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Surviving Unexpected Loss - Isolde Fair · Inside The Moms Club

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  Speaker 1: Hi, Welcome to inside the Mom's Club, where being a
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  Speaker 1: mom is the coolest place to be. Here in the
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  Speaker 1: Welcome Mom's Welcome to inside the Mom's Club. I'm your host,
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  Speaker 1: Monica Samuels, and I am thrilled to have with me
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  Speaker 1: today my co host, Julie Orchid. Welcome back, Julie.
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  Speaker 2: I'm bringing from here to hear.
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  Speaker 1: I am so thrilled to have Julie back. Now we
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  Speaker 1: had last time I was here, we had a couple
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  Speaker 1: of substitute hosts co host and well one of them
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  Speaker 1: my sisters. I think she wanted to be.
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  Speaker 3: The host, but that's a whole other story.
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  Speaker 1: But they filled in beautifully. Her daughter Georgia was another one.
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  Speaker 2: Yea special thank you for having her.
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  Speaker 1: Have you back? Can you share with our audience why
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  Speaker 1: you were here?
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  Speaker 2: Well, I took a little break.
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  Speaker 4: I've got one of those fancy stories that I got
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  Speaker 4: diagnosed with breast cancer, and I am so beyond thrilled
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  Speaker 4: and feel a ton of gratitude to be back today
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  Speaker 4: and back on track and super scary, but I was
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  Speaker 4: able to come back, and you know, be stronger and
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  Speaker 4: better before, and don't skip your mamacrams.
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  Speaker 2: That would be my first advice to everybody.
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  Speaker 4: So I'm doing very well and I'm truly over the
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  Speaker 4: moon to be here today.
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  Speaker 1: So well, we're over the moon that you are here.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, you're very excited, and it's hard to get rid
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  Speaker 2: of me.
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  Speaker 1: It's so hard. Happened, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, well yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I guess you're here permanently.
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  Speaker 3: There, I guess.
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  Speaker 2: I hope, so, I hope so yeah.
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  Speaker 1: So you and as far as I mean breast cancer,
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  Speaker 1: people get all different concepts. But my aunt was diagnosed
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  Speaker 1: with breast cancer many years ago. She she had the surgery,
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  Speaker 1: she had the five years of the drug to moxifin,
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  Speaker 1: and she's eighty seven now, and you know, that's sort
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  Speaker 1: of a memory of hers, that she had breast cancer.
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  Speaker 1: So these days that's not like in the old days.
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  Speaker 1: I guess people took it.
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  Speaker 2: As yeah, yeah, this is over, you're done. Whatever.
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  Speaker 4: I think the most part for getting a diagnosis of
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  Speaker 4: that is that we've come so far and you can
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  Speaker 4: really have You have your before cancer and then you
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  Speaker 4: have after cancer, and so what happens in between is
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  Speaker 4: really something that you know can you can fare well
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  Speaker 4: from this type of thing. So but for the most part,
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  Speaker 4: I just really like seeing that diagnosis on a piece
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  Speaker 4: of paper. You think it's someone else, you don't think
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  Speaker 4: it's you, and you have to really process that and
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  Speaker 4: go through you know what life is going to look like. So, yes,
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  Speaker 4: your aunt eighty seven, and I'm not going to give
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  Speaker 4: my age, but.
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  Speaker 2: Not eighty seven if.
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  Speaker 1: You aspired to eighty seven decades.
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  Speaker 4: From you anyway, I think for the most part this
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  Speaker 4: is inside the mom's club.
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  Speaker 2: And for the most.
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  Speaker 4: Part, for me, I always knew that I could handle
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  Speaker 4: anything that came my way. But I have children and
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  Speaker 4: two daughters, and I'm gonna try not try because my
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  Speaker 4: daughter's here today. But for the most part, I would
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  Speaker 4: never want to leave them, and that would be that's
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  Speaker 4: the hard part. So that was the hard part for me.
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  Speaker 4: But I'm a fighter and I'm here. I'm ready to roll.
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  Speaker 1: Well, good, we're ready. We're ready to roll with you
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  Speaker 1: for sure.
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  Speaker 2: So thanks for asking. I appreciate it.
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  Speaker 1: Well, I'm just happy. I'm thrilled your back. Yeah, and
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  Speaker 1: I think you're story is important.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, there's a lot to it.
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  Speaker 4: There's a lot to it without going into all the
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  Speaker 4: details of it, but it's definitely show worthy and talking
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  Speaker 4: about because actually, I'm one of eight women, and so
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  Speaker 4: if I have a platform or something to say about it,
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  Speaker 4: it's definitely something that needs to be known. And it's common.
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  Speaker 4: It's common, it's common and so and it's super scary.
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  Speaker 4: But yeah, so thanks for.
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  Speaker 2: Letting me talk about it.
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  Speaker 1: And something you just said reminded so years ago they
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  Speaker 1: thought I might have a varying cancer, right, Fortunately I
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  Speaker 1: did not, thank God. But but you're right when they
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  Speaker 1: first tell you that, yeah, you've kind of body and
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  Speaker 1: your life happening to me.
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  Speaker 4: And you hear nothing once they tell you or they
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  Speaker 4: say something to you.
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  Speaker 2: And even though these physicians.
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  Speaker 4: Say it to people every day, once they say it
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  Speaker 4: to you, you're like, I can't hear anything that you're
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  Speaker 4: saying because all the wave, if you know, whether you're
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  Speaker 4: a mom or not, or you have things going on
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  Speaker 4: in your life, it just comes over you like, how
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  Speaker 4: am I how am.
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  Speaker 2: I going to manage this?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah?
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  Speaker 4: So anyway, I'm incredibly blessed have friends and family that
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  Speaker 4: is above and beyond, and I would wish that what
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  Speaker 4: I have going on in my life to anybody, you know,
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  Speaker 4: and especially my daughter who came home and took you know,
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  Speaker 4: without it, didn't skip a beat about Yeah, I'm going
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  Speaker 4: to be there and no matter what not, I have
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  Speaker 4: a life. I can't do it, just not even didn't
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  Speaker 4: even skip a beat. And we're tight people.
