Latest / Unshakeable with Human Design - A Human Design For Business Podcast / 475: Building Momentum for Generators & Manifesting Generator
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- 0:05Nicole Laino: Show dedicated to helping entrepreneurs use human.
- 0:07Nicole Laino: Design to shift from hustle to flow without sacrificing results.
- 0:11Nicole Laino: Come here to become an unshakable human and build an unshakable business according to your human design.
- 0:17Nicole Laino: I'm your host, Nicole Laino.
- 0:21Nicole Laino: Hello, and welcome to Unshakable with Human Design.
- 0:24Nicole Laino: I'm your host, Nicole Laino, and we're here, just you and me, today, and we're going to talk.
- 0:30Nicole Laino: This is specifically for my generators, my manifesting generators, and for anybody who wants to guide people.
- 0:37Nicole Laino: You know, do you have your.
- 0:39Nicole Laino: Maybe your kids or generators or your spouse or your mother or your friends?
- 0:44Nicole Laino: This is a great way for you to understand how these people operate, the sacral beings in your life, how they operate, and how do we create momentum.
- 0:54Nicole Laino: It's ultimately what all generators want.
- 0:57Nicole Laino: Whether you're a manifesting generator or a pure generator.
- 1:01Nicole Laino: We want momentum.
- 1:03Nicole Laino: We want to feel like our energy is being used efficiently.
- 1:08Nicole Laino: It's being used well.
- 1:10Nicole Laino: That's what's satisfying to us, which is our signature.
- 1:13Nicole Laino: So in this episode, I want to break down just some of the ways that I approach this, and how do we guide these people to something that is correct for them, where we're not forcing, we're following our alignment, but we are still moving.
- 1:28Nicole Laino: And I think that's what we're all looking for, right?
- 1:31Nicole Laino: We want to show up to life and show up to our businesses again.
- 1:36Nicole Laino: The way that I talk about human design, you know, we live in the 3D world.
- 1:40Nicole Laino: We live in the material world.
- 1:41Nicole Laino: We have to produce things, we have to create things.
- 1:44Nicole Laino: We have to make money.
- 1:45Nicole Laino: We've got to show up and do our work now.
- 1:48Nicole Laino: We don't have to do that all the time.
- 1:50Nicole Laino: We don't have to be on all the time.
- 1:52Nicole Laino: That is conditioning that we need to work through.
- 1:55Nicole Laino: But we have things to get done.
- 1:57Nicole Laino: We have goals that we want to meet.
- 1:58Nicole Laino: So how do we do that in alignment?
- 2:00Nicole Laino: And we're going to talk about that specifically for our sacral beings in this episode, because I just had a few things coming through with the way that I work, and I do it so naturally now.
- 2:10Nicole Laino: And of course, I'm talking about this inside business by design inside the human design lab.
- 2:14Nicole Laino: We just did a mini mastermind inside the lab which people could have bought into as well from the outside on type, because so many people.
- 2:24Nicole Laino: I think this is so interesting.
- 2:25Nicole Laino: We had so many questions coming inside the human design lab on type.
- 2:29Nicole Laino: They were all asking about they're like, I don't know if I know what my response feels like.
- 2:34Nicole Laino: I don't know what it feels like to really be in that sense of satisfaction all the time.
- 2:40Nicole Laino: And I want to break down some of that.
- 2:42Nicole Laino: It was a really great conversation.
- 2:44Nicole Laino: We did the Mastermind over two days.
- 2:46Nicole Laino: It was super fun.
- 2:47Nicole Laino: It was under a hundred dollars.
- 2:49Nicole Laino: It was a really great one.
- 2:50Nicole Laino: And people got a lot of value from it.
- 2:52Nicole Laino: And I think that one of the things that' stands out to me from that, from those questions that we got from the response in the room.
- 3:00Nicole Laino: And we did it on all types.
- 3:01Nicole Laino: We didn't just do it for sacrals, we did it for all type.
- 3:05Nicole Laino: It was a type mastermind.
