Latest / The Best Experience / Unlocking the Secrets of Strength with Nick Best!
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- 0:12Speaker 1: This is the best experience with your hosts, Nick Best
- 0:15Speaker 1: and the Angry Dad. You know, like I said, we're
- 0:18Speaker 1: gonna be going live for the majority of for basically
- 0:22Speaker 1: all of these podcast episodes, and then they'll just come
- 0:25Speaker 1: out later for those who are not part of the Patriots,
- 0:27Speaker 1: so they'll just basically get it the day after. And
- 0:30Speaker 1: for those who are tuned in, just by being part
- 0:33Speaker 1: of the Patreon, you can actually communicate it with us
- 0:36Speaker 1: through the comments in the video for those so we know,
- 0:39Speaker 1: those who get that link first comment, ask us questions
- 0:42Speaker 1: and guess what Nick will answer them. We'll go through them,
- 0:45Speaker 1: we'll discuss them, we'll even cover topics and stuff like that.
- 0:48Speaker 2: There's also a.
- 0:49Speaker 1: Chat page in the Patreon where you guys can actually
- 0:52Speaker 1: request ask questions, request topics and stuff like that. So
- 0:56Speaker 1: you know, there's quite a bit to offer in the
- 0:58Speaker 1: Patreon for those who join. We really appreciate it and
- 1:01Speaker 1: all that good stuff.
- 1:02Speaker 3: Yeah, we got a lot of stuff we're getting ready
- 1:05Speaker 3: to do. We're kicking off the Patreon's got a page
- 1:09Speaker 3: where we can get some things like T shirts and
- 1:13Speaker 3: autograph pictures, stuff like that, stickers, all that stuff will
- 1:17Speaker 3: be coming and then we also, at some point down
- 1:22Speaker 3: the line, we'll be offering some some programming as well
- 1:26Speaker 3: as individual programming, but that will, like me, programming individually
- 1:30Speaker 3: for people will be a case by case basis and
- 1:36Speaker 3: it will be very sports specific for that person. Okay,
- 1:42Speaker 3: so there won't be very many of those. We're probably
- 1:44Speaker 3: only going to open five to start with, so the
- 1:48Speaker 3: first five will get in and after that we'll just
- 1:52Speaker 3: have a waiting list.
- 1:53Speaker 1: But exactly, and on that waiting list to it'll always
- 1:56Speaker 1: be first come, first serve and for those who can
- 1:59Speaker 1: take you, I'm saying so.
- 2:01Speaker 3: Yeah, And eventually we'll increase that probably to ten, and
- 2:03Speaker 3: then we'll see how that goes on how my time goes,
- 2:08Speaker 3: because I don't want to over commit to people. I
- 2:10Speaker 3: want to give people, you know, I want to teach them.
- 2:13Speaker 3: I don't just want to like program you and stuff
- 2:16Speaker 3: like that. I want to teach you that way. I
- 2:18Speaker 3: want to teach you. Not to need me, but I
- 2:21Speaker 3: want to teach you. I want to teach you a
- 2:24Speaker 3: lot of the stuff I know. My philosophy is on things,
- 2:26Speaker 3: how I do things, and why I do things to
- 2:30Speaker 3: a certain degree and why it's been effective for me.
- 2:34Speaker 3: Over All these years and why I've been able to
- 2:38Speaker 3: last as long as I have and two different, two
- 2:40Speaker 3: different strength sports, and you know, like high school, she's
- 2:46Speaker 3: junior midget, high school and college football. So I made
- 2:49Speaker 3: it all all the way through all that as well,
- 2:52Speaker 3: on top of the powerlifting and on top of the
- 2:55Speaker 3: straw man, so.
- 2:56Speaker 1: You know, and that's exactly it, Like that you have
- 3:00Speaker 1: a wealth of knowledge that people can literally learn from.
- 3:05Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, This is something that literally
- 3:06Speaker 1: needs to be put into a book.
- 3:08Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.
- 3:09Speaker 1: If your philosophy is your teachings, you know what I'm saying,
- 3:11Speaker 1: how long you've for the reasons you've lasted this long,
- 3:15Speaker 1: and the techniques and the lessons and just the skill
- 3:18Speaker 1: that you've honed over the years, because that's what a
- 3:21Speaker 1: lot of people want to know. Like, not very many
- 3:22Speaker 1: people have a long career like you have had, even
- 3:26Speaker 1: though you started late in the game.
- 3:29Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. Technically, yeah, technically.
- 3:32Speaker 3: I started parallating and competing in parallelating in nineteen eighty five, yep,
- 3:36Speaker 3: so that's and then I started playing football. Geez, probably
- 3:42Speaker 3: nineteen nineteen eighty maybe here we go back back back
- 3:48Speaker 3: that far, so maybe even yeah, probably nineteen eighty is
- 3:52Speaker 3: maybe seventy nine, so back back then. So it's been
- 3:57Speaker 3: doing it in a while. And I you learn a
- 4:00Speaker 3: lot of things in those years on how to heal
- 4:02Speaker 3: and how to keep your body together. And I learned
- 4:06Speaker 3: a lot of stuff from heavy duty. I learned a
- 4:10Speaker 3: lot of stuff later turned you know, conju get stuff
- 4:16Speaker 3: from like some of the West five philosophies, but the
- 4:19Speaker 3: philosophy is not necessarily there's some of the exercises, not
- 4:24Speaker 3: all the exercises, but some of the philosophies work very well.
- 4:28Speaker 3: They're just in my opinion, and you can take it
- 4:30Speaker 3: how you want. There there there are two. There's there's
- 4:39Speaker 3: too much. You gotta spread it out a little bit.
- 4:43Speaker 3: If instead of going like a heavy heavy day and
- 4:46Speaker 3: a light day or a speed day during that week,
- 4:50Speaker 3: it would be a heavy week and a speed week.
- 4:53Speaker 3: And then I add in a kind of like a
- 4:59Speaker 3: central never system week, because we want to train your
- 5:04Speaker 3: central nervous system to keep functioning even though you've blown
- 5:06Speaker 3: it out. So we'll do stuff like straight in where
- 5:11Speaker 3: you you go into something crazy like maybe like when
- 5:17Speaker 3: I was at my best, you know, eleven pounds block
- 5:20Speaker 3: poles for a set of ten and then go through
- 5:22Speaker 3: the whole rest of your workout after completely blowing out
- 5:26Speaker 3: your central nervous system. You learn how to function that
- 5:29Speaker 3: way and still get the most out of it. So
- 5:31Speaker 3: those are kind of differences between that and the west
- 5:34Speaker 3: side stuff that I do. But I didn't know about
- 5:36Speaker 3: the west side stuff till much later and then realize
- 5:39Speaker 3: I was doing a lot of it.
- 5:41Speaker 1: Well, I's saying, James had talked to talk to you
- 5:44Speaker 1: about it, so he was saying that Nick's been doing
- 5:46Speaker 1: conjugate without knowing what conjugate was, and like say, for decades,
- 5:51Speaker 1: for decades, you know what I'm saying, But it lets
- 5:54Speaker 1: you know that, like you know, great minds think alike,
- 5:57Speaker 1: but also too, great minds pay their own path. And
- 6:00Speaker 1: that's exactly what you did with the style of training
- 6:02Speaker 1: you do, because like I said, I'm always with you
- 6:04Speaker 1: with it for a lot of the stuff that you're
- 6:05Speaker 1: doing and watching, and it's just like you know, like
- 6:09Speaker 1: it even influenced a lot of the way that I
- 6:11Speaker 1: train now, even for myself, because I do things a
- 6:13Speaker 1: specific way now because now, guess what it's doing things
- 6:16Speaker 1: for you to do things for me, And that's one
- 6:18Speaker 1: of those things that you know when you could pass
- 6:20Speaker 1: the knowledge on because like even at this point in
- 6:22Speaker 1: your career, that's the one thing that you know people
- 6:26Speaker 1: should be doing.
- 6:27Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. It is like, you know, for.
- 6:29Speaker 1: Those who are willing to listen, you know what I'm saying,
- 6:33Speaker 1: you can get valuable information. You know what I'm saying, Yeah,
- 6:37Speaker 1: for sure.
- 6:39Speaker 3: So and then I learned a lot of stuff from
- 6:41Speaker 3: Ed Cohen, and I learned a lot of stuff from
- 6:42Speaker 3: Bull Stewart and mixed all that with the stuff from
- 6:46Speaker 3: heavy duty. You were you're not trying to do a
- 6:49Speaker 3: bazilion sets. You're trying to go one to maybe three,
- 6:54Speaker 3: but usually one or two super hard. Really just all
- 6:58Speaker 3: out sets and move on to the next lectis in
- 7:00Speaker 3: some cases one all outset and then move on to
- 7:03Speaker 3: the next exercise. Like when I go and do deadlift
- 7:06Speaker 3: for reps, it's one set of twenty to twenty five
- 7:09Speaker 3: reps the five hundred when I'm when I when I
- 7:12Speaker 3: was on the money, So it's a it's all out,
- 7:16Speaker 3: there's nothing left when you get done, and then you
- 7:18Speaker 3: move on to the next exercise, and then you group
- 7:21Speaker 3: your exercises to work and compliment the events that you're
- 7:26Speaker 3: doing or the deadlift or whatever it is that you're
- 7:30Speaker 3: training for. You find, you know, assistant exercises to benefit
- 7:34Speaker 3: all of those things, and you train things in very
- 7:36Speaker 3: different ways than you would as if you're a bodybuilder.
