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- 0:37Hey,
- 0:37when's
- 0:38the
- 0:38last
- 0:38time
- 0:38you
- 0:38actually
- 0:39gave
- 0:39yourself
- 0:39credit
- 0:40for
- 0:40progress
- 0:40with
- 0:41your
- 0:41money?
- 0:41I'm
- 0:42not
- 0:42talking
- 0:42about
- 0:42a
- 0:42perfect
- 0:43month,
- 0:43some
- 0:44giant
- 0:44breakthrough,
- 0:45just
- 0:45a
- 0:45small
- 0:46win.
- 0:46Some
- 0:47great
- 0:47examples,
- 0:47like
- 0:47you
- 0:48walked
- 0:48out
- 0:48of
- 0:48the
- 0:48grocery
- 0:49store
- 0:49and
- 0:49stayed
- 0:50under
- 0:50budget.
- 0:50Hey,
- 0:51even
- 0:51it
- 0:51was
- 0:51just
- 0:5110
- 0:51bucks.
- 0:52Or
- 0:52you
- 0:53open
- 0:53your
- 0:53bank
- 0:53app
- 0:53and
- 0:54didn't
- 0:54immediately
- 0:54close
- 0:54it
- 0:55in
- 0:55fear.
- 0:56Or
- 0:56you
- 0:56paused
- 0:57before
- 0:57you
- 0:57clicked
- 0:57Buy
- 0:58Now.
- 0:59And
- 0:59if
- 0:59your
- 0:59instinct
- 1:00is
- 1:00to
- 1:00say,
- 1:00yeah,
- 1:00but
- 1:01that's
- 1:01not
- 1:01that
- 1:01big,
- 1:02friend,
- 1:02that
- 1:02tells
- 1:03me
- 1:03everything.
- 1:04Because
- 1:04people
- 1:05trapped
- 1:05in
- 1:05financial
- 1:06shame
- 1:06don't
- 1:07understand
- 1:07how
- 1:07to
- 1:07celebrate
- 1:08progress.
- 1:08They
- 1:09just
- 1:09move
- 1:09that
- 1:09finish
- 1:10line
- 1:10and
- 1:10call
- 1:11themselves
- 1:11a
- 1:11failure.
- 1:12But
- 1:12today
- 1:12we're
- 1:13going
- 1:13to
- 1:13talk
- 1:13about
- 1:13why
- 1:14small
- 1:14wins
- 1:15that
- 1:15are
- 1:15more
- 1:15than
- 1:15you
- 1:15realize.
- 1:38Hey,
- 1:38friend.
- 1:39Ralph
- 1:39Estep
- 1:39Jr.
- 1:40Here.
- 1:40Welcome
- 1:40to
- 1:41Financially
- 1:41Confident
- 1:42Christian,
- 1:42where
- 1:42we
- 1:43learn
- 1:43how
- 1:43to
- 1:43walk
- 1:43through
- 1:43life
- 1:44and
- 1:44money
- 1:44with
- 1:44wisdom,
- 1:45with
- 1:46peace,
- 1:46and
- 1:46with
- 1:47a
- 1:47heart
- 1:47anchored
- 1:47in
- 1:47God's
- 1:48truth.
- 1:48The
- 1:49mission
- 1:49is
- 1:49simple.
- 1:50To
- 1:50help
- 1:50you
- 1:50break
- 1:50that
- 1:51cycle
- 1:51of
- 1:51financial
- 1:52shame,
- 1:52build
- 1:53those
- 1:53steady
- 1:53habits
- 1:54rooted
- 1:54in
- 1:54faith,
- 1:55and
- 1:55truly
- 1:55become
- 1:56the
- 1:56kind
- 1:56of
- 1:56believer
- 1:57who
- 1:57handles
- 1:57money
- 1:58with
- 1:58clarity,
- 1:59with
- 1:59confidence,
- 2:00and
- 2:00with
- 2:00spiritual
- 2:01purpose.
- 2:02Yesterday
- 2:02we
- 2:03talked
- 2:03about
- 2:03those
- 2:03budget
- 2:04traps,
- 2:04those
- 2:04quiet
- 2:05things
- 2:05that
- 2:05trip
- 2:05people
- 2:06up
- 2:06even
- 2:06when
- 2:07they're
- 2:07trying
- 2:07hard.
