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Inspiring Human Potential Inner Growth 5D Self-Empowered Enlightenment Special · Inspiring Human Potential

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  Welcome to the inspiring, human potential podcast you will find
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  on this podcast Channel inspiring human potential, inner
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  growth, 5D self-empowered, enlightened channeled guidance,
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  episodes the 5dc I am expanding Consciousness episodes inner
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  growth. Set episodes 5 DC Krishna Lila
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  lightworker episodes. The adventure of a lifetime and
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  twin flames and soulmates or like workers life and much, much
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  more. And some of these will be
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  subscription-based content and some will be freely available
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  content. What's most important to know
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  about the ihp podcast is that we unconsciously love being people.
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  We are Actual life, love expanding Consciousness.
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  We are infinite higher human potential Consciousness.
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  And so, every episode is meant to support those who are on a
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  personal development Journey, becoming the version of
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  themselves that has began life at their first year of age, 0
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  years of age. You know, we bring together many
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  different topics and it's all about the amazing journey of a
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  lifetime this life. It is educational because it's
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  meant to To support those who will endure at some point in
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  time have taken a look at the inner growth mindset.
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  And really, it's because bringing together, all of these
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  episodes has been a lifetime journey of my own personal
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  eight-year-old self to help people.
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  Just to be able to know, it's okay to be yourself.
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  And while many will come at this, being yourself in a
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  gazillion different ways, here's what I'm going to share with
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  you, and for all of those who will become regular, Hers.
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  I love having you as a community.
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  I look forward to getting together and talking about our
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  love for life. Our love cycles for those who
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  are new. Welcome, I hope you enjoy.
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  Oh, and let me make sure that everyone knows here's what a
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  lovely naysayer had to share about this type of content.
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  And it is something that those who do not resonate with the
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  enlightenment Soul, age, group, will feel, and I'm going to
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  leave that at that. So, this lovely naysayer.
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  Thank you so much as shared. Heard that this content is
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  pseudoscience bullshit and self-help crap.
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  So please keep that in mind and also keep in mind that we don't
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  spell out truths. I bring together many different
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  topics from a Consciousness perspective and they are again,
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  educational in the format of trying to support, and form and
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  share perspectives communities and a lot more.
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  Not only on a mindset that has been researched and tended to,
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  By Me Myself Maria. And I, and then shared as
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  courses. Has future books.
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  Yeah, okay. So, without further Ado, here's
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  what I wanted to primarily share with you The simplest of things
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  can brighten up the day and our ability to love unconditionally
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  with flaws and Imperfections allows for every moment of life
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  to be full of gratitude. Bliss.
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  Abundance, and ever-expanding, love.
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  When you see, or furthermore, I should say, when you can see how
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  your life is the most amazing love affair.
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  Alongside all your loved ones and Humanity, that life is a
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  never-ending creator of Miracles and puzzle pieces which always
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  brings about your Consciousness expansion.
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  And that of humanities that is if the opportunity to expand and
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  create is taken. And remember that, we do have to
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  choose to practice being in our bunch of a ghost eight guys,
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  that nervous system response and our mindfulness brain.
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  And we get to talk a little bit about that and most of the
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  episodes. So remember that's very
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  important because the hijacked, your brain will not be able to
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  take that opportunity because they're already in a defense
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  mechanism. Their nervous system and their
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  brain has been again hijacked by that, fear response, whatever
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  safety. Behaviors, have served them to
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  stay safe. Again, enough of that.
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  So when the choice of expanding Consciousness has been taken and
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  then you will know what enlightenment is and what it
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  actually means to live it every day.
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  FYI, that is a person being a functional adult, forgiving
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  nuanced, knowing that there is not an evil button.
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  There is a shame button and it really isn't a button.
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  It's an actual physiological stance that our body can take.
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  And there's a way that our brain wires and all of this is
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  indicative of why. There are many adoptive children
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  out there who are harsh, unforgiving, not in any way,
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  shape, or form open-minded, although, they may think they
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  are so long story, short, Enlightenment is a functional
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  adults, who is open-minded and knows, everyone has trauma not
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  that there's this evil thing existing in somebody's body, but
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  that there is a nervous system and a brain that develops a
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  certain way. So again, as we move forward, it
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  is from a mind, heart and body. In this place that you will know
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  what living the isness of life. Is what living beyond your
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  quote-unquote self, is what doing something to help all
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  people. In all living things, including
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  our Earth's resources is it is here that you truly catch a
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  glimpse of what the word love Lov, capitalized, action means
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  in action which is also exactly what.
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  In Consciousness is an Enlightenment as a sole age.
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  Group knows all of these things. FYI, pure love compassion.
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  Kindness empathy. These are the aspects that give
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  a sense of safety from within. And without the external it is
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  from this place that we see the True Heart of all people.
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  All Humanity has a heart that is this may not know it, but it is
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  this, that we create and co-create.
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  What we want to bring forth worldwide divided is a Choice by
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  the people of all lands. Every time people choose to
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  speak act and take steps that are not loving, not
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  compassionate, or equanimous when differences arise amongst
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  each other. So, whenever people choose to be
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  in their adoptive child responds, the choice of staying
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  separate and battling is not something that stems from the
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  heart. It stems from our hijacked, for
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  your brain, survival fear, and lack.
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  In fact, it's a physiological response guys.
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  This is where these individuals are not.
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  Actually thinking clearly because they're already in their
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  safety Behavior response, they don't know who they are because
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  they're not connected to their ventral, Bagel State as a
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  person. So, their prefrontal cortex is
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  not engaged. What is engaged in their
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  amygdala? And if they're already in their
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  survival mode? Yes.
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  What happens is the hippocampus, as it gets saturated with
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  cortisol and by the way, the stress hormones, such as
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  cortisol, turn off our lovely oxytocin.
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  Jean. Our love hormones, if you're not
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  in a state of love and compassion, which most people
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  are not, if they're getting upset at anything, you're not
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  going to be able to tune into your body's love, because your
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  body is not in a sense of safety.
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  And FYI that also is why people don't feel their trauma without
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  further Ado again as I continue sharing in this lovely intro,
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  which my regular listeners will most likely skip or I hope you
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  can. And if you can't well you guys
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  got to be reminded about this which I would say is quite
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  awesome. Come on.
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  I'm trying to make it fun, see? Also, the only answer I have
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  always been the same. It's called, love cooperation
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  compromise, structure organization, communication, and
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  so much building together. So, when we choose to be from
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  Hearts, we are always doing loving Cooperative, compromising
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  structure, all of it. It's not going to be perfect.
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  Again, flaws and Imperfections. So what is this?
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  This is I am life. I am love.
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  I am expanding Consciousness. I'm infinite higher.
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  Amin Consciousness, potential, love Maria.
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  And just so that we close with a couple of great quotes.
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  And before we do that, I actually will have some other
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  added information, Seneca or cynical, I don't know how they
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  pronounce. But one time, discovers truth,
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  very true, always always. And then here's another one
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  where ever there is a human being, there is an opportunity
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  for a kindness. This is always Seneca.
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  But my favorite and the one that represents what an
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  Enlightenment. So age group person is because
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  we are connected and embody, being always expanding
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  Consciousness. Those of us in the indictments
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  old age group, we are life. We are loved.
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  We are expanding Consciousness which is why we are a
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  representation of the infinite higher human consciousness
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  potential. We live it and again Rumi this
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  is roomy. Goodbyes are only for those who
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  love with. Their eyes because for those who
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  love with heart and soul, there is no such thing as separation.
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  The entire life of an Enlightenment Soul age group
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  person and anyone who enters into this 5D Oneness
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  Consciousness perspective as well as this still age group
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  does not know separateness were one big ball of energy, we're
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  one big Soul. If you want to call it that and
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  there's a depth of knowing our bodies.
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  They contract our nervous system contracts when somebody It's to
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  quote unquote. What?
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  When they present a limited Consciousness perspective and so
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  will stand up and say be yourself, but we won't mean be
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  yourself from the ego will mean be your expanded Consciousness
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  self our bodies contract. Whenever there is anything that
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  is beneath the 0 by bration, beneath the land of neutral, the
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  land of equanimity and we will always be already at the Top
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  with the infinite, having perceived, a lot of other
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  aspects, depths of Dimensions. This is why we have Shiva and
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  Kali resides. Krishna Leela, Leela, we
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  experience the depth and the profound and seriousness with
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  playfulness. We have an irrepressible child
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  is not a child. It's a depth of our emotions
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  because we feel from the ventral visual stream Shiva.
