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- 0:00Or Today we even another episode from the archives with one of my incredible guests,
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- 0:49guys. Welcome back to the Trauma Therapist Podcast. My name is Gammick Person
- 0:52and very excited to have as my guest today Irene Lyon. Irene Welcome,
- 0:57Hi, Thank you, Thank you so much so. Irene is a nervous
- 1:00system specialist who helps people release their deepest traumas from their nervous system, allowing
- 1:04them to finally heal from chronic mental, physical, and emotional conditions they've tried
- 1:11everything to fix. Arenia has intensively studied and practices the work of Felding,
- 1:15Cross, Peter Levine, Kathy Kane. She has a master's degree in research
- 1:21in the fields of biomedical and health science, and regularly appears on podcasts and
- 1:25online summits, teaching all things nervous system health, healing, trauma, and
- 1:29neuroplasticity. Awesome, Before we dive in, where are you calling from and
- 1:37where are you from? Yeah, yeah, I am. Yeah, it's
- 1:40easy. I'm originally from Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada, and I've lived
- 1:45a few spots in my life up in the mountains of Whistler, British Columbia.
- 1:49I don't know if you know Whistler. It's a big ski resort,
- 1:52so I was there for a while that's part of my story, and then
- 1:55lived in Australia for a few years. That's where I did my research.
- 2:00And now full circle, I've come back to my hometown and I live literally
- 2:05a fifteen minute walk from the hospital I was born at back in nineteen seventy
- 2:08five. So yeah, I walked by that hospital almost every day. And
- 2:13this is Vancouver is truly home. Yeah. Yeah, It's just interesting experience
- 2:19to be living place that you were born in. So we start usually with
- 2:28a quote or a mantra. Do you have something you want to share.
- 2:30Yeah, it's it's interesting. I picked this quote up back in two thousand
- 2:38when I was doing my research, doing a lot of reading Einstein and alchemy,
- 2:43like lots of more mystic sciences, if you will. And I don't
- 2:46know if you call this a quote, but it's something that the alchemists,
- 2:51and not the book that Paulo Quella wrote, but like the true alchemists,
- 2:54what they lived by. And I will say it in Latin. I may
- 2:59not do the Latin justice, but it is aura le laboraveni, and that
- 3:07means Aura is prey leja is, read is reread, labora work aveny is
- 3:15and you shall find. So I remember when I found that I was still
- 3:22deep in my studies doing health sciences and and at the time actually recovering from
- 3:29some physical injuries due to ski accidents I had had in my early twenties,
- 3:34and so I was doing a lot of searching and a lot of trying to
- 3:38figure out things and how come my initial bachelor degree, which was in health
- 3:44science and exercise science, why that work actually wasn't helping me heal. I
- 3:50was trying to heal these orthopedic injuries, and about seven years of education and
- 3:55rehabilitative education, and I still didn't know how to help myself, and so
- 4:00there was this element of what am I missing and that I kind of got
- 4:06first piece into kind of the more somatic world, if we want to call
- 4:11it, That was with the work of doctor Feldon Christ, Moshe Feldon Christ,
- 4:15and so that's kind of that was sort of the launchpad to me going
- 4:18into what some people might call alternative healing methods. And yet if you really
- 4:25look at the people that I have studied with over the last eighteen years,
- 4:28they were all really hardcore scientists, Feldon Christ being one, Peter Levine being
- 4:34one, and then my more recent member is Kathy Kane. So yeah,
- 4:40that was where the alchemist really got me. And I still to this day
- 4:45think of that when I work with my online clients. I always make sure
- 4:48they know of that, saying if you will, because the one thing I've
- 4:55really learned in this healing world is we have to keep learning and we have
- 4:59to keep working at it, and if we keep putting those pieces together,
- 5:03we eventually find what we're looking for. If that makes sense, it does.
- 5:08Yeah, So once again in English, so it's prey re re rework
- 5:14and you shall find Yeah, yeah, I love that. So you touched
- 5:19a little bit about your skiing accidents. Was was that? How did that
- 5:30start the engine into getting you into into this field with the trauma and so
- 5:34forth? No, it wasn't. Okay, it's weird, So quick story.
