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- 0:00Speaker 1: This is the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast
- 0:03Speaker 1: with iHeartRadio.
- 0:06Speaker 2: Hey guys, welcome to the Almost Famous podcast. Today we
- 0:09Speaker 2: are breaking down headlines. Ben in my schedule, I tell you,
- 0:12Speaker 2: has been all over the place. We have not been
- 0:15Speaker 2: aligning lately much the past few months, and we are
- 0:18Speaker 2: sorry about that. We're working on it. But today it
- 0:22Speaker 2: is me doing headlines with our producer Heather again and
- 0:27Speaker 2: I hope you guys enjoyed last week's headlines. We had
- 0:29Speaker 2: a good time together and we plan on doing it
- 0:31Speaker 2: again right now. Our first headline of the week. Oh,
- 0:35Speaker 2: it's a little juicy, Juliana. I'm sorry to Juliana aka
- 0:41Speaker 2: Grant's X. I don't know how to say your last name, Pascarosa.
- 0:46Speaker 2: It is a beautiful last name, Pascarosa, right, Why do
- 0:49Speaker 2: I always try to avoid saying it? Well? She recently,
- 0:53Speaker 2: as they say in the article, slammed her ex fiance.
- 0:56Speaker 2: You guys, I have such a problem when the tabloids
- 0:59Speaker 2: or like any form of news says so and so
- 1:02Speaker 2: slam so and so, because usually it's not as vicious
- 1:05Speaker 2: as they try to make it sound. But man, it's
- 1:08Speaker 2: a it's a good look, good clickbait, right, there. During
- 1:12Speaker 2: a recent Instagram a Q and A, Grant was asked
- 1:15Speaker 2: multiple times with the status of he and Juliana's relationship.
- 1:19Speaker 2: Was like, well, guys, you know they are broken up,
- 1:21Speaker 2: but these people want to know whether or not they're
- 1:23Speaker 2: still talking, and he said, well, it's a difficult question.
- 1:26Speaker 2: When two people make a commitment, I feel like they're
- 1:28Speaker 2: supposed to do everything they can to try to make
- 1:30Speaker 2: it work. But you know that wasn't the case. I
- 1:34Speaker 2: guess we just weren't meant for each other. Now I
- 1:37Speaker 2: kind of understand why she slammed him. He was also
- 1:41Speaker 2: asked about why the couple ended their engagement, and he said,
- 1:46Speaker 2: I don't fully know, but there were some issues and
- 1:50Speaker 2: we just couldn't make it work. So then Juliana, she
- 1:55Speaker 2: has a very different answer as to why they they
- 1:59Speaker 2: broke up. She said this on Instagram story and response.
- 2:03Speaker 2: We have talked after the breakup multiple times. He reached
- 2:06Speaker 2: out to my family and friends multiple times. They've always
- 2:09Speaker 2: responded that means, what do you mean? Okay? Thank you?
- 2:12Speaker 2: I'm like, what does I was like trying to break
- 2:16Speaker 2: down an acronym there, what do you mean? I didn't try?
- 2:19Speaker 2: I stayed even when I felt unloved. She continues to say,
- 2:26Speaker 2: he also knows why we broke up. He just doesn't
- 2:29Speaker 2: want you to know why. Right and fun, very very good,
- 2:35Speaker 2: very very good entertainment for us. Again, I'm sorry it
- 2:38Speaker 2: didn't work out between the two of them, but this
- 2:41Speaker 2: was not a surprise. And the way that Gret handles
- 2:45Speaker 2: himself on social media with all these oh you know,
- 2:49Speaker 2: I don't really know. It's just like without like a
- 2:52Speaker 2: much feeling attached to it all.
- 2:54Speaker 3: Personally, I wonder how long until he deletes this off
- 2:57Speaker 3: of Instagram, because that tends to be the thing he does.
- 3:00Speaker 3: He did it all, he commented on our page then
- 3:04Speaker 3: deleted it, so he kind of is known for that too.
- 3:08Speaker 3: I will say, for my fellow millennials, is this not giving.
- 3:12Speaker 2: You know what you did? You know what you did?
- 3:15Speaker 3: Does this ring a bell? Ashley?
- 3:17Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, no, what.
