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- 0:04Welcome to another edition of Inspired Stories, where leaders
- 0:07share their experiences so we can learn from their successes,
- 0:10how they've overcome adversity, and explore current challenges
- 0:13they're facing. Welcome to another edition of
- 0:18the Inspired Stories podcast, where leaders share their
- 0:21experiences so we can learn from their successes and be inspired
- 0:24by how they've overcome adversity.
- 0:26My name is Anthony Kotaspodi, and today's guest is Amber Jane,
- 0:30founder of the Loving Start learning Center, a daycare with
- 0:33two locations just outside of Sacramento and Cameron Park in
- 0:37Auburn, CA. They take care of kids from
- 0:40infant through kindergarten, and they'll soon be offering
- 0:42franchise opportunities for their daycare.
- 0:45Their website is Loving Start learningcenter.com.
- 0:48She has written a book called The ABC's of Preschool, where
- 0:51she equips preschool educators to find their own success.
- 0:54She has a podcast by the same name, The AB CS, a Preschool
- 0:58podcast where she covers all things from parenting to
- 1:01childcare and how to not just survive, but to thrive in the
- 1:04early years. And she runs an Academy where
- 1:07she provides a variety of courses to parents, educators,
- 1:10directors and owners. Information about this Academy
- 1:13can be found at the Loving startway.com.
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- 1:45Now back to our guest today, the CEO and Founder of The Loving
- 1:49Start Way. Amber, I appreciate you making
- 1:51the time to Share your story today.
- 1:53Yeah, thank you so much for having me.
- 1:55OK, so let's go back to the very beginning.
- 1:58How did you first get started in the early education space?
- 2:01What's the origin story here? I always loved kids.
- 2:04I was the neighborhood babysitter.
- 2:06I was that 10 year old with like Flyers and I would babysit kids
- 2:10in the neighborhood. And I got married young at 19.
- 2:14And so I just got into the career.
- 2:15I started teaching preschool when I was 19 years old and got
- 2:21married at 19. And I had my first son at 22 and
- 2:26thought I was going to be this stay at home mom and I was going
- 2:30to bake cupcakes and just love it being a homemaker and it's
- 2:36not cut out for everybody. And so my whole dream of staying
- 2:39at home kind of went out the window in about four months.
- 2:43I loved my son, but I just knew I needed more.
- 2:46And so that's where the idea came of opening my own.
- 2:49But I've always loved kids. And I knew, you know, having
- 2:53kids, teaching kids was my future.
- 2:56I'm curious, when you were going through that period of the first
- 3:00four months of being the stay at home mom that you thought you
- 3:02always wanted to be, and then realizing that maybe that wasn't
- 3:06exactly how you were wired, that you were going to need something
- 3:09else, something in addition to that, Was this a difficult
- 3:12transition? I remember when my wife first
- 3:15stayed home with our first son, she had a lot of feelings of
- 3:18guilt that she wanted to go back to work.
- 3:21I'm curious what your personal experience was like.
- 3:23Yeah, it was really tough for me.
- 3:25I, you know, for years had this vision of myself as a full time
- 3:31stay at home mom and I was a really great mom, but I just, I,
- 3:36I didn't like doing all the things every day the same.
- 3:39And so, yeah, I had a really big transition, but I think I just
- 3:43accepted it. I'm glad I accepted that sooner
- 3:46than later, that that was part of me, that I just wasn't as
- 3:49fulfilled. So I mean, I just went to work
- 3:52at like a part time daycare and I got to bring my son with me.
- 3:55So I always incorporated my job, my work, opening up my own
- 4:00school so I could have my kids with me.
- 4:03A part of, you know, I was still being mom and I still got to
- 4:08work. And I think that was like the
- 4:09best of both worlds for me. And I think as women in general,
- 4:14and it's really unfortunate, but I think a lot of times you have
- 4:17either the working moms or the stay at home moms and we need to
- 4:20like break that cycle because everybody has to just do life
- 4:25the best way for them, you know, and it's okay, Either is fine
- 4:29and our kids are going to be great and survive.
- 4:32If whether you're a working parent or a stay at home parent,
- 4:35you know it's all a personal choice.
- 4:37Yeah, that was one of the things that was a challenge for me to
- 4:40try to help my wife through was this doesn't make you a bad
- 4:43mother, doesn't make you a bad person, just means that you
- 4:46understand what you want in life, which is fantastic.
- 4:49And so, you know, go for that. And fortunately, we have great
- 4:53child care centers around us that, you know, allowed for her
- 4:56to go back to work and have our kids be taken care of, you know,
- 5:00during their early years when when we needed that.
- 5:02So OK, so you you have sort of this difficult sort of
- 5:06transition, but then you go into and you're working at a child
- 5:10care center, you're able to take your child with you.
- 5:13And so how did it progress from there into opening your own
- 5:16center? I always say it's like a little
- 5:19seed of an idea. I, I taught preschool for four
- 5:23years prior to that and I liked a lot of stuff about it, but I
- 5:28really didn't like the management stuff.
- 5:30I didn't like how schools, the schools I worked at were
- 5:33handled. I didn't like how leadership
- 5:35treated people. I don't know when this idea came
- 5:39into my brain, but I was like, I'm going to start my own
- 5:41school. And I didn't have hundreds of
- 5:43thousands of dollars. You know, I'm 22 at this point.
- 5:47And my husband was like, you know, 24.
- 5:49So we took a home equity line out of our house.
- 5:55We did own our own home. And I wanted to build a
- 5:58classroom onto my house. I didn't want a home daycare.
- 6:02I didn't want like, kids running around my house.
- 6:04I didn't want toys everywhere. I already had my own son.
- 6:07I was pregnant with my second and so I had this idea of
- 6:12building a classroom onto our house and starting a preschool.
- 6:16And I remember sitting at the kitchen table just crunching
- 6:19numbers. And it took me a couple years to
- 6:21get to those numbers. But just something inside me
- 6:25said I could do this. I didn't know what
- 6:27entrepreneurship was. I didn't even know like, even
- 6:30under the understand concepts of even owning your own business
- 6:33because that's not how I was raised.
- 6:34I was raised with a dad who worked at a chemical plant, you
- 6:39know, four days on, four days off and worked for a company.
- 6:43And so I just didn't know anything about owning my own
- 6:45business. But I knew I loved kids.
- 6:48I knew I loved teaching preschool and I knew I wanted my
- 6:51kids to be near me. And so that's where this idea
- 6:54came. Loving start came about.
- 6:58And I actually started it right after 911.
- 7:03It was crazy. 9/11 happened and I had an open house.
- 7:08I started October 1st of that year.
- 7:11So it was so you know, life was crazy then.
- 7:14It was very uncertain and I remember while the classroom was
- 7:18billing being built, I had this little mini classroom.
- 7:21I had bulletin boards, tables and chairs.
- 7:23I mean it was a school. I had curriculum, all of it and
- 7:28there were four little families there.
