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S5 #5 Bachelor Parties · The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast

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  Speaker 1: This is the Ben and Ashley I almost famous podcast
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  Speaker 1: with our radio everybody. I'm beIN and I'm currently sitting
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  Speaker 1: in Indiana watching it rain. This is one of the
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  Speaker 1: most peaceful, peaceful spring days I have been a part of.
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  Speaker 1: That's a very last right now, that's so nice, Ben Um,
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  Speaker 1: When are you ever home? Are you ever home anymore?
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  Speaker 1: Do you have a home? Should you be even paying rent?
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  Speaker 1: I don't pay rent, fancy man Um, Yeah a lot.
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  Speaker 1: Right now, it's on. We're on a little speaking tour
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  Speaker 1: for dinner it um currently and so I hit up
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  Speaker 1: this week, was in St. Louis. It just sounded like
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  Speaker 1: you're on helium. Something really weird has happened. It was
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  Speaker 1: almost good, as if somebody took the phone away from
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  Speaker 1: you and started talking for you. It was bananas and
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  Speaker 1: we're going to keep it in because it was entertaining.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know what happened, if they happen to know,
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  Speaker 1: but that could be a lot of fun. So I'm
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  Speaker 1: on the back end of a speaking tour. So I
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  Speaker 1: started in St. Louis. I visited UH Missouri University, met
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  Speaker 1: some huge fans of the podcast, huge fans of Ashley.
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  Speaker 1: I think you actually saw a couple of their tweets,
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  Speaker 1: said like, hey, makes make sure you tell actually that
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  Speaker 1: he is the heart and stole of this podcast and
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  Speaker 1: you're just along for the ride. And I said, I
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  Speaker 1: thanks for that. And then I went to Nashville and
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  Speaker 1: took up Belmont University, drove up to Indianapolis and smoke
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  Speaker 1: spoke at the Ronald You smoked, Donald, What are you
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  Speaker 1: speaking about? Yeah, So what we're speaking about is generous
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  Speaker 1: coffee and how for purpose for profit business can actually
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  Speaker 1: be the funding engine to nonprofits and how that looks
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  Speaker 1: from a business standpoint, and then also how people can
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  Speaker 1: get involved in any cause that is actually doing good
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  Speaker 1: in the world. And so we're trying to push people
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  Speaker 1: to take that step out and actually get involved in something.
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  Speaker 1: And that's what we're speaking about. The night is my
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  Speaker 1: last speaking engagement, and then I'm back to Denver UH
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  Speaker 1: for a youth conference for two days. So and then
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  Speaker 1: I see you all in l A and I'll be
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  Speaker 1: in studio in just two weeks and I won't be
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  Speaker 1: Why does it have to work like that? Ben, I
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  Speaker 1: do want to go back to like you pay a
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  Speaker 1: mortgage and rent and blah blah. I got an apartment.
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  Speaker 1: Last week I got a new apartment. I needed more
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  Speaker 1: space and I got the craziest deal on it is
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  Speaker 1: just like mine, blowing and I'm really concerned. Well, first
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  Speaker 1: I was concerned that somebody died in it, and I
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  Speaker 1: paid eleven dollars for this website called died in House
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  Speaker 1: actually familiar with Did you see my tweet? You've heard it,
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  Speaker 1: but you've done don't keep going, keep going? Okay, okay, Well,
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  Speaker 1: I just want to let you know it's good to
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  Speaker 1: be true. Eason is not on the mic right now,
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  Speaker 1: but he has also found a house that was too
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  Speaker 1: good to be true, and his youths died in house before.
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  Speaker 1: This is not an ad for died in house. But um,
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  Speaker 1: the more and more I told people about this deal
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  Speaker 1: that I got, the more people are like huh. And
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  Speaker 1: then they're like, are you sure nobody died in your house?
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  Speaker 1: I was like, I think they have to tell you.
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  Speaker 1: But then I looked up the law, and the law
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  Speaker 1: in California is that you don't have to. You have
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  Speaker 1: to tell them if somebody died in the house as
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  Speaker 1: recently as three years. Um, but if it's before that,
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  Speaker 1: then if you ask, they have to tell you, but
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  Speaker 1: they don't have to volunteer voluntarily tell you. Yeah. So
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  Speaker 1: I was like, Okay, well I better go use this
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  Speaker 1: eleven dollars for died in house. Nobody died in it.
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  Speaker 1: Still think it must be haunted though, like there's gotta
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  Speaker 1: be like a poulter geist in it. Anyway, this is amazing.
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  Speaker 1: Were you like anxious when you got the results? I mean,
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  Speaker 1: were you in waiting to see if it's like there
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  Speaker 1: was a recent that? Okay? And then my second question
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  Speaker 1: because the house I lived in Colorado, somebody did die
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  Speaker 1: in it? Oh, did you get an amazing deal? No?
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  Speaker 1: I honestly I don't. Well nowadays they did that. The
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  Speaker 1: housing market dinner is just incredible for for everybody. Fun
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  Speaker 1: freaked me out that it doesn't have freaked me out
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  Speaker 1: that much. Wouldn't have like cause you to turn away
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  Speaker 1: if somebody would have passed away in your home. I mean,
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  Speaker 1: it's a great question. My sister, who is going to
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  Speaker 1: be living in one of the bedrooms, she was hoping
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  Speaker 1: it was haunted because that's like her whole life is
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  Speaker 1: revolved around murder mystery shows, and she loves ghosts like
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  Speaker 1: she's all she wants in a man is somebody who
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  Speaker 1: will go ghost hunting with her, So it was her
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  Speaker 1: dream to have somebody die in the house. Um, but no,
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  Speaker 1: I was terrified. And when I was watching it load
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  Speaker 1: because it took like thirty seconds for it to really research, Um,
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  Speaker 1: I was freaking out. I would have had to what
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  Speaker 1: if I supposed to do? Call the realtor and be like, so,
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  Speaker 1: just you died in house? Dot com found out there
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  Speaker 1: are somebody who died in the house. I don't want
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  Speaker 1: it anymore. I don't know it would have been the
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  Speaker 1: thought that I did really fully. I didn't fully think
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  Speaker 1: through it. Why would you not want it? Though? That's
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  Speaker 1: because people come over to a little factor here. People
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  Speaker 1: come over to my house. I tell them the stories.
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  Speaker 1: My house is built nineteen four. Yeah, the family that
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  Speaker 1: lived there for fifty years, the mom and dad actually
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  Speaker 1: both passed away in my in my house. Um, this
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  Speaker 1: was told to me by the neighbors who've also lived
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  Speaker 1: there for a while. And it doesn't freak me out.
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  Speaker 1: It's actually for me kind of like sweet that somebody
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  Speaker 1: cared for that house for so long consistently. Why would
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  Speaker 1: you have not wanted to still be in the house
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  Speaker 1: that is so Ben Higgins of you do you guys
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  Speaker 1: want to know a little sort of weird thing. I did. Sure.
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  Speaker 1: I went in Nicole Brown Simpson's house for fun. It
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  Speaker 1: was for sale to look, so I went in to look,
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  Speaker 1: and they didn't tell you because it had had enough
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  Speaker 1: owners in between. There's been enough owners, and I think
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  Speaker 1: there's been a few and it's been so many years
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  Speaker 1: that a lot of people at the open house. This
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  Speaker 1: was years ago. I didn't know that they were in
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  Speaker 1: the house. I just knew because I knew where it was. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: Like I don't think I would know just based on
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  Speaker 1: the news and all the stories about it. If I
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  Speaker 1: saw the house, I wouldn't know that was the house.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe if I saw the backyard the patio area, No,
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  Speaker 1: I wouldn't. They changed it? Oh they did the current one.
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  Speaker 1: It's brent onod Okay. Sorry, I didn't feel her presence
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  Speaker 1: or anything, but I wish I did. Well, we could
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  Speaker 1: talk about this fore ever been We have so many guests,
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  Speaker 1: but now this is such an interesting topic. I only
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  Speaker 1: have one more question for you. Do you ever feel
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  Speaker 1: the spirits? Uh? Like in my life? Yes, I feel
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  Speaker 1: the Holy Spirit often in my life. Actually, do you
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  Speaker 1: do you feel the spirits of the people who died
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  Speaker 1: in your house. Um, No, but I definitely believe in
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  Speaker 1: ghostcent I believe in ghosts. My dad and real Quick
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  Speaker 1: just the closest. But my dad is somebody that does
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  Speaker 1: not over dramatize situations. And he swears to me that
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  Speaker 1: when he was he used to open up hotels for living.