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  We know non-being. We have been unseen unheard and
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  validated on accepted by our loved.
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  In our vulnerable places and loved ones is all of humanity,
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  because when we get up and say, we love all people, we've been
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  told that we should not because evil exists.
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  Apparently for those who still live in, the medieval times are
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  non being is because Shiva was never scary.
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  Darkness is not scary. Nor is it evil?
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  We actually know what it's like. Again, not to be seen or heard
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  or validated and we understood why Kali?
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  Because our Mastery over life and death is always been a
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  burning fire. Of life and expanding
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  Consciousness in knowing that you cannot tell me what I can
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  feel, or think you may suggest, or give me your opinion, or
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  whatever it may be. But besides that, no matter what
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  age you were, this is where your body immediately just allowed.
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  And as you got older. So this is a little bit of that
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  5dc. I am expanding Consciousness
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  perspective that you'll begin to hear.
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  And again, before we close out this intro, what you also I want
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  to know that the inspiring human potential.
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  Inner growth content is also a mentorship type content again,
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  that's why it's educational. And it includes a journey and
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  mindset that was brought together and researched and
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  still is ongoing because I keep up to date with my
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  psychoeducation and I plan on integrating quantum physics.
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  If I am able to grasp those Concepts, but the bringing
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  together of human and spiritual elements, so, humanity and
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  spirituality wanted in the Same. Although obviously they have
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  their reasons for wise, we bring together existentialism
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  psychology, sociology Neuroscience, the spirituality
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  elements involve Ascension discussing clears astrology, met
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  astrology metaphysics. 3D 4D, 5D these by mentions.
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  Some time to talk about Spiritual Awakening, tarot
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  akashic records readings or just talking about things like
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  akashic Akash. Okay?
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  We explore human. And with the understanding that,
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  that is the expanding Consciousness.
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  So all these subject matters in more it's a multidisciplinary
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  approach, okay, we bring together again, human and
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  spiritual elements to explore the human evolution in
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  Consciousness. Those of you who are life, love
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  expanding Consciousness and infinite higher human Potential
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  from your mind are going to be able to follow those who are
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  linear. You might have questions, please
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  feel free to reach out. I'm here to share any thoughts
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  on anything. That is of support.
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  Again it's something to give the enlightenment so age group
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  specifically, their voice because we don't have a voice
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  out there. I have yet to hear the voice of
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  expanding Consciousness and here's what I will leave you
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  with is something that involves always seeking not believing.
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  We don't believe in the sense of there's only one truth.
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  We're always adding To Our Truth bank, if you will, because all
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  opinions are perspectives, all thoughts, our emotions exist and
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  so began. Welcome to the ihp podcast.
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  I look forward to hearing from you guys on any questions on
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  anything again, even those who would like to perhaps present a
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  completely up to opposing view. We're open to hearing everything
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  because you know as long as it's loving obviously.
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  And when I say loving, I mean that it supports the Expansion
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  of consciousness of humanity and us working together and being
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  functional. Adults, meaning we can agree to
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  disagree peacefully and allow our life, which needs air water
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  and food to keep existing. We need those Bare Necessities
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  from that moment forth. We can always use our words.
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  That's exactly one of those things that we have as a people
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  don't welcome again and I look forward to hearing from you.
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  Welcome to my lovely HP community. today we have a
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  Enlightenment special alongside Enlightenment time, but you just
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  finished hearing if you tuned in to all the episodes, I have some
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  coffee so you hear me blowing. It's because the coffee's hot
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  and slipping and slipping it, you know, Enlightenment, the
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  more I learn about the psycho education and how to support
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  people on their personal development Journey.
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  The more I just know how beautiful it is that it's so
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  simple to achieve this in my mental age The neocortex, the
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  way that our brain is organized. These six neurons with the here
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  and now the implicit memory stuff.
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  And then in the middle meeting for the other two, it's a
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  straightforward obviously equation.
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  When you know that all of our brains are made the same, the
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  nervous system done is also, obviously a part of this, and
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  this is the body where not everybody has a relationship
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  with the two together. Also, these pieces of
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  information are You and when discussed, there are those who
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  are not very fond of these Notions or they don't believe
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  them, you know, stuff like that. They also just think that I made
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  must be this thing that you have difficulty achieving because
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  they only read about it from ancient text books.
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  Now that we have, at least a set group spelling it out but he's a
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  guru. So he also gives this idea to
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  those who think of a guru in a specific Segue as if it's an
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  accessible. Here's why.
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  You know, for me, it's important to share that Enlightenment
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  title, so that people make one navigate, if they're interested
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  in achieving that, in my mental age group, but also realized
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  that it is accessible by all. Now, the part about it being in
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  5D. It's because it's Oneness
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  Consciousness. From the perspective of you
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  being able to be and unconditionally, loving human
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  being and your eventual Vago State, you are safe and social
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  when you're able to deal with people.
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  Shame blame fault Revenge people's Loops, you are in your
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  bench illegal, your call, the somatic empath, if you are also
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  able to pick up on these pieces are these fragments which are
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  essentially the subconscious stuff of individuals in our
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  right brains, right? Brains are always communicating
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  plus all sort of nervous system so it doesn't require magic
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  wand. It's we're people we have these
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  structures and when were around each There.
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  That's where we pick up on each other.
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  We are mammals in fact, and so we can and do Co regulate now.
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  Social engagement is where person if they are in their
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  Venture Vego States. It means you're talkative,
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  right? So you talk it out.
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  Also, you will coagulate, but you'll know how to self-soothe.
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  So, these are three aspects of social engagement, which is the
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  way the ventricle State Works. Stays grounded, your organs
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  don't suffer and your body's not in stress now.
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  People again, don't believe that it's this simple.
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  When you get to do yoga, you start learning how to use this
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  nervous system, you breathe, which regulates your
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  parasympathetic and sympathetic. So it's actually very mechanical
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  and we'll keep on exploring those two together, but for now
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  and shared enough about the body stuff and the Brain stuff, it's
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  important. And I'm so blessed to have been
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  able to find these pieces of information.
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  I still use the word blessed. Is it is something beautiful to
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  be able to access the internet to be able and have found an
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  ICBM to be able and have found some autopia in a, my new
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  course, mine site, which is going to start soon to be able
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  and buy books. You can buy books because I have
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  some money, right? I was able to further my
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  education all on my own, as somebody who cares about what I
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  do. Both as a marketer.
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  But as a mentor Enlightenment is about, when you live your life,
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  are you living it fully from Him.
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  Now, the people who have secure attachment at, the very least
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  are the ones who can easily it would seem access their
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  mindfulness in mindset, brain through.
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  They there aren't really, I would say that if I had to
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  venture off and give you my guest, many people don't achieve
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  their Enlightenment still, a troop, not only because of a
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  lack of Interest towards learning about what makes them
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  tick. And also a lot of more.
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  They just don't trust in themselves and Your life so they
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  don't think they need to learn anything about humans.
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  They're more intrigued by the flame so maybe the magician wand
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  Law of Attraction and manifestation they're more
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  interested in what's outside themselves.
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  So they want to achieve a badge of honor even Enlightenment is
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  about when they're dressed up. Like gurus, you can tell they're
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  obviously looking to someone that they wanted to become like
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  not. This is where it's not good or
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  bad. All these other so age groups
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  though and Fact that she thought it might mental age of four
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  reasons they get distracted but they're not really distracted,
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  they're in they're invisible, you know, left brain.
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  Keep moving forward at the right brain, stuff is just that's how
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  emotions are so reactive because that's just how it is.
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  Can't really work with yourself. That's the Instinct, there's our
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  biology. So these words get used in a way
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  that limits, the person's ability by themselves.
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  Not because Actually have been stated Improvement us limits.
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  Now, the people who share these informations, they to, they
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  still share information sometimes as limits except for
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  those who don't, but they're not yet the majority.
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  So when somebody's getting a piece of information from a
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  subject matter expert and they're looking to them as if
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  this person can tell them, everything that there is to
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  know, I was a child when I thought that and my mother would
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  tell me worry about Aunt, don't think everybody knows.
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  Everything, nobody knows everything.
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  So luckily, I had a wise mother who kept setting straight.
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  The equations of nobody is a full, anything we all here to
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  contribute to each other. That equals the subject matter
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  experts, they don't know, all the same way, we don't know.
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  All Other people give subject matter, experts and
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  institutions, the full rate of all.
