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Kelsey Aida – The Manifesting Fix · Postcards to the Universe

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  Speaker 1: Welcome to Postcards to the Universe with Melissa Caprio. Do
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  Speaker 1: you believe in magic? What if you were told that
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  Speaker 1: Here's your host, Melissa Caprio.
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  Speaker 2: Hi, everybody, and welcome to Postcards to the Universe with Melissa.
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  Speaker 2: Creating the life you crave. How is everybody doing today?
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  Speaker 2: I hope everybody's doing well. If you're here live, you're
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  Speaker 2: here on November 4th at 4 p.m. Eastern Time. And welcome.
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  Speaker 2: It's a big, big day today. If you haven't been
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  Speaker 2: paying attention, we had a huge, huge blue wave happen yesterday.
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  Speaker 3: Yesterday.
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  Speaker 2: I don't, my show is not about politics, but if
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  Speaker 2: am a Democrat and I am very, very happy about
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  Speaker 2: what happened here yesterday and where we are moving. So
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  Speaker 2: I'm really excited about that. Today I have a bestselling
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  Speaker 2: author and personal development expert, Kelsey Aida with me, and
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  Speaker 2: she's going to join me in just a few minutes.
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  Speaker 2: of my shows and all of my guests that has
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  Speaker 2: the show is about. So you please go back and
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  Speaker 2: watch some of those shows. So for those who do
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  Speaker 2: know me, you guys know that I am making my
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  Speaker 2: own Oracle deck and I have done my pitch page
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  Speaker 2: to pitch to a publisher and I wrote my booklet
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  Speaker 2: and I am doing my cards, right? So I'm going
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  Speaker 2: in that way. So it is manifesting. But the deck
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  Speaker 2: that I show on here is the deck that I
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  Speaker 2: made homemade, right? They're my photographs of manifesting postcards that
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  Speaker 2: people send me with an affirmation. So I pull one
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  Speaker 2: before every show. And today's, and I swear to you,
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  Speaker 2: I pulled this card today. This just happens to be
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  Speaker 2: the last card of 52 cards because there's like a story,
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  Speaker 2: the Oracle deck. You can read them alone. You can
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  Speaker 2: read them with each other. And this is the card
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  Speaker 2: I pulled. Now, you can't see the affirmation on this card,
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  Speaker 2: but the affirmation is, Your future looks rosy. Your future
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  Speaker 2: looks rosy. And after yesterday's win for us as Americans
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  Speaker 2: and in what's happening in the world, I got goosebumps
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  Speaker 2: when this card is the one that I pulled. And
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  Speaker 2: I swear to you, I'm not making it up. I
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  Speaker 2: didn't look for it. I shuffle and whatever flies out
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  Speaker 2: at me is the card of the day. So our
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  Speaker 2: future looks rosy. That's what I'm getting from this card.
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  Speaker 2: All right. And when I do have them ready for,
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  Speaker 2: you know, they're out, they're published and they're ready for purchase.
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  Speaker 2: Believe me, you guys will know.
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  Speaker 1: All right.
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  Speaker 2: Let me bring on my guest, Kelsey Aida. Talk to
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  Speaker 2: her today because she is a bestselling author, intuitive, energetic
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  Speaker 2: alignment guide. And she's the co-host of a popular personal
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  Speaker 2: development podcast called High Vibin' It. And her work brings
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  Speaker 2: together spirituality, manifestation, which you guys know I'm all about,
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  Speaker 2: and radical self-love to help women reconnect with their power.
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  Speaker 2: Thank you so much, Kelsey, for joining me today.
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  Speaker 3: Thanks, Melissa. I'm super excited.
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  Speaker 2: I'm really, really excited. So you have a book coming.
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  Speaker 2: Is your book officially out?
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  Speaker 3: It's about to be out if you're watching this live.
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  Speaker 3: It comes out December 1st. But people can already pre-order it,
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  Speaker 3: so it's like almost out.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Hold it up good so people could see it. It's
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  Speaker 2: called the manifesting fix and it releases, I see December, 2026,
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  Speaker 2: which is in a month. It's crazy already. And you
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  Speaker 2: talk about manifesting, which is what the postcards that I
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  Speaker 2: share are. So what I have people do, Kelsey, is
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  Speaker 2: I have people create a sort of like a mini
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  Speaker 2: vision board, but it's a postcard and then they send
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  Speaker 2: it to me. And then I sort of do this
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  Speaker 2: whole ritual and this intuitive, what, do I want to
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  Speaker 2: bring in visually? Because I'm a photographer is my background
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  Speaker 2: to sort of bring this manifestation that this desire this
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  Speaker 2: person wants. And I said, you know what? I'm going
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  Speaker 2: to make that an Oracle deck because why not? Because
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  Speaker 2: I'm a visual artist. So yeah. So it's so, so
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  Speaker 2: cool to talk to somebody else who is into the manifesting.
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  Speaker 2: And I asked everybody this, how did you get into
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  Speaker 2: this work? How did this start for you?
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  Speaker 3: Well, side note real quick before I get into that. Actually,
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  Speaker 3: one of my previous books is called Letters to the Universe.
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  Speaker 3: So when I saw that your show was posted. I
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  Speaker 3: love that. I'm a writer. So mine is like a
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  Speaker 3: scripting journal that people use that is self-inquiry. And then
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  Speaker 3: they write their letter to the universe. And then they
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  Speaker 3: can like get witchy with it. They can burn it.
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  Speaker 3: They can sleep with it. They can put it with
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  Speaker 3: their crystals, whatever. So I was like, us good witches,
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  Speaker 3: we're just on the same page, you know? So anyways.
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  Speaker 3: How I got into this is kind of a long story,
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  Speaker 3: but the cliff notes is I was training my whole
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  Speaker 3: life to be a professional ballerina. So my background is
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  Speaker 3: in the performing arts. And as many young dancers do,
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  Speaker 3: I got injured. It devastated me. It obliterated my identity.
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  Speaker 3: This was in my late teens when you're supposed to
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  Speaker 3: start like auditioning for ballet companies and going off to
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  Speaker 3: camps and doing all this stuff. And my body was
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  Speaker 3: just like, no. You're not doing this for your profession,
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  Speaker 3: even though you've trained your whole life and this is
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  Speaker 3: the only thing you're good at and the only thing
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  Speaker 3: you identify with and the only thing you've ever loved.
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  Speaker 3: So that basically sent me into a depressive spiral that
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  Speaker 3: lasted about three years. I would say like 17 to
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  Speaker 3: like 20 ish was a huge struggle bus, like to
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  Speaker 3: the point of like suicidal ideation, not understanding why I
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  Speaker 3: was here, why was God punishing me, what's going on.
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  Speaker 3: And so eventually I just had this kind of breakthrough moment.
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  Speaker 3: And I was like, you know what? I didn't always
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  Speaker 3: used to feel like crap. I used to be happy
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  Speaker 3: and bubbly and have hobbies and love my life. So
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  Speaker 3: first of all, what happened to me? Second of all, God,
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  Speaker 3: spirit team, whoever's out there that's like assigned to me,
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  Speaker 3: like send help. I will act on it. I will listen.
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  Speaker 3: I will do whatever I need to do to heal
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  Speaker 3: and learn how to feel better again and love my
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  Speaker 3: life again. And so, of course, in asking, my prayer
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  Speaker 3: was answered with a great therapist. I started working with
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  Speaker 3: a shaman. I started reading all these spiritual texts. I
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  Speaker 3: started just doing so much personal development work, learning about energy,
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  Speaker 3: learning about manifestation. And in doing that, I was able
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  Speaker 3: to get better and feel even better than I felt
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  Speaker 3: before I got sick. So I'm like on this new
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  Speaker 3: spiritual high, had this like awakening, if you want to
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  Speaker 3: call it that. And I was just like, man, why
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  Speaker 3: does everybody not have these tools readily at their disposal? Like,
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  Speaker 3: why is this weird? Why is it woo woo? Like
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  Speaker 3: it just works. It's the energy. It's not that weird.
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  Speaker 3: So that's when I like kind of, I guess, downloaded
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  Speaker 3: or heard that I was supposed to start teaching this
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  Speaker 3: via writing and become an author, which. Was an interesting
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  Speaker 3: calling because I didn't even go to college. I ended
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  Speaker 3: up going to cosmetology school when I couldn't dance because
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  Speaker 3: I'm also very visual, very creative. And I was always
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  Speaker 3: like the go-to beauty girl that did everyone's hair and
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  Speaker 3: makeup for Nutcracker and competition and blah, blah, blah. And
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  Speaker 3: so my parents were like, you should just do that.
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  Speaker 3: You're really talented at it. And I was like, okay,
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  Speaker 3: if I hate it, I'll go to college, whatever. So anyway,
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  Speaker 3: did that. The last... More than 10 years, I've been
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  Speaker 3: doing hair parallel to writing books and teaching people and podcasting.
