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Rabbi Moshe Haber Orchot Saddiqim: The Climb with No Finish Line 7.626 · Rabbi Moshe Haber - Daily Mussar/Weekly Perasha

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We're in this abduction and he's the third day in the
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introduction of the seventh horse of the king, and he's
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developing the approach to get us to work in all the macaque
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Jason to find the balance in these character trees.
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So he started with one point in the opening point was the
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significance of having a clear mind of, you know, Gemim and how
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it trains your path and motivates you to grow and to do
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the right thing. And secondly, the understanding
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of how powerful and how capable a man is specifically through
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his five senses, through your 5 senses and through also your
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different mental states. You have the ability to do a lot
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of great things through your happiness, through your
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humility, through your memory, through your, through your
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boldness. There are many different ways to
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make you into a great person. And once you know your tools,
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your senses, and your different mentalities, they're going to
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channel them. That's what he tells you.
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And therefore we'll start from Lehen and then we'll go on
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Lehen. Call Adam on the Bub any person
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who has a strong heart, in other words, anyone who's a thinker is
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to deal with Coco pay 6. He's going to work with all the
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strength to reach until his you know to reach his finish his his
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promised land without a Sigma and they continue to climb to
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the highest levels. In other words, everyone has to
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realize that there are many, many different wrongs that we
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can reach. He will not utilize all the
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gifts and tools that he has, all the different senses and all the
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different mind mentalities, and all the different character
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traits. He'll only use them just to make
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him a better person. You have a lot of tools, you can
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waste them, or you can use them for the right thing.
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This is your ultimate purpose, to utilize everything for good.
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Shima Yard down the Malatova even if you reach a very high
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level lol I'm yah Mullah Alot Malaji mala mizotta mala.
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Even if you reach let's say a high level, take an area, carry
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the tree. Let's say you become I mean
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let's say you reach a high level in I don't know what area as the
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area is somehow you're always a happy person, OK always a happy
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person. You can deal with any you know
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typical situation just Shabbat you with you in a good mood.
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Even though it was, it was dark and it was hot and it was cold
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food and it was a little bit, you know, you know what you're
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facing. You're in a good mood, you're
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always in a good mood. You're still going to strive.
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If you recognize this mentality, recognize this focus of using
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every tool for greatness, you're still going to strive to find
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more happiness. And that means you're going to
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strive to be a positive president.
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You know, if things are a little more challenging or maybe you're
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not going to allow yourself to have this typical thing that we
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all have, which is dips in your mood.
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I know you're always a positive person.
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Some people are very positive and yet they also have somehow
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are very, very Moody people. It's a very possible thing.
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You can be a positive person, which in your mind is positive,
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but your mental be some some sort of imbalance allows the
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person to be Moody as normal. And he because he sees the
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beauty in growing and growing and growing, he's going to work
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on himself to get even more positive to be able to get rid
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of the movies moodiness out of this system.
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That's one example and you're going to be true every example.
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The more you recognize that my tools need to be channeled for
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greatness, the more you'll find and you're going to be you're
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going to continue to climb and climb.
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Here's what your reals you'll realize that there never is a
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finish line in these areas. You name the character trait,
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you name the development. There is never a finish line.
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There's always more to go and that's not meant to put up on
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ourselves much pressure. It just meant for us to realize
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that as we continue to go, we will reach higher and higher
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levels as long as we focus. That's how it works.
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You will never be. You shouldn't be, and you won't
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be. That's how you think.
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Humility as you think. All right, so basic humility is
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your low key. OK, That's basic humility.
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There's a lot of levels beyond that that are still have some
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shades of arrogance that you need to get rid of.
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Maybe the arrogance will be with your low keyness.
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You want to be noticed, even your low keyness.
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Maybe the arrogance will still be within your family.
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You want to be a big deal, that's OK, but still a degree of
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arrogance. And you will slowly but surely
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start to peel away. Only so long as you're aware.
