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FULL SHOW: Jono and Ben's freaky Friday moment! · Jono, Ben & Megan - The Podcast

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Speaker 1: With the John and Ben Podcast.
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Speaker 2: Cheers to Dilma making the World a better teeth yesterday.
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Speaker 3: And the VMA's the video awards going on for.
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Speaker 2: These are the fun ones. These are the ones that
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Speaker 2: my Ley got a like tongue out and the big
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Speaker 2: pointy finger. That's the Cargne storming the stage one.
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Speaker 4: MTV ones, Right, what is video? If you could just
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Speaker 4: explain the video? You make video versions of the songs.
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Speaker 5: Yeah, but you know Taylor Swift was there, obviously, you
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Speaker 5: would saying the camera never left her.
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Speaker 4: For the whole time.
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Speaker 3: It was like, it is Katy Perry's sorry, here's Tails
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Speaker 3: SWAT's reaction to Katy Pierry. Here's a reaction to eminem
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Speaker 3: You know, it was like a camera was locked on
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Speaker 3: and she had a great types.
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Speaker 4: She had great reactions to everyone.
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Speaker 2: But that's why, because she has great reactions.
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Speaker 3: But it's like, let the at least film for a
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Speaker 3: little bit and then film someone else.
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Speaker 5: I imagine she's smiling the whole time. I imagine cheeks, yeah.
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Speaker 4: Doing stuff.
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Speaker 3: She looked like she had a great time. And can
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Speaker 3: I just say this is I heard this audio yesterday
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Speaker 3: because I'm again she's never been into the relationship that
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Speaker 3: I'm into Trevis Kelsey.
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Speaker 4: Taylor Swift, and she.
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Speaker 3: Gave a wonderful shout out to her boyfriend Trevis Kelsey
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Speaker 3: yesterday when she won the Big Award with post Malone
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Speaker 3: on stage.
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Speaker 6: I would always just hear like someone like like cheering
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Speaker 6: and like.
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Speaker 4: Oooh, like like from across from across the studio where.
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Speaker 6: We were shooting it, and that that one person was
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Speaker 6: my boyfriend Travis. Everything this man touches turns to happiness
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Speaker 6: and fun and magic. So I want to thank him
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Speaker 6: for adding that to our shoot.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, beautiful, God tell us your real thoughts and feelings.
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Speaker 2: I just was like perfectly timed.
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Speaker 5: After that contract, Yeah, there was rumors that there was
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Speaker 5: a contract Showman's They called her that they both signed
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Speaker 5: a contract to promote Super Bowl and NFL and.
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Speaker 4: She's the crowded just deployed screaming.
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Speaker 2: Cut down the after she sees Travis, the screaming whittle
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Speaker 2: of the age cut it down.
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Speaker 4: Well. Katie Perry was one of the other big winners,
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Speaker 4: so she.
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Speaker 2: Won the Video Vanguard Award that means she does. She
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Speaker 2: did like a big ten minute medley of all her songs,
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Speaker 2: which was amazing, but then she got up there and
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Speaker 2: she got to do a big speech Orlando her husband, partner.
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Speaker 3: Relationship thing that's done for Sheba's purpose, because of course
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Speaker 3: they are both famous people in their own rights.
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Speaker 2: It's you would to thropple with Travis and Taylor.
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Speaker 4: Jeez, guys, don't care about you. Don't worry, don't worry.
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Speaker 5: I love it that you're very both passionate about their relationship.
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Speaker 4: But it's not offending them in anyway.
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Speaker 2: Katie except the award from Orlando her partner, which I'm
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Speaker 2: fine with. But she started it by saying this. Don't
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Speaker 2: you said that all on my first day of my period?
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Speaker 2: Can you believe it? Correct?
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Speaker 4: Katie period. It was a good performance, it was.
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Speaker 2: A great performance. And then you remember how many hits
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Speaker 2: she's got over Yeah, wow, I don't ever think she
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Speaker 2: did them all in that time.
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Speaker 4: But yeah, she's well mid thirties. I imagine Katy Pierre.
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Speaker 2: And you're like, like, she's thirty nine, it's about to
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Speaker 2: be forty.
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Speaker 4: Yeah, just time goes quick.
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Speaker 5: Then you look back at the back catalog, I reckon
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Speaker 5: she'd have fifteen bangers.
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Speaker 2: Yeah easy, Well, there we go.
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Speaker 3: That's all the action from the MTV Video Music Award.
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Speaker 1: Taking the hits that johonaan Ben podcast colds.
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Speaker 3: Particularly down south. This morning snow forecast around the Targo,
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Speaker 3: Southland and Canterbury regions are very very cold, Megan, I
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Speaker 3: know you're on the countdowns.
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Speaker 2: Two weeks for Sunday till daylight.
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Speaker 3: Saving got a polar blast here right now now, Dave
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Speaker 3: Grohl from The Food Fighters made well made news and
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Speaker 3: then the debates kind of took over a little bit,
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Speaker 3: but it's still circulating around the news.
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Speaker 5: Yeah, he announced he is going to have a baby
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Speaker 5: outside of his marriage. And you were saying this is
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Speaker 5: the perfect pr rollout time wise, Well.
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Speaker 3: It's actually a boss Matt was saying it. I haven't
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Speaker 3: looked into the pr roll out of you went across
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Speaker 3: the no.