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  But others also cancelled out and any extremist really never
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  mature choice, right? So, Here's where the cancel out
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  culture. For example, doesn't allow
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  people to breathe in to regret. And in fact, let me read you
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  something that I learned because this is very important,
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  especially when it comes to oversoul and those people with
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  their twin flames and the whole blocking and not talking to each
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  other. Where you know, I mean I love
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  that coach guy but reducing it to science is quite, let's say
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  impersonal and untrue and unnecessary because when it
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  comes to people in their mouth, And they can learn to
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  communicate if they choose to become more mature versions of
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  themselves, this is all that shame blame for Revenge cycles
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  and Loops means they have a tendency to ruminate and to feel
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  self-loathing self-disgust to deflect shame because it feels
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  bad to self-evaluate arm to also self-identify.
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  So shame has to do with self-image, excuse me, in
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  self-evaluation, and it will Deflected by people who are high
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  achieving those who are obviously narcissist that have
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  that inflated ego as well. And it's because they don't take
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  criticism well. So they deflected through denial
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  or self-identification. So I do moment where somebody
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  who creates a situation that's a mistake, a person who doesn't
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  want to look at their own self because they can.
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  So here's where shame is powerful.
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  As is blame fault Revenge because there's there's an
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  automatic cycle of. Let me point a finger, the shame
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  will just use some story. I'm bad.
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  I deserve this. The blame.
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  It's their fault, it's my family's fault.
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  It's the world's fault. The Revenge.
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  Oh there there I'm going to get back.
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  You know they just plain vilify somebody else and so they don't
• 23:40
  take ownership of what happened. They choose to hide it away the
• 23:44
  same way. Shame, in fact hides itself away
• 23:47
  and isolation is the worst thing for rumination which most people
• 23:51
  do my recent friend, they room. Dated for two months before
• 23:55
  coming up with their new conclusion, which really isn't
• 23:57
  new. It's their story that people
• 23:59
  don't respect them, that they have to fight hard to get
• 24:02
  respect that they need to fight hard to get self-love and
• 24:06
  they're not the only person. The only difference is they're
• 24:09
  definitely in a situation where they don't have their we group,
• 24:13
  but they keep finding people. So, hopefully this time whoever
• 24:16
  it is that they found as a person, they deem a friend.
• 24:20
  Let's see how long that would last.
• 24:22
  So the Reality is the story. You tell yourself is what you
• 24:26
  keep living. So if you think it's hard to do
• 24:28
  get respect and guess what's going to be hard to get respect?
• 24:34
  So people who don't take ownership, they whine, or they
• 24:37
  attack. It's very straight forward
• 24:38
  flight or fight. The freeze response does happen.
• 24:41
  We'll get to the council culture and I mean, it trauma doesn't
• 24:45
  leave the body when it's not expressed, right?
• 24:48
  So those I mean, I'm using this right now as an example, some
• 24:51
  part of the freezer spots, but freeze for ample comes out
• 24:54
  through the panic attack because it's stored in our body.
• 24:58
  And then when it's ready, the neuropeptides to be released,
• 25:01
  there is titration. Our body naturally knows how to
• 25:04
  expand and release memory. That no longer serves it, it's
• 25:08
  actually quite interesting again, where Humanity doesn't
• 25:12
  notice or think that, or bodies actually our intelligence and
• 25:18
  that they always work in our favor.
• 25:20
  The thing is our 3D plane talked about our bodies as getting
• 25:24
  sick. And so silver, afraid of
• 25:26
  sickness and we don't remember that.
• 25:30
  The body is an intelligence. And so we work with it with
• 25:33
  awesome. There's all the different
• 25:35
  dimensions. Not just one note, obviously,
• 25:38
  the only people by the way who are triggered by it's easy to
• 25:41
  live. Life are the ones who find life
• 25:43
  hard, they are hammered by Akash, they're not in communion
• 25:47
  with it. In fact, and you will notice,
• 25:49
  there are no other Soul agent. Are there, 3 D 4 T, by the way.
• 25:52
  So it's very straightforward. Now again have compassion, it's
• 25:57
  important, but really, we won't have much to engage with because
• 26:01
  being on the opposite ends of the spectrum.
• 26:04
  When it comes to life, people who are miserable will not want
• 26:08
  to be around people who are happy and people who are happy
• 26:11
  will always be happy. Even if we're around people who
• 26:13
  are miserable, which is exactly why there's nothing that takes
• 26:16
  place except for a happy environment because we
• 26:20
  Definitely aren't triggered by the fact that somebody may start
• 26:23
  complaining or whining or tacking where Interventional
• 26:28
  Vegas State and we'll be able to give those firm responses or the
• 26:32
  laughing or even just the ability to disregard, despite
• 26:38
  the, and be the jealousy, the lying, the gas line
• 26:41
  manipulation. The the mannerisms that are
• 26:44
  completely in the biological root.
• 26:46
  This we will be able to ignore not because you don't see See
• 26:50
  because we know that somebody's under stress or me, just know
• 26:54
  that, that's what they're doing, or basically, because we accept
• 26:57
  people for who they are, we don't need that State of
• 26:59
  Consciousness, that person to be any different.
• 27:01
  They're not physically attacking us.
• 27:03
  So there is no big deal if they're going to behave in their
• 27:07
  adoptive child. So which is most people who
• 27:11
  don't know how to actually Converse and to be able to be
• 27:15
  with an apple and an orange and know that the truth is if you
• 27:18
  say fuck you and I say fuck you. We can be loving and nice to
• 27:22
  each other. The only ones were not are the
• 27:23
  ones with the morality, but the codes.
• 27:25
  And they're the first one, by the way, who will say fuck you
• 27:28
  without saying it, but they will think it.
• 27:31
  And then they were story, and they will ruminate on and they
• 27:33
  will sit in their mental prison, and they will claim it as truth.
• 27:36
  And, you know what happens, when you sit in your reality and your
• 27:39
  neocortex and your ruminate over and over and over again.
• 27:42
  Shame blame fault Revenge Cycles in your little wiring or big
• 27:47
  liar and gets that much deeper and then your body begins to To
• 27:50
  feel even more. So, here's why isolation is the
• 27:54
  death of shame because it's easy for person to say, lock in their
• 27:57
  brain, especially once they've done one thing wrong, two things
• 28:01
  wrong and wrong. Meaning, they've hurt the
• 28:03
  feelings of other people. They've done things like gasps,
• 28:07
  like manipulate. Let me pretend to ignore the
• 28:10
  fact that your feelings are hurt.
• 28:11
  And let me not have conversations with you, because
• 28:14
  that's, I'm going to choose to keep my own sense of security.
• 28:18
  My own idea of this. It's that doesn't even exist
• 28:22
  because they're not even claiming ownership of their own
• 28:24
  image. They're not evaluating
• 28:26
  themselves and they're not looking at their image, they're
• 28:28
  not paying attention to their loved ones, because if you are,
• 28:31
  then that means you have a confrontation as an adult child.
• 28:36
  Even will argue with their parents unless they get slapped
• 28:39
  and they can't, you know, so those children though they grow
• 28:42
  up in, somehow they start to like, the quote in Rocky, the
• 28:47
  last one, he tells his son Son you let somebody stick a finger
• 28:51
  in your ear and tell you you're no good.
• 28:53
  And now you're blaming me the Shadow and he says, you know,
• 28:57
  the whole thing about life which I love that quote, but life is
• 29:00
  not hard, it's very straightforward.
• 29:02
  You got to pick yourself, back up, love more, be more and, or
• 29:07
  to the hammering, which is where that's why people find it hard
• 29:12
  to be respected. They actually think people
• 29:14
  disrespect them versus understand that we are triggered
• 29:18
  by each other potentially and that we Use words, we don't have
• 29:21
  to use insult and we don't have to actually point fingers
• 29:24
  because relationships are Plus in life.
• 29:27
  You don't need them to breathe in the air.
• 29:29
  That is around you, that we like, well, then this is the
• 29:34
  part, like fight is what people are using with their
• 29:36
  relationships. Attachment styles are people
• 29:39
  managing each other's insecurities.
• 29:41
  In fact, there is not resolving of trauma.
• 29:43
  There's just people anxious avoidant disorganized ambivalent
• 29:48
  and doing their little drama dance.
• 29:50
  Yes. But that's again for them to
• 29:52
  keep doing and for us to not really be involved in because it
• 29:57
  doesn't change our life, it only affects their energetic
• 30:00
  Spectrum, it affects their nervous system and it affects
• 30:03
  the way they are around each other.
• 30:06
  We care about the leaders that are up there making the rules,
• 30:09
  the enlightenment still, a jury person cares about that which
• 30:12
  matters people matter but if people want to be teenagers
• 30:15
  about life, they kind of go for it.
