Latest / Toni, Jase & Sam - Breakfast Catchup / Family funeral drama
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- 0:00Speaker 1: Coast Breakfast brought to you by Bargain Chemist their policy
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- 0:06Speaker 2: Tony Jason Sam's feel Good Breakfast Can't Shot podcast.
- 0:11Speaker 1: Today on the show, we spoke to how Great mate
- 0:14Speaker 1: Graham Norton about his fifth.
- 0:15Speaker 3: Book, and why is the Cucumber than You Avocado?
- 0:19Speaker 4: And is it okay to keep a gift from your ex?
- 0:21Speaker 4: What about your current husband and his ex's wedding ring?
- 0:25Speaker 4: One woman found it and what she did with it
- 0:27Speaker 4: is going to blow your mind. You're a friend winging
- 0:43Speaker 4: your way to New York with the New Zealand. It
- 0:46Speaker 4: is the easiest contest to enter your next chance to
- 0:49Speaker 4: just before half past day this morning.
- 0:50Speaker 3: By the way, if you win this, you get ten
- 0:52Speaker 3: thousand dollars to spend.
- 0:53Speaker 1: Ten thousand dollars and you get to holiday with us.
- 0:55Speaker 1: And we're kind of fun, well we like to think
- 0:57Speaker 1: we are, and you'll be if you haven't been to
- 0:59Speaker 1: New York. He'll be exploring it for the first time
- 1:02Speaker 1: with me because I've never been there and I just
- 1:05Speaker 1: I'm so excited to get there.
- 1:07Speaker 3: A Manhattan is wonderful and we cannot wait to show
- 1:09Speaker 3: you that street.
- 1:09Speaker 5: And of course our lovely guests. But we go into
- 1:11Speaker 5: the wide estate as well. We're going to have a
- 1:12Speaker 5: good look around. In fact, we're away for.
- 1:14Speaker 1: Ten days, places like Dutchess County.
- 1:16Speaker 4: Yeah exactly, Hudson Valley, Long Islands, right around New York Island.
- 1:21Speaker 3: Yeah, so that's a first chance.
- 1:23Speaker 4: Just before half past date this morning, Hey, do you
- 1:25Speaker 4: remember a few weeks ago, there's this relationship expert and
- 1:28Speaker 4: he said that women should ditch every man in her
- 1:30Speaker 4: contacts lists and only have one man that should be
- 1:32Speaker 4: her partner.
- 1:32Speaker 3: Otherwise, get rid of all your contexts.
- 1:34Speaker 1: This is this is the relationship experct that Jason has
- 1:36Speaker 1: chosen to follow. That's problem really interesting.
- 1:39Speaker 5: Well, it's the problem with with social media though everyone
- 1:43Speaker 5: just can kind of set up a page and profess
- 1:44Speaker 5: to be an expert.
- 1:45Speaker 1: So what is this expert said? Now, this is why
- 1:48Speaker 1: this bestie it's not my beastie, far from it.
- 1:51Speaker 3: But he's making the news yesterday. This look cool like
- 1:54Speaker 3: this guy again.
- 1:55Speaker 4: So he's come out and he has been slammed in
- 1:57Speaker 4: the media for his barbaric advice for women.
- 2:00Speaker 3: Case.
- 2:00Speaker 4: So two things women don't drink. Don't drink too much.
- 2:03Speaker 4: It's ugly it's don't drinks.
- 2:04Speaker 1: It's okay for men.
- 2:06Speaker 3: That's what I'm thinking.
- 2:07Speaker 1: I'm going to stop following and being friends with the not.
- 2:10Speaker 3: Friends with the guys in the news.
- 2:12Speaker 4: But also he said that women should not wear a
- 2:14Speaker 4: certain thing. What do you think it is that he
- 2:17Speaker 4: should not wear it?
- 2:18Speaker 1: It will either be short skirts or low cut tops.
- 2:21Speaker 3: No, neither that it's way more common. It's way more common.
- 2:25Speaker 3: He thinks women shouldn't wear it. No, No, I know
- 2:29Speaker 3: what it is.
- 2:30Speaker 5: I want to ruin it, though, Jason underwear, because you're
- 2:31Speaker 5: going to put it to the people, and I'm so
- 2:33Speaker 5: confident I've got it right.
- 2:35Speaker 1: I think you've ever got one.
- 2:39Speaker 5: I reckon it's sports, we're active wear. No, it's not
- 2:45Speaker 5: to wear.
- 2:46Speaker 3: It's not heels.
- 2:46Speaker 4: But it's something apparently women you should not wear according
- 2:49Speaker 4: to this pick. So this this relationship experts?
- 2:52Speaker 1: Did you say this pick?
- 2:53Speaker 3: Yes? I think it's a pig. What do you think
- 2:56Speaker 3: it is?
- 2:56Speaker 4: Eight hundred double forecast, Well flicker tis to two six
- 2:59Speaker 4: nine nine. Women should not wear this. There's a guy,
- 3:02Speaker 4: his name is Stealing Cooper. I think this is not
- 3:05Speaker 4: going to show the shock you at all. He's been
- 3:06Speaker 4: adult film star and he's now decided no, no, you know,
- 3:09Speaker 4: I've learned a lot about women over the year, so
- 3:11Speaker 4: now I'm a relationship expert.
- 3:12Speaker 1: Jays just fished him out of the internet. You stumbled
- 3:16Speaker 1: across this.
- 3:17Speaker 4: So this is this is guy who's made headlines a
- 3:19Speaker 4: couple of times now for his ridiculous relationship.
- 3:21Speaker 3: You don't just keep going into your algorithm, don't they?
- 3:24Speaker 1: He lines on some dodgy sites.
- 3:27Speaker 4: I read the Daily Mail and it was on the anyway,
- 3:29Speaker 4: he reckons women should not drink too much and should
- 3:32Speaker 4: not wear a certain thing.
- 3:33Speaker 3: Sandra, what do you reckon? He's saying you shouldn't.
- 3:35Speaker 6: Wear make up?
- 3:39Speaker 3: Yeah, few ticks on two six nine nine saying the
- 3:41Speaker 3: same thing. It's actually not makeup.
- 3:44Speaker 1: Makeup makeup. A guy like that would want us to
- 3:48Speaker 1: leather it on, wouldn't he?