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Speaker 2: But yeah, he dropped the news. Was it the day
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Speaker 2: before the presidential debate?
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Speaker 4: The day of Yeah, so.
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Speaker 2: And started talking about that instead of this, I.
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Speaker 3: Mean long we say there's the nice guy of rock
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Speaker 3: and roll, Dave Girl. So I guess this is what
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Speaker 3: comes to a shock.
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Speaker 4: This doesn't make him a bad person. People make mistakes.
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Speaker 3: Exactly, we all make mistakes. No, no one here is perfect.
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Speaker 3: We definitely aren't saying we're perfect as well, and you
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Speaker 3: do feel for him his wife obviously, most mostly in
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Speaker 3: the family, you know, to go through that.
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Speaker 2: So I've been through a divorce and I always after
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Speaker 2: that because it was really it's really fun, it's really difficult,
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Speaker 2: and I was like, from here on, I'm not going
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Speaker 2: to judge people's relationships because everyone comes in and thinks
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Speaker 2: they know.
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Speaker 4: Kelse and Swift.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, I know, but I see there. Fine, if they're happy,
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Speaker 2: I'm fine with it.
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Speaker 4: It's so defensive of their relationships, so against it is who.
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Speaker 3: Anyone's life.
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Speaker 4: They don't give what you think. What you think. But you, guys,
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Speaker 4: this is coming between you two. There's two celebrities you're
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Speaker 4: never going to meet. They don't even know the relationship.
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Speaker 2: He's still rigging. He's going to meet them.
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Speaker 3: He's going to be the wedding party.
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Speaker 2: But the thing is, you're right, like he's we've met him.
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Speaker 2: He's a really nice guy, and he's made mistakes and
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Speaker 2: it sounds like he's made a few mistakes and a
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Speaker 2: lot of relationships. But you know, we're all human at
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Speaker 2: the end of the day, and the only person he
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Speaker 2: has to apologize to is his partner partners.
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Speaker 4: Yeah, and you you do, that's who you really do
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Speaker 4: feel sorry for.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, the people I'm saying it was a good thing
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Speaker 2: to do.
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Speaker 5: It's a it's a doozy of a mistake, that's for sure.
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Speaker 5: But then you do really feel sorry for his wife, Jordan,
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Speaker 5: their three children as well. They're all afected by someone
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Speaker 5: else's actions such a public platform as.
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Speaker 2: Well, which is hard being you know, like his kids
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Speaker 2: and now the whole internet is like your.
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Speaker 4: Dad, douge. Well, yeah, I know, wife Jim was like
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Speaker 4: he was, he was my favorite. No disappointed, but hey,
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Speaker 4: people screw up. That's life, that's what we do.
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Speaker 3: But can you come back from that in a relationship,
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Speaker 3: you know when it comes to that, Because imagine there'
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Speaker 3: people listening right now that this may have happened to
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Speaker 3: and the relationships he ended, and maybe relationships haven't ended because.
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Speaker 4: Of this, And I'm really disappointed.
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Speaker 5: Out of all of the professions you would hope to
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Speaker 5: never have an affair, you would imagine a rock star
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Speaker 5: would be the last one.
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Speaker 2: It never happened before, truly upstairs, When would he get
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Speaker 2: the opportunity to step out of his marriage?
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Speaker 4: Brock stars and rappers?
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Speaker 3: I would there goes my hero is one of the
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Speaker 3: things that's been bandied about.
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Speaker 5: So he's still gonna sing that I've got a time
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Speaker 5: of cheap big boys.
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Speaker 4: Comes up with this cheap dad gags.
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Speaker 5: He's been defending Travis and Taylor comes with low brow
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Speaker 5: song gags.
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Speaker 2: What it was the one? He's got something else to confect?
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Speaker 4: I know? Yeah, oh you mean this one here? Sorry,
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Speaker 4: you've got another confession. So yeah, we want to know.
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Speaker 3: We're going to talk, actually talk to a relationship expert
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Speaker 3: because we want to know CAM relationships get through this
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Speaker 3: and how do you get through this? Maybe it has
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Speaker 3: happened to you and you've got some advice. On four
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Speaker 3: four eight seven, Beyonce gave.
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Speaker 1: Jay Z's that jonaan Ben podcast.
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Speaker 3: I wanted to know, you know, in the case of
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Speaker 3: Dave Grohl and obviously what's happened in his relationship.
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Speaker 4: We said, a baby out of wedlock.
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Speaker 3: CAM relationships can they survive when someone cheats? And we've
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Speaker 3: got a relationship a coach and New Zealand's leading certified
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Speaker 3: divorced separation coach on with us right now, Bridget Jackson,
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Speaker 3: good morning, Hello, Well.
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Speaker 7: We got Meghan with us.
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Speaker 4: Now to Bridget, we have even spoken to you with
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Speaker 4: Meghan high Bridge.
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Speaker 8: No, Hi, Megan, you just so.
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Speaker 5: You know, Meghan, we have an introduction for Oh yeah,
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Speaker 5: we do. I forgot about that Bridget. For Bridget Jackson.
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Speaker 4: Never want to get.
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Speaker 5: Divorced, but if I do, we all Bridget we always enjoy,
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Speaker 5: We always enjoy catching up with you.
