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Your Financial Reset for 2026 with Marley Rose Harris. · The Curve

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  I was feeling super uncomfortable in my body, I was $30,000 in debt, I was grieving from
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  the loss of my dad, I had no self-love, very little self-worth.
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  From this moment moving forward, I'm going to vow to find a way, a tool.
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  It all came back to subconscious reprogramming.
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  I lost 30 pounds, I became a millionaire at 30, if you're growing lemons, and you want
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  to grow oranges, you don't trim the lemons off, we get to the root, we rip out the root,
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  and then we plant an orange tree, I wouldn't even know where to start, let's hop in.
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  So debt, no one wants to have debt, but why do people have debt if they don't want
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  it?
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  There's some sort of subconscious hidden advantage, like in your belief system, that is attracting
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  the debt, the only reason why you have something there's some sort of hidden advantage.
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  What on earth would that be with debt though?
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  No I have it.
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  Oh gosh.
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  This is going to break a lot of brains, but…
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  Hi everyone, welcome back, I can't believe we're in a new year, this is very exciting.
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  We actually have so many amazing episodes planned this year, so whoever has taken a break
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  from the curve podcast, you guys didn't go back and listen to any catalog episodes
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  and you've been missing our content, do not worry, we have got some amazing stuff planned
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  and today's episode is such an awesome way to start the year, so we are kicking things
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  off with Marley Rose Harris.
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  This episode is going to be particularly useful, if perhaps 2025 did not go to plan, maybe
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  you had a mood board like me and achieved almost nothing on that mood board.
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  I don't know if everyone has already listened to our kind of wrap up or learnings of the
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  year last year, but I went back and had a listen and my god, it was quite confronting.
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  For me, 2025, like there was a lot of wins, a lot of wins, a lot of things I'm really
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  proud of, but there were also a lot of things that I wish had gone differently, and this
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  particular conversation with Marley was all about how we can reframe our mindset and
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  actually get what we want this year, and it wasn't just, we were chat about it, we actually
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  practiced some of her key, almost like teachings live within this episode with Vic and I,
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  so I really hope that it's a conversation you learn heaps from, they're all super inspired
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  heading into 2026, if you want to go a step further, which you most likely will after
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  listening to this, because Vic and I both as soon as the conversation finished, said
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  to Marley, excuse me, hi, how can we work with you?
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  So we're doing a giveaway for anyone who would like to work with Marley one on one, we're
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  giving away a session for you to access that, it's worth $2,000 and someone from our community
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  is going to win that, as well as whoever wins and a friend to join Marley Rose's online
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  course, so good luck to anyone who wants to enter, you can find all of the competition
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  details on our Instagram, at the curve platform, or you can find a link in the podcast show
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  notes.
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  Just to heads up this episode, we'll cover themes of loss and grief and it may stir up
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  some pretty tough emotions for some of you, so we encourage you to listen with care.
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  We have the beautiful Marley Rose Harris yet, great last name by the way, thank you so
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  much, Victoria Harris, you two long lost cousin, I know, I mean, maybe, but anyway, for
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  those of you people that don't know you, can you just give us a bit of background of
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  like, who are you, come from, I don't like, who are you, I read sentences, are we to an
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  event actually, we are going those, I want you to go and introduce yourself, but not say
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  what you do, and I, I was like, I'm a daughter, I'm a daughter, I'm a daughter of my work,
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  everybody was like, stumped, it's like when you're out like at a bar and just the worst
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  line ever is what do you do for work, so you're trying so hard to dance around it, but
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  it is, you got to get creative, so, no, I love these, I love all these segues, I'm going
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  to go on many of them, so yes, my name is Marley Rose Harris, I'm like, wait, how do I
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  say what I do with those things, I'm going to say what I do, so I'm from a very small
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  town, it's literally 300 people, so I grew up just desiring more, desiring to live in
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  sunshine, live in the ocean, so I think my first why was also just escaping Canada, escaping
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  this small town and creating this life where I could work from my laptop from anywhere
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  in the world, and so that's kind of like how this journey started, and I read the for
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  our work week by Tim Ferris and made it like my Bible, so I started my first business
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  honestly just out of this, I'm from such a small town and people would come up there
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  from the city, and so people needed websites, I was like, look, you can make websites and
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  you can attract people from the city, like, look at this opportunity, never was like, what,
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  they're like mom and pop shops, and I was like, and it just honestly, it wasn't, I never
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  wanted to be an entrepreneur, both my parents were entrepreneurs, and I was like, hell no,
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  like I want consistent payments, I want a corporate credit card, I want the corporate
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  car, I wanted consistency, but then I really went for the opposite, and then I took one
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  internship that I got by some grace of God, because I had no experience, but all I wanted
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  was a corporate job, and I got this internship, and it took me about a week, not even a week,
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  maybe 24 hours, maybe three hours, to be like, I never want to work for anyone else, and
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  I was like, dang it, okay, it looks like I have to be an entrepreneur, and so I started
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  this business designing logos and websites for people, and I actually ended up leaving
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  Canada, like within the first year that I started it, and I booked a one-way flight to Australia,
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  and I was like, okay, I'm in Australia, let's just like see how this works, and I was
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  not, I was just just getting by, I was working as living in hostels, I was like, had like
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  four people to a room, and I was working on my business, and I thought I was a millionaire,
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  I was like, this is the coolest thing ever, growing up in a small town, if I could make
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  $100,000 a year, I would be a billionaire, like I would have made it, and that was my
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  mindset back then, this is like 2018, digital nomad, like wasn't really a thing yet, I
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  feel like, I just want, I just saw people doing this online, and everyone's like, I'm
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  gonna be a digital nomad, I'm like, I'm going into Deloitte, I'm like, okay, bye, I just
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  didn't want that life, and no one understood what I wanted, no one was backing me, no one,
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  I was like, digital nomad, okay, that's the weirdest thing I ever heard, and I was like, okay,
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  bye, and anyway, so I left, and while I was in Australia, and I want to say at this
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  point of my life, I was like binge drinking every weekend, blocking out, I had no self-love,
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  very little self-worth, I maybe did like one meditation for like three minutes, I had no
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  personal development, at all, like negative, to be honest, and so when I was in Australia,
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  I got this job offer, and it was to work at my college that I was actually going to,
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  and they called me like, Marley, I think I had like one vision board at this point,
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  because I watched the secret, and I kind of like was getting into it, and I had put my college
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  on my vision board, and they called me, and they're like, we want you to run an entrepreneurship
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  center, we want you to do the marketing, like can you come back and work it, and everyone said no,
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  my mom said no, like everyone in my life was like, please do not come back, you're going to hate
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  it, it's in the middle of winter, like just stay in Australia, do your thing, but I never really
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  connected this before, but this is my intuition speaking, and I was like, I just know I need to go
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  back home, so I flew home, I took the job, and then a week after I was home, my mom called me,
