Latest / Decisions, Decisions / EP 481: Happy Heauxs Ain’t Hatin’
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- 0:01Speaker 1: The decisions decisions.
- 0:03Speaker 2: Hey guys, welcome to another episode, not a decisions decisions
- 0:13Speaker 2: if you bitch mean to be aka death beach okay,
- 0:21Speaker 2: and still not to lose.
- 0:24Speaker 1: The digg.
- 0:27Speaker 3: Well a y'all, oh no, no never, sorry okay, yep, welcome
- 0:31Speaker 3: you on to another episode apparently in.
- 0:34Speaker 1: The way y'all like it solo, because I will.
- 0:37Speaker 3: We have being giving them a lot of guests, A
- 0:39Speaker 3: lot of guests, babe, okay, a lot of guests too.
- 0:43Speaker 3: It's been a lot of guests. And we we up
- 0:46Speaker 3: and down and around the corner with the guests.
- 0:48Speaker 1: We what do you mean?
- 0:49Speaker 2: Okay, so I have to be honest. Q three, Q four,
- 0:57Speaker 2: No one gets to come on to promote anything.
- 1:00Speaker 1: Who promoted something? Much? Bitch?
- 1:01Speaker 3: We was apart some pressers and I just no more pressers.
- 1:05Speaker 1: No, it's I'm in the press. Isn't a junk?
- 1:08Speaker 4: You know what's crazy too?
- 1:09Speaker 2: I also just realized, and from the feedback up and
- 1:12Speaker 2: getting from the whole hive, we have to find the
- 1:18Speaker 2: medium of getting back to our niche like when we
- 1:21Speaker 2: have the live show in New York, like I think,
- 1:24Speaker 2: because also we haven't been in a setting for our
- 1:27Speaker 2: fans to tell us what we mean to them. I
- 1:30Speaker 2: think so many people telling us to like, you help
- 1:34Speaker 2: me be open, you helped me be a Oh that's crazy.
- 1:36Speaker 1: I'm sicking of a bitch. It's crazy.
- 1:40Speaker 3: But like I think it's like, you know, getting a
- 1:43Speaker 3: little bit away from the niche and like I just
- 1:47Speaker 3: I want to find a medium.
- 1:48Speaker 2: And then I know you was right and I'm not.
- 1:52Speaker 2: I'll tell you write a lot.
- 1:54Speaker 1: We should have never changed our name.
- 1:55Speaker 4: No, it's not the name change the age gap couple.
- 1:59Speaker 4: Maybe we also need to do some pre production with
- 2:01Speaker 4: some of these niggas.
- 2:06Speaker 1: That's the first thing I clicked them.
- 2:10Speaker 4: I was like, they're not that vibe.
- 2:13Speaker 2: So I'm like, okay, if we even when we talk
- 2:16Speaker 2: about that together without talking shit, No, no, we got
- 2:18Speaker 2: to do it on Patreon, and this isn't that, so
- 2:20Speaker 2: let's save save it for Patreon, which we actually did already.
- 2:24Speaker 1: We talked to we talked this one thing.
- 2:26Speaker 2: No because just no, no, save it for Patreon. By
- 2:30Speaker 2: the way, it's not about them, it's about so.
- 2:33Speaker 1: Here's my thing too.
- 2:34Speaker 3: So basically, guys, and I would love to know in
- 2:36Speaker 3: the comments your thoughts. Weezy and I understand brand safety
- 2:42Speaker 3: name change.
- 2:43Speaker 1: All of that.
- 2:44Speaker 4: This started to become a little bit vanilla.
- 2:46Speaker 1: We keep it.
- 2:47Speaker 3: Raunchy over on Patreon, but I'm like, okay, there's a
- 2:51Speaker 3: strong sense of still our community or people who have
- 2:54Speaker 3: rocked with us that may.
- 2:55Speaker 1: Not feel connected anymore.
- 2:57Speaker 2: So we were having a conversation about bringing these non
- 3:02Speaker 2: traditional couples to the pod and we had the age
- 3:08Speaker 2: gap people, and then we then I have been sending
- 3:11Speaker 2: each other crazy like crazy ass couples, but like a
- 3:15Speaker 2: part of these crazy ass couples, Weezie makes me feel
- 3:18Speaker 2: like we're like, what's the word, what's the word? Uh,
- 3:24Speaker 2: not exposing exploiting, exploiting like spectrum people or like people
- 3:31Speaker 2: that could be doing like crimes, like even with like
- 3:35Speaker 2: he said, you know, no, no, no.
- 3:38Speaker 1: Okay, okay, let me say.
- 3:40Speaker 2: I was like, how do we break people on the
- 3:41Speaker 2: pod to comments that they were conflicting, and I'm like,
- 3:45Speaker 2: I can appreciate them.
- 3:46Speaker 1: Okay.
- 3:48Speaker 2: The first comment said, y'all smiling a little too bit
- 3:52Speaker 2: much in this episode, y'all laughing a little bit.
- 3:54Speaker 4: No, it's the awkward laugh and it's the cabin heart laugh.
- 3:56Speaker 1: Bitch.
- 3:56Speaker 4: There's another car joke.
- 3:59Speaker 2: It was the no it was awkward, but maybe we
- 4:02Speaker 2: were because the second comment I said I read someone
- 4:06Speaker 2: said it was on YouTube or something.
- 4:09Speaker 1: Yes, you guys allow.
- 4:10Speaker 2: People to talk without like shaming, like allow you know
- 4:13Speaker 2: them to get loose. And I will say this, I
- 4:17Speaker 2: cannot bring people on this show and just be like me.
- 4:20Speaker 1: You didn't. Yeah, you can't be conservative and your daughter's
- 4:24Speaker 1: gonna talk to you. You're sick.
- 4:25Speaker 2: You shouldn't be a dating a nineteen year old. I'm
- 4:27Speaker 2: just going to allow you to speak. Yeah, I can
- 4:29Speaker 2: push back on questions like that. Main question I had
- 4:31Speaker 2: was how are you conservative dating a young black woman?
- 4:35Speaker 2: Take that how you want it to me. That is
- 4:37Speaker 2: as much as I can, right. It's not fucking to
- 4:40Speaker 2: catch a predator here, not saying he is. I'm just
- 4:42Speaker 2: saying that a lot of people gave that energy like
- 4:44Speaker 2: we were supposed to do that. What I only wanted
- 4:47Speaker 2: to share in the episode was me and Wolf after
- 4:49Speaker 2: that episode, because I haven't stared at someone or tried
- 4:53Speaker 2: to look at someone for a long time during an
- 4:55Speaker 2: episode to get a reaction, because you and I were
- 4:57Speaker 2: interviewing two people, so I couldn't really lock eyes with
- 4:59Speaker 2: you because we had it sometimes Mandy and I do
- 5:01Speaker 2: that with a guess, like we look and I was like,
- 5:03Speaker 2: I need someone else to show me that I'm feeling
- 5:05Speaker 2: what I'm feeling.
- 5:07Speaker 3: I'll be honest with you too, though, like breaking the
- 5:09Speaker 3: fourth wall here, you had been following them, they were
- 5:13Speaker 3: your guests.
- 5:14Speaker 4: And being in a better space, we just go ahead
- 5:18Speaker 4: and said it. I was like, this is going to
- 5:20Speaker 4: be great yet, but but we the.
- 5:24Speaker 2: You've had guests on that I haven't liked, and I've
- 5:26Speaker 2: shared my dislikeness either after or even deering the pod,
- 5:30Speaker 2: and it's caused contention between us because I want to
- 5:33Speaker 2: also respect your decision and guests.
- 5:34Speaker 1: Now because we fuck with each other.
- 5:36Speaker 3: I'm s so glad we had them though. Actually, so
- 5:40Speaker 3: my thing is, Manny didn't save you, so let me
- 5:44Speaker 3: let me just talk.
- 5:45Speaker 2: My thing is I would enjoy sitting with more couples
- 5:49Speaker 2: like that.
- 5:50Speaker 1: However, I don't know.
- 5:53Speaker 3: If I don't know if this platform can highlight love
- 5:59Speaker 3: in environments, and I don't know if we do enough
- 6:03Speaker 3: pre production with these niggas, so where then they sit
- 6:05Speaker 3: in front of us and it's like I don't also
- 6:08Speaker 3: want a platform love to look away that I don't agree.
- 6:10Speaker 2: With Okay, wait, wait, wait, here's actually like but we
- 6:12Speaker 2: not go way back to that. I don't know if
- 6:16Speaker 2: we're always going to highlight love. I think we are
- 6:20Speaker 2: just highlighting it in dynamic. Okay, I never.
- 6:25Speaker 4: Thought for a second, And maybe that's why if I, oh,
- 6:27Speaker 4: I would hang him on again.
- 6:30Speaker 2: I don't believe every guest we've ever had on for example,
- 6:33Speaker 2: the one we all know you don't like?
- 6:35Speaker 1: Which one? Oh? Why do you? Why do you always do?
- 6:38Speaker 2: Because this is a great point to highlight. Okay, dating
- 6:41Speaker 2: coach Anwar you didn't really agree with. However, he has
- 6:45Speaker 2: a specific method that is so popular amongst women. He's
- 6:49Speaker 2: a person that garners a lot of attention and has
- 6:51Speaker 2: a methodology. It's like, yeah, he's someone we should highlight.
- 6:55Speaker 2: He's away Shyan Bryant, girl, he is a He is
- 6:58Speaker 2: a Shyan Bryant.
- 6:58Speaker 1: How's you a liar?
- 7:00Speaker 2: Like to me, how does a black gay man tell
- 7:02Speaker 2: a black straight woman how to date straight black men
- 7:06Speaker 2: men are dating coaches for women? So it's the gay
- 7:10Speaker 2: I don't think it's the game.
- 7:11Speaker 4: The game for me, bitch? You you want to know
- 7:13Speaker 4: why I got.
- 7:13Speaker 1: The other thing?
- 7:14Speaker 2: He's successful what he does so to say sentences and
- 7:17Speaker 2: goes viral like he's no, he's successful. When he does,
- 7:19Speaker 2: he gets women to the It is the same reason
- 7:21Speaker 2: why Nature Boy had niggas quitting their jobs moving to.
- 7:24Speaker 1: Fucking coastal drag dragging.
- 7:27Speaker 4: No, hear me out, people like you watched you watch
- 7:36Speaker 4: this boy bitch. So for me and why Shyanne Bryant,
- 7:41Speaker 4: they are people let me my mind go bitch.
- 7:46Speaker 2: So to me, there is, first off, lack of comprehension,
- 7:51Speaker 2: lack of education, lack of people.
- 7:53Speaker 4: Being able to form their own opinion in this country.
- 7:56Speaker 4: Let me let me get this ship off.
- 7:58Speaker 2: So for me, when people are to go online and
- 8:02Speaker 2: speak with confidence, say big words a lot of times,
- 8:06Speaker 2: I don't even be saying shit.
- 8:07Speaker 1: They just sound good.
- 8:09Speaker 2: People follow those people because of their own insecurities in
- 8:14Speaker 2: being able to express themselves.
- 8:15Speaker 4: I say this to someone who.
- 8:17Speaker 2: Has insecurities in speaking who when I go to goddamn church, Now,
- 8:21Speaker 2: I'm like, these are just motivational speakers.
- 8:24Speaker 1: Like so for me, seeing that a church.
- 8:28Speaker 3: Can can come together, seeing that people will leave their
- 8:31Speaker 3: homes and families and jobs to go follow Nature.
- 8:34Speaker 1: Boy because he sounds good and he looked good.
