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One And Done · Second Date Update

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  Ooh, I'm so excited. We're going into the holidays and I believe in
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  love and now is the time to make that love connection. Second Date Update.
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  We're in Newington this morning with Christy. Good morning, Christy, good
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  morning. Well, welcome to the show. I hope we can like help
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  you out. Obviously. You know what second Date Update is all about.
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  You went on a first date and now you're getting ghosted, right yep?
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  All right, So tell me about this great first date with a guy named
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  Ben. Yeah. So we went on the date. You know, we
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  went to dinner, had a good time, and I just really felt a
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  connection and that just really doesn't happen to me very often. And I you
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  know, texted him after the date, thanking him for it, and he
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  just has not written me back, and I'm just I just don't know what
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  to do. You know. It's like I really thought that, you know,
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  maybe this was different, you know, maybe this was different than usual.
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  Was it a little romantic? I mean, did you you said you
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  felt a connection? Did you feel like was there was there sparks? Oh?
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  Yeah, there were sparks. You're not a bad kisser, are you?
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  Because a couple of weeks ago we had somebody that was a bad kisser.
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  Maybe that's the case. I mean, I've never had any complaints before,
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  you know, I did. I don't want to say this, but
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  I think fairly regularly, and I can't say that I've had any complaint.
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  Okay. If we're that, I would be be kind of hurt. Okay,
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  definitely a lot. And you shocked and you sound sweet. You've reached
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  out to him. You're getting ghosted. So this is what we're gonna do
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  with Christy. We're gonna call Ben and we're just gonna ask him to be
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  honest. Are you ready to hear what he has to say about the date?
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  Yep, I'm ready. Okay, Okay, you can do this.
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  I promise. We're going to put you on sutting down. I'm running down,
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  okay, and you're gonna be able to hear everything. You'll even be
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  able to talk to Ben. So hold on. We're gonna call Christie's date
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  Ben. We'll do that next. All the hitgs Kiss ninety five seven.
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  It is Courtney Walmart and Savannah and Christy and Newington. Uh second date update.
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  We're getting ready to call Ben and Christy. You have no idea why
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  you're getting ghosted after a fabulous dinner date? Is that basically it? That's
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  basically it? No clue? Okay, yeah, felt a connection and all
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  that? All right, Christy, hold on, let's call Ben. Let's
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  get right into it. Oh my goodness, nervous. She sounds really nice,
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  so sweet. Maybe she was like maybe yeah, maybe she was talking
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  too much or texting Hello. Hello? Is Ben there? Yeah? This
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  is Ben. Who's this? Hey? Ben? It is Courtney, So
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  Ben, It's Walmart. Ben. What's good? It's Savannah and we're calling
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  from Kiss ninety five to seven. Okay, what's going on? Surprise Ben,
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  you're on the radio this morning? Well listen. Oh, if you're
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  not familiar with the show, which I hope you are, you run something
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  called Second Date Update. You go on a first date, you have a
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  great time, maybe you make a connection, maybe you feel like it's love
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  at first date. But then you get ghosted. Call us and we get
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  answers, and that's why we're calling. You need answers, Ben. Okay,
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  Okay, here's the deal. I don't know. Maybe you were like
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  a mister date or dater, but a woman named Christy called us, and
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  hopefully you can remember this date, Christy told us she went out to dinner.
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  She says, you guys had a great time, she felt a connection,
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  fantastic conversation, and she did feel like there was a spark between the
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  two of you. She's reached out. I think she said a couple of
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  times thanking you for the date, and you're completely ghosting her. Uh okay,
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  yeah, I know. How did you remember, Christy? Okay,
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  well, tell us about the date? What did you How did you think
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  the date went? Well? To be completely honest, the date was awesome.
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  I mean she was really cool. We had great conversation, and I
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  mean she's a knockout easy ten. I don't know. I mean, this
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  is hard to say. I'm still weird saying it. But as of twenty
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  twenty three, I promised myself that I'm only going on first date, Like
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  I was just going to take the year, play the field. I have
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  a couple of years ago, I was in a pretty in depth relationship and
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  after that I was like, you know what, I'm just I'm not gonna
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  date anyone. I'm just gonna go on a bunch of dates. So all
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  year I've just been going on first date. Okay, I just I don't
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  understand that. Wait a minute, So you went on a year of first
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  dates and you didn't find like one person you really connected with? Not really.
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  I mean, listen, Christy. Christy was awesome. I just you
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  know, we're so close to the end of the year, and I'm just
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  like, oh, I'm right there, might as well just keep going and
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  doing what I'm doing. Okay, can let's just bring Christy? Are you
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  sorry? Ben? But Christy's listening. Christy he promised himself only first dates
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  this year, and then actually, this is so funny how similar we are.
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  But I usually only go on first dates too. That's usually actually my
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  mo o. So I mean, I mean, you know, you say
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  that we had a connection. You you know, think I'm hot. I
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  don't guess he said that. It's close to the end of the year,
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  Like, can we just can we just both like stop being how we usually
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  are? Like, I don't know, Ben, I would I would stick
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  to your guns on this one. Man. Now, I want to just
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  know Jeff stop gosh. I mean, do you want to I know,
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  but do you want to be a quitter? Ben? You need to see
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  this all the way through it. Here's the thing that stop Jeff, he's
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  you're so inappropriate. Listen. It is towards the end of the year.
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  Okay, it's close enough, they said, they both they both felt a
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  connection. I don't know why you're saying this, Dame Walmart. He said
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  she was hot and probably the best I think, he said, the best
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  day he had all year. I'm going to pick up the tab. I
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  think it's close enough to the end of the year. You guy should go
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  on a second date. You should agree to it, and I will pay.
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  Yes, Ben, come on, Uh, you know what I mean.
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  You're not lying. She is literally the best date I've had, And
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  if you're going to pick up the tab, I don't think I can pass
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  that up. I will. I will break if you are close to the
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  end of the year. Let's go, let's go on another date. Take
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  that well, Mart, Jeff, I don't know, Ben, I think
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  your father is going to be disappointed in you. I can't, I can't
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  listen. I'm glad you guys are doing this, and it's it sounds pretty
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  interesting that Christy usually go on first dates too. Just skip the second date
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  because it's not perfect. The fact that you both are used to going on
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  a lot of first dates and not a lot of second dates, and now
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  you're going to go on a second date. Makes me happy. I'm happy
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  to pick up the tab and I'm so glad you guys are going to do
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  it. Thank you, thank you so much for your help. You are
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  welcome, and oh my god, keep us posted. I'm sorry, Christy,
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  Ben, either one of you. After the second date, can you
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  please reach out to us and let us know how it went. Yeah,
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  no, pro definitely