- 3:50Speaker 3: Yeah? Maybe maybe you know it's not in people saying
- 3:52Speaker 3: perfumeal liistic.
- 3:53Speaker 1: Not that even that industry. He's not going for O natural,
- 3:57Speaker 1: just saying forms.
- 3:59Speaker 3: Yeah, how and what do you think it is?
- 4:01Speaker 6: Good morning, guys? How are you good than you good?
- 4:04Speaker 6: Just two things? One Jason as an educated man, please
- 4:08Speaker 6: do God stop. No man ever will ever get to
- 4:12Speaker 6: tell me what to do and if he actually take
- 4:14Speaker 6: on his opinion, but if he doesn't like mine, you
- 4:17Speaker 6: know with the front doors, you know, with the back doors, use.
- 4:19Speaker 3: Either totally agree a lot of them.
- 4:22Speaker 1: So it was your second point, Helen.
- 4:25Speaker 6: I think it's lingerie.
- 4:27Speaker 4: Yeah, you know what, No, he's not. He's not not
- 4:29Speaker 4: saying he's not a fan of lingerie. No women apparently
- 4:32Speaker 4: calling this guy by all means we lingerie.
- 4:34Speaker 3: But what thing? What's the thing you should not we ad? Jade? Beanies? No,
- 4:41Speaker 3: not beanies either.
- 4:43Speaker 5: It's going to be something normal, isn't it issive?
- 4:48Speaker 1: I've got I've got an idea. What it does? Track pants?
- 4:51Speaker 3: You're getting really close.
- 4:52Speaker 1: He doesn't like you wearing sort of sloss.
- 4:56Speaker 3: No, nothing like that. You keep going with the pants,
- 4:59Speaker 3: like going in the pants line. Tights Nope, now he
- 5:02Speaker 3: liked tights, I think, yeah, yeah, So what else is?
- 5:05Speaker 3: What else's cargo pants? Three quarter pants? I don't think
- 5:10Speaker 3: the other pants? Jeans? He reckons women should win jeans again?
- 5:14Speaker 3: What an idiot?
- 5:15Speaker 1: Do you know who the idiots are? The media that
- 5:17Speaker 1: are like putting this guy in the front. Why is
- 5:20Speaker 1: this guy getting a window?
- 5:24Speaker 3: Great?
- 5:24Speaker 1: So do I jeans? Look really nice on the female
- 5:27Speaker 1: form when worn properly. Maybe he's just not a fan
- 5:30Speaker 1: of the current trend of the big baggy mom.
- 5:32Speaker 3: Jean, I don't know. I think he's batting his own
- 5:35Speaker 3: issues to go.
- 5:35Speaker 1: I think he's got his own demons from the industry.
- 5:39Speaker 3: Not the industry hasn't anymore, thank you, Tony.
- 5:41Speaker 4: He's a former adult star now a relationship because he
- 5:45Speaker 4: reckons he knows what women want?
- 5:46Speaker 3: Apparently? Did you know that the cucumber is the new avocado?
- 5:53Speaker 3: Let me explain.
- 5:54Speaker 5: Have you caught wind of the fact that the cucumber
- 5:56Speaker 5: salad is massive right now? It is back back with
- 5:58Speaker 5: a vengeance. Have you been making cucumber salad treating I don't.
- 6:01Speaker 1: Think cucumber river without the cucumber salads last Sime, I
- 6:05Speaker 1: know that, I know, But how is it back?
- 6:07Speaker 5: Because it's going viral right now? People are jumping all
- 6:11Speaker 5: over the cucumber salad.
- 6:12Speaker 3: Have you not seen that?
- 6:13Speaker 1: All I want to say is, if you held an
- 6:15Speaker 1: avocado and a cucumber in front of me right now,
- 6:17Speaker 1: I know which one I'm grabbing and it ain't the cumber.
- 6:19Speaker 5: No, But the problem the problem with the evocado, though,
- 6:22Speaker 5: calorie dance, isn't it with a cucumber salad? A little
- 6:24Speaker 5: bit later on, this is it's a good set. This
- 6:30Speaker 5: is not a takedown of the avocado. It's like it's
- 6:33Speaker 5: a prop up of the cucumber. But it comes with
- 6:35Speaker 5: a problem.
- 6:35Speaker 1: It doesn't have a lot of nutrients in the cucumber.
- 6:37Speaker 1: Isn't it water?
- 6:39Speaker 5: I think that's the point that cucumber is a delicious vegetival,
- 6:42Speaker 5: like you know, if you throw it down with a
- 6:45Speaker 5: little you know, like a spice, a Thai cucumber salad,
- 6:49Speaker 5: you know it's a little sweet chili or some fish sauce.
- 6:52Speaker 3: Why why are you the reason?
- 6:55Speaker 5: I'm actually not that the whole thing is right. A
- 6:56Speaker 5: lot of people were injuring themselves with the using the
- 7:00Speaker 5: avocado because what they would do is they would cut
- 7:02Speaker 5: the avocado in their hand or take the pip out,
- 7:04Speaker 5: and people were getting avocado cuts, right, it's called avocado hands,
- 7:08Speaker 5: avocado hands.
- 7:09Speaker 3: Well, the latest injury.
- 7:10Speaker 5: Is not the avocado hand, it's the cucumber salad, cucumber
- 7:14Speaker 5: salad finger.
- 7:15Speaker 3: And that's the midimal term.
- 7:20Speaker 5: People are getting into their cucumber salads and they're either
- 7:24Speaker 5: not using a mandolin or they're not using the mandolin.
- 7:27Speaker 3: Properly and people are getting terrible slicing injuries.
- 7:30Speaker 1: Sorry, if you can't cut cucumber, it's got no stone
- 7:32Speaker 1: in it. It's just a normal no carrots.
- 7:35Speaker 3: It's hard. Finger is your lease to your problems?
- 7:37Speaker 5: I do you if you get on, if you get
- 7:41Speaker 5: on with your you know, with your mandolin and you're
- 7:43Speaker 5: playing the mandolin like santana and you're going real fast.
- 7:47Speaker 1: Why are you mandolin in your cucumber mandolin?
- 7:50Speaker 5: Well, when you're making heaps of cucumber salads like people
- 7:53Speaker 5: are now, you're having to really work hard on it.
- 7:55Speaker 3: There's no point of using a knife. You've got to
- 7:56Speaker 3: use a mandolin.
