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Divine Feminine Energy Habits That Magnetize Love and Money · Mindful Success Path

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  If you've been hustling in your masculine energy and wondering why love and money feel hard, then this is the video for you because chances are that you are living just a little bit or maybe a lot out of alignment.
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  So today I'm gonna be breaking down five feminine energy habits that you can use to not just start attracting more love, but also money because.
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  The two are actually pretty similar and they're very related.
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  Make sure to stick around until the end,'cause I'm gonna share the one that helped me kill two birds with one stone.
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  Hi, my name is Amanda.
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  Welcome to this channel where we talk about how to manifest what you desire in life without all the extra stress, chaos, and drama that most people are accustomed to.
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  So if that's something that you're interested in, make sure to subscribe and hit the notification bell.
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  So you don't wanna say single video that we have coming out on this channel.
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  You're gonna be seeing a lot more of me.
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  I'm on the other side of my move to the Lake Chapala area.
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  In Mexico and my amazing husband has added all the structure that I need behind the scenes to just be able to create videos like this for you to help you get more into your feminine energy or attract more prosperity, or just build a community where we're talking about a lot of these spiritual concepts.
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  So make sure to subscribe, hit the notification bell and give it a like, because it makes sure that we get it.
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  In front of more people and as a resource that goes with this video, uh, make sure to download or enhance your feminine energy guide.
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  It's totally free.
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  You can grab it below because it's going to give you a lot more rituals and journal prompts and things like that that you can use to increase and enhance your feminine energy to start attract.
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  What it is that you desire.
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  So section one, let's get into it, right?
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  Why feminine energy is so attractive and why it attracts so traditionally.
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  Uh, feminine energy is more about the attraction and the magnetism.
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  It's not forceful, right?
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  So if you look at nature, you see it all the time.
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  The the, the egg doesn't go chasing the sperm, right?
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  The flowers don't go chasing the bees.
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  We see it all the time.
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  Now in contrast, masculine energy is more about the go, uh, getting it done, chasing the people.
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  Uh, we see it in dating a lot as well.
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  Like normally the men are the ones who are pursuing, uh, the women, or at least that's when a relationship is gonna work better when it's in that dynamic.
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  Um, and normally when a woman is experiencing that where the men are pursuing her, it's because she's a lot more in her feminine energy.
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  She's basically like magnetizing them and drawing them in.
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  Not because she necessarily has to do anything, but because of how she is being.
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  And I know that if you're just getting started in this feminine energy conversation that is really trippy and kind of hard to understand.
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  I've done other videos on the importance of actually embodying.
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  How to do that rather than staying in your head about this.
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  So make sure to check those out.
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  So with feminine energy, you're not like chasing, right?
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  You are attracting through your frequency, you're attracting through your softness, and you're attracting ultimately through your worthiness, right?
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  That's what's going on here.
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  When you see yourself is worthy, that's when a lot of stuff starts to open doors.
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  And for most of us, our work in this lifetime.
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  Is to remove all the blocks that we have that tell us that we're not worthy, that, and that we're not good enough, and that we're not lovable.
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  That's ultimately what it comes down to.
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  Now, love and money are both considered forms of provision, uh, and provision flows to a woman who is open to receiving it.
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  Okay, so I'll give examples.
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  Right when I was ready to manifest, my husband and I started more on this feminine energy journey.
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  I manifested him, right?
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  And he's very much a provider.
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  He's very much a hustler.
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  He gets stuff done and he provides a lot of structure, uh, in my life.
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  So I can be more like the creative with projects, uh, like this for.
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  Example, or he's like, he thinks really big in enterprises, uh, where I might have more hangups in that department.
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  'cause I'm like, oh, am I gonna get this all done and I'll get overwhelmed?
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  And then he's the one who knows how to get it all done, right.
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  So I manifested him very, he's a projector, he's a provider.
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  Through him, I manifested being able to move to other countries, which was a dream that I had for many years.
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  We now own a relocation business where we help people move to other countries.
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  If you're interested in that checkout, entrepreneur expat on YouTube.
