Episode 03 | I Am Not Your Problem. (And Nobody Else Is, Either.)

Your Effin’ Love Story · May 17, 2026 · 13m

People ask why my courses aren't free. “They ought to be free,” they say with a great deal of passion and righteousness.

They tell me I'm too confrontational. “Your language is off-putting and I just think that you don’t need to swear so much,” I am told by those that believe that genteel language is akin to truth and comfort.

They say they'd listen if I were more gentle. “Oh my gosh, you sound so angry; just be nicer and I would be your biggest supporter.”

Here are my answers:

One, the world is already full of free information and bullshit that you likely aren't fully using. But if “free” is…