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Romeo In The Morning 7-1-26 · Romeo & Friends

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  Speaker 1: Oh, all right. So I was just talking to a
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  Speaker 1: lady right now off the air, and she was asking
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  Speaker 1: me a question about a guy she's been seeing, right,
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  Speaker 1: she's been seeing him for a little bit, and she
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  Speaker 1: was asking about the relationship and where it was going,
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  Speaker 1: what was going on, you know, which you can do,
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  Speaker 1: by the way, just so people understand, when you're in
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  Speaker 1: a relationship for a little bit, you can ask them
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  Speaker 1: where it's going. There's nothing wrong with that, Okay. It
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  Speaker 1: doesn't mean you're clingy, doesn't mean you're needy. It just
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  Speaker 1: means you want to know what's going on and where
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  Speaker 1: it's headed. It's all you got to do. Okay. Well,
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  Speaker 1: I guess the guy told her she was special. And
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  Speaker 1: special is kind of one of those weird words, right, like, ladies,
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  Speaker 1: what what what do you think when a guy? You
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  Speaker 1: ask a guy, so, how do you you know? How
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  Speaker 1: do you feel about me? Well, you're a special, lady,
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  Speaker 1: You're special? What does that mean to you? Already? Four
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  Speaker 1: two five four seven seven, Because I'll tell you what
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  Speaker 1: it means to me. When I hear somebody say that,
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  Speaker 1: oh you're special, it's kind of like I I want
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  Speaker 1: to sleep with you. But yeah, it's about it. It's
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  Speaker 1: not really uh endearing word to use for somebody. You're special? Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: that doesn't really Are you falling for that? I mean,
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  Speaker 1: maybe I'm wrong about it? But what does that mean
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  Speaker 1: to you? Ladies? If a guy says, yeah, you're special?
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  Speaker 1: What does that mean to you?
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  Speaker 2: Already?
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  Speaker 1: Four two five four seven to seven.
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  Speaker 3: It just.
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  Speaker 1: To me, it's not the most endearing term to use
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  Speaker 1: for somebody. And maybe I'm wrong about it. Maybe I
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  Speaker 1: am already four two five four seven to seven. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: what does it mean when a guy says you're special?
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  Speaker 1: You're a special girl? I don't know. That's kind of
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  Speaker 1: a it's kind of a weird term to use. Good morning,
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  Speaker 1: how what's going on?
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  Speaker 4: Romeo?
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  Speaker 5: Hey, what's up morning?
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  Speaker 1: Good morning?
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  Speaker 6: Special?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah sounds like to me.
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  Speaker 7: But she's okay, but you're special.
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  Speaker 1: Again? You cut out for a little bit, okay.
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  Speaker 8: It's like he has a side.
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  Speaker 9: Okay and he's.
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  Speaker 7: Saying, okay, I'll do it. I'll give it to you
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  Speaker 7: because you're special.
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  Speaker 5: But the other one decide she's.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, okay, Okay. I can see where you're going with that.
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  Speaker 7: Okay, Okaye's not good.
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  Speaker 1: That special has got to be better than okay though, right, yes.
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  Speaker 5: That's why he agreed to give her what she what she.
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  Speaker 7: At what they were, you know, talking about.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree with you, okay, all right, thanks you
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  Speaker 1: you know, just talking to her right now it made
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  Speaker 1: me and she said, you know, you're okay. When she
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  Speaker 1: compared okay to special, special to me, sounds like now
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  Speaker 1: the way that she just described to me, how do
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  Speaker 1: I explain this to you? It seems to me like
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  Speaker 1: special is the good girl that you want to have
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  Speaker 1: sex with, and okay is the hoe that you're going
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  Speaker 1: to do anything you want to. You're right, that's what
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  Speaker 1: it sounds like that, and you know you're special. Maybe
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  Speaker 1: I want to I want to sleep with you, but
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  Speaker 1: I'm not going to disrespect you because you're special. Just
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  Speaker 1: based on the way it sounded to me when she
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  Speaker 1: was explaining it right now, you're special to me, so
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  Speaker 1: I'm not gonna do nasty things to you. But if
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  Speaker 1: you were okay, yeah, maybe that's it. Maybe that's it
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  Speaker 1: all righty four two four or seven to seven. Lady
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  Speaker 1: I was talking to her earlier, was talking about how
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  Speaker 1: she asked a guy about the relationship and what was
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  Speaker 1: going on with it, and he said that she a
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  Speaker 1: special there, which that's odd, right, that's not a real
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  Speaker 1: term of endearment, is it?
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  Speaker 3: All? Right?
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  Speaker 1: Good morning? Not what's going on?
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  Speaker 9: Romeo is didre?
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  Speaker 7: Hey?
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  Speaker 1: Now hey, now let's get into this right here. Tell
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  Speaker 1: that girls who take that special kittie can't old dontwhere else.
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  Speaker 9: Because because.
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  Speaker 2: Anything he told us.
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  Speaker 5: Me special, you got special?
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  Speaker 10: Right?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, that can mean a lot of different things, you know, like, oh,
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  Speaker 4: that be special, but you got to take that somewhere
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  Speaker 4: else because it's just that special.
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  Speaker 5: Watch watch you going through that?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know. I don't I guess I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: I just don't special.
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  Speaker 5: I think he don't want to be towere no more.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, special is just such an odd word
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  Speaker 1: to use for somebody. It's just it's you're right, it
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  Speaker 1: has so many different possible meanings of what it could
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  Speaker 1: be that how would anybody understand it? You don't know.
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  Speaker 4: But if he makes me feel some kind of way,
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  Speaker 4: theyn't gonna tell me. I'm I'm taking all this specialness
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  Speaker 4: and I'm getting.
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  Speaker 9: The head up out of there.
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  Speaker 11: I'm taking.
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  Speaker 5: For somebody else, Say.
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  Speaker 11: I am becuse, I don't think I like special?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't think you're right. I mean, it couldn't
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  Speaker 1: mean you special. That's like saying it's not it's not
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  Speaker 1: it's not you, it's me.
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  Speaker 8: It means a lot of different things.
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  Speaker 9: Maybe you need to clarify that her.
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  Speaker 5: Everybody, We don't know.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's wild, all right. I don't know if special
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  Speaker 1: as the words you want to hear from somebody. Right, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you're special. I don't know if that's a terminal term
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  Speaker 1: of endearment or what it. I just don't know already
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  Speaker 1: four two five, four, seven to seven. So we're not
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  Speaker 1: what's going on?
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  Speaker 5: Shut raider? Rob?
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  Speaker 8: Here?
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  Speaker 1: Hey, Rob, what's going on?
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  Speaker 5: What's going on?
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  Speaker 4: Budday? Like you said, women, well, not all women, but
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  Speaker 4: yesterday my family breakfast. I'm sitting in line waiting for
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  Speaker 4: my omelet. Old girl kept saying I'll have I'll have
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  Speaker 4: some ham, I'll have some cheese, some mushrooms. Wait wait wait, wait,
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  Speaker 4: wait wait a minute. No no no, I don't want ham.
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  Speaker 5: I want sausage.
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  Speaker 4: No no, no, no, I don't want tomato.
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  Speaker 5: I want bellpepper.
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  Speaker 4: Now you got to talk about being special. She couldn't
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  Speaker 4: make up her mind.
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  Speaker 1: I was like, really, oh my god, Rob, you're such
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  Speaker 1: an idiot.
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  Speaker 5: What the hell?
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  Speaker 1: All right, get out of here? All right? Good morning?
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  Speaker 1: That what's going on?
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  Speaker 5: Romeo?
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  Speaker 2: Is this when it's come to some week morning jokes
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  Speaker 2: by Raider Rob and d.
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  Speaker 1: Trip, Well, you just funny, REDA Robs. I don't know
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  Speaker 1: Redd of Rob's coming, He's coming a week today.
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  Speaker 11: I think I think there could be many reasons why
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  Speaker 11: I can use that word.
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  Speaker 2: One of them me and that he's not that educated.
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  Speaker 11: Maybe his vocabulary doesn't stretch as far as some of ours.
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  Speaker 1: What do you mean by that? Well, what do you
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  Speaker 1: mean by his vocabulary doesn't stretch us? For her?
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  Speaker 5: Maybe he's dumb.
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  Speaker 11: Maybe he doesn't know the proper word to show that
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  Speaker 11: he has feelings for her, because I have a lot
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  Speaker 11: of things that are special. I have special socks, I
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  Speaker 11: have a special place i'd like to go eat and
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  Speaker 11: it's my favorite. So maybe that's what he mean, you know.
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  Speaker 12: Maybe maybe he doesn't want her to get too strung,
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  Speaker 12: so he doesn't want to lead on, so he's starting.
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  Speaker 5: Off middle works.
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  Speaker 11: Maybe words special bad list.
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  Speaker 12: That's awesome, you know, there's there's other things that are
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  Speaker 12: going to come pretty soon. Okay, and understand she has
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  Speaker 12: you know, maybe she got with a dumb person, but
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  Speaker 12: that doesn't mean he.
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  Speaker 1: Can't murder her.
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  Speaker 11: That's all that means from him.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, okay, all right. I mean I just maybe special
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  Speaker 1: just does not seem like a term of endearment. If
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  Speaker 1: somebody's gonna call you special, you're a special lady to me,
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  Speaker 1: you're a special girl, or you're a special guy. That
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  Speaker 1: does not seem like a term of a DeArment, that
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  Speaker 1: does not seem like you really care about a person. Hey,
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  Speaker 1: that's the terminology you're using, all right, but maybe raiter
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  Speaker 1: Day's right already four two five, four or seven to seven. Hey, roam,
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  Speaker 1: I was told I was appreciated. Appreciated is another one
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  Speaker 1: of those terms I think, like special, right, I don't
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  Speaker 1: think anybody wants to hear that. Yeah, I just don't
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  Speaker 1: think any woman. I just I don't I'm not a woman,
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  Speaker 1: but I'm not sure that any woman wants to hear
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  Speaker 1: you're appreciated or you're special. I don't know if that's
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  Speaker 1: the term of endearment that really means something. Stark at
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  Speaker 1: this woman about a guy called her special, and she
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  Speaker 1: actually sent me a picture of the exact wording of
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  Speaker 1: the text message. She sent me a screenshot, so she says,
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  Speaker 1: I know you don't love me. I know that, but
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  Speaker 1: can can you at least let me know what you
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  Speaker 1: feel about she'd go, and the response was I care
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  Speaker 1: I do. You're something special for sure. Adding to something
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  Speaker 1: special makes it even worse. By the way, now I
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  Speaker 1: think he's really just lying to her and just wants
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  Speaker 1: to keep having sex with her. You're something special that
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  Speaker 1: is not to me a great term of endearment. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: he should have stopped with I do care about you.