• 30:17
  You know, we want life to keep moving forward.
• 30:19
  So we're going to care about Those who can and those who do
• 30:22
  and not those who are in the gossip Arena, and living in the
• 30:25
  middle, no matter how famous they may be.
• 30:28
  How many millions right here is where, you know, somehow life is
• 30:32
  so unfair, why is it unfair that person made money?
• 30:34
  You didn't what's the deal go make it, you can get up and go
• 30:38
  make it, you know, it's just not straight forward.
• 30:41
  But, wait, wait, the conspiracy theories?
• 30:44
  I'm so sorry. I forgot about that all of the
• 30:46
  families that come together and they're the big people.
• 30:50
  And They're strong and he can't beat them.
• 30:52
  Like, okay, well since you can't beat them, then you might as
• 30:54
  well move on with your life because you can't beat them.
• 30:57
  So why are you spending your miserable words on the, you
• 31:01
  know, like it's all again the misery.
• 31:03
  Why why use your mouth like that?
• 31:05
  Why bother with that Focus? Go do something about it.
• 31:08
  Build a business become rich. There's so many different ways
• 31:12
  that a person can use their time which people who are conspiracy
• 31:16
  theory people talking about it, they don't actually do because
• 31:19
  all they do is All they do is speak.
• 31:22
  I don't see anybody dismantling. Anything what I see is a system
• 31:25
  that needs to be dismantled, because it's not functioning
• 31:29
  anymore, not anymore, naturally. This man, some fact I actually
• 31:32
  reached out to this guy, his name's Michael to see if he will
• 31:38
  be on our podcast. He talks about social, political
• 31:41
  economical stuff. And I love what his last video
• 31:44
  was on because he I'm sure he's an economist.
• 31:49
  I need to find out. That one out.
• 31:50
  But he explores this article I think it was 1956.
• 31:56
  Charles Darwin said that by 2023.
• 32:00
  We wouldn't have to work so hard anymore because of the
• 32:02
  technology that we create and he was looking with 20:23 says we
• 32:07
  still work hard but he is right about the technology allowing us
• 32:11
  not to do hard labor and then he goes on to explore how his
• 32:16
  intentions for this new year involved.
• 32:19
  Him seeing how Oh socio-political economically.
• 32:21
  There are things that are already taking specific route
• 32:26
  and that we're going to completely be moving into a new
• 32:30
  space which I completely know we are.
• 32:32
  I have no doubt about it. As the enlightenment.
• 32:36
  So each person, especially those of us with Claire's to
• 32:39
  understand how the world works. We know, and have hints of
• 32:44
  what's to come because intuitively speaking.
• 32:48
  We also know life always fixes that balancing just people don't
• 32:52
  realize it because they live in fear.
• 32:54
  So they're blinded by those shame blame fault Revenge
• 32:57
  blinders. They just think the limitations
• 33:00
  of being human being and they live between those limitations.
• 33:05
  So, when a person can instead, move from that self-evaluation,
• 33:10
  Enterprise, and look to the people that they've affected,
• 33:14
  the ones who live with regret, or the ones who are in remorse,
• 33:18
  because Something's Happened. Right.
• 33:19
  Guilt. Shame.
• 33:21
  So these individuals will done move forward with the ability to
• 33:27
  communicate and do something different.
• 33:29
  Those who don't obviously, that's where their self
• 33:31
  evaluation or self-image, doesn't they don't look at
• 33:34
  Anything they just pretend like nothing happened.
• 33:37
  And they want to keep pretending that because now, that they've
• 33:41
  not taken any action, it's going to be there.
• 33:44
  The energies there, the Situation's were there, and they
• 33:47
  ignored it, and now they've built more ignoring upon it.
• 33:50
  So you start feeling even more bad.
• 33:53
  And if you have shame which most people do.
• 33:56
  I mean, one of the ladies, it was funny.
• 33:57
  She says, it's a Continuum and she says, don't you see, we're
• 34:00
  all dressed here that's the form of shape.
• 34:02
  So if you want to look at it that That way we all do have
• 34:05
  shame. I mean, I'm dressed, and I'm
• 34:06
  doing a podcast. I don't have to be dressed, but
• 34:08
  I am dressed. So, there you go, you know?
• 34:11
  And when she said I was like, oh, okay, that makes sense.
• 34:14
  Because definitely I wouldn't go around walking naked and I
• 34:18
  wouldn't be ashamed even though I don't enjoy the idea.
• 34:21
  So there you go. That still would be shame, even
• 34:24
  though some could say it's culturally.
• 34:25
  And in fact, that's where she says there's culture involved in
• 34:29
  shame with remorse and regret. That's where your integrity and
• 34:33
  your commitment. Who you are makes a difference.
• 34:36
  So if somebody knows they've hurt, someone means that they
• 34:41
  will be in regret or remorse. If it's against their own
• 34:45
  morals, to be hurtful and so it means that they don't want their
• 34:49
  image or themselves to be a person who has hurt another.
• 34:52
  So that's where remorse or regret would be right.
• 34:54
  And so when people hurt each other's feelings, those people
• 34:57
  who do care who don't want to be a person that has done that.
• 35:01
  They will be ashamed, they will feel guilty.
• 35:04
  Feel regret, remorse tough, its optimal, and they're ready to be
• 35:07
  a grown-up or they are grown up. They will talk about these
• 35:10
  things and they will address them.
• 35:13
  They won't cancel out but if they don't want to, here's where
• 35:16
  that cancel out. Culture has been teaching people
• 35:19
  how not to address shame or regret or remorse.
• 35:25
  And it's a systematic issue around this feeling and so not
• 35:28
  breathing into regret or remorse.
• 35:30
  If you cancel somebody out, there is no ability to bear.
• 35:34
  Something that has hurt somebody and to examine it together.
• 35:37
  So when people cancel each other out which is why blocking and
• 35:40
  friending, people who have ignored situations for me, since
• 35:45
  I was a teenager, it means you don't know how to dress the
• 35:48
  hurt, which makes sense because of learning how people are
• 35:51
  immature, meaning they have their own insecurities and then
• 35:56
  I grew up in. So it's not only because they're
• 35:58
  teenagers, that's actual Humanity, that doesn't know that
• 36:01
  they're stressed out levels. Everything to do with their
• 36:05
  physiology that implicit memory stuff and they can actually
• 36:08
  learn to navigate their body and mind.
• 36:11
  But see people spend too much time in rumination with those
• 36:14
  emotions and so they created a story around it.
• 36:17
  I'm bad, they're about these. This is the shame cycle, inner
• 36:20
  critic out of creaked and they didn't, I drugs sex, alcohol
• 36:24
  food, let me go on with my Merry life through that left brain
• 36:27
  pretending like nothing happening, hurt my friend's
• 36:29
  feelings. I just do anything or even if I
• 36:31
  did, I'm just a bad person, so they So they build upon it and
• 36:35
  they keep ignoring and then they withdraw and withdraw again and
• 36:39
  then eventually, you know, they just like that one person way
• 36:42
  back when when they delete it all of a sudden their email and
• 36:46
  from where we communicated through email, my more email and
• 36:50
  I never ever forget my laugh because I was like, that's wow,
• 36:53
  that's really something. I want to use a word.
• 36:56
  I won't use the word out of respect, but the reality is
• 37:00
  anytime. I see anybody not be able to
• 37:02
  speak something. It's like Okay.
• 37:04
  Obviously you have a definite situation of not being able to
• 37:10
  handle your own emotional state, which means we can't talk
• 37:14
  because I can handle my emotional state and I can speak
• 37:17
  very clearly while I'm emotional and spell out those emotions too
• 37:21
  so that can be quite intimidating and threatening, I
• 37:23
  get it because, you know, I see it all the time.
• 37:26
  I mean, even in having fun and just talking socially, I've been
• 37:31
  talked about my intimate. Then ways.
• 37:36
  And that makes me laugh because I'm four foot nine and see
• 37:39
  nothing intimidating about myself.
• 37:42
  Those who know me, well, they don't find me intimidating, but
• 37:45
  that's where they have a level of knowledge of me.
• 37:49
  And then, there are those who just have courage in life.
• 37:51
  So, they're okay with the person whose strong-willed and Charles
• 37:54
  emotionally and all these things, but there are those who
• 37:59
  really? It's, I didn't know about the
• 38:02
  body as much as I do now. So now Now I know it's all
• 38:05
  shame. Blame fault Revenge Cycles, it's
• 38:07
  these attachment Styles. The wiring of the self right
• 38:11
  here is where somebody has disorganized attachment.