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  Speaker 1: We're tight and the good and all your friends, because
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  Speaker 1: that's what the Mom's Club is all about. Are we
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  Speaker 1: are good friends that we're there for you? Yeah, you are, And.
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  Speaker 4: Yes I'm the friend you want to have. I will
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  Speaker 4: drive you to the er and I'll take you to
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  Speaker 4: the airport.
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  Speaker 2: What more, what more would you want?
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  Speaker 1: And she drives me around Los Angeles with I have
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  Speaker 1: my eyes closed and awful, you guys, I'm the worst
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  Speaker 1: passenger in a stressful situation, like truly, Yeah, I know,
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  Speaker 1: we've got to get over those four lanes and she's like,
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  Speaker 1: I got it, and so then I closed my eyes,
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  Speaker 1: embraced myself and we so we're here now. Nothing nothing
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  Speaker 1: bad exactly, Well, you had a difficult January and February.
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  Speaker 2: But I'm not the only one.
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  Speaker 1: You are not the only one, and so today we're
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  Speaker 1: going to share a different story. Our guest today has
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  Speaker 1: been with us before. The Last time she was here,
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  Speaker 1: she was here with her mom talking about their amazing
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  Speaker 1: or as we say in the Mom's called amazing careers.
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  Speaker 1: She is a rising recording artist, singer, and violinist who
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  Speaker 1: has made a significant impact on the music scene. By
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  Speaker 1: the time she was eighteen, she'd already performed at Lincoln
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  Speaker 1: Center and had a song on a Grammy Awarding Award
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  Speaker 1: winning album. She is truly amazing, and she is here
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  Speaker 1: to share her story with us about her family's experience
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  Speaker 1: with the Palisades fire. Sadly they lost their home and
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  Speaker 1: we'll hear more about it. Please welcome is sold a
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  Speaker 1: fair back to the Mom's Club.
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  Speaker 5: Hello are you guys?
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  Speaker 1: Thank you for having me?
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  Speaker 6: Are good?
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  Speaker 1: So so Julius told her story. She had a little difficult,
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  Speaker 1: A little difficult. She had a difficult but you're you
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  Speaker 1: know you can relate.
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  Speaker 5: Sorry, very okay, I'm so sorry with what you had
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  Speaker 5: to go through. You know, it's but the fact that
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  Speaker 5: you're a survivor, and the fact that you're fighting is
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  Speaker 5: something that I feel like I can relate to, and
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  Speaker 5: it's amazing that you're still fighting, because truly, I feel like,
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  Speaker 5: as women and as people, we are at a point
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  Speaker 5: in our life when we're when we're figuring out and
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  Speaker 5: learning how to be braver and to be able to
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  Speaker 5: be more of ourselves than like be okay with that
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  Speaker 5: and be able to I think, what's the word, like
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  Speaker 5: be able to like fend for ourselves and be able
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  Speaker 5: to be there and be strong and not to back down.
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  Speaker 1: You know, well, you both are a good example of that.
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  Speaker 1: So let's let's start.
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  Speaker 3: Well, you're it's it takes a little time.
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  Speaker 1: Let's easy for me to say on the one the
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  Speaker 1: middle that doesn't have a story to tell, Oh, that's
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  Speaker 1: not true.
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  Speaker 3: That's True's so not true.
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  Speaker 5: I mean, you're here, I forget us. That's true.
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  Speaker 3: That's true.
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  Speaker 1: So take us back before we talk about the other
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  Speaker 1: side of it. Take us back to that day. So
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  Speaker 1: what exactly was your experience?
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  Speaker 5: Oh, good lord, I was sick with the flu. I
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  Speaker 5: was sick with the flu. I think until or I
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  Speaker 5: got the flu. I think it was a couple of
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  Speaker 5: days beforehand, you know, it was just kind of going
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  Speaker 5: around at the time. Yeah, you know, you don't really know,
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  Speaker 5: you know, what to expect. That it comes every year,
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  Speaker 5: it comes every winter, and I'm the type of person
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  Speaker 5: that only gets sick probably around like once or twice
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  Speaker 5: a year. And for all the moms out there, my
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  Speaker 5: mom got me hooked on cod liver oil from Air One.
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  Speaker 5: I will say, since I was three years old, I
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  Speaker 5: have been taking it NonStop. I only get sick like
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  Speaker 5: once or twice a year, so it's very good for
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  Speaker 5: your body and your immune system. And I was kind of,
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  Speaker 5: i would say, like loosening myself up, and I wasn't
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  Speaker 5: really taking the cod liver as I should be. You know.
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  Speaker 5: I was rushing everywhere doing jobs, doing things that I'm like, oh,
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  Speaker 5: work is so important, you know, and I really wanted
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  Speaker 5: to maintain more of my health. But I just kind
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  Speaker 5: of had like a little downfall and I was like, okay,
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  Speaker 5: I had the flu. The worst that could happen is
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  Speaker 5: that I just like sit in my room all day
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  Speaker 5: and either record songs or sleep. You know. I was
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  Speaker 5: getting some rest and it was a beautiful morning. Yeah,
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  Speaker 5: just start the days started off so beautiful and I
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  Speaker 5: love I mean, this is like a biased opinion, but
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  Speaker 5: I love the Santa Ana Wins. I always have never
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  Speaker 5: had a problem with them. I just thought they were
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  Speaker 5: so beautiful, even though they can be a complete destriction
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  Speaker 5: as we all know.
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  Speaker 4: Now, you know, see them being calming and something, yeah,
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  Speaker 4: is bringing, you know, something more spiritual.
