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- 0:00S1: Broadcasting from Chicago, across North America and beyond. It's Carl
- 0:06S1: and crew. Come as you are an experienced guide, overcome
- 0:10S1: what seems impossible and live as you never imagined delivering
- 0:16S1: the truth daily.
- 0:17S2: If it were possible to have every worldly gain available.
- 0:21S2: And you're forfeiting your soul. There's no amount of gain
- 0:25S2: that would make it worth it.
- 0:26S3: Our own way never ever works. Because it's apart from
- 0:29S3: the life source, which is God.
- 0:32S4: For me, growing up, love was always conditional and can
- 0:36S4: be taken from you. Christ's love can't. And he went
- 0:39S4: to the cross with my mind and my heart that night.
- 0:44S1: Now from the call of Hope Studios, this is Carl
- 0:48S1: and Crew.
- 0:49S2: Well, I'm happy to report that Jonathan got us back
- 0:51S2: to school. Haircut.
- 0:54S3: I did get my back to school haircut.
- 0:57S2: I mean, you look like you're about going into third grade.
- 1:01S3: Wow. Thank you. I'm 30. I'm 30 years old, by
- 1:04S3: the way.
- 1:04S2: I mean, he walked in this morning with a with
- 1:07S2: a truly fresh out of the barber chair where.
- 1:10S4: The engineers.
- 1:10S3: Were.
- 1:11S4: This morning. They're all like, hey, Jonathan.
- 1:13S3: I mean, it couldn't be any more fresh. I got
- 1:15S3: my haircut finished up around 7:00 last night.
- 1:19S4: Oh, my.
- 1:20S3: And so when you when you I mean, when you
- 1:21S3: have a two year old and you know, you get
- 1:23S3: off of work and then your wife starts work, uh,
- 1:26S3: you there's not really a lot of time for a haircut,
- 1:28S3: so you gotta find it when you can get it.
- 1:29S2: It was, it had grown out quite a bit.
- 1:31S3: It had. See, the problem was, is I went to
- 1:34S3: the barber shop a couple of weeks ago, uh, to,
- 1:37S3: to get my hair cut, but I walked up as
- 1:40S3: they were closing and they were like, we can't do
- 1:42S3: your haircut now. And then I couldn't go after that.
- 1:46S3: And it just kept getting delayed and, uh, and yeah, the,
- 1:50S3: the hair really started to get crazy and curly.
- 1:53S2: I, that's what I, I noticed a week or two ago,
- 1:56S2: I said, your hair, it was The ends were curling.
- 1:59S2: I had never seen that before.
- 2:00S3: Yeah, and I usually don't get it. I don't let
- 2:02S3: it get that long. But yes, my my hair is
- 2:05S3: curly once it gets long. And I mean my dad
- 2:09S3: when he was in college, naturally, not like he did
- 2:12S3: something to make it happen. He naturally had an afro, uh, in,
- 2:17S3: in college and in his early 20s. And so.
- 2:19S2: So you have a little bit of curly. We have
- 2:21S2: a little.
- 2:21S3: Bit of curl in our hair. Yep. Exactly.
- 2:23S2: Well, I mean, do you remember picture day and you,
- 2:26S2: if you were a boy, you wanted to have the
- 2:27S2: haircut and then maybe your mom would coerce you into
- 2:31S2: getting into a collared shirt of some sort.
- 2:33S3: Oh, no collared shirt. No collared, uh, maybe. Maybe for
- 2:37S3: picture day, I guess for picture day. Yes. I was
- 2:39S3: thinking first day of school.
- 2:40S2: No. Okay, so picture day.
- 2:42S3: Picture.
- 2:42S2: Day. Yeah. You try to get them in in some
- 2:44S2: sort of a collared shirt or.
- 2:46S4: I figured, you know, Jonathan's the baby of the family.
- 2:48S4: So by the time Jonathan's pictures, she probably was like,
- 2:50S4: you know what? It's not a battle I'm gonna fight anymore.
- 2:53S3: No, my mom cared. My mom cared. And so we
- 2:56S3: we got the we got the collared shirts for picture day.
- 2:59S4: Yeah, I.
- 3:00S2: Love picture day because everybody looks really uncomfortable.
- 3:03S4: Yes.
- 3:04S3: Oh my.
- 3:04S2: God. I remember one picture day and this it, it
- 3:07S2: resulted in probably one of my worst pictures. But I
- 3:10S2: decided that morning while at school that I wanted to
- 3:13S2: create bangs for myself, for my picture.
- 3:16S3: How'd that.
- 3:16S4: Go?
- 3:17S2: Horrible.
- 3:18S4: So I, I.
- 3:19S3: Gotta be careful with.
- 3:20S2: Naturally very curly hair.
- 3:22S3: Okay.
- 3:23S2: And so I tried to take the front part and
- 3:26S2: kind of use a brush to create a curl. Okay.
- 3:30S2: To for the bangs. And oh boy, it was, it
- 3:33S2: was really bad. Really bad.
- 3:36S3: Mhm. Is the picture accessible?
- 3:39S2: I mean, I honestly, I have quite a few bad
- 3:42S2: school pictures. My school pictures. There were there were years
- 3:45S2: of my life where I had hard a hard time
- 3:47S2: seriously looking at my school picture, I was.
- 3:50S3: Sure.
- 3:50S2: I was very awkward. I had these huge blue Framed
- 3:56S2: plastic glasses. They were, I guess, all the rage in
- 3:59S2: the late 80s, early 90s. This was the style, but
- 4:02S2: they were. I took over almost my whole face. So
- 4:06S2: I had these huge glasses, this curly hair that I
- 4:10S2: hadn't yet. All of the curly hair, natural hair products
- 4:13S2: that are available now weren't available then. So I went
- 4:16S2: to hairstylists who thought, oh, let me just give you
- 4:19S2: the haircut that the blonde, straight haired girl down the
- 4:22S2: street has. That's never so I had bad haircuts, bad glasses,
- 4:26S2: awkward smile. So some of those pictures I. It took
- 4:30S2: me years to feel like nothing when I. When I
- 4:33S2: looked at them.
- 4:34S3: You're certainly not alone. I mean, I think that that's
- 4:36S3: actually probably more common than you'd think in terms of pictures.
- 4:42S2: I think we all feel that. Well, the funny thing
- 4:44S2: is I, I saw someone post, you know, people like
- 4:46S2: to bring old pictures out of the archives and throw
- 4:49S2: them on Facebook. Like, guys, can we get permission before
- 4:52S2: you just throw up this picture? Because I didn't consent
- 4:54S2: to this being posted, but I was looking back at
- 4:57S2: this picture and I'm like, you know what? All of
- 5:00S2: us look awkward. Yes. All of.
- 5:03S4: Us. Jonathan's trying to say exactly. It's a shared feeling.
- 5:06S2: It was, but I didn't see it at the time.
- 5:08S3: Right. You think you're the only one that looks horrible?
- 5:10S2: Because Sarah was the cool girl, and her clothes always
- 5:13S2: looked stylish. Her hair always. This was my eighth grade mindset.
- 5:17S2: But then I was like. Sarah was awkward to.
- 5:19S3: Sarah also didn't know how to take a picture because
- 5:21S3: she was also 13.
- 5:23S4: I was like, wait a minute.
- 5:24S2: The whole crew, the popular girls, the pretty girls, we
- 5:27S2: were all awkward. Everybody was awkward. School picture day. What's
- 5:31S2: your favorite school picture day moment? Do you have a
- 5:34S2: photo that you still that still circulates on Facebook or
- 5:38S2: is still posted in your mom or your grandma's house
- 5:40S2: because you were just so cute, honey.
- 5:43S3: Oh, I was so, so yeah.
- 5:45S4: Thank goodness for grandmas.
- 5:46S3: I was very grateful that senior pictures were a little
- 5:49S3: bit different than regular pictures, and they took place at
- 5:53S3: different times and things like that. Because I got for
- 5:56S3: my senior year, my wisdom teeth taken out. Oh, boy.
- 5:59S3: The day before, I had to go collect all my
- 6:03S3: books and everything like that. And and so I didn't
- 6:06S3: have to take those pictures. But I did get an
- 6:08S3: ID picture that day for that whole year. And I
- 6:11S3: have these gigantic yellow and purple cheeks. And because my
- 6:17S3: mouth was just so swollen from the day before and
- 6:20S3: I was like, I have to go the entire year
- 6:22S3: with this as my ID. Now, thankfully, it was just
- 6:24S3: my ID picture. Yeah. But yeah, day after getting your
- 6:28S3: don't schedule it.
- 6:29S2: Like that's not the day to get any.
- 6:30S4: Picture.
- 6:31S2: Taken. I'm sorry for.
- 6:32S4: That.
- 6:33S3: It's okay. We made.
- 6:33S2: It. We're talking back to school this week. How bold
- 6:37S2: are you? When it comes to asking for what you want.
- 6:41S2: Some people have a knack for man. They have. They'll
- 6:45S2: walk right up to the customer service desk. They will
- 6:49S2: not flinch. My sister's one of those people. She is
- 6:52S2: a master at getting. Whether it's a refund or an upgrade.
- 6:58S2: She just has a knack for doing this. Are you
- 7:00S2: one of those people who doesn't flinch in those direct conversations?
- 7:04S2: Getting what you want would love to hear from you,
- 7:08S2: I am not. I struggle.
- 7:10S4: Like.
- 7:11S2: I get awkward, I get shy. Do you get what
- 7:14S2: you want when you ask for it? Are you bold
- 7:17S2: enough to ask for what you want?
- 7:19S1: It's Carl and Crew on Moody Radio.
- 7:22S2: How bold are you when it comes to asking for
- 7:26S2: what you want? Sometimes it can feel intimidating if you
- 7:29S2: have to go up to a customer service desk and
- 7:33S2: you don't want the fight, you don't want the hassle.
- 7:35S2: Sometimes you feel like, I don't want to be a burden.
- 7:37S2: I know they've got a lot going on. I want
- 7:40S2: to tell you about a guy named Josh young. That's
- 7:43S2: his name. And he did an experiment that I find fascinating.