- 3:07Nicole Laino: And the thing that was, I think, impactful for me being in there and seeing how it worked and for the people who were attending it as well, is just how much we throw aside type.
- 3:17Nicole Laino: It's funny, we talk about it a lot.
- 3:19Nicole Laino: We talk about being a generator, we talk about being a manifester, we talk about being a projector.
- 3:23Nicole Laino: But then we move on to the sexier stuff.
- 3:26Nicole Laino: We want to know what our unconscious Mars is and what's our Saturn.
- 3:30Nicole Laino: And all of that is well and good, but the foundation of everything is type.
- 3:34Nicole Laino: Type is how you get momentum.
- 3:38Nicole Laino: You don't get momentum from your Saturn.
- 3:41Nicole Laino: You get momentum from getting your energy into alignment where things feel easy.
- 3:48Nicole Laino: When it doesn't feel easy, then a lot of times we are misaligned or there's something off, or we're dealing with fear, we're dealing with conditioning, which is a whole other kind of path that we could go down.
- 4:00Nicole Laino: But I don't want to convolute too much in this episode.
- 4:03Nicole Laino: I want to keep it focused.
- 4:05Nicole Laino: But I just did a reel on my Instagram page, which you can go check out where I talked about.
- 4:09Nicole Laino: And I did an episode on this as well.
- 4:11Nicole Laino: That misalignment so often is misdiagnosed.
- 4:15Nicole Laino: It's really fear.
- 4:17Nicole Laino: A lot of people are not misaligned.
- 4:19Nicole Laino: They are afraid.
- 4:20Nicole Laino: So we have to know what the difference is between those things.
- 4:23Nicole Laino: And all of that is found in your body.
- 4:25Nicole Laino: All of that is found in your presence.
- 4:27Nicole Laino: Okay, so before we get started, I wanted to actually share with you.
- 4:32Nicole Laino: I'm going to be teaching a workshop on leadership in the new era.
- 4:38Nicole Laino: So this is a free workshop that we are doing.
- 4:40Nicole Laino: And this is all about the change that's coming in 2027.
- 4:45Nicole Laino: But it's more than just the change.
- 4:47Nicole Laino: It's more about how we transform and how we Transform others in this new era where we're going to.
- 4:54Nicole Laino: So as many of you know, if you're a business owner or you're thinking of being one, we have to look forward, we have to look ahead.
- 5:01Nicole Laino: Not at what's happening right now, although that's interesting, but what's coming down the road so that we can be prepared for it, so that we can.
- 5:11Nicole Laino: One you start to normalize that in your nervous system.
- 5:14Nicole Laino: What's coming, that's important, you can start to deal with that.
- 5:18Nicole Laino: So you're prepared.
- 5:19Nicole Laino: But then you can also be saying like, how can I position myself to be ready for this change?
- 5:26Nicole Laino: So this is a free workshop.
- 5:28Nicole Laino: It's just one day.
- 5:29Nicole Laino: It's just like a one session.
- 5:30Nicole Laino: So it's not like one of my five day things, but it's free and it's available to you.
- 5:34Nicole Laino: All you have to do is DM me the number 2027 on Instagram, I'm at Nicole Lano official, or go to nicolelaino.com forward/2027 and you can grab it right there.
- 5:45Nicole Laino: You can register.
- 5:46Nicole Laino: Okay, so let's get started.
- 5:47Nicole Laino: Let's talk about the sacrals.
- 5:50Nicole Laino: Because this is at the heart of what we'll be talking about in the workshop.
- 5:54Nicole Laino: What we're going to be going over is really how do we approach this, right?
- 5:59Nicole Laino: How do we approach this new way of guiding ourselves and guiding others?
- 6:04Nicole Laino: Because this way is becoming more and more important.
- 6:07Nicole Laino: You're already probably feeling that, right?
- 6:10Nicole Laino: You're probably feeling the things are changing.
- 6:12Nicole Laino: You are probably feeling the energy shifting.
- 6:15Nicole Laino: You are probably seeing that some things that it's not just that they're not working, it's they don't feel good anymore.