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And my job is to use these mentalities to grow and to grow
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some more. If you do not recognize that,
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then you'll stop. Some people are literally in
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kindergarten and certain character traits.
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That's it. They never went through the
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schooling of it and they never at all applied themselves.
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So you can have the person that's 4050 years old and he's
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literally by first base when it comes to certain characters.
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His moodiness is the same moodiness.
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His arrogance is the same arrogance.
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His is at the same level. His sadness is the same level of
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sadness as a child, That's only because he never realized that I
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have to climb in every single path.
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How we'll do so we'll see that I first need to be aware that
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every tool that I have and every mentality that I have is used,
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must be used for development. There is not one single avenue
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of my life that cannot be utilized to develop.
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You name the avenue and we'll be able to show you from this book
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how there's development there. Whether it's business, family,
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marriage, mentality, your moods, what you do with your money, how
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you eat, how you sleep, how you pray, how you learn.
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Everything can be developed and everything is a tool.
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The greatest, as he's telling you, desire, which means was
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driven, which means he had this mentality of growth.
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How great is your goodness now you have set aside for those who
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fear you? In other words, every good Jew
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wants to reach the ultimate goodness.
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Messiah Shahim started the same way.
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The only person who's going to reach that total finish line is
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the person who's fit for me, who's going to live in God's
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tent, who's going to rest in your mountain.
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Ho El Tami and poetic people do the right thing.
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The camera has gone and once you realize, say Messiah, it says
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the rabbi says I gave you the greatness of man and I gave you
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the climbings of the ladder. Now I need you to realize man
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has unbelievable tools and unbelievable greatness.
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Let me tell you something else. Man is the most complicated
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existence in the world. What does that mean?
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He has great heights and great lows, great strengths and also
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great weaknesses. Very impressive and
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unbelievably, shockingly embarrassing people.
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If you would watch them, you'd notice both extremes and you'd
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be very surprised how it's possible.
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We know great heights, we know the history, we know the
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learning, we know the character, you know the develop, we know
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the great, the great lows. Sadly, we know too.
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And that is, we see people chase something for months, for years,
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just for a small level of credit.
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They can chase, they can fight. It can be upset sometimes This
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drives me crazy. Sometimes people can get
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involved in the dispute. It's a dispute over $20,000.
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Take a number, whatever the number is, small amount of
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money, but a small amount of money.
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It's going to cost them more money to fight that dispute,
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right? And loyal fees from the waste of
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time from the Agena, from the lack of focus on work.
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And then and it's the principle of the matter officially, it's
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all that. And you're looking at the person
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saying, Oh yeah, your mind. But that is how people are.
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People are great and they're very flawed.
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And once you recognize the two extremes of man will get to the
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point that we can harness. You're not right now.
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We're, you know, there's a, there's a power truck, one of
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these electric companies in Lakewood.
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It says the words control equals Peace of Mind.
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Control equals Peace of Mind. They're putting it on the power
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truck because if you have power of your, if you have control of
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the power of your home, it equals Peace of Mind.
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We all know right now we just experiencing control equals
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Peace of Mind. If I could have control of the
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power, if I could have figured out just one more light in my
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house that you bought, or just a basic portable fan, right?
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Have some degree of control, Peace of Mind.
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I didn't have control of anything.
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And therefore I was worried about my kids.
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I was worried about the heat. I was worried about my sleep.
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I was worried about the food in July morning.
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I was worried about what's going to be about the food in the
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freezer, right? What about everything?
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Worried about the shore, What's going to be in the shore?
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I had no idea, right? All these things, control equals
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Peace of Mind. If you could have control of
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your own self and you can watch where your mind goes and you can
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harness yourself to not be a person who has these extremes.
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In other words, we're saying over here, man is great, that
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man is weak, man is strong, and man is unbelievably
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embarrassing. And if you're going to watch
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yourself and control yourself to be in full control, what does
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that mean? Full control?
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That means you'll never find yourself off guard.