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  Speaker 1: That's where you should have stopped. Once you say something special,
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  Speaker 1: you've completely have to reevaluate what his intentions are in
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  Speaker 1: the relationship. It really it really sounds like he just
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  Speaker 1: he just wants to keep getting some and has no
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  Speaker 1: plans on going anywhere with it already four two four
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  Speaker 1: seven to seven. I roam. What's special about her is
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  Speaker 1: she either has a Basically I can't read what this
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  Speaker 1: person texted me, but basically what they said was she
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  Speaker 1: he's good in bed. Okay, that's basically that's what's special
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  Speaker 1: about her. She's good in bed, and maybe that's what
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  Speaker 1: it is. But to call somebody when somebody asks how
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  Speaker 1: you feel about them, and they go, you're something special.
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  Speaker 1: I don't see that as a good thing. To me,
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  Speaker 1: that's you're trying to placate the situation because you don't
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  Speaker 1: care anymore than you get to have sex with her.
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  Speaker 1: That to me is yeah, that to me sounds like
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  Speaker 1: where he's at right now, And it doesn't mean that
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  Speaker 1: it won't change. It just means that's where he's at
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  Speaker 1: right now. All right. So I got this just text
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  Speaker 1: message a few minutes ago and says, Hey, Romeo, last
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  Speaker 1: night I was out with my girlfriends and one of
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  Speaker 1: my friends was talking to this guy that was good looking,
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  Speaker 1: but he was a little fluffy. Okay, how little is
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  Speaker 1: a little fluffy? Not anything like she has talked to before.
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  Speaker 1: She usually dates these fit guys, So I asked her
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  Speaker 1: what she was doing. She said she was tired of
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  Speaker 1: always eating light and working out, so she wants a
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  Speaker 1: bigger guy so she doesn't have to worry about staying skinny.
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  Speaker 1: I thought you would find that funny, Romeo. Uh, well,
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  Speaker 1: I mean I do find that funny. I think it's funny.
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  Speaker 1: I think it's funny for a couple of reasons. I
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  Speaker 1: always love it when you guys can't wait to tell
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  Speaker 1: me something. I think that's funny when you guys are
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  Speaker 1: sitting around and you're out with your friends or your family,
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  Speaker 1: and you think, you know what, I gotta tell Romeo
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  Speaker 1: this tomorrow because that's just he'll think it's funny.
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  Speaker 5: And I do.
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  Speaker 1: I think everybody thinks it's funny. I didn't. I honestly
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  Speaker 1: didn't know that that women thought like that. I didn't
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  Speaker 1: know that you guys had it in your mind. I
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  Speaker 1: gotta say skinny and fit to get a guy and
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  Speaker 1: then let myself go. But okay, already four to seven
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  Speaker 1: to seven. But I'm assuming that you're I'm just guessing.
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  Speaker 1: I'm assuming that your friend doesn't mean she's gonna blow
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  Speaker 1: up like a you know, like a balloon. I'm assuming
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  Speaker 1: she just wants to eat a little more, right, Because
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  Speaker 1: it is true. You know, there's a lot of you
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  Speaker 1: out there who work out a lot, and you eat
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  Speaker 1: so little and look great for the most part, But
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  Speaker 1: you can't live your whole life like that. Nobody wants
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  Speaker 1: to live their entire life, right that like that? Right?
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  Speaker 1: I mean, I wouldn't think you'd want to. But okay,
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  Speaker 1: and I'm glad you told me that. I hope it
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  Speaker 1: works out her and the little bit the guy who's
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  Speaker 1: a little fluffy. Hopefully it works out for her. Aready
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  Speaker 1: four two five, four seven to seven. Oh my god, funny.
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  Speaker 1: I got this text message says, hey, Ron, last night
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  Speaker 1: I was out with my girlfriends and one of my friends.
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  Speaker 1: She was talking to this guy that was good looking,
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  Speaker 1: but he was a little fluffy, she says, not anything
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  Speaker 1: like she was used to. I've seen her talk to before.
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  Speaker 1: She usually datesy's fit guy. So I asked her what
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  Speaker 1: she was doing. She said she's tired of always eating
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  Speaker 1: light and working out, so she wants a bigger guy
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  Speaker 1: so she doesn't have to worry about staying skinny. I
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  Speaker 1: thought that you would find that funny. I do find
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  Speaker 1: that funny, and I find it a little misleading. But
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  Speaker 1: okay already four two five four seven seven. Uh hey Romeo,
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  Speaker 1: what if the big guy was into her because she
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  Speaker 1: was skinny and then she's not gonna be skinny anymore?
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  Speaker 1: Maybe then she should think about that before she starts
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  Speaker 1: misleading men. Oh isn't that really what happens?
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  Speaker 3: Though?
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  Speaker 1: I mean, aren't you all misleading men and women when
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  Speaker 1: they're dating or are meeting or hook. You guys are
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  Speaker 1: all misleading when you're dating. Everybody's misleading everybody. You're not.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, you're telling probably you know eighty percent of
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  Speaker 1: the truth, but you know there's a twenty percent. You're
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  Speaker 1: just you know, leading the other person on to make
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  Speaker 1: them believe something. So I don't know. I mean, how
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  Speaker 1: old is she? How old are you? And your friends? Whoever?
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  Speaker 1: Just send me that text message? How old are you?
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  Speaker 5: Guys?
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  Speaker 1: Naturally your your your body's gonna change if you have
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  Speaker 1: kids or you know, life gets better for you. You know,
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  Speaker 1: you make more money, you eat a little more, you
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  Speaker 1: live a better lifestyle. Things change, So I don't, I don't.
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  Speaker 1: It just depends on what. I don't know how. I
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  Speaker 1: don't know how skinny she is to begin with, right,
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  Speaker 1: So I don't know what. Without seeing her, I can't
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  Speaker 1: tell you that she's misleading this guy. She just says
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  Speaker 1: she doesn't want to work out so much and eat
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  Speaker 1: it and eat so light. That doesn't mean she's gonna,
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  Speaker 1: you know, stop working out, or doesn't mean she's gonna
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  Speaker 1: just eat everything. It just means she's tired of doing
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  Speaker 1: whatever she's doing now. So she's going after a bigger
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  Speaker 1: guy already four two five four seven seven. I don't.
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  Speaker 1: I don't make them fall in love with you first.
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  Speaker 1: I will tell you that she should make the big
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  Speaker 1: guy fall in love with them first, fall in love
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  Speaker 1: with her first, so that she doesn't have to worry
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  Speaker 1: about how she looks later in life. Already four two
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  Speaker 1: five four seven to seven. So I got this text
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  Speaker 1: message kind of funny. Actually says, Hey, last night I
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  Speaker 1: was out with my girlfriends and one of my friends
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  Speaker 1: was talking to this guy. He was a He was
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  Speaker 1: a good looking guy, but he was a little fluffy,
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  Speaker 1: nothing like she's used, nothing like we've seen her with before.
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  Speaker 1: She's used to date in these fit guys, or she
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  Speaker 1: usually dates these fit guys. So I asked her what
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  Speaker 1: she was doing. She says she's tired of always eating
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  Speaker 1: eating light, and working out so much. She wants a
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  Speaker 1: bigger guy so she doesn't have to worry about staying skinny.
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  Speaker 1: I thought that you would find that funny, Romeo. I
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  Speaker 1: do find that funny because the thought processes it's great.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, it would be nice to know how skinny
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  Speaker 1: she was, because there's it would be nice to know
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  Speaker 1: what her thought process, what she what she wants to eat,
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  Speaker 1: and how much she really wants to work out, you know,
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  Speaker 1: to stay in some sort of whatever shape she's she
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  Speaker 1: wants to. It'd be nice to know what her end
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  Speaker 1: game is already four two five, four seven to seven. Hey, Romeo,
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  Speaker 1: that girl that just texted you. Do you think that
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  Speaker 1: she's lying to the guy she met because she knows
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  Speaker 1: she's not going to stay the same you. She knows
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  Speaker 1: she's not gonna stay the same size she is now
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  Speaker 1: when she met him. Isn't that a lie? I don't know?
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  Speaker 1: Do you do? You do you plan on staying?
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  Speaker 10: Do you?
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  Speaker 1: Guys always plan on staying the same guy you were
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  Speaker 1: when you meet a woman, or things change? People change,
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  Speaker 1: life changes you. I mean when you meet somebody at
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  Speaker 1: a certain point in your life and you stay with
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  Speaker 1: them long enough, things change. So is that a lie?
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  Speaker 1: Did you lie to them because life changed you or
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  Speaker 1: the relationship changed you? I don't know. It's a good
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  Speaker 1: question already four two five four seven to seven. But
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  Speaker 1: I guess, in fairness, based on what her friend just
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  Speaker 1: told me, she went for a bigger guy because she
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  Speaker 1: wants to not eat as much and work out so much,
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  Speaker 1: or she wants to eat more and work out less.
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  Speaker 1: But who's to say she's gonna get bigger because of that?
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  Speaker 1: Who's to say she might be so skinny right now
• 17:05
  Speaker 1: that she looked, she might look better bigger. You're a
• 17:08
  Speaker 1: an Is it a lie? Is she lying to him?
• 17:13
  Speaker 1: Maybe maybe it's a lie? But is it a lot
• 17:16
  Speaker 1: of dating a lie? Already? Four two five, four or
• 17:20
  Speaker 1: seven to seven? I don't know. That's a very good question.
• 17:25
  Speaker 1: Is she lying him already? Four two five, four or
• 17:28
  Speaker 1: seven seven? This woman texts me. She says, Rome, last night,
• 17:31
  Speaker 1: I was out with my girlfriends. One of my friends
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: was talking to this guy was a little fluffy, So
• 17:35
  Speaker 1: she was talking to a big guy, right, not anything
• 17:38
  Speaker 1: like she's used to, Like we've seen before. She usually
• 17:40
  Speaker 1: dates guys that are fit. So I asked her what
• 17:42
  Speaker 1: she was doing. She says, she's tired of always eating
• 17:44
  Speaker 1: light and working out so much. She wants a bigger
• 17:47
  Speaker 1: guy so she doesn't have to worry about staying so skinny.
• 17:50
  Speaker 1: I thought you would find that funny. That is funny,
• 17:53
  Speaker 1: That is hilarious. I didn't know, I mean. And then
• 17:57
  Speaker 1: somebody texted and said, roleo, is she lying the guy?
• 18:04
  Speaker 1: That's a very good question. Is she lying to him
• 18:07
  Speaker 1: because she knows going into this that she's probably good
• 18:11
  Speaker 1: looking in thin and the guy's a little bigger, so
• 18:14
  Speaker 1: he's gonna find her attractive. Is she lying to him
• 18:18
  Speaker 1: knowing that she is going to uh, not eat a
• 18:22
  Speaker 1: little more, not work out as much. He's probably gonna
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: get a little bigger obviously. Is she lying to him
• 18:29
  Speaker 1: knowing that she is going is talking to this guy
• 18:33
  Speaker 1: specifically for the fact that she wants to eat more
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: and not work out so much. Yeah, that's a good question.
• 18:43
  Speaker 1: That's a very good question. Is that a lie already?
