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No, You Won't Cluck Like a Chicken: What Hypnosis Really Does. · Inside The Moms Club

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  Speaker 1: Welcome, moms. Welcome to Inside the Mom's Club. I'm your
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  Speaker 1: host Monica Samuels, and I'm here with my co.
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  Speaker 2: Host, Julie orchid Age.
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  Speaker 1: Monica, Monica, nice to be back with you here in Austin,
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  Speaker 1: our hometown.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, I'm so excited to not I love La,
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  Speaker 3: but it's so excited not to pack a bag and
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  Speaker 3: have to travel and you know, leave the dogs, the
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  Speaker 3: whole thing so.
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  Speaker 1: Well, and traveling these days has gotten.
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  Speaker 3: So Yeah, you want to be able to get through
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  Speaker 3: the airport and get yeah.
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  Speaker 1: And I also I deal with anxiety anyways, so.
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  Speaker 3: I find it just fine to travel with you, just
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  Speaker 3: so you know, well, that's good, but you have some
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  Speaker 3: things you could work out a little bit, as your
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  Speaker 3: friend and co hosts.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, one of the most disturbing moments for me in
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  Speaker 1: my whole life is when the pilot comes on the
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  Speaker 1: over the speaker. I mean, you've gotten off on the
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  Speaker 1: tarmac and you're then all of a sudden, you stop
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  Speaker 1: and nice can stop for a little while, but when
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  Speaker 1: he comes over and says, we don't know when we're
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  Speaker 1: going to get to leave. It could be two, four
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  Speaker 1: or five hours. We're just not sure. Yeah, and then
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  Speaker 1: I know I'm not supposed to stand up without getting arrested.
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  Speaker 1: Possibly right then I have a massive panic attack.
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  Speaker 3: Right, and this is for me on the ski lift
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  Speaker 3: when it stops mid air, very similar kind of feeling, yeah,
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  Speaker 3: or like you want to get off but you can't.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, Well I don't even do that because I'm
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  Speaker 1: so away.
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  Speaker 2: I'm gonna That's one place.
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  Speaker 3: I don't think that you and I should be on
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  Speaker 3: the same seat.
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  Speaker 1: The sad thing about anxiety is not like there's certain
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  Speaker 1: things that I don't even risk anymore. Like I'm not
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  Speaker 1: going to risk being on a gondola that stops. So
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  Speaker 1: how do I fix that I don't get on it? Well,
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  Speaker 1: I don't want to be on the roller coaster that.
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  Speaker 3: Stops, right right. I think you should stick more to
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  Speaker 3: your everyday life anxieties and pressures.
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  Speaker 1: You mean, don't risk the ones that are not okay.
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  Speaker 2: Let me ask you a question.
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  Speaker 3: You got trouble I stay in the same room with you,
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  Speaker 3: I know, But does that mean like I have a
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  Speaker 3: few too, But do you have fun anymore?
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  Speaker 1: Like I like, actually like writing on a roller coaster.
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  Speaker 1: I think that's fun. I know what, I can't do
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  Speaker 1: it anymore, because what if it stops, Well, then all
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  Speaker 1: of a sudden, it's like they have to call ems
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  Speaker 1: over because I'm gonna lose that.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, you can't be the what if girl? You
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  Speaker 3: know how I am about that.
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  Speaker 1: That's what anxiety has.
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  Speaker 3: It won't let me go anywhere without dropping off the
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  Speaker 3: luggage first. Yes, I know, because someone might go into
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  Speaker 3: the car. Yeah, this is a true story. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Well, you know what the good news is, I think
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  Speaker 1: we might have some kind of solution here. I'm learning
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  Speaker 1: all the solutions I went to and I was an
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  Speaker 1: event and planner, and we talked to someone who does
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  Speaker 1: biofeedback and eurofeedback. There are so many great solutions there
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  Speaker 1: are dealing with anxiety other than just what your suggestion was,
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  Speaker 1: which is just quitting altogether.
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  Speaker 3: Because the person that we have today, I'm not sure
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  Speaker 3: we have enough time for all the questions.
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  Speaker 2: I want to get right to.
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  Speaker 4: I'm very excited about it right now. It's very exciting.
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  Speaker 4: She is a certified clinical hypnotherapist. She has a background
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  Speaker 4: in arts and entertainment industry, with expertise also in the
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  Speaker 4: corporate sector. In her practice, she specializes in all types
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  Speaker 4: of anxiety. Yeah, that works for us, resulting in unwanted
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  Speaker 4: behaviors like vaping, smoking, nail biting, insomnia which I deal
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  Speaker 4: with that too, panic attacks which are just described grief,
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  Speaker 4: stage fright, writer's block, procrastination.
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  Speaker 1: I think we might have a solution. I might actually
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  Speaker 1: get to live life and ride the roller coaster again.
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  Speaker 1: Please welcome, Suzanne Britton. Welcome to the Mom's Club. Hi,
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  Speaker 1: thank you so.
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  Speaker 2: Much, him, thank you for having me. This is so exciting.
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  Speaker 1: I am so thrilled because I feel like I'm always
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  Speaker 1: looking for a way to deal with some of these issues,
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  Speaker 1: and the anxiety is one of the worst because as
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  Speaker 1: an adult, you don't want to admit, oh my gosh,
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  Speaker 1: I'm I can't I can't sit here, and I mean.
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  Speaker 2: Like I've got to get up, like I'm heah.
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  Speaker 1: You don't want to admit that. And we actually have
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  Speaker 1: a friend who's a man who he's dealt with a
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  Speaker 1: lot of panic issues, panic attacks and anxiety, and I
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  Speaker 1: know that doesn't feel good for him or his wife.
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  Speaker 1: People don't want to admit that they have that. So
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  Speaker 1: it's nice to know that there's yet another solution for that.
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  Speaker 1: And you specialize in agnosis.