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Speaker 3: Well, just thought the scenario that happened obviously to someone
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Speaker 3: way more famous than people listening in us right now.
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Speaker 3: But Dave Grohl, the situation where he's gone out and
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Speaker 3: he's had an affair and got a baby? Can relationships
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Speaker 3: get back together after this? Can they survive?
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Speaker 1: That?
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Speaker 8: They can? They absolutely can, remembering that rebuilding the trust
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Speaker 8: is going to be absolutely power amount. Physical infidelity doesn't
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Speaker 8: require emotional or romantic feelingsits, but emotional cheating does so.
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Speaker 8: Initially when the affair comes out to play, triggers really
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Speaker 8: powerful emotions for both. You know, there's anger, betrayal, shaane, depression,
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Speaker 8: guilt and remorse, etcetera. And it's usually really difficult in
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Speaker 8: the first instance to make long term decisions. What I
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Speaker 8: recommend my guidance would be that you've got to take
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Speaker 8: time apart because emotions are really hard to manage. When
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Speaker 8: the truth truth surfaces and don't make rash decisions. Big
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Speaker 8: one is steer clear of social media because high emotions
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Speaker 8: and the social don't mix, and both have to really
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Speaker 8: reassess what's important, what are your priorities in life and really,
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Speaker 8: in this case, considering their three children and what role
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Speaker 8: the other mother will play in their lives, because you know,
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Speaker 8: mending and recovering from an a fear it really is
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Speaker 8: one of the most challenging chapters in someone's life, and
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Speaker 8: I see them by practice every day.
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Speaker 2: I've been through a divorce and I always vowed that
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Speaker 2: I would never judge people in their relationships again. But
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Speaker 2: do you think that he's shown a passion of behavior.
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Speaker 2: It's come out that he's done this before with his
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Speaker 2: other partners. Do you still think he can change? There's
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Speaker 2: the old does a leopard change of spots?
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Speaker 8: Well, you know, there's been a huge amount, hasn't there
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Speaker 8: of public scrutiny, And it's really less about what they say.
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Speaker 8: It's about the actions and the steps that they're willing
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Speaker 8: to take and learn and own their mistakes. You know,
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Speaker 8: show up and he has done that, and it's coming
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Speaker 8: back to you willing to do this therapy as a
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Speaker 8: couple and on their own, which actually is a really
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Speaker 8: it's a green it's a green flag or positive step.
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Speaker 8: But as disheartening as cheating can be, past cheating, the
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Speaker 8: relationship isn't necessarily.
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Speaker 5: Doing just can't cast judgment, can you, because no one's
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Speaker 5: in that sits We're not in the eye of the
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Speaker 5: storm there, and you never know what you do if
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Speaker 5: you're in someone's shoes.
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Speaker 8: We aren't living lives. We don't know what's happening behind
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Speaker 8: those closed doors. And they need that time and that
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Speaker 8: privacy work through it, they really do.
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Speaker 5: I can't imagine it's a fun conversation coming home and
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Speaker 5: telling your wife you've had a baby with another woman.
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Speaker 5: I can't imagine that's a great after dinner conversation if
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Speaker 5: you have cheated conversation wise, how do you how do
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Speaker 5: you even.
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Speaker 4: Bring that up?
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Speaker 8: Well, you know, they need to, They need to absolutely
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Speaker 8: fe up in the first instance, because I see situations
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Speaker 8: where people find out third hand from others and that
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Speaker 8: ends up just the conflict escalating massively. But in the
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Speaker 8: first instance, you really are going to realize that that
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Speaker 8: other person is potentially going to react in a way
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Speaker 8: that well escalate the conflict. But you've got to you know,
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Speaker 8: as couples really want to be in a relationship, they
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Speaker 8: will make it work regardless of what everyone else thinks.
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Speaker 5: Right, well, so I'm really sorry, bridg You're going to
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Speaker 5: wrap it up. There are running out of time, and
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Speaker 5: thank you so much. We always love talking to you,
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Speaker 5: Miss Jackson.
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Speaker 1: Have a good One's the johonaan Ben podcast.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, because quickly right now, I know this is probably
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Speaker 3: a conversation that many have had over the years. But
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Speaker 3: when it comes to socks and the washing machine, where
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Speaker 3: do they go? All the dry situation as well? We've
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Speaker 3: got a little now, a little container on top of
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Speaker 3: our washing machine. I've just like single socks that I
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Speaker 3: keep going. They will find a peer.
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Speaker 4: You hold out, You hold out hope for a miracle,
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Speaker 4: don't you.
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Speaker 5: They're just going to emerge one day like a dead
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Speaker 5: beat dead he's been missing for seventeen years.
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Speaker 4: I am mad, Yeah, and very really do they ever
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Speaker 4: come back? I don't know.
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Speaker 3: If they get lost in the washing machine, do they
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Speaker 3: stick to other clothes or maybe they don't even make
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Speaker 3: it to the washing machine.
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Speaker 2: Do they make it into sleeves? About the things that
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Speaker 2: you don't wear very often all.
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Speaker 4: But they weird, do they go?
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Speaker 3: I've got one at the moment, just I've just noticed
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Speaker 3: it's been gone on how long before it I bought it?
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Speaker 4: And because my life's like get rid of it. No,
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Speaker 4: it's my lucky sock.