- 8:37Speaker 3: That's another thing, and why if he wasn't an attractive
- 8:42Speaker 3: black gay man, I don't think gets the same gets
- 8:46Speaker 3: the same attention as he does. So when we're looking
- 8:48Speaker 3: at pretty privilege, when we're looking at people who can
- 8:51Speaker 3: eloquently express themselves. Oh I'm saying all of this, I
- 8:54Speaker 3: think everyone they're esthetically pleasing to watch and they sound good.
- 8:59Speaker 3: So I say, oh, that's a say. I wouldn't have
- 9:04Speaker 3: a Shyan Bryan on this spot. So that's why I
- 9:06Speaker 3: didn't really care for the rhetoric of an Anne Wa.
- 9:09Speaker 1: We were going to have Shy and Bryan on this pot.
- 9:12Speaker 4: Oh yeah, she was with some bullshit.
- 9:13Speaker 1: She only want to sit with niggas. So here's the thing, right.
- 9:17Speaker 2: Why I disagree is because number one, an War is
- 9:21Speaker 2: simply teaching a method and doing coaching. Okay, he's a
- 9:25Speaker 2: married person, gay or not, and I think it's important
- 9:29Speaker 2: that at least your dating coach is married if marriage
- 9:33Speaker 2: is your end goal. Two, this is somebody with an
- 9:36Speaker 2: educational background. He doesn't put a doctor behind his name,
- 9:39Speaker 2: and he talks about his educational background honestly.
- 9:42Speaker 1: Three, he is.
- 9:43Speaker 2: Selling things at a premium for a service. Mind you,
- 9:47Speaker 2: we interviewed someone that used it Jodi Taylor, Right.
- 9:49Speaker 3: Wait, did you see what just went viral? Though I
- 9:53Speaker 3: know you did that, your face just says you did.
- 9:55Speaker 1: What someone thinks they wasted their money.
- 9:57Speaker 3: No, someone purchased it. It's all rhetoric from a book
- 10:01Speaker 3: from a white lady that he's selling. So she sent
- 10:05Speaker 3: the screenshots between the book and the course that she
- 10:07Speaker 3: paid for, and he immediately refunded her money and kicked
- 10:11Speaker 3: her out of the rest of the course because she's like,
- 10:14Speaker 3: this is exactly from this other teaching And he said, well,
- 10:16Speaker 3: I don't say that it's mine.
- 10:18Speaker 1: I just say that this is something to use. But
- 10:19Speaker 1: doesn't he do hands on coaching? Those are She said,
- 10:22Speaker 1: it's zoomed.
- 10:23Speaker 3: It's the same thing that he'd it's zoom group chat
- 10:25Speaker 3: zooms like bitch, what we do want some month on Patreon?
- 10:28Speaker 3: But the teaching, the course that he sells, she was
- 10:31Speaker 3: a literally sent verbatim that it was from this white lady.
- 10:35Speaker 3: He didn't argue, cent her back her money, kicked her
- 10:37Speaker 3: out the course, but she made a whole But if someone.
- 10:39Speaker 4: Is unhappy, shouldn't you refund them? Of course? But also
- 10:42Speaker 4: he thinks that's gonna stop his bag and you're.
- 10:44Speaker 1: Not using a rhetoric though from a white woman's okay.
- 10:48Speaker 2: The reason I get what you mean allegedly this is
- 10:52Speaker 2: from anwar has a book edge that he wants out right.
- 10:55Speaker 1: Maybe he hasn't been able to use his coach.
- 10:57Speaker 4: Maybe maybe he doesn't want to use his own because
- 10:59Speaker 4: it could be taken too.
- 11:00Speaker 1: Who knows. Whatever.
- 11:01Speaker 2: What I do know and understand is coaching is coaching,
- 11:05Speaker 2: wherever you learned it from.
- 11:06Speaker 1: He does have his degrees. Cheyenne does it. That makes
- 11:09Speaker 1: her a liar. Nature Boy was harmful.
- 11:11Speaker 2: I wouldn't even I think Chyenne's fucking cuckoo for what
- 11:13Speaker 2: she did. But nature Boy is totally different story, Like
- 11:16Speaker 2: he was harmful. Chiamne Bryant is a scam artist, not
- 11:19Speaker 2: necessarily like harming people.
- 11:21Speaker 1: I think she's harming people. Bro he was doing things
- 11:23Speaker 1: with children.
- 11:23Speaker 3: Oh that's physical harm. She's causing psychological.
- 11:27Speaker 4: Emotional harm, is she?
- 11:30Speaker 2: There's a woman also, okay, who came out and said
- 11:34Speaker 2: that she was suicidal. Reached out for her for therapy session,
- 11:39Speaker 2: and the entire session was pretty much Shyan Bryant telling
- 11:42Speaker 2: her how she was a low value woman and not
- 11:44Speaker 2: the high value woman that Chyenna's and she was like,
- 11:47Speaker 2: I left feeling even worse about myself, and I let
- 11:49Speaker 2: her know I was in a suicidal state, and she
- 11:52Speaker 2: actually didn't help me.
- 11:53Speaker 1: Can I be honest, this is what she said.
- 11:55Speaker 2: I can't even believe I'm a stick up for this bitch,
- 11:57Speaker 2: because I really think Chyanne's fucking awful for lying. You
- 12:00Speaker 2: know how many times my therapist has told me that
- 12:02Speaker 2: I need to pick myself up because I have no
- 12:04Speaker 2: self work.
- 12:05Speaker 1: I need to do X y Z. That's not telling
- 12:07Speaker 1: you you you low value that.
- 12:09Speaker 3: I don't know what the fuck she's saying that you're
- 12:10Speaker 3: you're working on your you need to work on your psyche.
- 12:13Speaker 4: It's not saying that you're a low value woman.
- 12:14Speaker 2: Maybe that's how Shane Venteric is. You knew you went
- 12:17Speaker 2: for a fucking light coachre talk like that.
- 12:19Speaker 4: Now they thought she was they were going to a
- 12:21Speaker 4: doctor credentials. That's the difference.
- 12:24Speaker 2: I'm making excuses, but these motherfuckers will listen. I love you,
- 12:28Speaker 2: but yeah, I wanted the reason my jaw dropped to
- 12:30Speaker 2: the floor. I want to share some tea with you
- 12:33Speaker 2: that just popped up in my phone. My god, just
- 12:35Speaker 2: look at this top thing. Grab my phone right now, bitch,
- 12:38Speaker 2: and look who wished me congratulations?
- 12:42Speaker 4: Is she.
- 12:44Speaker 2: Is? She?
- 12:44Speaker 1: Okay, she's not. She never has, Okay, she never has.
- 12:48Speaker 1: I'm sorry. Do you know I don't fuck with you, bitch?
- 12:50Speaker 2: She knows that you could have ate that, she knows
- 12:53Speaker 2: that nobody died. You need to help you think?
- 12:57Speaker 3: I don't know, Bright, it's weird.
- 13:02Speaker 1: Let's talk about it. Be weird, a.
- 13:05Speaker 2: Bitch, I don't funk with publicly have said it. Don't
- 13:09Speaker 2: like literally didn't want around me?
- 13:12Speaker 1: What now?
- 13:14Speaker 2: Let me just say this, received a text message when
- 13:17Speaker 2: there was a chance we would be working together, and
- 13:21Speaker 2: that to me, I can meet you with at an
- 13:23Speaker 2: even playing field.
- 13:24Speaker 1: Sure, okay, I'm a professional person. But after you got
- 13:29Speaker 1: a problem, Bro, I don't even fuck with a would
- 13:33Speaker 1: It's weird. It's weird. People be weird. What I tell you.
- 13:37Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell you right now if I ever stop
- 13:39Speaker 2: being friends with Brehonda and that bitch hits you up and.
- 13:41Speaker 1: Be like, oh my god, Mandy just got a house
- 13:43Speaker 1: in Atlanta. I love it.
- 13:45Speaker 2: It's it's weird, Bible, this motherfucker. It's right, bro, it's weird.
- 13:51Speaker 2: People just do weird things, and I have come to
- 13:54Speaker 2: the conclusion never has said anything that.
- 13:56Speaker 3: People are weird, Like, Babe, I'm waiting for the aliens.
- 14:02Speaker 3: Neo was about to live in my house. But I
- 14:04Speaker 3: could fill this tea on the five all the girlfriends.
- 14:06Speaker 2: But mind you mineed my boyfriend sipping this video because
- 14:09Speaker 2: I've been really eyeing robots from my house because like,
- 14:14Speaker 2: I'm getting sick of like transcribing to my cleaner and
- 14:17Speaker 2: she still don't do everything I want.
- 14:18Speaker 1: She don't touch my laundry. I don't like that shit.
- 14:20Speaker 4: So I've been looking at robots to do my chortes.
- 14:25Speaker 2: Robot okay, and I'm gonna put a little stro phone
- 14:28Speaker 2: on it. I'm teaching the stroke game. You uh, you
- 14:32Speaker 2: were miked up, bitch. I don't need two echoes of
- 14:34Speaker 2: oh my God coming down, but god.
- 14:37Speaker 3: I've been looking at robots. So he sends me this
- 14:40Speaker 3: robot who's on stage doing like the moonwalk and doing
- 14:43Speaker 3: all these Michael Jackson moves. But there's a stair on
- 14:46Speaker 3: this on the stage, so the robot just keeps falling.
- 14:50Speaker 3: He can't up, and he can't get up if I
- 14:53Speaker 3: washer and dryer upstairs. I also have a spiral staircase.
- 14:57Speaker 3: So he's like, you ain't gonna ma need two robots
- 15:00Speaker 3: because these.
- 15:01Speaker 2: Niggas can't get upstairs. And I said, no, I'm gonna
- 15:03Speaker 2: teach you how to get upstairs. Like apparently the neo
- 15:06Speaker 2: robot you like, they bring someone to your home to
- 15:09Speaker 2: let it like learn your home and how to get around.
- 15:12Speaker 2: I said, it's gonna learn how to get up And
- 15:13Speaker 2: can you.
- 15:14Speaker 1: Feel a little scared sleeping with a robot in the house? Bro?
- 15:18Speaker 2: Have you ever had a cat? They're scary fish, they
- 15:21Speaker 2: pounce on you, They just.
- 15:23Speaker 4: Somebody about the robe. They're scary. I won't even sleep
- 15:27Speaker 4: with my phone next. That's a scary bro. Do you
- 15:29Speaker 4: know how much I could just be like, body, don't
- 15:33Speaker 4: think we for the play while I'm sleep, Like.
- 15:35Speaker 1: Sleeping with a cat. You can't even predict them niggas.
- 15:37Speaker 4: I never asked you what does it do when you
- 15:40Speaker 4: have niggas over, bro, I'd be having a lot in
- 15:43Speaker 4: the door and then trying to push it open.
- 15:45Speaker 2: So cats do not like closed doors in the house.
- 15:48Speaker 2: Why not because they feel like they paid the bills?
- 15:50Speaker 2: They don't why think about the next Friday?
- 15:52Speaker 4: No, no not, they do not like close doors.
- 15:56Speaker 3: So if I'm in a room and the door is closed,
- 15:58Speaker 3: that Nigga just stay there and scratch it like a
- 16:00Speaker 3: little dog.
- 16:01Speaker 1: Yill me out, bitch, shut up. So when I'm.
- 16:04Speaker 3: Getting like my dirty on, excuse me, when I get
- 16:07Speaker 3: my dirty auntie. So when I'm fucking dick from the back,
- 16:12Speaker 3: thank you God.
- 16:14Speaker 1: Remember her.
- 16:15Speaker 2: We used to go back when I'm like, you know,
- 16:17Speaker 2: like mind you because he already got normal with me
- 16:20Speaker 2: playing with my pussy and he'd be at my feet
- 16:22Speaker 2: and I don't like it, but he'd be in.