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  Speaker 5: Than absolutely and it's there's something about the one that's
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  Speaker 5: so beautiful, and so I think, like it blusters and
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  Speaker 5: it's just a nice breeze and your hair and and
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  Speaker 5: you know, a nice feeling on your body and you know,
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  Speaker 5: with the sun, and it's just especially in California. I mean,
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  Speaker 5: that's why we all live here, right, you know, that's
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  Speaker 5: why so many people live here. As they come for
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  Speaker 5: the ocean, they come for the beach, they come for
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  Speaker 5: the sunny days, because it's practically spring every season of
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  Speaker 5: the year. So the morning just started off so beautiful,
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  Speaker 5: and I was at a moment where I was just like,
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  Speaker 5: I was still really sick, but again I was like,
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  Speaker 5: I'm just gonna, like, you know, put put up the
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  Speaker 5: blinds and I'm just gonna enjoy the weather and love
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  Speaker 5: living in the Palisades, you know, because I did love
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  Speaker 5: living in that area. So I was staying at my
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  Speaker 5: parents' house and my mom comes in and she's like, oh,
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  Speaker 5: there's a fire in the Highlands, and okay, so on
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  Speaker 5: Jane way. First, there was a bunch of different parties happening,
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  Speaker 5: you know, for New Year's and so my cousin and
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  Speaker 5: I got back home around like maybe four am, and
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  Speaker 5: so it was a party for sure.
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  Speaker 3: I went to a couple of them.
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  Speaker 5: And he was staying over at my place because he
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  Speaker 5: lived super far, you know, in a different area, and
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  Speaker 5: so he's kind of like my older brother, except I
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  Speaker 5: bost him around like a little sister and I'm like,
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  Speaker 5: go sit over there, like that's where you're sleeping. You're
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  Speaker 5: sleeping on the couch. And he's like, can I have
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  Speaker 5: a pillow? And I'm like I'll throw it from the
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  Speaker 5: other room, you know. And I was like, I'm tired.
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  Speaker 5: I don't want to wake anybody up. And that morning,
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  Speaker 5: like we had a really nice morning and I'm you know,
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  Speaker 5: I told my mom, I was like, I'm sorry if
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  Speaker 5: we like woke you up or anything, and she's like, no,
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  Speaker 5: you didn't. Actually I was already awake.
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  Speaker 7: You know.
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  Speaker 5: There was a fire in the Highlands on January first,
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  Speaker 5: early that morning, around like four am. And that morning,
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  Speaker 5: when I was with my cousin before we went into
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  Speaker 5: the house, we saw all these helicopters kind of surrounding
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  Speaker 5: the violence area and we're like, okay, like the firefighters
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  Speaker 5: are going to take it out. It's gonna be fine.
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  Speaker 5: And they did like they always do, and like, I'm
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  Speaker 5: so grateful for them, but with this fire, yeah, there,
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  Speaker 5: that's not first.
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  Speaker 1: And they thought later that there were people shooting off
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  Speaker 1: fireworks for the New Year, Is that right?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, So there was kids that were shooting off fireworks,
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  Speaker 5: and I think that the fire did not get completely maintained,
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  Speaker 5: and so there was embers that were lying around. And
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  Speaker 5: so when the wind picked up on this seventh or
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  Speaker 5: it was like the sixth or the seventh, that part
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  Speaker 5: of the Highlands started.
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  Speaker 1: To reignited the fire and the sant Ana winds like
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  Speaker 1: drove it over towards the palisades. So how long between
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  Speaker 1: the time your mom said that and then did she
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  Speaker 1: say we need to evacuate or when you're here, you're sick.
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  Speaker 5: So so we had gone through a couple of evacuations before,
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  Speaker 5: and this was not the first you know, and the
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  Speaker 5: Highlens has always had some sort of fire every now
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  Speaker 5: and then, whether it was like an artisan meaning like
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  Speaker 5: somebody who was like igniting a fire because they wanted
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  Speaker 5: to or for some stupid reason, or you know, maybe
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  Speaker 5: like a spark happens between a power line and a brush,
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  Speaker 5: or who knows. You know, there's so many things that
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  Speaker 5: could happen.
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  Speaker 4: For someone's from California. If you have a go bag,
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  Speaker 4: do you have like how does this work?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah?
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  Speaker 2: What happened?
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  Speaker 1: So setting this scene? So you're sick, you don't feel well,
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  Speaker 1: and what did you take? Like how did you decide?
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  Speaker 5: What?
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  Speaker 1: God?
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  Speaker 5: So typically, on every evacuation that I you know, was
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  Speaker 5: a part of then the times that I've lived in
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  Speaker 5: the Palisades, I always took my most expensive clothing.
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  Speaker 2: It's hurt, it's art.
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  Speaker 5: It's art my mom. It is a muss my mom made.
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  Speaker 5: She she had this Versace jumpsuit. Oh, it was so
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  Speaker 5: beautiful and it was from the nineties, and so as
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  Speaker 5: a kid, she always just like she's like it was
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  Speaker 5: one thousand dollars back then, and I bet it's going
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  Speaker 5: to be like more now. And and it was something
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  Speaker 5: that also like the piece itself is literal art. It
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  Speaker 5: had like Mozart on It had all these different composers,
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  Speaker 5: and it had like music notes and like violins, and
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  Speaker 5: I loved it. I would be very it was very cool.
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  Speaker 5: And I was like, oh, I took it. I took it.
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  Speaker 5: That was one of the first things. So I took
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  Speaker 5: it because it just meant so much to me. Yeah,
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  Speaker 5: you know, And I was super sick and I didn't
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  Speaker 5: have like any fluids or any food in my body.
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  Speaker 5: So I was just like so out of it, and
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  Speaker 5: my mind was just like what am I doing? So
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  Speaker 5: I went through my closet and I was like, what's replaceable.
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  Speaker 5: I was like, that's replaceable. That's replaceable. Oh, that could
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  Speaker 5: be replaced. Oh I don't think I'll need that. You know.
