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Outwork Everyone – How to Stay Ahead and Stay Focused · Motivational Podcast

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  Speaker 1: Once again, not every message you can outwork anybody. That
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  Speaker 1: has to be in your brain. A lot of people
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  Speaker 1: don't want to go there. It's about what you're saying
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  Speaker 1: to yourself. But it also comes at work. So whenever
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  Speaker 1: I was getting beat down physically, mentally, spiritually, whatever else
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  Speaker 1: going through, just saying you know, I would put you
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  Speaker 1: know you can't hurt me.
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  Speaker 2: If you want to be great, you want to be bad.
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  Speaker 1: Ever at which you do, you can be misunderstood by
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  Speaker 1: everybody because you're gonna be.
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  Speaker 2: So obsessed and so driven to get there.
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  Speaker 3: That's what it takes.
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  Speaker 2: It takes every second of your life.
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  Speaker 1: Anybody says balance, Yeah, balance is important for a lot
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  Speaker 1: of people.
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  Speaker 2: It is.
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  Speaker 1: But if you want to go to that edge where
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  Speaker 1: people do not like you, don't understand you question everything
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  Speaker 1: you do. You've arrived when you are misunderstood to the
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  Speaker 1: point where people think you're psycho and your nuts and
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  Speaker 1: you're this and that. Why are you in the gym
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  Speaker 1: at one o'clock in the morning. You's got through doing
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  Speaker 1: an op for thirteen fourteen hours after ranger school man
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  Speaker 1: at the gym, what's wrong?
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  Speaker 2: You will never understand what is wrong with me?
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  Speaker 1: And That's why I'm so glad you don't, because I'm
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  Speaker 1: in the right spot. When people don't understand you anymore.
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  Speaker 1: You're in that spot of obsession and drive where people
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  Speaker 1: that put the because we don't this guy, I don't
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  Speaker 1: want to talk to you, man, because you're not gonna
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  Speaker 1: get it. Once you we achieve something, we celebrate for
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  Speaker 1: a long years Tom and we wonder.
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  Speaker 2: Why don't I have drive anymore? Where's it all at?
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  Speaker 1: If you don't develop a routine of suffering and suffering,
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  Speaker 1: not like go out and to kill yourself every day.
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  Speaker 2: It's being uncomfortable that keeps you hungry every day. If
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  Speaker 2: you live in your victories for so long. It's saying
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  Speaker 2: I'm gonna go challenge myself.
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  Speaker 1: For thirty days or for two weeks, or run this
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  Speaker 1: one marathon.
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  Speaker 2: It is I did one marathon. Okay. That's why it
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  Speaker 2: leaves you. It leaves you because you.
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  Speaker 1: Haven't set up the next obstacle. Obstacles is how you grow.
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  Speaker 1: You must continue to have friction. Friction is where growth
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  Speaker 1: is at. With no friction, there's no growth.
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  Speaker 3: You have to.
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  Speaker 1: Call yourself out. If you're fat and your stuff. I
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  Speaker 1: want to hear that I don't want to hear you
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  Speaker 1: tap dancing around. And a lot of people don't want
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  Speaker 1: to go there. They don't want to talk about their childhood,
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  Speaker 1: they don't want to talk about their past. They want
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  Speaker 1: to get the rude of the problems. And then they go,
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  Speaker 1: why am I not getting better? Because there's a lot
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  Speaker 1: of shit in there you haven't dealt with.
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  Speaker 2: Brother.
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  Speaker 1: You know, people go to the gym, like, for instance,
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  Speaker 1: going through any kind of special operation school. These people
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  Speaker 1: go to the gym, They get big, they get jacked,
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  Speaker 1: they can run fast, all that, But the only thing
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  Speaker 1: they're doing is they're coding over the mind. All you're
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  Speaker 1: doing is building a bigger, stronger quitter. Your mind hasn't
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  Speaker 1: gotten any stronger because you haven't gone back in there
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  Speaker 1: and dealt with So a second adversity comes, like, my god,
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  Speaker 1: I'm so fit, what's wrong?
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  Speaker 2: Your mind is still soft.