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  Um, and in addition to that, you know, I, a lot of the dreams that I had of how I wanted to be in this world.
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  Have come to fruition because I got in my feminine energy and I attracted him.
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  I joke that with him, I got like a three for one, right?
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  I got a husband.
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  I got someone that really understood structure and automations and systems for businesses because you know, I wanna be in my feminine energy all the time.
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  I don't wanna be messing around with tech.
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  And all that stuff.
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  And I want passive income.
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  I want sleep money is what I want.
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  Well, I manifested a husband who knows how to build all that stuff.
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  And then the three for one is that I always wanted to live in other countries and he'd been living in and outta the United States for 10 years and also wanted to live in other countries.
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  So my joke is that I attracted a three for one, right?
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  In terms of, uh, the kind of life that it was that I was trying to create.
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  Um, a lot of it came through my husband, but in order for me to attract my husband, I had to get into my.
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  Feminine energy first and understand that the feminine is what attracts masculine men.
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  In addition to that, right?
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  Um, this YouTube channel that started as a fun side project so I could start sharing, uh, kind of the.
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  The stuff that I'm learning in Mexico from my holistic healing classes and just things that have been really important and really impactful in my life.
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  I think it also has a lot to do, uh, with my mission in this life and my life path.
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  And I had a lot of extra time, right?
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  Because, um, the stuff that I helped my husband with in his business, like doesn't take up all my time.
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  So I had other, uh, things and, and much more time to be creative and express, and he took so much off my plate by automating so much that.
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  Now all I have is time to do things like that.
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  Anyway, I started this as a side project and it started to create passive income, which is something that I've always wanted from core sales and digital core sales.
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  If you look at what my business and my life looked like, like.
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  Five years ago, it did not look like passive income sales coming in completely organically from something like YouTube.
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  I mean, I was making passive income, but I had to run Facebook ads to make the, the passive income.
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  In this case, I, I know for a fact it's been more about.
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  The, the magnetization, uh, of YouTube and then my husband being the one to set up all those structures behind the scenes for me because he knew that this was something that was very, uh, important to me.
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  Right?
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  So.
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  What you wanna do ultimately at the end of the day, and I've seen this come up in the comment section a lot, is that you wanna shift from constantly proving yourself and pushing into receiving and radiating.
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  And I would venture to say that some guys need to learn how to do this too.
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  Because when I did a lot of business coaching, um, whenever some, and the thing is that some men need to learn how to do this, and it's usually the ones who perhaps did not have good, um.
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  Male figures growing up and nobody taught them this.
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  But I remember,'cause I coached women for a long time in, in sales and things like that and I, but I learned a lot from men and I would always notice how men almost had like this internal built in confidence.
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  A lot of the time I've.
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  Since learned that a lot of it has to do with conditioning who the father figure was in the home.
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  I didn't know that back then, but for the most part, right?
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  Men have a lot more built in confidence, uh, than women do.
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  So they don't typically go around trying to prove themselves to other people.
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  That's more women who try to do that and be nice and likable to everyone again,'cause of conditioning and a whole bunch of other things.
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  So what we wanna do is that we wanna shift from constantly having to prove ourselves.
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  To being able to receive and radiate and magnetize.
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  And now let's get into some of the habits of how to do that, right?
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  So here are five feminine energy habits that attract both love and money.
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  'cause remember, they're not that different, right?
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  And by the way, when I say money, I don't just mean physical cash necessarily.
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  I could also mean gifts.
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  I could also mean, uh, manifesting a provider husband who provides for you.
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  Like money and abundance can come in so many different ways that you could not even imagine.
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  And I don't wanna limit us.
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  Uh, to just receiving money through your work, either.
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  It can come in a bunch of different ways.
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  So number one is learning to receive without guilt.
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  Now, I recently did a video on why it's so difficult for women to receive.
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  There's historical context that goes into it.
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  There's survival programming that goes into it.
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  It's not an accident.
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  Why it's become difficult for women to do this because there were times in our history where it was literally unsafe for us in a lot of ways.
