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Jed's Downfall, Tyler's Triumph & a Baby in the Closet with Tyler C · The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast

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Speaker 1: We've done this podcast for two years. It's been an
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Speaker 1: amazing two years and exciting two years. We've met some
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Speaker 1: incredible people and also some not so incredible people. I
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Speaker 1: have never in my two years of hosting this show
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Speaker 1: with Ashley had texts. I'm in Denver, so I'm only
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Speaker 1: an hour away from Los Angeles. Have text until three
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Speaker 1: in the morning with excitement and passion towards a guest,
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Speaker 1: but surprise, surprise, America's Sweethearts in studio Tyler Ce, Welcome
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Speaker 1: to co host the Almost Fas podcast Oh my gosh, Um,
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Speaker 1: Tyler I. According to social media, if you go by
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Speaker 1: follower accounts, you are the most popular male member of
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Speaker 1: the Bachelor franchise, I guess. And he's humble. Guys, So,
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Speaker 1: I mean, how overwhelming has this whole thing been for you?
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Speaker 1: You're not only like such a Bachelor fan favorite, but
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Speaker 1: it's almost like you would be on the cover of
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Speaker 1: People's Most Eligible Bachelors are Like, what is did the
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Speaker 1: the sexiest man alive? Like that's the status that you're
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Speaker 1: at right now. I'll take it. And it's been. It's
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Speaker 1: been an incredible experience. Um, it's been crazy been. You know,
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Speaker 1: I never would expect it to be what it has
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Speaker 1: become when I, you know, signed up for this and
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Speaker 1: went for it. But I'm super grateful for like my
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Speaker 1: mom my, pops, my brothers, and like my best friends
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Speaker 1: that are no kind of you know, know, how to
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Speaker 1: take the jabs at me to keep me humble and
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Speaker 1: and just kind of you know, also help me, like,
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Speaker 1: go through this whole process because it's a lot. It's been,
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Speaker 1: it's been a whole lot, but super grateful for this
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Speaker 1: whole experience. Well, Tyler Man, a man here, I've gone
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Speaker 1: through this wild deal. I know where you're from. I've
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Speaker 1: been to Jupiter many times. That's a great spot. My
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Speaker 1: uncle's actually the town manager down there, so in Jupiter Island,
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Speaker 1: So yeah, I've been down there, bunch. You know, it
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Speaker 1: is a wild deal. And I think our listeners always
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Speaker 1: enjoy hearing the behind the scenes. And I want to
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Speaker 1: set the stage and I want you to tell me
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Speaker 1: if I'm completely wrong, because we've met some I mean
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Speaker 1: studs from this show. I mean there's been a lot
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Speaker 1: of studs. You have definitely retrieved the most and received,
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Speaker 1: I should say retrieved, received the most, like i'd say
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Speaker 1: love and when it comes to just adoration and just
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Speaker 1: admiration for you. But you go on this show, you
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Speaker 1: sign up thinking this could work. It could not. You know,
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Speaker 1: you're a good looking dude like that. You've been told
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Speaker 1: that your whole life. Uh you you mean you post
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Speaker 1: pictures on Instagram, you know, looking like what's his face? Um,
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Speaker 1: Paul Newman, So you know you know what you got
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Speaker 1: going for you. Paul Newman was a great comparison. Oh yeah,
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Speaker 1: I just thought that since the beginning. I'm a big
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Speaker 1: Paul Newman fan. Um. So anyways, you you know this
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Speaker 1: going to the show, you know that there's gonna be
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Speaker 1: a lot of good looking guys there. What has the
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Speaker 1: response done to you personally? Has it blown you away?
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Speaker 1: Is it what you expected? Um? And now what do
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Speaker 1: you do with it? No? I mean I never would
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Speaker 1: have expected it to be this, you know, I was.
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Speaker 1: I came into this not no what to expect. Um,
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Speaker 1: And uh, it's been blown away by It's been so
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Speaker 1: much love and everyone. Everyone's been amazing. Uh. I guess
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Speaker 1: going forward, you know, I was just trying to use,
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Speaker 1: you know, this platform that I've been given for for
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Speaker 1: good things, and uh, you know I'm gonna try and
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Speaker 1: promote you know, ABC food tours and things I do
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Speaker 1: with kids and and try and bring those up around me. Know,
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Speaker 1: It's always been my goal is if I come up,
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Speaker 1: everyone's gonna come up with me that I can bring up.
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Speaker 1: You know, you're actually kind of a dark horse in
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Speaker 1: the beginning of all this. I think the first five
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Speaker 1: weeks four weeks before your date in Newport, Rhode Island,
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Speaker 1: you were just you were kind of flying under the radar.
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Speaker 1: I think a lot of girls were like, Oh, she
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Speaker 1: can't go there. He's gonna be a player. You can't
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Speaker 1: trust a guy with a face like that. And then
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Speaker 1: he turned around and that date was like, wait, this
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Speaker 1: guy is like so comforting and he knows all the
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Speaker 1: right things to do to get her in a better
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Speaker 1: mood and all the right things to say. Um, how
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Speaker 1: do you feel about just like to the different stages
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Speaker 1: of your your bachelor I had experience yeah, no, uh,
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Speaker 1: you know, starting in in Newport's kind of when me
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Speaker 1: and Hannat really made that first big connection on one
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Speaker 1: on one time. Um, I was given a great opportunity
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Speaker 1: and you know, she was upset, she was down, and
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Speaker 1: it was the opportunity for me to show that I
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Speaker 1: can pick her up in those tough times. And uh,
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Speaker 1: I was able to do that, And I think it
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Speaker 1: just kind of springboarded our relationship and allow us to
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Speaker 1: really take each other serious moving forward, because I think
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Speaker 1: she didn't really take me that serious ahead of that.
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Speaker 1: She didn't because I know this because I met with
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Speaker 1: her before your date in Newport, Jared and I had
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Speaker 1: a little cameo and it was a couple of days
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Speaker 1: before your date, and I was like, what about Tyler
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Speaker 1: because he's creating the most buzz online based on profile pictures.
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Speaker 1: Everybody is talking about how Tyler is like the only
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Speaker 1: cute stand out. And then she was like, yeah, I
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Speaker 1: don't know, like I'm worried he's a player and no
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Speaker 1: she I mean she had those talks with me and
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Speaker 1: and I was able to kind of air out, you know,
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Speaker 1: my past with her, and I kind of helped us
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Speaker 1: get past that, and um, you know, it was just
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Speaker 1: I think we don't know, just that time where she
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Speaker 1: was really upset, it really allowed us to really kind
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Speaker 1: of build that bond and see the show that there
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Speaker 1: could be something here that could be more than just
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Speaker 1: you know, just looks and this and that. And it's
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Speaker 1: been so much more ever since. Is that frustrating that
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Speaker 1: you're getting this you were getting this player reped just
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Speaker 1: based on your good appearance. I don't know if it
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Speaker 1: was frustrating, it was just it was just what another
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Speaker 1: way for me to break down and bury with her
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Speaker 1: and connect with her more and show that I'm more
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Speaker 1: than just that and more than what she sees. And
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Speaker 1: and I think we took those steps and allowed us
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Speaker 1: to have the listship we had the the Tyler, I
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Speaker 1: think I've never met you in person. I'm sure you're
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Speaker 1: a great dude. Um, and you're a good looking guy.
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Speaker 1: You got a lot going for you, say the right things.
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Speaker 1: You're a good dancer. I haven't seen anything in you
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Speaker 1: yet that Uh. I get what I ashould said. Get
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Speaker 1: why my phone was blowing up to three and forcing
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Speaker 1: me to have no sleep. Um, but I was laying
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Speaker 1: a bed last night, I was like, all right, why
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Speaker 1: and and I want you to disagree with me here
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Speaker 1: if you if you do, and listeners please, emails have
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Speaker 1: been in Ashley iHeart meat dot com. I was laying
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Speaker 1: in bed last night. I was like, Hey, Tyler's a
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Speaker 1: good dude. He's got a lot going for him. He
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Speaker 1: should be getting the reception he is. I love that
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Speaker 1: you are. I think that you're gonna do great things
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Speaker 1: with this. I love that I really do think you
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Speaker 1: mean it because I've seen it and what you've done,
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Speaker 1: that everybody's gonna come up along with you and this
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Speaker 1: and and that you want this to be used for
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Speaker 1: good and you're gonna have fun while doing it as well.
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Speaker 1: I will tell you this, I think you had the
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Speaker 1: easiest journey on the Bachelorette of all time. And I
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Speaker 1: say that because everybody around you blew up. I mean
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Speaker 1: that you you were gonna be a star, like granted
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Speaker 1: you deserved it, and granted you're good looking and you're kind,
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Speaker 1: you're nice. I've never seen one contestant kind of fly
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Speaker 1: beneath the radar and then have everything around him self
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Speaker 1: destruct like you. I mean, even Peter, who we love
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Speaker 1: on this show and we can't wait to talk to him.
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Speaker 1: Even Peter made the headlines for having a girl five
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Speaker 1: months before the show happened, like it was unbelievable. Everybody
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Speaker 1: blew up, but you, Yeah, no, I mean for me
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Speaker 1: like that, I would just see it happen. I would
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Speaker 1: see people, you know, I think, to be to try
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Speaker 1: and good successful relationship on the on this show, you
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Speaker 1: need to be truly confident in yourself and in your relationship.
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Speaker 1: And I saw that a lot of people you know
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Speaker 1: wouldn't be confident in the relationship with themselves with Hannah,
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Speaker 1: and you could just see it starting a teeter and
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Speaker 1: starting to implode and and I just it was everyone
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Speaker 1: was like a ticking time bomb. Just people blew up
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Speaker 1: one after another, and and then all the other stuff
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Speaker 1: that came out, you know, post shows is you know,
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Speaker 1: it made even more kind of bizarre. What were you
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Speaker 1: thinking when that People magazine article came out about Jed
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Speaker 1: having a girlfriend? Um, I was. I was disappointed, you know,
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Speaker 1: because when that when it got down to me Peter
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Speaker 1: and Jed, I thought that anyway she goes, she's gonna
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Speaker 1: be in good hands and you truly care and left
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Speaker 1: with somebody that you want them to be happy, and
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Speaker 1: wherever she goes, she was going to be happy, and
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Speaker 1: I felt like they would be able to take care
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Speaker 1: of her. And just to see all that go down
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Speaker 1: the way it did, it's just it's just really disappointing.
