well, that's the last hope off that, you know.
• 1:43:17
  And this is this is what I'm looking at. It is an absolute bloodbath
• 1:43:23
  when it comes to the well being, the sense of well being for young
• 1:43:26
  men. And I see the dysfunction because I actually go and I talk to
• 1:43:31
  young men, which I really doubt Destiny does, and I also doubt Lauren
• 1:43:35
  Chen does. And this is the other thing about these YouTube talking heads.
• 1:43:40
  They don't talk to people. They talk at people. I talk to people
• 1:43:45
  daily, you know, and I'm and young men and I see the damage.
• 1:43:54
  And the funny thing is It isn't even the guys who support the show,
• 1:43:57
  because they are actually pretty pretty stable, pretty normal in a lot of
• 1:44:02
  ways, although I think that they're a little bit on the on the I
• 1:44:08
  think their first adopters for new ideas. I'm talking about like when when Shoe
• 1:44:14
  on Head did that video, there was a raft of guys that came into
• 1:44:18
  the free section that I talked to, and I'm like, these dudes,
• 1:44:24
  their their their minds are absolutely full of fuck. And I'm like, people
• 1:44:31
  don't know that, because, like one guy was like, you would never
• 1:44:34
  know how damaged I am because i'm, you know, in my workplace because
• 1:44:40
  of the way I act in my job. And it's like, yes,
• 1:44:44
  that's exactly what's going on. All of these guys are keeping it together for
• 1:44:48
  their jobs, but outside of the jobs, they are incredibly damaged and they're
• 1:44:56
  they they suffer from obsessive disorders, they suffer from depression, and all kinds
• 1:45:01
  of others. And I am not talking about the guys who support us than
• 1:45:05
  the ones that I actually talk to regularly, because compared to what I've that
• 1:45:10
  little peak into Shoe's audience, no offense, guys, that little peak into
• 1:45:15
  her audience was terrifying because I knew that that is more like the average man,
• 1:45:23
  and the average man is one sharp shock from complete and utter destruction.
• 1:45:30
  And I'm like these two people who who only talk at others, they never
• 1:45:36
  talk with them. They have no clue the razor the razor's edge that we
• 1:45:43
  are walking now, because these are the guys that are keeping everything running and
• 1:45:48
  their mental health is absolutely shit and nobody cares, and nobody's doing anything about
• 1:45:55
  it, and they're keep pumping more of the talks and that's harming them into
• 1:45:59
  the atmosphere and nobody cares. And what are these two doing? Well,
• 1:46:03
  let's blame them some more? Are you? Are you out there faltering?
• 1:46:06
  Let's put some more weight on that dying donkey. Let's see how much weight
• 1:46:11
  they can carry, Like this is stupid, And look at the fucking size
• 1:46:15
  of their audience, increasing the problem, and that's all they're doing. And
• 1:46:20
  you notice this, This is their only solution at the end of the day,
• 1:46:24
  This is the only solution of every single political group out there. Blame
• 1:46:30
  men, and that's it. Yeah, you guys should, oh, okay,
• 1:46:43
  you have a comment productive critique of this discussion. I think that would
• 1:46:47
  be and what's gonna happen is they're gonna continue to blame men until the lights
• 1:46:51
  start going out, and then they're gonna blame men some more, and then
• 1:46:57
  the plumbing is gonna go out, and then they're gonna blame men some more,
• 1:47:01
  and the Internet's gonna go out, and then they're gonna blame men some
• 1:47:04
  more, and they'll have nothing to fucking eat, and they'll keep blaming men
• 1:47:10
  because they are so heavily invested in the entire edifice that justifies blaming men.
• 1:47:17
  And this is the thing, Like when when our civilization, when the destruction
• 1:47:21
  layer is unearthed by the future archaeologists, this is the thing they're gonna be
• 1:47:27
  like, well, what destroyed this? What caused the systems collapse? Well,
• 1:47:30
  look it must have been men because everybody was blaming them. It's like,
• 1:47:35
  Okay, well, you guys are just gonna keep fucking doing that,
• 1:47:39
  just gonna keep pushing that. Well I guess we're doing that. I guess
• 1:47:45
  that's what we're doing. And again I am not talking about the guys who
• 1:47:50
  support us. Are the people who are sort of organically came to become our
• 1:47:55
  audience because you guys, you actually give me hope for the future, because
• 1:48:00
  at the very least you're willing to question aspects of this stuff that isn't working.