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  and my dad had committed to a side, and for me, this was a moment of the impossible just happened,
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  like if you told me even a year ago that your dad's going to do this, I'd be like, there's no way,
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  like there's no way, because my dad is the strongest, happiest, like most love person I've ever met,
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  so there's absolutely no way that he could do something like that, I just didn't make sense,
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  and honestly, it took me a really long time to even accept that that happened,
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  and so in that moment, it was so interesting, because when I was in Australia, I met two girls
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  in the same way, I complimented them on their tattoos, and I don't usually do that, like I'm not like,
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  I was actually a super shy, so I wasn't like that outgoing, but I compliment them both being like,
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  that's a really beautiful tattoo, and they both said, thank you so much, it's due to someone that
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  I lost, and I was like, that's so crazy, because these are like the happiest, most positive people
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  I've ever met, and they've been through this, like how can that be? And in that moment,
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  after the second one, I was like, oh, I'm going to lose someone, and they're showing me that I'm
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  going to be okay, because I, like I said, I'm from such a small town, like I didn't, this type of
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  stuff like doesn't happen to me, I thought that was just in the movies, so anyways, when this happened,
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  I called my friend, and the one of the ones with the tattoos, and I said, like this just happened,
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  like what do I do? And she said, Marley, I just don't want this to make you break you, like don't
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  let this lose your sparkle kind of thing, like don't let this break you. And I was like, wow, I,
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  for the first time, because I would say up until this moment in my life, this is when I was like
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  25, I was super depressed, super anxious, using alcohol to numb from pain, I had no, I'd done
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  like zero healing. And so I had, I had like nothing that was exciting me, and letting me up,
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  except for me starting this business, it was like the first time I felt this feeling of passion,
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  and joy, and excitement, and it was the first time in my whole life. So I was like, right, I have
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  this northern star, I feel like I have like something to give here, and something to provide,
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  I have like, I have like this purpose. And so I'm not going to let this opportunity break me,
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  or this, right, not this opportunity, this, this moment in time. And so for the very first time,
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  I started healing. And growing up, we couldn't afford therapy. I definitely would have benefited
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  from therapy at a younger age, but we just couldn't afford it. And so I got into therapy,
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  because it was subsidized from the government. And so I started for the first time in my life,
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  when I was like 25 healing. And I became kind of obsessed with it. Like, I started feeling
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  better. And I vowed to myself at my dad's celebration of life, I spoke in front of everyone that
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  loves him the most. And I said, from this moment moving forward, I'm going to vow to find a way,
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  a tool that no one does what my dad did, or no one thinks that that's their only option
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  to end suffering. And again, I didn't know anything, but I went on this journey. And through
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  everything that I was learning, if it was how to manifest a relationship, it was how to heal my
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  body, if it was how to manifest more money, it all came back to subconscious reprogramming.
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  It all came back to if you want to change your reality, you have to change your beliefs.
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  Everyone was saying the same thing in every area of life. So it's like, okay, cool. Let me try this
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  out because I was feeling super uncomfortable in my body. I was $30,000 in debt. I was grieving from
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  the loss of my dad. And I did grow up in a family that was constantly chaotic. My parents weren't
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  fully in love with each other. And I felt like this, my childhood had a lot of neglect and sadness.
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  So I was like, I want to heal from all of this. So I started using these tools. And I lost 30 pounds.
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  I became a millionaire at 30. I attracted my soulmate. And really, it was like, it was not that I
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  worked harder than anyone else. It's not that I deserve it more than anyone else. It was literally
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  that I just started to reprogram my mind. And I found all the living beliefs that I had
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  absorbed from childhood, that I'm not enough, that you have to work really hard for money, that
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  that in scarcity and inconsistency in all of the areas. And I just used subconscious reprogramming
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  to actually clear those beliefs and create new beliefs and create a new reality. And over time,
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  literally every area of my life changed. And so much so that everyone's like, what the
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  are you doing? Because you look completely different. And I'm like, I'm just changing my
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  beliefs. Like, what are you guys doing? Like, we're not doing that. Like, I don't even know what that
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  means. And so I created my method called clear the fear, which is the most effective way to clear
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  your living beliefs and create new beliefs. And not only is my story, but all my client stories,
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  I've thousands of stories to tell you guys of people double tripling their income, manifesting
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  their soulmates, clearing their weight loss during like all these things. And it really comes
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  down to, and what I'm like really here to share is that you do not have to settle. You do not have
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  to settle as less. You do not have to believe in scarcity. Like, your reality is just truly a
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  reflection of your beliefs. And so when you change your beliefs, anything is possible. And I'm so
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  happy that we're here today because I feel like I'm on this like tour of manifesting like all
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  these insane things. So like, I'm here like fresh to be like this stuff like works so well. And like,
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  I've just been recently manifesting the most amazing things. And it's truly from just changing
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  what I see as possible and changing what I believe to be true. And on the other side that like
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  anything is possible. If I grew up, you know, my parents were poor. I didn't even have my own
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  room going up. And now the reality that I'm in, it's truly just a reflection of changing your
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  beliefs and taking aligned action. So holy shit. And wow. I have never been in all of the conversations
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  with him. Been so engrossed. So if you'd stop talking, I would have had nothing to say. I
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  know. Cannot believe. I was like, don't stop, don't stop. I was, I don't even know if I blinked.
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  I, um, I feel like I was transported. Yeah, shit. I fully forgot. We had a record. Come back.
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  Oh my god. Okay. Firstly, thank you for like, you're so eloquent as well. Like I just
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  felt like a bit of a girl crushing just like, I think there's, there's so many things that you
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  said before we move on to kind of being proactive and learning from the stuff that you have
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  implementers to move through your limiting beliefs because they think what you shared about
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  the experience with your dad. Firstly, I'm like, oh my god, there's just so many things. When you
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  said you had this feeling and this overwhelming draw to go back and you kind of didn't know, kind
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  of blew my mind that before you're done any of that reconnecting with yourself that you were able
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  to listen to that because I do think for me there's so much of like societal pressure and fear
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  constantly that overrides my gut. I feel like it's like everyone says, oh, listen to your gut. I'm
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  like, I have, there is a sandstorm in my gut and I have no idea where it was blowing in this
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  direction or this direction. You know, so amazing that in that incredibly pivotal moment you were
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  able to see your family and see your dad and and be there when that happened. Um, but also to have
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  been gone through and that'd be the catalyst for growth because it's so easy when shitty things
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  happen to you to go into a victim mindset or to feel really confused with where even to start,
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  but I can just tell on the way that you spoke that that was the the only motivation you needed.
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  It was like you could have run in any direction you chose and the fact that it was one that now is
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  helping so many people is really amazing. But I'd love to kind of wind back to you. You mentioned
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  quite a few things about your childhood. What do you think some of your earliest experiences
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  with money or teachings that you've now obviously I'm imagining have moved through? Where were you?