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  Speaker 3: And it's just really been a journey that has naturally
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  Speaker 3: evolved from, let me write my first self-published book. Let
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  Speaker 3: me start a blog to now we're on, I think
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  Speaker 3: The Manifesting Fix is my fifth book. It's the fourth
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  Speaker 3: published one with a big publisher. And the podcast has
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  Speaker 3: over half a million downloads. And I've posted- many international retreats,
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  Speaker 3: helped thousands of women like learn how to love themselves,
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  Speaker 3: manifest their best life. And so it's just been a
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  Speaker 3: journey of me beyond the growth journey and then wanting
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  Speaker 3: to help people who are also on similar journeys.
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  Speaker 2: Very similar story to mine, except not physical. And I
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  Speaker 2: was in my 30s, later 30s when everything kind of
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  Speaker 2: fell apart. Like I lost my house, the job I loved.
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  Speaker 2: I photographed special needs kids working with dolphins for so
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  Speaker 2: many years. And I was going through a divorce at
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  Speaker 2: the same time. So I went into spiraling into a
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  Speaker 2: depression and the same thing and the why me and
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  Speaker 2: I don't understand and why is God punishing me? I'm
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  Speaker 2: a good person. Everything that you said. totally resonates. And
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  Speaker 2: similar things happen. I would meet somebody who would introduce
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  Speaker 2: me to this idea or this book and I started
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  Speaker 2: reading spiritual texts and started connecting with people that were
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  Speaker 2: sort of helping me because I was so, like you, desperate.
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  Speaker 2: I was asking for help because I was in so
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  Speaker 2: much emotional pain. I was in so much pain. And
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  Speaker 2: after I kind of got on the other side of
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  Speaker 2: it and now so much happier than I ever was,
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  Speaker 2: even back then, it's like, why not write a book?
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  Speaker 2: It's wrote a book. Why not create this, make it
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  Speaker 2: a visual journey? Because I'm an artist. So let's, how
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  Speaker 2: can photography and art come into it?
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  Speaker 1: And.
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  Speaker 2: Then have the show. And it just kind of blossomed
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  Speaker 2: from there. So I totally resonate with everything that you're
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  Speaker 2: saying about your own journey. I just was a couple
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  Speaker 2: decades older than you when it started.
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  Speaker 3: I'm like glad it happened early, but I'm also like, dang,
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  Speaker 3: that was a lot real quick. But then I'm like, well,
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  Speaker 3: I'm like a very old soul. So I guess I
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  Speaker 3: could handle it. But then I forgot also a part
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  Speaker 3: two of the story that might be interesting to your
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  Speaker 3: viewers and interesting to you is probably like maybe six
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  Speaker 3: years after that happened, I had a spontaneous Kundalini awakening
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  Speaker 3: and a bunch of my psychic gifts opened up like
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  Speaker 3: seemingly overnight. I called it my psychic summer, but it
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  Speaker 3: was like so confusing and weird. And it felt like
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  Speaker 3: Pandora's box of like all this information that I just
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  Speaker 3: like didn't need or want to know. And that's when
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  Speaker 3: my channeling abilities, which I've always had really came strongly online.
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  Speaker 3: So when I'm writing, um, I'm literally like communing with
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  Speaker 3: the universe herself. Like, okay, tell me how this law
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  Speaker 3: of attraction thing really works. Like, what are we getting wrong? Like,
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  Speaker 3: tell us more, you know? So that's a big part
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  Speaker 3: of my work now too, is when I'm in session
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  Speaker 3: with clients or when I'm writing a new book, I
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  Speaker 3: just seem to know the right thing to say at
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  Speaker 3: the right time.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. So you feel like that you're actually, so when
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  Speaker 2: you're writing, you feel like you're channeling, like when you're
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  Speaker 2: writing your books, like you're.
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  Speaker 3: Getting- Not like a clear channel where I'm gone because
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  Speaker 3: it's like a co-creation between my consciousness, me, like I'm
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  Speaker 3: presently there, and then I'm getting answers. And then I'm
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  Speaker 3: like combining my viewpoint with the answers that come, if
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  Speaker 3: that makes sense.
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  Speaker 2: That makes total sense because that's exactly how I photograph
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  Speaker 2: the postcards. And that's exactly what happened with the book,
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  Speaker 2: Postcards to the Universe. And even before the book, when
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  Speaker 2: I was in the worst part of it, I heard
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  Speaker 2: very loudly as I was falling asleep one night, and
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  Speaker 2: I talk about this in my book, postcards to the universe.
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  Speaker 2: And I was like, I don't know what this means,
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  Speaker 2: but I know it's important. So I got up and
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  Speaker 2: I bought the domain name and I just didn't even
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  Speaker 2: do anything with it for like a year, but I
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  Speaker 2: just knew something spoke to me. I heard it in
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  Speaker 2: my head and I knew it wasn't my voice, but
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  Speaker 2: it wasn't. Yeah. I can't explain it. You only know
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  Speaker 2: it if you've experienced it. So I know exactly what
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  Speaker 2: you mean. And when I'm, photographing and I'm setting up
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  Speaker 2: and I'm doing the rituals, I'm there, but I'm not,
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  Speaker 2: something else is coming in. That's just sort of leading
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  Speaker 2: the way that I do it. So yeah, I totally,
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  Speaker 2: I totally get that. And a lot of your work
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  Speaker 2: is about self-love. So, right. Because that's a big I
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  Speaker 2: notice with all of us at some point in our
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  Speaker 2: life and everybody who struggles, we have this, people just
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  Speaker 2: don't love themselves and they don't know how to.
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  Speaker 3: And it's kind of the solution to like 95% of
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  Speaker 3: life problems. So it comes up as a theme often,
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  Speaker 3: especially in helping people manifest what they want. A lot
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  Speaker 3: of it comes down to like self-love blockages. So there's that.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. So like, for example, because you do see clients too,
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  Speaker 2: like what would a blockage of self-love show up as?
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  Speaker 3: Oh my gosh.
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  Speaker 2: Because we're manifesting things we don't want also. So let's
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  Speaker 2: talk about how that shows up with things we don't want.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah. So for example, I'll just speak from my story.
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  Speaker 3: Before I learned to love myself, but I thought I
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  Speaker 3: loved myself, but I really only loved myself conditionally. Like
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  Speaker 3: I thought that I was cool and I liked everything
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  Speaker 3: that I had achieved, but I didn't truly love myself
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  Speaker 3: because it was like, oh, if you don't achieve these things,
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  Speaker 3: then you don't deserve your own love, right? So it's
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  Speaker 3: very conditional. So before I love myself, I'd be like, oh, yeah,
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  Speaker 3: I love myself. Look at all these people I've helped.
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  Speaker 3: Look at all this cool stuff I've done. Look at
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  Speaker 3: how amazing I am, blah, blah, blah. But it's like
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  Speaker 3: that's not actually it. And the way that the lack
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  Speaker 3: of self-love was manifesting for me and how it manifests
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  Speaker 3: for a lot of people is in their intimate relationships.
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  Speaker 3: And not to say that every relationship is a direct
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  Speaker 3: mirror because it's a little more complicated than that. But
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  Speaker 3: I was in some of the most toxic– Situationships, twin
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  Speaker 3: flame fiascos, disaster relationships. And looking back on it when
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  Speaker 3: I was in therapy and when I was working with
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  Speaker 3: my shaman and stuff, I was like, literally this person
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  Speaker 3: was all of my worst parts that I don't love,
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  Speaker 3: that I deny, reject and disown, personified with abs so
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  Speaker 3: that I could learn how to love and accept those
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  Speaker 3: parts of me. Like literally the universe was like, you're
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  Speaker 3: not going to love your sad parts. Like we're going
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  Speaker 3: to send you a sad boy who's going to mess
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  Speaker 3: up your life, but you're going to be like, oh,
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  Speaker 3: he's just going through, you're going to have so much
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  Speaker 3: compassion for him. You're going to bend over backwards for him.
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  Speaker 3: You're going to still love him, even though he's horrible
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  Speaker 3: to you. And it literally was the most obvious mirror
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  Speaker 3: of how I treated myself. And when he was mean
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  Speaker 3: to me, it was like personified inner critic. You know,
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  Speaker 3: when he was acting out, it was like, exactly how
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  Speaker 3: I would feel, but not express. So that's, I mean,
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  Speaker 3: that's one way. A lot of times it comes out
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  Speaker 3: in our intimate relationships or family dynamics or at the
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  Speaker 3: Thanksgiving table or whatever it is. But a lot of
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  Speaker 3: times it can be like, you know, you want to
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  Speaker 3: manifest something, but you just don't feel worthy or you
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  Speaker 3: don't feel like you deserve it or you feel like
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  Speaker 3: you have to change or be different or do more
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  Speaker 3: in order to, you know, be more worthy. And it's like,
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  Speaker 3: that's not really how God created you. We need to
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  Speaker 3: come back to our inherent worthiness and the self-lovery of
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  Speaker 3: it all is like remembering how worthy you've always been.