- 16:24Speaker 1: The bed when I when.
- 16:26Speaker 2: You know that when I'm at this area that Nina
- 16:28Speaker 2: knows when we about to fuck. He's like it has
- 16:30Speaker 2: to be like the energy or something. Because like if
- 16:33Speaker 2: she's on the bed and he just start pushing up
- 16:35Speaker 2: on me, she jumps off and leaves the room. If
- 16:38Speaker 2: I start sucking dick on the couch, and because my
- 16:40Speaker 2: couch is like an L shape, it's pretty big, she
- 16:42Speaker 2: on the other side of the couch, she jumps off
- 16:44Speaker 2: and goes another room.
- 16:45Speaker 1: Yeah, no, Like why do they know?
- 16:47Speaker 2: I don't know when my boyfriend comes to Atlanta, though
- 16:49Speaker 2: all I know is by night too, that Nigga comes
- 16:53Speaker 2: and like tries to push him out the bed.
- 16:55Speaker 4: Oh bro a cat. The cat will get in the
- 16:58Speaker 4: middle and go like this and then like start and
- 17:01Speaker 4: then I've been scratching his feet.
- 17:03Speaker 2: Do dogs know when you're having sex? Do they know
- 17:06Speaker 2: what sex is? I feel like I'm doing for fact's sake.
- 17:09Speaker 2: This is all we do is google facts. Dogs do
- 17:11Speaker 2: not understand human sexuality. However, they're observant and emotional creatures,
- 17:16Speaker 2: so they know that something unusual is happening where they
- 17:18Speaker 2: may not get attention.
- 17:20Speaker 1: Also, yes, there is a heightened sense of smell.
- 17:22Speaker 2: When the pheromones are releasing during arousal, and they can
- 17:25Speaker 2: associate it with your intimate activity, hearing the vocalate vocalizations,
- 17:30Speaker 2: knowing the rhythm and the movement, so they may likely
- 17:33Speaker 2: leave the room.
- 17:34Speaker 3: Now, Me and me and body talk like body will
- 17:36Speaker 3: come lay on my chest and try to part and
- 17:38Speaker 3: I'm like, nigga, you know I'm about to play with myself.
- 17:40Speaker 3: Get the fuck up. Oh yeah, Like I don't like that,
- 17:43Speaker 3: but yeah, I say. All that's to say, I'm gonna
- 17:45Speaker 3: get a robots to help me ride house.
- 17:48Speaker 4: But no, I'm not scared of robots.
- 17:49Speaker 2: I'm waiting for the aliens, and we got here because
- 17:52Speaker 2: people are fucking weird and I'm fucking sick of these motherfuckers.
- 17:56Speaker 1: They weird. I don't like it.
- 17:58Speaker 4: I don't like weird behavior.
- 18:00Speaker 1: I actually feel offended. You should she not? How we
- 18:03Speaker 1: getting along? Yeah?
- 18:06Speaker 4: No?
- 18:06Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah? And we not? I blocked. Here's the thing.
- 18:15Speaker 2: What I just received from that, And maybe it could
- 18:17Speaker 2: have been genuine, but I don't believe.
- 18:18Speaker 1: Her to be a genuine person. That wasn't genuine.
- 18:20Speaker 2: That was because she had reached out to other people
- 18:23Speaker 2: in this last week to work with.
- 18:25Speaker 3: But they're all my friends. So my friends are like, bitch,
- 18:27Speaker 3: should I even respond to her? So like to me,
- 18:31Speaker 3: I'm sorry, No, way, that's genuine. I don't believe it
- 18:35Speaker 3: is because I just don't. But here's the thing that
- 18:38Speaker 3: kind of like topples it over for me. I'm thirty
- 18:40Speaker 3: five years old, I'm been around a block bro mooser to.
- 18:45Speaker 2: Forty than I am. We started this pod. I have
- 18:49Speaker 2: never in my life thought it was cute or cool.
- 18:52Speaker 2: When I have a bitch that has a common enemy
- 18:55Speaker 2: with me and things now we're cool.
- 18:57Speaker 1: It's weird. It's weird.
- 19:00Speaker 2: I can have that enemy on my own. Let me
- 19:03Speaker 2: hate Mandy by myself. I was gonna says, bad bitches
- 19:06Speaker 2: do not need to link up. I think it is
- 19:08Speaker 2: the most I think when bad or you know what,
- 19:12Speaker 2: they're not bad.
- 19:13Speaker 4: When mad bitches link up. I think it's the weirdest,
- 19:17Speaker 4: most insecure.
- 19:19Speaker 1: Goofy ass, my.
- 19:21Speaker 4: Ass shit that you could fucking do out.
- 19:23Speaker 1: You know what they do with two things, bitch and
- 19:25Speaker 1: I hope all of you notice. Here's number one when
- 19:28Speaker 1: y'all do it.
- 19:29Speaker 2: You both have a nigga you used to fuck with
- 19:32Speaker 2: and now you hate him. Now y'all think he's laughing
- 19:36Speaker 2: because you guys went out.
- 19:37Speaker 4: Now we're in the club. Girl, he's gonna be some man.
- 19:38Speaker 4: He doesn't care, he doesn't.
- 19:40Speaker 1: Give a fuck.
- 19:40Speaker 4: He didn't give a fuck about when.
- 19:42Speaker 2: He was putting first ball in and then the second
- 19:44Speaker 2: ball into another pussy and laughed at the both of
- 19:46Speaker 2: you bitches.
- 19:47Speaker 1: And then here's the second one.
- 19:49Speaker 2: When you have a girl you don't fuck with anymore,
- 19:53Speaker 2: right Boom, So now I'm the friend Boom, I stop
- 19:56Speaker 2: being friends with so and so.
- 19:57Speaker 1: Now I'm gonna hit up another bitch that doesn't like
- 19:59Speaker 1: her ha. Oh and you know she does this?
- 20:02Speaker 2: Oh no, she told me. We both hate the same bitch.
- 20:05Speaker 2: Let's be friends. You goofy at weirdest, stupidest broosless.
- 20:11Speaker 1: So I'm gonna tell you something.
- 20:14Speaker 2: I've done a lot of goof troops stuff around my twenties.
- 20:18Speaker 1: Okay, no, when you were.
- 20:19Speaker 4: No, I'm sorry, babe, you started to stop it.
- 20:21Speaker 2: You're thirty five, I know, in my twenties, AND's talk
- 20:24Speaker 2: about we y'all bitches doing shit too old to be
- 20:27Speaker 2: doing fat. But the thing that I recognized quickly was like,
- 20:32Speaker 2: I got in barracks, are you not in? I literally
- 20:35Speaker 2: hung with a bitch because we was sucking with a nigga.
- 20:37Speaker 2: And then I realized, oh, now we're both just calling
- 20:39Speaker 2: an at night to talk shit. Listen, goofy, doofy, and
- 20:43Speaker 2: then we injured with another bitch. Listen, there might be
- 20:46Speaker 2: a story behind my fiance and two bitches right now
- 20:49Speaker 2: that you sed fuck with it like, eh, he does
- 20:51Speaker 2: this and that.
- 20:52Speaker 1: Now they looking like.
- 20:53Speaker 2: Oh, let me tell you. Nothing never makes you look good. Nothing, nothing,
- 20:57Speaker 2: nothing that is child's play. And as we grow older,
- 21:02Speaker 2: to me, the biggest ascension besides us hopefully wanting to
- 21:05Speaker 2: you know, pertain wealth, gain wealth, whatever is honestly being
- 21:09Speaker 2: happy and being smarter and being a realize bitch. Funck
- 21:12Speaker 2: about a nigga like to be a not realized bitch.
- 21:17Speaker 2: Let me leave a comment under a bitch I don't
- 21:19Speaker 2: like because now it's weird.
- 21:21Speaker 1: You literally don't fuck with me? Okay, no, no, no, let
- 21:26Speaker 1: me say yet what you're gonna do? Congrats videos, So
- 21:30Speaker 1: just enjoy the journey. You could have. You could have
- 21:33Speaker 1: kept that in a draft someone probably, No.
- 21:35Speaker 3: You literally could have just not said anything, because does
- 21:39Speaker 3: she even follow you?
- 21:40Speaker 1: I hope not. That means someone sentence, of course, I'm
- 21:43Speaker 1: sure that.
- 21:43Speaker 2: Oh maybe I don't give. I like to leave a
- 21:47Speaker 2: little bit of you call what's a little easter easter rag? No,
- 21:52Speaker 2: now that's too much.
- 21:54Speaker 3: We gotta beleeve that. If you don't want you, you don't
- 21:56Speaker 3: have to. It's not my friend.
- 21:58Speaker 1: I mean, belief it. She's not my friend.
- 22:00Speaker 4: Nigba what we talking about?
- 22:04Speaker 1: And we was friends long enough. She know I'm a
- 22:06Speaker 1: patty bitch.
- 22:07Speaker 2: Bitches, No I know is me who never liked her
- 22:12Speaker 2: and just got a text like great we could be cordial,
- 22:15Speaker 2: or you who just stopped talking to her a week ago.
- 22:17Speaker 2: Oh no, bitch, that was a month ago, two months ago,
- 22:20Speaker 2: three months ago, that text wasdden. That text was after
- 22:25Speaker 2: me already, that literally I checked out.
- 22:34Speaker 1: You don't have a question for you to get to
- 22:36Speaker 1: the point where you send a friend a text to
- 22:38Speaker 1: close out of friendship.
- 22:39Speaker 3: Yes, oh we're here now, guys, Okay, hold on, Yeah
- 22:42Speaker 3: you did have this, y'all. Y'all have like heard of
- 22:44Speaker 3: where I've been at in this journey of like I've
- 22:47Speaker 3: literally spent way too many therapy sessions because when it
- 22:50Speaker 3: comes to niggas, I.
- 22:51Speaker 1: Go some block them. I often go back because nigga,
- 22:57Speaker 1: how do you pop back?
- 22:58Speaker 2: It's the dick, it's the dick. Is they got to dick?
- 23:01Speaker 2: So for me, I mean, I guess they do. In
- 23:04Speaker 2: this world, bitches do got dicks? I don't know, but
- 23:07Speaker 2: my bitches ain't got dicks. So when it comes to
- 23:11Speaker 2: ending a friendship, a long standing friendship, I don't know
- 23:16Speaker 2: if I ever prepared myself to do that right. And
- 23:20Speaker 2: for those of you who are new here, who don't
- 23:23Speaker 2: know here, my world has been completely shifted in the
- 23:26Speaker 2: people who are in it and my orbit and how
- 23:28Speaker 2: I'm operating because I have a best friend who has
- 23:32Speaker 2: stage four breast cancer. Who like is literally taking all
- 23:36Speaker 2: this medication to exist to still be here. She finished radiation,
- 23:41Speaker 2: her treatment is done, but she is fiells and is
- 23:44Speaker 2: going through a lot of different body changes battling stage
- 23:46Speaker 2: four breast cancer.
- 23:48Speaker 4: If anyone knows, she beat it five years ago.
- 23:50Speaker 1: It came back. So I have that going on.
- 23:54Speaker 4: I have a lot going on with my.
- 23:57Speaker 2: Immediate family and my mom and her mental health and
- 24:01Speaker 2: her demons, and for y'all that don't know, I have
- 24:04Speaker 2: to keep being asked if I'm finna meet this white
- 24:06Speaker 2: family that I don't want to fucking meet.
- 24:08Speaker 1: Well, don't get too much more on that, but there's.
- 24:10Speaker 2: That My sister just finished, like she came back from
- 24:17Speaker 2: the army. She's dealing with a lot now, just finish
- 24:20Speaker 2: school and she just feels like, oh my god, no school,
- 24:23Speaker 2: no Army. She's also having like an identity crisis right now.