- 7:49S2: So he. For 100 days he challenged himself to deliberately
- 7:55S2: ask for things that he fully expected to hear. No.
- 8:01S2: So like.
- 8:01S4: Interesting.
- 8:02S2: Unique things. Wild things. So he asked a flight attendant
- 8:07S2: to let him make an announcement on the airplane, went
- 8:10S2: up to a homeowner, asked if, hey, can I plant
- 8:13S2: a rose in your yard? Asked to co-pilot an airplane.
- 8:19S2: Asked at a burger restaurant. Not for a drink refill,
- 8:23S2: but hey, can I get a burger refill? And he did. Yeah. No,
- 8:28S2: this is not a joke. He's an author. He's done
- 8:30S2: Ted talk. He's an entrepreneur.
- 8:32S4: Wow.
- 8:32S2: So the his goal was to train himself to not
- 8:37S2: fear the. No.
- 8:39S3: Huh. I like that.
- 8:40S2: So he was rejected in a business situation. And so
- 8:44S2: he realized that sometimes the fear of rejection itself can
- 8:50S2: hold you back.
- 8:52S4: All right.
- 8:52S2: So he just started this experiment.
- 8:55S3: He wanted to train himself by asking for things. He
- 8:58S3: really thought people were just gonna say no.
- 9:00S2: He would hear no to. Yeah. To take the sting
- 9:02S2: and the fear out of the no.
- 9:04S3: Yeah.
- 9:04S2: Okay. He discovered something really interesting. Would you believe that
- 9:10S2: with all of these wild requests, he got far more
- 9:13S2: yeses than he realized?
- 9:16S4: I was wondering. Yes.
- 9:17S3: I figured that probably surprised him quite a bit.
- 9:19S2: So, for example, he walked into a donut shop, popular chain.
- 9:26S2: He says, hey, can you make me donuts that are
- 9:29S2: colored like the Olympic rings?
- 9:32S3: Mhm.
- 9:33S4: All right.
- 9:34S2: And in about 15 minutes, an employee went back, disappeared,
- 9:39S2: came out, not only made him colored donuts shaped like
- 9:46S2: the Olympic rings he gave. She gave them to him
- 9:50S2: for free.
- 9:52S4: What?
- 9:52S3: Why? He didn't even.
- 9:53S4: Ask.
- 9:54S2: He didn't even ask for that, right? Because she didn't
- 9:56S2: think that they were, like, as perfect as she would
- 9:59S2: have liked them to be. Okay, that airplane announcement that
- 10:03S2: he asked for asked a flight attendant. She said, sure.
- 10:07S2: Go ahead. He asked a police officer, hey, can I
- 10:10S2: sit inside the police car just for a minute and
- 10:12S2: pretend to drive it? The officer said, sure, go ahead.
- 10:17S4: Okay, wait a minute.
- 10:19S2: No joke.
- 10:20S3: I guess. And he took the keys out.
- 10:23S2: Can you imagine the audacity to make these some sort
- 10:27S2: of requests? These are kind of the kind of things
- 10:29S2: people don't ask for.
- 10:30S3: No. Absolutely not. I want to know, did he get
- 10:32S3: his burger refilled? Because I'd like to try that. If
- 10:34S3: he did.
- 10:35S2: I don't.
- 10:35S3: Know. Okay, I'll have to check.
- 10:36S2: You can try.
- 10:36S3: It. I'll try it.
- 10:38S2: So he got 49 yeses. No no no no. 49
- 10:45S2: no's 51 yeses.
- 10:47S3: Wow. So most of the time.
- 10:48S2: So more often than not. So it was about a
- 10:51S2: 5050 split skewed just a little bit toward the. Yes.
- 10:55S3: But certainly these are more outlandish things that you wouldn't
- 10:58S3: expect to hear yes. From.
- 10:59S2: Totally. Would you.
- 11:01S4: Ever ask.
- 11:01S2: Would you ever ask a police officer, hey, can I
- 11:04S2: sit in the car.
- 11:05S3: And pretend to drive?
- 11:06S2: I don't think that's happening in.
- 11:07S3: Most places.
- 11:08S2: But he made the ask.
- 11:11S3: Yeah.
- 11:11S2: Crazy.
- 11:13S3: That's really cool.
- 11:14S2: It.
- 11:15S4: You have to ask.
- 11:17S2: You have to.
- 11:18S4: Get you.
- 11:18S2: Know, you have to have a level of. I don't
- 11:21S2: care what you think to make those kind of asks because,
- 11:25S2: you know, not only do you expect to hear a. No.
- 11:28S2: You expect to maybe be laughed at, maybe have somebody
- 11:31S2: look at you, look at you like you're absolutely crazy.
- 11:35S3: Mhm.
- 11:35S2: I don't like that feeling.
- 11:37S3: No, it's a hard feeling.
- 11:38S2: I don't like to ask for things that I don't
- 11:41S2: think I'm going to get a yes to.
- 11:42S3: Mhm.
- 11:43S2: That feels. I don't know about you guys. Does that feel.
- 11:46S2: Does it feel uncomfortable?
- 11:47S3: Oh, yeah. Absolutely. If I have to ask for something
- 11:50S3: and like, this is this is what I feel, I
- 11:53S3: did it because it's not that crazy at all. But
- 11:57S3: yesterday I was at the pool with my family, and
- 11:59S3: my daughter wanted a pool noodle, which are only accessible
- 12:02S3: through the lifeguards. And so.
- 12:03S4: You didn't want to.
- 12:04S3: Ask. I had to go to a lifeguard and ask
- 12:06S3: him if he could stop what he was doing and
- 12:08S3: go get me a pool noodle. And I was like,
- 12:10S3: I know he's gonna say yes, but I felt nervous
- 12:12S3: about asking.
- 12:13S2: Yes, that is very normal. We don't want to bother people.
- 12:16S2: We don't want to be a burden, and we don't
- 12:19S2: want to put ourselves out there to hear the no.
- 12:21S2: So we just kind of like shape our requests into
- 12:25S2: kind of yes sized portions.
- 12:27S3: Yeah.
- 12:28S2: We lower our expectations.
- 12:30S4: Absolutely.
- 12:31S2: To make sure that we don't hear too many no's
- 12:33S2: because the nose feels scary.
- 12:35S3: Or we don't ask at all.
- 12:36S2: Or we don't ask at all. What happens when we
- 12:40S2: take that approach? And that's how we interact with God.
- 12:45S2: That's how we approach our prayer life. This feels like
- 12:50S2: a lot to ask. I don't really want to hear no,
- 12:53S2: I don't want to get the rejection here. He's got
- 12:55S2: a lot of other things going on. I don't want
- 12:57S2: to burden him with this one. Let's go to Luke 11.
- 13:01S2: Coming up.
- 13:03S1: Breaking chains and running free. You're listening to cast and crew.
- 13:08S2: Are you bold enough, audacious enough to make the ask,
- 13:14S2: to ask for the promotion, to ask for the refund
- 13:18S2: that you feel like is owed to you, even though
- 13:22S2: initially you get denied. There's something that feels uncomfortable about
- 13:28S2: making those kind of requests. I want to take you
- 13:31S2: to Luke 11. Now. Jesus was praying in a certain place,
- 13:35S2: and when he finished, one of his disciples said to him, Lord,
- 13:38S2: teach us to pray as John taught his disciples. And
- 13:41S2: he said to them, when you pray, say. And this
- 13:45S2: is going to sound very familiar to you. Father, hallowed
- 13:49S2: be your name, your kingdom come. Give us each day
- 13:52S2: our daily bread. And forgive us our sins, for we
- 13:55S2: ourselves forgive everyone who is indebted to us. And lead
- 13:58S2: us not into temptation. And depending on where you read
- 14:01S2: that in the Gospels, you may have memorized it a
- 14:03S2: little bit differently. But Jesus gives them not a prayer
- 14:06S2: to a recite, but a template for how to pray.
- 14:10S2: But then he doesn't stop there. He tells them a parable.
- 14:16S2: And he said to them, which of you, who has
- 14:19S2: a friend will go to him at midnight and say, friend,
- 14:23S2: lend me three loaves. For a friend of mine has
- 14:25S2: arrived on a journey, and I have nothing to set
- 14:27S2: before him. And he will answer from within, do not
- 14:31S2: bother me. The door is now shut and my children
- 14:34S2: are with me in bed. I cannot get up and
- 14:36S2: give you anything. I tell you, though he will not
- 14:39S2: get up and give him anything because he is his friend,
- 14:42S2: yet because of his impotence, he will rise and give
- 14:45S2: him whatever he needs. And I tell you, ask and
- 14:48S2: it will be given to you. Seek and you will find.
- 14:51S2: Knock and it will be open to you. For everyone
- 14:54S2: who asks receives, and the one who seeks finds. And
- 14:58S2: to the one who knocks it will be open. Okay,
- 15:02S2: let's think about this for a second. He tells them
- 15:05S2: a parable about a need that he that they may have.
- 15:10S2: You have someone who arrives at your home and you
- 15:13S2: have nothing to give them. So you go to your
- 15:17S2: friend's house and it is late, late, late. And you say,
- 15:22S2: as you knock on the door, hey, give me three
- 15:26S2: loaves of bread. Doesn't matter that it's three in the morning,
- 15:32S2: and this friend of yours is going to say, don't
- 15:36S2: bother me.
- 15:37S3: Makes sense.
- 15:38S2: Sleeping. My kids are sleeping.
- 15:41S4: Understandable.
- 15:42S2: Keep it pushing. Yeah.
- 15:44S4: Exactly.
- 15:45S2: But wait. He is not necessarily going to be motivated
- 15:51S2: by his friendship with you. That's not enough. Not his loyalty.