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  Um, I was just reading a book about healing the witch wound and my gosh, if you were really like out there during a certain time period in Europe, you were probably getting burned at the stake, right?
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  So, you know, we, we had to be careful, you know, in a lot of ways.
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  To not attract too much attention to ourselves, or we could die.
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  Literally, we could be killed.
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  So there's a reason why women, uh, historical reasons why women have done this.
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  It's been passed down to us.
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  But anyway, receiving without guilt, right?
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  So whether it's a compliment or coffee or cash.
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  Uh, practicing thank you with joy.
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  One of the things that I've noticed that women really struggle with is not just saying thank you, right?
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  'cause, um, somebody could be like, oh, that's a wonderful dress, and you'd be like, oh my God, this whole thing, right?
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  Instead of just saying thank you, or, one thing that happens here in Mexico that's really interesting is I remember I was in town and I told somebody, I was like, oh my gosh, I really love your dress.
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  And she goes, den and den literally translated means to, to your orders.
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  Basically, like, if you want it, I'll give it to you.
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  Is is kind of what it means.
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  And I'm like, what a strange thing to say, right?
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  Like, instead of just saying thank you right.
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  And receiving it, you're like, as if you're gonna take it off your back and give it to me.
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  That's, that's something that kind of happens, uh, here in Mexico.
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  And then I brought that up that night'cause my husband and I, uh, facilitate meditation classes and holistic healing classes here in Mexico with some of our teachers.
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  And I brought that up and they're like, yeah, Mexicans just do that, right?
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  Like, they'll be like.
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  Maybe it's a cultural, it's a cultural thing where they'll be like, anything I got, I'll give it to you, even if they don't actually mean it.
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  So instead of just saying thank you, they're like, oh, I'll take it off my back and give it to you.
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  And again, depending on which culture you come from and how you were raised and what the um, uh, habits are of a culture, then this can kind of vary.
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  But kind of across the board, women kind of struggle.
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  With just saying thank you.
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  The other thing that women struggle with is that even if they do say thank you, they're not very emotional about it.
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  So I think I'm gonna have to put this video up.
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  My husband, uh, got me a swing for the back porch.
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  So we just moved to the Lake Chipotle area.
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  We're living up on a mountain right now.
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  We have this back porch where we have this beautiful view of the lake and a dormant volcano and the mountains.
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  Surrounding the lake.
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  It's absolutely spectacular.
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  We never see the same sunset twice.
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  Uh, I've seen some, I may have put some pictures on it, on the community tab.
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  Well, he got me a swing, right?
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  And he installed it on the back porch so I could like swing back there and enjoy the view.
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  And, and when he says, Hey, I got you a swing.
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  He actually recorded my reaction.
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  And it was a genuine reaction.
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  I was like a little girl, right?
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  I was like, I was so happy.
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  I was so thrilled.
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  Um, I was like, yay.
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  I'll see.
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  And I have part of the video, so I'll see if I put it.
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  In a short or something.
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  It's not just like saying thank you, like you don't wanna say Thank you deadpan, or Thank you deadpan.
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  You know, like, show some emotion behind it, right?
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  Show some joy behind, uh, your thank you.
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  And then let the provision in without apologizing or shrinking or throwing it back to somebody else.
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  Now why?
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  Because the feminine actually.
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  Thrives in receptivity.
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  So if you're blocking small things, you're gonna block the big ones too.
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  The second thing we're gonna wanna do, and this is very, I know this is really hard in Western culture, I've definitely very much struggled with this, is you wanna rest in order to rise.
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  You don't have to earn love or money, right?
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  At least not by exhausting yourself.
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  You definitely don't have to earn love.
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  If anybody's making you jump through hoops or transcend your fears, as we've been hearing lately in the the spiritual community, something's off.
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  Um, so you don't have to exhaust yourself and you don't have to jump through hoops, and you don't have to prove yourself in order to get love or money.
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  This is very difficult for us because many of us come from cultures where making money is hard.
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  Love is hard, everything's hard, and everybody's addicted to struggle.
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  So when you start to prioritize rest and nourishment and stillness, it's pretty much revolutionary in a lot of ways.