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  Speaker 2: Exactly. Yes, exactly. I specialize in in hypnosis, but I
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  Speaker 2: also have diploma in mind body psychology, so I can
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  Speaker 2: kind of attack it at all angles. But under under hypnotherapy,
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  Speaker 2: the umbrella is anxiety. The reason why we do or
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  Speaker 2: don't do bad habits is or why we do bad
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  Speaker 2: habits is because of anxiety. And what I try and
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  Speaker 2: do is undo those habits, and I do it all
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  Speaker 2: through hypnosis. When it comes to panic attacks, right, nobody
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  Speaker 2: wants to feel a panic attack. It's like you're having
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  Speaker 2: a heart attack. It's terrible. I know people that have
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  Speaker 2: debilitating panic attacks, well, they feel very much. Really is anxiety, Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: they do. They feel very much like that. I've been
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  Speaker 2: in hospitals with friends that have had panic attacks, and
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  Speaker 2: it's all about past stuff. Right, If we can't stop
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  Speaker 2: thinking about the past, then we're going to be anxious,
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  Speaker 2: because that's really what it is. It's stuff from your
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  Speaker 2: past that you're bringing into your present. Like when you're flying, right,
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  Speaker 2: you've had bad experiences flying, All of us fed bad experiences,
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  Speaker 2: so it can create this sort of anxious firm just
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  Speaker 2: you know, Oh, I got to get up Earllian, and
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  Speaker 2: I got to make sure I have everything and there's
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  Speaker 2: a certain amount of anxiety there too. But the big
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  Speaker 2: anxiety is when you're on the plane and you're starting
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  Speaker 2: to freak out because of either turbulence because you know
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  Speaker 2: what that feels like from before, or you have this
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  Speaker 2: really weird phobia about flying that you've never even experienced
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  Speaker 2: anything traumatic, but yet you still fear it. That's called
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  Speaker 2: a phobia. A fear is something you've ex experience and
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  Speaker 2: it scares you, and I phobia is something you haven't
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  Speaker 2: really experienced. It just scares you.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I okay. So this brings to the question of
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  Speaker 3: hypnotic therapy. I mean a lot of our you know,
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  Speaker 3: the people are listening obviously either have a therapist or
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  Speaker 3: have done talk therapy or E M d R. I
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  Speaker 3: mean so many things. So explain to us how the
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  Speaker 3: process of doing hypnotic therapy works and how long do
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  Speaker 3: you do it and do you do it every time?
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  Speaker 2: So great question. So for cognitive behavioral therapy or for
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  Speaker 2: talk therapy, it's wonderful. I it's it's wonderful, and it
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  Speaker 2: gets you to what your issue is and that's that's
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  Speaker 2: where it can stay. Sometimes can feel like you're stuck there,
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  Speaker 2: like great, Okay, now I know I have a fear
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  Speaker 2: of heights, not now what I know where it came from,
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  Speaker 2: but like now, what right? Right? So what I do
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  Speaker 2: is I go deep into your subconscious mind and change
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  Speaker 2: those neural pathways from how you were thinking before, like
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  Speaker 2: you were scared, and I help you heal those neural
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  Speaker 2: pathways of that thought of I'm scared or I'm frightened
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  Speaker 2: or whatever it is, I'm panicking, and I change them
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  Speaker 2: into now, I'm okay, this is irrational. I know that
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  Speaker 2: I can do this. I know that I can go
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  Speaker 2: climb up a ladder, or get on an airplane, or
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  Speaker 2: touch a dog that you that I thought would bite me.
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  Speaker 2: So it's all about going deeper where therapists kind of
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  Speaker 2: leave off. That's that's where I come.
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  Speaker 3: And do we spend the most of our time in
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  Speaker 3: the subconscious?
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  Speaker 2: Well, yeah, actually, that's funny. You said that probably eighty
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  Speaker 2: eight to ninety percent of our decision making is from
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  Speaker 2: our subconscious mind.
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  Speaker 3: Monica.
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  Speaker 2: I know a lot of people are wait, what, oh, no,
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  Speaker 2: I'm contrasticing. I'm going to the store and picking things out. Well,
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  Speaker 2: of course that's conscious decision making. But you know, when
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  Speaker 2: we marry people sometimes we marry our mothers, sometimes we
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  Speaker 2: marry our fathers, and we do it. It's a form
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  Speaker 2: of homeostasis. It's a form of being comfortable even though
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  Speaker 2: you're uncomfortable, being uncomfortable in your comfort, and vice versa.
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  Speaker 2: It's very confusing a lot of the times we're doing things,
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  Speaker 2: thinking things that you know that we we're just subconsciously
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  Speaker 2: making choices about and we don't even know it.
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  Speaker 5: Wow.
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  Speaker 1: So when you say you change your neuropathways through the
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  Speaker 1: process of hypnosis, is it something that you like? You
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  Speaker 1: go through the process, you do the therapy. I pay
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  Speaker 1: for you to take me through the first session, and
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  Speaker 1: we do it. I say, oh, I need it again.
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  Speaker 1: Does it get to a point where I don't feel
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  Speaker 1: that anxiety anymore because my brain is rewired to think differently?
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  Speaker 1: Or I have to keep going back to you every
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  Speaker 1: time I need to go on an airplane and you
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  Speaker 1: need to put me under hypnosis so that I is
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  Speaker 1: it something that it just literally changes what you're feeling
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  Speaker 1: and it gets rid of that feeling?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah?
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  Speaker 3: Oh yeah.
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  Speaker 2: For some people it's therapeutic imagery. Like I'll say to them,
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  Speaker 2: you know, do you have a loved one that passed
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  Speaker 2: and they'll say, yeah, my grandfather was very close to him,
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  Speaker 2: and I'll give him some imagery like, well, just pretend
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  Speaker 2: your grandpa's hands right or under the plane, Oh, and
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  Speaker 2: they're carrying the plane to safety. Really loves bring comfort
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  Speaker 2: that way some people, Right, isn't that beautiful? And people
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  Speaker 2: are religious and and I'll talk and I'll say, you know,
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  Speaker 2: just pretend that God or Jesus's hands are carrying the
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  Speaker 2: plane and you're and you're in safe hands. Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: I like that a lot. I mean, I've been told that. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: it's all the mind, right. So I did look at
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  Speaker 3: theory of the mind that you sent over to us,
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  Speaker 3: which a lot of people can't see right now. But
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  Speaker 3: it's very interesting because I told Monica earlier when we
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  Speaker 3: were reading about you, that I have been known in
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  Speaker 3: my life to live in my primitive mind fight or flight,
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  Speaker 3: you know what I mean, that kind of spacing in
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  Speaker 3: your brain, which I think is common for a lot
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  Speaker 3: of people once they start to have therapy, whether it's
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  Speaker 3: hypnotic or whatever, or talk therapy that you a lot
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  Speaker 3: of people find out this is the place that you've
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  Speaker 3: been operating from, which in turns seems to be very,
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  Speaker 3: very stressful. So can you speak to the different levels
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  Speaker 3: of the mind and especially you know the how.
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  Speaker 2: A primitive mind? A primitive mind, sure, so, primitive mind
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  Speaker 2: has has four parts to it. It's your fight, flight, freezer, fond.
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  Speaker 2: When you're in fight, you're fighting a situation, or you're
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  Speaker 2: fighting yourself. When you're in flight, you're like I'm out, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: or you lose yourself right, you leave yourself with drugs, alcohol, cutting,
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  Speaker 2: biting your nails, pulling your hair. Freezing is when you're blocked.
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  Speaker 2: You're like, I don't know what to do. I'm stuck unblocked, Okay,
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  Speaker 2: And a lot of people feel that way in marriages
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  Speaker 2: or relationships or at work or trying to make a choice.
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  Speaker 2: And then the fawning is what moms do.
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  Speaker 5: Right.
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  Speaker 2: We have our boundaries, but we let everybody cross them
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  Speaker 2: so that they're fine. Right, you know, you eat, I'll
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  Speaker 2: eat later or no, no, let me just run myself
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  Speaker 2: where again, I'll shower in two weeks. Don't worry you
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  Speaker 2: go ahead and do you. It's kind of right.