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  Speaker 1: And he's open up hotel. He's the only one in
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  Speaker 1: the hotel and it was built on an old graveyard
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  Speaker 1: and they had to kind of move. I don't know
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  Speaker 1: how that works, that they supposedly had to move some
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  Speaker 1: of the the gravestones and the bodies. The ghost can't
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  Speaker 1: be walking up No, And he was walking up the
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  Speaker 1: stairs one night and a ghost or a big white
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  Speaker 1: cloud that was super cold rushed through him and his
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  Speaker 1: buddy that we're walking up the stairs and they both
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  Speaker 1: fell to the ground. Wow. So something's going on in
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  Speaker 1: this world that we can't see. So we all might
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  Speaker 1: want to watch up where I'm telling you right now,
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  Speaker 1: this is such a good topic. Actually, if if any
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  Speaker 1: of our listeners out there believe in ghosts before, I
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  Speaker 1: want to also know if you would move out of
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  Speaker 1: your house because you found out somebody died in it.
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  Speaker 1: Email us at been in Actually I heeart media dot Com.
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  Speaker 1: I want to hear this. I think we need to
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  Speaker 1: get some crazy stories out there. Um, and we're also
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  Speaker 1: gonna get some crazy stories today, some really awesome stories
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  Speaker 1: from some of our guests. We want to start out
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  Speaker 1: this podcast with interviewing one of vast nations most beloved participants,
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  Speaker 1: one that everybody has wanted to find love for for
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  Speaker 1: a long time. She has found love and that is
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  Speaker 1: on Hi you guys. Hello, beautiful, bursting, joyful bubble out forever.
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  Speaker 1: I know that's how I feel about you. You're bursting
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  Speaker 1: beautiful bubble of joy. Oh, thank you. I've been loving
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  Speaker 1: listening to your podcast. Thank you for putting good stuff
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  Speaker 1: out there. I love hearing both of you guys coming
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  Speaker 1: to life and just being you, like through and through.
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  Speaker 1: So that's been fun for me to listen and especially
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  Speaker 1: kind of still be a part of the best of
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  Speaker 1: the world in that way. I remember in Paradise, my
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  Speaker 1: first season and your only season. When I left, you
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  Speaker 1: gave me the best advice. You're like, take this as
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  Speaker 1: what did you call it? A whimsical? What whimsical? That's
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  Speaker 1: what what did I say, I, Oh, my goodness, but
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  Speaker 1: it was something about I was very into. There was
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  Speaker 1: a phrase that I had at that time, and it
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  Speaker 1: was so good, And what it meant was that like
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  Speaker 1: each person, each guy you meet and are interested in,
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  Speaker 1: you discover a part of that person that you'd like
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  Speaker 1: to find in someone else who has like everything that
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  Speaker 1: you want. But like each person, you discover something and
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  Speaker 1: then one day that will help you find the person
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  Speaker 1: who has all these traits. It was just such a
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  Speaker 1: good term, whimsical something. But anyway, does your fiance, Taylor
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  Speaker 1: Leopold have all of that? Did you find that that's
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  Speaker 1: actually come to fruition? Absolutely? In fact, it was on
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  Speaker 1: our first date that I felt really creeped out almost
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  Speaker 1: because I was like sitting there just enjoying him and
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  Speaker 1: falling for him in that moment, and then going, did
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  Speaker 1: you read the prayer journal or something? Because these like
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  Speaker 1: checking off these boxes of things that these characteristics that
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  Speaker 1: I've prayed for. So yeah, he is uh, dreamy and
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  Speaker 1: fabulous and um yeah he marked all of the boxes
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  Speaker 1: and more. And that's the thing, as you'll find. I
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  Speaker 1: don't know what you're seating life is right now, but
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  Speaker 1: I truly truly believe for everyone like that, You're just
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  Speaker 1: gonna God's gonna give you even more than you could
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  Speaker 1: have ever imagined. You might think, how this is it,
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  Speaker 1: and then and then God just goes, no, I have
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  Speaker 1: something a little bit even more for you. So anyway,
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  Speaker 1: that's for all the hope, all those people out there
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  Speaker 1: that need a little extra hope in this season of
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  Speaker 1: life that they might be in. Tell us a little
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  Speaker 1: bit at the back story of how you and Taylor
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  Speaker 1: have gotten together. Uh, you know, how did you date?
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  Speaker 1: How did you court? Uh? And then you you haven't
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  Speaker 1: been engaged that long? Uh you know a tidal sense, correct.
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  Speaker 1: So just gonna walk everybody through your journey with Taylor. Perfect. So,
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  Speaker 1: um we met in January thousand and sixteen, and it
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  Speaker 1: was through a mutual um, a mutual friend, and I
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  Speaker 1: was actually really not into being set up and I
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  Speaker 1: was kind of just over it. And I don't know
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  Speaker 1: how I expected to meet somebody because I was like
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  Speaker 1: shutting things down. But um, I was just in a space.
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  Speaker 1: But this mutual friend, UM, I could trust him. The
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  Speaker 1: boys were in Bible study together and that was important
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  Speaker 1: to me, and they they went to the same church
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  Speaker 1: and stuff. So I let the setup happen and he
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  Speaker 1: just pursued and it was very quick that um he
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  Speaker 1: he just pursued me and didn't stop so quickly turned
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  Speaker 1: into uh an official relationship. And then we've always we've
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  Speaker 1: dated with the intention of getting married. So it's kind
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  Speaker 1: of funny as people are like, cool, your engagement so short,
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  Speaker 1: But from the very beginning we've had, um, this intention
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  Speaker 1: in our mindset has been on and that, and so
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  Speaker 1: that's kind of I think it's special. And then, um,
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  Speaker 1: we got engaged to this January and we're getting married
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  Speaker 1: this weekend, so pull the wedding together in like four months, um,
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  Speaker 1: which is very doable. So actually, one thing I don't
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  Speaker 1: get is long long and that's so interval. Thank you
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  Speaker 1: for plugging me. I don't get a podcast. But also
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  Speaker 1: you've brought up a topic that Ben and I have
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  Speaker 1: been discussed to have been discussing on this podcast, which
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  Speaker 1: is how long shouldn't engauge it be? And shouldn't engagement
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  Speaker 1: only be the period of time where wedding planning happens?
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  Speaker 1: And I think you just answered your personal opinion is
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  Speaker 1: for it to just be the wedding planning process. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: So I think some people wait until that, like they
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  Speaker 1: kind of give their relationship another child through um, through engagement.
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  Speaker 1: But that's a lot of pressure. Taylor and I actually
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  Speaker 1: did like the primarial course uh to our church, and
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  Speaker 1: I highly recommend that trough for anybody, whether or not
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  Speaker 1: you you're involved at a church or whatever, but to
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  Speaker 1: just do like a premarital something before you even get engaged,
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  Speaker 1: because once you get that engagement process, um, and it's
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  Speaker 1: a little harder than fast for the world, but kind
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  Speaker 1: of getting to know somebody and then getting engaged and
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  Speaker 1: then getting married. But um, if you have that opportunity
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  Speaker 1: to kind of explore the harder questions before you have
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  Speaker 1: that ring on your finger, I think it allows for
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  Speaker 1: that pressure to be put to the side because you
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  Speaker 1: haven't officially announced like hey we're getting married, so um,
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  Speaker 1: it gives it gives you some time to really really
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  Speaker 1: put those tools to work and also really explore the
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  Speaker 1: deep stuff. Um and yeah so um yeah. I think
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  Speaker 1: that wedding planning or engagement time is wedding planning, although
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  Speaker 1: it's also a very very special season, so make it
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  Speaker 1: what you want. But I think that the question should
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  Speaker 1: be answered by then if you know what I mean, Um,
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  Speaker 1: what's so interesting is that I feel like you're like
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  Speaker 1: a girl who maybe hasn't been on TV for like
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  Speaker 1: three years, but people were so excited to see that
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  Speaker 1: ring on your finger because well, we've seen you on
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  Speaker 1: you know, Jigbell back in season Bachelor Pad and then
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  Speaker 1: Bachelor in Paradise, and we've just followed your journey and
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  Speaker 1: you're such a rutable character. And I think we all
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  Speaker 1: thought it was just the cute. All your pictures in
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  Speaker 1: the past two years with Taylor have been the cutest.
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  Speaker 1: Then finally I was like, that's it. Like every time
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  Speaker 1: I would pass by your pictures, I'd be like, when
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  Speaker 1: is the picture with the ring? And then there it was.