- 7:57Speaker 1: Can you just text? It's on two six ninety nine.
- 7:59Speaker 1: Have you up to your Q cucumber consumption? Because I'm not.
- 8:03Speaker 3: I'm in the dark ages of you, Tony.
- 8:05Speaker 1: Also, it feels like a summer food, like who's been
- 8:07Speaker 1: eating hugub sealad in winter? Like it's all shivery, you.
- 8:10Speaker 3: Know, cucumber hand might have come out of the out
- 8:12Speaker 3: of the UK. So you runs slicing the.
- 8:18Speaker 5: This is a public service and go easy. You don't
- 8:20Speaker 5: want a big chunk of your hand and your cucumber
- 8:22Speaker 5: selling it's.
- 8:23Speaker 1: Easy on the qcumber and risk, haven't you?
- 8:25Speaker 3: Which is that's what you're saying? It is a yeah, definitely?
- 8:27Speaker 3: Where do you say that? Because on each I don't
- 8:29Speaker 3: get it. I don't fatigue.
- 8:32Speaker 4: Have you seen this as well? This is a this
- 8:35Speaker 4: is splashed across the papers yesterday.
- 8:36Speaker 3: And again this morning.
- 8:37Speaker 4: So kmart have released a new personal messager and it's
- 8:41Speaker 4: ten dollars and I regret asking this, But Sam, how
- 8:45Speaker 4: would you describe it?
- 8:47Speaker 3: A swan's neck? It's kind of it's an unusual shape
- 8:50Speaker 3: for a message.
- 8:51Speaker 5: If I was really trying to get into my upper doubts,
- 8:53Speaker 5: I don't know if I would be going for one
- 8:55Speaker 5: with that shape.
- 8:56Speaker 1: Well, I've just put this work its purpose. I've put
- 8:59Speaker 1: the cut off on the breakfast. Since and I said,
- 9:02Speaker 1: would you buy km UT's new vibration messager, twenty five
- 9:05Speaker 1: percent of people have seen yes, looks great, twenty five
- 9:07Speaker 1: percent have said no, and the other fifty percent have seid, well,
- 9:10Speaker 1: that's weird.
- 9:11Speaker 4: List is the description messages shoulders neck and back with
- 9:14Speaker 4: ease with this vibration massager, perfectly relaxing after.
- 9:17Speaker 3: A long day of work. A certainly relaction.
- 9:20Speaker 1: I wouldn't trust a ten dollar vibration message.
- 9:23Speaker 3: Would you know? Would you go high end?
- 9:26Speaker 1: You're hiring, but I don't know about the gets powdering out.
- 9:29Speaker 5: The advantage of this, though, is that when your receipt back,
- 9:32Speaker 5: it doesn't say peaches and cream.
- 9:36Speaker 4: That's not what it shoulder read the now you need
- 9:38Speaker 4: to have a look at Coast breakers back take Coast
- 9:42Speaker 4: briefers on Instagram.
- 9:43Speaker 3: Don't have a look.
- 9:45Speaker 2: Coasts Feel Good Breakfast catch Up podcast with Coasts Tony Street,
- 9:50Speaker 2: Jason Reeves and Sam Wallas just after half past night
- 9:53Speaker 2: this morning.
- 9:53Speaker 4: You're going to hear the entire interview with Graham Norton,
- 9:55Speaker 4: which folks are probably about now and a half ago,
- 9:58Speaker 4: because over there, of course, it's the evening in ra
- 10:00Speaker 4: and where he was and we cheted to him about
- 10:02Speaker 4: his new book. He's got five books out now and
- 10:04Speaker 4: that's what we wanted to talk about. But Sam had
- 10:05Speaker 4: another idea. He wanted to talk to Graham Norton about
- 10:08Speaker 4: his hobbies.
- 10:11Speaker 3: We need to find your hobby. What would you what
- 10:12Speaker 3: would you gravitate to?
- 10:13Speaker 1: I reckon like crap. He's a cyclist.
- 10:16Speaker 3: Cyclist is an archery?
- 10:17Speaker 7: What is it Graham, I do cycle, not like humiliating
- 10:23Speaker 7: enough to cycle without the.
- 10:25Speaker 3: Why have you ever been touted at while cycling?
- 10:28Speaker 5: Imagine tooting it, Graham Norton while you Oh god, I
- 10:31Speaker 5: just tooted it, Graham Norton.
- 10:33Speaker 1: Do you know what?
- 10:33Speaker 7: I was cycling long ones and this guy pulled up
- 10:36Speaker 7: alongside me on a bike and went, can I have
- 10:39Speaker 7: a selfie? And I went yes, and he took the
- 10:42Speaker 7: selfie while cycling?
- 10:44Speaker 3: Is that good?
- 10:45Speaker 4: That's annoying but also true, Gram and critic as well.
- 10:50Speaker 4: Congratulations on everything. Ten years ago you won like the
- 10:53Speaker 4: best selling book in Ireland. Here you are teen years
- 10:56Speaker 4: later with your fifth book, Frankie.
- 10:57Speaker 3: It's bright blue. You can't miss.
- 10:58Speaker 4: It's got Frankie on the cover and the words Graham Norton.
- 11:01Speaker 4: By the way, so have all it is there.
- 11:03Speaker 3: It is congratulations. Oh Sam's coffee looks really on red
- 11:10Speaker 3: but he's coldling really well saw that cover. I will
- 11:16Speaker 3: get there.
- 11:19Speaker 4: Third September today, the time exactly fifteen years ago today,
- 11:24Speaker 4: third September two thousand and nine. It was the day
- 11:26Speaker 4: that we laid Michael Jackson to rest. His funeral was
- 11:30Speaker 4: months after he died in June. You know the reason
- 11:32Speaker 4: why it took so.
- 11:33Speaker 1: Long, swobbling over family. I'm dressing It's exactly it.
- 11:36Speaker 4: Janet Jackson wouldn't allow it to go ahead until his
- 11:39Speaker 4: estate repaid her forty thousand dollars that she had to
- 11:42Speaker 4: pay to secure a spot for him at the Forest
- 11:44Speaker 4: Lawn Cemetery. So she ponied up the cash and she's like,
- 11:46Speaker 4: hold on, I want my money back face, can you
- 11:48Speaker 4: release it from the estate. And it took ages, and
- 11:50Speaker 4: that's why the funeral took so long.
