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Happy Hour #102: SMNTY, You Sloppy · Stuff Mom Never Told You

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  Speaker 1: Hey, this is Annie and Samantha. They're welcome to stuff
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  Speaker 1: I never told you, protection of iHeart Radio, and welcome
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  Speaker 1: to our first recording of twenty three. So if we
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  Speaker 1: are rusty, bear with us. Hey, that's my theme song
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  Speaker 1: for life. I'm always rusty. I recorded with Savor for
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  Speaker 1: the first time of the year yesterday and it was
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  Speaker 1: not good. Like, why did I lose everything I know
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  Speaker 1: over the s fan of like one week? Anyway, I'm
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  Speaker 1: We're all working it out, working it out. Happy New Year, everybody,
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  Speaker 1: This is our first happy hour of the year. Also, um,
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  Speaker 1: as always with these, drink responsibly. Well are you sipping on, Samantha,
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  Speaker 1: I am actually drinking something that you gave me Christmas. Um.
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  Speaker 1: It is the Anna Green Gables Tea. So the Anna
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  Speaker 1: Green Tea Gables, yes, which I'm assuming is yes, um,
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  Speaker 1: and it's from y'all. I'm trying to read it off
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  Speaker 1: and I'm in a dark part of my office and
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  Speaker 1: I can't see, so band with me as I try
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  Speaker 1: to read this off. It is from novelty Tens dot com.
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  Speaker 1: M that's the site, and it is a green tea
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  Speaker 1: with orange pill raspberry pieces and natural flavor. So I'm
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  Speaker 1: trying to be all natural moderate caffeine, also trying to
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  Speaker 1: be caffeinated because that is the new year. Am I right?
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  Speaker 1: Am I right? Yeah? So far that's been my experience.
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  Speaker 1: Um well, I'm continuing to drink red wine out of
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  Speaker 1: a box. Yeah, read read every time. Yeah, I know
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  Speaker 1: you can't not do it. And I don't know that
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  Speaker 1: I've ever heard that song, but I've seen a parody
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  Speaker 1: of that song. Really the song today, Oh perfect, excellent.
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  Speaker 1: Then you will never stop singing it no matter what. Well,
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  Speaker 1: that's going to benefit both of us. So this is
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  Speaker 1: a topic I want to talk about. I will say
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  Speaker 1: I don't think we're gonna go too much into it,
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  Speaker 1: but um there might We talked around like weight and eating.
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  Speaker 1: So if that's especially around this time of year. If
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  Speaker 1: that's not what you want to hear, understand, I don't
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  Speaker 1: think we're gonna go too much into it, but might
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  Speaker 1: we might. Uh. And this is actually something that would
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  Speaker 1: have been I wrote this forever Agot like wrote I
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  Speaker 1: wrote bullet points for it forever ago. These are much
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  Speaker 1: less structured than our full episodes. Um, but it was
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  Speaker 1: it was because of parties, like going out of parties
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  Speaker 1: and hang out with people. This is something that occasionally
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  Speaker 1: I just feel, and I definitely felt it more lately
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  Speaker 1: because I'm talking about this whole idea of being like
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  Speaker 1: the sloppy not even drunk, but just like the sloppy
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  Speaker 1: person in a group. And I feel like I've just
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  Speaker 1: had so many experience is recently because I have gained
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  Speaker 1: weight during the pandemic um and I just mostly wear
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  Speaker 1: the same thing. I change it up every now and then,
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  Speaker 1: but generally the same kind of like T shirt, leggings.
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  Speaker 1: I feel like you dress up more than I do,
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  Speaker 1: so I'm worry I would disagree. Really, I feel like
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  Speaker 1: when I'm around you, though, I feel very comfortable, so
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  Speaker 1: I don't dress up. But that's that's what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 1: Like when we go out, I always like you're more
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  Speaker 1: dressed up than I am. I'm casually all the all
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  Speaker 1: the time. Same And because I wear helled boots, people
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  Speaker 1: think I'm fancy. You know, I'm just short and I
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  Speaker 1: like killed boots. Like that's well, yeah, there's like a
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  Speaker 1: theme to your outfit, and I'm like, hey, black, but
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  Speaker 1: isn't my theme? Like Star Wars well sometimes and then
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  Speaker 1: there's Spider Verse, and then there's last of us. You
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  Speaker 1: do like the undercover cosplay all the time. I actually,
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  Speaker 1: I think that's been my main theme during the pantomick,
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  Speaker 1: Like clothing during the pandemic has been like very subtle
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  Speaker 1: cosplay all the time. I love it. It's not so subtle. Well, see,
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  Speaker 1: that's the thing. I love it too. And most of
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  Speaker 1: the time I'm very secure and like maybe very secureity strong.