- 24:27Speaker 2: So just like I'm dealing with like people around me,
- 24:30Speaker 2: and then my boyfriend is dealing with an aging mom.
- 24:34Speaker 2: So there's like just a lot of emotions happening, and
- 24:38Speaker 2: so literally feel like top of this year, I'm so
- 24:44Speaker 2: happy I got the lo oml I'm me and my
- 24:49Speaker 2: best friend's turning forty, money's coming in. Selective is doing great.
- 24:54Speaker 2: We're in a great space, and I'm like, oh, bitch,
- 24:56Speaker 2: I don't reach some play. Oh life is great.
- 24:58Speaker 3: And then I'm dealing with the weight of so many people, right,
- 25:03Speaker 3: And so I didn't think that I was going to
- 25:06Speaker 3: feel the way I felt about certain people not showing
- 25:10Speaker 3: up in this moment, in the time when I've divulged
- 25:14Speaker 3: myself to them in every bit. And so for me,
- 25:18Speaker 3: it's like, yeah, if you're listening to this and you're
- 25:22Speaker 3: in your twenties. Were meeting fans and they're like, I've
- 25:26Speaker 3: been listening to you for the last ten years.
- 25:27Speaker 2: You got me through my twenties, time in my thirties.
- 25:30Speaker 2: We started this show when I was twenty six years old.
- 25:32Speaker 2: I'm about to be thirty six this year, and I
- 25:38Speaker 2: thought I was above the program.
- 25:40Speaker 3: I thought I had selected my chosen family so well
- 25:45Speaker 3: because me and some of my family members aren't the best.
- 25:47Speaker 2: I have a lot of people in my family that
- 25:49Speaker 2: deal with mental health issues. Then you got the Jamaicans,
- 25:52Speaker 2: the Whites, people lying, it's.
- 25:54Speaker 4: Just all over.
- 25:54Speaker 1: It's mess.
- 25:56Speaker 4: And so I really felt.
- 25:57Speaker 3: So confident in coming here, happy with my with my
- 26:02Speaker 3: chosen family that this year has been the biggest disappointment
- 26:07Speaker 3: in the people that I've put on this pedestal for
- 26:09Speaker 3: so many fucking years. Like like, and I don't want
- 26:12Speaker 3: to get emotional, but even like the treatment some of
- 26:15Speaker 3: them did give you and us being in a place,
- 26:17Speaker 3: and like, I just feel almost embarrassed at the behaviors
- 26:23Speaker 3: and characters that I defended and apologized for because I
- 26:28Speaker 3: do know what good people look like, but I also
- 26:30Speaker 3: know that people have faults and we talked about that
- 26:32Speaker 3: in terms of when we choose partners. And I'm a
- 26:34Speaker 3: bit embarrassed at like the people that I platformed or
- 26:39Speaker 3: uplifted or really, like.
- 26:40Speaker 2: What's something that comes to your mind when you say
- 26:42Speaker 2: you're embarrassed at something they did, because you know how
- 26:46Speaker 2: like we got have friends go back to somebody and
- 26:49Speaker 2: be like, oh my god, they did, But like, what
- 26:52Speaker 2: is a trait you've seen a friend, dude that's made
- 26:55Speaker 2: you feel embarrassed looking back? Or maybe like I should
- 26:58Speaker 2: have cut them off then, because I think people listening
- 27:00Speaker 2: have maybe felt icky with friends or little well, what's.
- 27:03Speaker 4: The thing And I think that's the thing too.
- 27:04Speaker 3: We defend poor behaviors of our friends a lot of times.
- 27:07Speaker 1: So for me.
- 27:09Speaker 2: Not to break out, I can bitch, I will say,
- 27:13Speaker 2: and I'll and I'll be not so.
- 27:17Speaker 1: Exact with them.
- 27:19Speaker 2: But one thing for sure that I think has been
- 27:24Speaker 2: heightened as well for me in this landscape, political differences,
- 27:32Speaker 2: for sure, has been one that like, Wow, I was
- 27:37Speaker 2: choosing to look over that.
- 27:38Speaker 1: That's crazy. So I think political differences. I cannot believe
- 27:42Speaker 1: we just had the same one.
- 27:42Speaker 2: Bitch, political Wait, you gotta, you gotta political differences Right now,
- 27:48Speaker 2: I realize it's very like mine was so big one
- 27:51Speaker 2: mine was so that was yours too. Yes, it was wow,
- 27:55Speaker 2: And mine was not some Trump versus whatever shit.
- 27:57Speaker 4: Okay, No, mine wasn't Trump versus anything.
- 28:00Speaker 2: I walked in the show basically talking about why it made.
- 28:04Speaker 2: I made It was a horrible day.
- 28:06Speaker 1: Where did it go?
- 28:07Speaker 4: Oh bitch, Oh this was a lot. Okay, Okay, there listening.
- 28:11Speaker 1: We're judging.
- 28:11Speaker 4: Oh yeah, we aren't really judging the same way. So
- 28:15Speaker 4: now we.
- 28:17Speaker 1: Don't win a little different with this.
- 28:19Speaker 2: No, because Joe's politics, I don't know where yours went
- 28:21Speaker 2: on police, kiss me off?
- 28:23Speaker 1: Okay. First one started with the first day of Pride month.
- 28:28Speaker 2: Oh no, just show some colors, bitch, I said this.
- 28:33Speaker 1: This is someone that's been in my home, not super close,
- 28:38Speaker 1: but enough. Okay. I made a post.
- 28:41Speaker 2: I said, hey, it's Pride month, and a lot of
- 28:43Speaker 2: you that follow me got some creative power. You work
- 28:46Speaker 2: in marketing. Don't forget the trans people. It's cool until
- 28:50Speaker 2: y'all trans, and then suddenly you motherfuckers get weird talking
- 28:53Speaker 2: about it mental illness, and I was like, don't really
- 28:55Speaker 2: want to hear that ship. You want to fucking include
- 28:57Speaker 2: the gays and whatever. Most trans people that I know
- 29:00Speaker 2: were gay before they were trans. Include them in every
- 29:03Speaker 2: version of their life and their journey and themselves. She
- 29:07Speaker 2: is a cunt, but I'm going to address the crook.
- 29:11Speaker 2: Yes she's a cut, a murderer, cunt. So I said this,
- 29:19Speaker 2: and this is my reply. I really can't figure out
- 29:21Speaker 2: why trans women bother other women so much, And the
- 29:24Speaker 2: only assumption I drop every single time is that you
- 29:26Speaker 2: must find them is be a threat against men, because
- 29:28Speaker 2: what have the dolls ever done to us? Of course,
- 29:30Speaker 2: the comments, yes, create a human life in your body,
- 29:34Speaker 2: have a c section, breastfeed for twenty months, and tell
- 29:37Speaker 2: me if you're not offended that a man with male hormones,
- 29:40Speaker 2: calls himself a woman.
- 29:42Speaker 1: Oh wait, and this is someone that was a friend
- 29:44Speaker 1: of like that they know you. I don't even want
- 29:47Speaker 1: to make this the clip because.
- 29:49Speaker 4: Oh bitch ott to be like hey.
- 29:51Speaker 2: One point our conversation started to turn into She's like,
- 29:54Speaker 2: are you using me for content? But that's the thing offensive.
- 30:00Speaker 2: Did you read what I wrote? How does it hurt
- 30:02Speaker 2: you at all? Does it evoke the emotion of acceptance
- 30:05Speaker 2: to you at all? What makes it feel particularly offensive?
- 30:09Speaker 2: With knowing that the world appreciates you bearing a child?
- 30:14Speaker 2: Does it hurt me directly?
- 30:15Speaker 4: No?
- 30:15Speaker 1: Does it hurt me that little girls on the other
- 30:17Speaker 1: side of the world are being mutilated?
- 30:19Speaker 5: No?
- 30:19Speaker 1: Neither hurt me technically.
- 30:20Speaker 5: No.
- 30:20Speaker 2: I could also be offended that both things happen, that
- 30:24Speaker 2: girls are being mutilated. I wrote back, and I said,
- 30:28Speaker 2: a woman being mutilated and a person choosing to live
- 30:30Speaker 2: their own life are not synonymous. And it's actually fucking
- 30:33Speaker 2: weird that I'm having this conversation with you. I even
- 30:36Speaker 2: remembered the day that you and I stepped out to
- 30:38Speaker 2: boxers at the gay club. God forbid, we didn't see
- 30:40Speaker 2: a trans guy that day.
- 30:41Speaker 1: Huh.
- 30:43Speaker 2: Women born with women body parts and a uterus exactly
- 30:45Speaker 2: what defines gender. I didn't feel like this before having kids, Gila.
- 30:49Speaker 2: I know for a fact when you bear a child,
- 30:51Speaker 2: you were going.
- 30:52Speaker 1: To feel the same way.
- 30:52Speaker 2: Your body is special, anything special things. You want to
- 30:57Speaker 2: dress into women and get into some weird shit?
- 30:59Speaker 1: Cool? I said, Lol, do you know what was really
- 31:02Speaker 1: weird shit? This is really what I don't want to
- 31:04Speaker 1: make up a clip.
- 31:04Speaker 2: Remember that day that we were doing drugs together and
- 31:07Speaker 2: you once confided in me and said you would take
- 31:09Speaker 2: it up a notch if you weren't scared to die.
- 31:11Speaker 2: That day you basically told me you would probably shoot
- 31:14Speaker 2: up heroin.
- 31:14Speaker 1: You didn't say it, but you did. That's some fucking
- 31:16Speaker 1: weird shit.
- 31:17Speaker 2: Not my homegirls that choose to wear a dress that
- 31:20Speaker 2: were once a different gender, that's what the fuck is weird, bitch,
- 31:25Speaker 2: and it's a white person.
- 31:26Speaker 3: Have you decided to cease friendship with this pole? I
- 31:30Speaker 3: unfollowed them. Oh, Sam Carson gave me a call after
- 31:32Speaker 3: I said that, Okay, I.
- 31:34Speaker 1: Want to describe that moment too. Maybe they were joking,
- 31:38Speaker 1: we were.
- 31:38Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, This is that that felt real politically,
- 31:41Speaker 2: Try to remember exactly it was me Her and Vinnie.
- 31:44Speaker 1: We were at Brooklyn Mirage ri Ip and know what's
- 31:46Speaker 1: passion now?
- 31:47Speaker 2: We were Brooklyn Mimarrage and I was like, damn, this
- 31:50Speaker 2: is a very long time ago, by the way, maybe
- 31:52Speaker 2: even ten years.
- 31:53Speaker 1: I don't even know if I lived in New York.
- 31:54Speaker 2: And I was like, oh, bitch, I ain't feeling with
- 31:56Speaker 2: Molly no more. I'm about to go to bed. She
- 31:58Speaker 2: was like, bitch, if Molly ain't working for me, no more.
- 32:00Speaker 2: I need something harder. And I was like, I'm like cocaine.
- 32:03Speaker 2: She was like, no harder.
- 32:04Speaker 1: Shit. If I wasn't scared to die, I would fucking
- 32:07Speaker 1: do it right now.
- 32:09Speaker 4: I'm sorry, but to me, bitch, it gets.
- 32:11Speaker 1: I want to get a needle? Does not.
- 32:13Speaker 2: I thought we were partying and you took it up
- 32:15Speaker 2: another level and I never forgot it.
- 32:16Speaker 1: Mandy.
- 32:17Speaker 2: So the fact that she really sat there and said
- 32:19Speaker 2: trans women are weird, bitch.
- 32:20Speaker 1: You're a weird bitch. What the fuck?