• 18:46
  Speaker 1: Four two five, four seven seven A Romeo? That is
• 18:50
  Speaker 1: definitely a lie. She knows going into the conversation with
• 18:55
  Speaker 1: this guy what she wants out of it, and she's
• 18:58
  Speaker 1: not being honest with him. He thinks he's getting a
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: hot model type. She might u he might end up
• 19:05
  Speaker 1: with fluffy. Oh god, Okay, maybe she's lying to him
• 19:12
  Speaker 1: because she knows. So does that mean whenever you meet
• 19:16
  Speaker 1: somebody at a certain body type, when their body type
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: changes over the years, does that mean that they lied
• 19:24
  Speaker 1: to you? I don't know. Well, everybody's got to know
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: they're gonna change after at some point, right I don't know,
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: maybe it is a lie. This textboy just kind of funny.
• 19:36
  Speaker 1: Lady says, hey, Roam, I was out with my friend
• 19:38
  Speaker 1: my girlfriend's last night. One of my friends was talking
• 19:41
  Speaker 1: to this guy who was a little bit fluffy. He
• 19:43
  Speaker 1: was good looking, but a little fluffy, not anything like
• 19:45
  Speaker 1: and we're used to seeing her talk to She usually
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: dates these fit guys, so I asked her what she
• 19:49
  Speaker 1: was doing. She says she's tired of always eating light
• 19:52
  Speaker 1: and working out so much. She wants a bigger guy
• 19:56
  Speaker 1: so she doesn't have to worry about staying skinny. I
• 19:59
  Speaker 1: thought you would find that funny. I do find that funny.
• 20:01
  Speaker 1: And the more I read this and think about it,
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: the more I think, Well, what makes you think a
• 20:06
  Speaker 1: bigger guy is the one that's gonna you gotta get
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: a bigger guy so you can be bigger. Why would
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: you assume that all bigger guys just want bigger girls
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: when the reality is they can get skinny girls. Big
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: guys can get skinny girls if they want. It's not
• 20:21
  Speaker 1: that difficult. How do you know he doesn't want you
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: to stay thin and that's why he's talking to you.
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: You assume in fact? Yeah, the more that I think
• 20:29
  Speaker 1: about it. Your friend assumes she's the catch. Maybe maybe
• 20:35
  Speaker 1: she's not. Maybe he's the catch. You know what I'm saying.
• 20:40
  Speaker 1: Already four two five fours seven to seven. The funny thing, though,
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: is somebody asked, is that line. Is she lying to
• 20:47
  Speaker 1: a guy going into the situation knowing she's gonna change
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: her size already four two five four ars seven to
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: seven Rome, So you have to tell the guy everything
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: on the first date, how many kids you got, what
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: your income is, how fat you want to be, and
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: how crazy your family is. That's what these people are saying.
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: Is that the case, nobody be getting married at all. No,
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: I totally agree with you, absolutely, I don't. It's not
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: really a lie. Right, Well, yeah, I don't think so.
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know. I agree with what you're saying.
• 21:28
  Speaker 1: But she's going after a fat guy. I'm just gonna
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: call him a fat guy. She's going after a fat
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: guy with the assumption that she can get fatter because
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: she's tired, she wants he's tired of doing all the
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: work to stay skinny, and it's a lot of work
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: for a lot of people to stay fit. So she's
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: going after a fat guy. With the assumption she doesn't
• 21:51
  Speaker 1: have to work as hard. And maybe that is a lie,
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: because that is something that changes people's perspect in a relationship,
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: is that it changes attractiveness. So but on the other hand,
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: now that I think about it and thought about it,
• 22:10
  Speaker 1: what makes her think that he only he may only
• 22:14
  Speaker 1: be going after her or talking to her because she's skinny.
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: He may be able to pull skinny women. And so
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: why does she think that only a fat guy will
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: accept her getting bigger? That's a good question too, Hey, roam,
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: beauty fades, fat, skinny, it don't matter. It all wilts
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: away like a flower. I don't know, man, Some of
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: these women today are saying skinny for a long time.
• 22:42
  Speaker 1: I don't know, man, these with these.
• 22:46
  Speaker 5: With these uh.
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: Workouts and with these however, these women are taking care
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: of their their their their bodies nowadays, these beauty regimes
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: that they use, I think it's fading as fast as
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: you think a room guy wants. Guys want thick girls,
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: not fat girls. What's the line?
• 23:12
  Speaker 5: There?
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: Is there a fine line between a thick girl and
• 23:13
  Speaker 1: a fat girl? I don't know. Already four to two
• 23:15
  Speaker 1: to five, four or seven to seven. A Romeo I
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: don't know what you guys are talking about. But if
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: you love somebody, love comes from within. It doesn't matter
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: if they're thick, if they're fat, if they're skinny. If
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: you love somebody, you love somebody, and that's what the
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: most important thing is. That's nice to say, but some
• 23:38
  Speaker 1: people want what they want. You can't be mad at
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: somebody for wanting what they want. How come if a
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: guy says, I want a And this all started because
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: a skinny girl wanted to stop being skinny. She said
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: she got tired of being skinny, so she went after
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: a fat dude or a bigger dude because she wanted
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: to eat a little more. Think and that's what you
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: know she could do with a fat dude, which maybe,
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: but you can't get mad at somebody for wanting what
• 24:03
  Speaker 1: they want. And I know you guys love love. You
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: love to like to throw love around like it's the
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: most important thing. But love is not. Love is not
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: as real as you think it is. You learn to
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: fall in love, You learn to love somebody, you know,
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: and anybody that says you don't is a moron, because
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: it's true. You love somebody, You fall out of love
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: with somebody you fall into love with somebody, you fall
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: out of love with somebody. How many you got ex
• 24:31
  Speaker 1: husbands right now that you want to see that guy
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: you know humiliated? You don't love that man no more.
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: You did it at one point to marry him, but
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: you don't anymore. Love is a learned behavior. The other
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: things are harder to find. If you want a skinny,
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: hot dude or a skill or whatever, that's harder to
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: find than it is to fall in love with that
• 24:56
  Speaker 1: type of person. If you want a millionaire, that is
• 24:59
  Speaker 1: harder to find than it is to fall in love.
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: Everything else is harder to find than actually falling in love,
• 25:08
  Speaker 1: So there's nothing wrong if you want, you know, if
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: the skinny girl you know wants a big dude so
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: she can eat more, it's easier to find that, And
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: a dude that will want will be okay with her
• 25:19
  Speaker 1: getting bigger or her just eating however she wants, uh
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: than it is to find love. That's why you guys
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: get confused about you. Guys are confused about what's going
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: on in this world. That's why I'm here to explain
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: it to you. All the other things are harder to
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: find than love, Okay, love's the easiest part of every
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: relationship because you because you can fall in and out
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: of love already four two four seven to seven, Warriy
• 25:49
  Speaker 1: Hobbs going.
• 25:50
  Speaker 5: On, throw me.
• 25:51
  Speaker 11: There's a fine line between sick and fat.
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: Okay, one guy, Well, there's probably one guy's thick girl
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: is another guy's fat girl. So I don't know, don't
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: you What do you mean by that?
• 26:02
  Speaker 11: Well, I mean, you know, and I think it has
• 26:05
  Speaker 11: a lot to do with technology. You know, there's so
• 26:08
  Speaker 11: many diet things now to keep people saying that, you know.
• 26:12
  Speaker 2: You don't even have to try.
• 26:13
  Speaker 11: Okay, but for instance, like Greater Davis stick, cowboy Ruben's fat,
• 26:18
  Speaker 11: good example to look at both of them and say, okay,
• 26:22
  Speaker 11: actually what he means okay, all right, okay.
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: Like I said, one one guy's thick is another guy's fat,
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: or vice versa. One girl's stick is another guy's fat
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: or another girl's fat. I mean, it's just it's all
• 26:38
  Speaker 1: a matter perspective. But the one thing that back to
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: what I said, the easiest love is the easiest part
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: of a relationship. A lot of the other things are hard,
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: are harder to find.
• 26:54
  Speaker 5: Man, what's wrong with that thumb?
• 26:55
  Speaker 8: Man?
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: Which one. There's plenty of about Dave.
• 27:00
  Speaker 5: Oh hey, he's talking about trying to say about he's big.
• 27:04
  Speaker 5: That's who looks like he got Warren's wrong. He's so
• 27:06
  Speaker 5: skinny Raider Dave. Yeah, huh okay, yeah, that's who tripp
• 27:13
  Speaker 5: and try and trick compare himself to me, bro, come on,
• 27:16
  Speaker 5: we pay like we way, homie, we ain't using no
• 27:18
  Speaker 5: ebt and we catch it out all right. But he,
• 27:25
  Speaker 5: like you always say, Rome, just let a Raider fan
• 27:27
  Speaker 5: talk and he goes see the dumb ass in them
• 27:30
  Speaker 5: all right.
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: Let er dame know all right?
• 27:32
  Speaker 5: Later?
• 27:35
  Speaker 1: Good, what's going on?
• 27:37
  Speaker 5: See hawk glue?
• 27:38
  Speaker 10: Man. I got my input on this, miss chick. I
• 27:45
  Speaker 10: think that guy she was talking to, the big guy.
• 27:51
  Speaker 10: I think he's from Watco because I know a lot
• 27:53
  Speaker 10: of big guys that got game like that. Man, he
• 27:56
  Speaker 10: got pulled like that, So I don't think it was
• 27:59
  Speaker 10: necessary her. I think it was more him, you know,
• 28:02
  Speaker 10: saying the right word, getting the right buttons at making
• 28:06
  Speaker 10: her say I don't care if I get fat in
• 28:09
  Speaker 10: the future, you know what I mean? Sure, Okay, that's
• 28:13
  Speaker 10: what I think, man, Because there's a lot of big guys,
• 28:16
  Speaker 10: you know, they got games.
• 28:18
  Speaker 5: They can throw it down. They can throw it down,
• 28:21
  Speaker 5: all right, I think, alright, Lou.
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: All right, yeah, I mean, I'm gonna tell you exactly
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: what happened, okay, and that is this this girl she
• 28:32
  Speaker 1: told her friends looking for a bigger dude, guy she
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: never really goes out with because she didn't want to.
• 28:39
  Speaker 1: She didn't want to. She's tired of staying thin, eating light,
• 28:42
  Speaker 1: all that stuff, whatever, whatever their conversation was. So she
• 28:46
  Speaker 1: thinks a big dude is going to do that. And
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: she thinks a big dude is the way to go
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: because he won't care if you get fat. That's not true.
• 28:54
  Speaker 1: Loo's right to an extent. These big dudes got game.
• 28:57
  Speaker 1: They got these big There's a lot of big dude
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: off out there that got a lot to offer. That's
• 29:02
  Speaker 1: why I keep saying when it comes to love, especially women,
• 29:08
  Speaker 1: they they know what they're doing. You know, you can
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: fall in love with a dude. Look at here's the deal.