- 2:08But
- 2:08today
- 2:08we're
- 2:08going
- 2:09to
- 2:09shift
- 2:09the
- 2:09focus
- 2:10not
- 2:10to
- 2:10what's
- 2:10wrong,
- 2:11but
- 2:11to
- 2:11what's
- 2:12working.
- 2:12Because
- 2:13progress
- 2:13doesn't
- 2:13grow
- 2:14in
- 2:14constant
- 2:15criticism.
- 2:15It
- 2:16grows
- 2:16in
- 2:16encouragement.
- 2:18A
- 2:18listener
- 2:18shared
- 2:19this
- 2:19with
- 2:19me.
- 2:19Ralph,
- 2:20I'm
- 2:20doing
- 2:20better
- 2:21with
- 2:21my
- 2:21budget,
- 2:22but
- 2:22I
- 2:22still
- 2:23feel
- 2:23behind.
- 2:24It
- 2:24never
- 2:24feels
- 2:25like
- 2:25enough
- 2:25to
- 2:25celebrate.
- 2:26Shouldn't
- 2:26I
- 2:27wait
- 2:27until
- 2:27I'm
- 2:27really
- 2:27winning?
- 2:29And
- 2:29friend,
- 2:29let
- 2:29me
- 2:29tell
- 2:30you
- 2:30right
- 2:30now,
- 2:30that
- 2:30question
- 2:31is
- 2:31more
- 2:31common
- 2:31than
- 2:31you
- 2:31think.
- 2:32I
- 2:32hear
- 2:32it
- 2:32all
- 2:32the
- 2:32time.
- 2:33Because
- 2:33underneath
- 2:34that
- 2:34question
- 2:34is
- 2:35this
- 2:35question,
- 2:36Ralph,
- 2:37I
- 2:37don't
- 2:37want
- 2:37to
- 2:37celebrate
- 2:38too
- 2:38early.
- 2:39I
- 2:39don't
- 2:39want
- 2:39to
- 2:39give
- 2:39up
- 2:39my
- 2:40hopes
- 2:40up.
- 2:41I
- 2:41failed
- 2:41before,
- 2:42so
- 2:42I
- 2:43stay
- 2:43cautious.
- 2:44And
- 2:45trust
- 2:45me,
- 2:45I
- 2:45get
- 2:45that.
- 2:46But
- 2:46that's
- 2:47not
- 2:47laziness.
- 2:47That's
- 2:48a
- 2:48person
- 2:48who's
- 2:48been
- 2:48disappointed
- 2:49before
- 2:49and
- 2:50doesn't
- 2:50want
- 2:50to
- 2:50get
- 2:51hurt
- 2:51again.
- 2:51You
- 2:51put
- 2:51up
- 2:52these
- 2:52barriers,
- 2:53but
- 2:53here's
- 2:54the
- 2:54truth.
- 2:55Ignoring
- 2:55that
- 2:56process
- 2:56doesn't
- 2:57protect
- 2:57you.
- 2:57It
- 2:58actually
- 2:58drains
- 2:58you.
- 2:59And
- 2:59it
- 2:59slowly
- 2:59steals
- 3:00your
- 3:00motivation
- 3:01until
- 3:01that
- 3:01budget
- 3:02feels
- 3:02like
- 3:02punishment
- 3:03instead
- 3:03of
- 3:04wisdom.
- 3:05So
- 3:05let
- 3:05me
- 3:05say
- 3:06this
- 3:06plainly.
- 3:07What
- 3:07you
- 3:07celebrate,
- 3:08you
- 3:09repeat,
- 3:10and
- 3:10what
- 3:10you
- 3:10refuse
- 3:11to
- 3:11notice,
- 3:11you're
- 3:12going
- 3:12to
- 3:12eventually
- 3:12stop
- 3:12doing.
- 3:14Small
- 3:14wins
- 3:14aren't
- 3:15these
- 3:15cutesy
- 3:15things.
- 3:16They're
- 3:16proof
- 3:17that
- 3:17change
- 3:17is
- 3:17already
- 3:18happening.
- 3:18They're
- 3:19evidence
- 3:19that
- 3:19God
- 3:19is
- 3:20building
- 3:20something
- 3:21steady
- 3:21in
- 3:21you.