- 5:39So I was a big active kid in my teens, and long story
- 5:43short, had a whole bunch of knee ski accidents, so common things or
- 5:48the acl cruise shit ligaments. But the big one was I fractured my kneecap
- 5:54my patella, of all things, which was a complication from another surgeon three.
- 6:00And that threw me into a bit of a tailspin more physically because my
- 6:04body was all crooked. I was on crutches for a long time, so
- 6:08I was physically kind of twisted, and yet I was strong, and so
- 6:13I got into the Feldon Christ work, and the Feldon Christ work pretty much
- 6:18fixed all of the physicality problems. And it was so miraculous to me at
- 6:26the time that I decided to study doctor feldon Christ's work. I did that,
- 6:30and I started private practice. This is when I was still living in
- 6:33Whistler, British Columbia, but at about about two thousand and eight. This
- 6:39is where the trauma piece came in. I was doing my private practice,
- 6:43doing mainly Feldon christ and I would say about forty This is a rough estimate,
- 6:48but maybe about forty percent of the people I was working with were getting
- 6:51better and the way I had. But there was sort of this sixty ish
- 6:58percent if I'm really honest, to be honest guy, maybe seventy if I
- 7:01think about it, that weren't getting better. And they might have a nice
- 7:05experience, they might increase the range of motion, but there was like something
- 7:11that didn't stick. And it's as if they weren't really there. They couldn't
- 7:15sense their bodies, they couldn't take the work on their own. And when
- 7:20I started to look at the histories of these people that weren't getting better,
- 7:26they all had some kind of either highly traumatic experience injury wise, accident accident
- 7:34wise, or they had had some fairly big abusive adverse adversity when they were
- 7:42young, and not just you know, physical sexual kinds of abuse, but
- 7:46emotional abuse. Always having to be perfect, always having to be top of
- 7:51the class, which is a high strain on a lot of kids. And
- 7:56so I was looking at this spectrum and I was like, well, what
- 8:01am I missing here? And luckily when you go back and go back to
- 8:03the alchemy quote, I asked questions that I just talked to some of my
- 8:09mentors in the Feldon Christ world and one actually said you might want to look
- 8:13into Peter Levine's work, and I was like, okay, so I did.
- 8:18And so I got into Peter's work and Somatic Experiencing in about two thousand
- 8:24and eight, which is about ten years now, isn't it. And I
- 8:31went in knowing I needed to do it because it was really clear that this
- 8:37underlying dysregulation of the nervous system was why these people weren't physically getting better,
- 8:45because their system was essentially in some kind of survival mode. And I got
- 8:50into that work, I fell in love with it, and then realized,
- 8:56lo and behold, oh, maybe I do have some traumas in my system
- 9:01that I didn't know about. That we're more, that we're deeper than even
- 9:03my physical injuries. And I grew up in a very loving, caring household.
- 9:09It was just the societal pressures and the expectations, the things that we
- 9:16kind of take as common rule in our Western society. But when you really
- 9:22unpack them. You really see how they stunt an individual's authenticity and their growth
- 9:28and their ability to be real and emotional. Right, I'm raising my hand.
- 9:33Yeah, everybody good. And I really stressed that because a lot of
- 9:37people get scared by the word trauma, and really trauma isn't It doesn't have
- 9:43to be some big thing. It really is in our If I define it
- 9:46in Peter Levine's terms, it's dysregulation of our autonomic nervous system. And right
- 9:56now I have yet to have met anybody and this is the truth in my
- 10:01life who is fully regulated in their nervous system before they get into this work.
- 10:09Our society just doesn't allow for it. So that's kind of how I
- 10:13got into the trauma work. At most, A lot of the folks I
- 10:16know in that field get into it for themselves. I was kind of the
- 10:20opposite. I got into it for my clients and then through that went oh
- 10:24wow, this is this is important, or not just my clients, but
- 10:28myself. What do you What was it about or what is it about you
- 10:35that wanted to do this work? I mean, initially when you were studying
- 10:41the Fielding christ A method, why did you make that jump from having your
- 10:46own experience to saying, you know what, I want to work with people?