- 7:30I had two kids who were paying and two kids who were free
- 7:33because you can't start a school with two kids.
- 7:37And so you just wanted to help fill it up, make it?
- 7:39Look, yeah, I needed to fill it up and.
- 7:42But by spring, that was October. So by April, I had 48 students
- 7:46and the classroom was built. Yeah.
- 7:49And I had two. In the classroom that you built
- 7:51onto your home. Total, So I had like a Monday,
- 7:54Wednesday, Friday program, a Tuesday, Thursday.
- 7:57I had morning and afternoon classes going on and I had my
- 8:00first two employees so and I was like pregnant with my second.
- 8:05So I was 20, four, 2323 1/2, yeah.
- 8:09So for somebody with no entrepreneurial background, it
- 8:12sounds like nobody to kind of model yourself after you just
- 8:15jumped in with two feet. I totally did.
- 8:17And you know, the Internet wasn't really, It was just
- 8:20beginning way back there. I'm aging myself.
- 8:23But yeah, it's a lot of trial and error and you know, it's
- 8:26going with your passion. Like I was just passionate about
- 8:30creating a high quality childcare.
- 8:32I just, I wanted to create a school that I wanted my kids to
- 8:35attend. And so that's how I rolled.
- 8:39I just wanted cooking and art and music.
- 8:41And so that was my little beginnings.
- 8:44And I never would have imagined it would, you know, 24, almost
- 8:4824 years later, we like today was one of my school's first day
- 8:52of school. I think it's the 24th year,
- 8:55yeah, of loving Start learning centers.
- 8:56So yeah. So what was it that you were
- 9:00committed to doing differently than the experiences that you
- 9:03had seen prior? I wanted to be a really good
- 9:08boss. I didn't understand the impact
- 9:10yet that I could make for other people's lives.
- 9:12Like I was just learning as I went, but I really wanted to
- 9:17make a huge impact on other women.
- 9:20And I think that's been one of my biggest.
- 9:24I'm the most proud of I've been able to be there for a lot of my
- 9:29staff over the years and created a lot of jobs and my program
- 9:34itself. I wanted to be different in this
- 9:36sense where here I am a new mom, but I think all the philosophies
- 9:41in early childhood education are amazing and I now have 4 kids.
- 9:45They are all adults now. My youngest just turned 18 in
- 9:48June. And each of them learn
- 9:51differently and experience the world differently.
- 9:53And so I wanted to create a program to that celebrates every
- 9:58child's uniqueness. And I throw in all the different
- 10:02philosophies, all the different ways of teaching and learning
- 10:05because not all children are Montessori based or not all, you
- 10:10know, kids need play based. So those are just some of the
- 10:13ways I wanted to be different. And it's it's worked.
- 10:17It's worked really, really well. And we want to meet the needs
- 10:19for every student. So yeah.
- 10:22Say more about how you wanted to be a really good boss.
- 10:26Yeah. For your employees.
- 10:28I was not cheated, treated very well.
- 10:31I remember one of my jobs, one of my last teaching jobs for
- 10:35someone else, the the manager, the director was just really
- 10:40rude, really mean, very disrespectful.
- 10:44I wanted to change that and I wanted to be, you know, this
- 10:48field is predominantly, it's probably 98% women and I wanted
- 10:53to be able to try to switch up a pattern and I wanted to be a
- 10:58transparent person for women who I wanted to be a person who
- 11:02lifts people up. So that has been like at the
- 11:04core of our schools lifting each other up.
- 11:08If there's issues talking to each other face to face.
- 11:12And I am a firm believer. I tell this to all my clients
- 11:16who come in and two or my school, my staff comes first,
- 11:20then my clients, because if my teachers are not happy, if
- 11:24they're not fulfilled, if they're not waking up with joy
- 11:27in their heart in the morning and excited, I know we all don't
- 11:30want to work. We can all all just want to lay
- 11:32on a beach, right? But we all have jobs.
- 11:35So I want them to wake up loving their job and just little things
- 11:39like every month we do, I do gift bags at the the first day
- 11:44of every month just to celebrate the new theme, the new month.
- 11:47We do lots of staff socials. We do wine like the wine bus at
- 11:51the end of the year cause preschools teachers we love our
- 11:54wine. Everybody needs a good release.
- 11:58Yeah, so it's really about community and and culture of a
- 12:03family. Like I truly believe they're an
- 12:05extension of family. That's terrific.
- 12:08Yeah. You know, one of the favorite
- 12:10questions I like to ask on this podcast is it's a tight labor
- 12:13market. You know, it's hard to retain
- 12:15and recruit good folks. And, you know, what do you do?
- 12:18And you just, you know, rattle off a, you know, a nice list of
- 12:21things there that you do to make folks feel welcome and part of
- 12:25the family and staff first, clients 2nd.
- 12:28Absolutely. And and this business too,
- 12:30there's so much turnover. There is a high amount of
- 12:34turnover and there's, you know, with preschool and daycare,
- 12:38there's I just, I had a pep talk with my staff today.
- 12:41We were at my other school, we were doing our kickoff breakfast
- 12:44and there's always a ceiling in childcare because we can't
- 12:49enroll, you know, 300 kids. We there's only a certain amount
- 12:52of space. There's only a certain amount of
- 12:55kids that we can enroll. So there's always kind of like a
- 12:58ceiling in this business, a cap. And so it's really important to
- 13:03treat, you know, your team with kindness and grace.
- 13:08And so we give a lot of time off to a lot of them.
- 13:11Our moms, you know, they have their own kids, their own
- 13:13family. So, you know, even for my child
- 13:16care centers, we we follow the school district.
- 13:19So when this the normal public schools are closed, we're closed
- 13:23too. So my girls are getting time
- 13:25off. Yeah.
- 13:25So they get they almost, it's about 28 days from August
- 13:31through May that we have closure days that they have time off.
- 13:35And then I have loyalty bonuses. So I have people 14 years with
- 13:39me, 1312, yeah, like a really, really long time.
- 13:44So most of my team members stay when they're when I have the
- 13:48right team. Like I opened a new school a
- 13:51year ago and it takes about eight months, nine months to
- 13:54like, you know, people come in, you throw people out.
- 13:57They're not your brand. They're not, you know, they're
- 14:00just not the right fit. But once I find my team, I try
- 14:03to, they hold on to them. Usually they leave when they get
- 14:06pregnant, OK. And they start their own
- 14:09families. So that's a typical thing, you
- 14:12know, or And they might come back in a couple years when
- 14:14their little ones are old enough to be at our school.
- 14:16So. Yeah.
- 14:18Lots of good stuff there. I'm curious to hear more about
- 14:23the franchising opportunities that are coming.
- 14:25Yeah, I'm really excited. I had this guy pursue me for
- 14:30eight years. He has begged me to franchise
- 14:32for eight years. He's flown out to see me
- 14:34multiple times. But I went through a really
- 14:36horrible divorce and just wasn't time in my life.