- 7:39Speaker 3: You know, bodybuilders are you know, slow control contractions, you're
- 7:43Speaker 3: squeezing the muscle, You're you're you're you're trying to cause
- 7:46Speaker 3: hat trip hypertrophy. I don't want to. You're going to
- 7:50Speaker 3: get bigger anyway, You're going to have hypertrophy. I'm sorry,
- 7:54Speaker 3: it's just going to happen. Is it going to be
- 7:56Speaker 3: to where you look like a bodybuilder? Maybe maybe not.
- 8:00Speaker 3: But what you are going to get is stronger and
- 8:03Speaker 3: faster and be able to handle tonnage and be able
- 8:06Speaker 3: to walk away from it in one piece. You know,
- 8:09Speaker 3: a lot of people will comment how I do like
- 8:12Speaker 3: isolros and stuff like that, Oh you're using a chest
- 8:15Speaker 3: supported row, and you're, yeah, I'm using a chest supported
- 8:18Speaker 3: row because it's safer, you know, and I'm yet still
- 8:24Speaker 3: working speed with super heavy weights. That way, when I
- 8:27Speaker 3: rip a sandbag off the ground, or I rip a
- 8:29Speaker 3: stone off the ground or I pick up keg up
- 8:32Speaker 3: off the ground. I'm used to picking it up fast
- 8:35Speaker 3: and just haul and tail with it because you get
- 8:37Speaker 3: paid by winning by going faster than other people in
- 8:40Speaker 3: straw man, So you got to be ridiculously strong and
- 8:42Speaker 3: pretty quick. So it doesn't matter if you can pick
- 8:47Speaker 3: up a three hundred pound keg and you know, carry
- 8:50Speaker 3: it someplace and go pick up another one and carry
- 8:52Speaker 3: it back. If everybody finishes before you do, yep, goal
- 8:55Speaker 3: to finish before everyone else. So it's it's a couple
- 8:59Speaker 3: of those little things that make a big difference. And
- 9:01Speaker 3: then when you're coaching people, like if I'm going to
- 9:06Speaker 3: coach somebody and to go to a contest, I'm coaching
- 9:08Speaker 3: one unless they're best friends, you know that type of thing.
- 9:13Speaker 3: I like in their their training together, they're doing everything together.
- 9:16Speaker 3: Unless they're best friends I coach, I'm going to coach
- 9:18Speaker 3: one person. I mean, if they're best friends and their
- 9:21Speaker 3: best friends and they train together, they train together, so
- 9:23Speaker 3: I can train both of them at the same time
- 9:25Speaker 3: not not have to worry about it, but I'm going
- 9:28Speaker 3: to go. The thing is a lot of these trainers
- 9:31Speaker 3: coaches that show up to coach them don't know how
- 9:33Speaker 3: to compete because they didn't compete. So there's the little
- 9:37Speaker 3: things that make massive differences at an elite level. You know,
- 9:41Speaker 3: something as simple as putting liquid chalk on your stomach
- 9:46Speaker 3: and then putting your shirt on, and then putting chocolate
- 9:49Speaker 3: over your shirt when you go to do the log
- 9:51Speaker 3: will keep the log from slipping down your chest. If
- 9:53Speaker 3: they don't allow, you know, spraytack or anything else, it'll
- 9:56Speaker 3: make a massive, massive difference. And you know, you end
- 10:01Speaker 3: up being able to clean clean the log and then
- 10:03Speaker 3: just press it right overhead. You know, some of the
- 10:05Speaker 3: guys they're working with a guy that's he could pretty
- 10:09Speaker 3: much if he can clean it, he's going to press it.
- 10:11Speaker 3: And he had a little small problem cleaning one of
- 10:15Speaker 3: his attempts and went in the back and did exactly that,
- 10:18Speaker 3: and he was able to clean it and press it
- 10:21Speaker 3: like it was nothing when he got it up to
- 10:23Speaker 3: his shoulders. So it's little things like that that make
- 10:26Speaker 3: a massive difference. Anybody can program, you know, anybody can
- 10:30Speaker 3: you know, here here's all the lists of these things
- 10:32Speaker 3: that take which is kind of stupid because I mean,
- 10:37Speaker 3: you abuse anything, you're going to really shorten greatly. Shorten
- 10:40Speaker 3: your career. So I mean, that's not what a sign
- 10:45Speaker 3: of a good coach. It's not. It's getting people to
- 10:50Speaker 3: do it as healthy as possible, most efficiently as possible,
- 10:53Speaker 3: and then knowing at the competition how to adjust and
- 10:56Speaker 3: work the events to be successful at them. You know,
- 10:59Speaker 3: you get guys like with these taxi problems people have
- 11:02Speaker 3: been having all the time, and they'll bring two different
- 11:05Speaker 3: types of tacky or now sometimes three, bring seven or eight,
- 11:10Speaker 3: not one or two, Bring like seven or eight any
- 11:16Speaker 3: weather that shows up. You're gonna be able to stick
- 11:18Speaker 3: to the stone. And then the other thing you got
- 11:20Speaker 3: to realize is a lot of these guys put a
- 11:22Speaker 3: boatload a tacky on then they go out to do
- 11:24Speaker 3: it and they turn the stone into a like a
- 11:27Speaker 3: slippery grease ball. You know, they've put so much the
- 11:32Speaker 3: tacky that doesn't work on. They go out and you start,
- 11:35Speaker 3: everybody's just slipping and sliding on the thing. Well, you
- 11:38Speaker 3: can do one or two options. Go put good taki
- 11:41Speaker 3: on and go do the lighter stone and get a
- 11:44Speaker 3: rep in, and then go pie the greased one and
- 11:47Speaker 3: go to the heavier one and put good tachy on
- 11:50Speaker 3: it again. Take your time and get one and beat
- 11:53Speaker 3: everybody that just messed up the grease stone. It's just
- 11:57Speaker 3: simple stuff, but it's it's things that really need to
- 12:01Speaker 3: be looked at. And even if they come out and
- 12:04Speaker 3: they like do stuff, or they'll spray a stone or
- 12:07Speaker 3: they'll clean it or whatever, you get to mess with
- 12:11Speaker 3: it before you go, So make sure it's right, make
- 12:14Speaker 3: sure you're sticking to the stone before you go. Make
- 12:16Speaker 3: sure they have it right. Ye. No, wait a minute,
- 12:21Speaker 3: you just spray this and now this is slippery. You
- 12:23Speaker 3: need to fix this before we start. Ye. You need
- 12:27Speaker 3: to fix this, you know, and take your time and
- 12:31Speaker 3: just to throw away for him to fix it.
- 12:34Speaker 2: Don't be don't be rushed, don't feel pressure, don't feel pressure.
- 12:40Speaker 3: Just haven't fix it, because that's that's the difference between
- 12:43Speaker 3: you scoring you know, fourteen points and you scoring three
- 12:48Speaker 3: or getting a zero, and that's that's a big deal.
- 12:51Speaker 3: That's a really really big deal. So it's little things
- 12:55Speaker 3: like that will make a very big difference piled up
- 12:57Speaker 3: over at events and that'll be the difference between first
- 13:00Speaker 3: and fourth place. It's just that it's just like that,
- 13:05Speaker 3: and then you know, making sure you have your head
- 13:09Speaker 3: right when you're going into things, but you're not so
- 13:12Speaker 3: keyed up and like nervous and excited that you can't
- 13:16Speaker 3: function efficiently. The goal when you get out there to
- 13:20Speaker 3: compete is to function. You want to go out there
- 13:23Speaker 3: and get after it like there is no holding back.
- 13:27Speaker 3: But you want to How did my football coach play with?
- 13:31Speaker 3: Controlled reckless abandon? Is what my old football coach used
- 13:36Speaker 3: to say. You play with controlled reckless abandon. It's the
- 13:39Speaker 3: same thing in straw men. You go out there with
- 13:42Speaker 3: controlled reckless abandon. You need to go out there and
- 13:45Speaker 3: let it fly, but it has to be controlled. And
- 13:49Speaker 3: you know, getting super excited because you know everything's on
- 13:51Speaker 3: the line on the last event, and you start kind
- 13:55Speaker 3: of like you gotta stay calm, You gotta stay focused
- 13:59Speaker 3: and stay focused on what you got to do, and
- 14:02Speaker 3: you envision in your head before you go three or
- 14:05Speaker 3: four times what each thing's gonna look like as you're
- 14:08Speaker 3: picking up something and flying down and dropping it and
- 14:10Speaker 3: walking over to the next event as quick as you can,
- 14:13Speaker 3: and then just bouncing and going up to the next
- 14:15Speaker 3: and the next and the next. You're gonna be fine.