- 3:23And
- 3:23over
- 3:23the
- 3:23years,
- 3:24I've
- 3:24watched
- 3:24people
- 3:24transform
- 3:25their
- 3:25finances,
- 3:26not
- 3:26through
- 3:26these
- 3:27overnight
- 3:27miracles.
- 3:29But
- 3:29through
- 3:29steady,
- 3:30encouraged
- 3:30progress.
- 3:31And
- 3:31let
- 3:31me
- 3:32tell
- 3:32you
- 3:32something
- 3:32right
- 3:32now,
- 3:32the
- 3:33people
- 3:33who
- 3:33grow
- 3:33the
- 3:34most,
- 3:34they're
- 3:35the
- 3:35ones
- 3:35who
- 3:35learn
- 3:36to
- 3:36notice
- 3:36what
- 3:36God
- 3:37has
- 3:37already
- 3:37been
- 3:38doing.
- 3:39Even
- 3:39in
- 3:39those
- 3:39small
- 3:40steps.
- 3:41It
- 3:41reminds
- 3:42me
- 3:42of
- 3:42a
- 3:42gentleman
- 3:42I've
- 3:42worked
- 3:43with.
- 3:43He
- 3:43was
- 3:43frustrated
- 3:44because
- 3:44he
- 3:44hadn't
- 3:45paid
- 3:45off
- 3:45much
- 3:45of
- 3:46his
- 3:46debt
- 3:46yet.
- 3:47And
- 3:47he
- 3:47said
- 3:47to
- 3:47me,
- 3:47ralph,
- 3:48he
- 3:48says,
- 3:48I'm
- 3:48not
- 3:48getting
- 3:48anywhere.
- 3:50But
- 3:50we
- 3:50slowed
- 3:50it
- 3:50down
- 3:50and
- 3:51we
- 3:51looked
- 3:51a
- 3:51little
- 3:51closer,
- 3:51and
- 3:52this
- 3:52is
- 3:52what
- 3:52we
- 3:52found.
- 3:52We
- 3:53found
- 3:53he
- 3:53had
- 3:53stopped
- 3:54using
- 3:54credit
- 3:54cards.
- 3:55That's
- 3:55a
- 3:55win.
- 3:56He
- 3:56checked
- 3:56his
- 3:57spending
- 3:57every
- 3:57week.
- 3:58It's
- 3:58a
- 3:58win.
- 3:59And
- 3:59he
- 3:59stayed
- 3:59within
- 4:00his
- 4:00grocery
- 4:00budget
- 4:01three
- 4:01weeks
- 4:01in
- 4:02a
- 4:02row.
- 4:02Another
- 4:03big
- 4:03win.
- 4:04And
- 4:04when
- 4:05I
- 4:05pointed
- 4:05that
- 4:05out
- 4:05to
- 4:05him,
- 4:06he
- 4:06paused
- 4:06and
- 4:06he
- 4:07smiled.
- 4:07He
- 4:07said,
- 4:08I
- 4:08guess
- 4:08I
- 4:08am
- 4:08changing,
- 4:09Ralph.
- 4:10I
- 4:10see.
- 4:10Friend,
- 4:11that
- 4:11moment
- 4:11mattered
- 4:12because
- 4:12the
- 4:12goal
- 4:13isn't
- 4:13just
- 4:13less
- 4:14debt.
- 4:14The
- 4:14goal
- 4:15is
- 4:15a
- 4:15different
- 4:16person.
- 4:17So
- 4:17here's
- 4:18today's
- 4:18gentle
- 4:19question.
- 4:20What
- 4:20if
- 4:20your
- 4:21progress
- 4:21feels
- 4:21small
- 4:22because
- 4:22you've
- 4:22never
- 4:23been
- 4:23taught
- 4:23to
- 4:23recognize
- 4:24it
- 4:24in
- 4:24the
- 4:24first
- 4:24place?
- 4:25Let's
- 4:26talk
- 4:26about
- 4:26what's
- 4:26worth
- 4:27celebrating.
- 4:28First
- 4:29thing.
- 4:30Celebrate
- 4:30showing
- 4:30up.
- 4:32Sometimes
- 4:32the
- 4:32win
- 4:32isn't
- 4:33the
- 4:33result,
- 4:33it's
- 4:34the
- 4:34effort.
