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Bachelor in PROMadise · The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast

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  Speaker 1: Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast with on our radio. Hello,
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  Speaker 1: wonderful Bachelor in Paradise viewers, it is actually here this
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  Speaker 1: well today and Ben we'll be with you tomorrow and
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  Speaker 1: Gass with me today. I love him so much. He's
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  Speaker 1: one of my very favorites from the franchise. Well, I
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  Speaker 1: have to be, because if I'm not, then you made
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  Speaker 1: a seriously wrong decision. My husband Jared Haven is my
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  Speaker 1: co host today? Can you introduce me as the host
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  Speaker 1: of Help by Second Dating? Your husband? Everybody knows I'm
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  Speaker 1: your husband. I feel like, uh, maybe a fourth of
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  Speaker 1: the listeners know that I host help by Second Dating
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  Speaker 1: in my heart radio podcast A shameless plug over here
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  Speaker 1: with my co host Dean and Vanessa. Okay, hey, but Jared,
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  Speaker 1: isn't it kind of silly that you're the title of
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  Speaker 1: your podcast? And how by Second Dating? Do you think
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  Speaker 1: of yourself as the guru on that podcast? Well, we
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  Speaker 1: all kind of are, because it's myself, Dean who's in
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  Speaker 1: a relationship now, and Vanessa who's been in a relationship
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  Speaker 1: for about a year now. So we're all not sucking
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  Speaker 1: that badly right now, even though I definitely at times
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  Speaker 1: second dating, which I think you can attest to. How so,
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  Speaker 1: give an example of when you suck. I can think
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  Speaker 1: of one. What, Yeah, there's plenty of times. How many
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  Speaker 1: times do you and I pick her back at forth? Sometimes? Well?
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  Speaker 1: I just want to be touched all the time, Yes,
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  Speaker 1: you do. Moving forward, anyway, we're not here to talk
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  Speaker 1: about us. We're here to talk about Bachelor in Paradise
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  Speaker 1: because there was a great episode that aired last night,
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  Speaker 1: which was one of my favorites of the season. I
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  Speaker 1: think so, I guess we should start with the first breading,
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  Speaker 1: which has to do with your co host Dean and
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  Speaker 1: how maybe he doesn't suck at dating so much. I
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  Speaker 1: think he sucks. Me still kind of sucks. He still
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  Speaker 1: kind of sucks because he's It still took him like
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  Speaker 1: a couple of days out of Paradise to realize that
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  Speaker 1: he missed someone and that he couldn't let her go.
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  Speaker 1: What was that romantic? I think it was super romantic. Oh,
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  Speaker 1: it's a grand romantic gesture. It was even brought up
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  Speaker 1: in Paradise. Someone said that, Um, does that mean he
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  Speaker 1: doesn't suck at dating because he pulls off a grand gesture? No,
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  Speaker 1: you can still suck at dating. Um, I'll stop saying
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  Speaker 1: that now. But let's recap so Dean from It was
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  Speaker 1: left off last episode and then it picked up this
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  Speaker 1: episode where Dean came back for Kalin because he missed her.
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  Speaker 1: He shaved the mustache. He looked like a stunt. He
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  Speaker 1: looked like good Lord might have looked the best he
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  Speaker 1: ever has on TV. What is that face? But also
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  Speaker 1: what is Calyn's face? The two of them them flashing
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  Speaker 1: between the two of their faces in their eyes. I
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  Speaker 1: said yesterday on Twitter, I was like, you too need
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  Speaker 1: to have children because I need to see the eyes.
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  Speaker 1: That would be creative. They are two very, very beautiful people.
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  Speaker 1: And Dean walked down with the black button down short
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  Speaker 1: sleeve and his hair blowing and his eyes were just
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  Speaker 1: piercing blue, no mustache. I was like, good god, poor Connor.
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  Speaker 1: As soon as you see Dean's face. And Connor is
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  Speaker 1: a very very good looking human being and he's got
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  Speaker 1: he's jacked. My god, when he stood up next to Calin.
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  Speaker 1: When so, when Calin was talking to Dean at the
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  Speaker 1: day bed, and then Calyn said, I gotta go talk
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  Speaker 1: to Connor. She went to David with Connor, and Connor
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  Speaker 1: gave up and gave her a hug. That dude is massive.
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  Speaker 1: He is, but you notice his muscles because I didn't
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  Speaker 1: even think about that. I'm just so like, I'm just
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  Speaker 1: so team Dean in this. But I feel like I
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  Speaker 1: feel bad almost for not having as much sympathy for
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  Speaker 1: Connor as they I should. Well, he's just super tall, Jared.
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  Speaker 1: I think it's his height. He's like he's like six
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  Speaker 1: he's like six five. He's a big, big boy baby
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  Speaker 1: as a guy. You noticed that because when I look
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  Speaker 1: at Connor, I think to myself, Man, I gotta get
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  Speaker 1: in the gym. Man, I gotta start working out again.
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  Speaker 1: But anyway, I appreciate it. I love you more anyway.
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  Speaker 1: UM So, when I actually think, I wasn't sympathetic towards
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  Speaker 1: Connor because I am so team Dean obviously, but I
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  Speaker 1: was very sympathetic towards Connor when he started talking to
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  Speaker 1: Kalen one on one, because I think that was his
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  Speaker 1: best moment I've ever seen from him on television. He
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  Speaker 1: was very articulate, he was strong, he in his opinion. Uh,
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  Speaker 1: he didn't back down because I feel like a lot
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  Speaker 1: of those moments, um, the guy or the girl will say, well,
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  Speaker 1: you just gotta, you know, follow your heart and if
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  Speaker 1: you want to go with him, that's great. But and
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  Speaker 1: then he was like, no, I want you to stay.
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  Speaker 1: And I really like that from him, and I thought
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  Speaker 1: that he did such a good job explaining to Kaylin
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  Speaker 1: exactly how he felt and why he wanted her to stay.
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  Speaker 1: I really really enjoyed Connor in that moment. And it
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  Speaker 1: was in that moment where I thought to myself, Oh no,
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  Speaker 1: I feel bad for Connor. Oh no, because I wanted
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  Speaker 1: to obviously a hundred percent team Dean, which I still
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  Speaker 1: wanted Caitlin to leave with Dean, But in that moment,
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  Speaker 1: I thought he was so good and I was like, wow,
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  Speaker 1: that was that was a great moment for him. I'm
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  Speaker 1: the worst because all I was thinking was is Okay,
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  Speaker 1: when can we get back to Kaylin and Dean. Well,
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  Speaker 1: I think you're coming from the vantage point I just
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  Speaker 1: choose I've already seen them together in person, and let's
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  Speaker 1: be honest at that, and even just coming across on TV,
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  Speaker 1: everybody knew it. In Paradise, she had a stronger connection
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  Speaker 1: with Dean. They had more chemistry. Yeah, they had more
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  Speaker 1: like intellectual and emotional chemistry. I think she had a
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  Speaker 1: lot of physical chemistry with Connor. Yeah, but she has
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  Speaker 1: a lot of physical chemistry Dean. I think she just
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  Speaker 1: had a better I mean, all three go to Dean,
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  Speaker 1: but I don't know that she was like connecting emotionally
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  Speaker 1: and intellectually as much with Connor. She did like how
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  Speaker 1: safe he felt, because he felt super safe, like he
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  Speaker 1: wasn't going to screw her if anything Calin was gonna
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  Speaker 1: end up screwing Connor in that relationship totally. She had
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  Speaker 1: the power within that relationship, and then I think in
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  Speaker 1: the Dean relationship with Calin, she's letting go of the
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  Speaker 1: power because I think it's pretty clear that Dean has
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  Speaker 1: the power at least in that moment, because she's just
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  Speaker 1: very I'm not gonna say in love with him, but
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  Speaker 1: very very uh enamored body. And I like the fact
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  Speaker 1: that most of the cast was just like, yeah, I mean,
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  Speaker 1: this is undeniable. I thought Haley put it perfectly where
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  Speaker 1: she was like, I'm so sad for Connor, but I'm
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  Speaker 1: also so happy for Calin. Indeed, I don't know how
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  Speaker 1: to feel. I thought that it just kind of a
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  Speaker 1: capital encapsulated how everybody was telling in that moment, which, man,
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  Speaker 1: we feel bad for Connor, but we also see what
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  Speaker 1: Dean and Calin could potentially have, And I think it
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  Speaker 1: was also a growing moment for Dean. Um A lot
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  Speaker 1: of people have accused Dean of being this uh playboy
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  Speaker 1: guy who kind of bounces from a relationship to relationship,
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  Speaker 1: can't stay with one girl for a long extended period
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  Speaker 1: of time, and I think it was a really nice
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  Speaker 1: moment for Dean to come back and say, I need
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  Speaker 1: to stop running away from the things that make me
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  Speaker 1: happy in life. And there's a lot of things that
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  Speaker 1: I need to work on, but I want to work
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  Speaker 1: on them with you, and I want to try to
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  Speaker 1: figure this out together. Um. And I thought it was
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  Speaker 1: just honestly, I thought it was a great moment for
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  Speaker 1: all three people. Umklin is getting a little bit of
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  Speaker 1: flak today, Can I say that, like, wait, wait, what
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  Speaker 1: the hell you guys? Just because I know people are like, oh,
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  Speaker 1: Calin is just so dumb for choosing Dean over Connor.
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  Speaker 1: Doesn't she know she's going to get hurt through this?
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  Speaker 1: And it's like does that really matter? Like, shouldn't she
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  Speaker 1: be going with the person that you like, really have
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  Speaker 1: strong feelings for, even if it's more of a risk.
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  Speaker 1: Who wants to be comfortable? Even Dean said something like
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  Speaker 1: who wants it easy? Who wants it easy? Like that's
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  Speaker 1: so weird. I think the easy means passionless. Um, yes,
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  Speaker 1: I would agree to a certain extent. I think. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: The problem though, sometimes when you go for the hard thing,
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  Speaker 1: it doesn't work out right and then you're hurt. But
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  Speaker 1: boo who like, I don't know why so many people
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  Speaker 1: on this show constantly are afraid of being hurt, Like,
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  Speaker 1: obviously it sucks, but like, is it really that great
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  Speaker 1: if there's not that fear there? Well, I'm going to
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  Speaker 1: make an analogy for you, because I'm glad for all
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  Speaker 1: the pain I went through with you, babe, I'm not
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  Speaker 1: I wish that I was better from the beginning. I
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  Speaker 1: think personally, I had to go through a lot of
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  Speaker 1: growing pains as an individual, and I think I needed
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  Speaker 1: to see things in a different light. And I think
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  Speaker 1: actually similar to Dean. I think Dean is very afraid
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  Speaker 1: of commitment because he's afraid of hurting people, um, because
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  Speaker 1: he knows himself um. And I think maybe Dean's a
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  Speaker 1: little different in this, But for me, personally, I think
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  Speaker 1: I was always afraid to show a very vulnerable side,
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  Speaker 1: not only to you, but to a vast amount of people,
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  Speaker 1: because I was afraid that they were going to figure
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  Speaker 1: out I wasn't good enough. And I'm curious if Dean
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  Speaker 1: thinks the same thing. And that's a very real fear
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  Speaker 1: that a lot of people feel. And I think that
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  Speaker 1: it took me seeing you as someone else to realize
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna lose the best thing that's ever happened to
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  Speaker 1: me because of my own insecurities, And is am I
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  Speaker 1: gonna let my insecurities be the downfall of me? And
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  Speaker 1: in that moment I was able. I'm very proud of
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  Speaker 1: myself in that moment to rise to the occasion and
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  Speaker 1: jump fully in with you. Um, instead of always being like, oh, well,
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  Speaker 1: I don't know if it could work out. And you know,
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  Speaker 1: she lives in l A and I live or an Island.
