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- 0:04Speaker 1: Hey, and welcome to the Short Stuff. I'm Josh and
- 0:06Speaker 1: there's Chuck and Jerry sitting in for Dave. So that
- 0:08Speaker 1: makes this short stuff and this is a good one.
- 0:11Speaker 1: I'm pretty excited about it, Chuck, that's right, big thanks
- 0:15Speaker 1: to web md, the National Institute of Health, and then
- 0:20Speaker 1: what Live Science. He found a cool interview from Live Science. Well,
- 0:23Speaker 1: they had a guest post from a guy named doctor
- 0:26Speaker 1: John Growhole. I think that's how you say his name,
- 0:29Speaker 1: but he's CEO and founder of psych Central and Live
- 0:32Speaker 1: Science apparently said doctor grohole, why don't you come over
- 0:36Speaker 1: and write about sleeping on it for us? And he
- 0:39Speaker 1: said sure, and that was one of the sources we used.
- 0:42Speaker 1: I bet it's a grohole. That's what I said. Grohole,
- 0:46Speaker 1: no groal basically roll. Yeah, you're probably right, but I
- 0:50Speaker 1: mean the extra O between the H and the L
- 0:52Speaker 1: is what's throwed me off. But maybe the good doctor
- 0:55Speaker 1: did not say, Chary, I'll do it. Maybe he said, oh,
- 0:58Speaker 1: let me sleep on it and I'll let you know
- 1:00Speaker 1: very nice. What word are we not going to say
- 1:03Speaker 1: in this episode, Chuck, don't grow whole? So um, it
- 1:08Speaker 1: is kind of interesting if you stop and think about it.
- 1:11Speaker 1: I mean, basically all of us have had, if not
- 1:13Speaker 1: by design them, probably by accident, a period where we
- 1:19Speaker 1: were facing some dilemma, some big decision, and we slapped
- 1:23Speaker 1: on it. We slept before making the decision, and after
- 1:26Speaker 1: we slept, it was just way clearer the next day,
- 1:30Speaker 1: and we probably made the right decision from that point on.
- 1:33Speaker 1: That's what everybody calls sleeping on the decision, right, But
- 1:36Speaker 1: why would that actually happen? Like that's an actual, like
- 1:40Speaker 1: a fascinating, amazing component of human life that I just
- 1:45Speaker 1: think is the tops. Yeah, and there's Here's the thing is,
- 1:49Speaker 1: there's more to it than like we all know sleep
- 1:53Speaker 1: is just great for everything, but there's more to it
- 1:57Speaker 1: than like, but it is also this and like, you know,
- 2:01Speaker 1: you shouldn't send that email, that angry email, like sleep
- 2:05Speaker 1: on that sleep on the maybe sleep on the argument
- 2:09Speaker 1: that you're in the middle of having with your significant
- 2:12Speaker 1: other or your friend or whoever. Supposedly not going to
- 2:17Speaker 1: bed angry as a rule is not actually a very
- 2:19Speaker 1: good rule. We go to bed angry all the time
- 2:23Speaker 1: every night, not every night, but man, like you gotta sleep,
- 2:27Speaker 1: and if you're still angry, what are you gonna do? Right?
- 2:30Speaker 1: Exactly like it is for in the morning. We got
- 2:32Speaker 1: to works as out right, but there is more to
- 2:35Speaker 1: it than that, because just human sort of intuition would
- 2:38Speaker 1: tell you that, you know, you get some sleep, you
- 2:41Speaker 1: clear your head out, you make a better decision in
- 2:44Speaker 1: the morning. It just makes sense, but it's it's more
- 2:47Speaker 1: specific than that, right, Yeah, And we should say that
- 2:50Speaker 1: this pretty much applies as far as the research goes
- 2:53Speaker 1: to important, tough, complex decisions, like if you're at a
- 2:57Speaker 1: deli and you're like, should I have roast beef or
- 2:59Speaker 1: past me on rye? And you go and curl up
- 3:02Speaker 1: in the corner for thirty minutes and then wake up
- 3:05Speaker 1: with your answer. It's actually not going to help. You're
- 3:07Speaker 1: probably going to have the same answer. It's complicated decisions
- 3:10Speaker 1: that this works for. And most people say the reason
- 3:14Speaker 1: why is because when we sleep, we organize our memories
- 3:18Speaker 1: and process information during that period, and that we're probably
- 3:22Speaker 1: taking all this different information, new information, connecting it to
- 3:26Speaker 1: old information, cementing these neural pathways so that we understand
- 3:30Speaker 1: it better after we've slept than we understood it before,
- 3:35Speaker 1: and that we can gain clarity from sleeping on a decision.
