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Happy Hour #129: Attack of the Five Foot Ten Woman (SATC S3 Ep3) · Stuff Mom Never Told You

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  Speaker 1: Hey, this is Annie and Samantha.
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  Speaker 1: episode three of season three. Yeah, does progress progress. We're
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  Speaker 1: Have a good time sometimes that it has in a
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  Speaker 1: do you have a drink water?
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  Speaker 2: Oh, because it's hot?
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  Speaker 1: Do you want to go get something?
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  Speaker 2: It's funny because like sometimes I drink hot water oh
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  Speaker 2: or my throat. Oh, but I don't like doing it
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  Speaker 2: unless it's in like a mug.
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  Speaker 1: Oh.
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  Speaker 2: So this is an odd experience for me.
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  Speaker 1: Well, would you like to go get something to drink?
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  Speaker 1: You can wait for a second, that's okay, you sure,
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  Speaker 1: I can. Well, that's a first. I am drinking a
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  Speaker 1: diet soda because that is also how I roll. But yeah,
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  Speaker 1: said in episode three of season three, can you kind
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  Speaker 1: of let the people know what has been happening thus
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  Speaker 1: far on season three only we'll keep it succinct.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, okay, all right, Well, I would say the season
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  Speaker 2: has opened with a lot of questions for all four
• 3:45
  Speaker 2: friends about what they want with Carrie, her on again
• 3:52
  Speaker 2: off again boyfriend Big who's marrying a younger woman. That's
• 3:56
  Speaker 2: how the last season ended. So she's on the market
• 3:59
  Speaker 2: and she was dating this political guy candidate and he
• 4:08
  Speaker 2: revealed a kink that he had and she was not
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  Speaker 2: on board with it, and she kind of kink shamed
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  Speaker 2: him publicly. So that has ended in her column. We've
• 4:19
  Speaker 2: got Charlotte, who is once again on the prow looking
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  Speaker 2: for husband. Miranda is with Steve but is struggling to
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  Speaker 2: who we met previous seasons if you've wanted to show,
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  Speaker 2: you know, he's a big character and is not sure
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  Speaker 2: what they are and they're kind of discussing it. Samantha
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  Speaker 2: is doing her thing. I feel like she's so hard
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  Speaker 2: to defind because she's always like doing something completely.
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  Speaker 1: Kind of random life.
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  Speaker 2: She's just living her life. And the last episode was
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  Speaker 2: really interesting because I had a lot of commentary about
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  Speaker 2: politics and like voting or just voting on looks or
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  Speaker 2: things like.
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  Speaker 1: That, voting on looks. I think we've discovered that Charlotte
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  Speaker 1: would have been a Republican.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah that felt yeah, that felt yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, but that's yeah.
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  Speaker 2: I think that's about it.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, there you go. Good job, good job, good job. Yes, yes,
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  Speaker 1: that's why where we are. You know, we're making a
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  Speaker 1: little more simpler with the fact that we're just starting out.
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  Speaker 1: It's going to get real complicated real soon you might
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  Speaker 1: want to start taking notes, just fyi. But yeah, So
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  Speaker 1: for today's episode, the title is a tech of the
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  Speaker 1: five foot ten woman. Can you guess what this may
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  Speaker 1: be about?
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  Speaker 2: Any Well, in the last episode, there was a lot
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  Speaker 2: of discussion of shorter men who is not that much shorter.
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  Speaker 1: By the way, right, They just made it seem like it.
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  Speaker 2: They made it seem like it. So I wonder if
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  Speaker 2: this is like the flip of discussing taller women and
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  Speaker 2: any Oh, I don't know because I've spoken taller women.
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  Speaker 2: They say, like, dudes aren't always on board with that. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: discussion of dollar women, that's what. And they go to.
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  Speaker 1: Brunch and then they go to brunch or you're switching
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  Speaker 1: it up where they go to brun Okay, okay, I
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  Speaker 1: see I see you, I see you. Well, uh interesting,
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  Speaker 1: let's jump into this.