- 14:39And I had brain surgery two years ago, which is crazy in
- 14:43itself. Yeah.
- 14:44And I woke up and first thought was I'm alive, thank goodness.
- 14:49And then I just realized it's time for me to pursue these
- 14:56bigger dreams, right? Anytime we start a business or
- 14:59anytime we change a job or anything new in life, it's
- 15:02scary. It's taking a chance.
- 15:04So I've had these really big dreams of going nationwide for a
- 15:08really long time. And again, I it falls back to
- 15:11high quality child care. I just think we need more
- 15:16loving, kind, amazing early childhood educators out there
- 15:20and we need more high quality child care centers.
- 15:24And I think we also need people talking more about early
- 15:27childhood. So yes, I've been working for
- 15:30the last almost two years. We are on our final document.
- 15:35It will be filed with the state of California probably the next
- 15:38three weeks and then we'll be ready to roll.
- 15:41So I've literally created a whole platform.
- 15:45This is going to be the first time ever that a child care
- 15:50franchise. I have three different models
- 15:52because I want it to be obtainable for anyone and
- 15:56everyone. You know, I was this stay at
- 15:58home mom who wanted to start providing for my family and who
- 16:02wanted a job. And it turned into something so
- 16:04beautiful for me that, you know, to be honest, I was able to
- 16:10leave almost a 20 year marriage that was very unhealthy for me.
- 16:14But I got to leave and I got to stand on my own 2 feet.
- 16:17I got to buy my own house because of my business.
- 16:20So I, I am so excited. We're going to be doing a home
- 16:25model franchise version. So if, you know, like a stay
- 16:29first stay at home moms or people that maybe not like they
- 16:31don't like their job, we're going to do a home version
- 16:33because I ran very successful for nine years from my home and
- 16:39that's moving to different cities.
- 16:40Like I moved around and I always just bought a house where I
- 16:45could see the vision of a classroom.
- 16:46And so we're going to have a home version, a small school
- 16:49version and then like the big commercial version.
- 16:51So I'm really, I'm so excited about it.
- 16:55I just like helping other people, you know, get to their
- 16:59dreams too. So yeah.
- 17:02So why was this person pursuing you for so long to to franchise?
- 17:06What? What did he see?
- 17:08He saw something in me, and he keeps telling me he's like, you
- 17:13just have no idea what's about to come.
- 17:15So I don't know. He didn't give up.
- 17:17And, you know, two weeks after I had my surgery, when I decided
- 17:19in my head, I didn't say anything.
- 17:21Of course, his name is Harry. I get an e-mail from Harry
- 17:26again, and he's like, hey there, Are you ready?
- 17:30And I was like, yes, He's like what I said, I, I it's it's
- 17:35time. And it was eight years of just
- 17:38little nudges along the way. And he just, he's believed in me
- 17:43and saw something and saw my schools.
- 17:47Yeah. I was on the phone with him
- 17:48today. We, we, we meet weekly.
- 17:50So yeah, we're just really excited.
- 17:53Yeah. So here.
- 17:54We are Harry has experience in franchising different concepts
- 17:58and so. I mean, I 30 some years he's
- 18:03extraordinary, yeah. And his whole team has been
- 18:06extraordinary. And yeah, so here we go.
- 18:11And tell me what is the difference between the small
- 18:13school version and the commercial version?
- 18:15Like for context, do you have a small school or do you have a
- 18:19commercial? Version, yeah.
- 18:20So we'll have the home version which will be in home.
- 18:25And then model B&C really are commercial, both are commercial.
- 18:29We just have like, so for me right now, I have a school in
- 18:33Auburn, CA that is a large, pretty large center.
- 18:36We have about 100 and some kids every day on site.
- 18:41And then I have a school in Cameron Park, CA which is really
- 18:44small. We have about 45 kids.
- 18:46So but both are commercial. So anytime someone wants to open
- 18:51up a childcare center, it it is commercial unless it's in your
- 18:54home. And so it's different, you know,
- 18:57restrictions and qualifications for for both, but when it's in
- 19:00your home, it's way more lenient in a way of the qualifications
- 19:06for the your state. It's an easier way to get
- 19:09started. You're it's an easier starting a
- 19:10small. Business for the first time
- 19:12there's. Less.
- 19:13Capital less. Overhead less.
- 19:14Risk less risk. And the beautiful thing is, you
- 19:19know, a lot of big box companies are so rigid, right?
- 19:23Like, and I, I was telling Harry this whole time, I'm like, I
- 19:26don't want to be like all the normal big box childcare centers
- 19:30where they just hand curriculum to their teachers.
- 19:33Everything's printed. It feels cold.
- 19:35So each site we're going to have an outline of like the vibe, how
- 19:39it looks, how you run it overall.
- 19:42But you know, we really want people to have the freedom.
- 19:44If they really like science or if they're really into
- 19:47gardening, go for that, you know, like that's your
- 19:49specialty. So we're just laying the
- 19:51foundation for everybody and all the things that have worked.
- 19:56You know, I had to took me years to figure out so much, right?
- 19:59And now I just took it out all out of my brain with the book
- 20:03and the program that we're about to launch.
- 20:05And you know, we're just excited to come alongside people and
- 20:08support them. That's exciting.
- 20:11Where can people go to find out more information or to know when
- 20:15this will actually be available? Yeah, they can keep going to the
- 20:17Loving startway.com. The Loving startway.com is kind
- 20:21of like we have our schools, but this is the kind of like the
- 20:24national brand that we're moving towards.
- 20:27There's just a small blurb because legally I can't quite
- 20:32start marketing it. So but the loving startway.com
- 20:36will have information. There is like a, there is like
- 20:39you can get information now like, hey, I might be
- 20:42interested. And then when it's legal, you
- 20:45know, my lawyers, it's almost there.
- 20:48So we're almost there ready to be able to like really say here
- 20:52it is. Terrific.
- 20:53Well, I look forward to hearing more updates about that.
- 20:56But if you're comfortable talking about I'd, I'd like to
- 20:59hear more about some of these challenges that you went through
- 21:03that got you to this point going through a, a rough divorce, you
- 21:07know, getting out of an unhealthy relationship and you
- 21:10had brain surgery. And I don't know sort of the,
- 21:13yeah, the chronology of those, but those are two pretty huge
- 21:17life events. I also had breast cancer at 31.
- 21:19Oh, my goodness. Yeah.
- 21:21So here's another. Yeah.
- 21:22I like to always say this to any human right.
- 21:26We It's so easy for us to get on the hamster wheel of work.
- 21:31It's so easy for us to work, work, work over schedule
- 21:36ourselves. I think part of my learning for
- 21:40the first decade of running my own schools and being a mom and
- 21:44I wanted to be the best mom and the volunteer and I, you know, I
- 21:48wanted to do everything. Yet there was a lot of things
- 21:51going on behind the scenes. I think a lot of us wear a mask.