- 11:51Speaker 1: Forty thousand dollars with Michael Jackson's estate seems like an
- 11:54Speaker 1: awfully small amount of money. I know when you didn't
- 11:57Speaker 1: think about what those sort of sums that are dealing.
- 11:59Speaker 3: With need to show you around funerals. Billion dollar catalog,
- 12:03Speaker 3: isn't it.
- 12:04Speaker 1: And I tell you what, dramas around death and funerals
- 12:07Speaker 1: is absolutely a thing. And if you've ever had someone
- 12:09Speaker 1: die close to you, you'll know exactly what I mean.
- 12:12Speaker 1: People act strangely and selfishly. But listen to this. This
- 12:16Speaker 1: is an obit that was put in the paper by
- 12:18Speaker 1: a daughter whose mother had died. Right you would assume
- 12:22Speaker 1: a very sad time. Well, this is what the obit
- 12:24Speaker 1: says Florence Flow Harrelson, sixty five, formerly of Chelsea, died
- 12:30Speaker 1: on February the twenty second, twenty twenty four, without family
- 12:34Speaker 1: by her side, due to burnt bridges and a wake
- 12:36Speaker 1: of destruction left in her path. Florence did not want
- 12:39Speaker 1: an obituary or anyone including family, to know she died.
- 12:43Speaker 1: That's because even in death, she wanted those she terrorized
- 12:46Speaker 1: to still be living in fear looking over their shoulders.
- 12:48Speaker 1: So this isn't so much as an obit, but more
- 12:50Speaker 1: of a public service announcement. Her daughter wrote there, Yes,
- 12:54Speaker 1: yes she did what Apparently she hadn't spoken to her
- 12:57Speaker 1: mother in ten years. And this she also went on
- 13:02Speaker 1: to say in Facebook, punctuated it with a line saying
- 13:04Speaker 1: the wizard of oz Ding Dong the witch is dead.
- 13:06Speaker 1: So it kept getting more scathing. Obviously didn't have a
- 13:11Speaker 1: happy arrangement.
- 13:12Speaker 3: No, it's an honest review, isn't it.
- 13:14Speaker 5: I mean, I guess the problem was with speaking all
- 13:17Speaker 5: of the dead is that they have no rebuttal you know,
- 13:19Speaker 5: so you know, and that's probably the case with this
- 13:21Speaker 5: is probably well, they might be two sides to the story.
- 13:24Speaker 3: That's exactly right. Yeah, my take on it is.
- 13:26Speaker 1: It's it's poor taste because even if you felt that
- 13:29Speaker 1: way towards your mother, like you said, Sammy and death,
- 13:35Speaker 1: it's like they have nothing. They can't say anything back.
- 13:37Speaker 4: And I know who gains from that. I think, you know,
- 13:41Speaker 4: just stay classy. I mean she may have wronged you whatever.
- 13:43Speaker 3: You know that that chapter is now over. Yeah, but
- 13:45Speaker 3: can I read you.
- 13:46Speaker 5: A famous quote from Anne Lammittt, who famously said, if
- 13:49Speaker 5: people want you to write warmly about them, they should
- 13:52Speaker 5: have behaved better in life.
- 13:54Speaker 1: Yeah, you don't have to write warmly about them though,
- 13:56Speaker 1: don't do you? You could not write at all class just.
- 14:00Speaker 3: Put the pig down.
- 14:01Speaker 1: No anyway, nor needs to say it that. It has
- 14:03Speaker 1: got us talking about family dramas around death and funerals
- 14:06Speaker 1: and how people come out of the wood work and
- 14:08Speaker 1: behave in ausual ways. And we want to know your stories,
- 14:12Speaker 1: what went down in your family. We've heard it from
- 14:14Speaker 1: Janet Jackson, We've heard it about flow.
- 14:17Speaker 3: What about you?
- 14:18Speaker 4: Eight hundred double o four coasts our phone level, you
- 14:20Speaker 4: can figure it. No names if you don't want you,
- 14:21Speaker 4: that's fine. Flick six to two six nine nine. It
- 14:24Speaker 4: won't be easy to drift away to sleep. Tonight's on
- 14:26Speaker 4: rugged weather on the way across the country. According to
- 14:28Speaker 4: weather man Sam thunderbolts and lightning, very very frightening and.
- 14:31Speaker 3: A panelty's dream today be key. Yeah.
- 14:34Speaker 5: Hey, don't you love a radio audience because you ask
- 14:37Speaker 5: a question and you kind of wonder what's going to
- 14:38Speaker 5: come back?
- 14:39Speaker 3: And you haven't disappointed this morning.
- 14:40Speaker 1: No, this is good. So this is in response to
- 14:43Speaker 1: dramas that have happened around the funeral or in death,
- 14:46Speaker 1: because we just read out a scathing obituary that a
- 14:49Speaker 1: daughter wrote about her mother and included things like.
- 14:52Speaker 3: Tech dong, the witch is dead, King witch is dead.
- 14:55Speaker 1: She's she's died without a family because of the wake
- 14:57Speaker 1: of destruction she left in her path, and the because
- 15:00Speaker 1: even in death, she wanted those she terrorized to still
- 15:02Speaker 1: be living in fear looking over their shoulders. And it
- 15:05Speaker 1: turns out this isn't so far fetched. It's happening closer
- 15:08Speaker 1: to home.
- 15:09Speaker 3: A lot of texts.
- 15:09Speaker 4: On two sixth nine nine, when our mom passed away,
- 15:11Speaker 4: our stepfather sold everything of theirs and gave it all
- 15:14Speaker 4: the way, even precious family things. He then told us
- 15:16Speaker 4: don't expect anything, because I'll be spending it all. This
- 15:19Speaker 4: was after our mum saying he would look after us.
- 15:21Speaker 1: Oh, that's actually so sad, and that is so that
- 15:25Speaker 1: is why we bang on so often about making sure
- 15:27Speaker 1: you've got your will sewn up so it's all specified,
- 15:30Speaker 1: because that can happen.
- 15:32Speaker 3: What about this morning?
- 15:33Speaker 5: My great aunt lived in Portugal and when she died,
- 15:35Speaker 5: she left her two million pounds estate to her cats
- 15:39Speaker 5: and the equivalent of their specia of the SPCI.
