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When Does a Side Hustle Become a Burden—and What Should You Do? · Becoming Financially Confident

• 0:37
  A
• 0:37
  side
• 0:37
  hustle
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  is
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  supposed
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  to
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  help.
• 0:39
  It's
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  supposed
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  to
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  help
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  you
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  breathe
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  a
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  little
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  easier,
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  help
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  you
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  catch
• 0:42
  up
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  on
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  bills,
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  help
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  you
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  feel
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  hopeful
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  about
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  the
• 0:44
  future.
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  But
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  sometimes
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  along
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  the
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  way,
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  it
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  starts
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  doing
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  the
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  opposite.
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  You
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  feel
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  tired
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  all
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  the
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  time.
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  You
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  get
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  irritable.
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  You've
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  been
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  pulled
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  in
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  too
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  many
• 0:53
  directions.
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  Yeah,
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  you're
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  making
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  more
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  money,
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  but
• 0:57
  you're
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  enjoying
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  life
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  less.
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  And
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  you
• 1:00
  quietly
• 1:00
  wonder,
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  when
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  did
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  this
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  stop
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  being
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  helpful
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  and
• 1:03
  start
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  being
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  heavy?
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  Friend,
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  if
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  you've
• 1:05
  ever
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  felt
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  that,
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  maybe
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  you're
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  feeling
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  it
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  right
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  now,
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  this
• 1:08
  episode
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  is
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  for
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  you.
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  Today
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  we're
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  talking
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  about
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  the
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  turning
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  point
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  and
• 1:12
  what
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  to
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  do
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  when
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  you
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  reach
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  it.
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  So
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  here's
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  the
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  question
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  we're
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  answering
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  on
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  today's
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  show.
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  When
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  does
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  a
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  side
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  hustle
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  become
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  a
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  burden?
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  And
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  what
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  should
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  you
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  do
• 1:20
  then?
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  And
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  here's
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  my
• 1:22
  promise
• 1:22
  to
• 1:22
  you.
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  By
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  the
• 1:23
  end
• 1:23
  of
• 1:23
  this
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  episode,
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  you're
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  going
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  to
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  know
• 1:24
  how
• 1:24
  to
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  recognize
• 1:25
  the
• 1:25
  warning
• 1:26
  signs
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  before
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  burnout
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  hits,
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  how
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  to
• 1:28
  evaluate
• 1:28
  the
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  true
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  cost
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  of
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  your
• 1:29
  side
• 1:29
  hustle,
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  not
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  just
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  financially,
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  but
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  emotionally,
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  and
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  how
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  to
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  make
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  wise,
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  peaceful
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  decisions
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  about
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  what
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  comes
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  next.
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  Because
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  sometimes
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  the
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  bravest
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  thing
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  you
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  can
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  do
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  is
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  give
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  yourself
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  permission
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  to
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  stop.
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  Hey,
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  friend.
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  Ralph
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  Estep
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  Jr.
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  Here.
• 2:05
  Welcome
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  to
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  Financially
• 2:06
  Confident
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  Christian,
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  where
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  we
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  learn
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  how
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  to
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  walk
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  through
• 2:08
  life
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  and
• 2:09
  money
• 2:09
  with
• 2:09
  wisdom,
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  with
• 2:10
  peace,
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  and
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  with
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  a
• 2:12
  heart
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  anchored
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  in
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  God's
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  truth.
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  My
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  mission
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  on
• 2:14
  the
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  show
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  every
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  day
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  is
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  pretty
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  simple.
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  I
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  want
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  to
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  help
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  you
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  break
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  that
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  cycle
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  of
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  financial
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  shame
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  and
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  help
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  you
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  build
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  steady
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  habits
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  rooted
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  in
• 2:20
  faith
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  and
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  truly
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  become
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  financially
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  confident
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  Christians.
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  I'm
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  so
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  glad
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  you're
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  here
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  today.
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  Yesterday
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  we
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  talked
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  about
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  turning
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  your
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  skills
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  into
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  income,
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  you
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  using
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  what
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  you
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  already
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  know
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  to
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  serve
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  others
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  and
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  also
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  provide
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  for
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  your
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  family.
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  And
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  today's
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  the
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  necessary
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  follow
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  up
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  to
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  that
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  because
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  not
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  every
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  income
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  stream
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  remains
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  healthy
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  forever.
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  Remember
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  I
• 2:40
  said
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  a
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  couple
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  days
• 2:41
  ago,
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  not
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  all
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  income
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  is
• 2:42
  good
• 2:42
  income.
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  And
• 2:43
  wisdom
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  knows
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  when
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  to
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  pause,
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  when
• 2:45
  to
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  reassess,
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  and
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  sometimes
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  when
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  to
• 2:48
  let
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  go.
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  Here's
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  the
• 2:50
  question
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  I
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  hear
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  all
• 2:51
  the
• 2:51
  time,
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  and
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  people
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  usually
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  ask
• 2:53
  it
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  quietly,
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  almost
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  hesitantly.
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  Ralph
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  how
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  do
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  I
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  know
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  if
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  my
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  side
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  hustle
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  is
• 2:58
  still
• 2:58
  helping
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  me
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  or
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  if
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  it's
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  actually
• 3:00
  starting
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  to
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  hurt
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  me?
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  See,
• 3:02
  that
• 3:03
  question
• 3:03
  matters
• 3:03
  more
• 3:03
  than
• 3:04
  most
• 3:04
  people
• 3:04
  realize
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  because
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  the
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  answer
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  determines
• 3:07
  your
• 3:07
  health,
• 3:08
  it
• 3:08
  determines
• 3:08
  your
• 3:09
  relationships,
• 3:10
  and
• 3:10
  in
• 3:10
  the
• 3:10
  end,
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  it
• 3:11
  determines
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  your
• 3:12
  peace
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  of
• 3:12
  mind.
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  If
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  your
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  side
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  hustle
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  once
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  felt
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  exciting,
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  but
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  now
• 3:16
  if
• 3:16
  you're
• 3:17
  being
• 3:17
  honest,
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  it
• 3:17
  feels
• 3:18
  draining.
• 3:19
  If
• 3:19
  it
• 3:19
  used
• 3:19
  to
• 3:19
  have
• 3:20
  energy
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  for
• 3:20
  your
• 3:21
  family
• 3:21
  but
• 3:22
  now
• 3:22
  you're
• 3:22
  constantly
• 3:23
  exhausted.
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  If
• 3:24
  you're
• 3:25
  making
• 3:25
  more
• 3:25
  money
• 3:26
  but
• 3:26
  you're
• 3:26
  enjoying
• 3:27
  life
• 3:27
  less,
• 3:28
  if
• 3:28
  your
• 3:29
  rest
• 3:29
  feels
• 3:29
  rushed
• 3:30
  like
• 3:30
  you're
• 3:30
  always
• 3:30
  racing
• 3:31
  to
• 3:31
  the
• 3:31
  next
• 3:31
  thing,
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  friend.