• 38:13
  They're wired self is insecure completely agree.
• 38:16
  And, you know, I was watching the sociopath lady who was
• 38:19
  talking about how bored she is in her brain and how sociopaths
• 38:22
  are bored and their brain. That's why they have to create
• 38:25
  havoc. And she also went on to say how
• 38:29
  we will destroy and burn Bridges where we shouldn't will actually
• 38:34
  Treat people that we care about or W around us, not well those
• 38:39
  which would serve us well and we you know just have what else was
• 38:44
  she saying that she was just saying.
• 38:46
  We make choices that are not really good at times because you
• 38:49
  know by being bored we just use our time and do things that are
• 38:53
  not necessarily in tune with where we're headed.
• 38:57
  And what I was thinking about the entire time was the shame
• 39:00
  part because the fact that you will burn bridges that, you
• 39:02
  know, you need and then you'll Eat people that you love in a
• 39:06
  way and get rid of them. It's because of Shame when you
• 39:09
  feel bad, you feel undeserving. So you're going to cancel out
• 39:12
  all of these opportunities. All of these options for
• 39:14
  unconditional love because you're a bad person.
• 39:17
  You're disgusting, you're loading, the the Tesla or
• 39:21
  whatever it's called. Brain to touch lawn.
• 39:23
  Brain of the shame conviction is where you bounce off the good
• 39:27
  stuff. You don't see your good stuff.
• 39:29
  Now, you just see the back, so it's easier for person who wants
• 39:32
  to live out shame, because they don't, Have the awareness of the
• 39:35
  blinders in this way that they cancel people out from their
• 39:40
  life that aren't going to be loving.
• 39:41
  Like when that person did what they did because it makes them
• 39:45
  feel one, they're isolating shame.
• 39:48
  So they're allowing themselves to be alone which is what shame
• 39:51
  believes it has to be because it's bad.
• 39:53
  The person to buy being alone. They're going to ruminate and
• 39:56
  just sit and regret and while under sour and fact they won't
• 39:59
  get better and they'll use their distractions, their addictions
• 40:03
  to Forget that they'll just live that miserable hammered life
• 40:08
  even though it'll be a regular day-to-day life.
• 40:10
  I mean just watch movies. They keep telling you how hard
• 40:13
  life is just just keep on watching those lovely movies
• 40:15
  with drama. There you go.
• 40:17
  You know? And it won't change a thing.
• 40:19
  But for those for those of us over here is very
• 40:23
  straightforward how you're going to not live a full life and
• 40:26
  actually that you always have had the option and opportunity
• 40:29
  to move and grow that you may be full.
• 40:34
  Of a certain type of emotion. Yeah, that's why ruminating is
• 40:37
  not positive. It creates those neural Pathways
• 40:40
  that then become these forests and your body begins to feel
• 40:42
  yucky because you keep telling yourself the same stories, it
• 40:46
  doesn't mean you're yucky for all.
• 40:48
  You know, you're saying world is yucky.
• 40:50
  Your body still get a feel yucky and your nervous system is in
• 40:53
  fact, in a stressed. It learns hyper and hypo
• 40:55
  arousal. That's it.
• 40:56
  You don't know how to self-soothe, you don't know how
• 40:58
  to talk it out and you don't know how to correctly, you don't
• 41:01
  even know how to self-regulate. That's like, Something, clear?
• 41:05
  So you can do all the yoga. You want.
• 41:07
  People will learn how to use their body, and their energetic
• 41:09
  centers, without even knowing what they're doing, and where
• 41:11
  they're little mammals. But the minute their mind,
• 41:14
  hasn't transformed how they're talking about Humanity
• 41:17
  themselves. And the world is the minute that
• 41:19
  you will see an Enlightenment. So, a true person, you'll see
• 41:21
  another Soul a true person in a 5D body type because they'll
• 41:25
  have learned how to master a vibration that equals this
• 41:28
  social engagement, but they'll still be just as closed-minded
• 41:32
  as 3D 4D, energetic and mice. Spectrum's are and adoptive
• 41:36
  children, harsh unforgiving, they don't learn new skills.
• 41:39
  They don't realize that they're cancel out.
• 41:41
  Culture is basically them denying their own ability to
• 41:46
  expand because they're not evaluating or looking at their
• 41:48
  image or looking at the fact that somebody else has hurt.
• 41:52
  If I want to use me as an example, but on the end of the
• 41:54
  spectrum, I can consider myself to be considered bad by that
• 41:59
  friend of mine recently made their lovely little post, right?
• 42:03
  So, They're lovely. Little post is an indication to
• 42:06
  me of their inability to speak. Those exact words to me because
• 42:10
  again, our last interaction was full of Hearts.
• 42:13
  Obviously, there is a disconnect.
• 42:15
  If you send me a heart and happy wishes, and then you're on your
• 42:19
  own platform. Basically, making a statement
• 42:22
  that involves, I told my friend how they're disrespecting me and
• 42:27
  they were hurt by it, but they didn't admit their wrong doings.
• 42:30
  Now, here's the rumination cycle because they're still thinking
• 42:34
  About what they think is true. Their work is an excuse.
• 42:38
  It's a tactic to keep me suffering and they're using
• 42:42
  their time. I don't know to drink coffees
• 42:44
  there in the five minutes. They can drink coffee, they
• 42:46
  could call me. Their story has all the areas
• 42:50
  where they are right for what they want and what they're
• 42:54
  expressing. And so, you know, create and
• 42:57
  culpability their vilifying a person based on their own story.
• 43:02
  And here's why for the enlightenment.
• 43:04
  So Age of person, though. We won't cancel that out, which
• 43:06
  is where my heart was a genuine heart.
• 43:09
  And on my hearts will always be genuine, but they're not because
• 43:12
  I'm going to be meeting some of the man's there.
• 43:15
  On my end of the spectrum, how I feel about the relationship,
• 43:18
  which is I get to deal with a person who has an attachment
• 43:21
  style. Nothing abnormal a person who
• 43:24
  uses shame blame for Revenge Loops, nothing abnormal, their
• 43:27
  person manipulation using their words however they want nothing
• 43:31
  abnormal their accusations, they mean, What they mean very
• 43:35
  straightforward, they don't hurt my feelings, but hurts my
• 43:38
  feelings if you want. It doesn't really hurt my
• 43:40
  feelings. It's the time that we shared
• 43:42
  that is completely thrown in the trash by those statements alone.
• 43:46
  Basically, all the moments lived, they are denied cancelled
• 43:49
  out. And in fact, they're not
• 43:51
  actually bearing be hurt and examining it together.
• 43:56
  They're not accepting the part where we don't agree on time and
• 44:00
  how we can spend it. So while I have stated very
• 44:04
  Eight forward Lie from the beginning.
• 44:05
  When we rekindle this relationship, I don't have this
• 44:08
  time for you. I don't have this time for you.
• 44:10
  I don't have this time for you. That that word was what was used
• 44:14
  before was used. Now after the years where we
• 44:17
  didn't talk, so if you want to look at a constant variable that
• 44:21
  has not changed is my specific. I don't do friends and time this
• 44:25
  way. There's is a constant to the
• 44:28
  difference though, is they're pointing a finger and making an
• 44:31
  accusation and calling one person about Me, I'm not in any
• 44:38
  shape way or form interested in being a good or bad guy or gal,
• 44:42
  because that's not why I'm friends with the person.
• 44:44
  It's not about this equation, they're in my life because
• 44:47
  they're part of my oversold because I got to meet them
• 44:50
  because they're my friend because they're person, that's
• 44:52
  in my life, very straightforward.
• 44:54
  They can stay. They can go, they get to choose.
• 44:57
  It, makes my life happy when they're there.
• 44:59
  It makes my life happy even if they're not here.
• 45:02
  Why? Because they are a plus, in my
• 45:04
  Life and they have free, will they get to choose what to do
• 45:08
  with their time? And I'm not going to impose on
• 45:11
  that much to do with their time because it's not my life.
• 45:14
  Is there life societally speaking?
• 45:17
  No, nobody owes anybody anything, especially when it
• 45:20
  comes to these 24 hours. A grown-up would easily know
• 45:23
  that which is what a functional adult is, which is why they're
• 45:26
  forgiving new ones, learn new skills and don't do cancel out
• 45:29
  culture, the adoptive children are the only ones who do cancel
• 45:33
  out culture. The On to say, oh, you're toxic
• 45:35
  the ones who point fingers at each other or immature people
• 45:39
  who don't actually know unconditional love they don't
• 45:41
  know 5D. So they may know it in their
• 45:44
  body eventually because of the trending topics they will not
• 45:47
  know it through the way. They use their words to the way
• 45:49
  they use their relationships and they will live in other sole
• 45:52
  troops. As they do, their little
• 45:55
  attachment style dances with each other.