- 15:43Speaker 1: How close were you to be your great arms? Wow,
- 15:48Speaker 1: that's interesting, isn't that?
- 15:50Speaker 3: Okay? What does the cat do with it?
- 15:53Speaker 1: Oh? I don't think the cat going I'm going to
- 15:55Speaker 1: put it somewhere. I think the ESPA takes care of it.
- 15:58Speaker 3: Are you ready?
- 15:59Speaker 4: This is quite possibly the worst thing I've read. My
- 16:02Speaker 4: sister wanted and took a necklace from my mother when
- 16:06Speaker 4: she was wearing it in the casket.
- 16:09Speaker 1: She took she reached into the casket and took it
- 16:11Speaker 1: off her bare neck. Yes, wow, that is that is
- 16:14Speaker 1: some greedy stuff right there, sad thins It's fine.
- 16:17Speaker 3: Well no not. All I'm saying is that could could
- 16:20Speaker 3: that have been her one momento?
- 16:21Speaker 1: You know?
- 16:22Speaker 5: Like, is it more important than it goes? It's buried, cremated,
- 16:26Speaker 5: or is it better that someone holds on to that
- 16:28Speaker 5: and has that memory with them.
- 16:29Speaker 3: I don't know. I think there's two sides to that.
- 16:31Speaker 3: I might be wrong.
- 16:32Speaker 4: Well, you might have a point, you know, maybe it's
- 16:33Speaker 4: something that gets passed down through the family, I suppose afterwards.
- 16:36Speaker 3: But if the sister wanted it, I want that and yeah, grabs,
- 16:40Speaker 3: it should be a conversation. Yeah, maybe mum gave it
- 16:44Speaker 3: to you. And if Mum didn't give it to you.
- 16:45Speaker 1: I don't know about this one here while we're on
- 16:48Speaker 1: and it all seems to be relationships with women at
- 16:52Speaker 1: the moment. It's mother's mother in law's mother daughters. I'm
- 16:55Speaker 1: fifty six and I haven't spoken to my mother since
- 16:57Speaker 1: I was thirty two. She won't tell me who my
- 16:59Speaker 1: father is.
- 17:03Speaker 3: The conversation she genuinely doesn't know.
- 17:08Speaker 1: Well, wouldn't you say that if you didn't genuinely know,
- 17:10Speaker 1: or if you know and it's something that you really
- 17:12Speaker 1: don't want to get out, it might.
- 17:14Speaker 3: Be the worst game we can play right now. You
- 17:20Speaker 3: won't say that's the fun? What about Sorry? I didn't
- 17:27Speaker 3: mean to that came out. You don't know where the
- 17:28Speaker 3: teeth came from?
- 17:29Speaker 4: But what about those movies you see like that the
- 17:31Speaker 4: mysterious stranger shows up at the car at the funeral
- 17:34Speaker 4: and standing of the casket holding a black umbrella, dressed
- 17:36Speaker 4: in black you know those ones?
- 17:37Speaker 5: Yeah, and it stands behind the funeral watching on, Yeah,
- 17:40Speaker 5: slightly behind them look shoulder on a foggy day and
- 17:44Speaker 5: there's a horn blowing in the distance.
- 17:46Speaker 3: Give black character drive?
- 17:48Speaker 1: What about? What about when you know Jim dies and
- 17:52Speaker 1: suddenly Jennifer and Lisa and Molly will tune up and
- 17:55Speaker 1: no one knows who they are and the wife's going,
- 17:56Speaker 1: who the hell are you three?
- 17:58Speaker 3: And this is what is mistresses and stuf second life?
- 18:01Speaker 1: Yeah, I can't defend it from the grave.
- 18:03Speaker 3: Can you live a life now?
- 18:06Speaker 4: You're not going to agree when people start talking smack
- 18:08Speaker 4: about you afterwards.
- 18:09Speaker 3: That's probably the best thing we.
- 18:10Speaker 1: Need to talk about Friendships now, and how you let
- 18:13Speaker 1: your friends or your significant other know that you appreciate
- 18:17Speaker 1: them and that you're really happy that part of your life.
- 18:20Speaker 1: And often actions speak louder than words, right, absolutely, But
- 18:23Speaker 1: you can physically say, oh, you're such a good friend
- 18:26Speaker 1: or I love you, But it's actually better on the daily.
- 18:28Speaker 1: If you display your I don't do this well, well,
- 18:33Speaker 1: then maybe you need to take a long, hard look
- 18:35Speaker 1: at yourself. So this is one of the best things
- 18:39Speaker 1: that I've seen online in a long time. So I'll
- 18:42Speaker 1: do this as a checklist. See if you guys are
- 18:43Speaker 1: done anyway. So a birthday card with a long, sprawling note.
- 18:47Speaker 1: No one does No one does it better than Jason.
- 18:51Speaker 3: I've still got cards from Jason that I haven't got
- 18:53Speaker 3: I haven't read them completely.
- 18:58Speaker 1: On the flip side to a funny card, something inappropriate
- 19:06Speaker 1: on it, sharing a meal on a couch together.
- 19:11Speaker 3: Oh yeah my friends.
- 19:12Speaker 1: Yeah, do that with my husband all the time.
- 19:14Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, it's my significant other. But no normal friends,
- 19:18Speaker 3: not as much.
- 19:18Speaker 1: What about this one hand squeezes under the table. I
- 19:21Speaker 1: would definitely do it with my girl friends friends, do
- 19:24Speaker 1: you Yeah, that's cool.
- 19:29Speaker 4: I don know.
- 19:30Speaker 3: I've got to take my hand off the leg to
- 19:32Speaker 3: do it.
- 19:32Speaker 1: So what about this is a tiny love leader to
- 19:38Speaker 1: your friend asking how are you with eye contact? Like?
- 19:42Speaker 1: Not just going? How are you?
- 19:45Speaker 3: Like? I genuinely do that, but how are you? I
- 19:47Speaker 3: would do that if something wasn't right.
- 19:50Speaker 1: Yeah, but maybe you need a check and win things
- 19:53Speaker 1: aren't necessarily.
- 19:56Speaker 5: No, there's different ways to kind of show that here, though,
- 19:58Speaker 5: I think, and guys do it differently, you know, they
- 20:00Speaker 5: with a high five, or they.