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  Speaker 5: There's a bunch of things.
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  Speaker 2: That their animals involved.
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  Speaker 5: Oh yes, my dog Dmitri Shostakovich.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, I'm sorry, can you say this one more?
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  Speaker 5: Test you Always in my family, it's a tradition to
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  Speaker 5: name a dog after a classical composer of no why not?
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  Speaker 7: You know?
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  Speaker 5: So his name is Dimitri Shostakovich. I call him Shosty
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  Speaker 5: for shorts or d me. It's a little you know,
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  Speaker 5: cute name. He We definitely took him, of course, you know,
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  Speaker 5: so obviously your pet.
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  Speaker 1: Or whole different story.
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  Speaker 5: Don't don't leave your animals.
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  Speaker 1: You guys told you you took your birth certificate, which
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  Speaker 1: you learned, or you took some documents you didn't need
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  Speaker 1: to take right because you could have gotten them later.
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  Speaker 5: I took actually I did not take any documentary, oh okay,
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  Speaker 5: which was actually totally fine because the government said it's
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  Speaker 5: all free, and I was like, great, thanks, yeah, like
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  Speaker 5: let's go government, you know. But I took my grammys.
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  Speaker 5: I thank god, thank god.
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  Speaker 1: Did your mom she had great too, so she didn't
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  Speaker 1: take her grands she did not.
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  Speaker 5: I don't know whyt Oh, they're replaceable for sure, and
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  Speaker 5: I think a majority of the things that are in
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  Speaker 5: somebody's house are so replaceable. Besides, i'd say grandma's jewelry,
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  Speaker 5: which these are these rings right here, which like they
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  Speaker 5: are my grandma's and they were all in the safety
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  Speaker 5: deposit box that burned in the fire. But it burned around,
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  Speaker 5: it burned around, So think the Lord that our safe
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  Speaker 5: box was good. But you know, I think the thing
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  Speaker 5: was was that like still, I mean, you know, I
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  Speaker 5: this was one of the only pieces. Everything else on
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  Speaker 5: my body right now is donated, sure, you know, but
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  Speaker 5: this cross was something that I took. My mom gave
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  Speaker 5: me a Tiffany necklace for graduation, so I took that
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  Speaker 5: because it just was meaningful to sentimental, you know.
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  Speaker 4: So you have all these possessions, and I think that
• 17:01
  Speaker 4: you know, you think about possessions for what they are, right,
• 17:03
  Speaker 4: not the most important thing. So you're Monica and I
• 17:07
  Speaker 4: have kids in our twenties, and you know, we what
• 17:11
  Speaker 4: is it like for you as a young person?
• 17:13
  Speaker 2: What does this teach you? How do you start over?
• 17:16
  Speaker 2: What is the lesson in it?
• 17:18
  Speaker 5: Well? I think for me because I was born and
• 17:22
  Speaker 5: raised in that same house that I grew up in
• 17:25
  Speaker 5: in the Palisades, for me, it's more of a new start,
• 17:29
  Speaker 5: So it seems more I think positive because I think
• 17:33
  Speaker 5: there's so much positivity and even in such a destructive
• 17:37
  Speaker 5: and chaotic time, you know, I think you learn from
• 17:40
  Speaker 5: the lessons of being a young kid. And in a way,
• 17:45
  Speaker 5: the fire is like a sense of relief. It's like
• 17:49
  Speaker 5: it kind of washes everything off of you and like
• 17:52
  Speaker 5: you become a new person. It's like the phoenix literally
• 17:56
  Speaker 5: rising from the action. Sorry Ashes, Yeah, no pun intended.
• 18:01
  Speaker 1: So do you your parents, how did they view it,
• 18:04
  Speaker 1: because they're older and those were decades of their possessions,
• 18:08
  Speaker 1: and how did they feel about.
• 18:09
  Speaker 5: I think in that situation, it's a little different because
• 18:13
  Speaker 5: for me, it's something where it's more like more of
• 18:17
  Speaker 5: an adventure and more of something where I'm like, oh, okay,
• 18:20
  Speaker 5: I'm going to be okay being able to grow up now,
• 18:23
  Speaker 5: Like I yes, I hope that my childhood home was restored.
• 18:27
  Speaker 5: I'm not going to live there again, though, you know,
• 18:29
  Speaker 5: I'll visit my parents if they move back there. But
• 18:32
  Speaker 5: you know, I'm now an adult. I'm twenty one years old.
• 18:35
  Speaker 5: You know, I'm starting to figure out my living situation
• 18:38
  Speaker 5: and live on my own.
• 18:39
  Speaker 7: You know.
• 18:40
  Speaker 5: With my parents, it's a place where they literally got
• 18:44
  Speaker 5: that house from nothing, you know, like they grew up.
• 18:48
  Speaker 5: They grew up in two different types of households. You know.
• 18:52
  Speaker 5: My dad grew up with like two brothers and he
• 18:54
  Speaker 5: was the oldest, and he lived in Seattle and he
• 18:57
  Speaker 5: came down to be in the music industry. And my
• 19:02
  Speaker 5: mom her mother and dad or father. Her mom was
• 19:07
  Speaker 5: a actress at one point and then decided to become
• 19:10
  Speaker 5: a holistic healer and chiropractor and doctor. And then my
• 19:15
  Speaker 5: grandpa on my mom's side, he was an alternative. He
• 19:19
  Speaker 5: was like an alternative blah, oh my god, the an
• 19:23
  Speaker 5: alternative energy. And he was also in like finance, you know.