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Speaker 1: And I think Jed could have, you know, he had
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Speaker 1: his chances to make things right and at Leasta explained
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Speaker 1: to her what's going on and come clean, and it
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Speaker 1: didn't happen that way. And you know, it's just disappointing,
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Speaker 1: and because that God deserves the world and and I
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Speaker 1: just hated, you know, my heart ached for her to
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Speaker 1: see her go through that, because you know, I wanted
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Speaker 1: her to be the happiest person ever, and she went
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Speaker 1: through some tough times. Do you think that if he
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Speaker 1: had said anything earlier it would have changed the relationship
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Speaker 1: for the better. I think it would have if he
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Speaker 1: had said it during the show. I think she just
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Speaker 1: would have eliminated him. Yeah, but that's still better for her,
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Speaker 1: Absolutely better for Tyler. I wonder if that brings up
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Speaker 1: a question. I'm thinking, did you after being around it
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Speaker 1: and looking back and seeing how he reacted and kind
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Speaker 1: of the conversation you're having, do you think at any
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Speaker 1: point it hit him, Oh, no, like this is bad
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Speaker 1: for me, Like there's no way out of this, Like
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Speaker 1: I care about her. Probably I'm still assuming he does.
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Speaker 1: Do you think he did really care about her? I
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Speaker 1: mean I was very close with Jed in the house,
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Speaker 1: like we were roommates in the Netherlands, and and you know,
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Speaker 1: he's a guy who I really grew close to. And
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Speaker 1: I truly believe that guy had genuinely, like like serious
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Speaker 1: feelings for her and loved her and cared for like.
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Speaker 1: I truly believe that. I just think, you know, he
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Speaker 1: could have when he got home, he could have hand
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Speaker 1: all things with his ex better and he could have
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Speaker 1: handled things with Hannah better and and and communicated things
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Speaker 1: a lot better than he did, like be honest right away. Yeah.
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Speaker 1: So I just think that, you know, I do believe
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Speaker 1: that he really did catch those serious feelings for Hannah
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Speaker 1: and and just didn't know how to, you know, pivot
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Speaker 1: off of that and make the and do the right thing.
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Speaker 1: It was just that he got caught in lies and lies,
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Speaker 1: like he kind of told her a little bit, and
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Speaker 1: then the People magazine came out and he even tried
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Speaker 1: to deny it even further, and she was like, I
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Speaker 1: have this information, why you keep you knowing it? And
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Speaker 1: then he just got caught in such a serious supplies. Yeah, yeah, No,
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Speaker 1: it's it's just disappointing, you know. I just it sucks
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Speaker 1: that Hannah how to go through this and how this
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Speaker 1: season how to end. But you know, Hannah is is
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Speaker 1: going to come out on top. And she's I mean,
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Speaker 1: she killed it last night. She was amazing, and she's
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Speaker 1: so powerful and she's the world's hurt. She can do
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Speaker 1: whatever she wants and she's gonna have I don't know,
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Speaker 1: she's she's gonna whatever she wants to do. She's gonna
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Speaker 1: crush it. I'm just constantly in awe of how she's
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Speaker 1: able to take her articulate herself so well. She's so intelligent.
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Speaker 1: Do you want to be a part of that powerful
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Speaker 1: world that she's creating. We'll see, We'll see what happens. No, no, no, no, no,
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Speaker 1: we'll see. Do you want to know? Wait, let's not
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Speaker 1: put him in a corner the way he was last night. Um,
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Speaker 1: you know, I think we need to just you know,
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Speaker 1: like we need to have a drink. We need to
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Speaker 1: hang out and just see how you know it is
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Speaker 1: with no pressure. I don't think we need to put
11:52
Speaker 1: any pressure on anything, any expectations or anything. Just be
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Speaker 1: around each other, away from cameras, away from everything, and
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Speaker 1: and hang out and just enjoy each other. I mean
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Speaker 1: we we have, we had a great relationship. You know.
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Speaker 1: I have value and cherish her so much and all
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Speaker 1: that she's taught myself and I'm gonna have learned from her,
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Speaker 1: and and I just you know, I just want to like,
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Speaker 1: that's someone I would never just like cut off from
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Speaker 1: being my friend because it didn't work out. I think
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Speaker 1: that you should totally go get a drink. But did
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Speaker 1: you feel pressure from Hannah Chris Harrison in the audience
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Speaker 1: last night when she asked you out. No there, I
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Speaker 1: didn't feel like much pressure. I mean, I thought we
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Speaker 1: were going to eventually one day, you know, I have
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Speaker 1: a drink and dinner or something like that. You know,
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Speaker 1: I thought that was inevitable, inevitable and going to happen.
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Speaker 1: And Chris Harrison was just throwing fuel on the fire.
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Speaker 1: And that's Chris. But it was fun and it was
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Speaker 1: a great way to end on a good note. And
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Speaker 1: you know, and you know that that chapter closes, the
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Speaker 1: Bachelrettes over and you know there's a new chapter to begin,
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Speaker 1: and you know, who knows what happens. You know, I think, Tyler,
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Speaker 1: you're gonna be pushing the corner right and you're dating
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Speaker 1: on national television, and I get it, like Chris has
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Speaker 1: to do his job. You're sitting up there on stage.
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Speaker 1: I don't I feel bad for your I don't think
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Speaker 1: there's a right answer there, um, But going through your
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Speaker 1: head as you sit there and not you know, months
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Speaker 1: before you had been broken up with by this girl.
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Speaker 1: She chose somebody else. She's obviously hurt, but she obviously
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Speaker 1: cares a ton about you, um, And looking back on
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Speaker 1: that does that change your feelings towards her? And as
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Speaker 1: you say, you have so much respect and love for her.
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Speaker 1: What is your thoughts on Hannah? Now? I mean you
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Speaker 1: were broken up with by this girl, like you were
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Speaker 1: told to go home and kind of leave life as
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Speaker 1: she moved on with somebody else. Is there any resentment there? Um,
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Speaker 1: there's no resentment. And that's why, you know, I think
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Speaker 1: we need to take it very slowly when you just
13:35
Speaker 1: have a drink and just see how we are around
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Speaker 1: each other. Because if we would have just rushed into
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Speaker 1: something right away and try and be boyfriend and girlfriend
13:42
Speaker 1: you know at the mint or at the after the
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Speaker 1: final rows, like it would just not be healthy for us,
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Speaker 1: it would be good. Part of me felt like that's
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Speaker 1: kind of how they presented it. It It was like, well,
13:52
Speaker 1: guess what guys they're dating now? Yeah, I mean, it's
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Speaker 1: just gonna push and take it, you know, you know,
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Speaker 1: one step at a time. Have a drink, just see
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Speaker 1: how it is to be around each other again with
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Speaker 1: no pressure, no cameras or nothing, and see how it's
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Speaker 1: how it is. So you didn't feel like a backup
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Speaker 1: plan or a fallback. No, no, I mean if anything
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Speaker 1: like I still want to be in contact with Hannah,
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Speaker 1: like even if she was still with Jail, still going
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Speaker 1: to be their biggest supporters and biggest fans and see
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Speaker 1: them when I see them, And and now I still
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Speaker 1: you know, they're not together, but I'll still I still
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Speaker 1: want to grab a drink with her, and you know,
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Speaker 1: see what happens. And you know, if nothing happens in
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Speaker 1: a relationship, at least someone like a friendship that always
14:31
Speaker 1: cherish and have and be thankful for. And you were
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Speaker 1: so classy during your exit. I have never seen anybody
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Speaker 1: get dumped on that show and be as kind and
14:44
Speaker 1: gracious as you were. It is amazing. Well, I think
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Speaker 1: I don't know what it was, but something came over
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Speaker 1: me as soon as like she stopped me, and I
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Speaker 1: was like, I said, like, this isn't it, And uh,
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Speaker 1: something that kind of came over me right away is
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Speaker 1: like take care of this girl because this is her
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Speaker 1: big day? Are you? Who are you? Tyler? And before
15:03
Speaker 1: I got in here, I read your Instagram caption to
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Speaker 1: her and it's just like, what kind of planet did
15:08
Speaker 1: you come from? And why don't more men come from
15:10
Speaker 1: that planet? My fiance totally came from the planet but
15:14
Speaker 1: there's there's not The Eastern came from the planet, that's
15:16
Speaker 1: for sure. But and Ben came from the planet. Be
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Speaker 1: just sucks Ben. There's four guys I know that came
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Speaker 1: from this planet then started the planet. And um, hey
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Speaker 1: Tyler for a second, Yeah, I want to talk to
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Speaker 1: you about some stuff because I do think you're good dude.
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Speaker 1: And uh, and I've seen you know, I've been around
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Speaker 1: this world, not to I mean in comparison four years
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Speaker 1: about and uh, I've seen a lot of people, good
15:46
Speaker 1: people coming in out of this And I want to
15:48
Speaker 1: spend like two minutes here you're just chatting with you,
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Speaker 1: because I don't know when the next time we'll see you.
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Speaker 1: We're not get to see is this thing gets crazy.
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Speaker 1: And I do I feel for you last night because
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Speaker 1: even if you're into Hannah and this thing works out
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Speaker 1: for you, you know, we'll all celebrate that. That would
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Speaker 1: be awesome. But there is a pressure that was put
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Speaker 1: on you last night to respond in some way, to
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Speaker 1: have people react in a positive way. If you would
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Speaker 1: have looked at that camera and said, you know what, now,
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Speaker 1: this isn't gonna work. The story is bad for you,
16:14
Speaker 1: and it's bad for everybody, but you now have an
16:18
Speaker 1: attention on you that you've never probably felt before. You
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Speaker 1: have millions of people following around the social media. You
16:25
Speaker 1: have women that are flocking to you. You have a
16:29
Speaker 1: ton of women that are commenting on your instagrams, and
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Speaker 1: we'll see you in person and they'll they'll cry when
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Speaker 1: they see you. Try it will happen to you. And
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Speaker 1: I want to hear, like, now, does that change the
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Speaker 1: way you're gonna date? Does that change when you sit
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Speaker 1: across from Hannah, a woman that you knew six months
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Speaker 1: ago before all this happened. Is your mindset different? Has
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Speaker 1: it changed you? Um? You know, I don't think it's
16:55
Speaker 1: when it comes to dating, Like I'm still I don't know.
16:57
Speaker 1: I haven't really put myself out there to date at all,
16:59
Speaker 1: you know, so I don't don't know what to expect.
17:00
Speaker 1: But you know, this has been craziness and you know,
17:04
Speaker 1: actually don't know what to expect. And so I don't
17:07
Speaker 1: look at handed any differently because I have more followers
17:10
Speaker 1: or because anything like that. You know, hand is handed
17:12
Speaker 1: to me and that's how you know it is. And
17:15
Speaker 1: I don't know, I just you know, I'll see how
17:18
Speaker 1: dating goes from here and I'm not trying to put
17:21
Speaker 1: any pressure on anything, but you know, it's definitely, you know,
17:25
Speaker 1: I definitely it's crazy. I don't even know what to expect.