- 20:01Speaker 3: Do it with a you know, a chest bump or not.
- 20:04Speaker 1: We can add those two to the list. That's fine
- 20:06Speaker 1: with This is not an exclusive list.
- 20:08Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm quite the hugger, so I'll hug my mates
- 20:09Speaker 4: and mate, I'll genuinely and I'll pay anything you Okay,
- 20:13Speaker 4: what about this one?
- 20:14Speaker 1: This is a tiny love note to your friend? What
- 20:16Speaker 1: shall I bring? I love it when my friends do that,
- 20:19Speaker 1: and mortals is always like nothing, but it's nice to
- 20:22Speaker 1: It's nice for them to ask you because you're like
- 20:24Speaker 1: you actually here that I'm carrying the load here.
- 20:27Speaker 4: But I can't show up empty hands in either though,
- 20:28Speaker 4: So I don't know. That's one of those things. So
- 20:31Speaker 4: I always ask and nothing I'll bring.
- 20:33Speaker 1: Up and then you just throw in some gallop bread
- 20:34Speaker 1: or h What about this one asking what do you need?
- 20:38Speaker 1: You say that to me a lot, Jason? What do
- 20:40Speaker 1: you need? I've heard you say that to me before.
- 20:43Speaker 3: Okay, you know, I don't even.
- 20:44Speaker 1: Know, and I normally say any drink or some jobs.
- 20:47Speaker 1: What about this one? A walk a long walk, a
- 20:50Speaker 1: short ork, or coffee the way you like it. Someone
- 20:52Speaker 1: bringing you a coffee. Yeah, okay, yep, yep, Jase, I
- 20:55Speaker 1: asked you everyday of you on coffee. I was expecting
- 20:57Speaker 1: you to say, generally do that.
- 20:59Speaker 3: You don't. You still don't really drink coffee.
- 21:01Speaker 1: Though he drinks an Americano little lemon water. He drinks
- 21:04Speaker 1: an iced coffee with lots of.
- 21:07Speaker 3: If you know the answer is going to you, aways
- 21:08Speaker 3: ask and I appreciate that.
- 21:09Speaker 1: Yeah, what about this one?
- 21:11Speaker 2: I like this?
- 21:12Speaker 1: I'm Sam. You do this to us on the daily,
- 21:14Speaker 1: and I don't know if this is a lovely or
- 21:15Speaker 1: a punishment. Did you see this and then you show
- 21:19Speaker 1: them something that you've seen to share with them enthusiasm?
- 21:22Speaker 3: I like that. I'm a mean sharer. What have you
- 21:25Speaker 3: read this?
- 21:26Speaker 1: So it might be Oh, have you read Graham Norton's
- 21:28Speaker 1: latest book? Or have you read this with us? It's
- 21:31Speaker 1: so great you should read it. You can borrow my
- 21:33Speaker 1: coffee kind of vibes. What about this one? This made
- 21:36Speaker 1: me think of you? And then you send them something
- 21:39Speaker 1: or this made me laugh because you want them to
- 21:42Speaker 1: laugh as well. This reminded me of that time at
- 21:45Speaker 1: the beach together, or this reminded me of that time,
- 21:47Speaker 1: you know, when we were in Vegas. You know, it's
- 21:49Speaker 1: like a memory. Here's a recipe. When you share a
- 21:51Speaker 1: recipe with someone, Yeah, here's the link. Have a look.
- 21:56Speaker 1: You know, it could be some form of informative things funny.
- 22:00Speaker 3: Do you know what it is? It's it's engaging someone
- 22:03Speaker 3: in shared experience, isn't it. Yeah?
- 22:05Speaker 1: And in that moment, and the last one on my
- 22:08Speaker 1: list here a tiny love letter to a friend is
- 22:11Speaker 1: when you go, here's the name of that restaurant. So
- 22:13Speaker 1: you liked a restaurant and you liked it so much
- 22:15Speaker 1: that you wanted someone close to you to experience it,
- 22:17Speaker 1: to feel that.
- 22:18Speaker 3: Enjoy Yeah, it's like it's a sheared experience. I enjoyed this.
- 22:21Speaker 4: I know you will because I know you so well.
- 22:23Speaker 4: You like this, You love the restaurant, You let this book,
- 22:24Speaker 4: You like this TV series are watching?
- 22:26Speaker 1: Yeah, it just shows you know them and you want
- 22:28Speaker 1: them to have a bit of life. I love it.
- 22:30Speaker 4: Chases on Coast, Now that's something we don't really love,
- 22:36Speaker 4: rolling the Dicesy who gets to play the chases today?
- 22:38Speaker 3: It's six hundred dollars well down tiny street. For building
- 22:40Speaker 3: the winning streak.
- 22:41Speaker 1: Yeah, I scraped through yesterday with a three. I'd rather
- 22:45Speaker 1: not play today since I've played I think five consecutive times.
- 22:47Speaker 1: Someone else can take the rates.
- 22:49Speaker 3: Unfortunately, the dice doesn't roll me anymore.
- 22:51Speaker 1: So, Yeah, I've heard of this game. I think you
- 22:53Speaker 1: two would love it. Here we go again. If you
- 23:00Speaker 1: two were good friends and had a lovely for me,
- 23:02Speaker 1: it would be like, I'll take your.
- 23:05Speaker 4: I think between you and me, I'll seven years five
- 23:09Speaker 4: the thirteen.
- 23:10Speaker 3: I am potentially going up two weeks without playing.
- 23:12Speaker 1: Yeah, but the good news is if this carries on,
- 23:14Speaker 1: we'll be heading over one thousand dollars.
- 23:16Speaker 3: Yeah, right until I play. Yeah, oh one hundred, double
- 23:20Speaker 3: oh four. Coast just be called a team right now.
- 23:22Speaker 3: Good luck.
- 23:26Speaker 2: Thanks for listening to the Feel Good Breakfast catch up
- 23:29Speaker 2: podcast with Coast Tony Street, Jase Reeves, and Sam Wallas.
- 23:33Speaker 3: The chases on Coast.
- 23:38Speaker 6: Him my name Helen. I'm from Bonedan, and if I
- 23:41Speaker 6: went today, I will be putting the six hundred dollars
- 23:43Speaker 6: towards a new week for myself, a new wig.