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  Speaker 1: It was very exciting. Yeah, I think exactly. No, it's
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  Speaker 1: been really special that people have been so I actually
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  Speaker 1: was shocked, as like, wow, man, I must have been
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  Speaker 1: really desperate or something from so excited for the day
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  Speaker 1: to come. But you know, it's been my My love
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  Speaker 1: story has been a journey, um, and a lot of
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  Speaker 1: it didn't go from way back before I was on
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  Speaker 1: the Bachelor's didn't go the way that I, um I
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  Speaker 1: wanted it to go. But I just think that it's um,
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  Speaker 1: something that's well they get to share, and I'm so
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  Speaker 1: grateful that so many people want to know about it
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  Speaker 1: because it's it's a redeeming story and I think that
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  Speaker 1: there's a lot of brokenness and heartache and stuff, and
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  Speaker 1: just like there's all those moments of desperation, I've asked
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  Speaker 1: them of just being able to be like believe in
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  Speaker 1: something greater than you could even imagine. So um, thanks,
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  Speaker 1: thank you for watching and being a part of the
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  Speaker 1: journey and looking for that ring you you know you
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  Speaker 1: mentioned there, Tiley. We have a lot of listeners on
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  Speaker 1: this podcast that are are single women UM from all
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  Speaker 1: ages and single men um from all ages, and they
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  Speaker 1: ride into us a lot kind of with their relationship
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  Speaker 1: stories and looking for advice. You just mentioned The word
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  Speaker 1: there that I think really stands up to me is
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  Speaker 1: that desperation that a lot of people out there are feeling,
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  Speaker 1: and they're feeling anxious, and they're they're asking themselves and
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  Speaker 1: they're asking God the question why not me? Or is
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  Speaker 1: there anybody out there for me? And Tiddley, I know
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  Speaker 1: you spoke just there about your feeling desperate, like desperate
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  Speaker 1: at times or you wondering if anybody's out there for you?
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  Speaker 1: Do you have any advice for those single people out
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  Speaker 1: there of all ages? Just kind of waiting, wondering if
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  Speaker 1: am I ever going to meet my partner? Ah, so
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  Speaker 1: much advice or not necessarily advice, but thoughts on that
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  Speaker 1: could take a little while, but I think it's the
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  Speaker 1: greatest thing. So it was, um after you know I, UM,
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  Speaker 1: I think it was kind of after we all met.
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  Speaker 1: Well I've known Ashley before, but after I had met
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  Speaker 1: you been like there was one day and I was
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  Speaker 1: so excited. I might have even shared this with you,
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  Speaker 1: um back in the day, but I was on a
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  Speaker 1: run and all of a sudden it was like this
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  Speaker 1: moment like just came over me where I realized my
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  Speaker 1: ethic love story has already been written. Well I can't.
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  Speaker 1: I just trust in that and enjoy today and like
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  Speaker 1: just pouring like the good stuff into my life, building
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  Speaker 1: my friendships, my relationship with my community, myself, like really
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  Speaker 1: knowing who I am, so that the day that somebody
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  Speaker 1: walks into my life, it will just it will be
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  Speaker 1: effortless and it will be so good. Um. So that's
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  Speaker 1: one of my my things that helped me finally rest
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  Speaker 1: in that desperate in those desperate moments, I guess of
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  Speaker 1: those tears in that period of like who's gonna love me?
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  Speaker 1: Or is there anybody out there for me? Or like
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  Speaker 1: what's wrong with me? Even? You know, all these different
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  Speaker 1: thoughts and then just but it's so much more worth
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  Speaker 1: it than trying. And you know, there's everybody takes different
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  Speaker 1: approaches to dating and um whatever, and I'm not against
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  Speaker 1: any of them. But for me, it was finally just
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  Speaker 1: resting um and letting go and trusting in kind of
• 17:48
  Speaker 1: that mindset of my epic love story is already written,
• 17:53
  Speaker 1: so I can just kill you. Know. That's interesting because
• 17:57
  Speaker 1: when I was at U c l A last week
• 18:00
  Speaker 1: on their sex panels, somebody was like, how does is
• 18:03
  Speaker 1: there anything that you remind yourself of to make you
• 18:05
  Speaker 1: feel better about whether it be waiting or just like
• 18:10
  Speaker 1: finding that perfect relationship? And I simply said, yeah, there's
• 18:13
  Speaker 1: that expression, just trust God's time in your life, and
• 18:15
  Speaker 1: it really does help. It does. And I think that's
• 18:18
  Speaker 1: a hard, hard one to be like tangible for some people,
• 18:22
  Speaker 1: and that's totally okay, but just to be able to like,
• 18:26
  Speaker 1: I don't think that means fit on your couch. And
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: we definitely knock on your door. We have to be
• 18:30
  Speaker 1: proactive about putting ourselves in places where we want to
• 18:33
  Speaker 1: meet people that we like to be around, or you know,
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: or connecting with friends are going ahead and saying, okay, fine,
• 18:39
  Speaker 1: I'll let that set up happen. You know that stuff.
• 18:42
  Speaker 1: But UM, yeah, I like that. I'm telling you, I've
• 18:49
  Speaker 1: gotten to know you personally. You are a light in
• 18:51
  Speaker 1: this world. You. I don't think that's a secret to anybody.
• 18:55
  Speaker 1: You You do spread the joy, and you do spread
• 18:57
  Speaker 1: love and and and everybody is so excited for this one.
• 19:00
  Speaker 1: And I want to talk about the wedding for a second,
• 19:02
  Speaker 1: because you know, we we've talked about your love story,
• 19:05
  Speaker 1: we've talked about the ups and downs of it. But
• 19:07
  Speaker 1: now it's time to celebrate because you are in love
• 19:10
  Speaker 1: and you are getting married this week. Um, is there
• 19:13
  Speaker 1: any bachelor friends of yours? Through season fourteen of The
• 19:16
  Speaker 1: Bachelor and Bachelor Pad two thousand ten and Bachelor in
• 19:19
  Speaker 1: Paradise two? Are Is there anybody you have met along
• 19:22
  Speaker 1: the way that will be at this wedding? Oh my goodness,
• 19:25
  Speaker 1: that kind of breaks my heart, that question. But first
• 19:27
  Speaker 1: of all, then you are such a light too. So
• 19:29
  Speaker 1: keep keep doing your thing. You're doing an amazing job
• 19:32
  Speaker 1: just being you. Um, so thank you for that. But um,
• 19:37
  Speaker 1: for the wedding we are having, We're having a really
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: small wedding, very intimate, so there's even family members who
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: aren't coming. Um. So it was really hard because there
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: was this list of bachelor friends and people that would
• 19:51
  Speaker 1: have been really fun to be able to use the
• 19:53
  Speaker 1: opportunity of this celebration to cold people together that I
• 19:56
  Speaker 1: haven't seen in a long while. Um, but we were
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: deciding on that head count. We it just came down
• 20:04
  Speaker 1: to the friends and family. They are super immediate to
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: us in the way of being um daily, affecting weekly,
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: affecting our lives and holding its accountable to this awesome
• 20:14
  Speaker 1: commitment that we're making to each other. And so it's
• 20:17
  Speaker 1: gonna be small and intimate and uh yeah, but I'm
• 20:21
  Speaker 1: so sad that there are certain people that won't be
• 20:24
  Speaker 1: there because it would have been a great opportunity to
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: pull it together. Small and intimate is nice too. Do
• 20:29
  Speaker 1: you have something all, something blue, something borrowed, something new,
• 20:36
  Speaker 1: working on that so, um, my Grandma's up in Oregon
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: actually aren't coming down to the wedding. They um, both
• 20:45
  Speaker 1: of them their their husbands can't travel, and UM it's
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: just better for them to stay up there with them.
• 20:53
  Speaker 1: So my both of them are remarried. But my past,
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: my late Grandpa's. UM, I have some hankies, but I'll
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: have of theirs and kind of in a reflection of
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: my grandma. So those will be like the old Um
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: the borrowed, still working on that, um, and the new
• 21:12
  Speaker 1: is probably everything else on me and blew um that'll
• 21:17
  Speaker 1: work on that. So no, they're green well sorrow. Um.
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: He doesn't know about this, and I don't think to
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: listen to the podcast. Um on at a rehearsal, he'll
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: find out that. I guess something borrowed is his late
• 21:40
  Speaker 1: grandfather's ring is the one that will use for the ceremony,
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: because we waited a little while on getting his forever
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: ring true story and so that's not going to be here.
• 21:51
  Speaker 1: But I tracked down his late grandfather's thing, and but
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: we're for the wedding. That's so I guess we have
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: to work on the blue you know, to be underwhear
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: I suppose alright, Well, the next time we talked to you,
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: are you gonna be Tenley Leopold. I will be I
• 22:12
  Speaker 1: don't know if I'll be changing that up on my Instagram.
• 22:14
  Speaker 1: I don't know like this, like the the whole thing
• 22:17
  Speaker 1: on that, but I am so embracing being a Leopold.
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: They're an awesome family and isn't it a good name.
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: It's a very nice name. Tenley Leopold sounds so cute. Denley,
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: thank you so much for coming on. I can't believe
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: we haven't had you an epic member of the Bachelor
• 22:33
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• 22:37
  Speaker 1: to thank you guys so much. So good to hear
• 22:40
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  Speaker 1: segment so popular on this podcast, and and and I
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: think these two people fit into this segment, but in
• 25:19
  Speaker 1: reality they don't because now they're known for a lot
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: more than just the Bachelor world. And I'm looking at
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: picture right now they are one handsome couple. Hey, But
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: because this is almost famous podcast and we haven't just
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: tradition to keep this is the who the heck are
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: you segment with Peyton and Chris landon Peyton Christie out there?