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You'll never be allowed yourself to be in a situation that you'll
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display your floors and you've been in a much better position
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that's you want to be. That's the balance we all look
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for. The balance is based on the
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control. You will not react that for
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this. You'll not be in a situation
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where you say something you have to spend 2 days undoing or
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you'll spend something that you're you're shocked that you
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spend on or right, or you think something that's it's so
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unbelievably out of your mind, right?
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It's not your type to think you'll not be in that situation
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ever. If you work on yourself.
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Control, specifically in harnessing human mentalities.
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COVID was the opposite of that one.
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Maybe you have no control of anything in any way.
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Yeah, but you start controlling yourself.
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That's it. You cannot control the world.
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Yeah, you couldn't. There's an ultimate test, by the
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way. Not control you.
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Your goal not to control your health, Your goal is to control
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your human element. Humanity are both the most
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unbelievably impressive existence and the most
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shockingly, unbelievably crazy off existence.
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I'm not going to get involved in politics, but if you watch
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politics, you see both sides. If you look at both sides of the
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coins, you see all the things. You see people going out of
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their mind crazy and people going out of their mind for
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good. And you cannot believe.
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And sometimes more often than not, it can be the same person
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who has great extremes. You could have, and it shocks
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me. You can have a person who was
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one of the greatest ballet, he said in the world, and he might
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not talk to his brother. OK.
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Has a puzzle one's business, I understand Paul has said.
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In its essence, in its core, is someone who gives of themselves
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as it is. It's sacrifice and it's giving
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away money. It's giving away time.
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It's giving away obvious intellect.
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It's giving away everything, right?
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It's giving away his ability to make more money, Paul has said,
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is a giver. And someone who's in a fight in
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a certain sense, often is in a certain sense, certain degree in
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the mindset of taker. How's that possible?
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The answer? We have two extremes.
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You could have a person, you could have so many people that
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are so extreme. You know, a person who's so
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selfless in certain areas and such a fighter in other areas,
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who's so humble and arrogant at the same time, who's so giving
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and taking at the same time, who's so unbelievably smart and
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yet so shockingly dumb at the same time.
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People will go to this person for advice.
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There are people I know who others go to them advice and
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their advice is so on point. They're in their own personal
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lives. They're making the most silly
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decisions. Seriously.
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There are people I know who have the best advice around and yet
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no personal lives. They're an embarrassment.
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How's the puzzle? They don't apply to themselves.
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They quit because they they didn't work.
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They didn't get, they didn't get on top of it.
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They didn't control it. They didn't figure it out.
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They didn't stop and say, let me tackle.
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Let me die of thinking, let me tackle, let me doubt of
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humility, let me tackle, let me doubt of selflessness, tackle it
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completely. Become in a certain degree fully
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in control of my human traits. If I am, I'm in a good spot.
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If I'm not, I'm going to swinging both ways all the time.
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Tell you, I've seen this in my own life, my own self.
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We can be all over the place. You can tell a person who comes
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to you and say, what do I do in my marriage?
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All I do, my wife this, she's complaining about this, she's
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complaining about that. So we spend all the classic
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complaints, right? And he told the guy, listen, you
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know, you, you experience right now, you know, you know,
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commenting is not going to work. You know that saying something
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exactly. You say lead by example.
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You say, listen, if you give her a little bit, she'll end up
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coming around all the classic lessons that we've learned and
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their experience and they tried and true, right.
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Just don't say anything. Just hold your tongue.
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Just don't say anything. You look at me, I say, why do
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you say that comment? Just don't do it next time.
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And then what happens 5 minutes later?
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Having a conversation with your wife.
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And this is tried and true. I've been down this road, right?
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You have a conversation, right? And you say something not smart
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and you're like, how did it just happen?
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I just on the phone with the guy, gave the guy advice.
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How did it just happen? And the answer is you're a human
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being and you're a person of flesh and blood.
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And we're a floored. And the floored means we're
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pulled. And unless we get in control, I
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mean, unless we get to a point that we can tackle the
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understanding of people and the understanding of ourselves will
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be swinging all day long and it'll be an embarrassment.