- 23:46Speaker 3: What color you gonna go, Helen, You're gonna go blond.
- 23:47Speaker 3: You're gonna bruing it. What sort of color of the
- 23:49Speaker 3: week you're gonna go?
- 23:50Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm going to go full on pink you know,
- 23:52Speaker 6: the platinum blonde?
- 23:53Speaker 3: Oh yeah, why not pink wig?
- 23:54Speaker 1: Actually?
- 23:55Speaker 6: Yeah, you know thinks starting the star. You know she
- 23:58Speaker 6: had that beautiful platinum colored hair.
- 24:00Speaker 1: Oh, she means to paint the actress with playing the actress?
- 24:03Speaker 3: Party? We why not?
- 24:06Speaker 1: Whatever floats you both, I'm to judge.
- 24:09Speaker 3: Okay, thank you.
- 24:10Speaker 4: So Tony's gonna leave the studio now she can't hear
- 24:12Speaker 4: what's about to happen. What we're going to do a
- 24:13Speaker 4: start o'clock with thirty seconds on it. And during those
- 24:16Speaker 4: thirty seconds, Sam's going to read you some questions you
- 24:18Speaker 4: can pass. If we have time, we'll come back to
- 24:19Speaker 4: those ones. Otherwise you'll take your first answer only, and
- 24:22Speaker 4: it doesn't matter what you get, because if Tony can't
- 24:24Speaker 4: match you, you win that six hundred dollars for your
- 24:26Speaker 4: pink wig.
- 24:26Speaker 3: Are you ready?
- 24:27Speaker 6: Perfect? Thank you?
- 24:28Speaker 3: Okay, your time starts now. Who is considered the father
- 24:32Speaker 3: of relativity?
- 24:34Speaker 6: Huh?
- 24:35Speaker 3: What is the first animal to be ever cloned?
- 24:39Speaker 1: Yes?
- 24:40Speaker 3: And what galaxy is our solar system located? Huh? What
- 24:44Speaker 3: does South African Rugby apologize to the All Blacks for.
- 24:48Speaker 5: Or the try No, what is the chemical chemical symbol
- 24:53Speaker 5: for the mercury element mercury?
- 24:57Speaker 1: Huh?
- 24:57Speaker 3: What galaxy is our solar system located? It comes at
- 25:02Speaker 3: your fast day?
- 25:03Speaker 1: There?
- 25:03Speaker 3: Clock picks down quickly. That's one might be enough because
- 25:06Speaker 3: I'll be.
- 25:07Speaker 5: Honest, that's sound a tricky well, that's the problem, see
- 25:09Speaker 5: producer roses away.
- 25:10Speaker 3: So the questions and quite science? Aren't they?
- 25:15Speaker 1: That you wrote the questions today? I did? So? What
- 25:20Speaker 1: is hell? You?
- 25:22Speaker 3: One?
- 25:23Speaker 1: It was like that?
- 25:24Speaker 3: And I think Helen kicked U off? I think Helen
- 25:26Speaker 3: you one of the other ones.
- 25:27Speaker 1: Never ever have a go at Rosie again? For the questions.
- 25:31Speaker 5: Were probably a space question and there too.
- 25:40Speaker 3: Yeah, let's start with that. Your time starts now? And
- 25:49Speaker 3: what galaxy is our solar system?
- 25:51Speaker 1: Milky way? Yes, I got a space question.
- 25:55Speaker 3: This is a great day. What about this one? Who
- 25:57Speaker 3: is considered the father of relativity.
- 26:01Speaker 1: Isaac Newton? No, the other one Albert Einstein?
- 26:05Speaker 3: What was the first animal to ever be cloned?
- 26:08Speaker 1: A sheep?
- 26:08Speaker 3: Yes? What does South African Rugby apologize? The All Blacks four?
- 26:13Speaker 1: Was that the knock on?
- 26:16Speaker 3: I should have apologized, apologize the referee apologized for that. No,
- 26:19Speaker 3: it was the the A three eighty over the top
- 26:22Speaker 3: of the hack.
- 26:22Speaker 1: I actually just talked about that this morning, Yeah, the disturbance.
- 26:25Speaker 3: And said it was it was what is the chemical
- 26:28Speaker 3: symbol for the element mercury? M no HG. Tough question.
- 26:40Speaker 1: A whole qu on science. Apologize, Helen, it.
- 26:47Speaker 4: Was anyway, we now playing for seven hundred dollars tomorrow.
- 26:52Speaker 3: An entire it's a science segment.
- 26:55Speaker 1: Now tomorrow, get rolled. I think it's only fear if
- 26:59Speaker 1: you year old. I'm going to do a whole quiz
- 27:01Speaker 1: on rom Com chick clips roll.
- 27:06Speaker 3: You know that you can't get someone out of your head.
- 27:08Speaker 4: Maybe you know the relationship ended and it wasn't your idea,
- 27:10Speaker 4: but you've got these momentos from them.
- 27:11Speaker 3: They gave you things during the relationship. Do you keep
- 27:14Speaker 3: those or do you cul them?
- 27:15Speaker 1: Even if the breakup was your idea? Are you throwing
- 27:18Speaker 1: away a bracelet given to you by your sixteen year
- 27:22Speaker 1: old boyfriend, your first love? What do you do with it? Like?
- 27:26Speaker 1: Do you put it away in a little basket? Or
- 27:29Speaker 1: and then you get a new partner and they're like,
- 27:30Speaker 1: what's that?
- 27:32Speaker 3: I really don't have many mementos.
- 27:34Speaker 1: I think girls have lots of momentary things, probably more.
- 27:37Speaker 1: I'm thinking like little pieces of joy. Like I've got
- 27:38Speaker 1: a few bracelets and necklaces and things. You kept all
- 27:41Speaker 1: of them, I think, so I don't wear any of
- 27:43Speaker 1: them in my jewelry box somewhere.
- 27:45Speaker 3: Ye bad luck to hold on to kind of, I
- 27:48Speaker 3: don't think so.
- 27:48Speaker 1: I think it's a natural progression.
- 27:50Speaker 3: You have relationships, they end to I cannot think of anything.
- 27:54Speaker 1: You have a coffee table.
- 27:55Speaker 3: No, there's a coffee table. But that's a great story.
- 27:58Speaker 3: You've got a coffee table. You keept the coffee table.