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: You know last week I said it was like from
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: at least season, I don't know who that is. And
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: then I saw your picture and I was like the
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: runner up, I know him? Well, thank you. Yeah, well
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: you guys didn't meet on the show, but you both
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: happened to have been on the show. Tell us about
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: how you met well after the season, because because I
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: got second place, I don't like to say we're on
• 26:06
  Speaker 1: our second place. Uh. They were trying to get me
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: to be a bachelor and I was shown down to
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: an event in North Carolina with Chris Harrison and I
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: got to bring her friends in the show with me.
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: And he had been on Bachelor Pad with Peyton, and
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: he was not really great at geography because he was like, oh, yeah,
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: Peyton is right nearby, and he thought Dallas was near
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: North Carolina, which originally so he was like, oh, maybe
• 26:32
  Speaker 1: she's like right down the road. Which it was funny
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: because I happened to be in North Carolina that weekend
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: for my mom's birthday. So Jessie Beck texted me said, Hey,
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: I'm with my boy Chris. Why don't you come hang out.
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: I was like, actually, I'm really close by. So I
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: went to hang out for the night, and nine months
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: later we were engaged. No way, nine months that's fast.
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: And Jackie Jesse Beck, by the way, another Bachelor alum.
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: Look at that. Look how the world works. It's just
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: like a big friend circle. You basically just met through friends.
• 26:59
  Speaker 1: You both all happened to be on TV. No. It
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: was crazy because even when I was on Bachelor Pad
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: with Jesse, he was like always talking about Chris. He
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: was his boy, and Jesse and I got to be
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: such good friends, and he was like, you've got to
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: meet him, but not in a like huck up kind
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: of way. We're friends and we're friends, so let's all
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: be friends. Peyton, you were on Andy Baldwin season Bachelor
• 27:20
  Speaker 1: ten and Chris seems like the data store ages at
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: this point. Yeah, there is a couple of years in between, right,
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: but you guys, I get I guess you Peyton were
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: re emerged because of Bachelor Pad. Yeah. I got this
• 27:33
  Speaker 1: totally random phone call one day. I thought that that
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: was all in my past. I was just living my
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: life in Dallas, working as normal, and then they called him.
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: So we're doing the spin off show? Do you want
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: to do it? And you know I rarely say no
• 27:45
  Speaker 1: to opportunities, and I said, what the heck, let's do it.
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: So it was fun. And if you hadn't done it,
• 27:50
  Speaker 1: then you wouldn't have met Jesse, and then maybe you
• 27:52
  Speaker 1: didn't wouldn't have met Chris. Isn't it crazy how the
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: universe works? So crazy? So and then the both of
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: you now, I mean, the Bachelor Nation has been aweso
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: to the Bachelor show has obviously brought you two together
• 28:05
  Speaker 1: at some level. But you move this into also participating
• 28:10
  Speaker 1: on htt V hosting Going Yard. How did that work? Like,
• 28:15
  Speaker 1: how did you, guys, transition from engagement to marriage to
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: then hosting your own show on HTTV. Yeah, it's pretty
• 28:22
  Speaker 1: amazing because I can always tell people and like, you know,
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: being on the Bachelor led me to finding my wife
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: and getting a TV show, which you know is completely
• 28:29
  Speaker 1: amazing to me. Um, But I was a landscaper beforehand,
• 28:34
  Speaker 1: and when I was on the show, you know, they
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: tell you your name and your occupation, and people at
• 28:39
  Speaker 1: h TV saw that I was a landscaper and they
• 28:42
  Speaker 1: had me come in for an interview and it went well,
• 28:45
  Speaker 1: they sent a camera crew up here to uh do
• 28:48
  Speaker 1: a little test shoot, and Peyton was conveniently here that day,
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: and you know her up there talking and next thing
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: you know, they gave us a show. So we started
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: with Going Yard, and then I took over Yard Crashers
• 29:02
  Speaker 1: and now my new show start airing next week called
• 29:06
  Speaker 1: Lawn and Order. So I've part laid into quite a
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: few years of working on HDTV, which is pretty amazing.
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: Does everybody an HDTV have a zillion shows like you? Yeah,
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: it's funny because like after a couple of years, they'll
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: rebrand the show and name is something different, but it's
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: kind of like a usually some very similar concept. So,
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: you know, Going Yard we did all different parts of
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: the yard Yard Brashers, I ran around the lows and
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: just randomly found somebody and readd the yard for free.
• 29:32
  Speaker 1: And now Lawn and Order we kind of worked on
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: curb appeal of houses, mostly people trying to sell their house,
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: so we go in revamp the whole front yard and
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: then they can sell the house for actually a bit
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: more than when we first started. You've also done blog Cabin,
• 29:46
  Speaker 1: dream Home, and smart Home. I gotta know, what is
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: the coolest thing in home innovation today. Uh you know,
• 29:54
  Speaker 1: it's pretty simple, but I love that quas entry. Uh
• 29:59
  Speaker 1: so our house, I'm like even have the house now.
• 30:01
  Speaker 1: So that way, you know, if I go for a run,
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: if we're going down to the beach, I don't have
• 30:04
  Speaker 1: to bring my keys with me or hide them in
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: the yard from place. You know, I can just come
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: back to my house and you know, either punching a
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: code or like if you have a smart watch, you
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: can hook it up to the door and you just
• 30:13
  Speaker 1: walk right in and unlocked automatically. And to me, that's
• 30:16
  Speaker 1: the best thing. So I don't have to worry about
• 30:18
  Speaker 1: losing my keys or where's the house key? You don't
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: ever need them ever. Again, that is so cool. You know,
• 30:22
  Speaker 1: would also be cool if you could talk to your
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: house be like, hey, house, can you open the door?
• 30:26
  Speaker 1: That's nice and it's been saying what technology can do
• 30:29
  Speaker 1: these days, that's really cool. I always think about Smart House,
• 30:32
  Speaker 1: the Disney Channel original movie. I mean that would that'll
• 30:35
  Speaker 1: stay with me forever. Well, I just need what's her
• 30:38
  Speaker 1: name Peggy from Married with Children to always just run
• 30:42
  Speaker 1: my house. Actually, actually, come on, Ben, do you know
• 30:47
  Speaker 1: how I just want to let you know that Mark
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: and Easton and all three of them in this room
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: all nodded when I talked about smart houses trying to
• 30:56
  Speaker 1: make you feel good. No. No, they also want the
• 30:59
  Speaker 1: same thing and they will remember the movie forever. I
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: like the titles of the h G TV shows. Did
• 31:04
  Speaker 1: you say it was called lawn and Order an Order
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: and blog? Cavina Cavin. That's so cute. Um, it's harder
• 31:12
  Speaker 1: for right, I mean law and Order. It's perfect. I'm
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: the order obviously. Yeah. So are you both still hosting them? Um?
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: I had to take a little hiatus because we had
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: a baby. Um, but tilt for a show. We teamed
• 31:28
  Speaker 1: up with Wayfair and it was more of a design
• 31:30
  Speaker 1: stoke because I'm an interior designer and um, so we
• 31:33
  Speaker 1: did a pilot for that and we're waiting hopefully fingers
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: crossed that. Uh that's Homo Finus who we're hoping that
• 31:39
  Speaker 1: will move forward. So we're just talking. Earlier in the podcast, Ashley,
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: I have two questions for you all. Let's start with this. Uh,
• 31:47
  Speaker 1: I I own my own home. Astley was telling me
• 31:50
  Speaker 1: that I was almost bragging about it earlier in the podcast,
• 31:53
  Speaker 1: and I was, but I need a ton of work
• 31:57
  Speaker 1: on my house. I have a small little house. And
• 31:59
  Speaker 1: then for Colorado. Would you ever want to come help
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: me with my art? Oh man, that'd be so much fun.
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: Kidding me, I mean I think we can pull something off.
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: I need your help more than you know. Um, I
• 32:13
  Speaker 1: have a ton of things. My yard is a blankly.
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: I've put a ton of work into just clearing out.
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: So uh, Christ and Peyton, once this podcast is done,
• 32:21
  Speaker 1: we got to figure out a way to get you
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: all out of Denver, Colorado. Um to help me renovate
• 32:28
  Speaker 1: my my, my beautiful lawn. That right now? That that
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: looks great. Yeah, Chris, you can go to Denver and
• 32:34
  Speaker 1: hang with Ben as you did the lawn. And then Peyton,
• 32:37
  Speaker 1: if you want to come and decorate my new apartment.
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: Is would be just the perfect girls and guys weekend. Yeah,
• 32:43
  Speaker 1: let's do it. Okay, Yes, time out time I read
• 32:46
  Speaker 1: something that's going to die in your farmer something. We're
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: just talking about that earlier. I know, I saw the
• 32:54
  Speaker 1: you favorite one. I don't want her going to deal with. No. No,
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: I looked it up. It was all clear. No one
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: died in the house. We are okay, that's the question.