- 14:19Speaker 3: You're gonna be fine. I'll focus on focus on each
- 14:23Speaker 3: individual piece of that that you've got to go through
- 14:25Speaker 3: and you'll get through it, and you'll get through it quick,
- 14:28Speaker 3: smooth as fast, very fast, smooth as fast. You know
- 14:34Speaker 3: you watch youo for do things. When he picks up
- 14:36Speaker 3: a yoke, he's smooth, he's real smooth the yoke. That's
- 14:40Speaker 3: why he's so fast. He's quick and he's smooth, makes
- 14:44Speaker 3: a big difference. But he's not right.
- 14:48Speaker 1: Well, and that's Sae too. He's very methodical. And just
- 14:50Speaker 1: like you're saying, get you got to have a certain
- 14:52Speaker 1: amount of control. You gotta have a certain amount of push.
- 14:54Speaker 1: You got to have a certain amount of willingness to
- 14:56Speaker 1: just lay it on the line when it's ready to
- 14:58Speaker 1: lay it all on the line. That's one of those
- 14:59Speaker 1: things too that you know, you see because people do
- 15:04Speaker 1: go all out, but sometimes they go too far, you know.
- 15:07Speaker 3: Big time. There's a lot of people that do that, like,
- 15:13Speaker 3: and you don't want to go too far. What you
- 15:15Speaker 3: want to do is go right up to the edge.
- 15:18Speaker 3: You want to run the nice edge, yeah, you know,
- 15:21Speaker 3: and just air on the side of just air on
- 15:27Speaker 3: the side of not quite going over the edge, air
- 15:30Speaker 3: on the safe side, just just a little bit and
- 15:34Speaker 3: at the end of the day that's gonna make that'll
- 15:37Speaker 3: make the difference. You know, if you if you lose
- 15:40Speaker 3: a quarter of a second, that's fine. You know, maybe
- 15:44Speaker 3: gaining a second in a quarter, and yet if you
- 15:48Speaker 3: mess it up, you're gonna lose four or five seconds
- 15:50Speaker 3: isn't worth it. So it's it's finding that balancing line
- 15:54Speaker 3: and knowing what you're going after as you're going and
- 15:57Speaker 3: having your head right and rehearsing it in your head,
- 15:59Speaker 3: visual what you're about to do, and going in with
- 16:01Speaker 3: an attitude like I'm doing this and I'm going to
- 16:05Speaker 3: do this with focus. I'm gonna go with control, reckless
- 16:08Speaker 3: abandon I'm not gonna lose my mind. I'm gonna focus
- 16:11Speaker 3: like a laser beam instead of a shotgun. You'll see
- 16:16Speaker 3: a lot of people come into things and they get
- 16:17Speaker 3: so fired up and so excited and everything else. It's
- 16:20Speaker 3: like a shotgun blast going off and it goes, energy
- 16:22Speaker 3: goes everywhere. We want to control it to be like
- 16:26Speaker 3: almost like a laser beam, or to be like a
- 16:30Speaker 3: fifty cow going off, just strong, as hard and going
- 16:35Speaker 3: straight as fast as you can go. You know, you know,
- 16:39Speaker 3: all that energy is going into one focal point. That's
- 16:42Speaker 3: that's how you want to get your head before you
- 16:45Speaker 3: go do these events. Whether it's the yoke, it's the
- 16:47Speaker 3: dead lift, whatever you want. You don't want your energy
- 16:50Speaker 3: going all out of place. You want to go in
- 16:52Speaker 3: directly into what you're about to do, and that's it.
- 16:54Speaker 3: That's the only place your energy goes. Your thoughts, You
- 16:57Speaker 3: clear your mind, You don't think, you just that's another thing.
- 17:01Speaker 3: Don't think. Execute, Execute what you did in training, Execute
- 17:06Speaker 3: your practice, Execute the game changes that you have to
- 17:12Speaker 3: come up with. You have to be able to adjust
- 17:14Speaker 3: things on the fly. When you do sports like strong
- 17:16Speaker 3: man or pretty much any sport football guy. How many
- 17:21Speaker 3: offensive line and then come in with a blitz and
- 17:23Speaker 3: you got to adjust to that blitz? How many times
- 17:26Speaker 3: does that happen every freaking game? So it's being able
- 17:30Speaker 3: to just on the fly and still being able to
- 17:33Speaker 3: put all your force going in one direction. And how
- 17:35Speaker 3: you do that by not panicking and focusing on what
- 17:38Speaker 3: you're doing.
- 17:40Speaker 1: It's almost like a style of meditation. You know what
- 17:42Speaker 1: I'm saying, You're just you know, you put yourself in
- 17:46Speaker 1: that position, that mindset, almost that float, that flow state
- 17:49Speaker 1: that you know all athletes talk about but was strong man.
- 17:51Speaker 1: It's like a whole other aspect because you know what
- 17:55Speaker 1: I'm saying, it's you and only you.
- 17:57Speaker 3: Yeah, powers too. I mean you still about the squat bar.
- 18:02Speaker 3: It's on your back, you know, and you got to
- 18:07Speaker 3: focus on what you're doing, and you got to get
- 18:09Speaker 3: to where you gotta give me and then you explode
- 18:10Speaker 3: out of the hole. You know, you control it on
- 18:12Speaker 3: the way down and then explode out of the hole.
- 18:15Speaker 3: You don't want to waste a whole bunch of energy,
- 18:17Speaker 3: you know. You know a lot of guys who go
- 18:19Speaker 3: down like super fast. There's people that can get away
- 18:23Speaker 3: with that. I'm not one of them, but there are
- 18:26Speaker 3: people give that. I've always been one where I kind
- 18:29Speaker 3: of think about it like loading a spring. I go
- 18:31Speaker 3: down nice and control, nice and easy. Just keep tightening
- 18:34Speaker 3: it up, tighten it up, get in there, and then
- 18:36Speaker 3: as soon as I get where I got to be,
- 18:37Speaker 3: just explode out of the hole. You know. And yet
- 18:40Speaker 3: put the brakes on towards the top, so you don't
- 18:42Speaker 3: lose your balance at the top of the squad. So
- 18:45Speaker 3: it's it's just playing with controlled, reckless band that that
- 18:50Speaker 3: that makes a big, big difference.
- 18:54Speaker 1: Oh yeah, And you know, going through just that that
- 18:57Speaker 1: that whole time. You know what I'm saying, It's it's
- 19:00Speaker 1: letting you know like how much it actually takes to
- 19:03Speaker 1: push yourself to that level, you know what I'm saying.
- 19:05Speaker 1: And that's the thing too, is like one of the
- 19:08Speaker 1: aspects that you even see too, is like you know,
- 19:09Speaker 1: with the Strongest Man on Earth, Tom, you know, basically yeah,
- 19:13Speaker 1: I don't remember exactly what it was, but I remember
- 19:15Speaker 1: us kind of talking about we maybe blew a blood
- 19:17Speaker 1: vessel and in his in his bicep or his triceps
- 19:24Speaker 1: on because the whole thing.
- 19:26Speaker 2: Is black and blue exactly.
- 19:28Speaker 1: And with it being black and blue, it's like, you know,
- 19:31Speaker 1: do you keep pushing forward knowing that you have an
- 19:34Speaker 1: injury or it doesn't hurt, it's only changing color, what
- 19:38Speaker 1: you know, and you know, you know, it's one of
- 19:41Speaker 1: those things that you know, do you keep pushing forward
- 19:43Speaker 1: to keep going? Cause I know how many times you said,
- 19:45Speaker 1: you know, like when you're at World, when you're at
- 19:47Speaker 1: World's Strongest Man and you've competed and you've hurt yourself,
- 19:51Speaker 1: you need to still go out there.
- 19:52Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. It's it's one of those
- 19:54Speaker 2: things you know, it still cubmits you in there.
- 19:58Speaker 3: It's a super Bowl. You got to go out and
- 20:00Speaker 3: just let it fly. I mean, it's you never know
- 20:03Speaker 3: when you're gonna get back there again. You know. It's
- 20:05Speaker 3: the same thing with the TV show. When we did that,
- 20:09Speaker 3: I skipped Worlds that year. I skipped trying to qualify.
- 20:11Speaker 3: I skipped everything. I just focused on trying to have
- 20:14Speaker 3: my body prepared for that show and the events that
- 20:17Speaker 3: were coming up the next week. And you know, it
- 20:21Speaker 3: was worth it to me because that's always there. Now,
- 20:24Speaker 3: everybody will be able to watch that. You know, I'll
- 20:26Speaker 3: be ninety years old and people still be able to
- 20:28Speaker 3: watch it. You know, it's it's never going to change.
- 20:31Speaker 3: So it's kind of one of those things where if
- 20:34Speaker 3: you get a chance to go to Worlds, you go
- 20:35Speaker 3: to Worlds. I've seen guys like get a small injury
- 20:39Speaker 3: or oh this has kind of bothering me, and you
- 20:43Speaker 3: know they're like, well and they pull out. It's like,
- 20:48Speaker 3: but you've never even competed in the World's Strongest Man.
- 20:50Speaker 3: Yet you're qualified. You're here, you got on a plane.
- 20:53Speaker 3: It came. If you don't go do the contest, history
- 20:57Speaker 3: will not show you as the World's Strongest Man competitor.
