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Romeo In The Morning 8-24-26 · Romeo In The Morning

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  Speaker 1: We made it back for the weekend. Everybody, it's Romeo
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  Speaker 1: and you gotta see what you missed. We talked about
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  Speaker 1: a little bit about some of the stuff that's going
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  Speaker 1: on in Bakersfield High school football had a tragedy that
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  Speaker 1: we talked about. And then what else do we get into?
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  Speaker 1: And we got a little bit of everything. Check it out.
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  Speaker 1: I wanted to get into this. I forgot to talk
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  Speaker 1: to it about with a therapist, but I wanted to
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  Speaker 1: ask you about keeping tabs on your spouse. Now. I've
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  Speaker 1: always said that you should pay attention to your relationship
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  Speaker 1: all right and know what's going on. But a guy
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  Speaker 1: I know has his wife drives one of those Tesla cars.
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  Speaker 1: I didn't know this, but he showed me the app
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  Speaker 1: while we were out golfing one day that you can
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  Speaker 1: go on the app and a map comes up of
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  Speaker 1: the city and it shows exactly where the car is.
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  Speaker 1: And he goes, hey, look at my you know, let
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  Speaker 1: me show you. This's so cool. I can show you
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  Speaker 1: where my wife is right now. And she was supposed
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  Speaker 1: to be at work, but apparently the car was driving
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  Speaker 1: down the road. He was like, oh, where's she going?
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  Speaker 1: Like you can see you could see is kind of
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  Speaker 1: a question what was going on? And I thought, okay,
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  Speaker 1: why you gotta believe that he's checking that app right
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  Speaker 1: more than once or twice a day. Another friend of mine,
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  Speaker 1: this guy's a friend of mine. He once again, we're
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  Speaker 1: out playing golf and his wife buys something and it
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  Speaker 1: pops up on his phone, so he's tracking her spending.
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  Speaker 1: And what that's going too far? Right? Keeping paying attention
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  Speaker 1: to your relationship and doing things to protect it, to me,
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  Speaker 1: is different than like these people are. Basically these two
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  Speaker 1: dudes are basically keeping tabs on their wives. On their wives.
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  Speaker 1: I don't that you shouldn't be keeping tab on tabs
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  Speaker 1: on your spouse, should you? That seems a little a
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  Speaker 1: little crazy to me? Already? Four two five, four seven
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  Speaker 1: to seven. What do you guys think about that? I
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  Speaker 1: know a guy actually at this cameras in his house
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  Speaker 1: inside the house, not just outside but inside also so
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  Speaker 1: he can see who's there and so he can keep
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  Speaker 1: an eye on his wife. That's doing too much, right,
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  Speaker 1: all right? Keeping tabs on your spouse? Do you think
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  Speaker 1: it's okay to do that? Do you do it? Already?
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  Speaker 1: Four two five, four seven to seven? How it's going.
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  Speaker 2: On what up?
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  Speaker 1: Man?
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  Speaker 3: All right, so well we're kind of not together anymore.
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  Speaker 2: But the girl, the girl doing we had we had
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  Speaker 2: to tell his location and uh, I'd be on my
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  Speaker 2: water house or like I'll be on my wazard, but
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  Speaker 2: I'm stop by the gas station or many things. He
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  Speaker 2: literally takes me on the dot, Hey what are you doing?
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  Speaker 2: What's going on? And I'm like, bro, can I not
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  Speaker 2: like let's go pit stop to you like my little
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  Speaker 2: station and there's no reason.
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  Speaker 1: But why would you why would you have that location?
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  Speaker 4: You know?
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  Speaker 5: My perious like borno, we didn't show, okay, and now
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  Speaker 5: with fineces you know each other each others, but you know,
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  Speaker 5: I guess she's been thing some things in her pastor
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  Speaker 5: and I really didn't mind it, but now, like it
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  Speaker 5: got to the point where I was like, okay, like
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  Speaker 5: you're kind of doing too much.
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  Speaker 2: Like I can't even feel like I.
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  Speaker 1: Can't sure being like Sure was.
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  Speaker 2: Really on it and no, maybe not Tom, but you
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  Speaker 2: know what, we're not there right now.
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  Speaker 1: So okay, all right, man, thanks for Colin. I appreciate it,
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  Speaker 1: all right, But that's what I mean, that's doing too
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  Speaker 1: much right already? Four two, five, four seven to seven.
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  Speaker 1: It just reminded me. Now, you guys know Tom Holland, right,
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  Speaker 1: spider Man, and he's going out with Zendia. He said
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  Speaker 1: that he will actually google her, uh every once in
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  Speaker 1: a while to find out that if she's okay, if
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  Speaker 1: she's I mean, that's keeping tabs or maybe if that
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  Speaker 1: sounds like a jealousy to me. But is it okay
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  Speaker 1: to keep tabs on your spouse? Is that right? All righty?
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  Speaker 1: Four two five, four seven of seven. Like I have
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  Speaker 1: this buddy that I hang out with regularly and his
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  Speaker 1: wife will FaceTime him, Like who face times? Well, I
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  Speaker 1: don't FaceTime, I just take a phone call. But his
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  Speaker 1: wife will FaceTime him cause she wants to know where
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  Speaker 1: he's at. That's her way of sneaking, sneakily sneaking. That's
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  Speaker 1: her way of keeping tabs on him without you know,
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  Speaker 1: letting everybody know because oh we just FaceTime. No, she's
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  Speaker 1: face timing him so she knows where he's at, what's
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  Speaker 1: in the background she can do. That's why she's doing it.
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  Speaker 1: She wants to see him. So that's doing too much.
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  Speaker 1: But when it comes to keeping tabs on your spouse,
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  Speaker 1: you guys are doing it. I know you guys are
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  Speaker 1: doing it. I have people have shown me. You know,
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  Speaker 1: my friends do it. I don't get it. I don't
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  Speaker 1: think it's right. I don't think it's healthy. But you know, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: like my buddy just sent me a text message goes, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: well we you know, we get alerts on our phones
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  Speaker 1: because we've had fraud before in our bank accounts. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: so I get that. But one of my friends, you know,
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  Speaker 1: actually gets an alert whenever his wife buys anything. You
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  Speaker 1: don't think that's doing too much? Come arding out what's
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  Speaker 1: going on?
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  Speaker 6: Well, mean, it sounds more like a Cowboy fan that
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  Speaker 6: controller is going to be doing behavior like that.
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  Speaker 1: Oh what you know, a Raider fan.
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  Speaker 2: I'm not tracking my girl.
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  Speaker 4: I'm not.
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  Speaker 2: I'm not worried about what she spends and you want
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  Speaker 2: to leave them by just you know, I could see
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  Speaker 2: a Cowboys or a Chiefs fan, you know, tracking his
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  Speaker 2: girl on his phone. She's late? Oh why were you?
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  Speaker 3: You know here and there?
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  Speaker 2: So well, technology, technology has made.
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  Speaker 1: It easier for this.
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  Speaker 7: I know.
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  Speaker 1: That's why I said, doesn't make it okay. I think
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  Speaker 1: I think younger couples today are growing up with this
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  Speaker 1: technology and they think it's normal or they're making it normal.
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  Speaker 1: I don't think it's normal to do that.
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  Speaker 2: I don't think it's healthy behavior because it's almost like
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  Speaker 2: you're expecting something to happen and you're waiting for it
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  Speaker 2: so you can say, look, see you did.
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  Speaker 1: It, gotcha? Yeah, alright, alrighty day, all right, man, alrighty
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  Speaker 1: fourteen five or seven to seven A roam that's doing.
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  Speaker 1: That's too much work, Rome. If I got to do
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  Speaker 1: all that, then I'm gonna have to cut her loose.
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  Speaker 1: You mean keeping tabs on her. It's not too much work,
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  Speaker 1: though you do it to the comfort of.
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  Speaker 6: Your own phone.
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  Speaker 1: In fact, it's not. It just it pops up. Remember
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  Speaker 1: back in the day before cell phones, you had to
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  Speaker 1: actually get dressed, get in your car and go follow
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  Speaker 1: your spouse, follow whoever you were dating. That was too
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  Speaker 1: much work. Nowadays you just get a notification what your
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  Speaker 1: spouse is doing. Do you think it's okay to track
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  Speaker 1: your spouse? You know? You got these apps that'll that
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  Speaker 1: will follow their cars, picture where their cars located. You
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  Speaker 1: got these find my phone apps. You can track their phones.
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  Speaker 1: You can you know, get alerts with their spending. You
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  Speaker 1: can cameras everywhere, you can FaceTime any moment to see
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  Speaker 1: if they're where they say they are. I mean, there's
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  Speaker 1: all kinds of options now to keep tabs on your spouse.
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  Speaker 1: You think it's okay, Come on now, what's going on? Hey, Rube,
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  Speaker 1: what's going on?
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  Speaker 5: Man?
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  Speaker 1: Hey, I'm gonna let it.
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  Speaker 2: Let Raider David will know what's cracking the problem.
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  Speaker 1: Raider David, half of your women have led you for
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  Speaker 1: a cowboy pack and you locked up and the other half,
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  Speaker 1: you guys, can't track it. You can't track them on
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  Speaker 1: your Obama boom.
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  Speaker 5: You know what I mean.
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  Speaker 8: You know their mom don't want.
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  Speaker 1: To put them on the.
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  Speaker 5: You know what I mean.
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  Speaker 1: So sorry, Raided David.
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  Speaker 9: You can't count on us like that, you know what
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  Speaker 9: I mean.
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  Speaker 1: We just got money and we take care of our people,
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  Speaker 1: all right, all right already four two five, four seven
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  Speaker 1: to seven. I do I do know a guy though,
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  Speaker 1: like you guys all put those cameras outside your houses.
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  Speaker 1: I do know a guy that has a has cameras
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  Speaker 1: inside his house. And one time he showed me while
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  Speaker 1: his wife was at home. He goes, oh, see, I
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  Speaker 1: can check on the wife and the kids, and she
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  Speaker 1: was just sitting there to me, that's a little aggressive,
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  Speaker 1: right Is that? Is that not too aggressive? I just
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  Speaker 1: what are we doing here, folks already? Four two, five, four,
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  Speaker 1: seven to seven eight? Romeo, Uh, I like I have
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  Speaker 1: an app so I know where my kids are. My
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  Speaker 1: wife thinks that's too evasive, that I need to give
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  Speaker 1: them their space and respect their privacy. They are teenagers,
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  Speaker 1: rome I'm not going to respect their privacy at all.
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  Speaker 1: Hell no, your wife's one hundred percent rong. What do
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  Speaker 1: you mean Your teenagers don't have no privacy. They don't
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  Speaker 1: get they don't have no right to privacy in your house.
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  Speaker 1: Not only should you be tracking their phones and where
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  Speaker 1: they're at, you should be going through their phones. You
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  Speaker 1: should be cloning their phone so you know what's going on.
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  Speaker 1: You should be going through their rooms to see what
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  Speaker 1: they're hiding him. Teenagers don't have rights. Come on now,
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  Speaker 1: not in my house comes to track in your spouse?
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  Speaker 1: You think it's okay there, find my phone app? Or
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  Speaker 1: you can follow their cars now, things like that, or
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  Speaker 1: track their spending and you're getting alert every time they
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  Speaker 1: run their credit card or your credit card or whatever
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  Speaker 1: it is. You think that's okay In four, two, five,
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  Speaker 1: four or seven to seven. Now, what's going on? What's up?
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  Speaker 2: Did John?
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  Speaker 1: I'm we're talking about keeping tabs on your partner, on
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  Speaker 1: your spouse. If that was okay? Because I have some frisds,
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  Speaker 1: like some guys showing me he's got he's got an
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  Speaker 1: app that he can see where his wife's car is
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  Speaker 1: and a map Baker's film actually comes up when he
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  Speaker 1: looks for it, or a map of where the chorus.
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  Speaker 1: And I thought that was a little doing too much.
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  Speaker 10: Guess what my car, my twenty three kids, forte whenever.
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  Speaker 1: Told us it comes?
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  Speaker 10: It comes with that.
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  Speaker 2: My husband, you know he can, he can. They want
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  Speaker 2: the phone, keep telling him to look it up, and
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  Speaker 2: he tells.
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  Speaker 9: Me that for me to do this, it needs to
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  Speaker 9: be all right.
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  Speaker 11: I'm funny, Okay.
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  Speaker 10: I didn't know where I say I would go.
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  Speaker 3: Now I end up over here? Yeah what far that
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  Speaker 3: face timing and all that stuff.
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  Speaker 9: So yeah, he can face ain't knowing that I.