17:27
Speaker 1: To be honest, can I give you? Can I give
17:29
Speaker 1: you one piece? Then to finish out our guy talk,
17:31
Speaker 1: some unsolicited advice, bring it off. This thing will change you, buddy,
17:36
Speaker 1: it will it. I say every year at the end
17:40
Speaker 1: of the season that my best advice I ever ever
17:42
Speaker 1: was given. But it was from Chris Harrison, who said,
17:44
Speaker 1: let this world enhanced life you already had and not
17:47
Speaker 1: changed your life completely, but it will change pieces of you.
17:50
Speaker 1: It just happens. But there's nothing There's nothing fulfilling about
17:57
Speaker 1: chasing the fame. There's nothing fulfilling about eating attention. There's
18:00
Speaker 1: nothing fulfilling about looking for the next conquest. There's nothing
18:05
Speaker 1: good about it. And it's happened, and it's been done,
18:07
Speaker 1: and it's been done for years and years and years.
18:10
Speaker 1: But the most cool thing that happens from the show
18:13
Speaker 1: is when men like you, who have it all, who
18:16
Speaker 1: have been given a lot, who now have a platform,
18:18
Speaker 1: say I'm gonna go against the grain and I'm not
18:21
Speaker 1: gonna let the critics put paralyze me and put me down.
18:23
Speaker 1: And I'm not gonna let the positive comments lift me
18:26
Speaker 1: up and make my head bigger than it ever should be.
18:29
Speaker 1: I'm gonna stay neutral, I'm gonna stay sane. I'm gonna
18:32
Speaker 1: keep things into perspective and know that you are not God.
18:34
Speaker 1: You never will be. But at the end of all this,
18:38
Speaker 1: in four or five, six years, you can look back
18:40
Speaker 1: on all and I promise you this. But like I
18:42
Speaker 1: promise you, you'll look back on this if you do
18:44
Speaker 1: it well, and it will all make sense. It'll all
18:47
Speaker 1: be a blast, and you'll get more attention and more
18:50
Speaker 1: love and more support than you ever dreamed of. And
18:53
Speaker 1: this whole thing will be worth it no matter where
18:54
Speaker 1: are you in Hannah go, I don't know, and I'm
18:56
Speaker 1: not gonna put that pressure on you my only to
18:58
Speaker 1: simplify everything. Don't let your head get too big. It
19:02
Speaker 1: will destroy you. Know. I appreciate that, And I mean,
19:04
Speaker 1: I've heard so many great things about you, how you've
19:07
Speaker 1: handled things Phos Show and and you know, since being
19:10
Speaker 1: the Bachelor, and you know, it's great to hear that
19:12
Speaker 1: from you, because I have most respect for you from
19:14
Speaker 1: what I've heard from everybody, Because everyone has so much
19:16
Speaker 1: respect for you. So I'll definitely keep that, you know,
19:18
Speaker 1: and and run with what you just said. I have
19:21
Speaker 1: a blast with it anyways, Hey, Ashley, I'll bring it
19:24
Speaker 1: back in. I just want to make sure at some
19:25
Speaker 1: point in this talk when the guy like Tyler comes
19:28
Speaker 1: in and you can feel the presents and everybody's gonna
19:31
Speaker 1: be swooning over you, and they should have a blast
19:33
Speaker 1: with it. But I want to make sure I got
19:34
Speaker 1: to tell you that because the worst thing that can
19:37
Speaker 1: happen is that this thing you know spits you up
19:41
Speaker 1: and or tears you up and spitch out, and it's
19:42
Speaker 1: just not it's not fun when you see that from
19:44
Speaker 1: a distance. Yeah. No, I greatly appreciate that, and I'll
19:47
Speaker 1: definitely be in touch with you about all this. He's
19:50
Speaker 1: the mentor for all the guys coming off the show.
19:52
Speaker 1: It's pretty amazing. Ben makes a good friend every couple
19:55
Speaker 1: every season. All Right, we gotta take a break real quick,
19:58
Speaker 1: and we'll be back with so many more questions for
20:00
Speaker 1: Tyler Cameron. I think everybody knows that amazing feeling that
20:05
Speaker 1: it is coming home after a long day, washing your face,
20:09
Speaker 1: brushing your teeth and getting yourself in bed and to
20:13
Speaker 1: enhance the feeling. It's the best when you have the freshest,
20:17
Speaker 1: fluffiest duvet sheets, pillows, comforters. Jared and I have gotten
20:22
Speaker 1: all of ours from our curt and Barrel registry. They
20:25
Speaker 1: help us relax and it makes our time alone together
20:29
Speaker 1: in bed even better. Sleep is better, right, just that
20:35
Speaker 1: that feeling that you get to look forward to is better.
20:39
Speaker 1: Adding these products to our wedding registry with Create and
20:41
Speaker 1: Barrel was super easy and fun to pick out because
20:45
Speaker 1: you know you're in the store and you just scan
20:46
Speaker 1: it right on your phone. Or if you'd forget to
20:49
Speaker 1: register for betting, or you want to figure out which kind,
20:52
Speaker 1: you need extra time to think about what you want
20:56
Speaker 1: to choose. Jared, I just got our flannels, which you
20:58
Speaker 1: know we're gonna say for coal their season. But you
21:01
Speaker 1: get to go back and add those things on the
21:04
Speaker 1: app as well, so you don't have to register for
21:07
Speaker 1: everything in the store. You can think about some things.
21:10
Speaker 1: I really like that about the Cretan Barrel app and
21:12
Speaker 1: registering with Crate and Barrel. So if you want a
21:16
Speaker 1: bed like ours and it's a good one, I'll tell
21:20
Speaker 1: you that's a really really good one. It's so comfy
21:23
Speaker 1: with all of our new sheets and pillows and comforters,
21:25
Speaker 1: and it looks so good. It looks adult and it's timeless.
21:29
Speaker 1: Like everything at Creating Barrel, it's classic. It's going to
21:32
Speaker 1: be stylish and look great for so many years to come.
21:36
Speaker 1: Start your Crate and Barrel Registry at Creating Barrel dot
21:39
Speaker 1: com slash Wedding dash Registry. Actually, we've got big news
21:45
Speaker 1: in your world. I know that your wedding is coming up.
21:47
Speaker 1: We've talked about your wedding a lot, and for whatever reason,
21:50
Speaker 1: you're very hesitant to continue to talk about it. Um,
21:53
Speaker 1: I just feel like it's overkill. I feel bad for
21:56
Speaker 1: our listeners. Yes, no, it's all good. But hey, I
22:01
Speaker 1: know you're pumped about the possibility of Jade still making
22:04
Speaker 1: it to the wedding. But we've got big news. Jaden
22:06
Speaker 1: Tanner just had their second baby in a closet. Especially
22:11
Speaker 1: on the last podcast, you talked about some salad that
22:13
Speaker 1: you brought her. What's going on? Can you break this
22:16
Speaker 1: whole thing down for us now that it's happened in
22:18
Speaker 1: the baby's healthy. Yes, it's so crazy because when I
22:21
Speaker 1: was talking to you last it was just about forty
22:23
Speaker 1: eight hours ago, and I was like, well, she doesn't
22:25
Speaker 1: have the baby in like forty eight hours, she probably
22:28
Speaker 1: can't come to the wedding. Because Jade kind of said
22:31
Speaker 1: that August first was her cut off for traveling. She
22:34
Speaker 1: didn't want to, well, she couldn't travel. It was her
22:37
Speaker 1: cut off for like being comfortable bringing a baby on
22:41
Speaker 1: a plane. Um, so you know, I was kind of
22:44
Speaker 1: trying to cope with the fact that Jade probably wouldn't
22:47
Speaker 1: be there. But as a kind of a joke and
22:51
Speaker 1: you know, a fun experiment when we went down to
22:55
Speaker 1: have a little adult sleepover, which sounds really weird when
22:58
Speaker 1: I say adult sleepover, but like just a sleep over
23:00
Speaker 1: at Jade Tanner's in Orange County on Friday night. I
23:04
Speaker 1: brought her this salad that has totally as a reputation
23:08
Speaker 1: for inducing labor. A lot of celebrities use it. I'm
23:12
Speaker 1: not sure if I said this on the podcast, but
23:14
Speaker 1: Carson Daly's wife went into labor twice after eating the salad,
23:18
Speaker 1: or at least drinking the salad dressing, which she did.
23:21
Speaker 1: She actually drank it from the bottle. And then Hillary
23:24
Speaker 1: Duff was also spotted like nine months ago before her
23:28
Speaker 1: last child was born, going to get the salad, and
23:32
Speaker 1: I was like, Okay, this will be fun and like
23:34
Speaker 1: it will be something for like everybody to kind of
23:36
Speaker 1: laugh at. And Um. When she was eating the salad
23:40
Speaker 1: on Saturday morning, we were kind of just deciding how
23:46
Speaker 1: long we were how long we were going to give
23:49
Speaker 1: the salad credit if she did go into labor right like,
23:54
Speaker 1: so we came to the conclusion that we would give
23:56
Speaker 1: the salad the credit for inducing her labor if she
23:59
Speaker 1: went in to labor within forty eight hours of eating it.
24:02
Speaker 1: So she went into labor fifty five hours after eating it.
24:07
Speaker 1: So you guys tell us that Ben and ashleytt iHeart
24:10
Speaker 1: media dot com if that means that you think that
24:14
Speaker 1: she went into labor because of the salad or just
24:17
Speaker 1: because the baby wanted to come. I know, just because
24:19
Speaker 1: the baby wanted to come. Right, she still was early.
24:22
Speaker 1: She was decently early. Um, but it's so crazy. It's
24:32
Speaker 1: very crazy. So when her water broke on Monday night,
24:36
Speaker 1: it was like nine something here on the Pacific coast,
24:39
Speaker 1: and they texted us. Tanner was like it's go time,
24:42
Speaker 1: and we're like yeah, and they can't think you sent
24:44
Speaker 1: a video of like her in the background saying like
24:48
Speaker 1: the water broke, and so we were very excited because
24:51
Speaker 1: she had made it within that time. From that we
24:53
Speaker 1: needed her to start delivering in but uh, then under
24:58
Speaker 1: an hour and a half later, we got a text
25:00
Speaker 1: from Tanner that said, Wow, that was wild. That was it?
25:04
Speaker 1: Like cryptic? And I'm like with both Jared, I were like,
25:07
Speaker 1: was it a false alarm? Like is everything okay? And
25:10
Speaker 1: he's like, everything, everything's okay. He's here. I'm like, wait,
25:14
Speaker 1: you're telling me that her water broke and she delivered
25:16
Speaker 1: the baby within two hours and that was the case.
