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Victoria S Rader - Prosper mE · Postcards to the Universe

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Welcome to Postcards to the Universe with Melissa Capria. Do you believe in magic?
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What if you were told that all you had to do was get a
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little creative and work a magic spell to bring anything you can imagine into your
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life. Here on Postcards to the Universe, we will share manifesting tips,
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postcards, creativity, abundance, and prosperity. Here is your host, Melissa
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Capria. Hey everyone, and welcome to Postcards to the Universe with Melissa creating
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the life you crave. It's Wednesday. How are you guys doing today?
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I love Wednesdays. I love talking to my guests, so thank you for
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joining me. I have a really cool show today. I have author Victoria
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Raider on and she's going to join me in just a few moments. And
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today's show we're going to be focusing on abundance, which we love right especially
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prosperity, So stay tuned for Victoria to join me. For those of you
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who are new tuning into my show for the first time, I want to
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give you a warm welcome. Thank you for being here with me today and
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I hope that you keep returning. And if you're listening for the first time,
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and for future shows. If you can't join live, we do always
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have a replay that's put up here at own times that you can find anytime
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you want and listen, you know, anytime, day or night. And
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I also take the show and make it a podcast and I put it up
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on my website Postcards to the Universe dot com as podcasts, so you can
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hear it there too. A little bit about me. I am an author
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and I have a book and it's titled Postcards to the Universe. Harness the
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versus Power and manifest your dreams. And it's so cool because we're gonna be
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talking a lot about manifesting today. And in my book there are thirty manifesting
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stories along with the photographs that I took of the contributors. Manifesting postcards and
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manifesting postcards are sort of like a little mini vision board and explained it all
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in my book You know how to make one. In my book, I
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have tons of writing exercises which helps us get real clear on what it is
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that we want to manifest. And there's a lot of fun exercises at the
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end of each section of the book that tells us how to manifest in certain
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areas. That we always want more abundance, which is love and money,
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health, our career and so much more. So if that sounds interesting to
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you, I would love it if you would purchase my book, which you
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can find on Amazon, Barnes and Noble online or your favorite bookstore or if
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they don't have it, they will get it for you. And to my
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regulars who listen to me every week, I so appreciate and love you,
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guys. I'm so grateful for you being here with me. It means the
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world and I hope you stay and keep coming back. If you are on
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Facebook, I would love it if you join my Postcards of Love group and
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it's just a small group and we share like uplifting stuff, nothing too serious,
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all stuff that makes us feel good. And guys, I ask every
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week and I will keep asking to send me a manifesting postcard. Today's a
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great show to listen to about that because we're going to be talking about prosperity.
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So if you want to bring more prosperity into your life, create a
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postcard around it and send it to me. You can find the address on
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my website Postcards to the Universe dot com and also how to create one and
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please drop me an email and let me know that you're sending one. I
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would love it. Each week I share a little message and I call it
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my Magical Message, and I posted on all my social media's and it's an
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image of a manifesting postcard that I photograph with an affirmation because I love affirmations.
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I use them daily. I think they're super powerful to become a new
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belief in our lives. And we're going to be talking about shifting our beliefs
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so that we can start to manifest prosperity. And this week's is Surround Yourself
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with Money Magic. Now, I usually give my thoughts on the postcard each
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week, but since my guest Victoria and I are going to be talking about
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prosperity, it's going to be all covered in the whole show today. So
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next week, if you join me next week, I have Tracy Lee wittet
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On and she is a spiritual energy healer, sacred conduit and an intuitive guide
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and she does this transmosis healing which is a unique integrated blend of energy modalities
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and it offers people multidimensional body balancing. So join me next week for that.
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Okay, Now to get to my guest today, Victoria s Raider,
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PhD and Possibility Coach. She's a transformational speaker and founder of You Too,
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Shine, It's Why You the Number two Shine, and she empowers coaches,
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entrepreneurs and spiritual seekers to manifest miracles by uncovering and solving, underlining hidden problems
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and patterns with innovative possibilities, reigniting passion and expanding peace, purpose and prosperity.