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  Can you transport us back to like the types of I guess habits or beliefs, particularly around
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  finances and scarcity that you had as a kid? I love this question. No one's ever asking me this
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  question. I can paint a full picture because I remember all of them. Like for example, one time
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  I came home and all the lights were off in my house and I was like, where's my dad? And I went
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  obviously with my dad was like laying in bed and he was like, I just lost all of my money in the
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  stock market and I was like, I was like, oh my god. Like so scared. And I felt like a responsibility
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  to do something or fix something and I'm like, I don't know what like, I don't know what to do.
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  Like so my mom and dad are interesting dynamic. It felt like in our family it was like me and my
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  dad versus my mom and my brother. So my dad would have to hide if he bought me anything and we'd have
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  to lie to my mom to create this belief of guilt and shame around spending. And this shame of like,
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  oh, I don't deserve this because I have to actually hide it. And then so my dad somehow was able
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  to buy me a cell phone. I don't know how like, I don't know somehow we'd like always like just go
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  buy my dad like make things work like let's say he worked an odd job. And that was the thing with
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  my dad growing up is he never had consistency in money. So we'd have a job, he'd have a job and
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  we would be okay. And then it would leave. And so this is massive in consistency around money
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  and fear and always constant fear of like it leaving. And something that's really interesting is
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  money is a masculine energy. And this is going to break a lot of brains. But how you relate to
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  money is how you relate to your father's ability to protect and provide for you. And what his
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  ability and consistency and the trust that you had and his ability to show up for you is how
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  it's you're going to mirror money. And yeah. So I'm so mind blowing. And I said, yeah, so I mean,
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  like I can already say how that's impacted my view of money. Sorry, I said again. So basically
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  growing up, you learned how to trust the masculine energy from the dominant masculine energy in your
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  life. So most of it is our father. And even if he's not there, that's also how you relate to money
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  because then you'll constantly fear of it leaving or abandoning you. So however you relate to the
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  father figure in your life, the masculine energy and how you grew up with that and your trust in
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  its ability to protect and provide for you is going to exactly directly mirror your relationship
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  to money right now. And it's ability to protect and provide from you. You can do, like if I would
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  ask you right now, like how do you trust your father's ability to protect and provide for you growing
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  up and you write it down, then I ask you money. It's going to be the exact same thing. It is so
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  interesting because I know that if I look at your dad, if I look at your dad and he is all those
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  things, he was really consistent. I wouldn't be surprised if yours is the total opposite actually
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  to mine in terms of what you experienced as a kid and how your dad was with money. I think that's
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  so bang on with how you would then describe it. Look, I'm like it will always, it'll always be there,
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  it will always be fine. Yeah, like there is kind of like mine. I don't think I've done it at all.
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  No. Yeah. Wow. How did you figure that out? I'm obsessed with money. Like I love money.
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  Because when I grew up and I saw all this chaos in my childhood, thank God, by some grace of God,
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  my dad had really wealthy friends. And so I saw them as expanders of what was possible
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  and they seemed happy to me. So as a very young age, I decide if I have money, then I'm going to be
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  happy. I've learned that the hard way that's not how that works. But I was so driven from such a
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  young age to make a lot of money. I was obsessed with money because I believe that was my way to
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  love and freedom and safety. Like everything I was wanting as a child in my family, I thought that
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  money would solve it. So then from a very young age, I became obsessed with money. I became obsessed
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  with learning about money, understanding money. Like I became obsessed with reading all the books
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  consuming as much as possible because I want to understand how to be financially free. And like I
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  more energetics and understanding the energy of money and the frequency of money and not so much
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  like the 3D of money, that just like excited me more. And from that and understanding like the true
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  energetics behind money and becoming a vibrational match for money is how I've unlocked so much
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  wealth and for my clients. And again, I think the two need to co-exist. It's just like something that
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  I get so lit up about and I could talk to you guys like five hours about, is more like the
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  energetics behind money and how to attract it from that lens. So let's say, hypothetically there's
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  someone on this conversation who realizes that they have a less than ideal relationship with money.
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  I know for a fact that I have a scarcity mindset, I have the belief that I know everyone says
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  how money comes and goes. I'm like, no, no, it mainly goes. I remember the time that I earned
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  a really good seller and I lived in Australia. And I remember thinking to myself, this might be
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  the most I ever earned rather than, you know, like I've had a lot of moments where I felt really
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  clinging towards it and had the feeling of inconsistency and needing to hoard rather than feel
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  like it can flow in and out. So let's say hypothetically, you know, there's other people
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  no doubt who are listening, but yeah, that feel a lack of freedom or fluidity yet with their
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  relationship with money. I guess just like, I wouldn't even know where to start. Let's hop in.
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  Okay. So what I would get this hypothetical person to do is I would get them to take this is
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  like so simple. Anyone at home can do this. It's so easy peasy. It's almost going to feel like
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  frivolous, but it's so powerful. One is the first thing that I did. So I took a piece of paper.
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  I closed the door, put my phone on airplane mode and I took a piece of paper and I wrote at the
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  top of the page, my old money beliefs because we're already like putting them in the past. And I
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  wrote down everything I believe to be true about money, spending, saving, investing, receiving,
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  how much I'm able to hold earn. Like there was a point I couldn't even say the word million.
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  It made me feel sick. Like I was like, so like, so would that be like things like,
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  would that be things like money buys me happiness in terms of like tangible examples.
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  Yeah, tangible samples also would be like, okay, I believe that there's never enough money.
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  Yes. I believe that money is inconsistent. I believe that money is going to come and go,
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  for example, like just writing down all everything you need to believe to be true about money and
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  itself. Okay. So what you're creating right now is your blueprint, which is your money reality.
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  This is like, okay, if we were coding chat GPT, right, and we want to understand how that AI
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  works, we'd go to the code. And we're like, what the hell, like this thing keeps writing this
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  thing that we don't want it to do. We don't like fix the the chat GPT. We go to the code of the AI.
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  So we're like finding your brain's code, which is creating the reality. So we write this all
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  down. And then you're going to, and you're going to have a moment, because I did where I was like,
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  oh my gosh, I don't want to write that down. Like, because it's like, I don't want to,
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  I'm going to write it down because I know that it's so confronting. Yeah. So when this hypothetical
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  person has that moment, we're going to be like, okay, but the more that I get out, because if it's
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  in here, it's controlling us. And we want to change it. So we have to, no one's going to see it,
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  I promise. I'm not going to like, no one's knocking on the door. But there's so much
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  shame around money in our society. It's so shameful. And I, I want to like, open that conversation
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  up because the more that we shame it, we avoid it. And our brain moves away from pain and moves
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  towards pleasure. So we want to make this fun, easy, like put on your favorite song, light a candle,
• 23:44
  like try to try to add as much pleasure, like bowling my eyes, like, born to try Delta,
• 23:50
  good drum playing in the background. Like, man, it's me. I'm never going to hit me.
• 23:54
  Like, like, so try to make the result of changing your money story so pleasurable.