- 21:00Speaker 3: You're a strong man competitor, but not a World Strongest
- 21:03Speaker 3: Man competitor. It's the same for you show the Strongest
- 21:05Speaker 3: Man on Earth, the Road Classic, the Arnold, it's the
- 21:08Speaker 3: same thing. You know, it's game day. You go and
- 21:11Speaker 3: do it period as best you can. You don't want
- 21:15Speaker 3: to get hurt any worse, you know, so get with
- 21:19Speaker 3: your doctor and figure that out. But if you're there
- 21:22Speaker 3: and you're you got to soret bicep that may be
- 21:25Speaker 3: partially torn and you can't hurt it any worse. History
- 21:30Speaker 3: is going to show you're a World's Strongest Man competitor. Yep.
- 21:33Speaker 3: It's always going to be there. It's never going anywhere.
- 21:36Speaker 3: Just like no matter what, for the rest of Evan
- 21:39Speaker 3: Singleton's life, no matter what, he will be the strongest
- 21:42Speaker 3: man on Earth in twenty twenty five. No one's ever
- 21:45Speaker 3: going to be able to take that away from him.
- 21:48Speaker 3: And that's the biggest thing about when you win something.
- 21:50Speaker 3: Just like Eddie Hall will always be the twenty seventeen
- 21:54Speaker 3: World Strongest Man, No Brian Shaw will always be a
- 22:00Speaker 3: four time World Strongest Man and the strongest man on Earth.
- 22:03Speaker 3: There's and they are a Classics strong man champion. There's
- 22:08Speaker 3: once you get it and nobody can ever take it away.
- 22:11Speaker 3: So if you have an opportunity to get there and
- 22:13Speaker 3: show that you were a world strongest man, only thirty
- 22:16Speaker 3: guys get to do that a year. I think it's
- 22:18Speaker 3: down to twenty five. Now, Yeah, that's it, that's it.
- 22:22Speaker 3: I'm a whole entire planet. Out of the eight billion
- 22:24Speaker 3: people that are walking around, twenty five get earn the
- 22:29Speaker 3: right to go in there and do that. You're always
- 22:33Speaker 3: if you have an opportunity to be part of history,
- 22:35Speaker 3: you always take that.
- 22:36Speaker 2: Always, always take this always. Yeah.
- 22:39Speaker 1: See, And like I said, I've heard you say numerous
- 22:42Speaker 1: times because you've had conversations with people and they let
- 22:45Speaker 1: it slip through the fingers and it's like, oh, you
- 22:48Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. It's like, you know, that's the
- 22:52Speaker 1: name of the game. And also too, that comes with
- 22:53Speaker 1: the experience that you have because you know, you know,
- 22:57Speaker 1: well that.
- 22:57Speaker 3: One And the craziest thing is that was and Magnets
- 23:00Speaker 3: for Magnus And yeah, and he was talking to Misha
- 23:05Speaker 3: Kukleev because he heard his he heard his arm pretty
- 23:09Speaker 3: bad going. Uh. I think we were in China, and
- 23:14Speaker 3: he heard his arm pretty bad and he was going
- 23:16Speaker 3: to withdraw because he made it to the finals. Yeah,
- 23:20Speaker 3: he made it through the qualifying heat, but his arm
- 23:22Speaker 3: is really messed up. And Magnus walks over to him.
- 23:25Speaker 3: He goes, you want that to say world strongest man finalist,
- 23:29Speaker 3: You'll be in the top ten in the world, no
- 23:31Speaker 3: matter what. If you don't do that, you won't be
- 23:33Speaker 3: in the top ten. Yep, and me should listened. And
- 23:35Speaker 3: he went in. He did the best he could. He
- 23:37Speaker 3: didn't get hurt any worse, but he went in and
- 23:38Speaker 3: did the best he could and made the finals that year,
- 23:41Speaker 3: which is pretty cool. It will always show him the
- 23:45Speaker 3: world's strongest man finalists for that year. That that's history.
- 23:49Speaker 3: It's never going to.
- 23:50Speaker 1: Change set in stone. You know, Yeah, you know, And
- 23:54Speaker 1: like I said, that's a lot of knowledge that that that.
- 23:58Speaker 1: You know, I said, it's a new generation. It's a
- 24:01Speaker 1: young young but a new batch of young kids that
- 24:05Speaker 1: are coming. I say, kids, you know what I'm saying.
- 24:06Speaker 1: I'm older than that, but Nick's older than me.
- 24:09Speaker 3: But I mean, can I buy you I didn't get
- 24:18Speaker 3: a pumpy from my game a pick a ball.
- 24:22Speaker 2: Well, for those who know you you'll watch that video.
- 24:28Speaker 3: That was pretty cool. Yeah, people like guys in his thirties.
- 24:31Speaker 3: I'm like, no, dude, not oh yeah yeah, over twenty
- 24:37Speaker 3: five years. So yeah, so there's that. That's it.
- 24:41Speaker 2: Yeah, but yeah that was good times, you know what
- 24:44Speaker 2: I'm saying.
- 24:44Speaker 1: That's one of those things who was like, even even
- 24:47Speaker 1: right now, we're still being part of a lot of
- 24:48Speaker 1: things going on, so that's always fun.
- 24:51Speaker 2: Uh was it with Richmond Virginia in November?
- 24:56Speaker 1: Is November Seminar, So that's something for everyone to keep
- 24:59Speaker 1: an eye out or I'm gonna faction. Yeah, I'm actually
- 25:03Speaker 1: in the Patreon too. I'm gonna create like a calendar
- 25:05Speaker 1: list of events that you'll be at, so at least
- 25:08Speaker 1: you know people have updates and stuff like that about like, hey,
- 25:11Speaker 1: you will be here with this is where you know
- 25:12Speaker 1: you can be seeing autographs, pictures, all that good stuff
- 25:15Speaker 1: because you know that you know, and then also to
- 25:18Speaker 1: you in September, Man, I was going through my calendar.
- 25:22Speaker 1: Unfortunately I'm going on vacation that week of Chad's show. Yeah,
- 25:27Speaker 1: so I'm not gonna be able to get I was
- 25:29Speaker 1: really looking forward to going too, because I was like
- 25:31Speaker 1: hanging out with Chad Tray and all them, especially for
- 25:33Speaker 1: that Shram show.
- 25:34Speaker 3: Yeah, that's gonna be pretty cool.
- 25:36Speaker 1: But you will, you will be there and that I
- 25:37Speaker 1: think that's the weekend of the twentieth of September.
- 25:41Speaker 3: Yep. It is, yeah, yep, So I'll be there. It's
- 25:46Speaker 3: gonna be pretty cool and stuff like that. That's gonna
- 25:50Speaker 3: be fun. And I'll be commentating, so I'll be the announcer,
- 25:53Speaker 3: so I'll be sitting there reading out the guys' names
- 25:57Speaker 3: and talking about him and encouraging him, letting you guys
- 25:59Speaker 3: know kind of the pluses and negatives to this event.
- 26:02Speaker 3: One of them is gonna be a boat pulls freaking cool.
- 26:07Speaker 3: That is gonna be cool.
- 26:10Speaker 2: List early.
- 26:12Speaker 3: That's all right, it'll be good. So uh yeah, it's uh,
- 26:19Speaker 3: it's it's gonna be It's gonna be a good the
- 26:20Speaker 3: next few months here. It really is. I'm pretty excited
- 26:23Speaker 3: about everything, and yet I, you know, still make time
- 26:29Speaker 3: to do the little things that are important, to make
- 26:31Speaker 3: time for the people that are important in your life.
- 26:34Speaker 3: You know, Ben's one of my best friends. And not
- 26:38Speaker 3: only do we do this, we still call them bouncings
- 26:41Speaker 3: off each other and stuff like that.
- 26:43Speaker 2: And exactly.
- 26:44Speaker 3: And I still have my quiet time where I still
- 26:46Speaker 3: try to meditate and get my head set right and
- 26:49Speaker 3: do the things necessary to keep moving forwards and to
- 26:53Speaker 3: keep being better and keep improving myself. And that's things
- 26:58Speaker 3: I want to inspire people to do. All the way around.
- 27:00Speaker 3: I just want people to be the best you you
- 27:02Speaker 3: can be. Don't be the best me, be the best you,
- 27:07Speaker 3: because being the best me is I mean, there's only
- 27:11Speaker 3: one me, there's only one you. Be the best to you,
- 27:15Speaker 3: and you're gonna have something that you're better than me at,
- 27:19Speaker 3: and that's that's great. Be the best you. That's the
- 27:22Speaker 3: whole goal in life is just be the best you
- 27:25Speaker 3: can absolutely be and take care of your loved ones
- 27:28Speaker 3: and take care of the people that are important to you,
- 27:31Speaker 3: and you know, be kind to people. You know, there's
- 27:35Speaker 3: so much in this world that is just brutal and mean,
- 27:39Speaker 3: and you know, be the good person about it. You know,
- 27:44Speaker 3: don't let people hurt you or your loved ones, but
- 27:48Speaker 3: always be the don't get walked over, but be the
- 27:52Speaker 3: higher road. Take the higher road, you know, and be
- 27:56Speaker 3: the best to you. Success. Success is the best form
- 28:01Speaker 3: of revenge you can ever have. On anybody is to
- 28:05Speaker 3: enjoy your life and live your life to the fullest,
- 28:09Speaker 3: and that success will say all it needs to say.
