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Dirty Little Secret: “If the person you once called the one suddenly came back—would you risk everything now? · Billy The Kidd In The Morning

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  Speaker 1: Get it off your chest.
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  Speaker 2: Comment you'll feel better, welcome to the dirt, makes one
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  Speaker 2: a secret, let us know. Okay, just call us eight
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  Speaker 2: three three seven eight seven one o two nine or
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  Speaker 2: at Billy on the radio on Instagram. Some people like
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  Speaker 2: to set it up that way. That's what this guy did.
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  Speaker 2: He reached down and he's like, I got a secret
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  Speaker 2: and kind of a situation going.
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  Speaker 1: On, the biggest of six elevens. Yeah, I can't thank
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  Speaker 1: you guys enough for talking to me about it. Well,
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  Speaker 1: So I've been dating my current girlfriend for nine months now,
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  Speaker 1: which is I'm really proud of. But it's starting to
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  Speaker 1: get to the point where after nine months it's like
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  Speaker 1: that's when you really evaluate. You know, what's the next step?
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  Speaker 1: You know, where do we go? That has been almost
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  Speaker 1: a year of our lives, and you know, things are
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  Speaker 1: so good, they're comfortable, they're easy, Like they're so easy.
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  Speaker 1: The problem is my ex reached out, so my past
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  Speaker 1: is kind of creeping up. It's it's telling me for
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  Speaker 1: a loop. So I'm in a really good spot. But
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  Speaker 1: then you hear you know, you get to call from
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  Speaker 1: the person who you were with for five years and
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  Speaker 1: then now I'm kind of freaking out.
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  Speaker 2: So your ex, your ex reached out to you. Why
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  Speaker 2: are you freaking out about it though she's your ex?
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  Speaker 2: I mean, like you've moved on. I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, yeah I did. It's one of the things
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  Speaker 1: I thought I was fully moved on. And then you
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  Speaker 1: just see the you see the name on the phone,
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  Speaker 1: and you're like, oh, I felt that butterfly and nine
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  Speaker 1: months and so my ex kind of was so comfort context.
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  Speaker 1: My ex was like the one I thought at the time,
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  Speaker 1: which I don't know if you guys, are you know
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  Speaker 1: used to that. Maybe you've had many the ones that
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  Speaker 1: she was the relationship. It's like we didn't break up
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  Speaker 1: because we weren't in love, you know, So why did
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  Speaker 1: you break out? Well, I mean, I I'm already kind
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  Speaker 1: of air and stuff out. She really struggled with alcohol,
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  Speaker 1: you guys, And I'm not perfect myself, but you get
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  Speaker 1: to a point, you know, with someone you care for
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  Speaker 1: so much. I didn't know how to help her other
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  Speaker 1: than like with my actions, you know, I started to
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  Speaker 1: worry about her. It's not like, oh I don't like
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  Speaker 1: when she's drunk around me. No, I'm like worried about
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  Speaker 1: her health.
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  Speaker 3: So it was a big.
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  Speaker 1: Problem, absolutely, I mean it, Yeah, it's like all I
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  Speaker 1: could think about.
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  Speaker 3: You know.
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  Speaker 1: It was just like every time I saw her, like
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  Speaker 1: are you drunk right now? I'm trying to like give
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  Speaker 1: her a kiss of smell her breath, like oh, like
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  Speaker 1: it's pathetic, but you know, you go through the stuff.
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  Speaker 1: So yeah, So we broke up and I just had
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  Speaker 1: to move on, just like forcing myself to be cause,
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  Speaker 1: like I said, I I mean, you guys, I I
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  Speaker 1: she was the one.
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  Speaker 2: So she reaches out. I mean, how do you know
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  Speaker 2: she's she reaches out? What does she say she's not?
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  Speaker 2: I mean she could be drunk dialing you. Now, who knows.
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  Speaker 3: It's sad.
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  Speaker 1: Don't get me wrong, but no, I'd be lying if
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  Speaker 1: I said that didn't cross my mind. She's adamant that
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  Speaker 1: she's sober, So like, we didn't really beat around the bush.
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  Speaker 1: She kind of wanted to call just to yeah, and
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  Speaker 1: that's the thing that that was the crux, that's what happened.
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  Speaker 1: So she's adamant she's sober. She does sound different over
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  Speaker 1: the phone, but also you know until I look in
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  Speaker 1: her eyes, I don't. I don't know, but yeah, it's
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  Speaker 1: like you don't prepare for something like that. I'm I'm
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  Speaker 1: moved on with someone. I'm really happy. But then my
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  Speaker 1: axe is telling me that she's figured out the reason
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  Speaker 1: that we split up. So it's like, do I have
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  Speaker 1: to should I myself?
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  Speaker 3: Wow?
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  Speaker 1: You know?
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  Speaker 3: So okay? That adds a different elements.
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  Speaker 4: He's got clarity now, right, So.