• 3:33
  You're
• 3:33
  not
• 3:33
  failing.
• 3:34
  You're
• 3:34
  just
• 3:34
  noticing
• 3:35
  something
• 3:35
  important.
• 3:36
  And
• 3:37
  that
• 3:37
  awareness,
• 3:38
  that's
• 3:38
  actually
• 3:39
  wisdom
• 3:39
  trying
• 3:39
  to
• 3:39
  get
• 3:40
  your
• 3:40
  attention.
• 3:41
  So
• 3:41
  here's
• 3:42
  what
• 3:42
  I
• 3:42
  need
• 3:42
  you
• 3:42
  to
• 3:42
  hear
• 3:42
  right
• 3:43
  from
• 3:43
  the
• 3:43
  beginning.
• 3:44
  More
• 3:44
  income
• 3:45
  is
• 3:45
  not
• 3:46
  always
• 3:46
  better
• 3:46
  income.
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  If
• 3:48
  the
• 3:48
  cost
• 3:48
  is
• 3:49
  constant
• 3:49
  exhaustion,
• 3:50
  if
• 3:50
  it's
• 3:51
  constantly
• 3:51
  strained
• 3:52
  relationships
• 3:53
  or
• 3:53
  lost
• 3:54
  peace
• 3:54
  of
• 3:54
  mind,
• 3:55
  that
• 3:56
  cost
• 3:56
  is
• 3:56
  way
• 3:56
  too
• 3:57
  high.
• 3:58
  Your
• 3:58
  peace
• 3:59
  matters,
• 3:59
  Your
• 3:59
  rest
• 4:00
  matters,
• 4:01
  your
• 4:01
  well
• 4:01
  being
• 4:02
  matters.
• 4:03
  And
• 4:04
  sometimes
• 4:04
  protecting
• 4:05
  those
• 4:05
  things
• 4:06
  means
• 4:06
  saying
• 4:06
  no
• 4:07
  to
• 4:07
  income,
• 4:08
  even
• 4:08
  when
• 4:09
  you're
• 4:09
  being
• 4:09
  honest
• 4:09
  and
• 4:10
  you
• 4:10
  need
• 4:10
  the
• 4:10
  money.
• 4:11
  See,
• 4:11
  I've
• 4:12
  seen
• 4:12
  people
• 4:12
  push
• 4:12
  through
• 4:13
  burnout
• 4:13
  for
• 4:13
  months,
• 4:14
  thinking
• 4:15
  they
• 4:15
  were
• 4:15
  being
• 4:15
  responsible,
• 4:16
  thinking
• 4:16
  they
• 4:16
  were
• 4:17
  doing
• 4:17
  the
• 4:17
  right
• 4:17
  thing.
• 4:19
  And
• 4:19
  I've
• 4:19
  seen
• 4:19
  the
• 4:20
  relief
• 4:20
  that
• 4:20
  comes
• 4:20
  when
• 4:21
  they
• 4:21
  finally
• 4:21
  give
• 4:21
  themselves
• 4:22
  permission
• 4:22
  to
• 4:22
  step
• 4:23
  back
• 4:23
  for
• 4:23
  a
• 4:23
  second.
• 4:25
  Guess
• 4:25
  what?
• 4:25
  The
• 4:25
  world
• 4:26
  doesn't
• 4:26
  collapse,
• 4:27
  Their
• 4:27
  finances
• 4:28
  don't
• 4:28
  fall
• 4:28
  apart,
• 4:29
  and
• 4:29
  they
• 4:29
  get
• 4:29
  their
• 4:30
  life
• 4:30
  back.
• 4:31
  Wisdom
• 4:32
  listens
• 4:32
  to
• 4:32
  warning
• 4:33
  signs
• 4:33
  before
• 4:34
  they
• 4:34
  become
• 4:34
  emergencies.
• 4:36
  Let
• 4:36
  me
• 4:37
  tell
• 4:37
  you
• 4:37
  about
• 4:37
  a
• 4:37
  friend
• 4:37
  of
• 4:37
  mine
• 4:38
  I
• 4:38
  work
• 4:38
  with.
• 4:38
  Her
• 4:38
  name
• 4:38
  is
• 4:38
  Lisa.
• 4:39
  Lisa
• 4:40
  started
• 4:40
  a
• 4:40
  side
• 4:40
  hustle
• 4:41
  that
• 4:41
  paid
• 4:41
  really
• 4:41
  well.
• 4:42
  At
• 4:43
  first
• 4:43
  it
• 4:43
  was
• 4:43
  perfect.
• 4:44
  It
• 4:44
  was
• 4:44
  extra
• 4:44
  income,
• 4:45
  flexible
• 4:46
  hours.
• 4:46
  She
• 4:47
  felt
• 4:47
  productive
• 4:48
  and
• 4:48
  she
• 4:48
  felt
• 4:48
  proud
• 4:48
  about
• 4:49
  it.
• 4:50
  But
• 4:50
  over
• 4:50
  time,
• 4:51
  things
• 4:51
  shifted.
• 4:52
  Clients
• 4:53
  started
• 4:53
  demanding
• 4:54
  more.
• 4:54
  The
• 4:54
  deadlines
• 4:55
  got
• 4:55
  tighter.
• 4:56
  She
• 4:56
  was
• 4:56
  working
• 4:56
  nights
• 4:57
  and
• 4:57
  weekends
• 4:57
  every
• 4:58
  single
• 4:58
  week.
• 5:00
  Her
• 5:00
  husband
• 5:00
  mentioned
• 5:01
  they
• 5:01
  hadn't
• 5:01
  had
• 5:01
  a
• 5:01
  real
• 5:01
  conversation
• 5:02
  in
• 5:02
  weeks.
• 5:03
  Her
• 5:04
  kids
• 5:04
  stopped
• 5:04
  asking
• 5:05
  her
• 5:05
  to
• 5:05
  play
• 5:05
  because
• 5:06
  she
• 5:06
  was
• 5:06
  always
• 5:06
  working.
• 5:08
  And
• 5:08
  one
• 5:08
  day
• 5:08
  she
• 5:08
  reached
• 5:08
  out
• 5:09
  to
• 5:09
  me.
• 5:09
  She
• 5:09
  said,
• 5:09
  ralph,
• 5:10
  I'm
• 5:10
  making
• 5:10
  more
• 5:10
  money
• 5:11
  than
• 5:11
  I've
• 5:11
  ever
• 5:11
  made,
• 5:13
  but
• 5:13
  man,
• 5:13
  I
• 5:13
  feel
• 5:13
  miserable.
