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YEAR END DEBRIEF - QUESTION 2 · Good Morning From The Chicken Coop!

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  Welcome to the good morning from the chicken coop, podcast with
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  Kim Johnson, your creative strategist and master mindset.
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  Coach filled with inspiration, distinctions, perspectives and
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  possibilities. We help you to cultivate a
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  mindset that leads you to create the best version of yourself.
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  You could ever imagine join Kim every morning from one of her.
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  Favorite happy places her chicken coop, along with all her
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  chickens. Hey everybody.
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  Good morning from My office. I mean, like have you never
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  heard me say that? Good morning from my office.
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  It is dark. It is pouring.
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  And I'm not sure when that Sun is going to come up.
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  So that the girls can come out and I didn't want to wait, too
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  long to put this up. So, we're working in my office
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  today. Anyway, today is day, 2 of
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  questions to wrap up the year and today's question is always a
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  fun one for me to ask myself, How do you need to shift to make
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  things different, in blank, like, whatever, whatever the
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  situation may be? In this case, it's going to be
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  in 2023. So, again, the question is, how
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  do you need to shift in order to make things different in 2023?
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  So often we get hung up on the fact that something around us
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  has to change. In order for situations to
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  change externally, when it's the exact opposite, we have to be
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  the ones that change. We have to be the ones that But
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  we have to be the ones that make something different and then,
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  our external World changes. It's a, it's a fact that so hard
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  to grasp mentally because we often think, okay, if I just get
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  this, then this will be different or if I just can make
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  this happen, then this will be different.
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  And we look for all these purposeful things to happen
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  outside of ourselves, but it's never that I promise you.
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  It's For that, it's always an inside change.
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  Change is an inside job and changes something that you have
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  to work at every single day. It's hard to shift your
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  behaviors. It's hard to change your
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  mindset. It is just in general hard work
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  and the more you look to do it, the better off you become.
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  You stop looking to other people to have the power over you and
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  see. This is where it gets so tricky
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  because everyone thinks well you know, I it's not just us.
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  To me, it's up to other people and it's like, no, the moment
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  you give it up to other people, you give up all your power, you
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  give up everything in that moment.
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  Because when you were in charge of your perspective, when you
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  were in charge of what you think, when you were in charge
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  of your actions, nobody has power over.
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  You, somebody said to me the other day about their that they
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  don't like their job and they were complaining about their
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  job. So I said, well, you got to
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  think about this differently. Go and Take that take the power
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  back and they said, what do you mean take the power back, I said
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  instead of complaining about the job, put your resume together,
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  instead of complaining, about your job, go and grab a
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  Squarespace site that you can put your little quick website up
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  for yourself, so you can drive traffic to it.
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  Go get an electronic business card, start sending it out to
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  people. Go talk to your friends who
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  might know people that can recommend you to go to a
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  different job. Go hire a Headhunter I said
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  looking in less than 30 seconds, I gave you a bunch of accent.
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  Actions that you can do to take back the power.
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  And the answer was I don't think there's anything available in my
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  field, talk about a self-defeating prophecy right
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  there. It's because I will promise you
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  that, when you start to shift your internal world, everything
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  externally, shifts included, having work, show up, including
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  having opportunities show up, including having people in your
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  world show up that will help you get to the point.
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  You want to be at but because you don't make the shift
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  internally and you don't change whatever it is that you need to
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  change in order to make something different.
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  Nothing changes if we don't change nothing changes so it
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  always comes back to us shifting.
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  So that's why this question is so important.
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  What do you have to shift in yourself or have to do for
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  yourself in order to make something else happen that
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  people? Peace is so critical and looking
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  at it and just being honest and saying, okay, well even if you
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  just changed a little tiny bit, it doesn't it, I promise it will
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  change everything externally. So what do you need to shift in
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  order to make things different in 2023?
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  Keep asking yourself the question.
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  The best part of it is sometimes when you put it on a piece of
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  paper and you go, okay, what do I need to shift to make things
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  different in? Whatever it might be, I put
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  20:23. But you can put whatever in
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  blank and you start asking the question over and over and over,
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  you will come up with a list of things that will help you get to
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  that goal. I it never fails.
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  I promise it never fails. But you have to be honest with
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  yourself, you got to say. Hey, listen II.
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  Don't have a lot of patience. I'm a little bit of a nudge when
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  it comes to certain things, I like my perfectionism too much.
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  I've got to ditch that because that's not serving me, you know,
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  look, Honestly at the stuff that needs to shift and then you will
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  get there. So, ask the question asked, the
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  question asked the question over and over and over.
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  How do you need to shift to make something different in 2023?
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  How do you need to shift to make things different in 2023?
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  All right, my friends. I hope you have a blessed day
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  and I hope it's a dry day, wherever you are, although I
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  think it's cold and most of this country today.
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  So stay warm. ERM and I will see you all
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  tomorrow and have a blessed day. Goodbye.