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As he's telling you, we have to understand the greatness of men
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and the weakness of men. You want to reach God's court,
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you want to read Allahabad. If you want to get to Allahabad,
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you have to come to Allahabad with Tashem delivering my worked
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on humility, my worked on Shalom, I my worked on giving.
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I worked on kind of thinking. I worked on being a good person,
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general not caring. I worked on speech.
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He had to come with a finished product.
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He only going to come to God with all about a finished
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product. If you stopped and God in
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control, if you leave yourself up into the wind, sometimes
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you'll be great, but sometimes you'll be terrible and you'll be
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not in control. I said, you said want your soul
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to choose. We call Kohama, we call me Dada,
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Tov, Alvaroor, the Azok, Hapsolit, the Akasha, and we'll
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see how in a second. You want to be a person who
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sifted through his own day, sifted through his own character
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traits and came out with the best parts of himself.
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We need to realize we have heights that were very, very far
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from having reached very far. We have heights that are
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unbelievably impressive, and we have lows that are shockingly
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embarrassment. And someone would see they'd be
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stunned talking about myself. But I think it's true about all
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of us. We all have heights and lows
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that are unbelievably extreme. Man is an animal.
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It's a body and soul, dirt and heavenly existence.
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The fact that God put those two things together is shocking.
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But I thought John made man. And because he has these two
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extremes, that means what is he? He's this close to godliness and
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this close. You know, you see the deer
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walking in the street, right? And they're walking in the
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staring at you and they're animals, completely animals.
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You're this close to a deer. That's the best of the kind.
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You this close to a full-fledged animal.
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So you have God and you're a thing of flesh and blood and
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animalistic traits. It's shocking.
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All right. And how do we do this?
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We figure out how to sift through, as you're telling you
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got to sift through, have to realize it exists.
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Have to find the good from the bad.
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Yesh, Adam is a person, Shubhaviko ES Tami who's always
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angry, right? Via shaddam, Shaddad told me, a
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Shiva talab who's always come. There ain't no quest claw.
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He never gets angry. Vim, you ask.
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If he ever does get angry, you ask us not become a shalim.
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If he ever gets angry, it's once in a while, over the course of
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years. Put your person out there via
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shaddam. You can have an extremely
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arrogant person, a person who's unbelievably humble.
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The issue about Tava, you have a person that has temptation and
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desires that are out of this world.
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He can't control himself. Lo this ban of Jean Marlo
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Quatava, he never enough. He's always running after
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another temptation. The issue with the harlot mode,
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Lloyd Avenue, I feel with the Verrimo and my team, you have a
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person that's got 0 temptations and he doesn't even have
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temptations for the basics that the body needs.
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Let's take it in a clean way. He could care less to eat.
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He only eats when he feeds that he's starving.
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He doesn't like food. There are people who are
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unbelievably hungry for money. It's never enough when it comes
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to money. Some people actually love money.
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There are people who love money and they want more and they make
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decisions. You take a ball player who has a
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choice between being on a good team, right, and being on a
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terrible team, and it's a matter of over the course of 10-15
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years, it's a matter of $40 million.
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OK, it's a lot of money, but he's making $750 million
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regardless, right? You might think he would say to
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himself, I can't see past 200,000,300 million, 400
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million. It's going to make a difference
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and I'm going to choose a legacy of nothingness as I have a
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legacy in a certain sense in the sports world.
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Eternity because of the few $1,000,000, I'm out of my mind.
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The answer is he loves money and people love money and that means
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it's never enough. It's never.
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You can never say I have enough. Can you imagine that world?
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It's a crazy world, but it exists.
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That person has to harness there's love for money.
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The edge Catania fish should die in La Fila, but if I'm not Villa
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don't fly. Secrets of some people.
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They don't. They're not motivated.
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You know, people don't go to work.
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Why don't they work? Because they don't really care
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about money. But they have to live.