• 5:15
  And
• 5:16
  I
• 5:16
  felt
• 5:16
  so
• 5:16
  bad
• 5:17
  for
• 5:17
  her.
• 5:17
  And
• 5:17
  I
• 5:17
  asked
• 5:17
  her
• 5:18
  what
• 5:18
  would
• 5:18
  happen
• 5:18
  if
• 5:18
  you
• 5:19
  stepped
• 5:19
  back.
• 5:20
  And
• 5:20
  she
• 5:21
  was
• 5:21
  honest.
• 5:21
  She
• 5:21
  said,
• 5:21
  I
• 5:21
  don't
• 5:21
  know.
• 5:22
  I'm
• 5:22
  afraid
• 5:22
  everything
• 5:22
  will
• 5:23
  fall
• 5:23
  apart,
• 5:23
  Ralph.
• 5:25
  Well,
• 5:25
  guess
• 5:26
  what?
• 5:26
  That
• 5:26
  month
• 5:26
  she
• 5:26
  let
• 5:27
  go
• 5:27
  of
• 5:27
  two
• 5:27
  high
• 5:27
  stress
• 5:28
  clients.
• 5:28
  These
• 5:28
  people
• 5:28
  were.
• 5:29
  They
• 5:29
  were
• 5:29
  bothering
• 5:30
  her.
• 5:30
  She
• 5:31
  cut
• 5:31
  her
• 5:31
  hours
• 5:32
  by
• 5:32
  a
• 5:32
  third.
• 5:32
  She
• 5:32
  made
• 5:33
  less
• 5:33
  money.
• 5:33
  I
• 5:33
  wish
• 5:33
  I
• 5:33
  could
• 5:34
  tell
• 5:34
  you
• 5:34
  she
• 5:34
  didn't,
• 5:34
  but
• 5:34
  she
• 5:34
  did.
• 5:35
  She
• 5:35
  made
• 5:35
  less
• 5:35
  money.
• 5:36
  But
• 5:37
  you
• 5:37
  know
• 5:37
  what
• 5:37
  happened?
• 5:38
  Nothing
• 5:39
  collapsed,
• 5:40
  nothing
• 5:40
  fell
• 5:41
  apart.
• 5:41
  Her
• 5:41
  finances
• 5:42
  adjust,
• 5:43
  but
• 5:43
  at
• 5:43
  the
• 5:44
  same
• 5:44
  time,
• 5:45
  her
• 5:45
  health
• 5:45
  improved,
• 5:46
  her
• 5:46
  relationships
• 5:47
  healed.
• 5:48
  And
• 5:48
  she
• 5:48
  told
• 5:48
  me
• 5:48
  later,
• 5:49
  she
• 5:49
  said,
• 5:49
  ralph,
• 5:49
  I
• 5:49
  didn't
• 5:50
  realize
• 5:50
  how
• 5:50
  much
• 5:51
  I
• 5:51
  was
• 5:51
  giving
• 5:51
  up
• 5:52
  until
• 5:53
  I
• 5:53
  got
• 5:53
  it
• 5:53
  back.
• 5:53
  See,
• 5:54
  we
• 5:54
  don't
• 5:54
  see
• 5:54
  that
• 5:54
  at
• 5:55
  the
• 5:55
  time.
• 5:56
  So
• 5:56
  here's
• 5:56
  the
• 5:57
  heart
• 5:57
  question
• 5:57
  for
• 5:58
  today.
• 5:59
  Is
• 6:00
  this
• 6:00
  side
• 6:00
  hustle
• 6:01
  adding
• 6:01
  life
• 6:02
  are
• 6:02
  slowly
• 6:03
  draining
• 6:03
  it.
• 6:04
  And
• 6:04
  see,
• 6:04
  that's
• 6:05
  the
• 6:05
  question
• 6:05
  we're
• 6:05
  sitting
• 6:06
  with
• 6:06
  for
• 6:06
  a
• 6:06
  minute,
• 6:07
  because
• 6:07
  the
• 6:07
  answer
• 6:08
  tells
• 6:08
  you
• 6:08
  what
• 6:08
  to
• 6:08
  do
• 6:09
  next.
• 6:10
  So
• 6:10
  let's
• 6:10
  walk
• 6:11
  through
• 6:11
  this
• 6:11
  together.
• 6:11
  I'm
• 6:12
  going
• 6:12
  to
• 6:12
  give
• 6:12
  you
• 6:12
  what
• 6:13
  I
• 6:13
  saw
• 6:13
  as
• 6:13
  seven
• 6:14
  signs
• 6:14
  that
• 6:14
  a
• 6:15
  side
• 6:15
  hustle
• 6:15
  has
• 6:15
  become
• 6:16
  a
• 6:16
  burden.
• 6:16
  But
• 6:17
  bigger
• 6:17
  than
• 6:17
  that,
• 6:17
  what
• 6:18
  to
• 6:18
  do
• 6:18
  about
• 6:18
  each
• 6:18
  one.
• 6:19
  Here's
• 6:19
  the
• 6:20
  first
• 6:20
  sign.
• 6:21
  Chronic
• 6:21
  exhaustion.
• 6:23
  Occasional
• 6:23
  tiredness
• 6:24
  is
• 6:24
  normal.
• 6:24
  As
• 6:24
  I'm
• 6:25
  recording
• 6:25
  this
• 6:25
  right
• 6:25
  now,
• 6:25
  it's
• 6:26
  been
• 6:26
  a
• 6:26
  long
• 6:26
  morning
• 6:26
  already.
• 6:27
  I'm
• 6:27
  a
• 6:27
  little
• 6:27
  bit
• 6:27
  tired.
• 6:28
  We
• 6:28
  all
• 6:28
  have
• 6:29
  long
• 6:29
  days.
• 6:30
  But
• 6:30
  if
• 6:30
  you're
• 6:31
  exhausted
• 6:31
  all
• 6:31
  the
• 6:32
  time,
• 6:32
  if
• 6:32
  you
• 6:32
  wake
• 6:33
  up
• 6:33
  tired,
• 6:33
  go
• 6:33
  through
• 6:34
  the
• 6:34
  day
• 6:34
  tired
• 6:34
  and
• 6:35
  go
• 6:35
  to
• 6:35
  bed
• 6:35
  tired,
• 6:36
  that's
• 6:36
  not
• 6:36
  normal.
• 6:37
  That's
• 6:38
  your
• 6:38
  body
• 6:38
  telling
• 6:38
  you
• 6:38
  something.
• 6:39
  If
• 6:40
  you're
• 6:40
  feeling
• 6:40
  that
• 6:40
  right
• 6:41
  now,
• 6:41
  here's
• 6:41
  what
• 6:41
  I
• 6:41
  want
• 6:41
  you
• 6:41
  to
• 6:42
  do.