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She is an eight times internationally best selling author, including her book prosper
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Me The thirty five Universal Laws to Make Money Work for You. She is
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globally recognized along with Burnet Brown, Richard Branson, others for creative and innovative
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ideas, adaptability and business, and contribution to sustainability and mental health projects with
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Krea with her Krea Global Award by Brain's Magazine. And to find out more
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about her, you can go to her website, which I'm gonna say it
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out for you. So it's you two Shine dot com. So it's why
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You the Number two Shine dot com. Welcome Victoria, thanks for being here
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with me today. Thank you so much, Flissa. It's really wonderful to
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be here. I'm excited to talk to you. So I just finished her
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book prosper Me Small mbig e thirty five Universal Laws to make money work for
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You. I finished it actually this afternoon before the show. I love when
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I get an author on because I try to schedule to read it right before
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because I interview knew people each week, so I try to schedule to read
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it right before you come on, so it's fresh in my brain. And
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it was really it's really informative, super easy to follow, and you have
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tips and tools for everybody to do at the end of your book too,
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and some affirmations to focus on and a place for us to take notes.
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And so I thought it was really really great the way you did the book,
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So thanks so much for doing that. So why don't you share a
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little bit about yourself, who you are and how you got into your You
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know, you're manifesting and you're life full of prosperity and abundance. Absolutely.
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I was born in the format Syviet Union in Ukraine. You know today Ukraine
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is kind of a big ward t the word as we're watching the news,
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but that's where I was born, and I was born on the decaying part
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of the Soviet Union. So things were falling apart. And the beauty of
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that experience was while you still couldn't really control the exterior, while you still
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did not have really too much freedom of choice, you no longer were repressed
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for practicing it either. You know, sal was kind of was born in
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a twilight of transition. And I think it's wonderful for all of us to
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look at whatever we're going through right now, because I believe the Earth,
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this gorgeous globe we're walking on, is going through a very similar twilight of
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transition. And in a twilight, things are not what they seem to be,
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you know, concepts of being morphed, and the freedom is being redefined,
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the manifestation is being formed, and still I feel at home, Like
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right though, I feel at home, and I feel luxuriously wired to be
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empowering people to use this twilight to step into their light fully. So for
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me, what it looked like is a kid who dreamed of trouble, was
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no physical capacity to do so, being born in a country that did not
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allow for you to leave the country, let alone give you an entry visa,
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And I started imagining. I loved your concept of postcards to universe,
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of inviting the mental faculty of imagination. I was imagining myself in all of
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these unique places in the world without a practical way of doing so. So
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as a kid, I had this intuitive capacity to know not to be bugged
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down by how. Right, that's that's the first best blug pretty bugged down
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by how? And so years later, you know, when the Soviet Union
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fell apart, and when all of a sudden I stood on the Great Wall
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of China, remembering how an eleven year old dreamed of being there, When
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I stood and looked at taj Mahal in India, or all of these I've
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been to forty countries and counting. At this point, I started going backwards
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and saying, wait a minute, how did that become possible? What were
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the neural pathways, what were the subconscious programs, and what were equally important
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practical steps that I took to go from there to where I am? And
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that is how you to shine as a company was born a decade ago,
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and then the books and the apps that we have are all supportive of that
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process of yes, anything is possible for every Yeah no, I love that,
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and it's very clear in the book about how to do that. There
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is thirty five universal laws in the book, and you specifically in the book
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referred to as making more money. But it's not just about making more money,
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because each of those thirty five universal laws can be applied to anywhere in
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your life that you want to bring more prosperity. It could be your health,
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it could be your relationships, it could be career, it could be
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anything. So yeah, I really liked that each law can be applied in
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any area of our life that we want it to. So that was so
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it just kind of it goes more than just when we're talking about money.
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Of course, we all want more money, right, But I'm curious.
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I'm curious because of the way that you describe it in your book. But
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you, being what you call yourself a possibility coach, how you define manifesting
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Because people who listen to me were on the regular know how I define it
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because I talk about it each week. But how do you define it?
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Maybe simply I refer to manifesting as your capacity to transform a possibility into a
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reality. Period. And so first you want to be aware of all possibility.
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You cannot manifest something you are unaware of, things that are outside of
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your awareness. Cannot be brought into reality, and then you step learned that
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path of possibility. You now know it's possible. Then you do any and
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all energy healing, transformational healing, and practical healing and shifts to know that
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it's possible for you because you see, I really know with every fiber of
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my being that every person listening knows that it's possible to be healthy, it's
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possible to be happy, it's possible to be loved, it's possible to be
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thriving because they see it in their life. But the question is is it
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possible for me? And I think the book answers that question and empowers you
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to know, yes, it is. Yeah, now that's definitely true.