- 21:55A lot of times we wear this mask and everything is just perfect.
- 21:59But on the inside, I was struggling with perfectionism.
- 22:03I was struggling in a really unhealthy marriage.
- 22:05People didn't see holes in the walls that were in my bedroom.
- 22:10And I think that stress, I truly believe the stress of all of it.
- 22:16And my coping mechanism was never like a drinker.
- 22:20My coping mechanism was to be busy because that's how I felt
- 22:24love and if I could stay busy and if I could accomplish this.
- 22:28And I loved hearing like, I don't know how you do it all.
- 22:30You run your schools, you have your kids and you're
- 22:32volunteering and you're at the school auction and you're doing
- 22:35logistics. I loved hearing all of that, but
- 22:38I was so burnt out. So at 31, I was diagnosed with
- 22:41breast cancer, which was super hard.
- 22:45Obviously I had no family history.
- 22:49So I've had multiple health things along the way.
- 22:53And so I've really had to learn I life is too short, right?
- 22:58And so sometimes we have to pause and think like, what are
- 23:01our goals, our goals to work non-stop?
- 23:03And so we're just exhausted and, and why, why is that?
- 23:07So I left my marriage finally at, you know, almost 20 years.
- 23:12I took a sabbatical. So I work on my business, not in
- 23:15my business anymore. I have an amazing team.
- 23:20And yeah, so with the divorce and the brain was just a random
- 23:26that just happened two years ago.
- 23:28I was having these really weird symptoms and it wasn't like I
- 23:30was stressed or anything. I I'm a very, everything is
- 23:33very, I take a lot of vacation now.
- 23:36I take a lot of breaks. I'm happily remarried, very,
- 23:42very happy and to a pilot. So we travel the world pretty
- 23:46much like we try to work three weeks and then take a week off.
- 23:49But the brain was just a weird one.
- 23:52I was just all of a sudden having migraines, like really
- 23:54weird migraines. I was dizzy.
- 23:56I couldn't barely walk through an airport.
- 23:58I it was just really weird. And so they found I had like a
- 24:02cyst. Well, like a benign tumor on my
- 24:04pineal gland, which is in the middle of your brain.
- 24:07Here's another thing is like when you know something's wrong,
- 24:10like when I was 31, I knew something was wrong.
- 24:12Actually, when I was 30, I found my first lump.
- 24:17No doctor would hear me. No, I mean, they missed my
- 24:20ultrasound, but if I did not listen to my intuition, I just
- 24:23knew something was wrong. And it took me doing my research
- 24:27and pursuing it to get a biopsy. And same thing with my brain.
- 24:33They gave me an MRI. They're like, nothing's wrong.
- 24:35There's this little thing here, but that's fine.
- 24:37And I just didn't sit right with me.
- 24:39My for a year and a half I was having extreme like major
- 24:44cognitive issues. Found a surgeon that was like
- 24:46leading the way in pineal gland issues and I went to South
- 24:50Carolina and he did a craniotomy and it was scary as hell.
- 24:55But and a craniotomy is. Where they cut you?
- 24:58Oh, they. Cut your skull.
- 24:59Yeah, Yeah. The pineal gland is like way in
- 25:02the middle of your brain, this tiny, tiny gland.
- 25:05And so he removed it and he removed the whole gland.
- 25:10He did. He took.
- 25:10The whole thing, yeah. And which, I don't know, I
- 25:16wasn't even sleep. I wasn't sleeping.
- 25:17I mean, there was so many issues.
- 25:18And it's just really changed my life.
- 25:20I feel amazing now. Yeah.
- 25:22So who would have known? But, you know, we have to be our
- 25:24own advocate on things. When we feel like something's
- 25:27not right, we have to push until we have the right answer.
- 25:31Well, that was. Quite the trifecta of life
- 25:35hurdles that you went through. Breast cancer, divorce, brain
- 25:40surgery and you've come out the other side happier, healthier,
- 25:46better pace, better priorities, healthy marriage to a pilot.
- 25:50Now you get to travel to rural. I know every.
- 25:52Month I know just yeah I I that's I think that's why I'm so
- 25:59passionate about this next phase with the franchise and coaching
- 26:02is because I'm still here you know a lot of people that I had
- 26:08cancer with are not here and so sometimes I struggle with the
- 26:12why me but it's a beautiful blessing and so now I'm just
- 26:17really excited to be like there's a reason why I'm still
- 26:19here and I want to I I'm so passionate I want to start you
- 26:24know helping others get financial freedom and just you
- 26:27know pursuing their dreams so now you.
- 26:30Said it's one of the reasons why you're excited about the
- 26:32franchising and the coaching. Is the coaching something
- 26:35separate that's available? Yeah, the.
- 26:37Loving start way, yeah. Just coaching people, you know,
- 26:41if they have their own school already, a lot of people have
- 26:44their own schools. They have childcare centers,
- 26:45they have home daycares. But they're struggling, right?
- 26:48Maybe they're not getting clients.
- 26:50They don't know how to market. You know, marketing changes so
- 26:52fast. And you know, the technology
- 26:54now, the algorithms of Instagram and SEO, it's like all changes
- 26:59so rapidly. So, yeah, we've, I've created a
- 27:03lot of things that, you know, just through video coaching,
- 27:06one-on-one coaching, go on site to go check out their school to
- 27:11see what we would say, hey, if you change this, this and this,
- 27:14you know, so, yeah, that's just, I'm, I'm getting excited.
- 27:19Yeah, I'm kind of launching it all.
- 27:21I've been, I spent the last year and a half kind of laying the
- 27:24foundation of everything that's about.
- 27:26So it's all it's launched. It's launch time now.
- 27:29Awesome. Fun stuff.
- 27:31So tell me about the book The AB CS Preschool.
- 27:35First of all, where can people find it?
- 27:37Yeah, it's on. Amazon Audible, Yeah, if you
- 27:40like to listen, it's there. Yeah, I started it when I was
- 27:4440. I'm 46 now, so it took me a
- 27:47minute. Yeah, it's basically all my
- 27:51successes and all my failures too.
- 27:53And it's a lot of my personal stories as well.
- 27:56I try to be very transparent. This is not an easy business to
- 28:00be in. There's a lot of challenges in
- 28:03this business, but there I think the reward outshines any of the
- 28:08hard any day. So the book really goes through
- 28:13with through like with the AB CS, like A is for adventure, B
- 28:16is for buildings. It talks and literally it's like
- 28:19a road map of here is how you open up your own childcare
- 28:22center from hiring to marketing to staffing to curriculum to
- 28:27philosophy, all of it. It's it's in there.
- 28:31So just everything that I've learned over like, you know,
- 28:35I've been in the field almost 30 years now.
- 28:37It's kind of crazy, you know, You probably have a.
- 28:40Unique perspective on this question, Amber, because I like
- 28:44to ask this one of my guests as well.