- 28:13Speaker 3: You don't have to do anything to get to get
- 28:15Speaker 3: even with anyone or anything else. Just live your life
- 28:18Speaker 3: and be successful and that'll carry everything through everywhere that
- 28:22Speaker 3: you that'll say far more than your words could ever say.
- 28:27Speaker 3: Your actions will always your actions at the end of
- 28:31Speaker 3: the day, will always speak more than your words and
- 28:33Speaker 3: things that you say, you know, and that's so, you know,
- 28:39Speaker 3: be a person of action. You know, have good.
- 28:43Speaker 2: Actions, follow through what you say, fall through.
- 28:47Speaker 3: With what you follow through with what you say, and
- 28:49Speaker 3: be a man of your word. But it's the actions
- 28:51Speaker 3: that actually speak louder than the words do.
- 28:55Speaker 2: So yeah, so we got that, oh yeah, oh yeah,
- 29:00Speaker 2: you know.
- 29:01Speaker 1: And even with that too, it's like, you know, say,
- 29:04Speaker 1: you've had so many things going on in life right now.
- 29:06Speaker 2: You're getting pulled in every direction, and yet you still wonderful. Yeah,
- 29:11Speaker 2: it's you know.
- 29:12Speaker 1: And that's the thing too, is like you're still maintaining
- 29:14Speaker 1: your nutrition, you're still maintaining your your training, and like
- 29:19Speaker 1: I said, it's a cornerstone of who you are. And
- 29:22Speaker 1: that's the thing too, is a lot of people don't
- 29:23Speaker 1: understand what that cornerstone is in their life. You know
- 29:26Speaker 1: what I'm saying, something that they can lean on themselves,
- 29:28Speaker 1: that is there for them. You know, everyone has different hobbies,
- 29:31Speaker 1: everyone has different nations, but you know what I'm saying,
- 29:33Speaker 1: it's like just understanding just the core foundation of believing
- 29:36Speaker 1: yourself and doing what you want with your life.
- 29:39Speaker 3: M Yeah, And you know if if you want more
- 29:43Speaker 3: from your life, it's not someone else's fault, but you're
- 29:46Speaker 3: not doing something. If your life is bad, change it.
- 29:53Speaker 3: It's not it's not gonna be something that's instant and overnight.
- 29:58Speaker 3: It's not just going to happen like that it can.
- 30:02Speaker 3: But those people are the one in the one in
- 30:04Speaker 3: like two hundred million. You know, it's very rare. But
- 30:09Speaker 3: the slow, methodical changes that lead you to a better
- 30:11Speaker 3: place over time, those those anyone can do, and those
- 30:16Speaker 3: are could be the ones that last and get you
- 30:19Speaker 3: to where you need to be. So if your life's
- 30:22Speaker 3: not going well, sit down and think of how you
- 30:27Speaker 3: can make it better. If you're you don't have a
- 30:29Speaker 3: good job and you're living in a bad place, Okay, cool,
- 30:34Speaker 3: what are you willing to sacrifice? Two do better. Are
- 30:40Speaker 3: you willing to sacrifice free time so that you can
- 30:44Speaker 3: go to a job, work enough to keep a roof
- 30:46Speaker 3: over your head, and then go study at like a trade.
- 30:51Speaker 3: Go learn how to weld. You don't have anybody can
- 30:57Speaker 3: weld men women anyone can. Well, it's a very needed
- 31:03Speaker 3: skill right now, you know, go learn how to welk.
- 31:06Speaker 3: Go learn how to be a plumber. The trades. Now
- 31:12Speaker 3: you can go, you know, be an apprentice. There's things
- 31:16Speaker 3: that you can do, and it's going to require some sacrifice.
- 31:20Speaker 3: Me getting big and strong didn't happen overnight. I didn't
- 31:24Speaker 3: even get like a lot of the claim or anything
- 31:26Speaker 3: else for it until I was about thirty five years
- 31:29Speaker 3: into it. Let that sink in. I mean, I'd already
- 31:34Speaker 3: done a whole bunch of things. I've already done World
- 31:35Speaker 3: Strongest Man, and I've already like several times at that point,
- 31:39Speaker 3: I'd already won Master's, World Strongest Man, World power Lessing Champion.
- 31:43Speaker 3: But all the things finally started paying off at like
- 31:48Speaker 3: thirty five years in. But it was what I love
- 31:51Speaker 3: to do, and it was good habits and good things.
- 31:55Speaker 3: And you know what, now I get to do what
- 32:00Speaker 3: I love every single day. You can do that too.
- 32:03Speaker 3: Anyone else can do that. Anybody can do that, and
- 32:06Speaker 3: exactly find something you like to do, find something you
- 32:10Speaker 3: love to do, and try to figure out a way
- 32:11Speaker 3: to make a living at it. And if you're in
- 32:14Speaker 3: a bad situation, figure out a good way out of it.
- 32:18Speaker 3: What are you willing to sacrifice? Because the easy road
- 32:22Speaker 3: is doing something you know, the easy road and in
- 32:26Speaker 3: the end really isn't going to be that rewarding. To
- 32:29Speaker 3: be quite honest with you, it's it's not. I mean,
- 32:32Speaker 3: you get people out there that they'll find quick get
- 32:35Speaker 3: rich quick, get rich quick schemes and stuff like that,
- 32:40Speaker 3: that somebody messes somebody over, then there's all the bad
- 32:44Speaker 3: karma from that. There's all kinds of things. But if
- 32:48Speaker 3: you go and work one job and then go learn
- 32:51Speaker 3: another one, that's going to pay you a lot more
- 32:53Speaker 3: money when you get out of it. You spend five
- 32:57Speaker 3: years of your life through that, just five you're the
- 33:00Speaker 3: whole entire rest of your life. The other sixty years
- 33:04Speaker 3: of your life will be a thousand times better, and that,
- 33:09Speaker 3: at the end of the day is what matters. You
- 33:12Speaker 3: can better take care of your loved ones, You can
- 33:15Speaker 3: better take care of your wife, your kids, you know,
- 33:18Speaker 3: just everybody, and take better care of yourself and then
- 33:23Speaker 3: you'll have a much better self image of yourself and
- 33:26Speaker 3: you'll have earned it. Nobody gave it to you. You
- 33:30Speaker 3: got it. And there's nothing to stop anybody from doing
- 33:33Speaker 3: these things. Nothing like literally nothing. It's just the sacrifice
- 33:40Speaker 3: of doing one job and then spending a little bit
- 33:42Speaker 3: of your time doing that. So okay, So maybe you
- 33:44Speaker 3: don't go out with your friends that much for five years.
- 33:47Speaker 3: If they're still your friends, they're still going to be
- 33:49Speaker 3: your friends, yep, even after that, because that's what friends are.
- 33:54Speaker 3: If you have to see them all the time or
- 33:56Speaker 3: they won't talk to you, that's not a friend. That's
- 33:59Speaker 3: an acquaintance, yep. That is relying on you for how
- 34:03Speaker 3: they fit. Friend friends you cannot a friend. I got
- 34:08Speaker 3: friends Orsam Kenny Ajo. I don't talk to him nearly
- 34:11Speaker 3: as much as I should and Anthony back. These guys
- 34:14Speaker 3: I've known thirty forty years, and I can call them
- 34:19Speaker 3: on the phone at any given time and it's like
- 34:21Speaker 3: I just talked to them yesterday, the same feeling, the
- 34:25Speaker 3: same everything. When I talk to those guys are friends.
- 34:29Speaker 3: If I need them, they call they'll be there same.
- 34:33Speaker 3: If they need me, alls they have to do is
- 34:34Speaker 3: call I'll drop what I'm doing go help them. Ben
- 34:37Speaker 3: can call me and say hey, I need this. I'm
- 34:39Speaker 3: going to be there in like two seconds, exactly right.
- 34:45Speaker 3: But if I need to go do something to be
- 34:47Speaker 3: successful at something and I'm too busy to talk to
- 34:50Speaker 3: them for a while, they don't get upset. They don't
- 34:52Speaker 3: turn their back on me because all of a sudden,
- 34:54Speaker 3: I'm busy trying to better myself and it's not the
- 34:56Speaker 3: direction they're going in. They don't do that.
- 34:59Speaker 2: Yep.
- 35:00Speaker 3: That's what a friend is, you know.
- 35:02Speaker 2: It's that's the truth.
- 35:05Speaker 3: It's good stuff, and it is good stuff. Sacrificing your
- 35:08Speaker 3: time to better yourself from a bad situation, and we'll
- 35:14Speaker 3: make all the difference in your life. And if you're
- 35:17Speaker 3: your single parent, you're going through that. I mean. I
- 35:21Speaker 3: was a single parent with my son Dylan for six
- 35:24Speaker 3: years and I started working in the beer business. I
- 35:28Speaker 3: went from merchandiser to salesman to company trainer to supervisor
- 35:36Speaker 3: within a very short time, like three years. And then
- 35:39Speaker 3: I was a supervisor for one company for ten years
- 35:43Speaker 3: and at the other one for four, so it's and
- 35:49Speaker 3: I went out and worked my tail off and I
- 35:51Speaker 3: did that, and I sacrificed, and I still trained, I
- 35:53Speaker 3: still got things i'd done I needed to. I still
- 35:55Speaker 3: spend time with Dyan, but I sacrificed hanging out with
- 35:59Speaker 3: a lot of my friends and a lot of other people,
- 36:02Speaker 3: and it paid off. So it's something that everyone can do.