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  Speaker 1: Don't, but I know you. I know a guy's wife
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  Speaker 1: does that for him. That's how she finds out where
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  Speaker 1: he is and what he's doing.
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  Speaker 2: He be telling you why.
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  Speaker 1: Exactly? Sure you FaceTime me? You don't get declined. It's
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  Speaker 1: wild and these people. But I think it's becoming more
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  Speaker 1: and more normalized for these people to keep tabs on
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  Speaker 1: each other with the technology, like and they do it
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  Speaker 1: under the guys of safety. No, I'm looking out for you.
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  Speaker 1: No you're not. You're trying to keep trying to figure
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  Speaker 1: out where I'm at, what I'm doing. All right, later,
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  Speaker 1: like I said, you think it's doing too much. I
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  Speaker 1: think it's doing too much keeping tabs on your partner
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  Speaker 1: and your spouse. I mean, and you guys can say
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  Speaker 1: whatever you want. No, I just do it because I
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  Speaker 1: want to make sure they're safe. No, you don't. So
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  Speaker 1: the funniest conversation I saw yesterday. So yesterday, Sorry I
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  Speaker 1: got sidetracked. So yesterday a friend of mine, his kid's
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  Speaker 1: going to school, right, his kid's going to college, and
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  Speaker 1: I think it's Irvine. You see Irvine, I think is
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  Speaker 1: where he's going to school. So I go buy there,
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  Speaker 1: me and him had to talk about some stuff. And
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  Speaker 1: then so the kid comes in right and they're talking
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  Speaker 1: about getting him a car. You know, he goes, dad,
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  Speaker 1: would you know I need a car? What are we
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  Speaker 1: gonna do? You know, Mom's over here, going Well, he's
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  Speaker 1: gonna live in the dorms. Is you need a car,
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  Speaker 1: blah blah. Anyway, talk about how I'm a conversation about
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  Speaker 1: how getting this kid a car for before he leaves
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  Speaker 1: for college. I think he leaves next week or September.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know what it is. And I mean, cars
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  Speaker 1: are expensive. Let's be honest, Okay, when it comes to
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  Speaker 1: buying a car for your kid today, they're expensive. They're
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  Speaker 1: not cheap. Not everybody is rich like you and can
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  Speaker 1: just afford to go buy a brand new car. My
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  Speaker 1: first car was five hundred dollars. That's what when my
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  Speaker 1: mom bought me. My first car is five hundred bucks
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  Speaker 1: and she bought it from my aunt. And so they're
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  Speaker 1: not they're not cheap. Okay. But the kid goes, I
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  Speaker 1: want a truck, Dad, I think I want a truck.
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  Speaker 1: You know, we live in Bakersfield. He wants a truck.
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  Speaker 1: And I said, wait a second, you're going to Irvine.
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  Speaker 1: You're not in Bakersfield. You're going to live in Irvine
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  Speaker 1: for four years and go to college. So no, you
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  Speaker 1: don't want a truck. The hell are you going to
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  Speaker 1: do with a truck? And then my boy jumps up
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  Speaker 1: and is like, you know kind of clicked in his head.
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  Speaker 1: But you're right, what's he going to? What do you
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  Speaker 1: need a truck for? First of all, you're eighteen years old.
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  Speaker 1: What do you need a truck for? Okay, I mean
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  Speaker 1: in Bakersfield where men we need trucks. We haul stuff,
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  Speaker 1: We got to do things. That Truck's that a truck
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  Speaker 1: that is needed for You're an eighteen year old college kid.
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  Speaker 1: You do not need a truck. Well, yeah, I want
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  Speaker 1: a truck.
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  Speaker 9: No you don't.
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  Speaker 4: So why.
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  Speaker 1: The kid would not get it? He just did not
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  Speaker 1: understand that. I'm I mean, you can get one later
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  Speaker 1: in life, but you don't need one today. What you
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  Speaker 1: need is a medium sized car to drive around the city,
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  Speaker 1: take some friends with you, maybe full around in the backseat,
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  Speaker 1: if you know, your roommate in the dorms there. But
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  Speaker 1: you do not need a truck. And let's be very
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  Speaker 1: fair about trucks are expensive. They're way expensive.
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  Speaker 10: And so.
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  Speaker 1: I thought that was pretty funny. I just thought, you know,
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  Speaker 1: I saw the poor kid. You're not getting a truck. Now,
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  Speaker 1: my boys getting like a I didn't get. I don't
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  Speaker 1: know what he's going to get him, something kind of smaller.
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  Speaker 1: But you know, there's a budget. Everybody's got a budget
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  Speaker 1: for a car, so it's going to be a little
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  Speaker 1: bit different. But trucks are expensive. Man. You try to
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  Speaker 1: go buy a truck, it's gonna cost you twenty grand
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  Speaker 1: easy for a used one that's reliable. So what is
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  Speaker 1: wrong with you kids?
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  Speaker 5: Man?
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  Speaker 1: The kids are so stupid. They don't understand what they need.
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  Speaker 1: At certain points in your life. You're an eighteen year
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  Speaker 1: old kid, you don't need a truck. Even if you're
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  Speaker 1: an eighteen year old kid in Bakersfield, if you unless
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  Speaker 1: you're working, you do not need a truck. A truck
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  Speaker 1: is a man's car that's needed for doing work, you know,
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  Speaker 1: hauling stuff. My buddy's kid, eighteen year old kids going
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  Speaker 1: to college. I think they're moving next week or the
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  Speaker 1: week or well, I don't know whenever. He's moving down there,
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  Speaker 1: but he's going to Irvine, which is uh which is
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  Speaker 1: not necessarily Bakersfield. But the kid wants a truck, so
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  Speaker 1: he needs a car. Dad tells his daddy wants a truck.
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  Speaker 1: I was over there telling the kid, you don't need
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  Speaker 1: a truck. You're gonna be down in the city. You
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  Speaker 1: don't need you know, you don't and you're eighteen. You
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  Speaker 1: don't need a truck any good morning? How what's going on?
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  Speaker 7: That would tell wrong?
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  Speaker 5: See?
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  Speaker 9: Thanks, So that poor kid ain't getting that truck then,
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  Speaker 9: after all, no, he's gonna get.
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  Speaker 1: A car or a little suv or something something smaller.
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  Speaker 9: I think that's the right whoa man, because you know,
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  Speaker 9: I hate it when I see like someone get like
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  Speaker 9: this dually diesel truck and they don't have nothing to
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  Speaker 9: pull or nothing, they don't carry nothing or nothing.
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  Speaker 3: They're just driving it around town and they start.
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  Speaker 9: Complaining about diesel prices, and damn, I'm like, should have
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  Speaker 9: just got like a little Hansa like me, you know
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  Speaker 9: what I.
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  Speaker 8: Mean, Jesus reliable up and down the part payments they
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  Speaker 8: need the oil and guys, and let's go exactly all right, alright,
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  Speaker 8: all right, all right?
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  Speaker 1: But uh, kids are kids are just stupid. I mean,
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  Speaker 1: don't get I mean, kids are just stupid. I mean,
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  Speaker 1: don't get me wrong. Okay, there are kids in Bakersfield,
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  Speaker 1: eighteen years kids that are getting hand me down trucks
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  Speaker 1: from their dad's. Okay, that's just that's the hand me down,
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  Speaker 1: that's the car you get. I get it. But you know,
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  Speaker 1: if you're going away to school somewhere. You don't need
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  Speaker 1: a truck. I'm trying to explain this to my I
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  Speaker 1: was trying to explain this to him. But you don't
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  Speaker 1: need a truck. You're what do you You're wasting half
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  Speaker 1: a car, you know, And let's be honest, you really
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  Speaker 1: don't need a truck in your life until you get
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  Speaker 1: married and she wants you to haul a bunch of
• 17:29
  Speaker 1: stuff everywhere. Okay, so you really don't need a truck
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: until you have a wife. Outside of those guys who work,
• 17:37
  Speaker 1: you know who work, and you know who use a
• 17:39
  Speaker 1: truck for work. But I'm saying, college kids don't need
• 17:42
  Speaker 1: no truck. So it's kind of funny. My buddy's kid
• 17:46
  Speaker 1: is eighteen. It's going down to college. You see Irvine.
• 17:49
  Speaker 1: I think it's going to Irvine or somewhere down there.
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: I believe it's Ervine, though. And he wants a pickup.
• 17:54
  Speaker 1: He's got a car. He needs to get a car,
• 17:55
  Speaker 1: you know, got to have a car. Wants to pick up.
• 17:58
  Speaker 1: I was telling him no, because I was there for
• 18:00
  Speaker 1: the conversation the other day and he I was telling him,
• 18:03
  Speaker 1: what do you need a truck for? You don't haul nothing.
• 18:07
  Speaker 1: You don't got a job where you need a pickup truck?
• 18:10
  Speaker 1: What do you need a truck for to look cool
• 18:13
  Speaker 1: in the city now? So now I convince his dad
• 18:18
  Speaker 1: to get him a car or a little less she
• 18:20
  Speaker 1: be something that, you know, something that's useful, not a
• 18:24
  Speaker 1: not a pickup at eighteen years old in college? What
• 18:26
  Speaker 1: do you need a truck for? Good morning Rome. The
• 18:29
  Speaker 1: reason he wants a truck is because that's what's trending
• 18:32
  Speaker 1: for kids right now. Lo and uh camned truck aka
• 18:40
  Speaker 1: mam alnas that's what they call them. Oh okay, well
• 18:43
  Speaker 1: I could see that, but you don't need one. I
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: mean no, this is so stupid. Poor kid, messed up,
• 18:51
  Speaker 1: a messed up. Plus they're so expensive. Oh my gosh,
• 18:54
  Speaker 1: it just cost too much. Aeron Maice live in Orange County. Truthfully, no,
• 18:59
  Speaker 1: Noh needs a truck in the OC because there's traffics
• 19:03
  Speaker 1: like crazy. Gas prices are ridiculous. A high rid would
• 19:06
  Speaker 1: be the way to go because the kid is probably
• 19:09
  Speaker 1: going to want to be up and down the coast
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: and traveling back to Bakersfield on random occasions. Everything the OC.
• 19:17
  Speaker 1: Everyone in the OC is driving Teslas anyway or an
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: electric scooter. Well, I mean, nah, you might be right
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: about that, but you don't need to buy h Come on,
• 19:31
  Speaker 1: many eighteen years old going to college, you do not
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: need a truck. I mean, unless you go into college
• 19:36
  Speaker 1: in Colorado you might need to pick up. But come on, now,
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: these kids are so stupid. You have plenty of time
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: to get a truck when you, you know, graduate, Yeah,
• 19:49
  Speaker 1: you'll be fine all but maybe they're trending. Is that
• 19:53
  Speaker 1: what you're saying? So these trucks are trending now they're like,
• 19:58
  Speaker 1: I guess I don't know, man, beggars, but my trucks
• 20:01
  Speaker 1: are just for work, and I've owned them all. I
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: don't my trucks are for work. Would you send me here? Yo,
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: ro Hey, you're gonna appreciate not getting a truck after
• 20:11
  Speaker 1: he uh oh, after the gas prices. Yeah. Well, I mean,
• 20:17
  Speaker 1: for those of you that just tuned in, we're talking
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: about my buddy's kid, eighteen year old kid going to college,
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: about to go live in the dorms down at some
• 20:25
  Speaker 1: U see down south, and he won the truck pickup truck,
• 20:30
  Speaker 1: and I'm like, why do you need that? I was,
• 20:33
  Speaker 1: I was there for the conversation and I said, what,
• 20:35
  Speaker 1: you don't need one of those one? They cost too
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: much right now? Even to get a nice used one
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: costs you too much. Second of all, what do you
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: need a truck for that? You you you only have
• 20:46
  Speaker 1: it half. If you have a pickup truck down in,
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: where's he going to? Oh see you're irvine. You uh,
• 20:51
  Speaker 1: you only got half a car. You don't haul nothing.
• 20:54
  Speaker 1: What are you gonna do with it? I mean, come on, now,
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: so these kids today are so I mean, I know
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: your dad got one, but your dad, your dad work
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: out in the fields. Your dad got a job where
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: he needs a truck, you know, So come on these kids, yo, rong.
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: He gonna like he's gonna appreciate not not getting a
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: truck after gas prices. Not only that, a little car
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: you can go through everywhere and be discreet. You're gonna
• 21:25
  Speaker 1: get caught up in a truck. Too much attention. I
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: don't know, Yah know, he's a good kid. I don't
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: think he's gonna be doing too I don't know what
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: he's gonna be doing. I don't know what you mean
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: by too much attention. But okay, but yeah, if you're
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: gonna live in the city, you gotta have a city ride.