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  Because pleasure raises your frequency and open space for intuitive downloads and attraction.
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  I get my best ideas when I'm doing nothing.
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  Now in full transparency, it's difficult for me to do nothing.
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  I remember last week I wasn't feeling well.
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  I had a pretty big headache for some reason, and I went to go take a nap in the middle of the day, and I had a second where I felt bad about taking a nap in the middle of the day.
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  So this is something that we have to really.
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  We have to practice slowing down, right?
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  And a few years ago when I was ready to manifest my husband, when I practiced slowing down and not running at a hundred miles an hour.
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  That's when I attracted my husband.
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  Right?
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  And eventually that turned into ideas like these YouTube channels that now bring us clients and revenue.
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  And this YouTube channel brings passive income into our household for fun, doing something that I enjoy doing and doing something that I love to talk about.
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  The, the thing is that it's very difficult because of how we've been conditioned to trust that we're going to be okay when we rest.
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  That's the challenge and that's why it's a practice.
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  Third thing is emotional expression.
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  So feminine energy is felt.
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  It's not about thinking so much.
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  Right?
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  And I've said this before when I did a lot more business coaching for women, I started to notice this strange phenomenon where a lot of, or when I would train salespeople.
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  I would notice a strange phenomenon where I would see a lot of women living from the neck up, but like from the body down, they're totally shut off.
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  And the thing is that those women were less attractive than the women who really were turned on.
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  And the women who were turned on, to put it that way, is because they were feeling they were more sensory, if that makes sense.
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  And you know, money and men, right?
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  They don't respond to logic.
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  They respond to energy, especially men.
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  Men do not respond to logic.
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  If you wanna learn how to talk to a man, you have to learn to connect with his heart.
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  The way that you learn to connect with his heart is by actually being in tune with your own emotions and expressing those, not in a way that's chaotic, right?
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  But in a way that is respectful and vulnerable.
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  'cause there are lots of women out here who go to the other side of the spectrum and it's just chaos and drama all the time.
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  I don't mean that right.
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  I just mean getting out of your head.
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  And into your heart.
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  So you wanna get in the habit of expressing how you feel, not just what you think.
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  And again, this is very hard for those, for most of us, especially those of us in Western culture, because we're used to like, it's a culture that doesn't necessarily, um, admire or give much, uh, flowers, to put it that way, to feelings, right?
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  Everything is logic above.
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  Everything else.
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  So we have to learn how to get in into those feelings and we have to learn to express them.
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  And the thing is that when you learn how, how to express them, they're less likely to take control of your life anyway.
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  'cause a lot of people are out here sabotaging all day long because they just let their feelings, uh, take over and they let temporary feelings that they don't know how to process or express, make permanent decisions that ruin their lives and sabotage all the time.
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  So you wanna practice using, using, I feel.
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  When you're chatting or when you're journaling, right?
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  I love to journal out my feelings, especially when I'm pissed.
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  I'm just like in the journal and it really helps, um, a lot.
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  Next thing you wanna practice, so important is energetic hygiene.
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  Okay?
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  You don't wanna go be absorbing everybody else's energy or opinions.
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  You need to protect your field, and it's also protecting your nervous system, okay?
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  'cause there's different bodies.
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  To put it that way.
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  So really at the end of the day, what we're ultimately talking about is protecting your nervous system.
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  And right now we're living in a society where there is a constant assault on your nervous system every freaking day.
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  From the moment you wake up to the moment you go to bed, it's constant assault on the nervous system and your different energy bodies.
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  So you wanna learn how to protect, um, your field.
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  Now, some rituals that you can do for this are cord cutting.
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  You can do aura cleansing.
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  Grounding.
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  Grounding is one of my favorites, especially now that I live on a mountain.
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  Um.
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  Prayer, whatever you want.
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  And the idea is that you wanna create feelings of safety in your body, and you also don't wanna be making decisions based on somebody else's feelings or somebody else's thoughts or somebody else's opinions.
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  You wanna be grounded in yourself, and when you're grounded in yourself, you become a lot more.
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  Attractive.