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That yeah, definitely yeah. A lot of us don't think it's possible.
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You know. We look at others and we think, oh, well,
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it's nice they have it right, but they've you know, maybe they came
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from a healthy family background and you were born with money. So we make
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excuses a lot. And I wanted to ask, so you talk about this
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in the book in great detail, but you have a sequence and manifesting.
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Can you share a little bit about what that is? I would love to
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give two aspects to that sequence. Because some of us are more left brains,
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some of us are a right brain, so we've got to activate,
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activate for all of us, and so on. One on one spectrum of
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manifesting, there is a path of four a's. It's really good to sync
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on them as four a's and that's awareness, alignment, action abundance four a's.
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First, you've got to start noticing what you notice, you become aware
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because very often we jump to imagination. There's six mental faculties in our mind.
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Our mindset is the set of six mental faculties. When they're in harm
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we manifest a life of miracles. When they're in this harmony, we either
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manifest a life of strife or we manifest a life of routine with little brilliant
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moments. Could you know they're life fight against and so the traditional I'll name
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the six mental faculties. The six mental faculties are your perception, imagination,
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intuition, memory, reason, and will. Maybe we could talk for hours
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about each one of them. But with traditional manifesting, very often it starts
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with imagination. The tricky part is your imagination is tied to your image self
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image, and your self image is tied to your awareness of your self worth,
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and you cannot out imagine yourself worth. That's where possible for me comes
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in. So the first step prior to imagining is leading into your perception.
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You want to start perceiving life as a miraculous event, for seating yourself as
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someone deserving to live a life of miracles. And once that part is healed,
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then and only then you can truly expand your capacity to imagine a life
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of miracles. So that is where I say awareness is first step. Notice
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what you notice, because what and how you notice is what you already manifest
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in your life. You're single and you see a happy couple, Notice how
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you react to them. Are you genuinely deeply thrilled for what they're having,
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or are you regretful and sorrowful and you feel pity for yourself? Because how
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you notice and what you notice is what your perception is charging your imagination to
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create for you. Very simple, very practical. Notice what you notice.
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Once you notice the patterns, you want to align yourself. So awareness to
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step one. Once you notice those patterns, you want to align yourself with
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what it is you would rather have and how it is you would rather steal
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in life. Once you'll master the continual alignment, you want to ask,
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what is the one action step I can take as if I'm already living from
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the place of this alignment. Going back to the unhappy happy couple, if
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you are noticing I'm not happy, I'm envious, that's all right, congratulations,
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you were not deceiving yourself, you were not in denial. Then you
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get to say, what if it were possible for me to be in a
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happy relationship? How would I look at that couple? Then? What if
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it were possible for me? You want to feel the genuine joy for them,
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and then you open yourself to possibility of meeting somebody I love that.
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Thank you. Yeah, that's great. And it's interesting that you said that
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because right after just using relationships as an example origin, right after the relationship
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crumbled, That's how originally I was feeling. I would notice happy couples and
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I would feel like a like a sense of bitterness towards it. Right,
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But then then that shifted as time went on, in the more work I
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do, and now just looking from the people that I know, and I
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always look at the people who have these beautiful relationships, and I have a
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total different energy around it because I'm not in the same place that I was.
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Right, So I look at it and I think, oh, I'm
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so happy for my friend who deserves to have this kind of relationship that they
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so desperately wanted, you know, and it makes me feel good. So
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you if you are aware of where you are in any area of your life,
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that is really important. I think a lot of do You think a
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lot of people are really unaware of where the believe? So? I believe
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so, and I think the reason why because you know, when you look
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at the thirty five laws and prosper me the less law is a law of
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forgiveness. And you can't have prosper until you learn to forgive. And a
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lot of us are very unforgiving of ourselves first, and for most we get
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good at forgiving others harmat most of us really do. But it's forgiving ourselves
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fully and completely, without excuses, without strings attached, being able to say
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I've really messed up, without going down to but but but but like my
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father, my mother, my car stopping it, I've messed up, and
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I know how to forgive myself. I'm going to forgive myself fully and completely.