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  Speaker 3: There are very few things this New Yorker loves as
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  Speaker 3: much as Sunday brunch.
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  Speaker 1: Immediately there you go.
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  Speaker 2: Alcohol is often included with the meal, and Sunday is
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  Speaker 2: the one day.
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  Speaker 1: A week you get a single women's sports pages. Single
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  Speaker 1: women's sports pages not sexist at all.
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  Speaker 2: I don't want to hear that.
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  Speaker 1: I'm all depressed.
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  Speaker 2: This is also so like getting a newspaper and reading it.
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  Speaker 1: At or looking at the like wedding at the holidays
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  Speaker 1: with the mimosa.
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  Speaker 3: I am, it's amazing how upset women can get over
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  Speaker 3: the marital status.
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  Speaker 1: Not about this. Why would you read it if it
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  Speaker 1: doesn't make you happy?
• 7:26
  Speaker 2: I think some people the unhappiness makes you happy, you know.
• 7:29
  Speaker 1: I guess gossip of that's something, right.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, yes, I have a friend who reads like arrest reports,
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  Speaker 2: and I feel like it's similar.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's the weirdest thing to me.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, there's the occasional familiar face in the New York Times.
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  Speaker 2: It's official. People still do this. They've put like an
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  Speaker 2: announced announce paper.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, I think they do. My mother made an announcement
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  Speaker 1: for my niece's graduation, so that was like two years ago.
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  Speaker 2: Wh prepared for this. Guys, they had an engagement party
• 8:04
  Speaker 2: at the plaza. But sometimes engagements break off.
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  Speaker 1: This one didn't. Let's move on. Let's move on. That's correct, Miranda,
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  Speaker 1: and let's move on. Boom. If it's pr anybody could
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  Speaker 1: be the story, anybody who's getting married. And then Charlotte
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  Speaker 1: has to make it worse. Ye, I know, what you're
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  Speaker 1: gonna do.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, you can't not read it, and you're gonna
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  Speaker 3: cry and it's gonna be awful. So let's just read
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  Speaker 3: it now and get it over with, Okay.
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  Speaker 1: I mean that's true. You know he's going to kill
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  Speaker 1: you until you actually read it. So rather doing it alone,
• 8:46
  Speaker 1: being together and trash talking it together, yeah, kind of nice.
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  Speaker 1: That's what you're frither for.
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  Speaker 2: I had a friend who I had something I really
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  Speaker 2: didn't want to read, and she read it for me
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  Speaker 2: first and then gave me this summary. Was like, do
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  Speaker 2: you still want to read it?
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  Speaker 1: That's great, that's good God journalism. Marry they did yesterday
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  Speaker 1: in Southampton. Of course they married.
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  Speaker 2: They're only fifty guests.
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  Speaker 1: We wanted to keep it intimate, she said, just family
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  Speaker 1: and close friends.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, in the New York Times.
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  Speaker 1: Really, how intimate is that?
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  Speaker 2: I don't hear big anywhere in this article.
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  Speaker 1: Natasha is calling the shots and he's just along for
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  Speaker 1: the ride. I mean that is the kind of like
• 9:26
  Speaker 1: making the story up in your head, or like they're
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  Speaker 1: definitely miserable, right.
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  Speaker 3: And as she walked down the aisle, a saxophone played
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  Speaker 3: when a Man Loves a Woman.
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  Speaker 1: Well, that's tacky.
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  Speaker 2: No, that's big.
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  Speaker 1: Roll. Oh no, crying. Like there's so many points where
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  Speaker 1: I've told you, like, for like a good three or
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  Speaker 1: four guys that I was dating the person they met
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  Speaker 1: after me, they got engaged to and or married to,
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  Speaker 1: and I was like, what the hell is the I
• 10:00
  Speaker 1: was not sad, I was not that attached. I was
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  Speaker 1: definitely hurt my feelings a little bit and that like,
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  Speaker 1: what so that's the person that said I'm not gonna
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  Speaker 1: get married. But it still was something that was in
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  Speaker 1: the back of my head, like what is this So
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  Speaker 1: being the right before I was like I got him
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  Speaker 1: ready or I really don't one of those two things.