- 32:22Speaker 2: Who the fuck just realizes they're cured from their hangover
- 32:26Speaker 2: and it's like, yeah, let me hit it again, let
- 32:27Speaker 2: me do this again, let me do harder. No, bitch,
- 32:29Speaker 2: you're fucking weird bitch. What the fuck you ain't no
- 32:31Speaker 2: different from that guy that was chasing me down the street.
- 32:34Speaker 2: The only difference is your access. Really Yeah, then here's
- 32:37Speaker 2: the next one. She calls me, apologizes to me. I
- 32:40Speaker 2: was like, I don't know why. Maybe someone the w
- 32:41Speaker 2: I said, was discussing boom. Next thing, I post a
- 32:45Speaker 2: video of a gay No, maybe he wasn't gay. He
- 32:47Speaker 2: was a teacher talking to a class. We cannot see
- 32:51Speaker 2: the children. The teacher was filming themselves and it had
- 32:54Speaker 2: a there was a power point and said what is gay?
- 32:57Speaker 1: And the teacher's really fun and he's.
- 32:58Speaker 2: Like, okay, we're we're going to figure out what gay
- 33:01Speaker 2: is today. Boom PowerPoint, A guy with nails painted.
- 33:05Speaker 1: No, Then it's these are kid kids.
- 33:08Speaker 2: They I think maybe like fifth grade probably from like
- 33:10Speaker 2: the way they were talking. Nah, Like it wasn't adult,
- 33:14Speaker 2: but I wasn't baby. And then it was a girl
- 33:18Speaker 2: with like tomboyshit on. No. And then it was the
- 33:22Speaker 2: words not men kissing boys that like boys gay. It
- 33:26Speaker 2: was like really cute how they were like, uh, someone
- 33:29Speaker 2: holding hands with the same sex, No, someone wanting to
- 33:32Speaker 2: kiss the same sex gay? And I was like, yo,
- 33:35Speaker 2: this is very healthy to circumvent issues with people using
- 33:39Speaker 2: the wrong language. That's all I put in the story. Oop,
- 33:41Speaker 2: here we go, and this is how she got blocked.
- 33:44Speaker 2: So she's just a homophobe, bro, This is extremely relative.
- 33:49Speaker 2: I can really see and tell once again that you
- 33:52Speaker 2: don't have children, Gila. It's just really fucking with me
- 33:56Speaker 2: that you think gay needs to be taught in school.
- 33:58Speaker 2: How confusing when they don't even need to know anything
- 34:01Speaker 2: about same sex. They're fucking children. I wrote back, and
- 34:04Speaker 2: I said, your kids were never explained why you and
- 34:06Speaker 2: your husband are together, and that's sexual orientation, isn't it?
- 34:11Speaker 1: Are we dumb here? But not only that.
- 34:15Speaker 2: Parents think it's so cute when the little boys and
- 34:18Speaker 2: the little girls play in the sandbox, and oh, he
- 34:20Speaker 2: just likes you, like how do sexual normativity is happening
- 34:25Speaker 2: early on between little girls and little boys all the time.
- 34:29Speaker 2: But Noah thinks that there's a conversation that needs to
- 34:31Speaker 2: be at Oh boyfriend, you had a boyfriend in school?
- 34:33Speaker 1: You got a girlfriend in school? That hew? Do normality?
- 34:36Speaker 1: Tell you what else? Conversation? Children to know? You know,
- 34:38Speaker 1: what else should and children sh know?
- 34:40Speaker 2: When I was four years old, my mom taught me
- 34:43Speaker 2: something and I brought this up yesterday, I believe with
- 34:46Speaker 2: when it came to protecting people we love. My mom
- 34:50Speaker 2: used to take her hand and put it on my
- 34:52Speaker 2: thigh and asked me where it was okay, who should
- 34:55Speaker 2: be touching here?
- 34:55Speaker 1: Who would not.
- 34:57Speaker 2: When my mom had a feeling I liked women, she
- 34:59Speaker 2: had that same conversation with me about women. The first
- 35:02Speaker 2: time my mom had the conversation, she really kind of
- 35:05Speaker 2: brought up men a little bit, or with uncle so
- 35:07Speaker 2: and so, if if your cousin or this, or if
- 35:09Speaker 2: boys for some reason, I mean, you know, we are
- 35:12Speaker 2: used to sexual start happening to higher rate with men.
- 35:14Speaker 2: And when my mom started to see my attraction to women,
- 35:16Speaker 2: she really took it up because she needed me to
- 35:19Speaker 2: know there was a boundary with age. In that way
- 35:21Speaker 2: that she had the conversation with me change, no one
- 35:24Speaker 2: should be like women shouldn't kiss you here, like you know,
- 35:26Speaker 2: if you're getting kissed on the cheek, or like she
- 35:28Speaker 2: would tell me things like that, my mom is having
- 35:30Speaker 2: a sexual conversation with me then at four years old,
- 35:32Speaker 2: and for about protection, do you know what else I
- 35:34Speaker 2: would appreciate if my child is in the world seeing
- 35:38Speaker 2: gay people because they exist. Twenty percent of gen z
- 35:41Speaker 2: Yeers identifies LGBTQ plus okay, twenty percent global population. It
- 35:46Speaker 2: gets to about four or whatever. I think as far
- 35:48Speaker 2: as Americans go, it's like eight to ten. The point
- 35:50Speaker 2: is they couldn't run into the motherfuckers because Black Americans
- 35:53Speaker 2: are thirteen percent of the population.
- 35:55Speaker 1: I seed black people on, hold on what I don't
- 35:58Speaker 1: want to bring it up here.
- 35:59Speaker 3: But I went down a rabbit hole so they'd be
- 36:01Speaker 3: lying to us how many black people live here?
- 36:03Speaker 4: But so here's the thing, right, And I just had
- 36:07Speaker 4: this conversation. It's so funny that you do this.
- 36:09Speaker 3: And I wasn't high. I promise this was a sober conversation.
- 36:12Speaker 3: And thirteen percent has been the number we've been told
- 36:15Speaker 3: our whole life, right, Bitch, how they changed? So I'd
- 36:19Speaker 3: literally bitch today, what's ta bro?
- 36:21Speaker 1: Go on chat?
- 36:22Speaker 2: Bitch, I'm a Central Park and I go on chat
- 36:25Speaker 2: and I said, how many African Americans are in the US.
- 36:30Speaker 1: Bitch?
- 36:30Speaker 4: It went up to fourteen percent. So we start getting
- 36:33Speaker 4: into a cop bitch, because we've been here thirteen percent
- 36:36Speaker 4: since I was in elementary school. Bitch, I swear to God,
- 36:39Speaker 4: so hold on, hold on, so give you out.
- 36:41Speaker 2: So I start thinking about it, and so the conversation was,
- 36:44Speaker 2: mind you, I have two of friends. I have two
- 36:47Speaker 2: friends right now that just went through depths of mom
- 36:51Speaker 2: and a grandparent on the other both are now in
- 36:53Speaker 2: charge of estates. One of these friends has a hundred
- 36:57Speaker 2: acres to the family Mississippi.
- 37:00Speaker 1: Why did they do?
- 37:01Speaker 2: Bro?
- 37:01Speaker 1: Another one hold on?
- 37:03Speaker 3: And then my boyfriend has acres left by the family
- 37:07Speaker 3: in South Carolina, which, by the way, New.
- 37:11Speaker 4: York and South Carolina tangent has to be studied.
- 37:13Speaker 3: Anyways, So we get into the conversation where it's like, Bro,
- 37:18Speaker 3: they want to make it seem like we didn't make
- 37:22Speaker 3: up this country, that we didn't build the country up,
- 37:24Speaker 3: that we weren't already here. They want to keep saying
- 37:27Speaker 3: that we all come from fucking Africa. There were some
- 37:29Speaker 3: of us that were here because with all of the
- 37:32Speaker 3: things of slavery four hundred years ago, we did all
- 37:35Speaker 3: this shit, we pro created We've always been only thirteen
- 37:39Speaker 3: percent of this goddamn country. Yet how without all of
- 37:42Speaker 3: those rights, do we have family lineage to hundreds of
- 37:45Speaker 3: acres of land, Like we weren't.
- 37:48Speaker 4: Just granted that land. But there's like, mind you, that
- 37:50Speaker 4: was the conversation.
- 37:51Speaker 3: Even with my friend, I'm like, Bro, you don't even
- 37:54Speaker 3: live in Mississippi, Like, what are you doing with one
- 37:56Speaker 3: hundred lakers and one hundred acres in Mississippi. He's like, Bro,
- 38:00Speaker 3: my family is not selling it. We like allow people
- 38:02Speaker 3: to get lumbered from this land. We like have different
- 38:05Speaker 3: like deals, but we're gonna build on it. It's our
- 38:08Speaker 3: land forever. It's a part of our family. We're not
- 38:10Speaker 3: selling it off. And so we literally sat and had
- 38:13Speaker 3: this conversation about how the government or the fucking people
- 38:18Speaker 3: that be want to sit here and make black people
- 38:22Speaker 3: believe that we're not from here. This isn't our land,
- 38:25Speaker 3: we don't belong here, when in reality, Bro, we have
- 38:28Speaker 3: roots here.
- 38:29Speaker 2: Like there's grandparents that have grandparents that have grandparents that
- 38:32Speaker 2: only remember the fucking United States area. I don't think
- 38:34Speaker 2: like for a second, it's that we deny that we
- 38:37Speaker 2: have roots, but they try to make it connect to
- 38:40Speaker 2: the artist small makeup of the general POCKETB Bro, you're
- 38:43Speaker 2: here now thirty five years old. We've been hearing that
- 38:45Speaker 2: thirteen percent since elementary school. Okay, so bro, there's no
- 38:48Speaker 2: way black people still only make up thirteen percent. You
- 38:52Speaker 2: know what, I think it is the Latino's got thirty
- 38:54Speaker 2: some no bro, but black.
- 38:56Speaker 1: We've been a lot of the niggas that we count.
- 38:58Speaker 1: Bruh is in.
- 38:59Speaker 3: Hispanic no oh because so so when when you look
- 39:01Speaker 3: it up, it is like where you think it is
- 39:03Speaker 3: black American people that identify as black, and and I
- 39:08Speaker 3: want to say African Americans because I asked how many
- 39:10Speaker 3: African Americans, which means it wasn't even I don't even
- 39:13Speaker 3: think including the Caribbean Americans because we already know because
- 39:18Speaker 3: I know you mean it don't mean my side of
- 39:20Speaker 3: the family, like my dad is here on a Green card.
- 39:23Speaker 3: Majority of my black side is from the Caribbean, and
- 39:27Speaker 3: so I don't have the ancestral convererce.
- 39:31Speaker 1: But here's the.
- 39:31Speaker 2: Thing though, that it could maybe make it the year
- 39:35Speaker 2: when Mandy even said it was fourteen, I was like, Vish,
- 39:37Speaker 2: I was cooking, Why are gett hurt to me?
- 39:39Speaker 1: And now now I'm here too, Okay?
- 39:41Speaker 2: Why I don't know if this could be all the
- 39:43Speaker 2: way factual is because something we continue to forget is
- 39:46Speaker 2: immigration being high from other white countries. So they just
- 39:51Speaker 2: white Washington. You know, we're basically trying to get us
- 39:53Speaker 2: fuck about it, or.
- 39:54Speaker 1: Hear me out.
- 39:55Speaker 4: Let me tell you how deep I got here.
- 39:56Speaker 2: Hold on the NBA, Oh my god, how much percentage
- 40:01Speaker 2: of black people's in the NBA and d the NFL.
- 40:03Speaker 1: Hold on the NFL.
- 40:04Speaker 4: How much percentage of the NFL is black people?