- 10:48What was it about or is it? If I'm really honest, I
- 10:52didn't want to be a hypocrite, I could, you know, much to
- 10:56my parents' dismay. They had just put me through almost seven years of university
- 11:01that's not including my master's degree to become highly trained to work with humans at
- 11:07the rehab level, the nutrition I was trained to nutrition exercise science level,
- 11:13and I was watching my own body not get better with all that, And
- 11:18I was trained by some good teachers in university, and I was like,
- 11:22what is going on here? And I was actually raised in a medical family.
- 11:28My parents are both veterinarians, both animal doctors, So I think there
- 11:33was always a this essence of finding the solution. And I knew darnwell that
- 11:43if I didn't keep searching for the thing that would help me, at least
- 11:48in that primary moment in my feldon Christ years, if I didn't figure out
- 11:52what that was that was missing, I wouldn't have to be simple job satisfaction,
- 12:00right, And I was already kind of getting a bit frustrated with the
- 12:03classic way of training people and doing exercise rehab you know, all the core
- 12:09work and stretching and strengthening, and while exercise and staying strong is essential,
- 12:16the way in which we physically rehabilitate people is quite primitive. And so I
- 12:22just knew there was something more to it. And so that's kind of one
- 12:26of the reasons why I kept pursuing that. And you know, I've been
- 12:33asked this question before, you know, what drives you? What makes you
- 12:37want to do this? And it's interesting. I was just with my team.
- 12:39I have a team of about ten people that helped me with my online
- 12:43work, and I said, you know, there's really I never woke up
- 12:46one day and said this is what I want to do. You know,
- 12:50I don't want to work with you know, I want to work with trauma.
- 12:52I want to do this. It was never it was never a choice.
- 12:56I would say that the choice kind of found me. The work found
- 13:00me, and then I just chose to make the decisions that brought me to
- 13:05you know, you and I sitting here and having these convos with your study,
- 13:16you know, and just study with Peter Levian's work and so forth,
- 13:20and quote unquote trauma, How did things shift for you and the way you
- 13:22interacted with your clients or post your clients. Yeah, that's a big one.
- 13:30Well are you familiar with Norman Deutsch. He's a Canadian author, psychologist,
- 13:35psychiatrists. He wrote one of the first book right yeah, yeah,
- 13:43yeah. His first book was called UM, The Brain That Changes Itself right
- 13:48right yeah Deutsch, Yes, thousand and four ish and um that was sort
- 13:56of one of the best, if not the best books on neuroplastic neuroplasticity.
- 14:03So the fact that we can change patterns that are deeply deeply wired. You
- 14:09know, we used to think if someone had a stroke, that was it.
- 14:13You know, you can rehabilitate anything, and we now know that's not
- 14:18true. Same even with spinal cord injuries, Parkinson's and all these things.
- 14:22And so he wrote that book in the mid two thousands, and then he
- 14:28recently wrote his latest book, which I actually prefer is called The Brain's Way
- 14:35of Healing. And in that book he actually talks about Feldon Christ, doctor
- 14:41Feldon Christ's work. So if anybody listening wants to learn more about Moche Feldon
- 14:46Christ, I would say that the two he has two chapters on him in
- 14:48that book is probably the best account of his work. But what he also
- 14:54has in that book is a chapter on what he calls neuroplastic healing, and
- 15:01he dubs it the five Stages of Neuroplastic Healing. And when I read that
- 15:07chapter, I would say that a light bulb really went on in that he
- 15:13outlines the importance of sequencing how we heal. So I'll give you an example.
