Latest / Johnjay & Rich On Demand / Maria has TWO DAYS in PHOENIX! What should she DO?
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- 0:00Speaker 1: Maria, Good morning.
- 0:02Speaker 2: I am I am from Portland. I have been a
- 0:06Speaker 2: fan for a very very long time, never been to Phoenix,
- 0:11Speaker 2: but we are here. I'm here with my husband for
- 0:13Speaker 2: his work trip, and I'm also here with my father
- 0:18Speaker 2: in law and my mother in law and my father
- 0:21Speaker 2: in law my husband are at work, and it's just
- 0:24Speaker 2: me and my mother in law during the day, and
- 0:25Speaker 2: she just doesn't like me, and so I'm I'm in
- 0:31Speaker 2: this this different state with my mother in law who
- 0:35Speaker 2: doesn't like me, and I have no way to get anywhere,
- 0:39Speaker 2: she has the rental car, and I am just kind
- 0:43Speaker 2: of a little bit floundering. So I thought I'd ask John,
- 0:47Speaker 2: Jay and Rich to listen to my pity party and
- 0:51Speaker 2: see if maybe you guys could help me making something
- 0:54Speaker 2: to do or some way to get There's.
- 0:57Speaker 3: Lots of I mean, get away more, get an uber.
- 1:00Speaker 3: There's I mean, you're not stuck where you are for sure,
- 1:02Speaker 3: and there's so many fun things to do around town.
- 1:04Speaker 4: But is your mother in law, like, did she take
- 1:05Speaker 4: the car and leave without you? Like she literally doesn't
- 1:07Speaker 4: like you?
- 1:07Speaker 2: You know what? No, she didn't take the car and
- 1:11Speaker 2: leave without me. I just have avoided her this morning.
- 1:14Speaker 1: Okay, so you don't like her.
- 1:16Speaker 5: Listen, wait, listen what I am conflict avoidant until conflict
- 1:23Speaker 5: confronts me. Okay, and then and then and then I'll
- 1:26Speaker 5: be fine to engage.
- 1:27Speaker 2: But it's my husband's mom.
- 1:30Speaker 1: I don't idea for you.
- 1:31Speaker 2: I don't want to engage in conflict. But it seems
- 1:34Speaker 2: like there are so many things that come up that
- 1:36Speaker 2: I just bite my tongue about, Like what well, I mean,
- 1:41Speaker 2: exes and and our kids. We have a we have
- 1:44Speaker 2: a blended family, and they have a high favor for
- 1:49Speaker 2: his ex wife.
- 1:53Speaker 6: Okay, yeah, so she has the car. Here's what I
- 1:57Speaker 6: would recommend on the get go. You want to do
- 1:59Speaker 6: something together so you're not bored, but a part so
- 2:02Speaker 6: that you're not exposed to her. There are so many
- 2:04Speaker 6: great day spas where you can get a massage or
- 2:08Speaker 6: a facial or something like that, and you don't have
- 2:10Speaker 6: to do it together. You just go together, turn her
- 2:13Speaker 6: loose for a few hours, your tune turned loose for
- 2:15Speaker 6: a few hours. You treat her so you look like
- 2:18Speaker 6: the good guy, but you don't really actually have to
- 2:20Speaker 6: spend that much time with her.
- 2:21Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean that sounds lovely, but it also sounds expensive.
- 2:26Speaker 1: Okay, what part of town are you in right now?
- 2:30Speaker 2: We are at Scottsdale.
- 2:33Speaker 1: What hotel are you in? Oh, you're right out by
- 2:37Speaker 1: old town Scottsdale.
- 2:38Speaker 2: Then I'm not sure. I've never been to Arizona, so
- 2:43Speaker 2: I was pretty excited to come down here. And the
- 2:47Speaker 2: last time we did a work trip with my husband
- 2:50Speaker 2: and my father in law, they had another employee and
- 2:53Speaker 2: her husband came and he was awesome. It was great
- 2:56Speaker 2: having a buddy. It was like, you know, an icebreaker
- 2:58Speaker 2: type of thing. But it's it's not that way.
- 3:01Speaker 1: It's like a clock from the mall.
- 3:02Speaker 4: Okay, let's let's let's let's get her some help. Let's
- 3:06Speaker 4: help her. I'd really really like Kyle's idea of a weimo.
- 3:11Speaker 4: A Weaimo is awesome.
- 3:12Speaker 2: Weimo freaks me out. Have you ever been in one?
- 3:14Speaker 4: Yeah? Everything one twice and I think it's awesome. I
- 3:17Speaker 4: love it. If you order yourself a WAYMO would just
- 3:20Speaker 4: kind of go around like the mall. If you're at
- 3:22Speaker 4: the I think that is like north of the mall,
- 3:25Speaker 4: but like two blocks right, yeah, you get the mall.
- 3:27Speaker 4: There's a great mall right there. You can walk around.