• 33:06
  Speaker 1: My second followup question, if somebody were to pass away
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: in your house for whatever reason, Christ and Peyton, what
• 33:13
  Speaker 1: are your thoughts and that would it caused you to
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: move out? No, So, when when my parents first bought
• 33:19
  Speaker 1: their house, my mom bought some sage from uh like
• 33:24
  Speaker 1: a Native American store, and what you do is you
• 33:25
  Speaker 1: burn it in all the windows in the corners of
• 33:28
  Speaker 1: the house to get rid of evil spirits. So my
• 33:32
  Speaker 1: something asked we were to do I've done it. My
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: my my best friend at one time she was here.
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: She brought a lot of negativity, like a lot, and
• 33:41
  Speaker 1: then it even resulted in her being hospitalized at Cedar SI.
• 33:45
  Speaker 1: And I like, she just brought a whole ton of
• 33:49
  Speaker 1: dark clouds to my apartment. So yeah, I went to
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: the spiritual store and I staged, and I did it
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: in the proper manner because I didn't want my my
• 33:58
  Speaker 1: then new apartment to be to did stunds like she
• 34:01
  Speaker 1: needs an exorcism more than hey. Uh yeah, so this
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: is I mean, I'm really interested now because you're one
• 34:10
  Speaker 1: of the few couples from this world, um to really
• 34:14
  Speaker 1: meet something from some avenue during the Bachelor part lay
• 34:18
  Speaker 1: it into a really great career, uh on television. But
• 34:22
  Speaker 1: I'm sure that wasn't your intent when you all got together.
• 34:24
  Speaker 1: I know that to be the case. How does The
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: Bachelor affect YouTube still today? I mean The Bachelor the
• 34:34
  Speaker 1: Bachelors pretty been pretty amazing for both of us, I think.
• 34:36
  Speaker 1: I mean it lets it not only us getting together
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: in the TV show, but I mean even to this day,
• 34:41
  Speaker 1: you know, we were on I was on what like
• 34:43
  Speaker 1: eight years ago now ago, and you know, I'll be
• 34:47
  Speaker 1: on a flight and people walk on the Hey, you're
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: the kid from The Bachelor Bacheltte, aren't you? And you know,
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: even eight years later, if they're still be recognized from
• 34:56
  Speaker 1: that show, it kind of just tells you the impact
• 34:59
  Speaker 1: and YouTube obviously that firsthand the impact of that show,
• 35:02
  Speaker 1: Like how many millions people watch every week and you know,
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: watch every single season, and once they know you're on there,
• 35:09
  Speaker 1: they just you know, have like so many questions for
• 35:11
  Speaker 1: you about it. But you know, just the impact that
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  Speaker 1: our family and different things that we've done professionally. And
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: it's nice. Um, it's nice to have that support. Who
• 35:32
  Speaker 1: are you still in touch with today? Um, Chris has
• 35:36
  Speaker 1: like a text chain, was like all the guys from
• 35:38
  Speaker 1: his season. We still have a text chain. That's amazing.
• 35:43
  Speaker 1: Oddly enough, when we got married, we got married, uh,
• 35:46
  Speaker 1: like a year and a half after we met. And uh, Roberto,
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  Speaker 1: at our wedding. We had probably about four or five
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: guys from from my season at the wedding, and uh,
• 35:57
  Speaker 1: you know, we still meet up every couple of years.
• 35:59
  Speaker 1: And like I said, like the text chain, like there's
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: fifteen guys on and I think twelve fifteen guys from
• 36:05
  Speaker 1: from my season. It's great text every week. They're now
• 36:09
  Speaker 1: like moving on to everybody's announcing that they're having kids,
• 36:12
  Speaker 1: and so it's really neat to see the evolution of
• 36:15
  Speaker 1: their friendship and their families and relationships. And um, it's cool.
• 36:20
  Speaker 1: But I don't keep in touch really with that many
• 36:22
  Speaker 1: girls from my season. Everybody kind of fell off the map.
• 36:25
  Speaker 1: But I do still talk to Henley and Natalie Gets
• 36:28
  Speaker 1: and some of the girls from Bachelor Pad. We had
• 36:32
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• 36:35
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  Speaker 1: out there. I want to see you, You want to
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  Speaker 1: ago we kind of went through all the fast relationships
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  Speaker 1: that existed out there and we forgot a couple. And
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  Speaker 1: and that's our mistake. We realized that. Um, but it
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  Speaker 1: doesn't mean that there isn't a lack of love for
• 39:19
  Speaker 1: this couple. We have Derek Paith on the line. He
• 39:22
  Speaker 1: is dating Taylor. They met and Bachelor in Paradise there
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  Speaker 1: for you out there. They're not just dating Ben, they're engaged. Okay, sorry,
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  Speaker 1: what's the difference? Oh apparently a lot. We were just
• 39:33
  Speaker 1: talking about the game of being a wedding planning process. Derek, Hello, Derek,
• 39:41
  Speaker 1: this just in. Derek is in the bathroom. So and
• 39:45
  Speaker 1: other Bachelor news. Did you know that Channing Tatum hung
• 39:49
  Speaker 1: out with ri yesterday at some race car fast So
• 39:54
  Speaker 1: here's my question. Does that make Channing Tatum less cool
• 39:58
  Speaker 1: or does that make Alas more cool? I mean the
• 40:00
  Speaker 1: same thing. It definitely makes Channing less cool and Ari
• 40:06
  Speaker 1: more cool. I mean, I'm sure that you know how
• 40:08
  Speaker 1: like all the headlines like Channing Tatum hangs out with
• 40:11
  Speaker 1: Ari Lyond because they're hanging out. They pose for a
• 40:13
  Speaker 1: picture together. Oh they did, they hung out. They hung out,
• 40:16
  Speaker 1: and Channing kind of video saying hi to Lauren whoa.
• 40:23
  Speaker 1: Maybe for only three minutes, but still, I mean, that's
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  Speaker 1: pretty that's a big deal Channing Tatum. So yesterday when
• 40:30
  Speaker 1: this came out, I have an episode of from Whatching
• 40:34
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• 40:36
  Speaker 1: So I googled Channing Tatum's name because as soon as
• 40:39
  Speaker 1: I hear his name, would it reminds me of is
• 40:41
  Speaker 1: his lips Sink battle that he participated with his um
• 40:45
  Speaker 1: my wife? Right there? They're getting x wife, they're getting
• 40:47
  Speaker 1: a divorce. But that's how I know Channing Tatum. I
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  Speaker 1: also know him as America's true heart drop. Right, mean,
• 40:53
  Speaker 1: he has to be the most eligible backs on the
• 40:56
  Speaker 1: market now, right, I would say, so, he's pretty high up.
• 41:01
  Speaker 1: I would say he's really high up there. It's like
• 41:03
  Speaker 1: him and Chris Pratt. Josh to Mel He's up there, two, Oh, Josh,
• 41:06
  Speaker 1: you Mel too. He has a girlfriend now, but I
• 41:09
  Speaker 1: think Chris Pratt and Charing Tatum are a little bit higher.
• 41:12
  Speaker 1: I'm actually I'm wondering if the reaction will be similar
• 41:16
  Speaker 1: to when I hang out with Ari at five hundred
• 41:18
  Speaker 1: this year. I'm going to when I meet Ari. I
• 41:21
  Speaker 1: wonder if they'll have me do a video for Lauren
• 41:23
  Speaker 1: and I wonder if the head boys and head and
• 41:26
  Speaker 1: headlines will be like Ben Higgins and Ari lined I
• 41:29
  Speaker 1: hang out. Hey Ben, what don't you go to? What
• 41:32
  Speaker 1: are you going to? Sporting related? I've never been to
• 41:36
  Speaker 1: the super Bowl? Okay, well that's I've been to the
• 41:38
  Speaker 1: super Bowl. I've been to too. Is Derek back from
• 41:42
  Speaker 1: the bathroom? He's been gone from? No? Oh, is here
• 41:45
  Speaker 1: he's been Sure you have. That's what I say too
• 41:51
  Speaker 1: when when I have to take great Have you ever
• 41:54
  Speaker 1: been in a call before and somebody like forgets to
• 41:57
  Speaker 1: put put it on you and they do that, Oh
• 41:59
  Speaker 1: you took your phone into the bathroom? Oh yeah, Oh no,
• 42:03
  Speaker 1: that's never happened to us before. But is that something
• 42:05
  Speaker 1: you would think of when you were on the Bachelor
• 42:07
  Speaker 1: and you were miked up when you were when you
• 42:09
  Speaker 1: went to bathroom? Yeah, I had I had a mic
• 42:12
  Speaker 1: situation once where it fell into that area the toilets, no,
• 42:19
  Speaker 1: like into my underwear, and so I had to it
• 42:22
  Speaker 1: was a it was a job. Oh geez, how does
• 42:29
  Speaker 1: that even Derek? Enough? Enough of the of the bathroom pop.
• 42:34
  Speaker 1: We're glad you back your back. You made us wait
• 42:36
  Speaker 1: about fifteen minutes for you, so I hope you feel better.