- 15:20So, when I was doing my Feldon Christ work with my clients and
- 15:22my private practice, the people that weren't getting better with the physical Feldon Chrisian
- 15:30work, which is quite complex. I'm not sure if you've ever done any
- 15:33Feldon Christ work, but it requires higher brain functioning because you're listening to an
- 15:41instruction, you have to feel it in your body. You have to process
- 15:45that movement pattern and then you move. So it's high level and in the
- 15:52sequencing of how we work for higher function to be one hundred percent sort of
- 16:00on if we are living in survival physiology, So if our nervous system,
- 16:07if our sympathetic and parasympathetic nervous systems are kind of chaotic and in disarray,
- 16:15our brain and not just our brain, but our entire physiology will be consumed
- 16:19by survival. And when we're consumed by survival. We can't think with our
- 16:25higher brain, or we can, but it's kind of half ass. And
- 16:29so when he outlined like, before you do more what he calls neurodifferentiation,
- 16:37that's the fifth stage of neuroplastic healing, which is feld in Christ's work.
- 16:41So before you could do this higher level neuroplastic healing, that's neurodifferentiation, you
- 16:48must you must work at the lower levels. And he calls it neuromodulation,
- 16:55which is where you're basically learning how to regulate your nervous system and not be
- 17:02living in a state of threat all the time. And so what I realized
- 17:07was like, oh, this is why out of a class of ten,
- 17:12five people leave feeling lovely and they keep it and the other five are confused.
- 17:21They think they might have got something, they might have a little better
- 17:23flexibility, but they come back the next week and nothing has changed, right,
- 17:29nothing has stuck. Am I making sense? Yeah? It makes great
- 17:33sense. I think it's a great illustration too. So these folks, you
- 17:37know, well meaning you know, and this is where if you talk to
- 17:42a lot of people now, and I'm being very general, they've tried diets,
- 17:48they've tried yoga, they've tried meditation, they've tried self you know,
- 17:53positive thinking, so positive psychology, gratitude, all these very high we would
- 18:00call them higher brain behavioral modifications, and they come up short. They might
- 18:07get better for a little bit, it might help them strategize, cope,
- 18:11and manage. But if they're underlying stress physiology, it's more than the brain.
- 18:17It's actually how our neurophysiology responds to our internal state and to our environment.
- 18:22If that's still on fire due to past adversity, trauma, stress,
- 18:27never being able to be yourself and having to protect your system, if that's
- 18:32still running the front of the bus, we can't be higher brain. And
- 18:36so when I really when I read that chapter, what made sense to me
- 18:41was this is why now when we work, when I work with my clients
- 18:45and we take the time to teach them how to regulate, how to become
- 18:51more safe in their system, they then can take on the higher brain stuff
- 18:56with ease. It just kind of comes like easy, whereas before with that
- 19:02stress physiology running the front of the bus. It really is indicative to that
- 19:04kid in school who's labeled add or learning disabled, it's not that they're stupid
- 19:11it's that they are struggling with survival energy and they can't focus, they can't
- 19:15constantly. And this is same with adults. You know, if you have
- 19:18an adult that is highly stressed or is still stressed from you know, past
- 19:25early traumas, they'll struggle in life. You know, it'll be hard to
- 19:29get things done, to get motivated. We hear the word resistance all the
- 19:33time. Right, I've got all this resistance and often that resistance, that
- 19:37lack of motivation, that malaise, that fatigue, that anxiety. It is,
- 19:44and I'm pretty confident now because I've done this enough, it is that
- 19:48unresolved traumatic response, or to be more appropriate, traumatic responses that are still
- 19:56sort of sitting in there in their cellular system. You will, I mean,
- 20:00you can just imagine people going through UH, you know, trying different
- 20:04things to heal themselves and things not working and then turning to you know,
- 20:10addiction or getting to pressed and so forth, and and the other side of
- 20:15this coin too. I mean, thank you so much for that explanation.