25:20
Speaker 1: So then, um, they face timed us a little bit
25:22
Speaker 1: after and she was in the hospital room feeding the
25:27
Speaker 1: baby and everybody was happy and healthy, and it was
25:31
Speaker 1: just very traumatic for her because what happened was she
25:34
Speaker 1: her water broke. She thought that she'd have like, you know,
25:37
Speaker 1: at least seven hours. I think Emmy took about seven
25:40
Speaker 1: or eight hours, which is still pretty short for your
25:42
Speaker 1: first pregnancy, but for your second pregnancy to deliver within
25:48
Speaker 1: two hours is just insane. That's like something you hear
25:50
Speaker 1: from people who have had like eight children. Um, so
25:54
Speaker 1: she was she took a shower, and she went to
25:57
Speaker 1: go pack up her stuff, and while in the closet
26:01
Speaker 1: getting her stuff, she was like, Tanner, I can't move
26:04
Speaker 1: And then she was like, though, the baby is like
26:07
Speaker 1: on his way out right now, and it was his mom,
26:12
Speaker 1: her mom, and that was it, and they basically almost
26:18
Speaker 1: delivered the baby. The head was out by the time
26:20
Speaker 1: the paramedics came, and then the paramedics, like, the paramedics
26:24
Speaker 1: came and like pulled the body out and that was it. Insane.
26:27
Speaker 1: Emmy was sleeping the entire time. Emmy's Emmy's brother was
26:31
Speaker 1: being born in the closet and she was just just sleeping.
26:34
Speaker 1: How crazy is this? That's what you'd hope. I mean, Okay,
26:38
Speaker 1: so tell you hear stories like this. You know, babies
26:41
Speaker 1: are being born from the Bachelor franchise. I don't know
26:45
Speaker 1: how many of the people from Bachelor franchises that you've
26:47
Speaker 1: gotten to meet. But does this excite you for what
26:50
Speaker 1: the future could hold? Um? Yeah, I mean I would
26:53
Speaker 1: love to have a huge family one day. I would
26:55
Speaker 1: love to have my own little basketball team. So uh,
26:58
Speaker 1: just kind of you know that, doesn't it's exciting? So yeah,
27:02
Speaker 1: it's really scared me too at the same time. So
27:05
Speaker 1: it's always going to be scary until it actually happens too,
27:08
Speaker 1: and then it's just wonderful. Right. But I also just
27:10
Speaker 1: want to say I still don't want to put any
27:12
Speaker 1: pressure for Jade to have to come to the wedding,
27:15
Speaker 1: you know. I mean I didn't even I didn't talk
27:17
Speaker 1: to her about that at all. I don't want you
27:21
Speaker 1: guys to be like, oh, she's definitely going to come now.
27:24
Speaker 1: It's like, I'm no. I mean, I'm not even I'll
27:27
Speaker 1: be super stoked to see her there if she's there,
27:30
Speaker 1: but it's still very close to when the baby was born,
27:34
Speaker 1: and it's whatever she feels comfortable with. Oh, Ashley, you're
27:38
Speaker 1: so sweet. No, I mean, like I do. I don't
27:40
Speaker 1: want people like din My Throat being like you're gonna
27:41
Speaker 1: make a a woman get on a plane now. No,
27:44
Speaker 1: I'm not. This is it's all Jade's decision and I'm
27:47
Speaker 1: not putting any pressure on her. You're here, Ashley right now.
27:50
Speaker 1: I mean she has been she has involved herself in
27:55
Speaker 1: this franchise for years. She's invested a ton of time
27:59
Speaker 1: and effort. She talk to me for two years on
28:01
Speaker 1: this podcast. She still gets so hyped to meet people
28:05
Speaker 1: like Tyler. And get to know them and support them well.
28:09
Speaker 1: And because of a few negative comments, now Ashley is
28:13
Speaker 1: so nervous. Let's everything that comes out of your mouth.
28:19
Speaker 1: This is this week's deal. I want you to go
28:22
Speaker 1: on Twitter and hashtag almost Famous podcast and tag Ashley
28:26
Speaker 1: I can eddie in it. Then go to all of
28:28
Speaker 1: her Instagram photos and say something nice that you love
28:32
Speaker 1: about Ashley because we're gonna get her through this. She's
28:34
Speaker 1: gonna realize that the criticism will fade and we're gonna
28:38
Speaker 1: love on her hard this week. Can we do that?
28:40
Speaker 1: It's leading up to her wedding week. She deserves it.
28:43
Speaker 1: I want it for her. She would never ask for herself.
28:46
Speaker 1: And so everybody out there listening spread the news. This
28:49
Speaker 1: is love on Ashley I weeks. Well, that's very sweet.
28:51
Speaker 1: I definitely don't need it, but I I appreciate it,
28:54
Speaker 1: and I do just want to say that Jade may
28:57
Speaker 1: have made that plan before the baby came, but of
29:00
Speaker 1: course it would make sense if she wanted to change
29:03
Speaker 1: her mind afterwards. That's all. I'm just not a crazy friend.
29:08
Speaker 1: I don't want people to be a crazy friend. Uh.
29:10
Speaker 1: Tyler Demi Levado was at the finale. What do you
29:14
Speaker 1: know about that. Uh, I just saw her on Peter's
29:17
Speaker 1: finale that I didn't see her at all when I
29:19
Speaker 1: was there. She was there last night and the audience
29:21
Speaker 1: next to Demi not Lovado. Yeah, big fan of Demi
29:25
Speaker 1: not Levado as well. She's I just met her actually
29:28
Speaker 1: prior to coming here, and she's amazing. Yeah, she's super sweet,
29:31
Speaker 1: she's so sweet, so beautiful. That she was she was awesome.
29:34
Speaker 1: So you have I mean, did you get to meet
29:36
Speaker 1: Demi Levado? That's a Bigvado. I did not ask. I missed.
29:41
Speaker 1: I missed that. On that one. Demi wants to date Mike.
29:44
Speaker 1: Apparently they've been going back and forth in the d M.
29:47
Speaker 1: I see that. Go for a Mike, see what happens.
29:50
Speaker 1: Speaking of the d M, I know that you have
29:53
Speaker 1: a drink to have with Hannah. But Gigi did did
29:56
Speaker 1: follow you, and then you followed her back. And I
29:59
Speaker 1: don't want to make this seem like you know, you
30:03
Speaker 1: guys are going to date or anything, but are you
30:04
Speaker 1: going to date? You definitely talked, we just follow each other.
30:09
Speaker 1: You haven't d M at all? No, No, I've been
30:12
Speaker 1: busy with the show and everything. Okay, Well, you're not
30:15
Speaker 1: a liar, I know you're not Ali. Are you kidding me? Tyler?
30:22
Speaker 1: I don't knows is one of the many models that
30:26
Speaker 1: I'm sure it is after Tyler, who's your celebrity crush?
30:31
Speaker 1: We love this question here on the Almost Famous podcast,
30:33
Speaker 1: tells you a lot about somebody. The biggest crush ever
30:36
Speaker 1: was Jessica Alba from Into the Blue. Jessica Alba commented
30:41
Speaker 1: under Jade's picture yesterday. So she may watch The Bachelor,
30:46
Speaker 1: and she may have watched you, but she is married
30:48
Speaker 1: with three kids. Yeah, but Jessica Alba into the biggest
30:51
Speaker 1: crush ever. Very good, very good crush choice. M that's
30:55
Speaker 1: a good one. I like that. I just like that
30:57
Speaker 1: brings back good memories. Thanks. Thanks for in that form. Hey, Tyler,
31:03
Speaker 1: we have a couple of things to talk to you about,
31:05
Speaker 1: but I want to hear your thoughts. Uh, put on
31:07
Speaker 1: your host cap for a second. We've seen the previews
31:10
Speaker 1: now to Bachelor in Paradise, your buddies have been there,
31:13
Speaker 1: and some of the women that you know and you've
31:15
Speaker 1: met along the way. What is your thoughts because Ashley
31:19
Speaker 1: and I don't really know much about it, and so
31:21
Speaker 1: let's spend a couple of minutes now and talk about
31:23
Speaker 1: what we can see happening in Bachelor in Paradise. I
31:26
Speaker 1: want to start asking you, after looking at the promo,
31:30
Speaker 1: what's your first reaction. My first reaction is Dylan, John,
31:33
Speaker 1: Paul Jones, and Demi are going to own the beach.
31:36
Speaker 1: It's it's their beach, because well, no one got to
31:40
Speaker 1: really see Dylan's personality on the bachel right this season.
31:43
Speaker 1: And he's incredibly funny, he's whitty, he's fun to be around,
31:47
Speaker 1: like he's just gonna absolutely crush it. All right, we'll
31:51
Speaker 1: watch out for him. He was in the promo a
31:53
Speaker 1: good amount. Yeah, who was was? He wasn't the one though,
31:57
Speaker 1: And what's your thoughts about, because again, you don't have
32:00
Speaker 1: any idea for certain who it was. There's the promost.
32:03
Speaker 1: Continue to excite me because there's a fight on the beach.
32:05
Speaker 1: Who do you think that fight was between? To be honest,
32:08
Speaker 1: I don't even know people's names besides the guys on
32:10
Speaker 1: my cast, so I can't tell you who it was.
32:12
Speaker 1: You never watched the show before I saw, Yeah, that's it.
32:16
Speaker 1: So I mean I've seen I saw a little bit
32:18
Speaker 1: of JoJo's season when I was dating my ex and
32:21
Speaker 1: like we watched it with their family a couple of times,
32:23
Speaker 1: and like that was the extent of my Bachelor experience.
32:25
Speaker 1: So who signed you up for the show? Uh? Did
32:29
Speaker 1: you did? Okay? So finally yeah, um somebody else who
32:33
Speaker 1: signed themselves up? Because I signed myself up. But I
32:36
Speaker 1: feel like everybody's like I was nominated. I was nominated,
32:38
Speaker 1: Like they were like, we're we're cool. Do you want yes?
32:41
Speaker 1: You know. I was just like I just got done
32:43
Speaker 1: with football and I got hurt. I was like finishing
32:47
Speaker 1: on my NBA. So just studying being a broke jock.
32:49
Speaker 1: But you have an m B A. Y, you have
32:51
Speaker 1: an m B A No way, where are you? Where'd
32:54
Speaker 1: you come from? That's awesome? That planet? Okay? But uh no,
33:02
Speaker 1: I Um. I was just like I was like in
33:05
Speaker 1: the middle of like taking a break from studying, and
33:07
Speaker 1: I saw something for it. I was like, why the
33:09
Speaker 1: hell not like the boisl thing? This is funny and
33:12
Speaker 1: it just kind of snowball from there and I'm here
33:14
Speaker 1: hanging with you guys. Oh that's amazing. I like feel
33:17
Speaker 1: bad that I even said who signed you up? Because
33:19
Speaker 1: I'm so used to being like, well, so and so
33:20
Speaker 1: I sign me up, but I'm so glad I found where.
33:23
Speaker 1: I was like, I'm just you know, beat up, broke
33:26
Speaker 1: jock trying to get my m B A. I was like,
33:28
Speaker 1: you know what, this could be fun, and you know
33:31
Speaker 1: it was turned out to be so much more than
33:33
Speaker 1: I ever expected. Where do you want to go now?