- 15:57S2: Not even his spirit of generosity. But because of your impotence,
- 16:03S2: which just means shameless, bold, audacious request. Kind of out
- 16:11S2: of the norm of what's expected. Only time this particular
- 16:15S2: word is used because of your impotence. He'll give you
- 16:21S2: what you're asking for. Fascinating, right? How much more a
- 16:30S2: good God who does care about you. So it's sort
- 16:34S2: of this lesser to greater argument That if the lesser
- 16:39S2: is true, then the greater must be true. It goes
- 16:44S2: on in that same passage. What, father among you, if
- 16:46S2: his son asks for a fish, will. Instead of a fish,
- 16:49S2: give him a serpent. Or if he asks for an egg,
- 16:52S2: will give him a scorpion. If you then who are evil,
- 16:55S2: know how to give good gifts to your children. How
- 16:57S2: much more will the heavenly Father give the Holy Spirit
- 17:00S2: to those who ask him? Your bold, shameless request is
- 17:06S2: likely to result in you getting your need met by
- 17:10S2: your friend, simply because you were bold enough to ask
- 17:14S2: and think about this. If my neighbor came to me,
- 17:17S2: had the audacity to come to me at 3:00 in
- 17:20S2: the morning because they needed something, I think the boldness
- 17:25S2: of that request would make me likely to give them
- 17:29S2: what they needed, even though I probably would think I agree.
- 17:34S2: Are they out of their mind? Do they know what
- 17:38S2: time it is? Do they know how inconvenient this is?
- 17:43S2: But because of the boldness. I'd probably do it. And
- 17:46S2: you probably would too.
- 17:47S3: That's fair. You're like, well, you're already here.
- 17:50S2: Already here.
- 17:51S4: Well, and it has to be. There has to be
- 17:52S4: something to it because you are here at this time
- 17:54S4: of the morning. You're you were bold enough.
- 17:57S2: To ask if that sort of boldness, that sort of
- 18:01S2: shameless ask, works with the friend who's motivated by not loyalty,
- 18:08S2: not even friendship, but your own boldness. A good God
- 18:12S2: wants to give good gifts to his children. So what's
- 18:16S2: the takeaway? Ask and it will be given to you.
- 18:20S2: Seek and you will find. Knock and it will be
- 18:22S2: open to you. And there's a picture of persistence here
- 18:25S2: to keep asking, keep seeking, keep knocking. Don't be shy
- 18:32S2: about making the ask, especially when it comes to a
- 18:37S2: good father who wants to give good gifts to his kids. Yeah,
- 18:43S2: we can't hold back. And this may be something that
- 18:47S2: you've heard many times before. I've heard this ask, seek, knock, ask,
- 18:51S2: and it will be given to you. Seek and you
- 18:53S2: will find. Knock and it will be opened to you.
- 18:55S2: And sometimes we can get stuck in a place of going, well,
- 18:58S2: I've tried that before and I wanted this or I
- 19:02S2: asked for this. And God didn't answer in the way
- 19:05S2: that I thought he would, or I'd hoped he would.
- 19:08S2: And so what can happen is there's an element of
- 19:11S2: mystery there. We don't always understand how God moves. We
- 19:15S2: trust that he does move, but we can start to
- 19:18S2: rightsize our requests based on thinking, ah, does he really
- 19:23S2: mean this? I mean, this is a pretty, pretty bold
- 19:27S2: thing for Jesus to tell his disciples. Yeah, he told
- 19:32S2: this in response to their question or to their ask
- 19:36S2: of Lord, teach us to pray.
- 19:38S4: Yeah.
- 19:39S2: He didn't just give them the Lord's Prayer, which is
- 19:41S2: a great start. He gave them a story, a parable
- 19:46S2: where the takeaway ask. Yeah, ask big.
- 19:50S3: The definition of the word is shamelessness.
- 19:52S2: Shamelessness.
- 19:53S3: Yeah. Just come shamelessly.
- 19:55S2: The shameless. Ask ask, seek, knock. Then ask again. Seek again,
- 20:02S2: knock again. Keep asking.
- 20:05S1: She was trying to earn her way to God, but
- 20:08S1: God showed her. She didn't have to. Ali is in
- 20:11S1: the crew. It's Carl and crew on Moody Radio.
- 20:15S2: Back to school week here on Carl and Crew. We're
- 20:17S2: going to tackle a topic that is near and dear
- 20:19S2: to the heart of every believer. It's one of the
- 20:22S2: challenging things of walking with the Lord is trying to
- 20:25S2: make sense of pain, suffering, hardship, of. Sometimes when you
- 20:31S2: feel like you've cried out to God for relief and
- 20:34S2: it hasn't come. Doctor Gerald Peterman is a professor here
- 20:37S2: at Moody Bible Institute. He's also a contributor to the
- 20:40S2: Moody Bible commentary, which we use often around here. He's
- 20:44S2: teaching a class called Biblical Theology of Suffering. When students
- 20:49S2: sign up to take this class. I wonder what they
- 20:52S2: expect because this is this is a very, very this
- 20:56S2: is a difficult topic.
- 20:57S5: It is. But one of the reasons they sign up
- 21:00S5: is that other students have taken the course, and it
- 21:04S5: has helped them. And they've been just really surprised by
- 21:08S5: the by, by how much it's touched their heart. And
- 21:10S5: so then they think, I want that. And so the
- 21:13S5: class fills up like within seconds after it's been offered.
- 21:16S2: Yeah. You know, suffering touches every person, believer or nonbeliever.
- 21:20S2: We all live in a fallen world. We are tainted
- 21:23S2: by our own sin, but also by the sin of others.
- 21:26S2: How do you start to develop a framework for understanding
- 21:29S2: and making sense of. Often what seems difficult to understand,
- 21:34S2: and that's putting it mildly.
- 21:35S5: Well, I think we have to start with Jesus. I mean,
- 21:38S5: that's that's often our answer. We have to start with Jesus. Yeah.
- 21:42S5: And so we look at the life of Christ in
- 21:45S5: this class and we ask questions. What kind of emotional
- 21:51S5: pain did he have? Because that's the way we're defining suffering,
- 21:54S5: not just a physical pain, but but an emotional pain.
- 21:58S5: And there's, there's plenty of material for us to look at.
- 22:01S2: Okay, so give me a couple examples of where we
- 22:03S2: see the emotional suffering of Jesus.
- 22:05S5: Yes. Right. So it's only in John's gospel that when
- 22:11S5: Jesus tells I'm going to be betrayed, that John says
- 22:15S5: Jesus was troubled. Well, of course, knowing that someone's going
- 22:21S5: to betray you is, is it pierces our heart. So
- 22:26S5: what if we're in Jesus's position? Are we allowed to
- 22:30S5: feel troubled? My response is yes, of course, because if
- 22:34S5: he feels it, it's a it's a godly kind of suffering.
- 22:39S5: I mean, even without physical pain, yet he's he's suffering
- 22:44S5: about the betrayal. Another example is, um, in Mark ten,
- 22:48S5: some parents bring their kids to Jesus and the disciples say, hey,
- 22:52S5: we're not doing children's church here. Send them away, you know,
- 22:55S5: and Jesus is indignant. That's that's the kind of anger
- 23:01S5: and anger hurts us. It's a it's a painful emotion.
- 23:08S5: And so. Well, if Jesus can feel this and we
- 23:11S5: know that's got to be righteous, then maybe there are
- 23:14S5: times when our anger is righteous, too. Which means now
- 23:19S5: we're we're put in a position where we think, God,
- 23:22S5: help me to direct my painful emotions in the right
- 23:25S5: way to, to feel the right sort of painful emotions,
- 23:29S5: as opposed to not feeling the wrong kind that are
- 23:32S5: going to bring you dishonor. But but to be but
- 23:36S5: to be. Holy Spirit led in how I'm thinking about
- 23:40S5: my pain and suffering.
- 23:41S2: Wow. You know, it's interesting that that's the starting point
- 23:44S2: is understanding just the emotions that Jesus felt. And therefore
- 23:49S2: a little bit of a model of how we can
- 23:50S2: process those emotions and not sort of dismiss or feel
- 23:54S2: like a shame about the pain that we, that we
- 23:58S2: feel as we go through life. Right? Is that, is
- 24:00S2: that my understanding that correctly?
- 24:02S5: Yeah, absolutely. Absolutely. We're both tracking in the same direction.
- 24:05S5: You know, Jesus had. Jesus had positive emotions too. You know,
- 24:10S5: he rejoiced at his heavenly father was drawing poor people
- 24:14S5: to him. Young people to him, ignored people to him.
- 24:18S5: He rejoiced in that. And so we can imitate Jesus,
- 24:23S5: shall we say, fun emotions or enjoyable emotions. But of course,
- 24:26S5: our topic here isn't why is there joy? Our topic
- 24:29S5: is why is there suffering and their suffering in the world?
- 24:34S5: Because the world is still filled with evil and disappointment
- 24:38S5: and pain and betrayal. And so it's natural for us
- 24:42S5: to have the negative emotions that go with that. Now.
- 24:45S5: How are we going to work through them? How are
- 24:46S5: we going to express them becomes the question.
- 24:49S2: You know, one of the things that oftentimes I've gotten
- 24:52S2: stuck here, everybody's gotten stuck in the why. Like, why
- 24:55S2: is this happening to me or to my loved one
- 24:58S2: or to my family? Why? Why isn't God relieving my suffering?
- 25:03S2: And nobody's ever been able to fully capture a satisfying, okay, well,
- 25:08S2: this is why that feels like, okay, yeah, now I
- 25:11S2: get it. But how do you help students grapple with the,
- 25:14S2: the wrestling that comes with the why?