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  Speaker 1: But most of the time I'm either too tired or
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  Speaker 1: I don't care what other people think that I'm wearing
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  Speaker 1: essentially cosplay, essentially pajamas, um out and about. But I've
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  Speaker 1: had because we were going out more at the end
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  Speaker 1: of the year, I had a couple of instances where
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  Speaker 1: I was like, oh, I wonder if that's how people
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  Speaker 1: see me. And I think one of the big things
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  Speaker 1: was like at one at one event, I wore a
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  Speaker 1: dress that I'm pretty sure it was pretty sea through
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  Speaker 1: when I was wearing like a braw and underwear. It
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  Speaker 1: wasn't like naked under it. But I had somebody like
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  Speaker 1: a friend of mine, very kindly, because you do want
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  Speaker 1: to know that stuff, say you know, hey, you can
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  Speaker 1: kind of see through it, And I really didn't care,
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  Speaker 1: and it was kind of a weird moment of like
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  Speaker 1: should I care? Maybe I should. I'm glad to know,
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  Speaker 1: but it was like a weird I just had to
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  Speaker 1: kind of disconnect between I honestly was like, okay, but
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  Speaker 1: should I care? And this has been this has been
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  Speaker 1: something we should revisit because I keep seeing headlines about
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  Speaker 1: celebrities that are wearing c through things and We're getting
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  Speaker 1: so much attention and I'm kind of perplexed by the
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  Speaker 1: whole thing. But anyway, that was something. And then I'm
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  Speaker 1: just like worn clothes that I know are too small
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  Speaker 1: for me because again I gained weight, but I also
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  Speaker 1: really don't care. Um that I had somebody mentioned that,
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  Speaker 1: like the side game situation, Okay, I was like, what
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  Speaker 1: what did who said this? Okay, no, no, no, no no.
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  Speaker 1: And it's like, generally because that is a good thing
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  Speaker 1: when a trusted friend can tell you just so you know, hey,
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  Speaker 1: here's this. Um. I think it's more like it's like
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  Speaker 1: I'm coming out of a dream of this pandemic of
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  Speaker 1: what I did before and what I do now, and
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  Speaker 1: now I don't care. And I feel like that's fine.
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  Speaker 1: But sometimes I'm like, hmmmm, it seems like people are
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  Speaker 1: still worried about these things, right, I think, yeah, I'm
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  Speaker 1: I'm with you on that because I do care to
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  Speaker 1: a certain degree of like I try to not look
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  Speaker 1: so from people, but that's kind of how I dress.
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  Speaker 1: I don't mean to. It's just because I like way
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  Speaker 1: a large things and I'm tired of trying to h
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  Speaker 1: be cutely. And I have also gained a lot of
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  Speaker 1: weight during the pandemic. And I say a lot of
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  Speaker 1: weight because I've lost I had lost a lot of
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  Speaker 1: weight right before, and it was due to depression, so
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  Speaker 1: it wasn't healthy anyway. But believe me, I got all
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  Speaker 1: the compliments and I have a stigma about that, and
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  Speaker 1: we've talked about that before. And now I'm like, okay,
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  Speaker 1: I don't one of the things, uh, convenience wise, because
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  Speaker 1: I had lost all that weight. So I started getting
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  Speaker 1: really excited, even though it wasn't a good way. And
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  Speaker 1: I got the new clothes and now I cannot fit
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  Speaker 1: into those clothes. That also reverted reverted back to the
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  Speaker 1: old clothes that got didn't throw those away, um, and
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  Speaker 1: then it even bought like really uh better clothes like
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  Speaker 1: that actually are supposed to fit me and they are
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  Speaker 1: absally supposed to be nice quality and I had to
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  Speaker 1: get a bigger side, you know that that felt some
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  Speaker 1: type of way. But at the same time, like, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I don't care, like I just I'm going to wear
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  Speaker 1: that big sweater. I'm gonna wear the T shirt that
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  Speaker 1: I tie in and not with a lot of I've
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  Speaker 1: always been a cardigan girl, so that's my thing. But
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  Speaker 1: I do look like a grandma hunched over with my
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  Speaker 1: giant UH sweaters. But yeah, it's kind of like, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: this is who I am. Enjoy it, deal with it. Uh.