• 42:42
  Speaker 1: We're really here to talk about your relationship with Taylor. Um,
• 42:47
  Speaker 1: we were just disgusting preparing for this interview, and I know,
• 42:52
  Speaker 1: after a thousand questions for you, but what I noticed
• 42:54
  Speaker 1: is the two of you are very cute on Instagram.
• 42:57
  Speaker 1: And this is something that's always been interesting to me. Uh,
• 43:00
  Speaker 1: how often and how many times you get to post
• 43:02
  Speaker 1: for these pictures that you're posting? So I have a
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: whole I started doing. Uh, I was going to do
• 43:09
  Speaker 1: a series of them, but um, I got yelled at
• 43:12
  Speaker 1: for it. So there's like a whole, probably a hundred
• 43:15
  Speaker 1: pictures that I have on my phone where Taylor is
• 43:18
  Speaker 1: like smiling and looking cute and I'm just eye rolling
• 43:20
  Speaker 1: because I've had enough for it. So it's it's funny,
• 43:24
  Speaker 1: you know. That's like selfie is such a big thing.
• 43:29
  Speaker 1: I don't know if you guys noticed I post on
• 43:31
  Speaker 1: Instagram like once a week. I am not an Instagram person.
• 43:35
  Speaker 1: So how often do you get the John Krasinski thing,
• 43:39
  Speaker 1: especially now that he's having quite the high with a
• 43:41
  Speaker 1: quiet place, which is quite a well, you guys know,
• 43:44
  Speaker 1: I've lean into it. Um, I think everybody I I
• 43:48
  Speaker 1: probably have a five thousand d M saying, oh my god,
• 43:52
  Speaker 1: did you know that you look like John Krasinski becoming
• 43:55
  Speaker 1: more and more compliment Yeah, exactly, I'll think it all
• 43:58
  Speaker 1: day that really when it comes to the office. I mean,
• 44:01
  Speaker 1: everybody loves his character. So um, God forbid, I'd be,
• 44:06
  Speaker 1: you know, connected to Dwight. I'd rather be Jim Good.
• 44:14
  Speaker 1: That's good. People say I look like Jim Carrey. I
• 44:16
  Speaker 1: think you're what did you you see Jim Carrey in
• 44:22
  Speaker 1: yourself of Vinnie from my season when he like he
• 44:28
  Speaker 1: looked like Jim Carrey from Dumb and Dumber, people like
• 44:30
  Speaker 1: morph their faces together when he was on the back.
• 44:34
  Speaker 1: I've never seen that. Oh it's when he used to
• 44:36
  Speaker 1: have the Caesar cut. Yep, exactly, Yeah, okay, now I
• 44:40
  Speaker 1: can see it with that haircut. Well, jerk, your girlfriend,
• 44:45
  Speaker 1: your fiance, she is the queen of emotional intelligence. How
• 44:50
  Speaker 1: much do you make fun of her for that? And
• 44:52
  Speaker 1: how much? Um does she psychoanalyze you at home? She
• 44:57
  Speaker 1: I think she needs to write a book. I think
• 44:58
  Speaker 1: she needs to write her own book. Don a martial intelligence.
• 45:01
  Speaker 1: I don't know why she's not leveraging that. Uh No,
• 45:05
  Speaker 1: sometimes I have to say, take off your therapist pants.
• 45:09
  Speaker 1: Uh you know, and no, those aren't her normal pants,
• 45:12
  Speaker 1: so that we do that too, but it doesn't something
• 45:22
  Speaker 1: as often as you think, which fair pants are you removing?
• 45:25
  Speaker 1: More the therapist ones. The therapist ones. Now, she actually
• 45:28
  Speaker 1: has this thing that she calls when she has to
• 45:30
  Speaker 1: help when her friends call her just talk being a
• 45:33
  Speaker 1: friend to this, So she tries to turn that off
• 45:37
  Speaker 1: most of the time. You know, that's like not how
• 45:38
  Speaker 1: she she operates on the daily basis. You lived in Iowa, right, Um,
• 45:44
  Speaker 1: the home of Chris of Chris Souls. Do you still
• 45:46
  Speaker 1: live an island? No? Right, No, I'm in I'm in Connecticut. Actually,
• 45:51
  Speaker 1: where's Taylor? She is in Seattle? Is the long distance thing? Yeah?
• 45:58
  Speaker 1: Well we usually see each other like three weeks out
• 46:00
  Speaker 1: of the move. But um, so right now she's in
• 46:04
  Speaker 1: Seattle and then she comes and stays with me for
• 46:06
  Speaker 1: a while and then head back over there. So how
• 46:10
  Speaker 1: does that work? Like weekends? Is that we're talking about? No, Like, well,
• 46:14
  Speaker 1: stay here for like a couple of weeks. Yeah. There.
• 46:19
  Speaker 1: I I have to ask you a question that is
• 46:21
  Speaker 1: a little bit intrusive, and and I meet this in
• 46:24
  Speaker 1: in the best possible way, because I think everybody out
• 46:27
  Speaker 1: there that's listening will probably be able to relate in that.
• 46:30
  Speaker 1: And I want you to be able to talk about
• 46:32
  Speaker 1: this openly. Taylor did not come up, and let's not
• 46:35
  Speaker 1: blame the show. Let's talk about I want to talk
• 46:37
  Speaker 1: about you for a second. Taylor did not cost the
• 46:40
  Speaker 1: best during the first season of The Bachelor, and I
• 46:44
  Speaker 1: think that was those clear shoes. There's a lot of
• 46:45
  Speaker 1: strife and controversy around Taylor and some of her relationships
• 46:49
  Speaker 1: on the show, but you look past that and so
• 46:52
  Speaker 1: let's just like nothing, take that out of picture. Now,
• 46:55
  Speaker 1: you were able to look past that, say no, I
• 46:56
  Speaker 1: just want to get to know this woman for who
• 46:58
  Speaker 1: she is. How did you do that? Why did you
• 47:01
  Speaker 1: do that? And was it difficult for you? Um? Okay,
• 47:04
  Speaker 1: So the very first thing, I had the same perception
• 47:07
  Speaker 1: as everybody else, did I like walking in there. I
• 47:11
  Speaker 1: did not want to get to know Taylor at all,
• 47:15
  Speaker 1: and uh, you know she was. She thought the same
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: way about me. That whole reality Steve Olivia BS thing
• 47:22
  Speaker 1: that that came out. You know, we were like both
• 47:24
  Speaker 1: of us were like not interested in each other at all.
• 47:27
  Speaker 1: And uh we just sat there on that I don't
• 47:30
  Speaker 1: know whatever they call him Cavannah thing for like three
• 47:33
  Speaker 1: hours and you could not stop talking to each other.
• 47:35
  Speaker 1: So how did I do it? I mean we just
• 47:38
  Speaker 1: you know, we just couldn't get away from each other.
• 47:41
  Speaker 1: It wasn't about how what or like you know, who
• 47:43
  Speaker 1: was looking for a rose. I mean, we just couldn't
• 47:46
  Speaker 1: stop talking. So it was just natural. But it wasn't easy.
• 47:50
  Speaker 1: I mean, it's interesting that you both went into it
• 47:52
  Speaker 1: with this this idea that hey, I'm not interested, but
• 47:54
  Speaker 1: you allowed both like your walls to kind of be
• 47:56
  Speaker 1: broken down. I think that's incredible. And I wanted to
• 47:59
  Speaker 1: hear that because I remember watching it, and I think
• 48:02
  Speaker 1: Astley and I were analyzing backs and Paradise and I said,
• 48:05
  Speaker 1: I like this couple, Like this couple is a great couple.
• 48:08
  Speaker 1: I see them as very similar. I remember this, Actually
• 48:12
  Speaker 1: you're talking about It's very similar to that Carly Nevins
• 48:14
  Speaker 1: situation in my eyes, where it's like you can see
• 48:16
  Speaker 1: that this is a legit couple, like you can watch
• 48:18
  Speaker 1: it and go this is bigger than any television show.
• 48:22
  Speaker 1: We like you guys too. Yes, I I picked up
• 48:26
  Speaker 1: and I picked up on that. No, totally. But if
• 48:29
  Speaker 1: you go in with an open heart, that's what it
• 48:31
  Speaker 1: comes down to. You know, like if you're if you're
• 48:34
  Speaker 1: going in within open Instagram feed and just trying to
• 48:37
  Speaker 1: get more followers, then it's inevitably going to be a
• 48:40
  Speaker 1: pain in the time because you're just trying to get
• 48:42
  Speaker 1: screen time and people are gonna hate you for that.
• 48:45
  Speaker 1: You know, we both just went in with open hearts
• 48:47
  Speaker 1: and it was, you know, just kind of like we
• 48:49
  Speaker 1: just gravitated to each other, which sounds cheesy, but it's
• 48:53
  Speaker 1: so true. You guys have been together for a year.