• 1:48:06
  You're willing to look at it and say, hey, this isn't working,
• 1:48:10
  and you're willing to question your attachment to that. I mean, you
• 1:48:14
  don't realize, like you guys, do you guys who are supporting us,
• 1:48:17
  You guys who are listening to us, and you aren't like foaming at the
• 1:48:21
  mouth because oh my god, we need to blame men. How dare they
• 1:48:24
  not do that? You know, you guys, you don't give yourselves enough
• 1:48:29
  pats on the back because you don't realize how special you are, how rarefied,
• 1:48:34
  how unique, and how strong you are compared to this shit because all
• 1:48:42
  they know is blaming men, and all they'll ever know is blaming men.
• 1:48:45
  As the lights turn out, So I gots a rumble rant which I missed.
• 1:48:55
  Oh I don't know why it didn't show up in my chat, like
• 1:49:01
  my social stream chat. But Nova fan twenty one gave us two dollars and
• 1:49:05
  said Destiny says he gets the idea of traditional marriage in generals from stickcoms.
• 1:49:10
  That says a lot. Yeah, it's almost like that's the function of propaganda,
• 1:49:14
  and he fell for it. Thank you for that, Nova Fan.
• 1:49:17
  I just want to make sure I didn't miss any of those. And I'm
• 1:49:21
  sorry from my ranting, guys, but I just wanted to put that out
• 1:49:25
  there. These two will be blaming men till the end days. They'll be
• 1:49:29
  blaming men even when they realize, Oh shit, I think blaming men is
• 1:49:31
  causing the end days? But what do we do? Let's blame men some
• 1:49:34
  more? Why did men stop us from blaming them? They're to blame like,
• 1:49:40
  this is it? This is their entire everything, every single every single
• 1:49:45
  political group, this is there. This, It all comes down to this
• 1:49:49
  blaming men. I hope people have noticed that. Have you started to notice
• 1:49:54
  that everything, every political position is all part of the blame men party?
• 1:50:00
  Yeah? We should probably talk about this. Yeah, let's let's like the
• 1:50:04
  palate. Let's wind down and do a palate cleanser. So we're gonna be
• 1:50:08
  looking at this pretty happed up. I'm sorry, guys, I'll believe mine.
• 1:50:14
  Is it really though? Well? I mean, Allison, I mean,
• 1:50:17
  until people realize what's going on, we're just gonna have to keep trying
• 1:50:23
  to show them. That's all I mean. I don't know what to tell
• 1:50:25
  you, Like, not everyone's gonna be okay, but some of us are
• 1:50:28
  so, and those of us who are are you know, will be like,
• 1:50:33
  we'll move on and probably adapt. Like so, when we lose,
• 1:50:38
  like, you know, some of our conveniences, some of our comforts of
• 1:50:44
  modernity, the people who are left will probably be okay with it because they
• 1:50:47
  will probably be able to adapt. So, all right, so we have
• 1:50:51
  this article Institute for Family Studies. You just want me to read it.
• 1:50:59
  I don't think it's very long. You could take a look at how long
• 1:51:00
  it is, and then we could conjecture upon it. Uh, yeah,
• 1:51:05
  it just good, but I'll read it. Okay, let's just ok Are
• 1:51:11
  married people still happier? By Nicholas H. Wolfink And it reads for a
• 1:51:20
  long time. The prevailing assumption in the social sciences has been that married people,
• 1:51:25
  husbands and wives alike, are happier than their unmarried Nearly twenty five years
• 1:51:30
  ago, sociologist Linda Waite made this point in her presidential address the Population Association
• 1:51:36
  of America. Or recently, Brad Wilcox and I presented data to this effect
• 1:51:43
  in our twenty sixteen book Soulmates. To be sure, the evidence about the
• 1:51:48
  direct benefits of marriage is weaker than it used to be. Studies have shown
• 1:51:53
  that the benefits of marriage for health and men's wages are a product of selection,
• 1:51:58
  not causation. Health your men and men with greater earning capacity are more
• 1:52:01
  likely to get married in the first place. Yep, that we already knew.
• 1:52:06
  Nonetheless, no one has questioned the benefits of marriage for happiness in the
• 1:52:11
  decades since the late sociologist Jesse Bernard first did so in her book The Future
• 1:52:15
  of Marriage. How strong is the relationship? Data from the General Social Survey
• 1:52:20
  GSS collected between twenty ten and twenty eighteen are representative. Here is a graph.