- 3:38Speaker 1: And that's how that works. Yeah, and they've also found
- 3:42Speaker 1: and this comes from cal Berkeley, from doctor Matthew Walker
- 3:45Speaker 1: that who was a sleep scientist, which I'm fascinated by
- 3:48Speaker 1: that job that you know at getting good sleep helps
- 3:53Speaker 1: you learn, Like that's why you probably learn better, Like
- 3:55Speaker 1: right when after you wake up in the morning, your
- 3:57Speaker 1: morning classes in school, you're sharper than those afternoon classes.
- 4:02Speaker 1: But also that going to sleep after you learn for
- 4:06Speaker 1: reasons that you mentioned is a really big deal, which
- 4:10Speaker 1: led me to my next topic that I'm going to
- 4:13Speaker 1: do for a long form episode, which is napping. Oh okay,
- 4:18Speaker 1: because I think I told you on our super secret
- 4:20Speaker 1: research trip that I've been started taking a daily nap
- 4:23Speaker 1: last year. Yeah, yeah, and then it's been like life changing.
- 4:27Speaker 1: So I really want to know more about why so napping,
- 4:31Speaker 1: and again it has to do I'm sure in a
- 4:34Speaker 1: smaller way the reason a good night's sleep is good
- 4:37Speaker 1: for you. I would think so for sure. So napping
- 4:41Speaker 1: is coming soon, is what I'm saying. Okay, for me personally,
- 4:46Speaker 1: right after I record and then we'll take a breaking
- 4:49Speaker 1: you can take a nap and then we'll come back.
- 4:50Speaker 1: How about that. Okay, let's do it. Okay, Chuck, it's
- 5:18Speaker 1: forty five minutes later. I've been standing here waiting. Well,
- 5:21Speaker 1: I spoke up nap. I feel gratefully this is an
- 5:25Speaker 1: even better episode had you not napped. All right, So
- 5:29Speaker 1: we're moving on to some even more specifics which I
- 5:32Speaker 1: found super, super fascinating about sleeping on it, which is
- 5:38Speaker 1: the way your conscious mind and your unconscious mind works. Right. Yeah.
- 5:42Speaker 1: They think that maybe it doesn't really have much to
- 5:44Speaker 1: do with the actual act of sleeping or cementing memories
- 5:48Speaker 1: or new information, but that while we're sleeping, we're using
- 5:52Speaker 1: unconscious thought rather than conscious thought, and that you could actually,
- 5:57Speaker 1: if this is true, you could do the same thing
- 6:00Speaker 1: um as sleeping on a decision without actually having to
- 6:03Speaker 1: go to sleep, if you can engage an unconscious thought
- 6:07Speaker 1: about it. And that sounds hard, but actually I think
- 6:10Speaker 1: it amounts to, um, just stopping thinking about and chewing
- 6:15Speaker 1: over the decision and going and doing something else, building
- 6:18Speaker 1: a model airplane, doing your tax It's just something else
- 6:21Speaker 1: because while you're doing that, um this this um. The
- 6:24Speaker 1: guy doctor Groholm points out that you um that that
- 6:31Speaker 1: unconscious thought is like not just zoning out, and it's
- 6:34Speaker 1: not not thinking, it's just a different mode of thinking,
- 6:38Speaker 1: and that you're you're still engaging an unconscious thought about
- 6:42Speaker 1: this problem, this dilemma, it's just not in the front
- 6:44Speaker 1: of your mind. And by removing it from the front
- 6:47Speaker 1: of your mind, putting it into unconscious thought, it seems
- 6:50Speaker 1: that that actually can produce really good decisions, just like
- 6:53Speaker 1: sleeping on something can too. Yeah, and it seems like
- 6:57Speaker 1: one of the big reasons why is buy it if
- 7:01Speaker 1: you are And I think this is where where overthinking,
- 7:06Speaker 1: like if you say, oh, you're overthinking it, or if
- 7:08Speaker 1: you think something to death or something uh, that is
- 7:12Speaker 1: that is concentrating so hard on something on a decision
- 7:16Speaker 1: that your biases are creeping in. You're thinking about all
- 7:19Speaker 1: these different angles and you're quite literally just sort of
- 7:22Speaker 1: overdoing it. And apparently when you're just using your unconscious
- 7:26Speaker 1: thought and kind of parking it for a second in
- 7:28Speaker 1: the forefront of your brain, those biases will fade away.