- 3:20Speaker 3: The iconic fight between Els and Hydie.
- 3:23Speaker 2: Oh okay, So here's the issue. I never watched Laguna
- 3:27Speaker 2: Beach or The Hill the Hills, Ashley. I know this
- 3:32Speaker 2: is simple. Here's why I don't love teen drama like
- 3:38Speaker 2: that's script that's unscripted, because it just makes me feel
- 3:42Speaker 2: very uncomfortable because I was like never an angsty teenager,
- 3:47Speaker 2: and I like didn't want to have fights with friends,
- 3:50Speaker 2: and so watching that just makes me feel like I'm
- 3:54Speaker 2: in a place where I always try to avoid.
- 3:57Speaker 3: Got you, well, I commend you. But for anybody listening
- 4:01Speaker 3: that does remember the Hills, you know what you did,
- 4:04Speaker 3: that is what.
- 4:04Speaker 2: I well, you know what, Juliana, you know that we
- 4:10Speaker 2: welcome you. If you ever want to talk about what
- 4:12Speaker 2: he did, we would love to hear all about it.
- 4:16Speaker 2: Our next headline, Golden Bachelor, mel Owens talks about the
- 4:21Speaker 2: backlash that he got about his age's comment. We're calling
- 4:25Speaker 2: it a gaff. Now, a gaff is a mistake in
- 4:31Speaker 2: something that is a mistake in speech. I think this
- 4:35Speaker 2: was more of his truth than it just wasn't really
- 4:38Speaker 2: well suited for his position. But here we go. The
- 4:42Speaker 2: show has been filmed and now he's talking about entrances.
- 4:48Speaker 2: He says that he's been apologizing ever since and that
- 4:51Speaker 2: he will expect to see him get grilled by twenty
- 4:55Speaker 2: three women that are competing now for his heart, only
- 4:58Speaker 2: one of which is understand. He said, if you guys
- 5:01Speaker 2: don't remember that he had no interest in dating someone
- 5:04Speaker 2: over the age of sixty, but now he's got twenty
- 5:08Speaker 2: two of them. So he says that there is one
- 5:11Speaker 2: contestant whose opening comment he remembers vividly. She says, yeah,
- 5:16Speaker 2: I heard about what you said about the women. What
- 5:19Speaker 2: the f are you talking about? Oh, she said puck,
- 5:24Speaker 2: Because this is a hockey playing contestant. She goes, what
- 5:27Speaker 2: the puck are you talking about? And he says that
- 5:31Speaker 2: he estimates that he apologized over twenty times in the
- 5:34Speaker 2: first episode to groups and individuals. He goes, it's good
- 5:39Speaker 2: because I did deserve it, and I had to deal
- 5:41Speaker 2: with it, and I had to explain to them sincerely
- 5:45Speaker 2: in order to get another chance from them, and they
- 5:49Speaker 2: could or could not have accepted his apology, but they did.
- 5:54Speaker 2: He also said, I wasn't thinking about who these women
- 5:59Speaker 2: actually were. When you see them, you don't think of age.
- 6:03Speaker 2: I had no idea how old they were, and it
- 6:05Speaker 2: didn't matter. He also says that he's a newbie to
- 6:08Speaker 2: social media and he was quickly alerted to when he
- 6:13Speaker 2: said this stupid thing by a female friend. She's my age,
- 6:16Speaker 2: she said sixty five at the time, and she she
- 6:18Speaker 2: called me up and she said, what are you doing
- 6:21Speaker 2: and I said that I had made a mistake, and
- 6:23Speaker 2: she goes, yeah, you're going to have to reconcile this one,
- 6:26Speaker 2: and she made me realize that I was just out
- 6:29Speaker 2: of bounds.
- 6:30Speaker 3: Okay, well, can I just say obviously nobody agrees with
- 6:35Speaker 3: his comments and that's not what The Golden Bachelor is
- 6:39Speaker 3: here to represent. But I will say that after this
- 6:42Speaker 3: first episode airs next week, I'm over this topic. I
- 6:46Speaker 3: don't know this guy complain the entire sorry, not complain.
- 6:49Speaker 3: I don't want to hear this guy apologize for the
- 6:52Speaker 3: entire season. I hope we kick it in the first
- 6:54Speaker 3: episode and we move past this because I'm over it.