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  Speaker 3: Don't worry about me, got it?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, especially new moms, new moms, but yeah, so and
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  Speaker 2: at work too, we're fauners at work. Women fawn all
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  Speaker 2: the time, and so we either cross our own boundaries
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  Speaker 2: to please others to spider own needs, or we let
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  Speaker 2: them cross ours. Oh wow, So so primitive mind rules
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  Speaker 2: a lot. It rules a lot of what we do
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  Speaker 2: or don't do because it's keeping us safe. Our primitive
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  Speaker 2: mind is saying, look, I'm not here to make you happy, honey,
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  Speaker 2: I'm here to protect you.
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  Speaker 3: Protect you.
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  Speaker 2: So you're just going to have ruminating thoughts all over
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  Speaker 2: the place. People will always say should have, could have,
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  Speaker 2: woulda why didn't I? I should have done this, I should
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  Speaker 2: have done that. That's just anxiety from your past. It's
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  Speaker 2: primitive mind keeping you protected. So what's well?
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  Speaker 1: Also, really quick question before I ask my real my
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  Speaker 1: actual question. Does does this work for for not you know,
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  Speaker 1: like eating too much sugar? Like can you lose weight
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  Speaker 1: doing this? Because I read through the whole list and
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  Speaker 1: if that's the case, I mean I will definitely. I
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  Speaker 1: asked you calling you about because you know I eating
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  Speaker 1: obsessively as a way, Like there's nail biting and all
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  Speaker 1: these things. Is that another form of like that this
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  Speaker 1: can work?
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  Speaker 2: Actually, I'm surprised I didn't put that on the list.
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  Speaker 2: Sorry about that. Yeah, it's one of my my my
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  Speaker 2: big uh, one of the things I work on the
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  Speaker 2: most with people's weight loss and sugar addiction, sugar addiction,
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  Speaker 2: and it's the four It's the four ws. What, where, when? Why?
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  Speaker 2: What are you eating? Why are you eating? Where you eating?
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  Speaker 2: And what time are you eating? What when? We're why?
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  Speaker 2: And when you start to make yourself accountable right just
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  Speaker 2: on your conscious level, you're going to start putting message
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  Speaker 2: units in your mind, like why am I eating this?
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  Speaker 2: What am I grabbing for? You know, what time of
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  Speaker 2: day is it? Where am I eating? Am I eating
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  Speaker 2: like in secret? Or am I eating in my bedroom?
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  Speaker 2: Am I eating in the kitchen? Am I eating at
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  Speaker 2: an appropriate time? What am I eating? Am I grabbing
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  Speaker 2: for sugar? Am I grabbing for carbs and bread and
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  Speaker 2: comfort food? So, yeah, weight loss is a really big
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  Speaker 2: part of my business. Well, it really works, and sometimes
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  Speaker 2: it took one session, Sometimes it takes.
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  Speaker 1: To know that that's tremendous. Well, so take us through
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  Speaker 1: the process of hypnosis, like what a session might look
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  Speaker 1: like because you've we've all seen it, I guess historically,
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  Speaker 1: you know the old the pocket watch, you know, like
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  Speaker 1: you're going into.
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  Speaker 2: A deep sleep.
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  Speaker 1: How does it work? How? First of all, I understand
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  Speaker 1: not everybody can can be hypnotized. I mean that doesn't
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  Speaker 1: work on everybody.
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  Speaker 3: That there's a.
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  Speaker 1: Test Spiegler's tests, So there's a test that you give
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  Speaker 1: you to see if you're even if it's this is
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  Speaker 1: possible for you.
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  Speaker 2: So how does all that work? So that's a really
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  Speaker 2: good question. First of all, you can be hypnotized if
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  Speaker 2: you want to be hypnotized. It's all about allowing yourself
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  Speaker 2: to be suggested to. Because I'm really not doing anything
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  Speaker 2: except going be be beep in your ear. I'm telling
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  Speaker 2: you things that we've discussed already. So how a regular
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  Speaker 2: therapy session would go is we talk for about I
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  Speaker 2: don't know, maybe half an hour and the rest of
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  Speaker 2: the time, about twenty five minutes is the hypnosis. But
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  Speaker 2: what I'm doing is before we go into hypnosis and
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  Speaker 2: I have your permission to put you under because you
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  Speaker 2: have to want to be suggestible, I discuss with you
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  Speaker 2: what you want your issue to be based on, and
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  Speaker 2: then I put it in chat GPT that I've already prompted.
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  Speaker 2: It comes up with a beautiful script just for my
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  Speaker 2: client using any names just a script on what they
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  Speaker 2: want to work on, and then I go ahead and
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  Speaker 2: I lull them into a trance. And that thing you're
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  Speaker 2: talking about the pocket watch is called an I fascination,
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  Speaker 2: and sometimes people can use pens, they can use their
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  Speaker 2: own fingers watches. Sure, but the typical therapeutic session would
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  Speaker 2: be we talk first and find out what's going on,
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  Speaker 2: and then I put them in hypnosis. Yeah, wow, that's.
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  Speaker 3: Is it scary for some people?
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  Speaker 2: A lot of people are nervous coming in, but you know,
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  Speaker 2: when you establish a rapport and kind of like you know,
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  Speaker 2: you kind of make them feel comfortable, let them know
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  Speaker 2: they're in control, because you are completely in control. It's
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  Speaker 2: not like I'm going to put you under and you're
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  Speaker 2: going to go in this deep sleep and I'm going
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  Speaker 2: to steal your wallet. Sure, sure, Sure, It's basically you're
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  Speaker 2: just sort of laying back. You're in a trance like state,
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  Speaker 2: and you're hearing everything I'm saying, and you're imagining it
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  Speaker 2: if you can in your head. Sometimes people can't see
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  Speaker 2: pictures in their heads, so I have to say, can
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  Speaker 2: you feel this? Can you smell this? What does it
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  Speaker 2: feel like when you're in a room, what does it
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  Speaker 2: feel like when you're up near a tree. So, and
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  Speaker 2: that's difficult because you know a lot of hypnosis is
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  Speaker 2: therapeutic imagery to get you to go back, maybe to
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  Speaker 2: visit your little girl self. Yeah, So do.
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  Speaker 3: You handle it differently when you're working with an online
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  Speaker 3: client because you're in California, so people coming to you
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  Speaker 3: is obviously an option. I saw your beautiful office. It
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  Speaker 3: practically put me in a chance just by watching it.
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  Speaker 3: I was like, well, that was beautiful. So, I mean,
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  Speaker 3: I love all of this stuff, you know what I mean.
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  Speaker 3: So I'd like to know, like, obviously for your business,
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  Speaker 3: you're also online, and how do you handle people's distractions
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  Speaker 3: in their home versus being in the office, and does
• 16:53
  Speaker 3: it work just as well?
• 16:58
  Speaker 2: You know, it's honestly, I do love face to face
• 17:00
  Speaker 2: because I do think energy, you know, between the person
• 17:04
  Speaker 2: is a big thing. But people do raiky energy over
• 17:06
  Speaker 2: the internet. Now, yeah, and I think that's fascinating. But
• 17:10
  Speaker 2: zoom is about seventy five percent of my business. And
• 17:15
  Speaker 2: you know, they're in the comfort of their own home.