• 1:52:29
  It says Figure one A happiness by marital and parenthood status for adults age
• 1:52:34
  eighteen fifty males by this is this is the total married. What was that?
• 1:52:43
  It's the total it's men and yeah, it's just the both the adults.
• 1:52:45
  Right, So married like with no kids is forty percent with kids forty
• 1:52:54
  one percent? Yeah? What, No, it's it's just I'm just repeating
• 1:52:58
  what you said. It's okay, separated in divorce or divorced of twenty four
• 1:53:03
  percent without kids eighteen percent with kids obviously, that's that's got to be the
• 1:53:09
  toughest, right and never married twenty two percent, uh and twenty percent.
• 1:53:15
  Yeah they so a single woman with children is half as likely. Or no,
• 1:53:20
  let's look at the female let's look at the females. Ye speak,
• 1:53:25
  going the story straightforward, Married respondents are much happier, and consistent with prior
• 1:53:29
  research, parents are a little less happy than non parents, provided they are
• 1:53:32
  unmarried. In addition, the results don't look that different when limited to female
• 1:53:36
  survey respondents as well. So here is just women, right, yep,
• 1:53:43
  So married women are the happiest forty five percent, so still like over less
• 1:53:50
  than half, but that's kind of weird and like very happy. This is
• 1:53:56
  all very happy, so that the results are very happy happy neutral. Oh
• 1:54:01
  yeah, right, says right here percentage very happy? Yeah, so forty
• 1:54:04
  five percent very happy, forty one percent. If if they have children,
• 1:54:10
  so slightly less happy? Yeah, currently, only slightly though if they don't
• 1:54:16
  have children as and and they're separated as twenty seven percent with kids twenty percent,
• 1:54:25
  never married twenty four percent, uh. And if they're single mothers nineteen
• 1:54:29
  percent, right, yeah, So across the board, single mothers. Single
• 1:54:32
  moms are the least happy the least see what it's saying. Here are the
• 1:54:38
  mirror image results for adults looking at unhappiness rather than happiness. The same pattern
• 1:54:42
  hold. So this is like couples in general, we have unhappiness. Married
• 1:54:48
  couples are only six percent, not two or six oh yeah yeah right,
• 1:54:56
  well married without kids, married with kids. Yeah, So so at six
• 1:55:00
  per se were married, no kids, very unhappy or and seven percent with
• 1:55:05
  noble It says not too happy, So I guess not really unhappy, but
• 1:55:10
  not skilled for separated separate, for separated parents, it's twenty three percent not
• 1:55:17
  too happy, sixteen percent not too happy for separated men and women without children,
• 1:55:25
  so sixteen percent not too happy for so, sixteen percent not too happy
• 1:55:30
  for separated and never married men and women without children, and it's twenty two
• 1:55:34
  percent not too happy for single mothers or in single dads. Okay, so
• 1:55:42
  let's go let there, Yeah, but most of them are probably We can
• 1:55:45
  observe a similar pattern when the sample is limited to just women. Children increase
• 1:55:48
  unhappiness a little more for separated slash divorced or never married women, likely in
• 1:55:55
  response to the challenges which were chosen in most cases, yeah, it's a
• 1:56:00
  choice. No, it is unless the man dies like he's widowed, or
• 1:56:02
  he leaves her or something. But I think in many cases it is a
• 1:56:06
  choice. So as you can see a single mom, Oh, go ahead,
• 1:56:15
  yeah, I'll read it out. So the not too happy statistic is
• 1:56:19
  for women is married with no children six percent, married with children seven percent,
• 1:56:28
  separated or divorced with no children fourteen percent with children twenty four percent,
• 1:56:34
  never married without children fourteen percent, never married with children twenty one percent.
• 1:56:42
  So across the board, single mothers or single women well, in particular,
• 1:56:47
  single mothers are three times more likely to be not too happy and half as
• 1:56:56
  likely to be very happy as married women. As married women, the single
• 1:57:00
  biggest thing a woman can do to prove her chances of being happy is have
• 1:57:08
  a relationship with a man successfully and stay with him. That is the single
• 1:57:15
  biggest thing. Not a job, not an achievement at the job, not
• 1:57:19
  a house, not a mouse. Single biggest thing that a woman can do
• 1:57:27
  to be happy is to have a man. Now, that makes perfect sense,
• 1:57:31
  because again, we are biparental mammals with instincts around pair bonding. In
• 1:57:36
  fact, pair bonding is our wind condition. As biparental mammals, you know,
• 1:57:44
  that's what he instinctively regards our wind condition. And what a surprise that
• 1:57:49
  when women fulfill their instinctive wind condition, they are happier. And here's the
• 1:57:56
  thing, it's not just it's not just being in a relationship and ship,
• 1:58:00
  because when women choose other women, their unhappiness increases, their rate of depression
• 1:58:08
  increases, their rate of domestic and violence increases, their rate of sexual assault
• 1:58:14
  increases. Right, so when women are in relationships with other women, well
• 1:58:20
  they find out what it's like to be in a relationship with a woman.