- 25:17S5: Well, like you mentioned, Ali, we might not always get
- 25:19S5: the answer, but how do we try to kind of
- 25:22S5: pursue it? Or how do we try to pursue God
- 25:25S5: while we're trying to find the answer. And we do
- 25:28S5: that by lament. We do that by honestly bringing our
- 25:33S5: painful thoughts, feelings, and words to the Lord. The Psalmists
- 25:37S5: do this all the time. About a third of the
- 25:40S5: Psalms are lament psalms. And so if we're going through something,
- 25:45S5: God has invited us by His Word to bring these
- 25:50S5: painful emotions to him. So we might go to O
- 25:54S5: amongst many to choose from. We might go to Psalm
- 25:55S5: 88 and read through it and pray through it and,
- 26:00S5: and ask, Lord, help me to feel the way you
- 26:04S5: want me to feel. Lord, take these painful questions that
- 26:07S5: I have and help me to bear them. I think
- 26:10S5: we've been given lots of examples in the life of Jeremiah,
- 26:13S5: in the life of Jesus, in the life of Paul,
- 26:15S5: and in the life of David and the Psalm writers
- 26:18S5: ways we can speak out to the Lord with our
- 26:22S5: painful emotions, and he will help us carry them, not
- 26:26S5: necessarily always resolve them. But the issue is, I think,
- 26:30S5: our perseverance through the trial and continuing to trust. And
- 26:36S5: it's it's easy to trust when days are good, right?
- 26:38S4: Yeah.
- 26:39S2: Now, I'm certain that in the course of teaching something
- 26:42S2: like this, you have no doubt had things in your
- 26:46S2: own personal life that have caused you to experience pain, trial, suffering. Uh,
- 26:51S2: not asking for details here, but how has this kind
- 26:55S2: of working through this helped prepare you for the seasons
- 26:59S2: that you've gone through?
- 27:01S5: Oh, yes. Um, the two have overlapped quite a bit.
- 27:04S5: Teaching this course nearly 20 years, I think I've become
- 27:09S5: much more open with God. Uh, much, much more able
- 27:13S5: to bring painful emotions, say things that sound offensive. But
- 27:18S5: then again, Jeremiah, you know, says things, some things to
- 27:23S5: God that sound unreasonable. Yeah, right. So over the course
- 27:27S5: of teaching this class to students, I think I've learned
- 27:30S5: to be more honest with God.
- 27:32S2: Mhm. And you mentioned how students often like to finish
- 27:36S2: the course, and they are deeply touched by the learning,
- 27:38S2: I'm sure processing through some of what of their own
- 27:41S2: personal suffering, but also preparing them, those who are going
- 27:45S2: to go into ministry for ministering to people who are suffering,
- 27:49S2: which we we know from the book of job that
- 27:51S2: it's there's many, many ways to get it wrong. How
- 27:54S2: do you help students there where they can be good ministers,
- 27:58S2: that they can comfort others with the comfort that they've received?
- 28:01S5: Right, right. I think the primary issue becomes how do
- 28:05S5: we listen? How do we how do.
- 28:07S2: We how do we say less?
- 28:09S5: Yeah. How do we say less and listen better? It's
- 28:11S5: always a challenge for us. But part of what we
- 28:14S5: try to drive home in the course is since you
- 28:18S5: want to be listened to when you're suffering, since you
- 28:22S5: want to be listened to with respect while you talk
- 28:25S5: about your pain, you have to give the same thing
- 28:28S5: to the other, the love the other person as you
- 28:31S5: would want to be loved. But it's got to be patient.
- 28:33S5: But it also has to be wise in your in
- 28:36S5: your listening to them. So the primary issue is how
- 28:40S5: do we listen? And since we've listened to you in
- 28:43S5: class and you've listened to each other in discussion groups
- 28:46S5: in class, now you've got some training to listen to
- 28:50S5: a parishioner, and I've got some training to listen to
- 28:52S5: a friend or listen to a stranger take a deep breath, say,
- 28:56S5: tell me more. I think that helps them.
- 28:58S2: Well, there's something so powerful about just presence and.
- 29:02S5: Indeed.
- 29:03S2: Somebody just being with you, walking with you, sitting with you.
- 29:07S2: And you're right. I mean, so often people will say like,
- 29:09S2: I don't have the words to say. And so a
- 29:11S2: lot of times people will shy away from pain and suffering.
- 29:13S2: And I don't want to say the wrong thing. And
- 29:16S2: usually saying nothing is probably better, right?
- 29:19S5: Saying nothing.
- 29:20S2: Just showing up, saying nothing.
- 29:21S5: Right? Just maybe giving us some aha! Or again, tell
- 29:26S5: me more. Um. What we don't want to do is say,
- 29:28S5: you can't be angry about that. This, this is just,
- 29:32S5: this is just going to end the conversation. But rather,
- 29:35S5: I can see why you're angry about this. Tell me more.
- 29:38S5: What are you doing with your anger about this? Are
- 29:41S5: you are are you allowing yourself to talk to God
- 29:44S5: about your discouragement and your depression? Because again, the Psalm writers,
- 29:49S5: they do this. And so we could do it too. I, yeah,
- 29:52S5: I think for some odd reason, the enemy has us
- 29:55S5: tricked into thinking we have to be silent. We don't
- 29:58S5: have to be silent. And God gives us words that
- 30:01S5: we can speak, and then words that we can speak
- 30:03S5: back to others when they need our encouragement.
- 30:07S2: Have you ever had a student in your class, like
- 30:09S2: wrestle with this or have to work through some of it? Like,
- 30:13S2: what are the things that they struggle with when it
- 30:15S2: comes to learning this theology of suffering.
- 30:19S5: Well, 2 or 3 things. One of them is I
- 30:22S5: often encounter a student who's been taught something particular about, say,
- 30:27S5: Philippians four rejoice in the Lord always. Which means something
- 30:32S5: like 24 over 7365. You're joyful. Yeah. So if you're not,
- 30:38S5: therefore you're sinning. No. Wait wait wait. Okay. I say,
- 30:42S5: I understand that, and I think joy should mark the
- 30:46S5: Christian life, but it wouldn't have to be what what's
- 30:49S5: experienced every minute of every day. Yeah. Let's go back
- 30:52S5: to Philippians, shall we? It's in the book of Philippians
- 30:55S5: that Paul says, as I write this letter to you,
- 30:59S5: I weep over the enemies of the cross. So you
- 31:04S5: get at least two things from Paul, the transparency of
- 31:07S5: his sadness and the call to rejoicing. So often we
- 31:11S5: have to ask, can you leave behind this view that
- 31:14S5: joy must be the 24 over seven experience of the Christian.
- 31:18S2: Yeah. Doctor Gerald Peterman our guest this morning. Such a
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- 32:04S2: So glad to have you with us on this Thursday morning. Man,
- 32:08S2: this back to school theme has been wow. So incredible.
- 32:12S4: Really good.
- 32:13S2: So these professors, uh, I mean, we are so blessed
- 32:17S2: here at Moody Bible Institute to.
- 32:19S4: Have.
- 32:20S2: Truly some of the finest thinkers theologians in the country. Yeah,
- 32:25S2: right here in downtown Chicago.
- 32:27S3: It's really amazing.
- 32:28S4: You know, their hearts for what they do, their hearts
- 32:31S4: for the gospel, their hearts for the students.
- 32:32S2: For the students. It really I mean, they just keep coming.
- 32:36S3: Yeah, it's I mean, it was really cool when I,
- 32:38S3: when I walked in because I haven't seen Doctor Peterman
- 32:41S3: in forever, but I had a class with him in
- 32:43S3: 2017 and it was the Gospel of John. And I
- 32:47S3: loved his style of teaching. His humble heart and the
- 32:52S3: way he engages students is incredible. And that is so
- 32:56S3: common of the professors that are here and the ones
- 32:59S3: we bring in to be on the show with us.
- 33:02S3: I mean, it's incredible.
- 33:03S2: And I just found out that he's the Q and
- 33:05S2: A guy on the land in the book.
- 33:06S4: Yes. Oh that's right.
- 33:08S3: I didn't know that.
- 33:08S2: If you listen to that show hosted by Help Me
- 33:11S2: Out Here Charlie.
- 33:13S4: Charlie Dyer and also John Jaegers on there. Sorry, Charlie.
- 33:17S4: No no no. Sorry, Charlie. That was cute. Forgot there
- 33:21S4: for a minute. Uh, 1:00 central, but check your moody radio. Yes,
- 33:24S4: it's one central, but yeah, check the.
- 33:26S2: Q&A, guys. So maybe a familiar voice to some of you.
- 33:30S2: If you missed any of that conversation, we just covered
- 33:33S2: biblical theology of suffering. Very rich. Just text showed 805 5578, 98.
- 33:40S2: You know, I have a high school senior and I
- 33:44S2: don't remember senior year when I was in high school,
- 33:47S2: being as full of pomp and circumstance for like 365 days.
- 33:53S3: What do you mean?
- 33:54S2: Okay, so maybe, maybe this is me getting old, but
- 33:58S2: this whole senior sunrise and sunset thing.
- 34:00S3: I don't know that.
- 34:01S2: Oh, have you heard of this? This is maybe.
- 34:04S4: This.
- 34:04S2: Is regional. So this is every school around here is
- 34:07S2: doing it. So every the whole class picks a day
- 34:11S2: and they go out somewhere and they watched the sun
- 34:14S2: rise together. Yes. Yes. No kidding. I know what you're
- 34:17S2: talking about. They take pictures they, like, have special gear.
- 34:22S2: Senior sunrise. Okay. Please give me your feedback on this
- 34:26S2: if you're listening. Is this just an Illinois Chicago thing
- 34:29S2: or a senior? Sunrise is happening across the country.
- 34:31S3: I went to school in Illinois. We never did senior Sunrise.
- 34:34S2: That's why I think this stuff is New Indiana. I
- 34:36S2: think that we're we're these are getting bigger and bigger parking.
- 34:40S2: Spot painting apparently is a thing. Oh big deal. Indiana's
- 34:43S2: been doing it for years. So you get a. For
- 34:45S2: schools that have a lot of parking and you get
- 34:47S2: your own spot, you get to decorate the whole park.
- 34:50S3: That wasn't a thing for me either.
- 34:52S2: You're a senior. So I mean, I'm seeing some of
- 34:54S2: these pictures. These people are out there like full on artists.
- 34:57S2: There's stripes and logos and names. What? Absolutely.
- 35:03S3: Yeah. That's crazy.
- 35:04S2: Yeah, the senior pranks. I remember that.
- 35:07S3: Senior pranks.
- 35:08S2: Oh, yeah. That's high senior. But I mean the apparel.