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The more you forgive yourself, the more where you become of what you
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can forgive yourself, the more aware you become, period and then you can
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align with what you really want. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I know
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you do focus that chapter more on forgiving yourself than other people. But I
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do love the exercise, and it's a very short exercise that you give people
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us to do if you are having an issue of forgiving someone who betrayed you
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or hurt you in a life, about having you write a letter from them
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to you, right, And it's only a three minute exercise about what you
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wish they would say to you, and you teach us how to do it
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with the meditation. And I thought, oh, that is a really good
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idea, because you know, some people will be waiting forever to get that
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that I'm sorry from the people that have hurt them, and it may never
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happen. You know, Messa, It's very important because we are a subconscious
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being. Ninety five percent of all life is controlled by our subconscious and we
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consciously might want to be forgiving, and we consciously can even convince ourselves that
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I mean no long to the persons, so must have forgiven them. But
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there is a part of us, a silence saubature part that needs to hear
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what it needs to hear in order to move on. And if it doesn't,
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it will pop into our awareness as pain points when we see something that
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reminds us of them luck over and over and over again. Yes, that's
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so true. And I've realized just doing my own kind of work through the
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years, that forgiveness doesn't necessarily happen all at once. It happens in stages,
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just a little at a time. I don't I think people, you
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know, forgiveness is such a big thing. We think like we're saying,
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it's okay, what happened, and we're just gonna forget about it, and
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we're gonna forgive everything and move on. And it doesn't. It doesn't happen
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that way, at least in my personal experience. What would you say to
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that. I think there is no right or wrong or a general way for
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any one of us to forgive, So each experience is individual and hand true,
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and I think it's I think reassuring to know that that for some of
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us we need to peel layers of onions. Well, for other of us
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we can surrender, or for some things we can do one in the other.
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But I love you know. English is my fourth language, is not
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even my second language, but I my favorite. It's well, very good,
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I have to say, for your fourth language, it's very good.
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Right. But I love the word forgiving because when you look at the word
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forgiving, it really is for giving. It's for giving away what no longer
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serves us, for giving our burdens to the divine light, into the infinite
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light. And that for giving gives room for us to bring abundance in.
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So it's a very literal word. As I am for giving, I'm removing
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the is your resentment pain that was blocking me. For receiving, I am
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literally creating space to receive a higher frequency into my life. Forgiving is a
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highly spiritual which happens to be a very practical grammatically principle. So I'm for
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giving. I'm not absolving. Notice, I'm not absolving another person. They
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got to face the lass. It's not my job to be their creator.
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But I'm for giving. I'm giving away so that I can give space to
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receive. Yes, I love that for giving. Oh that's really good stuff.
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So you will you talk in the book and we all know this to
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be true that a lot of us have very damaging subconscious programs running in our
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in our minds, right, we're not even aware of it. So what
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are some of these patterns and programs that we have going on in our heads?
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These subconscious saboteurs, I like to say, you know, I obviously
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there are so many of them that I wanted for the purpose of our time
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to bring an insight that I know will help every person, because some others
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could apply to some and not others. But I had an amazing opportunity just
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literally two days ago. I was speaking to I read, a large group
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from Hong Kong. There were two hundred and fifty people, and I got
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to share this principle for the first time with such clarity and simplicity. I
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said, you know who is rich? Who's rich? And what I found
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through my life either from the poorest places of Kolkata, was speaking to my
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billionaire buddies. The answer is always somebody who has more money than I do.
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I mean that just blows my mind a way. So our first,
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our first subconscious saboteur is not realizing that when somebody's asking who is rich,
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the answers I am. I am I am rich. Once you step into
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that energy and you say, I have a roof over my head that's better
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than sixty percent of population of this globe. I am rich and with a
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love of gratitude, you know, prosper me the first laws which you appreciate,
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appreciate, which you're grateful for, grows period. So all of a
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sudden, when you start saying I am rich, it dissolves all the bad
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patterns about who rich people are because most of us simultaneously wants to have more
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money. But we hate the rich consciously and subconsciously. Why that we define
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rich those that have more money than us, and thus we're dishonest about obtaining
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it. That's the global definition of rich versus I am rich, I'm kind,
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I'm rich with kindness, I'm rich with generosity. I am rich with
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love, and hence I am rich with money. You know, my ton
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is buddy today pulled me aside and said, oh girl, he should have
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heard what Pitbull said. He said, yes, money does buy happiness when
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you give it away. Oh yes, I am rich. I am so
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rich that I'm buying happiness because they give money away. I am That would
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be the most powerful current shift that that. I love that, and you
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talk about that in the book Gratitude. I always talk about gratitude. I
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say it's one of the most powerful ways to manifesting. It's being grateful for
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what you already have. So that resonates with me completely, And I love
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that you're just saying, I am rich, and I am rich in what
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I already have in my life. I am rich in love, I am
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rich in friendship, I am rich and you know my home life, I
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am rich in my career. So it's wonderful and that's a great place to
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pause. So guys, think about this where you are rich. When we
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I have author and I love that she calls herself possibility coach. Victoria Raider
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with me, and we're talking about prosperity. That's what we're really focusing on
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today. And I wanted to ask you. So the title of your book
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prosper Me the thirty five Universal Laws to make money work for you. The
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way you write out me is small M and large E. So what is
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the purpose of that? What's that about? Oh? You know, first
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of all, thank you for a question. It's my favorite topic to talk
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about. Okay, awesome, you know earlier say you observe so powerfully that
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prosperity is so much more than money, you know, and it truly is
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because what is prosperity of money with that prosperity of relationship, love or health?