- 6:58Speaker 2: Yeah, I will be forever thinking it. I have to
- 7:01Speaker 2: admit I will be forever thinking it, but I don't
- 7:03Speaker 2: want to forever hear it. And I honest, I'd have
- 7:06Speaker 2: no problem if he said these things, if he wasn't
- 7:11Speaker 2: the Golden Bachelor who's supposed to date sixty plus year
- 7:14Speaker 2: old women. If that's not your type, okay, we're fine.
- 7:19Speaker 2: The fact that he said that in this role was
- 7:22Speaker 2: just like ughugh. But guys, if you want to watch
- 7:26Speaker 2: The Bachelor, the Golden Bachelor premiere, it is on Wednesday,
- 7:30Speaker 2: this coming Wednesday, it is September twenty fourth, and we'll
- 7:34Speaker 2: be breaking it all down, of course, and we're gonna
- 7:37Speaker 2: probably do a Golden Bachelor Fantasy League. So if you
- 7:40Speaker 2: want to take a look at all those profiles and
- 7:42Speaker 2: join in the fun, please do that. It seems like
- 7:47Speaker 2: our former bachelorette, our last one before our new one,
- 7:53Speaker 2: which we'll talk about in a little bit. Jen Tran
- 7:56Speaker 2: is soft launching a new relationship. As do you guys know.
- 8:00Speaker 2: She was dating her partner from Dancing with the Stars,
- 8:03Speaker 2: Sasha Farber for a while. It's been it's been confirmed
- 8:09Speaker 2: for a couple months now that they split, but Jen
- 8:12Speaker 2: has updated her life on social media, and she posted
- 8:17Speaker 2: a picture of herself hugging a tall mystery man in
- 8:22Speaker 2: front of an elevator while he holds her purse for her,
- 8:26Speaker 2: and the fans, of course commented, somebody going your story,
- 8:32Speaker 2: Oh my god, happy for you girl, and another person said,
- 8:35Speaker 2: but who is in your story? And a few followers
- 8:39Speaker 2: speculated that this person could be could be fellow Bachelor
- 8:46Speaker 2: Nation star and contestant of hers, Jonathan Johnson. Somebody said,
- 8:52Speaker 2: oh my god, is that Jonathan in the stories?
- 8:56Speaker 3: What do you think.
- 8:57Speaker 2: Let me click here and see this picture now, because
- 9:00Speaker 2: I have I have a give. I don't know. I
- 9:04Speaker 2: will say, I don't really know. Skin tone kind of
- 9:09Speaker 2: on par booty, kind of on par He's got a
- 9:13Speaker 2: good booty. It's something I have noticed.
- 9:16Speaker 3: I don't think it's him.
- 9:17Speaker 2: The hair is hard to tell from here. Why do
- 9:20Speaker 2: you Why do you not think it's him?
- 9:22Speaker 3: I don't think it's him, because no shade to Jonathan.
- 9:25Speaker 3: I think he will admit he's what does he call
- 9:28Speaker 3: himself a medium king?
- 9:29Speaker 2: He says he's a medium king. He says he's like
- 9:32Speaker 2: five ten. And I'm like, okay, this could be five
- 9:36Speaker 2: ten if she's not wearing heels, because I think she's
- 9:39Speaker 2: pretty tiny.
- 9:41Speaker 3: But we saw him at the Paradise Reunion that we
- 9:45Speaker 3: were taping, and I just don't think. And I've met
- 9:49Speaker 3: Jen too, and I just don't the height difference. To me,
- 9:53Speaker 3: I'm like, this is somebody taller. This is what I
- 9:56Speaker 3: think it's somebody taller.
- 9:57Speaker 2: I agree that, Like he's hunching down quite a bit
- 10:01Speaker 2: and she's like on her tiptoes in this picture.
- 10:04Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 10:04Speaker 2: Oh but man, well, we love that to happen. We
- 10:08Speaker 2: would love it so much A. All right, we'll keep following.
- 10:13Speaker 2: I'm sure she will continuously be teasing us. One person
- 10:17Speaker 2: also said that she might be dating Spanish tennis player
- 10:20Speaker 2: Carlos Alcaraz. Do you know who that is? No? Oh,
- 10:24Speaker 2: he just won the US Open.