- 35:11S2: So now people are like getting whole outfits that are
- 35:15S2: either decorated in like the school that they're going to,
- 35:19S2: they're customizing jeans that are painted for like their class.
- 35:23S2: That's a big deal.
- 35:24S6: The jeans, the painted jeans, painted jeans.
- 35:27S3: That's a new thing for me.
- 35:28S2: This is all new. And don't get me started on this.
- 35:30S2: See your pictures. My daughter just took. When I took
- 35:33S2: senior pictures, I went into a studio. I put my
- 35:36S2: hand under my shoulder, I awkwardly smiled. They took to
- 35:41S2: probably 2 to 3 pictures and I was like. And
- 35:43S2: I got what I got.
- 35:44S3: Wow.
- 35:45S6: Yeah.
- 35:45S2: Next, my.
- 35:46S3: Daughter.
- 35:47S2: Just had a full on photo shoot out in the wild,
- 35:51S2: flowers with outfit changes, hair and makeup. I got these
- 35:57S2: pictures back like I'm like, I've never had pictures this
- 36:00S2: good in my life. It's got to be gorgeous.
- 36:03S6: That's great. Oh my goodness.
- 36:04S2: Though senior year has taken on a life of its own.
- 36:07S2: I wasn't ready for this.
- 36:08S3: Did you guys ever get, uh, Senior Assassins. Did you
- 36:11S3: ever play that game?
- 36:12S2: Oh that has I did not, because I'm apparently too
- 36:15S2: old for that. But I've read stories about this. This
- 36:19S2: sounds absolutely insane.
- 36:20S3: Oh, it was the best I. So I played that game, uh,
- 36:23S3: when I was a senior in.
- 36:24S2: Senior assassin.
- 36:25S3: Senior assassins. You get water guns and you are assigned you.
- 36:30S3: You play with as a pair, you're assigned another pair
- 36:34S3: to go and try to get. And someone is assigned you.
- 36:37S3: You don't know who, who's assigned to you though. And
- 36:40S3: it's basically, and it's not just it's actually school. School
- 36:44S3: hours are off limits. You can't play the game at school.
- 36:47S3: You have to try to find these people and hunt
- 36:49S3: them down and, and shoot them with a water gun.
- 36:52S3: And if you shoot any I won person of the pair,
- 36:55S3: then then that pair is out. And so, uh, I
- 37:00S3: remember I was leaving to go to school, I was
- 37:03S3: getting into my car and it was in the driveway
- 37:07S3: and I noticed I heard like a rustling behind a tree,
- 37:11S3: and I looked. And there's two people from my school
- 37:14S3: that are hiding behind a tree, waiting to get me
- 37:17S3: on my way to the car.
- 37:18S2: Okay, if there are two people hiding behind the tree
- 37:20S2: waiting to get me, I'm calling the police.
- 37:22S3: Well, that's fair, but it's senior assassins senior. And it was.
- 37:26S3: It was.
- 37:27S2: Wow.
- 37:27S3: It was two girls. I was not threatened or I
- 37:29S3: did not feel unsafe. And so I booked it because
- 37:32S3: my my street, my cul de sac was connected to
- 37:36S3: a highway. I ran all the way to the highway
- 37:38S3: and they stopped chasing me. I, I snuck through backyards,
- 37:44S3: snuck in through the back door of my house, stole
- 37:46S3: my brother's car keys, and used his car that was
- 37:48S3: parked around the other side of the house to get
- 37:50S3: to school. Okay. They found me, sat on the hood
- 37:54S3: of my car, and waited. So what I did was
- 37:57S3: I just slowly put it in reverse, and I smacked
- 37:59S3: the gas pedal real quick, and it jumped backwards, and
- 38:02S3: they rolled off the hood of the car.
- 38:04S2: And so dangerous for so many reasons.
- 38:06S6: Wow.
- 38:07S3: Yeah. That was that was 12, 13 years ago now.
- 38:10S3: So it's okay. They're fine.
- 38:11S2: I am blown away by this. I'm getting some response
- 38:13S2: from you. 5641 I'm with you, they said. Haha. We
- 38:17S2: walked across the stage and moved our tassels. I, I
- 38:20S2: agree that was kind of the extent of the senior
- 38:22S2: year celebration.
- 38:23S3: But.
- 38:24S2: Senior Sunrise seems to be a thing across the country.
- 38:27S2: Thank you for confirming. Akron, Ohio. We do senior sunrise,
- 38:31S2: Fort Payne, Alabama senior sunrise on the first day of school.
- 38:36S2: Our girls painted jeans. Wow. Okay for sure. Shoreland High
- 38:39S2: School in Wisconsin had senior sunrise. My senior went and
- 38:43S2: I was left wondering, what is this and what is
- 38:46S2: the point?
- 38:46S6: What is this?
- 38:47S2: I'm all for the celebration. I like. I, I'm gonna
- 38:50S2: go all in with my senior. I'm gonna we're I'm
- 38:52S2: going to let her do it all. It's just.
- 38:54S3: You gotta.
- 38:55S6: You have to it's fun.
- 38:56S2: It's puzzling to me because maybe here we go again
- 39:00S2: sounding old. Maybe my generation just didn't know how to
- 39:02S2: celebrate as well.
- 39:04S3: Well, I think that that's the thing is just that.
- 39:06S3: Not that your generation doesn't know how to celebrate, but
- 39:09S3: that over time, people have started to say, hey, this
- 39:14S3: is kind of like a big deal where we're going
- 39:16S3: into a whole new phase of life. Let's enjoy this
- 39:19S3: last year before everything changes for the rest of your life.
- 39:23S2: I think it's great. And I'm, you know, maybe I
- 39:25S2: should come up with some version of it for maybe
- 39:28S2: I can do a senior sunrise. It's more like senior citizens. Sunrise.
- 39:32S2: I'll be there. Hey, you want to meet out on
- 39:38S2: the lake before dawn?
- 39:42S1: This is Carl and crew on Moody Radio.
- 39:46S2: Well, this back to school week here on Carl and
- 39:49S2: Crew Moody Bible Institute has been back in school for
- 39:51S2: about a week now, and so some of our favorite
- 39:54S2: professors have volunteered to come in and to help teach
- 39:58S2: a little bit of what they're teaching in their classes
- 40:00S2: this semester. Travis Williamson is up this morning, associate professor
- 40:04S2: of applied linguistics here at Moody Bible Institute. First of all,
- 40:08S2: what exactly is linguistics?
- 40:11S7: Good question. I get it a lot of times.
- 40:13S2: I'm sure you do.
- 40:14S7: Linguistics is the study of how languages work. If we're
- 40:16S7: not studying any given particular language in our courses, but
- 40:19S7: we're learning about all the different variety of grammatical structures
- 40:24S7: and phonological sound systems of the world languages, so that
- 40:26S7: when my students cross a language boundary in bringing the
- 40:30S7: gospel to the ends of the earth, they're able to
- 40:33S7: cross that boundary with confidence. And when they encounter new
- 40:36S7: sounds in a world language or new grammatical things, they're
- 40:39S7: not surprised by them. They have the categories in their
- 40:41S7: mind so as to be able to make sense of them.
- 40:45S7: Right from the very beginning.
- 40:46S2: You had something interesting happen in your first week of
- 40:49S2: is it grammatical analysis? You have a class on grammatical analysis. Yeah.
- 40:54S2: Tell me what happened in that class just this last week.
- 40:56S7: Doesn't that sound exciting? Yeah, it really does.
- 40:59S2: I'm a word person.
- 41:00S7: Great. Well, so am I. We can talk about that.
- 41:03S7: Grammatical analysis is one of our technical classes, so it's
- 41:06S7: one where we really dig into grammatical structures, morphology, how words,
- 41:10S7: pieces of words are put together into larger words. And
- 41:12S7: we're just getting started. So last week was the first
- 41:14S7: week and we it was our first day of real
- 41:16S7: analysis class. And so I gave them a bunch of
- 41:19S7: problems like we did together in class. And then for
- 41:21S7: the last ten minutes, I let them kind of work
- 41:24S7: on their homework together in pairs. And so the whole
- 41:26S7: room is buzzing with sound and just kind of people saying, oh,
- 41:29S7: I think the number one and number three are showing
- 41:31S7: us this, but then another person says, no, but number
- 41:34S7: five kind of gives us a different angle on that.
- 41:35S7: So I think this is that or this is that.
- 41:38S7: And it's just kind of I'm roaming around kind of
- 41:40S7: learning about what, what they're thinking, how they're thinking about it.
- 41:43S7: At the end of class, one of the students in
- 41:45S7: the front row, he's like, bro, are you going to
- 41:47S7: like this class? And it's just kind of energizes me
- 41:50S7: because a lot of people think about, oh, grammatical analysis,
- 41:52S7: that sounds so dull. But when you're when you're a puzzler,
- 41:55S7: you take things apart, you put things back together. Language
- 41:58S7: is full of complexity. And this guy was just locking
- 42:01S7: into the the complexity of that language.
- 42:04S2: Now, what are these students? What for most of them,
- 42:07S2: what is their aim? How do they eventually want to
- 42:10S2: use their study of linguistics for the sake of the gospel?
- 42:14S7: Yeah, great. My, myself, I was a linguistics major when
- 42:17S7: I was a student at Moody back in the early 2000.
- 42:20S7: I went on to do Bible translation. The program was
- 42:22S7: actually designed for that kind of track, as is more
- 42:26S7: the core of what it was designed for. For those
- 42:28S7: that are crossing language barriers in order to bring scriptures
- 42:30S7: into unwritten and undeveloped languages. That's maybe a third of
- 42:35S7: my class is doing that. This particular young man wants
- 42:37S7: to work with a dying language over in the British Isles.
- 42:40S7: And so he kind of has a passion for the
- 42:43S7: the technical side of things. But there are other students
- 42:46S7: are across the board. I have some that are thinking
- 42:47S7: teaching English as a second language, and they want more
- 42:50S7: of a grammatical and they want more of a linguistic
- 42:52S7: basis of that. But then others. I have two students
- 42:55S7: in that particular class that are wanting to help with
- 42:59S7: literacy development among minority languages around the world, so that
- 43:03S7: as English and as Spanish and Mandarin, Chinese are kind
- 43:07S7: of encroaching upon these languages through the internet, that they
- 43:10S7: have a written system, they have a literacy kind of component.