- 3:29Speaker 4: I'll see the weather's great, you can walk in the
- 3:30Speaker 4: canal bank, get out there, take a lime a lime
- 3:34Speaker 4: ride like.
- 3:36Speaker 1: I just did that on Tempe Town Lake and it
- 3:38Speaker 1: was a blast.
- 3:39Speaker 2: It was only like for forty minutes.
- 3:41Speaker 1: I paid fifteen dollars.
- 3:43Speaker 4: There's the PF change. It's a scooter scooter. They have
- 3:47Speaker 4: those rent right there. You just put your credit card
- 3:49Speaker 4: on it and you can just go. Yeah, you're walking
- 3:50Speaker 4: distance from a lot.
- 3:51Speaker 5: So fun.
- 3:52Speaker 2: It's really fun. I would probably try the electric scooter
- 3:56Speaker 2: before the weimo because then I'm the only one to
- 3:58Speaker 2: blame if something happens.
- 4:00Speaker 4: You could also you could also take your mother in
- 4:03Speaker 4: law to Camelback, which is a nice mountain to go hike,
- 4:06Speaker 4: and the weather's great, and take your mother in law
- 4:08Speaker 4: there and if she can't hang, you just go all
- 4:09Speaker 4: the way to the top, or you can just leave it.
- 4:12Speaker 4: It's not it's it's it's one of those places where
- 4:14Speaker 4: sometimes people get lost and helicopter's got to rescue her.
- 4:17Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe they could rescue her. It's not that hot.
- 4:19Speaker 2: But Sable, I don't hate her. I love her. I
- 4:23Speaker 2: just we don't get along.
- 4:24Speaker 4: Maybe she could be like that lady that went viral
- 4:25Speaker 4: because it's suppuned. The helicopter spun and how long are
- 4:32Speaker 4: you in town.
- 4:32Speaker 2: For until Saturday?
- 4:36Speaker 5: So okay, I think right there, we just gave you
- 4:40Speaker 5: a bunch of stuff.
- 4:41Speaker 1: I'm dead sore. You are in a really good spot.
- 4:44Speaker 1: I would. I went to a convention at that hotel,
- 4:47Speaker 1: if you know.
- 4:48Speaker 6: I saw aspect that widespread who Robert Kennedy junr oh interesting?
- 4:54Speaker 1: I was learning about health and nutrition. That's pretty cool.
- 4:56Speaker 2: I love that.
- 4:57Speaker 1: Yeah, so I know exactly where the hotel is.
- 4:59Speaker 3: Also, what kind of think like if is there an
- 5:01Speaker 3: interest that you know your mother in law has, because
- 5:04Speaker 3: then I think you could suggest, hey, let's do that together.
- 5:08Speaker 3: And it's almost like a kill them with kindness type thing,
- 5:11Speaker 3: like you just have to show her how awesome you are,
- 5:14Speaker 3: you know what I mean. And maybe you really haven't
- 5:16Speaker 3: had that opportunity because of the sort of unspoken tension.
- 5:19Speaker 3: Maybe this is like your chance to break through that
- 5:22Speaker 3: like a bonding moment between you two. You see these
- 5:24Speaker 3: rom coms all the time.
- 5:26Speaker 1: I love that.
- 5:28Speaker 6: It's like it's like the plot of crazy rich Asians.
- 5:31Speaker 6: They like the ex better. You gotta win them over.
- 5:33Speaker 4: Yeah, but let me tell you on the corner of
- 5:35Speaker 4: where you are. There's a whole bunch of stuff you
- 5:37Speaker 4: can do. There's great shopping, there's great malls, there's outdoor stuff,
- 5:40Speaker 4: there's and there's a canal.
- 5:41Speaker 1: Right there. You have everything right there. You're in a
- 5:44Speaker 1: really good spot.
- 5:45Speaker 2: I can see the mountains from here, and it's so
- 5:47Speaker 2: it's just it's so beautiful. I have I did not
- 5:51Speaker 2: know how just big Phoenix was.
- 5:55Speaker 1: I'm looking at the mountain too.
- 5:57Speaker 4: Look, we're both looking at the mountain, just like fible,
- 6:00Speaker 4: except you're looking at cattle Back.
- 6:02Speaker 1: I'm looking at cattle back right now.
- 6:04Speaker 2: Is that what that mountain is called.
- 6:06Speaker 4: Yeah, it's called Camelback Mountain. The when you're looking at
- 6:08Speaker 4: it's a beautiful mountain.
- 6:09Speaker 2: It is a beautiful mountain. Oh, I'm very excited. Okay,
- 6:12Speaker 2: I take your.
- 6:13Speaker 1: Mom to the top of the camel take your mother
- 6:15Speaker 1: all out there. I'm Maria. Thank you for listening. Good luck.
- 6:21Speaker 1: Please let us know what you did.
- 6:23Speaker 2: Thank you so much.
- 6:24Speaker 1: Have a good day guys. Byee.