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: Everybody always says, well, you know these women, you see
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: all these skinny women with these fat dudes and Bakersfields,
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: because these fat dudes got money. No, it's because these
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: fat dudes got responsibility. It's because these fat dudes treat
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: these women like they want them, like they want to
• 29:32
  Speaker 1: be with them. It's because these fat dudes come home
• 29:36
  Speaker 1: every night to that woman instead of staying out at
• 29:39
  Speaker 1: the bar, or instead of going and hanging out with
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: their buddies, or instead of pick whatever these dudes do
• 29:46
  Speaker 1: because they're into themselves. They want to come tom Now.
• 29:51
  Speaker 1: You can say, whoa, yeah, probably wrong because she's hot.
• 29:54
  Speaker 1: And she said, well, okay, whatever reason. Whatever gets your
• 29:58
  Speaker 1: man home is what gets that's your man home, regardless
• 30:02
  Speaker 1: of what it is. Okay, that fool's coming home, and
• 30:05
  Speaker 1: that's all that really matters that night. But you have
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: to understand that it's not that it's the love part
• 30:15
  Speaker 1: is a lot more, is a lot easier to find
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: than the other things. Like I know this girl once
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: she uh, she got proposed to by two millionaires, two
• 30:33
  Speaker 1: but she didn't love them. Oh I don't love them,
• 30:35
  Speaker 1: my love. I can't marry them out of love, and
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: ended up marrying some other dude that she was in
• 30:39
  Speaker 1: love with, just a regular dude, cool cat. You know,
• 30:42
  Speaker 1: I had a good job. They're divorced, Okay, she ain't
• 30:47
  Speaker 1: never had a millionaire ask her to marry him again
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: or marry her again. So when you look at that,
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: you can fall in love with somebody. So that's why
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: I always say, you got to look for what you want.
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: What do you want? That's harder to find. It's harder. Uh,
• 31:07
  Speaker 1: sometimes it's harder to find a guy who has a
• 31:09
  Speaker 1: good job, who wants to have a family, who wants
• 31:12
  Speaker 1: to scenario or whatever. You know, it's hard to find that.
• 31:16
  Speaker 1: So what you have to do is find that guy
• 31:19
  Speaker 1: that can provide you what you want, then you can
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: fall in love with him. Love is not You shouldn't
• 31:26
  Speaker 1: be looking for love. That's where you guys are all wrong.
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: You should be looking at what you want in your
• 31:31
  Speaker 1: life for the rest of your life and then go
• 31:33
  Speaker 1: fall in love with whoever can provide that for you.
• 31:35
  Speaker 1: But hey, you have and cheese fan. Raider Day not fat,
• 31:39
  Speaker 1: he just short. He's a short little fellow. I can't
• 31:44
  Speaker 1: remember the last time I saw Raider Dave. I don't
• 31:45
  Speaker 1: think Rader Dave's fat, either, right, I don't remember. I
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: don't know more than hell's going on.
• 31:51
  Speaker 2: Yeah, Roby, I was trying to adapt Cowboy rouping up. I
• 31:54
  Speaker 2: was trying to give him prompts because big guys are in,
• 31:57
  Speaker 2: like Seklu said, the big guys, we can screat the
• 32:00
  Speaker 2: most game. You know, I never had no problem pulling
• 32:05
  Speaker 2: a fine chick.
• 32:07
  Speaker 11: You know they know this Dad's blocks offer.
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: Oh, we really are going to have to define fine
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: chick because.
• 32:16
  Speaker 11: I'm talking about eight or at least an eight.
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but someone's eight might be somebody else's five. Well,
• 32:25
  Speaker 1: I like the curtpective, So.
• 32:28
  Speaker 12: It is it is.
• 32:28
  Speaker 8: But you know, dad Box, they're winning the big guys.
• 32:31
  Speaker 8: We've been spinning games for a long time, since Notorious Pig,
• 32:34
  Speaker 8: since Big Punisher, We've been been had game. So tell
• 32:41
  Speaker 8: Tabar Rubin, I was complimenting him, not insulting him.
• 32:43
  Speaker 1: I'll let him all right. Having this conversation is all
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: a matter of perspective, right, because one guy's uh what
• 32:52
  Speaker 1: one five is? Somebody else's eight is somebody else's three? Okay,
• 32:57
  Speaker 1: one one one. One guy's thick is a another guy's fat.
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: I mean just yeah, one guy's hot is another one's cold.
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: I don't know, we got it. Yeah, it's just this
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: conversation has way too many variables.
• 33:14
  Speaker 5: I do.
• 33:14
  Speaker 1: Got to tell you, guys something funny. A friend of
• 33:16
  Speaker 1: mine he was, uh, he's the hookup for the illegal fireworks,
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: and one of his neighbors, uh snitched on They called
• 33:24
  Speaker 1: me yesterday. He called me yesterday to tell me, Man, dude,
• 33:28
  Speaker 1: my neighbor snitched on me for the fireworks. And I said, well,
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: at least I got mine already. I was, Uh, I
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: don't know. I don't know what the penalty is. I
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: don't know what's going on. But I thought, man, dude,
• 33:40
  Speaker 1: your neighbors snitched on you. What did you do to
• 33:42
  Speaker 1: piss off your NEIGHBORDI who do they even call? They
• 33:45
  Speaker 1: call the cops to the fire I don't even know
• 33:46
  Speaker 1: who they call. Who do they Uh? Who gets the
• 33:51
  Speaker 1: phone call when you get snitched on for illegal fireworks?
• 33:56
  Speaker 1: Somebody's got to tell me seven to seven. I didn't
• 33:59
  Speaker 1: even ask. I just thought it was so damn funny
• 34:02
  Speaker 1: that he got busted, and but I already got mine,
• 34:04
  Speaker 1: so I didn't give a damn but Uh, to have
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: your neighbor snitch on you, I mean, why are you snitching?
• 34:10
  Speaker 1: You know what's gonna happen. Happens every year they start
• 34:13
  Speaker 1: popping off in the neighborhood. Somebody calls the cops because
• 34:16
  Speaker 1: the neighbor's popping them off, and then all of a sudden,
• 34:18
  Speaker 1: I think it's the cops, right, the cops are the
• 34:20
  Speaker 1: fire department, But you idiots are on Instagram and TikTok
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: trying to sell these things. Man, what is wrong with you?
• 34:29
  Speaker 1: What happened to the good old days when you just
• 34:30
  Speaker 1: sold them to your buddies and you know, instead of
• 34:33
  Speaker 1: trying to make a business out of it. I wonder
• 34:35
  Speaker 1: why you get caught. It is pretty funny though, that
• 34:41
  Speaker 1: the neighbor snitched.
• 34:41
  Speaker 2: On them, right as far as.
• 34:44
  Speaker 11: Them, I'm telling on themselves?
• 34:46
  Speaker 1: Who's that?
• 34:46
  Speaker 5: Oh?
• 34:47
  Speaker 1: The yeah, the legal fireworks guys.
• 34:48
  Speaker 11: People are so stupid because they, like you said, they posted.
• 34:51
  Speaker 8: All over Facebook, Instagram, and then they wonder who told
• 34:53
  Speaker 8: on them.
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: Yeah, these idiots that you guys know, that's evidence. Okay,
• 34:57
  Speaker 1: that's what that is. You Warren, have no clue, that's kid.
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: They're stupid, these guys.
• 35:01
  Speaker 11: Right now, they're they're offering one thousand dollars for anybody
• 35:04
  Speaker 11: that snitches.
• 35:05
  Speaker 2: So these snitches are getting paid.
• 35:07
  Speaker 1: A thousand bucks.
• 35:08
  Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, I've.
• 35:09
  Speaker 11: Seen it a commercial.
• 35:10
  Speaker 8: And you know what, that guy sounds like he lives
• 35:12
  Speaker 8: in my neighborhood.
• 35:13
  Speaker 11: Because my neighbor is a fig od.
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: Snitch, snitching on everybody.
• 35:16
  Speaker 11: He's called the code enforcement on me like three or
• 35:19
  Speaker 11: four times.
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: Wow, okay for the.
• 35:22
  Speaker 11: Dumbest things too. So yeah, everybody be careful out there.
• 35:25
  Speaker 11: And his best like you said, just sell them to
• 35:27
  Speaker 11: your buddies.
• 35:28
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: Right later, I know, I got like I must have
• 35:32
  Speaker 1: got four or five text messages of just pictures of
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: fireworks in the back of truck. Bets said, Rome, you
• 35:38
  Speaker 1: need some, you need some illegal fireworks. You need some
• 35:41
  Speaker 1: illegal fireworks. I mean, yeah, but I grew up with
• 35:46
  Speaker 1: illegal fireworks. I grew up on an Indian reservation on
• 35:49
  Speaker 1: the rest. We had illegal fireworks. Hell, we had sticks
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: of dynamite. It was wild. Hey, one of them.
• 35:56
  Speaker 5: Man. We got a neighbor over here and knew their
• 35:59
  Speaker 5: new to the neighborhood, and uh, last night, you know
• 36:03
  Speaker 5: the Mexico one they do ahead. It was like after
• 36:05
  Speaker 5: a while. An hour later, I had a cop knocking
• 36:07
  Speaker 5: on my door and they were talking about that we
• 36:10
  Speaker 5: were lighting in the legal fireworks and I was like,
• 36:13
  Speaker 5: lighting illegal fireworks, right, So I take it that these
• 36:16
  Speaker 5: food are assuming because I'm a Mexican and Mexico one
• 36:19
  Speaker 5: that I let off on fireworks well.
• 36:22
  Speaker 1: It's a safe assumption, you.
• 36:24
  Speaker 5: Know what I mean. That's what I'm thinking, you know
• 36:25
  Speaker 5: what I mean. Wall and the guy's getting ready to
• 36:28
  Speaker 5: leave some of the fire. But you know how you
• 36:31
  Speaker 5: go into that gated community around the coroner of my house.
• 36:34
  Speaker 5: It was a lady steps on doing it. So they
• 36:37
  Speaker 5: got a fine last night. So she called them on herself.
• 36:40
  Speaker 1: Oh, she was the one that was doing it around
• 36:44
  Speaker 1: the back. Got you got you, got you gotcha.
• 36:47
  Speaker 5: So she called them on herself, and that's what she
• 36:49
  Speaker 5: gets for.
• 36:49
  Speaker 10: Assumed me.
• 36:50
  Speaker 1: Oh, I wonder what the fight as well. I mean, yeah,
• 36:53
  Speaker 1: I get it. I get it.
• 36:54
  Speaker 5: That came out the ones that came out with the sheriff.
• 36:56
  Speaker 5: But Gina said the fire department was there. I think
• 37:00
  Speaker 5: the party department is the one that writes the tickets.
• 37:02
  Speaker 1: How much was a ticket for you?
• 37:04
  Speaker 5: You know, I don't know. They ain't gonna die. I
• 37:06
  Speaker 5: don't want to talk to them over here accusing me.
• 37:09
  Speaker 1: Come on, Ruby, and that's not a big stretch. You're
• 37:11
  Speaker 1: shooting off with neggle fireworks. Give me a break.