• 6:42
  Ask
• 6:42
  yourself
• 6:42
  this.
• 6:43
  When
• 6:43
  was
• 6:43
  the
• 6:44
  last
• 6:44
  time
• 6:44
  I
• 6:44
  felt
• 6:45
  rested?
• 6:46
  If
• 6:47
  you
• 6:47
  can't
• 6:47
  remember,
• 6:48
  something
• 6:48
  needs
• 6:48
  to
• 6:49
  change.
• 6:50
  Maybe
• 6:50
  it's
• 6:50
  scaling
• 6:51
  back
• 6:51
  hours.
• 6:52
  Maybe
• 6:52
  it's
• 6:53
  taking
• 6:53
  a
• 6:53
  week
• 6:53
  off.
• 6:53
  Maybe
• 6:54
  it's
• 6:54
  stopping
• 6:54
  altogether.
• 6:56
  Your
• 6:56
  body
• 6:56
  speaks
• 6:57
  wisdom.
• 6:57
  Listen
• 6:57
  to
• 6:58
  it.
• 6:58
  I
• 6:58
  did
• 6:58
  the
• 6:58
  same
• 6:58
  thing
• 6:59
  yesterday.
• 6:59
  I
• 7:00
  had
• 7:00
  a
• 7:00
  long
• 7:00
  week,
• 7:01
  a
• 7:01
  long
• 7:01
  Saturday
• 7:02
  doing
• 7:02
  show
• 7:02
  prep.
• 7:03
  And
• 7:03
  yesterday
• 7:03
  at
• 7:04
  lunchtime,
• 7:04
  I
• 7:04
  said
• 7:04
  to
• 7:05
  myself,
• 7:05
  I
• 7:05
  need
• 7:06
  to
• 7:06
  rest.
• 7:07
  Got
• 7:08
  myself
• 7:08
  ready
• 7:08
  for
• 7:09
  the
• 7:09
  rest
• 7:09
  of
• 7:09
  the
• 7:09
  day,
• 7:09
  got
• 7:10
  in
• 7:10
  my
• 7:10
  easy
• 7:10
  chair
• 7:11
  and
• 7:11
  I
• 7:11
  took
• 7:11
  a
• 7:12
  nap.
• 7:13
  It's
• 7:13
  what
• 7:13
  I
• 7:13
  needed
• 7:14
  at
• 7:14
  the
• 7:14
  time
• 7:15
  because
• 7:15
  I
• 7:15
  was
• 7:16
  feeling
• 7:17
  without
• 7:17
  rest.
• 7:18
  That's
• 7:18
  the
• 7:18
  first
• 7:18
  sign.
• 7:19
  Here's
• 7:19
  sign
• 7:19
  two.
• 7:20
  Loss
• 7:21
  of
• 7:21
  joy.
• 7:22
  I'm
• 7:23
  not
• 7:23
  telling
• 7:23
  you
• 7:23
  that
• 7:23
  work
• 7:23
  needs
• 7:24
  to
• 7:24
  be
• 7:24
  fun
• 7:24
  every
• 7:24
  single
• 7:25
  day.
• 7:25
  But
• 7:26
  it
• 7:26
  also
• 7:26
  shouldn't
• 7:26
  be
• 7:27
  soul
• 7:27
  crushing
• 7:27
  either.
• 7:28
  If
• 7:29
  you
• 7:29
  used
• 7:29
  to
• 7:29
  enjoy
• 7:29
  your
• 7:30
  side
• 7:30
  hustle,
• 7:30
  or
• 7:31
  at
• 7:31
  least
• 7:31
  you
• 7:31
  didn't
• 7:31
  mind
• 7:31
  it.
• 7:32
  Remember
• 7:32
  I
• 7:32
  mentioned
• 7:32
  that
• 7:32
  the
• 7:32
  other
• 7:32
  day?
• 7:33
  But
• 7:33
  now
• 7:34
  you
• 7:34
  dread
• 7:34
  it.
• 7:35
  That's
• 7:36
  information
• 7:36
  again.
• 7:37
  If
• 7:37
  you're
• 7:38
  feeling
• 7:38
  this
• 7:38
  way,
• 7:38
  ask
• 7:38
  yourself
• 7:39
  what
• 7:39
  changed?
• 7:40
  Maybe
• 7:41
  the
• 7:41
  work
• 7:41
  itself
• 7:41
  changed.
• 7:42
  Maybe
• 7:43
  your
• 7:43
  season
• 7:43
  of
• 7:43
  life
• 7:44
  changed.
• 7:45
  Joy
• 7:45
  disappearing
• 7:46
  is
• 7:46
  a
• 7:46
  signal
• 7:47
  worth
• 7:47
  paying
• 7:48
  attention
• 7:48
  to.
• 7:49
  Here's
• 7:49
  sign
• 7:50
  number
• 7:50
  three.
• 7:50
  And
• 7:51
  watch
• 7:51
  out
• 7:51
  for
• 7:51
  this
• 7:52
  one.
• 7:52
  Strain
• 7:53
  relationships.
• 7:55
  This
• 7:55
  is
• 7:55
  often
• 7:55
  the
• 7:55
  first
• 7:56
  place
• 7:56
  the
• 7:56
  cracks
• 7:56
  show
• 7:57
  up.
• 7:58
  Do
• 7:58
  you
• 7:58
  find
• 7:58
  yourself
• 7:58
  with
• 7:59
  short
• 7:59
  temper?
• 8:00
  Missed
• 8:00
  moments
• 8:01
  with
• 8:01
  your
• 8:01
  wife
• 8:02
  or
• 8:02
  your
• 8:02
  husband
• 8:02
  or
• 8:02
  your
• 8:03
  kids?
• 8:03
  Constant
• 8:04
  distraction
• 8:04
  when
• 8:05
  you're
• 8:05
  supposed
• 8:05
  to
• 8:05
  be
• 8:05
  present?
• 8:07
  I'm
• 8:07
  going
• 8:07
  to
• 8:07
  say
• 8:07
  something
• 8:08
  kind
• 8:08
  of
• 8:08
  harsh
• 8:08
  when
• 8:08
  I
• 8:09
  say
• 8:09
  it
• 8:09
  out
• 8:09
  of
• 8:09
  love.
• 8:10
  Your
• 8:10
  family
• 8:11
  shouldn't
• 8:11
  have
• 8:11
  to
• 8:11
  compete
• 8:12
  with
• 8:12
  your
• 8:12
  side
• 8:12
  hustle
• 8:12
  for
• 8:13
  your
• 8:13
  attention.