- 4:35It's
- 4:35that
- 4:35opening
- 4:36that
- 4:36bank
- 4:36app,
- 4:37like,
- 4:37I'm
- 4:37going
- 4:37to
- 4:37do
- 4:37this.
- 4:38It's
- 4:38looking
- 4:38at
- 4:39those
- 4:39numbers.
- 4:40It's
- 4:40having
- 4:40that
- 4:41conversation.
- 4:42It's
- 4:42checking
- 4:43your
- 4:43budget
- 4:43before
- 4:43you
- 4:44spend.
- 4:45Friend,
- 4:45if
- 4:45you
- 4:45showed
- 4:46up
- 4:46this
- 4:46week,
- 4:46that's
- 4:47a
- 4:47win.
- 4:48Another
- 4:48thing
- 4:49to
- 4:49celebrate.
- 4:49Celebrate
- 4:50one.
- 4:51No,
- 4:51you
- 4:52don't
- 4:52have
- 4:52to
- 4:52overhaul
- 4:53your
- 4:53life
- 4:53to
- 4:53make
- 4:53progress.
- 4:54Just
- 4:55think
- 4:55about
- 4:55one
- 4:55paused
- 4:56purchase
- 4:56or
- 4:57one
- 4:57avoided
- 4:57impulse,
- 4:58or
- 4:58just
- 4:59one
- 4:59moment
- 4:59of
- 5:00awareness.
- 5:01That's
- 5:01growth.
- 5:02If
- 5:02you
- 5:03said,
- 5:03not
- 5:03today.
- 5:04One
- 5:04time,
- 5:04that
- 5:05counts.
- 5:06And
- 5:06celebrate
- 5:07consistency,
- 5:08not
- 5:08perfection.
- 5:08You're
- 5:09never
- 5:09going
- 5:09to
- 5:09get
- 5:09perfection.
- 5:10God
- 5:10doesn't
- 5:10ask
- 5:11us
- 5:11for
- 5:11flawless
- 5:12performance.
- 5:12He
- 5:13honors
- 5:13faithfulness.
- 5:15Let's
- 5:15say
- 5:15you
- 5:15tracked
- 5:16it
- 5:16imperfectly,
- 5:17but
- 5:17you
- 5:17tracked
- 5:17it.
- 5:18You
- 5:19messed
- 5:19up
- 5:19Tuesday
- 5:20but
- 5:20came
- 5:20back
- 5:20on
- 5:21Wednesday.
- 5:22Guess
- 5:22what?
- 5:22That's
- 5:23maturity.
- 5:23That's
- 5:24a
- 5:24habit
- 5:24forming.
- 5:25And
- 5:26so
- 5:26celebrate
- 5:27that
- 5:27direction,
- 5:27not
- 5:28the
- 5:28finish
- 5:28lines.
- 5:29Budgets
- 5:29aren't
- 5:29about
- 5:30arrivals.
- 5:30People
- 5:31get
- 5:31stuck
- 5:31on
- 5:31that.
- 5:32They're
- 5:32about
- 5:32moving
- 5:33in
- 5:33a
- 5:33direction.
- 5:34And
- 5:34if
- 5:34you're
- 5:35moving
- 5:35towards
- 5:35clarity,
- 5:36if
- 5:36you're
- 5:36moving
- 5:37towards
- 5:37peace,
- 5:37if
- 5:38you're
- 5:38moving
- 5:38towards
- 5:39wisdom,
- 5:39guess
- 5:39what?
- 5:40You're
- 5:40already
- 5:40winning,
- 5:41even
- 5:42if
- 5:42it's
- 5:42slow.
- 5:43Here
- 5:43are
- 5:44five
- 5:44wins
- 5:44that
- 5:44count
- 5:45every
- 5:45single
- 5:46time.
- 5:46I
- 5:47checked
- 5:47my
- 5:47balances,
- 5:48that's
- 5:48a
- 5:48win.
- 5:49I
- 5:49track
- 5:50something.
- 5:51That's
- 5:51a
- 5:51win.
- 5:52I
- 5:52planned
- 5:53one
- 5:53purchase,
- 5:54that's
- 5:54a
- 5:54win.
- 5:55I
- 5:55paused
- 5:56before
- 5:56spending.
- 5:57That's
- 5:58a
- 5:58win.
- 5:58And
- 5:59I
- 5:59stayed
- 5:59under.