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Right, It's just not amount of money can buy wholeness. And so
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the little M and big E as a code for who we are, but
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refer to ourselves by saying I am me. You know I am me to
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me is a reminder of our purpose here on this planet. And that purpose
31:08
is knowing very clearly two parts of who we are and surrendering the lower frequency
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part to a higher frequency part. While it's true that we're all energy,
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we also know that energy that slows down enough to be measured becomes matter and
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is defined as matter. And so when I look at little AM, I
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am reminded there is a mortal matter that I am. Their particles of me,
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physical molecules that will depart and literally return to the dust of the earth.
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They will be recycled by our amazing planet. So I am mortal matter.
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It's a little M I am M that still is figuring out how to
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manifest materially. The little AM stands for mortal matter manifesting materially, but the
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scared part of me, because there's always going to be a part of me
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that says, how do I make sure this body doesn't die? There's always
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going to be the scared part of me, the little m that's going to
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come in and say, why am I worried about my daughter? Or why
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am I still thinking about possibility of the worst outcome. It's my survival,
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little am. And equally true that there is a sacred part of me,
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which is that big e, which is eternal energy of who we are,
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That is the essence that expands. And so the task for this life for
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me is how do I surrender my mortal to my eternal, my matter to
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my energy, my material to my essential, and my manifesting to my expensiveness.
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How do I shift from scared me to sacred me over and over and
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over a million times a day. And that process of awakening and enlightenment to
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me comes as surrender to love. You know, I define love as life
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originating vibrant emotion, energy, emotion, and I cannot shift into a high
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frequency of who I am, which brings prosperity by punishing gold and criticizing or
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denying the scared part of me. I need to find her and I need
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to love her. I need to tell her, it's okay, it's okay
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that you're being human, you are, you have mattered to you, and
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you matter. English once again gets one hundred percent endorsement from me, because
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the word you matter is a highly coded word. If we deny who we
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are physically striving to only be as a spiritual energy, we forget that we
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matter to surrendering all matter to thee that we are. That was so beautiful
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the way you just describe that. I swear to God, I got chills
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as I was listening to you, because you can hear it in your voice
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about how much you believe what you're sharing with us, like how much you
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teach that and live that. You can hear it, and I could feel
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it just listening to you. So because they really do think that. For
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so many of us, in a different stages of our life or at some
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point, we think that we don't matter. And that's why we have such
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a hard time having the life that if we even allow ourselves to dream we
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have, Because then there's those people who breaks my heart, won't even imagine,
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won't even have a dream for their own life because they don't think they're
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worth it at all. Right, So going on that. Going from that,
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why do you think that there's so many of us that grow up thinking
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we're not important, we're not worthy, we don't matter, we're not valued.
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Why is that such a like universal of story. I think the most
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efficient way to answer that is by bringing the Map of Consciousness by David Hawkins
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and see how it plays out with two gender roles. And this is however
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you see that definition, it's within your freedom capacity to look into that.
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I just want to show how the gender roles and the female feminine masculine energies
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play out in a way of answering why we feel we don't matter. So
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David Hawkins has done a lot of studies as to where he would why are
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a person's brain, and he would expose them to different experiences of emotion and
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then measure the frequency that emotion created in their body. And what he found
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is that at the very bottom of that scale of Map of consciousness was shame.