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  Speaker 3: And then people also get it confused with like self-like
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  Speaker 3: because in the English language, it's like to love something
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  Speaker 3: is to like it a lot, right? Like we love pizza,
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  Speaker 3: we love our dog, we love this, we love that.
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  Speaker 3: But it's like to love yourself is really to take
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  Speaker 3: positive ownership of your well-being. Which includes your desires, your needs,
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  Speaker 3: your preferences, your boundaries. So that's a lot of my
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  Speaker 3: philosophy in it. It really is very entangled with the
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  Speaker 3: manifestation work that I do.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I find that also. And a lot of it
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  Speaker 2: is loving the parts of ourselves that we might not like.
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  Speaker 2: We might not like that. I'll use me as an example.
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  Speaker 2: I tend to be a procrastinator, right? So something needs
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  Speaker 2: to light a fire under my ass sometimes to get
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  Speaker 2: things going. But once I start, I'm like energized, right?
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  Speaker 2: I don't like that about myself, right? That's a quality
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  Speaker 2: that I'm not crazy about, but that doesn't shift. Like
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  Speaker 2: I accept that that is a part of who I am.
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  Speaker 2: And I can still love myself.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, because you understand it about yourself. I think the
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  Speaker 3: understanding part naturally leads to compassion, which naturally leads to
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  Speaker 3: like having peace with these parts that we don't necessarily like,
• 17:51
  Speaker 3: but we can still love them the same way. Like
• 17:53
  Speaker 3: we might love our sibling unconditionally, but sometimes they're like
• 17:57
  Speaker 3: super effing annoying and you don't want to hang out
• 17:59
  Speaker 3: with them that day. You don't want to talk to
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  Speaker 3: them for a week, but it's like you still love them,
• 18:03
  Speaker 3: even if you don't always like them. So it's like
• 18:05
  Speaker 3: you have to apply the same logic to yourself of like,
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  Speaker 3: if you understood every single dysfunctional part of yourself that
• 18:12
  Speaker 3: you don't like, that's ruining your life, that's sabotaging your dreams, blah, blah, blah.
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  Speaker 3: If you truly understood its pure positive intentions, because it
• 18:20
  Speaker 3: has positive intentions, whether or not the execution is helpful
• 18:24
  Speaker 3: is a whole nother story. You will come to love
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  Speaker 3: every part of yourself. So you'll be like, wow, my fear,
• 18:30
  Speaker 3: my anxiety, my anger, all of this has always been
• 18:33
  Speaker 3: trying to protect me. It's always been on my side.
• 18:36
  Speaker 3: It just never knew how to help. And then once
• 18:39
  Speaker 3: you understand more about it, you can kind of reassign
• 18:42
  Speaker 3: roles to these parts of you that are not helping,
• 18:44
  Speaker 3: that are ruining your life, that are sabotaging everything. And
• 18:47
  Speaker 3: you can give them better direction of how to support you,
• 18:52
  Speaker 3: how to help you, which is, there's a couple of
• 18:54
  Speaker 3: chapters about this in the manifesting fix of like getting
• 18:57
  Speaker 3: to know your parts, rewiring them, having them help you
• 19:00
  Speaker 3: in different ways and learning how to love all of you.
• 19:03
  Speaker 3: So you're not at war with yourself because that, tug
• 19:06
  Speaker 3: of war energy, that split energy is not conducive to successful,
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  Speaker 3: effortless manifestation.
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  Speaker 2: No, no. And the universe, God, it doesn't matter what
• 19:18
  Speaker 2: you call it, spirit, doesn't matter. We were put here
• 19:24
  Speaker 2: universally loved. No matter if you do nothing, your whole
• 19:30
  Speaker 2: life just exists, doesn't matter. have anything to do with
• 19:35
  Speaker 2: your value as a person, as a soul, as a spirit, right?
• 19:39
  Speaker 2: And it's so hard for us to grasp that because
• 19:42
  Speaker 2: like you said, we're so conditional. Like we feel more,
• 19:48
  Speaker 2: and this is really our ego. Like we feel like,
• 19:50
  Speaker 2: like you said, like, yeah, I'm like really cool. Look
• 19:52
  Speaker 2: at all the things I'm creating and all I'm doing.
• 19:55
  Speaker 2: But that's not the real self-love that we're talking about, right?
• 19:59
  Speaker 2: That's something different. That is like I have to perform
• 20:04
  Speaker 2: like a circus animal to get validation and outside of
• 20:08
  Speaker 2: me and from me. And that's not what real love
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  Speaker 2: inside looks like.
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  Speaker 3: Exactly. Because there's two different ways to approach any goal.
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  Speaker 3: Think about going to the gym, right? You could go
• 20:21
  Speaker 3: to the gym because you absolutely loathe your body. You
• 20:23
  Speaker 3: think you're so ugly. You think you're so fat and
• 20:26
  Speaker 3: you go to the gym because you hate yourself, right?
• 20:28
  Speaker 3: Or you could go to the gym from a place
• 20:30
  Speaker 3: of self-love. You have the same goal. I want to
• 20:33
  Speaker 3: lose 20 pounds. I want to get fit. I want
• 20:34
  Speaker 3: to feel sexy, whatever it is. But you go from
• 20:37
  Speaker 3: a place of self-love of today, I'm really excited to
• 20:39
  Speaker 3: nourish my body. This is going to feel good. I
• 20:42
  Speaker 3: can't wait to be stronger. I like being present in
• 20:44
  Speaker 3: my body. Like I'm doing this to nourish me. I'm
• 20:46
  Speaker 3: doing this for a place of love. That's two very
• 20:49
  Speaker 3: different vibrational approaches to the same goal that are going
• 20:52
  Speaker 3: to get you two very different outcomes.
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  Speaker 2: Right.
• 20:56
  Speaker 3: Right.
• 20:57
  Speaker 2: That is so true. And think about the best way
• 21:01
  Speaker 2: to see, to do a self-evaluation. Do you have anything
• 21:05
  Speaker 2: like that in your book to do? Let me do
• 21:08
  Speaker 2: an evaluation of myself and let me see where I am.
• 21:11
  Speaker 2: Where am I in terms of romantic relationships? Where am
• 21:15
  Speaker 2: I in terms of my friendships? Where am I in
• 21:17
  Speaker 2: terms of my career, my money, my body, my health?
• 21:21
  Speaker 2: To find out. Because I, just from talking to so
• 21:25
  Speaker 2: many people, a lot of people are really not self-aware
• 21:28
  Speaker 2: or not, and they don't realize where they are. They
• 21:31
  Speaker 2: think they're somewhere that they're not.
• 21:34
  Speaker 3: Yeah, that's a great question. So in the manifesting fix,
• 21:37
  Speaker 3: I have a lot of self-inquiry. I don't have an
• 21:40
  Speaker 3: exact exercise that's like look at every single area specifically,
• 21:43
  Speaker 3: but a lot of it is tailored around what's your
• 21:45
  Speaker 3: biggest desire right now? Like what's your main focus or
• 21:48
  Speaker 3: main goal right now? And one of the ways and
• 21:51
  Speaker 3: I also give some lists. So like what self-love looks like,
• 21:54
  Speaker 3: what it doesn't look like. You know, if you're doing
• 21:56
  Speaker 3: some of these actions, you might need a little more self-love.
• 22:00
  Speaker 3: And here's how you can do that. If you're if
• 22:01
  Speaker 3: you're more in this camp and you're in a good space,
• 22:03
  Speaker 3: just keep doing that. So there's definitely a couple of
• 22:06
  Speaker 3: different questions, assessments. But a really good place for people
• 22:10
  Speaker 3: to start is just asking themselves simply. And this can
• 22:14
  Speaker 3: be for their whole life or any section of their life.
• 22:17
  Speaker 3: If I loved myself more, what decision would I make
• 22:22
  Speaker 3: here or what would I be doing instead? Or the
• 22:26
  Speaker 3: question can also be, what would someone who loves themselves do?
• 22:30
  Speaker 3: So this can be when you go to figure out
• 22:32
  Speaker 3: what to eat for lunch. This can be if you're
• 22:34
  Speaker 3: deciding to go to the gym after work or not.
• 22:37
  Speaker 3: This could be to go to the party or not.