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  Speaker 1: She's so emotional and can I handle someone like that
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  Speaker 1: all the time, And instead of being like Jared, it's
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  Speaker 1: never gonna be perfect. You either dive in or you're
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  Speaker 1: gonna end up alone. And I think Dean had a
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  Speaker 1: flash of that as well when he was away from
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  Speaker 1: Paradise and he was missing Calin and he probably knew
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  Speaker 1: that Caitlin and Connor were hitting it off. And I
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  Speaker 1: think that's why Dean went back to Paradise rather than
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  Speaker 1: trying to reach back out to Calin when she left.
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  Speaker 1: That would have been a lot more mat stuff. Well
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  Speaker 1: not I think it would have just been a higher risk,
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  Speaker 1: have been a higher risk, but also like it wouldn't
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  Speaker 1: have been as romantic. No, yeah, it wouldn't have been romantic,
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  Speaker 1: And um, so I think Dean it was a growing
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  Speaker 1: moment for him, And um, I think Klin is not
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  Speaker 1: getting just flat for picking Dean, but I think she's
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  Speaker 1: also getting flag for the fact that a lot of
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  Speaker 1: people don't think she was that sympathetic towards Connor. May
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  Speaker 1: have been something edited out and there it was already
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  Speaker 1: a very long scene. They couldn't just show her going
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  Speaker 1: back and forth and back and forth. I want to
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  Speaker 1: give her the benefit of the doubt and saying that
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  Speaker 1: she probably went over to Connor. Don't you think that
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  Speaker 1: he really found out, um, from the two of them
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  Speaker 1: just making out in front of him. You think that's
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  Speaker 1: how we found out that she really really chose Dean.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know. That's a great question. I think it's
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  Speaker 1: can answered that. I think there's a high probability that's
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  Speaker 1: how he found out because Klin never said she was
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  Speaker 1: leaving with Dean prior to that moment, so Jean never
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  Speaker 1: truly knew, And when she said yes, Dean re acted
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  Speaker 1: with such happiness that he just kissed her. So I
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  Speaker 1: could totally see Connor fully not knowing until that moment um.
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  Speaker 1: And I don't really blame Kalen or Dean for that
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  Speaker 1: because it was their moment. Uh, it sucks, but that's
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  Speaker 1: kind of the name of the game a little bit
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  Speaker 1: within paradise. Um, I had to propose in front of
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  Speaker 1: your X. It's not the thing I wanted to do,
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  Speaker 1: but it worked out that way. Unfortunately, Dean probably didn't
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  Speaker 1: want to kiss Kalen in front of Connor, but he
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  Speaker 1: either kissed her in that moment because it was such
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  Speaker 1: a great moment, or he was or he put you know,
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  Speaker 1: or he was thinking of Connor was like, well we
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  Speaker 1: shouldn't kiss right now, and kind of ruin the moment,
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  Speaker 1: Like it just sucks. But Connor is going to be fine.
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  Speaker 1: He's a great looking man. He's got a lot going
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  Speaker 1: for him. Um. I am stunned that when we'll we'll
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  Speaker 1: talk about this later. But when rev came down, she
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  Speaker 1: didn't immediately ask Connor because he was the most single
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  Speaker 1: one of the beach. Uh. She he was like the
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  Speaker 1: sixth one she talked to. It's it seemed like anyway
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  Speaker 1: what we saw on TV. It's interesting I said before that, Um,
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  Speaker 1: the hurt was worth it. And even if we didn't
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  Speaker 1: end up together, the hurt has still been worth it.
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  Speaker 1: I just I want to know what you guys think
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  Speaker 1: out there is this fear of being hurt too overplayed
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  Speaker 1: on the show, because doesn't hurt build character and ultimately
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  Speaker 1: lead to where you should be? Well? I also think
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  Speaker 1: her means you went for it, went for it, went
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  Speaker 1: for it means you exhausted all the like options, right,
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  Speaker 1: And I think that if you don't do that, then
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  Speaker 1: you're always going to be left with what if. And
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  Speaker 1: I know that I've said this many times on this podcast,
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  Speaker 1: but I think in love, in career, you should always
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  Speaker 1: exhaust all options because you never want to think back
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  Speaker 1: and think what if. Of course, don't we always exactly
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  Speaker 1: don't We always love the people on these shows that
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  Speaker 1: put their heart on their sleeves and go for it
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  Speaker 1: because I think, as a person watching it, we want
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  Speaker 1: to be like that person. We want to be the
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  Speaker 1: person that wears our hearts on the sleeves and goes
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  Speaker 1: after what we want. But we're also scared um and
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  Speaker 1: so I think that's why people that do that on
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  Speaker 1: the show are so loved, because it reflects what we
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  Speaker 1: want to be like. And you know who's doing that
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  Speaker 1: right now, j p J. We are going to talk
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  Speaker 1: to Haley Um, somebody who dated JPJ, about her feelings
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  Speaker 1: on that man. Right after this break. Jared and I
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  Speaker 1: are obviously still getting some gifts in from our Creton
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  Speaker 1: Barrel registry. We have the most wonderful things, and that's
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  Speaker 1: one of the things that we're working on now now
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  Speaker 1: that we're home, is decorating our apartment, like putting all
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  Speaker 1: of the registry items away and well not away, but
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  Speaker 1: on display, and making our house our home now and
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  Speaker 1: a home together, not a home that Jared moved into
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  Speaker 1: and like a girl retreat that my sister and I created.
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  Speaker 1: It's now our home and we love the crane barrel
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  Speaker 1: items that we've gotten. We were able to schedule a
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  Speaker 1: private registry event when we started to get our Creaton
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  Speaker 1: kitchen or a bathroom, or whether or not you have
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  Speaker 1: a few pieces already that you want to work around.
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  Speaker 1: So each couple gets to leave these events with a
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  Speaker 1: special gift um which is a fun takeaway to remember
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  Speaker 1: the experience. And you're gonna feel really good because you
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• 16:53
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• 17:37
  Speaker 1: So we are back to almost famous. This is obviously
• 17:40
  Speaker 1: not Ben Higgins, this is Jared Haven uh. So we're
• 17:43
  Speaker 1: gonna have Haley on the phone before we do that.
• 17:46
  Speaker 1: Any final thoughts on Dean and Kleen leaving Paradise together. No, alright, cool.
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: I just want to say I'm very happy for them.
• 17:54
  Speaker 1: I wish them well. It's something that I feel like
• 17:57
  Speaker 1: needs to be said. Very happy for them, I wish
• 17:59
  Speaker 1: them the best, and I really like them together. I
• 18:01
  Speaker 1: really like them together too. Okay, well, now we got
• 18:05
  Speaker 1: Haley Ferguson, who I actually think has made more Bachelor
• 18:09
  Speaker 1: Paradise appearances than any other Bachelor cast alum. Haley, Hi, guys, Oh,
• 18:19
  Speaker 1: hey Haley, Hey Haley, how Art thou good? How are you? Guys? Congratulation?
• 18:27
  Speaker 1: Thank you, Haley, you really you know you were. You
• 18:31
  Speaker 1: were an integral part of our lives during a very
• 18:33
  Speaker 1: different part of Jared in my life, during the ultimate
• 18:37
  Speaker 1: complication of it off screen. Yeah, that was probably one
• 18:40
  Speaker 1: of the points where we were furthest apart probably and
• 18:46
  Speaker 1: half years ago. They can't believe it. Yeah, but you
• 18:52
  Speaker 1: guys always knew, like literally, you and Emily would always
• 18:55
  Speaker 1: be like, you guys are too weird together. This is
• 18:58
  Speaker 1: he's supposed to be with you. I always had a
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: feeling that you guys would end up together. I'm just
• 19:03
  Speaker 1: it was just a matter of time. Yeah, it truly
• 19:06
  Speaker 1: was just a matter of time. So we you know,
• 19:10
  Speaker 1: We've been rooting for you since the very beginning. You're
• 19:12
  Speaker 1: one of the most lovable characters on this franchise. You've
• 19:16
  Speaker 1: been on three seasons of Paradise, first season three with
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: us and then you made a brief appearance with Emily
• 19:23
  Speaker 1: season but this season four, which was the hectic season
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: with Karen, and then you're back now solo, which I
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: think we all love the fact that you are solo
• 19:36
  Speaker 1: right now. I think you're getting I think the people
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: like to seeing you independent right now. So, Haley, describe
• 19:45
  Speaker 1: how this Paradise experience is without Emily by your side. Um,
• 19:49
  Speaker 1: this Paradise experience has been a lot different for me. Um. Personally,
• 19:54
  Speaker 1: I felt like I was ready to do something on
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: my own and just kind of put myself out of
• 19:59
  Speaker 1: my comfort so. Um, So doing this season without Emily
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: was definitely like uncomfortable for me, But overall, I feel
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: like I learned so much about myself as an individual, UM,
• 20:12
  Speaker 1: and like I was just able to make friends with
• 20:14
  Speaker 1: the girls without having Emily helped to do so. And
• 20:17
  Speaker 1: so personally, I feel like it was a really good
• 20:20
  Speaker 1: thing for myself. During Bachelor in Paradise too, when I
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: brought my sister on I was like, how amazing is
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: this going to be? To date with my security blanket
• 20:29
  Speaker 1: to steer by my side, you know, And then I
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: realized that I just kind of weighed me down and
• 20:35
  Speaker 1: it didn't get me far. It actually pulled me back
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: from the rest of the cast because I didn't really
• 20:40
  Speaker 1: need to make friends because I had my friend um
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: and I think that with you and Emily, you guys
• 20:45
  Speaker 1: set each other as crutches. Yeah, like I was able,
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: I kind of had to force myself into the friend
• 20:51
  Speaker 1: groups that were already created because a lot of these
• 20:53
  Speaker 1: girls were on the previous like they were on Colton
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: season together, or like they knew each other from other
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: events that they have done to other. So I feel
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: like I just went into it with no friends, so
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: I had to force myself into like making friends with
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: some of the people. No, that makes sense, And honestly
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: it makes If I was down there with you know, best,
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: the best guy friend, I would have just hung out
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: with my best guy friend and never put myself out
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: there to make new friends that could potentially turn into
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: partners in the future. So I can totally understand why
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: you think that maybe it was probably better for you
• 21:29
  Speaker 1: guys to separate and you go to Paradise all by yourself. Um, Haley.
• 21:32
  Speaker 1: So we've we've we've seen over the past couple of
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: days that John Paul Jones um saga with Taysha uh
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: and then Derek who has obviously since left. We haven't
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: really seen your point of view on it. Well, we
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: did see her call him out big time last week,
• 21:48
  Speaker 1: and that was that was a Haley moment. Everybody was
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: clapping at home. You just called him out. Tell us
• 21:55
  Speaker 1: about your frustration with JPJ, because when we saw you
• 21:58
  Speaker 1: at the wedding, you guys were flirting. You had just
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: gone on your first day and you're really liking him,
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: and it seemed like he liked you. But I know
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: that he was probably a little bit more torn Um.