- 36:09Speaker 3: You just have to be determined enough to do it,
- 36:11Speaker 3: and you have to want to do it bad enough
- 36:13Speaker 3: that that's the thing. Look at the person in the mirror,
- 36:17Speaker 3: because that person in the mirror is the only person
- 36:22Speaker 3: that can save you. That person in the mirror can
- 36:27Speaker 3: either be the cause of all your problems or the
- 36:30Speaker 3: savior of all your problems. It's that simple. You don't
- 36:34Speaker 3: have to rely on anyone else to do that. It's
- 36:40Speaker 3: just deciding what you want to be and doing doing
- 36:46Speaker 3: that at the end of the day, because in this
- 36:49Speaker 3: day and age, everybody has the ability to do anything.
- 36:53Speaker 3: You just gotta want to go do it, that's all.
- 36:57Speaker 3: And if you start a little behind somebody else, who cares.
- 37:00Speaker 3: Who cares where you're starting? You know, My first bench
- 37:03Speaker 3: press was ninety five pounds. My best bench press ever
- 37:06Speaker 3: was six thirty five. Didn't matter where I started, matter
- 37:09Speaker 3: where I got to. My best best person of competition
- 37:13Speaker 3: was five sixty seven. So doesn't matter where you started,
- 37:18Speaker 3: it matters where you go. It doesn't matter if it
- 37:21Speaker 3: takes you twenty years to get there, because once you
- 37:23Speaker 3: get there, you get to stay there. So you don't
- 37:26Speaker 3: want to be there anymore till you decide you want
- 37:28Speaker 3: to do something else, and then it's up to you.
- 37:31Speaker 3: You get to pick and choose what you want to do.
- 37:35Speaker 3: And that's pretty cool, and that's the freedom that it brings.
- 37:40Speaker 3: And that's the big thing, that's having the freedom to
- 37:42Speaker 3: enjoy your life. I'm not interested in being a millionaire,
- 37:47Speaker 3: and if I get to be a millionaire, great. I'm
- 37:52Speaker 3: interested in being able to do what I want to
- 37:55Speaker 3: do in life and go to the places I want
- 37:56Speaker 3: to go and hang out with the people I want
- 37:58Speaker 3: to hang out with, like that guy, and enjoy life.
- 38:05Speaker 3: You know, if my kids are healthy, and they are,
- 38:08Speaker 3: my kids are well educated, and they are, they're both
- 38:11Speaker 3: being very sick. They're both enjoying their lives and being successful.
- 38:15Speaker 3: You know, when you have kids, you raise you know,
- 38:19Speaker 3: you raise them. You should raise better people than.
- 38:22Speaker 2: You were, and you have because your kids are great,
- 38:27Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying.
- 38:29Speaker 3: And Cali helped a lot with that too, so and
- 38:32Speaker 3: so do Rain. So I mean it's but it starts
- 38:38Speaker 3: with you, and you're the role model for them. And
- 38:44Speaker 3: do you want them to be that way or do
- 38:46Speaker 3: you want them to be better than you? If you
- 38:48Speaker 3: want them to be better with you, and you should,
- 38:52Speaker 3: then you sacrifice for them and you teach them. Doesn't
- 38:57Speaker 3: mean you cater to every whim they need. They cry,
- 39:00Speaker 3: oh they don't have this stereo. Well guess what exactly
- 39:06Speaker 3: the difference between enabling and teaching and discipline. So, I mean,
- 39:13Speaker 3: you don't want to be such a disciplinarian that, you know,
- 39:20Speaker 3: you make them feel bad about themselves. But they have
- 39:22Speaker 3: they have to have steady and gentle discipline. They have
- 39:26Speaker 3: to have boundaries. Yeah, and you set those boundaries and
- 39:29Speaker 3: they go past the boundaries. They learn repercussions. That's how
- 39:32Speaker 3: when they get become adults and they disobey the law,
- 39:36Speaker 3: that's how they don't get arrested.
- 39:39Speaker 1: Yes, functional kids of society, you know what I'm saying.
- 39:44Speaker 3: You know, just ask Tyreek Hill here. Let me drive
- 39:52Speaker 3: one hundred miles an hour through a construction zone next
- 39:54Speaker 3: to the stadium and then get pulled over and have
- 39:57Speaker 3: an attitude problem with the police.
- 39:59Speaker 2: Yeah, like wrong, that's his parents' fault.
- 40:04Speaker 3: If he had, if his father was actually a good
- 40:08Speaker 3: father to him, he would know he was out of line. Yep,
- 40:12Speaker 3: he would know that's unacceptable. And his mother the same way.
- 40:16Speaker 3: That's bad parenting. That just the kid was a star
- 40:19Speaker 3: and they didn't keep him grounded. I can tell you
- 40:23Speaker 3: whose parents. I can tell you I know some very
- 40:25Speaker 3: good parents whose kids don't do that. Frank Mayor, Frankie,
- 40:29Speaker 3: Jenny Mayor, Bella's outstanding. Cage is outstanding, Ronan's outstanding. They're
- 40:36Speaker 3: great kids, they really are, and that's a credit to them,
- 40:40Speaker 3: you know. So it's you know, it's it's it's the
- 40:44Speaker 3: boundaries that you set from. It's the love that you
- 40:46Speaker 3: give him.
- 40:47Speaker 2: Yep.
- 40:48Speaker 3: And as they grow up, they'll make the right decisions.
- 40:52Speaker 3: They might make some steaks and that's the thing. You like, Okay,
- 40:56Speaker 3: well we did this that way. That didn't work, And
- 40:58Speaker 3: this is why I tell you, so let's let's not
- 41:02Speaker 3: do that anymore.
- 41:02Speaker 2: Okay, that's it.
- 41:04Speaker 3: That's your mulligan. But love and you know, and They're
- 41:12Speaker 3: not a burden. They're the best thing you can ever do,
- 41:15Speaker 3: exactly because you know, their success is your success.
- 41:19Speaker 1: That's it, big time, big time. You know, I got
- 41:24Speaker 1: I have four kids, and you know, Nick's met all
- 41:26Speaker 1: my kids. Uh, and you know, like my oldest is
- 41:30Speaker 1: living his life, doing his thing, and you know it's uh,
- 41:34Speaker 1: you know, he calls me at least twice a month
- 41:37Speaker 1: just to check on, check in on me, you know what.
- 41:39Speaker 2: He's making sure that I'm okay.
- 41:40Speaker 1: And I'm like, no, he's doing good himself, you know
- 41:42Speaker 1: what I'm saying. And you know, all my kids, almost
- 41:45Speaker 1: all my kids are in college and they're you know,
- 41:48Speaker 1: they're all just living their lives doing everything. My youngest
- 41:50Speaker 1: ones getting ready to start football this year, so his
- 41:52Speaker 1: first game is going to be this Friday, so we're
- 41:55Speaker 1: gonna be I'm gonna be out there Friday watching his
- 41:57Speaker 1: first game first for his JV team. So you know
- 42:02Speaker 1: exactly exactly, you know, and it's gonna be great too
- 42:05Speaker 1: because just like you said, it's all you know, like
- 42:08Speaker 1: I knew how I was growing up, and now that
- 42:10Speaker 1: all my kids have grown, it's like they are ten
- 42:14Speaker 1: times better people than I ever was. And that's exactly
- 42:16Speaker 1: just like you said, that's exactly what you want.
- 42:19Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying.
- 42:21Speaker 2: Yeah, that's it.
- 42:23Speaker 3: I know. I couldn't be more proud of mine. You know,
- 42:27Speaker 3: does often in this thing twenty forty about the house.
- 42:30Speaker 3: He's engaged to be married. That's it.
- 42:32Speaker 1: And for those who were in the Las Vegas area,
- 42:35Speaker 1: Dylan did he start, didn't really get his real estate
- 42:38Speaker 1: business going?
- 42:39Speaker 3: Yeah, real estate business, yep, that's it.
- 42:42Speaker 1: We need to set have him send us or send
- 42:44Speaker 1: me his information and I'll put it in the show notes.
- 42:46Speaker 1: For for those who were living and wanting to buy
- 42:49Speaker 1: in Vegas.
- 42:50Speaker 3: Yes by or saw in Vegas exactly. And then just
- 42:55Speaker 3: just started women's lacrosse h d one you wont at
- 43:02Speaker 3: in Clarksville, Tennessee. She had her first week of practice
- 43:06Speaker 3: and stuff like that and classes and everything else. I
- 43:10Speaker 3: talked to her today and she's so excited. It was
- 43:12Speaker 3: so cute, it really was. And she's just like, I'm sorry,
- 43:16Speaker 3: I haven't been calling you that much. Like go, honey house.
- 43:19Speaker 3: I played college football, Honey, I understand how this you.
- 43:21Speaker 3: I know what's going on. You know, I'm gonna call you.