• 1:58:24
  But so it's not a situation where it's just having a partner. It's specifically
• 1:58:30
  having a man in her life. A man is the single best thing a
• 1:58:34
  woman can do for herself. I want guys to understand that. On today,
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  like you're probably sitting a lot of you might be sitting alone, or
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  maybe you are women who are listening to this and you actually are interested in
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  men's issues, which is a rare breed, but you're you're definitely you know,
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  you know, it's good to talk to you as well. The single
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  best thing a woman can do for herself is have a man. You are,
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  as men, the most valuable things in a woman's life, even if
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  they don't have you, even if they've decided to replace a man with an
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  obsession with ideology, what they reap from that is misery. And this is
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  something that people need to men need to realize this have always been the most
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  important thing for women, and they have been convinced, through generations of this
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  frankly bullshit, unscientific excuse for an ideology, that that is not the case,
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  and the benefit that they are reaping, the so called benefit as they're
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  now more miserable, more medicated, more hateful, and more disturbed than ever
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  because they have replaced the most beneficial thing in their life, which was a
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  man or a potential man, with feminism woohoo yep. And they continue to
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  do it, or they try to replace that with another woman and they discover
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  what it's like to be in a relationship with somebody who also regards their partner
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  in terms of a utility, you know, like it's it's it's just and
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  it's sad. It's sad that women have been convinced otherwise, that they have
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  to be convinced that they don't need to learn how to be in a relationship.
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  I mean, it's not that hard. If I've managed it, anybody
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  can because I'm not I'm not like the I'm not the easiest person to get
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  along with. And I know that right. If I can do it,
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  anybody can't. Yeah, all you have to do is want to. All
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  you have to do is want to. That's it. A man will be
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  happy if you are making an effort to try to be a good partner in
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  some way. They'll be happy with that, even if you fail, even
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  if you fall on your face. But you have to want to. You
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  have to be willing to. Like that older lady who has had a fifty
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  year relationship said, you have to be willing to be wrong. Sometimes you
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  have to be willing to say, Yeah, I'm the one who needs to
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  grow and change. I'm the one who needs to adapt. I'm the one
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  who needs to improve my social skills. I'm the one who needs to close
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  my mouth. Sometimes. You got to be able to do that. And
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  you know what, when you do that, you also become a better person
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  to yourself, which is probably why we're seeing these stats, because you know,
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  when you can be happy with a man, maybe you're also learning to
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  be happy by yourself in some ways. Anyway, I'm just I'm just putting
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  this out and i want men to know this. I want the men listening
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  to me now to know this, regardless of what you hear today, regardless
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  of what you hear in the world on TV, regardless of the talking heads
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  like Lauren Chen who only talk at people. They never listen to them,
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  right, they never talk with people, and all their entire entire toolkit consists
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  of blaming men harder. Let's double down on that blaming of men, because
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  surely that's gonna that's gonna make a difference this time. That's it. That's
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  all they have to offer. Despite all of them and all of their attitudes.
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  At the end of the day, the most valuable thing in a woman's
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  life is a man, and that has not changed. The only thing has
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  changed is now women are incapable of being partners with men because we have destroyed,
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  destroyed the system that gave men the ability to become attractive to women,
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  and women still demand that men be as attractive as they were when that system
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  was intact. Right, you know, we cut men off of the knees,
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  but women still want them to be as tall as they were before we
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  were doing that, right, So that hasn't changed. All that's changed is
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  that women have inherited. Now three generations of smack talk about the worth of
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  men, when three generations of the deconstruction of what made men attractive to women
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  in the past, and they have not changed what they expect. That's what's
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  happened. There's nothing wrong with you, Okay, most most people can improve,
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  you know, like maybe maybe you can, I don't know, improve
• 2:03:49
  skills. Maybe you can improve your social skills by having certain jobs or going
• 2:03:57
  out and being part of clubs. That's it's fine, you know, there's
• 2:04:00
  always room for improvement. But unlike what everybody is saying to men, what
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  men are indeed the most important thing to women and they will always be.