- 5:59Hey,
- 6:00maybe
- 6:00it
- 6:00was
- 6:00just
- 6:00in
- 6:00One
- 6:01category.
- 6:02That's
- 6:02a
- 6:02win.
- 6:03If
- 6:03any
- 6:04of
- 6:04those
- 6:04happen
- 6:04this
- 6:04week,
- 6:05friend,
- 6:05you
- 6:06are
- 6:06building
- 6:06and
- 6:07you
- 6:07are
- 6:07making
- 6:07progress.
- 6:08Let's
- 6:09look
- 6:09at
- 6:09Philippians,
- 6:10chapter
- 6:104,
- 6:10verse
- 6:114.
- 6:11It
- 6:11says
- 6:11this.
- 6:12Rejoice
- 6:12in
- 6:12the
- 6:13Lord
- 6:13always.
- 6:13I
- 6:14will
- 6:14say
- 6:14it
- 6:14again.
- 6:15Rejoice
- 6:17not.
- 6:17Rejoice
- 6:18when
- 6:18everything
- 6:18is
- 6:18finished.
- 6:19Rejoice
- 6:20while
- 6:20God
- 6:20is
- 6:20still
- 6:21working,
- 6:21even
- 6:21in
- 6:22the
- 6:22progress.
- 6:23Lord,
- 6:24thank
- 6:24you
- 6:24for
- 6:24every
- 6:25step
- 6:25forward,
- 6:26even
- 6:26the
- 6:26ones
- 6:26we
- 6:26overlook.
- 6:28Help
- 6:28us
- 6:28notice
- 6:29progress
- 6:29without
- 6:29pride
- 6:30and
- 6:30celebrate
- 6:31growth
- 6:31without
- 6:31fear.
- 6:33Teach
- 6:33us
- 6:33to
- 6:33rejoice
- 6:34in
- 6:34what
- 6:34you're
- 6:34building
- 6:35one
- 6:35faithful
- 6:35step
- 6:35at
- 6:36a
- 6:36time.
- 6:36And
- 6:36we
- 6:36ask
- 6:36this
- 6:37in
- 6:37Jesus
- 6:38name,
- 6:39Amen.
- 6:39Here's
- 6:40today's
- 6:40step.
- 6:41I
- 6:41want
- 6:41you
- 6:41to
- 6:41write
- 6:42down
- 6:42one
- 6:42budget
- 6:42win
- 6:43from
- 6:43this
- 6:43week.
- 6:43Just
- 6:43one.
- 6:44No
- 6:44comparison,
- 6:45no
- 6:45minimizing.
- 6:46Just
- 6:46name
- 6:46it
- 6:47and
- 6:47then
- 6:47thank
- 6:48God
- 6:48for
- 6:48it.
- 6:49And
- 6:49if
- 6:49you
- 6:49want
- 6:49to
- 6:49go
- 6:49one
- 6:50step
- 6:50further,
- 6:50text
- 6:51it
- 6:51to
- 6:51somebody
- 6:51you
- 6:52trust.
- 6:52Because
- 6:53celebration
- 6:53becomes
- 6:54stronger
- 6:54when
- 6:54it's
- 6:55spoken
- 6:55out
- 6:55loud.
- 6:56And
- 6:56friend,
- 6:56if
- 6:57you
- 6:57struggle
- 6:57to
- 6:57see
- 6:57progress
- 6:58on
- 6:58your
- 6:58own,
- 6:59you're
- 6:59not
- 6:59alone
- 6:59feeling
- 7:00that
- 7:00way
- 7:01inside
- 7:01the
- 7:01financially
- 7:02competent
- 7:02Christian
- 7:02community.
- 7:03People
- 7:03often
- 7:03say,
- 7:04I
- 7:04didn't
- 7:04realize
- 7:05how
- 7:05far
- 7:05I'd
- 7:06come
- 7:06until
- 7:06someone
- 7:06else
- 7:07helped
- 7:07me
- 7:08see
- 7:08it.
- 7:08That's
- 7:09a
- 7:09beautiful
- 7:09thing.
- 7:10It's
- 7:10a
- 7:10safe
- 7:11place.
- 7:11It's
- 7:12a
- 7:12patient
- 7:12place.
- 7:13And
- 7:13it's
- 7:13a
- 7:13place
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- 7:14are
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- 7:15every
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- 7:21That's
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- 7:27you
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