• 24:01
  But for me, it was like, I get to escape winter, I get to live next to the ocean,
• 24:07
  and I get to be in sunshine all day long. That was so pleasurable to me that I was willing to do
• 24:10
  hard things to get through it. So you need your why of why you're doing this for a lot of people,
• 24:16
  like, I want to retire my husband. I want to break free of my nine to five job. I want to be able
• 24:21
  to travel business. Like, what's your pleasure that you can focus on? You can have as your
• 24:26
  main thing that's going to push you through doing these hard things. You need the why or else
• 24:29
  your brain is not going to want to do it. Your brain never wants to leave your comfort zone,
• 24:33
  but your comfort zone is your well zone. So the more you're in your comfort zone, the more you're
• 24:37
  going to stay in this well zone that you don't desire. So we need to break free of your comfort zone
• 24:41
  to break free of and push past your well zone to attract more. So you're going to write it all
• 24:47
  down and then you're going to do something so simple. You're going to get a new piece of paper
• 24:51
  and we're going to write down our new money reality and we're going to write down the opposite
• 24:56
  positive belief. So let's say you said there is never enough money. We say there is more than enough
• 25:02
  money. Okay, but your brain isn't merely going to be like that doesn't exist because it's like
• 25:07
  like a main. So to wait a bypass that is we change it into a how or why question. So how is
• 25:19
  there more than enough money? Because that will go in. Your brain loves to answer questions.
• 25:23
  It's like logical. Yeah, and it's actually giving it effect rather than just the
• 25:26
  like high level idea. It's like how is there more enough money than your brain goes,
• 25:30
  okay, how is there more than enough money? Because your brain loves to answer questions
• 25:34
  and it bypasses your belief system because it you will only answer what you believe to be true.
• 25:41
  And so if it's other congruent, if you have this belief, this is never enough and then we start
• 25:45
  saying there's more than enough, it's not going to go in. It's going to completely dismiss it.
• 25:48
  Because it's not going to have a problem I have with like manifesting or even just
• 25:53
  you know, you can have words of affirmation. Yeah, there was a time I had really, really,
• 25:56
  really, really bad health anxiety. No, I was working in a job where I was producing these segments
• 26:04
  where I was having to basically read and find horrible heartbreaking, go through all these
• 26:09
  horrible heartbreaking stories to try and find someone that deserved some kind of big like thing
• 26:14
  that we would do for them anyway without going to too much detail. The point was I was reading all
• 26:17
  these stories about people who were my age who, you know, had serious health conditions or
• 26:22
  blah, blah. So anyway, kind of catapulted me into having quite a bit of health anxiety.
• 26:26
  And so I started with these manifesting type like cards and one of them was like I'm happy and
• 26:31
  healthy or like my body is working perfectly, but I still had underlying anxiety. I was able to
• 26:36
  somewhat lift it but not really change the code if that makes sense. Okay, I love this question.
• 26:42
  Okay, so there's a conscious mind which controls five percent of your life and then we have the
• 26:47
  subconscious mind which controls 95 percent of your life. Okay, so you were trying to change
• 26:53
  something that is in your subconscious in the conscious. So you can't think your way in to be like
• 26:59
  I'm so rich. I'm so rich. If you believe that in scarcity and poverty, right, you can't
• 27:05
  outthink your beliefs unless you change them in the subconscious if that makes sense. So let's say
• 27:12
  you were my client, you're coming to me, your health anxiety. Well, of course, you just reprogramed
• 27:16
  yourself into having health anxiety because you're constantly repeating these scary things so your
• 27:21
  brain is going to now believe that that is your reality, right? It just doesn't matter if you're
• 27:25
  talking about someone else, your brain takes everything personally. So that's how that manifested.
• 27:31
  And so in my method, clear the fear, we actually get to the root cause of the problem. And I say
• 27:37
  root cause is because if you're growing lemons, right, and you want to grow oranges, you don't
• 27:45
  trim the lemons off and expect to get oranges. You're always just going to get lemons, right?
• 27:52
  Until we get to the root, we rip out the root, sorry, to the tree, and then we plant an orange tree.
• 27:57
  The only then will you get oranges. So a lot of people try to change the reality by trimming the
• 28:04
  branches or trying to change it in their conscious. I've been pruning for a while. Yeah. And then
• 28:08
  they're like, I'm still getting changed. I'm doing all the work and nothing's changing. Go to put
• 28:12
  the secreties. Yeah, but that's not like so passionate because I'm like, yes, it's because you're
• 28:15
  not accessing the subconscious. You're not getting to the root cause. And only when do you get to
• 28:20
  the root cause do things actually change. And so if you're just pruning the hedges, it's not going
• 28:26
  to change. You're going to keep getting lemons. If you want to change the fruits, you have to change
• 28:30
  the roots. So then we're going to create a list of how questions. So how is it more than after
• 28:36
  that? Yeah. And the way in which that you reprogram the subconscious mind is the repetition.
• 28:40
  So you actually repeatedly sub like programmed yourself into something that you didn't want because
• 28:45
  you're reading it over and over and over that caused that negative reality. And we can do the
• 28:50
  exact same thing for the positive reality. So you're going to have this list. And this is a tool
• 28:55
  that I have in my app. And it's called neuro linking. So what you do is you're going to read out
• 28:59
  your list. And this is the because people just read affirmations. And they think that they don't
• 29:04
  work. But it's because they're not doing it right. Firstly, they're saying an affirmation that
• 29:07
  they don't believe. So then it never goes in. And they're not emotionally connecting it. Your subconscious
• 29:12
  is in the body. Okay. So you're going to read a question like how is there more than enough money?
• 29:17
  You're going to read out that ask for me. I call them ask formations. How is there more than
• 29:21
  enough money? And what you're going to do for 17 seconds is you're going to think and imagine a
• 29:27
  reality that proves that belief to be true. So you may recall a memory where you notice, okay,
• 29:32
  you actually there yeah, there always is more than enough money. Like there's always has been more
• 29:36
  than enough money. And there always is more than enough money. So you believe and you feel that feeling
• 29:41
  of safety, right? Because that's all your brain really wants is to feel safe. Or if you're like,
• 29:46
  my life, never seen that before. There's never been enough. All you need to do is just imagine a
• 29:50
  situation and imagine a moment with that would prove that to be true. So maybe you see your bank account
• 29:56
  and it looked you can just see the amount that there would always be more than enough. And your
• 30:00
  brain doesn't know the difference between real and imagined. This is also called mental rehearsal.
• 30:04
  Joe just so annoying because it means that all the stupid anxiety thoughts that I have that
• 30:08
  thinks are real. You know, like it thinks that it's like stupid, scary stuff I make up for myself
• 30:14
  as well as the good stuff you're trying to reprogram. It's just so weird how your brain. But that's
• 30:18
  why your body. So anxiety is just a body response for fear, right? It's like, well, you should,
• 30:24
  there's a tiger chasing after me and I need to run. So your your body says going like this and
• 30:29
  you're and actually energy gets sent to your legs to run because it thinks you're in danger.