• 10:21
  Speaker 2: It's hard not to think about it. Yeah, which I
• 10:24
  Speaker 2: feel like this show we've talked about that several times.
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  Speaker 2: But yeah, I recently found myself stumbling upon a picture
• 10:31
  Speaker 2: of my axe. I hadn't expected it was from a
• 10:33
  Speaker 2: picture from when we'd been together. Oh, that's weird, And
• 10:36
  Speaker 2: I was like, I'm not sad that we're not together
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  Speaker 2: at all anymore. But it was just kind of like, Oh,
• 10:44
  Speaker 2: I forgot You're living a whole life without me, right right.
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  Speaker 1: They're like, oh, this is new.
• 10:56
  Speaker 3: You know what?
• 10:57
  Speaker 1: I always drank my coffee out of my loss. We
• 11:00
  Speaker 1: have your current character. She will now be here forever.
• 11:03
  Speaker 1: It's Magda. We love some Magda bring you nice herbal
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  Speaker 1: teas for you.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, thank you very much.
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  Speaker 1: But this is like their beginning relationship. A little bit
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  Speaker 1: of judgment. Why do I have a rolling pin? Why
• 11:19
  Speaker 1: do we have a rolling pin? Have you ever owned
• 11:21
  Speaker 1: a rolling pin?
• 11:23
  Speaker 2: I own one? Now, guess what.
• 11:24
  Speaker 1: It's Star Wars the Oh my goodness, I have never
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  Speaker 1: owned you never roll I've never rolled a thing.
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  Speaker 2: Apparently I used to make pie crest. I'm pretty good
• 11:35
  Speaker 2: at making piecrest.
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  Speaker 1: Oh really, yeah, I'm the girl. I was like, it's
• 11:38
  Speaker 1: frozen in the freezer section.
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  Speaker 2: Why, yeah, honestly, it's pretty good. I have zero judgment.
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  Speaker 1: I think it's like whenever I've made anything homemade in
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  Speaker 1: the end is like, it's not worth this, right, it's
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  Speaker 1: not amazing. Let me move on and go get the
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  Speaker 1: other stuff.
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  Speaker 2: Congratulations on this thing on the wedding. This is Mariana.
• 12:02
  Speaker 1: She's shopping with me.
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  Speaker 3: Nice to meet you. That looks nice.
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  Speaker 1: That what you have on there, what you have on there?
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  Speaker 1: Not only is she like flummoxed, but that she's like
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  Speaker 1: sounding real old, which is one of her insecurities. What
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  Speaker 1: you got there? It looks nice? What you got? What
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  Speaker 1: you got there? Does?
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  Speaker 2: It is strange? Meaning your excess new partner right, a
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  Speaker 2: difficult situation? Okay, yes, I would prefer to look amazing,
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  Speaker 2: but not like I'm trying amazing, just effortlessly striking.
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  Speaker 1: I see, And will Big be at this event? No,
• 12:42
  Speaker 1: it's a woman in the arts luncheon.
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  Speaker 3: This isn't about Big, It's about Natasha.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, but this is also a strange part of the X.
• 12:48
  Speaker 2: It's like wanting to impress the person there with and
• 12:51
  Speaker 2: be like, no, I'm good.
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  Speaker 1: It's that wholy pitting a women against women thing in general,
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  Speaker 1: and that like, yes, you need to be intimidated by
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  Speaker 1: me because you need to think of about what he
• 13:01
  Speaker 1: thinks about me, and though you know we're ended, right
• 13:11
  Speaker 1: Did you move my hair dryer? It used to be
• 13:13
  Speaker 1: under the sink in the middle drawer?
• 13:16
  Speaker 3: Last week I organized.
• 13:17
  Speaker 1: For you, Magda had discovered Miranda's goodie drawer. That is
• 13:25
  Speaker 1: a very cleanly put fun drawer.
• 13:31
  Speaker 2: Did you call it a better fun drawer?