- 28:46You know, as business owners, we've always got our eye on the
- 28:49bottom line, right? We're looking at the profit and
- 28:51loss statement and you know there's two levers that we've
- 28:53got to pull. One is to increase sales and one
- 28:56is to lower expenses. And I'm curious especially not
- 29:01somebody who's, you know, opened the several daycares yourself
- 29:04and you've coached other people on how to do this.
- 29:07What are some interesting or creative things that you've come
- 29:11up with to move one or both of those levers?
- 29:15That's an interesting question. Well, I think anytime we have
- 29:19our own business, I'm not ACPA, you know, it is a tricky thing,
- 29:24right. I actually am working with the
- 29:26last piece of the document that we need is, is P&L stuff and it
- 29:30is the categorizing of everything on the P and LS,
- 29:35right. It's really hard as a business
- 29:36owner because. You don't.
- 29:40Want to be super taxed at the end of the year, right?
- 29:42You know what I mean? So it is.
- 29:45I don't know. How do you balance all that?
- 29:47It's a little bit of a it's a tricky question.
- 29:51It is a balancing. Act it's a tricky thing, but I
- 29:53think when you own your own business there's a lot to write
- 29:55off right? There's a lot of things that you
- 29:56get to put in through the business.
- 29:59It depends on too, like if you're an entrepreneur and maybe
- 30:02you want more money maybe you're saying you're like OK I really
- 30:05want to make more money. Is there like staffing where you
- 30:07can look at staffing and say, well, maybe I don't need all
- 30:10these? This team member, you know, I
- 30:12think too, it also is like. Where are you in?
- 30:16Your business, are you about to sell a business right then you
- 30:19have to put the throttles up to like show a ton of profit right?
- 30:23If you I don't even know if this is really what you're asking me,
- 30:27but it's it's a tricky thing. I think it's a like for me right
- 30:32now. I don't want to work in the
- 30:34business. I don't want to, I, I don't
- 30:35work. So I have a full team and I, I
- 30:37don't make as much money, right. But that's where I'm at in life.
- 30:41So I think work with your CPA. But it is, it's a tricky thing.
- 30:47It's a very tricky thing keeping that up and down.
- 30:49I don't know. I don't know if I'm answering it
- 30:51the right way for you. The right way was exactly.
- 30:53The way that you answered it, Amber, I, I wanted to, it was
- 30:55like. Dancing, kind of dancing around
- 30:57a lot of things. But you know, that's all right.
- 31:00That's all right. We'll read between the lines.
- 31:02So we talked about the book. You got a podcast by the same
- 31:07name. Is it pretty much the same
- 31:10content? Who, who are your guests?
- 31:11What's What's the constant there?
- 31:13I have just a few guests. The content really is anything
- 31:18in the early years. So if you are a parent, if
- 31:20you're a mom, a grandparent, if you are in the child care
- 31:23profession. I talk about all of it from like
- 31:27dating your partner with kids, like anything and everything is
- 31:31on the table. Just for those, you know,
- 31:34infants that are going to kindergarten, how to prep your
- 31:36kids to kindergarten, potty training, sleep training.
- 31:39Yeah, I talk about all of it like I'm about to record after
- 31:43this. And we're going to talk about
- 31:44hard conversations, how to have hard conversations with your
- 31:46your team members, you know, and when they're not in the right,
- 31:50they're not in the right job. So yeah, I talk about
- 31:54entrepreneurship. So just pretty much anything.
- 31:57Health, self-care. Let's pick one.
- 32:00Let's. Pick one topic that you think
- 32:03most of the listeners might want to hear about.
- 32:05Maybe something related to, Yeah, dealing with a challenging
- 32:09child. Oh.
- 32:11Yeah, dealing with it. I like positive reinforcement.
- 32:14So if there's a negative child, if you have a child right now,
- 32:18it's like they are just acting out all the time.
- 32:21I had one of those and I'm all about positive reinforcement.
- 32:26So it sounds kind of weird, but they want your attention and
- 32:30they're doing the negative behavior because that's how
- 32:32they're getting the attention. So if you can ignore that
- 32:36negative, literally ignore it and you can look in the like,
- 32:41look at the ceiling and you can say, Oh, I hope little Johnny
- 32:45can calm down. You're not giving them eye
- 32:47contact, right? But you when they're doing
- 32:50something good, like if they're sitting and eating really
- 32:53nicely, if they're watching you go over the top with the
- 32:56positive. And I mean, you might sound like
- 32:58a, a, a broken record, but I love how you're sitting there.
- 33:02You're sitting there so nicely. Oh, I love how you're eating
- 33:05breakfast like over the top. I don't care if they're just
- 33:08walking. Oh my gosh, look how you're
- 33:10walking. It's so nice.
- 33:12They start to learn like that is way better attention than the
- 33:15negative. So just a little tip for you.
- 33:18No eye contact with the negative.
- 33:20So do you think that? Works with my 8 and 10 year old
- 33:23boys. I don't know if it'll.
- 33:25Work with your 8 and 10 year olds, but it might.
- 33:29It might. I did.
- 33:29That for a long we've used it in the schools.
- 33:34They're a little older, but you know every but you know, here's
- 33:37the thing about growing kids are gonna kids are gonna act out
- 33:40kid. That's our job.
- 33:41Their job is to our their job sometimes is to get on our
- 33:46nerves and it's lessons for us right.
- 33:48It's they are really teaching us.
- 33:52They are. They are, and it's such a joy
- 33:55and honestly, it goes so fast. Everybody would tell me that it
- 33:58goes so fast. All of my kids are adults now.
- 34:01And yeah, it, it's enjoy it. I mean the hard even in the
- 34:06hard, enjoy it so. Tell me, what would a day in the
- 34:13life of one of your students look like?
- 34:14What are they experiencing there at your schools?
- 34:17Yeah, so they. Get dropped off, they put their
- 34:19little backpack in their cubby, their lunch and their water
- 34:22bottle. And we have learning stations.
- 34:25I call them learning stations. So at the tables there's
- 34:28activities, there's paint going on, there's free play.
- 34:31Then we have circle time where we go over the calendar, we do
- 34:35music and movement, They do little games, learning games.
- 34:39Then they'll do maybe an academic project back at the
- 34:42tables and art project sensory bins and they go outside, they
- 34:47have snack. Then we do another circle time
- 34:49that says goodbye and then some stay home, stay for nap time.
- 34:54So that's kind of like a typical day.
- 34:56They're pretty busy throughout the whole day.
- 34:59But our, our job really is we want to teach them a love of
- 35:03learning early, right? We want them to come to school
- 35:06excited, so we really believe in a lot of play too, like outside
- 35:10play. We try to do half inside and
- 35:12half outdoors. So there's a lot of learning
- 35:15going on and you might not think it, but there's a lot of
- 35:19learning going on in nature with gardening and outside now you
- 35:24mentioned. Before that, you wanted to
- 35:26create an environment where students don't have to learn by
- 35:30one specific model, that there's different avenues available to
- 35:35them. How are you?