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Shame is so low that our brain barely vibrate, so much so that
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in Japan culturally, when you are ashamed of who you are, the one
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way out was an honorable death. A lot of us aren't the subconscious contract
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of an honorable death when we are ashamed of our life as opposed to honorable
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life. I believe the awakening here is too, I am here to live
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an honorable life. So you have shame right above shame, you have guilt,
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and then your epassy, and then you have fear, and then you
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have pride, and so this is where the kicker comes in. But fear,
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you have anger, and then you pride. For most of the masculine
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energy the most traditionally man, the second you got out to anger. We
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were taught all of us that pride is bad. And is it bad compared
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to high frequencies of peace, enlightenment, joy, Yeah, it's a very
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low frequency. But compared to those deadly energies. We have to get to
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pride. Of what happens. A masculine energy in us will get angry kids
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the pride limit at in anger and then will say, oh I know better,
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why would I get angry? And it brings us back to shame.
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So some of us cycle in a masculine cycle from shame to anger, from
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shame to anger, while others of us, more of a feminine energy that
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is stuck into grief and self pity, go to I'm ashamed of who I
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am. I feel sorry for who I am. I'm ashamed of who I
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am. I feel sorry for who I am. And so the answer is,
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and it's it's a counter logical answer, but you've got to step into
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pride long enough to break the cycle of guilt, shame, and anger.
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So if you're angry, instead of saying what's wrong with you your spiritual being,
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don't be angry anymore, and going back to shame, you say,
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oh my gosh, I am so freaking good at being angry. Did you
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Zovis? I'm like but Zovis of a person and a miracle shift because you
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cannot stay angry when you are in pride. And then you shift to courage,
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and you say, how do I shift anger? Because it's a powerful
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energy into creation. And if you are truly in a cycle of self deprecation,
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and you are, if you're in constant self fun of grief and unfairness,
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and you're saying feeling guilty, same concept, get yourself first to anger
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to say I'm so angry, I'm stuck in this cycle of feeling guilty.
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Why isn't there any way for me to be unstuck? And the second you
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feel that genuine anger, truly pat yourself on the back and say, oh
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my gosh, I just got angry. I do think I could be angry.
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I thought I was passive. And this is gold, literal gold,
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because once you break into pride temporarily, then you get into courage and you
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say, how do I now learn to accept all of these emotions of mine
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so that I can channel them and create higher frequency emotion of peace and joy
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and love and so forth. But that's why we are discouraged to experience pride.
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M Oh, that's good. I never heard it put that way.
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That's but I know, just from being in guilt or having a shame around
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anything, you know, when you go from that low frequency to anger,
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there is a sense of power behind anger that you do not feel when you're
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wrapped up in shame and guilt. So it does. If you're in tune
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with yourself and your emotions, you definitely feel like you've raised the frequency.
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So yeah, that's good. Yeah, I'm so good at being angry right
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now. I like that. Yeah, I'm good at it. And then
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you're not angry anymore because you're like prouding you, like, can you go
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at a humor on so weird to be thinking this way. There you go,
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there you go, Oh that's great. Oh I love it. So,
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um, I left the way that you laid out your book because I
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know a lot of the laws, but there was some that I didn't ever
40:53
here before, or the way that you put it, which is great.
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So she has thirty five laws in her book and she starts with gratitude and
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she ends with a law of forgiveness, but certain ones, like the law
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of relaxation, so you know it was the law of funding fun. I
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thought, oh, you know, we don't think about that. So you
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want to share I know, obviously we can't for the purposes of time and
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everything. All that. You have to read the book. If you want
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to know, you have to get the books. But is there a couple
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that you want to talk about from the book that um maybe you think you
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know that we could all benefit from hearing right now. I think the one
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that is coming in and understanding, you know, because laws have been channeled
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and it was a beautiful experience for me. The originally the laws were channeled
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for our app. We have an app that's Golden Power dash Me and the
41:49
laws were channeled for that app as activation, so person could shake their phone
41:54
and it would tune into their energy and line them up with the best and
41:59
highest frequency, an immediate activation. And then so many people were saying,
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how do I want to know more about it? You know? So then
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in our aline group, I've created a video program, and then from the
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video program the book was born in its time. That's kind of the journey
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of that. And so when the laws came in, they came in crystal
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clear, they came in with activations, and they were some of them that
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took me by supplies, because as you were describing, you know, and
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it's interesting that you've pointed out to the law of relaxation, because a lot
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of us have capacity to have mastered that law, but we're unaware of it.