• 45:57
  So when someone cancels us out there is nobility again, for
• 46:01
  that person to Bear something that has hurt.
• 46:04
  Buddy and to examine it together, I didn't cancel them
• 46:07
  out, they didn't cancel me out, we just don't have a lack of
• 46:10
  meeting of the Minds when you cancel somebody out, there's no
• 46:15
  opportunity for dialogue. So there's a way, we're not
• 46:18
  actually being encouraged to breathe in to regret.
• 46:21
  We're actually being encouraged to get rid of regret and to not
• 46:24
  think about it. And to find any way that we can
• 46:26
  actually stop regretting things in the future and in fact,
• 46:29
  here's where those addiction Cycles are those.
• 46:33
  Mannerisms that me I will deny it and pretend life keeps moving
• 46:36
  forward. I've seen it happen.
• 46:38
  And here's why that whole twin flame story needs to cease in a
• 46:42
  sense because that Dynamic exist because these people connect to
• 46:47
  each other in a certain way from Claire's and knowing of the
• 46:50
  oversoul, there's a specific imprint.
• 46:53
  It's on an energetic Spectrum. It is like a cult.
• 46:56
  It's like a perfume, but we don't need to have that labeled
• 47:00
  of people were right now, living these twin flame things.
• 47:02
  It's really all about. Coming a whole person.
• 47:05
  I already knew that this would happen because people and their
• 47:09
  one-on-one relationships. They want to live their life
• 47:12
  with somebody because log equals only a person to people who are
• 47:16
  in other silly troops, not life. They're not enamored by life,
• 47:20
  they're not enamored with their own life, their enamored only in
• 47:24
  their mind if there's a person. In fact, I saw this one lady
• 47:27
  who's very well-known talk about what is when I saw that
• 47:31
  sentence. Everyone loses Love of their
• 47:34
  life. I'm like, wow, how old are you?
• 47:38
  And how old do you have to be? Until you actually understand
• 47:42
  that? This love of a life, is not
• 47:45
  something that is closed in a box and it has so much more that
• 47:49
  one could say not to mention that.
• 47:53
  You know your love for life is what takes priority.
• 47:55
  So this is why the indictments allege of person.
• 47:57
  We don't lose the what we can have any relationship work
• 48:00
  because we're autonomous adult. Love we feel is a I love that we
• 48:04
  have for life in general and when were interacting with
• 48:07
  people we can pick up on them and work with them and expand
• 48:11
  together. So the depth of that, I
• 48:13
  mentioned, yes there's and it's an imprint like a fingerprint
• 48:16
  because each one of us is something.
• 48:19
  And so those twin flames there will be a knowledge of who these
• 48:23
  people are and that's where it doesn't mean.
• 48:27
  Less love more. Love.
• 48:28
  It means, you know that there's a depth of Dimension so you
• 48:32
  won't be able to deny it. But the ones of today, again,
• 48:36
  it's more about their growth and being able to face that.
• 48:40
  So, when people talk about the whole blocking Runner Chaser,
• 48:45
  they're really just allowing people to be anxious and
• 48:48
  avoidant attachment you, no one's trying to get them back.
• 48:52
  The others trying to move away because they don't want to get
• 48:54
  hurt. Very straightforward teenage
• 48:56
  stuff. And the part about obsessive
• 48:59
  thinking, here's where rumination again comes into the
• 49:03
  mix. Which people naturally do the
• 49:05
  ones who don't have a self empowered inclined body type and
• 49:09
  mine type. So, the shame blame for Revenge
• 49:12
  cycle people and those who have attachment Styles such as
• 49:16
  ambivalent and disorganized for sure they ruminate they will
• 49:20
  overgeneralize. Narratives vilify.
• 49:22
  There's an attached pressure Hub.
• 49:23
  Collapse in my please appease there's a defense mechanism at
• 49:26
  play. All the time for those
• 49:28
  individuals and canceling is easier because that way again
• 49:32
  they don't have to Actually breathe in and face the regret
• 49:37
  and deal with the person and the situation that was dealt with.
• 49:40
  It's too painful. It's too painful because there's
• 49:42
  shame and the thing though is If Only They would realize that
• 49:48
  it's about talking to people about what happened versus being
• 49:52
  afraid of it, but a body needs its own time to be in a state of
• 49:58
  compassion with themselves and forgiveness with themselves and
• 50:01
  then others. So, this is why the psycho
• 50:03
  education is important. Important because people this we
• 50:06
  can find out. It's normal how people behave
• 50:09
  with each other they're all immature.
• 50:11
  Adopt children with cognitive dissonance until they are not
• 50:14
  eventually and involves learning about the body and the brain and
• 50:19
  mindfulness and mindsight these are important.
• 50:21
  So, mindfulness is what helps a person to start breathing into
• 50:24
  their body to learn about their body to create a relationship
• 50:26
  with her body compassion is what brings you to heal.
• 50:30
  Because instead of sitting in shame, blame fault or Revenge
• 50:33
  you. Sit and wait a minute.
• 50:35
  Let me allow myself to look at the context and look at where
• 50:39
  what was happening and how I handled and how you know, I'm
• 50:44
  human, I mean, perfect, we're all imperfect.
• 50:46
  So let me understand what just took place and then move into
• 50:50
  the dialogue, the reactiveness of every one of us something
• 50:55
  that comes from our safety behaviors.
• 50:58
  But because people are so busy thinking of each other as bad
• 51:01
  and evil, because they're in separation consciousness, - and
• 51:04
  there with a bunch of stories. They're busy doing that.
• 51:07
  So there's still grown up children, who are pointing
• 51:09
  fingers, which is how they felt as they were growing up when
• 51:13
  they were told no, when they were, you know, neglected or
• 51:16
  left alone or yelled at there's many moments where we can have
• 51:19
  felt shape where our creator ship got disrupted.
• 51:24
  So when you know, people cancel each other out, it produces
• 51:30
  anxiety. And besides the interpersonal
• 51:34
  Situations, it creates. There's also that systematic
• 51:37
  issue feeling not being like you're not able to breathe and
• 51:42
  regret is something that we're learning to talk about at least
• 51:47
  the psycho Educators and to share with those who are ready
• 51:52
  to grow up. So here's where ebony web, what
• 51:54
  I read to you before, about the cancel out Culture, by the way,
• 51:57
  is from Russia to Molinaro. She made this beautiful
• 52:03
  statement, I gave you the gist of it, but essentially she's the
• 52:08
  one who coined all the organizing and the fact that
• 52:12
  it's a systematic issue as well. But it's just very interesting
• 52:15
  because it is, I see it, I see it.
• 52:17
  When people are talking about it for me, personally, I don't have
• 52:22
  that many individuals who don't know how to speak about their
• 52:26
  emotions, but the reality is, I don't really try to get them to
• 52:30
  speak about anything that they don't want to.
• 52:32
  So, I'm not really dealing with anything.
• 52:34
  That the people who end up being in these places, I usually will
• 52:39
  know why. And in fact it's something
• 52:42
  natural. Again, if you're afraid of life
• 52:44
  you're going to hide away from it.
• 52:48
  And when you see that shame remorse regret and guilt,
• 52:52
  they're used as guides not Messengers.
• 52:57
  So when they're used instead, as a messenger type, this is Ebony
• 53:00
  web, they are messengers and you get to decide where they guide
• 53:05
  you how they guide you but if a person's in shame and guilt.
• 53:09
  So they're bad or they've done something bad, they going to
• 53:12
  choose their shame cycle, they use that messenger of regrouped
• 53:15
  of regret and remorse. I'm a bad person.
• 53:19
  Let me go deny everything I've done and pretend like it's
• 53:22
  nothing and keep moving on with my life and forget that I hurt
• 53:26
  somebody that I care about. And let me keep forgetting about
• 53:30
  it, but every time it comes up the remorse and regret, let me
• 53:34
  tell myself a self-defeating story because, you know, that's
• 53:39
  the easiest way for me to stay in this shame to punish myself
• 53:44
  to keep feeling shitty because the self-defeating story is why
• 53:47
  people stay even longer and rumination because they'll talk
• 53:50
  about the story again. And again again versus actually
• 53:56
  the facts and this is where Attachment style, friend.