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Speaker 3: And it's it's a sock right here, black sock. It's
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Speaker 3: got a little green four leaf clover. I don't know
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Speaker 3: how lucky it is, but I was just kind of like, what,
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Speaker 3: it's got to be lucky because it's got a four
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Speaker 3: leaf clover on it. So I refuse to throw it
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Speaker 3: away orphaned, But I don't know where the pier are
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Speaker 3: the other pairs?
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Speaker 2: Is that worse luck though, that you've lost your other lucky?
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Speaker 3: You're probably right and we need to find it. We
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Speaker 3: need to start. I was singing like a tinder for socks.
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Speaker 3: You know, you've got tinder.
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Speaker 5: For people like you can just swipe swipe right. You know, sockers,
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Speaker 5: you put up a solo soft like have you got for.
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Speaker 3: A mats a match? We're looking for single socks in
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Speaker 3: your area.
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Speaker 5: Let's find let's find the partner to your sock. Someone
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Speaker 5: else out there might have a single lucky.
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Speaker 2: I've never seen that sock before in my life.
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Speaker 4: Oh good, but you'll got like a run of the mill.
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Speaker 3: That's what someone would say if they had my sock.
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Speaker 4: You so what sock?
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Speaker 2: I haven't stolen your one sock.
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Speaker 5: Let's put a phone up on social on the hits
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Speaker 5: briefs and we'll try and find. We'll make it our
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Speaker 5: life for someone else's sock on my socke not life.
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Speaker 5: I won't make it my life mission that you want
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Speaker 5: to make it not life color. I have a friend
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Speaker 5: who does as everyone have mismatchures.
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Speaker 4: He just puts any peer on. It drives me wide.
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Speaker 3: I'll do the same type of sock, like if I
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Speaker 3: had another sock like that they had a different emblem moment,
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Speaker 3: But I wouldn't wear a white sock with a.
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Speaker 5: He'll just put if it's sort of cylinder and it'll
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Speaker 5: cover his footy.
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Speaker 4: You'll put it on. He'll put it like an InKo
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Speaker 4: sockhole with a business. Oh, it just winds me up.
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Speaker 2: I wouldn't ever have picked you to wears mismatch socks. Like.
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Speaker 2: Someone brought me different emblems.
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Speaker 3: Some brought me some with Monday, Tuesday, Wednesdays, and I
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Speaker 3: was like, I can't even match those days. Sometimes I'm
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Speaker 3: wearing a Wednesday with a Friday. Oh god, but that's
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Speaker 3: the same time of socks.
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Speaker 2: I don't think that you were that kind of person.
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Speaker 2: I really think you'd be moday a.
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Speaker 4: Lot of things. But I'm not weirdly bedetic about matching socks.
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Speaker 4: I don't know why.
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Speaker 3: At the rest of the stuff we wear a he's like,
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Speaker 3: you're concerned about his socks, but everything else it's just
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Speaker 3: like a holy old T shirt for the night.
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Speaker 2: Did you wear a weekend sock during the week?
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Speaker 4: Yeah, we wouldn't work.
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Speaker 5: Yeah.
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Speaker 1: The heads that johnaan Ben.
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Speaker 3: Podcast, The Black Ferns over in the UK. They play
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Speaker 3: on Sunday and they met King Charles wonderful moment. They
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Speaker 3: had a hug with him at Buckingham Palace yesterday. But
14:54
Speaker 3: Ruby Towey was having a conversation getting to meet him,
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Speaker 3: and I love some of the words that.
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Speaker 4: She up into the conversation with the king. Guys, we're
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Speaker 4: about to legit meet the king.
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Speaker 8: How do you feel about meeting the King of English?
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Speaker 8: Chris Pennicotta, there's a long word for a small right subject.
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Speaker 4: How are you? Did you play rugby scrummer?
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Speaker 1: Broke News.
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Speaker 8: You've got enough room out they have like three rugby
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Speaker 8: fields to we're gonna have a rugby.
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Speaker 3: Cup, calling the boss brave subject.
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Speaker 4: She's like, enough room for three rugby fields.
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Speaker 3: He's like, there's a lot of goose droppings out there, apparently,
15:42
Speaker 3: so you wouldn't want to pay rugby.
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Speaker 2: And they gave him a hug.
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Speaker 4: I know, it was a pretty pretty cool man.
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Speaker 2: Like smile that big when they gave him a group hug.
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Speaker 4: He's never felt the embrace of another human being.
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Speaker 3: I mean, the king needs a bit of love from
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Speaker 3: time to time.
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Speaker 1: You know.
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Speaker 3: I love the hug. It was a lovely moment. Two,
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Speaker 3: that's why we love it. She's awesome. Now we've got
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Speaker 3: a great text just just through before about someone can't
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Speaker 3: make work today Friday, going into the weekend. You're like,
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Speaker 3: is this a convenient text descend or is this a
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Speaker 3: legitimate horrible thing that's.
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Speaker 4: Happened to someone. Yeah, it's obviously a situation. That's it's
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Speaker 4: a deffication situation.
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Speaker 3: Yeah that's what Well said. Yeah, Yeah, you're right.
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Speaker 5: The text starts by saying, please don't put me on here.
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Speaker 5: I'm a manager, but I had to text you anyway.