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  Speaker 1: And for the longest time, because I was so ashamed
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  Speaker 1: of my body, I didn't want to buy clothes in
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  Speaker 1: my size because it felt like at the feet and
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  Speaker 1: it felt hurtful just to think about it because of
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  Speaker 1: the stigma behind UH those sizes, and even embarrassment to
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  Speaker 1: check out UH at the register because I don't want
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  Speaker 1: them to see what size it is, and then feeling
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  Speaker 1: like but if I actually wear clothes my size, I
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  Speaker 1: look better, you know what I mean? Right? And so
• 8:01
  Speaker 1: like going back and forth of like all these levels
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  Speaker 1: of trying to figure this out, and yeah, we've been
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  Speaker 1: coming out more recently as in fact, I had a
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  Speaker 1: wedding in November, so I had to dress a dress
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  Speaker 1: up and I'm like, this is my nightmare, right, I
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  Speaker 1: wore a poncho. Well, that's the thing is there's so much,
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  Speaker 1: so much here that we've talked about that we could unpack.
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  Speaker 1: Of like you feel judged for wearing clothes that are
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  Speaker 1: quote too tight and then clothes that are quote to loose,
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  Speaker 1: because that implies that you're not comfortable with your body,
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  Speaker 1: even though that might be your most comfortable state. And
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  Speaker 1: then like one thing I've noticed, and we've talked about
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  Speaker 1: this before too, is my boobs feel a lot bigger
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  Speaker 1: and Michael, which they are, but it's like they shouldn't
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  Speaker 1: feel so embarrassing to me, but they are. And I know,
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  Speaker 1: like we've talked about that. We've talked about that ad
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  Speaker 1: length of like people with bigger boobs can't find clothes,
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  Speaker 1: and then when they do, people judge them for being
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  Speaker 1: like too sexual at work or whatever. Um. So it's
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  Speaker 1: just like it's been interesting. Um. I'm also kind of
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  Speaker 1: unwilling to get a whole new wardrobe. Um, other than
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  Speaker 1: like sweatpants, which I bought some d I've been buying
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  Speaker 1: T shirts and I haven't even I don't even wear
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  Speaker 1: T shirts like that. Like typically I used to just
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  Speaker 1: not wear those. I would wear like a little more
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  Speaker 1: fancy or like button up shirts or whatever. And now
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  Speaker 1: that I'm like, teachers are great. Also because I hate
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  Speaker 1: people reading things off my chest, which is where usually
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  Speaker 1: the logos go or whatever is happening, because it makes
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  Speaker 1: me so self conscious. Growing up, I hated it because
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  Speaker 1: it made me so self conscious. Of course, this has
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  Speaker 1: a lot to do with trauma, so mean, sexualized as
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  Speaker 1: an Asian woman, all of those things. So I definitely
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  Speaker 1: it took me a long time to be like, oh,
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  Speaker 1: but these are so comfortable. T shirts are so great. Yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: me too. My mom and I were joking about that
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  Speaker 1: ever this recent break because I remember when I is
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  Speaker 1: in high school, we had a conversation together I would
• 10:02
  Speaker 1: have been high school, it had been early college um,
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  Speaker 1: where she was like, you know, you never wear logos
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  Speaker 1: in your shirt and I don't either, and I was like, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I just kind of like to be bland and fit in,
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  Speaker 1: and now all I do is like where soar shirts.