• 53:59
  Same thing, they're always in the story, they're in a loop of
• 54:02
  a story. They ruminate they can't stick
• 54:05
  to the facts. That's why they end up twisting
• 54:07
  everything like with that one relationship, the way they did.
• 54:10
  So we're telling the facts is what can get get a person to not
• 54:14
  ruminate but besides the rumination needing to see that
• 54:18
  they can actually take action is another aspect.
• 54:22
  And again, people who don't want to face Anyone including
• 54:29
  themselves, which is what shame will do, will not want to do
• 54:33
  that, which is why I saw the person.
• 54:35
  Not deleted their email the way they did.
• 54:37
  When we ended up reconnecting due to other people, they were
• 54:42
  not happy about it. They were ashamed, Still Still,
• 54:44
  they were shamed. And this is a, you know, people
• 54:48
  call themselves intellectually Savvy.
• 54:50
  But they obviously don't have enough intellect to learn about
• 54:52
  human psychology in a way of understanding that, if you Not
• 54:56
  have a built up of good experiences in life.
• 55:00
  It means something's not really setting up for you, but again,
• 55:06
  they don't believe that. It's the mindset, they believe
• 55:08
  it's the events outside. So, excuse me, if the events
• 55:12
  outside that make their life miserable, that's the part or
• 55:15
  the people or just their bad, you know, let's just keep that
• 55:19
  phrase there. So, the compassion hat is that
• 55:22
  people with their bodies, the ones who have abuse and neglect,
• 55:26
  the ones who have Merged, amygdala, shrunken hippocampus,
• 55:28
  drunken prefrontal cortex. Like when the sociopath ladies
• 55:32
  describing in the mind of a sociopath all of her
• 55:35
  descriptions are of a traumatized brain.
• 55:37
  In fact, I hope that they're learning more and more about
• 55:41
  this because that way, they can stop identifying with these
• 55:44
  treats and understand that at some point, with their own
• 55:47
  ability to self-soothe and learning to go regulate and
• 55:50
  learning to talk that their brain will transform, they will
• 55:54
  rewire they will actually continue You developing because
• 55:57
  the right brain is underdeveloped when it comes to
• 56:00
  these attachment Styles. And the first year of life is
• 56:03
  where that will happen. Because certain brain circuitry
• 56:05
  doesn't light up and doesn't get used.
• 56:08
  If you're in a specific type of household, plus being all of us
• 56:11
  and passed. The infant is already absorbing
• 56:14
  not only in the last trimester the mother and the, I don't know
• 56:18
  if it's the chemistry or what, or how this works but the stress
• 56:21
  hormones for them or when you are around your environment,
• 56:25
  this is where as Gabor It's a points out with ADHD.
• 56:28
  Those brain circuit. She's turned off because panic
• 56:31
  and fears too much. You can't fly away.
• 56:33
  You can't run away. You can't fight it.
• 56:35
  Going to freeze you there you're stuck and your body is an
• 56:39
  intelligent. So it does what it can to ensure
• 56:42
  your survival in that environment, which is your
• 56:44
  household. And again, if it's not a
• 56:47
  pleasant one, this means you're in an unsafe environment, but it
• 56:51
  doesn't mean to see edible. Now, decent piece information on
• 56:54
  you. So those of us with Claire's
• 56:56
  They're the ones who are 5D self-empowered enlightened.
• 56:59
  We are here talking to people in a very different way.
• 57:02
  We're not talking about narcissist, I'm passing these
• 57:05
  Dynamics as stuck anywhere and in fact we're not talking about
• 57:09
  her bad. People were talking about love
• 57:12
  and we're talking about true compassion and we're trying and
• 57:15
  facts to bring together unlimited potential versus those
• 57:21
  who say, oh don't do this, don't do that.
• 57:24
  You're going to block hearing at a block there.
• 57:26
  No. Buddy blocks anything, okay,
• 57:28
  nobody blocks dismiss magic wand with relationships.
• 57:34
  You know, as it's funny because you know when I think about it
• 57:39
  any person who's really trying to tell people what to do in
• 57:43
  order to get a relationship to move forward.
• 57:45
  So these twin flame coach guys. One thing about he talks about
• 57:49
  magic, it's all be signs. Hasn't explained it yet?
• 57:51
  And yet you are. They're trying to create a whole
• 57:55
  dialogue. Around concept.
• 57:57
  But then again, that is their role to share that science
• 58:00
  behind. You know, they have their group
• 58:03
  of people and they're in that still age group but it's funny
• 58:06
  because if they really thought it through, then they would
• 58:09
  realize that any type of relationship does not involve a
• 58:13
  mediator and involves two people and what I mean by that is that
• 58:17
  there's no need for anybody to tell anybody what to do or not
• 58:20
  to do. Because the same way, our body
• 58:23
  naturally will organize itself to support ourselves this Is the
• 58:26
  same way with relationships, they will either grow or they
• 58:29
  won't and that it can suck at somebody wants to cancel you
• 58:33
  out, because they don't know how to dress the hurt that has taken
• 58:37
  place. Or they don't know how to accept
• 58:40
  that we can agree to disagree. Like my friend, this is where
• 58:43
  it's not for any one of us to judge or bring into the mixture.
• 58:47
  Of course, it won't be pleasant, but that's because we can, we
• 58:51
  can feel enough of the love and the easiness with in to people
• 58:57
  about differences and about our emotions.
• 59:00
  If they cannot, they don't. And here is where the might miss
• 59:04
  Will age group. We accept all states of
• 59:06
  Consciousness. For that reason, when somebody
• 59:08
  is blocking and funding manipulated gaslighting lying
• 59:12
  cheating. All of these things, I was a
• 59:14
  teenager and I saw it as fear. I was a lot less compassionate
• 59:18
  because to me is very straightforward, I didn't
• 59:21
  understand how hard is it for you to understand your emotions
• 59:25
  because it would seem pretty straight Words to me, I don't
• 59:28
  need anything else except for us, interacting, two notes that
• 59:31
  we're all, you know, getting into an emotional state.
• 59:36
  Then as I got older with this Free Will, what comes about and
• 59:41
  what is clear is that people will have shame blame for
• 59:44
  Revenge cycles and moocs. It will be easier for them to
• 59:47
  ruminate in their self defeating or just sad story or
• 59:51
  vilification story because again, they'll do the inner
• 59:54
  critic, outer critic them they'll just deny And they'll
• 59:57
  pretend and they'll keep moving forward.
• 59:59
  And anytime that thing comes up, so this person what I found out
• 1:00:02
  in the years was that anytime they would be reminded of loss,
• 1:00:07
  there would be tears and I'd be like, yeah well you know those
• 1:00:11
  tears what are they doing? But today with the second
• 1:00:13
  equation what I know is they just sit and ruminate and so
• 1:00:16
  they lived their entire life in a situation that could have been
• 1:00:19
  avoidable. Have, they actually used the
• 1:00:22
  intellect that they so much claims to have with the correct
• 1:00:27
  Obviously people they didn't find a person who is able to get
• 1:00:31
  through to them, you're not bad. You have a shame cycle, right?
• 1:00:36
  You have a journey but this is why it comes down to person,
• 1:00:40
  being able to believe in themselves.
• 1:00:42
  Which is exactly where anybody who does not notice that they
• 1:00:45
  have an Adaptive child will be, they don't believe in humanity,
• 1:00:48
  they don't believe in life, they don't believe in themselves.
• 1:00:51
  And so there will be conditions and those conditions are there
• 1:00:54
  little, you know, gold. Chains that they walk walk
• 1:00:58
  around with and these are their morality compasses little
• 1:01:02
  Mantle's of Enlightenment then thinking that their rights, the
• 1:01:06
  disguise for justice, their likes, and dislikes, their karma
• 1:01:10
  and do presented to people. So, you know, again, canceling
• 1:01:13
  out is just avoiding to actually face something and children will
• 1:01:17
  do that because they get scared and as they grow up, you know
• 1:01:21
  what it is scarier because when you're a grown-up, you're going
• 1:01:23
  to find an actual grown-up in front of you.
• 1:01:25
  You're not going to find Child who will react with the same
• 1:01:29
  immaturity? So by knowing that, you're going
• 1:01:31
  to be a little bit more as one would term intimidated if you
• 1:01:36
  have that level of fear. But you know the thing is that's
• 1:01:41
  where all these other salacious they really miss out because
• 1:01:45
  Enlightenment it's not about falling from the sky.
• 1:01:49
  Like set Guru says it's a depth of Dimension with your own self
• 1:01:54
  and when you can look at it humanly speaking seeking its to
• 1:01:57
  people and are more being able to simply speak their truth.