• 37:14
  Speaker 5: I don't know what you're talking about. Brother. I sit
• 37:17
  Speaker 5: back and watch. I sit back and watch the free
• 37:20
  Speaker 5: show in my neighborhood.
• 37:21
  Speaker 1: That's all I want.
• 37:22
  Speaker 5: To do is just sit back and watching you. My
• 37:25
  Speaker 5: own neighborhood look like the college going on.
• 37:27
  Speaker 1: Okay, okay, all right, all right, right now I'm gonna.
• 37:35
  Speaker 5: Argue with you.
• 37:36
  Speaker 1: I'm not arguing with you. I just I just know you.
• 37:40
  Speaker 1: All right? Hey, Rome, who room? You just snitched on yourself?
• 37:48
  Speaker 1: Don't people? Don't tell people where you'll be at fourth
• 37:52
  Speaker 1: of July. Now, Oh, I'm gonna be at my buddy
• 37:54
  Speaker 1: Arnold's house at fourth of July. That's where I'm gonna be.
• 37:57
  Speaker 1: So all right, they for two five or seven seven,
• 38:04
  Speaker 1: buddy of mine. I guess his neighbor snitched on him.
• 38:07
  Speaker 1: He was selling illegal fireworks, So neighbor snitched on him, right,
• 38:11
  Speaker 1: So I was I don't know much about it. I
• 38:13
  Speaker 1: just he called to tell me I already got mine,
• 38:15
  Speaker 1: so I was good with it already. Four two five,
• 38:17
  Speaker 1: four seven to seven A room for one thousand dollars.
• 38:20
  Speaker 1: I'll snitch on you. That's what Rayder Dave says. You
• 38:22
  Speaker 1: have a thousand bucks to snitch on somebody? Party? Now,
• 38:25
  Speaker 1: what's going on?
• 38:26
  Speaker 5: Hey?
• 38:26
  Speaker 9: What's the roll with Peahawk Gluue?
• 38:28
  Speaker 10: Man?
• 38:28
  Speaker 1: What's up?
• 38:28
  Speaker 5: Man?
• 38:29
  Speaker 10: Hey, let me get that number to call.
• 38:31
  Speaker 5: They get a thousand dollars to snitch on people.
• 38:34
  Speaker 1: Thousand dollars a lot. Where's that money coming from? Is
• 38:37
  Speaker 1: what I want to know.
• 38:38
  Speaker 10: I have no idea, but a thousand dollars sounds good
• 38:42
  Speaker 10: to me. I can make about four thousand to five
• 38:44
  Speaker 10: thousand today.
• 38:46
  Speaker 1: You would snitch somebody out?
• 38:47
  Speaker 5: Huh?
• 38:47
  Speaker 1: You're that type of little girl. Huh?
• 38:49
  Speaker 10: You know what?
• 38:50
  Speaker 4: I probably would? Man, you know the money's good.
• 38:53
  Speaker 1: Just said you don't snitch on him? What the hell's
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: wrong with you, Louie? You gonna snitch on somebody for
• 38:58
  Speaker 1: having fireworks? Damn one? No wonder why everybody says.
• 39:02
  Speaker 10: You're Hey man, it's just for the money, because.
• 39:07
  Speaker 3: I can't even know.
• 39:08
  Speaker 1: I can't even talk to them a little bit. What
• 39:10
  Speaker 1: a little you know what? All right? Eight four two, five, four,
• 39:13
  Speaker 1: seven to seven? Rome is like fifteen hundred then ups
• 39:17
  Speaker 1: a thousand after each ticket. Oh, if you get caught,
• 39:22
  Speaker 1: it's fifteen hundred and a thousand. Is that what you're
• 39:24
  Speaker 1: talking about? Or you get a fifteen hundred for snitching?
• 39:27
  Speaker 5: Okay?
• 39:28
  Speaker 7: Romeo, Hey, I was gonna tell you, you just can't pay
• 39:32
  Speaker 7: people in this city to stitch because if you do,
• 39:35
  Speaker 7: they gonna take full advantage of it.
• 39:37
  Speaker 1: I know, that's ridiculous. Snitching on people for fireworks, that's
• 39:40
  Speaker 1: just that's sad.
• 39:43
  Speaker 7: Yeah, some people, I mean, some people just don't enjoy it,
• 39:46
  Speaker 7: you know what I mean? You got that people that
• 39:48
  Speaker 7: I'll sit with the water holes is waiting for something
• 39:50
  Speaker 7: to happen.
• 39:53
  Speaker 1: If you don't enjoy it, sitting in your house like
• 39:55
  Speaker 1: a sit in your house like a party pooper, and
• 39:58
  Speaker 1: don't enjoy it. But don't be mad and bring everybody
• 40:00
  Speaker 1: else is fun down.
• 40:01
  Speaker 7: Yeah, you're right about that, because as a matter of fact,
• 40:03
  Speaker 7: we have some neighbors and uh, one of the fire
• 40:06
  Speaker 7: was kind of misfunctioned or something. Okay, shot right right
• 40:09
  Speaker 7: in our garage and blew them pals. Damn, everybody here
• 40:13
  Speaker 7: start ringing. But I mean it just happened, you know
• 40:18
  Speaker 7: what I mean. We're not snitching on nobody.
• 40:20
  Speaker 1: We was at a park. This was this is when
• 40:23
  Speaker 1: I was a kid. We was at a park in
• 40:24
  Speaker 1: my drunk aunt shot a bottle rocket into somebody speaking
• 40:28
  Speaker 1: of area while they were.
• 40:30
  Speaker 7: Sitting under Hey, that's the closest that's that's how pretty close.
• 40:34
  Speaker 5: To what happened. With us.
• 40:35
  Speaker 1: Oh, man, Yeah.
• 40:37
  Speaker 5: You gotta be careful, man, but it don't don't ruin
• 40:39
  Speaker 5: the fun.
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I ain't gonna ruin somebody's fun now, I get it,
• 40:43
  Speaker 1: especially for the.
• 40:45
  Speaker 5: Next week is about to go down.
• 40:47
  Speaker 1: I ain't gonna lie though I am not heard. Usually
• 40:50
  Speaker 1: I hear a lot of fireworks in my neighborhood. Even
• 40:52
  Speaker 1: last night when Mexico won, I didn't hear a lot
• 40:54
  Speaker 1: of fireworks popping off of my neighborhood.
• 40:57
  Speaker 5: Yeah, we heard them all. We heard them all. We
• 40:58
  Speaker 5: were here in the ghio.
• 41:05
  Speaker 1: All right, all right man. Later, Yeah, I haven't heard
• 41:11
  Speaker 1: a lot of fireworks the last couple of days. Oh
• 41:13
  Speaker 1: but they do go on sale today, so maybe we'll
• 41:15
  Speaker 1: hear more. Yo, roam, you get one thousand dollars for
• 41:18
  Speaker 1: snitching our ten k and up in damages and costs,
• 41:24
  Speaker 1: rather individually pay person than see someone home home burned down? Okay,
• 41:30
  Speaker 1: just remember, buy yours first, then snitch or get yours
• 41:34
  Speaker 1: for free and threaten to snitch and snitch anyway. And
• 41:38
  Speaker 1: for the record, I don't buy, seale or snitch on fireworks.
• 41:43
  Speaker 1: Have I don't you know what. I don't even know what.
• 41:46
  Speaker 1: Statistically I understand why because you don't want nobody's house
• 41:49
  Speaker 1: burning down. But how many houses burned down in Bakersfield
• 41:52
  Speaker 1: every year because of fireworks? Does it happen a lot?
• 41:55
  Speaker 1: I don't know. Hey, good morning rome Tell them the
• 42:00
  Speaker 1: Mexicans to stop partying over the win. Mexico just had
• 42:03
  Speaker 1: a six point zero earthquake. No more party? Isn't first
• 42:09
  Speaker 1: of all, speaking of the World Cup, isn't Mexico the
• 42:13
  Speaker 1: least favorite to win it all? Aren't they like? Aren't
• 42:17
  Speaker 1: they playing very well? I'm not sure. I don't know.
• 42:20
  Speaker 1: I don't know who was I thought Ecuador was favored
• 42:23
  Speaker 1: last last night, but they're not. I think Mexico. And
• 42:25
  Speaker 1: they won all their games in the preliminary rounds right
• 42:28
  Speaker 1: before the bracket. So yeah, I don't know anyway, Okay,
• 42:32
  Speaker 1: what and who edited earthquake? Mexico just had a six
• 42:34
  Speaker 1: point oh earthquake. Let me see. That didn't come up
• 42:38
  Speaker 1: on my feed, so I missed it. That didn't come
• 42:42
  Speaker 1: up already, four two, five, four, seven and seven, Go
• 42:44
  Speaker 1: morning Romeo. I heard they said one thousand dollars for
• 42:48
  Speaker 1: snitching on somebody with fireworks. If that's true, I'm gonna
• 42:51
  Speaker 1: be driving around town. So I can pay off my house.
• 42:55
  Speaker 1: That's what Raider Dave said. A thousand bucks seems like
• 42:57
  Speaker 1: an awful lot. I don't know, Yeah, I really don't know.
• 43:02
  Speaker 1: Already four two five, four, seven to seven. See, I
• 43:04
  Speaker 1: grew up with the legal fire Well, I don't know
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: if they were illegal because we had them on the reservation.
• 43:09
  Speaker 1: I don't know that the fireworks were illegal on the
• 43:11
  Speaker 1: Reds either that or nobody cared. My dad ran the cops,
• 43:15
  Speaker 1: so I guess nobody cared. But yeah, I don't. Uh,
• 43:21
  Speaker 1: I don't know. So we just grew up with them.
• 43:24
  Speaker 1: They weren't They weren't a big deal though, even my
• 43:26
  Speaker 1: mom and them, My mom and them, when they when
• 43:31
  Speaker 1: to this day we pull out illegal fireworks, my mom
• 43:35
  Speaker 1: don't even trip. She's like, yeah, okay, we used to
• 43:38
  Speaker 1: roll out with M eights on the Reds, and our
• 43:42
  Speaker 1: parents just maybe they should have paid closer attention bottle rockets,
• 43:48
  Speaker 1: M eights, the Roman candles. Yeah, maybe our parents should
• 43:52
  Speaker 1: have paid a little closer attention to what we were
• 43:54
  Speaker 1: doing back in the day. Already four two five, four,
• 43:57
  Speaker 1: seven to seven. Yeah, it was no big deal. Romeo,
• 44:00
  Speaker 1: good morning, rome. Hey. The Bakersfield Fire Department website said
• 44:05
  Speaker 1: they handle fifty six fire related responses in a twenty
• 44:10
  Speaker 1: four hour period on the fourth of July on fourth
• 44:12
  Speaker 1: of July weekend in twenty twenty five, which includes two
• 44:15
  Speaker 1: homes destroyed in East Bakersfield, an apartment complex fire that
• 44:20
  Speaker 1: left four families displaced. In the surrounding county, firefighters tackled
• 44:25
  Speaker 1: a staggering one hundred and forty two blazes in a
• 44:28
  Speaker 1: single holiday. Well, that's a lot. That is a lot. Yeah,
• 44:35
  Speaker 1: I can understand why they want to crack down on
• 44:36
  Speaker 1: illegal fireworks. Then you're absolutely right, rome fact check this
• 44:41
  Speaker 1: A fact check this, Romeo. I think Mexico is the
• 44:43
  Speaker 1: only team that hasn't been scored on as well. You
• 44:48
  Speaker 1: may be right about that. I don't know a lot
• 44:50
  Speaker 1: about it. My buddy keeps having me go hang out
• 44:52
  Speaker 1: with him to watch the games. I don't know anything
• 44:54
  Speaker 1: about soccer. I've never even played soccer, so I don't know.