- 40:07Speaker 1: Then when you get into the constructs of our society,
- 40:12Speaker 1: what hold on?
- 40:13Speaker 2: No? Then look into the prison system. They say this
- 40:16Speaker 2: percentage of African Americans take up the prison system. When
- 40:19Speaker 2: you look at crimes for certain major cities, black people
- 40:21Speaker 2: make up this percentage of crimes.
- 40:23Speaker 1: How do you aren't mad?
- 40:24Speaker 2: There's no way that that mind you. We also know
- 40:28Speaker 2: that black people are not a fucking monolist. The idea
- 40:31Speaker 2: that we take up such these high percentages, the fact
- 40:33Speaker 2: that hip hop, our black culture has infiltrated so much.
- 40:37Speaker 4: There's no way we're only thirteen percent of the motherfucker.
- 40:40Speaker 1: That's why Black people are so strong and amazing.
- 40:43Speaker 2: We at least we at least in the twenties percentage,
- 40:45Speaker 2: would you they?
- 40:46Speaker 4: Well, come on, old, tell I gotta be honest. Based
- 40:49Speaker 4: on fourteen, I don't be more than a.
- 40:53Speaker 1: Bro. We're more than you think. We more than thirteen
- 40:55Speaker 1: fourteen World America American America.
- 40:59Speaker 2: Bro, percent, there's whole ass cities right now that are
- 41:04Speaker 2: like it was so crazy because but then there's whole
- 41:06Speaker 2: less cities that aren't Mandy.
- 41:08Speaker 4: Yeah, but then you still got black people. Well, I
- 41:10Speaker 4: think when you make the point about them not counting
- 41:11Speaker 4: Caribbean American people that how do we know.
- 41:13Speaker 1: They aren't that? But because that's what I asked, that's
- 41:16Speaker 1: an African American because they might not identify identify as.
- 41:19Speaker 3: African Americans, Okay, like they're not they consider themselves I'm
- 41:23Speaker 3: thinking like they have their own other black Hispanic technically
- 41:27Speaker 3: the latter Caribbeans who be we talked about this black
- 41:29Speaker 3: could be Dominican, it could be Puerto Rican, like they
- 41:32Speaker 3: loop those.
- 41:32Speaker 2: Okay, so that's the only way I get the twenty
- 41:35Speaker 2: if you count well, no, that's why. Also because you
- 41:39Speaker 2: know they're saying no black, I know black, I know black,
- 41:42Speaker 2: but they separate themselves by the word his spin, which
- 41:46Speaker 2: is why you're either.
- 41:47Speaker 1: Hispanic or nona spin. I mean, people identify the decisions decisions.
- 41:51Speaker 1: But I'm just saying, I mean you brought it up.
- 41:54Speaker 2: Okay, so hey, okay, no, Now I'm here's where I'm
- 41:57Speaker 2: agreeing in the middle.
- 41:58Speaker 1: I really do think we're only four two percent. Now
- 42:01Speaker 1: oh wait wait.
- 42:03Speaker 2: Right now, I do believe that black African Americans really
- 42:06Speaker 2: are the fourteenth and I think with the Hispanics, that's
- 42:09Speaker 2: what took us up.
- 42:10Speaker 4: No, we would never be so blood No, no, that's
- 42:12Speaker 4: what Hispanic is.
- 42:14Speaker 1: Never because I know I hear what you're saying.
- 42:16Speaker 2: I'm saying in order to get to that number where
- 42:18Speaker 2: you're like, there's no way where this, I think we
- 42:20Speaker 2: really are. However, I don't count that am I think
- 42:23Speaker 2: when I meet Black Dominicans they are not.
- 42:26Speaker 3: Yeah, but I'm not talking about so when I even
- 42:27Speaker 3: say Caribbean, I take out the Hispanics speaking countries.
- 42:30Speaker 4: I'm talking about adding Jamaica, Haiti, Barbado. Yeah, I think it.
- 42:33Speaker 1: You add to other people lean yeah.
- 42:35Speaker 3: But we're talking about trainees, like I'm talking about that
- 42:38Speaker 3: Caribbean culture, not Latinas.
- 42:41Speaker 2: But the Latina is that thirty percent. I think at
- 42:43Speaker 2: least ten of the motherfuckers is black. So now that
- 42:46Speaker 2: makes twenty four percent.
- 42:47Speaker 4: But that's why you lean back into African American is different.
- 42:51Speaker 2: No no, no, no, no no no no, but wait wait,
- 42:52Speaker 2: I'm like, bru literally hold on. So I brought up
- 42:55Speaker 2: the thirteen percent to my boyfriend and he was like,
- 42:59Speaker 2: that number. We've been hearing it a long time and
- 43:01Speaker 2: I said, no, I.
- 43:02Speaker 4: Know, shut up, but we have. So then I look
- 43:05Speaker 4: it up and I'm like, bitch, not chat saying fourteen.
- 43:08Speaker 1: So but we just get into this. You shut the
- 43:10Speaker 1: fuck up.
- 43:12Speaker 4: I find I.
- 43:13Speaker 1: Saved the dog over here. Oh way, yeah, we got that.
- 43:22Speaker 2: Okay, we listen tot we judge. So basically, I'm just like,
- 43:24Speaker 2: holy shit, the politics, bro, But here's a real good
- 43:26Speaker 2: We listen and we judge for you.
- 43:29Speaker 1: We all got this. Look at look at her. Just
- 43:31Speaker 1: fuck my outline. I'm glad that we could save this.
- 43:33Speaker 1: Oh no, no that time. No, go ahead, it's a
- 43:35Speaker 1: good one. Go ahead. Listen. As I know we've all
- 43:37Speaker 1: experienced this. I don't want everybody. Is this the person
- 43:39Speaker 1: I want to judge?
- 43:41Speaker 2: Do you even know if you know this person? It's
- 43:42Speaker 2: someone that's a friend, but not a friend. They're just
- 43:44Speaker 2: there's this there, okay, And.
- 43:47Speaker 1: I genuinely mean this.
- 43:48Speaker 2: I want every single person in this room to talk
- 43:50Speaker 2: about the time that they've experienced this. It's this back
- 43:53Speaker 2: right in the back hand, and they don't think they're
- 43:55Speaker 2: doing the talk to hind themselves. It's just this, this
- 43:58Speaker 2: little bit of hate so of my engagement. When the
- 44:01Speaker 2: video went up, got a text from someone I talk
- 44:03Speaker 2: to every few months.
- 44:04Speaker 1: Let me read it. Uh oh.
- 44:05Speaker 2: I didn't reply yet, not the actual verbato even though
- 44:08Speaker 2: it's been a while. Not even gonna summarize it home.
- 44:11Speaker 2: Let me I'm well, look at you, Look at you antagonized.
- 44:15Speaker 2: Congrats on your engagement over the moon for you too.
- 44:18Speaker 2: You look fucking sexy as fuck. What an amazing video.
- 44:21Speaker 5: L O.
- 44:22Speaker 1: L If I could just say one thing, the duo ring,
- 44:26Speaker 1: I hope it lasts forever.
- 44:27Speaker 2: I feel like you picked a style, or maybe he
- 44:30Speaker 2: picked it would make sense if the guy picked haha,
- 44:32Speaker 2: but picking a style that's not necessarily timeless.
- 44:35Speaker 1: I know he spent a grip on that thing. L ol.
- 44:38Speaker 1: Love you what are you?
- 44:40Speaker 4: That's that you?
- 44:41Speaker 1: That's that? Yeah, that's that.
- 44:43Speaker 4: That's that very distasting.
- 44:44Speaker 1: Yeah, Because when I.
- 44:45Speaker 2: Talked about a bitch's engagement ring, I did it in
- 44:48Speaker 2: a group chat with other bitches.
- 44:50Speaker 1: Does this bitch have a ring? What do you think?
- 44:53Speaker 2: So let's be very clear. That's why I kept it
- 44:55Speaker 2: in the chat with other bitches. You can't talk shit
- 44:57Speaker 2: about a bitch's ring without a ring. That's like, not publicly,
- 45:01Speaker 2: that's rules, not to the person you can't see you.
- 45:04Speaker 1: I don't even believe that with y'all. It was so
- 45:09Speaker 1: it's him that process. I literally we were looking in
- 45:12Speaker 1: normal rings and I was like, I hate it, I
- 45:14Speaker 1: hate it. I hate it, hate it, hate it.
- 45:16Speaker 2: And it got to the point where I was like,
- 45:19Speaker 2: Skylar Marches, shout out to her. I don't know her,
- 45:21Speaker 2: but she posted her ring and that really gave me inspo.
- 45:24Speaker 2: I even went to the store in LA where they
- 45:26Speaker 2: create that they have to melt down. It was like
- 45:28Speaker 2: weird thick gold wrapped around a square, like I had
- 45:30Speaker 2: to look for something weird, And for me in particular,
- 45:33Speaker 2: I just felt like as a non traditional person, I
- 45:35Speaker 2: was like, am I really getting a little good a regular?
- 45:38Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm not gonna lie.
- 45:39Speaker 3: I'm surprised you still wear rings on that hand, Like
- 45:43Speaker 3: when I saw you still put rings on the hand,
- 45:46Speaker 3: like it's it should actually be.
- 45:48Speaker 1: The only ring on your finger. I don't know it was.
- 45:50Speaker 2: And now I'm like, well it's been a few weeks.
- 45:51Speaker 2: I'm chilling, okay, But I agree with you. Once I
- 45:55Speaker 2: had it, I was like, Okay, it feels weird to
- 45:56Speaker 2: wear other stuff. But say, I you know, I'm happy.
- 46:01Speaker 1: You know I'm excited talk Why would you? Why would
- 46:04Speaker 1: you grow about? I also have youngest.
- 46:06Speaker 2: I think this ring is lovely. I've never seen it before.
- 46:09Speaker 2: I've never like saw someone that had the duo diamond.
- 46:13Speaker 2: I think it's fire and my nigga double rocked me up. Bitch,
- 46:16Speaker 2: get the fuck out of here. Okay, so boom, there's that,
- 46:19Speaker 2: and then here's a little debate for us.
- 46:21Speaker 1: Uh oh, what we debate? So I shared this tea
- 46:24Speaker 1: with my man? Uh oh, you think I'm gonna disagree.
- 46:27Speaker 1: That's why you said We're gonna debate. Oh no, no, no,
- 46:29Speaker 1: we can. We can all talk about it.
- 46:30Speaker 2: But wait, do you have any did you have any
- 46:31Speaker 2: double backhanded moments someone anyone in the room that could
- 46:35Speaker 2: think of, like someone saying congrats, but oh I love
- 46:38Speaker 2: your hair.
- 46:39Speaker 1: Can't believe you did that again on anything?
- 46:41Speaker 5: Oh right, that's just into n yu. This girl was
- 46:44Speaker 5: like congratulations, Like, but can your parents afforded?
- 46:47Speaker 1: Oh shit, yeah.
- 46:49Speaker 5: I had like they had just called me like I
- 46:51Speaker 5: was in class, like in school and like we were
- 46:53Speaker 5: going to celebrate something else. I just got the call
- 46:55Speaker 5: and it was alright in to get Margarita's and she
- 46:57Speaker 5: was like, congratulations, care parents even afforded and a full rine.
- 47:00Speaker 4: So they cy, oh no, that's crazy. I ain't gonna
- 47:03Speaker 4: hold you now I hold you. That's kind of crazy.
- 47:05Speaker 2: You know what's crazy because assuming you're eighteen, when you
- 47:07Speaker 2: get accepted in the NYU, I feel like you can't
- 47:10Speaker 2: even You gotta sit with that later.
- 47:11Speaker 1: How many years ago did that I would know?
- 47:13Speaker 5: I'll cancering?