• 22:39
  Speaker 3: This could be to get a divorce or not. This
• 22:40
  Speaker 3: could be to leave your job or not. Like this
• 22:42
  Speaker 3: can be for any question, big or small. What would
• 22:45
  Speaker 3: someone who loves themselves do? And then your first instinct,
• 22:48
  Speaker 3: act on that. Or if I loved myself more, what
• 22:52
  Speaker 3: would I do? Because a lot of the times we think, oh, yeah,
• 22:56
  Speaker 3: I love myself, blah, blah, blah. But then you look
• 22:58
  Speaker 3: at your life and you're like, no. This life that
• 23:02
  Speaker 3: I'm choosing actually shows me that I low-key hate myself.
• 23:05
  Speaker 3: So that's great.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. Like just drawing stronger boundaries and uncomfortable conversations, right?
• 23:12
  Speaker 2: Like if you loved yourself more– And somebody says something
• 23:18
  Speaker 2: to you or asks something of you and you want
• 23:22
  Speaker 2: to say no, but you say yes because you don't
• 23:25
  Speaker 2: want to hurt their feelings or have them be mad
• 23:27
  Speaker 2: at you, that is not being loving to yourself because
• 23:31
  Speaker 2: you have crossed your own boundary, right? So it's not
• 23:36
  Speaker 2: always comfortable. That's the thing. Like we're talking this conversation,
• 23:40
  Speaker 2: people are like, oh, yeah, love, self-love, yeah, whatever, self-love. No,
• 23:43
  Speaker 2: it's not pretty and it's not comfortable and it's like
• 23:46
  Speaker 2: really deep work and it's hard and it's tears and
• 23:51
  Speaker 2: it's crying and it's expelling old stories and, you know,
• 23:57
  Speaker 2: like coming to some truths that you may have to
• 24:00
  Speaker 2: face that you don't want to face, right?
• 24:03
  Speaker 3: Yeah, there can be some hard truths along the journey, especially...
• 24:08
  Speaker 3: If you're willing to look inward, be willing to see
• 24:11
  Speaker 3: things you don't necessarily want to see, but know that
• 24:14
  Speaker 3: it's so you can make the proper changes so that
• 24:17
  Speaker 3: you can love your life even more. So it's all
• 24:20
  Speaker 3: for the best in the end. But yeah, it's definitely
• 24:22
  Speaker 3: it's not easy. It's daily. It's minute to minute, moment
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  Speaker 3: to moment. What would someone who loves themselves do? What
• 24:28
  Speaker 3: would I do here if I love myself more? And
• 24:31
  Speaker 3: then acting on that, which is where the courage comes in,
• 24:34
  Speaker 3: especially when you're new at this. You're like, oh, my God,
• 24:36
  Speaker 3: I hate myself. My life is horrible. Like I want
• 24:39
  Speaker 3: to change it. I want to love myself more. Just
• 24:41
  Speaker 3: know that wanting to love yourself more is a form
• 24:44
  Speaker 3: of self-love. So you've got the ball rolling. You don't
• 24:47
  Speaker 3: actually hate yourself. OK, if you are listening to a
• 24:50
  Speaker 3: show like this and you want your life to be
• 24:51
  Speaker 3: better and you want to feel better, that means you
• 24:53
  Speaker 3: care about yourself. So just lean into that part of
• 24:55
  Speaker 3: yourself a little bit more.
• 24:57
  Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah.
• 24:58
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 24:58
  Speaker 2: We're talking really about radical self-love.
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  Speaker 3: Obviously. Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Because, you know, you could really like yourself. You could like,
• 25:05
  Speaker 2: you know, your life, you could like a lot of things,
• 25:08
  Speaker 2: but you're doing things that are not loving to yourself.
• 25:11
  Speaker 2: So we're not saying like you hate yourself. And I mean,
• 25:14
  Speaker 2: of course there are those people that it is like that, but,
• 25:17
  Speaker 2: but we mean like radical self-love. Like basically the best
• 25:22
  Speaker 2: way I can describe it is If you have children,
• 25:26
  Speaker 2: imagine when you just birthed your child and that feeling
• 25:29
  Speaker 2: for that little child, that rush of I love this
• 25:34
  Speaker 2: creature more than anything else in the world and always
• 25:37
  Speaker 2: want them to feel the love that I feel. That's
• 25:41
  Speaker 2: radical self-love, if you could give yourself that.
• 25:43
  Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah, it's opening your heart to yourself, right? Because
• 25:47
  Speaker 3: we so freely give our love to everybody else.
• 25:50
  Speaker 2: Oh, everybody.
• 25:51
  Speaker 3: And then we're last on the list. And it's like,
• 25:53
  Speaker 3: if you can just take a little bit of that
• 25:55
  Speaker 3: energy and pour it back into yourself, watch what happens.
• 25:58
  Speaker 3: And you'll have more to give to everyone else because
• 26:00
  Speaker 3: I always get the carrots and they come at me
• 26:03
  Speaker 3: and they're like, oh, self-love is so selfish. You shouldn't
• 26:05
  Speaker 3: put yourself first. You should put everyone else first. And
• 26:07
  Speaker 3: it's like, if you actually make yourself as important as
• 26:11
  Speaker 3: the most important people in your life, you're not more
• 26:13
  Speaker 3: important than them. You're just as important. We got a
• 26:16
  Speaker 3: couple of people up here at the top. Your life,
• 26:20
  Speaker 3: your energy, your life force will increase so much that
• 26:23
  Speaker 3: you will be overflowing with good energy, positivity, healing vibrations
• 26:27
  Speaker 3: that you just naturally bless everyone else with. So there's
• 26:31
  Speaker 3: no scenario where loving yourself more is actually hurting anyone.
• 26:35
  Speaker 2: Selfish, right? No, because everybody wants to be around people
• 26:39
  Speaker 2: who are happy and loving and People who love themselves
• 26:42
  Speaker 2: are happy and loving. So you feel that energy, and
• 26:45
  Speaker 2: we all want to be around that. And it feels
• 26:46
  Speaker 2: so much better than being around somebody who's resentful and
• 26:49
  Speaker 2: bitter all the time, right? We know this. I just
• 26:52
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• 26:57
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  Speaker 2: Welcome back. So, Kelsey, I was thinking during the break
• 29:47
  Speaker 2: with your book, The Manifesting Fix, because there's a lot
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  Speaker 2: of books, mine included, about manifesting. And what did you
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  Speaker 2: feel was missing from the conversation around manifesting that inspired
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  Speaker 2: you to write this book?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah. So I feel like the biggest piece that we
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  Speaker 3: don't talk about enough is the resistance aspect and what's
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  Speaker 3: keeping us from being aligned with our goals and dreams.
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  Speaker 3: Because I love intention setting work. And I feel like
• 30:19
  Speaker 3: 90% of the manifesting books out there are different ways
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  Speaker 3: to set your intentions that are super fun, super powerful. Sure.
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  Speaker 2: I'm obsessed.
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  Speaker 3: I wrote three books about that. So that's like step one.
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  Speaker 2: Right.
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  Speaker 3: But then it's like, Okay, we did that. Like I
• 30:33
  Speaker 3: made my postcard to the universe. I wrote a letter
• 30:35
  Speaker 3: to the universe. I've been doing my mind movies. I've
• 30:37
  Speaker 3: been meditating. I've been doing everything quote unquote right. Like
• 30:41
  Speaker 3: where is my stuff? Why is my life not changing?
• 30:45
  Speaker 3: Why do I still feel stuck universe? And you're just like, ah,
• 30:48
  Speaker 3: universe hates me.
• 30:50
  Speaker 2: I love the way you said that. Where is my stuff?
• 30:53
  Speaker 3: That's what I'm going to start saying.
• 30:55
  Speaker 2: Where is my stuff?
• 30:56
  Speaker 3: Because they say, and I've said this too, like all
• 30:59
  Speaker 3: you gotta do is ask and receive. It's like, okay,
• 31:01
  Speaker 3: I've been asking. I've been asking nicely. I've been begging.
• 31:05
  Speaker 3: I've been praying. Like where is it, you know? So
• 31:08
  Speaker 3: that's where this book comes in is almost like the
• 31:11
  Speaker 3: college course of like manifestation 2.0. It's like, okay, we're
• 31:15
  Speaker 3: good at intention setting. We love that. It's super fun.
• 31:17
  Speaker 3: But aside from that, is there anything that's missing in
• 31:20
  Speaker 3: the co-creative process? And I feel like the way that
• 31:23
  Speaker 3: I see it well, step zero is like to experience contrast.
• 31:27
  Speaker 3: And then you're like, okay, now I know what I want. Right.