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: I mean if you canna live in Bakersfield. I mean,
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: if he was gonna stay in Bakersfield. I can understand
• 21:48
  Speaker 1: him having a pickup but not if you don't live
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: in the city. Man, get your little city ride. Once
• 21:53
  Speaker 1: you graduate school, you can move back and get you
• 21:55
  Speaker 1: a truck whatever you want. You know, get you a
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: truck and a trailer and be cool. All right, But
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: right now you don't need one. Buddy of Mi's kid
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: is heading off the heading off the college down south, right.
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: He wants to pick up pickup truck. You don't need
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: no pickup truck. I was telling him the other day.
• 22:12
  Speaker 1: You don't need no pickup truck.
• 22:13
  Speaker 4: Man.
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: You just wasted half a car. If you get a
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: pickup truck, I understand if you need it for work
• 22:17
  Speaker 1: or somebody. You don't need no truck. Man. Wait, you
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: wait to either come back to Bakersfield, or wait till
• 22:22
  Speaker 1: you get a wife and you got to haul all
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: her stuff around, or wait till you get a job
• 22:26
  Speaker 1: where you actually need one. Right, you know, Rome, let's
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: see here eight four, two, five four or seven to seven? Hey, Rome,
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: what you say? Kids? They are stupid and they want
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: it all and they don't know how to earn and
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: be humble what's given to them. Yeah, you're right about that.
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: I mean, these kids today are little. They want everything.
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: They want all the comforts of their parents' lifestyle without
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: actually working for it. But he's a good kid. I
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: mean he deserves it. He just doesn't need it. That's
• 23:00
  Speaker 1: the problem. You don't need it. Live at the Justifica studio,
• 23:05
  Speaker 1: it was, Hey, good morning, Rome Arnold over here. It's
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: the trend. Every kid wants a truck right now if
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: you still driving. What used to be popular ten years
• 23:13
  Speaker 1: ago were which were the Civics, best area, cheap parts
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: to fix or make one one cool, and best of all,
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: paid off, reliable gas savery Yeah, those Civics, those Honda
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: Civics were in their day, they were pretty legit cars
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: to have because yeah, I think I think back in
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: my day, if you had a Civic, you could get
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: a motor from overseas because I guess they would only
• 23:45
  Speaker 1: have like fifteen thousand miles on them or thirty thousand
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: miles on them, and you can get them for cheap
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: A couple grand and I get a whole new motor.
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: They were pretty uh, yeah, you ain't lying about those civics.
• 23:59
  Speaker 1: I don't know what the like now now everybody wants
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: a truck, I guess would you send me here?
• 24:04
  Speaker 10: Hey?
• 24:04
  Speaker 4: Rome?
• 24:05
  Speaker 1: And did you hear what happened on Friday night over
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: at the high school football game? Oh? At Independence? Yeah?
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: I heard that. What was it Independence and Centennial? Some
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: kids got in a fight, and I guess one of
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: them pulled a gun and shot somebody, shot and killed somebody.
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: I guess. I don't know a whole lot about it.
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: I mean, you see all these things, you see the
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: information on the whatever on social media, but I don't
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: know what's really what's not so. I mean I saw
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: what you're talking about. I don't know that I really
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: have any insight in it. I don't really have any
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: insight other than what I read. I read a story
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: about it. But apparently a fifteen year old kid or
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: something got in a fight, or miss was defending himself
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: or I don't know. Some kids were fighting and I
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: don't even think they went to that school, did they?
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: Why were they even there?
• 24:59
  Speaker 4: What was it?
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: Penns High School and Centennial? We're playing the So the
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: kid shot somebody? I mean, I guess a scary situation
• 25:08
  Speaker 1: for a lot of different people. I remember that seeing
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: the news story. But yeah, and the seventeen year old
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: passed away due to his injuries. I don't have any
• 25:19
  Speaker 1: any insight on what's what, to be honest with you,
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: and I don't know what to believe anymore off the
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: internet because I don't know what's fake and what's real anymore.
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: So it's hard to tell. I don't really know what's
• 25:31
  Speaker 1: going on. They rested the kid, I know that much,
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: so I don't. I don't. I guess you're you're asking
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: me if I saw it. I saw it. I don't
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: really have any insight on it, all right, what did
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: you text me here?
• 25:40
  Speaker 12: Hey?
• 25:41
  Speaker 5: Rome?
• 25:41
  Speaker 1: Oh? Six six? What is that much? As I number
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: A four two, five, four, seven and seven? If you
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: want a text or call? Somebody's texting me. They're saying,
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: Hey Rome, good morning. I just wanted to ask you
• 25:49
  Speaker 1: your opinion before I go into work. I've been seeing
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: this guy for a year and all he can say
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: is that he likes what we have and when were
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: they get I see him always looking at other women.
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: When I call him out on it, he says it's
• 26:06
  Speaker 1: not true. So what do you guys have he likes
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: what we have. We've been seeing each other for a year.
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: He likes what we have. Well, what do you guys have?
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: I mean, are you just you live in separate houses,
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: you live in separate cities. He's in town. But when
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: you guys are out, he looks at other women? I mean,
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: how does he look at other women? You know? I mean,
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: do you? I think it's a little unreasonable to be
• 26:41
  Speaker 1: with a person and them not notice other people, right?
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: Is that a little unreasonable? Depends on how he's looking
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: at him and is he looking at women? That are
• 26:53
  Speaker 1: what I guess. I'd have to know what he's looking
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: at before I could really make it a sense on
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: what to tell you, because I think it's unreasonable for
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: men or women to be with another person and not
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: notice other men or women out in public. But if
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: he's blatantly staring, breaking his neck to look at him, okay,
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: maybe you have an argument there, you know, or do
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: you must believe that him looking at other women makes
• 27:28
  Speaker 1: you less attracted to him or makes you feel like
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: he's not attracted to you in the same way because
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: he's looking at other women. I mean, I don't know
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: exactly what to think about this, because I don't know
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: what he's doing already four two five, four or seven
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: to seven. But just in general, I think for men
• 27:50
  Speaker 1: and women, it's unreasonable to think that your boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, wife, whatever.
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: I think it's unreasonable to think that they're never gonna
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: look at other women or other men when they're with you.
• 28:01
  Speaker 7: Right?
• 28:02
  Speaker 1: Am I wrong about that? Already? Four two five to four,
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: seven to seven? What does that mean when your partner's
• 28:09
  Speaker 1: looking at the opposite sex in front of you? So
• 28:12
  Speaker 1: I got this text message. It's kind of funny, he says, Hey, rom,
• 28:14
  Speaker 1: good morning. I was hoping you could talk about this.
• 28:16
  Speaker 1: I wonder your opinion before I go to work. You know,
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: I've been seeing this guy for a year, and all
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: I can say is that he likes what we have
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: and when we're together. But I see him always looking
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: at other women, and when I call him out on it,
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: he says it's not true. So he's lying to you
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: about looking at other women. I would maybe that's a
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: red flag if you know he's doing it, and he
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: says he's not, Maybe that's a red flag. But I
• 28:39
  Speaker 1: think it's unreasonable for anybody to say, you know, not
• 28:42
  Speaker 1: look at somebody of the opposite sex if they're attractive.
• 28:46
  Speaker 1: I mean, I find that hard to believe that men
• 28:48
  Speaker 1: or women are going to avoid that. Already four two, five,
• 28:50
  Speaker 1: four or seven seven yo.
• 28:52
  Speaker 5: Rome.
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: If he's already looking at other women and they're only
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: a year in, he might want to look at that relationship.
• 29:01
  Speaker 1: He might be on his way out. He might be
• 29:03
  Speaker 1: trying to find the next one, because after a year
• 29:06
  Speaker 1: of dating, you should still be into the person you're with,
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: not checking out other people. Okay, maybe that's true. I
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: don't know. Already four two to five, four or seven
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: to seven. I do think though, that men and women
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: look at the opposite sex. They look at what they're
• 29:25
  Speaker 1: attracted to, even if they're with somebody right doesn't mean
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: you can leave them? What does it really mean? I mean,
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: what does it really mean if your spouse looks at
• 29:35
  Speaker 1: somebody else while they're with you or your partner or
• 29:39
  Speaker 1: whatever type of relationship you're in. What does that really mean?
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: Already four two five, four ars seven to seven. If
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: you have a text message from a woman, she says, Hey, Rome,
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: good morning, I just wanted to ask your opinion before
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: I go into work. You know, I've been seeing this
• 29:51
  Speaker 1: guy for a year and all he can say is
• 29:54
  Speaker 1: that he likes what we have when we're together, I
• 29:57
  Speaker 1: see him always looking at other women, and when I
• 29:59
  Speaker 1: call him out on it, he says it's not true.
• 30:02
  Speaker 1: So okay, I mean, so what do you think? My
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: opinion is, I think people look at other people.
• 30:11
  Speaker 7: You know.
• 30:13
  Speaker 1: You can be and then let's be honest about it. Okay,
• 30:16
  Speaker 1: you can be married to the hottest whatever you're into, right,
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: the hottest whoever, the hottest person is in your mind.
• 30:26
  Speaker 1: You could be married to them and everything. But if
• 30:28
  Speaker 1: you see somebody who is as attractive as them and
• 30:33
  Speaker 1: it's what you're you're gonna look, I don't know that
• 30:36
  Speaker 1: there's much to it. I mean unless he's blatantly, you know,
• 30:42
  Speaker 1: going out of his way to to whip his neck
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: around to check something out, then I don't know. I
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: don't think you're I think you might be a little
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: reading a little too much into it already. Fourteen five,
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: four seven to seven. Hey, Rome, me and my husband,
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: we've been married for about fifteen years. We look at
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: other people and actually talk about it. It's just human nature. Yeah,
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: I mean, I don't Yeah, I don't I don't think
• 31:12
  Speaker 1: there's anything wrong with it. Well, there's probably times when
• 31:18
  Speaker 1: there's something wrong with it, but I don't know that
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: it's not. I think it's just normal, right, hey, rom
• 31:26
  Speaker 1: I think it's about keeping your spouse comfortable and reassuring
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: that me and my wife look together. But my wife
• 31:32
  Speaker 1: knows I wouldn't never do anything to mess up our relationship, Okay,
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, I don't think there's really I think
• 31:41
  Speaker 1: it's just human nature. You might be right, Hey, good morning, Romeo.
• 31:45
  Speaker 1: Look at another man or woman means absolutely nothing, means
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: we're human. My sick at significant other feels good when
• 31:52
  Speaker 1: men look at me. He knows he has a trophy,
• 31:56
  Speaker 1: and as do I. Yeah, I mean, I just I
• 32:01
  Speaker 1: don't know. You might be reading just a little too
• 32:05
  Speaker 1: much into it. To be honest with you, it suttenly
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: four point wow. But the lying about it is the
• 32:11
  Speaker 1: thing that you might want to worry about. Not so
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: much that he's looking. The fact that he's telling you
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: is not might be the red flag, all right, A four, two, five,
• 32:21
  Speaker 1: four or seven A seven woman text me. She said,
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: good morning, Rome, I just wanted to ask your opinion
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: before I go into work. I've been seeing this guy
• 32:28
  Speaker 1: for a year and all he can say. All he
• 32:30
  Speaker 1: can say is that he likes what we have when
• 32:34
  Speaker 1: we're together, but I see him looking at other women.
• 32:36
  Speaker 1: When I call him out on it, he says he's
• 32:38
  Speaker 1: not true, he's not doing it. All right, good morning?
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: How what's going on?
• 32:43
  Speaker 7: Can say what I'm gonna say.
• 32:44
  Speaker 11: They if they aren't telling you that they aren't looking
• 32:48
  Speaker 11: at people, that's the red flag because it's the human nature.
• 32:51
  Speaker 12: Well, I mean the humans are beautiful and in style,
• 32:55
  Speaker 12: the way they act.
• 32:56
  Speaker 2: I mean people are just looking you know what I mean?
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: Yeah, what it is. I would agree with you on
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: that one.
• 33:06
  Speaker 11: I believe it is natural grows to look, but I
• 33:10
  Speaker 11: think that he must be doing it in an obvious
• 33:12
  Speaker 11: way for her to even know. It's because when I
• 33:15
  Speaker 11: was married, I would look, but my husband never noticed.
• 33:20
  Speaker 11: And even when he did, when he could, obviously, I
• 33:24
  Speaker 11: would look at guys and you're like, okay, I would.
• 33:27
  Speaker 2: Hear girls more.