- 47:14Speaker 1: Are you from my masters?
- 47:15Speaker 5: I was like twenty one, No, you're master.
- 47:17Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 47:17Speaker 5: I caught it instantly and I was like, what's trying
- 47:18Speaker 5: to say? And she was like, I didn't mean it like.
- 47:21Speaker 1: That, but you did, but you did, and that's unforgettable.
- 47:24Speaker 4: I mean for me, I mean friends like that, wow
- 47:27Speaker 4: essonally though too.
- 47:29Speaker 3: I mean, I think there's been a lot of bad
- 47:32Speaker 3: canded compliments, especially like when I was telling you why
- 47:35Speaker 3: or Goldman, like people assuming I was a diversity higher,
- 47:38Speaker 3: which made me feel like I was at one point.
- 47:40Speaker 3: I mean for me, not that it's a bad canded compliment.
- 47:44Speaker 3: I will say more people than not have attached me
- 47:49Speaker 3: buzzing my cut to cancer, Like did you do it?
- 47:53Speaker 3: Because you're like, so, I'm not gonna lie. My man
- 47:56Speaker 3: asked me that I'm not gonna lie.
- 47:58Speaker 1: Man looks at her. Did she do it? Because does
- 47:59Speaker 1: she do? Because?
- 48:00Speaker 2: So for me it's weird, Like, first off, dealing with
- 48:03Speaker 2: a friend with cancer is already an emotional things, and
- 48:06Speaker 2: so for me, like, and I will say, shout out.
- 48:09Speaker 2: Somebody in the YouTube comments did say that they are
- 48:12Speaker 2: battling also breast cancer right now and your hair and
- 48:15Speaker 2: feel seen, and my hair makes them feel seen. But like, bro,
- 48:20Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie.
- 48:21Speaker 4: If you see me out, I guess I'm talking about
- 48:23Speaker 4: my friend with cancer.
- 48:24Speaker 1: Babe.
- 48:25Speaker 2: The bleach just just did my hair out, okay, mind you,
- 48:29Speaker 2: I just the bleach just bleached. Okay, that's not that
- 48:32Speaker 2: I had and I had to cut it off. I
- 48:34Speaker 2: had to buzz it all off to grow back. And
- 48:36Speaker 2: then I got so many compliments on it. I said,
- 48:39Speaker 2: I like it, but I like being blonde, So I said,
- 48:41Speaker 2: I know, I've I buzzed.
- 48:43Speaker 1: Off for the bleach and now I just put bleach
- 48:45Speaker 1: on it every week.
- 48:46Speaker 2: But like, especially if it was my best friend had
- 48:48Speaker 2: gone through our time oh, like I'm gonna take that
- 48:49Speaker 2: hard time and make myself like like I can hear
- 48:51Speaker 2: a lot like like like you can just say you
- 48:54Speaker 2: like the cut without also now trying to say that
- 48:57Speaker 2: like I cut my hair for answer. Because also I
- 49:02Speaker 2: think of how many women, and I've been seeing even
- 49:04Speaker 2: more black women especially shout out that work for Delta.
- 49:06Speaker 2: They'd be at the little Gate agents and they'd be like,
- 49:08Speaker 2: what's up, twin, and you know what I mean. But
- 49:11Speaker 2: like for me, that's just already such a it's a
- 49:15Speaker 2: touchy subject. So like even if a woman cut her
- 49:18Speaker 2: hair off for anything, it could be alopecia. If it's
- 49:21Speaker 2: cancer though, yeah, because she did radiation, but I don't
- 49:25Speaker 2: know how much longer because she's on a chemo pill.
- 49:27Speaker 4: I'm saying, normally doesn't someone cut it for well, no,
- 49:30Speaker 4: they don't cut I thought people might do the buzz.
- 49:33Speaker 3: When you go through chemo, your hair falls out. You
- 49:37Speaker 3: have no choice, like your eyebrows. Everything falls out. And
- 49:40Speaker 3: she's been able to grow it back since then, but
- 49:42Speaker 3: now with stage four, she's on something that's like a
- 49:45Speaker 3: chemo pill, which she knows that after a year or
- 49:48Speaker 3: so it'll start shutting again. So she's already like, I
- 49:52Speaker 3: think I should just come out here, and I said, bitch,
- 49:53Speaker 3: oh no, we cannot be twins.
- 49:55Speaker 4: You gotter wear them curls for as long as you can.
- 49:57Speaker 3: I look me tell them my friend with cancer, bitch,
- 50:00Speaker 3: keep your hair. Don't join me so because if we
- 50:02Speaker 3: gonna look like Bobsy twins. No, so here I am
- 50:06Speaker 3: tell about Prayed with cancer. She can't cut her hair. Said,
- 50:08Speaker 3: you got to keep the curls as long as you can.
- 50:10Speaker 3: But to me, it's not backhanded. To me, it's just
- 50:13Speaker 3: very insensitive, like thinking, especially if you know what I'm
- 50:17Speaker 3: dealing with. Don't ask me if I did this for her, like,
- 50:20Speaker 3: because I don't want to be out crying all the
- 50:22Speaker 3: time explaining what my friend is doing.
- 50:23Speaker 4: Oh my god.
- 50:24Speaker 2: I had this conversation with lex I hope this isn't
- 50:26Speaker 2: too personal to share, but I told her Andrea and
- 50:33Speaker 2: I think I brought up my dad because she said,
- 50:36Speaker 2: they said, how did he do it? And you know
- 50:39Speaker 2: his intention was to do it around my dad? And
- 50:40Speaker 2: I was like, fuck, I don't want to talk about
- 50:42Speaker 2: this with y'all because I don't want to bring up
- 50:44Speaker 2: a sore spot because my dad's older and you both
- 50:47Speaker 2: lost a parent, and Lex's.
- 50:48Speaker 1: Like, bitch, they like most of us me bring that
- 50:51Speaker 1: shit up?
- 50:51Speaker 2: Yeah, and she said they had a show once and
- 50:53Speaker 2: it just someone has blurted it out and people don't
- 50:57Speaker 2: like it because.
- 50:58Speaker 1: People are aware. No, I'll tell you what it is.
- 51:01Speaker 4: Why would you bring that up.
- 51:02Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell you something I'm thinking about. Mandy and
- 51:04Speaker 2: I were doing meet and greets on our tour a
- 51:06Speaker 2: few years ago. A lot of people brought up Chrystal.
- 51:10Speaker 1: To you, bro. They made me cry. But I'm not
- 51:12Speaker 1: gonna lie.
- 51:12Speaker 2: But it's like this, but in action they feel I
- 51:14Speaker 2: understand and I get it because between the cancer and
- 51:17Speaker 2: the weight loss surgery, those are my connections to a
- 51:20Speaker 2: lot of people and I appreciate that. But I'm also
- 51:23Speaker 2: like when we're doing meet and greet and they're telling
- 51:25Speaker 2: me I'm also a friend dealing with a friend going
- 51:27Speaker 2: through cancer like that is acceptable. Bitch, we at the clerk,
- 51:31Speaker 2: I'm at mc K. Don't don't don't rub my head.
- 51:35Speaker 2: First off, they asked to rub it.
- 51:37Speaker 1: Now you say yes, that's crazy. No no, no, bro,
- 51:41Speaker 1: you say yes, she's just not I gotta do.
- 51:46Speaker 3: So the niggas be wanting to rub my head. It's
- 51:49Speaker 3: really weird. So to me, if if we out we drinking,
- 51:53Speaker 3: it's a good time. You don't already ask to rub
- 51:55Speaker 3: my head. And you know, my best friend de little cancer, like,
- 51:59Speaker 3: why would you get up there and ask me if
- 52:01Speaker 3: I did this? And my real don't think even though
- 52:04Speaker 3: you hate it. I'm gonna just tell you why I
- 52:06Speaker 3: hate what people breaking it up? Bro that because appropriate
- 52:09Speaker 3: most people never have the balls to cut their hair.
- 52:12Speaker 5: Bro.
- 52:12Speaker 3: I know, so the fast wimson not like like I
- 52:15Speaker 3: grew up when niggas. When I first started to want
- 52:18Speaker 3: to chot my hair, I went short. I would say,
- 52:21Speaker 3: for the very first time, I used to get designs
- 52:23Speaker 3: in my head when I was like nineteen twenty.
- 52:25Speaker 1: And I remember men specifically at this time. Again, I've
- 52:28Speaker 1: only dated black men.
- 52:30Speaker 2: They would tell me if I cut my hair, they
- 52:31Speaker 2: wouldn't talk to me like as even a biracial woman
- 52:36Speaker 2: who had just hair.
- 52:38Speaker 4: They questioned why I would put weave in my hair.
- 52:41Speaker 4: They hated that.
- 52:42Speaker 3: And so as I've gotten older, it went shorter and shorter.
- 52:46Speaker 3: I have had men tell me how like short hair
- 52:50Speaker 3: on women is unattractive. It's masculine, like I'm not gonna
- 52:54Speaker 3: want to fuck anymore. I have men tell me they
- 52:56Speaker 3: wasn't gonna want to fuck me when I lost weight,
- 52:58Speaker 3: like I've had women attach certain things to me.
- 53:03Speaker 2: I actually hating hair, as everyone's but I think hair
- 53:06Speaker 2: and way too hear in wait, okay two very big
- 53:08Speaker 2: because hair. I think when women have shorter hair where
- 53:11Speaker 2: their natural hair or shorter hair, they don't feel as woman.
- 53:14Speaker 3: And so for me, I felt that before for me
- 53:16Speaker 3: with my weight loss, I also used to wear half
- 53:19Speaker 3: wigs a lot, the big you know, when I had
- 53:21Speaker 3: to use that have the big curly hair. And what's
- 53:23Speaker 3: crazy is I remember wanting big hair because I felt
- 53:26Speaker 3: like it made me look smaller when I was a
- 53:27Speaker 3: big girl. So for me, I'm not gonna hold you attaches,
- 53:31Speaker 3: but there's not you, but there's an attachment now to
- 53:33Speaker 3: like me being able to just feel like I could
- 53:35Speaker 3: show my full face.
- 53:36Speaker 1: I felt my skin is the best it's ever been.
- 53:39Speaker 2: Which, by the way, if you're listening in your in
- 53:40Speaker 2: your twenties and you're battling, it's because you're poor and
- 53:44Speaker 2: eats terribly, because oh yeah, that's all right, because skin
- 53:47Speaker 2: care products are expensive.
- 53:48Speaker 1: But I'm not gonna lie Like Kiki Palmer talked about
- 53:50Speaker 1: her skin. She looks so good with short hair.
- 53:52Speaker 2: But oh no, no, no, I was gonna say skin
- 53:54Speaker 2: because all the skin too, and she's really healthy it.
- 53:58Speaker 1: But I always she said the baby helped her. She
- 54:00Speaker 1: said the baby. The baby ain't helped me, bitch. So
- 54:02Speaker 1: I'm not speaking from that experience. I really was when
- 54:04Speaker 1: Kiki said that, and I was like, hold on, bruh,
- 54:07Speaker 1: I remember when that happened. She's like, this clears me up.
- 54:09Speaker 2: And I'm like, I know for a fact he also
- 54:13Speaker 2: doesn't eat gluten, super fucking healthy, right, and was also
- 54:17Speaker 2: back then, And I'm like, I know you had to
- 54:20Speaker 2: access to all the best doctors and now we got
- 54:22Speaker 2: to get pregnant.
- 54:23Speaker 3: Now, no, I'm saying that's why we don't. But I
- 54:26Speaker 3: didn't have to get pregnant. Friend, So let me tell
- 54:28Speaker 3: my goddamn part of the story.