• 8:14
  If
• 8:14
  you
• 8:14
  find
• 8:15
  yourself
• 8:15
  here,
• 8:15
  here's
• 8:16
  what
• 8:16
  I
• 8:16
  want
• 8:16
  you
• 8:16
  to
• 8:16
  ask
• 8:17
  someone
• 8:17
  you
• 8:17
  trust.
• 8:18
  And
• 8:18
  it's
• 8:18
  got
• 8:18
  to
• 8:18
  be
• 8:19
  someone
• 8:19
  you
• 8:20
  better
• 8:20
  trust
• 8:20
  them.
• 8:21
  Have
• 8:21
  I
• 8:21
  been
• 8:22
  different
• 8:22
  lately?
• 8:23
  And
• 8:24
  once
• 8:24
  you
• 8:24
  ask
• 8:24
  that
• 8:25
  question,
• 8:25
  be
• 8:25
  quiet
• 8:26
  for
• 8:26
  a
• 8:26
  second
• 8:26
  and
• 8:27
  listen.
• 8:27
  I'm
• 8:27
  talking
• 8:27
  about
• 8:27
  really
• 8:28
  listen
• 8:28
  to
• 8:28
  what
• 8:28
  they
• 8:28
  say.
• 8:29
  Because
• 8:29
  you
• 8:29
  might
• 8:29
  not
• 8:29
  want
• 8:29
  to
• 8:29
  hear
• 8:30
  what
• 8:30
  they
• 8:30
  have
• 8:30
  to
• 8:30
  say,
• 8:30
  but
• 8:31
  you
• 8:31
  need
• 8:31
  to
• 8:31
  hear
• 8:31
  it.
• 8:32
  If
• 8:32
  your
• 8:33
  relationships
• 8:33
  are
• 8:34
  suffering.
• 8:35
  The
• 8:35
  income
• 8:36
  isn't
• 8:36
  worth
• 8:37
  it.
• 8:38
  It's
• 8:38
  not
• 8:39
  worth
• 8:39
  life.
• 8:40
  Losing
• 8:40
  your
• 8:40
  relationships.
• 8:42
  Here's
• 8:42
  sign
• 8:42
  number
• 8:43
  four.
• 8:44
  You're
• 8:44
  making
• 8:44
  money,
• 8:45
  but
• 8:45
  you're
• 8:46
  losing
• 8:46
  peace.
• 8:46
  Now
• 8:47
  this
• 8:47
  is
• 8:47
  a
• 8:47
  tricky
• 8:47
  one
• 8:48
  because
• 8:48
  the
• 8:49
  money
• 8:49
  is
• 8:49
  real.
• 8:49
  You
• 8:49
  can
• 8:50
  put
• 8:50
  it
• 8:50
  in
• 8:50
  your
• 8:50
  hands.
• 8:50
  It's
• 8:50
  helping
• 8:51
  you.
• 8:51
  It's
• 8:52
  giving
• 8:52
  you
• 8:52
  margin,
• 8:53
  it's
• 8:53
  saving,
• 8:53
  it's
• 8:54
  paying
• 8:54
  down
• 8:54
  debt.
• 8:55
  But
• 8:55
  so
• 8:56
  is
• 8:56
  stress.
• 8:57
  So
• 8:57
  is
• 8:57
  anxiety.
• 8:58
  So
• 8:58
  is
• 8:59
  the
• 8:59
  constant
• 8:59
  feeling
• 9:00
  of
• 9:00
  being
• 9:00
  behind.
• 9:01
  Here's
• 9:01
  what
• 9:02
  I
• 9:02
  want
• 9:02
  you
• 9:02
  to
• 9:02
  do.
• 9:03
  Evaluate
• 9:04
  profit
• 9:04
  versus
• 9:05
  cost.
• 9:05
  Not
• 9:05
  just
• 9:05
  financially,
• 9:06
  but,
• 9:06
  but
• 9:06
  emotionally.
• 9:07
  In
• 9:07
  accounting
• 9:07
  terms,
• 9:08
  we
• 9:08
  call
• 9:08
  this
• 9:08
  cost
• 9:09
  benefit
• 9:09
  analysis.
• 9:10
  It's
• 9:11
  something
• 9:11
  you
• 9:11
  absolutely
• 9:12
  have
• 9:12
  to
• 9:12
  do.
• 9:13
  Ask
• 9:13
  yourself,
• 9:13
  is
• 9:14
  the
• 9:14
  money
• 9:14
  I'm
• 9:15
  making
• 9:15
  worth
• 9:15
  the
• 9:16
  piece
• 9:16
  I'm
• 9:17
  losing?
• 9:18
  And
• 9:18
  be
• 9:18
  honest
• 9:19
  with
• 9:19
  yourself.
• 9:20
  Again,
• 9:21
  not
• 9:21
  a
• 9:21
  comfortable
• 9:21
  conversation,
• 9:22
  but
• 9:23
  one
• 9:23
  you
• 9:23
  need
• 9:23
  to
• 9:23
  have.
• 9:24
  Here's
• 9:24
  sign
• 9:25
  number
• 9:25
  five.
• 9:26
  You
• 9:26
  feel
• 9:26
  guilty
• 9:27
  all
• 9:27
  the
• 9:27
  time.
• 9:28
  You
• 9:28
  feel
• 9:28
  guilty
• 9:29
  when
• 9:29
  you're
• 9:29
  working
• 9:30
  because
• 9:30
  you're
• 9:30
  not
• 9:30
  with
• 9:31
  your
• 9:31
  family.
• 9:31
  You
• 9:32
  feel
• 9:32
  guilty
• 9:32
  when
• 9:32
  you're
• 9:33
  with
• 9:33
  your
• 9:33
  family
• 9:33
  because
• 9:34
  you're
• 9:34
  not
• 9:34
  working.
• 9:35
  That
• 9:35
  kind
• 9:36
  of
• 9:36
  constant
• 9:36
  guilt
• 9:37
  is
• 9:37
  exhausting.
• 9:38
  And
• 9:38
  guess
• 9:38
  what?
• 9:38
  It's
• 9:39
  unsustainable.
• 9:40
  You're
• 9:40
  not
• 9:40
  going
• 9:40
  to
• 9:40
  be
• 9:41
  able
• 9:41
  to
• 9:41
  keep
• 9:41
  that
• 9:41
  pace.
• 9:42
  Here's
• 9:43
  what
• 9:43
  I
• 9:43
  want
• 9:43
  you
• 9:43
  to
• 9:43
  do.
• 9:44
  Ask
• 9:44
  yourself,
• 9:45
  what
• 9:45
  would
• 9:45
  it
• 9:45
  take
• 9:45
  for
• 9:46
  me
• 9:46
  to
• 9:46
  feel
• 9:46
  okay
• 9:47
  again?
• 9:48
  Just
• 9:48
  that.