• 44:59
  Speaker 1: I just I I think Mexico was supposed to be
• 45:04
  Speaker 1: as good as they are. They were supposed to be
• 45:07
  Speaker 1: doing this well, But I'm not You can you can
• 45:10
  Speaker 1: fact check me on that too. I'm not totally sure.
• 45:14
  Speaker 1: People keep saying they keep getting lucky that they shouldn't
• 45:18
  Speaker 1: be here. I don't know. They seem to be doing
• 45:20
  Speaker 1: well for themselves right now. So somebody just told me
• 45:23
  Speaker 1: today they're not going to beat France. France is gonna
• 45:25
  Speaker 1: win it all. So and then the US plays tonight, right.
• 45:28
  Speaker 1: I heard the same thing about the USA team, that
• 45:30
  Speaker 1: they're not supposed to be where they're at right now.
• 45:32
  Speaker 1: Everybody's kind of shocked at how well Mexico and the
• 45:35
  Speaker 1: USA are playing right now. But that's just hearsay. I
• 45:39
  Speaker 1: don't know anything about soccer. So and maybe you're right.
• 45:42
  Speaker 1: Maybe a Mexico has not been scored on. I'm trying
• 45:45
  Speaker 1: to think. No, maybe you're right, Maybe you're right. Hey,
• 45:51
  Speaker 1: good morning, Rome, it's Gil Rod here. First of all,
• 45:54
  Speaker 1: snitches get stitches. It was a tradition for me and
• 45:58
  Speaker 1: my three other brother and three other brothers on the
• 46:01
  Speaker 1: fourth of July to see who could make the loudest
• 46:04
  Speaker 1: pipe bombs with Piccolo Petez. Yeah, that's an old school tradition. Yeah,
• 46:10
  Speaker 1: then so Piccolo Pete they sell in the county but
• 46:13
  Speaker 1: not in the city, right, Is that still what's going
• 46:15
  Speaker 1: on here in Vikersfield Roam. If the US wins tonight,
• 46:19
  Speaker 1: all of North America has advanced to the next round. Okay,
• 46:25
  Speaker 1: and that's cool. Is America? Is the US supposed to
• 46:29
  Speaker 1: win tonight? Who's favor? And I don't know anything about soccer?
• 46:37
  Speaker 1: I really don't, you know. I'm just been I've been
• 46:41
  Speaker 1: paying attention to it because one of my friends is
• 46:44
  Speaker 1: all into it and he's my buddy and I think
• 46:48
  Speaker 1: he's the best, so I just pay attention for him.
• 46:51
  Speaker 1: I don't know anything about it, So I don't know
• 46:53
  Speaker 1: is the US supposed to Is the US supposed to
• 46:55
  Speaker 1: win tonight? Or are they, you know, playing above their
• 46:58
  Speaker 1: pay grade? Are they playing well? I mean, I don't know.
• 47:01
  Speaker 1: You send me here, hey, roam, now you don't have
• 47:04
  Speaker 1: to air this. But I remember a few weeks ago
• 47:06
  Speaker 1: you were talking about Vegas and how dead it was. Yeah,
• 47:11
  Speaker 1: that's what I was told. I heard that. I haven't
• 47:13
  Speaker 1: been there. I just saw another story this week actually
• 47:16
  Speaker 1: that said the exact same thing. People aren't going I
• 47:19
  Speaker 1: was there from Friday to Monday, and it was cracking
• 47:23
  Speaker 1: on the strip. But I also heard a Geezy and
• 47:28
  Speaker 1: New Kids on the Block were also performing that weekend.
• 47:31
  Speaker 1: We had a good time, though it was for my
• 47:33
  Speaker 1: daughter's twenty first birthday. I was like, since the okay,
• 47:39
  Speaker 1: lady didn't want to take her to the yard house
• 47:42
  Speaker 1: after college? Oh the yeah, since you heard the lady
• 47:45
  Speaker 1: didn't want to take her to the yard house after college?
• 47:48
  Speaker 1: Oh the old lady? Oh your lady? Oh you're this guy?
• 47:51
  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, you were talking about how okay,
• 47:54
  Speaker 1: uh didn't want to take her to the yardhouse after
• 47:56
  Speaker 1: college graduation and we were going to Vegas. How about that.
• 47:59
  Speaker 1: That's a good idea. I'm glad. Okay, yeah, I remember
• 48:01
  Speaker 1: that story that was a while back. Yeah, well, I'm
• 48:04
  Speaker 1: glad you guys had fun. Yeah. I don't know. I
• 48:08
  Speaker 1: can never tell when I see these stories if they're
• 48:11
  Speaker 1: real or not, because you guys know that the media
• 48:16
  Speaker 1: or towns or people use things to get attention, use
• 48:19
  Speaker 1: the media outlets to get attention. So they just maybe
• 48:23
  Speaker 1: lying to you that the Vegas, that Vegas isn't going
• 48:25
  Speaker 1: off so more people will go there, you know, I
• 48:28
  Speaker 1: don't know, you never know.
• 48:29
  Speaker 5: I don't know.
• 48:30
  Speaker 1: I don't I've never been a real Vegas guy. I'm
• 48:33
  Speaker 1: a Reno guy, so I never I only go to
• 48:38
  Speaker 1: Vegas when my friends asked me to go with them.
• 48:40
  Speaker 1: That's it. So I'm not a big Vegas guy. But okay,
• 48:43
  Speaker 1: I'm glad you guys had a good time. I'm glad
• 48:45
  Speaker 1: I was going off. Maybe the stories aren't true about
• 48:47
  Speaker 1: the fact that nobody's going there. All right, eight four,
• 48:50
  Speaker 1: two five four or seven to seven? Yeah, what's going on?
• 48:55
  Speaker 11: I don't really when it comes.
• 48:58
  Speaker 1: Oh, get a phone, no work? What did you send here?
• 49:01
  Speaker 5: All right?
• 49:03
  Speaker 1: Hey, Rome, I know you're not talking about this right now,
• 49:05
  Speaker 1: but I was hoping you can answer a question for me.
• 49:08
  Speaker 1: I work out in the oil fields and I have
• 49:11
  Speaker 1: a coworker of mine who goes out of state to work.
• 49:15
  Speaker 1: He could be gone for two to three, sometimes four
• 49:18
  Speaker 1: months at a time. He was telling me that he
• 49:22
  Speaker 1: allows his wife to go out with other dudes if
• 49:26
  Speaker 1: he's going to be gone for multiple months. Do you
• 49:30
  Speaker 1: think that's weird that he told me that. Well, the
• 49:33
  Speaker 1: funny thing is. The funny thing is he's having a
• 49:39
  Speaker 1: party this weekend for Fourth of July. He's never invited
• 49:42
  Speaker 1: me before, but he invited me this time. So I'm
• 49:46
  Speaker 1: not really sure what's going on.
• 49:47
  Speaker 5: Rome.
• 49:48
  Speaker 1: Do you think he's trying to set me up with
• 49:50
  Speaker 1: his wife for when he's out of town, so that
• 49:52
  Speaker 1: I know her. That's a pretty good question. Probably, I
• 50:02
  Speaker 1: mean he's probably he probably you said he's a coworker.
• 50:05
  Speaker 1: If he confide it in you that he allows his
• 50:08
  Speaker 1: wife to sleep with other men while he's out of town,
• 50:12
  Speaker 1: if he's out of town for multiple months, then yeah,
• 50:13
  Speaker 1: he's probably trying to hook you up. He's just probably
• 50:16
  Speaker 1: he probably thinks you're you know, he's probably probably trying
• 50:21
  Speaker 1: to control or dictate the men that she goes for
• 50:25
  Speaker 1: while he's out of town. He's probably cool with you,
• 50:28
  Speaker 1: so he's okay with it. But I mean it's kind
• 50:31
  Speaker 1: of weird. I mean, that is that is a little interesting.
• 50:34
  Speaker 1: I mean, but some people are a little more open
• 50:36
  Speaker 1: about their sexual relationships when it comes to certain things,
• 50:39
  Speaker 1: so it's not I mean, it seems weird to a
• 50:41
  Speaker 1: lot of people. It doesn't seem weird to me because
• 50:43
  Speaker 1: I deal with a lot of people. So I think
• 50:49
  Speaker 1: that's what he's probably trying to do. He's probably trying
• 50:52
  Speaker 1: to introduce you to his wife. So maybe the next
• 50:57
  Speaker 1: time he's gone for months on end that she knows
• 51:01
  Speaker 1: who he's he knows who she's sleeping with, so he
• 51:05
  Speaker 1: could be right about that. What are you gonna do.
• 51:07
  Speaker 3: So.
• 51:07
  Speaker 1: A guy just texted and was talking about how I
• 51:11
  Speaker 1: guess a co worker had confided in him and told
• 51:14
  Speaker 1: him that he's Uh. They work out in the oil industry,
• 51:17
  Speaker 1: and I guess the guy the co workers out of
• 51:19
  Speaker 1: town could be out of town for months at a time,
• 51:23
  Speaker 1: and that he allows his wife to sleep with other
• 51:25
  Speaker 1: dudes while he's gone, and uh, which is not as
• 51:30
  Speaker 1: big of a deal as you guys would think. By
• 51:32
  Speaker 1: the way, Okay, not everybody's as insecure when it comes
• 51:36
  Speaker 1: to sex as you are. So the guy was asking
• 51:39
  Speaker 1: me rome that he told me this and then he
• 51:42
  Speaker 1: invited me to his house this weekend for a Fourth
• 51:43
  Speaker 1: of July party, and he was wondering if he was
• 51:46
  Speaker 1: trying to, you know, set him up with his wife.
• 51:48
  Speaker 1: He could be, I mean, that might be the way
• 51:50
  Speaker 1: to go. I'm not totally sure. I've never I mean,
• 51:53
  Speaker 1: that's possible that he's trying to dictate who she sleeps with,
• 51:57
  Speaker 1: or at least, you know, direct her in a way
• 52:01
  Speaker 1: already four four or seven and seven, Romeo, you you
• 52:06
  Speaker 1: a biased person raised by a submissive man. I don't
• 52:10
  Speaker 1: know what that means, but okay, the gold digger segment
• 52:14
  Speaker 1: was wrong. Bring it back. The gold digger segment was wrong.