• 19:29
  Speaker 5: And so he grew up. He grew up from nothing
• 19:31
  Speaker 5: to He was an immigrant from Italy and so his
• 19:34
  Speaker 5: parents his mom died young. His father was very abusive,
• 19:38
  Speaker 5: and so he grew up with a sister who actually
• 19:42
  Speaker 5: worked at Hannah Barbera as like a cell drawer, the Flintstones,
• 19:47
  Speaker 5: and she's so cool, like the most Italian woman you'll
• 19:51
  Speaker 5: ever meet. And he decided to move to Baja California
• 19:57
  Speaker 5: and really start to start his life again because in
• 19:59
  Speaker 5: the nineteen oh six earthquake, he was like one years old,
• 20:02
  Speaker 5: but his parents lost everything in San Francisco and so
• 20:06
  Speaker 5: there was a.
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: There's so they had some knowledge of what it's like
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: to lose things like that at their age. So where
• 20:14
  Speaker 1: we have zoomer moms who have lots.
• 20:15
  Speaker 3: Of questions, but amazing before we.
• 20:18
  Speaker 1: Get to them really quick, you told me too that
• 20:21
  Speaker 1: you learned a lot like there are resources like you
• 20:24
  Speaker 1: can mention your clothes you're wearing our donated so you
• 20:29
  Speaker 1: learned you had nothing, had nothing, and how do you
• 20:33
  Speaker 1: go about accessing those resources?
• 20:35
  Speaker 3: Are their own groups that.
• 20:36
  Speaker 1: Help you automatically jump in there and say, you know, yes,
• 20:40
  Speaker 1: some help or or we'll help you, or do you
• 20:42
  Speaker 1: have to seek them out.
• 20:43
  Speaker 5: There's so many different foundations and so many different corporations
• 20:48
  Speaker 5: that are so amazing.
• 20:50
  Speaker 2: Can give us one that you really stuck out to you.
• 20:53
  Speaker 5: Oh, there was this one. I'm trying to remember what
• 20:58
  Speaker 5: it was. I think it was called either a List Hollywood,
• 21:00
  Speaker 5: which was really really lovely group of women in.
• 21:03
  Speaker 2: The industry and everything.
• 21:06
  Speaker 5: J Lo donated some clothing. I got a pair of
• 21:08
  Speaker 5: Versace heels. Her I was like, she had a lot
• 21:14
  Speaker 5: of Louis Bauton or lou Baton heels and.
• 21:19
  Speaker 2: Happen it's good yeah to her size literally literally.
• 21:24
  Speaker 5: There was a bunch of different clothing that were donated
• 21:28
  Speaker 5: through different people in the industry, which was so lovely
• 21:32
  Speaker 5: because I think the community itself, it's so strong, and
• 21:35
  Speaker 5: that's what I learned throughout this whole situation, and I'd
• 21:39
  Speaker 5: say that was one. I think that's what it's called.
• 21:42
  Speaker 5: I think it's called a Hollywood you know, that's one,
• 21:46
  Speaker 5: and then I love there's this one called Frankie's Bikinis,
• 21:51
  Speaker 5: which was really cute, and they had a bunch of
• 21:53
  Speaker 5: like swimwear stuff and very high end, very nice, and
• 21:56
  Speaker 5: they you could pick like three different outfits and three
• 21:59
  Speaker 5: different things, and it was like by appointment only to
• 22:04
  Speaker 5: rag and Bone did one as well, okay for jeans,
• 22:07
  Speaker 5: which was lovely. And then there was one at this
• 22:10
  Speaker 5: like an editorial house like in the like the parking
• 22:14
  Speaker 5: lot that a good friend of mine told me about
• 22:18
  Speaker 5: and he also like lost his place in the fire,
• 22:20
  Speaker 5: and so he told me about it, and he told
• 22:22
  Speaker 5: me to go there, and everybody there was so lovely
• 22:24
  Speaker 5: as well, and so I don't know, I think also
• 22:28
  Speaker 5: being able, like a bunch of my childhood friends also
• 22:31
  Speaker 5: lost their place, so like we're all kind of in
• 22:33
  Speaker 5: the same boat. But I think being able to have
• 22:36
  Speaker 5: a strong community and like be there for one another.
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: So that's that's at the Mom's Club that we have
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: by our zoomer moms, because I'm sure they have a
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: lot of questions. So welcome zoomer moms. Welcome to the
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: Mom's Club. Well, let's start with Annie tell us a
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: little bit about where you're from, and do you have
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: any children? And do you have a question for a
• 23:00
  Speaker 1: soul day?
• 23:01
  Speaker 8: I do, I do, and I do.
• 23:04
  Speaker 5: So.
• 23:06
  Speaker 9: I am a mom of two boys, one of which
• 23:09
  Speaker 9: is the younger. He's twenty six, and I guess we
• 23:16
  Speaker 9: have a little bit in common in that I was
• 23:19
  Speaker 9: his manager for a time when he was growing up.
• 23:22
  Speaker 9: He's a guitar player. He's in a band in Chicago
• 23:27
  Speaker 9: and it's called the Untold And it's leading to my
• 23:30
  Speaker 9: question for her. They have reported some really good music
• 23:35
  Speaker 9: in the last year that has to do with mental
• 23:37
  Speaker 9: health issues, which is a huge topic front now for
• 23:41
  Speaker 9: lots of reasons.
• 23:43
  Speaker 10: But I guess where I want to go with her
• 23:45
  Speaker 10: is today.
• 23:47
  Speaker 9: From what I'm seeing, she seems to be in a
• 23:49
  Speaker 9: good play. I try to, But what I want to
• 23:54
  Speaker 9: know is how did you get there?
• 23:57
  Speaker 8: Like, you know, did you.
• 23:59
  Speaker 10: Go somewhere or even your parents for you know, counseling,
• 24:03
  Speaker 10: or did you all join a group a support group,
• 24:08
  Speaker 10: because you do seem to be I guess resolved not
• 24:13
  Speaker 10: be a good word with you. Said, you know you
• 24:17
  Speaker 10: had that loss, now, but how did you get to
• 24:19
  Speaker 10: that place? Because it had to be devastating for at
• 24:23
  Speaker 10: least a few weeks.
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: Good question, A great question.