• 31:29
  Speaker 3: And then step one is to set your intentions, get clear,
• 31:32
  Speaker 3: have some clarity, ask for it. Then I would say
• 31:34
  Speaker 3: step two is to actually align with said goal, which
• 31:38
  Speaker 3: can look so many different ways, which is why I
• 31:40
  Speaker 3: had to write a whole book about it. And a
• 31:42
  Speaker 3: lot of times, the only thing stopping us from being
• 31:44
  Speaker 3: aligned is a little piece of resistance that we don't
• 31:47
  Speaker 3: even know is there.
• 31:48
  Speaker 2: Okay.
• 31:48
  Speaker 3: So a lot of people don't realize that they're secretly
• 31:50
  Speaker 3: resisting a either where they are, where they want to go,
• 31:53
  Speaker 3: what they want, what they're asking for, whatever. And then
• 31:57
  Speaker 3: you receive on the other side of asking and aligning, right?
• 32:01
  Speaker 3: So I just feel like it's been oversimplified. So this
• 32:05
  Speaker 3: book is like the nuance of like, okay, where am
• 32:07
  Speaker 3: I getting stuck? Why isn't it happening as quickly as
• 32:11
  Speaker 3: I'd like? Where am I maybe self-sabotaging, procrastinating, not seeing
• 32:16
  Speaker 3: results and why? And it's very much a journey of, Oh,
• 32:21
  Speaker 3: here's how I've been keeping myself stuck. Now I can
• 32:23
  Speaker 3: finally get unstuck. Amazing. And then you can align with
• 32:26
  Speaker 3: the goals. So it's not just asking, hoping, and praying.
• 32:29
  Speaker 3: It's asking, aligning, and then receiving.
• 32:32
  Speaker 2: Right. So then the follow-up would be, how do we
• 32:39
  Speaker 2: know we're resisting? And how do we align? Because I've
• 32:43
  Speaker 2: heard this. Other people have said this. People, since the
• 32:47
  Speaker 2: days of The Secret, when The Secret first came out, like,
• 32:50
  Speaker 2: You know, people will be like, well, why aren't I manifesting? Well,
• 32:53
  Speaker 2: you're blocked. Well, what do you mean I'm blocked?
• 32:56
  Speaker 3: Well, how am I blocked? Captain obvious, I know.
• 33:01
  Speaker 2: So why am I blocked? Where am I blocked? How
• 33:04
  Speaker 2: do I remove the block? Like what, you know, people,
• 33:06
  Speaker 2: I think that is where we do. We get all
• 33:10
  Speaker 2: like mixed up in why we're, the things that we're
• 33:13
  Speaker 2: saying that we want are not coming to us a
• 33:17
  Speaker 2: lot of times.
• 33:18
  Speaker 3: Yeah. And it can be confusing because there's different ways
• 33:22
  Speaker 3: we can be stuck, right? So it's not just like, oh,
• 33:25
  Speaker 3: this is the blockage that blocks everything. Or self-love is
• 33:30
  Speaker 3: a big one, the worthiness wound that we talked about
• 33:32
  Speaker 3: a lot. But it could also be just beliefs in
• 33:35
  Speaker 3: programming that are outdated that you chose to practice for
• 33:40
  Speaker 3: a long time and now you got to undo those
• 33:42
  Speaker 3: or rewrite them. It could be literally be an aspect
• 33:45
  Speaker 3: of you that you have never even met or heard
• 33:48
  Speaker 3: of in the back of your psyche is like, yeah,
• 33:50
  Speaker 3: we ain't doing that because I don't feel safe. So
• 33:51
  Speaker 3: you're like, yeah, I want all these millions of dollars.
• 33:54
  Speaker 3: And that part of you is like, no, we don't
• 33:56
  Speaker 3: want that. So we're going to do everything we can
• 33:58
  Speaker 3: to stop that. It's like Pixar's Inside Out, like you
• 34:00
  Speaker 3: have all these characters inside of you and they all
• 34:03
  Speaker 3: have their own needs, desires, boundaries, agendas, you know? So
• 34:07
  Speaker 3: it's like a lot of parts work is involved. So
• 34:10
  Speaker 3: there's different ways it can show up. which is why
• 34:14
  Speaker 3: in the book, there's 10, there's, there's a couple of
• 34:17
  Speaker 3: different parts to the book, but the last part, the
• 34:19
  Speaker 3: medias part has basically 10 blockages or I guess ways
• 34:24
  Speaker 3: that we resist. And then each one has its own
• 34:27
  Speaker 3: specific antidote or exercise or way to untangle it and
• 34:31
  Speaker 3: work through it. So you can transmute that resistance into
• 34:34
  Speaker 3: alignment because A worthiness wound is going to require and
• 34:38
  Speaker 3: invite you to do different work than like some bad
• 34:41
  Speaker 3: money beliefs or things like that. So it depends what
• 34:45
  Speaker 3: we're working with. But step one is really just to
• 34:48
  Speaker 3: ask yourself, like, is there any part of me that's
• 34:52
  Speaker 3: maybe not on board with what I say I want?
• 34:56
  Speaker 3: And then, importantly, you have to shut up and you
• 34:59
  Speaker 3: have to listen. You have to meditate on this question.
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  Speaker 3: You have to journal it. You have to let anything
• 35:04
  Speaker 3: that's ready to come up and out, come out for
• 35:06
  Speaker 3: you to see. And honestly, half of the time when
• 35:11
  Speaker 3: you see your resistance on paper, you're just like, oh,
• 35:14
  Speaker 3: I don't want to believe that anymore. I don't want
• 35:16
  Speaker 3: to choose that anymore. That's not even mine. And you
• 35:18
  Speaker 3: can throw it in the garbage and then you're like
• 35:21
  Speaker 3: clean and clear from that piece.
• 35:22
  Speaker 1: Right.
• 35:23
  Speaker 3: But the other half of the time is a little
• 35:25
  Speaker 3: bit deeper. It's an invitation for more shadow work, for
• 35:28
  Speaker 3: more self-inquiry, for more self-discovery to lead you to more alignment,
• 35:32
  Speaker 3: which is where the practices in the book come in,
• 35:34
  Speaker 3: because it can get confusing out there in your own
• 35:38
  Speaker 3: mental landscape.
• 35:39
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's very insidious, the beliefs that we carry. And
• 35:46
  Speaker 2: it is a lot of self-excavating to discover what's going on. Like,
• 35:52
  Speaker 2: you know, just money, for example. You could say, yeah,
• 35:55
  Speaker 2: I want to be a millionaire. But somewhere there's this
• 35:59
  Speaker 2: thing in the back of your mind that's like, yeah,
• 36:01
  Speaker 2: but I would never want to have more money than
• 36:04
  Speaker 2: my parents because then I feel like I'm showing off
• 36:08
  Speaker 2: to my dad who worked so hard in his whole life.
• 36:10
  Speaker 2: And that's not even a conscious real thought that you
• 36:13
  Speaker 2: think about every day. But But you have that somewhere
• 36:16
  Speaker 2: down deep and you would think like that. Well, that's
• 36:19
  Speaker 2: going to block your money coming, your money coming to
• 36:22
  Speaker 2: you because the universe is going, oh, okay, well then
• 36:24
  Speaker 2: we'll make sure that you don't. You don't have to
• 36:26
  Speaker 2: worry about it then. You're not going to have any
• 36:28
  Speaker 2: more money. You're never going to be a millionaire because
• 36:30
  Speaker 2: somewhere deep down you can't have more than your parents had,
• 36:33
  Speaker 2: you know. And you look at that and go, well, hell,
• 36:36
  Speaker 2: I don't want that. You know, but … It is
• 36:41
  Speaker 2: a lot of self-excavating and it can be tiring work, truthfully.
• 36:49
  Speaker 3: Yeah. And I try to keep it light and fun
• 36:52
  Speaker 3: in the book. So even though it really is a
• 36:54
  Speaker 3: book of like shadow work, I never call it that.
• 36:57
  Speaker 3: And there's lots of fun stories. There's lots of oversharing,
• 37:01
  Speaker 3: embarrassing personal moments, little jokes, little asides. So it's infused
• 37:06
  Speaker 3: with some lightheartedness to keep it like a more fun
• 37:09
  Speaker 3: journey and not get so serious and bogged down by
• 37:12
  Speaker 3: everything you discover. Because I'm about the balance. You know,
• 37:17
  Speaker 3: we've got to play. We've got to excavate. We've got
• 37:19
  Speaker 3: to play. We've got to heal. We've got to do this.