33:36
Speaker 1: I mean, you have all this stuff in your favor, say,
33:39
Speaker 1: let's take the following aside. Because the phone's gonna bring
33:42
Speaker 1: you an income and you're gonna do some things in entertainment.
33:44
Speaker 1: I'm sure there's gonna be opportunities for you, either on
33:47
Speaker 1: the franchise or outside the franchise to make money in entertainment.
33:50
Speaker 1: But if all that were to go away, what what
33:53
Speaker 1: is the next like few years of your life? What
33:55
Speaker 1: is your dream job? Kind of where do you want
33:56
Speaker 1: to go? Yeah? I know the next steps for me
33:58
Speaker 1: is uh, I'm filing from my g C license, So
34:01
Speaker 1: I've passed those exams for that in December, but my
34:05
Speaker 1: dad got six. I kind of put that on the
34:07
Speaker 1: wayside and kind of help taking care of him and
34:09
Speaker 1: all that. So I want to get my own construction
34:11
Speaker 1: company started and get that rolling. I got a partner
34:13
Speaker 1: that I'm trying to team up with and so he
34:16
Speaker 1: could be like the eyes and be down there and
34:17
Speaker 1: I can bounce around do I need to do? And uh,
34:20
Speaker 1: but also you know, put a lot of energy and
34:22
Speaker 1: focus into ABC Food Tours, the thing that me and
34:25
Speaker 1: my one of my best friends run in New York
34:27
Speaker 1: City and tell us about that. So ABC Food Tours is, uh.
34:31
Speaker 1: What we do is we take underprivileged kids in our
34:34
Speaker 1: area and we bring them on fitness and food discursions
34:37
Speaker 1: and we basically just surrounded by people from different career
34:40
Speaker 1: paths and kind of show them what there is in
34:41
Speaker 1: their own city and what they have access to. And
34:44
Speaker 1: it's just about getting them out of the neighborhood and
34:46
Speaker 1: seeing what there is and and exploring new career opportunities.
34:49
Speaker 1: Because a lot of these kids, we asked them, what
34:50
Speaker 1: do you want to be? When the girl up, they say,
34:52
Speaker 1: I want to be a fool player, I want to
34:53
Speaker 1: be a basketblayer, want to be a rapper, which is great,
34:55
Speaker 1: That's what I wanted to be too. But there's so
34:57
Speaker 1: much more to also know about and learn about. And
34:59
Speaker 1: so that's what we ryan do and we're trying to
35:01
Speaker 1: put the curriculum for them, and we want to you know,
35:03
Speaker 1: get him in with you know tech building, you know
35:05
Speaker 1: tech companies and finance companies and and and other chefs
35:09
Speaker 1: and just fitness companies just to see what there is
35:11
Speaker 1: for them. That's incredible. That's a great idea. Yeah, it's
35:14
Speaker 1: and it's so much fun to work with kids, Like
35:16
Speaker 1: it's the most rewarding, you know feeling. And I mean
35:19
Speaker 1: the other day we were we just did it. We
35:21
Speaker 1: just got done, uh eating pizza and we just finished
35:24
Speaker 1: the chacous slide in Talpson Square Park and the Lower
35:27
Speaker 1: east Side and I'm sitting there with one of the
35:29
Speaker 1: kids eating pizza and he was like, this is the
35:31
Speaker 1: best day I've ever had. And I'm just like, Holy God,
35:34
Speaker 1: Like I've have no idea what kind of you know,
35:37
Speaker 1: the impact we're having on these kids. So, you know,
35:39
Speaker 1: everyone's been super supportive and like helping out and sponsoring
35:42
Speaker 1: more kids tours and we've been able to reach out.
35:44
Speaker 1: We just did another one in Brooklyn and uh so
35:47
Speaker 1: we just we gained access to twenty more schools in Brooklyn,
35:50
Speaker 1: twenty seven more schools. So we're gonna be working with
35:52
Speaker 1: them and we got another food tour coming up with
35:54
Speaker 1: the kids in Brooklyn. And the next week. So it's
35:57
Speaker 1: through the schools that you kind of recruit kids to
35:59
Speaker 1: go out on these field trips. Like the schools will
36:02
Speaker 1: kind of set us up with the kids. So we
36:04
Speaker 1: were play fourth and fifth graders mainly. Right now, what's
36:06
Speaker 1: the best way for people to help, Like, you know,
36:09
Speaker 1: I don't know how it's set up, but obviously watching
36:12
Speaker 1: the tour probably helpful, or or donate the tour, but
36:15
Speaker 1: can you give us a quick rundown? And if somebody's
36:17
Speaker 1: listening to go I want to get involved in something
36:18
Speaker 1: like this, how they can help? Yeah, I know a
36:19
Speaker 1: lot of people who have you know, asked us how
36:21
Speaker 1: they want to help. We tell them to uh be
36:24
Speaker 1: basically d M ABC food tours and and and tell
36:27
Speaker 1: us how they want to help. You know, a lot
36:28
Speaker 1: of people give an ideas of what they want to
36:30
Speaker 1: do and how do they want to help us. And
36:31
Speaker 1: we truly believe if you want to help out, tell
36:33
Speaker 1: us what you want to do, and if we can
36:34
Speaker 1: make it work, you'll be more willing to do something
36:36
Speaker 1: for us. If it's something that you want to do,
36:38
Speaker 1: that's something we tell you to do. But then also
36:40
Speaker 1: people who can help out by spatshoring kids tours by
36:42
Speaker 1: going on to our website and doing that and whatnot. Awesome, man,
36:47
Speaker 1: good for you, dude, that's gonna be awesome. If I
36:49
Speaker 1: can ever help you, please let Ashley and I know
36:51
Speaker 1: the podcast would love to back you. It's one of
36:54
Speaker 1: the coolest things. So hey, Tyler, A part of this
36:58
Speaker 1: whole uh adventure includes a lot of really fun things,
37:03
Speaker 1: and one of the most fun we have as a
37:06
Speaker 1: Bachelor family every year is going to the I Heart
37:09
Speaker 1: Music Fest. Uh. It's something that we've done, I think
37:12
Speaker 1: Ashley right now for for at least three years. This
37:15
Speaker 1: will probably our fourth, I'm assuming. Every year it brings
37:18
Speaker 1: about new stories, new people, we meet some of the
37:20
Speaker 1: coolest of artists. Uh. This year's line up is gonna
37:23
Speaker 1: be Alicia Keys, Backstreet Boys, kg el Fant, Camilla Cabello,
37:26
Speaker 1: Death Leopard, French Montana, Tanna Halsey, Her Hooting, the Blowfish, Marshmallow,
37:32
Speaker 1: Miley Cyrus, Mumford and Son, Stevie Okey, Tim McGraw and
37:35
Speaker 1: the Zach Brown Band and many many more. Tyler, I
37:38
Speaker 1: want to invite you if you're not the Bachelor, of course,
37:41
Speaker 1: because that's still out there and still in the open.
37:44
Speaker 1: We don't know, but if you're not the Batchel, I
37:45
Speaker 1: want to invite you to Las Vegas, Nevada um to
37:50
Speaker 1: celebrate the r Heart Music Fest two thousand nineteen with us.
37:53
Speaker 1: I'm there. Her will give me my feelings a little bit,
37:56
Speaker 1: so I gotta be alone while I'm watching her perform it. Yeah,
38:00
Speaker 1: I'm there. Okay, Well, I hope you're the bachelor at
38:03
Speaker 1: that point, but you know you have my support. Appreciate it. Yes,
38:07
Speaker 1: I'm voting. Let out there listening. No tickets around sale now?
38:11
Speaker 1: Uh so, Ashley, can you get us the website where
38:14
Speaker 1: people can go and purchase these tickets. It's a XS
38:18
Speaker 1: dot com, a x S dot com. Sweet Hey, we
38:23
Speaker 1: hope to see you all there, and Tyler, I hope
38:25
Speaker 1: to be able to spend some time with you. It
38:26
Speaker 1: is it is. Honestly, I think ash and I could
38:28
Speaker 1: both valued. It is one of the coolest times a
38:29
Speaker 1: year because we get to beat meet so many people
38:31
Speaker 1: who have been on the show and who kind of
38:34
Speaker 1: just starting this experiment, and uh, it's it's a blast.
38:38
Speaker 1: So please come hang out, enjoy yourself. It's super super cool. Yeah,
38:41
Speaker 1: I'm there, I mean here, I am being careful about
38:45
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. I would support either you as bachelor
38:48
Speaker 1: or with Hannah. I've been traumatized lately. It's all good,
38:52
Speaker 1: all right. I have a couple questions for you there.
38:56
Speaker 1: They're a little out of order. They're kind of things
38:57
Speaker 1: that we haven't touched on yet that I think everybody
38:59
Speaker 1: wants to know about. So I'm going to go through
39:02
Speaker 1: those for the next couple of minutes. Are you already
39:06
Speaker 1: what did you think about learning that Hannah well, actually
39:12
Speaker 1: not not slept with Peter in the in the windmill.
39:15
Speaker 1: You've already pretty much to explain your feelings about that,
39:18
Speaker 1: but I want to know if you thought she really
39:24
Speaker 1: needed to say that they had slept together four times
39:27
Speaker 1: during after the final rows. Um, I think you know
39:31
Speaker 1: she's I had no problem with that. You know, she's
39:34
Speaker 1: she's powerful. She's empowering women to be free to speak
39:37
Speaker 1: about their sex life. I think that's important. Um. I
39:40
Speaker 1: think you know I'm no one to judge Harry because
39:43
Speaker 1: I have a past too, So go for it, you know,
39:46
Speaker 1: because you want, And I had no problem with it
39:49
Speaker 1: at all. If you were engaged to her, you sure,
39:51
Speaker 1: what though? No? Because because I told her to when
39:54
Speaker 1: we were when we were having a fantasy sweet date,
39:57
Speaker 1: I was like, look, I need you to figure out
39:59
Speaker 1: everything you to figure out in these fancies. I don't
40:01
Speaker 1: care what you do because I've had to pass and
40:03
Speaker 1: so have you. So who am I to judge you?
40:06
Speaker 1: And there's like a song that Chris Brown sings and says,
40:09
Speaker 1: please don't judge me, because if you judge me and
40:11
Speaker 1: get ugly before it gets beautiful. And so I just
40:13
Speaker 1: think there's no room for me to judge her on
40:15
Speaker 1: what she's doing because she needs it. Because if she
40:17
Speaker 1: was going to pick me at the end, I wanted
40:19
Speaker 1: her to make sure there was no second guessing, and
40:21
Speaker 1: she did everything she needed to do to figure out
40:22
Speaker 1: where she wanted to be. I guess if you were
40:24
Speaker 1: engaged to her, and then she said to America while
40:28
Speaker 1: you were engaged that she didn't have sex twice, she
40:31
Speaker 1: actually had sex four times. That would kind of rep
40:33
Speaker 1: be the wrong way. I think she was totally fine
40:36
Speaker 1: saying that because she's single, but I think it was
40:38
Speaker 1: definitely a cue to the audience that she was single. Yeah, no,
40:42
Speaker 1: I you know, I don't know. I don't I've never
40:44
Speaker 1: I was in that situation. But I think that's something
40:47
Speaker 1: that if she were engaged, we probably would have already
40:49
Speaker 1: discussed before. And I don't I mean, like I said,
40:52
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't think i'd really take it that
40:53
Speaker 1: bad because I'm not I want to judge her for
40:56
Speaker 1: any of her actions because I have a passed two.