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  Speaker 1: I want to make sure that when I'm dead and gone,
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  Speaker 1: that I ring that wash rag out, and that washrag
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  Speaker 1: is my soul. And I also believe that we're gonna
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  Speaker 1: end up one day meeting a maker if you believe
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  Speaker 1: in one man, and I believe that Maker knows everything
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  Speaker 1: about you, everything about you knows I was gonna be
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  Speaker 1: here and is talking to you.
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  Speaker 2: He knows everything. But you also have a choice to make.
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  Speaker 2: You have a choice to make. You have choices.
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  Speaker 1: And one thing that scares me to death in my
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  Speaker 1: life is getting to heaven and not being what I'm
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  Speaker 1: supposed to be. And I believe that God has a
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  Speaker 1: charte and he looks at the chart and he's puts
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  Speaker 1: it in front of you and get to heaven and
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  Speaker 1: says say, this is what you're supposed to be. And
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  Speaker 1: one of my biggest fears in life was to see
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  Speaker 1: that chart and not have every block checked off.
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  Speaker 2: You know, I want to make sure that I'm.
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  Speaker 1: Constantly pursuing whatever it is I'm pursuing just to be
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  Speaker 1: the best, just constantly grinding myself into a fine powder.
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  Speaker 3: We have to be.
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  Speaker 1: I'm a constant reminder, almost like how you put reminding
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  Speaker 1: your phone fifteen minutes.
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  Speaker 2: You got this that has to be in your brain.
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  Speaker 2: You've done too much.
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  Speaker 1: Stop. And what happens in life is that we start
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  Speaker 1: to see our lives becoming so successful. We're making money,
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  Speaker 1: We're doing this, We're doing that. I want more, I
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  Speaker 1: want more, I push harder. I'm all about pushing hard.
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  Speaker 3: Don't get me wild, I'm all about it.
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  Speaker 2: But to push as hard as you can, you have
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  Speaker 2: to be mindful of the machine that's pushing.
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  Speaker 1: It is going to end uth dying, and then it
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  Speaker 1: takes years to get it back.
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  Speaker 2: So you lose that time. That time is gone.
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  Speaker 1: You know, I lost five years I could be crushing
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  Speaker 1: it where now I'm just now back to crushing it.
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  Speaker 2: Realizing God Man, I learned the hard way. Let's release sometimes.
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  Speaker 3: One way to learn.
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  Speaker 4: I found most people don't know who they are.
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  Speaker 3: They really don't.
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  Speaker 4: You ask the average person who they are, they'll give
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  Speaker 4: you their name. They'll say I'm Bob Proctor, but I'm
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  Speaker 4: not Bob and Procter are two words my parents given
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  Speaker 4: them to me. They're called names, but it's not me.
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  Speaker 4: It's my name. Then somebody will say, well, this is me,
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  Speaker 4: but this isn't me either. It's my body. Like you
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  Speaker 4: never phone down here to the studio and say, body
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  Speaker 4: won't be in today, it's sick. You know, we don't
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  Speaker 4: say m han duram legg. It's my hand, my leg,
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  Speaker 4: my body, my name. Who am I? Well, that's an
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  Speaker 4: interesting question, and I believe it. A person will start
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  Speaker 4: to study that and look for the answer, they'll find it. See,
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  Speaker 4: I think we live simultaneously on three planes of understanding.
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  Speaker 4: For spiritual creatures, we have an intellect and we live
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  Speaker 4: in physical bodies. But because we lack awareness or understanding
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  Speaker 4: of who we are, we're totally locked into a physical
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  Speaker 4: world and we let things outside of us control us.
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  Speaker 4: Percent of the population are reacting to life. They're not
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  Speaker 4: really living at all. Success is a funny word. Nightingale
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  Speaker 4: had a great definition for it. He said, a person
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  Speaker 4: successful if they know where they are and they know
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  Speaker 4: where they're going, and they're progressively moving in that direction.
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  Speaker 3: He said that success was the progressive.
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  Speaker 4: Realization of a worthy ideal. Anyone that has a goal
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  Speaker 4: and they're moving towards it, they're successful. Most people think
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  Speaker 4: that you're successful if you have a lot of money.