• 24:27
  Speaker 5: I think that's an amazing question and something that I
• 24:30
  Speaker 5: actually want to actually talk about with you guys. I
• 24:33
  Speaker 5: think mental health is so huge. My mental health was
• 24:37
  Speaker 5: never this good. Ever. I think that if my younger
• 24:43
  Speaker 5: self would have saw me, she would have been so
• 24:46
  Speaker 5: so proud. And I think that as a kid there.
• 24:51
  Speaker 5: I was actually just talking about this with a friend
• 24:53
  Speaker 5: of mine in the car the other day, and I
• 24:56
  Speaker 5: think there's so many different things that you know, you
• 25:00
  Speaker 5: you surround yourself with different people in your environment. I mean,
• 25:03
  Speaker 5: there was a time where I want to be so honest,
• 25:07
  Speaker 5: I was suicidal when I was sixteen years old, and
• 25:10
  Speaker 5: it was something where I was at a really dark
• 25:12
  Speaker 5: place in my life and it was difficult to be
• 25:16
  Speaker 5: able to want to live on planet Earth. And that
• 25:19
  Speaker 5: was at a time where I was trying to figure
• 25:22
  Speaker 5: out myself because I either by teachers that I had
• 25:26
  Speaker 5: in my life, told that I was not good enough,
• 25:28
  Speaker 5: that I'd become a failure. And this is by people
• 25:32
  Speaker 5: that I cared about in my life, not my parents.
• 25:34
  Speaker 5: My parents were definitely there for me, but I think
• 25:37
  Speaker 5: they were always trying to be strong for me and
• 25:40
  Speaker 5: so I wanted to be strong for myself so I
• 25:43
  Speaker 5: could be strong for others. And I took mental health
• 25:47
  Speaker 5: into my own hands when I knew I was going downhill.
• 25:52
  Speaker 5: There was a couple other situations that I feel are
• 25:54
  Speaker 5: super important to talk about. I got interrogated by the
• 25:57
  Speaker 5: police when I was sixteen years old and they handcuffed
• 26:01
  Speaker 5: my hands behind a chair in somebody's office without my
• 26:05
  Speaker 5: parents knowing about it. And I was at a camp
• 26:07
  Speaker 5: in Michigan, and that scared the living daylights out of me,
• 26:12
  Speaker 5: and I didn't know who to talk to try. I
• 26:15
  Speaker 5: felt like I lost a lot of trust in humankind,
• 26:19
  Speaker 5: and then I started to regain it after I started
• 26:21
  Speaker 5: to love myself again. And I was always like wanting
• 26:25
  Speaker 5: to be there for myself. I always wanted to love myself,
• 26:28
  Speaker 5: and I think everybody should. Everybody should love their self,
• 26:30
  Speaker 5: you know, fully to love somebody else. And so I
• 26:35
  Speaker 5: really took mental health seriously because I was an absolute toll.
• 26:40
  Speaker 5: And so I decided that I was going to go
• 26:42
  Speaker 5: to counseling. It was super expensive. I had a family
• 26:46
  Speaker 5: friend who was a psychologist and she helped me, and
• 26:49
  Speaker 5: she saved my life multiple times. When I was sixteen
• 26:53
  Speaker 5: and I am now free of that.
• 26:56
  Speaker 4: I speak fly about it and I think that really help.
• 27:00
  Speaker 5: Yeah, for sure, So I I took better help. I mean,
• 27:05
  Speaker 5: I don't know if this should be a sponsor had
• 27:07
  Speaker 5: for better help, better help sponsor me?
• 27:10
  Speaker 3: I love you.
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: The best endorsement is one for the genuine.
• 27:15
  Speaker 4: Why people know about it, if it really helped, it
• 27:19
  Speaker 4: really helped it.
• 27:20
  Speaker 5: Really mean did I had this amazing counselor and she
• 27:25
  Speaker 5: one counselor. Yes, and she like was so amazing and
• 27:31
  Speaker 5: I had her in my life. But I also like
• 27:34
  Speaker 5: when I was doing classical music because I was classically
• 27:37
  Speaker 5: trained and violin for seventeen years and now I'm a
• 27:40
  Speaker 5: pop singer. So definitely a change, you know. But I
• 27:46
  Speaker 5: the thing is is that like I had a teacher,
• 27:48
  Speaker 5: a violent teer, I had a couple of violent teachers
• 27:50
  Speaker 5: that were very different from one another. The first one
• 27:53
  Speaker 5: was not my favorite and I and I wish her
• 27:57
  Speaker 5: the best, I really do, you know. I think she
• 28:00
  Speaker 5: helped me and she hurt me the very same time.
• 28:02
  Speaker 5: And she was the one that was telling me I
• 28:04
  Speaker 5: wasn't good enough and You'll never be good enough to
• 28:06
  Speaker 5: be playing this orchestra. Because you never do this, and
• 28:10
  Speaker 5: I think critigue is such a toxic thing to do.
• 28:13
  Speaker 5: I mean, critique is great, but in a healthy way
• 28:16
  Speaker 5: it should be maintained. But it was very toxic for
• 28:20
  Speaker 5: a very long time, for about like maybe ten years,
• 28:22
  Speaker 5: and so I told myself, I'm like, I'm not going
• 28:25
  Speaker 5: to go through that. And then I went through another
• 28:27
  Speaker 5: teacher who was lovely, but it was hard for me
• 28:30
  Speaker 5: to open up. Yeah, even with playing already been shut down.
• 28:33
  Speaker 5: You've already been shut down, yes, exactly. And so she
• 28:37
  Speaker 5: was lovely, but she decided to go another path with
• 28:40
  Speaker 5: profession and she went to become an incredible teacher at
• 28:43
  Speaker 5: UVEM at the University of Michigan.