• 37:21
  Speaker 3: We've got to do that. And then sometimes we just
• 37:24
  Speaker 3: got to be where we are. Because a lot of times,
• 37:27
  Speaker 3: and a lot of people don't talk about like, yes,
• 37:30
  Speaker 3: we can resist the things that we want. There's so
• 37:32
  Speaker 3: many ways that we do that. But we can also
• 37:34
  Speaker 3: resist things. how we're feeling, your emotional body, your personal truths,
• 37:39
  Speaker 3: that'll keep you real stuck. That will repel and block
• 37:43
  Speaker 3: so many blessings. You can also resist your current reality
• 37:47
  Speaker 3: rather than accepting this is the stepping off point where
• 37:50
  Speaker 3: you can go up from here. If you're resisting your
• 37:53
  Speaker 3: current reality, you're resistant, period. You have a blocked aura,
• 37:57
  Speaker 3: blocked energy field. So And so many of us, we
• 38:00
  Speaker 3: want to manifest and control freak the heck out of
• 38:02
  Speaker 3: our life because we don't like where we are. We
• 38:04
  Speaker 3: don't like something about our life. So we are literally
• 38:07
  Speaker 3: by trying to manifest something new, sometimes resisting it. So
• 38:10
  Speaker 3: it's like you have to check your energy. You have
• 38:12
  Speaker 3: to check your intention. Like, are we creating something new
• 38:15
  Speaker 3: because we want to move in that direction? Or are
• 38:17
  Speaker 3: you trying to create something new frantically because you are
• 38:21
  Speaker 3: obsessed with denying what is here and what is happening?
• 38:26
  Speaker 2: I see that a lot. I see that a lot
• 38:28
  Speaker 2: with a lot of people. They are resisting the reality
• 38:32
  Speaker 2: that is in front of them. And I can see
• 38:35
  Speaker 2: it and I see it very easily in other people.
• 38:39
  Speaker 2: And I'm sure I've been there, done that myself, but
• 38:42
  Speaker 2: it's very easy to see. But you can't unless somebody
• 38:46
  Speaker 2: is asking for your opinion, it's hard, especially when people
• 38:49
  Speaker 2: are close to you, you can't tell them, well, I
• 38:51
  Speaker 2: see you're resisting because you won't accept the situation that
• 38:55
  Speaker 2: you're in. And that's causing you so much more stress
• 39:00
  Speaker 2: because that doesn't mean you have to like it, but
• 39:02
  Speaker 2: it's your reality at the moment. And I see that
• 39:05
  Speaker 2: all the time. It's really interesting that you brought that up.
• 39:09
  Speaker 2: And I also like the fact that You say something
• 39:12
  Speaker 2: about making room for our feelings because I, even though
• 39:17
  Speaker 2: most of the time I'm very pie in the sky,
• 39:20
  Speaker 2: very happy, let's do it the fun, creative way, I
• 39:23
  Speaker 2: would never say to somebody who is working on themselves
• 39:27
  Speaker 2: or trying to manifest and are going through something, well,
• 39:30
  Speaker 2: you shouldn't be feeling that disappointment. You shouldn't be grieving.
• 39:33
  Speaker 2: You shouldn't be angry. If somebody betrayed you, yes, you
• 39:37
  Speaker 2: absolutely deserve to be angry and work through that. You
• 39:40
  Speaker 2: just don't want to live there. That's what I always say.
• 39:43
  Speaker 2: You just don't want to live there.
• 39:45
  Speaker 3: Yeah. And the way you don't live there is by
• 39:48
  Speaker 3: actually processing it so you can move on. That's the
• 39:51
  Speaker 3: part where people don't realize. They think, oh my gosh,
• 39:54
  Speaker 3: if I go into this sadness, this anger, this hurt,
• 39:57
  Speaker 3: this depression, this uncertainty, this hopelessness, if I let myself
• 40:00
  Speaker 3: go there, I'm going to get stuck there. And I
• 40:03
  Speaker 3: find it's quite the opposite. If you don't go there,
• 40:06
  Speaker 3: you're going to get stuck there. If you do go there,
• 40:09
  Speaker 3: if you let it come up and out of you,
• 40:12
  Speaker 3: it doesn't become a point of attraction. If you suppress
• 40:15
  Speaker 3: it and deny it for long enough, it just festers
• 40:17
  Speaker 3: and grows. And then you're like, why do I keep
• 40:20
  Speaker 3: manifesting situations that make me want to feel disappointed? It's like, girl,
• 40:24
  Speaker 3: because you won't process your disappointment. And universe is like, hello,
• 40:27
  Speaker 3: look to your personal truth, your emotional body. So emotions
• 40:31
  Speaker 3: are huge. Like I always say, feeling is healing. Authentic positivity. Yes.
• 40:37
  Speaker 3: Force positivity. Yes. No, that's not like, who are you
• 40:40
  Speaker 3: fooling yourself? No, the universe. No. Right. So it's like,
• 40:43
  Speaker 3: it was never about being positive all the time. It
• 40:46
  Speaker 3: was about how authentic can you be? Because that's how
• 40:49
  Speaker 3: you live in a place of non-resistance. We don't resist
• 40:53
  Speaker 3: our feelings. We don't resist the now. We don't resist
• 40:55
  Speaker 3: what we want. See, you see the theme here. Yeah.
• 40:59
  Speaker 2: Because we are the creators of, of our own universe.
• 41:03
  Speaker 2: So if I am the creator of my universe with
• 41:07
  Speaker 2: the universe co-creating, right, everything is coming through me from
• 41:13
  Speaker 2: me and coming back to me to show me what
• 41:16
  Speaker 2: I'm creating. And that is trippy for people. People don't
• 41:21
  Speaker 2: understand that. We are, of course, collectively co-creating the world
• 41:26
  Speaker 2: we live in. All of us collectively, what we see
• 41:29
  Speaker 2: playing out is a collective manifestation. But things that are
• 41:33
  Speaker 2: showing up in your everyday life, you are creating. So
• 41:38
  Speaker 2: why not create the best life that you could have
• 41:41
  Speaker 2: for yourself? And sometimes, like with everything else, it's a
• 41:45
  Speaker 2: skill you need to learn how to do.
• 41:48
  Speaker 3: Well, and it's like I said before, the contrast precedes
• 41:51
  Speaker 3: the clarity, right? And the negative emotions are what will
• 41:56
  Speaker 3: lead you and guide you to your personal truths, which
• 41:59
  Speaker 3: will help you to create and live your best life
• 42:02
  Speaker 3: and go in that direction. But if you don't know
• 42:04
  Speaker 3: why you're angry, if you don't understand the depression, if
• 42:07
  Speaker 3: you don't allow for the sadness, like you're never going
• 42:10
  Speaker 3: to get to that personal revelation of, oh, this is
• 42:13
  Speaker 3: what I'm ready for. This is what I want to
• 42:15
  Speaker 3: expand into. This is what works for me. This is
• 42:18
  Speaker 3: what doesn't. This is my boundary. This is my preference.
• 42:20
  Speaker 3: Like you have to go to those. unsexy, uncomfortable places,
• 42:26
  Speaker 3: just a few minutes. I'm not saying hang out there
• 42:28
  Speaker 3: for weeks, months, like don't get stuck for three years
• 42:31
  Speaker 3: like I did. That was only because I wouldn't process it.
• 42:33
  Speaker 3: I was a good couple of years too.
• 42:37
  Speaker 2: I was too mad. I was like, I'm not letting
• 42:40
  Speaker 2: this one go. I'm mad. Exactly.
• 42:41
  Speaker 3: I don't have time to be sad. This is ridiculous.
• 42:44
  Speaker 3: Why is this happening to me? Blah, blah, blah. Instead
• 42:47
  Speaker 3: of just being with the sadness and like coming out
• 42:50
  Speaker 3: the other end. more light because it's like when you
• 42:53
  Speaker 3: process these emotions your emotional body becomes lighter you're shedding
• 42:57
  Speaker 3: like a dirtiness or like a heaviness is the best
• 43:01
  Speaker 3: way I can describe it so then you come back
• 43:04
  Speaker 3: to a high vibrational state where you can manifest really
• 43:07
  Speaker 3: good yeah but if you're so busy trying to stuff
• 43:10
  Speaker 3: everything down you're wasting your energy on suppression when you
• 43:13
  Speaker 3: could be using that same energy for creation.
• 43:16
  Speaker 2: Yeah it's true It takes a lot of energy to
• 43:19
  Speaker 2: suppress your true feelings about things. And we need the
• 43:22
  Speaker 2: contrast to know what we do want, right? So how
• 43:25
  Speaker 2: many times, like you, I'm sure you know, you were
• 43:28
  Speaker 2: talking about you had some crazy relationships. Well, I guarantee
• 43:31
  Speaker 2: you those relationships showed you exactly what you do not
• 43:34
  Speaker 2: want anymore and what you want from being with that, right?
• 43:39
  Speaker 2: But you wouldn't necessarily know that unless you went through
• 43:41
  Speaker 2: what you went through. So you have to know, you
• 43:44
  Speaker 2: have to have the contrast. So we have to have
• 43:46
  Speaker 2: the things that we do. can say, okay, this, no.