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  Speaker 4: Quite often you have a lot of money if you're successful,
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  Speaker 4: But it isn't. I wouldn't say mother Teresa.
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  Speaker 3: Has a lot of money, but.
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  Speaker 4: She's a pretty successful lady.
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  Speaker 1: The impact of what happened in the world is for
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  Speaker 1: everybody to be able to face who they are. I'm
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  Speaker 1: gonna have that kind of impact where you can go
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  Speaker 1: on TV you can put your life on a billboard.
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  Speaker 1: You're not ashamed of who you are. You're not ashamed
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  Speaker 1: of what life made you, what you helped life make you.
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  Speaker 2: All that shit, all that.
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  Speaker 1: Badge that's now in this big pot that's stirring, you're
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  Speaker 1: no longer ashamed of it.
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  Speaker 2: You realize we're all up.
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  Speaker 1: Stop judging yourself against other people who are hidden.
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  Speaker 3: It better than you.
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  Speaker 1: It's all they've done, They've mastered better than you have,
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  Speaker 1: and now they're flipping it back on you and saying
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  Speaker 1: you're dumb. I want you to realize that this world
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  Speaker 1: life is one big head game, and once you learn
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  Speaker 1: to play the head game, it's no longer game anymore
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  Speaker 1: at all.
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  Speaker 5: See, if you're playing it safe, you're not gonna win it.
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  Speaker 5: If you're playing at safe like that old sake, better
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  Speaker 5: to be safe than sorry, Well that's a bunch of crap.
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  Speaker 3: It's not better to be safe than sorry.
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  Speaker 5: It's by trying things that you figure out how far
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  Speaker 5: you can go.
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  Speaker 3: You got to get outside the box.
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  Speaker 5: Like it's reported Edison tried three thousand ways before he
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  Speaker 5: built the incandescent light. He said he didn't fail three
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  Speaker 5: thousand times. He said there was three thousand different steps
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  Speaker 5: to building a light bulb. Well, there's different steps to
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  Speaker 5: get to where you're going.
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  Speaker 3: And I really do.
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  Speaker 5: Treat winning and losing exactly the same.
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  Speaker 3: I do not let it upset me. The idea of
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  Speaker 3: losing never enters my mind. See, I have worked with giants.
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  Speaker 5: I had the good fortune of working with Sir Edmund Hillary.
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  Speaker 5: He was the first man to stand on top of
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  Speaker 5: the world. And I worked with him on three different occasions.
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  Speaker 5: And the only difference in ed Hillary and Bob Proctor
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  Speaker 5: is in his side.
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  Speaker 3: Now he's gone now.
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  Speaker 5: But he was a big man, and he shook hands
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  Speaker 5: with me, his hand wrapped right around mine.
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  Speaker 3: I felt like a dwarf, you know.
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  Speaker 5: And in talking to him like it never entered his mind.
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  Speaker 3: He wouldn't get to the top of the mountain.
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  Speaker 5: But he failed in nineteen fifty one, he failed in
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  Speaker 5: nineteen fifty two. It wasn't until nineteen fifty three that he.
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  Speaker 3: Got to the top of the mountain.
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  Speaker 5: Now, people had died for centuries trying to do that.
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  Speaker 5: He said, I know, if I could see it in.
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  Speaker 3: Here, I got to hold it out here. You can
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  Speaker 3: see it in your head, you can hold it in
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  Speaker 3: your hand, and that's right.
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  Speaker 5: And if you're not prepared to lose, you're never going
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  Speaker 5: to win because you're always playing it safe and there's
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  Speaker 5: no there's no rewarding that.
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  Speaker 1: Everything I didn't want to do is what got me
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  Speaker 1: to wear I'm at today. I believe all us humans
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  Speaker 1: have an equation like you know, pious three point one four.
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  Speaker 1: That's how you solve for that equation. Every human being
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  Speaker 1: has a different equation. And there's not like some cookie
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  Speaker 1: cutter book of hey, read this book and you'll be fixed. Nah,
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  Speaker 1: you gotta figure out your own personal equation.
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  Speaker 2: And once you figure out that equation, you now
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  Speaker 1: Become a mathematical genius about yourself.