• 33:28
  Speaker 11: And for the fact that oh was like, you know,
• 33:32
  Speaker 11: I'll be looking at he'd be like what you're looking at?
• 33:34
  Speaker 5: Like look at her.
• 33:35
  Speaker 7: Nails, like you know, or.
• 33:38
  Speaker 11: You're sneaky And he's been too obvious.
• 33:40
  Speaker 3: Why are you prating the nest?
• 33:41
  Speaker 2: That's really disrespectful.
• 33:43
  Speaker 1: They should be sneaky like you.
• 33:45
  Speaker 11: Hunh yeah, would be a little bit more subtle with
• 33:48
  Speaker 11: so you can you know, and not only that, there's
• 33:51
  Speaker 11: a distance, there's a respectful way to disrespect somebody.
• 33:55
  Speaker 2: You want to look, don't move your.
• 33:56
  Speaker 11: Whole hands, you know, your neck, You just look at
• 33:59
  Speaker 11: your eyes that little provision, you know, because that's what
• 34:04
  Speaker 11: he's doing his time is whole head. So there ain't
• 34:05
  Speaker 11: no way you should be noticing that unless you're.
• 34:07
  Speaker 2: Doing it.
• 34:09
  Speaker 11: Consistently. He's probably doing it all the time, and he
• 34:13
  Speaker 11: might be doing it all perfect till ever know how
• 34:15
  Speaker 11: you got competition?
• 34:16
  Speaker 1: Deb No, you know that's funny that she says that.
• 34:23
  Speaker 2: But do.
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: Well, what if what if you're not looking right? What
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: if you're not looking tight and and your spouse is
• 34:31
  Speaker 1: is looking at other women or other men because you
• 34:35
  Speaker 1: know you're not keeping yourself together for that? Is there
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: any validity to that? Maybe maybe that lady was right,
• 34:42
  Speaker 1: Maybe you need to get yourself right. But I got
• 34:44
  Speaker 1: this text message from lady. She says, hey, Rome, good morning.
• 34:46
  Speaker 1: Just wanted to ask your opinion before I go to work.
• 34:49
  Speaker 1: You know, I've been seeing this guy for a year.
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: All I can say is that he likes what we have.
• 34:53
  Speaker 1: When we're together, I see him always excuse me looking
• 34:57
  Speaker 1: at other women, and when I call him out on it,
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: he says it's not true. What do I think make
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: you need to worry about him lying about not looking
• 35:06
  Speaker 1: at other women? Because I think the rest is just
• 35:09
  Speaker 1: human nature? Right already? Four to two pop four ards,
• 35:11
  Speaker 1: seven to seven. Let's see here? What did you send me?
• 35:17
  Speaker 1: Hey room? When I see a crazy BBL always pointed
• 35:21
  Speaker 1: out to my wife and say, dang, did you see that?
• 35:27
  Speaker 1: We get a laugh out of it. Okay, hey room,
• 35:31
  Speaker 1: the lady should put him on the put him on
• 35:33
  Speaker 1: the page. Oh is this your man? Or whatever? Is
• 35:36
  Speaker 1: this my man? Sell him out on Facebook or whatever
• 35:40
  Speaker 1: that page is. You guys were talking about, hey room,
• 35:43
  Speaker 1: Let's see here. Does she get upset because she doesn't
• 35:48
  Speaker 1: look at other or because she doesn't look at other guys?
• 35:51
  Speaker 1: Does she feel disrespected that he looks at girls? Why
• 35:56
  Speaker 1: does he have to lie about looking? Just talk about us?
• 36:00
  Speaker 1: Sometimes that button breast look too big? That you sit
• 36:05
  Speaker 1: there wondering, Well, I mean, I just I just think
• 36:11
  Speaker 1: it's kind of human nature, right, just like this person texted, Hey,
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: Roman's human nature. But I can say it takes it
• 36:17
  Speaker 1: takes to be in the right relationship. This is my
• 36:20
  Speaker 1: second marriage. I've been with him fourteen years, and I
• 36:23
  Speaker 1: can truly say I've never had the urge to look
• 36:26
  Speaker 1: or thought of anyone in any way. But I can't
• 36:30
  Speaker 1: say that about my first marriage. I think when you
• 36:32
  Speaker 1: love someone that just doesn't happen, lust is still cheating.
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: In my opinion, lust leads to opportunities, and lies are
• 36:41
  Speaker 1: the first step to guilt. I'm just saying lust and
• 36:47
  Speaker 1: looking at somebody else or not the same thing. Attractiveness
• 36:53
  Speaker 1: and love are not the same thing. So what you're
• 36:55
  Speaker 1: talking about, yeah, you might be doing a little too much.
• 37:01
  Speaker 1: I mean, I know what your opinion that that's how
• 37:03
  Speaker 1: you feel. And your second marriage, the guy's okay with it,
• 37:06
  Speaker 1: but he might be doing just a little too much there, Romeo.
• 37:10
  Speaker 3: In order for a greater day to give her accurate
• 37:12
  Speaker 3: relationship advice, I need to know if two things, you know,
• 37:18
  Speaker 3: how old are they? What is their age group? Okay,
• 37:23
  Speaker 3: because that makes a big factor. If he's young and
• 37:26
  Speaker 3: he's looking, yeah, more than likely he is, you know,
• 37:29
  Speaker 3: looking for his next thing. If he's if they're older
• 37:33
  Speaker 3: over forty.
• 37:35
  Speaker 7: He might just have bad eyesight. Romeo.
• 37:37
  Speaker 3: Okay, I have very bad eyesight.
• 37:40
  Speaker 5: You know.
• 37:40
  Speaker 3: I'll be trying to read something, So what if her
• 37:42
  Speaker 3: booty is right there where I'm trying to read it.
• 37:44
  Speaker 3: I'm not even paying attention to the booty anymore. I'm mature,
• 37:48
  Speaker 3: I'm in my relationship, but a lot of times it's
• 37:51
  Speaker 3: our eyesight.
• 37:52
  Speaker 13: I have very bad eyesight.
• 37:53
  Speaker 3: So my wife always questions, what are you looking at?
• 37:55
  Speaker 3: Are you looking at that girl?
• 37:56
  Speaker 7: And I'm like, no, I'm trying to read the signs
• 37:57
  Speaker 7: behind her or something, you.
• 37:58
  Speaker 1: Know, Okay, idiot, Hey, Romeo, depends how they are looking.
• 38:05
  Speaker 1: There's a difference between looking and staring. But you can't. Yeah,
• 38:11
  Speaker 1: you can't. Lie messes up trust in a relationship. She'd
• 38:15
  Speaker 1: probably been her before, so she has trust issues. Jo,
• 38:19
  Speaker 1: rome Some peoples have a messed up BBL. You got
• 38:23
  Speaker 1: me check it out? Uh all right, yeah, that's crazy.
• 38:28
  Speaker 1: Would you send me here?
• 38:29
  Speaker 4: Oh?
• 38:29
  Speaker 1: This is about what happened over at Independence High School
• 38:32
  Speaker 1: the other night. Friday night. A fifteen year old kid
• 38:35
  Speaker 1: shot a seventeen year old kid. I guess they were
• 38:37
  Speaker 1: fighting and someone the fifteen year old kid shot the
• 38:39
  Speaker 1: seventeen year old and he died of his injuries. And
• 38:44
  Speaker 1: it happened at the football game, right, well, I cloat
• 38:46
  Speaker 1: next to the football game. I don't think it had
• 38:48
  Speaker 1: anything to do necessarily with the football game. I don't
• 38:52
  Speaker 1: even know why they were there, it says Yo rome
• 38:55
  Speaker 1: a four two, five, four or seven to seven yo roam, Hey,
• 38:58
  Speaker 1: what are your thoughts about this generation bringing guns to
• 39:01
  Speaker 1: a football game and killing another kid? I mean, kid
• 39:04
  Speaker 1: was fifteen who pulled the trigger. I don't know, I said.
• 39:09
  Speaker 1: Somebody asked me the same something similar earlier about it.
• 39:12
  Speaker 1: I don't, I don't know. I don't really. I don't
• 39:15
  Speaker 1: really have a whole lot of thought. I mean, it's terrible.
• 39:18
  Speaker 1: It's a tragedy for both people, the kid that shot,
• 39:21
  Speaker 1: the kid that got shot and the kid that you
• 39:22
  Speaker 1: know shot him, and it's just awful. But I don't
• 39:27
  Speaker 1: I don't know, Yes, I don't really. I just don't know.
• 39:30
  Speaker 1: I mean, it just doesn't I don't know. I don't
• 39:37
  Speaker 1: really know. I'm trying to think. I don't, uh. Is
• 39:41
  Speaker 1: that what's going on nowadays? Is it happening so much
• 39:45
  Speaker 1: that this is something that is overtaking society. I mean,
• 39:48
  Speaker 1: maybe it is, maybe it isn't. I don't know, you know,
• 39:51
  Speaker 1: So I don't. You know, I go to high school
• 39:54
  Speaker 1: football games. I've never seen that anything like that happened.
• 39:58
  Speaker 1: So I don't don't in my personal experience as many
• 40:04
  Speaker 1: high school football games that I've been to and I
• 40:06
  Speaker 1: played in high school football, and I don't, I've never
• 40:09
  Speaker 1: seen this happen. So and I've still never seen it happen.
• 40:12
  Speaker 1: I was at a high school football game of Friday
• 40:14
  Speaker 1: night and I heard people talking about it. But so
• 40:17
  Speaker 1: I don't know. I guess I don't know. I don't
• 40:19
  Speaker 1: really know what to say about it, to be honest
• 40:21
  Speaker 1: with you. I mean, the schools might have to do
• 40:25
  Speaker 1: something different and you know, regulate how you know, what
• 40:32
  Speaker 1: they do at football games, But what that is, I
• 40:35
  Speaker 1: don't know. Maybe so, And how can how do I mean,
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: there's so many questions before you can have a conversation
• 40:42
  Speaker 1: about this on what was really going on, and without those,
• 40:45
  Speaker 1: without those answers, you can't have a real legitimate conversation
• 40:47
  Speaker 1: about it. But what did you send me here? Hey, roam,
• 40:50
  Speaker 1: there's four? Oh, So back to the men looking at
• 40:52
  Speaker 1: women are guys checking out women. Let's see, there's four reasons.
• 40:56
  Speaker 1: Rome If a man is looking at another woman, he's
• 41:00
  Speaker 1: trying to set up a threesome. He's adding a mental
• 41:04
  Speaker 1: picture to his you know what, bank Uh, she's just uh,
• 41:08
  Speaker 1: she's just wilding and he's like the girl in obsession,
• 41:13
  Speaker 1: or maybe he wants something younger, so he's just uh
• 41:16
  Speaker 1: weezing the juice. As Pauli Shore would say, fair enough,
• 41:24
  Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, you guys, yeah, okay, all right, all right,
• 41:30
  Speaker 1: what else? Well, we've got a couple of things going
• 41:33
  Speaker 1: on here. Hey, rom what do you think is gonna
• 41:34
  Speaker 1: happen to the kid that shot the other kid? I
• 41:38
  Speaker 1: don't know. Without knowing anything about the situation, I have
• 41:42
  Speaker 1: no idea. I wouldn't even be able to I wouldn't
• 41:45
  Speaker 1: even be able to tell you. You know, I don't know.
• 41:47
  Speaker 1: Hegyboard Romeo. So I seen all of our social media
• 41:51
  Speaker 1: they were saying that both kids were gang members. Uh,
• 41:53
  Speaker 1: we're starting to turn into la The gang members are
• 41:56
  Speaker 1: getting younger and younger the high school. High schools are
• 41:59
  Speaker 1: going to have to start putting the metal detectors outside
• 42:02
  Speaker 1: the school events to prevent these types of things. From
• 42:05
  Speaker 1: getting in. Maybe maybe you're right, Maybe you're right, But
• 42:10
  Speaker 1: my question will be this, when's the last time this happened?
• 42:15
  Speaker 1: Is it really happening that much? Or are you guys
• 42:17
  Speaker 1: overreacting over an incident that, uh, you know, happens. I
• 42:21
  Speaker 1: don't know. I don't know. I really I don't know.
• 42:24
  Speaker 1: All right, Hey, room, Obviously it all starts at home
• 42:27
  Speaker 1: with the parents, but not all parents are the same.
• 42:31
  Speaker 1: So the high schools need to step in to regulate
• 42:33
  Speaker 1: these kids. Well maybe, I mean, I don't know how
• 42:38
  Speaker 1: much you know, how much control you're gonna you really
• 42:41
  Speaker 1: want to give a high school and put the responsibility
• 42:44
  Speaker 1: on them to take care of your kids or raise
• 42:47
  Speaker 1: your kids, because look at what's going on in the
• 42:49
  Speaker 1: schools and all the things that you don't like they're doing. So,
• 42:52
  Speaker 1: I mean, you're right, protect them is a different thing.