- 43:26Speaker 3: You call me and we'll just we'll get a couple
- 43:30Speaker 3: of minutes here and there and we'll talk. I understand
- 43:32Speaker 3: how as you are, plus all your friends and all
- 43:34Speaker 3: the things that you're doing.
- 43:35Speaker 2: So I get it.
- 43:36Speaker 3: It's okay. I know you love me, and you know
- 43:40Speaker 3: we're not Yeah, we're not going anywhere. He reach out
- 43:45Speaker 3: and you just call me back when you came or
- 43:47Speaker 3: I'll call you back when I can.
- 43:49Speaker 2: That's it.
- 43:49Speaker 3: So if I'm traveling or doing something, I mean, could
- 43:54Speaker 3: be more part of them. I really couldn't.
- 43:55Speaker 2: Oh yeah, very well.
- 43:57Speaker 1: You know, let's let's shift gears a little bit. You
- 44:00Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, before we before I start making
- 44:02Speaker 1: you get you start crying. You say, you do get emotional.
- 44:06Speaker 1: I know, but exactly exactly. But let's switch a little
- 44:11Speaker 1: bit into you know, Nick eats uh basically the vertical
- 44:17Speaker 1: diet style, just a slight tweak. And you know a
- 44:20Speaker 1: lot of people always ask and it'll always be a
- 44:23Speaker 1: question is like that, Like they're like, what do you
- 44:24Speaker 1: eat to fuel you? You know what I'm saying, and
- 44:26Speaker 1: just get give them the basic rundown because you know
- 44:30Speaker 1: you you live a very simple life with a very
- 44:33Speaker 1: simple bat Because when I stay with you, you know
- 44:35Speaker 1: what I'm saying. We we we don't eat exactly the same,
- 44:37Speaker 1: but I don't mind eating the way you do.
- 44:41Speaker 3: Yeah, it's it's it's pretty simple. I I I've cut
- 44:44Speaker 3: from three pounds of red meat today to two pounds
- 44:47Speaker 3: of red meat. And then I'll throw another optional protein
- 44:52Speaker 3: in there, whether it's pound of chicken or a pound
- 44:55Speaker 3: of salmon, or you know, tuna fish or whatever, like
- 44:58Speaker 3: a couple of cans of tuna fish, or some cottage cheese,
- 45:02Speaker 3: non fact cotta cheese, that type of stuff. And then
- 45:04Speaker 3: it's all white rice for my carbohydrates. Sometimes there's some
- 45:08Speaker 3: potatoes thrown in there because you can have those too,
- 45:10Speaker 3: but it's mostly white rice. Chicken stock. Put that in
- 45:15Speaker 3: there to help with digestion and stuff like that. And
- 45:18Speaker 3: then a few of the vegetables thrown in, like bell
- 45:21Speaker 3: peppers and carrots and a little bit of spinach, stuff
- 45:23Speaker 3: like that. Good eggs probably eight eggs a day, which
- 45:33Speaker 3: isn't too much. It's not a lot, but it's not
- 45:35Speaker 3: a little. Yeah, probably about eight eggs a day, which
- 45:39Speaker 3: the yolks have a lot of benefits to you. They
- 45:43Speaker 3: help a lot of stuff in your brain because your
- 45:44Speaker 3: brain's mostly cholesterol.
- 45:46Speaker 2: So don't you hit that. Cholesterol is not bad, No,
- 45:51Speaker 2: it is not bad.
- 45:52Speaker 3: It also drives all your hormones in your body. So
- 45:55Speaker 3: you have cholesterol that's too low, those won't work right. Yes,
- 46:05Speaker 3: so you want to be eating some you don't want
- 46:08Speaker 3: four hundred, but you you you don't want to avoid
- 46:13Speaker 3: it like the plague. You just don't want to, you know,
- 46:17Speaker 3: overdo it, that's all, you know. A little moderation goes
- 46:20Speaker 3: a long way, so and then a busy, active lifestyle
- 46:23Speaker 3: stuff like that keeps that number down naturally anyway. Yeah,
- 46:27Speaker 3: so I'll have a little bit of sweet tune there,
- 46:31Speaker 3: but not very often. You know. We'll go when Bank
- 46:34Speaker 3: comes town, we'll go film some videos and that's when
- 46:38Speaker 3: I'll get the majority of like dessert.
- 46:40Speaker 2: E don't the hot spots, you know what I'm saying.
- 46:45Speaker 2: The Vegas life.
- 46:46Speaker 3: Yeah, kind of like the the Cheesell tacos stuff like
- 46:52Speaker 3: that was a made exactly. Would that be something I
- 46:56Speaker 3: eat all the time? No, but every once while. Men,
- 47:00Speaker 3: they're delicious. It's a nice cheat thing to maybe eat
- 47:04Speaker 3: like once a month or something. But that's not something
- 47:06Speaker 3: I'm gonna go there and eat all the time. Exactly,
- 47:09Speaker 3: but you know, picking decent restaurants, go get a decent
- 47:13Speaker 3: meal in like going to hibachi girls and stuff like
- 47:16Speaker 3: that where they make the rice and they mix eggs
- 47:19Speaker 3: in with the rice and stuff, and you know, steak
- 47:22Speaker 3: and chicken and if you like the shrimp and stuff,
- 47:25Speaker 3: throw that into you know, stuff like eating good solid food.
- 47:28Speaker 3: I try to eat as little processed food as possible.
- 47:31Speaker 3: I don't eat a lot of chips. I don't eat
- 47:34Speaker 3: a lot of other stuff. I really don't. I stick
- 47:38Speaker 3: to a very basic diet. I mean, I spice it
- 47:42Speaker 3: up with pepper, you know, with you know, like cayenne pepper,
- 47:46Speaker 3: stuff like that, and seasoning like flavors, stuff like that.
- 47:52Speaker 3: But you know, it's not bland food. It's just and
- 47:56Speaker 3: I'll make it a little different every day. Like one day,
- 47:59Speaker 3: I'll use taco, next day I'll use as you sauce.
- 48:02Speaker 3: The next day I'll throw like non fat cats cheese
- 48:04Speaker 3: and with it to make it creamy tasting stuff like that.
- 48:08Speaker 3: There's so many different variations that you can do, and
- 48:10Speaker 3: yet you still eat food that's like really solidly good
- 48:14Speaker 3: for you. It's not processed. Body assimulates it way way
- 48:19Speaker 3: better and you feel better, you know, way better.
- 48:23Speaker 1: And what he's talking about people is whole food.
- 48:27Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.
- 48:28Speaker 1: People have a misconception of what whole food means. There's
- 48:30Speaker 1: like I got to shop at whole foods to store.
- 48:32Speaker 1: There's like no whole foods are single ingreedy items.
- 48:36Speaker 2: And with those single and greedy.
- 48:37Speaker 1: Items, we're talking about beef, chicken rice, you know what
- 48:41Speaker 1: I'm saying. You know, like if it has a laundry
- 48:44Speaker 1: list of ingredients to make it, then unfortunately that's a
- 48:48Speaker 1: whole food. And then you know, you can also combine
- 48:50Speaker 1: whole together. Yeah, exactly, you know, like you know, and
- 48:55Speaker 1: it you know, there there's a lot of work. There's
- 48:58Speaker 1: a lot of paperwork on you know, like you know,
- 49:00Speaker 1: like when we're talking about is the closest thing that
- 49:03Speaker 1: how Nick eats is the stanand for dein style of
- 49:06Speaker 1: the vertical dick. And yeah, and one of the things too,
- 49:09Speaker 1: I find by eating in that vertical dick. It's definitely
- 49:12Speaker 1: helped me with a lot of issues that I've always
- 49:14Speaker 1: had because a lot of people have bloating, they don't
- 49:16Speaker 1: feel good. You know what I'm saying, It's all due
- 49:19Speaker 1: to like, yes, you know what I'm saying, And it's
- 49:21Speaker 1: all to do to poor digestion because you're jamming yourself
- 49:25Speaker 1: full of food that doesn't burn well.
- 49:28Speaker 3: Yeah exactly. And I mean there's things that you do
- 49:32Speaker 3: to gain weight when you want to gain weight, there's
- 49:33Speaker 3: things that you do to lose weight, like losing weights.
- 49:37Speaker 3: It's pretty simple. Just eat a little bit less and
- 49:39Speaker 3: keep doing all the things that you're doing. Now you're
- 49:41Speaker 3: gonna lose weight. It's not rocket science. Just cut cut down,
- 49:46Speaker 3: Like start by cutting down one hundred colors a day,
- 49:48Speaker 3: than two hundred dollars a day, then maybe three, and
- 49:51Speaker 3: by the time you get to three and four one
- 49:53Speaker 3: hundred calories a day that you've cut down, you should
- 49:55Speaker 3: be dropping significance amounts of weight. And then you'll hit it.
- 49:59Speaker 3: Then you'll hit a play and then you ride the
- 50:02Speaker 3: plateau out.
- 50:04Speaker 2: That's it, And yeah, go ahead, Oh no, I'll say.
- 50:08Speaker 1: It's like when we had left The Strongest Man on Earth,
- 50:11Speaker 1: I had told you that I was going to drop
- 50:12Speaker 1: down myself because I'm on my weight loss journey, you know,
- 50:16Speaker 1: due to health issues, I really need to come down
- 50:18Speaker 1: in the weight and I usually love to stay in
- 50:21Speaker 1: the three hundred pounds range. And when I mean, say
- 50:24Speaker 1: three hundred plus.