- 6:23Nicole Laino: Things that you used to do easily, that used to come like super easily to you, that felt really in alignment no longer do, because you're different, but the energy is different as well.
- 6:34Nicole Laino: Go talk to some people.
- 6:35Nicole Laino: If you think it's just you go talk to a few people, come to the workshop.
- 6:39Nicole Laino: You're going to see all the people in that workshop are going to be feeling this as well.
- 6:44Nicole Laino: You're going to see you're not alone.
- 6:46Nicole Laino: So as sacrals, so how do we create momentum, right, without forcing, without pushing?
- 6:54Nicole Laino: Because like I said, not only are these things not working anymore, they don't feel good.
- 7:00Nicole Laino: Like maybe you could have pushed through before, maybe that was something that you were able to do.
- 7:06Nicole Laino: But you might find that you're like, your heart's not in it now and you're wondering, do I even still want things?
- 7:11Nicole Laino: Do I even still want the things that are in front of me?
- 7:13Nicole Laino: Because I don't want to push for it, I don't want to work too hard for it.
- 7:17Nicole Laino: But then you get a sense like you fall into alignment somehow.
- 7:20Nicole Laino: So if you're a sacral, all of a sudden, like, something will start to work and you'll wonder, why is this different?
- 7:26Nicole Laino: Now, if you understand human design, you'll see what's different.
- 7:28Nicole Laino: You'll notice that your process is different, you will notice what shifted and then you can start to understand it.
- 7:35Nicole Laino: I don't mean to make it sound like you're gaming the system, but you'll start to understand how you find your alignment versus either being caught in misalignment or by some good fortune ending up in alignment.
- 7:46Nicole Laino: Right?
- 7:46Nicole Laino: How do we position ourselves where we end up in alignment most of the time?
- 7:50Nicole Laino: Isn't that a great question?
- 7:52Nicole Laino: And I'm going to share with you some of the things that I do and that we talked about in our Mini Mastermind that we hosted.
- 7:59Nicole Laino: What we do to find that alignment and to make it happen, so to speak, more often.
- 8:05Nicole Laino: How do we gain and build momentum?
- 8:08Nicole Laino: And so I'm going to talk about kind of the main piece here and I'm going to talk about what most people do instead.
- 8:15Nicole Laino: Because when I say this, you might be saying, like, I knew that already.
- 8:17Nicole Laino: And I want you to recognize that just because you knew it informationally, it does not mean that you are doing it.
- 8:25Nicole Laino: Everything with the sacral comes down to presence.
- 8:28Nicole Laino: Are you present with the moment?
- 8:31Nicole Laino: Are you here or are you in your head?
- 8:34Nicole Laino: Are you wondering how you're going to do it tomorrow?
- 8:37Nicole Laino: Are you wondering if it's going to work?
- 8:39Nicole Laino: Are you?
- 8:39Nicole Laino: And this is not great for anybody, but for the sacral especially, you're not paying attention.
- 8:45Nicole Laino: The most thing, the most important thing, which is your sacral, which is your motor, which is the thing that turns on and makes everything feel juicy and when it's off, makes everything feel difficult and suck.
- 8:56Nicole Laino: And we don't want that.
- 8:57Nicole Laino: That's not where momentum is.
- 8:58Nicole Laino: Momentum is in the tiny little moments of saying yes to the right things.
- 9:07Nicole Laino: Now again, it's going to sound really like, oh, I knew that already.
- 9:10Nicole Laino: No words will kill your business or your life and happiness faster than, oh, I knew that already.
- 9:16Nicole Laino: But are you doing it?
- 9:17Nicole Laino: Is the question.
- 9:18Nicole Laino: You know it, but are you doing it?
- 9:20Nicole Laino: And the answer to that, even in the Mini Mastermind, what we landed on was no.
- 9:24Nicole Laino: People were not doing it.
- 9:25Nicole Laino: They knew it, but they Weren't doing it.
- 9:27Nicole Laino: That's what the Human Design Authority Lab is for.
- 9:30Nicole Laino: What we built it for is to get people in the habit of checking in with their design.