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  And when the society crashes and burns and women are rolling over and dying,
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  they're not gonna regret not getting that raise, like you think that's what you
• 2:04:30
  regret on your deathbed. Oh geez, I wish i'd earned that extra of
• 2:04:34
  twenty five cents an hour. I wish I'd gotten that placard on my freaking
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  office. No, it's not so women have been brainwashed. And you know
• 2:04:45
  what, I know exactly why they've been brainwashed. At the end of the
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  day, it doesn't even have anything to do with benefiting women, and feminism
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  never did. It's a fucking syop. And if it isn't a syop,
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  it's an advertising campaign. Women worship an advertising campaign. It's as absurd,
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  it's as ridiculous as women worshiping Margarine, like that Mellow Yellow ad. Do
• 2:05:10
  you remember the Mellow Yellow ad? You know, no, I don't know
• 2:05:13
  what you're talking about, but worshiping Margarine just makes my a tongue sticky.
• 2:05:19
  The thing if women had worship Margarine or Jello molds or ikea furniture, which
• 2:05:27
  is essentially the same thing, they're they're worshiping a cargo cult. Feminism is
• 2:05:30
  an advertising campaign. Sex war is an advertising campaign. You're worshiping an advertising
• 2:05:36
  campaign. It's a cargo cult. Right. If they had worshiped anything else,
• 2:05:45
  we would be better off. I mean, maybe there would be a
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  lot of Margarine sculptures, you know, maybe there would be even more elaborate
• 2:05:53
  Jello mold sculptures. But you know, I think I would pay for you
• 2:05:57
  know, I think that's a price I would pay for you know, I
• 2:05:59
  would pay every every house would have like their seven foot jello mold sculpture,
• 2:06:04
  some weird head cheese thing. That's fine. If that's how women had self
• 2:06:09
  actualized, we would be better off than this sex war cargo cult advertising campaign
• 2:06:15
  called feminism, possibly also a CIA sy op. Okay, I have finished
• 2:06:21
  my rant. I'm done. Okay, I think we should wrap it up.
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  So you've gone for two hours? Yes, we have, and I
• 2:06:30
  don't think there's anything left. Okay. So I did get a super chat
• 2:06:33
  from Derek Workman. I'm gonna read it really quick. He says, that
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  is not true, Allison. You are a lot easier to get along with
• 2:06:39
  than the women on the Whatever podcast or Pearls Channel. Thank you, Derek
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  Workman, Eric, Derek Workman. I'm gonna try. I try. That's
• 2:06:48
  about the only thing I'll say about myself. I try, Do I succeed?
• 2:06:55
  I don't know, but I try. But anyway, So I just
• 2:06:58
  wanted to remind everyone we are. I'm a monthly fundraiser. You know,
• 2:07:00
  for all of you who actually support like it is incredible and you really should
• 2:07:09
  feel proud of yourself because it is an effort to actually invest in the idea
• 2:07:15
  that men are not to blame, like it is an effort to be able
• 2:07:18
  to see the world, not just see the world not in terms of blaming
• 2:07:21
  men, but actually invest in the message that maybe we should stop doing that.
• 2:07:27
  You should really be proud of yourselves, all of you supporters, all
• 2:07:30
  of the people who've made it possible for us to get to this point,
• 2:07:32
  and if you would like to join them, the ranks of the few,
• 2:07:36
  the brave and the bitchy, the ones who refuse to continue to braame men
• 2:07:41
  even though it's comfortable, even though we don't have to worry about the terror
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  in the sky and the evil tentacles, because as long as we brame and
• 2:07:46
  blame men, it's obviously not our problem, you know, and we're we
• 2:07:50
  we As long as we blame men, you know it's going to be solved,
• 2:07:55
  right, Okay. You are the few who can see past that and
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  invest stin it in the future that doing something different might bring. You know,
• 2:08:05
  let's just do something different. So if you want to be part of
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  then who will be the ones saying maybe we should stop blaming men, Like
• 2:08:24
  we've blamed men quite a bit, and we continue to blame men and we
• 2:08:28
  continue to double down on it. Have we have we considered not doing that?
• 2:08:31
  You know, let's let's entertain that for a moment. Okay, without
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  And what I want you to take away is that you have worth as
• 2:09:15
  men. You are the most valuable thing a woman can have in her life,
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