• 30:33
  The thing is you're not. I'm not a bit of a runner. I'm
• 30:37
  amazing. I run for over 12 minutes of time. So, but you're it's really your nervous system is
• 30:42
  completely in fight or flight. Yeah. So once you start to reprogram all those fears and your brain
• 30:48
  goes, Oh, I'm safe. I'm safe. I'm safe. I'm safe. That's what the clear the fear method does.
• 30:51
  It goes to clear all those fears, AK limiting beliefs. And then once your brain, your brain will
• 30:56
  start to relax. It's actually how I lost all the weight. My body was just running in fight or
• 31:00
  flight. And I was just holding on to weight because it was thought it was like a protection mechanism.
• 31:05
  But though the moment I showed just like healing my nervous system and healing all those
• 31:10
  living beliefs, I hate this, but to say this, but the weight kind of did fall off. Like I it's not
• 31:15
  like I did all these fancy things. But I think that's better. It's better than saying, Oh, I tried
• 31:18
  really hard to lose weight because that's the last thing we're trying to promote, right? It's yeah.
• 31:22
  It you weren't actually probably at a healthy weight. And then by healing and being more healthy,
• 31:28
  the natural kind of flown from that was losing weight, rather than having five crackers every day,
• 31:33
  you know, it's like an inside out game. Yeah. So if you want to exchange the external,
• 31:38
  you have to hold the internal. Do you think it would be quite good to use an example,
• 31:41
  like maybe that you could have an example of a limiting belief you have around money?
• 31:44
  You know, it'd be really cool if you could tell me a money pattern that you have that you no
• 31:48
  longer want to have. And I can tell you what your block is. They're the harder you work.
• 31:52
  The more you'll get. Yeah. So you believe that you have to work really hard for money. Yeah.
• 31:56
  I think this is a very good one to use. No, I think this is a good example. It's more like the more
• 32:03
  the more money I want, the longer hours, the harder the like the more stress I have to take on
• 32:08
  essentially to get that outcome. Okay. So is the desired reality a certain amount in your bank
• 32:14
  account or certain amount that you're making like, what's the goal? Probably like security,
• 32:18
  like financial security that if something happened, I'd still be okay. Okay. So the desired state is
• 32:26
  security, like financial financial security, financial freedom with it. Yeah. And do you know what
• 32:30
  that looks like? Is it like a money in your bank account? Is there a reoccurring income? Like,
• 32:34
  what does that look like for you? Like when you get it, how will you know? Okay. I'm secure.
• 32:39
  It's probably a regular income consistency. Yeah. I would say probably consistency. And is
• 32:47
  there like an amount that it could be like if I got given a hundred like if I could choose between
• 32:52
  a certain amount per month versus an upfront amount, which sounds so contradictory because we're
• 32:56
  an investing platform. I would probably choose the consistent amount, even if it was
• 33:01
  funnily as if that makes sense. Yeah. Yeah. Totally. Yeah. Okay. So let's just make up a number. Let's
• 33:06
  say it's 50,000 pounds a month consistently. That's your desired reality. Okay. Let's just let's say
• 33:11
  that's your financial freedom. Like, yes. Check. We're good. I'm no longer stressed. I know long
• 33:15
  I know long after work hard for money. If I had that. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. There's going to sound
• 33:20
  really weird. But what about not having a work hard to prove yourself is scary?
• 33:26
  Is it again? What is not hard? What about not having a work hard for money? So let's say
• 33:33
  money just came too easily and you were financially free and you had like nothing to worry about.
• 33:40
  What about it? Yeah. What about it? If I was getting 50,000 pounds a month for doing nothing,
• 33:44
  is that what you're meaning? Because I would feel so guilty. Yeah. Why do you feel guilty? Because
• 33:51
  I don't deserve it. There we go. Okay. Whoa. Yeah. Sorry. Oh my god. I feel like magic just
• 33:59
  happens. Yeah. I can just pop down the head. Yeah. So I'm also like just maybe feeling like
• 34:07
  growing up, did you get attention through achieving a little bit? It was probably more like
• 34:12
  why did you get an A in on A plus? Yeah. So okay. So then there's a belief that you're never
• 34:18
  that nothing I do is enough and that's why you have to work so hard for money. Yeah.
• 34:21
  But the underlying fear and belief is that you're not enough and that's why you don't believe
• 34:24
  that you deserve it. And so the working hard for money is the constant trying to prove that I'm
• 34:30
  enough. Yeah. Yeah. That I'm valuable. That I deserve it. But you know what? Money has nothing
• 34:34
  to do with deserving. I know. Money is a frequency like money is an energy that you it's a frequency
• 34:40
  is not a reward. But anyways, I can tell you that all day long and you're like, yeah, yeah,
• 34:43
  whatever bitch. Like like your subconscious mind still is going to fear that. So if you were my
• 34:48
  client, what I would do now is I would take you through my process called clear the fear.
• 34:52
  And I would clear that belief that you're not enough because you didn't come here thinking
• 34:56
  that you're not enough. You learned it over time is something that you were programmed through
• 35:00
  your childhood thinking like, okay, even when I get an A, it's not enough. And so that's now
• 35:05
  getting projected into money, even when I have 20,000, three, nothing is ever enough. So I keep
• 35:09
  out and then you're going to burn it. And then you're like sacrificing your life just to chase this
• 35:14
  dangling care that I am enough. And so that's what I like to help my clients reprogram because
• 35:20
  you're going to get to end of your life. You're like, wow, nothing was ever enough. And then
• 35:24
  I never allowed myself to enjoy to sit back and and just like feel the feeling of being abundant
• 35:30
  instead of like chasing abundance. And so yeah, I would recommend doing the track clear the fear on
• 35:37
  I am not enough. And it's like going to change your life. So the how is what? How is she clearing
• 35:43
  that fear? Would it basically think about what does it look like? No, it's sorry, it's in my app.
• 35:48
  So I have an app called the higher self app. And I have all those tracks pre-recorded. So she can
• 35:53
  listen to it. Yes, my method. It's kind of like a meditation, but it's a meditation that
• 35:58
  clears your subconscious mind. Oh, so it's like meditation on crack. As I actually get to the
• 36:04
  thing that's really hard is yeah, it's like your own devices. Now you know what it is now go
• 36:11
  and fix it. Yeah, but that's bothering me because I was like, it was like, okay, now I know all my
• 36:15
  negative beliefs about money. And there's like a laundry list. So it's like, okay, good luck.
• 36:19
  Like just use hypnosis and see if something changes. I'm like, no, I need a tool that actually
• 36:25
  works. And like you're going to text me and you're about the craziest thing happened because it
• 36:29
  goes back to the exact moment that you believed it. And we rewrite this story because in your
• 36:33
  subconscious again, it doesn't know the difference in real and imagined. And so we rewrite that
• 36:37
  story. And then and then moving forward, you no longer are seeking and trying to find the fact
• 36:43
  that you're no longer enough because you no longer believe that. So you believe that you are
• 36:47
  enough. So then you only seek. I am enough. And so you only see that because the part of your brain,
• 36:52
  the particular activating cortex, it filters out. So anything you believe, it will filter for.