- 20:17This is such a great argument, if you will, for you know,
- 20:22new clinicians, people just starting out to learn trauma, to learn trauma informed
- 20:27UH interventions, and modalities and so forth. Let's share with us an early
- 20:37clinical error and early because everyone has them. I'm sure you've had some screwed
- 20:41up one one yeah, yeah, yeah, you know I because you you
- 20:48know I'll be transparent. You sent me this question, so I was like
- 20:51pondering that, um, and it's almost um. It isn't one person per
- 20:56se, because I can think of some people that, yeah, they could
- 21:00have done this better, that better. It's more of a kind of a
- 21:07it's a theme. So this is a theme, and that's that you get
- 21:11people coming in, whether it's my private practice or my colleagues private practices,
- 21:15or my online work that I do. And if someone thinks that just showing
- 21:26up at my office or someone's office or doing an audio exercise is enough,
- 21:33so they do it and then they leave. But then they don't integrate that
- 21:37into their life. If they if they don't integrate it into their life and
- 21:42have their entire life be a mirror by which they can work on their physiology,
- 21:48their responses, their stress. It's hard to heal. And by that
- 21:55I mean it's kind of like this all or nothing thing. And the when
- 22:00I was young in my career, I think I was I think, I
- 22:03know, I was a little more afraid to say it. How it is
- 22:07like to be a bit more of that hard nosed you know, like if
- 22:10you don't change these elements in all of your life, it really isn't.
- 22:17It's not that it's not going to make a difference, but in essence,
- 22:19it kind of isn't. And some of the more primary examples I'll get is,
- 22:25you know, we'll have someone come in who is chronically ill. Let's
- 22:30just say, let's say they have fibromyalgia, and which is, as we're
- 22:34learning, basically a dysregulation of the nervous system, and which is due to
- 22:40early traumatic stress that was never treated. And so you have this individual,
- 22:45and so we do really good work together. We might work on their stress
- 22:52physiology, bringing their survival energy down, teaching them how to feel that in
- 22:56their body. Maybe there's some specific events, you know, maybe a car
- 23:02accident, maybe it was abuse, and we work on that in the office.
- 23:07If they then go back to their current life that has been set up
- 23:11based on their wiring, meaning they have let's just say, an emotionally shut
- 23:21down partner, or their children who are say adults walk all over them.
- 23:26You know, they don't know how to set boundaries. Maybe they have kept
- 23:30a job that is soul sucking and doesn't give them enough time to rest all
- 23:34these things. Maybe their their dietary changes don't change so many things, so
- 23:38they just go back into that world that was created as a result of their
- 23:45early traumatic patterns. If that world doesn't change, And this is going to
- 23:49sound harsh, but it's kind of true, there's almost no point in doing
- 23:55the work. And the reason why I say that, and I'm coming more
- 24:00comfortable saying it, is is we want people want to I want people to
- 24:06do their best, and I want to give them the benefit of the doubt
- 24:10that they can take that that tough love, if you will, that harsh
- 24:14reality. And it's hard, you know, it's hard if you're a person
- 24:19in your sixties or seventies and you're sick and you have a very set way
- 24:25of living and to extricate yourself from that might be financially impossible, let's say,
- 24:32or you have children, these sorts of things. So it's kind of
- 24:36like this all or nothing, And if you go into this work, it
- 24:40really requires an entire lifestyle change. And then the other one that I'll speak
- 24:47to is I'm starting to mentor more colleagues, and because I think a lot
- 24:53of people that listen to your podcasts are in the therapy realms. And what
- 24:59I've seen too, and I'm getting a bit more brave at speaking out about
- 25:03is if you are in the work, if you're doing this work with your
- 25:08clients, right, it is essential that you yourself are in the work too,
- 25:17you know. And I'm blessed that my current husband is also trained in
- 25:22somatic experiencing. He got into it after me. So our way of living
- 25:27in our environment is very much open in terms of being emotionally vulnerable, supporting
- 25:34each other when we're having a hard time, you know, all these elements
- 25:40that we would do with a client such that we're living that life, that
- 25:45world, if you will. So to go back to your original question about
- 25:49an error a mistake, I don't know if that's a mistake, but more
- 25:53in retrospect, I wish back in my younger years I could have been a
- 25:59bit more into really almost having an intake with my clients to say, if
- 26:03you want to do this work, this is what's going to be important,
- 26:07and if you know that this isn't something that you're going to change then either
- 26:14a we might not be the right fit or be would you be willing to
- 26:19consider changing these things because it's like I, you know, I don't want
- 26:25people to feel that that there. You know, it really comes down to
- 26:29people have to pay for this work, and so there's I don't know if
- 26:33this is making any sense. It's it's not like a specific but it's this
- 26:38need to really convey to people this isn't just one hour that you come in,
- 26:42we do work, and then you leave and you forget about it.