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Speaker 5: I've just had a staff member text me to say
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Speaker 5: that they passed wind while driving to work on the
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Speaker 5: motorway and then followed through Oh no, no, so they're
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Speaker 5: taking the work fan back home to sort things out.
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Speaker 2: Wait, they're just not coming in today or are they
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Speaker 2: going to be late?
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Speaker 3: Well, they're definitely going to be late. I mean yeah,
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Speaker 3: I mean, would you cut? That's pretty honest text. And
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Speaker 3: I guess as far as excuses going, I'm not saying
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Speaker 3: someone's made this situation up because I don't think would
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Speaker 3: you make that such a way.
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Speaker 2: Well, you know you're not going to get follow up question.
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Speaker 4: Excuse.
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Speaker 5: I love it when you go I've got a specialist appointment.
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Speaker 5: You're checking specialists and no one there is no further questioning. Yeah, yeah,
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Speaker 5: have you ever thrown out I've got a specialist appointment
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Speaker 5: as an excuse?
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Speaker 2: Yep, I definitely have, definitely have. Yeah, A good one
17:19
Speaker 2: is Diarrhea's no further questions year on.
17:23
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'd rather go with the specialist, to be honest,
17:25
Speaker 4: but I've got some options.
17:27
Speaker 2: Badly, you want to get out of something.
17:28
Speaker 3: I think I was telling you the other day that
17:29
Speaker 3: I was trying to trying to get out of something
17:31
Speaker 3: and felt a little bad about it and said, oh sorry,
17:33
Speaker 3: I got something else on that date. And then they went,
17:36
Speaker 3: that's all good. It's no, it's moved to another date now.
17:39
Speaker 3: And no excuse, no excuse.
17:42
Speaker 2: Don't believe you said I could do any other day.
17:46
Speaker 5: I just can't do that any listen there, and I like,
17:49
Speaker 5: that's all good this other day, and so now I'm
17:51
Speaker 5: doing It's silly you.
17:53
Speaker 1: I'll tell you that, John wan Ben podcast.
17:56
Speaker 5: Now our boss met Anderson. She was gonna get upset
18:01
Speaker 5: about this as well. Right, we're running a bit of
18:03
Speaker 5: a bingo competition on the station at the moment with
18:05
Speaker 5: bingo balls, and in the studio there's a tray of
18:10
Speaker 5: miniature balls all lined up.
18:12
Speaker 4: How many would be there? Says thirty or forty?
18:14
Speaker 3: There fifty of them is fifty fifty balls right or allocated?
18:20
Speaker 4: These balls.
18:20
Speaker 3: He's got a spreadsheet. He send out multiple emails. He's like,
18:23
Speaker 3: whatever you do, do not touch these balls in the studio.
18:26
Speaker 3: It's you know, like basically if they go missing, they've
18:29
Speaker 3: got a.
18:29
Speaker 5: Hands off balls policy. Generally in the studio don't. But yeah,
18:33
Speaker 5: this one he's very tense about.
18:35
Speaker 1: Now.
18:35
Speaker 5: He's got spreadsheets, he's got everything, and so if anything
18:39
Speaker 5: would have happen to these bingo balls, he would I
18:42
Speaker 5: mean the other day.
18:43
Speaker 3: Yeah, PJ from many a PJ. She moved one and
18:47
Speaker 3: that caused major.
18:49
Speaker 2: Email went out, a very passive, aggressive email from Matt.
18:52
Speaker 5: Not touching the balls again, hands off the balls and
18:57
Speaker 5: so yesterday you too, evil evil plan. Oh now you
19:00
Speaker 5: put okay, Well you did well. We took a photo
19:03
Speaker 5: of the balls and the.
19:05
Speaker 2: Tray so we knew, we knew exactly where everything was
19:07
Speaker 2: so it could easily be put back.
19:09
Speaker 3: And then we rehearsed a wonderful, wonderful performance.
19:12
Speaker 5: We were calling it the pantomime to be honest, I
19:14
Speaker 5: was like, Oh, I don't know this is going to
19:15
Speaker 5: go because you're we're across the road at the cafo.
19:17
Speaker 4: You're like, I'm going to come in like this. Then
19:19
Speaker 4: I'll say this, and I'm like, this is just going
19:21
Speaker 4: to be. So I was going to, hello, my good lady,
19:23
Speaker 4: pass you. The bulls began.
19:25
Speaker 3: I was going to and then we're gonna, you know,
19:28
Speaker 3: like not grab it properly, and then the balls were
19:30
Speaker 3: going to scatter it anywhere. Just as our boss, Matt
19:32
Speaker 3: was walking in for our nine thirty men never listened
19:34
Speaker 3: to ever listen to this.
19:36
Speaker 9: Yeah, oh my god, you hear that you.
19:48
Speaker 4: The coming days? Have we done?
19:51
Speaker 8: And oh no, you only go before I had it.
19:56
Speaker 9: I want to say, Yeah, it's all I could think
20:10
Speaker 9: about was my spreadsheet.
20:12
Speaker 7: All I can about was my spreadsheet.
20:15
Speaker 5: So that's that was a cutdown of what happened in
20:18
Speaker 5: the moment. Oh, it felt like fifteen minutes. Ensins were high.
20:22
Speaker 4: Parents, you know where you just did.