- 35:37How are your teachers sort of evaluating, you know, little
- 35:40Johnny needs this model. Little Susie needs this one.
- 35:43Oh, yeah. It's.
- 35:45Really easy, Yeah. I mean, I think all these
- 35:49philosophies are so beautiful. They're really amazing, but some
- 35:53kids can't sit down to do a Montessori job for 1/2 hour.
- 35:58That's just not in their DNA, right?
- 36:00Some children just like us as adults, we all learn
- 36:03differently. We all interpret, interpret
- 36:06information differently. So we have a lot of music, we
- 36:09have a lot of art. Some our kids are really hands
- 36:12on. They need to build with Legos,
- 36:13they need to create things. So it's really just offering all
- 36:18of it to our kids and they will gravitate.
- 36:21You know, we have a schedule, it's not chaos, but they
- 36:24gravitate to what they really, really need and open-ended
- 36:29things too. You know, there's a lot of kids
- 36:30with ADHD, there's a lot of kids on the spectrum.
- 36:33And so it's just really important to not put our kids
- 36:37into boxes. I'm really, I talk about this a
- 36:41lot in our education system. You know, when they get to the
- 36:43public school, they're going to be put into a box.
- 36:46And for those kids that do not fit into that box, they go
- 36:49through their whole learning career feeling like a failure.
- 36:54And it's not them that are the failure.
- 36:55It's our system, the box. So I just feel like it's really
- 36:59important to not have a box. Can you share a particular?
- 37:03Success story, maybe one of your kids along the way who was going
- 37:07through a challenge or they were challenging themselves and a way
- 37:11that you and your teachers were able to help them through that.
- 37:14Yeah. I don't know if I can think of.
- 37:18Any specific? Ones, but it's sometimes the
- 37:21kids with the hardest challenges that come into the year that are
- 37:28the most difficult is the one sometimes you pour your heart
- 37:31into the most and you love on them.
- 37:35There's a lot of kids. That come from.
- 37:39Family, you never know what's going on in families.
- 37:41You never know what's going on behind the scenes.
- 37:44And so sometimes we've realized the kids with the hardest issues
- 37:49need the most love. So I can't really think of like
- 37:53one specific at the moment, but I've seen that transformation
- 37:56happen over and over and over again.
- 37:59And I think as early childhood educators.
- 38:03You know it should be the. Very, very last resort.
- 38:06And it should be a resort where if there is just like other kids
- 38:10are being harmed, but no child should be turned away.
- 38:13Like every child, especially the zero to five, needs someone to
- 38:17love them, to take care of them and to tell them that they are
- 38:22loved. That's wonderful.
- 38:24Is transitional kindergarten becoming a challenge where you
- 38:28are? Yeah.
- 38:30Yeah. It's really interesting because
- 38:32now we've got really like downsized.
- 38:33We used to offer lots of transitional kindergarten
- 38:35programs, but now that the public school is has it.
- 38:38So we've kind of downsized our program, but.
- 38:43We still have a lot. Of kids that come to us with for
- 38:45transitional kindergarten because they don't get in or
- 38:48they don't like their public school.
- 38:51So and it's you know it's just changes.
- 38:54It used to be pre-K junior K now we call it transitional
- 38:57kindergarten. But yeah, I mean it's still
- 39:00happening in around. We just don't have as many as we
- 39:04used to because of the public school.
- 39:05But we still have a good we have an amazing program, but it's
- 39:09it's tough. I hear I hear both sides of it.
- 39:12You know, with the public school, like a lot of people
- 39:14like it and a lot of people do not like the public school
- 39:16transitional K So it's great that you're.
- 39:18Still able to offer it for those folks who.
- 39:20Want something different? Yeah.
- 39:22Exactly. Now I see.
- 39:24You have something called the Academy.
- 39:26Is that the coaching for the daycare owners that we talked
- 39:31about before or is this something else?
- 39:34Yeah, so I have the. Academy where I created so I
- 39:37have like actually training videos.
- 39:39So like for childcare center owners and what do you have new
- 39:42staff coming in? I have like teacher training
- 39:44videos, director training videos, owner training videos
- 39:49that will be there too for my new franchises, but also for
- 39:53private clients as well. Just just getting everything out
- 40:00of my brain, like actually in a format.
- 40:02So yeah, it's, it's called the Academy.
- 40:05And I noticed a lot of people need help with that.
- 40:07You know, it's just you're, you're trying to run your
- 40:09business. A lot of people, especially.
- 40:11Owner operators, they're, they're working 12 to 13 hour
- 40:14days, you know, so I put together a lot of videos,
- 40:17one-on-one coaching just to get your time freedom back.
- 40:20And that's probably one of the biggest things I talk about is
- 40:23time freedom. Because if you're going to run
- 40:25yourself, then you're not. I don't want you to be like me.
- 40:28You know, you don't have to have a cancer diagnosis, right?
- 40:31To wake up to realize you need to slow down and change some
- 40:34things up. Is there also coaching or
- 40:42training available for parents or is it more towards it's more?
- 40:47Towards educators, maybe eventually.
- 40:50I have like a little free course for Mamas.
- 40:52Like new Mamas, new paintings, something like that.
- 40:54Yeah. It's called Mama Love.
- 40:56It's just like, you've got this, you know, and it's free and it's
- 41:01just, it's just to give some love.
- 41:03And, you know, it's, it's a new role.
- 41:05When you're a new, new parent, it's sometimes like, Oh my gosh,
- 41:08you don't realize how overwhelming it could be.
- 41:11Well, if you ever decide to. Come out with something for a
- 41:13father of an 8 and 10 year old boy.
- 41:15Please let me know. I could do some extra coaching
- 41:18there, I. Will just go let them go wrestle
- 41:21on the lawn a lot of times that's what they.
- 41:24Do I have three boys? And a girl in the yard.
- 41:27And so it ends up happening. In the house, coming down the
- 41:30stairs. Oh yeah, sometimes on top of my
- 41:33wife it's it's like so. Normal.
- 41:36It's so I have three boys and then my daughter is the youngest
- 41:39and I don't think people realize if they just have one boy, like
- 41:43when you have multiple sons, it's just how it is.
- 41:47I mean, it's just how it is. So they've got to get that
- 41:50energy out and they need to get a lot of energy out.
- 41:54We took them. To a water park yesterday, and
- 41:56my wife had one, I had the other.
- 41:58We were kind of off in different areas.
- 42:00And then at some point we came back together and within seconds
- 42:03they were pounding on each other, yelling at each other.
- 42:07Both of our blood pressure went through the roof.
- 42:09Oh, I know. I know it's just that's how it
- 42:12is, but you know, they grow out of it.
- 42:13My boys now are like just such good friends.
- 42:16They're like they they'll grow out of it.
- 42:19I went through a similar. Phase with one of my brothers
- 42:21and we couldn't be closer now. So yeah, I I have a Good Hope
- 42:25for them too. Yeah, exactly.