- 9:38Nicole Laino: We have calls or something.
- 9:39Nicole Laino: Something's going on.
- 9:40Nicole Laino: We're messaging you.
- 9:41Nicole Laino: You're like, in the energy of being aware of your design, being present to it, not from a mental place.
- 9:50Nicole Laino: But our job is bringing you back to your body, back to your truth all the time.
- 9:55Nicole Laino: That's what we built it for.
- 9:56Nicole Laino: But if you're not in there, then I hope you are doing this some other way yourself, that you are coming and you're finding presence within yourself.
- 10:05Nicole Laino: So here's what most people do.
- 10:06Nicole Laino: I have a list of tasks I need to get these things done.
- 10:10Nicole Laino: Maybe it's something where I'll use content, a podcast, creating something.
- 10:15Nicole Laino: Right.
- 10:15Nicole Laino: That needs creative energy.
- 10:18Nicole Laino: Okay, so what we do is we say, I have to get this done today.
- 10:21Nicole Laino: So I have to film and record this podcast today, for example.
- 10:25Nicole Laino: Okay.
- 10:26Nicole Laino: So I sit down and I say, what am I gonna talk about on the podcast?
- 10:30Nicole Laino: Do I have a list?
- 10:31Nicole Laino: Maybe I'll make a list.
- 10:32Nicole Laino: And now I'm like, I'm trying to think about it.
- 10:35Nicole Laino: And what you'll feel here is to feel.
- 10:36Nicole Laino: If you are a sacral, as you think about things and you try to think about it, you're going to feel the energy pour out of your body.
- 10:45Nicole Laino: All of that energy that you had previously, all of the inspiration, everything seeps out of you, seemingly feeling like it will never return again.
- 10:57Nicole Laino: Okay, that is because the minute you go into your head, all the magic stops.
- 11:03Nicole Laino: You are not in your body and your sacral is not on.
- 11:06Nicole Laino: You're not working with it on.
- 11:09Nicole Laino: This is why doing things like going for a walk or engaging with something and actually like living your life is the answer for most sacrals.
- 11:19Nicole Laino: Because it turns the motor on.
- 11:21Nicole Laino: That's when you'll suddenly get that lightning bolt kind of idea will land on you, like, unexpectedly.
- 11:29Nicole Laino: Doing the unexpected thing leads to the result that you thought you would get sitting at a desk trying to figure it out.
- 11:36Nicole Laino: And it came to you when you did the thing that made absolutely no sense.
- 11:40Nicole Laino: And your logical part of your brain or someone from the outside world that doesn't understand this stuff is like, why aren't you applying yourself?
- 11:47Nicole Laino: You're not focusing.
- 11:49Nicole Laino: We cannot focus.
- 11:50Nicole Laino: Generators cannot focus.
- 11:53Nicole Laino: If we aren't engaged with what we are doing, what's actually happening.
- 11:57Nicole Laino: When you're trying to think about something and it's not coming and you feel this urge to get up and do something else.
- 12:03Nicole Laino: But you make yourself sit there.
- 12:05Nicole Laino: You are in frustration.
- 12:07Nicole Laino: Now, this is something we all know.
- 12:08Nicole Laino: We're not doing it, though.
- 12:10Nicole Laino: We stay in that frustration and we sit there and we try to figure it out.
- 12:14Nicole Laino: I just have to get this one thing out, and it happens.
- 12:17Nicole Laino: It happens to me.
- 12:18Nicole Laino: I'm just good at recognize it.
- 12:20Nicole Laino: I witness it, and I go, oh, look at that.
- 12:22Nicole Laino: Look what I'm doing right now.
- 12:24Nicole Laino: I'm trying to make it happen.
- 12:26Nicole Laino: That's not the way.
- 12:27Nicole Laino: What the way is to go engage with something that will turn the motor on, will get you excited.
- 12:35Nicole Laino: Momentum comes from turning the motor on, getting the sacral to be engaged in something.
- 12:41Nicole Laino: And you'll find everything in your life starts to feel easier, more fun, more effective, and all the things.