• 17:17
  Speaker 2: They have their earbuds in or their headphones so they
• 17:20
  Speaker 2: can hear me right directly in their head, right I'm
• 17:23
  Speaker 2: just right there in the realy okay and yeah, But
• 17:26
  Speaker 2: basically they're in their own environment and they feel safe.
• 17:29
  Speaker 2: They feel secure, they can relax, they can lay in
• 17:32
  Speaker 2: their own bed with their own smells and surroundings and
• 17:36
  Speaker 2: you know, cats and stuff. It's up to them. If
• 17:38
  Speaker 2: they want to let their pets in, then let their
• 17:39
  Speaker 2: pets in. You know, it's fine. It's just another message
• 17:43
  Speaker 2: unit to maybe possibly get them to go deeper and
• 17:45
  Speaker 2: focus more. But you know, we do. I do give
• 17:49
  Speaker 2: them this sort of prep work before, which is like, oh,
• 17:53
  Speaker 2: be in a quiet space, make sure you're not going
• 17:54
  Speaker 2: to be interrupted, make sure kids aren't bringing on the door. Mom, Mom,
• 17:57
  Speaker 2: I need some peanut butter and jelly, you know, for
• 18:00
  Speaker 2: your in a quiet environment for about fifty minutes.
• 18:03
  Speaker 1: Now, you said they you can't make someone do something
• 18:07
  Speaker 1: that they would not otherwise be agreeable in their subconscious
• 18:11
  Speaker 1: mind to do. Is that true because you're a trusted professional?
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: Who does this? I mean? Is it theoretically possibly? Like
• 18:19
  Speaker 1: who should you allow to who should you work with?
• 18:22
  Speaker 1: What credentials should they have? Is it possible for someone
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: to do that? Use this for not for a ill purpose?
• 18:29
  Speaker 3: Like is it.
• 18:33
  Speaker 2: Could people harm you with hypnotherapy.
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you're like, yeah, do you like how do you?
• 18:38
  Speaker 4: Yes?
• 18:38
  Speaker 5: Could they?
• 18:39
  Speaker 1: I mean, is it?
• 18:41
  Speaker 3: You know?
• 18:42
  Speaker 2: I you know, it's funnier saying that. I've been seeing
• 18:45
  Speaker 2: a lot of these pop up you know, hypnotherapy schools,
• 18:47
  Speaker 2: like be a hypnotherapist in like seven days, right, Yeah,
• 18:51
  Speaker 2: And that offends me because I went to school in
• 18:53
  Speaker 2: college for this and you know, no, it's not a
• 18:56
  Speaker 2: licensed practice in the state of California, but we are certified.
• 18:59
  Speaker 2: I do go to a credit I did go to
• 19:01
  Speaker 2: an accredited college, HMI College of Hypnosis. And and you know,
• 19:07
  Speaker 2: I think that if if you want to harm someone
• 19:11
  Speaker 2: in hypnosis, I guess you if potentially wanted to do that,
• 19:16
  Speaker 2: you could. I obviously it's not not what we want
• 19:19
  Speaker 2: to do. And I do think that there are some
• 19:22
  Speaker 2: really there's some characters out there that you know, sure
• 19:26
  Speaker 2: like in my control.
• 19:28
  Speaker 3: Yeah, how did you get into it?
• 19:31
  Speaker 2: You know what?
• 19:31
  Speaker 6: What?
• 19:33
  Speaker 2: I how did you get start?
• 19:35
  Speaker 3: So I've had a long career, So can you tell
• 19:39
  Speaker 3: us how you got.
• 19:40
  Speaker 2: Into I sure, I know it's like one of my
• 19:44
  Speaker 2: it's like a ninth life I surround a cat. But
• 19:48
  Speaker 2: I was doing a voiceover for just this like tech magazine,
• 19:52
  Speaker 2: and the director said, you have such a great speaking voice,
• 19:56
  Speaker 2: you should think about, you know, like hypnotizing people. It's
• 20:00
  Speaker 2: so lulling. And I'm like, really, oh that's interesting. And
• 20:03
  Speaker 2: I was like yeah, whatever. And then literally a week later,
• 20:06
  Speaker 2: I saw someone at Starbucks and he was holding this
• 20:10
  Speaker 2: kind of binder and it said, hm, I a College
• 20:12
  Speaker 2: of Hypnotic I was like, okay, this is a sign
• 20:14
  Speaker 2: because I've ever seen this before. And I'm like, I
• 20:17
  Speaker 2: am following the signs. So I'm like, hi, mister, can
• 20:22
  Speaker 2: I ask you about your binder? You know, are you
• 20:25
  Speaker 2: a hypnotist or He's like, well, I actually owned the college.
• 20:29
  Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, oh, that's a good person to know.
• 20:32
  Speaker 2: So I kind of picked as he was nice enough
• 20:35
  Speaker 2: to let me pick his brain a little bit. And
• 20:37
  Speaker 2: the next day I got my I got my fssay loan.
• 20:41
  Speaker 2: It was like, I don't know, ten grand or something
• 20:42
  Speaker 2: like that, which is the kind of schooling we're getting
• 20:45
  Speaker 2: is worth way more than that. But I paid it
• 20:49
  Speaker 2: off and you know, it's like a regular school loan
• 20:51
  Speaker 2: because they're an accredited college. And I did, you know
• 20:55
  Speaker 2: a few probably about three years of school and and
• 20:59
  Speaker 2: I've been pro just sing ever since. You practice in
• 21:02
  Speaker 2: school as well, because you get pro bono clients. It's
• 21:04
  Speaker 2: an amazing, amazing career.
• 21:07
  Speaker 3: Yeah, can you share of us, like one of like
• 21:10
  Speaker 3: I mean, obviously a story or something that you're so
• 21:14
  Speaker 3: proud about that hypnotherapy worked and this person is thriving and.
• 21:21
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, God, I've had over fifteen hundred sessions
• 21:24
  Speaker 2: in this past year, and I can tell you that
• 21:29
  Speaker 2: the most rewarding is when they they tell you you've
• 21:32
  Speaker 2: changed my life. I no longer have a fear of travel.
• 21:37
  Speaker 2: I no longer vape. You saved my life. I no
• 21:40
  Speaker 2: longer overeat. I don't grab for sugar anymore. You know,
• 21:43
  Speaker 2: my doctor's so happy. It's everyone. And you know, I
• 21:49
  Speaker 2: can tell you the hardest people to reach are the
• 21:52
  Speaker 2: ones that just resist change. They just don't want to change.
• 21:56
  Speaker 2: And those are the ones when I finally do kind
• 21:59
  Speaker 2: of get hold to their Yeah, those neuropathways and jo's
• 22:03
  Speaker 2: bad habits, and they finally change. That's the most rewarding.