20:24
Speaker 3: You were like, I've told you guys about this, and
20:26
Speaker 3: I'm going up. I don't want to yell, but I'm
20:28
Speaker 3: about to yell.
20:29
Speaker 2: So he did some deep breast good on him.
20:31
Speaker 4: He was like.
20:33
Speaker 5: Looking, you know when people are so angry, they start
20:35
Speaker 5: twitching like the angers almost it just wants to burst out,
20:38
Speaker 5: but he was containing it. It was like the equivalent
20:40
Speaker 5: of knocking over a three thousand piece jigsaw puzzle.
20:43
Speaker 3: I don't know where the oscars are, but me and
20:44
Speaker 3: I think we could be front runner.
20:45
Speaker 2: Yeah, how was our pantomime in the end?
20:47
Speaker 5: John? Actually fantastic. I was like it was deep inside
20:52
Speaker 5: there was beautiful. So they would go, that's just winding
20:54
Speaker 5: up our boss. Do we filmed it too?
20:57
Speaker 2: Yeah?
20:57
Speaker 3: But I'll go up at some stage today. You can
20:59
Speaker 3: see it on the hat spread Facebook, at Instagram.
21:02
Speaker 1: The hits that johnaan Ben podcast.
21:04
Speaker 3: Into the weekend Saturday nights is going to be huge.
21:06
Speaker 3: A fight nights going on at the Vitact event Center
21:09
Speaker 3: which is headlined by David Nika boxer and he joins
21:12
Speaker 3: us in the studio right now.
21:13
Speaker 4: How you doing. Hello, lovely to see you mate.
21:16
Speaker 7: I'm good to see you guys. This is awesome.
21:18
Speaker 3: Nice to have you he Yeah, thanks for having me.
21:20
Speaker 3: So a couple of days out from a big fight
21:22
Speaker 3: this weekend Saturday night. Yes, the last one you had
21:25
Speaker 3: in New Zealand was twenty three seconds.
21:28
Speaker 4: It lasted for.
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Speaker 10: Yeah, including the count, including the count to ten for
21:31
Speaker 10: the guy that was on the ground.
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Speaker 3: So that's a thirteen second fight for you.
21:35
Speaker 4: Yeah.
21:36
Speaker 7: I'm hoping this guy brings brings a little.
21:38
Speaker 4: Bit more as a professional box So obviously you're training
21:41
Speaker 4: for months leading into this. Do you want it to
21:44
Speaker 4: go longer than thirteen seconds? Are you happy with that result? Yeah?
21:48
Speaker 10: We don't get paid overtime, but obviously I need to
21:51
Speaker 10: develop a need. I need to get into these into
21:53
Speaker 10: the later rounds. I'm going to be fighting for world
21:55
Speaker 10: titles in the near future. So I'd love to go
21:58
Speaker 10: past like six, seven and eight rounds just to kind
22:01
Speaker 10: of get that experience under my belt.
22:02
Speaker 5: So there's no actual like personal development for you when
22:05
Speaker 5: you knock someone out in five second.
22:07
Speaker 10: Really not really when you get to throw, like I
22:09
Speaker 10: think that was four punches threw in that fight.
22:11
Speaker 2: How many punches did he land?
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Speaker 7: Yeah, thirteen seconds. I don't think you landed.
22:20
Speaker 2: For me, I measured.
22:22
Speaker 3: This is gonna sound like a dumb question, but imagine
22:24
Speaker 3: getting punched in the face hurts, and that's part.
22:26
Speaker 4: Of your job. You know that's going to happen. Even
22:28
Speaker 4: when you went fight.
22:29
Speaker 3: It's maybe not this one that lasted not long, but
22:31
Speaker 3: you know it does actually happen, right.
22:33
Speaker 10: Yeah, I've been doing this for I've just sticked over
22:36
Speaker 10: half my life. I've been boxing four now. So at
22:38
Speaker 10: fourteen I started. I told her getting punched in the face.
22:41
Speaker 7: You can get used to it, but that's a real danger.
22:44
Speaker 7: You're not getting.
22:48
Speaker 4: So inspiring. You're obviously sparring people you know, respect friends.
22:52
Speaker 4: You have to go in there and you're like, I
22:53
Speaker 4: want to represent off. Yeah, how's that transition mentally?
22:57
Speaker 10: Oh, it's much nicer when you're sparring with like guys
22:59
Speaker 10: you like and that you're When it comes to fights,
23:02
Speaker 10: I find it a little bit awkward.
23:03
Speaker 7: If I'm completely.
23:04
Speaker 10: Honest, I'm really bad with confrontation, which is hilarious. I
23:09
Speaker 10: get the wrong coffee on it and I'm like, I'm
23:10
Speaker 10: just gonna drink it.
23:14
Speaker 4: It want to make I'm terrible the pre the pre
23:18
Speaker 4: fight banter, the press conferences. You're not comfortable. I suck.
23:23
Speaker 7: I'm just like I'm sitting there giving them more the compliments.
23:27
Speaker 4: More.
23:28
Speaker 7: My My ring name is the nice guy.
23:31
Speaker 4: That's good.
23:32
Speaker 7: I think it's fitting as well.
23:33
Speaker 10: I'm actually like not a douche bag, and I'm actually
23:36
Speaker 10: quite confident saying that.