• 36:58
  So if you have a negative belief, it will find that. And so we take that negative belief,
• 37:03
  we turn it into a positive, then you start to find the positive belief. And then you're that's
• 37:08
  how all my clients have these. It's like you said, like it's magic, but it's just like your brain
• 37:12
  just starts focusing on a different thing. It's like when your ex has a car and then you see that
• 37:17
  car everywhere. It's like that car was always there. But now you're filtering for it before it
• 37:22
  didn't matter. Now when you start to believe that you're enough, you'll find all the reasons that
• 37:26
  you are. And then like, for example, in money, someone's going to make, oh my gosh, you should help
• 37:31
  me invest in this business that it takes off. And then you're financially free. Wow. It's so
• 37:36
  interesting. I want to go now. I want to go to this. It's really interesting because like
• 37:41
  having seen you in a work context. Yes. I remember I've said to you before, I'd love to do content
• 37:48
  on the idea of like what is enough so that people can find their number of what is that what is
• 37:53
  your goal financially? What's the overarching? For example, is it two million? Is it one? Is it
• 37:57
  over? And you've never been able to answer that question for yourself. And therefore we've never
• 38:03
  been able to do that as a thing. Because there's nothing to everyone else. There's nothing to
• 38:06
  ever know. But that's like kind of why when you were talking, I was like, oh my god, that's so
• 38:09
  interesting. Because I remember saying to you, like maybe if you have a tangible number for not you
• 38:14
  anyone that listens to this podcast, that's really motivating because it's almost like an end goal
• 38:18
  or something you're working towards and making more tangible. But yeah, it was just I just that was
• 38:24
  what popped up for me. I was like, oh, that's so interesting. Well, I guess if it like if I came up
• 38:27
  with say, you know, two million pounds was my enough. And I was on track to get there. If I put away
• 38:33
  10 pounds a week and it wasn't invested in this, like they would still be part of me that's like,
• 38:36
  oh, but but I when I reach that, I'm still not there or what if what if X happens and then that gets,
• 38:41
  you know, there's always like, oh, there's always a, yeah, it's not tangible. It would never feel
• 38:46
  like enough. You'd hit that and then you'd make another goal and another goal because you don't
• 38:49
  believe that you're enough. So then no amount of money will ever feel enough. Okay, so it's 10.
• 38:54
  Yes, we're going to need like a podcast series of like five
• 39:01
  okay, so many. I'm like, I've got even really, I've got a few. One I would say is a hang up of
• 39:07
  not being valuable or like having valuable skills or having things that will make me money if that
• 39:13
  makes sense because I think I have a belief that that the only way really to get wealth is the
• 39:20
  really traditional path of working finance or being a lawyer or I think there's a part of me that
• 39:25
  believes that it's almost like not having confidence in myself being the one that could make the money
• 39:32
  maybe. I think I have a deep rooted belief which I hate and I know it was like the opposite of
• 39:37
  feminism, but the idea of having a partner within a relationship is like a relief financially,
• 39:44
  not because they're going to pay for me, but having a team or having someone else to help so that
• 39:51
  it's not 100% on me. I don't know what that is, but I definitely think the idea of being
• 39:57
  single feels like a real block or scary, yeah, in terms of what I may or may not be able to do with
• 40:05
  my life. What is a desire reality that you want with money? I really, I don't want to have to think
• 40:12
  about constantly deciding having this or that or constantly having to weigh up. Can I do this?
• 40:19
  I feel like I a lot of my, even if I've budgeted properly and I've put money in the right places,
• 40:24
  I am constantly stressed about the fact that I don't have enough within a month through the things
• 40:30
  that I want to do. So if my clients have this pattern of those just enough, it's this exact same fear,
• 40:36
  it's that I don't believe that I'm enough and you said it so many times, you're like I don't have
• 40:41
  the skill so I'm not valuable enough. You say that you need a partner to have money, but I'm not
• 40:48
  enough to create money. Like in every area of your life, it goes back to the same root cause,
• 40:54
  the root cause of all of this is that I'm not enough. There's not enough money. They're just
• 40:58
  getting by. And so it's the exact same thing and it doesn't surprise me. It's actually the number one
• 41:03
  thing that I clear with every single client is I'm not enough. And the thing is, is that think
• 41:11
  about how we're raised, right? We're in school and when you get the test back, it's like red, red,
• 41:16
  red, red, red, we're constantly critiqued to your point. Like you got an A, why don't you get
• 41:20
  an A plus, right? So we're constantly in society critiqued. Why are you not enough? And it's so sad,
• 41:26
  but so many of us have this underlying fear and belief, which is not true. Fear is false,
• 41:32
  evidence appearing real that we're not enough. And then no amount of money and then a reality is
• 41:39
  occurring that there's just enough every single month. And so I would invite both of you to do the
• 41:43
  exact same thing is clear this belief that I'm not enough. I'm team like meditations. Yeah,
• 41:48
  the whole office for coming every morning. Yeah, like I am. We can all write. Yeah, yeah. But
• 41:53
  you need to clear it. Yeah. You need to clear the belief. Number one, because you can't, like I
• 41:57
  say, you can't override it. You can repeat it over and over and over. But the most effective
• 42:03
  way to do this is just clear it and clear the fear. Do you think the current world and society
• 42:10
  that we live in in terms of social media and being having all this information that's going on
• 42:14
  in the world like has helped you all that feeling of I'm not enough. Yeah. Yeah.
• 42:20
  Think about social media. It's constant comparison. It's I think like when we were growing up,
• 42:25
  it was Hollywood. And this is the ideal state of how you look. Yeah. Yeah, like
• 42:32
  bringing experience. You know, like this is how you should look. And if you don't look like this
• 42:36
  and you're not enough, if you don't have this is the I it's programmed in us. This this is how
• 42:41
  much money you should earn. This is what your family should look like. This is what your house
• 42:44
  needs to look like. This is what your car needs to look like. And if you don't have this,
• 42:47
  then you are not enough. It's it's baked into our society. And it's causing us to say small,
• 42:54
  stay in scarcity, stay in fear, stay in lack because unfortunately that benefits society if everyone
• 43:00
  is in fear all the time. You mentioned earlier in this conversation that you and $30,000 worth of
• 43:05
  debt at one point in your life that I'm assuming you have you now know exactly what that limiting
• 43:12
  belief was and you worked through it now in a way more abundant state financially, but also just
• 43:18
  how you think about yourself, the relation to money. Can you maybe use that as your own example
• 43:24
  of where you were and how you use these tools and this method to get yourself into a completely
• 43:31
  different frame of mind? Yeah. So with debt for me, the way I got out of it is I just made it a
• 43:37
  non issue. I made it a non issue. I set up a repayment program and I just didn't think about it. I
• 43:43
  didn't make it mean anything about me. And I was pretty young as I was getting out of debt and I was
• 43:48
  like learning these tools. And it honestly was this fear of not being enough and this fear of having
• 43:55
  like addicted to lack. And so when I started to reprogram that it honestly again kind of like the
• 44:00
  weight like it just naturally took care of itself. The interesting thing about debt though is that I
• 44:05
  see this product this this pattern all the time in my practice and people attract people will only
• 44:14
  attract into their life. Something that there's a hidden advantage to meaning there's some sort of
• 44:20
  hidden subconscious benefit to having this in their life. The belief, the limiting belief,
• 44:27
  the reality. So debt. No one wants to have debt. No one consciously wants debt. They like it's a
• 44:32
  very we can all agree. We don't want it, right? But why do people have debt if they don't want it?