• 52:18
  Speaker 1: Bring it back. When the hell did you just wake up?
• 52:22
  Speaker 1: Or what are you listening to?
• 52:23
  Speaker 9: You?
• 52:23
  Speaker 1: You're like a three hour delay of what we're talking about.
• 52:25
  Speaker 1: What the hell's wrong with you? Thirty four, two four,
• 52:28
  Speaker 1: seven to seven? Hey, Romeo, what that last texture was
• 52:31
  Speaker 1: telling you is that you were biased? Oh I'm a
• 52:35
  Speaker 1: biased person and I was raised Oh and you were
• 52:39
  Speaker 1: raised by a submissive man. Yeah, that couldn't be any
• 52:42
  Speaker 1: further from the truth. But yeah, I don't see that.
• 52:45
  Speaker 1: And then oh, and then bring them because we were
• 52:47
  Speaker 1: talking about gold diggers earlier. But yeah, that's a little
• 52:50
  Speaker 1: late to the conversation, right, I mean, wasn't that like
• 52:53
  Speaker 1: two or three hours ago? How long ago were we
• 52:54
  Speaker 1: talking about? Oh no, we were talking about a woman
• 52:57
  Speaker 1: who wants to marry, uh basically for money. May marry
• 53:03
  Speaker 1: somebody that has money so she don't have to struggle. Yeah,
• 53:08
  Speaker 1: that's not gold digging, though, that's just a woman who
• 53:10
  Speaker 1: has a little more self esteem and holds herself to
• 53:14
  Speaker 1: a higher standard with a dude she wants to be
• 53:16
  Speaker 1: with or Mary. Yeah, that's not gold digging. Oh, I
• 53:19
  Speaker 1: see what you're saying, all right, thanks for clarifying. Yeah,
• 53:22
  Speaker 1: this fool couldn't be more wrong. I wonder why he's
• 53:24
  Speaker 1: late to the party for me.
• 53:26
  Speaker 9: I don't even know what subject you're talking about. I'm
• 53:28
  Speaker 9: going to try and give you a subject for maybe
• 53:30
  Speaker 9: next time or some them.
• 53:31
  Speaker 1: Okay, what do you go?
• 53:33
  Speaker 9: What she's happening to me? I'm almost fifty, I've never
• 53:36
  Speaker 9: been married because this stuff has always happened to me
• 53:39
  Speaker 9: since day one. Why do guys take me out to
• 53:42
  Speaker 9: a place that from their ass relationships?
• 53:46
  Speaker 4: I want to show me.
• 53:48
  Speaker 9: One year I had three women getting married because of me.
• 53:52
  Speaker 9: I'm not on any social media, but why do they
• 53:56
  Speaker 9: have a girl take me out?
• 53:59
  Speaker 1: So? Let me let me ask you. So, So, what
• 54:01
  Speaker 1: you're saying is guys are taking you out who are
• 54:03
  Speaker 1: already in relationships.
• 54:05
  Speaker 8: Yes.
• 54:06
  Speaker 9: I had one guy take me to his girlfriend's birthday party,
• 54:09
  Speaker 9: and there were.
• 54:12
  Speaker 10: Yes.
• 54:12
  Speaker 9: The girl gets mad and they fight, they make up,
• 54:16
  Speaker 9: they get married.
• 54:18
  Speaker 1: Dang, you're just a pawn in these guys games.
• 54:20
  Speaker 9: Freaking pawn.
• 54:22
  Speaker 6: This last one, this last one, this weekend, he was day.
• 54:25
  Speaker 1: Let me ask you a question, how many times? How
• 54:28
  Speaker 1: many times do you think this happens? Has happened to you.
• 54:31
  Speaker 9: I think this has happened probably about fifty I've been
• 54:35
  Speaker 9: engaged seven times because.
• 54:38
  Speaker 3: I find out later on that they.
• 54:41
  Speaker 9: Have someone else. I had one guy completely married, I
• 54:45
  Speaker 9: had met all four of the children mother.
• 54:50
  Speaker 8: Wherever.
• 54:50
  Speaker 1: Where are you meeting these people at?
• 54:52
  Speaker 9: Oh, I'm all over. I'm from Bakersfield, p Threita, all over.
• 54:56
  Speaker 9: But honestly, this was the first one I've been here
• 54:59
  Speaker 9: over twenty This was the first one I ever dated
• 55:02
  Speaker 9: here in Bakersfield, and I trusted him to pick me
• 55:05
  Speaker 9: up and he ended up going north after he took
• 55:09
  Speaker 9: me out. I'm a vegan.
• 55:10
  Speaker 10: He took me to wool Rowers.
• 55:13
  Speaker 1: I had ever heard this happen happen in my life.
• 55:16
  Speaker 1: This is what you're telling me is brand new. I mean, well,
• 55:21
  Speaker 1: I've heard of well, I guess I have heard of
• 55:24
  Speaker 1: people using somebody else to make their partner jealous, but
• 55:28
  Speaker 1: usually they're broken up, not not together.
• 55:31
  Speaker 9: Still No, No, I had one guy. He was a
• 55:35
  Speaker 9: really arrogant person, and he kept pushing me off, like
• 55:39
  Speaker 9: giving me something to flying with so he can be
• 55:42
  Speaker 9: on his phone. So he saw his coat. So when
• 55:45
  Speaker 9: he finally like passed out or when did tobacco something.
• 55:48
  Speaker 9: I looked through his phone. He had at least three
• 55:50
  Speaker 9: other women. There was this other step hanging on and
• 55:55
  Speaker 9: here that Mary's her. He came to the bars. He
• 55:59
  Speaker 9: came to the bar where we were. The bartender wouldn't
• 56:01
  Speaker 9: serve me, and they didn't understand why let me. You know,
• 56:04
  Speaker 9: I see this blonde, big old boom popping in there
• 56:07
  Speaker 9: like she's coming on a great date. And I'm looking
• 56:10
  Speaker 9: at her and I'm like, you guys are kidding me.
• 56:12
  Speaker 9: This is the girl. He's staring at me through the
• 56:15
  Speaker 9: window or excuse me, like through the mirror, and he's
• 56:17
  Speaker 9: talking to me. She says, you want mediately, and he
• 56:21
  Speaker 9: ended up marrying her.
• 56:23
  Speaker 1: Well, we'll get to the bottom of it, all right. Yeah,
• 56:25
  Speaker 1: we can get to the bottom of that, because that's
• 56:27
  Speaker 1: that's crazy.
• 56:29
  Speaker 5: Day one.
• 56:30
  Speaker 3: I think I was in sixth grade. The guy brought
• 56:32
  Speaker 3: me to his.
• 56:33
  Speaker 9: Baseball game just to make another group jealous.
• 56:37
  Speaker 1: All right, we'll get we'll get to the bottom of it,
• 56:39
  Speaker 1: all right. I'm glad you called. All right by Yeah,
• 56:43
  Speaker 1: we're gonna get to the bottom of that one. Eight
• 56:44
  Speaker 1: four four seven seven, I mean, wow, just heard this
• 56:49
  Speaker 1: lady called in. She said she's almost fifty, and she
• 56:51
  Speaker 1: can't find a man because all the dudes is she
• 56:54
  Speaker 1: be dating, maybe using her to make other women jealous.
• 56:59
  Speaker 1: She can't, She doesn't standing. Why does it always happen
• 57:01
  Speaker 1: to you? I'm gonna bet she's hot, and I'm gonna
• 57:03
  Speaker 1: bet that's why. I'm gonna bet she's hot. She sounds
• 57:05
  Speaker 1: real nice, she sounds real fun and cool. So I'm
• 57:08
  Speaker 1: gonna bet that's why already four two, five, four or
• 57:11
  Speaker 1: seven to seven year old roam, she's toxic? What do
• 57:14
  Speaker 1: you mean she's toxic? What makes her toxic? You're blaming
• 57:19
  Speaker 1: her for all these men using her to make other
• 57:22
  Speaker 1: women jealous? What about these dudes? She just wants to
• 57:26
  Speaker 1: know why she can't find a real guy. Already four two,
• 57:28
  Speaker 1: four or seven to seven? You know what's going on?
• 57:33
  Speaker 1: What's going on?
• 57:34
  Speaker 9: I was hearing you talk to the lady right now.
• 57:36
  Speaker 1: Yeah, what's up?
• 57:37
  Speaker 3: She sounds like a fleet little She sounds like a
• 57:39
  Speaker 3: fleet lady.
• 57:40
  Speaker 9: Maybe she's just a sugar mama.
• 57:43
  Speaker 1: Maybe she's You think men are only using her to
• 57:46
  Speaker 1: make other women jealous because she's a sugar mama.
• 57:49
  Speaker 9: Well she she sounds like a Sunday school teacher or something.
• 57:54
  Speaker 1: She does sound sweet. She sounds like a nice lady,
• 57:56
  Speaker 1: and it sounds like they are taking advantage of her.
• 57:59
  Speaker 5: She does not looking at Baker's Field.
• 58:02
  Speaker 1: Well, she said, She said that the guys she dated
• 58:04
  Speaker 1: last is the first time from Bakersfield. Everybody else has
• 58:07
  Speaker 1: been from.
• 58:07
  Speaker 12: Another tells and the last.
• 58:12
  Speaker 10: But yeah, she sounds like a sweet lady. You guys,
• 58:15
  Speaker 10: leave her alone.
• 58:16
  Speaker 9: Someone finds a man for she's sounds so sweet.
• 58:18
  Speaker 1: Have you has anybody? Has anybody used you to make
• 58:21
  Speaker 1: somebody else jealous?
• 58:23
  Speaker 10: Hell?
• 58:24
  Speaker 5: Jealous?
• 58:27
  Speaker 1: All right, get out of here already four two five
• 58:30
  Speaker 1: four seven seventy four two four seven seven. Yeah, that lady, that's.
• 58:34
  Speaker 8: What I'm saying.
• 58:35
  Speaker 1: She wants to know why she's always being used, uh
• 58:38
  Speaker 1: to make some other woman jealous. I guess that's her.
• 58:41
  Speaker 1: That's her experience with men over the last few years,
• 58:44
  Speaker 1: and she doesn't understand it. I mean, I understand. I
• 58:48
  Speaker 1: guess that there are guys out there, there are girls
• 58:51
  Speaker 1: out there that will go out on dates or do
• 58:53
  Speaker 1: other things to make other women or other men jealous.
• 58:56
  Speaker 1: I've seen that happen before. Right, Why can she find
• 59:00
  Speaker 1: a man? This lady just called, She said, she's almost
• 59:02
  Speaker 1: fifty years old, and her entire life has been well,
• 59:07
  Speaker 1: her dating life. She said she's been engaged I think
• 59:11
  Speaker 1: seven times, but it's never worked out. She says all
• 59:14
  Speaker 1: these men that she'd be meeting and hooking up with
• 59:17
  Speaker 1: are just using her to make other women jealous. She
• 59:21
  Speaker 1: said she's gone to a couple parties. She said she
• 59:23
  Speaker 1: that some guy even took her to his ex girlfriend's
• 59:27
  Speaker 1: birthday party and now they're married. She says she's been
• 59:32
  Speaker 1: used multiple times by men to make other women jealous.