• 9:49
  What
• 9:49
  would
• 9:49
  it
• 9:49
  take
• 9:50
  for
• 9:50
  me
• 9:50
  to
• 9:50
  feel
• 9:51
  okay
• 9:51
  again?
• 9:51
  Because
• 9:52
  sometimes
• 9:52
  the
• 9:52
  answer
• 9:53
  is
• 9:53
  just
• 9:53
  boundaries
• 9:54
  and
• 9:55
  sometimes
• 9:56
  it's
• 9:56
  stopping
• 9:58
  but
• 9:58
  continuing
• 9:59
  in
• 9:59
  constant
• 9:59
  guilt
• 10:00
  is.
• 10:00
  Is
• 10:00
  not
• 10:01
  the
• 10:01
  answer.
• 10:02
  Here's
• 10:02
  sign
• 10:03
  number
• 10:03
  six.
• 10:04
  You
• 10:04
  can't
• 10:05
  remember
• 10:05
  the
• 10:06
  last
• 10:06
  time
• 10:06
  you
• 10:06
  truly
• 10:07
  rested.
• 10:08
  And
• 10:09
  see,
• 10:09
  rest
• 10:09
  isn't
• 10:10
  laziness.
• 10:10
  A
• 10:11
  lot
• 10:11
  of
• 10:11
  people
• 10:11
  say,
• 10:11
  well,
• 10:11
  if
• 10:11
  I'm
• 10:11
  resting,
• 10:12
  I'm
• 10:12
  lazy.
• 10:13
  We've
• 10:13
  been
• 10:13
  trained
• 10:14
  to
• 10:14
  that.
• 10:14
  Our
• 10:14
  parents,
• 10:15
  our
• 10:15
  grandparents,
• 10:16
  people
• 10:16
  around
• 10:17
  us
• 10:17
  trained
• 10:17
  us
• 10:17
  into
• 10:17
  that
• 10:18
  false
• 10:18
  belief.
• 10:19
  But
• 10:20
  rest
• 10:20
  is
• 10:20
  actually
• 10:21
  stewardship
• 10:22
  if
• 10:22
  you
• 10:22
  can't
• 10:22
  remember
• 10:23
  the
• 10:23
  last
• 10:23
  time
• 10:23
  you
• 10:23
  had
• 10:24
  a
• 10:24
  full
• 10:24
  day
• 10:24
  off,
• 10:24
  a
• 10:25
  day
• 10:25
  you
• 10:25
  weren't
• 10:25
  working,
• 10:26
  planning
• 10:26
  or
• 10:26
  thinking
• 10:27
  about
• 10:27
  work.
• 10:27
  So
• 10:28
  something's
• 10:28
  wrong.
• 10:28
  I
• 10:29
  recognized
• 10:29
  this
• 10:29
  yesterday
• 10:30
  in
• 10:30
  myself
• 10:31
  as
• 10:31
  I
• 10:31
  record
• 10:32
  this.
• 10:32
  Right
• 10:32
  now
• 10:32
  I'm
• 10:33
  thinking
• 10:33
  about
• 10:33
  this
• 10:33
  one.
• 10:35
  Here's
• 10:35
  what
• 10:35
  I
• 10:35
  want
• 10:35
  you
• 10:35
  to
• 10:36
  do.
• 10:36
  And
• 10:37
  it's
• 10:37
  going
• 10:37
  to
• 10:37
  sound
• 10:37
  crazy.
• 10:38
  Schedule
• 10:38
  the
• 10:38
  rest.
• 10:39
  Literally
• 10:40
  put
• 10:40
  it
• 10:40
  on
• 10:40
  your
• 10:40
  calendar
• 10:41
  and
• 10:41
  treat
• 10:42
  it
• 10:42
  as
• 10:42
  a
• 10:42
  non
• 10:42
  negotiable,
• 10:43
  as
• 10:43
  a
• 10:43
  client
• 10:43
  meeting.
• 10:44
  You
• 10:44
  don't
• 10:44
  miss
• 10:44
  client
• 10:44
  meetings,
• 10:45
  don't
• 10:45
  miss
• 10:45
  your
• 10:45
  rest.
• 10:47
  And
• 10:47
  if
• 10:47
  your
• 10:47
  side
• 10:48
  hustle
• 10:48
  doesn't
• 10:48
  allow
• 10:48
  you
• 10:49
  to
• 10:49
  rest,
• 10:49
  it's
• 10:50
  taking
• 10:50
  too
• 10:50
  much
• 10:51
  and
• 10:51
  you're
• 10:51
  going
• 10:51
  to
• 10:52
  burn
• 10:52
  out.
• 10:53
  And
• 10:53
  here's
• 10:54
  sign
• 10:54
  number
• 10:54
  seven.
• 10:55
  You're
• 10:56
  not
• 10:56
  sure
• 10:56
  why
• 10:56
  you're
• 10:57
  still
• 10:57
  doing
• 10:57
  it.
• 10:58
  Remember
• 10:58
  I
• 10:58
  talked
• 10:58
  about
• 10:58
  this
• 10:59
  a
• 10:59
  few
• 10:59
  days
• 10:59
  ago.
• 10:59
  You
• 10:59
  Got
• 11:00
  to
• 11:00
  know
• 11:00
  your
• 11:00
  why.
• 11:01
  But
• 11:01
  you
• 11:01
  also
• 11:01
  have
• 11:02
  to
• 11:02
  know
• 11:02
  why
• 11:02
  you're
• 11:03
  still
• 11:03
  doing
• 11:03
  it.
• 11:04
  Because
• 11:04
  maybe
• 11:04
  you
• 11:04
  started
• 11:05
  it
• 11:05
  for
• 11:05
  a
• 11:05
  specific
• 11:06
  reason.
• 11:06
  Maybe
• 11:07
  you
• 11:07
  were
• 11:07
  up
• 11:07
  to
• 11:07
  your
• 11:07
  eyes
• 11:08
  in
• 11:08
  debt.
• 11:08
  You
• 11:08
  wanted
• 11:09
  to
• 11:09
  pay
• 11:09
  off
• 11:09
  debt.
• 11:09
  Maybe
• 11:10
  you
• 11:10
  wanted
• 11:10
  to
• 11:10
  build
• 11:10
  an
• 11:11
  emergency
• 11:11
  fund.
• 11:11
  Maybe
• 11:12
  you
• 11:12
  wanted
• 11:12
  to
• 11:12
  cover
• 11:13
  some
• 11:13
  specific
• 11:13
  expense.
• 11:15
  But
• 11:15
  now,
• 11:15
  if
• 11:15
  you're
• 11:15
  being
• 11:16
  honest,
• 11:16
  you
• 11:16
  hit
• 11:16
  the
• 11:16
  goal.