- 26:45Like it really needs to be this one hundred percent green light. And it
- 26:51might mean that every now and again the person pauses from the work, but
- 26:56there's still in it in a sense if that if that makes sense, it
- 27:00does. I mean what came up for me as you were sharing at Irene
- 27:04was this, um uh, you know a lot of times I think when
- 27:10people are starting out, there can be there often is, and certainly with
- 27:15myself, there were a lot of hesitancies around certain things, and it almost
- 27:21brings up this idea of you know, people get into this field oftentimes because
- 27:25they want to help, and one can mean fixing and curing and stopping the
- 27:29pain and but yeah, what happens when you know you you said there something
- 27:34happened where you uh, there was a hesitancy about you know, you use
- 27:40I think you used the phrase kind of tough love. To me, there
- 27:44was there's something very open and straightforward in expressing that. That to me is
- 27:52a very interesting kind of transition that a lot of us made. And you
- 27:56said you got to that point where you were able to just speak more openly
- 28:00about that, and I found that very empowering. And it's interesting because on
- 28:03the other end of that, oftentimes there is someone, you know, if
- 28:07we're talking about trauma here, people who've been impacted by trauma, who you
- 28:12know, how are they receiving what you're not saying versus when you're able to
- 28:19explain and open up to them and you know, the lands differently in a
- 28:25sense, I find it very empowering. I don't know, I just so
- 28:29I appreciate it, which you shared. Yeah, and I'll add to that
- 28:33it kind of um, it's very adult, right, It's kind of this
- 28:38when we've got trauma in the picture, we're working with a physiology and a
- 28:45brain that is infantile or in a child state or you know, adolescent,
- 28:51like there isn't full maturity. And this is actually something that doctor Felton Christ
- 28:56was very interested in, is what what is a full sure human being?
- 29:00And does that even exist yet? You know, he died a long time
- 29:04ago. He was doing his writings in the fifties. And you know,
- 29:10one of the why is one of my big desires and this is I've sort
- 29:17of borrowed this from Peter Levine, so I'm going to credit him, is
- 29:19that we as a species, as a human species, stop living in survival.
- 29:26And in order to do that, some very tough discussions and tough healing
- 29:33regiments have to occur. And what you said a second ago about like the
- 29:40danger I see a lot of people getting into when they're doing this work and
- 29:45they want to help people, is getting into the avenue or the road,
- 29:51if you will, or the track where you're helping people so that you feel
- 29:55good as a therapist or a practitioner or a massage person or whatever. And
- 30:02it's a very fine line because when you are doing your work so that you
- 30:07feel good about yourself, it kind of poisons things a bit, as opposed
- 30:15to doing your work with your client and being proud of their accomplishments it's very
- 30:23much. You know, the in the university we learned something called the sick
- 30:27model of health. And there's this great image of this man like in a
- 30:32ditch and they can't get out of the ditch, and someone's throwing him pills,
- 30:37like here you go, you know, here's here's another pill. Try
- 30:41this, and then then it's superimposed with another image with the man in the
- 30:45ditch and the guy above is like giving him a hand and helping him get
- 30:51out of the ditch as opposed to just throwing him stuff. And I think,
- 30:56as at least as I'm mature and I'm still consider myself still young in
- 31:00this work. But as I look at how do you sustain this work and
- 31:06how do you keep going, you really have to, I believe, this
- 31:11is my opinion, see the work as you're kind of a catalyst, and
- 31:17there has to be very little ego involved. And to do that means being
- 31:22sometimes the tough love person, still being empathetic and giving people the benefit of
- 31:30the doubt, like hoping and desiring and having the intention that they will take
- 31:36the tougher path that will actually probably give them more ability to become as I
- 31:41like to say, their own medicine, Like, I don't want to be
- 31:44the crutch for someone. It gets tricky when clients need to see you every
- 31:49single week, and some people do need that because their systems are so disregulated.