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  Speaker 1: She was like, yeah, You've made a big change. I
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  Speaker 1: like it. I was like, oh, thanks. The level of
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  Speaker 1: confidence there's so many things to unpack with them, like
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  Speaker 1: placements of things like that and what we want to
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  Speaker 1: talk about, especially for those who do have breasts UM
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  Speaker 1: in general. But I do find it fascinating and I
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  Speaker 1: think something that we're going to come back on UM
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  Speaker 1: is this trend UH swaying and we've talked about before
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  Speaker 1: swaying back to the whole skinny body look and the
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  Speaker 1: new diet fat of taking UM the diabetic medication shots,
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  Speaker 1: which is two fold of like, why are you doing
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  Speaker 1: this to people with diabetes and why are you doing
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  Speaker 1: this to normal people who are seeing unrealistic expectations of
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  Speaker 1: this UM. And I hate that we're reverting back to
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  Speaker 1: that because it finally came to the point that we are,
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  Speaker 1: I feel not completely because there's still people out there
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  Speaker 1: who are awful when it comes to body image who
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  Speaker 1: UM have not let go of the fact that skinny
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  Speaker 1: does not mean it's healthy. Conversation UM, but that that
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  Speaker 1: we're back to this again and having to fight back
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  Speaker 1: and just finally getting to the point of like people
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  Speaker 1: are understanding this healthy looks for different from different people,
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  Speaker 1: and then it's not our place to judge in general
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  Speaker 1: how people feel about themselves, like even if that is
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  Speaker 1: they do want to lose weight or they don't want
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  Speaker 1: to lose weight or whatever whatever whatnot, UM. And I
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  Speaker 1: hate that we're going back to there, and I think
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  Speaker 1: it's something that we should all be very cautious of
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  Speaker 1: in the conversations UM today because complimenting and I'm not
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  Speaker 1: going to call out who it was who used to
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  Speaker 1: be kind of she was normal looking, she was normal
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  Speaker 1: looking woman and then she has lost all this weight
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  Speaker 1: and we're like, it is in insinuated that she has
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  Speaker 1: used this product, and like everybody's complimenting on her, Like
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  Speaker 1: you need to back up because she looks unhealthy at
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  Speaker 1: this point because it's not her natural body form. I'm
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  Speaker 1: not judging the fact that she wanted to lose weight,
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  Speaker 1: but what she's doing, how she's doing it, and how
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  Speaker 1: she's letting people think that it was all natural. That's
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  Speaker 1: some BS and that's so dangerous for the standards of
• 12:21
  Speaker 1: where we are today and for the young kids they
• 12:23
  Speaker 1: got this gen Z years no better, but still yeah,
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  Speaker 1: it's still very insidious and harmful messaging. And it's it's
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  Speaker 1: like everywhere and I was thinking to you about like
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  Speaker 1: there's so many jokes around women typically like oh, she
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  Speaker 1: thinks she can pull that off. R oh she thinks
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  Speaker 1: she can wear that, she doesn't realize she can't wear that.
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  Speaker 1: And I was thinking about that just with um. I
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  Speaker 1: hear that a lot with cosplay because people like to
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  Speaker 1: judge women in cosplay a lot um And and I
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  Speaker 1: also would say there's a lot there's a risk I've
• 13:11
  Speaker 1: seen of like backhanded compliments, right, I think people are
• 13:15
  Speaker 1: coming from the right place, but they'll essentially I got
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  Speaker 1: one that was like, I've always wanted to embrace my
• 13:21
  Speaker 1: camel to like you do. And I was like, whoa,
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  Speaker 1: my one camel too? What Well, that was one of
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  Speaker 1: those things where I didn't even notice and now I'm like, oh, well,
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  Speaker 1: I've never noticed that on you. Well well, I mean
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  Speaker 1: also it's kind of like yeah, yeah, but it was
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  Speaker 1: lit comfortable around them from there, and I'm like, what
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  Speaker 1: you look at bro, Yeah yeah, but you know, I'm
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  Speaker 1: pretty sure that a broad But still I was out.
• 13:57
  Speaker 1: I was at walking today and I was just like
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  Speaker 1: so comfortable. But it's just those things that like lodge
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  Speaker 1: in your head, um about people making comments about your body.
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  Speaker 1: So I wish can we just not do that anymore.
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  Speaker 1: Let's not even for it as a compliment. Let's just
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  Speaker 1: leave it be. You want to say you look good,
• 14:19
  Speaker 1: that's the don't give specifics. Look good in a genuine tone.
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  Speaker 1: Not you look happy, you looked at it. You look
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  Speaker 1: well rested? How about that? Yeah? Yeah, I don't know.