- 12:47Nicole Laino: It'll be fun, it'll be a good time.
- 12:49Nicole Laino: You will start to feel like, I can do anything.
- 12:52Nicole Laino: Okay, now let's use that podcast example again.
- 12:55Nicole Laino: So I'm gonna record my podcast, but it's not coming.
- 12:57Nicole Laino: I don't have the idea.
- 12:59Nicole Laino: But then I'm like, oh, well, I was gonna write this, you know, article for my substack, and I kind of have energy for that.
- 13:06Nicole Laino: Like, that sort of excites me.
- 13:08Nicole Laino: But that's not on my list for today.
- 13:10Nicole Laino: Right?
- 13:10Nicole Laino: Like, that's not the thing I needed to get done today.
- 13:12Nicole Laino: So logically, my mind would say, don't do that now.
- 13:15Nicole Laino: You've got to get the podcast thing done.
- 13:17Nicole Laino: Okay, that would be a fatal flaw.
- 13:20Nicole Laino: That would be a fatal error, right?
- 13:22Nicole Laino: Because the way is to do the thing that is the yes.
- 13:25Nicole Laino: The yes is write the substack post.
- 13:27Nicole Laino: Okay, so I write the substack article now.
- 13:30Nicole Laino: I got all these juices flowing Now I have 10 ideas now.
- 13:34Nicole Laino: I have all of this energy flowing.
- 13:37Nicole Laino: Now when I sit down to record, everything is coming through.
- 13:41Nicole Laino: I'm recording this episode now.
- 13:43Nicole Laino: I hope you hear how the momentum is picking up.
- 13:46Nicole Laino: The more fun I'm having.
- 13:47Nicole Laino: My sacral got very engaged with this episode because as I started talking about it when I started off, I don't have any notes for this, so I'm not reading off anything.
- 13:58Nicole Laino: It's purely energy.
- 13:59Nicole Laino: I'm just sort of going with this is a topic I don't really need cues for.
- 14:04Nicole Laino: I intentionally created this episode to just feel free and fun, engage my sacral, because I know that the momentum in this is going to carry me.
- 14:16Nicole Laino: The more excited I get, I won't have to think about what I'm saying.
- 14:19Nicole Laino: Now my throat connection is through the spleen.
- 14:24Nicole Laino: I do better without notes.
- 14:25Nicole Laino: I do better with letting my intuition speak.
- 14:30Nicole Laino: Okay.
- 14:31Nicole Laino: I also know that I have some of that activated in the transits right now.
- 14:35Nicole Laino: So this is how we can have fun with this stuff.
- 14:37Nicole Laino: Right?
- 14:37Nicole Laino: But it all starts with.
- 14:39Nicole Laino: So even if I didn't know that my 5720 channel was activated through the transits, even if I didn't know that my spleen to throat connection meant that I was an intuitive speaker, even if I didn't know those things, and I only knew that I had to engage my sacral and be excited about what I was doing, talking about, or working on.
- 15:00Nicole Laino: And I focused only on that I wouldn't have to know all those other things.
- 15:05Nicole Laino: Right?
- 15:06Nicole Laino: What knowing those other things helps me with.
- 15:08Nicole Laino: And this is where like going more.
- 15:09Nicole Laino: And this is how we create transformation with human design, which is what that workshop is going to be about.
- 15:15Nicole Laino: It's going to be about how do we create transformation with human design in this new era.
- 15:19Nicole Laino: Era.
- 15:19Nicole Laino: And right now, what do we need to be doing right now to prepare ourselves for this new era and to create real transformation for people on the way to 2027 and beyond?
- 15:30Nicole Laino: What do we have to do?
- 15:32Nicole Laino: That is what the workshop is going to be about.
- 15:34Nicole Laino: But how we create transformation with people is.
- 15:36Nicole Laino: Then we can take it further.
- 15:38Nicole Laino: So I know that I have a spleen to throat connection.
- 15:40Nicole Laino: What does that mean?
- 15:40Nicole Laino: It means I'm an intuitive speaker.
- 15:42Nicole Laino: Why does that help me?