• 42:55
  Speaker 1: I agree. I agree with one hundred percent with that.
• 42:58
  Speaker 1: I mean, I just don't But without knowing what's going on,
• 43:01
  Speaker 1: what happened, you guys are all You're gonna tell me
• 43:04
  Speaker 1: something about social media and this and that, and it's
• 43:07
  Speaker 1: not a lot of that social media stuff is not real.
• 43:10
  Speaker 1: You don't know the truth. We don't know what happened, Gorny?
• 43:13
  Speaker 1: How what's going on?
• 43:14
  Speaker 2: Hey?
• 43:15
  Speaker 7: What's up wrong?
• 43:16
  Speaker 1: Hey?
• 43:17
  Speaker 7: Rom I agree with you on Uh, there's there. You
• 43:20
  Speaker 7: know what I mean. It's natural to be who you know,
• 43:22
  Speaker 7: a human being, but it's a disrespect when you're turning
• 43:24
  Speaker 7: that head, you know what I mean? Okay, And it's
• 43:27
  Speaker 7: just like that. I mean, everybody's walking and you're looking.
• 43:29
  Speaker 7: Can just look down at the ground, okay, But when
• 43:32
  Speaker 7: you follow it, you know what I mean. And if
• 43:35
  Speaker 7: she's noticing it right now and he's denying it, trade denial, bro,
• 43:40
  Speaker 7: you better turn and run the other way already. Why
• 43:42
  Speaker 7: are you gonna keep going?
• 43:46
  Speaker 10: Yeah?
• 43:47
  Speaker 1: What's going on?
• 43:49
  Speaker 7: Romeo?
• 43:49
  Speaker 3: And these two kids are so stified here kicking ass whoopings. Now,
• 43:54
  Speaker 3: back in my day, all you needed was your fist.
• 43:57
  Speaker 3: That's what made your man and you live fight another day.
• 44:01
  Speaker 1: Or how about not fighting at all or not fighting
• 44:04
  Speaker 1: at all?
• 44:04
  Speaker 3: But you know what I think it is the judicial
• 44:07
  Speaker 3: system because I'll tell you what's going to happen. This
• 44:10
  Speaker 3: kid was a minor. He might do eight years, five
• 44:14
  Speaker 3: years at the most for taking another person's life, which
• 44:16
  Speaker 3: is horrible. So they need to make it a little
• 44:20
  Speaker 3: bit more.
• 44:22
  Speaker 13: More time for them and they might think twice before
• 44:24
  Speaker 13: they act stupid. But right now they know that there's
• 44:27
  Speaker 13: a loophole where they're going to get out early because
• 44:29
  Speaker 13: they're a minor. And that's the only that's the only
• 44:32
  Speaker 13: scary part.
• 44:33
  Speaker 3: But it's happening everywhere. We can't avoid it. You can't
• 44:36
  Speaker 3: live in fear. We still got to go out and
• 44:38
  Speaker 3: have a good time.
• 44:39
  Speaker 7: There are morons.
• 44:40
  Speaker 3: We can't let jackass to stop it. I feel bad
• 44:42
  Speaker 3: for the family, but man, that's crazy.
• 44:47
  Speaker 1: I mean, you guys are all going to have your
• 44:50
  Speaker 1: own conversations about it. You're gonna believe what you want,
• 44:53
  Speaker 1: what you believe based on what you've seen on the
• 44:55
  Speaker 1: internet or what you've seen. I mean, I watched the
• 44:57
  Speaker 1: news to see what they had to say, and they
• 44:59
  Speaker 1: just gave the facts on what happened, no real insight.
• 45:02
  Speaker 1: But you start listening to everybody's opinion on the internet
• 45:05
  Speaker 1: and then you start forming your own opinion when you
• 45:07
  Speaker 1: don't really know what's going on. They'll let anybody say
• 45:10
  Speaker 1: anything on the internet. Okay, there's no regulations. They don't
• 45:13
  Speaker 1: have to be facts and know what's going on. You know,
• 45:16
  Speaker 1: you guys all know how rumors spread and things happen
• 45:19
  Speaker 1: and what's what and things get snowball into this huge
• 45:22
  Speaker 1: and I don't know anything about it. I mean, I
• 45:25
  Speaker 1: know a bunch of stuff my friend sent me on
• 45:26
  Speaker 1: the internet, but I don't believe at all. I have
• 45:28
  Speaker 1: no idea what's real and what's not real until well,
• 45:31
  Speaker 1: I'm sure the facts will come out. We'll see. So
• 45:34
  Speaker 1: that Independence thing, that thing, that that shooting that happened
• 45:37
  Speaker 1: on Friday Independence Centennial football game, let's see here, rome
• 45:43
  Speaker 1: They were saying that they're sending all the bad kids
• 45:46
  Speaker 1: in delinquents are being sent to Independence. That's what they're saying.
• 45:51
  Speaker 1: That's what they're saying. Do you see what I mean
• 45:54
  Speaker 1: by their saying you want to have a conversation about
• 45:57
  Speaker 1: something when it's who said it? They them, they're the internet,
• 46:02
  Speaker 1: you know, social media. I mean, how can you have
• 46:07
  Speaker 1: a legitimate conversation about someone You've got so much speculation
• 46:10
  Speaker 1: and people making their own assessments of something they know
• 46:13
  Speaker 1: nothing about. I have no idea. So okay, there you go.
• 46:18
  Speaker 3: Oh what's going on, Romeo?
• 46:21
  Speaker 12: Is it bad to say that?
• 46:23
  Speaker 11: Come from la And when I heard.
• 46:25
  Speaker 12: About the shooting, I was a little ticket back that
• 46:30
  Speaker 12: it was actually an intent for one person. We have
• 46:34
  Speaker 12: been listening to shooting that they're just shooting everybody.
• 46:39
  Speaker 3: They're just shooting.
• 46:39
  Speaker 12: People, teachers, everybody at at a garlic festival. They're just
• 46:44
  Speaker 12: shooting anybody that they want to.
• 46:45
  Speaker 11: They're just going on a rampage.
• 46:47
  Speaker 5: I mean, isn't it kind of im on as bad.
• 46:51
  Speaker 9: That he only put for one boy said it didn't what.
• 46:56
  Speaker 12: Like like for instance, like this if they were gay
• 47:00
  Speaker 12: mayors or whatever, but they are intent was only to
• 47:02
  Speaker 12: get that one.
• 47:03
  Speaker 1: To say, well, they were just fighting each other. Yes, okay,
• 47:06
  Speaker 1: that's right.
• 47:07
  Speaker 4: I think they only fight each other.
• 47:08
  Speaker 12: Of course, the kids pick up weapons. If Tony was
• 47:11
  Speaker 12: coming after me, I'm taking picture frames off the wall.
• 47:13
  Speaker 1: I'm going crazy.
• 47:15
  Speaker 12: So I can't blame the kid, But I mean, isn't
• 47:18
  Speaker 12: it better that the other kid didn't just start shooting
• 47:21
  Speaker 12: at the stands, shooting at the players, and shooting at
• 47:23
  Speaker 12: the cheerleaders.
• 47:24
  Speaker 11: And now, listen, we have seventeen kids.
• 47:26
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean that's yeah, I mean, it's I.
• 47:29
  Speaker 11: Mean, that's what we're used to. We're used to going
• 47:31
  Speaker 11: to a concert and being pray.
• 47:33
  Speaker 12: We're used to going to a festival and being free.
• 47:36
  Speaker 12: Now I mean, at least this kid only we only
• 47:39
  Speaker 12: got one and he went for the one he was
• 47:41
  Speaker 12: going for, you know what I mean, I don't know
• 47:42
  Speaker 12: if that's I just we're just it's just freaking sad.
• 47:47
  Speaker 12: But it wasn't a mass shooting, and it wasn't just
• 47:51
  Speaker 12: a series of people who's getting.
• 47:53
  Speaker 11: Shot that he had no idea who they were.
• 47:55
  Speaker 7: Yeah, h.
• 47:58
  Speaker 1: Thanks for going. I appreciate it, but am I Yeah,
• 48:02
  Speaker 1: I don't know if I'd go that far, But I don't.
• 48:05
  Speaker 1: I mean, there's way too much going on to have
• 48:10
  Speaker 1: a conversation about it is. It's almost impossible without knowing everything.
• 48:17
  Speaker 1: Without knowing everything, you know, how did the kid at
• 48:21
  Speaker 1: fifteen get a gun? You know, how did what were
• 48:24
  Speaker 1: they fighting about? Why did they go to that school?
• 48:28
  Speaker 1: How did they end up where they were? You know what,
• 48:31
  Speaker 1: there's a lot of questions that need to be answered
• 48:33
  Speaker 1: on what, you know, what's going on before you start
• 48:37
  Speaker 1: jumping to these huge conclusions about really what really happened.
• 48:42
  Speaker 1: Maybe we'll find out, maybe we won't. But you're definitely
• 48:45
  Speaker 1: not getting it off the internet. You're definitely not getting it.
• 48:48
  Speaker 1: You know, you're not getting all the information, at least
• 48:52
  Speaker 1: all the correct information. You're getting everybody's opinion on what
• 48:55
  Speaker 1: they think or what they said. I couldn't tell you
• 48:57
  Speaker 1: how many different opinions I got from people over the
• 49:01
  Speaker 1: weekend sent to me, and I don't know which one's right.
• 49:06
  Speaker 1: I don't know if they're all wrong. I got pictures
• 49:08
  Speaker 1: of I got pictures sent to me of this kid
• 49:10
  Speaker 1: who was supposedly did it, and it didn't look like
• 49:12
  Speaker 1: the kid they arrested. I mean, I got people sent
• 49:15
  Speaker 1: me video. I don't know.
• 49:17
  Speaker 3: You know, you just can't.
• 49:18
  Speaker 1: You just don't know what you can or can't believe.
• 49:20
  Speaker 1: I mean, it's a terrible thing to happen. You know,
• 49:24
  Speaker 1: there's a lot of questions. Yeah, I gotta get answered
• 49:26
  Speaker 1: before you know, before you should, but before you start
• 49:29
  Speaker 1: making opinions on what happened, there's a lot of questions
• 49:32
  Speaker 1: that need to be answered, you know. So all right,
• 49:37
  Speaker 1: all righty fourteen four or seven to seven? Has this
• 49:41
  Speaker 1: happened in Bakersfield before? By the way, that's another thing.
• 49:43
  Speaker 1: Somebody they were talking about this. I said, I don't
• 49:46
  Speaker 1: as long as I've been in Bakerschild, I don't remember
• 49:48
  Speaker 1: anything like this happening at a football game. And it
• 49:51
  Speaker 1: might it wasn't even at the game. It was at
• 49:54
  Speaker 1: something adjacent to the game, right, So I don't know
• 49:57
  Speaker 1: where's it? Where's oh?
• 49:58
  Speaker 2: Here is?
• 49:58
  Speaker 1: He says, no, non, no, no, no, Rome. If you
• 50:02
  Speaker 1: raise your kids right, they'll grow up to have respect
• 50:04
  Speaker 1: for themselves and others. It starts at home. Understand, things happen,
• 50:08
  Speaker 1: but they'll happen less if you, as a parent, teach
• 50:12
  Speaker 1: morals first. I have a product of evil ways by
• 50:15
  Speaker 1: my own choice. That doesn't mean my kids have to
• 50:18
  Speaker 1: be like me. Sad what happened? Rome, person to both
• 50:21
  Speaker 1: families because they both lost? Yeah, big boy, I mean
• 50:25
  Speaker 1: I don't think you can argue with that. I just
• 50:28
  Speaker 1: I don't know. I mean I really don't know. Honestly,
• 50:34
  Speaker 1: Without knowing everything about it, I can't make an assessment,
• 50:40
  Speaker 1: an educated assessment on what happened. It just you can't.
• 50:44
  Speaker 1: You can't do it. I mean, we need maybe we
• 50:46
  Speaker 1: need to call lawyers in here and have Daniel come
• 50:49
  Speaker 1: and talk to us about what's going on. I mean,
• 50:51
  Speaker 1: I don't know. You know, Rome, so I seen let's see.
• 50:55
  Speaker 1: So I've seen the game related comments online and I
• 50:58
  Speaker 1: don't It didn't appear to come from any credible source.