• 22:05
  Speaker 2: I Mean, I've people smoke for fifty years and they're like,
• 22:08
  Speaker 2: there's no way you can get me to quit smoking.
• 22:10
  Speaker 2: I've been smoking for fifty years. I'm like, well, let's
• 22:13
  Speaker 2: try challenge. I mean, if you want to change, you'll think, right,
• 22:16
  Speaker 2: they have to want to do it, sure.
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: So it's really more patient and then those people stop.
• 22:22
  Speaker 1: So it's really more based on the patient than not
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: the condition. So I was going to ask you, like,
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: what's the most difficult thing to actually using this method
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: a cure or get beyond beyond it?
• 22:35
  Speaker 4: There?
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: Well, smoking sounds like it, But it sounds like if
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: they're very motivated and willing and really wanting to then
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: maybe that's not as difficult, and it could easily be
• 22:44
  Speaker 1: nail biting because they don't really want to quit that
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: or something.
• 22:48
  Speaker 2: You know what, You're right, it's all of those. I mean,
• 22:51
  Speaker 2: you have to want to quit what you're doing for
• 22:54
  Speaker 2: the benefit of your own health and the better betterment
• 22:56
  Speaker 2: of your life. Yeah, and uh, you know, I would
• 23:00
  Speaker 2: say one of my hardest clients, I do some a
• 23:03
  Speaker 2: rectile dysfunction as well. I have some of those cries.
• 23:06
  Speaker 2: They're very difficult because there's so much deep rooted stuff
• 23:10
  Speaker 2: there in their childhood. Most of the time, but it works,
• 23:14
  Speaker 2: but they but it works because they stick with it.
• 23:17
  Speaker 2: It's it's therapy. It's not. You know, let's wave my
• 23:20
  Speaker 2: magic wand and you know, rabbit dabra, you're you're you're
• 23:25
  Speaker 2: fixed cause I don't fix you. My job is to
• 23:27
  Speaker 2: make you feel good, feel better, and help you through
• 23:31
  Speaker 2: whatever you're going through. Right, Because you don't just all
• 23:34
  Speaker 2: of a sudden smoke for no reason. You could have
• 23:37
  Speaker 2: done it because you felt cool doing it when you
• 23:38
  Speaker 2: were a kid, or it made you look sexyer, you
• 23:40
  Speaker 2: felt better, whatever it was. The feeling by the air. Yeah,
• 23:46
  Speaker 2: so always and eating too, making your feeling.
• 23:49
  Speaker 3: Yeah, this podcast inside the Mom's Club, we cater to everybody.
• 23:53
  Speaker 3: But do you do it a lot with kids?
• 23:57
  Speaker 1: Yeah? What's the age right, you're.
• 24:00
  Speaker 2: Yeah, great question. So we don't really recommend hypnotherapy for
• 24:07
  Speaker 2: kids that are under ten because your critical mind isn't
• 24:11
  Speaker 2: developed yet. So really anywhere from tena no?
• 24:16
  Speaker 3: Very cool.
• 24:17
  Speaker 2: Yeah, because you don't use your critical thinking brain until
• 24:20
  Speaker 2: you're like past ten years old. I know a few
• 24:23
  Speaker 2: people who are still not using their critical thinking brains.
• 24:27
  Speaker 3: Yeah, well passed, well passed, Yeah, probably we all do,
• 24:35
  Speaker 3: we all do. Yeah, Yeah, that's for sure. That's for sure.
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: Yeah. Well this is super interesting.
• 24:40
  Speaker 3: I mean, I have my list is long what other
• 24:43
  Speaker 3: So are there other.
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: Therapies that you use in combination with this, because I
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: met someone who does biofeedback and neurofeedback, and I mean
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: there's other things that also work on Yeah, changing the
• 24:56
  Speaker 1: neural neuropathways. Do they work together?
• 24:59
  Speaker 2: Is there no house breathwork?
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: Yeah?
• 25:02
  Speaker 2: I do breath work sometimes with my clients to kind
• 25:05
  Speaker 2: of get them in there in their uh their their
• 25:08
  Speaker 2: sympathetic nervous system. I kind of rev them up and
• 25:11
  Speaker 2: then I dropped them right into hypnosis. It gets them
• 25:13
  Speaker 2: as it's almost a deepener, helps them prepare, and it's
• 25:16
  Speaker 2: a it's a great way to oxygenate your blood put
• 25:19
  Speaker 2: your brain, to put oxygen in your brain. And and
• 25:22
  Speaker 2: also you want to relax after you do that kind
• 25:24
  Speaker 2: of breath work. It's a breathwork detox and it's amazing.
• 25:28
  Speaker 2: I got certified in that, and also I got certified
• 25:30
  Speaker 2: in sound bath. So I do have you know, some
• 25:34
  Speaker 2: uh some stuff I use for deepeners with using music, soundbals, chimes,
• 25:40
  Speaker 2: things like that.
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: I saw that on your I saw that, and you
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: know what, So I went to a spa in California
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: and I did a massage and so I signed up
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: for this massage that was supposed to help.
• 25:52
  Speaker 2: Me sleep better.
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and they didn't tell me what it was going
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: to be. And so I'm on the massage table, I'm
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: pretty relaxed, and all of a sudden she has this
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: giant symbol and it goes all over my body, back
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: and forth, and it literally that actually freaked me out.
• 26:07
  Speaker 2: I was like, what is this?
• 26:08
  Speaker 3: So that's on your list of anxiety?
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: Yes, but I now understand that actually there's a good
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: purpose for it. I mean to explain soundback really quickly,
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: because if anyone else ever has this happened to them,
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: rather than cause more anxiety, Lord, it will help them.
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: So that does that change? Does that affecting your neuropathway?
• 26:30
  Speaker 1: And then what is what does that do?
• 26:31
  Speaker 3: Exactly?
• 26:34
  Speaker 2: So first of all, you should be warned before anyone's
• 26:37
  Speaker 2: going to use any type of symbol or gong or
• 26:40
  Speaker 2: noise in a massage, right, So that's frequency healing. So
• 26:44
  Speaker 2: frequency healing the sound bowls of the seven chakras from
• 26:49
  Speaker 2: your your sacle chakra all the way up to the
• 26:52
  Speaker 2: crown chakra. There's seven of them and they each have
• 26:54
  Speaker 2: a color as well. I'm sure you've seen the chakrah yes,
• 26:57
  Speaker 2: where each one has a color it yes. So each
• 27:00
  Speaker 2: sound rowl has like different key. So the key of
• 27:03
  Speaker 2: d is sacral. And that's when I use in my
• 27:07
  Speaker 2: set in my sound healing, and it gets right here,
• 27:10
  Speaker 2: right to the center of your body, which is so healing.
• 27:13
  Speaker 2: But frequency healing is amazing. I also have this little
• 27:16
  Speaker 2: thing that I use. Oh wow, and this when you
• 27:20
  Speaker 2: press these little buttons, yeah right, these will give you
• 27:23
  Speaker 2: the frequency of healing that you want. Maybe it's better sleep,
• 27:27
  Speaker 2: maybe it's just for alignment, maybe it's to heal bones.