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Think about for a moment, how many times your best idea has come
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to you when you're in the shower. When your body is relaxed, your
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frequency is set to receiving. When your body is tense, your body is
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set to produce. Now, if you're constantly producing, you have no room
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to be receiving. You think of the field. The field has to have
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the seeds, and then those seeds have to grow, and then you have
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to harvest them. If you keep growing without harvesting, you have an overgrown
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field and a broke bank account, and you can harvest when you relax.
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The law of relaxation is a corner logical law that the fastest way to receive
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an optimal answer to how to act prosperously is to just take a chill pill
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and relax. When something is happening in your life right now that you are
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not sure how to resolve, then more you think about it, the view
43:52
less resolution you ride at. So the easiest way to practice the law of
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relaxation is when you go to bed, tell yourself and this problem is resolved
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for me through great incident universe and my creator. I want to wake up
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with curiosity as to how thank you for having it done. I'm going to
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relax and sleep and wake up with curiosity to find out a solution. And
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so you'll completely release in your relaxing into solution. Let's tip one number one.
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Tip number two that's coming in for some reason so strongly, and I'm
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alost haven't taught this, so here it goes. This is just the content
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that's coming in for us, is that if we are allowing for ourselves to
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relax to ask for a higher solution. What do I mean if I'm short
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on money? I think I needed to resolve for how do I get money?
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And that's the lack of mentality. But what if I said, Okay,
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I'm going to get there. The higher frequency is what do I do
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with the money that I get? It? Is going to relax in my
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chair and I'm going to say, okay, I now have that whatever the
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twice the amount that you've made up till now a year, you know,
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pick up one hundred and fifty grand you're gonna say, I know, have
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hundred and fifty grands. So that's a new kind of a problem. What
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do I do with it? How do I stand it? How they invested?
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What I do with it? You occupy your mind in relaxed state because
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you're not You really can't freak out about it because you don't have it yet.
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But when you train your mind in a relaxed state to be solving a
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problem from this some from a place already having it, you will be blown
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away how fath things will align for you to make it a reality. Yes,
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that makes so much sense. And you talk about also building are like
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you you use the thermometer as a symbolism that you can't go from you know,
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five degrees to one hundred degrees, that you have to go to six
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seven. So we're building on things. It's a it's a it's a building
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process when we're doing this kind of work, and you give you talk about
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the law of tithing and the law of saving, and the law of investment,
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you know, the law of spending, the law of growth. So
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it's really interesting, like you said, it was channel the way that it
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was channel to you because I could see from actually reading the book how one
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keeps building on top of the other. And what's so really cool is you
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can you can keep the book and keep going back. Right, So if
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there's something that you're working on, like maybe it is the saving you know,
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maybe it is the law of saving. You know many people that gets
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soon as money comes in, it goes right out, and they haven't figured
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out a way to you know, allow themselves to save for the purposes of
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having the money there when you need it. Because you also you're also very
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practical and saying you expect the greatest outcome and the best but you also prepare
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for the worst at the same time. So you want to share a little
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bit about that, because that feels like two opposite ends of the spectrum.
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Yeah, and that's the little AM and the big E, you know,
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the little the little am wants to be ready for the worst and ignoring it.
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You know, you can stand in front of the mirror and hit yourself
47:34
on your chest and say I'm a money magnet, and that little tiny voice
47:37
inside of you says, no, you're a lunatic. And you know that's
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that little am, and that little am is going to prevail. And you
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go like, I'm doing all the manifesting stuff and for some reason didn't work
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for me. It worked for me one time, and I can't get consistency
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on it. It's because the little Am. You need to sit down and
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you get to say, Okay, I'm going to go down the worst possible
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case scenario. I'm gonna go there. I'm gonna go there. What if
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I have no money? Can it survive on the street? You know?
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Can it surve the street? Yeah? I can. You have to face
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your greatest fear to prove to your little Am that mortal matter that you know
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what, You're fine and once it says oh okay, go dream big,
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E can go manifest, it creates. So that's when when you are prepared
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for the worst, you can truly use that as a platform to launch into
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the very best, into the best. Yeah, oh no, I love
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that so much. That's so wonderful. Is that is that yours? Is
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that your background? I'm hearing somebody talk in the background is from you.
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That's that's the studio. That's your guy, that's the studio. Okay,
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Christ we can hear you talking, um so talking. Oh nobody else get
49:00
here of talking. It's just us. It's the law of manifesting. Background
49:05
noise, that's the M. I would like to point out, this is
49:07
how M sounds when he's trying to manifest. That's great love. But I
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love that. And then when you're talking about the laws too, I love
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like the law of grace and the law of consecration, you know, and
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that's like the law of true source, whatever your true sources for you.