• 51:02
  Speaker 1: Incredible local resource to even know anything. Now, it may
• 51:06
  Speaker 1: be wrong, maybe correct, but we don't know in fact,
• 51:09
  Speaker 1: in fact are a oh oh, no, are facts. Both
• 51:17
  Speaker 1: young men lost the life another young man made a
• 51:20
  Speaker 1: very bad decision that cannot be reversed, regardless of the
• 51:23
  Speaker 1: lifestyle they both were living. They're both someone's son, brother, cousin,
• 51:27
  Speaker 1: and friend, grandchild. They both have families and friends who
• 51:30
  Speaker 1: love them. The violence within our youth hurts, doesn't make sense,
• 51:37
  Speaker 1: but as parents we can only cont as parents can
• 51:44
  Speaker 1: only control so much because teens will be teens, and unfortunately,
• 51:48
  Speaker 1: every parent's fear is one of our kids making a
• 51:51
  Speaker 1: horrible decision. All for letting my kids make their own
• 51:54
  Speaker 1: mistakes to learn from them, but heat of the moment,
• 52:00
  Speaker 1: peer pressure, Uh, peer pressure, The thought of doing something
• 52:04
  Speaker 1: like that will bring you the girls respect or gangster
• 52:09
  Speaker 1: image is what a lot of these kids idolize. Our
• 52:12
  Speaker 1: society sucks, and it's across and it and it's across
• 52:16
  Speaker 1: the map, not just Bakersfield. It's a very unfortunate situation. Yeah, okay,
• 52:24
  Speaker 1: let's see here do well. Uh oh, let's see and
• 52:35
  Speaker 1: that happened on the good side of town, not the
• 52:37
  Speaker 1: east side. I don't think the east Side's a bad
• 52:41
  Speaker 1: side of town. So yeah, I love living on the
• 52:44
  Speaker 1: east Side already, four two bors, seven A rom would
• 52:49
  Speaker 1: you send me here?
• 52:49
  Speaker 5: This is.
• 52:52
  Speaker 1: Uh, let's see. Oh, this is the fourth Bakersfield High
• 52:55
  Speaker 1: School student to die in a one year timespand these
• 52:59
  Speaker 1: are our teens dying. Okay, so this is not the
• 53:02
  Speaker 1: first time it's happened, and is this the first time
• 53:06
  Speaker 1: it's happened at school. I'm just I'm curious because I
• 53:08
  Speaker 1: don't know anything. That's why I said, I can't base
• 53:11
  Speaker 1: an opinion on anything because I don't know anything about it.
• 53:14
  Speaker 1: You know, I know what I read, and I know
• 53:16
  Speaker 1: what I saw on the news. And then I got,
• 53:20
  Speaker 1: you know, flooded with a bunch of friends, friends sending
• 53:23
  Speaker 1: me stuff that they found on the internet that some
• 53:27
  Speaker 1: of it was not true at all, and some of
• 53:28
  Speaker 1: it was speculation and opinion. So I don't know, Hey, Roam,
• 53:36
  Speaker 1: what I saw on the news was I guess the
• 53:39
  Speaker 1: fight was gang related. It was one one guy versus
• 53:44
  Speaker 1: the other on one hood versus the other hood, and
• 53:48
  Speaker 1: then the one kid decided he was getting worn out
• 53:52
  Speaker 1: to so decided to pull out the gun and kill
• 53:55
  Speaker 1: the kid. Okay, so people were fighting and somebody got
• 54:00
  Speaker 1: pulled out a gun. That's all I know. I mean,
• 54:03
  Speaker 1: I don't know, you know, I don't know. It's about
• 54:08
  Speaker 1: all the news said. I didn't know they were gang related.
• 54:10
  Speaker 1: I don't know where that came from. I don't. In fact,
• 54:15
  Speaker 1: I just read the news article today from the news
• 54:20
  Speaker 1: that said, uh, that said they arrested the kid and
• 54:25
  Speaker 1: where they arrested him. But I don't. I don't recall
• 54:28
  Speaker 1: seeing say they were gang related. So I don't know. Okay,
• 54:33
  Speaker 1: but you guys, everybody knows, you know, everybody wants to
• 54:36
  Speaker 1: make an opinion based up you know, rush to judgment
• 54:39
  Speaker 1: on things before they get all the information. So that's
• 54:43
  Speaker 1: the world we live in today.
• 54:44
  Speaker 8: Hey, ron, so would like this situation. I hate it
• 54:53
  Speaker 8: when people just start blabbing stuff and they say, oh,
• 54:58
  Speaker 8: they said it was game related, and I'm like, well,
• 55:02
  Speaker 8: who they the Internet?
• 55:04
  Speaker 4: Man?
• 55:05
  Speaker 1: The Internet?
• 55:06
  Speaker 9: Yeah, but I mean, you.
• 55:07
  Speaker 8: Don't have no credible person that can say you know
• 55:11
  Speaker 8: that that's what it is, you know what I mean, Like,
• 55:15
  Speaker 8: my aunt said it was game related. While is your
• 55:18
  Speaker 8: aunt a credible person too?
• 55:20
  Speaker 1: Probably you probably got about Facebook.
• 55:24
  Speaker 8: Yeah, I don't know. I just hate it when they
• 55:26
  Speaker 8: say they said it wasn't even as good and it
• 55:29
  Speaker 8: was a lean shot, you.
• 55:30
  Speaker 1: Know what I mean, Like, yeah, yeah, you're right, you're right.
• 55:36
  Speaker 8: It's just so annoying. She's multiple people people like that.
• 55:39
  Speaker 1: All right, all right, I mean, all right, people are
• 55:42
  Speaker 1: going to have the conversations because it happened at school,
• 55:45
  Speaker 1: Friday night football is huge. I mean, it wasn't related
• 55:50
  Speaker 1: and it didn't appear to be related to Friday night football,
• 55:52
  Speaker 1: but that's what the headline says. You know, it's all about,
• 55:58
  Speaker 1: and then you take then you have to add on
• 56:00
  Speaker 1: top of that, you have to add the fact that
• 56:02
  Speaker 1: you have all these people with social media sites trying
• 56:06
  Speaker 1: to get clicks, trying to get fame, trying to get money,
• 56:11
  Speaker 1: so they don't care, and with no accountability whatsoever for
• 56:15
  Speaker 1: facts or truth, they can say whatever they want without
• 56:20
  Speaker 1: accountability for facts and truth. And they're not doing it
• 56:23
  Speaker 1: because they actually care about these these two kids that
• 56:27
  Speaker 1: this happened to. They're saying it because they want to
• 56:30
  Speaker 1: make money and they're trying to get paid off of
• 56:32
  Speaker 1: somebody else's tragedy. So you know, I don't you got
• 56:37
  Speaker 1: to figure out what's going on before you start, you know, talking,
• 56:40
  Speaker 1: it's just but that's not the world we live in today.
• 56:42
  Speaker 1: Everybody wants to talk, everybody wants to say something, and
• 56:46
  Speaker 1: now you got it all on the internet because everybody's
• 56:48
  Speaker 1: trying to get paid or get paid or some sort
• 56:50
  Speaker 1: of thing, you know, and goo going to rome. The
• 56:54
  Speaker 1: media or the news are trying to pin a different
• 56:56
  Speaker 1: picture from what reality is. I'm not saying that what
• 57:01
  Speaker 1: he did was okay, but the kid that got shot
• 57:04
  Speaker 1: from a gang, and how do you know that? There
• 57:07
  Speaker 1: are multiple pictures of him posted throwing up gang signs
• 57:15
  Speaker 1: with other kids or by himself. If you're a gang,
• 57:18
  Speaker 1: if you're a gang or running with the streets, eventually,
• 57:22
  Speaker 1: that's what's going to lead to you to your death.
• 57:24
  Speaker 1: And from my understanding, from what I've been finding out out,
• 57:30
  Speaker 1: his friends were getting jumped. I guess multiple people, including
• 57:35
  Speaker 1: the kid that got shot, were stomping on his friends
• 57:39
  Speaker 1: or stomping on his friends with regardless, somebody was gonna
• 57:43
  Speaker 1: die that night either way, the kid that was getting
• 57:47
  Speaker 1: his head stomped by multiple people or the kid that
• 57:49
  Speaker 1: got shot. I hope that makes sense. I guess where
• 57:54
  Speaker 1: did you get your information from? You know, I'm just
• 57:57
  Speaker 1: reading text messages from people that I don't know how
• 58:00
  Speaker 1: credible their information is. I really don't know, you know,
• 58:03
  Speaker 1: because nothing the most credible source. I don't even know
• 58:10
  Speaker 1: where to get the most credible source from, to be
• 58:13
  Speaker 1: honest with you, So I don't know. But okay, I
• 58:16
  Speaker 1: mean that's if that's if that's what you got, I guess.
• 58:21
  Speaker 1: But where where's your information coming from?
• 58:25
  Speaker 2: You know?
• 58:27
  Speaker 1: That's that's what see and that's what you got to see.
• 58:29
  Speaker 1: That's nowadays, when something like this happens, or something tragic happens,
• 58:34
  Speaker 1: you uh, you don't know where you're getting your information
• 58:38
  Speaker 1: that from and what's correct and what's not correct?
• 58:40
  Speaker 4: You know?
• 58:42
  Speaker 1: Well, all right, what else?
• 58:47
  Speaker 8: Uh?
• 58:47
  Speaker 1: Rome? Both kids weren't from Independence. The kid who died
• 58:51
  Speaker 1: was not enrolled in school. Oh okay, then why were
• 58:56
  Speaker 1: they there? What was that all about? Why were they
• 58:59
  Speaker 1: had an independence and a game if that wasn't their school?
• 59:02
  Speaker 2: Crazy?
• 59:03
  Speaker 6: This world we live in nowadays, man, crazy things, crazy
• 59:07
  Speaker 6: things that have happened forever too, though.
• 59:09
  Speaker 1: Just remember that.
• 59:10
  Speaker 6: But yes, you're right, that's right man. I'm just trying
• 59:12
  Speaker 6: to figure out how the kig got in there with
• 59:13
  Speaker 6: a with a gun man, the lady, the lady in
• 59:16
  Speaker 6: the front that was and taking that mission, didn't even
• 59:21
  Speaker 6: let me in the thing with a water bottle.
• 59:23
  Speaker 1: Wait, what what?
• 59:24
  Speaker 12: What?
• 59:24
  Speaker 1: Won't I say that again?
• 59:26
  Speaker 3: She said, I couldn't go in in the into the
• 59:29
  Speaker 3: game unless I threw.
• 59:30
  Speaker 6: That bottle bottle of water away. She helped me there
• 59:34
  Speaker 6: until security came and I threw it away, and finally
• 59:38
  Speaker 6: I was able to go into the game. Really, yeah, man,
• 59:42
  Speaker 6: So it's that's what I'm saying.
• 59:43
  Speaker 2: Crazy world.
• 59:44
  Speaker 1: Oh that is crazy. That is crazy.
• 59:46
  Speaker 6: That's and then that same night, man, you hear that
• 59:50
  Speaker 6: that gunshot. Now myself, that's could buy my water bottle
• 59:54
  Speaker 6: with what's up? That same night we hear that that gunshot.
• 59:59
  Speaker 6: I told myself, and I can't even be my water bottling.
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 1: That's insane, that's wild.
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 7: Man. Yeah.
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 1: I don't know, man, things are, things are upside down.
• 1:00:08
  Speaker 1: Sometimes I blame the parents as well, all right, well
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 1: they can take some blame, all right, man. I mean
• 1:00:17
  Speaker 1: I think there's a lot of blame to go around
• 1:00:19
  Speaker 1: for this situation.
• 1:00:21
  Speaker 7: I mean.
• 1:00:23
  Speaker 1: I think there's a lot of blame to go around.
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 1: You know, you can't just yeah, yeah, but without knowing everything,
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 1: that's going on, how do we how do you solve
• 1:00:34
  Speaker 1: the problem. I mean, that's really what it's got to
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 1: come down to, is solving the problem. Hey Rome, Uh,
• 1:00:43
  Speaker 1: let's see here, what'd you sit in me? Here? Hey room,
• 1:00:45
  Speaker 1: at the end of the day, let's see here. The
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 1: end of the day, someone is uh, someone is dead
• 1:00:50
  Speaker 1: and many other lives are forever chased. Absolutely, I don't
• 1:00:53
  Speaker 1: think anybody's gonna argue with that. In the video. In
• 1:00:56
  Speaker 1: the video, it shows them jumping the kid who put
• 1:00:59
  Speaker 1: the gun out, not saying that justifies the shooting, and
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 1: even the kid that knew them said it was getting related. Okay,
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 1: I mean, okay, I mean where did you get that
• 1:01:10
  Speaker 1: information from? You know what I'm saying? Uh, let me
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 1: tell you something about videos. Now, I'm not I'm just
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 1: so you for so you guys know, I don't know
• 1:01:20
  Speaker 1: a lot about this, Okay. I know what I read.