- 7:32Speaker 1: And the way I read it, or at least the
- 7:33Speaker 1: way it feels like in my brain, because I, you know,
- 7:36Speaker 1: try to do this stuff some is it feels like
- 7:38Speaker 1: it just sort of clears the table a little bit
- 7:41Speaker 1: and what's left is what's important. Yeah, because if with
- 7:45Speaker 1: your biases, with your conscious biases, you're you might push
- 7:49Speaker 1: yourself to a bad decision, because that's the one where
- 7:52Speaker 1: you get, like a snickerdoodle cookie, you know, where if
- 7:56Speaker 1: you engage it, I would do a lot for a
- 7:59Speaker 1: snickerdoodle cook but like probably things I should not be
- 8:02Speaker 1: doing if somebody offered a snickerdoodle, Right, But that if
- 8:07Speaker 1: you just engage in unconscious thinking, your brain is like,
- 8:09Speaker 1: snickerdoodle cookie doesn't really matter that much. We're not going
- 8:12Speaker 1: to use that to weight the different factors in the decision.
- 8:16Speaker 1: These are all going to be fairly balanced out because
- 8:19Speaker 1: the biases are removed. So you can essentially step back,
- 8:23Speaker 1: look at all the different components, all the different possible
- 8:25Speaker 1: outcomes pretty much equally on an equal basis, and then say,
- 8:29Speaker 1: this is the one that's obviously the right decision to make.
- 8:32Speaker 1: Even though I'm not getting a Snickerdoodle cookie. I can
- 8:35Speaker 1: go buy a snickerdoodle cookie and still make this correct
- 8:38Speaker 1: decision and have the best of both worlds. I could
- 8:40Speaker 1: have my snick snickerdoodle and eat it too. Oh man,
- 8:43Speaker 1: I knew that's what you're gonna say. Did you sure
- 8:46Speaker 1: you knew me, you know me. It's man, the wheels
- 8:49Speaker 1: are starting to fall off of this brain. I'll tell
- 8:51Speaker 1: you that there has been some study on this as
- 8:54Speaker 1: far as sleeping on it. There was that one that
- 8:57Speaker 1: I guess you found from. Was this from the NIH
- 9:00Speaker 1: or was this web MD? It was doctor grohol that
- 9:04Speaker 1: cited this one. The Okay, let me see if I
- 9:06Speaker 1: can hazard this name dister Hughes Dixterhuse. I think I
- 9:13Speaker 1: nailed it that last time, Dixterhuse, d I j K
- 9:17Speaker 1: S t E R h U I S And I'll
- 9:20Speaker 1: bet during college everybody call them the dixter Oh sure
- 9:24Speaker 1: at parties. Yeah, yeah, I don't know how you pronounce that.
- 9:27Speaker 1: That sounds about right now, Dixterhus. So this was an
- 9:30Speaker 1: experiment where they would try to get results from having,
- 9:35Speaker 1: you know, people sleep on a big decision or just
- 9:39Speaker 1: a decision that's um. I think in this case they
- 9:42Speaker 1: were talking about like choosing apartments, yeah, and like where
- 9:46Speaker 1: to live. I guess. So they would choose these participants,
- 9:51Speaker 1: they would have a few apartments to choose from. They
- 9:54Speaker 1: would describe what's going on in these apartments, of course,
- 9:57Speaker 1: like you would with any movie real estate decision like
- 10:01Speaker 1: it's scutto this one has an extra half baths. That
- 10:04Speaker 1: one has a chalk body outline, that's right, I want
- 10:07Speaker 1: to avoid that one unless that's your thing. Uh. And
- 10:11Speaker 1: after reading these descriptions, they were asked to make their
- 10:14Speaker 1: choice UM following an additional period of conscious thought or
- 10:18Speaker 1: unconscious thought. And as you would expect, the unconscious thinkers,
- 10:23Speaker 1: well this is this is the only part I wonder about.