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: But I definitely didn't know that he had such strong
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: feelings for Tasia based on what we saw at the wedding. So,
• 22:17
  Speaker 1: and I think you are lost as well, because he
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: wasn't being super upfront. So honestly, I was just totally
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: thought JPJ and I were fine. We were hanging out,
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: we were spending lots of time together, and it felt
• 22:31
  Speaker 1: like he was super into me. Um, And like at
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: the rose ceremony where he gave me his rose, Like
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: he told me like that he's never had such an
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: instant connection with anybody in his entire life, because he
• 22:42
  Speaker 1: was definitely like building my ego up and making me
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: feel really confident in what we had. So at the wedding,
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: like when I was talking to you, actually I felt
• 22:51
  Speaker 1: super confident in like what JPJ and I had. And
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: then I just woke up that next morning and Derek
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: was like, yeah, um, he had super strong feelings for
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: Kasha and I like, you know that feeling like when
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: your stomach just dropped in your you are just completely shocked.
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: That's totally how I felt when he said that to me,
• 23:09
  Speaker 1: And like instantly my guard went up and I was like,
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: am I crazy for thinking that we had something special?
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: Like I I started thinking that I was mental, like
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: that I was losing my mind, and then so I
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: start you start overthinking everything and then you're like, Okay,
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: well why don't I just go talk to him and
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: get some clarity. So our first conversation, um, I went
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: into it like he didn't approach me. I had to
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: go up to JPJ and like ask him what was
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: going on? Yeah, I remember you pulled him into the yeah,
• 23:37
  Speaker 1: and I just like I felt that that was I
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: wish that he would have told me first. I hated
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: that I had to hear from somebody else. Um, So
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: I was just really frustrated, I think in general, the
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: fact that he just wouldn't open with me, Like I'm
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: infolded when people feel like they can't be honest with
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: me because I'm a super understanding person and like, I
• 23:57
  Speaker 1: get the whole idea of paradise is to be other people.
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: So I honestly was just insulted that he didn't feel
• 24:03
  Speaker 1: comfortable enough to even come up and talk to me,
• 24:05
  Speaker 1: agc honest with me. So at first I was like, Okay, well,
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: I just want to clear the air. And then at
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: that nighttime he was talking about Tatia and stuff in
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: front of me and like getting all upset about the
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: Derek situation, like saying that Derek is just using Tatia
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: for his podcast and stuff, And I was like, why
• 24:26
  Speaker 1: are you so upset with Derek when, like Derek nor
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: I had any idea that you had such strong feelings
• 24:31
  Speaker 1: for Tasia, Like we were both blindsided about the fact
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: that you felt so strongly about Tatia. So at that
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: point I got a little heated. So that's when I
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: called him out. And then when he called me like
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: you're a big girl, you know, at that moment, I
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: was like, oh my gosh, like, don't be condescending towards me.
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: So I kind of freaked out a little bit. So
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: who is j p J. Is he this lovable guy
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: who it's like just as as a hopeless romantic or
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: is he this selfish, kind of backstabbing guy and I
• 25:06
  Speaker 1: am I exaggerating there does extremes? Or is he a
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: bit of both? I would say overall JPJ is literally
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: the kindest and sweetest guy like you'll ever meet. He's
• 25:18
  Speaker 1: definitely awkward and weird and goofy, but I love that
• 25:21
  Speaker 1: about him. But overall, I think that JPJ was just
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: in a really awkward position. And this is only the
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: second time he's done a show like this, and he
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: didn't make it super far on Hannah season, I don't
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: think so. I does don't think he would used to
• 25:34
  Speaker 1: all of this, and especially because he was only dating Hannah,
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: like now he was here in Paradise dating multiple women.
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: I don't think that he knew how to navigate it correctly.
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: And while I think that he handled my situation poorly,
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: I overall think JPJ is like the lovable guy that
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: everybody fell in love with at first, and I have
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: no hard feelings towards jpg A. He actually reached out
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: to me recently and apologized for me everything that he did. Um,
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: and he truly is a great guy. Okay, wonderful. Yeah,
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: that's the vibe I get too. I get the vibe
• 26:06
  Speaker 1: that he's so sweet, very nice, very caring and giving,
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: which was obviously exemplified last night when he did the
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: prompt thing for Tasia. But I also get the vibe,
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: and I don't mean this in a disrespectful way, that
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: he's just immature. Yeah, he's just a little loss in
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: this environment. I mean, it isn't very natural to be
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: dating multiple people on the same strip of land. Yes,
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: I think he was also immature within the Derek situation. Uh,
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: And then I think with the Hailey situation, and so
• 26:34
  Speaker 1: I think John Paul Jones also recognizes that, which I
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: don't think is a negative thing, because we all have
• 26:39
  Speaker 1: our faults, and as long as we are aware of
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: them and try to work on them, then there's I
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: don't see anything really wrong with that, right? All all
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: with good intentions pretty much, It's kind of like Dean.
• 26:51
  Speaker 1: I feel like Dean makes a lot of mistakes, but
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: he's like always has like the best in his heart. Yeah,
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: I mean they do say the past totally grew on me.
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: He's the best. Oh, that's right. You were on the
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: season with him when he was in the love trying,
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: but you're like a big thing with him. I actually right,
• 27:15
  Speaker 1: And I was not a big fan of Dean for
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: the longest time, Like I actually didn't like him, and
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: to follow him on social media and that's as possible.
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: That's the worst thing you do, someone not following on
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: social media and the Bachelor franchise. So yeah, he totally
• 27:31
  Speaker 1: grew on me. This season's a great one. So, Haley,
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: I wanted to ask you so we could put it
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: to rest once and for all, because you've seen both
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: these people close up personal in person. Does Lucas and
• 27:45
  Speaker 1: Nick vill look that much alike? They do not look
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: that much alike. All I can. I see the similarities,
• 27:52
  Speaker 1: but like not even close. So I've been trying to
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: crack this code. Why is it that they look similar
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: but also not the same at all, it's just the texture.
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: It's the hair texture. I think it's like it's even
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: like the bone structure like in their faces. Totally different
• 28:09
  Speaker 1: and like obviously so I mean Lucas kind of has
• 28:12
  Speaker 1: dad body, Like well, all the other guys were working out,
• 28:15
  Speaker 1: we guess like would not work out with them. So
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: you ended up giving a rose to Lucas or did
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: Lucas did? Yeah, so what's your relationship like right now?
• 28:29
  Speaker 1: Because right now on the show, we didn't see much
• 28:32
  Speaker 1: of you two last night, but it's still continuing. Yeah, so, um,
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: you guys have to tune in tonight to see what happens.
• 28:40
  Speaker 1: But um, as of right now, Lukes and I are
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: still talking. Are you kissing? Because you're like actually pretty
• 28:47
  Speaker 1: conservative when it comes to who you kiss on the show. Yeah,
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: I definitely conservative. I don't know what's going to happen
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: on tonight's episode, but um, Luke As kind of just
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: forces kisses on me, like I don't. I wasn't exactly.
• 29:01
  Speaker 1: I talked to Luke s and I was like, I
• 29:02
  Speaker 1: just don't know if my I'm there yet. Like romantically
• 29:05
  Speaker 1: with you, I know that like we've spent some time together,
• 29:08
  Speaker 1: but romantically I don't know if I'm that interested into you,
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: and and he just started making out with me, so
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: I think in hopes that that would see Haley Li
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: said this earlier in the In the show, we're talking
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: about the Dean and Connor and Kaitlin love triangle and
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: how you just kind of put it perfectly into one sentence.
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: How did you feel when she left with Dean? Oh,
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: my gosh. So it's so funny because I was super
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: torn between Dean and Connor. They're both great guys. I
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: think that Connor was most definitely in the facist choice.
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: But knowing me and like my personality, I would have
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: one percent gone for Dean too, Like I would have
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: left with Dean too, because who doesn't like somebody who's
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: a little bit edgy, a little mysterious. And also I
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: saw like how the passion between Kaitlin and Dean was
• 29:56
  Speaker 1: just so like they were perfect for each other before
• 29:59
  Speaker 1: he leve up, and I loved them together. So, I mean,
• 30:02
  Speaker 1: I honestly feel like she made the right choice. You're
• 30:04
  Speaker 1: basically every woman I was super happy for because I
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: do overall feel like she made the right choice. But
• 30:11
  Speaker 1: it was a tough decision, right Why do you think
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: that like the other girls who are like sort of
• 30:17
  Speaker 1: single in the house aren't going for Connor at this point.
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: I think a lot of people didn't go for Connor
• 30:22
  Speaker 1: because he was so upset and like he was also
• 30:26
  Speaker 1: I was hitting it off with Whitney at the wedding
• 30:29
  Speaker 1: and he was hoping Whitney would come down. Oh oh
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: a little behind the scenes there that very cool. They
• 30:38
  Speaker 1: were floating up the wedding. I hope when he comes
• 30:40
  Speaker 1: down for him, even though he went on the day.
• 30:42
  Speaker 1: Isn't it too late for somebody to go down right now?
• 30:44
  Speaker 1: I guess. I guess she came down, but isn't tonight
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: like make it or break at night? So I always
• 30:51
  Speaker 1: think it's silly. This last week we were like, why
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: are they even sending people down at this point? Just
• 30:59
  Speaker 1: let it breathe. That's hard. That's how I felt on
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: the season when I came down on season four and like,
• 31:04
  Speaker 1: why am I here right now? Yeah, you're not off
• 31:07
  Speaker 1: walking in late. You're not even going to shake things up.
• 31:09
  Speaker 1: Things are too far along or like people are ready
• 31:12
  Speaker 1: to leave anyway. Yeah. The problem is everybody's already so
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: exhausted from the entire process of being there, especially if
• 31:19
  Speaker 1: you're there from the first day that if you're one
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: of the final people come down, it's really hard to
• 31:25
  Speaker 1: muster up that energy to be excited to meet someone new,
• 31:28
  Speaker 1: because not that you're over it, but you're getting there. Um,
• 31:33
  Speaker 1: so Haley, you were oh totally so, Haley, you are
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: now teaching pilates in Las Vegas. Tell us a little
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: bit about that. A congratulations. Yeah, I started, Oh, thank
• 31:45
  Speaker 1: you so much. I'm super excited about it. So I
• 31:47
  Speaker 1: actually grew up being pilates as a physical pharmacysical therapy
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: for my scholiosis, and I fell in love with it then,
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: and then I kind of just you know, became super
• 31:57
  Speaker 1: lazy and when we're working out for a long time,
• 31:59
  Speaker 1: and then I got back into it and then decided
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: that I wanted to eventually teach kids with scoliosis as well.
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: So I went ahead and I got my certification and
• 32:08
  Speaker 1: I'm especially certified. That's awesome. Congratulations, Hailey, were super excited
• 32:13
  Speaker 1: for you. You and Emily actually inspired me to start
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: going to pilates. And while it's been quite a while,
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: let's say, you know, it's the only form of exercise
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: I actually don't dread doing like even though I do
• 32:25
  Speaker 1: not go, I was anymore. I was, Lenna say, I
• 32:28
  Speaker 1: gotta be honest, I didn't know that you like doing
• 32:30
  Speaker 1: those What do you mean you know that? I always
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: say like I should really just continuously go to pilates.