• 1:01:23
  Speaker 1: I know what I read on the newspaper or the
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 1: news site, and I know what I saw on the
• 1:01:29
  Speaker 1: actual news. I didn't go to social media. I don't.
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 1: I'm not. I actually, actually you know what I did.
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 1: Somebody actually sent me a social media post about it.
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 1: I guess some some podcast in Bakersfield was talking about it,
• 1:01:43
  Speaker 1: but they actually were just talking with some common sense.
• 1:01:46
  Speaker 1: They weren't thrown out accusations of what could or couldn't be.
• 1:01:50
  Speaker 1: But the thing is, we don't know what videos are real.
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 1: We don't know what videos are AI. We don't know
• 1:01:58
  Speaker 1: what videos are from or a videos of the subject
• 1:02:01
  Speaker 1: in hand Internet for anything. You don't know what's going on.
• 1:02:05
  Speaker 1: That's not to say Rada whoever sent me this, that's
• 1:02:08
  Speaker 1: not to say that you're wrong about this video. I'm
• 1:02:10
  Speaker 1: just saying you can't. You can't. You just don't know
• 1:02:18
  Speaker 1: what's what's true, what's not on the Internet nowadays. So
• 1:02:23
  Speaker 1: it's hard when you got all these people making speculation
• 1:02:27
  Speaker 1: and public opinion and making their opinions known when they
• 1:02:31
  Speaker 1: most of them, I would say ninety nine percent of
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 1: them don't know what they're talking about, you know. So
• 1:02:38
  Speaker 1: I don't know, and there's no accountability. When you have
• 1:02:40
  Speaker 1: no accountability for what people say, you're never going to
• 1:02:44
  Speaker 1: get the absolute truth and the facts you're always gonna get,
• 1:02:48
  Speaker 1: you know, conspiracy and yeah, so I don't know. I
• 1:02:54
  Speaker 1: don't know. Maybe you're right, but like I said, I
• 1:02:57
  Speaker 1: can't comment on any of it because I don't know
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 1: my my more, I guess the more important what I
• 1:03:03
  Speaker 1: would like to know on another level is how did
• 1:03:06
  Speaker 1: how did this? How come the school? How did this
• 1:03:08
  Speaker 1: happen on school grounds? You know where security? Why are
• 1:03:12
  Speaker 1: they letting? I mean the guy just called and said
• 1:03:14
  Speaker 1: he couldn't get a water ball in him, but somehow
• 1:03:15
  Speaker 1: he got a gun in. I mean, yeah, that's that's crazy.
• 1:03:20
  Speaker 1: Or or or did they get in some other way?
• 1:03:23
  Speaker 1: Maybe they didn't even go through the front gate.
• 1:03:24
  Speaker 7: I don't know.
• 1:03:25
  Speaker 1: Hey, rom I think it's two tunes to speak on
• 1:03:27
  Speaker 1: the situation. I think it is too a lot of
• 1:03:30
  Speaker 1: but that's not the world we live in today. You know,
• 1:03:33
  Speaker 1: by the time this anything, pick anything that's happened in
• 1:03:38
  Speaker 1: the world, in your community and our community, and you know,
• 1:03:44
  Speaker 1: people go straight to the internet to give their opinion
• 1:03:47
  Speaker 1: and tell you what they don't know, but act like
• 1:03:50
  Speaker 1: they know exactly what happened. Okay. Opinion is not fact,
• 1:03:55
  Speaker 1: and you guys need to understand that opinion is not
• 1:03:59
  Speaker 1: fat Okay, And to be honest with you, most of
• 1:04:03
  Speaker 1: your opinion. I've been doing this show a long time.
• 1:04:06
  Speaker 1: This show has been the internet before it was the internet. Okay,
• 1:04:10
  Speaker 1: this show has been your opinion and what we think
• 1:04:13
  Speaker 1: about situations for thirty years. All of a sudden, now
• 1:04:18
  Speaker 1: that it's on your phone and you can, you're able
• 1:04:20
  Speaker 1: to do it immediately. Yeah, doesn't mean you're right, an
• 1:04:25
  Speaker 1: Unfortunately a lot of a lot of people think it's truth,
• 1:04:30
  Speaker 1: you know, because someone's opinion opinion is not fact already
• 1:04:36
  Speaker 1: four or seven to seven, Rome, they need to start
• 1:04:39
  Speaker 1: pulling putting metal detectors and searching teens and young adults.
• 1:04:43
  Speaker 1: Maybe maybe that's what they need to do. I mean, yeah, maybe, Hey, Rome,
• 1:04:55
  Speaker 1: let's see here, it was on TikTok Oh. So somebody
• 1:04:59
  Speaker 1: said said a street name or his gang name was
• 1:05:05
  Speaker 1: on TikTok Okay, Well, everything on TikTok is real. So
• 1:05:10
  Speaker 1: I guess you guys are right, Rome, And that's how
• 1:05:13
  Speaker 1: rumors get started.
• 1:05:14
  Speaker 8: Rome.
• 1:05:14
  Speaker 1: Now everyone going to say Rome in the morning said
• 1:05:17
  Speaker 1: the kid jumped the fence to get it. Yeah, I don't.
• 1:05:20
  Speaker 1: I have no idea what happened. So you can sit
• 1:05:23
  Speaker 1: there and say I can tell you right now without
• 1:05:28
  Speaker 1: one percent certainty. I have no idea what happened the
• 1:05:35
  Speaker 1: other night, So I can't base the decision on anything.
• 1:05:38
  Speaker 1: So you guys are gonna sit here and read the
• 1:05:44
  Speaker 1: internet and try to find something listen to somebody who
• 1:05:49
  Speaker 1: has who has an opinion that is not fact, and
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 1: they have no idea. They're just speculating what they believe
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 1: to happen, you know, to have happened. And I have
• 1:05:59
  Speaker 1: no idea what happened. You know, I don't know how
• 1:06:02
  Speaker 1: the kids got in. I don't know if they jumped
• 1:06:04
  Speaker 1: the fence. I don't know if they walked in the
• 1:06:06
  Speaker 1: front door, and then how they ended up in a
• 1:06:08
  Speaker 1: basketball court near that. I don't know any of that,
• 1:06:11
  Speaker 1: you know. So, but you guys shure seem to know everything.
• 1:06:16
  Speaker 1: Whoever they is, whoever they is is possibly the smartest
• 1:06:21
  Speaker 1: person on the planet. Whoever they is, they are the
• 1:06:24
  Speaker 1: smartest people on the planet because they seem to know
• 1:06:27
  Speaker 1: everything about every single situation that's ever happened in the
• 1:06:30
  Speaker 1: history of the world. They are pretty smart. So I've
• 1:06:34
  Speaker 1: gotten this discussion of I think what Saturday night, I
• 1:06:37
  Speaker 1: got in this argument with my buddy. We're talking about
• 1:06:44
  Speaker 1: moscow mules, right, you guys, I don't know how many
• 1:06:46
  Speaker 1: of you drink moscow mules. They make different versions of them,
• 1:06:49
  Speaker 1: but a moscow mule comes in a copper cup, and
• 1:06:53
  Speaker 1: here was the disagreement that we had. Now, his copper
• 1:06:58
  Speaker 1: cups at his restaurant or machined metaled inside. They are
• 1:07:03
  Speaker 1: a stainless interior of the cup. You guys know what
• 1:07:06
  Speaker 1: I'm talking about, right. I don't believe in the world
• 1:07:11
  Speaker 1: we live in today that bars can actually have cups
• 1:07:14
  Speaker 1: that are all copper, meaning they're copper inside, unless they
• 1:07:17
  Speaker 1: might have been grandfathered in. Now that's my that's my
• 1:07:21
  Speaker 1: little bit of knowledge, and you can, you bartenders, you
• 1:07:24
  Speaker 1: can explain it to me, because you would know far
• 1:07:25
  Speaker 1: better than I would. Okay, but I own copper cups
• 1:07:30
  Speaker 1: because I drink moscow mules, But I have the copper
• 1:07:35
  Speaker 1: cup that is copper inside. Pyrenees probably has them, I'm guessing. Still,
• 1:07:41
  Speaker 1: I don't know if anybody else does. But when I
• 1:07:43
  Speaker 1: go out, if I'm gonna have a moscow mule, I
• 1:07:47
  Speaker 1: take my copper cup because I do not I believe
• 1:07:52
  Speaker 1: that a moscow mule belongs in a copper cup with
• 1:07:56
  Speaker 1: a copper interior. Okay, not this machined stainless steel interior.
• 1:08:02
  Speaker 1: They taste different, They're not the same, and you have
• 1:08:07
  Speaker 1: to have them in a straight copper cup. My buddy says, no,
• 1:08:14
  Speaker 1: they taste exactly the same. There's no difference. It doesn't matter. Yeah,
• 1:08:21
  Speaker 1: I think he's wrong. I mean, have we got anybody
• 1:08:24
  Speaker 1: out there that drinks moscow mules? What do you think
• 1:08:28
  Speaker 1: moscow mules? All right? I don't know how many of
• 1:08:30
  Speaker 1: you drink moscow mules, But moscow mule is it comes
• 1:08:34
  Speaker 1: in a copper cup. Now, you go to some of
• 1:08:36
  Speaker 1: these rush or these bars or these restaurant bars that
• 1:08:38
  Speaker 1: have these copper cups. If you look inside, they're not
• 1:08:41
  Speaker 1: copper inside. And maybe there's some new regulation or something
• 1:08:45
  Speaker 1: now that says they have to be stainless steel, but
• 1:08:48
  Speaker 1: they're not copper. I like my moscow mule in a
• 1:08:52
  Speaker 1: copper cup. Copper outside, copper inside.
• 1:08:55
  Speaker 5: Right.
• 1:08:56
  Speaker 1: So I was having an argument with my buddy on
• 1:08:58
  Speaker 1: Saturday night. He says, it's the same thing that I'm tripping.
• 1:09:03
  Speaker 1: I think they taste better and with a copper inner
• 1:09:06
  Speaker 1: copper lining or inner copper, you know, not with the
• 1:09:09
  Speaker 1: stainless steel. But he tolly disagrees with me. He says,
• 1:09:14
  Speaker 1: they don't taste different. One is not better than the other.
• 1:09:17
  Speaker 1: They taste exactly the same. Right, all right, four four
• 1:09:21
  Speaker 1: or seven to seven yo Romeo. I've been drinking Moscow
• 1:09:24
  Speaker 1: mules for about twenty years, and your buddy is absolutely right.
• 1:09:30
  Speaker 1: I used to drink him inside the copper cup with
• 1:09:32
  Speaker 1: the copper lining inside. Now I drink him with the
• 1:09:35
  Speaker 1: stainless steel lining because that's all you can get at
• 1:09:38
  Speaker 1: most restaurants. They taste exactly the same rome as long
• 1:09:42
  Speaker 1: as it's made right. It doesn't matter what kind of
• 1:09:45
  Speaker 1: copper cup it's in. Well, technically it's not in a
• 1:09:49
  Speaker 1: copper cup. If you got a stainless steel lining inside
• 1:09:52
  Speaker 1: of the cup, right, if the cup is machined out,
• 1:09:55
  Speaker 1: it's not a copper cup. So, okay, I think you're
• 1:10:01
  Speaker 1: both wrong.
• 1:10:02
  Speaker 3: Good morning wrong. So I think both of those guys
• 1:10:05
  Speaker 3: are wrong.
• 1:10:06
  Speaker 7: I know they're wrong because I.
• 1:10:08
  Speaker 10: Know that when you pour a beer in their glass
• 1:10:12
  Speaker 10: and do the same.
• 1:10:12
  Speaker 2: Thing with the copper, cut that boldness of that right.
• 1:10:16
  Speaker 10: Out of that glass or that beer, you know the
• 1:10:18
  Speaker 10: beer it'll transfer right away.
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  Speaker 2: It'll pin temperature because of the the temperature.
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  Speaker 10: Of the glass, even if you haven't cold from your hand. Okay, okay,
• 1:10:30
  Speaker 10: same thing like your.
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  Speaker 4: Windshield when you got you put your deproster right away, deprost,
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  Speaker 4: but copper, it keeps, it keeps. From what I understand,
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  Speaker 4: even the Internet says it's like four hundred times faster
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  Speaker 4: to transfer the cold to that cup and it holds it.