- 43:14S7: If their language is desiring that so as to be
- 43:16S7: able to maintain their language and culture in the midst
- 43:19S7: of a globalized society, and then others just say, I
- 43:21S7: want to cross the language barrier. I want to be
- 43:23S7: involved in missions. And I know that learning a language
- 43:25S7: is really, really important to connecting with locals. And so
- 43:28S7: they're able to, um, beef up their linguistics so that,
- 43:32S7: like I said, they can cross that language barrier with confidence.
- 43:35S2: Yeah. Tell me a little bit about your work in Ethiopia.
- 43:38S2: I know you and your wife served there for, for
- 43:40S2: some time. And how did you use your linguistics background there?
- 43:45S7: Yeah, from 2009 to 2019, we lived over in Ethiopia
- 43:49S7: working among the Gumuz people. The Gumuz are in the
- 43:52S7: northwest part of Ethiopia where they are, um, their Christianity
- 43:56S7: has has come to their, there's a variety of denominations,
- 43:59S7: but our project was set up to bring all the
- 44:02S7: denominations together that we might then translate the scriptures alongside
- 44:06S7: them into their language. And so this then empowers the
- 44:09S7: pastors and the evangelists, and not just go out and
- 44:11S7: proclaim the word from memory, but rather they can actually
- 44:14S7: show that God speaks their language. They show that the
- 44:18S7: message applies to them as well. And so we got
- 44:20S7: the privilege of walking with that church through the full
- 44:23S7: New Testament project. And then each summer on my moody breaks,
- 44:26S7: I get to go back and we're still working on
- 44:28S7: Old Testament. We finished the Psalms last summer and we're
- 44:31S7: just finishing Genesis this past summer.
- 44:34S2: Wow. What what's what would you say are 1 or
- 44:37S2: 2 of the biggest challenges of that kind of work? Because,
- 44:39S2: I mean, for those of us who maybe only speak
- 44:42S2: one language, sometimes it's very hard to think outside of
- 44:45S2: just our, our, our English. For me, obviously, it's what
- 44:50S2: are the biggest challenges of that kind of translation work?
- 44:53S7: I think a lot of it is mental because we
- 44:55S7: all learn English well, or we all learned our first
- 44:57S7: languages really well. As children, when we become adults, we
- 45:00S7: complicate things a lot. We try to think like adults.
- 45:03S7: We learn through flashcards instead of through just playing. And
- 45:06S7: so in my second language acquisition classes, which I teach
- 45:09S7: in the spring, we go back to the play model
- 45:11S7: and we have all these toys spread out in front
- 45:13S7: of us, and we're learning some of the most difficult
- 45:15S7: languages in the world, like Korean and Mandarin and Japanese.
- 45:19S7: But by the end, all of my students are able
- 45:21S7: to have a five minute conversation. So if we can
- 45:23S7: get ourselves out of the way and kind of be
- 45:26S7: a little bit immersed in the language that our brains
- 45:28S7: do what they were designed to do by, by God,
- 45:30S7: I believe then we're able to, to cross it with
- 45:33S7: confidence as well as with a whole lot of fun.
- 45:36S2: You know, it's interesting, I think about sometimes when you
- 45:38S2: hear someone give a sermon or even a devotional, a
- 45:41S2: lot of times someone will read a passage of scripture
- 45:43S2: and then they will isolate a word and they say, well,
- 45:45S2: this word in the original Greek means this, and then
- 45:49S2: they'll expound upon it a little bit. And I don't know,
- 45:51S2: to me, it always sounds like they're really super smart
- 45:54S2: because they're quoting the original Greek. How beneficial is it
- 45:58S2: to be able to know, like Greek, for instance, to
- 46:00S2: be able to have greater understanding of the Bible? Or
- 46:03S2: is that overplayed? Do we over rely on trying to
- 46:06S2: pick out individual words to bring the original Greek or
- 46:09S2: the original Hebrew?
- 46:10S7: Yeah, I'm kind of on both sides of that issue, okay.
- 46:12S7: Because I do believe in Bible translation. I believe that
- 46:15S7: as we've been given the gift of many translations in
- 46:17S7: our English language, those translations are not really competing with
- 46:21S7: each other, but they have different translation philosophies. And so
- 46:23S7: as we read like a New Living Translation versus an ESV,
- 46:27S7: NIV kind of in the middle of them, just different
- 46:29S7: translation philosophies, all trying to capture something that is beautifully
- 46:32S7: written in the Greek or Hebrew languages. However, I also
- 46:36S7: teach Greek. And so I really believe the importance of
- 46:39S7: of learning Greek when I study the Greek text or
- 46:41S7: when I hear a pastor refer to the Greek, I'm
- 46:43S7: always flipping on my phone or into my Greek Bible
- 46:46S7: to see, okay, what, at what point are they making
- 46:48S7: that so that I can disagree with them or something,
- 46:50S7: but I want to I want to go to that
- 46:51S7: level with them if they're taking us to that level.
- 46:54S7: I don't think the average Christian absolutely needs to. But
- 46:58S7: I do think that within a church setting, those in
- 47:00S7: in Christian leadership should have the confidence to be able
- 47:04S7: to approach the Greek text so that when they're preaching upfront,
- 47:07S7: they've studied it not just through the translation, but they've
- 47:10S7: gone behind the scenes a little bit to see how
- 47:12S7: it was originally formed in the Greek or the Hebrew.
- 47:16S7: And so I really think that that's an important step
- 47:18S7: in there. Is it overblown? No, I don't think so. Okay.
- 47:22S7: But at the same time, it doesn't need to be.
- 47:24S7: We don't need to bring all of our congregation into
- 47:26S7: the Greek. As long as they can have confidence in
- 47:29S7: us that we've studied it to that level.
- 47:32S2: You know, remember the first time hearing somebody say, um, well,
- 47:35S2: this translation doesn't capture it as well as. And it
- 47:38S2: was shocking to me because I thought, whoa, what are
- 47:40S2: they saying? Like the word of God is infallible. It's
- 47:42S2: without error. How could it be that this translation doesn't
- 47:46S2: capture the original intent of the author? That was, for
- 47:49S2: some reason, kind of a mind blowing thing to wrestle with.
- 47:52S2: What do you say to that when people talk about
- 47:54S2: the different translations, the shortcomings of not being able to
- 47:58S2: fully capture maybe what a word was originally intended, or
- 48:01S2: we apply it or understand it differently, speak to that
- 48:04S2: a little bit.
- 48:05S7: Yeah. In a sense, I agree with it. No translation
- 48:08S7: ever captures the entirety of the original, because when you're
- 48:12S7: moving from one language to another language, it's two different
- 48:15S7: ways of framing the world. And so anything framed in
- 48:19S7: an English context is not going to perfectly overlap with
- 48:22S7: anything framed in a Hebrew or a Greek context. However,
- 48:25S7: the amount of overlap is immense in my mind, especially
- 48:28S7: for reading, reading multiple English translations. There's an old proverb
- 48:31S7: that says translators are traitors, which means you've left something
- 48:36S7: behind by translating the message. But I think God is
- 48:39S7: bigger than that. Yes, there's nuance in the Greek text
- 48:42S7: that we can't capture well in English, or we try
- 48:45S7: to capture one piece of the nuance, but we actually
- 48:47S7: kind of distorted another piece of it a little bit,
- 48:50S7: which is why going back into the original text allows
- 48:53S7: us to kind of feel with full confidence that, okay,
- 48:56S7: the nuance of this one is the one that it
- 48:58S7: was originally communicated in. And so accessing that original meaning
- 49:01S7: in the original language, there's nothing that beats it. And so,
- 49:05S7: but at the same time, I don't want to discredit
- 49:07S7: the work of translators because I think God, even in
- 49:10S7: the way that he communicated his message, he affirmed translation
- 49:14S7: through the use of the Septuagint, for example, in the
- 49:17S7: New New Testament, that is, the Greek translation of the
- 49:20S7: Old Testament is quoted in the Greek original of the
- 49:22S7: New Testament. So God is not afraid of translation. In fact,
- 49:26S7: I think it kind of enhances his glory in a
- 49:28S7: sense that he can be communicated, he can be expressed,
- 49:31S7: revealed in all languages of the world.
- 49:33S2: Beautiful. Travis Williamson, associate professor of applied linguistics in the
- 49:38S2: intercultural Studies department here at Moody Bible Institute. If you
- 49:41S2: want more on Moody and all that is offered here,
- 49:44S2: just text Moody to 805 557898. Hope you did some
- 49:49S2: good learning. You had your notebook out. Just text Moody
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- 49:56S1: He was sharing the gospel on the radio and then
- 49:59S1: he got saved. Young thunders in the crew. It's Colin
- 50:03S1: Crew on Moody Radio.
- 50:05S2: Well, one of the joys of back to school time
- 50:08S2: is this become kind of an annual tradition on Colin
- 50:10S2: Crew of bringing in Moody Bible Institute professors, and we
- 50:14S2: asked them, hey, can you teach us a little bit
- 50:16S2: of what you're teaching in your classroom this semester? We
- 50:19S2: have Brian with us right now. He's a professor in
- 50:21S2: the program, head of communications at Moody, right here in
- 50:25S2: downtown Chicago. You specialize in the theology of communications and culture.
- 50:31S2: Those are words that not everybody would put together. Theology.
- 50:34S2: We think, okay, study the Bible, uh, exegesis and all
- 50:39S2: of the different terms that you use there, but theology
- 50:41S2: of communications and culture. Let's get the set up here.
- 50:45S8: That has been my passion. This is my 19th year
- 50:48S8: here at Moody. And when you know about the Moody
- 50:50S8: Bible Institute, you know it is three parts radio, publishing
- 50:54S8: and education. So it would make sense that we have
- 50:57S8: a flagship ministry, media arts program asking what the future
- 51:01S8: of ministry media looks like. And I think we can
- 51:04S8: all agree we want these to be theologically driven decisions.
