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As a Matchmaker - My Thoughts on Stay-at-Home Girlfriends · Secrets They'll Only Tell a Matchmaker with Gina Hendrix

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  As a professional matchmaker, I have some thoughts on this whole
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  stay at home girlfriend concept. All right, hang on.
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  Buckle up baby. First of all, I am not jealous.
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  I happen to work in the business of finding the most ridiculously
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  gorgeous women on the planet for my guys.
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  OK, couldn't be good as a as a matchmaker if you felt
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  threatened or jealous or insecure about other women.
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  So it's not that at all. It's it's just knowing what men
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  really say about women. Hang on.
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  And this is what I think a lot of women don't understand when
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  they're going for the, you know, they're aspiring to be a kept
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  woman. They want a guy to pay their
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  bills. They want it the to be the stay
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  at home girlfriend or whatever that those shenanigans are.
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  What they don't realize is that decision.
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  That decision will haunt them for a very, very long time.
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  For will haunt them for a very, very long time.
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  And I'm not saying this based on my personal feelings.
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  Hell, I don't give shit what anybody does.
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  You do. You OK?
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  I do. Me.
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  You do to you. But what I do know is that if
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  any of my guys, I could not present a woman to any of my
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  clients for matchmaking. If they knew.
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  If they knew that she had been, you know, a paper pay for play
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  kind of lady that's willing to be on the payroll, all right,
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  they immediately lose respect. And it's fine if you just want
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  to be the arm candy the girl for today.
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  But if you're looking for a future with like one of these
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  kind of guys and you want to be the wife and mother of his
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  children, that honey, that ain't going to happen.
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  It's just not going to happen. And again, you can say it's old
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  fogey advice, You can say a lot of things, but I've worked with
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  male clients as young as 25, yes, super successful Ivy
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  League, 25 year old guys on up, on up.
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  And years ago when I was first starting my business and I
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  didn't know better, right? I sent a profile to a guy.
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  She was new to the database. I didn't know her that well.
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  And he says Gina, you know, she's a paid escort.
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  I didn't know, 'cause, you know, sometimes you don't know unless
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  another unless a guy tells you, you know.
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  And so obviously he wouldn't let me set him up with her.
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  He didn't want to meet her. He recognized her and and so
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  just know what you're doing. Hey, I don't care.
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  Do you? If you love it, go for it, go
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  for it. But I'm telling you, it's the
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  wrong play. If you're really looking for a
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  long term plan with a super wealthy guy, you do not want to
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  take the easy shortcut to just being the stay at home
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  girlfriend and getting your bills paid.
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  You got to think bigger than that, ladies think bigger than
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  that. All right.
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  I hope it helps.