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  Speaker 1: What do you call it? What do you go with this?
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  Speaker 2: I don't think I've given it a name.
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  Speaker 1: That might have been off the cuff, but it sounded right.
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  Speaker 2: I'm just not comfortable being naked in public.
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  Speaker 1: Well, this isn't really public.
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  Speaker 3: It's a lady's locker room. I didn't grow up in
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  Speaker 3: a name.
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  Speaker 2: This was all full in high school. I hated the
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  Speaker 2: lady's locker name.
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  Speaker 1: We didn't have that. I mean we did, but nobody
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  Speaker 1: really got naked. I don't think maybe I just put
• 14:08
  Speaker 1: that part out.
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  Speaker 2: We didn't get naked, but you had to get down
• 14:11
  Speaker 2: to like your sports bra and your underwear, and there
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  Speaker 2: was a lot of judgment.
• 14:17
  Speaker 1: To be fair, they are so critical of women. And
• 14:20
  Speaker 1: then like what they say to Samantha later down the road,
• 14:23
  Speaker 1: which you haven't seen yet, which she had gained like
• 14:25
  Speaker 1: five pounds, and they were like, oh my god, what
• 14:28
  Speaker 1: happened to you? This is not a like unreasonable reaction.
• 14:32
  Speaker 1: I would never want to be naked around ladies.
• 14:34
  Speaker 2: Like that ever.
• 14:36
  Speaker 1: To be fair, I'm definitely chubbier than all of them.
• 14:39
  Speaker 1: But still, I know, oh, thanks, do you think they
• 14:47
  Speaker 1: make the right statement? Well, what statement do you want
• 14:51
  Speaker 1: them to make?
• 14:52
  Speaker 3: I am beautiful and powerful and I don't care that
• 14:54
  Speaker 3: you're only twenty five and married my ex.
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  Speaker 1: I'm trying to think there's many times that I've had
• 14:58
  Speaker 1: like I must look perfect and have to do this
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  Speaker 1: type of impression. But it's never been for an ex
• 15:03
  Speaker 1: or or anyone that's like related to that. It's always
• 15:08
  Speaker 1: been for like when we do panels or when we
• 15:09
  Speaker 1: do like like outings, I'm like, I have to look
• 15:12
  Speaker 1: at least decent. M M.
• 15:14
  Speaker 2: I don't know if you know this about me Smitha,
• 15:16
  Speaker 2: but I used to edit the podcast Say Yes to
• 15:19
  Speaker 2: the Dress.
• 15:20
  Speaker 1: Oh No, I didn't know that.
• 15:22
  Speaker 2: Yeah, And one of the hosts on there just really
• 15:26
  Speaker 2: stuck out with me once she was saying a wedding
• 15:28
  Speaker 2: she was she was coming all of the things she
• 15:32
  Speaker 2: was doing to lose weight to fit into the dress
• 15:36
  Speaker 2: that she had ordered to like really be a showstopper
• 15:41
  Speaker 2: at this wedding, like the shoes and the makeup and everything.
• 15:43
  Speaker 2: And I remember thinking like that, and it wasn't like
• 15:46
  Speaker 2: that far away, like like like two or three weeks.
• 15:51
  Speaker 1: That's the other part to that is like people talking
• 15:53
  Speaker 1: about getting like this perfect image for this moment and
• 15:58
  Speaker 1: then being able to do all these things. But the
• 16:00
  Speaker 1: misery you have to live with it. Like the anxiety.
• 16:02
  Speaker 1: And I've been there because I'm like I had to
• 16:04
  Speaker 1: lose this, like and I had a specific number, and
• 16:06
  Speaker 1: I'd raid myself. I would take the water pills, i
• 16:08
  Speaker 1: would do the cleanses, I would do like all the things.
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  Speaker 1: It's so miserable.
• 16:13
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it is.
• 16:21
  Speaker 1: Just pressure.
• 16:22
  Speaker 2: Okay, oh, yes, that is just fine.
• 16:28
  Speaker 3: I just turn over now.