- 51:07S8: And here at Moody, and especially in our undergraduate program,
- 51:10S8: we believe deeply in theologically trained communicators and media artists
- 51:16S8: in such a heavily mediated age where we are surrounded
- 51:20S8: by content 24 over seven, when everything that we do
- 51:23S8: on Sunday morning is an overt choice of communications, you
- 51:27S8: want to know that we are making theologically driven decisions
- 51:31S8: that help us become more formed to Christ than anything
- 51:36S8: else in our practices. So we have to engage the theology,
- 51:41S8: we have to engage the theory and the practice of
- 51:46S8: making in order to have a vibrant, celebratory, worshipful, uh,
- 51:54S8: community of Christians who are also engaging in all the
- 51:57S8: latest platforms and techniques and technologies that there are.
- 52:00S2: You know, when you mentioned content creation and we are
- 52:03S2: certainly surrounded by we get fed content 24 over seven.
- 52:08S2: I've been in from every different direction, no matter what
- 52:11S2: platform that you're on, whether it's YouTube or Instagram or
- 52:15S2: Facebook or others that I'm sure that I'm probably too
- 52:19S2: old to even be on. What are the, what are
- 52:22S2: the main things to keep in mind for the, the
- 52:25S2: person who's putting out content, whether it's a social media post,
- 52:29S2: posting something on Facebook, just a life update versus somebody
- 52:32S2: who wants to do content creation in a more formal, uh,
- 52:35S2: even as a job.
- 52:37S8: Yeah, those are phenomenal questions. Uh, because one of the
- 52:42S8: things that this field, I refer to it as a
- 52:45S8: Theo Communicology because I do think we need to study
- 52:48S8: it alongside our other systematics. And we do want to
- 52:52S8: get deep enough to understand whether or not our ministry
- 52:57S8: media is helping us become more Christ like, or if
- 53:00S8: it's something else. So you can entertain and you can inform.
- 53:05S8: But if we're going to consider ministry media, we need
- 53:08S8: to know that it is part of our spiritual formation.
- 53:12S8: And for that, we can really begin to understand more
- 53:16S8: about how we shape our messages. And our messages shape us.
- 53:20S8: Who we're spending all of this time with is formative.
- 53:24S8: That's why I think we all believe so much in
- 53:25S8: the Ministry of Moody Radio. So when we begin to
- 53:30S8: think in a deeply theological way, we are able to
- 53:34S8: align ourselves with some of the the leading theory in
- 53:37S8: the field. And that is how our media in a
- 53:40S8: modern age is ecological, not just technical. It is around us.
- 53:45S8: We live among it. We are part of it. It
- 53:48S8: is a part of us. It's easier to think of
- 53:51S8: technology as additive, but it is more ecological. It is
- 53:54S8: easier to think of our messages as mere transmissions. But
- 53:58S8: even in a very transnational technology like what we're doing
- 54:02S8: right now, everybody who cares about these formats understands that
- 54:07S8: good communication is dialogical. You are always trying to create
- 54:10S8: a dialogue with your listeners. You do it with pretty
- 54:13S8: much every which way in which you do your job
- 54:15S8: so well. You want to create a dialogue. You want
- 54:18S8: to create a common unity around our shared identity in Christ,
- 54:22S8: and that is you exemplifying your theology of communication and culture.
- 54:27S8: What I think everybody needs to really begin to wrestle
- 54:30S8: with is that you have a theology of communications and culture,
- 54:34S8: whether you know it or not.
- 54:36S2: Oh, explain.
- 54:37S8: Well, the way in which you communicate, what you're trying
- 54:39S8: to accomplish. Well, very much reveal how you believe communications
- 54:45S8: and meaning and ministry work or happen or function. These
- 54:51S8: technologies are very much extensions of ourselves. We extend ourselves
- 54:55S8: over these wires. In a sense, we disincarnate ourselves into
- 54:59S8: these new technologies and they disincarnate technology should be of
- 55:03S8: great concern to an incarnate church. What are we trying
- 55:08S8: to accomplish through our message making? Are we trying to
- 55:12S8: just change minds, or are we trying to mirror the
- 55:15S8: relationship that we have in Christ through these new formats?
- 55:20S8: Are we caught up in efficiencies and techniques and technologies
- 55:24S8: and mass production, or are we more concerned about the
- 55:28S8: quality and the meaning of our content? Are we willing
- 55:32S8: to just outsource our agency to AI and let it
- 55:36S8: mass produce copies of what we can verify as accurate,
- 55:42S8: and then still call that ministry media. Can we allow
- 55:46S8: our churches to just become virtual remote watch from living
- 55:50S8: room and still call it church Sunday morning? We can
- 55:54S8: all agree that there are countless ways that we have
- 55:57S8: been invited to construct our our gatherings of worship. If
- 56:03S8: I asked your listeners or ask anybody on the street,
- 56:05S8: how many different ways are there to do a gathering
- 56:08S8: of Christians on Sunday morning? Would not the answer be unlimited?
- 56:12S8: That should be humbling. And likewise, isn't the same answer
- 56:17S8: to how many ways are there to get it wrong?
- 56:19S8: Would that also not be unlimited? Do we want mere
- 56:24S8: technicians or best practices or trends or styles guiding these decisions?
- 56:30S8: Or do we want to be able to work outwardly
- 56:33S8: from our commonality in Christ and make very concrete decisions
- 56:37S8: about how we are to communicate what we are to
- 56:39S8: communicate in this world? We understand who Christ is, we
- 56:43S8: understand what Christian community is, we understand what our commission
- 56:48S8: is in the light of the Bible. So the Bible
- 56:51S8: becomes our instruction about who Christ was and what Christian
- 56:54S8: community is, and what we're commissioned to do, and then
- 56:57S8: we can work outwards to our communications choices.
- 57:00S2: You know, that last part really caught my ear, because
- 57:03S2: I think one of the challenges, whether you are posting
- 57:06S2: something personally, whether you're working as part of a media
- 57:09S2: team at church, is that whenever you whenever there is
- 57:13S2: an audience, there's always the temptation for it to be
- 57:17S2: about what is going to. Let's take social media. What's
- 57:21S2: going to drive up engagement, what's going to kind of,
- 57:25S2: you know, the algorithm we want we want to keep
- 57:28S2: showing up in people's feed, what is going to help
- 57:30S2: build the brand. And words like that can start to feel, oh,
- 57:36S2: it gets dicey quickly, right? And so checking our motives.
- 57:41S2: What are we wanting to do here? Is it just
- 57:44S2: to get more followers or to get more people to
- 57:47S2: like and subscribe? How do how do you help students
- 57:51S2: get that balance where. Yes, you. If you want to,
- 57:54S2: if you're wanting to put out content, if you're wanting to,
- 57:56S2: to influence through communication, an audience is necessary, right? But
- 58:01S2: you don't want to start letting the audience drive the
- 58:04S2: decisions and not our shared commitment to Christ.
- 58:08S8: Yeah. That is right at the heart of some of
- 58:10S8: these riddles where, um, I think our tradition was able to,
- 58:15S8: because of our place in time and history and position
- 58:18S8: in the culture and wealth, able to quickly adopt a
- 58:21S8: lot of technologies and have access to these mass communications platforms.
- 58:25S8: And then we begin to work backwards, like, what are
- 58:28S8: the best techniques, what works? What are the metrics? Those
- 58:32S8: are not wrong questions, but they're not the first questions.
- 58:35S8: And then very quickly you get into what we would
- 58:38S8: consider ethical questions. So we want definitely want Christian ethics
- 58:43S8: at the helm of some of these decisions where, no,
- 58:46S8: maybe we shouldn't be engaged in outrage algorithms just because
- 58:50S8: they work right. It'll get more followers. But is that
- 58:53S8: what we're supposed to be doing? Right? Or you can
- 58:55S8: get a little bit deeper and say, well, what are
- 58:57S8: the media theorists say about how to these platforms are
- 59:01S8: working ecologically in our environment? Those are also really valuable studies.
- 59:06S8: Our way out is not technique and best practices. It's
- 59:10S8: not ethics. It's not even good theory. It is good theology.
- 59:15S8: And one of the things that is so rich at
- 59:17S8: the Moody Bible Institute is these students kind of come
- 59:20S8: in already getting that they're not from the era of
- 59:24S8: mass communication. They are from the era of niche communication.
- 59:28S8: And if someone listens to their podcasts and it's only
- 59:33S8: five people back home, but those five people listened because
- 59:36S8: it's them who would not listen to some big, um,
- 59:40S8: you know, influencer type. Well, praise God for that. Or
- 59:44S8: more so, a lot of the modern students very much
- 59:47S8: are abandoning digital spaces. That's very challenging.
- 59:50S2: Really.
- 59:51S8: For all of the people who are still five years behind,
- 59:53S8: trying to figure out how to reach certain demographics in
- 59:57S8: digital spaces. For example, this is a very important year
- 1:00:00S8: in higher education, a very important year in the generational shift.
- 1:00:04S8: This is the year that the freshmen were born in 2008.
- 1:00:09S8: 2008 is the year we've been waiting for for a
- 1:00:12S8: very long time. 2008 is when the internet became fully
- 1:00:15S8: mobile and socialized on the screen. This is the true
- 1:00:20S8: screen generation 2008 is also the great financial crisis. So
- 1:00:24S8: there's just less of them. And they come in having
- 1:00:28S8: grown up on the screen. And we wonder what's going
- 1:00:31S8: to happen when this generation, who has had most of
- 1:00:34S8: their imagining done for them by screens first generation in history.
- 1:00:37S8: What happens when they become 18 and get to college?
- 1:00:40S8: And then, right as that happens, AI drops on them. Well,
- 1:00:44S8: if you think of, well, what does that mean for
- 1:00:46S8: mass communication? That's a very old question. What it means
- 1:00:50S8: for that generation primarily, and again, moody students are very
- 1:00:52S8: uniquely selected group who care very much about, um, formation
- 1:00:56S8: in Christ. They're not choosing digital things. They're choosing live
- 1:01:01S8: tangible had to be there events. They're choosing tangible books.