- 15:43Nicole Laino: Well, I won't worry myself or bother myself with trying to make sure everything is super scripted.
- 15:48Nicole Laino: I won't wonder why when I script, it doesn't come out right and I hate it.
- 15:54Nicole Laino: I won't wonder.
- 15:54Nicole Laino: I am my most magnetic.
- 15:56Nicole Laino: I am my most free and fun and connected when I'm just talking and I'm letting it fly.
- 16:03Nicole Laino: So it gives me permission to do that and it doesn't make me feel like I'm not prepared.
- 16:08Nicole Laino: Right.
- 16:09Nicole Laino: You get to deeply understand yourself through human design when you understand yourself not from an intellectual way.
- 16:16Nicole Laino: We don't need more information.
- 16:18Nicole Laino: We need integration.
- 16:20Nicole Laino: That is the way that I teach human design.
- 16:21Nicole Laino: I teach integrated human design, not informational human design.
- 16:26Nicole Laino: Because information just gets you more in your head, which is exactly where you don't need to go.
- 16:31Nicole Laino: No one needs to spend more time up there.
- 16:33Nicole Laino: We need to know how to integrate it into our daily life and the lives of the people we care about.
- 16:40Nicole Laino: Because we know what an impact this system can make on our lives.
- 16:46Nicole Laino: And it makes an impact.
- 16:47Nicole Laino: Now, I promise you, it's going to make an immeasurable impact after 2027.
- 16:53Nicole Laino: We're already feeling that, but we are going to feel that big time in less than a year.
- 16:58Nicole Laino: So if you'd like to come to that workshop, DM me 2027 on Instagram, I'm icoleno official.
- 17:05Nicole Laino: Or go to nicolelaino.com 2027.
- 17:09Nicole Laino: This is all linked up in the show notes, by the way, and you can register there.
- 17:12Nicole Laino: It's totally free.
- 17:13Nicole Laino: So this is a free workshop and it's only one session, so please come.
- 17:16Nicole Laino: There will be replays, so if you can't make it, you can watch the replay for a limited time.
- 17:22Nicole Laino: All right.
- 17:22Nicole Laino: I hope you join us there and I hope that you got a little bit of a glimpse of how sacrals create momentum.
- 17:29Nicole Laino: Momentum comes from the motor being on.
- 17:34Nicole Laino: Sacral is a motor.
- 17:36Nicole Laino: The more it's on, the more energy it generates.
- 17:39Nicole Laino: Hence the name generator.
- 17:40Nicole Laino: It generates energy when it is off and we try to work with it off, which means you're frustrated, it is draining energy and we get exactly the opposite.
- 17:51Nicole Laino: And that's how we end up with generators who wonder why they're tired all the time and why they're not getting responses.
- 17:57Nicole Laino: And that is something that will be a perpetual downward spiral for you.
- 18:02Nicole Laino: You have to engage your sacral, go have some fun, enjoy yourself, do this thing that energy is there for now.
- 18:09Nicole Laino: It will generate more and more energy for you and you can start to ride that wave.
- 18:14Nicole Laino: You create the.
- 18:16Nicole Laino: That's the beauty of it.
- 18:18Nicole Laino: And of course there's more nuance to this.
- 18:20Nicole Laino: If you're an emotional authority, it's going to be different if you're like all of the stuff that is all relevant, but at the core, at the very base that it all stands on it's type following your sacral.
- 18:33Nicole Laino: So I hope this inspired you to play around with this, to not be precious with it, to get in there and really work with this and to engage your sacral.
- 18:42Nicole Laino: Today, go do something fun and I hope that it inspires you to join us for the workshop because it's going to be really cool, really fun.
- 18:47Nicole Laino: And like I said, you can catch the replay if you cannot join us live.
- 18:51Nicole Laino: All right, have a wonderful rest of your day, everyone.
- 18:53Nicole Laino: I appreciate you and remember, in order to have an unshakable business, you must first become an unshakeable human.
- 19:00Nicole Laino: So thanks for letting us help you become unshakable with human design.
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