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  Speaker 1: Never in a million years would I get a missatch
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  Speaker 1: from man.
• 16:33
  Speaker 2: No, I had one. I had a man once, and
• 16:36
  Speaker 2: I did you.
• 16:37
  Speaker 1: I asked to.
• 16:39
  Speaker 2: If it could be a woman, and it was very awkward.
• 16:42
  Speaker 2: I'm sure they understood.
• 16:43
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm sure they absolutely would have understood that.
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  Speaker 2: No, I and I did, but it was like one
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  Speaker 2: of those things that I gave me a lot of anxiety,
• 16:50
  Speaker 2: like I've got to say something. I cannot do this right.
• 16:53
  Speaker 1: No, I would have been so uncomfortable the entire time. Honestly,
• 16:58
  Speaker 1: I'm uncomfortable with a woman right any naked anyway. Yeah,
• 17:03
  Speaker 1: if it's a man, even worse.
• 17:05
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 17:06
  Speaker 3: Since they were running out of time, Samantha decided to
• 17:08
  Speaker 3: take the matter into her own hands.
• 17:12
  Speaker 1: What the hell that is sexual harassment? And what kind
• 17:19
  Speaker 1: of person is such a thing to molest a trained
• 17:23
  Speaker 1: professionals trying.
• 17:25
  Speaker 3: To do his job.
• 17:26
  Speaker 2: What if the thousand Rubinstein is a civilized place realized.
• 17:32
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry, but I cannot allow you to come back here. Also,
• 17:36
  Speaker 1: she should be charged. Clearly she meant actual battery.
• 17:41
  Speaker 3: Look, this isn't my fault. I know for a fact
• 17:44
  Speaker 3: that Kevin went down on another customer, and that's why
• 17:46
  Speaker 3: I booked the appointment.
• 17:48
  Speaker 1: Whoa so many things. Samantha was very in the wrong
• 17:53
  Speaker 1: all these things is what what the hell? Man?
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  Speaker 2: I'm oh, Natasha's not here yet.
• 18:03
  Speaker 1: Oh you know what, Natasha's not coming, but she's got
• 18:06
  Speaker 1: a terrible cold, poor thing, and she didn't want to
• 18:08
  Speaker 1: get toy shit and fell. To be fair, that's about right. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: Like that's what would happen to me as well. Like
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: my internal battle, which is just a one sided battle.
• 18:20
  Speaker 1: I lost a jump, right.
• 18:23
  Speaker 2: The other person doesn't even really know.
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: They don't know that this is a thing. Why are
• 18:27
  Speaker 1: you here eighty five dollars? We're having our two drinks.
• 18:31
  Speaker 2: I definitely would say feeling for the drinks.
• 18:33
  Speaker 1: At this point, you pay for an outphile, find somebody
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: to talk to.
• 18:40
  Speaker 3: I am telling who is this and what is she
• 18:44
  Speaker 3: doing in my bedroom? It is virgin Mary.
• 18:48
  Speaker 1: And where's my other thing? What? See? I don't know
• 18:53
  Speaker 1: if I would confront someone who is obviously judging my lifestyle,
• 18:56
  Speaker 1: such as Morinda, rather than just be like you don't
• 18:59
  Speaker 1: texting them, be like we're done, but no man will
• 19:03
  Speaker 1: marry you.
• 19:03
  Speaker 3: If that is by bed, it means you don't need him, Magda.
• 19:09
  Speaker 3: What I don't need is another mother. I have one
• 19:12
  Speaker 3: in Philadelphia and that's close enough. I need a housekeeper
• 19:15
  Speaker 3: who will clean my apartment and stop judging me because
• 19:18
  Speaker 3: I'm a thirty four year old single woman living in
• 19:20
  Speaker 3: New York.
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: I drink coffee and have sex.
• 19:24
  Speaker 3: And buypies and enjoy battery operated devices. If you can't
• 19:28
  Speaker 3: deal with that, I will find another housekeeper who can.
• 19:31
  Speaker 1: Amen.