- 31:56But even in that case, there needs to be a good boundary and
- 31:59a good separation that they are also doing their own work when they're not with
- 32:05me or with their therapist. And that's kind of how I actually see very
- 32:10few people one on one anymore. I do mainly group work because I saw
- 32:15how powerful it was when people took the learning and the healing into their own
- 32:20hands and they had more peer support as opposed to me being that single person
- 32:24that's quote unquote fixing them. If that makes sense, I think, you
- 32:30know, and I think there's there's a place in the rooms for fixers.
- 32:32Like if I had a broken bone, I want to go to a fixer,
- 32:36you know, I want to go to a surgeon that's going to,
- 32:37you know, fix my bone. But for a lot of the stuff around
- 32:42trauma and healing the psyche and chronic illness, the approach I'm seeing is very
- 32:50different, and it's more than just working with people and helping them feel better.
- 32:57It's getting them to learn how they can make themselves feel better. If
- 33:00that makes sense. It does. Yeah, I mean, yeah, we
- 33:06can go on and on with this now, and I really enjoy talking with
- 33:08you. I just want to want to remind everyone that I'm speaking with Irene
- 33:12Lion. Her website is Irene Lion dot com. That's I R E N
- 33:16E L y o n dot com. Let's talk about let's kind of segue
- 33:21into what it is you do. I mean, I'm looking at website now,
- 33:25which I love. By the way, you have programs, you have
- 33:28free resources, you have events. Let's talk about let's pick kind of pick
- 33:31something out that you can share with our audience. Yeah. Well, um,
- 33:36like I said, I don't do very much private work anymore. If
- 33:38I do, it's mainly with practitioners who are, you know, needing consultation
- 33:45and their own sessions. And what I'm mainly focused on now are my online
- 33:51programs. So that kind of came out. When I was with my private
- 33:57practice people, I would send them home with audio like audio lessons that I
- 34:06had recorded, just guiding them through their nervous systems being able to sense feel
- 34:14and at the same time, I was also doing a lot of lectures and
- 34:17talks teaching people like detailed information about their nervous systems and how stress comes in
- 34:24and how the biology responds. And so over the course of about i'd say
- 34:30three years, give or take a few months, I started to amass all
- 34:36that content into an online program. Okay, just to be sure the programs
- 34:43for what for clients people? Okay, yeah, yeah, so yeah,
- 34:49so I was. So it was kind of like when I was first starting
- 34:52it, it was just an experiment, you know, I didn't really know
- 34:54what I was doing, but I knew that people needed something when they weren't
- 35:00with me, like they needed to learn and they needed to study. And
- 35:04so I started creating these audios, these handouts, articles, videos, and
- 35:09then over the course of about three years, I put them into a more
- 35:14formal online program that is now a twelve week program. It's called Smart Body,
- 35:21Smart Mind, and we just finished actually around it's the seventh time I've
- 35:28run this twelve week program, and people basically go through it. It's really
- 35:32like going to a university course in some ways, and that you show up
- 35:36each week for an online lecture. There's Q and A calls, so it's
- 35:40like going to your tutorial. There's breadings, there's video trainings, and then
- 35:45there's the practical where they listen to an audio I call them neurosensory exercise,
- 35:52and then they do that lesson, and that that work is really a unique
- 35:59blend of Peter Levine's work, my other mentor, Kathy Kane, who is
- 36:07well steeped in early developmental trauma, and then felt in Christ's work. So
- 36:12to describe it in words can be maybe confusing, but essentially I've curated and
- 36:17amalgamated those three pieces of work into this program, and so far we've had
- 36:27well over I should know the numbers, well over a thousand plus people go
- 36:32through it in over forty countries worldwide, so it's yeah. And then the
- 36:40people in that are a mix of people. Some folks have severe chronic illness.