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  There's a whole lot less proving that needs to go on.
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  And what did I say earlier?
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  In order to attract money and in order to attract love, it's not about proving.
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  It's not about proving anything.
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  So when you're grounded in yourself and you're taking care of your nervous system, you're not proving anything anymore'cause you feel safe in yourself.
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  And finally, the next thing that you wanna do is you want sensual self connection.
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  You wanna touch your body with reverence, okay?
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  And what I mean by that is.
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  Even if you are in the shower, sometimes if I'm trying to manifest something, I'll, you know, I'll see myself lathering on the soap and I will um, you know, envision what it is that I wanna manifest.
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  Yesterday we were out at the thermal spas here by the lake.
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  There's a town by the lake that has a natural thermal waters and they're said to have healing properties and they have one that's, uh, for rosemary.
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  So it's like these natural thermal waters that come up.
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  'cause this is a volcanic crater around here.
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  And then they put rosemary in it and it's so.
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  Uh, it just cleanses you totally.
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  'cause Rosemary is a cleansing herb.
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  Rosemary is also good for prosperity.
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  So I was like laying there and I was just like with the water spout that they have for massage, and I'm just like, envisioning money come down.
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  Basically when I was in the, uh, rosemary, uh, jacuzzi for, for the thermal waters.
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  So that's another way that you can do it too.
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  Um, you know, touching your heart, touching your womb.
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  You know, moving your body every day.
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  I've said this a lot, especially in the spiritual spaces.
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  Sometimes there's this idea of where like you cut the body off instead of realizing that your body is a part of this equation in this lifetime.
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  And the thing is that magnetism really at the end of the day, comes more from embodiment, not performance.
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  And in order to embody things, well, what do you gotta do?
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  You gotta get the body on board with what it is that you are trying to do.
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  Um, and when you feel sexy, soft, and safe in your body, which is what we were talking about in the last point, you naturally radiate irresistible energy, right?
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  Because people are like, ah.
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  Because we ultimately, at the end of the day, you wanna know what it is.
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  It's that real recognized reel, if you've ever heard that, right?
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  So if you're not out here performing and you actually feel good in your body and stuff, then other people.
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  Are gonna vibe with that.
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  'cause real recognize real, if you know what I mean.
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  Alright, so here's my personal shift, uh, on this.
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  I've talked a lot about it, but I wanted to give you a concrete example.
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  So the moment that I stopped trying to prove my worth in relationships and what I could do for somebody and all those kinds of things, and I started living more in my feminine, I manifested my husband in four months and like I said, I got a three for one, uh, with my husband because through him I've been able to manifest so many of my dreams that I've had for a very long time in a way that honors more my.
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  Feminine energy.
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  In addition to that, we've come up with new business ideas.
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  Like I said, this YouTube channel has created passive income in the form of core sales.
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  And this is just the beginning.
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  There's gonna be a lot more of them.
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  Um, and then I'll, I'll see what my creativity comes up with in terms of what it is that I desire to do with this.
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  So my health also improved.
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  I man, one of my friends, we went up to the thermal spa and she took a video of me coming out of the, one of the thermal waters, and it almost looks like a temple.
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  The way that they have it set up.
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  I was like, damn, girl, you look good.
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  Right?
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  When I saw that, uh, because my health, uh, improved, my hormones regulated more easily, um, because again, I wasn't even going to the gym with the intention of like, Hey, let me go prove myself.
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  It's just'cause I was taking care of my body and I love myself and that's why, and I was moving energy around and that's why I was doing it.
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  So I hope you guys found this helpful.
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  Once again, make sure to check out our, um.
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  Enhance your feminine energy guide.
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  It's totally free.
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  You can download it below.
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  You can also check out all the other courses that we have available.
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  We're gonna have a lot more coming out on these particular subjects right now.
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  You can find a lot about manifesting money and business and all those kinds of things'cause I've had them for a while.
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  You'll also find a few about nervous system regulation and manifestation, and now the feminine energy ones are incoming.
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  So thank you so much for giving me your time today.
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  Stay radiant and I'll catch you on the next one.