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  Speaker 2: She reaches out to you and basically says, hey, I'm
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  Speaker 2: sober now I'm myself again, which this is incredibly sad.
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  Speaker 2: Good for her first of all that she got sober,
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  Speaker 2: but now I understand why it's more of a dilemma
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  Speaker 2: than just my ex reached out.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I want what if what if I do? You know,
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  Speaker 1: what if I do go and talk to my ex,
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  Speaker 1: my current and she's not okay? And then that's a
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  Speaker 1: gamble that I lose out on, And then, you know,
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  Speaker 1: how do I explain to my current girlfriend? You know,
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  Speaker 1: I've been losing sleep over my ex.
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  Speaker 2: So you're thinking about going to meet up or talk
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  Speaker 2: to your ex and see how you feel or talk
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  Speaker 2: about things.
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  Speaker 1: My gut says, I owe it to myself and I
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  Speaker 1: was with her for five years, so it's like my
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  Speaker 1: gut says, I owe it to most of my twenties.
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  Speaker 1: But I also could shoot myself and end up alone
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  Speaker 1: with neither of them. I really freaking confused.
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  Speaker 3: Right now, guys.
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  Speaker 2: Well, I mean my my, My theory is this take
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  Speaker 2: your I know, it's hard to take your ex out
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  Speaker 2: of the equation.
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  Speaker 3: It doesn't matter who. This is the fact that you are.
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  Speaker 2: If you were really truly in love with your new girlfriend,
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  Speaker 2: you wouldn't even be thinking about this, in my.
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  Speaker 3: Opinion, wouldn't even give it a second thought. You would
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  Speaker 3: be just, hey, you know, that ship is sailed.
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  Speaker 2: It's sad, but I'm in love and I am in
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  Speaker 2: love with this with my new girlfriend, and I things
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  Speaker 2: are getting serious. But the fact that you're even questioning it,
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  Speaker 2: even if you don't get back with your ex, I
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  Speaker 2: don't know if this is the one, right.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's uh, well, you're here something that's like that's
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  Speaker 1: probably what my subconscious wanted to hear, but it's like, ah,
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  Speaker 1: I don't only hear it.
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  Speaker 2: And I'm happy she got sober, and that's then I
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  Speaker 2: you know, I've seen this happen, you know with people
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  Speaker 2: who have kind of gotten their life together, thankfully, and
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  Speaker 2: they come to their senses and go, wow, I messed up.
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  Speaker 2: And whether it was a relationship or friends or whatever,
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  Speaker 2: they come back around and they're like, I'm sorry, and
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  Speaker 2: it's I don't know, what can you do? You had
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  Speaker 2: to move on because for yourself.
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  Speaker 4: Right, And if I'm the new girlfriend, I don't want
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  Speaker 4: to be stuck in the middle of this. No, you
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  Speaker 4: know what I mean.
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  Speaker 3: I don't want to know.
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  Speaker 4: That your this is even happening.
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  Speaker 2: And you can't tell her. I mean, honestly, why what's
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  Speaker 2: the point. But if you meet up with her, to me,
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  Speaker 2: that's deceiving and not cool. Yeah, if you're still with
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  Speaker 2: your girlfriend, I.
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  Speaker 1: Should tell her. If I do that, yeah, definitely nothing wrong.
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  Speaker 1: She's I mean, she's awesome as the.
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  Speaker 3: Well someone can be awesome and not for you.
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  Speaker 1: M h. And I think you're right.
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  Speaker 2: I'm not saying that that's the case. But well, so
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  Speaker 2: you're kind of undecided on whether you should meet up
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  Speaker 2: with her or talk to her anymore, or you're or
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  Speaker 2: you're you know you're going either way. Can you do
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  Speaker 2: me a favor and can you give us a follow up?
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  Speaker 2: I'm not going to make you, you know, make a
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  Speaker 2: decision right now obviously, but can you give us a
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  Speaker 2: follow up and let us know what you decide to do?
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  Speaker 1: Absolutely? Yeah, I need to really think about that because I,
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  Speaker 1: like I said, I think you guys probably said what
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  Speaker 1: my subconscious wanting to.
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  Speaker 4: I think I know where you're heart is, Like you
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  Speaker 4: have a little spark that you even yourself hasn't felt
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  Speaker 4: in a while. I mean, there's like an energy about
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  Speaker 4: you that I feel like I can tell.
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  Speaker 2: When you call somebody the one, right, the one and
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  Speaker 2: it's not your current partner.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I can absolutely give you as a callback.
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  Speaker 3: I think check in with us tomorrow.
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  Speaker 2: I mean even if you can check in with us
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  Speaker 2: tomorrow or I don't know, just let us just let
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  Speaker 2: us know when you can.
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  Speaker 3: I'll give you our private lence you can call up
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  Speaker 3: right away.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, all right, hold on.
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  Speaker 3: Stay there, give it that.
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  Speaker 2: I just have a feeling somewhat one of these girls
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  Speaker 2: gonna have a bad Valentine's Day.