• 27:31
  Speaker 2: But frequency healing is becoming more and more recognized as
• 27:37
  Speaker 2: a healing tool because it's also breaking up cancer cells.
• 27:42
  Speaker 2: If they find out the frequency of the cancer cell,
• 27:45
  Speaker 2: they can break up the cancer cell. So frequency healing
• 27:47
  Speaker 2: is rapidly becoming used in different types of regality.
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: Thank you so much for sharing that with me, because
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: as a result of that experience, I do need to
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: come see you for my anxiety is resulting from that
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: experience in my recent past life. So thank you.
• 28:04
  Speaker 2: But yes, in the future again, need to tell you
• 28:07
  Speaker 2: before they she agreed me save exactly. Well, we are excited.
• 28:12
  Speaker 1: We've had some great questions, but we have some ladies
• 28:14
  Speaker 1: that have also have maybe even better questions, and that
• 28:18
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• 28:48
  Speaker 1: Zoomer Moms. Welcome to the Mom's Club. I am going
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: to introduce each one of you and I would ask
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: that you tell us your name, where you're from, a
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: little bit about yourself, and then do you have a
• 29:01
  Speaker 1: question for Suzanne. Hannah, Welcome to the Mom's Club.
• 29:06
  Speaker 6: Hi, how are you good?
• 29:09
  Speaker 2: Hello Hannah.
• 29:11
  Speaker 6: Hi, my name is Hannah Jones. I live in Los Angeles, California.
• 29:16
  Speaker 6: I work for Brothers Gutters, a gutter company, and a
• 29:22
  Speaker 6: fun fact about me is that I am in a
• 29:26
  Speaker 6: Hallmark Christmas movie that's sometimes plays over the holidays. It's
• 29:32
  Speaker 6: very exciting. And then I get like eleven dollars in
• 29:35
  Speaker 6: residual chicks.
• 29:40
  Speaker 3: Very cool.
• 29:41
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and your how many kids you have? How many kids?
• 29:43
  Speaker 6: And I have two children, a four year old and
• 29:46
  Speaker 6: a two year old, both girls.
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: Oh wow.
• 29:49
  Speaker 6: I do have a question for Susanne. What do you
• 29:53
  Speaker 6: do in between your hypnotherapy sessions to like continue doing
• 29:59
  Speaker 6: the work? Like is there something you're doing?
• 30:03
  Speaker 2: I mean, like a click, cleansing out the energy, things
• 30:05
  Speaker 2: like that, or like just to like reinforce until the
• 30:09
  Speaker 2: person sees you again. Oh okay, so uh so between
• 30:15
  Speaker 2: the between the sessions, that's a great question. Everybody gets
• 30:19
  Speaker 2: a recorded journey. So when we're in session together and
• 30:23
  Speaker 2: and like let's say you have an issue with whatever
• 30:25
  Speaker 2: it is, and and we do the journey, and then
• 30:28
  Speaker 2: I'll say, okay, listen to this every night right before bed.
• 30:31
  Speaker 2: It's your mind medicine. And you listen to it for about,
• 30:34
  Speaker 2: I don't know, probably forty five minutes before you go
• 30:36
  Speaker 2: to sleep, because you don't want to be so exhausted
• 30:38
  Speaker 2: you're going to actually conk out. I don't blame you,
• 30:40
  Speaker 2: but try and listen to it, you know, forty five
• 30:44
  Speaker 2: minutes before bed. It's your mind medicine. It's going to
• 30:46
  Speaker 2: keep it's going to keep going and syncing into your
• 30:50
  Speaker 2: mind of whatever your issue is, and then when you
• 30:53
  Speaker 2: come back, you get a whole new journey the next
• 30:55
  Speaker 2: the next session that we have. Is that what you mean?
• 30:58
  Speaker 6: Yeah, exactly what I want?
• 31:00
  Speaker 5: Thank you.
• 31:00
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's awesome.
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: Janine, Welcome to the Mom's Club. Tell us a little
• 31:04
  Speaker 1: bit about yourself. Where you're from, and do you have
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: a question for Suzanne.
• 31:08
  Speaker 5: Hi, I'm Janine and I live in Austin, Texas. A
• 31:11
  Speaker 5: little bit about me. I'm a retired elementary teacher and
• 31:16
  Speaker 5: had the great fortune to have a second career after
• 31:19
  Speaker 5: retiring with a residential home development and home design and
• 31:24
  Speaker 5: it's been such fun to explore a very very different
• 31:29
  Speaker 5: side of myself that I really didn't know much beyond
• 31:32
  Speaker 5: the fact that I could range a classroom and reconfigure
• 31:35
  Speaker 5: it to suit me. So that's been a great addition
• 31:40
  Speaker 5: to my life. I have two girls, a daughter that's
• 31:44
  Speaker 5: biologically mine and then my lovely stepdaughter who gives us
• 31:49
  Speaker 5: two grandsons. So that's a little bit about me. As
• 31:53
  Speaker 5: we've been going through this, I do have a question
• 31:57
  Speaker 5: and your focus, your your direction with hypnosis is mind body,
• 32:07
  Speaker 5: the psychological side. But there's also people who need help
• 32:11
  Speaker 5: with the physical side of healing. And so my question
• 32:16
  Speaker 5: would be is what kind of relationship is there between
• 32:19
  Speaker 5: the type of therapy you provide and say, someone who
• 32:24
  Speaker 5: is medically at risk for being put under general anesthesia
• 32:29
  Speaker 5: and hypnotic therapy may be a direction for them to
• 32:36
  Speaker 5: pursue for a medical procedure instead of going under general. Right,
• 32:42
  Speaker 5: say someone who is at risk with weight, or they
• 32:44
  Speaker 5: have a certain heart condition, but they still need surgery
• 32:48
  Speaker 5: for something, but they cannot be put under safely.
• 32:53
  Speaker 2: Hypnosis is amazing for that, and you know there are
• 32:57
  Speaker 2: some very talented hypnotherapists that do that. I do not
• 33:00
  Speaker 2: do that, but I I know that that it's more
• 33:04
  Speaker 2: than possible. I have colleagues that do it. I do
• 33:08
  Speaker 2: get referred a lot for chronic pain, and I can
• 33:10
  Speaker 2: help with chronic pain and so, but as far as
• 33:15
  Speaker 2: going into here's a really good example, what I would
• 33:21
  Speaker 2: do is I would research the heck out of it,
• 33:23
  Speaker 2: and I would find the best journey for them to
• 33:27
  Speaker 2: listen to while they're in in there in the room
• 33:31
  Speaker 2: that they're I guess they're being either operated on or
• 33:33
  Speaker 2: maybe a tooth or something like that. Correct is what
• 33:35
  Speaker 2: you're saying, correct instead of going under? Right, So I
• 33:39
  Speaker 2: would give them a journey. Obviously I couldn't be there
• 33:41
  Speaker 2: in the room with them, but I would give them
• 33:44
  Speaker 2: a journey that would help them through the process of
• 33:47
  Speaker 2: however long they're going to be under, So they would
• 33:49
  Speaker 2: have a journey for whatever, if a two hour procedure
• 33:52
  Speaker 2: or I would make sure it was above and beyond.