• 11:17
  Or
• 11:17
  maybe
• 11:17
  your
• 11:18
  circumstances
• 11:18
  have
• 11:18
  changed
• 11:19
  and
• 11:19
  you're
• 11:20
  still
• 11:20
  hustling
• 11:21
  out
• 11:21
  of
• 11:21
  a
• 11:21
  habit
• 11:22
  or
• 11:22
  out
• 11:22
  of
• 11:22
  fear.
• 11:23
  Or
• 11:23
  maybe
• 11:23
  you
• 11:23
  had
• 11:23
  lifestyle
• 11:24
  craving.
• 11:24
  We
• 11:24
  talked
• 11:24
  about
• 11:25
  that
• 11:25
  the
• 11:25
  other
• 11:25
  day
• 11:25
  too.
• 11:27
  Here's
• 11:27
  what
• 11:27
  I
• 11:27
  want
• 11:27
  you
• 11:27
  to
• 11:27
  do.
• 11:28
  Ask
• 11:28
  yourself,
• 11:29
  why
• 11:29
  am
• 11:29
  I
• 11:29
  still
• 11:30
  doing
• 11:30
  this?
• 11:31
  It
• 11:31
  starts
• 11:32
  there.
• 11:32
  Why
• 11:32
  am
• 11:33
  I
• 11:33
  still
• 11:33
  doing
• 11:34
  this?
• 11:34
  And
• 11:34
  if
• 11:35
  you
• 11:35
  don't
• 11:35
  have
• 11:35
  a
• 11:35
  clear
• 11:35
  answer,
• 11:36
  if
• 11:36
  you
• 11:36
  don't
• 11:36
  have
• 11:36
  an
• 11:36
  answer
• 11:36
  right
• 11:37
  away,
• 11:37
  it
• 11:38
  might
• 11:38
  be
• 11:38
  time
• 11:38
  to
• 11:38
  stop.
• 11:39
  Because
• 11:40
  seasons
• 11:40
  change.
• 11:42
  And
• 11:42
  it's
• 11:42
  okay
• 11:42
  to
• 11:43
  let
• 11:43
  go
• 11:43
  of
• 11:43
  what
• 11:43
  worked
• 11:43
  before.
• 11:44
  That's
• 11:44
  not
• 11:45
  working
• 11:45
  now.
• 11:46
  Let's
• 11:46
  anchor
• 11:46
  this
• 11:47
  in
• 11:47
  truth.
• 11:47
  Let's
• 11:48
  look
• 11:48
  at
• 11:48
  Ecclesiastes,
• 11:49
  chapter
• 11:49
  4,
• 11:49
  verse
• 11:50
  6.
• 11:51
  Better
• 11:51
  one
• 11:51
  handful
• 11:52
  with
• 11:52
  tranquility
• 11:53
  than
• 11:53
  two
• 11:54
  handfuls
• 11:54
  with
• 11:55
  toil
• 11:55
  and
• 11:55
  chasing
• 11:56
  after
• 11:56
  the
• 11:56
  wind.
• 11:57
  What
• 11:57
  a
• 11:57
  beautiful
• 11:58
  verse
• 11:58
  today.
• 11:59
  More
• 12:00
  isn't
• 12:00
  always
• 12:01
  better.
• 12:02
  And
• 12:02
  it's
• 12:03
  taken
• 12:03
  me
• 12:03
  a
• 12:03
  long
• 12:03
  time.
• 12:04
  I'm
• 12:04
  53
• 12:04
  years
• 12:04
  old.
• 12:05
  I'm
• 12:05
  just
• 12:05
  now
• 12:05
  embracing
• 12:06
  that
• 12:07
  Sometimes
• 12:08
  less
• 12:08
  with
• 12:08
  peace
• 12:09
  is
• 12:10
  the
• 12:10
  wiser
• 12:11
  choice.
• 12:12
  See,
• 12:12
  God
• 12:12
  doesn't
• 12:13
  call
• 12:13
  you
• 12:13
  to
• 12:13
  constant
• 12:14
  striving,
• 12:15
  but
• 12:15
  what
• 12:15
  he
• 12:15
  does
• 12:16
  call
• 12:16
  you
• 12:16
  to
• 12:16
  is
• 12:16
  faithful
• 12:17
  stewardship.
• 12:18
  And
• 12:19
  sometimes
• 12:20
  stewardship
• 12:20
  means
• 12:21
  protecting
• 12:21
  your
• 12:22
  peace.
• 12:23
  So
• 12:23
  here's
• 12:24
  your
• 12:24
  action
• 12:24
  step
• 12:24
  for
• 12:25
  today.
• 12:25
  It's
• 12:25
  simple,
• 12:25
  but
• 12:26
  it
• 12:26
  is
• 12:26
  super
• 12:27
  important.
• 12:27
  I
• 12:27
  want
• 12:28
  you
• 12:28
  to
• 12:28
  evaluate
• 12:29
  your
• 12:29
  side
• 12:29
  hustle
• 12:30
  honestly.
• 12:30
  Ask
• 12:31
  yourself
• 12:31
  this
• 12:31
  question
• 12:32
  and
• 12:32
  it's
• 12:33
  really
• 12:33
  this
• 12:33
  simple.
• 12:33
  Does
• 12:34
  this
• 12:34
  bring
• 12:34
  peace
• 12:35
  or
• 12:35
  does
• 12:35
  it
• 12:36
  bring
• 12:36
  pressure?
• 12:37
  And
• 12:38
  I
• 12:38
  want
• 12:38
  you
• 12:38
  to
• 12:38
  write
• 12:38
  down
• 12:38
  your
• 12:39
  answer.
• 12:39
  Don't
• 12:39
  edit
• 12:39
  it.
• 12:40
  Don't
• 12:40
  justify.
• 12:40
  Just
• 12:41
  write
• 12:41
  what's
• 12:41
  true.
• 12:42
  Write
• 12:43
  that
• 12:43
  down
• 12:43
  and
• 12:43
  ask
• 12:43
  yourself,
• 12:44
  what's
• 12:44
  one
• 12:44
  thing
• 12:45
  I
• 12:45
  could
• 12:45
  change
• 12:45
  to
• 12:45
  make
• 12:46
  this
• 12:46
  better?
• 12:47
  For
• 12:47
  some
• 12:48
  of
• 12:48
  you,
• 12:48
  maybe
• 12:48
  you
• 12:48
  got
• 12:48
  to
• 12:48
  set
• 12:48
  a
• 12:49
  boundary.
• 12:49
  I
• 12:49
  can't
• 12:49
  do
• 12:50
  this.
• 12:50
  So
• 12:50
  many
• 12:50
  hours.
• 12:50
  Maybe
• 12:51
  you
• 12:51
  got
• 12:51
  to
• 12:51
  cut
• 12:51
  those
• 12:51
  hours.