• 14:36
  Speaker 1: It's just been kind of adjustment and I'm still working
• 14:40
  Speaker 1: it out. And then I also was kind of one
• 14:42
  Speaker 1: thing we didn't get to talk about during our epic
• 14:45
  Speaker 1: holiday movie discussion. Oh yeah, um was there was a
• 14:50
  Speaker 1: moment and while you were sleeping where uh, Sandra Block's
• 14:54
  Speaker 1: character is like older and single, um, older, but it's
• 14:59
  Speaker 1: implied that she late twenties. Yeah, but it's implied that
• 15:04
  Speaker 1: like she's an old spinster. Yes, And there's like the
• 15:09
  Speaker 1: whole idea because she's single during the holidays, you'll do
• 15:11
  Speaker 1: the work. And then there's that scene where she's like
• 15:13
  Speaker 1: eating the oreos and I don't know, mac and cheese
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  Speaker 1: or something. Um, And so I'm trying I'm still trying
• 15:19
  Speaker 1: to wrap my mind around this idea also of like
• 15:22
  Speaker 1: being this still older single person that like goes out
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  Speaker 1: to all of these things. And I think that kind
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  Speaker 1: of like idea of oh, she's sloppy, can get tied
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  Speaker 1: into that. Um. But I haven't like formulated. I've had
• 15:36
  Speaker 1: a lot of like big thought breakthroughs during the holidays,
• 15:39
  Speaker 1: Samantha knows. Most of them were nerdy in nature. But
• 15:43
  Speaker 1: I was really thinking about some things and I was
• 15:45
  Speaker 1: like writing essays and I was like, wait, why are
• 15:47
  Speaker 1: you running essays? Are you and essays? You're like for
• 15:52
  Speaker 1: what purpose? And I was like, because oh, you are
• 15:58
  Speaker 1: dedicated writer. That's that's where that comes in. I'm a writer,
• 16:02
  Speaker 1: and I also like to be able. I like to
• 16:04
  Speaker 1: be ready to defend my opinion and a lot of
• 16:07
  Speaker 1: times if I'm surprised with a question, then I kind
• 16:10
  Speaker 1: of shut down because I'm like, well, I got to
• 16:11
  Speaker 1: think about it from all these angles. So I like
• 16:13
  Speaker 1: to like already formulate my thoughts. In case Bybone wants
• 16:20
  Speaker 1: to ask me about Anakin Skywalker at any point, I
• 16:22
  Speaker 1: am already, Oh I love it. Yeah, yeah. But I
• 16:28
  Speaker 1: think also during New Years, during this time, this has
• 16:32
  Speaker 1: when a lot of those like weight loss and exercise
• 16:35
  Speaker 1: things come in, which if that's what you want in
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  Speaker 1: a healthy way, then I'm all for it. But it's
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  Speaker 1: a lot. It's just a lot that's all I think.
• 16:44
  Speaker 1: I'm with you, like just I do a lot of
• 16:46
  Speaker 1: reflection of the year, and we did this as an
• 16:50
  Speaker 1: episode about like looking at at the past and the
• 16:52
  Speaker 1: big things and small things, you know, all the questions, um,
• 16:55
  Speaker 1: trying to be profound and trying to be thoughtful, um,
• 16:59
  Speaker 1: very purposeful for the next year, because you really think
• 17:02
  Speaker 1: you have control over that and that's not true, which
• 17:04
  Speaker 1: is hilarious to me because when we come back to
• 17:06
  Speaker 1: these were like, yeah, that did not happen. Um. So
• 17:10
  Speaker 1: it's always a fun risk, but it is. There are
• 17:13
  Speaker 1: things that you hope will happen. There's things that you
• 17:16
  Speaker 1: hope doesn't happen, but that does put you into the
• 17:19
  Speaker 1: state of like, Okay, I have no control about this.
• 17:23
  Speaker 1: How do I control this? Yeah? Yeah, And that's the thing,
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  Speaker 1: Like this is a bigger topic that I won't get
• 17:30
  Speaker 1: into too much in this, but I've talked about it before,
• 17:32
  Speaker 1: Like when it comes to wait, a lot of it
• 17:36
  Speaker 1: feels like it's out of my control, even though I
• 17:38
  Speaker 1: know the things to do, UM, it just feels like
• 17:43
  Speaker 1: it's something I can't necessarily control, and that kind of
• 17:48
  Speaker 1: puts me in the state of like almost panic around it.
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  Speaker 1: A lot, So I don't know. I would just as
• 17:56
  Speaker 1: we always say in these um you know, we love
• 17:59
  Speaker 1: you out there, and I would urge you to take
• 18:01
  Speaker 1: care of yourself and kind of examine like like I'm
• 18:04
  Speaker 1: trying to do what what do you really want and
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  Speaker 1: what it's healthy and what is reasonable? And I don't know, because, like,
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  Speaker 1: like I said, one of the biggest things for me
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  Speaker 1: here was I kind of I was like, huh, I
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  Speaker 1: sort of stopped worrying about that. I love it. That's
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  Speaker 1: a great place, and I hope you can remain there. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I think it's gonna be hard, too hard on it. Yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: for sure. I think it's gonna be like it's just
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  Speaker 1: because I've been inside by myself or with you most
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  Speaker 1: of the time. But I think was like, go out
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  Speaker 1: into the real world a lot more. It's going to
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  Speaker 1: be a lot harder, but it will do it. Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,
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