• 33:54
  Speaker 2: I'd make sure it was you know, hours of hypnosis
• 33:58
  Speaker 2: so that they can have it on loop over and
• 34:00
  Speaker 2: over and over again. But that's what that's That's how
• 34:03
  Speaker 2: I would approach it, and I'm sure most hypnotherapists would
• 34:06
  Speaker 2: approach it the same way. Is they they know their prompts,
• 34:09
  Speaker 2: they know their keywords to say to make sure that
• 34:12
  Speaker 2: they stay you know, under and safe. And they feel
• 34:15
  Speaker 2: like they're either floating on a beach, you know, in
• 34:18
  Speaker 2: a in a in a beautiful you know, floatation device,
• 34:21
  Speaker 2: and they feel the sun on their on their face,
• 34:22
  Speaker 2: and maybe if they're religious people, they feel God, you know,
• 34:26
  Speaker 2: they are God's hands on their shoulders or you know,
• 34:29
  Speaker 2: of his light or his his divine presence, So it
• 34:32
  Speaker 2: just depends on the person. But but there are really
• 34:36
  Speaker 2: talented hypnottherapists that deal with that. Yeah, I did think
• 34:39
  Speaker 2: that's a great question to you, because I did read
• 34:42
  Speaker 2: that they do that. For example, if you're going to
• 34:44
  Speaker 2: go through a biopsy procedure, which can be incredibly uncomfortable,
• 34:48
  Speaker 2: and you're not going to be put under necessarily, but
• 34:50
  Speaker 2: it's really uncomfortable that you can have a you know,
• 34:55
  Speaker 2: hypnosis can help that, or even just claustter phobia anxiety
• 34:59
  Speaker 2: sort of thing when you go you're an MRI and
• 35:00
  Speaker 2: you're trapped in that awful machine. My own mother got
• 35:06
  Speaker 2: her tooth extracted by using hypnosis, not mine, not me,
• 35:11
  Speaker 2: but yeah, yeah, not me, but yeah, she got her
• 35:17
  Speaker 2: tooth extracted by using the hypnosis tape over and over
• 35:21
  Speaker 2: an hour.
• 35:21
  Speaker 3: And would she say about that?
• 35:25
  Speaker 2: She was like worked like a charm. She didn't have
• 35:26
  Speaker 2: any pain at all.
• 35:27
  Speaker 3: Oh wow, wow, I'm I'm a big baby.
• 35:30
  Speaker 2: I need drugs for that.
• 35:32
  Speaker 3: How many past nurse bring all the drugs you got?
• 35:37
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know if there's going to be a
• 35:38
  Speaker 1: lot of pain involved. Yeah, I don't know if i'd
• 35:40
  Speaker 1: want to take that chance. Actually, you know what, if
• 35:42
  Speaker 1: it doesn't work, then.
• 35:43
  Speaker 3: I'm monica, you are not a candidate. No, I mean
• 35:46
  Speaker 3: I love you, but yeah, I have a quick question
• 35:49
  Speaker 3: about what she said to Hannah. You said, uh, you
• 35:53
  Speaker 3: record a session, which I'm a big fan of because
• 35:55
  Speaker 3: I think a lot of times that even when you're
• 35:57
  Speaker 3: in talk therapy and you're trying to learn some thing
• 36:00
  Speaker 3: about yourself, something about you know, like you said, it
• 36:02
  Speaker 3: all goes back to childhood, right, I mean the majority
• 36:06
  Speaker 3: of everything. So you said I would send you home
• 36:09
  Speaker 3: with that. You listen to it, you know, go back
• 36:13
  Speaker 3: over it. Just the journey, just the journey. And then
• 36:16
  Speaker 3: you said, just the journey. I don't record the session. Oh,
• 36:19
  Speaker 3: just just that. I see what you're saying. Okay, yeah,
• 36:22
  Speaker 3: just the journey. And so then you said you would
• 36:24
  Speaker 3: come back and do a different journey. Is this a
• 36:27
  Speaker 3: different topic or the second session? Like, what is that
• 36:33
  Speaker 3: what you mean by a different journey?
• 36:34
  Speaker 2: Requestion? Great question. Sometimes people have multiple things they want
• 36:39
  Speaker 2: to work on, right, Sometimes they bite their nails and
• 36:43
  Speaker 2: they can't sleep. Sometimes they have childhood issues that they
• 36:47
  Speaker 2: need to get through. So we do inner child work. Nice. Okay,
• 36:50
  Speaker 2: So each time that you're with me, even if it's
• 36:52
  Speaker 2: the same issue, even if it's just biting your nails,
• 36:55
  Speaker 2: We'll do a different recorded journey each time.
• 36:57
  Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, Yeah, that's what I wanted to say. Like
• 37:00
  Speaker 3: when you said that, I didn't know if you went
• 37:02
  Speaker 3: back to the same one if we're not done working
• 37:04
  Speaker 3: on it. I'm sure that's an option too, But you
• 37:07
  Speaker 3: know what I'm saying, of course, Yeah, yeah, you can
• 37:09
  Speaker 3: listen through them all the time. Sure, but you do
• 37:11
  Speaker 3: move on, you do heal, So you don't really like
• 37:14
  Speaker 3: if we're in twelve sessions and you're still listening to
• 37:16
  Speaker 3: the second session, you don't need to. You've already kind
• 37:18
  Speaker 3: of moved on from them. Yeah.
• 37:19
  Speaker 4: I like that.
• 37:21
  Speaker 1: So what's the average number of sessions you need to
• 37:24
  Speaker 1: get through, sayty well smoking? Like, what is there an
• 37:30
  Speaker 1: average number that you think if you've gone well past this,
• 37:33
  Speaker 1: it's not working well for you, or it can test
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: take long. It just takes as long as it takes.
• 37:39
  Speaker 5: What's is there?
• 37:41
  Speaker 2: Great question? So depending on the person, honestly, and depending
• 37:47
  Speaker 2: on why they started smoking to begin with, sometimes it
• 37:51
  Speaker 2: can be very deep rute and you need like six
• 37:53
  Speaker 2: to twelve sessions. People with me usually quit between their
• 37:57
  Speaker 2: first session wow, which has happened like almost all of
• 38:02
  Speaker 2: my clients, to six, but it could take twelve, you know.
• 38:08
  Speaker 2: But it's the point is is I would rather spend
• 38:12
  Speaker 2: my money on saving my life than saying, oh, it's
• 38:18
  Speaker 2: just you know, you know one of these you know,
• 38:21
  Speaker 2: little parlor trick things that we can do on the internet.
• 38:24
  Speaker 2: If you're working with a professional, that's where you want
• 38:27
  Speaker 2: to spend your time, which is precious and whatever and money,
• 38:32
  Speaker 2: you know, because it's your health right. So I would
• 38:35
  Speaker 2: say between anywhere between one to twelve sessions. Yeah, but
• 38:40
  Speaker 2: people have stopped been you know, one or two sessions
• 38:43
  Speaker 2: with me. That's fascinating.
