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Social Media Loveydovey · Let's Ask the Mamas!

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  Speaker 1: We got a question for American mamas. Dear mamas, what
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  Speaker 1: do you think of couples who profess their love all
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  Speaker 1: the time on social media? Well, let's ask our American mamas.
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  Speaker 2: Alma Mama.
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  Speaker 3: And joining us now.
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  Speaker 1: Our American mama is Terry Edville and Kimberly Burleson. You know,
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  Speaker 1: there are times I'll post pictures of my wife and
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  Speaker 1: we've known each other since we were fourteen, you know,
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  Speaker 1: so you know, we've got a whole bunch of old
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  Speaker 1: photos and stuff, and I'll post that sometimes. And but
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  Speaker 1: I don't I don't think we do that like every
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  Speaker 1: single day. No, but there are some couples who do
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  Speaker 1: that a lot more. Yeah, yeah, I.
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  Speaker 3: Think you're When you post about Wendy, it's usually appropriate,
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  Speaker 3: like the anniversary, like I'm sure you go for Valentine's
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  Speaker 3: or a prom date will come up and you'll have
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  Speaker 3: that old picture. But what I think you're talking about, Kimberly,
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  Speaker 3: you're talking about these couples that thou death protest not protest.
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  Speaker 2: What is the other one where you're like just too much?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, Well it's the other way where it's like, okay,
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  Speaker 3: what's going on? You're you're professing your love to such
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  Speaker 3: a degree, I'm kind of getting uncomfortable.
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  Speaker 2: So basically, I'm going to share my inner thoughts. Okay, Okay.
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  Speaker 2: So I'm on social media and there are some couples
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  Speaker 2: and it's all the time. It's like, I love my
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  Speaker 2: love for her. She's just the moment, and I'm like,
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  Speaker 2: is she not sitting next to you? I mean, this
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  Speaker 2: is weird, you know, because if you're especially when it's
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  Speaker 2: somebody that's a spouse or like a girlfriend, it's like,
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  Speaker 2: aren't they right there with you? So the fact that
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  Speaker 2: you're putting it right there on social media with her
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  Speaker 2: right next to you, I am wondering about everything.
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  Speaker 1: But what if they're not right next because I've.
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  Speaker 2: Had they are if they're married or together, they're together.
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  Speaker 1: I'm very rarely posting something on social media when Wendy's
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  Speaker 1: right there, because she's right there. I've got something we
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  Speaker 1: can talk about, so I don't have to be on
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  Speaker 1: social media to entertain myself. She's right there. We can
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  Speaker 1: talk about the.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, that's what I'm saying. Well, I'm even your love
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  Speaker 2: for each other, it's like right there. So to me,
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  Speaker 2: when I see a couple and I see somebody that's
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  Speaker 2: constantly putting it on social media. I think something's wrong.
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  Speaker 2: Something's wrong.
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  Speaker 3: People I am.
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  Speaker 2: Married, like, yeah, I will never.
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  Speaker 3: I'll read it.
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  Speaker 2: She's like divorced, Bah, why do you think that.
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  Speaker 3: She's like, I'm telling you, I'm.
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  Speaker 2: Sorry for those of you that are just very romantic
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  Speaker 2: and you like to read new your vowels. But I'm
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  Speaker 2: just telling you my inner thoughts. Okay, So I think
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  Speaker 2: something's wrong. And when I see somebody post all the time,
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  Speaker 2: I think something's wrong that you're putting it out there,
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  Speaker 2: you're professing it. I don't know why I think that,
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  Speaker 2: but I do. And so I just think that. And
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  Speaker 2: there's a balance. I do think there's a balance, like anniversary,
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  Speaker 2: wedding or memories, you know, certain little things that come
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  Speaker 2: up that's so normal and I think, oh, how cute.
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  Speaker 2: I think that's sweet. I'm talking about this all that,
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  Speaker 2: And there I've got several in mind where it's all
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  Speaker 2: the time. There's like a famous person that just happened,
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  Speaker 2: Like Shane told me, it's from the guy that was
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  Speaker 2: the Bachelor, and it's the girl he chose. They've been
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  Speaker 2: together five years. They did a whole story on it.
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  Speaker 2: They just broke up. If you were to go their instagram,
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  Speaker 2: My daughter Shane Shane said, this was goals. This relationship
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  Speaker 2: was everyone's God really, and they just had a breakup.
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  Speaker 2: And I guess while she was on the plane from
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  Speaker 2: their breakup, he put out on Instagram, you know, we're
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  Speaker 2: just going our separate ways. Please pray for us, you know,
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  Speaker 2: blah blah blah. And so she did a podcast with
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  Speaker 2: Who's Your Daddy Girl, and she was saying that it
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  Speaker 2: hurt her like she was it just went from left field.
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  Speaker 2: This is who she thought she was getting married to,
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  Speaker 2: and I thought, see you never.
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  Speaker 3: So he broke up online.
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  Speaker 2: No, they broke up. They were together, they were on
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  Speaker 2: a trip together. He broke up with her there in Europe.
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  Speaker 2: She gets on a plane to come home, and while
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  Speaker 2: she's on that twelve hour flight, he puts out a
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  Speaker 2: post for the world to see to there are millions
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  Speaker 2: of followers like pray for us, We're going our separate ways.
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  Speaker 2: And she said it devastated.
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  Speaker 3: What a dbat.
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  Speaker 2: But if you look at their Instagram, the music, the pictures,
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  Speaker 2: you would think, oh my gosh, this couple is like
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  Speaker 2: meant to be and that I was like ding ding ding, Yep,
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  Speaker 2: I'm right, I'm right.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Do you remember name's Kate or Katelyn. I don't know
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  Speaker 2: this bachelor. This is like my girls, like did you
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  Speaker 2: say you know?
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  Speaker 3: So I'm always surprised, Like you know, even if we're
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  Speaker 3: on the subject of celebrities, I am always surprised when
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  Speaker 3: they break up because you only see, like everybody puts
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  Speaker 3: their best face forward on social media. So when anybody
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  Speaker 3: breaks up, you know, all of us, the sluice, we
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  Speaker 3: start going back and looking at their like looking at
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  Speaker 3: their timeline, like see if we can figure out when
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  Speaker 3: things started changing for each other. But I don't have
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  Speaker 3: a lot of people that do that, that profess their
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  Speaker 3: love for each other. Maybe it's just my algorithm. I
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  Speaker 3: don't know. I don't know, but that is it is
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  Speaker 3: so interesting to me how we get so invested and
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  Speaker 3: we feel like that we know what, Like Kimbly's like, oh,
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  Speaker 3: something's going on. I'm gonna investigate this way. I have
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  Speaker 3: a lot of friends like if I have a question,
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  Speaker 3: they will know the answer within thirty seconds. They're like,
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  Speaker 3: oh hold on, oh well this is what happened. And
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  Speaker 3: you're like, wait, how did you do that?
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  Speaker 2: So I'm not you know what cash Battel needs to
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  Speaker 2: hire moms. Yeah, we can investigate. We can be a
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  Speaker 2: part of the FBI because we would learn stuff so fast.
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  Speaker 3: Uh huh.
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  Speaker 1: Sure the mom network knows.
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  Speaker 2: The American MoMA network. I called it the Mama vine. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: long and wide.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, growing up that that got me several times.
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  Speaker 3: If you'd like to ask.
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  Speaker 1: Our American mamas a question, go to our website American Ground,
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  Speaker 1: ask the Mama's button. Terry Nut about Kimberly bur Listen.
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  Speaker 1: Thank you so much,