40:59
Speaker 1: I think that's the key right there for all of
41:02
Speaker 1: us listening and watching. Um we've talked about it too
41:06
Speaker 1: great extence on this podcast, but so I'm not going
41:09
Speaker 1: to get into you know, who can talk about sex, when, where, how,
41:13
Speaker 1: But the biggest thing is when you are engaged. I
41:17
Speaker 1: do think there is in my mom, this is part
41:20
Speaker 1: of the conversation my mom and I had, there is
41:21
Speaker 1: a responsibility if the if your partner wants to know,
41:24
Speaker 1: they don't have to, but if they want to know,
41:26
Speaker 1: you should be as honest with them as they want,
41:30
Speaker 1: you know, and and in the freedom of your relationship
41:32
Speaker 1: to know that there's no judgment. But for whatever reason,
41:34
Speaker 1: it's gonna make that relationship stronger. At least you're gonna
41:37
Speaker 1: know where each other stands. So I do think that,
41:40
Speaker 1: as Tyler just said, if she was I didn't see
41:43
Speaker 1: it as necessarily by her saying it she was automatically single,
41:46
Speaker 1: because I do think I'm with Tyler on well, if
41:48
Speaker 1: I was her fiance, we probably would have already talked
41:50
Speaker 1: about it. Not that I would have loved hearing it again,
41:54
Speaker 1: but it would have been yeah, and untell in the public,
41:56
Speaker 1: I think there would have been been that. The part
41:59
Speaker 1: that I thought was the weird, just about this whole
42:02
Speaker 1: sex thing, even outside of luke P's comments that still
42:05
Speaker 1: disrupt me to this day and disturb every ounce of
42:08
Speaker 1: my being. Um, because he's just doubling down. I don't
42:12
Speaker 1: get it anyways. Uh. The thing that still makes me
42:15
Speaker 1: the most confused. The biggest issue I've had with all
42:18
Speaker 1: the sex talk is the fact that this is said
42:21
Speaker 1: in front of Peter's parents but the same room, and
42:24
Speaker 1: they're like, it's so weird, right am I alone on
42:32
Speaker 1: that her laugh like took over the whole audio, racking
42:36
Speaker 1: up like it was just like a screech, like it
42:38
Speaker 1: was hilarious. I guess you know that doesn't really matter.
42:44
Speaker 1: It was four times. I was just thinking that, what's one?
42:46
Speaker 1: What's the difference between one and four? Yeah, I mean
42:50
Speaker 1: that's just no matter what, that's weird. I remember kissing
42:53
Speaker 1: on this show and Ashton I've talked about it and
42:55
Speaker 1: having the family watch and that you can hear it
42:58
Speaker 1: like that was a mic drop for sure. Anyways, that's
43:03
Speaker 1: the weirdest part for me from this whole thing, because
43:05
Speaker 1: the thing I had the biggest issue with is that
43:07
Speaker 1: her we had to like sit there and watch the
43:10
Speaker 1: parents like laugh and awkwardly like sh real as this
43:14
Speaker 1: was being discussed eleven weeks ago, it was about eleven
43:18
Speaker 1: weeks ago that you were dumped by Hannah. How long
43:22
Speaker 1: did it take you to recover from that heartbreak and
43:24
Speaker 1: did you really fully think you did? Um? I think
43:27
Speaker 1: it's something that's still kind of ongoing. The more you
43:30
Speaker 1: see Harry kind of you know, it still brings out
43:32
Speaker 1: those yeah your heart drop when you saw her come
43:34
Speaker 1: out last night or you came out. I was super
43:36
Speaker 1: excited to see here there was you know, I wasn't
43:39
Speaker 1: it was. I was just stacked to see and be
43:41
Speaker 1: around it because she she brings so much great energy
43:43
Speaker 1: and I that's one thing I was so tried to
43:45
Speaker 1: was I'm more of a low key, laid back kind
43:46
Speaker 1: of person and she's such a fireball. Yeah, it's a
43:49
Speaker 1: nice balance. Yeah, it makes it a lot of fun.
43:52
Speaker 1: And uh, but what was your question? It was how
43:56
Speaker 1: long did it take to recover from your heartbreak? Do
43:58
Speaker 1: you think that you actually did? I don't think. It's
44:01
Speaker 1: still something that's you know, ongoing, and I'm I'm learning
44:04
Speaker 1: from you know, it's I don't know, it's how long
44:07
Speaker 1: did it take to recover? I don't know. I don't know,
44:11
Speaker 1: it's something that's still I've you know, I see her,
44:13
Speaker 1: I still feel certain ways and and but I'm definitely
44:18
Speaker 1: put it this way. I almost lost my dad and
44:22
Speaker 1: I've known him for twenty six years. You know, I
44:25
Speaker 1: knew Hannah for the duration I was on the show,
44:28
Speaker 1: you know, almost losing my dad. I knew I was
44:30
Speaker 1: gonna be able to get over this and get over
44:32
Speaker 1: this hump, you know it was. It was definitely a
44:34
Speaker 1: hump to get over, but definitely like you know, think
44:37
Speaker 1: the world would feel so much for this girl. So
44:39
Speaker 1: so it really put things into perspective. Yeah, Tyler with
44:43
Speaker 1: two things. We can talk offline about this too. But
44:48
Speaker 1: I think it was a week before I started The Bachelor,
44:51
Speaker 1: my dad had a triple bypassed unexpectedly, and I wanted
44:55
Speaker 1: the show thinking he was you know, he wasn't gonna
44:58
Speaker 1: make it because he had had some issues in the past. Uh,
45:00
Speaker 1: And we talked about it a few weeks ago on
45:01
Speaker 1: this show of how kind of hard that was, but
45:04
Speaker 1: yet why I decided to still do the show and
45:06
Speaker 1: and and kind of how actually great it all ended
45:08
Speaker 1: up being for me as a distraction from some tough stuff.
45:11
Speaker 1: So if you ever want to chat, get my number
45:14
Speaker 1: after the podcast, I'd love to talk through how how
45:17
Speaker 1: you how I managed all that and what I saw
45:19
Speaker 1: was good and bad and ugly about it. No, definitely
45:22
Speaker 1: I a truly appreciate that. That's that's amazing. How's your
45:24
Speaker 1: dad today? He's doing much better. He's he's a fighter,
45:27
Speaker 1: so's he's killing it. So your parents were divorced, but
45:30
Speaker 1: I felt like they seem like to have a good
45:32
Speaker 1: relationship on hometowns. So, you know, so much came out
45:37
Speaker 1: of my dad being sick, and it's truly you know,
45:39
Speaker 1: it was a tough thing for him to go through,
45:41
Speaker 1: and he's still having his complications and he's fighting, but
45:44
Speaker 1: it's been such a blessing in disguise, you know, kind
45:46
Speaker 1: of got him on the straight narrow path and get
45:49
Speaker 1: doing the right thing. But it also brought our families
45:51
Speaker 1: so much more closer together, and my mom and dad
45:53
Speaker 1: were able to really put a lot of differences aside,
45:55
Speaker 1: and it's so amazing to see, like they do dinners
45:58
Speaker 1: together all the time. They do so much stuff together,
46:00
Speaker 1: and they help each other out with work. My mom's
46:02
Speaker 1: a real estate age and my dad's a general contractor perfect,
46:04
Speaker 1: so it's like they're able to help each other out
46:06
Speaker 1: work together, and it's really it's really amazing to see,
46:10
Speaker 1: you know, just how how everything's kind of come full
46:13
Speaker 1: circle and how they can have a great relationship still.
46:15
Speaker 1: And I think it showed on the show. I mean
46:17
Speaker 1: definitely did. I didn't think they were divorced. Yeah, No,
46:20
Speaker 1: that hometown was so special and I'm so grateful and
46:23
Speaker 1: there for that because that's something I can always have
46:25
Speaker 1: documented and save with my pops. You know, I've always
46:28
Speaker 1: I had a professor in college who told me you
46:30
Speaker 1: shouldn't you should sit down with your folks and you
46:32
Speaker 1: should interview them and ask them tough questions and about
46:35
Speaker 1: you know, their life and how growing up and something
46:37
Speaker 1: I've always wanted to do. And the show kind of
46:39
Speaker 1: gave me an opportunity to do that. So that's so nice.
46:41
Speaker 1: I hear that hometowns like those conversations that get cut
46:44
Speaker 1: down so so much that you really have like an
46:47
Speaker 1: hour conversation with each parent. Is that true? Yeah, it was.
46:49
Speaker 1: It was a pretty long talk with him, and uh,
46:51
Speaker 1: it was one of the best talks I've ever had
46:53
Speaker 1: with him. And I owe a lot of that to
46:54
Speaker 1: hand because she I've always been someone that doesn't really
46:57
Speaker 1: open up at all, kind of just you know, my
47:00
Speaker 1: it's always been very guarded and protect myself and don't
47:02
Speaker 1: really show emotion there a lot of people, and uh,
47:06
Speaker 1: Hannah really pulled a lot of that out of me
47:07
Speaker 1: and really forced me to to be vulnerable and to
47:10
Speaker 1: open up. And that allowed me to have such great
47:12
Speaker 1: talks with my mom and my dad during that during
47:14
Speaker 1: that time, and I literally had probably one of the
47:16
Speaker 1: best conversations I ever had my pops at night. Isn't
47:20
Speaker 1: it wild how that happens? Kind of? I mean during
47:22
Speaker 1: this whole show, is you feel I do feel like
47:26
Speaker 1: it brings out a whole new side of you when
47:28
Speaker 1: it I mean, I've had a great lest by parents
47:30
Speaker 1: my whole life, and it was the show that I
47:32
Speaker 1: think really allowed us as friends and as a family
47:36
Speaker 1: to get to know each other even better because they
47:38
Speaker 1: had they had it was forced for them to to
47:41
Speaker 1: be in these romantic moments with me and to be
47:44
Speaker 1: my counsel and my guide and and Tyler, I think
47:47
Speaker 1: for you, we saw that during your hometown when your
47:49
Speaker 1: dad told you though, and I want to hear what
47:50
Speaker 1: your perspective is on this. Now that Hannah was your wife,
47:53
Speaker 1: he goes, that's your wife. And now that this is
47:55
Speaker 1: all kind of coming full circle, what is his thoughts
47:59
Speaker 1: on you guys know, at least giving it a shot. Yeah,
48:02
Speaker 1: you know, I think you know, like I said earlier,
48:04
Speaker 1: there's we don't need to set too many high expectations
48:07
Speaker 1: on what we're going through. We just need to have
48:09
Speaker 1: a drink and see where it goes from there. I
48:10
Speaker 1: think we need to take it like a normal person
48:13
Speaker 1: takes on a first date, you know, and just see
48:15
Speaker 1: what happens and and go from there. And and that's
48:18
Speaker 1: kind of all the pressure I want to put on it.