• 44:38
  There's some sort of subconscious hidden advantage like in your belief system that is attracting the
• 44:44
  debt because there's some sort of benefit to you having this debt. The only reason why you have
• 44:49
  something is some sort of hidden advantage. So with that they was it. No, I have it. Oh god. Like what
• 44:55
  an example be like, okay, if I like I'm going to go into debt to buy the nice car because look at
• 44:59
  the nice car portray portrays X about me or was it kind of do you know what I mean or is that
• 45:05
  oftentimes if people don't think that they're enough, they'll try to buy certain things to make them
• 45:09
  feel worthy and then go into debt. So that can be a pattern. But something that I see really often
• 45:15
  is going to again is going to break your brain. So what because I started clearing all my clients
• 45:19
  of debt and it all came back to the same thing. And for a lot of them, not all of them, it was this
• 45:25
  pattern where they were financially supported from their parents growing up and they created this
• 45:30
  belief around money that if if I don't have it, then I'm financially saved from my parents and I'm
• 45:35
  saved from my parents and I receive love from my parents. So they created this reality subconsciously
• 45:42
  and they're attracting debt and they're creating more debt because subconsciously they believe that's
• 45:47
  how they are loved by their parents. And so it doesn't make any logical sense because anything in
• 45:51
  the subconscious is not logical. But now they're 35 45 55 and they're holding on to this debt
• 45:58
  because subconsciously they believe that's how they're going to stay connected to their parents.
• 46:03
  And I've literally it's so crazy like I'll help my clients clear this on us like just what I did
• 46:08
  with you guys. I'm like, okay, what's the benefit? Like what if you had this, what are you afraid of
• 46:13
  and so many of them would be like I'm like afraid to be alone if I didn't have debt. And I'm like,
• 46:17
  okay, that's so interesting. And just like time over time, people all over the world were saying
• 46:21
  the exact same thing. And I noticed that there was this like universal fear of that they didn't have
• 46:27
  debt. They would be alone and they won't receive love from their parents. So then when we clear that
• 46:32
  and we clear the hand of age, then the debt no longer exists. Then they would be open to all new
• 46:37
  possibilities to resolve their debt. Like I had one of my clients, something with their house got
• 46:42
  remorraged and then all their debt got paid off. Like it was like all these things kept happening.
• 46:47
  Once they cleared that hidden advantage to holding on to the debt. Oh my god, why are we so annoying?
• 46:53
  It's so spooky. It's like it's like it's like it's very little children. It's like the little child
• 46:59
  inside of ourselves that's like so scared. All we want is love and safety. So we do these silly things
• 47:04
  thinking it's going to give us love and safety. But it's actually creating the reality that we don't want.
• 47:09
  Really desperately before we started recording this podcast, something I can't even remember how
• 47:14
  this came up. Oh, that's right. We were all singing that song, where the hell is my husband?
• 47:19
  I was saying, yeah, let's manifest my husband like joking. And you said it's really interesting
• 47:24
  because money and the way that you relate to a relationship is kind of the same frequency.
• 47:30
  Yeah. Like desperate to know the answer to that. Like how they're related because they really
• 47:34
  think the idea of scarcity or lack for me comes up a relationship and both of those places.
• 47:42
  Okay, so I want you to dive into that thing that I told you at the beginning about how you relate
• 47:46
  to your dad's ability to protect and provide a place. Yeah, that will illuminate so much. Okay.
• 47:51
  When you receive something, if it's money, if it's attention, how does that make you feel?
• 47:57
  Really great. Really good. Like an attention. I'm like, oh, okay, so what's a habit with men
• 48:04
  that's occurring that you're not desiring? Mostly unavailable. I could always go for someone
• 48:09
  that's emotionally unavailable. It's almost like a go for them in the first place. You know,
• 48:13
  it's kind of like a fix that you like. Oh, you may be. Yeah, you kind of like to like. Sorry.
• 48:18
  I'm so glad you're piping up here. You know, like I feel... No, no, it's fun. I feel like you
• 48:23
  fished down here when you could fish here. I actually really agree with that. You know, like I think
• 48:27
  there's a problem with that. I need to fish down here. Yeah. Not up here. Yeah, yeah. It's from my,
• 48:33
  from a friend. I know you mean it's yeah, I know exactly what you mean. I'm fishing. I get
• 48:37
  from the creek and all in the pond. And he was like, amazing, beautiful.
• 48:41
  It's what you'd be like, oh, not enough for me. Okay, but why? It's 100% the deserving thing.
• 48:47
  Though it's the same thing. So money isn't enough. The men aren't enough. Like you don't feel
• 48:52
  enough for the men that you don't feel enough for what you desire. And that's your biggest block.
• 48:58
  Then when you clear your whole life is about to change. Like your whole life is good. You're
• 49:02
  going to text me. So I just to give you a quick example. So I had a client come to me and most
• 49:07
  clients come to me because I want more money. They want to improve their business and like that.
• 49:10
  I love that so much. And I also love talking about relationships because I have a really good
• 49:15
  success rate helping my clients manifest soulmates. Because again, it's like a similar frequency of
• 49:20
  just receiving and deserving. And I had a client come to me and she's like, okay, I want to make
• 49:25
  all this money. But I'm having this pattern reoccurring where I'm attracting these men who don't
• 49:29
  respect my boundaries. They're being super disrespectful to me. Just not respecting me as a person,
• 49:35
  not respecting my time, not respecting what I say. And I was like, okay, there's two things when
• 49:40
  she says that to me. I say, okay, one, where are you not respecting yourself? Because they're just
• 49:45
  mirroring how you treat yourself. So she made a list for me. And then she killed all those areas
• 49:50
  and showed treating herself her boundaries with respect. So that was number one. Then two,
• 49:55
  we cleared her fear of being disrespected. And we got back to the moment. Childhood that that
• 50:00
  happened. We cleared it. We rewrote the story two weeks later. I get text from her. And she's like,
• 50:06
  you're not going to believe this. I met this guy. I did it. I was like, okay, great. The neck,
• 50:09
  like a couple days later, she sent me a screenshot. And he literally says, like out of nowhere,
• 50:13
  I just want to let you know, I really respect you and your boundaries. You're kidding. You can't
• 50:17
  make this up. Then, and then she also had this thing of like, she's a living belief that she's
• 50:22
  never loved for who she is. And I was like, okay, great. So using neural linking that tool that I
• 50:27
  told you about in the beginning, we neural link to how how are people respecting my boundaries?