- 10:27Speaker 3: Oh, I mean, if that's who it is, Jen, I know, yeah,
- 10:31Speaker 3: I don't know. I feel like he looks taller to
- 10:34Speaker 3: me based on these photos. He looks taller to me,
- 10:37Speaker 3: and I would bet I would put my money more
- 10:39Speaker 3: towards this than Jonathan.
- 10:41Speaker 2: Okay, that's just me. I just hope it's like, I mean,
- 10:45Speaker 2: I'm sorry for our own entertainment. I hope it's somebody
- 10:49Speaker 2: that we know of, Yeah, of course. Okay. Next headline
- 10:55Speaker 2: is Kit Keenan, who we know from Matt James. This season,
- 11:00Speaker 2: walked in her mom, Cynthia Rally's fashion show during fashion Week,
- 11:03Speaker 2: and I think it was the perfect fit because she
- 11:06Speaker 2: walked in a dress that was covered in engagement rings.
- 11:10Speaker 2: It's really cute. She looks like a perfect natural model.
- 11:13Speaker 2: No one and be like, oh, she's on the runway
- 11:15Speaker 2: because her mom. No, she looks so freaking fantastic. So
- 11:19Speaker 2: Kit is now twenty six years old. Because on Matt Season.
- 11:22Speaker 2: She was a young one. She's twenty one, twenty one
- 11:24Speaker 2: or twenty two on mad Season, and now she has
- 11:26Speaker 2: a boyfriend and her mom. She said, I think my
- 11:31Speaker 2: mom was trying to send a message to my boyfriend
- 11:33Speaker 2: with this dress because it's covered in engagement rings. Diamonds
- 11:37Speaker 2: are a girl's best friend, and that's why I'm wearing this.
- 11:40Speaker 2: But yeah, she looks amazing and good for her. She
- 11:45Speaker 2: has stayed pretty in the loop with bachelor stuff, being
- 11:49Speaker 2: that she was only on I think the one season.
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- 12:32Speaker 2: zero zero four six eight forty two ninety two Bachelor
- 12:40Speaker 2: in Paradises, James Bonsel announces that he is engaged. You
- 12:44Speaker 2: guys may remember him. He was definitely a fan favorite.
- 12:48Speaker 2: We all love James. But I will say that when
- 12:51Speaker 2: I first saw this headline, I was like who, And
- 12:54Speaker 2: then you see his picture. He's one of the really
- 12:56Speaker 2: bright blue eyes. He's the one that people would make
- 12:59Speaker 2: fun of because his hair was so ken like, so
- 13:02Speaker 2: slicked back and hard looking. But he was so sweet
- 13:05Speaker 2: and he was good friends with Aaron and you know
- 13:08Speaker 2: him from Katie season. He was on Bachelor of Paradise
- 13:11Speaker 2: twice and he got engaged at the Hotel Cordnado recently.
- 13:19Speaker 2: He was from San Diego. Guy, and congratulations to him.
- 13:24Speaker 2: Have you ever been to that hotel? Yes? I have been.
- 13:27Speaker 2: It's so pretty and we went because it's apparently very
- 13:29Speaker 2: haunted and my sister wanted to go for her birthday.
- 13:32Speaker 3: I was gonna ask you, it's haunted. Did you have
- 13:35Speaker 3: any paranormal activity?
- 13:37Speaker 2: We didn't, but she kept her EVP reader on her
- 13:41Speaker 2: phone all day long. I think she may have requested
- 13:44Speaker 2: the room like the very haunted room. It was a
- 13:47Speaker 2: fun time though, It's like you can you can feel
- 13:50Speaker 2: the eeriness of it. There's like crazy stories from there,
- 13:52Speaker 2: but it's like everybody in southern California is like favorite
- 13:57Speaker 2: place to like have a aesthetic vacation. It is beautiful,
- 14:00Speaker 2: totally beautiful.
- 14:01Speaker 3: Yeah, I've never been there, but really gorgeous pictures in
- 14:04Speaker 3: his video announcement was really cute.