23:37
Speaker 2: Speaking of that, I saw recently Israel at a sign
23:39
Speaker 2: you got approached by someone in the street, absolute d
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Speaker 2: bag wanting to have a fight with him in the street.
23:45
Speaker 2: Has it ever happened to you someone approaching you and
23:47
Speaker 2: be like, all right, tough guy.
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Speaker 10: Funnily enough, never, I've never been in the street fight.
23:52
Speaker 10: I've like, I'm like I said, I'm the first person
23:55
Speaker 10: to like similar things down and I give I've never
23:58
Speaker 10: given anyone a reason to want to have a go exactly. Yeah,
24:02
Speaker 10: and like, I hope that doesn't like stir anyone up.
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Speaker 4: I thought it was very brave having a crack at Israel.
24:09
Speaker 7: Yeah, so I've sparred Israel quite a lot.
24:13
Speaker 10: I was just I was his main spiring partner when
24:15
Speaker 10: he fought and some silver, and I remember like working
24:18
Speaker 10: with him and kind of I realized very quickly when
24:22
Speaker 10: I like backed him into a corner through like a
24:23
Speaker 10: double jab right hand, and he slipped out of the
24:25
Speaker 10: way and then pulled my head into a knee and
24:28
Speaker 10: it was like my life flash before.
24:30
Speaker 7: He has that much control.
24:32
Speaker 10: But like I realized and I stood up and I
24:34
Speaker 10: was like, like I've seen a ghost. I was like,
24:36
Speaker 10: this guy has six other limbs that I don't know.
24:40
Speaker 10: I'm really good with these boys. He's an absolute monster
24:44
Speaker 10: and like his his control. He would be an absolute
24:49
Speaker 10: monster in a street fight, and like I've never been
24:52
Speaker 10: in a street.
24:52
Speaker 7: Fight, would be pretty good, yeah myself, but yeah, he's
24:58
Speaker 7: the last guy i'd pick on, you know.
25:00
Speaker 4: Pretty brain.
25:01
Speaker 3: This took Saturday night because obviously, as in Auckland, people
25:04
Speaker 3: can watch as well on his own.
25:07
Speaker 10: So it's the This is the first time that design
25:10
Speaker 10: has come to New Zealand.
25:11
Speaker 7: So it is a really really big deal.
25:13
Speaker 4: It's daz In.
25:14
Speaker 10: That's the global streaming platform for boxing today. That's the
25:19
Speaker 10: biggest the home of boxing now, which is incredible and
25:22
Speaker 10: to be spear hitting that is really really cool.
25:25
Speaker 3: And the fight, the fighter that you're going to fight
25:26
Speaker 3: against was just found pretty recently because the first guy
25:29
Speaker 3: sort of failed a drug test, right, they found someone
25:32
Speaker 3: in like twenty four forty eight hours.
25:33
Speaker 10: No, he failed the drug tests about six weeks ago,
25:37
Speaker 10: and we were we were doing everything we could to
25:39
Speaker 10: kind of sweep it under the rug.
25:40
Speaker 7: We were trying to.
25:41
Speaker 4: Help them drink water. Yeah, here's my year on. So
25:46
Speaker 4: what is taking steroids?
25:47
Speaker 5: Obviously, Yeah, what advantage does it give the other fight?
25:51
Speaker 10: I don't know, But this was it was exogynists test osteron.
25:56
Speaker 10: So testosterone from an external source, and that basically helps
25:59
Speaker 10: you recover faster, helps you build muscle. It's like it's
26:03
Speaker 10: like the young man's hormone.
26:04
Speaker 4: So you can just train harder.
26:06
Speaker 10: Yeah, exactly exactly. I was very confident that I could
26:09
Speaker 10: beat him, juicing or not. But we've got another guy
26:12
Speaker 10: from the States. His name is Tommy Carpenty. He's he's
26:16
Speaker 10: got a similar record. He's beaten formal world champions.
26:19
Speaker 7: He's tough, he's decent.
26:20
Speaker 10: Yeah, he's decent, and it would look really good if
26:23
Speaker 10: I could just steamroll them.
26:26
Speaker 5: You're a true gentleman, and like we say, we can
26:28
Speaker 5: never imagine you're hurting people in the ring.
26:30
Speaker 4: Yeah, you're so lovely. But you do a good job
26:32
Speaker 4: of it. Thanks man.
26:33
Speaker 7: Yeah, and I'll keep doing it. I'll keep doing it.
26:35
Speaker 7: We'll bring some world titles back to music.
26:37
Speaker 1: The hits that jonaan Ben podcast.
26:39
Speaker 3: Episode three of the podcast and there with my daughter
26:41
Speaker 3: Siena as out today Lucy Lawless as the guest, which
26:45
Speaker 3: is pretty incredible. I was very surprised when I'm the
26:48
Speaker 3: celebrity booker the podcast, how are you?
26:52
Speaker 4: How are you harassing these people? Are you going through
26:54
Speaker 4: social media?
26:56
Speaker 5: Social media, sometimes emails and sometimes tracking people down?
26:59
Speaker 2: And yeah it's a great GISs. Yeah, well we could
27:03
Speaker 2: have really done with the show.