- 42:27I'm curious to. Hear, you know, you probably get
- 42:29a lot of parents who are touring your facility.
- 42:31They're touring other facilities.
- 42:33They're trying to make the decision on, you know, where
- 42:35they want to bring their child. You know, the most precious
- 42:38thing to them What what advice can you give to a parent who's
- 42:42going through that thought process?
- 42:45Yeah. If you are looking, if you're
- 42:47starting to look for a school, I call it the four senses, really
- 42:51use your senses. So if you're going to go tour a
- 42:54school, obviously sight you want to really like as soon as you
- 42:59walk in, you're going to like look at the school.
- 43:01Is it clean? Is it organized?
- 43:02Is it cute? Is it like not very cluttery?
- 43:06How does the school smell? That's a really big one.
- 43:09You go into a lot of child care centers and they don't smell
- 43:13good. And my team knows your classroom
- 43:16better smell good. We have essential oils going on
- 43:19and in the preschool world, obviously there's there's
- 43:22diapers, there's things like that.
- 43:24But it should smell good. It should smell clean and it
- 43:27smell it should smell really good.
- 43:29How does it sound? Are kids engaged?
- 43:32Are they laughing? Are the teachers talking to the
- 43:36kids with respect and kindness? And then lastly, how does it
- 43:40feel like you should have those goose bumpies, right?
- 43:42You should have those warm fuzzies like this is the school,
- 43:46this is the child care center I want my little one to go to.
- 43:49So I call it the four census rule.
- 43:52A lot of people like to go, oh, there is the school and
- 43:56everybody wants to get to the school.
- 43:58But I would really caution everybody about that.
- 44:01And it's awesome that there is the school.
- 44:03I know I'm one of those schools, but you have to think of your
- 44:07child 1st and their learning style and how they will succeed.
- 44:12Because in one of the areas I, when I took over a school about
- 44:17a year ago, we were, it was a Montessori school and I took it
- 44:20over and transitioned into my philosophy.
- 44:22But that whole town was all trying to get their kids into
- 44:25the Montessori school. And I would say half the kids I
- 44:28had were just, they, they wouldn't thrive in that
- 44:31environment. So you always want to think
- 44:33about how, where will your child thrive?
- 44:35And it may not be at the school. Amber, what's something you?
- 44:39Wish you could teach a younger version of yourself.
- 44:47Grace, I think, well, I think this would be the biggest one.
- 44:51You do not have to do an accomplish for love like you
- 44:57should, just like we should just love ourselves, right?
- 44:59Like we don't have to go, go, go, go, go, accomplish,
- 45:04accomplish, accomplish to be loved or feel that in our head.
- 45:09So I think that would be the biggest is it's OK to sit on the
- 45:13couch and do nothing. It took me a long time to get to
- 45:17that point where I could just sit on the couch and I could
- 45:19just journal and not feel guilty.
- 45:21And I think that's what I would tell myself if I could have
- 45:25figured this out earlier, I think that would have been a
- 45:27beautiful thing. How do you think you?
- 45:29Got there. Do you think it took going
- 45:31through some of those Uber challenging experiences that we
- 45:35talked about before? Yeah, I.
- 45:37Think I had to come to Jesus moment really like cancer.
- 45:42Well, my divorce was probably the hardest thing I've ever been
- 45:45through 100 times harder. It was such a dark period of my
- 45:50life. I mean I was full time mom until
- 45:52now you're splitting kids and you know with boys they want to
- 45:56be by their dad. It was just a very probably four
- 46:00years of really darkness, like I bathroom floor crumbled up on
- 46:05the floor thinking, I don't know if I can go another day.
- 46:08And I just knew something had to give.
- 46:11And so I made that call. Yeah, over five years ago.
- 46:15I just did a lot of therapy. I did a lot of just being quiet.
- 46:21When you're going through a divorce, you lose a lot of
- 46:23friends. You know, it's just life starts
- 46:26to be kind of quiet and different.
- 46:29And so I had to really look inwards and find my
- 46:32responsibility of why, why I was doing all this.
- 46:36Why, why I was coping in the way I was coping of taking on more
- 46:40and more and more. So I just had to recognize all
- 46:43of that and I wanted different. I wanted a different life.
- 46:46I didn't want to go down that rabbit hole again.
- 46:48I didn't want to go on the hamster wheel.
- 46:51I will never get back on a hamster wheel.
- 46:53I will never work myself to the ground again ever.
- 46:57Even if it's busy, right? You know, I, I Tuesdays, it's my
- 47:00husband. We're both type A, He's an
- 47:03entrepreneur. I'm at, you know, we have
- 47:04Tuesdays blocked off now. Like we don't do any work.
- 47:07Like that is our date day. So I think it's I just had to
- 47:11learn to schedule my rest, the things that bring me joy, and
- 47:16then schedule work all around that.
- 47:19Did getting to. That point feel like bunch of
- 47:23work, bunch of work, bunch of work and then the flip of a
- 47:25switch. Or do you look back and does it
- 47:28feel like it was sort of a gradual release?
- 47:32It was probably a. Gradual, Yeah, it was a gradual
- 47:36and it was just stepping stones of maybe like some therapy,
- 47:40looking inwards and then truly deciding.
- 47:45I think we have to have a ment. We have to decide mentally what
- 47:49does your life, what do you want your life to look like?
- 47:51And I made like 5 1/2 years ago, I started writing it down and I
- 47:56would say it every day of how I wanted my life to look like it
- 48:00was not happening that way. It was not going.
- 48:03What I was saying was definitely not happening.
- 48:06But someone told me you just start saying it, you start
- 48:08believing it and you start feeling it.
- 48:11And within like five months later, it just started all kind
- 48:14of falling into place. It was crazy.
- 48:16But I, I, I really live in with intention now.
- 48:20I don't want life to happen to me.
- 48:22Of course we're going to have circumstances that are going to
- 48:25come our way that are out of our control, right?
- 48:27Like my mom passed away suddenly five years ago.
- 48:30You can't control things like that.
- 48:32But you can't control how your day-to-day life is right.
- 48:35And if you want peace and if you want time off and you want some
- 48:39stillness and calmness, you, you can decide that.
- 48:42So I always say I live a very intentional life now with my
- 48:46goals, with my expectations. And I mean, I never would have
- 48:51imagined I have this life now ever.
- 48:53What were the? Things that you were saying and
- 48:55writing down your life was in chaos.
- 48:58It wasn't what you were saying. What were those things?
- 49:01What what was the the vision that you were creating?
- 49:03I. Wanted financial freedom leaving
- 49:06my my ex-husband was not good with money and so left me really
- 49:12when I left the marriage in financial ruin basically I had
- 49:15to start from over a financial freedom I wanted the love of my
- 49:19life I wanted a really close relationship with one of my sons
- 49:25it was really strained from just.
- 49:28Things that were being. Said just things were going on.