- 1:01:06S8: They want to produce a reader's Bible. They want to
- 1:01:10S8: produce a community hymnal. They want to produce new liturgies
- 1:01:13S8: and prayers that they know were written by people they
- 1:01:16S8: know and not written by some computer or some algorithm.
- 1:01:20S8: And that should be encouraging to all of us. But
- 1:01:23S8: it does raise an entirely new set of questions that
- 1:01:26S8: I think a lot of us are behind on asking
- 1:01:29S8: and answering.
- 1:01:30S2: So the generation that born in 2008 spent. They've only
- 1:01:36S2: known a life on screens could actually be the one
- 1:01:39S2: that's pushing us back in the other direction.
- 1:01:43S8: Even that that we might be automatically like, that's good,
- 1:01:46S8: good news. But I would even tell them, don't do
- 1:01:49S8: it because you're being reactionary. Do it because you're being
- 1:01:53S8: driven by your theology driven. Do it because that is
- 1:01:55S8: who you see in the life of Christ as recorded
- 1:01:58S8: in the Bible. And let. Let your Christology shape your
- 1:02:02S8: communicology and they get it. They. They're given all of
- 1:02:07S8: the variables, all of the tools in their pocket. They
- 1:02:09S8: are they've been called digital natives their entire life. And
- 1:02:13S8: you cannot get a lot of them to care about
- 1:02:15S8: social media or website. Not interested, not taking the class,
- 1:02:19S8: don't want the job. So if you spent ten years
- 1:02:20S8: preparing for that kind of thing, right? Also, why I
- 1:02:24S8: really think it's amazing to be able to, to do
- 1:02:26S8: this in the environment here at Moody because, um, I
- 1:02:30S8: don't have to wait ten years for a Barna study
- 1:02:32S8: to come out. I had to go ask them. Figure
- 1:02:35S8: out where they are, where their platforms are, how much
- 1:02:38S8: they care about numbers. And for the most part, yes,
- 1:02:42S8: we do care about monetization and numbers and economies of scale,
- 1:02:47S8: but not at that deep, pure, idealistic sense that we
- 1:02:50S8: get to really live in in the educational environment. What
- 1:02:52S8: they really care about, and what is really a signature
- 1:02:55S8: of our program is how meaning is made. They want
- 1:02:58S8: to make things that are meaningful, that matter, that have
- 1:03:01S8: cultural significance. But just because it's meaningful doesn't mean it's true.
- 1:03:06S8: And that's again, where our theology comes in. Yeah. So
- 1:03:09S8: how do I, how do we they want to know
- 1:03:11S8: how to know if what they're making is truly ministry media.
- 1:03:16S8: And that should inspire all of us. That should get
- 1:03:19S8: us all excited about what are they making? What do
- 1:03:22S8: they want to make? What are they saying? How are
- 1:03:24S8: they saying it? And let's be honest, a lot of
- 1:03:27S8: what they make and what they say isn't for me.
- 1:03:30S8: I don't always understand it, Standard, but it matters to them.
- 1:03:34S2: Yeah. Brian Roselle, professor and program head of communications here
- 1:03:37S2: at Moody Bible Institute. Fascinating conversation. Text Moody to 805 557898.
- 1:03:45S2: For more on the communications department and everything else Moody
- 1:03:48S2: has to offer, just text Moody to 805 557898.
- 1:03:54S1: Finding nuggets of truth in Everyday life.
- 1:03:57S9: It's a metaphor. It's just a metaphor, dude.
- 1:03:59S10: That's a metaphor.
- 1:04:00S11: It's a metaphor. I know it's a metaphor.
- 1:04:02S1: It's time for making a metaphor with young thunder.
- 1:04:07S2: It's what we do. We give them a story that
- 1:04:10S2: he has no idea what's coming. He hears it. And
- 1:04:14S2: he has the challenge of pulling out some spiritual application.
- 1:04:18S2: So I am going to tell you what happened to
- 1:04:20S2: me last week. Okay. Okay. My son had a basketball
- 1:04:26S2: training at a local gym. This particular building right next
- 1:04:30S2: to it is a extremely narrow parking lot. The building.
- 1:04:36S2: Then there's the parking lot. That's. I mean, there's room
- 1:04:39S2: for cars, but the space between like the building and
- 1:04:42S2: the parked cars is very slim. Okay, I will preface
- 1:04:46S2: this by saying, normally I am a objectively a pretty
- 1:04:50S2: good driver. I have to maneuver in and out of
- 1:04:53S2: this one way street. Chicago driving. You got to know
- 1:04:56S2: how to drive. But on this day, it just wasn't
- 1:05:00S2: happening for me. So it started. I'm trying to back
- 1:05:02S2: out of the spot and I misjudged the angle. So
- 1:05:07S2: I pulled out and I came within centimeters from hitting
- 1:05:13S2: the building to the point so close that two guys
- 1:05:17S2: who were standing there, I see them gasp like, like
- 1:05:22S2: you're about to watch a crash. And so I like
- 1:05:25S2: it's all good. I have a backup camera. Like, you know,
- 1:05:28S2: I wave it off like I'm fine at this point.
- 1:05:30S2: They're kind of watching me because.
- 1:05:31S3: Well, now they gotta see.
- 1:05:33S2: So I go and I readjust and I attempt to
- 1:05:37S2: do a three point turn. Again, I misjudged the angle
- 1:05:40S2: this time, I kid you not. Two less than 30s.
- 1:05:44S2: After almost crashing into the building, I hit a dumpster.
- 1:05:47S2: I back into a dumpster alley.
- 1:05:49S12: You did not.
- 1:05:50S2: Thankfully, it was just a tap. There was no damage.
- 1:05:52S2: But I've now almost hit a building, hit a dumpster,
- 1:05:55S2: and these guys are looking at me like you.
- 1:05:56S12: Have an audience.
- 1:05:57S2: Who is this lady? So I attempt to do another turn.
- 1:06:01S2: My son's like, everybody's staring now, which only made my
- 1:06:05S2: blood pressure go up. So I tried it back into
- 1:06:08S2: yet another spot, and I get so close to the
- 1:06:12S2: parked car next to me that, like, I'm basically kissing
- 1:06:15S2: the car next to me.
- 1:06:16S3: Oh my goodness.
- 1:06:17S2: And so the guy starts walking over. I'm sweating at
- 1:06:21S2: this point. He starts walking over and he's like, he
- 1:06:24S2: started talking to me the way you would like you
- 1:06:26S2: would a child like a parent trying to calm an.
- 1:06:29S3: Overwhelmed.
- 1:06:29S2: Child. He's like, it's good, you're okay. It's all good.
- 1:06:34S2: And so it, it felt like, you know, when you're
- 1:06:37S2: go and you start to trip and you try to
- 1:06:40S2: catch yourself, but instead of catching yourself, it becomes like
- 1:06:43S2: a more dramatic, more demonstrative fall. Yes. That's what it
- 1:06:48S2: felt like. So as I finally pulled out of this lot,
- 1:06:51S2: like I could feel nothing but like shame and embarrassment,
- 1:06:54S2: like they think I'm a terrible driver. My son's sitting
- 1:06:57S2: here like, what in the world?
- 1:06:59S3: Mom, what's going on with you today?
- 1:07:01S2: So it was it was very humbling in that moment
- 1:07:05S2: to have so many errors, driving errors in front of
- 1:07:09S2: an audience. Jonathan, make it a metaphor.
- 1:07:11S3: Okay. Ali, listen, you need more space for your car.
- 1:07:19S3: Your car is big.
- 1:07:21S2: Ali got an SUV.
- 1:07:22S3: And it takes up some space.
- 1:07:24S2: It does.
- 1:07:24S3: And when? for your car, you try to fit it
- 1:07:30S3: in when you've got a bunch of other things crowding
- 1:07:33S3: around it. It doesn't always work very well. Sometimes there's
- 1:07:37S3: a little bump on the car. Sometimes people start to
- 1:07:39S3: gather around and watch because it may not be a
- 1:07:41S3: pretty sight, and it usually ends up feeling way worse
- 1:07:46S3: than if you might have just pulled out and found
- 1:07:48S3: another spot with some more space. Yeah, Jesus is the car.
- 1:07:55S3: Sometimes we try to park him into a really small
- 1:07:59S3: space where there's a bunch of other things crowding around.
- 1:08:03S3: I've got a I've got a little dumpster over here,
- 1:08:05S3: which is my entertainment time. And I've got a, you know,
- 1:08:08S3: another car that's parked right up against the line over here.
- 1:08:11S3: And maybe that's, maybe that's how I want to spend
- 1:08:14S3: my money and do my things for myself. And I'm
- 1:08:17S3: gonna try to take Jesus this car, and I'm going
- 1:08:20S3: to try to back him into the spot and I'll
- 1:08:23S3: make it work. I'll figure it out. And as you
- 1:08:25S3: try to do that, maybe there's a little bump, maybe
- 1:08:27S3: there's a little scratch, and it never works out because
- 1:08:31S3: we're not making the right amount of space for him
- 1:08:36S3: and what he deserves. The Bible tells us in Matthew 633,
- 1:08:43S3: but seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all
- 1:08:47S3: these other things will be given to you as well.
- 1:08:49S3: You still would have made it to the practice. Everything.
- 1:08:52S3: Still would have been okay. Making his space first would
- 1:08:57S3: have allowed that to be a lot less stressful in
- 1:08:59S3: your life. Life gets real stressful when we try to
- 1:09:02S3: shove Jesus in between all the other things that we
- 1:09:05S3: have going on. Make room for him first, and all
- 1:09:10S3: the other things will fall right into place.
- 1:09:12S2: Well done, well done, young thunder. He made it a metaphor.
- 1:09:17S2: And apparently maybe it's not driving that I have issues with.
- 1:09:20S2: Maybe it's just parking.
- 1:09:21S3: It's just parking.
- 1:09:22S2: I think it's just parking. The driving is fine.