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OK. They try to get by, but they
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have zero desire to ever become something and cost the money.
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Which way is good? We'll see the issue.
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Miss Sagif. At small Barab the covets Ayad,
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Enochre, Puta, Michelobet, Salgador.
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There are people who are so unbelievably cheap, right?
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Right. He starves himself.
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The issue, My bed, my mono be a diamond.
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I thought some people spend and spend out of their mind.
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But the Rahim illustrated you're going in every car.
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The train has this mullahs on in.
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Some people are nice to a fault. Some people are unbelievably
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tough. The rock lives.
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Some people are soft, some people are strong.
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Everything's like this all right.
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What is it telling you? So we have to do more than
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introduction to get to the point.
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But the overall theme is if you realize it's about man, you will
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realize the middle of the road is the beauty.
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In other words, God gave you a goal.
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The goal is to become the best version of yourself.
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If you were a super stingy, would that be a good version?
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If you were a major spender, would that be a good version?
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No, to figure out the right way for that right path.
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If you're a very soft person, there are actually some people
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today with the weirdest views in the world based on being soft
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people. If you're a soft person, no
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good. If you're a tough person to an
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extreme, no good. You're an often angry person,
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always angry. It's tough life.
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If you're an always the everything goes.
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Also not the smartest life. If you're a person who you know
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is a little different. If you're a person who loves
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money, good thing or bad? Bad.
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Owes money? No good have.
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You do not care. You care less about money.
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How would the society look if people don't care about money?
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People don't care about making money.
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There are people out there today that all they need is the iPhone
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in their apartment and they get to go.
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Why They don't think about making money?
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How productive is that for society?
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It's destructive. It's recreates people that have
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strange views because they do not have any care about making
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money or eventually having to earn a lot of money and then pay
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taxes. They have no clue about that
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because they don't really care about money.
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So all these different traits, all out of the world, all to
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extremes and they're all no good for us.
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We need to figure out a common middle of the road.
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And you might be born with some of these traits.
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You might be born with some of these traits.
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So because that's the case, you might be a.
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Little bit too far in One Direction, you have to pull
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down, bring it to the middle. Too low?
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You got everything you bring to the middle.
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That everyone ends up being like this.
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You've probably got in the middle.
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No, I mean, is it? Is that what he's saying
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exactly? No one ends up this way.
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Everyone starts off this way. This is all physical loving
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money is physical. Having crazy desires physically
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or physical, having an unbelievable love for I can't
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prefer a cavort and for gallavar arrogance.
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It's physical and it can be compiled and built and built
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down the physical Rd. of destruction.
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It's all physical. It's under 0 work.
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All they were trying to do is take these extremes that are
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physical without any work on yourself and work on yourself
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and develop yourself and bring it down the middle.
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That's the goal that can be. Born with these traits, these
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are traits that you, that you, as you grow you.
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When I say born, you're right. When I say born, I mean to say
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men physically has, it's true, man has physical tendencies that
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compiler themselves and compile themselves and without any work
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being done addressing them, they can end up and take complete
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chaos. Any person that you know of what
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you see in the world, that's nuts.
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They weren't born nuts per SE, but they were born with a
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tendency and they never worked at it and they let it go a
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musical. And when they fed it and they
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offend, they fed it. The whole existence of a great
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person is fighting. The whole existence of a
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terrible person is feeding. That's how it works.
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A terrible person is someone who constantly fed their bad traits.
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Let's say it's a desire, physical desire.
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They just indulge and they indulge.
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And then it stopped. I'd say it's desire for money.
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They just went crazy in their first company and it started to
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work. OK.
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They want to make money. It's very aggressive.
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It's a great thing. Yeah.
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But then they five or three workers, they shouldn't have
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fired because because they want to make more money.
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And then they did the undercut the competition inappropriate
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way. You want to make money.
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And then this isn't illegal because I want to make money.
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And they fed it and they fed it and they fed it.