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: It's saying something and actually doing something or two different things.
• 32:37
  Speaker 1: But you know, it's my most enjoyable form of working out.
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: And it was because I saw Emily and Haley doing
• 32:43
  Speaker 1: it so much on Instagram that I did start going
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: and my eyes were open to it. Okay, and I
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: should back in the sing of things. But go take
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: a class with Haley. I will, I mean, maybe we'll
• 32:52
  Speaker 1: learn I hurt festival. Maybe I'll teach you. I would
• 32:57
  Speaker 1: like that you do way fancier things than I do.
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: And before we let you go, Haley, I just want
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: to see how my Instagram are totally fancy. Yeah, I
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: know that's awesome. Sorry, like bendable, um, you're like gumby um.
• 33:13
  Speaker 1: But before we go, I want to tell you that
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: my sister's boyfriend, Um, he like talks openly about how
• 33:22
  Speaker 1: attracted he is to you and Emily to Lauren. He
• 33:28
  Speaker 1: he thinks that you guys are aliens sent from another
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: planet to spread joy and beauty to the world. It's
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: pretty true. Oh my gosh, are you kidding me? I
• 33:40
  Speaker 1: think that because your sister is probably the hottest person
• 33:42
  Speaker 1: I've ever seen. You guys have always been too kind.
• 33:46
  Speaker 1: Thank you, because you're just like this. You really are aliens.
• 33:49
  Speaker 1: You really are two little, perfect looking specimens. I love you, guys.
• 33:53
  Speaker 1: I need to hang out with you all more often.
• 33:58
  Speaker 1: Surprised Jack with you next time you're in l A.
• 34:01
  Speaker 1: He'll die of a heart attack. We'll laugh so hard.
• 34:05
  Speaker 1: I don't know what he'll cry. He'll probably cry. Haley,
• 34:08
  Speaker 1: thank you so much for joining us. We are rooting
• 34:11
  Speaker 1: for you. We love you, and we wish nothing but
• 34:13
  Speaker 1: the best for you. Thank you, guys. I love you
• 34:15
  Speaker 1: guys so much. All Right, bye, Haley, Bye bye. She's
• 34:20
  Speaker 1: the sweetest, She's so cute. Haley and Emily. I mean,
• 34:24
  Speaker 1: I know, I mean, I'm just really rooting for Haley.
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: It sucks to like the whole Lucas thing. I mean,
• 34:30
  Speaker 1: judging by what she was talking about, I don't think
• 34:32
  Speaker 1: it goes anywhere, which is sad because I really would
• 34:36
  Speaker 1: like happiness for her. But if we're going to call
• 34:39
  Speaker 1: Luke as a doppel ganger. He's not let's even call
• 34:43
  Speaker 1: him that. Okay, let's not call him that. But why
• 34:45
  Speaker 1: can't Haley and Nick be together? I think that we've
• 34:47
  Speaker 1: been saying how long, I know, but have we said
• 34:50
  Speaker 1: it publicly? I just kind of want to put it
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: out there. And I'm sorry, Nick, if this annoys you,
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: it doesn't he but he comments on her Instagram all
• 34:56
  Speaker 1: the time. Can we just put it out there that
• 34:59
  Speaker 1: they should have a hacked Nick's thirty ninth birthday isn't
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: two weeks and he might at that. I don't like
• 35:06
  Speaker 1: hearing that. But should we come up with a pact,
• 35:09
  Speaker 1: like at the age should like be the age should
• 35:12
  Speaker 1: be for Haley? You should be Haley's age? Yeah, let's
• 35:15
  Speaker 1: do Haley's Haley's twenty six. Nick doesn't age. So when
• 35:18
  Speaker 1: he's like Tom Brady, Yeah, the dude looks twenty seven,
• 35:21
  Speaker 1: he's going back. He is the real life Benjamin Button.
• 35:24
  Speaker 1: So let's say that when Haley's thirty. I don't know
• 35:27
  Speaker 1: how old Haley is now, she's I just said four years.
• 35:30
  Speaker 1: That's way too long. Seven. She's got what when's your birthday?
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: Uh's her birthday? She's got a year Let's give her
• 35:38
  Speaker 1: a year from now. If nothing happens in the year
• 35:40
  Speaker 1: Haley and Nick get married, so many people are going
• 35:42
  Speaker 1: to be like, you're going to give her till twenty
• 35:44
  Speaker 1: seven to find her person. I found you at seven,
• 35:49
  Speaker 1: many years. I just want this to happen, though. That's
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: why I'm expediting the process. I think it makes sense,
• 35:55
  Speaker 1: makes sense to be going. She's funny, she'll try and
• 36:00
  Speaker 1: him she'll you know, and he loves a good back
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: and forth, he does. And he also needs someone who's
• 36:05
  Speaker 1: a little easy going. But she's going to do it
• 36:07
  Speaker 1: in a playful way, not in an angrily way. No. Yeah,
• 36:10
  Speaker 1: and he also needs someone to give back to him.
• 36:12
  Speaker 1: She's like a very nice compliment to him. Anyway, we
• 36:15
  Speaker 1: should stop talking about it because I'm sure we'll get
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: text miss later on today. So let's move on. Okay,
• 36:22
  Speaker 1: let's take a break first, and then we have to
• 36:25
  Speaker 1: talk about Blake and Christina, who, so people are saying,
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• 40:08
  Speaker 1: So last week, remember how Blake all of a sudden
• 40:11
  Speaker 1: was like she's been here all along she's been here,
• 40:14
  Speaker 1: right in front of my eyes, under my nose, and
• 40:17
  Speaker 1: I didn't realize until now I'm meant to be with Christina.
• 40:21
  Speaker 1: And I think, like a lot of people are like, oh,
• 40:24
  Speaker 1: Blake is either like getting delusional in Paradise or he's
• 40:29
  Speaker 1: desperate for a rose, or I guess there's a very
• 40:33
  Speaker 1: slim percentage that he actually means this. And then this
• 40:38
  Speaker 1: week watching them and all of his excitement and giddiness
• 40:42
  Speaker 1: of a Christina and how many tears he shed when
• 40:47
  Speaker 1: she left Paradise and broke up with him, I was like, oh, crap,
• 40:52
  Speaker 1: he's been genuine. I believe that he's been genuine. And
• 40:55
  Speaker 1: I actually think that like Blake, for as bad of
• 40:58
  Speaker 1: a rap as he's gotten throughout this season, has remained
• 41:01
  Speaker 1: pretty genuine. And again, I think it's one of those
• 41:03
  Speaker 1: situations where it's like he messed up a lot, but
• 41:06
  Speaker 1: he's only had good intentions at heart. Yeah, it's I
• 41:10
  Speaker 1: don't know, no. I mean they say that the path
• 41:13
  Speaker 1: to hell is paved with good intentions, and I think
• 41:15
  Speaker 1: that could be used to describe Blake's Paradise experience, because
• 41:20
  Speaker 1: I do think Blake is uh. I think he's very
• 41:24
  Speaker 1: nice I really do. Um, And he's been nothing too
• 41:28
  Speaker 1: nice to us, and anytime I see him, he has
• 41:30
  Speaker 1: been very personal. I think he's messed up a lot.
• 41:33
  Speaker 1: I think Blake is the guy that just got in
• 41:35
  Speaker 1: over his head. You know, he finished second on becka season.
• 41:39
  Speaker 1: Everybody loved him, was reaching out to him, you know,
• 41:43
  Speaker 1: was worth. I mean a lot of people were probably
• 41:46
  Speaker 1: throwing themselves at him. Um. And I think he just
• 41:49
  Speaker 1: got in over his head. Uh. And so I'm not
• 41:52
  Speaker 1: excusing his behavior. He needs to take responsibility for it.
• 41:55
  Speaker 1: And I think he is as of right now. Um
• 41:58
  Speaker 1: And I what. I think it's like he got wrapped
• 42:01
  Speaker 1: up in that playboy lifestyle. Right. But I think he's
• 42:05
  Speaker 1: such a hopeless romantic when he lets himself feel. I mean,
• 42:08
  Speaker 1: I don't know if he's romantic or not. How does
• 42:11
  Speaker 1: somebody know, you don't think so. I think that he's
• 42:13
  Speaker 1: just being aware of his downfall. And I don't think he's,
• 42:20
  Speaker 1: let me say this. I don't think he's trying to
• 42:21
  Speaker 1: do it to save face. I think he is being
• 42:23
  Speaker 1: honest in the moment and truly thinks that Christina is
• 42:27
  Speaker 1: someone he could see a future with. I do believe that.
• 42:29
  Speaker 1: I can't call him not a hopeless romantic. Think about
• 42:31
  Speaker 1: how he reacted on Becca season. When he falls, he
• 42:34
  Speaker 1: falls hard. And I don't understand how somebody can be
• 42:38
  Speaker 1: a playboy and a hopeless romantic at the same time. Though. Ah, right,
• 42:43
  Speaker 1: that doesn't go together. I see it in your face. No,
• 42:45
  Speaker 1: I mean it can go together. I mean life is gray.
• 42:48
  Speaker 1: Life is in the gray area. It's not like you
• 42:50
  Speaker 1: can be one thing. It's not like you're either a
• 42:52
  Speaker 1: good person or you're a bad person. Each person has
• 42:54
  Speaker 1: both good and bad within them and capable of doing both.
• 42:57
  Speaker 1: Sounds like you've been watching a lot of Star Wars. No,
• 42:59
  Speaker 1: I'm just saying. I mean I do watch a lot
• 43:01
  Speaker 1: of Star Wars, but I'm just saying that everything is
• 43:05
  Speaker 1: not black and white. For example, Blake can be hopeless Manti. Sure,
• 43:08
  Speaker 1: you're absolutely right, but that doesn't mean that he can't
• 43:11
  Speaker 1: have mess ups that pertains to relationships in women. You know. Um,
• 43:16
  Speaker 1: And so I do believe Blake in in the moment
• 43:19
  Speaker 1: with Christina. I think he really wants to try to
• 43:21
  Speaker 1: make it work. Um, I think he goes a little
• 43:24
  Speaker 1: bit overboard, even when he said I could see Christina
• 43:28
  Speaker 1: being the mother of my children. Don't you think that's
• 43:30
  Speaker 1: what everybody goes south for everybody. It's like as soon
• 43:33
  Speaker 1: as you say, like, I see marriage with this person,
• 43:35
  Speaker 1: then it immediately scoots forward to the scene in which
• 43:38
  Speaker 1: that person is breaking up with so and so. Of course,
• 43:41
  Speaker 1: the show does a fantastic job of setting it up,
• 43:43
  Speaker 1: you know, because you just see it coming, because you
• 43:45
  Speaker 1: know the producers. Isn't the producers in the room. And
• 43:48
  Speaker 1: it's like, can you see having a life with Christina
• 43:52
  Speaker 1: with children in marriage? And then he goes yeah, and
• 43:55
  Speaker 1: they're like, can you put that in a full sentence?
• 43:58
  Speaker 1: I can totally see life of errors and children with Christina.
• 44:02
  Speaker 1: I mean, I think Christina has had a few moments
• 44:04
  Speaker 1: that I've been frustrated towards. And I like Christina. We've
• 44:08
  Speaker 1: met Christina a few times and she's been very personal
• 44:11
  Speaker 1: and kind towards us, and I like her as a person.