• 12:53
  Or
• 12:53
  maybe
• 12:54
  you
• 12:54
  just
• 12:54
  have
• 12:54
  to
• 12:55
  walk
• 12:55
  away
• 12:55
  entirely
• 12:56
  from
• 12:56
  it.
• 12:57
  But
• 12:57
  let
• 12:57
  truth
• 12:58
  lead
• 12:58
  the
• 12:58
  next
• 12:58
  step.
• 12:59
  Let's
• 13:00
  pray
• 13:00
  together.
• 13:01
  Lord,
• 13:01
  thank
• 13:02
  you
• 13:02
  for
• 13:02
  the
• 13:02
  opportunity
• 13:03
  to
• 13:03
  work
• 13:03
  and
• 13:03
  provide.
• 13:04
  But
• 13:04
  help
• 13:05
  us
• 13:05
  remember
• 13:05
  that
• 13:05
  you
• 13:05
  care
• 13:06
  about
• 13:06
  more
• 13:06
  than
• 13:06
  just
• 13:07
  our
• 13:07
  income.
• 13:08
  You
• 13:08
  care
• 13:08
  about
• 13:08
  our
• 13:09
  well
• 13:09
  being,
• 13:10
  you
• 13:10
  care
• 13:10
  about
• 13:10
  our
• 13:11
  relationships,
• 13:12
  and
• 13:12
  you
• 13:12
  care
• 13:13
  about
• 13:13
  our
• 13:13
  peace.
• 13:14
  Give
• 13:15
  us
• 13:15
  wisdom
• 13:15
  to
• 13:15
  know
• 13:16
  when
• 13:16
  to
• 13:16
  push
• 13:16
  forward
• 13:17
  and
• 13:17
  when
• 13:17
  to
• 13:17
  pull
• 13:18
  back.
• 13:18
  Lord,
• 13:18
  help
• 13:18
  us
• 13:18
  choose
• 13:19
  peace
• 13:19
  without
• 13:20
  fear
• 13:21
  and
• 13:21
  without
• 13:21
  guilt.
• 13:22
  And
• 13:23
  remind
• 13:23
  us
• 13:23
  that
• 13:23
  our
• 13:23
  worth
• 13:24
  doesn't
• 13:24
  come
• 13:24
  from
• 13:24
  how
• 13:24
  much
• 13:25
  we
• 13:25
  produce,
• 13:26
  it
• 13:26
  comes
• 13:27
  from
• 13:27
  you.
• 13:28
  We
• 13:28
  ask
• 13:28
  this
• 13:29
  in
• 13:29
  Jesus
• 13:29
  name.
• 13:30
  Amen,
• 13:31
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• 13:32
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• 13:32
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• 13:32
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• 13:32
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• 13:33
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• 13:33
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• 13:34
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• 13:34
  trying
• 13:34
  to
• 13:34
  figure
• 13:35
  out
• 13:35
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• 13:35
  to
• 13:35
  keep
• 13:35
  going
• 13:35
  or
• 13:36
  just
• 13:36
  let
• 13:36
  go,
• 13:36
  you
• 13:37
  don't
• 13:37
  have
• 13:37
  to
• 13:37
  sort
• 13:37
  this
• 13:38
  out
• 13:38
  alone.
• 13:39
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• 13:39
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• 13:39
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• 13:40
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• 13:40
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• 13:40
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• 13:41
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• 13:41
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• 13:41
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• 13:41
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• 13:42
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• 13:42
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• 13:42
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• 13:43
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• 13:43
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• 13:45
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• 13:45
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• 13:45
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• 13:45
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• 13:47
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• 13:47
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• 13:47
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• 13:47
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• 13:58
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• 13:59
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• 14:17
  measure
• 14:17
  your
• 14:18
  faithfulness
• 14:18
  by
• 14:19
  how
• 14:19
  exhausted
• 14:20
  you
• 14:20
  are.
• 14:21
  Sometimes
• 14:21
  the
• 14:22
  most
• 14:22
  faithful
• 14:22
  thing
• 14:22
  you
• 14:23
  can
• 14:23
  do
• 14:23
  is
• 14:23
  rest
• 14:25
  stop
• 14:26
  and
• 14:26
  protect
• 14:27
  what
• 14:27
  matters
• 14:27
  most.
• 14:29
  And
• 14:29
  tomorrow
• 14:29
  we're
• 14:30
  going
• 14:30
  to
• 14:30
  follow
• 14:30
  up
• 14:30
  with
• 14:30
  that.
• 14:30
  We're
• 14:30
  going
• 14:30
  to
• 14:31
  talk
• 14:31
  about
• 14:31
  how
• 14:31
  you
• 14:31
  can
• 14:31
  grow
• 14:32
  income
• 14:32
  without
• 14:32
  burning
• 14:33
  out.
• 14:33
  That
• 14:33
  is
• 14:33
  going
• 14:33
  to
• 14:34
  be
• 14:34
  one
• 14:34
  you
• 14:34
  got
• 14:34
  to
• 14:35
  hear.
• 14:36
  And
• 14:36
  if
• 14:36
  this
• 14:36
  episode
• 14:37
  helped
• 14:37
  you,
• 14:37
  I
• 14:37
  want
• 14:38
  to
• 14:38
  encourage
• 14:38
  you
• 14:38
  to
• 14:38
  share
• 14:38
  with
• 14:39
  somebody
• 14:39
  who
• 14:39
  needs
• 14:39
  it.
• 14:40
  Maybe
• 14:40
  you've
• 14:41
  got
• 14:41
  a
• 14:41
  friend
• 14:41
  who's
• 14:41
  working
• 14:41
  too
• 14:42
  hard.
• 14:42
  Just
• 14:42
  text
• 14:42
  a
• 14:43
  link
• 14:43
  to
• 14:43
  the
• 14:43
  show.
• 14:43
  They
• 14:44
  need
• 14:44
  to
• 14:44
  hear
• 14:44
  this
• 14:44
  today
• 14:46
  because
• 14:46
  this
• 14:46
  show
• 14:46
  isn't
• 14:47
  about
• 14:47
  financial
• 14:47
  shame.
• 14:48
  It's
• 14:48
  about
• 14:48
  learning
• 14:48
  to
• 14:49
  walk
• 14:49
  in
• 14:49
  wisdom,
• 14:50
  stand
• 14:50
  financially
• 14:51
  savvy,
• 14:52
  and
• 14:52
  truly
• 14:52
  becoming
• 14:53
  a
• 14:53
  financially
• 14:54
  confident
• 14:54
  Christian.
• 14:55
  God
• 14:55
  bless
• 14:55
  you
• 14:56
  friend,
• 14:56
  and
• 14:56
  I'll
• 14:57
  see
• 14:57
  you
• 14:57
  again
• 14:57
  tomorrow.