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And you know what, they're making a lot of money per SE
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maybe, but they're feeding an animal that's grown into an
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unbelievably huge animal. And now you come down and say,
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dude, you got to be honest, sorry, you can go to jail,
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right? It's not proper what you're
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doing. You're harming other people.
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You fire people and wrongfully, it's their own thing.
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You know, you're you're hurting people, you're hurting your own
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family, you never showing up to a family because you're trying
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to make so much money. And the guy right now is an
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animal in this area and he's out of his mind.
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How'd that happen? He fed himself and fed himself
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as a never once did what we have to do, which is harnessing.
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And the job in every car with the trait is to gain control of
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yourself. And control equals what we say
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with the words Peace of Mind. Control equals greatness.
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Control equals development. And every area.
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Now, you're never going to get yourself to a point where
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everyone's the same. We don't want that world either.
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No matter what, your original makeup can be used for
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greatness. Your original, if you're a tough
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guy, you're going to control yourself and work yourself to
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become a nice person. But the toughness will be
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helpful. And if you're a generous person,
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you're going to try and make yourself somewhat normal in
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generosity. But the generosity can be a
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great thing. And even if you're a person
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who's a person of cavort, who likes cavort, you're going to
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harness it. But the liking of cavoid might
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help you and might help society. You can harness it, but still
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allow it to be your DNA. You're never going to get out of
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your DNA. That's not how it works.
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Instead, you're trying to fuse your originally wild DNA of
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animalistic tendencies that build harness under control.
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You fuse it with the right way of thinking and you become your
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existence. You're going to be a generous
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guy with A twist, You're going to be the spender with A twist,
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You're going to be even the arrogant guy a little bit with A
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twist, or you're going to be the tough guy with a certain angle.
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We're never trying to destroy. You know, I always think of this
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when people are certain people have a certain sense of humor
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and it's dependent on their class, where they're holding.
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Let's say they're not so religious, right?
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Then they become more observed. A big test is if they did it
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right or wrong is if they kept their sense of humor.
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What do I mean? If they became more religious
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and now they have no sense of humor, that's a shame.
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Why is it a shame? Because if they probably did it,
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they probably put themselves in a straight jacket and they
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destroyed themselves in order to become more observant.
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I'm not saying it's room, but I am saying it's not the goal.
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The goal is keep your sense of humor.
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Just make clean jokes, sedentary jokes, keep your sense of humor.
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There's been a different circle than you were before, but keep
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yourself and harness it and gear it to the right way.
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That is the goal of man. Recognize the extremes that we
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have and then harness them for greatness.
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If you do that, you'll develop, you'll grow, you build.
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If you don't, then we're going to continue down the road of
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these animalistic tendencies. And never a person can be 70
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years old having not worked in certain capital streets, never
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once in their life. And like I said, they could be
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70 and they're in kindergarten. When it comes to the topic of
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arrogance, they never thought about it.
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They never thought it was a thing.
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Or when it comes to the topic of being too cheap, I never thought
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it was a thing. Or the topic of being angry all
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the time. I never realized you have to
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harness that until life hit them and you have to realize that we
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all have extremes. We're all born with extremes.
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That's perfectly fine. That's our makeup.
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We might have fed it during a same amount of our years, but
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now it's time to control it, to harness it, to fuse it with
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greatness. And then your body meets your
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soul and you become something special.
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Do you keep your DNA, tough guy? Sure.
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There are many tough guys who are the most giving, caring
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thoughts of people in the world because they harnessed it.
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There are many people who had arrogance, who use that
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arrogance to build something great for the sake of the
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community and fuse if it's something special.
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Is it dangerous? Dangerous, yeah, but they're
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harnessed. There are many people who in so
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many ways, people who channel themselves, people who love
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money, who helped build a big company.
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They realize they have enough and they saw not to make other
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people have money. Whatever it is, you can harness
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greatness so long as you identify that it exists.
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The extremes exist. And our job, it's terraining it.
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That's the idea. Stop at this.