• 38:44
  Speaker 1: And do you get referrals from physicians or where does
• 38:48
  Speaker 1: most of your client? Teleco referrals from other patients or
• 38:51
  Speaker 1: you have physicians.
• 38:52
  Speaker 3: Who have you try it?
• 38:54
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but where does most of your client Where do
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: you get most of your clients.
• 38:58
  Speaker 2: All of the all of those. I'm in business groups
• 39:01
  Speaker 2: that I belong to, Chamber of Commerce. I have referrals
• 39:05
  Speaker 2: from psychiatrists, therapists. I have referrals from people who were like,
• 39:10
  Speaker 2: she helped me quit smoking in one session. You got
• 39:12
  Speaker 2: to go to her. I also have a free session
• 39:15
  Speaker 2: every Wednesday night at six thirty at my office VY
• 39:18
  Speaker 2: nine recliner chairs. Ye did you see that?
• 39:21
  Speaker 3: That was way back?
• 39:23
  Speaker 1: Oh wow, yep.
• 39:25
  Speaker 2: And they have they all have headphones on and I
• 39:27
  Speaker 2: do sound bath first and then I put them into
• 39:30
  Speaker 2: hypnosis and they get that recording as well, and I
• 39:32
  Speaker 2: record that and send to everybody that's there. And that's
• 39:36
  Speaker 2: just like a generic one. They'll like, we want to
• 39:38
  Speaker 2: work on manifesting love and money and health and whatever.
• 39:42
  Speaker 2: So but it's just to introduce people to hypnosis if
• 39:45
  Speaker 2: they've never experienced it before, so they can they cannot
• 39:48
  Speaker 2: be afraid of it.
• 39:49
  Speaker 3: Yeah, like dip your slowly.
• 39:50
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 39:51
  Speaker 1: We need to plan our next trip to La Mom's
• 39:54
  Speaker 1: club event they're over there.
• 39:55
  Speaker 3: And that's Wednesday. I come see you in person. I
• 39:59
  Speaker 3: have a quick question for you. So I'm outing myself,
• 40:03
  Speaker 3: but listen, my whole life is on the internet at
• 40:05
  Speaker 3: this point after this mini shows with all everything. But
• 40:09
  Speaker 3: so you say procrastination, and that is a hot button
• 40:12
  Speaker 3: for me. I seem to be an expert at it
• 40:15
  Speaker 3: on some things in my life. And then you have
• 40:17
  Speaker 3: like quit smoking or not eat sugar. So one is
• 40:19
  Speaker 3: very tangible, right, and then the other and maybe not
• 40:22
  Speaker 3: so much. Is one harder than the other, because, like
• 40:26
  Speaker 3: you know, eating sugar is an actual act, smoking is
• 40:29
  Speaker 3: an actual act. Procrastination can be defined in many ways.
• 40:34
  Speaker 3: I'm just using myself my own problems.
• 40:37
  Speaker 1: Now, I really want you to fix this because she's
• 40:39
  Speaker 1: on the Mom's club with I. She procrastinates all it's hard. Oh,
• 40:43
  Speaker 1: let's get this fixed, all right, Let's sorry, I get by. Yeah,
• 40:47
  Speaker 1: that's a good one. Tell us about procrastination.
• 40:49
  Speaker 2: Constination usually stems from limiting belief or self worth, or
• 40:53
  Speaker 2: not thinking that you're that you should be, you know,
• 40:57
  Speaker 2: successful at what you're doing. It's also could be trauma
• 41:01
  Speaker 2: from childhood. It's very task oriented, so maybe if you
• 41:05
  Speaker 2: didn't do chores, you were punished. And it could also
• 41:09
  Speaker 2: be something that is, you know, very very sudden, oncoming
• 41:15
  Speaker 2: thing like you know, you have to do this. You
• 41:17
  Speaker 2: do everything else on time, but there's this one thing, right,
• 41:21
  Speaker 2: and so that's that's that is self sabotage and and
• 41:25
  Speaker 2: that is rectified by action. Is motivation not the other
• 41:30
  Speaker 2: way around.
• 41:30
  Speaker 3: Wow. That so that was fascinating what you just said.
• 41:34
  Speaker 3: It's mainly the first thing that you just said about
• 41:37
  Speaker 3: self worth.
• 41:38
  Speaker 1: No, I love that answer, and yeah, now I shouldn't criticize.
• 41:42
  Speaker 3: Yeah, now, did you feel bad?
• 41:46
  Speaker 2: I feel terrible. Actually, that's why I'm here.
• 41:49
  Speaker 3: I think you've gained a new client.
• 41:53
  Speaker 1: Sitting right here.
• 41:54
  Speaker 2: For sure, you each get free you each get a
• 41:57
  Speaker 2: free session.
• 41:58
  Speaker 1: Well actually on your list. I think we can cover
• 42:01
  Speaker 1: all of it between the two of us. Yeah, except that, No, one,
• 42:03
  Speaker 1: I don't bat my nails. That's the only I think
• 42:05
  Speaker 1: you don't need to worry about that. Oh, we don't smoke.
• 42:08
  Speaker 1: Unless you started smoking and vaping then I'm just not
• 42:10
  Speaker 1: aware of it. Okay, next question, Okay, oh sorry, okay,
• 42:13
  Speaker 1: well yeah, we need that taken care of too for somebody.
• 42:16
  Speaker 2: No, well that's great. Well, so, Suzanne, so you do some.
• 42:19
  Speaker 1: Online, you do in person? Tell us where our audience
• 42:22
  Speaker 1: can find you, either as a client in LA or
• 42:26
  Speaker 1: if you do online as well.
• 42:29
  Speaker 2: Yeah, so I have an online presence obviously, which is
• 42:33
  Speaker 2: you know, they can find me and set up a
• 42:37
  Speaker 2: session whenever, you know, I have time in my schedule
• 42:41
  Speaker 2: for them, of course, and first session is always eighty minutes.
• 42:46
  Speaker 2: It's a discovery session and then you kind of you know,
• 42:48
  Speaker 2: establish trust and rapport and then every session after that
• 42:51
  Speaker 2: is a fifty minute therapy hour which includes talk therapy
• 42:55
  Speaker 2: and also hypnosis, and they can find me online h
• 43:01
  Speaker 2: Y P n O C l I q U E
• 43:05
  Speaker 2: dot com.
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: Great, well, thank you so much.
• 43:08
  Speaker 2: It was absolutely fascinating fast brick and mortar. I have
• 43:11
  Speaker 2: an office, so I have an office too, so I
• 43:13
  Speaker 2: have an office in Sherman Oaks and also online.
• 43:15
  Speaker 3: Okay, great, perfect well.
• 43:17
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• 44:51
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• 44:53
  Speaker 2: That's true.
• 44:53
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• 44:57
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• 45:00
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• 45:02
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• 45:05
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• 45:07
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