• 19:32
  Speaker 2: Yeah, sorry, I couldn't be there.
• 19:45
  Speaker 1: That's pretty.
• 19:46
  Speaker 2: That's a good like we use the wrong there. Tasha
• 19:51
  Speaker 2: has a law.
• 19:53
  Speaker 1: If it hadn't been handwritten, it wouldn't have been as funny.
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: Good thing she got married.
• 19:59
  Speaker 2: The woman's an idiot.
• 20:01
  Speaker 1: I mean, once again, it's kind of like, there's nothing
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: wrong with what she did. Just because she's young and
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: married your ex does not make her the villain. And
• 20:12
  Speaker 1: they quickly do so and again, she's so kind and
• 20:14
  Speaker 1: seemingly sweet and understanding to her, Like she's like kind
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: of walks around quietly and doesn't try to make scene
• 20:24
  Speaker 1: m m like talking about her husband or being you know,
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: about being married. She's just existing and they're very much
• 20:29
  Speaker 1: like we hate her, she's the worst and all. She's like,
• 20:33
  Speaker 1: he's the one that left her and left like they
• 20:36
  Speaker 1: broke up a foot, Like he didn't actually cheat on her,
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: so at the very least he had that decency. Yeah,
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: even though it was a toxic relationship. But I mean,
• 20:47
  Speaker 1: you can be bitter, but you can't hate the woman
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: like that. That seems absurd. Yeah, I forgot about that
• 20:53
  Speaker 1: whole line.
• 20:54
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, I feel like there's a difference between
• 20:59
  Speaker 2: kind of venting to your friends about like I'm mad
• 21:04
  Speaker 2: at this guy my ex in this very heteronormative sense,
• 21:09
  Speaker 2: and like, yeah, hating on a woman who has not
• 21:13
  Speaker 2: really done anything other than be right the person he's
• 21:18
  Speaker 2: dating now, like.
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: The person he ended up like choosing right.
• 21:22
  Speaker 2: Right, Like I do get the impulse, but especially like
• 21:25
  Speaker 2: a lot of the things they were saying, it was like, yeah, yeah,
• 21:29
  Speaker 2: there's no need ye like bash, like.
• 21:32
  Speaker 1: The whole thing making sure, finding all the flaws, trying
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: to be like I have to one up her. It
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: could be one thing to be like, oh, I can't
• 21:38
  Speaker 1: let her think that this is who I am, like
• 21:40
  Speaker 1: the chaos that you see, Like I can't do that.
• 21:43
  Speaker 1: But to go after her all the time and making
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: sure that all the friends like kind of despise her.
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: It's kind of like, ah much, a little much, a
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: lot much. And then this is where this is the
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: anti women's show, Like this is where like you're anti
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: and this is not cute. Of course, I still although
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: they are in their mid thirties at this point, so
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: you would think they grew a little bit, but hey,
• 22:05
  Speaker 1: whatever whatnot. Yeah, so they did go to a brunch congratulations,
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: and there was a five ten woman end of story. Yes,
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: so you get like five out of ten like that,
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: you get a fifty to fifty on that one.
• 22:41
  Speaker 2: I think I did pretty good.
• 22:44
  Speaker 1: Sure, sure, sure, sure, sure, sure, sure, I'll put it
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: on the d like you definitely passed. But I wouldn't
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: say it's way up there. It's kind of like when
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: you put your name down correctly.
• 23:00
  Speaker 2: I think it was a bit higher than that.
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: Wow, But yeah, no, I think it's interesting because of
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: the build up that they have that they show the
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: dynamics here where it's like us versus them, which is
• 23:13
  Speaker 1: a lot of Afghan The season is kind of like
• 23:15
  Speaker 1: that in general, whether it's like cities or friendships or
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: like even preferences. I guess it's a very maybe that's
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: the whole take, and I've missed and that's been with
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: it throughout all of Sex, Sex and the City. But
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: like us again, us against the five ten women, us
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: against the younger women, which was the last one too,
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: or us against this and this, which is kind of
• 23:38
  Speaker 1: this mindset like you're creating your own drama, which, right,
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: I mean you have to have a little bit drama
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: for a show.