- 50:25Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.
- 50:26Speaker 1: I'm not the biggest guy, but I'm a pretty tall guy.
- 50:30Speaker 1: But like, yeah, and when I had talked to Nick
- 50:34Speaker 1: last Yeah, when I had talked to Nick, I was
- 50:37Speaker 1: down to three seventeen at world. So this is about
- 50:39Speaker 1: two almost two weeks now. I was down three seventeen
- 50:45Speaker 1: when I saw you. Now when I waived myself yesterday
- 50:48Speaker 1: three eleven, so I was telling you I was wanting
- 50:50Speaker 1: to get down about ten more pounds, you know what
- 50:53Speaker 1: I'm saying. So like it's slowly getting there, but just
- 50:55Speaker 1: like you said, it's bringing down the calories, continuing what
- 50:58Speaker 1: you do, you know what I'm saying. And also too,
- 51:01Speaker 1: it's like it doesn't have to happen overnight, even though
- 51:03Speaker 1: we all want it to.
- 51:05Speaker 3: Yeah, and then there's reasonable expectations when it comes to
- 51:08Speaker 3: that as well. At first you're gonna lose weight pretty quick.
- 51:11Speaker 3: It's going to come off pretty quick, and then you
- 51:12Speaker 3: can like slam right into a wall. The thing is
- 51:15Speaker 3: is when you slam it into that wall, four pounds
- 51:20Speaker 3: a month is plenty, because twelve months ago by that's
- 51:25Speaker 3: forty eight pounds that's a lot yep. And if it
- 51:28Speaker 3: took you a long time to get that big, losing
- 51:31Speaker 3: weight at a at a slower rate is a good thing.
- 51:36Speaker 3: Your body will adapt to it, Your skin and dive
- 51:38Speaker 3: to it. Things adapt to it a little bit better,
- 51:40Speaker 3: and it ends up being a lot less taxing on
- 51:43Speaker 3: your body. Fast, super fast weight loss over short periods
- 51:47Speaker 3: of time cause a lot of problems too. You know internally,
- 51:53Speaker 3: it'll it can cause heart problems. There's a lot of
- 51:56Speaker 3: stuff it can do if you're pushing that hard and
- 51:58Speaker 3: losing weight that fast, because it's going to be traumatic
- 52:00Speaker 3: experience for your body. But slow and methodical, you know,
- 52:04Speaker 3: three to four pounds a month, once you've had an
- 52:07Speaker 3: initial good thirty forty pounds weight loss, you know, even
- 52:10Speaker 3: two pounds a month, you're gonna be twenty four pounds lighter.
- 52:13Speaker 3: You do that three years in a row, you could
- 52:16Speaker 3: be seventy two pounds lighter. That's a whole different person
- 52:19Speaker 3: right there. Yes, it's the slow and methodical stuff. It's
- 52:22Speaker 3: building things over time. When we get in a rush
- 52:25Speaker 3: and we try to build too fast or shrink too fast,
- 52:29Speaker 3: you're always gonna there's always gonna be consequences to pay,
- 52:32Speaker 3: and there's always problems that come with that. So but
- 52:36Speaker 3: if you do it slowly, methodically, you have almost no problems.
- 52:40Speaker 3: It's just nice and easy, and you pay attention to
- 52:42Speaker 3: things and you live discipline, and you do those same
- 52:45Speaker 3: things every day with the same enthusiasm is you did
- 52:49Speaker 3: the first day, you did it, and as long as
- 52:52Speaker 3: you keep doing that, you're gonna be successful. It's but
- 52:55Speaker 3: when you go, oh, doing this again, going in with
- 52:58Speaker 3: a good attitude, yeah, just get up and have a
- 53:01Speaker 3: good attitude when you get after it. You don't have
- 53:03Speaker 3: to be bouncing off the walls. Yay, no, No. A
- 53:08Speaker 3: good attitude is just you come in with a positive
- 53:10Speaker 3: mindset and you're like, okay, here's what I'm doing to do,
- 53:15Speaker 3: and just go about yourself. It's just not it's just
- 53:18Speaker 3: not being you know, down on the dumps and upset
- 53:23Speaker 3: about it all the time. So that's all. You don't
- 53:26Speaker 3: have to be like yay, yeah, no the highs and
- 53:30Speaker 3: low you know this is not good.
- 53:33Speaker 2: Yeah, that is not.
- 53:37Speaker 3: Much time is what's good. So just smooth, smooth as
- 53:42Speaker 3: fast there it is, smooth out of control, and then
- 53:46Speaker 3: you build a little bit of the time it's the
- 53:47Speaker 3: same with same with anything and strength gains. If you
- 53:50Speaker 3: put one hundred pounds on your total IMpower thing a year,
- 53:54Speaker 3: one hundred pounds on your total ear so say your
- 53:56Speaker 3: total in nine hundred pounds. If you put one hundred
- 53:59Speaker 3: pounds on your toe year for ten years, that's a
- 54:03Speaker 3: thousand pounds. That's a lot. That gets you up to
- 54:07Speaker 3: a nineteen hundred pound total. That's world class. That's that's
- 54:12Speaker 3: world class. You do that two or three more years,
- 54:15Speaker 3: you're elite, world class, and you're probably world champion at
- 54:18Speaker 3: that point.
- 54:19Speaker 2: That's it. Yeah, that's it.
- 54:22Speaker 3: And it's just slow and methodical over time, doing the
- 54:26Speaker 3: same things and being disciplined about it, and being disciplined
- 54:29Speaker 3: about your eating, being disciplined about what you put in
- 54:32Speaker 3: your body, you know, and how you spend your time
- 54:37Speaker 3: and stuff like that. And sacrificing things doesn't mean it's
- 54:41Speaker 3: not a good thing because the sacrifice leads to I mean,
- 54:45Speaker 3: I've got to travel the whole entire planet because of this.
- 54:48Speaker 3: That's not a sacrifice to me. I still got to
- 54:51Speaker 3: spend a lot of time with my kids. I still
- 54:53Speaker 3: got to do a lot of things. That's not sacrificing.
- 54:58Speaker 3: You know, I just decided it was more important to
- 55:03Speaker 3: be doing the things I need to do to get
- 55:05Speaker 3: me to be able to travel the world and compete
- 55:08Speaker 3: and strong man and do those things than it was
- 55:10Speaker 3: to be out in a bar drinking, or be out
- 55:11Speaker 3: in a club, be in a VIP area, yeah, and
- 55:16Speaker 3: dropping watching fools drop, you know, twenty thirty forty thousand
- 55:21Speaker 3: dollars on bottle service and a VIP table. Yeah. When
- 55:26Speaker 3: that's that's stuff you could put it into a house
- 55:29Speaker 3: or just your life to make your life easier, your
- 55:34Speaker 3: kid's life easier, stuff like that. Instead of looking like
- 55:36Speaker 3: a big shot, you're going to be a big shot anyway.
- 55:40Speaker 3: That's the thing. Don't worry about it. If you're doing
- 55:45Speaker 3: what you're supposed to do, you don't have to worry
- 55:47Speaker 3: about the impression that you give off. It will just
- 55:51Speaker 3: be there and it'll get the attention it deserves. It
- 55:54Speaker 3: just takes a little while. Then once you get it,
- 55:57Speaker 3: you'll always have it. That I like. Yeah, and that's
- 56:02Speaker 3: kind of the thing about life. I mean, it's it's
- 56:05Speaker 3: a good life, but always try to improve, always try
- 56:09Speaker 3: to move forwards. You know you're gonna have things. That's
- 56:12Speaker 3: such a back. It's life. It is doesn't mean you
- 56:17Speaker 3: stop as it does. This mean you recalibrate where you
- 56:21Speaker 3: are and then you find your new best to you
- 56:23Speaker 3: and you can chart continually every day try to be
- 56:26Speaker 3: better than that for the next day. That's it. It's
- 56:28Speaker 3: just about being the best to you at the end
- 56:30Speaker 3: of the day.
- 56:31Speaker 2: That's it.
- 56:31Speaker 1: And with everyone listening, thank you guys for tuning in.
- 56:34Speaker 2: I appreciate it. Nick, take us out of here.
- 56:39Speaker 3: Well, it's always please like sharing, subscribe, you know, check
- 56:44Speaker 3: out the Patreon, check out the stuff we got coming.
- 56:46Speaker 3: And I appreciate you and love you and can't thank
- 56:48Speaker 3: you enough for your support. And it's always trained hard,
- 56:51Speaker 3: train smart, and be the best you can be. And Ben,
- 56:54Speaker 3: thank you for doing this. I love you to death. Brother.
- 56:57Speaker 2: I love you too, brother.
- 56:58Speaker 1: That's why we do this because we have a good
- 57:00Speaker 1: time and we have a lot of fun. Oh yeah,
- 57:04Speaker 1: all right, we'll see you guys on the next one.
- 57:07Speaker 3: Yeah, where we'll talk about Russia.
- 57:28Speaker 2: You're listening to the best experience what they best