• 28:46
  Speaker 1: So what I'm hearing too, it's like, if you look
• 28:48
  Speaker 1: at that experience, which was pretty devastating at the time,
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: and you you got counseling, you dealt with it. If
• 28:55
  Speaker 1: someone were to tell people a scenario and say, what
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: would be worse just having a really rough we can
• 29:02
  Speaker 1: even call it abusive at times situation as a child
• 29:06
  Speaker 1: or having your house burned down, most people would think
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: the thing that would make you come out the other
• 29:12
  Speaker 1: side not as together and saying I'm feeling better than
• 29:15
  Speaker 1: I ever felt before would be the house burning down.
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: So yeah, so you are really a testimony to the
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: good counseling you did get.
• 29:25
  Speaker 5: Thank you. I yeah, well yeah, going, going more on
• 29:29
  Speaker 5: that topic is even the people around you are the
• 29:34
  Speaker 5: most influential in your life, you know, and.
• 29:36
  Speaker 1: So have your parents been They've been positive for you,
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: they've had a good attitude and been positive, or.
• 29:43
  Speaker 5: They've had mixed mixed attitudes. But that is so okay
• 29:47
  Speaker 5: because they've been going, they've been.
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: They've been through well, let me not miss our other
• 29:51
  Speaker 1: Zoomer moms here.
• 29:52
  Speaker 3: So that's okay.
• 29:54
  Speaker 5: So it's such a good question.
• 29:56
  Speaker 1: Yes, it was excellent question. Thank you, Annie. Billy Ray.
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: Welcome to the Mom's Club. Please tell us your name,
• 30:02
  Speaker 1: where you're from, and do you have a question for
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: the Soul Day.
• 30:07
  Speaker 8: Yeah, hi everybody, Billy Ray here. I am actually a
• 30:12
  Speaker 8: new mom. I have a five month old daughter.
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: Congratulations, congratulations.
• 30:16
  Speaker 5: That's amazing.
• 30:17
  Speaker 8: On on a learning journey for sure.
• 30:21
  Speaker 6: But yeah, it's been great and thank you for sharing
• 30:24
  Speaker 6: your story.
• 30:24
  Speaker 8: It's it's it's really nice to hear the sort.
• 30:28
  Speaker 6: Of human side of a lot of the natural disasters
• 30:31
  Speaker 6: that our country is facing.
• 30:32
  Speaker 8: Actually work in the clean energy industry, and.
• 30:33
  Speaker 6: I think a lot about resilience for our buildings and
• 30:38
  Speaker 6: other sort of physical spaces.
• 30:41
  Speaker 8: But kind of similar to Anny's question, I'm wondering what kind.
• 30:44
  Speaker 6: Of skills or you know, sort of foundational efforts you've
• 30:50
  Speaker 6: made to become more.
• 30:52
  Speaker 8: Resilient in the face of disaster. And it sounds like
• 30:54
  Speaker 8: you have a few different examples of that. So just
• 30:56
  Speaker 8: love to hear your thoughts on that.
• 30:58
  Speaker 5: That's a really good question.
• 31:00
  Speaker 2: Well, what makes you resilient, babe girl?
• 31:04
  Speaker 5: So many things? I think what makes me resilient? That wow,
• 31:09
  Speaker 5: that truly, that's an amazing question. And I love your name,
• 31:13
  Speaker 5: by the way, beautiful name. I think what makes me
• 31:17
  Speaker 5: resilient is the fact that even through all these different hardships,
• 31:23
  Speaker 5: I still had faith in humanity and I still love.
• 31:27
  Speaker 5: I love people. I love people, I love being around people.
• 31:31
  Speaker 5: I'm a people person. I will never not be even
• 31:34
  Speaker 5: when Chico is crazy, I will never not be. I
• 31:38
  Speaker 5: love people because I think I just see the good
• 31:40
  Speaker 5: in them good and I always try to even at
• 31:44
  Speaker 5: the worst. And I think that was one thing that
• 31:47
  Speaker 5: makes me resilient. But also I think when you learn
• 31:51
  Speaker 5: how to be there for yourself through all these different circumstances,
• 31:56
  Speaker 5: whether it's it being you know, emotional abuse, or whether
• 32:00
  Speaker 5: it being your house burning down, or whether it be
• 32:03
  Speaker 5: something crazy happening, or or you like or you're yeah,
• 32:08
  Speaker 5: exactly like all these different things happening in life. I
• 32:11
  Speaker 5: think the things that make you resilient are your mindset,
• 32:16
  Speaker 5: you know, the mindset that you carry within yourself. I
• 32:19
  Speaker 5: think affirmation. I go by affirmations all the time. I
• 32:22
  Speaker 5: think I listen on my headset. I was coming here
• 32:26
  Speaker 5: in an uber listening to affirmations and Tate McCray.
• 32:30
  Speaker 1: So, but does it help to to be to be
• 32:33
  Speaker 1: prepared like a lot of people not to be going
• 32:36
  Speaker 1: the Scouting program necessarily, but where at a place goes
• 32:39
  Speaker 1: to like what Billy Ray does for her career. You know,
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: like if I had to evacuate my house, I might
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: not know where to go if I had nowhere to live,
• 32:52
  Speaker 1: or the power went out, which should happen one time,
• 32:54
  Speaker 1: and I did not handle that very well because you know,
• 32:57
  Speaker 1: it's not that kind of person.
• 32:58
  Speaker 3: But that's what's bad, like I could starve to death.
• 33:01
  Speaker 3: Does it help to do you feel literally another show?
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: But I mean, do you feel now like, Okay, if
• 33:16
  Speaker 1: something happened, that's I'm prepared to deal with anything.
• 33:22
  Speaker 3: Like I've got myself.
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: I didn't get in a bad situation like starving to death.
• 33:27
  Speaker 3: I knew what to do.
• 33:29
  Speaker 1: You also feel like you know you're all because there's
• 33:32
  Speaker 1: a lot of internal things you're talking about, which are awesome,
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: thank you, but yes, but if you're starving because you're
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: no power, I do. I recommend people prepare themselves for
• 33:45
  Speaker 1: what could happen, because there's plenty of things that could
• 33:47
  Speaker 1: happen these days, with you know, climate change and everything.