- 10:25Speaker 1: It has made the better decision than conscious thinkers. But
- 10:30Speaker 1: what's the better decision? Like would they be like, well,
- 10:33Speaker 1: he shows the wrong place clearly. Yeah, now you have
- 10:36Speaker 1: to actually go live in there in reality because that
- 10:39Speaker 1: part is subjective, right, And whether or not that was
- 10:41Speaker 1: the right choice, yeah, I don't know what the what
- 10:44Speaker 1: the criteria was, but clearly something was more desirable than
- 10:48Speaker 1: than others in the apartments, because maybe outline probably was.
- 10:55Speaker 1: But the thing that I saw there was like some
- 10:58Speaker 1: other follow up UM studies or subsections to the study,
- 11:03Speaker 1: and they found that experts as well are subject to
- 11:06Speaker 1: the same thing. Like you could take an expert and
- 11:08Speaker 1: ask them to make a snap decision about something and
- 11:12Speaker 1: they're probably going to make a worse decision than a
- 11:14Speaker 1: non expert who has had time to sleep on it
- 11:17Speaker 1: or engage an unconscious thought about that decision. Interesting, And
- 11:21Speaker 1: you know what that tracks, because I think one of
- 11:24Speaker 1: the traits of what you would call highly successful people
- 11:30Speaker 1: is to be able to make the right decision quickly
- 11:34Speaker 1: and even under duress. Yes, but that is asking for
- 11:39Speaker 1: a lot and a lot of people who say one
- 11:42Speaker 1: of the reasons why sleeping on it or engaging in
- 11:45Speaker 1: unconscious thought is just by virtue of stepping away from
- 11:49Speaker 1: the problem, you are relinquishing the stress of immediacy. You're saying,
- 11:55Speaker 1: I'm not going to make this decision under duress. I'm
- 11:58Speaker 1: going to give myself some time and up away from it,
- 12:01Speaker 1: And you are just automatically taking yourself out of a
- 12:04Speaker 1: stressful situation, and then by virtue of that alone, you're
- 12:07Speaker 1: probably going to make a better decision. So I think
- 12:09Speaker 1: the upshot is is unless someone has a gun to
- 12:12Speaker 1: your head and is telling you to hack into some mainframe,
- 12:15Speaker 1: you can probably step away from the decision. You're probably
- 12:19Speaker 1: putting yourself under undue pressure, and the more likely you
- 12:23Speaker 1: are to do that, the more likely you are to
- 12:25Speaker 1: probably make a better decision than if you just make
- 12:27Speaker 1: a snap one under duress. The only thing I'm going
- 12:30Speaker 1: to disagree with there is that people are a sort
- 12:34Speaker 1: of can ask for and or afforded that luxury because
- 12:38Speaker 1: I think far too many jobs when they don't need
- 12:42Speaker 1: to require immediacy of action that you know, if you're
- 12:48Speaker 1: like can I sleep on it, They're like, this isn't
- 12:50Speaker 1: the job for you? Then? So like, give me an example, Oh,
- 12:53Speaker 1: I mean any big, high stakes, sort of high pressure
- 12:58Speaker 1: upper management stuff. I don't feel like there's a lot
- 13:01Speaker 1: of those people that are. I think the ones that
- 13:03Speaker 1: are maybe truly successful are probably drawing those boundaries and
- 13:07Speaker 1: saying like, no, we should take our time with this decision.
- 13:09Speaker 1: But sure, I feel like a lot of those are like, no,
- 13:11Speaker 1: we need to we need to figure this out and
- 13:13Speaker 1: act on it. That's probably true. I'm not disagreeing with that,
- 13:16Speaker 1: but I'll bet that they That means that the decisions
- 13:19Speaker 1: that are being made at these higher echelons are probably
- 13:23Speaker 1: routinely bad decisions. Well, there may be something anythink about it,
- 13:28Speaker 1: you know, you know, yeah, I want my CEOs to
- 13:31Speaker 1: go sleep on things. That's my that's my game. Yeah,
- 13:35Speaker 1: we should start a new corporation called sleep on It.
- 13:37Speaker 1: That's a great idea. We'll have to edit that out
- 13:40Speaker 1: so nobody steals our idea. It's probably out there already. Okay, well,
- 13:44Speaker 1: well we'll look, we'll do a business search. Okay, Well,
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