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The Choice To Forgive Your Past Plus Men Grow Beards What Do Women Get · Arroe Collins Like It's Live

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  Speaker 1: Enjoy your exploration. Hey, what's going on? Extremely difficult? That's
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  Speaker 1: what's going on inside our minds. Having that power of
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  Speaker 1: choice can actually weaken a person's soul. On this episode,
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  Speaker 1: we're going to put focus on the choice that we
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  Speaker 1: have to make when it comes to forgiving your past
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  Speaker 1: and is it really enough? Plus, if guys get to
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  Speaker 1: make the choice to grow a beard, what do women
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  Speaker 1: get to do? My name is Errow. Life is a
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  Speaker 1: series of choices. Who decides when you're not making the
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  Speaker 1: right choice? And is it a fear out of things
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  Speaker 1: going wrong? The greatest lessons in life are often lost inside,
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  Speaker 1: hidden away a temp and concepts. Well, it is time
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  Speaker 1: to reopen your heart. Having that power of choice is
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  Speaker 1: your daily gift on this highway, It's time to learn
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  Speaker 1: to trust mirages. What is the choice? How about making
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  Speaker 1: that choice to forgive your past, Is it really enough?
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  Speaker 1: First and foremost, the physical act of forgiving your past
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  Speaker 1: can be enough to change the direction of your life,
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  Speaker 1: but it can't be compared to erasing the pain, the consequences,
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  Speaker 1: or the memories. People have been known to say, I
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  Speaker 1: forgive you, so why do I still feel it? Then?
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  Speaker 1: Forgiveness is like removing a permanent courtroom from your mind.
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  Speaker 1: What matters is what kind of forgiveness you're actually talking about.
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  Speaker 1: It can stop self shame from becoming your identity. Forgiving
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  Speaker 1: yourself can help bitterness, and it can help you stop
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  Speaker 1: fighting realities that have already happened. The deeper question you
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  Speaker 1: want to ask is can I move forward without carrying
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  Speaker 1: my past as my entire identity? Many, many, many mental
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  Speaker 1: health professionals say yeah, you can move forward without having
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  Speaker 1: the past on your back. The past is never going
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  Speaker 1: to disappear, But because it no longer gets the final vote,
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  Speaker 1: your past doesn't have permission to be in your present anymore.
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  Speaker 1: Forgiveness and approval ooh, they can confuse a lot of people.
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  Speaker 1: Forgiveness and approval. They don't mean that something is instantly forgiven.
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  Speaker 1: But I'll tell you what if you hang in there,
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  Speaker 1: all of that shame will take its place. And the
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  Speaker 1: thing about it is the question you should be asking
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  Speaker 1: is do I want to go through this again? And
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  Speaker 1: only you can answer that. Hey, coming up next, If
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  Speaker 1: guys get the choice to grow a beard, what do
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  Speaker 1: women get? Hey? Thanks for coming back to the choice.
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  Speaker 1: If guys get the opportunity to make the choice to
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  Speaker 1: grow a beard, what do women get to do? I mean,
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  Speaker 1: I was instantly reminded that women make a lot of
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  Speaker 1: appearance choices. They're just getting judged differently by the public.
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  Speaker 1: A man's beard can be his identity, his rebellion, his style,
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  Speaker 1: or his maturity. Women, are you ready for this? They've
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  Speaker 1: got powerful choices like long hair versus short, makeup or
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  Speaker 1: no makeup, nails, lashes, tattoos and piercings, shaving or not
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  Speaker 1: shaving their body hair, and even more. Both men and
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  Speaker 1: women use their outside appearances to communicate something about themselves.
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  Speaker 1: A beard says something, so does bright red lipstick. Here's
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  Speaker 1: where it gets a little bit on the stinky part.
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  Speaker 1: A man's outside appearance choices is called a personal style.
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  Speaker 1: Women's choices are public debate. A man grows a beard,
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  Speaker 1: and it's like having a brand new look. If a
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  Speaker 1: woman grows body hair, uh oh, now we're talking about her,
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  Speaker 1: usually behind her back. Everybody involved and those hiding at
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  Speaker 1: home are all asking the same question, how do I
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  Speaker 1: want the world to see me? How does any of
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  Speaker 1: this even happen? Well, it has nothing to do with
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  Speaker 1: the actual look and more to do with the observer's beliefs, generation, culture,
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  Speaker 1: and observation. Who It is a choice. I'm Arrow, and
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  Speaker 1: that's what I was writing while the sun was waking
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  Speaker 1: up on a brilliant new day.