49:30
And you talk about God, you know, in your connection with God in
49:35
the book. But to whomever is listening, I mean, whoever is reading.
49:38
Everybody has their different source of who they connect with. And you talk
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about that in the spiritual sense, which is wonderful talking about how to connect
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to our spirituality for manifesting. So can you just like touch on that briefly?
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Yes, I think what comes would it comes down to is that the
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true source is the source of all love and all abundance, however you choose
50:06
to define it. Right, the word God has become such a trigger,
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a very high frequency word that has been misused and abused to where it became
50:15
a trigger. But it's an acronym for a grand overall, grand overall designers.
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However, you define grand overall designers the true source which sources you.
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And so when we look at the word resource, think of the word resource.
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It is it is using the source to create something. You are resourced
50:40
by source. If you're if you're disconnected from your source, it is very
50:45
hard, not impossible, very hard to feel resourced and to create. Then
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this is where it comes in that we are taught that there is three great
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resources, time, energy, and money. And I could in and say
50:58
there is one resource and its energy, and how we learn to work with
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energy will define our relationship with time and money. If we prioritize our energy
51:13
in a true, guided way, we're connected to the source and we feel
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resourced by it, and we step into our talent and become a resource to
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others, and we focus on becoming the guided resource for this planet. Our
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time shifts and our money grown. But if we lose the focus of that,
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if we disconnected from the source and we say, oh my gosh,
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I'm running out of time or I'm running out of money, all it is
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this, We're disconnected from the source of all abundance. So going back to
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and saying, how do I connect to my one true source that it may
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resource me into plenty of time and plenty of abundance, and asking that question
52:01
over and over and over again, our life is defined. It either expands
52:07
or is limited by the quality of the questions that we ask. M's oh,
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that's perfect. I love that. It's it's a constant practice. This
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is something that you have to constantly be practicing your It's a new exercise.
52:21
Really, it's like working out your body. You have to do it every
52:23
day to see results. Right, So it's it's kind of the same thing.
52:30
Um, you have a few which I thought are really cool, um
52:34
free resources for people who who are really interested in this. So you want
52:40
to share a couple of the things that you do. I know you have
52:43
a quiz, you have a meditation, and you have a free masterclass on
52:49
manifesting or something. So I'll let you share what it is that you're offering.
52:52
H we have it all, we have it all. I think.
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I think the best place and the nature of our conversation is that if you
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go to money Quiz dot me. Because with thirty five laws, they are,
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as Nissa said, they're building up one upon the other, and it's
53:10
great to read the book all the way through, and once you do,
53:14
you lay the foundation to really prosper. And then you go take the quiz,
53:19
which you can find it or you can do it before money quiz dot
53:22
me. Once you take the quiz, it tells you you individually what your
53:28
main driving emotion in life is. What is the good energy emotion? Because
53:34
your greatest strength will also be your limitation if it's misused. And the quiz
53:38
says here your three laws to start with. This is your energy, and
53:44
if it is abundantly used, your prospering. But if you're not quite prospering,
53:49
it's because it is not fully supported by these three laws, and it's
53:54
a powerful way to start and go there. Once you master that, you
53:59
can go to Manifest Miracles dot me. I believe it is for I have
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frequency spiritual secret. You want to get the meat with the milk, They
54:07
want to have all the house tooth And it's a two hour, absolutely free
54:14
saminar on those six faculties that are very briefly mentioned with energy shifts and power
54:21
activations that you can receive. And if you were touched by the whole thing
54:27
of scared versus sacred, if you go to Truth Sacred dot me, you
54:31
will have a free meditation that will empower you to love you're scared into the
54:38
sacred. It's a six minute meditation and you can listen to it whenever you're
54:44
scared. Is having a party? No, that's wonderful. And then you
54:52
also have an app that people can download, your empower Me app so people
54:58
can check empower des out, Dashed, don't forget the Dash, don't forget
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the Dash. Oh it's such a pleasure. Thank you, Victoria, really
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was. I got so much out of our conversation in your book, and
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I'm so thankful and grateful to you for being here with me. Guys,
55:17
please check her out Okay everyone, Thank you for listening to Postcards to the
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Universe with Melissa creating the life you crave, and I'm wishing in everyone a
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wonderful week. Filed with Joy, abundance and love, Peace,