27:04
Speaker 3: I'm amazed as some of the people that have said yes,
27:06
Speaker 3: as I said before, every week seeing her and myself
27:09
Speaker 3: talked to an inspirational woman who you know, has done
27:12
Speaker 3: some amazing things in their life and get some advice
27:14
Speaker 3: for young people. It's a great thing to listen to
27:16
Speaker 3: with your kids. Yeah, Lucy Lawless, Dame Melissa Carrington, Karen
27:19
Speaker 3: Walker as well, it's pretty incredible listen.
27:21
Speaker 5: Yeah, you've become a full time celebrity stalker, I have.
27:25
Speaker 4: Is stalking quite a commitment?
27:26
Speaker 3: It as a real commitment. Yeah, it definitely is a
27:29
Speaker 3: real commitment. But Lucy Lewis has seen a obviously iconic show.
27:32
Speaker 3: You're thinking about it actually when we're talking to her,
27:34
Speaker 3: you know, it really led the way for a lot
27:35
Speaker 3: of productions in New Zealand, you know, Yeah, it was
27:38
Speaker 3: kind of the first show that was made here that
27:39
Speaker 3: went sort of international, and the first show she was
27:42
Speaker 3: saying with two female leads way back in the day too.
27:45
Speaker 4: Yeah, very very unique.
27:47
Speaker 3: But we asked there, as we do every guest on
27:48
Speaker 3: the show, what that would they tell themselves? You know,
27:51
Speaker 3: at seeing his age thirteen fourteen years old, what would.
27:54
Speaker 7: You tell your thirteen year old or fourteen year old self.
27:57
Speaker 11: I think we all adults would go back into a
28:00
Speaker 11: fitting yourself.
28:00
Speaker 1: It's gonna be okay.
28:02
Speaker 11: You know, you're gonna figure it's gonna feel tough, and
28:04
Speaker 11: it's gonna feel scary. It's gonna be okay because as
28:07
Speaker 11: the obstacles as you meet them, your skills and you're
28:11
Speaker 11: understanding the world is going to help you surmount them.
28:13
Speaker 11: So chill, bro, it's gonna be okay.
28:17
Speaker 3: You know you're way too good for this podcast, right,
28:18
Speaker 3: you know that, But again, you're being so nice and lovely.
28:23
Speaker 3: That's Lucy Lorless. You can get your episode three of
28:26
Speaker 3: When I Grow Up podcast out? Now, what would you
28:28
Speaker 3: tell yourself at thirteen to fourteen year olds?
28:31
Speaker 2: Don't obsess over Mike Roberts. He doesn't like you and
28:33
Speaker 2: you're not going to end up with them.
28:35
Speaker 4: You're in love with Michael Roberts.
28:36
Speaker 2: Mike Roberts Roberts, that's.
28:39
Speaker 4: An unusual question for a thirteen year old. It's like, well,
28:41
Speaker 4: he's definitely not gonna go out if it's on the news.
28:44
Speaker 4: That is troublesome for Mike Roberte year olds chasing him.
28:48
Speaker 2: No, I agree with Lucy, like everything feels like all
28:51
Speaker 2: encompassing when you're that age, and high school as hard,
28:55
Speaker 2: but you come out the other side of it and
28:57
Speaker 2: then you suddenly have a lot of freedom and you
28:59
Speaker 2: you come into yourself and.
29:00
Speaker 3: It's easier now or harder now because growing up, are
29:04
Speaker 3: you harder growing up and mastered and that was that
29:07
Speaker 3: was your world, was mastering.
29:09
Speaker 4: But now you what a world? What a world?
29:12
Speaker 2: Media?
29:12
Speaker 5: But there you got such your world as the world.
29:14
Speaker 5: You know, if it's harder or easier to know.
29:16
Speaker 2: I'm so thankful I didn't grow up with social media
29:18
Speaker 2: because we I grew up when texting came in and
29:21
Speaker 2: that was enough. Like the people were bullying over texting,
29:25
Speaker 2: so like they will always find a way, but you're
29:28
Speaker 2: just giving them more tools. So I mean, like, I
29:30
Speaker 2: think everyone kind of got bullied in some form. But
29:34
Speaker 2: the bullies they go away.
29:35
Speaker 5: But it was good old fashioned bullying to wasn't It
29:38
Speaker 5: was kind of like, well just after school, but punch
29:41
Speaker 5: you in the face.
29:42
Speaker 4: And move on with the day.
29:43
Speaker 3: You know, right, you you're going to publicly state that
29:48
Speaker 3: you're a fan of bullying, any form of bullying.
29:51
Speaker 5: You know, I'm going to pick bullying that just takes
29:53
Speaker 5: place in a certain time frame between the nine.
29:56
Speaker 4: And three and it follows your home.
29:58
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's the scary thing, right, People, Like with social
30:01
Speaker 3: media you can get talk to you know, missages all
30:04
Speaker 3: ours to night.
30:05
Speaker 4: What did you tell yourself that ain't for You're not
30:08
Speaker 4: going to become Andreas you're not, and you need to
30:13
Speaker 4: learn that. You need to learn that pretty quick. Give
30:15
Speaker 4: up on that dream pretty quick, and give up on
30:17
Speaker 4: your dream of heavy hair for your entire life.
30:20
Speaker 5: Did the same hand, the same dream as well, a
30:22
Speaker 5: wonderful bult for many years,