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: They were losing worse storms that the people are finding
• 33:53
  Speaker 1: themselves in a similar situation, and some of them were
• 33:56
  Speaker 1: truly homeless. I mean we're in shelter or living in
• 34:01
  Speaker 1: their car or what. So did you find yourself did
• 34:04
  Speaker 1: you or do you feel now more prepared to deal
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: with if the worst thing, yeah, happened, you're ready because
• 34:10
  Speaker 1: you've been through it and you're yeah, you got it.
• 34:13
  Speaker 5: I do. I honestly feel that the community is so
• 34:16
  Speaker 5: important now because that was the only reason how my
• 34:19
  Speaker 5: family and I got house.
• 34:21
  Speaker 2: And where are you living.
• 34:22
  Speaker 5: We're in Plia del Rey, which is near Marina. It's
• 34:25
  Speaker 5: this cute little area. It's like a beach town.
• 34:27
  Speaker 2: And are you renting or friends or how does.
• 34:30
  Speaker 5: This friends renting situation? But it's really lovely because we're
• 34:34
  Speaker 5: super grateful for them and they're they're close friends. And
• 34:39
  Speaker 5: you know, right as we were, we were like at
• 34:41
  Speaker 5: our you know, trying to put some stuff away in
• 34:44
  Speaker 5: a different place right after the fires, and we were
• 34:47
  Speaker 5: checking on the house because we had a ring camera
• 34:50
  Speaker 5: and so we were just at this one little place
• 34:55
  Speaker 5: and we were just watching our house burn down to
• 34:58
  Speaker 5: the ground, and we had so many people reaching out
• 35:01
  Speaker 5: and so lovely, and honestly, I'm just so blessed and
• 35:05
  Speaker 5: so grateful for everybody that's either reached out or has
• 35:08
  Speaker 5: been in my life or has sent me prayers or
• 35:11
  Speaker 5: has you know, there's so many.
• 35:13
  Speaker 1: It's really the support, so I should not fear starving
• 35:17
  Speaker 1: to death. Jeanne Video, jan Welcome to the Mom's Club.
• 35:22
  Speaker 1: Tell us your name and where you're from, and a
• 35:25
  Speaker 1: little bit about yourself and do you have a question
• 35:27
  Speaker 1: for a soul Day.
• 35:29
  Speaker 7: Yeah, I'm Janis Corcamis and I live in Dallas, Texas.
• 35:33
  Speaker 7: I'm a kundry Western singer and my business was limousine
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  Speaker 7: service for many years. But I have an adult child
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  Speaker 7: that I take care of that lives with me on
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  Speaker 7: the spectrum. So my question is to you is what
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  Speaker 7: kind of advice would you give to young people in
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  Speaker 7: this time of tragedy?
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  Speaker 8: And also did you write a song about it?
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  Speaker 5: Did I write a song about it? By the way,
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  Speaker 5: I love that you are a country singer, and I
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  Speaker 5: love that you have a limousine business that is so badass,
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  Speaker 5: so cool. I did write a song about it. I
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  Speaker 5: have not released it yet, but it's called Hometown and yeah, absolutely,
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  Speaker 5: let me get my the lyrics.
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  Speaker 1: Well, we don't. We only have time for a few.
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  Speaker 5: It'll be like I just.
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  Speaker 4: Need to when she.
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  Speaker 1: Has a beautiful voice and if you haven't, you you've
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  Speaker 1: seen her songs in her you are amazing. It's all so.
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  Speaker 2: Evy winner, who's blessing?
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  Speaker 4: I mean, come on, thank you a couple of chords
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  Speaker 4: for us to kind of I think that's an amazing
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  Speaker 4: way to.
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  Speaker 3: Take this out.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, because your art, I think is getting you through.
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  Speaker 5: To thank you. I agree. I think art is the
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  Speaker 5: most and one of the most important things that I
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  Speaker 5: think for me has distracted me in such an amazing
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  Speaker 5: way during this time, you know.
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  Speaker 2: Really hyper focus.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, it give us something.
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  Speaker 5: Okay, So this is the chorus. It's my home town.
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  Speaker 11: Leaves and the trees are burn now, tanglement, knees and
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  Speaker 11: thrown down, had women nails, they'll pull pull pullsh it.
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  Speaker 11: It's my home town. Disguise in the views are gray now,
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  Speaker 11: smoke and ash lefts the grave town, tombstones of houses.
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  Speaker 11: They're called cold Heaven now became the cold cold Heaven
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  Speaker 11: now became.
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  Speaker 4: Yes, thank you, wow.
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  Speaker 5: Yes, a little step.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, I'm gonna have to go get my makeup redne wow.
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  Speaker 5: Amazing of course any time.
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  Speaker 1: Well, okay, we're looking forward to that being released soon.
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  Speaker 1: Review of it, So, where can everyone find you on
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  Speaker 5: And social media is at is old a Fair with
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  Speaker 5: another r so I s O l D E F
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  Speaker 5: A I R R. And that's for Instagram TikTok, and
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  Speaker 5: then for YouTube it's just is ol day Fair with
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  Speaker 5: not a double R so I s O L D
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  Speaker 5: E F A I R.
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  Speaker 3: Well, thank you on Spotify too, oh.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, well, thank you check her out. She is amazing.
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  Speaker 1: As we stay here on the moms, thank you and
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  Speaker 5: Well.
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  Speaker 1: Julie again, welcome back, Thank you, you're back in the group.
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  Speaker 1: What are you going to tell all your friends to
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  Speaker 2: Of course?
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  Speaker 1: Okay, good. I mean I was going to say, we're
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  Speaker 2: Anyway, It's amazing.
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  Speaker 2: For sure, but when we have young people are wiser and.
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