• 59:37
  Speaker 1: I mean, I don't really know how that happens. I
• 59:41
  Speaker 1: mean maybe it's happened once or twice, but multiple times
• 59:43
  Speaker 1: your entire life, I mean, she says, it's been going
• 59:46
  Speaker 1: on forever already four two five, four seven to seven.
• 59:50
  Speaker 1: So why is she having such a hard time finding
• 59:54
  Speaker 1: a man? Why does she keep going through this? I
• 59:57
  Speaker 1: mean you, I don't know. I don't have the answer.
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 1: I really just don't know. Anybody, anybody know what's going
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 1: on here?
• 1:00:08
  Speaker 7: All right?
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 1: What did you send me here? Already? Four two five,
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 1: four seven seven? A friend of mine sent me sent
• 1:00:23
  Speaker 1: me a text that said, I hope my brother's listening
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 1: right now he can hook up with her she sounded
• 1:00:30
  Speaker 1: like a great woman. I mean, she sounded like a
• 1:00:32
  Speaker 1: nice lady. She sounded like, you know, she was cool.
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 1: But for some reason, I guess she gets used. She
• 1:00:39
  Speaker 1: says she's been used her whole life to make other
• 1:00:42
  Speaker 1: women jealous. That's crazy to me. Already four two pop
• 1:00:45
  Speaker 1: four or seven to seven, I don't know why. He
• 1:00:47
  Speaker 1: just called up a few minutes ago and she was
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 1: asking about what's going on. Man, she's been she says,
• 1:00:51
  Speaker 1: she's almost fifty, and multiple multiple times, she said she's
• 1:00:56
  Speaker 1: been used to make somebody jealous, to make another woman jealous.
• 1:00:59
  Speaker 1: She's been taking a birthday party's ex'es birthday party. She's
• 1:01:02
  Speaker 1: been taken out on dates where the exes were there,
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 1: and she can't figure out what's going on with these dudes.
• 1:01:10
  Speaker 1: And she said it's been happening for years. She says
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 1: she's been engaged like seven times, and why hasn't anything
• 1:01:16
  Speaker 1: worked out? That's the real question. Is it her fault?
• 1:01:20
  Speaker 1: Is it their fault? Is it men's fault? Who's fault?
• 1:01:23
  Speaker 1: But to be used multiple times, like I could understand
• 1:01:27
  Speaker 1: already four two five four, seven to seven, I could
• 1:01:30
  Speaker 1: be be I could understand one time, right, like one
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 1: time somebody uses you to get revenge on their ex
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 1: or uses you to to make their ex jealous. I
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 1: could understand that happening like once, but not your whole life.
• 1:01:46
  Speaker 1: She said, it's been happening her whole life already four two, five,
• 1:01:50
  Speaker 1: four or seven seven. Hey Romeo, that woman that just
• 1:01:52
  Speaker 1: called you. At what point do you have to look
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 1: at her? Maybe it's the type of man that she's
• 1:01:59
  Speaker 1: going after. Sounds to me like she's going after men
• 1:02:03
  Speaker 1: who are in relationships or just got out of relationships.
• 1:02:07
  Speaker 1: You have to think that maybe you're the problem. At
• 1:02:10
  Speaker 1: a certain point. You said, she's almost fifty. When will
• 1:02:14
  Speaker 1: she ever learn? Maybe it is her fault. Maybe it
• 1:02:21
  Speaker 1: is her fault. I don't know.
• 1:02:23
  Speaker 3: Hey Romeo, I just heard you on the radio talking.
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 1: About that woman. Yeah.
• 1:02:28
  Speaker 3: I think that she needs to stop being so nice
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 3: to these zoos out here. I'm letting him take advantage
• 1:02:32
  Speaker 3: of her.
• 1:02:39
  Speaker 8: A free ride for these young dudes or what.
• 1:02:45
  Speaker 3: You know?
• 1:02:45
  Speaker 10: What's up with that?
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 1: Well, you guys can't always be jackasses, Somebody, some of
• 1:02:51
  Speaker 1: you women gotta be nice.
• 1:02:53
  Speaker 5: My god, no.
• 1:02:55
  Speaker 3: Way, I don't cut these zoos any flack out here.
• 1:02:59
  Speaker 9: Baker's zoos.
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 1: Come on, damn your cold. I mean, you guys can't
• 1:03:10
  Speaker 1: all be jackasses. Come on, ladies already four two pot
• 1:03:13
  Speaker 1: four or seven to seven room. I was in a
• 1:03:15
  Speaker 1: local bar here in town that I called my bar
• 1:03:18
  Speaker 1: when my ex and I split up. She showed up
• 1:03:21
  Speaker 1: there with some dude. I was sitting there at the
• 1:03:24
  Speaker 1: bar with a couple of friends. I was a little
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 1: pissed off that she would bring another dude into where
• 1:03:29
  Speaker 1: I hang out. One of my beautiful friends asked me
• 1:03:34
  Speaker 1: if I wanted to make out in front of her,
• 1:03:36
  Speaker 1: So we did. My ex and the dude left and
• 1:03:40
  Speaker 1: never showed up there again. Okay, I mean.
• 1:03:47
  Speaker 10: It's tough.
• 1:03:47
  Speaker 1: I mean it's tough.
• 1:03:48
  Speaker 5: When uh.
• 1:03:51
  Speaker 1: It's tough, I mean there's not a lot of places
• 1:03:53
  Speaker 1: to go in Bakersfield. So when you guys are dating
• 1:03:56
  Speaker 1: and you go to the same spot, I mean. I
• 1:03:58
  Speaker 1: was at a check this out. I was at the
• 1:04:03
  Speaker 1: what's the hotel Avela? I was at the Avella Beach.
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 1: I was at the hotel across the street, the lighthouse
• 1:04:10
  Speaker 1: in Avla. That's where I was. And the dude and
• 1:04:14
  Speaker 1: the chick that were staying in the room next to me,
• 1:04:19
  Speaker 1: his ex and her man were staying at the same
• 1:04:24
  Speaker 1: hotel the same weekend, and he was explaining it to us, going,
• 1:04:29
  Speaker 1: but yeah, they this is me and my ex used
• 1:04:32
  Speaker 1: to come here when we split up. She we still
• 1:04:34
  Speaker 1: both still come here. I mean they didn't like each other,
• 1:04:37
  Speaker 1: they didn't talk to each other, they were on different
• 1:04:40
  Speaker 1: parts of the hotel, but yeah, they both still went there.
• 1:04:44
  Speaker 1: I don't know, it just happens. What's going on.
• 1:04:46
  Speaker 3: I was calling because I heard about that girl saying
• 1:04:49
  Speaker 3: that she sent you the majority of her life.
• 1:04:52
  Speaker 9: I think her problem is she'd made herself through availables
• 1:04:56
  Speaker 9: to where people are seeing.
• 1:04:58
  Speaker 3: That, like she's easy to manipul late if that unders
• 1:05:01
  Speaker 3: like if you get that, like she needs to put
• 1:05:04
  Speaker 3: more of a barn up and have to like set
• 1:05:06
  Speaker 3: more boundaries for her to be able to be shown like.
• 1:05:09
  Speaker 9: She's worth more than just being used.
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 6: So she just needn't maybe like find herself and her
• 1:05:15
  Speaker 6: happiness have been herself before. She can see that, so
• 1:05:17
  Speaker 6: she can see like she is the price, so.
• 1:05:19
  Speaker 9: She knows like who's genuinely there for her, who's genuinely
• 1:05:22
  Speaker 9: not like.
• 1:05:23
  Speaker 1: You know, Okay, I'm I understand what you're saying. I'm
• 1:05:26
  Speaker 1: just trying to figure out how she could possibly be
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 1: putting herself out there in a way that allows people
• 1:05:35
  Speaker 1: to know she can be used. Like I'm wondering what like.
• 1:05:41
  Speaker 3: Fat that Like she's more so like a giving person,
• 1:05:46
  Speaker 3: you know, like she can be more like oh it's okay,
• 1:05:48
  Speaker 3: I about that, or like she's showing them that she
• 1:05:49
  Speaker 3: gives more than what she received.
• 1:05:51
  Speaker 1: Okay.
• 1:05:52
  Speaker 3: So that's how like they're sitting there like, oh, I
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 3: can take take take from her and I don't have
• 1:05:57
  Speaker 3: to do anything about it.
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 9: So that's why I say, like she needs to find.
• 1:05:59
  Speaker 3: Happy is within herself to see what her worth is
• 1:06:02
  Speaker 3: before she can really see what she's looking for in
• 1:06:04
  Speaker 3: a man and like what they get to her.
• 1:06:07
  Speaker 1: Okay, I know exactly what you're saying, and I don't
• 1:06:10
  Speaker 1: disagree with you. I just sometimes I wonder if women
• 1:06:16
  Speaker 1: or men, I guess for the most part, didn't have
• 1:06:18
  Speaker 1: such a wall up whenever they met somebody, if life
• 1:06:21
  Speaker 1: might be a little easier for them.
• 1:06:23
  Speaker 6: But yeah, women and men both have to really find
• 1:06:26
  Speaker 6: happiness within themselves before they see they give it to somebody,
• 1:06:30
  Speaker 6: so they don't if they're not happy with themselves, they
• 1:06:32
  Speaker 6: can they don't know what to actually give to make
• 1:06:34
  Speaker 6: someone really happy. Like, but like, I learned that myself
• 1:06:38
  Speaker 6: the hard way, but I'm happy that I learned it
• 1:06:40
  Speaker 6: before it got to a point where.
• 1:06:42
  Speaker 8: I'm fifty and being you type of.
• 1:06:45
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you this though, if you fifty and
• 1:06:48
  Speaker 1: guys are still using you to make their excess jealous,
• 1:06:51
  Speaker 1: you still got to be looking good.
• 1:06:53
  Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, definitely that.
• 1:06:54
  Speaker 9: But at the end of the day, looking good has
• 1:06:57
  Speaker 9: nothing to do with how.
• 1:06:58
  Speaker 2: People want to value you, like what you're meaning you,
• 1:07:01
  Speaker 2: but you're.
• 1:07:02
  Speaker 3: Not giving, You're not showing up that you need to
• 1:07:04
  Speaker 3: be value mores than what you mean valued at.
• 1:07:07
  Speaker 4: I agree, Like, let's have nothing to do.
• 1:07:09
  Speaker 9: With it at the end of the day.
• 1:07:10
  Speaker 1: Okay, all right, all right, well thanks for calling. I
• 1:07:13
  Speaker 1: appreciate it, no problem. I'm golhad you too, bye. I mean,
• 1:07:16
  Speaker 1: she's right, she's right, Throw.
• 1:07:18
  Speaker 9: Me all the morning, every morning morning.
• 1:07:20
  Speaker 5: Seventy four point one