• 43:50
  Speaker 2: This one, I got it. Nope, I'm done. Not doing
• 43:53
  Speaker 2: that anymore. Now I know I want this, right?
• 43:56
  Speaker 3: Yes. Nothing teaches you how to look for a green
• 43:59
  Speaker 3: flag better than intimate relationships with red flags. Walking red
• 44:05
  Speaker 3: flag will teach you a lot. You'll be like, oh
• 44:07
  Speaker 3: my gosh.
• 44:08
  Speaker 2: Oh my God.
• 44:10
  Speaker 3: I know.
• 44:11
  Speaker 2: I know. Oh my God. I can look back now
• 44:14
  Speaker 2: and see the red flags. So like, holy cow. But
• 44:18
  Speaker 2: you know what? I appreciate it now because- I've had,
• 44:25
  Speaker 2: you know, relationships, but the one relationship, the ex-husband relationship, right?
• 44:31
  Speaker 2: The ex-husband.
• 44:32
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 44:32
  Speaker 2: He has been my greatest teacher in my life. He
• 44:35
  Speaker 2: has been my greatest teacher. And I can, now that
• 44:39
  Speaker 2: I am not in the anger and the resentment anymore,
• 44:43
  Speaker 2: and I'm on way on the other side of that,
• 44:46
  Speaker 2: he gave me such a gift that, that I can
• 44:50
  Speaker 2: see it from a whole different perspective. But I had
• 44:52
  Speaker 2: to go through the pain. I had to process all
• 44:55
  Speaker 2: of that to get to the other side of that.
• 44:57
  Speaker 2: And now I can see the gift in it. I
• 44:59
  Speaker 2: could see what he inspired me to do with my
• 45:03
  Speaker 2: life is really the gift, you know?
• 45:07
  Speaker 3: Yeah. Sometimes people will be coming in to blow it
• 45:10
  Speaker 3: all up so you can just recreate from scratch, you know? Yeah. Yeah.
• 45:14
  Speaker 2: And that's exactly, specifically with me, it doesn't have to
• 45:17
  Speaker 2: be that extreme for everybody. Everybody's different. But that was
• 45:20
  Speaker 2: my personal experience. And so for anybody who is watching
• 45:25
  Speaker 2: us today, of course, they could pre-order your book and
• 45:29
  Speaker 2: they can get it right in time for Christmas. Nice
• 45:32
  Speaker 2: little Christmas gift you could give yourself, right? Or somebody else.
• 45:36
  Speaker 2: But is there anything that you could tell us from
• 45:39
  Speaker 2: the book that we could start just kind of doing
• 45:42
  Speaker 2: on a daily basis that may kind of help us
• 45:45
  Speaker 2: navigate you know this world so we can start manifesting
• 45:50
  Speaker 2: what we want.
• 45:51
  Speaker 3: This crazy world yeah actually I have I have some
• 45:54
  Speaker 3: more self-inquiry for you guys so one of the main
• 45:58
  Speaker 3: it's not really a block but it's a little bit
• 46:00
  Speaker 3: of like a stagnation it causes a little stagnation is
• 46:04
  Speaker 3: a lot of times we don't actually know what we
• 46:07
  Speaker 3: want And we think, oh, I want the relationship. I
• 46:10
  Speaker 3: want the house. I want the job. I want this.
• 46:13
  Speaker 3: I want the health. I want that. And it's like, yes,
• 46:16
  Speaker 3: but we need to go deeper. So I call those
• 46:19
  Speaker 3: things that we want, that we put on our vision board,
• 46:21
  Speaker 3: the surface desire, not in like a judgmental way, but
• 46:23
  Speaker 3: like there's another thing below the surface, right? So your
• 46:27
  Speaker 3: surface desires, we like those. They're fun. They're valid. Go
• 46:29
  Speaker 3: for it. But you need to know your genuine desire
• 46:32
  Speaker 3: that's underneath the surface desire, which Surprise, surprise. It usually
• 46:37
  Speaker 3: comes down to a feeling. So how you do this
• 46:39
  Speaker 3: exercise is you say, okay, what's the thing that I
• 46:41
  Speaker 3: think I want? It's the relationship. It's the houses. This
• 46:44
  Speaker 3: is that. So that's your goal. Then ask yourself, what
• 46:47
  Speaker 3: is the goal of this goal? What am I trying
• 46:51
  Speaker 3: to achieve through this thing? How am I trying to
• 46:55
  Speaker 3: feel in having this thing? And that feeling that you
• 47:00
  Speaker 3: identify there when you ask yourself that, that's what you
• 47:03
  Speaker 3: actually are after. And sometimes it doesn't match the surface desire.
• 47:08
  Speaker 3: So you might be like, oh, you know, you might
• 47:12
  Speaker 3: be a guy and you're like, yeah, I want to
• 47:13
  Speaker 3: manifest this Lamborghini so I can pick up chicks. And
• 47:16
  Speaker 3: it's like, okay, why do you want to pick up chicks?
• 47:17
  Speaker 3: It's like, well, I actually want a wife. I want
• 47:19
  Speaker 3: to be in love. You know, it's like, so you
• 47:21
  Speaker 3: don't need the car to do that. Like, let's go
• 47:24
  Speaker 3: for a healthy committed relationship directly and not like beat
• 47:28
  Speaker 3: around the bush with all this stuff we think we
• 47:29
  Speaker 3: need to do it. So assessing what you actually want, huge.
• 47:35
  Speaker 3: Then once you have that answer, go for that directly
• 47:40
  Speaker 3: in your life as many times a day, as many
• 47:42
  Speaker 3: creative ways as you can. And you have to, it's
• 47:46
  Speaker 3: like two parts. It's like embracing that feeling more and
• 47:49
  Speaker 3: figuring out how and why you're resisting it. And a
• 47:52
  Speaker 3: lot of times it'll be like, oh, I want to
• 47:55
  Speaker 3: manifest more money so I can feel abundant or safe
• 47:58
  Speaker 3: or secure. And it's like, okay, well, why don't you
• 48:00
  Speaker 3: feel abundant and safe, secure right now? Like, let's troubleshoot that.
• 48:03
  Speaker 3: Let's figure that out. Let's do a little bit of
• 48:06
  Speaker 3: work there. Let's figure out like, where do you already
• 48:08
  Speaker 3: have abundance in your life that you can really lean into?
• 48:11
  Speaker 3: Is it love? Is it friendships? Is it snacks in
• 48:13
  Speaker 3: the pantry? Is it leaves in your backyard? Like, what
• 48:16
  Speaker 3: is it that makes you feel abundant? It makes you
• 48:18
  Speaker 3: feel full. Like don't focus on the money for a
• 48:21
  Speaker 3: couple of weeks. Let's lean into that vibration. The money
• 48:24
  Speaker 3: will come. The ideas will come. The business will come.
• 48:27
  Speaker 3: So it's like finding out the exact thing you really,
• 48:31
  Speaker 3: really want. going for that directly and then making the
• 48:34
  Speaker 3: surface desire, that's going to be like a cherry on top.
• 48:37
  Speaker 3: That will come because you're going to be actually aligned
• 48:40
  Speaker 3: with it. So it's shifting the focus from what you
• 48:43
  Speaker 3: think you want to what you actually want is huge. Yeah.
• 48:48
  Speaker 2: No, I agree with you. And I say the same
• 48:50
  Speaker 2: thing and I've said it in my book and I've
• 48:52
  Speaker 2: say it on here when I'm making my videos. People say, well,
• 48:55
  Speaker 2: I want to be happy.
• 48:56
  Speaker 3: Okay.
• 48:57
  Speaker 2: Well, what does happiness look like to you? I want
• 48:59
  Speaker 2: to be happy. Happiness to some people is going to
• 49:03
  Speaker 2: look like being married, raising a family, being, you know,
• 49:08
  Speaker 2: connected in a relationship. That's what happiness is to them.
• 49:12
  Speaker 2: To somebody else, happiness is having money because they're very
• 49:16
  Speaker 2: philanthropic and they want to give to charities and they
• 49:19
  Speaker 2: need love animals and they want to build a rescue
• 49:22
  Speaker 2: farm and, you know, whatever it is. What is it
• 49:26
  Speaker 2: look like to you? Because it's the same thing. You
• 49:29
  Speaker 2: get to the feeling. What is the feeling you're trying
• 49:32
  Speaker 2: to evoke here? That's what you need to know. And
• 49:35
  Speaker 2: once you know what that.
• 49:37
  Speaker 1: Is, the.
• 49:38
  Speaker 2: All those things will come because that's where the real
• 49:44
  Speaker 2: work is. And when I have friends come to me
• 49:47
  Speaker 2: who will say, you know, I just can't meet somebody
• 49:50
  Speaker 2: and there's nobody out there. And I'm like, well, first
• 49:52
  Speaker 2: of all, stop saying that because that's blocking the door.