- 54:30Speaker 2: Damn, I ain't speaking for the pregnant bitches. No, Because
- 54:32Speaker 2: you're saying it's money, I don't think you.
- 54:34Speaker 1: I do think it's money.
- 54:35Speaker 2: I do think it's And with the weight loss surgery,
- 54:37Speaker 2: there's just so much foods I can't eat. I don't
- 54:39Speaker 2: eat sweets. I don't eat greasy foods. I don't drink soda.
- 54:42Speaker 2: I don't like sweets at all. I'm a savory bit.
- 54:44Speaker 2: Mandy's holding a big gold by the way, First off,
- 54:46Speaker 2: this is just a cut what's in it?
- 54:49Speaker 4: And it's holding cut water and coconut water healthy, so
- 54:53Speaker 4: kind of healthy.
- 54:54Speaker 1: This is kind of a healthy It's just like when
- 54:56Speaker 1: I do a Molly and I'm like, no, no, no,
- 54:57Speaker 1: I'm drinking water all night. I'm not.
- 55:00Speaker 4: That is not the same, bro, You were not comparing
- 55:03Speaker 4: cut water to molly, Like what it killed Kevin Samuels. What, No,
- 55:09Speaker 4: pussy killed cow? Whoa? No? Wasn't it pussy bad drinks? No,
- 55:13Speaker 4: he talked so much about pussy. Pussy came back for revenge.
- 55:16Speaker 2: No, he talked so much about people's health energy drinks
- 55:20Speaker 2: gave and he really was calling.
- 55:21Speaker 1: Fat woman to take care of your of the cholesterol.
- 55:24Speaker 2: It's crazy because he really actually looked like a very fit, healthy,
- 55:27Speaker 2: handsome man. I don't agree with anything he said, But
- 55:30Speaker 2: that's the crazy part.
- 55:31Speaker 1: You'll be saying some wild shit. Why did I say
- 55:34Speaker 1: that was so crazy? I just want to say it's
- 55:36Speaker 1: wild gear in the comments. What I just want to share. Sure,
- 55:43Speaker 1: I know, don't.
- 55:44Speaker 4: Let's be very clear. Let's be very clear.
- 55:48Speaker 1: The way the way that people want to talk about
- 55:50Speaker 1: our looks like we ain't who he is. That's another thing.
- 55:54Speaker 2: Oh I didn't say it on this pot, so let
- 55:56Speaker 2: me say it too. You want to know what a
- 55:58Speaker 2: backhanded compliment it is? So from our fans, hey, bitches.
- 56:05Speaker 2: I might have said this on Patreon, but I want
- 56:08Speaker 2: to bring it to the main feed songs outside next
- 56:15Speaker 2: to a tall, tenderny nigga. Oh what I gotta say it?
- 56:19Speaker 2: Because bro, our fans are haters.
- 56:22Speaker 4: Too, and we love y'all, but some of y'all, what
- 56:26Speaker 4: is it?
- 56:26Speaker 2: Mad?
- 56:26Speaker 1: Bitches?
- 56:26Speaker 4: Link up, y'all be mad. We live in the life
- 56:28Speaker 4: you want, baby, that's what it is.
- 56:31Speaker 1: You mad.
- 56:31Speaker 4: You ain't stepped into your truth form.
- 56:34Speaker 1: So let me tell you.
- 56:35Speaker 4: When I'm out with a nigga, and I don't on
- 56:39Speaker 4: that nigga's side, whether I'm.
- 56:41Speaker 3: Going to the bathroom or to talk to another nigga
- 56:43Speaker 3: or because me and my homegirl want to do a laugh.
- 56:45Speaker 3: If you see me outside with a man that you
- 56:49Speaker 3: won't because you find them attractive.
- 56:53Speaker 4: Baby, All you gotta do is shoot your shot.
- 56:56Speaker 3: But what you don't gotta do is walk up to
- 56:59Speaker 3: the man and put dirt on my name and let
- 57:01Speaker 3: that nigga know that I'm in the pagan or let
- 57:04Speaker 3: that nigga know that my nickname is pet de Sillon.
- 57:06Speaker 3: That happened bag walk at Bruce's picnic.
- 57:10Speaker 1: Nigga, no.
- 57:12Speaker 4: Party, And mind you, this is a nigga that I'm
- 57:14Speaker 4: known for about fifteen years.
- 57:16Speaker 1: And so you laughing, Bro, this isn't funny and you laugh. Yeah,
- 57:19Speaker 1: I didn't last like this yesterday. Min said dirt on
- 57:22Speaker 1: my name.
- 57:25Speaker 4: Because to me, you going up to say that to
- 57:27Speaker 4: get this nigga to like not be interested. So hold on,
- 57:31Speaker 4: mind you this nigga, don't listen to the pod. He
- 57:33Speaker 4: see all lost weight, He said, I look like a
- 57:35Speaker 4: different bitch. He know me for a long motherfucking time.
- 57:39Speaker 1: He used to like proud of me. Right, So we
- 57:41Speaker 1: go to a party together and we buy each other.
- 57:45Speaker 4: I'm with my homegirl. Th So, nigga, I'm not with
- 57:47Speaker 4: you and I'm I'm fine.
- 57:49Speaker 1: Mind you. All the bitches looking at this nigga, he's
- 57:51Speaker 1: six eleven attract the match. Yeahigga, you know I'm Finela.
- 57:55Speaker 1: Always be with a big niggas.
- 57:57Speaker 3: So we're so we walk in but we're friends. I
- 58:00Speaker 3: go to walk around because I know other niggas at
- 58:02Speaker 3: the party. I'm with my homegirl out.
- 58:04Speaker 1: Of hooked her up with a little little tender brooney.
- 58:07Speaker 1: I'm at the bar. Drinks is free.
- 58:10Speaker 4: I'm like, hey, AI in the building.
- 58:14Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, ship a party one?
- 58:16Speaker 4: You know.
- 58:16Speaker 1: I feel like.
- 58:19Speaker 4: I come back. This nigga lets me know and this
- 58:22Speaker 4: is how I know they fans.
- 58:24Speaker 2: They said, you know who you're with, right, and almost
- 58:28Speaker 2: like start questioning him as to like if he's a
- 58:31Speaker 2: nigga I pay. He was like, it was so weird
- 58:33Speaker 2: because they came up to me to like tell me
- 58:35Speaker 2: what you're do in the bedroom, minu. He didn't know
- 58:37Speaker 2: what No, And mind you, he didn't know this about
- 58:41Speaker 2: me that I don't know.
- 58:43Speaker 1: He's a bitches that lake. I don't know.
- 58:45Speaker 2: But they're a fan because they listen to the podcast.
- 58:46Speaker 2: They know I'm pagging you down, you know what I mean.
- 58:50Speaker 2: He doesn't notice about me. We've never done that before.
- 58:52Speaker 2: He don't listen to my podcast. He just know I
- 58:55Speaker 2: got a podcast.
- 58:57Speaker 1: What this nigga woke up with?
- 58:58Speaker 4: Nah? No, no, no, no, it was another, it was
- 59:01Speaker 4: another that's just a friend of mine.
- 59:04Speaker 1: You know what I mean, y'all could have had them.
- 59:06Speaker 5: I don't want them.
- 59:08Speaker 4: All you had to do was be like, I think
- 59:10Speaker 4: you're a lovely gentleman. Are you with that lady?
- 59:13Speaker 2: He would have said no, and y'all could have talked
- 59:16Speaker 2: and when we walked up we could have all drank
- 59:17Speaker 2: the free drinks together.
- 59:18Speaker 1: You know what, also, we should all point out, does
- 59:21Speaker 1: it ever work out?
- 59:22Speaker 4: You saying you didn't say you saying that you didn't
- 59:24Speaker 4: think nigga?
- 59:25Speaker 1: Yes, they do this. That's crazy to me. That's like
- 59:28Speaker 1: evil rights, It's evil.
- 59:31Speaker 3: You evil bitches. Don't be listening to this podcast as
- 59:35Speaker 3: an evil bitch. Take your ass over to one of
- 59:37Speaker 3: the mother motherfucker podcasts. We are a community over here,
- 59:41Speaker 3: and I don't need you hating on me when I'm
- 59:44Speaker 3: out on the motherfucking outside just trying to look on big.
- 59:49Speaker 1: Shut the Okay, So we're gonna say it never works
- 59:51Speaker 1: out for the bitch that has to call a nigga
- 59:53Speaker 1: and be like she did x y Z. You know how,
- 59:55Speaker 1: I know.
- 59:57Speaker 2: Behind talk to you, every bitch, every everybody that calls
- 1:00:06Speaker 2: my nigger. When we first started dating. It's the bitch
- 1:00:10Speaker 2: she was fucking what he was fucking with me all
- 1:00:11Speaker 2: the bitch she was talking to Oh my god, you
- 1:00:14Speaker 2: the seconds hard. She really did not work out well
- 1:00:18Speaker 2: for yourself.
- 1:00:18Speaker 4: It doesn't work, and you know what, nice shot, I'll
- 1:00:21Speaker 4: stop talking about it, but I'm just saying, like it
- 1:00:24Speaker 4: doesn't work. It's just tacky, like y'all don't have to
- 1:00:27Speaker 4: go up to a nigga and try to throw let
- 1:00:29Speaker 4: me a little sly shit you could do so my
- 1:00:31Speaker 4: nigga didn't tell me once he showed me.
- 1:00:34Speaker 2: I think he was telling me about a girl, and
- 1:00:35Speaker 2: I was like that girl up Debbie wearing neon all
- 1:00:37Speaker 2: the time. Okay, she had a pretty face, but the neon,
- 1:00:39Speaker 2: this is crazy. He literally told me a year later,
- 1:00:42Speaker 2: like I was so mad when you said that shit.
- 1:00:44Speaker 4: I hated her clothes too, but the fact that you
- 1:00:46Speaker 4: brought the clothes up got even bad because I know
- 1:00:48Speaker 4: you see what I see and I know the clothes
- 1:00:49Speaker 4: real bad.
- 1:00:50Speaker 1: Little bitch. You want to take a little.
- 1:00:54Speaker 2: But for you to try to bring this information, think
- 1:00:56Speaker 2: you're gonna be. You didn't do that, like no one
- 1:00:58Speaker 2: care know who you with. You would peg to Styn,
- 1:01:01Speaker 2: you little hating nass bitch. That shit pissed me off.
- 1:01:05Speaker 2: Why you He's like, He's like, you be pegging it.
- 1:01:08Speaker 2: He had no clue and he was like, you think
- 1:01:10Speaker 2: I give a fuck?
- 1:01:11Speaker 3: He was like, he literally said, it was like it
- 1:01:15Speaker 3: was like, man, they asked me if I was gonna
- 1:01:17Speaker 3: tell them I've been over and you pegged me. I
- 1:01:19Speaker 3: don't know, like I don't understand why they were telling
- 1:01:21Speaker 3: me that information. And I said, you know what, cause
- 1:01:24Speaker 3: they're hating ass bitches. I'm mad that we have hate
- 1:01:27Speaker 3: g ass bitches in the Ward High Actually, and when
- 1:01:29Speaker 3: I see who you are, but you will be exiled.
- 1:01:34Speaker 3: That's the only word I can think of.
- 1:01:40Speaker 4: Anyway, We about to get out this motherfucker.
- 1:01:43Speaker 3: Thank y'all so much for tuning in if you haven't yet,
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- 1:02:00Speaker 1: They just get listen.
- 1:02:02Speaker 4: And if you want to listen to sex, damn did
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- 1:02:17Speaker 2: You can get us talking about pussies and dicks and
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- 1:02:24Speaker 2: much for listening to another episode of Decisions.
- 1:02:27Speaker 4: Decisions, and you had a Bible, says host