• 50:32
  And how are people loving me for who I am? Yeah, another screenshot. He says, I just want to let
• 50:36
  you know, I just love you for who you are. I can't make this shit up. Surely this is like the
• 50:41
  ad that you need to put on the internet. I'm okay with like a million dollars behind it.
• 50:45
  Like this one. I have so many other stories as well. Like again, one of my other clients,
• 50:49
  she's like, I think it's going to be easier for me to manifest a hundred million dollars
• 50:52
  than my soulmate. And I was like, challenge accepted within too much she was engaged.
• 50:56
  Don't give me this chick because I reckon I'm going to go away and like be walking down the street,
• 50:59
  like, this person wants to marry me. This person wants to marry me. I used to surround it. Like,
• 51:03
  what would you not? Not a negative note. But like, what do you say to people that? Like, you've
• 51:08
  convinced me. I think so. Because it's a ginormous skeptic. I almost, yeah. I think you were convinced
• 51:14
  for when we walked into the room and you probably, you know, like, how, what would you say to people
• 51:18
  that are like, this is all we were? I do feel like they probably be some people in the audience
• 51:23
  that do feel like there's no hope or do feel like they're in debt. You know, maybe as much as you
• 51:29
  were more and are just feeling really stark. And I know you gave your personal story beforehand.
• 51:35
  I think it's a really good way to finish because it's really hard to imagine anything bitter when
• 51:41
  everything feels super dark. Totally. I totally get that. I think going home, I was really confronted
• 51:47
  with that. I feel like when I go home, I'm like, I just like transfer back to that version of me.
• 51:51
  But I get it so much. I think number one is, you know, if you want to look up this science
• 51:56
  behind sub-consciously programming, you're like a scientific person. You want facts. You can look up
• 52:01
  all that. You can find all the facts for that. If that's what, like, that's what you need to hear.
• 52:06
  To be honest, I'm not here to convince anyone why they need to change. That's not my job.
• 52:12
  That's not my job to convince you of why you need to change that life is short. Like, that's not
• 52:18
  my job. I think that you, if you have it in you and you're like, okay, I'm done. Like, I'm just
• 52:24
  done with the debt. I'm done with these type of men. I'm done. And I just want a new reality.
• 52:29
  Try it. You don't need to trust me. You can just try it. Like, you've nothing to lose.
• 52:34
  And if you go all in on this and you, if you look at the results, you, like, it's impossible for
• 52:39
  not to work with you. You have a brain. So it's impossible not to work. And what do you have to lose?
• 52:43
  My thing is like, yeah, if you, if you want to science behind it, just look at the science of
• 52:46
  sub-consciously programming. But I don't want to convince you of why you need to change or why,
• 52:53
  because I need you to want that for yourself. I don't think people need, well, maybe they do.
• 52:59
  I'd say it's a two-part, there's definitely people that are just really happy bearing the head
• 53:04
  in the sand. But I think a lot of people do want to change. They've just tried lots of things and
• 53:09
  don't really know. And so probably feel a bit disillusioned by the over bombarding amount of,
• 53:16
  like, do this, do that, like, you know, we told in every direction how to get better, how to do
• 53:21
  this that maybe they're just a bit desensitized to, like, I don't want to get excited and think
• 53:25
  this could work and it doesn't tour. Totally. I think that what have you got to lose though?
• 53:29
  It's so true. I want to go back to like the root cause. I think a lot of things in society are
• 53:36
  band-aid solutions. So let's say you have a cut in your glass in it, right? If we want to heal
• 53:42
  this wound, I think a lot of tools right now, and this is what frustrated me so much, and this is
• 53:47
  honestly why I lost my dad, because there was no tool that helped. It was just like putting band-aid,
• 53:50
  band-aid, band-aid, band-aid, band-aid, and it didn't work. With subconscious reprogramming,
• 53:55
  we're literally taking the glass, we're removing it from the wound, we're putting on
• 54:00
  ointment, we're putting on a band-aid. So it's actually getting to the root cause of the problem,
• 54:04
  which is you've glass in your hand, right? And the thing about subconscious reprogramming is I feel
• 54:10
  like it's where meditation was like five years ago. So people kind of like subconscious,
• 54:14
  well, but I promised you in five years, it's all anyone's going to be speaking about.
• 54:19
  Exactly, it actually works. We're here for curves, or brands.
• 54:24
  No, but brand. I actually remember when I first started meditating like 14 years ago,
• 54:28
  the only reason I did it is because I was in a job where one of the hosts swore by it for
• 54:34
  creativity. And so I started doing it, honestly, I was probably just trying to be like a good
• 54:37
  employee, and when I would talk about it to people, I would always caveat meditation with like,
• 54:42
  oh, but I'm not a tree hucker. I was constantly trying to dismiss what I was doing, and now it's
• 54:49
  so normal that someone says, oh, I'm meditating. I was like, oh, yeah, obviously.
• 54:53
  It's even like therapy 10 years ago. It's like, why are you in therapy? Like, what's wrong with you?
• 54:57
  Oh, yeah. Now it's like, I have my therapist. Like, it's common now. Everyone's like, oh, my God,
• 55:00
  me too. Yeah. Like, so we're getting this weird. I know. I know. Yeah, stunning. On brand
• 55:05
  love it. So, but Marley has to catch a flight. Yeah, we've got to, we have to let it go. I would
• 55:10
  love to sit here and go through all my limiting beliefs about money.
• 55:13
  A little part two. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 55:15
  Like, three or say, but if people want to learn more about clear the fear, aka me,
• 55:22
  what do I do on the room? How do I sign up? Yeah. So we have the Higher Self app.
• 55:28
  It's the first subconscious reprogramming app on the app store, and it's called Higher Self,
• 55:33
  and there's a concierge so you can say, hey, like, I'm stove. This is everything that I'm doing
• 55:38
  with and we'll create a custom protocol for you and you can use it within the app. And then
• 55:43
  all this stuff they speak about, you can find me at Marley Rose Heroes across all channels,
• 55:47
  and then we have the Money Mindset mission show podcast. Oh, you are amazing.
• 55:52
  Thank you so much. 50,000 pounds a month. Yeah.
• 55:57
  Thank you so much. Thank you so much. Thank you so much. Thank you.
• 56:00
  Thank you. We're in Houston, London. Let's do a part two.
• 56:02
  Yes. Oh, my gosh. And so I will bring along her.
• 56:05
  Oh, my God. Why do we make this? Oh, my God. Yeah. Okay.
• 56:07
  Vic can bring along her 50 pounds that she's in for the last 12 months.
• 56:11
  That's right. Yeah. Yeah. She pounds.
• 56:12
  And you can bring your ring. Yeah. Oh, my gosh.
• 56:17
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• 56:24
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