• 1:02:03
  Being authentic is not hard. The only reason people actually
• 1:02:07
  think of it as hard is because when they have shame, they
• 1:02:10
  deflected. They don't say I'm a person like
• 1:02:13
  anybody else, of course I might feel embarrassed if I'm
• 1:02:16
  vulnerable, of course I might feel silly because not, they say
• 1:02:21
  it but then they create this story.
• 1:02:23
  Those of us in the indictment. So a true free never created a
• 1:02:26
  stir. We're human, of course, we're
• 1:02:30
  going to have heard emotions. Of course, when my friend does
• 1:02:33
  what she does, I'm going to have a third, what was it about?
• 1:02:36
  Probably 10 minutes maybe where my heart was a bit upset at this
• 1:02:40
  thing that she was doing and then I'm like, you know, I have
• 1:02:43
  a good podcast episode to make actually more than just one out
• 1:02:46
  of what just happened. And the equation is simply that
• 1:02:50
  my opinion doesn't matter in this equation because it's not
• 1:02:55
  about opinions. It's about Fences and I know my
• 1:02:59
  integrity and my commitment and I know what I've always spoken
• 1:03:02
  from my mouth is the truth. And what I've behaved with is,
• 1:03:05
  always with respect, but I cannot give you that, which I
• 1:03:08
  cannot give you anything cannot accept it is not my stuff.
• 1:03:13
  I can say I'm sorry that you're hurt, which is exactly where
• 1:03:16
  that is. And I did not accuse her
• 1:03:19
  difference between a person's an actual adult and a person who
• 1:03:22
  doesn't know how to be one, which is why again be adopted
• 1:03:25
  child. Unforgiving, they self preserve.
• 1:03:29
  They've got their blinders on. There'll be the ones ruminating
• 1:03:32
  they're going to be the ones in the same cycle.
• 1:03:34
  The ones of us who say you know what I'm not ashamed.
• 1:03:37
  I'm telling you the truth. This is what it is.
• 1:03:40
  You can accept it or not. I'm so sorry that you don't
• 1:03:43
  accept it. But this is what it is.
• 1:03:45
  You stand firm. And that's why it will be called
• 1:03:49
  intimidating by people who don't know how to stand and stay firm.
• 1:03:52
  And say, yeah, we're apples and oranges but we can keep being
• 1:03:56
  friends. We just won't match here, here
• 1:03:58
  here or here, you know? So it's always going to be about
• 1:04:01
  being able to accept what is and what isn't.
• 1:04:05
  And then to create what is a middle ground, because the
• 1:04:09
  reality is even that within our relationships, For me, I learned
• 1:04:14
  it from that one friend. Remember that, I didn't talk to
• 1:04:16
  45 years because it was silly because I was angry at them
• 1:04:20
  because of how they treated the relationship.
• 1:04:22
  But the that's the part of where there was an equation that was
• 1:04:27
  not presented for us in dialogue because they chose to keep
• 1:04:31
  pretending like nothing happened, like nothing was
• 1:04:34
  changing and instead, no, there was no pretending.
• 1:04:37
  It was something that could have been easily resolved.
• 1:04:40
  Had there been an authentic, genuine honest.
• 1:04:43
  Same thing goes in any circumstance.
• 1:04:45
  If there's often two City and vulnerabilities that there won't
• 1:04:48
  be any need for people to cancel anything because there is
• 1:04:53
  addressing the feelings, there's addressing the situation,
• 1:04:56
  there's addressing it as two people who care the level of
• 1:05:00
  maturity emotionally speaking is what a person doesn't realize
• 1:05:03
  they have, or they don't have. And they don't think of it
• 1:05:06
  because they, again, judge humanity and judge life and they
• 1:05:10
  judge each other, those who are not in the enlightenment.
• 1:05:13
  So, Agent those who are in the indictments of age group, they
• 1:05:16
  are the ones who are aware of us being one, this consciousness of
• 1:05:21
  us being people, so of all of us having these types of emotions
• 1:05:27
  and the depth is not scary. It's understandable.
• 1:05:31
  When those who do not have the ability to be in their emotions,
• 1:05:35
  in their minds and in their bodies with them.
• 1:05:38
  Wielding their lovely magician Juan, they will do what they can
• 1:05:43
  to Safe that person that we got reconnected to eventually, they
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  didn't leave their same cycle, that was a very sad story.
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  That's a very sad story for me to see Humanity.
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  Be locked in their own prison, but thankfully, we have the
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  psycho Educators out there so I'm very happy plus, those of us
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  who are in this indictment so age group.
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  Because here's the one thing by being able to be 5, DC, we are
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  the ones who will never leave those people.
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  People who are willing and wanting to get out of Shame
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  alone and that's where the therapist they say.
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  We're the people that, you know, these individuals who have a
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  shame, a conviction can go to because other people will not be
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  around. So, like my friend, I have my
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  idea on how it's going to keep moving forward and they will
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  find me here, always as any other of my friends and is any
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  person who will walk you know and that's where the mentorship
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  stuff comes into the mix and creating even the new In the
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  future, the books. All these things is to support
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  people as a whole. Those who want to be in there
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  like mine. So a trip those who want to add
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  and in this 5D State of Consciousness but the reality is
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  we are the ones who are always here because we don't deflect
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  shame. We don't deflect the regret, we
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  don't deflect it this but the blame the faults that Revenge we
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  don't pretend we can talk about things, we won't say no.
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  If somebody actually He comes and talks honestly about
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  something will only play along with the right silence when we
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  realize people are afraid of us because they're afraid of
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  speaking. The truth.
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  We're not going to in fact at that point, push, anything?
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  You choose your assignments and you keep it.
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  If you're ready ever to talk here, I am, if you're not, then
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  there you go. You know, like you've chosen
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  fear. That's great and dandy.
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  Nobody's going to come, bugging you.
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  Don't worry about it like this person.
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  I did not do anything to try. And talk more.
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  I only did one conversation to talk sense into them.
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  Where I said, don't be silly, there's nothing to be ashamed
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  that we all are human. We all make mistakes, you're
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  being given an opportunity. So stop being, you know, not
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  mature about this stuff and I was lucky enough to be able to
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  say goodbye to them. And in our own unique way, have
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  this silly conversation and keep pretending that, you know,
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  everything that was the Didn't happen which is very sad.
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  But then again, you know, it is what it is.
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  Either a person can realize we're all people would be all
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  fuck up or not. We can only be there for them
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  though. And share that same
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  unconditional love, and share that same known.
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  So, pretending for us, it's about the right silence.
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  We don't pretend if I have an adoptive child in front of me.
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  I'm not going to start poking at them because I as the adult, not
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  a child, I'm not going to furthermore create an unsafe
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  environment. Which is where the adoptive
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  child is a teenager who might or might not care for their own
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  younger parts and who might or might not believe in the person
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  in front of them. So it's up to them to choose.
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  If they want to take a risk, they want to believe in a
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  person. They want to believe in
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  themselves. You want to believe in humanity.
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  Do they want to achieve Harmony? This is why twin flame so made
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  over. So we're not here in charge of
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  anybody's life. The indictments will agent
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  person will instinctively know this.
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  We're not going to tell her loved ones, who to be we're
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  going to enjoy. A our loved ones as they are.
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  Whether they want to be shame. Regret Revenge blade fault.
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  We don't actually care. Not because you don't care.
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  It's their life to live. We Will Cherish The Moments.
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  They want to share with us and even if they cancel this out,
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  we'll remember those moments and all the truth that is behind
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  them without any suffering because we actually were always
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  authentic genuine and we're not separated, FYI.
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  There's still a whole bunch of part of our Lives stories.
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  All of my stories involve them. The ones that are made up there
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  made up cuz in time we're going to have to make up stories.
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  I can't tell you all of them. But you know at the end of the
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  day, I could maybe I don't remember all of them.
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  But in like mental age, group is a very beautiful place to be and
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  to support those who will be able to support themselves to
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  become their best version because they realize, we all can
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  have option. We all do according to the
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  segment skaters I disagree Quote, but then again, it's a
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  matter of words, right? So like I said, I wear clothes,
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  they would not not wear clothes because yeah, that would be kind
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  of I don't feel comfortable without clothes on.
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  I get cold easily and also I don't like people staring.
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  So, you know, there's that that is equal to something that they
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  say shame, don't think, I think the word needs to be used
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  differently. So to be continued, I'm just
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  being so now, I hope you're having a wonderful day and I
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  look forward to your questions. If you have any that know, you
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  guys are getting soon.