- 49:33And I think the house part, I wanted my own house was on
- 49:37there. So there was just four or five.
- 49:40Financial freedom was on there for sure.
- 49:43So there was like four or five things that I would just say
- 49:45every single day. I think I wrote that list in
- 49:48April. I met my husband in June.
- 49:52Isn't that crazy? Yeah.
- 49:53My son came back. My oldest son came back in my
- 49:56life right around there, too. We have the best relationship.
- 50:00Like, Oh my gosh, he's a little entrepreneur too.
- 50:03He is almost 24. He's like runs like 40
- 50:07employees. He's amazing.
- 50:09And we talk all the time. We have these long breakfasts
- 50:12like the best relationship, financial freedom.
- 50:15I worked really hard. I got to buy my own house.
- 50:17I am debt free. Like I worked really hard for
- 50:21that. So I've got financial freedom.
- 50:22So but it was really taking steps of seeing it and believing
- 50:27it. And I'm doing it now even
- 50:29because like now I'm like, I have such this big dream that
- 50:32sometimes it feels like, can I do this?
- 50:35Like who am I to like see this really big thing?
- 50:38And every morning, man, I'm back to it.
- 50:40I have my little journal and you know, my grateful is what I am
- 50:45thankful for, but where I'm heading and what I see and I
- 50:47believe so. So you do a.
- 50:49Gratitude part of your journal and then you go into here's
- 50:52like. Manifestations, basically.
- 50:55I know that sounds woo woo to some, but I really believe it.
- 50:57I I've seen it absolutely work in my life.
- 51:01And one of my, one of the things I say now is I am healthy and
- 51:05I'm strong because for a long time, for years since my cancer,
- 51:10I think I had a story in my head that I'm just the sick girl.
- 51:13I'm just gonna have the sick weird things like that's just
- 51:15me. And so this past year I became a
- 51:18Walker. I walk, I took gluten out.
- 51:21And I just say I am strong and I am healthy.
- 51:24I am strong and I am healthy and I believe it.
- 51:26And so it's funny, it's this is probably the first year in 15
- 51:31years. I, I don't think I even went to
- 51:32the doctor once, so that's fantastic.
- 51:36I know, curled up. Crying in the bathroom floor,
- 51:39like I don't think I've got another day in me to.
- 51:42Yeah, look at you now. Yeah, exactly.
- 51:45Yeah, I appreciate you. Sharing all of that, yeah.
- 51:51What's a fun fact? Most people wouldn't know about
- 51:53you, Amber. I love to throw.
- 51:56Parties I and the happiest when I have a house full of people
- 52:01like I love. I am a really good entertainer.
- 52:05I throw really good parties and I just love it.
- 52:08I I've loved it since I was 19 when I first had my first house
- 52:12I bought to now I just my heart is the happiest when there's a
- 52:16house full of people. Any.
- 52:20Particular books or mentors you'd like to call out that have
- 52:24been helpful to you in your path?
- 52:27Eckhart Tolle, The Power of Now was definitely a pivotal book
- 52:34for me of just starting to let go of that coping, this coping
- 52:37mechanism of being busy and always thinking like just really
- 52:42trying to just be present like here and now.
- 52:46I Brené Brown, I really like her.
- 52:49I'm, I'm listening to her leadership book now.
- 52:51I'm one that I like to have books on all the time in the car
- 52:55audiobooks. So I don't know anymore.
- 52:57But yeah, I would say the Eckhart Tolle is probably one of
- 53:00my biggest ones that have just really taught me to slow it all
- 53:04down. Amber, I just have one.
- 53:07More question for you, but before I ask it, I want to do 2
- 53:10things. First, for those listening, if
- 53:12you like today's content, please hit the subscribe, like or share
- 53:15button on your favorite podcast app.
- 53:18Amber, I want to tell people the best way to get in touch with
- 53:21you. And there's so many reasons for
- 53:23it, right? Maybe they've got a child in,
- 53:25you know, the Sacramento area that's looking for daycare.
- 53:28Maybe they're interested in the franchise opportunity.
- 53:31Maybe they've got a daycare. They're looking for some
- 53:33coaching. I don't what?
- 53:34What did I miss? That's pretty good.
- 53:37OK. So.
- 53:38Of all of those things, what's for for all those things, what's
- 53:40the best way for folks to get in touch with you?
- 53:42Yeah, they could probably go. To my website
- 53:44thelovingstartway.com and just say contact if you're on social
- 53:47media. I am everywhere on social media
- 53:50at the loving start way at the loving start way.
- 53:53So I'm all over. Yeah, last.
- 53:56Question for you, Amber, how do you see the daycare industry,
- 54:00childcare industry evolving in the next five years?
- 54:03What do you think the big changes are that are coming?
- 54:06I think. One of the biggest changes is
- 54:08there's less there are less early childhood educators, less
- 54:12people are going into this field, which is concerning for
- 54:16me. I think that is the biggest
- 54:19impact that's going to face our our schools.
- 54:23I think there's still going to be a lot of which actually I.
- 54:28I don't know. But I think that's the biggest
- 54:30impact that we're going to see with early childcare centers is
- 54:33less and less people are becoming early childhood
- 54:37educators, which we'll have to see how that unfolds.
- 54:42Yeah, hopefully we can turn it around.
- 54:43I mean, I'm hoping I I want to turn that around.
- 54:46And we saw. You know, a lot of daycare
- 54:49centers close going through COVID is a topic we didn't even
- 54:52touch on, and it, yeah, largely hasn't improved a whole lot
- 54:56coming out the other side. I heard a stat.
- 54:59I was at an early childhood conference maybe like almost two
- 55:02years ago that there was over a million women in the workforce
- 55:08before COVID, but have not gone back to work.
- 55:12There's so many women that haven't gone back.
- 55:15And I know I'm seeing that in our field.
- 55:18You know, I'm seeing. So we're definitely a shift with
- 55:23team members. I think not even just in my
- 55:25field too. I think in business in general,
- 55:27we're seeing maybe a lot more harder people, you know, harder
- 55:31to get really good employees. But yeah, COVID definitely.
- 55:36There's a lot of childcare centers that closed that ended
- 55:38up not being able to survive so well and hopefully.
- 55:42You'll be able to communicate the sort of the passion and the
- 55:46love that you have for your staff and how to teach that to
- 55:50your franchisees. So that'll be something that can
- 55:54create some momentum in other parts of the country.
- 55:56Yeah, because when you. Do have your team, you want to
- 55:58keep them. Do not take them for granted.
- 56:01So we want to treat them right so they stay along for the long
- 56:03haul. Yeah.
- 56:05Well, Amber, I want to. Be the first one to thank you
- 56:07for sharing both your time and your story with us today.
- 56:10I really appreciate it. Yeah.
- 56:11Thanks so much. For having me folks, that's a
- 56:14wrap on. Another episode of the Inspired
- 56:15Stories podcast. Thanks for learning with us
- 56:18today.