• 49:55
  Speaker 3: Let's not make the one-time thing be.
• 49:57
  Speaker 2: An every-time thing. Right, right. And then I say, but
• 50:00
  Speaker 2: why do you want to be with somebody? Do you
• 50:03
  Speaker 2: know why you really want to be with somebody? And
• 50:05
  Speaker 2: if it's just because you don't want to be alone,
• 50:08
  Speaker 2: or you're bored, you're not going to be attracting the
• 50:13
  Speaker 2: kind of person that you're saying you want. Right.
• 50:18
  Speaker 3: You're going to be settling real quick for whoever's available.
• 50:22
  Speaker 2: For whoever's available. And if you think there's nobody out there,
• 50:25
  Speaker 2: then you're right. That's what I always say to my friends.
• 50:29
  Speaker 2: There's nobody out there. Well, then I guess you're right.
• 50:31
  Speaker 2: I mean, you're right then if that's what you think.
• 50:34
  Speaker 3: You're always going to prove yourself right universally and Subconsciously.
• 50:40
  Speaker 3: You're always going to look for your belief. Even if
• 50:43
  Speaker 3: it's not the ultimate truth, that's going to be your truth.
• 50:47
  Speaker 2: I know. I'm like, there's 8 billion people on the planet.
• 50:51
  Speaker 2: You're telling me that there's not at least 8? one
• 50:55
  Speaker 2: or two people out there for you.
• 50:58
  Speaker 3: When people say that to me, I'm like, have you
• 51:00
  Speaker 3: met every single person?
• 51:01
  Speaker 2: They're like, no. I'm like, you don't know.
• 51:04
  Speaker 3: You don't know.
• 51:06
  Speaker 2: It's just, but it's the story. And the story behind
• 51:09
  Speaker 2: that was I was hurt by everybody before me. I
• 51:12
  Speaker 2: was abandoned. I was this. And that's what you don't
• 51:16
  Speaker 2: want to bring back into your life, understandably so. So
• 51:19
  Speaker 2: there's a lot of fear there.
• 51:20
  Speaker 3: Yeah. Maybe that's true. Maybe the last three times it
• 51:24
  Speaker 3: didn't work out, but we don't need to make it
• 51:27
  Speaker 3: mean that every single time moving forward is going to
• 51:30
  Speaker 3: be the same, especially when life is full of surprises
• 51:33
  Speaker 3: and change is natural. We just go with the flow.
• 51:38
  Speaker 3: Things are always changing. We're always changing. We're always evolving.
• 51:41
  Speaker 3: It's impossible for you to just
• 51:52
  Speaker 3: .
• 51:52
  Speaker 2: Same, same, same. Exactly. So what have you noticed
• 51:57
  Speaker 2: from the people that you talk to are the biggest
• 52:00
  Speaker 2: things that people universally want to manifest?
• 52:04
  Speaker 3: Oh, man. I would say resources, money. A companionship, love,
• 52:13
  Speaker 3: like we talked about, that's huge. I think that's natural
• 52:15
  Speaker 3: yearning for a lot of people. Better health, it could
• 52:19
  Speaker 3: be mental, it could be physical, which, you know, that's
• 52:23
  Speaker 3: always great. What else is a big one with people
• 52:27
  Speaker 3: that I see? I'd say those are probably top three,
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  Speaker 3: but then everyone has like their own unique thing, whether
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  Speaker 3: it's like that business they want to start or like
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  Speaker 3: that family they want to create or the dog they've always, or,
• 52:41
  Speaker 3: you know, everyone has a specific dream, very tailored to them,
• 52:45
  Speaker 3: which I encourage everyone to follow because your heart knows
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  Speaker 3: the way, but a lot of times we resist our
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  Speaker 3: desires because they're too selfish. They're too big. We don't
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  Speaker 3: know how they're going to happen. Other people told us
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  Speaker 3: it was stupid, blah, blah, blah. So it's like, fixing
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  Speaker 3: your relationship with desire is also key, which I wrote
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  Speaker 3: a whole chapter about. Of course, that's one of the fixes.
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  Speaker 3: So it's one of the first fixes actually is fixing
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  Speaker 3: your relationship with desire because when you allow yourself to
• 53:15
  Speaker 3: want what you genuinely want, it gets a lot easier
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  Speaker 3: to go for it. Yeah.
• 53:20
  Speaker 2: Oh, for sure.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: You got to allow yourself to want what you genuinely
• 53:24
  Speaker 2: want and be okay with whatever it is, right? No, that's,
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  Speaker 2: I have found that too. The big ones are The financial,
• 53:34
  Speaker 2: more financial freedom, abundance, and however they shows up for them,
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  Speaker 2: relationships and health. Those are the three that most people
• 53:42
  Speaker 2: send a postcard around. And then it has the little
• 53:46
  Speaker 2: subs underneath it, right? For some, the financial abundance is
• 53:49
  Speaker 2: a house. For others, it's a career. It's a new job.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: So I find that too. And it's just, it's interesting
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  Speaker 2: how we all sort of collectively want the same.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, we're all so similar at the end of
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  Speaker 3: the day, right? Like we want to be happy. We
• 54:03
  Speaker 3: want to be healthy. We want to have connection. We
• 54:06
  Speaker 3: all have very similar needs. And then underneath those needs
• 54:09
  Speaker 3: is like specific ways we want, like specific flavors of
• 54:13
  Speaker 3: the needs that resonate best for us.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, definitely. So are you, when your book comes out,
• 54:20
  Speaker 2: are you going to be doing any, a big book launch?
• 54:25
  Speaker 2: Are you going to be you know, going on a
• 54:28
  Speaker 2: book tour, like traveling? Like what are you doing when
• 54:31
  Speaker 2: your book comes out?
• 54:33
  Speaker 3: Yeah, originally I was going to do a big book tour,
• 54:36
  Speaker 3: but the book was supposed to come out in September.
• 54:38
  Speaker 3: And now that's coming out in December and it's going
• 54:40
  Speaker 3: to be cold. I'm not really feeling the cold vibes
• 54:43
  Speaker 3: as much anymore. So I won't be doing too much
• 54:46
  Speaker 3: in-person stuff, but definitely a bunch of stuff online. I'm
• 54:50
  Speaker 3: doing still a million interviews, a bunch of lives, connecting
• 54:54
  Speaker 3: with people online as much as I can. I live
• 54:56
  Speaker 3: in the Charlotte, North Carolina area. So I'll definitely be
• 54:58
  Speaker 3: doing at least a couple local events here and there.
• 55:01
  Speaker 3: So follow my Instagram if you're in the Carolinas or
• 55:04
  Speaker 3: you want to come out and say, hi, I can
• 55:05
  Speaker 3: sign your book for you or whatever. But yeah, I'm
• 55:09
  Speaker 3: pretty excited for it. This is my best book yet.
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  Speaker 3: And it's taken me 10 years to write it. The
• 55:14
  Speaker 3: idea came to me a decade ago and the world
• 55:17
  Speaker 3: wasn't ready. I wasn't ready. The book wasn't ready. But
• 55:20
  Speaker 3: now is the time.
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  Speaker 2: That's great. I'm very excited. I'm very excited for you.
• 55:26
  Speaker 2: And you are still doing your High Vibin' It, your podcast?
• 55:30
  Speaker 3: We're actually taking a break, but we still have 300 episodes.
• 55:34
  Speaker 3: If you've never heard it, just go listen.
• 55:36
  Speaker 2: Go check it out. Go listen.
• 55:37
  Speaker 3: And you can get all these little jewels. It's an
• 55:41
  Speaker 3: amazing free resource. I co-host it with one of my
• 55:43
  Speaker 3: best friends who's a hypnotherapist. I'm like the manifesting self-love lady.
• 55:47
  Speaker 3: She's the hypnotherapy lady. And it's an amazing free resource
• 55:50
  Speaker 3: for anyone who wants to learn how to love themselves more.
• 55:53
  Speaker 3: manifest their dreams, all the stuff we talked about here today.
• 55:56
  Speaker 2: Thank you so much, Kelsey. And everything will be in
• 55:58
  Speaker 2: the description, her website, so you can find out everything
• 56:01
  Speaker 2: you want about her.
• 56:02
  Speaker 3: Thank you.
• 56:04
  Speaker 2: I love talking to you today. And thank you, everybody,
• 56:06
  Speaker 2: for listening to Postcards to the Universe with Melissa, creating
• 56:10
  Speaker 2: the life you crave. And I'm wishing everyone a wonderful
• 56:12
  Speaker 2: week filled with joy, abundance, and love. Peace. See you
• 56:15
  Speaker 2: next time.
• 56:16
  Speaker 1: Bye-bye.