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  Speaker 1: So the copper.
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  Speaker 3: Same thing as heat.
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  Speaker 10: Okay, the reason why even when you got your hot
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  Speaker 10: water tanks, it's copper lining. Yeah, at the time you
• 1:11:02
  Speaker 10: put that hot water on, it runs and yeah, what
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  Speaker 10: do you think the water's gonna be?
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  Speaker 1: Got ham? Got him?
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  Speaker 7: All right?
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  Speaker 5: Man?
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  Speaker 1: Later, Good morning.
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  Speaker 2: How it's going on, Romeo?
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  Speaker 3: Did you know that copper is a natural mineral that
• 1:11:19
  Speaker 3: our body needs to stay healthy?
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  Speaker 1: Oh?
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  Speaker 2: I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: I just know they make mosco better mascow meals and
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  Speaker 1: a copper cup than a stainless steel cup.
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  Speaker 3: And you're absolutely right. The copper is making your body
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  Speaker 3: fail with energy, feel happier. And that's why they're getting
• 1:11:34
  Speaker 3: rid of the pennies.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, all right.
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  Speaker 3: They want us to have got to them for something
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  Speaker 3: for that, like a peel or something.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, alright, Yeah, I don't think it's the I don't
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  Speaker 1: think it's a copper that's making me feel better in
• 1:11:48
  Speaker 1: the moscow meal. I think it's the vodka. But I
• 1:11:51
  Speaker 1: know they taste better in a pure copper cup, not
• 1:11:53
  Speaker 1: the stainless steel nonsense. Would you send me here? All right?
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  Speaker 1: Eight four two five four seven? Evan? What did you
• 1:12:02
  Speaker 1: send me here? Hold on? Okay, how copper and glass
• 1:12:05
  Speaker 1: feel different? Highly conductive copper transfers heat and coal nearly
• 1:12:10
  Speaker 1: four times faster than glass skin reaction. When you touch copper,
• 1:12:14
  Speaker 1: it quickly sucks the warmth from your fingers, tricking your
• 1:12:17
  Speaker 1: nerve system into feeling a sharp chill. Glass insulation conducts
• 1:12:23
  Speaker 1: heat poorly, so the sport spot your touch stays close
• 1:12:26
  Speaker 1: to your hands temperature. Oh okay, so the spot okay, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I'm just saying copper is better. Okay, let's see here.
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  Speaker 1: Let's see yo, Rome, it's because the government is against
• 1:12:40
  Speaker 1: you being healthy, because copper is good for you. Government
• 1:12:43
  Speaker 1: regulations do not ban copper cups completely, but federal and
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  Speaker 1: state agencies strictly prohibit commercial establishments from serving acidic drinks
• 1:12:55
  Speaker 1: in unlined copper vessels. Well, that's what I'm saying. That's
• 1:13:00
  Speaker 1: why I take my own copper vestans or whatever you said.
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  Speaker 1: But it tastes better, Okay, A moscow mule in one
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  Speaker 1: of these new machined copper cups, it's not even a
• 1:13:13
  Speaker 1: copper cup. The inside is stainless steel, so it's not
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  Speaker 1: even a real copper cup. Does not taste as good
• 1:13:20
  Speaker 1: as a pure copper cup when you got a moscow meal.
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  Speaker 1: That's just bottom line, that's just facts right there. What
• 1:13:26
  Speaker 1: did you send me here? Hey?
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  Speaker 2: Rome?
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  Speaker 1: I was hoping to get you, hoping to ask you this.
• 1:13:32
  Speaker 1: On Friday, a group of us we went over to
• 1:13:35
  Speaker 1: the coast get out of this beggar's field heat right,
• 1:13:38
  Speaker 1: So there were seven couples. Some stayed in trailers, some
• 1:13:42
  Speaker 1: stayed hotels. They all wanted to hang out. My wife
• 1:13:45
  Speaker 1: said she wanted to go to bed early on Friday
• 1:13:48
  Speaker 1: night because of long work week. In all, Matt I said,
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  Speaker 1: I didn't want to go to bed. I wanted to
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  Speaker 1: stay out with everybody and hang out. My wife got
• 1:13:56
  Speaker 1: mad at me. Rome went back to the hotel pissed off.
• 1:14:01
  Speaker 1: I don't think I was wrong, Rome. We ended up
• 1:14:03
  Speaker 1: fighting the entire weekend. It was a rough weekend room.
• 1:14:07
  Speaker 1: I don't know why we didn't just leave on Saturday,
• 1:14:10
  Speaker 1: but nope, she wanted to stay and we just didn't
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  Speaker 1: get along. What do you think about that room. I
• 1:14:16
  Speaker 1: think that your wife is wrong and that if you're
• 1:14:19
  Speaker 1: gonna go out of town with a bunch of people, Yeah,
• 1:14:23
  Speaker 1: if you're gonna go out of town with a bunch
• 1:14:25
  Speaker 1: of people, I think that you guys, you know there's
• 1:14:27
  Speaker 1: you don't you don't need to go to bed. If
• 1:14:29
  Speaker 1: one of you wants to go to bed early and
• 1:14:30
  Speaker 1: the other one doesn't, then the other one should be
• 1:14:32
  Speaker 1: able to stay out, you know so. But I also
• 1:14:36
  Speaker 1: think that if anybody goes, if you and your spouse
• 1:14:40
  Speaker 1: go out of town anywhere for the weekend, for the week,
• 1:14:42
  Speaker 1: on vacation, whatever it is, I mean, you gotta have
• 1:14:46
  Speaker 1: some understanding that sometimes you're not gonna just do everything
• 1:14:49
  Speaker 1: together right. Well, I mean you can't. You would hope to,
• 1:14:52
  Speaker 1: but no go in to bed at the same time
• 1:14:54
  Speaker 1: on vacation is stupid. I gotta tell you a funny
• 1:15:00
  Speaker 1: story about fighting on vacation though. A friend of mine
• 1:15:03
  Speaker 1: told me this story. He used to work for a
• 1:15:05
  Speaker 1: company where every year all the guys would go on
• 1:15:08
  Speaker 1: a fishing trip in Mexico. Well, one year, I guess
• 1:15:11
  Speaker 1: some of the guys got together and said, well, let's
• 1:15:13
  Speaker 1: just go vacation down there with our wives not with
• 1:15:15
  Speaker 1: the company, just and they walked into a bar. And
• 1:15:20
  Speaker 1: the bar they walked into, some lady was spread eagle,
• 1:15:23
  Speaker 1: getting you know what, tequila shots everything, and the wife
• 1:15:28
  Speaker 1: of the guys just flipped out. This is where you
• 1:15:31
  Speaker 1: guys go fishing every year on your corporate retreat or
• 1:15:35
  Speaker 1: whatever it was. Apparently they fought all weekend long, almost
• 1:15:39
  Speaker 1: got divorced. I guess all right, e four two four
• 1:15:42
  Speaker 1: seven seven. Hey, Romeo, you are not lying. The worst
• 1:15:47
  Speaker 1: thing ever is going away for the weekend and getting
• 1:15:50
  Speaker 1: in an argument with your wife over something dumb. You know,
• 1:15:54
  Speaker 1: we're supposed to be having a good time, getting away
• 1:15:56
  Speaker 1: from the kids, enjoying the cooler weather, and you want
• 1:16:00
  Speaker 1: to argue about where we're gonna eat, or what time
• 1:16:03
  Speaker 1: we go to bed, or how much I'm drinking or
• 1:16:06
  Speaker 1: if I start drinking too early. I'm like, man, we
• 1:16:09
  Speaker 1: are on vacation for the weekend. There are no rules
• 1:16:14
  Speaker 1: on calories and what time I start drinking or what
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  Speaker 1: time I go to bed. I'm telling you, rome you
• 1:16:20
  Speaker 1: got to tell these women to get it together. You
• 1:16:28
  Speaker 1: ain't lying. It usually is always the women who start
• 1:16:31
  Speaker 1: the fight, right because they don't like what you're doing
• 1:16:33
  Speaker 1: because maybe it's just because these women don't like the
• 1:16:35
  Speaker 1: fact that you having too much fun. Maybe that's it, guys,
• 1:16:38
  Speaker 1: Maybe your wives just don't like the fact that you
• 1:16:41
  Speaker 1: having too much fun and they can't stand it. You guys,
• 1:16:45
  Speaker 1: ever gotten an argument while you're on vacation or a
• 1:16:48
  Speaker 1: weekend getaway and it just kind of ruins the whole trip, right, Yeah,
• 1:16:54
  Speaker 1: what happened already? Four two, five, four or seven to
• 1:16:57
  Speaker 1: seven yo. Rome, My wife does that to me. We'll
• 1:17:01
  Speaker 1: go away with friends and we start having a good time.
• 1:17:05
  Speaker 1: For some reason, she gots upset and I'm having too
• 1:17:08
  Speaker 1: much fun. She does enjoy, she does enjoy having a
• 1:17:13
  Speaker 1: good time, but once it's more of a good time
• 1:17:15
  Speaker 1: than she wants and I'm having too much fun, she
• 1:17:18
  Speaker 1: shuts it down, and then we end up arguing, well,
• 1:17:21
  Speaker 1: it's because women are haters. You know, there's one thing
• 1:17:24
  Speaker 1: you could say about a married couple men, men get jealous,
• 1:17:31
  Speaker 1: and women are just haters. So this was kind of
• 1:17:36
  Speaker 1: funny not to do with a kind of off topic
• 1:17:38
  Speaker 1: of what we were just talking about. But yesterday I
• 1:17:42
  Speaker 1: was over in over near a thousand Oaks, and I
• 1:17:47
  Speaker 1: went to this restaurant called Bow's. What was it Bo's
• 1:17:52
  Speaker 1: Omelets and waffles is what it was called, little little joint.
• 1:17:56
  Speaker 1: I never been there, you know, I don't go over
• 1:17:58
  Speaker 1: to that area very much. And so we're sitting there
• 1:18:02
  Speaker 1: eating everybody's ordering, and basically it's very misleading by the
• 1:18:06
  Speaker 1: way you would think omelets and waffles, right. No, it's
• 1:18:09
  Speaker 1: a straight Mexican joint and it's balm. The food's delicious,
• 1:18:13
  Speaker 1: but I haven't seen that. I bet it's been thirty
• 1:18:18
  Speaker 1: years since I had what I had to eat yesterday.
• 1:18:22
  Speaker 1: It was an egg and cheese with beans, whole beans,
• 1:18:26
  Speaker 1: you know, cooked beans and tomato and onion. Simplest burrita
• 1:18:32
  Speaker 1: you could ever have. It has been almost I bet
• 1:18:35
  Speaker 1: it's been thirty years. It was so delicious, Oh my gosh,
• 1:18:39
  Speaker 1: and everybody I was with me thought I was crazy
• 1:18:42
  Speaker 1: for ordering an egg and bean burrito. It wasn't delicious.
• 1:18:51
  Speaker 1: Good morning. What's going on?
• 1:18:55
  Speaker 8: Hey, So women are the biggest haters when you're having fun.
• 1:18:59
  Speaker 8: I agree with it to one hundred.
• 1:19:02
  Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, they are.
• 1:19:04
  Speaker 8: Yeah there. This weekend, uh, me and my wife and
• 1:19:07
  Speaker 8: the kids, we went to the Monster Trucks show and
• 1:19:10
  Speaker 8: Reuben was sitting you know, a.
• 1:19:12
  Speaker 11: Couple of seas down.
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  Speaker 8: And I don't know, We're just having fun with this
• 1:19:17
  Speaker 8: random raider guy that was in between us, and we're
• 1:19:20
  Speaker 8: like dancing, trying to get on the jungle Tron, and
• 1:19:23
  Speaker 8: my wife say, I thought there's what's supposed to be
• 1:19:26
  Speaker 8: for the kids.
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  Speaker 1: I was like, what you know, I'm having Yeah, your
• 1:19:32
  Speaker 1: wife's a hater. She all right, good luck with the
• 1:19:39
  Speaker 1: night's conversation. But women, do you hate a lot of you?
• 1:19:41
  Speaker 1: Guys all know it. You know there's a lot of
• 1:19:43
  Speaker 1: guys out there that work real hard and you don't
• 1:19:47
  Speaker 1: cut loose very much. But the one time that you do,
• 1:19:50
  Speaker 1: your wife just hates on you, Like, why do you
• 1:19:52
  Speaker 1: having fun? It's just part of life.
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  Speaker 8: Throw me all the morning, every morning.
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  Speaker 12: Morning,