48:19
Speaker 1: I don't think she needs pressure. I don't think I
48:22
Speaker 1: need pressure. I think we just need to kind of
48:23
Speaker 1: take it easy and and then just enjoy each other's companies.
48:26
Speaker 1: See what happens. Yeah, that makes sense, as so as
48:29
Speaker 1: your dad had any you know, how's your family had
48:31
Speaker 1: any kind of direct advice for you here in the
48:33
Speaker 1: last few days at least about like Hannah. I mean,
48:37
Speaker 1: all this happening and Hannah and everything going on. No,
48:41
Speaker 1: I mean, they're all just super proud of me and
48:43
Speaker 1: how I've conducted myself. And but I mean it's all
48:46
Speaker 1: a testament to them and how they've raised me and
48:49
Speaker 1: my two little brothers. You know, I'm super thankful and
48:52
Speaker 1: grateful for them. And my dad's always been a very humbling,
48:55
Speaker 1: you know person for me. He's always knows how to
48:58
Speaker 1: how to put me in my place and make sure,
49:00
Speaker 1: you know, I take care of other people and stuff
49:02
Speaker 1: like that. So he just, you know, he always says,
49:05
Speaker 1: you know, make sure you take your time out of
49:06
Speaker 1: your data to be good everyone who comes by you
49:08
Speaker 1: and sees you and and just be humble. Good for you. Man,
49:13
Speaker 1: that's awesome. Actually, I'll keep I'll let you go keep going.
49:17
Speaker 1: I just want to make sure we we poured in
49:19
Speaker 1: a little bit because I think that's such a cool
49:20
Speaker 1: thing he brought up, is how close this experience experience
49:23
Speaker 1: actually brings you to your family or how it can
49:25
Speaker 1: bring you so close to your family. I have just
49:28
Speaker 1: a couple more and I know we have to wrap up,
49:31
Speaker 1: but I'm going to get into Jed after this break. Okay, Tyler, So,
49:37
Speaker 1: Jed was one of your better friends on the show.
49:40
Speaker 1: What's your friendship with? Like with him? Now? Did you
49:43
Speaker 1: saw him for the first time since the season yesterday?
49:47
Speaker 1: He didn't see him last night. Um, you know, we've
49:50
Speaker 1: we've touched face a little bit, you know, but there
49:52
Speaker 1: hasn't been much said between each other. And you know,
49:55
Speaker 1: he's kind of I think he just needs his space,
49:57
Speaker 1: and I think he just needs his space and his
49:59
Speaker 1: time right out. And there's a time that we'll talk
50:01
Speaker 1: and you know, kind of talk about what happened and
50:05
Speaker 1: what's going on, and you know, he's got, you know,
50:09
Speaker 1: some things he needs to figure out and take care
50:12
Speaker 1: of on his end. So, being that you haven't talked
50:15
Speaker 1: to him very much, I'm assuming you don't know what
50:18
Speaker 1: it meant when Hannah said four four four in the
50:20
Speaker 1: text message, no idea. Okay, that's a mystery that none
50:24
Speaker 1: of us will know, but it seems to be a
50:25
Speaker 1: secret code for something for Jed. When it comes to
50:29
Speaker 1: girls that he's dating, and then did you think that, like,
50:34
Speaker 1: just let's be honest here, did you cringe a little
50:36
Speaker 1: bit when he brought the guitar out for the proposal?
50:41
Speaker 1: Hell and laughs all around? Um, yeah, it was. Yeah,
50:50
Speaker 1: you know, I think there's you know, that time right
50:52
Speaker 1: there he could have spent just focusing on him and her. Yeah,
50:55
Speaker 1: and I think he did. I think I think music
50:57
Speaker 1: just his way of expressing himself the best. Yeah, you know,
51:00
Speaker 1: maybe that's how he feels about it, and I don't know,
51:02
Speaker 1: to reach his own How do you feel about John
51:05
Speaker 1: Baer would never pull that stunt. I'm just saying it there,
51:08
Speaker 1: and he's he's got a lot going for That was weird.
51:11
Speaker 1: That was weird. Yeah. What do you think about him
51:14
Speaker 1: referring to just saying that he had won the show
51:17
Speaker 1: instead of the fact that he was engaged when he
51:20
Speaker 1: was talking with his friends in Nashville. Um, I think
51:23
Speaker 1: that's you know, that's a very tough, you know, a
51:27
Speaker 1: tough way to put how the show ended for you.
51:29
Speaker 1: I think it kind of puts it in the context
51:32
Speaker 1: of being a competition when it shouldn't be. It should
51:35
Speaker 1: be you know, about building a relationship with somebody. I
51:37
Speaker 1: truly believe that's how a lot of people took this,
51:39
Speaker 1: and um, like, for instance, Luke saying I loved you
51:43
Speaker 1: after knowing Hannah for twelve minutes, Like, I think that
51:46
Speaker 1: was just all competition based. And I think there's an
51:50
Speaker 1: element of the show because obviously, you know, dirty guys
51:54
Speaker 1: competing for one girl. You know, there is a competition
51:57
Speaker 1: based to it. But it should be about building a relationship.
52:01
Speaker 1: And uh so, yeah, saying you one is it's definitely
52:04
Speaker 1: not the best way to go about saying, how you
52:07
Speaker 1: just got engaged to Hannah. You're you're one of the
52:12
Speaker 1: biggest heart throbs in the country now and you seem
52:18
Speaker 1: to be wanting to get married. You still want to
52:20
Speaker 1: get married right now? Yeah, I mean if right now,
52:23
Speaker 1: my dad always says, it'll slap you in the face,
52:27
Speaker 1: you know, and you'll know. And so if it happens,
52:31
Speaker 1: you know, if it comes tomorrow, great, if it comes
52:34
Speaker 1: a few years from now, you know, so'll be. So
52:36
Speaker 1: I'm just you know, taking it. I take every day
52:38
Speaker 1: day by day because uh, you never know what's gonna happen.
52:41
Speaker 1: It's gonna walk into your life or where it goes
52:43
Speaker 1: from here. So there's so many guys your age on
52:47
Speaker 1: social media apps or like dating apps, and they're saying,
52:51
Speaker 1: brother to get off tender. Yeah, why Ryan, if you listening,
52:55
Speaker 1: stay off that thing just because you don't need it. Like, like,
52:59
Speaker 1: I believe in the building organic relationships, although the Beschlard
53:02
Speaker 1: is not the most organic relationship. But I was like,
53:05
Speaker 1: you don't need to be doing that. You need to
53:07
Speaker 1: go be a regular kid to go meet you know,
53:09
Speaker 1: girls in your college to college and and and and
53:12
Speaker 1: date the right way. You don't need to be on
53:13
Speaker 1: these apps dating people. And it just I don't think
53:16
Speaker 1: it's a good look or a good thing to be doing.
53:19
Speaker 1: My friend, I bring it up because my friend there
53:22
Speaker 1: are some sex stories from Oh, there's so many. I
53:25
Speaker 1: don't think we can, you know, crap on dating apps here.
53:29
Speaker 1: But I do like the way that you're trying to
53:31
Speaker 1: promote people just like talking and communicating in real life
53:34
Speaker 1: and not having to rely on the back and forth
53:38
Speaker 1: via text message. I think that's kind of what you're saying, right. Um,
53:41
Speaker 1: but there's so many guys out there that my friends,
53:44
Speaker 1: my single friends will go on dates with, will be
53:46
Speaker 1: on the apps. It seems like they're looking for somebody
53:48
Speaker 1: to date, and then in real life they'll say I'm
53:51
Speaker 1: not looking for anything serious, and they'll tell them this
53:53
Speaker 1: on the first date, and I'm just glad that you're
53:56
Speaker 1: not one of them. I think those apps, like a
54:00
Speaker 1: lot of it has to do with the instant gratification.
54:02
Speaker 1: You can swipe right and you like somebody, and if
54:04
Speaker 1: they match, he's like, oh cool, someone likes me, you know,
54:06
Speaker 1: And I think that's has to do a lot with it.
54:10
Speaker 1: Ego stroking. Yeah, ego stroking. It's a good way to
54:13
Speaker 1: put it. My last question, and then Ben, I'll have
54:15
Speaker 1: you give your last questions. I don't think you're gonna
54:19
Speaker 1: like mine because you're too humble for this. But do
54:23
Speaker 1: you feel like Hannah asking you out last night hinges
54:28
Speaker 1: on your chance of being the Bachelor, because now people
54:30
Speaker 1: are gonna want to see you end up with Hannah
54:32
Speaker 1: more and have her get her happy ending than you
54:37
Speaker 1: be the bachelor. I don't know. I haven't really put
54:39
Speaker 1: too much thoughts into being the Bachelor. I need to
54:41
Speaker 1: sit down and think about all this. I mean, it's
54:43
Speaker 1: everything has been a firestorm since last night. So yeah,
54:47
Speaker 1: I have no idea. I just kind of taken a
54:49
Speaker 1: day by day and seeing what happens, and we'll have
54:51
Speaker 1: our drink and we'll see where it goes. But you know,
54:54
Speaker 1: if this, if that's what deters me from being the Bachelor,
54:56
Speaker 1: then it's not meant to be. It's it's whatever happens happens,
54:59
Speaker 1: and its supposed to happen, why it's supposed to so,
55:01
Speaker 1: and no end with this. What planet are you from? Jupiter?
55:07
Speaker 1: Then the teller, I don't have a lot of questions
55:11
Speaker 1: to follow up with you. We like to give every
55:13
Speaker 1: uh kind of fan favorite at the end of the
55:15
Speaker 1: season this opportunity because you know, with the hundreds of
55:19
Speaker 1: thousands of people that listen to the podcast, we we
55:21
Speaker 1: do have a platform to speak on um and we
55:25
Speaker 1: don't take that lightly. I want to give you the chance,
55:27
Speaker 1: Tyler to who to answer this question and then we'll
55:30
Speaker 1: say goodbye to you. Teller. Who is the man that
55:33
Speaker 1: you want to be? Who's the man that I want
55:36
Speaker 1: to be? Yeah? Who do you want to become? Who? What?
55:39
Speaker 1: What do you want your legacy to be? Would maybe
55:40
Speaker 1: a better way of asking it? Uh, just one that
55:43
Speaker 1: is able to take care of his family and generations
55:46
Speaker 1: to be and it's one to you know, spread love
55:50
Speaker 1: and show what you know how great love can be.