• 48:57
  Speaker 1: Are you wedding planning or you know, or you're just
• 49:01
  Speaker 1: like we're we're young and enjoying ourselves. Yeah, we're taking
• 49:04
  Speaker 1: it slow on that front. This is actually my my
• 49:07
  Speaker 1: sister is getting married next month, so this is her
• 49:10
  Speaker 1: year given her that one. You are your best friend
• 49:13
  Speaker 1: from the franchise as wells am I correct, You are correct.
• 49:17
  Speaker 1: So have you guys gone a double date with him
• 49:20
  Speaker 1: and Sarah or would you plan on doing that? We
• 49:23
  Speaker 1: did so. Um we spent actually like all of the
• 49:27
  Speaker 1: New Year's time with Wells and Sarah and uh it
• 49:30
  Speaker 1: was creepy because Sarah and Taylor are very weirdly a
• 49:34
  Speaker 1: lot like it was kind of fun. So um, yeah
• 49:38
  Speaker 1: we went. We went and did did uh all the
• 49:40
  Speaker 1: whole New Year's Night and then we watched the show
• 49:43
  Speaker 1: and did junk snapchat with them and all that good stuff.
• 49:46
  Speaker 1: That was for the beginning of artist. Actually, how are
• 49:48
  Speaker 1: they so alike? Uh? Just all the like little quirks
• 49:53
  Speaker 1: and stuff and the things they say. They was like
• 49:55
  Speaker 1: they think to each other like five different times. It
• 49:57
  Speaker 1: was crazy. All right, Well, Derek, we need to have
• 50:04
  Speaker 1: you and Taylor at the same time one time, maybe
• 50:06
  Speaker 1: during Paradise, and you guys can give your thoughts about
• 50:09
  Speaker 1: the new couples. There you go. I can't wait to
• 50:12
  Speaker 1: just tell my opinion on everybody. You're pretty active on
• 50:15
  Speaker 1: Twitter though you may not be an Instagram guy, but
• 50:17
  Speaker 1: you're a tweeter. Yeah, I am uh, I kind of
• 50:21
  Speaker 1: have like a d D brain, so that's how I
• 50:23
  Speaker 1: just get it out of my head. And just alright,
• 50:27
  Speaker 1: what we're looking forward to all your feedback come the
• 50:30
  Speaker 1: next Bachelorette and Bachelor in Paradise season, and we wish
• 50:34
  Speaker 1: you and Taylor the best of luck. So sorry that
• 50:36
  Speaker 1: we forgot to add you to the list of successful couples.
• 50:39
  Speaker 1: We will never forget that again. I will hold it
• 50:41
  Speaker 1: against you. All right, Thanks Derek, We appreciate you. Bye. Alright,
• 50:49
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  Speaker 1: All right, Ben, are you ready to bitch? Fine? I'm
• 53:53
  Speaker 1: so ready. This is one that I actually a very
• 53:55
  Speaker 1: passed about today. I thought about last night. I was
• 53:58
  Speaker 1: I was almost ready to punch a wall getting fired up.
• 54:04
  Speaker 1: I'm ready. Actually, I'm not even gonna let you enter
• 54:06
  Speaker 1: me into this because I just want to talk about
• 54:07
  Speaker 1: it right now. I've been waiting all podcasts for this. Okay.
• 54:11
  Speaker 1: I like I like people a ton, and I believe
• 54:15
  Speaker 1: that people are they like engine and vessel that will
• 54:20
  Speaker 1: completely change the world for good. And I like dealing
• 54:22
  Speaker 1: with people, like talking to people. And this is where
• 54:25
  Speaker 1: I get angry. How many times doday do we call
• 54:29
  Speaker 1: a customer service line. It's if it's your cable network,
• 54:33
  Speaker 1: or it's your cell phone service, or your insurance or
• 54:36
  Speaker 1: whatever it is, and you have to talk to a
• 54:38
  Speaker 1: freaking robot. Wait a second, I can't believe this is
• 54:41
  Speaker 1: what you're about. I can't believe it why? And it
• 54:45
  Speaker 1: got to rub me when I'm Matt because when you
• 54:47
  Speaker 1: had I get really angry. But I actually go ahead.
• 54:49
  Speaker 1: I was going to in the story this exact same
• 54:52
  Speaker 1: thing this weekend, like just make fun of myself when
• 54:56
  Speaker 1: I'm on the phone with a robot, because it'll be like,
• 54:59
  Speaker 1: what do you call alling about. I'd be like, transfers,
• 55:01
  Speaker 1: and then they'll be like, we need you to get
• 55:04
  Speaker 1: more specific transfers about this, Like, yeah, transfers from one
• 55:08
  Speaker 1: bank account to another. And then it's like, um, I
• 55:11
  Speaker 1: didn't quite hear you, uh, transferring from one bank account
• 55:15
  Speaker 1: to another? Pardon me? And it's just like and the
• 55:20
  Speaker 1: my facial expression and this the fury that pulses through me.
• 55:26
  Speaker 1: Now take over your segment again. Well that was it.
• 55:29
  Speaker 1: I done it. You've got it. That was We're good
• 55:33
  Speaker 1: so act I both think it's ridiculous. We need to
• 55:36
  Speaker 1: deal with people more often. That's it. That's it. Yeah,
• 55:41
  Speaker 1: I was. I'm just mad about going in circles with this.
• 55:46
  Speaker 1: It's just so annoying that it's always like I didn't
• 55:48
  Speaker 1: quite hear you did you say this and then you
• 55:52
  Speaker 1: just want to throw your phone against the wall. Is
• 55:55
  Speaker 1: that what you just said, that you wanted to throw
• 55:56
  Speaker 1: your phone against the wall? I want to punch well,
• 56:00
  Speaker 1: but yeah, very similar. Yeah it's not it's not fun.
• 56:03
  Speaker 1: We can get people back on the line. The computers
• 56:06
  Speaker 1: are no longer fun to deal with. Can I bitch
• 56:08
  Speaker 1: about your ben bitches last week? Oh? Yeah, you can
• 56:11
  Speaker 1: do whatever you'd like. You know how, I was talking
• 56:14
  Speaker 1: about how people are riding on bikes in the middle
• 56:17
  Speaker 1: of the road and they're like, you sounded so ignorant
• 56:20
  Speaker 1: talking about riding bikes on the road, And I'm like, okay,
• 56:24
  Speaker 1: so now you're bitching at me for bitching. Yes, I
• 56:27
  Speaker 1: know it's illegal in many places to ride your bike
• 56:30
  Speaker 1: on the sidewalk. I'm not saying that there's anything you
• 56:33
  Speaker 1: can really do about it. I'm simply expressing that it's
• 56:36
  Speaker 1: annoying when we all have to merge into another lane
• 56:41
  Speaker 1: because you insist I'm biking on it. Sorry, guys, I'm
• 56:45
  Speaker 1: gonna stick with this one. I think you need your
• 56:47
  Speaker 1: own thing. I think you just got it. This is
• 56:49
  Speaker 1: now no longer me, this is you. You get your
• 56:54
  Speaker 1: moment to express everything. Because here's the thing. Actually, what
• 56:58
  Speaker 1: I've noted is one tweet will really kind of like
• 57:01
  Speaker 1: get under your skin, like one person can really like
• 57:05
  Speaker 1: fire you up. And so I think every week, if
• 57:07
  Speaker 1: you really thought about it, at some point during the week,
• 57:09
  Speaker 1: you've gotten really fired up about something. So let's just
• 57:12
  Speaker 1: trancel it over. No, Ben, It's the whole thing is
• 57:15
  Speaker 1: I'm very natural when it comes to bitching. It's part
• 57:18
  Speaker 1: of me. You don't do it. That's why we have
• 57:20
  Speaker 1: the segment. Okay, yeah, I was just gonna say I
• 57:25
  Speaker 1: was gonna give you your moment to to release yourself.
• 57:27
  Speaker 1: I really really need to step back. I'm sorry, guys,
• 57:31
  Speaker 1: this is ben segment next week. I won't even agree.
• 57:35
  Speaker 1: If I do agree with him, I cannot disagree with you. Actually,
• 57:40
  Speaker 1: I think everything that you say typically is spot on
• 57:44
  Speaker 1: um and I think you're just kind of tweaking the world,
• 57:49
  Speaker 1: uh to get more in line with what is logical,
• 57:54
  Speaker 1: what is rational, what is just correct, and and so
• 57:58
  Speaker 1: everything that you say I think is is spot on.