• 44:14
  Speaker 1: But I think there have been a lot of moments
• 44:16
  Speaker 1: within this Paradise season uh that haven't been her best.
• 44:20
  Speaker 1: I didn't like when she went up to Dean earlier
• 44:23
  Speaker 1: in this episode and tried to insert herself in that
• 44:25
  Speaker 1: situation by saying Dean was selfish when he was coming
• 44:28
  Speaker 1: back for Calin. Yeah, I just I just didn't think
• 44:31
  Speaker 1: that it was really needed for her to come over
• 44:33
  Speaker 1: and tell him that, Um, because he was coming form
• 44:36
  Speaker 1: Calin and not Christina. Wait what about when she's told
• 44:39
  Speaker 1: Calin she was like, if he does you wrong, I'm
• 44:41
  Speaker 1: I'm going to back you up, even though we've had
• 44:43
  Speaker 1: our differences. Um sure you know, yeah, girl code, I
• 44:47
  Speaker 1: I don't mind that. I like that. Like I said,
• 44:49
  Speaker 1: it wasn't that that I minded. It was just her
• 44:51
  Speaker 1: like make seeking her way over to the day bit.
• 44:53
  Speaker 1: And maybe you know, maybe that wasn't like her initial thought.
• 44:57
  Speaker 1: Maybe somebody was like, hey, go over there and talk
• 44:59
  Speaker 1: to Dean. But who knows. Um. But within this moment,
• 45:03
  Speaker 1: I think I've been frustrated with the whole Christina and
• 45:05
  Speaker 1: Blake thing because I think, for my opinion, I don't
• 45:10
  Speaker 1: know this for a fact. Obviously, I don't think she's
• 45:13
  Speaker 1: really ever been into Blake this entire Paradise season. Um. Yeah,
• 45:17
  Speaker 1: I'm not really sure where people are saying she loves him,
• 45:21
  Speaker 1: like she's so in love with him, like that's her guy,
• 45:23
  Speaker 1: and like I was like, I don't really see that.
• 45:25
  Speaker 1: I I've always no, I think and I think we
• 45:27
  Speaker 1: were proven right this episode where he was actively trying
• 45:30
  Speaker 1: to show her that, hey, I'm only here for you,
• 45:33
  Speaker 1: and I know that I've messed up, but I really
• 45:35
  Speaker 1: want to take time to build this relationship back up,
• 45:38
  Speaker 1: and I'm willing to be patient with you because I've
• 45:41
  Speaker 1: done so much, you know, wrong towards you. Um and
• 45:46
  Speaker 1: from the very beginning when she not at the beginning
• 45:49
  Speaker 1: of the season, but when she finally gave him that
• 45:52
  Speaker 1: rose and said she wants to work towards a relationship
• 45:55
  Speaker 1: with him, I it was just it did seem like
• 45:59
  Speaker 1: excuse at excuse you after excuse of her continuing to
• 46:02
  Speaker 1: tell Blake, you know, you need to keep working harder,
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: you need to show me, you need to show me,
• 46:06
  Speaker 1: and she kept saying it, and at a point, I
• 46:08
  Speaker 1: think for me, I thought, Okay, well you need to
• 46:11
  Speaker 1: start opening up a little bit because he's actively trying
• 46:14
  Speaker 1: and I understand Christina's hesitations, but throughout that that this relationship,
• 46:20
  Speaker 1: I just thought to myself, Christina, you have to start
• 46:22
  Speaker 1: letting him a little bit more. And then it came
• 46:24
  Speaker 1: to a point where she continued to say it, where
• 46:25
  Speaker 1: I thought to myself, is this an excuse does she
• 46:28
  Speaker 1: not like him? And then obviously when they you know,
• 46:33
  Speaker 1: he did this grand Jester, Uh, she obviously said I
• 46:36
  Speaker 1: don't see this going anywhere and never really gave it
• 46:39
  Speaker 1: a shot. So I to me, it kind of made
• 46:42
  Speaker 1: me think maybe I was right, and maybe she didn't
• 46:45
  Speaker 1: really like him and kind of was just putting it off.
• 46:49
  Speaker 1: I wonder what their relationship was like last fall when
• 46:51
  Speaker 1: they were dating in real life, and I wonder what
• 46:53
  Speaker 1: her feelings were like. Then we'll have to have both
• 46:55
  Speaker 1: of them on and talk about what that was, because
• 46:58
  Speaker 1: even though I don't think they were ever like exclusive,
• 47:01
  Speaker 1: they were like dating to a certain degree. I feel
• 47:03
  Speaker 1: like talking a bit. So Yeah, and maybe Christina couldn't
• 47:06
  Speaker 1: just get over it, you know, maybe she was like,
• 47:07
  Speaker 1: I'm too hurt pipe blake to what he's done in
• 47:08
  Speaker 1: the past, and there's nothing wrong with that. What my
• 47:11
  Speaker 1: point being is whether that was the case of her
• 47:15
  Speaker 1: not liking him here or if she just never really
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: liked him. Either way, I just I guess I didn't
• 47:20
  Speaker 1: really or she was like, we've been there, done that.
• 47:22
  Speaker 1: I didn't. We didn't feel it enough in real life
• 47:24
  Speaker 1: to revisit it again now, Yeah, which is why I
• 47:27
  Speaker 1: guess I was confused when she kept saying, um, you
• 47:29
  Speaker 1: have to show me, or was it was just more
• 47:31
  Speaker 1: of I guess I didn't like because it was a
• 47:33
  Speaker 1: little like you gotta show me, you gotta show me.
• 47:35
  Speaker 1: And then I thought to myself, I was like, I
• 47:37
  Speaker 1: wonder if she is she she likes him enough to
• 47:39
  Speaker 1: see a relationship because I just don't see it. Maybe
• 47:41
  Speaker 1: I'm wrong, maybe I can't see it. And then obviously
• 47:43
  Speaker 1: it came to version last night where she told him
• 47:45
  Speaker 1: I don't see a future with you. So I got
• 47:47
  Speaker 1: multiple tweets last night saying that Christina and like could
• 47:51
  Speaker 1: be you and me, because I guess everybody makes but
• 47:55
  Speaker 1: fourth you know, as in like they were together and
• 47:57
  Speaker 1: they're not together, and they were together and they're not together.
• 47:59
  Speaker 1: But I mean, I we didn't feel this. But then again,
• 48:03
  Speaker 1: so many people watched us and they were like, that's
• 48:06
  Speaker 1: never gonna happen. But I really don't think this is
• 48:08
  Speaker 1: gonna happen. Each relationship is different, each person is different everything.
• 48:11
  Speaker 1: You know, everybody likes to make comparisons in life. Uh,
• 48:14
  Speaker 1: so I I don't see a lot of parallels between that.
• 48:18
  Speaker 1: But um, I do also want to say with the
• 48:20
  Speaker 1: Christina thing and the Blake thing. I'm really glad that
• 48:24
  Speaker 1: they ended up both leaving because I looking good. I'm
• 48:26
  Speaker 1: glad that they both left like looking good the same.
• 48:28
  Speaker 1: And I think Christina, I'm really glad she didn't stick
• 48:31
  Speaker 1: around after telling Blake it wasn't gonna go anywhere. I'm
• 48:34
  Speaker 1: glad she left. I think it was a really good
• 48:35
  Speaker 1: move by her. Um. And then I think Blake the
• 48:39
  Speaker 1: same thing once he found out it wasn't gonna work out,
• 48:41
  Speaker 1: kind of you know, go his merry way and leave Paradise. Uh.
• 48:47
  Speaker 1: I will say there was a little part of me
• 48:49
  Speaker 1: that was quite sad to see Blake go. I'm just glad.
• 48:53
  Speaker 1: I'm just glad that Blake got over the hump and
• 48:56
  Speaker 1: that he left Paradise looking like a sympathetic character. We
• 49:00
  Speaker 1: actually want him to find love again because he seemed
• 49:04
  Speaker 1: to have like, really developed feelings for Christina. I think
• 49:08
  Speaker 1: Blake's just a character. He's been a very prominent character
• 49:11
  Speaker 1: on this show, and from an audience member, uh, you know,
• 49:15
  Speaker 1: as as Blake's friend, I obviously want him the best
• 49:17
  Speaker 1: for him and hopefully he can grow from this experience
• 49:19
  Speaker 1: and get better, but also just from pure entertainment standpoint.
• 49:22
  Speaker 1: Seeing Blake leave, I thought to myself, Wow, that's it
• 49:25
  Speaker 1: almost felt real to me that the show is coming
• 49:27
  Speaker 1: to a conclusion, because I was like, Wow, Blake's gone,
• 49:29
  Speaker 1: Blake's gone. I think you thought deeper about your feelings
• 49:32
  Speaker 1: than I did, because now listening to you say this,
• 49:35
  Speaker 1: I found in that moment of him leaving myself thinking
• 49:40
  Speaker 1: I wonder if he'll come back next year, Like thinking
• 49:42
  Speaker 1: like a little part of me wanted him to come
• 49:44
  Speaker 1: back next year. Yeah, there's some reason. I think we
• 49:46
  Speaker 1: both felt similar. For some reason, we were quite sad
• 49:49
  Speaker 1: to see Blake go. I think he's you know, listen,
• 49:52
  Speaker 1: he did a lot of wrongs and caused a lot
• 49:56
  Speaker 1: of drama, but it was also entertaining. And I also
• 50:00
  Speaker 1: think like, uh uh it just you can kind of
• 50:03
  Speaker 1: feel the season coming to an end, and uh I
• 50:06
  Speaker 1: think that really came hit home with me when seeing
• 50:09
  Speaker 1: Blake leave, I'm like, wow, yeah, it's already almost over. Crazy,
• 50:13
  Speaker 1: You're sad Paradise is over. I think it's for some reason,
• 50:17
  Speaker 1: it reminded me of Word has a very complicated relationship
• 50:20
  Speaker 1: with Paradise. He wants to watch it and he hates
• 50:24
  Speaker 1: watching you at the same time. It's tough. I don't uh,
• 50:29
  Speaker 1: I don't watch every minute of it. It's a tough
• 50:32
  Speaker 1: not the show itself is fantastic. I'm not he experienced it,
• 50:34
  Speaker 1: you guys. It's not because like he doesn't think it's
• 50:37
  Speaker 1: a good show. It's like it comes with a lot
• 50:39
  Speaker 1: of way with Jared's a lot of baggage, you know, uh,
• 50:42
  Speaker 1: us going through it, all the drama that we had
• 50:44
  Speaker 1: to go through, the stress. Uh, It's it's sometimes hard
• 50:48
  Speaker 1: to watch back because you immediately insert yourself back into
• 50:51
  Speaker 1: that moment that you were in while experiencing Paradise. And
• 50:54
  Speaker 1: I think, honestly, uh, that's why maybe the Blake situation
• 50:59
  Speaker 1: I felt a little bit sympathetic when he left was
• 51:02
  Speaker 1: because I remember, uh, I can't remember exactly which person
• 51:07
  Speaker 1: it was that left when we were on Paradise, but
• 51:09
  Speaker 1: it felt the very same way where I was like, wow,
• 51:12
  Speaker 1: that person left. He was here from day one, like
• 51:15
  Speaker 1: who I forget, but it was like, wow, they're gone,
• 51:18
  Speaker 1: this is almost over. And for some reason I felt
• 51:20
  Speaker 1: the same way towards Blake yesterday. Weird. I know, I
• 51:23
  Speaker 1: don't have to think about who that was, but first
• 51:26
  Speaker 1: we have to take a break. After the break, we're
• 51:28
  Speaker 1: going to talk about Demi and Christian, Chris and Katie
• 51:31
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• 51:35
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• 51:54
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• 51:58
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• 53:55
  Speaker 1: let's zip through a couple of little things. Connor and
• 53:57
  Speaker 1: Rivian are on a date that seems like it was fine,
• 54:02
  Speaker 1: but also like why well, I mean, like, come on,
• 54:05
  Speaker 1: there's nothing obviously going to happen. Why I mean, there's
• 54:08
  Speaker 1: no chemistry between him? I mean, I'm sure. I mean,
• 54:10
  Speaker 1: rev is A is a beautiful woman. She was on
• 54:13
  Speaker 1: Colton season. She had blonde hair on day one and
• 54:15
  Speaker 1: she came back with dark hair and she looks fantastic.