55:53
Speaker 1: And I don't know, I just just be a good example,
55:56
Speaker 1: lead by example. And I don't know that's the man
56:00
Speaker 1: I want to be is. I think it's undefined right now.
56:03
Speaker 1: The thing I'm just writing itself as I go. And
56:06
Speaker 1: so I don't mean two years from two years ago.
56:09
Speaker 1: I never thought i'd be doing this today. I mean
56:11
Speaker 1: the man I am today and two years from now
56:13
Speaker 1: may be completely different than the man I want to
56:15
Speaker 1: be now. So it's all unwritten and I'm just enjoying
56:19
Speaker 1: the ride and seeing where it goes. Well, man, you
56:22
Speaker 1: definitely have a brand new platform to explore all of
56:26
Speaker 1: this with, as we talked about earlier, don't take that lightly.
56:30
Speaker 1: I encourage you to start the process who you want
56:33
Speaker 1: to become, where you want this to go, what you
56:35
Speaker 1: want this to do, and what decisions will be made
56:38
Speaker 1: here Really the next you know, month or so, that
56:41
Speaker 1: could completely change your future forever. But until then, Tyler,
56:44
Speaker 1: you're a good dude. Thanks for coming on the podcast,
56:47
Speaker 1: Thanks for sharing your heart with us, um, thanks for
56:49
Speaker 1: being extremely good looking so that my phone can buzz
56:53
Speaker 1: all night last night, and uh, but most importantly, man,
56:56
Speaker 1: I'm wishing you the absolute best. Please do not hesitate
56:59
Speaker 1: to reach out or chat with Ashley and I about
57:01
Speaker 1: anything with that. Ladies and gentlemen, That was Tyler Cameron
57:04
Speaker 1: on the Almost Famous podcast. Yeah, what a podcast, this
57:10
Speaker 1: has been. What a season, this has been. Until next time,
57:14
Speaker 1: we're gonna be sitting here talking in the off season. Well,
57:17
Speaker 1: I guess we don't really have an off season. Bachelor
57:19
Speaker 1: in Paradise is coming up soon. Make sure you continue
57:21
Speaker 1: to tune into the Almost Famous podcast. Get all the updates,
57:23
Speaker 1: behind the scenes, exclusives, and interviews with the current contestants
57:28
Speaker 1: right here, right here at the Almost Famous Podcast. Hannah,
57:31
Speaker 1: you did great. We're sorry you didn't end in love
57:34
Speaker 1: with that. Uh. We just hope the best for you
57:38
Speaker 1: in the future, if that's with Tyler on this little
57:40
Speaker 1: drink day, or if that's with any of these guys,
57:42
Speaker 1: or if it's with a guy that you don't quite
57:44
Speaker 1: know yet, just know the Almost Famous Podcast fully is
57:48
Speaker 1: behind you. I want to think my co host Ashley,
57:49
Speaker 1: I can Eddie who who convinced me, quite honestly that
57:52
Speaker 1: Hannah was gonna be a great bachelor. I was right.
57:55
Speaker 1: I have got good people reading skills. You really do. Actually,
57:59
Speaker 1: I think this is a great season of The Bachelorette. Uh.
58:02
Speaker 1: It was fantastic, so great. I'm all in support of
58:07
Speaker 1: Hannah being the Bachelor. I feel like most of America
58:11
Speaker 1: would be with me on that. But I guess we'll
58:13
Speaker 1: have to see who is on the next season of
58:15
Speaker 1: The Bachelor and if anyone could possibly be more rootable
58:19
Speaker 1: and lovable as rubal and lovable as Hannah. I want
58:24
Speaker 1: to ask you, Ashley before we head out here. I
58:28
Speaker 1: think all of the storyline surrounding this season has kind
58:31
Speaker 1: of overshadowed how this season actually ended, and listeners, I
58:35
Speaker 1: want your opinion as well, because I want to give
58:37
Speaker 1: you some some honest feedback for me, I don't I'm not.
58:40
Speaker 1: I woke up this morning and I watched last night
58:42
Speaker 1: not feeling that sad for Hannah for whatever reason, even
58:44
Speaker 1: though the ending of the season was incredibly sad, But
58:47
Speaker 1: I didn't feel as sad for Hannah as I probably
58:49
Speaker 1: should have because there's so many other storylines that I
58:52
Speaker 1: felt I was trying to process. Do you feel the
58:54
Speaker 1: same way, um, I think Hannah has been so strong
58:58
Speaker 1: throughout this process that we just think she can take
59:02
Speaker 1: another blow. You know. We we're like, oh, she's gonna
59:06
Speaker 1: handle herself. She's so kick ass. We don't have to
59:08
Speaker 1: worry about Hannah. And it's actually really sad she went
59:13
Speaker 1: through all of this. She became the bachelorette, she got
59:16
Speaker 1: that opportunity, and she didn't end up with anyone in
59:18
Speaker 1: the end. So yeah, I feel I do feel bad.
59:21
Speaker 1: I have no doubt that she's gonna find her person
59:23
Speaker 1: and it's going to work out the way it's supposed to.
59:26
Speaker 1: But I mean as as an ending, and for somebody
59:29
Speaker 1: we've just rooted on so much and who wanted to
59:33
Speaker 1: be loved fiercely, it is kind of sad to see
59:36
Speaker 1: that didn't happen. M I think it's a good, good
59:40
Speaker 1: lesson for all of us. So listeners, let's take a second, um,
59:44
Speaker 1: because actually brings up a great point is you probably
59:47
Speaker 1: have people in your own life who have just shown
59:49
Speaker 1: incredible strength that they don't let any emotion and they
59:52
Speaker 1: don't let their their issues kind of fall on anybody else.
59:56
Speaker 1: They kind of take it all in themselves and they
59:58
Speaker 1: move through it. We know people like that. It's in
1:00:01
Speaker 1: all of our lives, and this time take a little second, um,
1:00:04
Speaker 1: think about who this people are and wrap your arms
1:00:06
Speaker 1: around them, because it's unfair to them that we don't
1:00:09
Speaker 1: show them the support. Even when you lead with a
1:00:11
Speaker 1: humble courage and a humble strength and a humble confidence,
1:00:16
Speaker 1: we still need support. And it's oftentimes the squeaky people
1:00:21
Speaker 1: who are begging for attention that get the most attention.
1:00:24
Speaker 1: And the Hannah Browns of the world who just got
1:00:27
Speaker 1: told that her fiance want somebody that she cared about,
1:00:31
Speaker 1: had a girlfriend for the most part throughout the show.
1:00:35
Speaker 1: She's now sitting there today once this is all done,
1:00:38
Speaker 1: processing it all, and I guarantee she needs a love
1:00:40
Speaker 1: and support that that we all deserve in moments like this.
1:00:42
Speaker 1: So reach out to Hannah Brown, reach out to Ashley
1:00:44
Speaker 1: can Eddie. On Ashley I Can Eddie's Love Week, We're
1:00:47
Speaker 1: gonna show her so much support and so much love.
1:00:50
Speaker 1: But Hannah Brown, thank you for a great season. You've
1:00:52
Speaker 1: been great. Also, I want to give a thank you
1:00:54
Speaker 1: to Dunkin Donuts. Shout out the Dunkin Donuts from making
1:00:56
Speaker 1: our morning a little sweeter. Uh. You guys know that
1:00:59
Speaker 1: I'm the huge just Duncan fan. Me and Jared truly
1:01:03
Speaker 1: run on Duncan, and I want to thank them for
1:01:07
Speaker 1: teasing me with bagels and doughnuts in front of me
1:01:10
Speaker 1: this entire podcast, when I really shouldn't be eating them
1:01:13
Speaker 1: because my wedding is really coming up close. But let's
1:01:17
Speaker 1: face it, not only do they have the best doughnuts,
1:01:19
Speaker 1: but they also serve well the best coffee. It is
1:01:23
Speaker 1: the best coffee in the world, hands down coffee incomparable,
1:01:29
Speaker 1: no except for generous. Yes, darnet, Why do I always
1:01:32
Speaker 1: do this to you? Ben? It's very awkward because I'm
1:01:36
Speaker 1: such a Duncan fan and there's a chance that they
1:01:38
Speaker 1: might be doing a little something for our wedding because
1:01:41
Speaker 1: Jared and I have been so outspoken about them. But
1:01:43
Speaker 1: I love generous. I love generous. Yeah, well, hey, we
1:01:48
Speaker 1: can be fans of both. There's a lot of coffee
1:01:50
Speaker 1: to be spreading this world. We're all drinking it. Or Duncan,
1:01:52
Speaker 1: I'm a fan of you as well. Um to say
1:01:54
Speaker 1: it's the best coffee, well, I'll have to let that
1:01:57
Speaker 1: be decided by the asta Can eddies of the world.
1:02:00
Speaker 1: But until then, visit your local Dunkin Donuts today. It's
1:02:03
Speaker 1: worth it, and we have one more thank you thank
1:02:05
Speaker 1: you to Bennett the executive producer on The Bachelor. UM,
1:02:10
Speaker 1: he is the best. He helps with this show a
1:02:13
Speaker 1: lot and b I p looks awesome. Congrats to our
1:02:19
Speaker 1: producer friend Louis Louis for taking over over there in Mexico.
1:02:25
Speaker 1: That's right, Yeah, we we do. We every time. We
1:02:28
Speaker 1: want to pause at the end of the season and
1:02:29
Speaker 1: say thanks to to everybody that works on this show
1:02:32
Speaker 1: that helps us out to get the episodes early, to
1:02:34
Speaker 1: get the behind the scenes exclusives. UM. Also thank you
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Speaker 1: the people at I Heart UM, the Easton's and Marks
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Speaker 1: and Amy's and Danielle and tories of the world for
1:02:43
Speaker 1: helping us continue this podcast in a fashion that is
1:02:47
Speaker 1: successful and fun. UM. I want to also give a
1:02:50
Speaker 1: time to say thanks to my co host Ashley con
1:02:52
Speaker 1: Eddie for dealing with me for another season, for breaking
1:02:55
Speaker 1: down this season, for taking all of this on in
1:02:58
Speaker 1: the midst of planning a beautiful wedding. So please don't
1:03:01
Speaker 1: forget to love on her this week. Uh, what a
1:03:04
Speaker 1: podcast it's been, What a season it's been. We look
1:03:07
Speaker 1: forward to talking to you soon about Bachelor in Paradise,
1:03:10
Speaker 1: one of our favorite times of the year. With that
1:03:13
Speaker 1: I've been been, Hey Ben, what planet do you come from?
1:03:18
Speaker 1: Were Sandy in it Warsaw? That sounds like a planet,
1:03:22
Speaker 1: not really, okay, but you come from the same planet
1:03:25
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