- 36:46Others are like myself, like you, who want to learn a bit
- 36:52more about the nervous system trauma. Some people are practitioners who are still healing
- 37:00their own wounds and so they're in there. But all sorts of folks have
- 37:05come in and really benefited from kind of that amalgamation of the work that I've
- 37:09been kind of piecing together for the last twenty years. Really so that again
- 37:15is called smart Body, Smart Mind. Okay, I'll have this linked up
- 37:19at the show of Beach at the Trauma Thanks podcast dot com Awesome. When
- 37:23is your When's the next the next weapon take? Yeah? Yeah, so
- 37:29we do that right now. I run it once a year until up until
- 37:34twenty seventeen it was twice a year. But I'm wanting to get back into
- 37:37do into doing more mentorship and live events where I'm teaching more feldon Christ sort
- 37:44of movement. So we run that every spring. So it's going to go
- 37:49again in spring twenty nineteen, most likely around the first week of April last
- 37:54Arch. Yeah. And then the other aside is that because I know there
- 37:59might be folks who want to get started right away, we do have a
- 38:02smaller self study course that was curated from the twelve weeks that's a twenty one
- 38:08day kind of tune up. We call it nervous system tune up, and
- 38:13that could be started at anytime, So someone who wants to start that could
- 38:16do it today if they wanted to. Irene. How about a go to
- 38:21book recommendations up here? Yeah, Yeah, Deutsche's are great, They're very
- 38:30great stories. He's a great writer. I had two books in mind,
- 38:35so one and of course Peter Levine's books are given because he's one of my
- 38:38mentors. But the two books that are less known or maybe not one would
- 38:44be When the Body Says No. That is a book written by doctor Gabor
- 38:50Matte, and he's a physician based in Vancouver actually, but he's become quite
- 38:57well known for his work on addiction, add and chronic illness. So When
- 39:01the Body Says No it's a wonderful read. It's a hard read for someone
- 39:07who might be living with or trying to heal a chronic illness, but it
- 39:10really goes into the stress interactions and the emotional the consequences of emotional repression on
- 39:21our physiology. So that one's a good one and again beautifully written with lots
- 39:25of stories, which I always like. And then the other book is called
- 39:30Scared Sick, Scared Sick, Okay, Scared Sick, and that's written by
- 39:37a science writer named Robin car Morse. And we didn't talk about this,
- 39:44but there's so much information online and I have articles on this, but that
- 39:47book dives into something called the Ace Study. I'm not sure if you've had
- 39:52anybody talk about the a study So that's the adverse childhood experience is study,
- 39:55and that really is the seminal piece of research. It's kind of like the
- 40:01framing and heart study that showed connections with heart disease back in the eighties.
- 40:07This is like the study that has really shown without a question that early childhood
- 40:14stress, when that is left untreated, will cause mental, physical, and
- 40:19emotional illness later in life, addiction, cancers, arthritis. It's that book,
- 40:25I think is probably one of the better books to break that study down
- 40:30in a way that isn't too scary. It has the science, but it
- 40:34also has lots of stories. It's just a really well written book for someone
- 40:39who wants to learn more about these interactions of childhood stress, adversity and illness
- 40:46later in life. Awesome, So that talks again when the body says no
- 40:51understanding the stress disease connection. Previous guests on this podcast and then Scared Sick
- 40:59the role of cherality trauma in adult disease I Robin car Morse, But Irene,
- 41:05what's the best way for people to get in contact with you? My
- 41:07website really, I rely on dot com. All my social feeds are there.
- 41:13We have a pretty robust Facebook community too. It's called Healthy Nervous System
- 41:19Revolution. I think we've got about twenty thousand people in that group, and
- 41:22so that's moderated by my team of about eight people. People can ask questions
- 41:29related to the nervous system. It's about education. It is not group therapy,
- 41:34but it's where you can get a lot of good resources. I've got
- 41:37I've got a YouTube channel that you can find on my website that's been called
- 41:40binge worthy, which is always funny to me that trauma videos to be binge
- 41:45worthy, but apparently they are. And then I've got a blog also,
- 41:50and I'm kind of all over the place. I'm on Instagrams, I'm doing
- 41:52all that stuff. Okay, Irene, has been a pleasure speaking with you.
- 41:57Thank you so much for taking the time to do this. It has
- 42:00been a long time coming and I appreciate it. Thank you.