• 54:18
  Speaker 1: I'm surprised that she didn't asked Arnor to talk first. Uh.
• 54:21
  Speaker 1: It seemed like she kind of went through the cycle
• 54:23
  Speaker 1: of guys and it's like, well, Connor is a very
• 54:24
  Speaker 1: good looking single man right now, they should snag him.
• 54:27
  Speaker 1: I'm glad they went on the date. It was very
• 54:30
  Speaker 1: I don't even know what they did. The it was
• 54:32
  Speaker 1: like a scooter date. It was very very short. It
• 54:36
  Speaker 1: was like a four minute date. They're like, yeah, it
• 54:38
  Speaker 1: was fun, cool, and they ended up kissing and that
• 54:40
  Speaker 1: was it. There was really nothing between him. Tonight is
• 54:43
  Speaker 1: the episode in which people really have to like make decisions.
• 54:46
  Speaker 1: I think, why you throw somebody in even if she
• 54:49
  Speaker 1: is so beautiful. I mean, it's tough, right because he's
• 54:51
  Speaker 1: just getting over the heartbreak of Kalin rev comes in late.
• 54:54
  Speaker 1: I'm sure it was just a tough situation. Uh you
• 54:58
  Speaker 1: know so. I mean it's really hard to build on
• 55:00
  Speaker 1: anything at this point in Paradise when you just meet
• 55:02
  Speaker 1: Matt Donald. He is such a heartthrob right now. He's
• 55:06
  Speaker 1: like Josh Hartnett of Paradise. I don't know why, just
• 55:10
  Speaker 1: Hardnet like throw a heartthrob out there, like a little
• 55:13
  Speaker 1: outdated there. I like being outdated. I like my nineties heartthrobs.
• 55:18
  Speaker 1: Matt McDonald getting massages from Sydney and he's he's hanging
• 55:22
  Speaker 1: out Brie. I mean, just what is it about him?
• 55:24
  Speaker 1: Do you see something as a guy that I don't
• 55:27
  Speaker 1: see as a woman. I think it's the purity of
• 55:30
  Speaker 1: his purity, right, It's the innocent innocence of him. He's
• 55:32
  Speaker 1: like the A Shucks guy, and you're like, oh, the
• 55:34
  Speaker 1: A Shucks guy isn't going to break my heart? Yeah,
• 55:36
  Speaker 1: the Stocks guy. He's so sweet and kind and funny
• 55:38
  Speaker 1: and innocent, safe and and especially worship me. Yeah, especially
• 55:43
  Speaker 1: now in Paradise, everybody's coupled up. You want to be
• 55:45
  Speaker 1: coupled up. There's this really nice guy. Why not. Chris
• 55:50
  Speaker 1: and Demi kind of bonded over the fact that they're
• 55:52
  Speaker 1: not outwardly affectionate. They're not like gonna be super vulnerable,
• 55:57
  Speaker 1: lovey dovey with their love interests. Can I tell you
• 56:00
  Speaker 1: how much I love Chris season the best? I can't.
• 56:03
  Speaker 1: I don't love you guys. Remember but season two of Paradise,
• 56:07
  Speaker 1: when he came in, he was drunk off his ass.
• 56:10
  Speaker 1: He like fell into the fire, and people were like, actually,
• 56:12
  Speaker 1: you should give Chris Pokowski a try. And I'm like
• 56:15
  Speaker 1: the guy falling into the fire because he's had fifteen
• 56:18
  Speaker 1: tequila shots. No thank you, But so, I like, I
• 56:21
  Speaker 1: didn't think highly of him back then, but I am
• 56:24
  Speaker 1: so in love with watching him right now. I love
• 56:28
  Speaker 1: the because I find myself loving Chris POKOUSI I find
• 56:31
  Speaker 1: myself loving Chase on the small air time. He's getting
• 56:35
  Speaker 1: right now. I love him. I loved Derek on this season.
• 56:39
  Speaker 1: I think there's something to be said about the guys
• 56:41
  Speaker 1: growing up who are not old, they're not old at all,
• 56:45
  Speaker 1: but like in who have been through this process, who
• 56:48
  Speaker 1: are a little bit older, who are a little bit
• 56:51
  Speaker 1: more I don't want to say ready, but just like,
• 56:54
  Speaker 1: there's something about those guys that I truly love and
• 56:57
  Speaker 1: seeing them on the season it just made me really
• 57:00
  Speaker 1: like them and made me think, like, do we want
• 57:03
  Speaker 1: guys that age? Isn't it funny that Chase has only
• 57:06
  Speaker 1: been on JoJo's season and Gad I feel like he's
• 57:09
  Speaker 1: been such an integral part of the of the show. Um, yeah,
• 57:13
  Speaker 1: that is super crazy. But Chris is great. He and
• 57:16
  Speaker 1: Katie finally seemed to like have settled, like they're very
• 57:20
  Speaker 1: happy that day with the big dramatic kiss in the streets. Yeah,
• 57:24
  Speaker 1: and I loved I love that day because a lot
• 57:26
  Speaker 1: of people, I feel like, throw the love word around
• 57:29
  Speaker 1: on the on the show and they're always like, I'm
• 57:32
  Speaker 1: falling in love with you, I'm falling and falling falling,
• 57:34
  Speaker 1: And Chris was so real in that moment. Yeah, I
• 57:38
  Speaker 1: loved it because it was such a moment. It was
• 57:40
  Speaker 1: such a real moment. In real life, you don't have
• 57:43
  Speaker 1: to have these stages where it's like I could fall
• 57:45
  Speaker 1: in love and then it gets to the I'm falling
• 57:48
  Speaker 1: in love and then I'm in love. Could you imagine
• 57:50
  Speaker 1: if you did that to me, or like if anybody
• 57:52
  Speaker 1: did that in real life, or it's like this is
• 57:54
  Speaker 1: phase one, this is called falling. Yeah, it's it's just now.
• 57:58
  Speaker 1: I'm there sometimes for petitive when you see it on
• 58:01
  Speaker 1: the show, and I think for this moment with Chris
• 58:03
  Speaker 1: where he did such a good job of articulating exactly
• 58:06
  Speaker 1: how he was feeling, because a lot of times when
• 58:08
  Speaker 1: you see two people on the day, it's like you're amazing,
• 58:11
  Speaker 1: You're perfect, I see a future, I'm falling for you,
• 58:13
  Speaker 1: and then it's like this grand romantic moment and you're like, okay, great,
• 58:16
  Speaker 1: that's adorable. And then then in this moment it was
• 58:18
  Speaker 1: him and Katie and he was so real and talking
• 58:21
  Speaker 1: exactly how he felt and where he thought this was going,
• 58:23
  Speaker 1: and he's like, I do see something with you, but
• 58:25
  Speaker 1: I'm not falling for you yet, and it was just like,
• 58:28
  Speaker 1: oh god, it was such a good moment, I and
• 58:30
  Speaker 1: mature Chris Pokowski. I mean, I was in from the
• 58:33
  Speaker 1: get go about Pokowski being on this season, and I
• 58:36
  Speaker 1: feel validated because I love him on this season and
• 58:39
  Speaker 1: I love him and Katie and Katie. First of all,
• 58:41
  Speaker 1: he's hitting outside of his leg BECAUSI is a good
• 58:43
  Speaker 1: looking guy. Katie is gorgeous, like she is Rking and
• 58:48
  Speaker 1: because is a good looking guy. But he's batting out
• 58:50
  Speaker 1: of his league. And I kind of love that, love it.
• 58:52
  Speaker 1: I know, why do I love that so much? Because
• 58:54
  Speaker 1: I love that she loves him for all that, all
• 58:57
  Speaker 1: the inside, and and he looks like a damaged man,
• 59:01
  Speaker 1: you know, and I love that he's like he's like
• 59:03
  Speaker 1: a romantic lead. He's like Noah in the second half
• 59:06
  Speaker 1: of the note Book. He's damn this. And I'm like,
• 59:08
  Speaker 1: I love guys who are damage. I love people her damage.
• 59:11
  Speaker 1: And then here you have this like optimistic, beautiful young
• 59:14
  Speaker 1: woman who's like, I I want him, That's all I want.
• 59:17
  Speaker 1: And then he's like, you see the future with you.
• 59:21
  Speaker 1: I just don't know if I'm falling for you, and
• 59:23
  Speaker 1: she's just like, I just want you. That's what I want.
• 59:26
  Speaker 1: It's all right. Yeah, we kind of like love seeing this,
• 59:28
  Speaker 1: like stunning girl going after somebody who like maybe the
• 59:32
  Speaker 1: audience like doesn't understand why she's so hung up on it,
• 59:35
  Speaker 1: but it's so great. Um. Okay, So last couple that
• 59:40
  Speaker 1: we haven't mentioned yet is Demi and Christian. Christian is
• 59:44
  Speaker 1: a touch person. She her first love language is physical touch.
• 59:49
  Speaker 1: And Demi, who may may never have been a physical
• 59:53
  Speaker 1: touch person when it comes to her love languages, but
• 59:56
  Speaker 1: is expressing a little bit of insecurity because this is
• 59:59
  Speaker 1: the first time that she has to show physical touch
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 1: with somebody, with a woman that she's dating, so it's
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 1: kind of uncomfortable for her in two aspects. Um, and
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 1: she's feeling like Christian is flirting with other people, she's
• 1:00:14
  Speaker 1: being touchy with other girls just you know. Christian assures
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 1: her it's out of just friendship, and that's how she
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 1: expresses her love and affection towards everyone, not just romance, um,
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 1: you know, romantic involvement. But I feel like Christian is
• 1:00:30
  Speaker 1: she's so calming to watch, she expresses herself so well
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 1: m and she's super understanding. How do you think they're
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 1: going to get over this though? Um? Because I don't
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 1: know if they're ever going to have this compatible love language?
• 1:00:46
  Speaker 1: And why do you have that face on like you're
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 1: really concerned about them? No, I'm not concerned about them. UM.
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 1: I think watching it last night, it's a real concern.