- 28:00Speaker 3: I was trying to work out the great story.
- 28:02Speaker 1: Well, what's the story?
- 28:03Speaker 3: Tell us all, judge, we will tell you. I like
- 28:07Speaker 3: to write their own reviews. The story was I was
- 28:11Speaker 3: dating a girl and she couldn't really afford the rent.
- 28:16Speaker 1: So so you were living there?
- 28:18Speaker 3: Yeah?
- 28:19Speaker 1: And then I was so serious.
- 28:20Speaker 5: It was a few years ago, decase. And then she
- 28:24Speaker 5: up and moved to London and paid for everything. So yeah,
- 28:27Speaker 5: and I was like, hang on a second, you had
- 28:29Speaker 5: no money.
- 28:30Speaker 1: I'll tell you what she was saving for London.
- 28:34Speaker 5: One thing, one thing that she contributed to our flat
- 28:38Speaker 5: was the coffee table and boys.
- 28:39Speaker 3: Did I hold onto that for a few years?
- 28:41Speaker 1: Did she ask to sell it? Yeah, and you said no,
- 28:45Speaker 1: you said no, I've been probably it's my fee.
- 28:51Speaker 4: I don't think I've got anything from exes over the years.
- 28:53Speaker 4: I don't think so.
- 28:55Speaker 3: But you're a version. You're twenty four. Sorry, mum, So
- 29:06Speaker 3: what about you? Have you kept stuff from your ex?
- 29:08Speaker 1: What have you got? Maybe you've got like the you've
- 29:10Speaker 1: still got the house that you shared and then they've
- 29:12Speaker 1: sold like it could be anything.
- 29:13Speaker 3: Would be anything. Did you get the sports car? The
- 29:18Speaker 3: sports car?
- 29:19Speaker 1: Maybe you hid his golf clubs because you didn't want
- 29:22Speaker 1: him to have them and you went sucker and they
- 29:24Speaker 1: sold them.
- 29:25Speaker 3: Yeah? What have you kept? Should you even keep stuff?
- 29:27Speaker 3: What do you reckon?
- 29:27Speaker 4: I eight hundred double four cars phone number I figure
- 29:30Speaker 4: texts to two six and nine nine. We're talking about
- 29:32Speaker 4: whether to keep or to cull things from your ex.
- 29:34Speaker 4: The Synday Morning Herald have this article about it, and
- 29:37Speaker 4: they had all sorts of things and they're like watches
- 29:38Speaker 4: the people have kept over the years, of vacuum cleaners, rings, headphones.
- 29:43Speaker 1: Start with this text. This is brilliant. There's a lady
- 29:46Speaker 1: in my area who drives a nice late model sports
- 29:49Speaker 1: car that has a personalized plate saying was his. It
- 29:52Speaker 1: makes me laugh every time I see it. That's so good.
- 29:56Speaker 3: I love it about the thing. Have you keept anything
- 29:58Speaker 3: from the ex? Or do you reckon that? Just get
- 30:00Speaker 3: rid of it? Colleen, what's your thoughts on this?
- 30:01Speaker 1: What have you?
- 30:02Speaker 3: What have you done?
- 30:04Speaker 2: Oh?
- 30:04Speaker 8: Well, we had a button jar in my kids were
- 30:06Speaker 8: walking straugh and it had a ringer note and said,
- 30:09Speaker 8: oh poses this ring? And I said it was the
- 30:12Speaker 8: dads when he was married to someone else, and so
- 30:16Speaker 8: we didn't need it. So we pawned it and I
- 30:19Speaker 8: took the kids to McDonald's lunch.
- 30:22Speaker 3: Was it? Was it worse?
- 30:23Speaker 1: Was it worth a big mat combo? Or was the
- 30:26Speaker 1: ring worth? Slightly?
- 30:27Speaker 3: Had a fish as well? Come on, you're the porn
- 30:30Speaker 3: shop's dream. You're like, I don't care what you give me.
- 30:32Speaker 3: I don't care you give me six bucks?
- 30:35Speaker 8: Absolutely?
- 30:37Speaker 3: And Colin, did your husband?
- 30:40Speaker 1: Is he?
- 30:41Speaker 3: Yeah?
- 30:41Speaker 1: He knew about it.
- 30:42Speaker 6: Yes, he was standing here at the door looking at me,
- 30:45Speaker 6: I wondering what.
- 30:46Speaker 1: I'm talking about. He enjoyed that six packet nuggies, didn't
- 30:49Speaker 1: he didn't come?
- 30:52Speaker 3: Did we get to go another one? On that kind
- 30:56Speaker 3: of the porn shop theme.
- 30:57Speaker 5: About ten years ago, I sold a yellow old identity
- 31:00Speaker 5: bracelet given to me by my boyfriend when I was
- 31:02Speaker 5: about twenty two as new I'd never.
- 31:06Speaker 3: Wear it again and only wear white, gold or silver.
- 31:09Speaker 3: Pay quite well too, Chris.
- 31:10Speaker 1: Yeah, well, if you're not going to use it, I mean,
- 31:13Speaker 1: I mean saying that. How many things momentos and momentos
- 31:17Speaker 1: aren't they?
- 31:17Speaker 5: Yeah?
- 31:18Speaker 4: Yeah, listen to this horrible one. My ex torched everything
- 31:20Speaker 4: that was valuable available to me. I came home to
- 31:22Speaker 4: a bonfire, having been alerted by the neighbors.
- 31:25Speaker 1: Oh wow. And then there's some more serious texts here.
- 31:28Speaker 1: I kept the kids. I won. I gained love and
- 31:30Speaker 1: respect and two grandkids that love me. That sounds like
- 31:33Speaker 1: a bit of a bitter one.
- 31:34Speaker 3: But a win though. Yeah.
- 31:35Speaker 4: And also I think this is a win too, this
- 31:37Speaker 4: poul bugger who kept the p S three even though
- 31:39Speaker 4: she wanted me to send it back to Scotland.
- 31:41Speaker 3: So well done. Made you keep the PS three yep.
- 31:43Speaker 1: And I'm sure you've had a lot of joy out
- 31:45Speaker 1: of that gaming.
- 31:46Speaker 3: There you go, And there's some great games on PARS three.
- 31:49Speaker 3: Oh that's og grant.
- 31:50Speaker 1: I still have crashed Bandicoot.
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