• 58:01
  Speaker 1: I wonder if if, actually, like if you could just
• 58:05
  Speaker 1: step up on a pedestal during every podcast and we
• 58:08
  Speaker 1: just let you lose, how good it could be no, no,
• 58:11
  Speaker 1: that's not good to see. I'm good if I if
• 58:13
  Speaker 1: you give me like thirty seconds and be like, Ashley,
• 58:15
  Speaker 1: what's annoying? Thirty seconds boom, I can tell you and
• 58:18
  Speaker 1: a couple of sentences. You, on the other hand, can
• 58:21
  Speaker 1: go on a total monologue about it, and it's flowy
• 58:24
  Speaker 1: and articulate and I'm jealous and you spin it around
• 58:29
  Speaker 1: in the right direction. Well, actually, I know one of
• 58:32
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• 58:35
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• 58:44
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• 58:47
  Speaker 1: I know there's an email out there from one of
• 58:49
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  Speaker 1: has been mentioned, We are sitting here with Jared Haben,
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• 1:01:04
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• 1:01:07
  Speaker 1: podcast along with with our bestie Dean. That's right, yes
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 1: I am, and he has come. He is about to
• 1:01:14
  Speaker 1: record his other podcasts here in the I Heart Studio.
• 1:01:17
  Speaker 1: But then I was sifting through these emails and I
• 1:01:20
  Speaker 1: found one that pertained to him specifically. It is from Ilsa.
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  Speaker 1: It says, Hi Been and Ashley. I'm a huge fan
• 1:01:28
  Speaker 1: of the podcast. It's the one I listened to every
• 1:01:30
  Speaker 1: week without fail. Thank you so much. I would love
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 1: you both to chat about Bachelor in Paradise Australia. Since
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 1: Americans like Grant, Daniel McGuire and Jared are on it,
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 1: have you two been watching? What do you think about
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 1: all that's going on? And do you think that Bachelor
• 1:01:46
  Speaker 1: in Paradise this year we'll have lots of internationals and
• 1:01:49
  Speaker 1: do you think that these international couples that come out
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 1: of the show will have a shot in the real world.
• 1:01:53
  Speaker 1: Would so appreciate to hear what you think of this?
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 1: Love you lots. Well, I guess this question kind of
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 1: pertains to me. Sing how I was on the show,
• 1:02:02
  Speaker 1: I will say I didn't. I haven't watched it. Uh
• 1:02:04
  Speaker 1: you left for it in mid November. Yeah, so I
• 1:02:08
  Speaker 1: filmed in November early November, early to mid November, I
• 1:02:11
  Speaker 1: went to go film. I was down in Fiji, for
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 1: about two two and a half weeks where I was
• 1:02:15
  Speaker 1: filming Bachelor in Paradise Australia. Was actually kind of weird
• 1:02:17
  Speaker 1: because I got an email. I was actually I got
• 1:02:19
  Speaker 1: a call to do Winter Games at first, and then
• 1:02:21
  Speaker 1: Warner Brothers Australia reached out to me and said, hey,
• 1:02:23
  Speaker 1: we're interested in having you on our Bachelor in Paradise.
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 1: We're doing our first season. I thought it was a
• 1:02:27
  Speaker 1: joke until I got a call from Australia saying no,
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 1: this is an actual show that we want you to
• 1:02:32
  Speaker 1: perform down in Australia with us. Perform, you know, put
• 1:02:35
  Speaker 1: on a performance. That's what you do best. And so,
• 1:02:39
  Speaker 1: a long story short, I went down there, and uh,
• 1:02:41
  Speaker 1: I'm really glad I did. Um So you and I
• 1:02:46
  Speaker 1: were convinced that they both didn't want us in Winter
• 1:02:48
  Speaker 1: Games though, because that it would have made no sense
• 1:02:52
  Speaker 1: if both of us went, because it would have been
• 1:02:54
  Speaker 1: you would have seen that you've seen it before. But
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 1: what was I saying? Okay, yeah, so tell us about like,
• 1:03:04
  Speaker 1: did you find anyone there? Did you kiss anyone there?
• 1:03:07
  Speaker 1: I haven't watched, I don't know. Uh so did I
• 1:03:11
  Speaker 1: kiss anybody? Uh? Man, you were just gonna have to
• 1:03:14
  Speaker 1: watch watch the show. I mean, I guess so it
• 1:03:16
  Speaker 1: just aired. It was kind of it just so long
• 1:03:19
  Speaker 1: story short, it just aired. It was weird because it
• 1:03:21
  Speaker 1: filmed back in November. It just aired this past month.
• 1:03:24
  Speaker 1: My exit actually was last night, and so um, I
• 1:03:29
  Speaker 1: didn't kiss anybody there. I was there for about five
• 1:03:31
  Speaker 1: rows ceremonies. I did the most prototypical Jared thing, which
• 1:03:35
  Speaker 1: was just kind of coast through not kiss anybody, and
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 1: then as soon as somebody showed interest, I was like, well,
• 1:03:39
  Speaker 1: see you later. And the funny thing is that even
• 1:03:42
  Speaker 1: though you weren't kissing anyone, these girls still want to
• 1:03:44
  Speaker 1: do They're like, no, no, in the beginning, but I
• 1:03:47
  Speaker 1: still want his road. Well, in the beginning it was
• 1:03:50
  Speaker 1: I was definitely forming a lot of friendships. I became
• 1:03:52
  Speaker 1: really close with a lot of people, and then towards
• 1:03:54
  Speaker 1: the end, there was a couple of girls who were like,
• 1:03:56
  Speaker 1: I really want to get to know you on a
• 1:03:57
  Speaker 1: deeper level, and that's what girls always feel from you.
• 1:04:01
  Speaker 1: But then they don't they take yes, and then you
• 1:04:04
  Speaker 1: like just drag it out of them where they're like,
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 1: excuse me, I'm not sure this is headed, but I
• 1:04:09
  Speaker 1: think I need to clarify I would like a romantic
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 1: relationship here. You seem friends zoning me and then I
• 1:04:15
  Speaker 1: deflect for a good two hours and then walk away
• 1:04:17
  Speaker 1: and then it's just a game over after that. Um,
• 1:04:20
  Speaker 1: but do I think the relationships could last? So I
• 1:04:23
  Speaker 1: want to see first of all, is La you should
• 1:04:25
  Speaker 1: also listen to the Help I Second Dating podcast because
• 1:04:27
  Speaker 1: Dean and myself try very hot on that podcast and
• 1:04:30
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• 1:04:33
  Speaker 1: I will have to say that I think that the
• 1:04:35
  Speaker 1: success ray is going to be even slimmer when you
• 1:04:38
  Speaker 1: factor in the internationals, just as we saw it with
• 1:04:41
  Speaker 1: Bachelor Winter Games. It's just even harder to keep an
• 1:04:44
  Speaker 1: international relationship, especially with you guys, because that's one continent
• 1:04:49
  Speaker 1: and then you're like a whole twelve hour flight away. Yeah,
• 1:04:53
  Speaker 1: so I think that was the most difficult part. I
• 1:04:55
  Speaker 1: will say though, I feel like there were probably a
• 1:04:58
  Speaker 1: number of contestants within the fecial Aralian Bachelor Paradise that
• 1:05:01
  Speaker 1: would have been willing to move to America. Um, So
• 1:05:04
  Speaker 1: it would be interesting to see if they bring a
• 1:05:05
  Speaker 1: contestants for the Bachelor Paradise America internationally. Well, I think
• 1:05:09
  Speaker 1: they will as well, but it would be interesting to
• 1:05:11
  Speaker 1: see if any Americans would be willing to move to
• 1:05:13
  Speaker 1: different countries for them. I don't know, it is kind
• 1:05:16
  Speaker 1: of a stretch, I feel. I heard there was a
• 1:05:17
  Speaker 1: rumor that there was a potential international contestants coming on
• 1:05:20
  Speaker 1: last year to Bachelor in Paradise, had things been different
• 1:05:24
  Speaker 1: more normal exactly. So um, I don't think it's gonna
• 1:05:28
  Speaker 1: be really that abnormal if they bring international contestants on
• 1:05:31
  Speaker 1: this paradise. We had Winter Games, we had the Bachelor
• 1:05:33
  Speaker 1: Paradis Australia, where they brought Americans, and they also brought Canadians.
• 1:05:35
  Speaker 1: There's a guy from Bachelor of Canada named Thomas that
• 1:05:37
  Speaker 1: came there. So I think it might become a little
• 1:05:40
  Speaker 1: bit of the norm for a little while to see
• 1:05:42
  Speaker 1: if this works out, let's bring international contestants on. Well.
• 1:05:45
  Speaker 1: I just have to say that Yuki did make an
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 1: appearance this week in America in l A and uh.
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 1: I think this weekend may have been a Bachelor Paradise cassing, Like,
• 1:05:57
  Speaker 1: who really knows for sure for sure? You know, Yuki
• 1:06:00
  Speaker 1: has entered the country, and that's always good news. That's
• 1:06:03
  Speaker 1: always great for America. Yeah, Okay, well you guys, that's
• 1:06:08
  Speaker 1: it for this week's podcast. Make sure to tune in
• 1:06:11
  Speaker 1: to Jared and Dean and Vanessa on this week's help
• 1:06:16
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• 1:06:22
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• 1:06:25
  Speaker 1: All right, until next time. If you feel the need
• 1:06:28
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• 1:06:32
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