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 1: I think a lot of couple of couples go through
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 1: this where one person's love language is different than another. UM,
• 1:01:01
  Speaker 1: and that's an obstacle you have to overcome. UM and
• 1:01:04
  Speaker 1: you kind of have to work on. And that's kind
• 1:01:07
  Speaker 1: of the basis of a relationship, right, compromise and sacrifice
• 1:01:10
  Speaker 1: and working on something that somebody else needs and and
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 1: so I on something that you may not innately have,
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 1: but trying to provide it for somebody else exactly. And
• 1:01:19
  Speaker 1: so I think last night I really liked the conversation
• 1:01:22
  Speaker 1: that they were having because I think they were talking
• 1:01:24
  Speaker 1: about something very real and that a lot of people
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 1: can relate to. Um it did am I the only
• 1:01:28
  Speaker 1: one that thought Demi was did she seem off like
• 1:01:33
  Speaker 1: a little loopie? I don't know she was overtired, but
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 1: on the date, I don't know. It was just I guess, like,
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 1: I think they're going to be fine, but just to
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 1: play devil's advocate for a second, I'm worried if this
• 1:01:47
  Speaker 1: is to play Devil's advocate, can you see them? Can
• 1:01:54
  Speaker 1: you see this being an excuse for Demi to get
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 1: out of this relationship because she's starting to feel uncomfortable. No, no,
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 1: And I think, you know, I was kind of reflecting
• 1:02:05
  Speaker 1: on my own, uh past when she was talking about
• 1:02:09
  Speaker 1: how she feels uncomfortable being in a gay relationship in
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 1: the public eye, because she always feels like is somebody
• 1:02:15
  Speaker 1: judging me, somebody looking at us and thinking that we're weird.
• 1:02:18
  Speaker 1: And I've never obviously felt that I'm I'm a straight
• 1:02:23
  Speaker 1: white male, you know. Uh, And so I think I've
• 1:02:28
  Speaker 1: always taken that for granted that I've never even thought
• 1:02:34
  Speaker 1: about looking at last night, Yeah, I saw that, and
• 1:02:38
  Speaker 1: I totally related to because I was thinking of the
• 1:02:41
  Speaker 1: exact same thing in the moment where I've never had
• 1:02:42
  Speaker 1: to deal with that that problem. And I've also never
• 1:02:45
  Speaker 1: had friends, I guess my friend group. I'm very happy
• 1:02:49
  Speaker 1: that I've been surrounded by such incredible people, because I've
• 1:02:52
  Speaker 1: never really been surrounded by people that would look at
• 1:02:54
  Speaker 1: that and say that's weird to see two people the
• 1:02:57
  Speaker 1: same second kissing. And so I think in that moment,
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 1: I had to kind of take a step back because
• 1:03:03
  Speaker 1: I've never been faced with that issue or have dealt
• 1:03:06
  Speaker 1: with it, And so I think, yeah, again, it's just
• 1:03:09
  Speaker 1: one of those things that, uh, you know, you feel
• 1:03:11
  Speaker 1: for because you never want anybody to feel judged by
• 1:03:14
  Speaker 1: the people that they love. Um, and sometimes we feel
• 1:03:18
  Speaker 1: like we're in such a woke society based on who
• 1:03:21
  Speaker 1: we associate with that you don't realize that a lot
• 1:03:24
  Speaker 1: of other people won't look at that the same way
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 1: we do. Yeah, you go to certain parts of this
• 1:03:28
  Speaker 1: country and it's like you're not even in the United
• 1:03:30
  Speaker 1: States anymore. Uh But um, yeah, so I think it's
• 1:03:34
  Speaker 1: certainly a real issue. Uh that you know, Demi has
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 1: her own insecurities, and they're very valid and and and
• 1:03:40
  Speaker 1: and I think Christian was very honest with her, just
• 1:03:44
  Speaker 1: not even knowing that that was an issue. Um. So
• 1:03:48
  Speaker 1: I don't think this is any type of derailment in
• 1:03:51
  Speaker 1: their relationship. I think they're going to be just fine.
• 1:03:54
  Speaker 1: If anything, it's probably a good demonstration of how well
• 1:03:57
  Speaker 1: they're able to talk through their issues. All Right, we
• 1:04:00
  Speaker 1: got some fun emails I want to go through before
• 1:04:04
  Speaker 1: we wrap up. Well, we got to talk about the
• 1:04:05
  Speaker 1: prom thing really quickly. I feel like we'll get a
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 1: lot of flak. We don't even mention this. That was adorable.
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 1: And not only wasn't an adorable, thoughtful gesture from JPG
• 1:04:16
  Speaker 1: to Titia. I love the way that everybody joined in
• 1:04:20
  Speaker 1: at the end. It was great. Wasn't that one of
• 1:04:22
  Speaker 1: the sweetest moments of paradise you've ever seen? It was
• 1:04:25
  Speaker 1: one of those moments that I thought, this, it needs
• 1:04:27
  Speaker 1: to be more of this, because it was such a
• 1:04:32
  Speaker 1: great moment to have every couple up there kind of
• 1:04:36
  Speaker 1: together and dancing and having fun and letting loose. And
• 1:04:41
  Speaker 1: this season has been so filled with heavy drama and
• 1:04:45
  Speaker 1: serious moments. It was really nice to just see this light,
• 1:04:50
  Speaker 1: loving moment where everybody was being ridiculous and having fun
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 1: and oh, we're at prom and it's just wonderful. It
• 1:04:59
  Speaker 1: was so fantastic. Stick I had said in one of
• 1:05:01
  Speaker 1: my recaps last week, I'm not sure if it was
• 1:05:02
  Speaker 1: this one that I said, do you guys want to
• 1:05:04
  Speaker 1: see more love and less drama? And I got multiple
• 1:05:07
  Speaker 1: tweets last night being like, actually, you got what you
• 1:05:09
  Speaker 1: wished for. There was more love in this episode between
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 1: the Dean and Kylen thing. Because that was so romantic,
• 1:05:16
  Speaker 1: um Chris and Katie and then the prom scene. Yes,
• 1:05:20
  Speaker 1: this is definitely one of my favorite episodes of the
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 1: entire season. Very sweet in in JPJ. Do you think
• 1:05:25
  Speaker 1: that himself? So you think it redeems him? I think
• 1:05:28
  Speaker 1: it redeems him just because, like he remember at the
• 1:05:31
  Speaker 1: top of the episode we were talking about just like
• 1:05:34
  Speaker 1: going for it completely and the romance around like those actions.
• 1:05:41
  Speaker 1: I think like he just is so into her. It's
• 1:05:44
  Speaker 1: just a demonstration of like he doesn't even care if
• 1:05:46
  Speaker 1: he looks like a fool sometimes. Yeah, I don't think
• 1:05:49
  Speaker 1: it completely redeems him. I think, well, I listen, I
• 1:05:52
  Speaker 1: love John Paul Jones. Okay, yeah, he doesn't redeem the
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 1: way he acted with Derek. No, no, of course, I
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 1: think Tatia should absolutely move for John because he's so
• 1:06:01
  Speaker 1: enamored and possibly falling in love with her. But I
• 1:06:04
  Speaker 1: also think that there might be some issues within the
• 1:06:07
  Speaker 1: relationship because of how John Paul Jones reacts sometimes to adversity.
• 1:06:11
  Speaker 1: But that's something very similar to like, you know, Dean
• 1:06:14
  Speaker 1: and Kalen have things to work on. John Paul Jones
• 1:06:16
  Speaker 1: a Tasia thing have things to work on. We have
• 1:06:18
  Speaker 1: things to work on Um. So that's why I don't
• 1:06:20
  Speaker 1: think it like completely eradicates it, but they can move forward.
• 1:06:25
  Speaker 1: I said that in too much of a way. He
• 1:06:29
  Speaker 1: doesn't redeem him for how he dealt with the Derek drama,
• 1:06:32
  Speaker 1: but it does redeem him in the audience continuing to
• 1:06:35
  Speaker 1: root for him with Tasia. Um, sure, you know what
• 1:06:39
  Speaker 1: I mean, Like that moment was like, Okay, Tassia, give
• 1:06:42
  Speaker 1: this a whirl. I mean, to be fair, everything he
• 1:06:44
  Speaker 1: did towards Derek was in you know, for Tasha. Well,
• 1:06:48
  Speaker 1: but his arguming no, I agree. That's why I don't
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  Speaker 1: think because I think that he was being uh ridiculous
• 1:06:55
  Speaker 1: and absurd in the moment. And he even said so yeah, okay.
• 1:06:59
  Speaker 1: We got some good emails here. The first one is
• 1:07:02
  Speaker 1: from Dina. She says, I'm hoping for you to explain
• 1:07:07
  Speaker 1: the Bachelor afterlife. That sounds morbid. It's been said that
• 1:07:12
  Speaker 1: the Bachelor does not pay contestn's a lot of money.
• 1:07:15
  Speaker 1: It's like Chris Harrison opens up the Prilli Gates a
• 1:07:17
  Speaker 1: heaven for us. The Bachelor doesn't pay their condesns a
• 1:07:21
  Speaker 1: lot of money because saw that funding love the experience
• 1:07:24
  Speaker 1: often leads to opportunities after the show. But does a
• 1:07:28
  Speaker 1: person support them how does a person support themselves after
• 1:07:31
  Speaker 1: the Bachelor? Like, what are Colton and Cassie doing now
• 1:07:33
  Speaker 1: for a living? Well, I think first of all, we
• 1:07:35
  Speaker 1: should never speak on casting Colin's behalf. We don't know
• 1:07:37
  Speaker 1: what they're doing. We know they're both hard working. Uh
• 1:07:41
  Speaker 1: we've I've only met Cassie once. I think met Colin
• 1:07:44
  Speaker 1: a couple of times. Dude's a hard worker. Um, So
• 1:07:46
  Speaker 1: I know whatever they're doing, they're working hard at it. Um.
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  Speaker 1: I think it's different for every contestant. It's very frustrating
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  Speaker 1: when we get tweets though, or or Instagram comments that
• 1:07:55
  Speaker 1: say that we don't have a job, or like do
• 1:07:57
  Speaker 1: you have a real job, as if like you doing
• 1:08:00
  Speaker 1: hosting and stuff isn't a real job, or if you're
• 1:08:02
  Speaker 1: having fun with your job that it's not a real job,
• 1:08:05
  Speaker 1: or it's not actually hard work because we get to
• 1:08:08
  Speaker 1: do a lot of fun stuff, but it's not like
• 1:08:11
  Speaker 1: it's not all a big party our life. No. Um.
• 1:08:15
  Speaker 1: I think it's just different work. Like I, you know,
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  Speaker 1: I was working fifty hours a week, you know, grinding
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  Speaker 1: away before going on the show, and then continuing after
• 1:08:27
  Speaker 1: the show and I think you know, work has just
• 1:08:29
  Speaker 1: adjusted to what is best for me, what's best for you,
• 1:08:33
  Speaker 1: and what's best for us together. If you want to
• 1:08:36
  Speaker 1: like kind of recap with Jared and I have done
• 1:08:38
  Speaker 1: over the past twenty four hours. Jared hosts this sports
• 1:08:42
  Speaker 1: app called Hofer. He went on that on Sunday night.
• 1:08:46
  Speaker 1: Go check it out. It's not just a sports app.
• 1:08:47
  Speaker 1: We do TV too, and it's really film. It's a
• 1:08:50
  Speaker 1: really cool you can do Bachelor, there's Bachelor in Paradise.