• 23:48
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, it's true that it is. Yeah, it
• 23:52
  Speaker 2: is very It's one of those things when you watch
• 23:56
  Speaker 2: and you're like, yeah, I feel that too. But I
• 24:00
  Speaker 2: feel like I have the capacity to my mind to recognize, oh,
• 24:04
  Speaker 2: that's not healthy, let's not do that, you know what
• 24:06
  Speaker 2: I mean? Right, So, and in some cases I don't
• 24:11
  Speaker 2: really feel like I I've said before, I don't. I
• 24:14
  Speaker 2: don't really get jealous, which is what was an issue
• 24:16
  Speaker 2: in my last relationship. But right, yeah, yeah, it does.
• 24:21
  Speaker 2: I think you're right, like the creating of your own enemy,
• 24:24
  Speaker 2: because in theory, as far as I know about Natasha,
• 24:30
  Speaker 2: she has not done anything other than be yeah, the
• 24:35
  Speaker 2: woman yeah and falling for.
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: Him, which we'll see more of her, which again, her
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: real life was not similar to this but kind of
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: similar to that.
• 24:44
  Speaker 3: It's up.
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: She ended up being the older woman, I guess because
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: Bridget moyne Haan was with Tom Brady and she was
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: pregnant with Tom Brady's baby when Giselle came in to
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: play oh yeah. So I always think about that. I
• 24:57
  Speaker 1: don't know why, but that never laves my mind because
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: Ridget monihan also moynihan also is kind of like low
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: key and so many movies that you don't realize she's there,
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: but she's oftentimes the catalyst to whatever that movie is.
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: So she was John Wick's girlfriend wife and like she
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: is that for so many different shows. So it's kind
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: of like what she was in Serendipity as John Cusac's
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: you know, fiance, and she's perfect and sweet and like,
• 25:26
  Speaker 1: like there's so many characters. I'm like, you know, what,
• 25:29
  Speaker 1: justice for Bridget moyna hann goes. I don't know why
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: she keeps getting thrown into these situations y'all are rude. Yeah,
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: I just think about her every now and again. I
• 25:41
  Speaker 1: don't know why, but that whole light line for her
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: and then all the roles that she plays that, I'm like,
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: she deserves better. Give her a full character, y'all. Stop
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: killing her off or making her the bad person. But anyway, so,
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: how'd you feel about this episode? Do you feel like
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: you know how this is what this is leading to?
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: Do you feel like you can you get a sense
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: of what the season's about?
• 26:04
  Speaker 2: Not really, I mean in terms of because I do
• 26:08
  Speaker 2: think Carrie's gonna get with You've told me there's like
• 26:11
  Speaker 2: a big mid season thing. Yeah, so either I feel
• 26:15
  Speaker 2: like Aiden's gonna show up, are Big is gonna something
• 26:17
  Speaker 2: with him? Miranda, I feel like she's making strides and
• 26:27
  Speaker 2: wanting to be independent and letting her wants known. So
• 26:31
  Speaker 2: maybe that will lead back to Steve. I know what
• 26:34
  Speaker 2: Charlotte wants. Again, I've said I feel like every season
• 26:38
  Speaker 2: this is so I'm not sure, like, maybe will it
• 26:42
  Speaker 2: repeat itself? Will she get somewhere? I don't care. In
• 26:45
  Speaker 2: terms of marriage, and yes, again, Samantha is very difficult
• 26:49
  Speaker 2: to predict but I feel you will have adventures, and
• 26:53
  Speaker 2: I feel safe in saying that.
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: Well, there you go. That was episode three, season three
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: of Sex in the City. We're just beginning once again.
• 27:04
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• 27:13
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• 27:16
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• 27:19
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• 27:21
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• 27:24
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• 27:29
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• 27:37
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• 27:40
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• 27:41
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• 27:44
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• 27:48
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• 27:52
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• 27:55
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• 27:59
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• 28:03
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