- 14:07Speaker 2: Yes, he's he's He's a good guy. Another bachelor news,
- 14:12Speaker 2: we have Kelly Travis from Mom Pablo season giving birth
- 14:15Speaker 2: to her third baby. She had her first son, Henry
- 14:20Speaker 2: in twenty eighteen and then daughter Josephine in twenty twenty
- 14:24Speaker 2: and her husband Hunterham. They got married in twenty twenty
- 14:28Speaker 2: six in twenty sixteen. Yeah, they've been together for a
- 14:31Speaker 2: long time. But Kelly was the one that you know
- 14:33Speaker 2: from One Pablo scene season who brought her dog and
- 14:37Speaker 2: that was what a special treat that was. In our
- 14:40Speaker 2: final headline of the day, Whitney leave It and Jen
- 14:44Speaker 2: Affleck from the Secret Lives of Mormon Wives, they are
- 14:47Speaker 2: hyping their girl up Franky Taylor Frankie paul Uh for
- 14:52Speaker 2: the New Bachelorette season. I remember Frankie Taylor had said
- 14:56Speaker 2: on a couple of podcasts like she wasn't sure if
- 14:58Speaker 2: they're being like jealousy surrounding this, but the girls are
- 15:01Speaker 2: saying she's going to crush it. I know so many
- 15:03Speaker 2: people that are going to tune in. I know I am,
- 15:05Speaker 2: and I haven't watched The Bachelor in a long time.
- 15:08Speaker 2: Lovett also said that I think someone that really recognizes
- 15:13Speaker 2: her resilience and the woman that she is and doesn't
- 15:15Speaker 2: take advantage for it is going to be the perfect
- 15:17Speaker 2: kind of guy for her. And then Jen Affleck, who
- 15:20Speaker 2: is currently on Dancing with the Stars, said she definitely
- 15:23Speaker 2: has a type and whoever makes her happy is who
- 15:26Speaker 2: we're hoping. We'll be there.
- 15:28Speaker 3: Did you see the video from the Dancing with the
- 15:31Speaker 3: Stars premiere, because Taylor was obviously there this week, you know,
- 15:35Speaker 3: rooting on Whitney and Jen, but we also got to
- 15:38Speaker 3: see her having kind of a little moment with fellow
- 15:40Speaker 3: bachelorette Hannah Brown. Were like hugging and chit chatting, and
- 15:46Speaker 3: if you remember last week when it was announced, Taylor
- 15:49Speaker 3: said she had watched Hannah's season that was one that
- 15:53Speaker 3: she had watched in the past, so it was really
- 15:56Speaker 3: cute little moment to see the two of them connecting.
- 15:59Speaker 2: Wow, Hulu and ABC are really you know, making a
- 16:03Speaker 2: full circle moment here. I can't believe that they have
- 16:07Speaker 2: two girls from the Mormon Wives on Dancing with the
- 16:12Speaker 2: Stars and then they have their bachelorette as also a
- 16:14Speaker 2: cast member.
- 16:15Speaker 3: That's why the question of like would it would there
- 16:18Speaker 3: be jealousy and all that, Like, that's why she was
- 16:20Speaker 3: saying that.
- 16:21Speaker 2: Because of course, because like that's a huge lead role.
- 16:26Speaker 2: Dancing with the Stars is ensemble though, but I'm sure
- 16:28Speaker 2: these girls are also, like I mean, they're on Dancing
- 16:30Speaker 2: with the Stars, that's huge. Huge. The girls who haven't
- 16:34Speaker 2: gotten the opportunities yet, they're gonna be like, Okay, so
- 16:36Speaker 2: where is my additional show? Exactly exactly. I'm sure that
- 16:42Speaker 2: they're ironclad contracts also probably wouldn't allow them to do
- 16:46Speaker 2: something like special Forces or traders or anything like that
- 16:50Speaker 2: right now, exactly exactly. Alrighty, well, guys, thank you so
- 16:55Speaker 2: much for tuning in to headlines. We will have more
- 16:58Speaker 2: next week and I I'm going to be with the
- 17:01Speaker 2: iHeart Family and a Jonas concert in San Francisco, so
- 17:04Speaker 2: stay tuned for those episodes, which you know I will
- 17:07Speaker 2: jonafy the crab out of. Until then, we love you.
- 17:12Speaker 2: I've been Ashley and I've been Heather Bye.
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