• 1:08:53
  Speaker 1: Hofer to where you like submit your predictions for that
• 1:08:57
  Speaker 1: night's episode and then you win money. Anyway, we're not
• 1:09:00
  Speaker 1: I don't want to plug it. Well, I mean I
• 1:09:01
  Speaker 1: can if I want to. But you like it and
• 1:09:03
  Speaker 1: you host. I love it because it's it's not only
• 1:09:05
  Speaker 1: sports up. So what pretty much happens? We asked you
• 1:09:08
  Speaker 1: as you ten questions, you give us ten predictions, you
• 1:09:10
  Speaker 1: have a chance to win free money. It's a free
• 1:09:12
  Speaker 1: app to play, it's offer it's really fun. Well hosts
• 1:09:14
  Speaker 1: as well. Yeah, It's just it's something that I really
• 1:09:17
  Speaker 1: truly believe in. Well, Jared was doing that. I flew
• 1:09:19
  Speaker 1: over to New York. I woke up. I had an
• 1:09:20
  Speaker 1: event at Fashion week did some promotional stuff, but you
• 1:09:24
  Speaker 1: didn't mag care about our day to day. I don't know.
• 1:09:26
  Speaker 1: And then you were recording to podcasts over at I Heeart.
• 1:09:30
  Speaker 1: Here we are recording another podcast at I Heeart, and
• 1:09:32
  Speaker 1: then we're going to rehearsal for an MTV reunion show
• 1:09:35
  Speaker 1: that Jared and I are hosting. We don't think you know.
• 1:09:37
  Speaker 1: It's a lot of miscellaneous stuff, but it's not just fun.
• 1:09:43
  Speaker 1: It's fun work. We work hard, but we have fun
• 1:09:45
  Speaker 1: with it. And we're very, very lucky and grateful for
• 1:09:47
  Speaker 1: all the opportunities that the Bachelor has given us, that
• 1:09:50
  Speaker 1: is for sure. Thank you for your question. Next emails
• 1:09:53
  Speaker 1: from Carly Sunglasses in Paradise. We've noticed that no one
• 1:09:56
  Speaker 1: wears sunglasses of Paradise. Is this avoid? Is this so
• 1:10:01
  Speaker 1: that the wait? Is this to avoid seeing the team?
• 1:10:06
  Speaker 1: I'm assuming product reflections. Yeah, it's a connection thing. Could
• 1:10:11
  Speaker 1: you imagine if you couldn't see the emotion and connection
• 1:10:15
  Speaker 1: behind somebody's eyes in Paradise? Yeah? I say a lot,
• 1:10:18
  Speaker 1: and I think everybody wants to see people lies when
• 1:10:21
  Speaker 1: they're talking about love and relationships and all that good stuff.
• 1:10:24
  Speaker 1: Didn't doesn't Dr Phil say something like communication? Is always
• 1:10:27
  Speaker 1: seven verbal because yeah, yeah, he says that could you
• 1:10:33
  Speaker 1: imagine well with sunglasses? No, it makes perfect sense of
• 1:10:38
  Speaker 1: why they don't want cast members to wear the eyes.
• 1:10:40
  Speaker 1: Like I said, they're very telling and so you want
• 1:10:43
  Speaker 1: to see them. You see the love in her person's
• 1:10:45
  Speaker 1: eyes or they hate okay, um. This is from Caitlin.
• 1:10:52
  Speaker 1: She says, have a few questions about Ashley and Jared's wedding. Well,
• 1:10:54
  Speaker 1: that's great because we're together here. First of all, wondering
• 1:10:57
  Speaker 1: if they took a type of dance lesson in order
• 1:11:01
  Speaker 1: for preparation for your first dance, and what tips do
• 1:11:04
  Speaker 1: you have for people who are currently engaged in planning
• 1:11:06
  Speaker 1: a wedding Like myself, we didn't take dance lessons because
• 1:11:11
  Speaker 1: it is just one dance and we kind of like
• 1:11:15
  Speaker 1: dance around and parking lots and grocery store aisles all
• 1:11:18
  Speaker 1: the time, have him spin me everywhere, and my dress
• 1:11:22
  Speaker 1: itself kind of just danced for me. And honestly, when
• 1:11:26
  Speaker 1: planning your wedding, the last thing you want to spend
• 1:11:29
  Speaker 1: more on is a dance lesson. It's like, don't spend
• 1:11:33
  Speaker 1: the extra money, but like pretend like you know what
• 1:11:36
  Speaker 1: you're doing. Yeah, we did a couple of twirls. It
• 1:11:38
  Speaker 1: was really fun. People were oong and eyeing, and they
• 1:11:41
  Speaker 1: made us feel like we knew we were doing or
• 1:11:43
  Speaker 1: at least doing a good job. And our other advice
• 1:11:46
  Speaker 1: for any engaged couples planning a wedding currently would be
• 1:11:50
  Speaker 1: to make it your own wedding too. Obviously he's the best.
• 1:11:54
  Speaker 1: Somebody actually commented on the help my second dating podcast
• 1:11:57
  Speaker 1: was like stop at the wedding ads because I mentioned
• 1:11:59
  Speaker 1: Troy's name and I was like, that's not an ad.
• 1:12:01
  Speaker 1: We just really love Troy and what people to use
• 1:12:03
  Speaker 1: him for his wedding because we want him to do
• 1:12:06
  Speaker 1: every wedding and Troy was very much paid. Well, yeah,
• 1:12:10
  Speaker 1: that's besides the point, but um are My best advice
• 1:12:14
  Speaker 1: is to truly make your wedding as much about you
• 1:12:17
  Speaker 1: as possible, and that means integrating your personality into every
• 1:12:22
  Speaker 1: aspect of it. And for Ashley and I, we worked
• 1:12:25
  Speaker 1: really hard on our wedding. We spent a lot of
• 1:12:26
  Speaker 1: money and we wanted to make sure that we tried
• 1:12:28
  Speaker 1: to make it our own as possible and personalizing. Even
• 1:12:32
  Speaker 1: something like David Cook singing, who's been so meaningful to
• 1:12:35
  Speaker 1: Ashley over the past ten to fifteen years or more
• 1:12:38
  Speaker 1: than that ten years, um, and to like we and
• 1:12:43
  Speaker 1: and our wedding planner, he did this, We didn't know,
• 1:12:46
  Speaker 1: but they were like these detailed mirrors throughout the ballroom
• 1:12:50
  Speaker 1: and cocktail hour that had inscriptions of quotes that we
• 1:12:53
  Speaker 1: really love. Um. And then to even like the band
• 1:12:56
  Speaker 1: playing Disney songs. Uh so we really yeah, we hand
• 1:12:59
  Speaker 1: picked every song that was played at the wedding. So
• 1:13:01
  Speaker 1: like details like that, like gets your hands on them,
• 1:13:04
  Speaker 1: there possible and you know what, and it makes all
• 1:13:06
  Speaker 1: the difference in the world because like for me personally,
• 1:13:08
  Speaker 1: one quick story, I really wanted Shallow to be played
• 1:13:11
  Speaker 1: at the wedding because it's just the song that really
• 1:13:14
  Speaker 1: pulls out my heart strings and hearing that played in
• 1:13:17
  Speaker 1: the ballroom live dancing to it was a moment that
• 1:13:20
  Speaker 1: I'll never forget. And I'm so happy that I asked
• 1:13:24
  Speaker 1: that song to be played. And both actually and I
• 1:13:25
  Speaker 1: wanted that song to be played, and it was just
• 1:13:27
  Speaker 1: one of those things like I'm so happy we asked
• 1:13:30
  Speaker 1: because it created one of my favorite moments for the wedding.
• 1:13:32
  Speaker 1: So stuff like that that would be my best advice.
• 1:13:34
  Speaker 1: Don't be afraid to ask. Yeah, the moment, the musical
• 1:13:37
  Speaker 1: moment that I am so regretful for missing because I
• 1:13:40
  Speaker 1: had to go do my costume change was they dropped
• 1:13:45
  Speaker 1: this curtain right after we did like some speeches, and
• 1:13:49
  Speaker 1: then they started playing Beauty and the Beast and I
• 1:13:51
  Speaker 1: ran upstairs and in the moment it felt like I
• 1:13:54
  Speaker 1: was like Cinderella running up the stairs, and it felt
• 1:13:56
  Speaker 1: very much like a fairy tale. But it was also
• 1:13:59
  Speaker 1: a moment that I missed downstairs that I was regretful for. Ye. Well,
• 1:14:02
  Speaker 1: and all that stress will be worth it, and it
• 1:14:05
  Speaker 1: was incredible. Get good videographers and photographers to capture the
• 1:14:09
  Speaker 1: whole thing, because you will miss moments and it'll be
• 1:14:12
  Speaker 1: nice to be able to see eventually. Definitely, I think
• 1:14:15
  Speaker 1: everybody will have a photographer, but we had wonderful videographers
• 1:14:17
  Speaker 1: as well. So um, anyway, that's our wedding advice. Alright, guys, well,
• 1:14:22
  Speaker 1: this is a fantastic episode. I love doing it with you,
• 1:14:25
  Speaker 1: Jared h taking with you. Ah well, thank you. I
• 1:14:30
  Speaker 1: love doing it with you as well. But also miss Ben.
• 1:14:32
  Speaker 1: We really miss Ben. Ben is just Benson's saying a
• 1:14:34
  Speaker 1: weird on Twitter yesterday about the fact that I think
• 1:14:37
  Speaker 1: he may have worded it wrong, but he was like,
• 1:14:39
  Speaker 1: I hate the Patriots even more because Jared loves him
• 1:14:43
  Speaker 1: so much. Well, I don't know, but I think just
• 1:14:47
  Speaker 1: everybody's really hating the Patriots right now. They just signed
• 1:14:50
  Speaker 1: Antonio Brown. They beat down the Steelers thirty three to three,
• 1:14:53
  Speaker 1: and it's like, oh my god, here we go again.
• 1:14:56
  Speaker 1: You guys. He's really brought me to the dark side.
• 1:14:58
  Speaker 1: I do. I just really love me five minutes with anybody,
• 1:15:01
  Speaker 1: they'll be a Patriots fan because I have a way
• 1:15:04
  Speaker 1: we have to do is watch any just go follow
• 1:15:08
  Speaker 1: Julian Edelman on Instagram. Yeah, you're gonna him. He's the
• 1:15:11
  Speaker 1: best best. Okay, we're so off topic anyway, let's not
• 1:15:14
  Speaker 1: talk about that. But we've missed Ben and we love
• 1:15:16
  Speaker 1: Bend and Ben's a freaking best, awesome person. Like I
• 1:15:21
  Speaker 1: can't tell you how much I appreciate that human being
• 1:15:23
  Speaker 1: and him being at the wedding and there's just so
• 1:15:25
  Speaker 1: many moments that we had together and we don't hang
• 1:15:27
  Speaker 1: I I don't hang out with Ben uh that much,
• 1:15:30
  Speaker 1: just because he lives in Denver, and it sucks because
• 1:15:32
  Speaker 1: every time I do, I realize how much I love
• 1:15:34
  Speaker 1: him as a human being, and I just wish I
• 1:15:36
  Speaker 1: could spend more time with him anyway, that's mine. You
• 1:15:39
  Speaker 1: guys are gonna get plenty of Ben tomorrow. He'll be
• 1:15:41
  Speaker 1: here recapping night two of Week six, and um, that's
• 1:15:48
  Speaker 1: all I got for you. There we go perfect. I've
• 1:15:50
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